Is this LTR material?

OneThousandMegaHurts · 2016-03-29T14:54:07+00:00

The only "green flags" that you have listed that are actually even worth mentioning is that she is a great cook and that she doesn't do drugs or drink. The rest are your hamster trying really hard to justify LTRing her. Cares for animals.... lols.

Your yellow flags are red flags. CAlling them yellow is your hamster once again trying to talk yourself into LTRing her. Your red flags are legit.

Met on tinder, pierced and tatted, fucked first time you met. That's all I would need to know to never LTR her and to always use a condom.

trpthrowaway911 · 2016-03-29T08:23:13+00:00

if you feel like a LTR, man, just do it! doesn't have to be a life changing decision...

you may consider some things though:

-she will never be yours, it is just you turn.

-always commit less emotions than her

-you are the rock, she is the ocean

-she is only the sugar topping of an already amazing life you live

-always be ready to walk away withing 30 seconds (she will hate to love you for that mindset by the way)

nastynickdr · 2016-03-29T11:53:02+00:00

Most likely not. If she fucked you on the first date, means she can easily detach sex from emotions, and she has most likely done this with a lot of dudes.

Theres more things you should know. Her estimated n-count (hard to know, but 5-10 is a lot different from 50-100). Did she cheat on any previous BFs? Did she fuck any guy that she know he had a GF? Does she "keeps in touch" with guys she fucked? If you were in a LTR and one of these famous dudes she fucked "happened to be in town and wanted to meet her to catch up" would she go?

bittr_n_swt · 2016-03-29T09:37:51+00:00

go ahead mate but a famous actor or musician will always have more SMV than a chad. Status trumps all.

fnordsnord · 2016-03-29T21:44:08+00:00

Pierced and tatted, first date sex, and especially dated/fucked famous men are enough red flags to start her own People's Rebellion.

You are trying to justify LTR-ing this girl because the sex is good, she smells nice, and the bang is the sure thing when you call her.

She's either going to get bored and wander off, or flat out cheat on you with someone more exciting.

You haven't told us her age, but it's possible that she's looking for her BB provider at this point.

[deleted] · 2016-03-29T11:21:26+00:00

LTR but do not marry.

scallopkid · 2016-03-29T14:54:20+00:00

What do you want to do?

hailhailhailandkill · 2016-03-30T07:50:07+00:00

Not for LTR. Sounds like a great plate material though.

MAX_Fury · 2016-03-29T11:09:42+00:00

yes that girl is a red flag, pierced and tattood are the biggest giveaway, all the girls I fucked had some sort of tattoo on their body, avoid her as a LTR

Title	Is this LTR material?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	March 29, 2016 7:52 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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