Any regular weed smokers here?

cengo_unchained · 2022-01-27T20:49:22+00:00

i feel im more stiff and anxious around women when I smoke. Would not recommend (at least for myself)

appmanga · 2022-01-27T21:18:09+00:00

"You a cop?"

UnluckyDig4 · 2022-01-27T21:20:19+00:00

Weed makes more chatty so it definitely helps me with women, I feel like I could keep the conversation going on forever

Manu_thebl00 · 2022-01-27T21:19:08+00:00

It depends on two factors 1- does she smoke too? 2 - where are you when you smoke? When in public it can fastly get to the paranoia state and of course then you become less interesting, much more if she doesn't smoke as well. When in private, it can be a great way to just make fools out of yourselves and enjoy the goofyness. My tip is if you're smoking when with her, don't mix with anything else, no alcohol, no other stuff. In my experience it brings me back to the mood of my first weed smoking, just relaxed, funny, sometimes senseless talks and impossible scenarios. You'd be surprised how much laughter you'll get out of her when you're just feeling in that place inside yourself and sharing it with someone.

25sittinon25cents · 2022-01-27T21:24:12+00:00

If the lady is down, then absolutely. But it does hinder my game, specifically with wit and humor. Once I've dated a girl a couple of times, and we're comfortable to just hang out and do nothing, I'm down to smoke anytime

YoDaddy1069 · 2022-01-27T22:07:36+00:00

Alcohol helps me. Weed hinders me. I just think so much slower when I’m high and I lose my wit. Alcohol might hinder me a bit at times too, but it also numbs my senses to the point where I also don’t care either

WhiteningMcClean · 2022-01-27T21:04:20+00:00

Definitely does not help. First, it makes me even weirder than I already am. Second, it makes me content to stay in and do nothing. And third, it can make me paranoid and assume any girl I talk to hates me.

MeWuzBornIn1990 · 2022-01-27T20:48:44+00:00

I had a weed addiction back in 2020 and it made me extremely introverted where all I did was play video games after work — as opposed to leave my house and walk around the city I live in, which has tons of beautiful women.

iAMtruENT · 2022-01-27T23:03:24+00:00

100% hinders me, I wanna zone out and relax when I smoke. That’s not useful around women you are interested in. I wanna be focused and attentive when I am those around women. Smoking used to be extremely social for me, but the older I get it becomes more of a meditative and isolated activity.

2udaylatif · 2022-01-27T21:28:34+00:00

A lot of girls smoke weed these days and for that reason it is good to smoke weed too.

Wanna smoke a blunt/dab/bowl is an easy invitation to throw out to girls who smoke also. Most will take you up on it if they even have the smallest interest. Then just game normally when you smoke together.

SgtSplacker · 2022-01-27T21:20:43+00:00

Generally when smoking or drinking either do it solo or in the company of others that are also participating.

shushravens · 2022-01-27T21:47:00+00:00

Don't over smoke, if you have a nice energetic sativa than it's fine, but if you get into your head it is really hard to stay focused on the woman. Personally I usually do smoke but I also drink an energy drink, gives me a nice mix so I'm laid back but also attentive.

anothersadthrowaway- · 2022-01-27T22:12:30+00:00

I hope I can comment even though I’m a girl, I’m pan and used to date women. I would often smoke before because it relaxed me, upped my humor and idc if I’m tooting my own horn but I’m pretty funny in general so that’s a plus. It also gave me an opening with them, like offering to go for a drive and smoke and buy them dinner or late night snacks and just have a calming date.

It’s unfortunate to hear that smoking seems to have the opposite effect on a lot of people here, making them more introverted. I’m already an introvert and it only ever made me more comfy with coming out of my shell, not sure if that makes any difference at all

Vladimir_Poontang24 · 2022-01-27T21:26:32+00:00

Nah, weed enhanced the creative side of me and almost never the social side. If I was confortable around her and we wanted to listen to/play music that's one thing but in almost all other situations it would hinder me.

chuckvsthelife · 2022-01-27T22:17:57+00:00

I like to enjoy a small dose edible before going out. Similar affect to being tipsy in terms of reducing my social anxiety. Have to make it’s too much though. It’s quite a slippery slope if you do haha.

McWhiters9511 · 2022-01-27T22:45:43+00:00

Totally depends on you. Once I take a hit I couldn't care if I see another woman again in my life.

patchbaystray · 2022-01-27T23:32:34+00:00

Most of the women I date don't care either way. I am a regular micro doser having one or two small hits a day. Mostly for anxiety and depression. Typically I frame it like that when discussing drugs on a first date. Occasionally I run into someone who has a major problem with it but after talking it out its usually because of a bad boyfriend in their past. Someone who was stupid high constantly. That's never fun. Personally I am more social with a tiny amount of weed. If I smoke a whole bowl then chances are I'm down for the night and wont go up out.

I'd say if its something your into, try just doing a very small amount before a date if your anxious, brush your teeth, the go have some fun. Be honest and upfront about it and most women wont mind. Sucks that its a stigma but honestly is truly the best policy here.

ParadoxicalPanther · 2022-01-27T23:26:56+00:00

Inviting a girl home to "smoke weed" is one of the best plausible deniability tactis

a14deadpool · 2022-01-27T23:28:25+00:00

Women love smoking weed. Like seriously.

willgo-waggins · 2022-01-27T23:33:59+00:00

It entirely depend on the individual woman.

Personally I love a touch for a truly enhanced sexual experience for both. It also helps women to relax and let themselves go and not be uptight or guarded about their sexuality and desires.

But it really needs to be a mutual thing. If it’s just you smoking daily and acting the fool (even though you think you “got a handle on it”) then chances are it will turn off any woman that isn’t also a stinker and good luck keeping their attention.

BowlerCandid · 2022-01-27T23:41:55+00:00

Oh I smoke weed all the time for all occasions.

kylerosa21 · 2022-01-27T23:47:57+00:00

I recently quit going on a couple weeks. I suggest not smoking when dealing with women. You’re more apt to holding your frame when sober.

FluffyWoofus · 2022-01-28T01:22:06+00:00

Fun fact: 75% of people on here are from Colorado.

HedwigsPersonality · 2022-01-28T02:23:26+00:00

I’ve smoked before multiple dates. I don’t get stupid when smoking so nobody can tell unless I tell them. It enhances the experience for me, and I don’t think I’d perform any better or worse if I was not high

Kind-Standard-536 · 2022-01-27T21:25:13+00:00

Probably would stay away from it if you’re trying to work on your game. Everyone here has already said the same thing, it makes you more introverted and less drive to make moves. In general it perpetuates undesirable qualities. With that being said, if you already are a desirable person, it shouldn’t hinder you to smoke. Just last night I went out with a girl for the first time meeting and we smoked. I’m pretty comfortable with myself and don’t mind quieting down and just listening, I think she noticed the comfortability with myself and it raised attraction levels, but the weed did none of that. If weed takes away your comfort within yourself, it will be read by her so it’s probably best to stay away from these things that take you out of your element

CanJohnEven · 2022-01-27T22:35:29+00:00

Being high does not help me whatsoever. I still remember the moment a girl approached me at a concert and I was so high I couldn’t even respond to her so she left haha just me tho ymmv

Suntzie · 2022-01-28T03:12:01+00:00

Makes the sex feel really good b as everyone else said it can definitely be an annoying hindrance, I definitely bottle up a bit or get super in my head.

LandscapeClear1630 · 2022-01-27T22:30:13+00:00

Nice try cop.

Notunnecessarily · 2022-01-27T22:34:30+00:00

I smoke lightly each day

There was this one girl I really vibed with and we went out a couple times but each time we did she would always want to smoke first. So she smokes a hell of a lot more than I do, so we would both smoke blunts together and I would get so high that I wouldnt be able to keep up with conversations and I would start to just overall feel like I'm acting weird, eventually I stopped seeing her because I just cant keep up with her pace 😅 she's a friend/acquaintance now though

Manu_thebl00 · 2022-01-27T21:05:32+00:00

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fuckboychadlmao · 2022-01-27T22:38:02+00:00

Personally, it used to fuck up my inner game big time. But once I got my confident in myself and learned how to be comfortable around women, it really didn’t affect my game much. Would even say it enhanced the vibes sometimes, when accompanied by a drink or two.

st4991 · 2022-01-27T23:06:07+00:00

I never go out gaming new girls high, completely kills my vibe. If I’m comfortable with a chick a lil weed can be great though.

willgo-waggins · 2022-01-27T23:19:09+00:00

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NastyMonkeyKing · 2022-01-27T23:42:59+00:00

Yeah. Im more chill when im high. She smokes too though

unoracing · 2022-01-27T23:47:38+00:00

I got no type game when i’m high

MileHighGarris · 2022-01-27T23:47:46+00:00

I get wayyyyy too awkward when I'm high, especially around women that I haven't slept with yet. If it's in a relationship or a fwb I'm fine getting high because I'm a lot more comfortable.

m2niles · 2022-01-28T00:00:33+00:00

I smoke a lot, but not when I’m looking to pickup randoms in public as it’s not the energy I look to output in those situations. Being high sometimes gives me anxiety in public so it’s just not the move for me if I’m looking to cold approach. If I’m chilling with girls I know we definitely smoke, and with gf/fwb I will be ripping my bong in bed, they get to shotgun hits if they’re down.

hardthumbs · 2022-01-28T00:24:06+00:00

I smoke with them it’s ezpz

Excellent_Worth_9021 · 2022-01-28T00:25:43+00:00

@theofficialweedgod on Instagram tap in

Woujo · 2022-01-28T00:34:46+00:00

You should not need to rely on a drug. Your raw state should be good enough.

Slav3k1 · 2022-01-28T00:42:54+00:00

Little bit of sativa before a social event / meeting with girl is my recipe for success. But it has to be small amount, otherwise i get slow and dumb.

OJSimpsons · 2022-01-28T00:47:38+00:00

I like it because I like smoking. But it definitely makes me more socially withdrawn.

AidanCastaneda · 2022-01-28T01:06:37+00:00

10/10 would not recommend I get so anxious and start feeding my brain the worst possible thoughts about myself and really destroying my self-esteem and i tend to get anti social and awkward and i feel so stupid and i hate feeling stupid stay sober and be yourself!

Snakehead004 · 2022-01-28T01:29:33+00:00

Makes me calmer and a bit more outgoing. 2 drinks after a few hits is perfect

TheGreatFadoodler · 2022-01-28T01:45:46+00:00

I’ve enjoyed it in the past. It helps get me out of my “pick up mindset” and just be myself which is really good for actually building a relationship

eatout2helpout · 2022-01-28T02:20:41+00:00

for the last 30 year's ive enjoyed a smoke

roakmamba · 2022-01-28T02:46:25+00:00

I don't like it. Makes me feel slow,sluggish, and self conscious. Also, messes with my sex drive. I'd smoke and just space out or just be stuck when trying to talk to women. I've stopped for 4months now and I feel better than before. Don't get me wrong, theres women you can pull from smoking but tbh those aren't the type of women I want anymore.

cormacru999 · 2022-01-28T02:52:29+00:00

Smoking weed will lower your anxiety, but also slows your thinking. In the last almost 50 years of my life, out of all the people I have known that smoked weed, 5 of them were highly functional when stoned. All of them were brilliant already, & smoking mellowed out their very active minds, it helped them calm some & focus. The majority of people though, get slow, lazy, a little dumb. Which is not an attack, you're allowed to enjoy that but here, we're talking about is this an effective tool when trying to date. Generally, it may calm you down & make you relaxed but you're probably not at your sharpest either.

Naive_Fig_8913 · 2022-01-28T02:59:49+00:00

Honestly when I first started I had all kinds of confidence when high but now I’m just more quiet

gravityshift12 · 2022-01-28T03:19:52+00:00

I never liked stoner girls, they’re always weird. I don’t mind if she smokes a little but girls that smoke a lot are not my type. So I hardly ever smoke with them and don’t smoke much myself but did alot of smoking in hs. I definitely feel awkward if I don’t know them well but if it’s a gf it’s usually fun

RoseTinted64 · 2022-01-28T03:20:41+00:00

I quit because it made me anti social. I would say in general, weed makes you worse with women.

Chi-Cam · 2022-01-28T03:32:35+00:00

I mean I feel like it’s helps more than hurts. Nowadays so many people smoke weed that I feel like it’s hard to NOT find girls who don’t.

Ok-Construction-4367 · 2022-01-28T03:35:48+00:00

If people around you are on same level as you are then it doesn't matter if you are high are sober. Conversations happen when energies match. Otherwise you just trying by yourself that's it.

jxn1997 · 2022-01-28T03:43:38+00:00

It’s a toss up as far as the actual experience of smoking with a girl, and depends on how weed generally affects the both of you. Sometimes I’ve definitely shot myself in the foot by getting too baked, but other times it’s helped both of us loosen up. That being said, I always keep the option in my back pocket by bringing a joint with me to the date. It’s probably the best ways to move the date to one of your apartments. Also, if done right, it’s better than the alternative, going back to your place for more drinks. Whenever I bring a girl back under that pretense I put myself in danger of being too buzzed off the alcohol

AE_Ricky_Bobby · 2022-01-28T03:58:56+00:00

Depends on the person, but i usually carry a stiizy when i go clubbing so i can take hits in between drinks, makes me care less, so dancing becomes easier until i get into a groove. But conversation wise i think the sober the better if your one on one in a more intimate setting.

divorceded7in · 2022-01-28T04:03:59+00:00

If a girl was high at a Party and tried to talking to you and you were sober you be like...ya this is stupid she not saying anything fun or interesting..you be board...same for them...just ask them to smoke if she is down... it's a fantastic way to break the ice and to hook up...did it lots...good luck

Illmills · 2022-01-28T04:14:01+00:00

I feel extremely horny when i am high around women and she will look at me a certain way. I almost cant control myself lmao.

StaticNocturne · 2022-01-28T04:22:35+00:00

"Hey, sorry to bother you but do you know how long that surveillance van has been parked there for?"

ThisTrash7418 · 2022-01-28T04:41:52+00:00

Best believe

shadowwarrior360 · 2022-01-28T04:51:18+00:00

Weed and women is only fun with close lovers or girls you already know. It has failed me almost any other time when it came to being on point and trying to talk to girls I’ve never met before. As mentioned below- it’s like I just couldn’t say things back or if I did - it was not clever, not witty, not funny, just awkward and lacking in confidence.

But in terms of sex with a girl you have been dating and already know- my god it’s the shit. Sometimes it’s too good and I’m ready to blow within minutes. Or get that perfect buzz- (a few beers- maybe no more than 4-5, or a few shots, and a couple hits from some chronic and your shit is like hard as cement and you go like the energizer bunny. But be careful- u overdo the alcohol and your as soft as a temperpedic or smoke too much weed and you got the spins and puke like a bitch.

Title	Any regular weed smokers here?
Author	OnyxiasLair
Upvotes	72
Comments	105
Date	January 27, 2022 8:45 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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