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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any manYeah and honestly if that works for them all power to them. I personally think fat is gross, on men or women Curvy if it's in proportion and not fat is different | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Sex feels so unobtainable and I hate itThanks dude. Good call. Thing is I have no photos of me, I mean I can take a selfie but that's about it. I guess self timer is an option - but won't it look cheesy | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Want to put together online dating profile - but I have no photos of myselfOh sweet - thanks :) | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Want to put together online dating profile - but I have no photos of myselfI know this sounds real dumb, but what should I actually do in tripod pictures? Just stand there with my thumbs up haha? Jking but you get the idea | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Want to put together online dating profile - but I have no photos of myselfThanks dude, you do write very well. Good idea with the background. Maybe I'll be that weird looking guy taking selfies in a coffee shop haha | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 11:04 PM |
| -6 | [deleted by user]Come on dude, that was a bit ott. Can I see what you look like just out of interest? | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]None at all, really, because when I see a hot girl I instantly discount myself by thinking I'm not good enough. And I wait for women to show obvious signs which never happens. Or I never pick up on them because of confidence - who knows | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Hey thanks so much. So do you mean just do things outside the comfort zone like approach and talk to women more, just like 1 a day or something? | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 04:18 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I do lift weights But I still don't feel good enough | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 04:03 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]And it definitely happens eventually yeah? It's been like 4 years | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel like getting laid is such an important part of life as a guy?It fucking sucks how inaccessible sex has become for the average dude these days. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else feel like getting laid is such an important part of life as a guy?That's true. Do you fit into that category? If so - what are your top tips? | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Do you think that abstaining from masturbation does anything useful?hmm prolly an hour ago, because it probably mean she's a hornier person | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that abstaining from masturbation does anything useful?That makes sense. I think you have to have to have the sex guaranteed though and just do it as a tactic lol | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that abstaining from masturbation does anything useful?It's so frustrating, time to start focusing that energy on taking risks with women | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that abstaining from masturbation does anything useful?Does that include tiktok etc | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 10:26 PM |
| 3 | I’m 23 years old and have wasted my life….I really really really hate to use this saying, but dude, get a grip. You're so young | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 10:33 AM |
| 1 | What 3 biggest tips would you give for someone that struggles to get women?cheers dude | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 06:36 PM |
| 4 | 30+ guys - are you too old for 'prime' women?People absolutely have peaks and primes | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 07:36 AM |
| -1 | 30+ guys - are you too old for 'prime' women?hey dude, bit of a weird question, but do you think i'll age ok? https://www.reddit.com/r/guessmyage/comments/orxe1w/can\_you\_guess\_my\_age\_where\_im\_from/ | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Feeling depressed about turning 28 this yearYeah I know there are attractive women over 30 but it's incredibly rare for them to be as attractive as a 21 year old | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Feeling depressed about turning 28 this yearReally you're 50+ and genuinely attract 20 year olds? | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Becoming confident has been the best thing that's happened to me in the last 5 yearsHonestly man (or woman!), read up on CBT. I have a friend who's in London working for a law firm, and she recently had to take a large amount of time off work due to mental health issues. She found a therapist that specialises in CBT, and she's in a wayyyy better place now. She actually wrote a testimonial I can forward to you if you want! Download 'Headspace' too, it's an app that I've implemented into my daily routine and it's fantastic. What it teaches you is to not try and eliminate negative… | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Becoming confident has been the best thing that's happened to me in the last 5 yearsAin't that the truth! Growing up in the north of England, I got the impression that it's a weakness if you compliment someone, especially amongst men It's really sad in my opinion. If a buddy of mine has lost some weight, or got a new haircut - I'm going say what I feel and say "you're looking sharp dude!". If some people think that's 'gay' or 'weak' - then so be it. A single compliment can literally make someone's day! | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Becoming confident has been the best thing that's happened to me in the last 5 yearsThanks so much for the kind words!! It really is amazing. Every single aspect of my life has improved. Only problem is, and this is because of my anxiety, but I keep thinking this amazing feeling will end soon. Like a "what's the catch" kind of thing. Honestly if anyone wants to give me a shout sometime, I love to talk to them about what helped me and the feelings I had. I'm the least 'preachy' person, but I know where I was this time a few years ago, and how it really is possible to transform y… | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Becoming confident has been the best thing that's happened to me in the last 5 yearsExactly! My mind just wants to overthink everything, and I mean everything. It's honestly so exhausting. Once you write these thoughts down, and take them from being a mental construct to a physical one - you soon being to realise that 99.9% of things we tend to overthink aren't worth it in the slightest! | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 11:23 AM |
| 3 | Becoming confident has been the best thing that's happened to me in the last 5 yearsHonestly dude, the best thing I've done! I swallowed my pride, realised my mind was a mess and got help! It's not cheap - but man, if people can't spend money on something as important as mental health I don't know how to help! Look up 'CBT' + your area. It's probably the most common form of therapy. Here's a decent introduction to it 1000000% recommend it! Hope it all goes well for you :) | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 11:17 AM |
| 6 | Becoming confident has been the best thing that's happened to me in the last 5 yearsHey dude Honestly, this time even 3 months ago I had suicidal thoughts because I never thought I'd be good looking enough for anyone and be alone forever. I would constantly make threads like this & this, and I hated most things about me. I was never told I was attractive, ever, so I assumed I was wayyyy sub par physically and I came to reddit. People said I had a really mental issue to take care of. I think I big part is living in England, and it's not common practice to compliment. I know you … | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 08:20 AM |
| 85 | Becoming confident has been the best thing that's happened to me in the last 5 yearsPractising positive thinking is a big one and being way more aware of when you're thinking negatively and disregarding those thoughts as 'unhelpful'. It's amazing how well you can convince your mind to just accept things as the norm. Like if you keep telling yourself "I couldn't approach a woman", that's opinion not a fact! But yeah, if you do have that attitude to things in life that's all you're ever going to believe | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Is it racist to not find white women that attractive?attractive Did you mean attracted? | /r/seduction | 03/06/17 09:22 PM |
| 1 | What's the single best piece of advice someone gave you to improve your game?What are your goto openers? | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 03:10 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl in a club when she's with a friend or a group of people?Oh :/ I do enjoy it, but of course if there are easier ways I'd prefer that! | /r/seduction | 29/03/17 01:08 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl in a club when she's with a friend or a group of people?But it's like going on an episode of American Ninja Warrior just to get physically fit. Why all the craziness when you can do it so much easier in a regular fucking gym? Wait sorry what do you mean? Are you saying bars/clubs aren't good for meeting girls? Sorry, I'm confused haha! | /r/seduction | 29/03/17 01:03 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl in a club when she's with a friend or a group of people?I'll definitely check it out man, I like how fun and informative your stuff is. Also, does going to a club or bar ever work in your opinion? I don't really have a social group that I could go with, but I really want to interact and meet people. I don't suppose you have anything in your course about going alone and not looking like a loner? | /r/seduction | 29/03/17 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl in a club when she's with a friend or a group of people?Man, you're a legend. Cheers dude! I used to use Tinder alot, but I find it so frustrating these days. Also - I don't like being judged on just a couple of photos. What are your opinions on Tinder? | /r/seduction | 29/03/17 12:45 AM |
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