TRP Advice works like a "charm"

OneThousandMegaHurts · 2016-03-28T19:06:15+00:00

Dude getting a a text back is not success. It's not success til your p is in the v.

This is also not soft nexting in any form. You re-initiated contact. Soft nexting is going no-contact until they contact you.

What you have done is got rejected, waited two weeks, and gotten rejected again.

If she was interested in meeting with you, she would suggest another time or date. She did not. She is not interested in you.

Accept it and move on. Game other girls.

fnordsnord · 2016-03-28T20:00:23+00:00

It costs you five seconds to send a text. If you're interested, do so. This is ALMOST sending an alternate date/time, so she may be interested in you.

If you get another excuse, "NEXT" and chase other skirts.

abdada · 2016-03-28T19:05:03+00:00

"Work til 6:15 then, see you at 6:30"

fatgymrat · 2016-03-28T22:56:50+00:00

its funny reading the comments, but its also sad that you are arguing with those that are giving you opinions. i doubt theres any man on this sub who hasnt had a text convo go this way. what shes doing is gently letting you down. how often do girls/women flat out say 'stop messaging me, im not interested'. hardly ever.

hypothetical scenario. you own a successful business, and you cant go leave till 6. people depend on you being there till that time. are you going to close early that day for this woman who hasnt even given you the courtesy of a reschedule? of course not. act like a king

by bending to her time (shes letting you down gently remember) all you are saying to her is that your time means shit. if you actually soft next, as in dont message her again till she messages you, at the very least you hold onto your dignity. 'best' case, she messages YOU asking for a date. now if you message her asking to reschedule, you look like a loser whos time is bendable, and a desperate one who cant grasp basic social cues from the opposite sex. at best you get a pity date.

your choice

Title	TRP Advice works like a "charm"
Author	itsawomensworld
Upvotes	1
Comments	32
Date	March 28, 2016 7:01 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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