Do women actually like being cold approached?

Jack__Knife · 2017-03-30T14:26:10+00:00

Women are human too. Sorta like you, just not as socially retarded. Not all humans are "open for business" 24/7. Some will be open to your approach, some won't. But don't be discouraged if you get rejected. She just might be having a shitty day. Her dog died, or she's menstruating.

1st, just make eye contact, and smile. If she returns the smile you're 90% green lighted. If she obviously avoids eye contact or turns away, or breast feeding a baby, you should probably steer clear.

Turlast · 2017-03-30T12:32:22+00:00

Some women do, some women don't. That's why you gotta approach to find out. Nothing wrong with doing it in more socially friendly places, though.

liam_mcmanus · 2017-03-30T15:28:07+00:00

All the hot chicks I know who get approached always find it a memorable and interesting experience afterwards. But in the moment they often report feeling awkward and scared.

Getting women comfortable during day game is a Huge skill only for the most persistent and daring men. I'm working on it.

greenidiot314 · 2017-03-31T04:14:23+00:00

Before the internet this was the only way to approach, other than a newspaper ad. Otherwise you had to wait for a friend to introduce you, and just hope for the best.

natephant · 2017-03-30T18:48:26+00:00

Your main problem here to start is that you are asking if one specific method applies to all women.

No not all women like being approached... not all guys like being approached either.

And now take the ones that do like it.... they are still subject to changes in mood and desires throughout the day.

This is why at the end of the day it's 'how' you approach them.

Even people who might not want to be bothered can be won over by a nice conversation.... then a 'hey it was nice talking to you, we should do it again sometime.'

chaosandmayhem · 2017-03-30T15:48:37+00:00

If you do it right, why not?

Women love to meet put together, confident men, regardless of where they are.

Me2_0 · 2017-03-31T16:01:06+00:00

Cold approaching is only difficult because its a numbers game. You are getting a grab bag of women in the daytime, some never party or go to clubs, but you wouldnt know that from seeing her at the grocery store. You just need to keep doing it, who cares if she doesnt fuck you...NEXT!

brokenmess · 2017-03-30T17:36:15+00:00

They like it, if they are into the guy.

Zeohawk · 2017-04-01T00:15:09+00:00

Do most guys actually cold approach? I don't think they do

double_whiskeyjack · 2017-03-30T13:13:53+00:00

In general I would say yes but certainly depends on the woman, the situation and of course the man approaching and how he does it.

dubai947 · 2017-03-30T21:53:35+00:00

It all depends on the vibe you approach with .If you're confident, playful, they'll bite .If you're needy, insecure ,they'll feel uncomfortable.

IntrovertedBadass · 2017-03-31T06:27:48+00:00

Women love it if you do it right and do it with confidence.

KawnN · 2017-03-31T22:55:11+00:00

if they like you it is ok or even the best thing to happen for them. If they dont feel attracted to you or creep out they may seem not like it. Point of cold approaching is finding those girls who are attracted to you or will be, you need to approach girls you feel attracted to so this way you can find a girlfriend. If you have handsome friends, pay attention how girls' eyes invite them to approach.

tony18215 · 2017-03-31T01:19:00+00:00

Every girl is different..If she thinks the guy is cute,then they wouldnt mind at all.One day I went up to these hot russian girls and started talking to them and they didnt mind at all.We were all similar ages and all looked decent.Then some fat guy in his late 20s hit on them and they were disgusted.I think you should give them a wink or glance and see how they respond before you approach.

Czekraft · 2017-03-30T18:25:45+00:00

If it's smooth and you immediately build rapport they like it

sconosciuto1 · 2017-03-30T13:48:49+00:00

YES ! If you look like this

JimBeamAndCoke2016 · 2017-03-30T18:40:45+00:00

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MrSaiyan_333_ · 2017-04-03T22:23:34+00:00

Who cares? If you do it properly, they probably will like it. If not, it's not the end of the world. You can't be liked by everyone.

Title	Do women actually like being cold approached?
Author	OnyxiasLair
Upvotes	30
Comments	30
Date	March 30, 2017 12:30 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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