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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Seeking advice regarding game on date nightWhat do you do in a scenario when some other guy tries to crash your conversation? In bar someone does it I have said: Shake hands with him. Ask his name. And then say.. Name, I am talking to her. She will talk to you later. | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Day Game results – Am I doing something wrong or is this normal?Good stuff man. 27 approaches are a lot. I would escalate with ing first minute. Lingering handshake / do you like dancing and a spin / are you single / what do you find attractive in a man. Unless she is super hot about you, your best chance of getting her to start thinking about you as a lover is within first few minutes of meeting her. When you approach her she is curious — is he interested in me? Will I be attracted to him? Escalation keeps the conversation going. | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Need help with a situation..Three. | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Mexico city one and a half month stay — field reportIt’s more of the time. I found 4-7 pm on roads in Condesa or Polanco best. Coworking coffee shops were also great on establishing IOI. Malls not as much. Did not try other places really. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 10:32 PM |
| 10 | How do answer this question: what would I get after we have amazing sex tonight?Thanks buddy. I know everyone here has a different angle. This one is most authentic to me. I am okay with loosing the girl rather than keep playing if she is looking for an answer. | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 07:02 PM |
| 7 | How do answer this question: what would I get after we have amazing sex tonight?How do you answer it though? Ask her— what are you looking for? | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 04:55 PM |
| 5 | How do answer this question: what would I get after we have amazing sex tonight?I like this answer. | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 04:50 PM |
| 3 | For beginners, how many women did you approach daily, and how did you handle rejection?Think of rejection as a step to success. Rejection is a signal that you should not waste time with that girl. A path towards girl who will want you. | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Mexico city one and a half month stay — field reportYes sensual bachata. I learnt here. I would learn ahead of time. Bachata is easier to learn than Spanish ;) | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Your dating life in 2025I actually got lot of help from this subreddit in actually getting laid. So have to respectfully disagree. | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Escalation post observational openerThanks. Can you please put a link here? | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 05:18 PM |
| 5 | I wish I could date a guy like you, but not you | Reality checkFWIW: For most women desire to have sex with potential boyfriend is an emotional desire and not rational. If that desire is not there is not boyfriend-ing the guy. One day , for whatever reason , this desire to have sex with this friend may arise in her. One such reason may be making out when high. Here is something a woman I went on a few dates with told me: she had a friend in college who was interested in her. But she felt no attraction. They were friends for XX number of months. One day she … | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | What’s right answer to “do you want to date other girls” after hookup?I think this is right thing to do. | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Do you have experiences seducing "good girls"?I think good girls can get attracted to sigma men. Confident, emotionally mature, not people pleaser, fearless and has priorities. With some wild / bad boy / adventure streak. You can propose some adventure activity after your friend’s drinks meet. | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Looking for wingman in CDMX in Condesa / Polanco / Roma NorteNo. Asian. Don't speak spanish. | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Mexico city — approaching a girl who is on date and noticed me five timesJust trying to save the girl from date with a guy she is okay attracted to ;) | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Mexico city — approaching a girl who is on date and noticed me five timesHaha | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Teasing women in 30s: what matters more words or attitude?That helps. Thank you. What would you do if the tease / joke does not land? This happens with me. I am thinking I will go with: "Okay, I see that one didn’t land. I need to call my comedy coach!” OR "That was funny in my head. I promise. What do you find funny?” | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Feedback on night game — approached a woman who said she is gayThank you. Do you have recommendation for various night game routines? I know people may say do not memorize routines. But I learn from routines. Routines help me visualize actual interaction and then I can improvise. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Feedback on night game — approached a woman who said she is gayThank you. Do you have recommendation for various night game routines? I know people may say do not memorize routines. But I learn from routines. Routines help me visualize actual interaction and then I can improvise. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Feedback on night game — approached a woman who said she is gayThank you for such detailed response. Truly appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Question: dance club approachI am now thinking I should have talked her friend and asked her friend what the initial girl's story is. Is she fun to hang out with / does she have a boyfriend? | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 12:00 AM |
| -7 | Routines / games that can increase sexual tensionWhat parts of what I wrote are for 16 year olds? And what is your routine? | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 05:47 PM |
| 0 | Simple and effective answers to complimentsThank you! | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Pickup in Japan - a quick storyGood stuff bro. Can you share your IG conversation with her? | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 11:56 PM |
| 7 | How is the dating world after 30?I have been through this a few months ago. Here is what I did: Make solid OLD profiles given your dating goals. Use good pictures. Get over any approach anxiety / any anxiety about other things. This is really inner game and everyone has their own path to it. Find some online dating coach who resonates. Different coaches have different styles. For ex: I am an introvert and very extrovert coaches do not work well for me. Sign up for monthly plans with one of those coaches. Let rubber meet the roa… | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 08:16 PM |
| 1 | How did you get over approaching women at bars/clubs? (Toronto, Canada)I am assuming your question is about approach anxiety. A technique that works for me in mental toughening. Look it up. But in summary: I would go to a bar, and imagine I am going to approach a specific person. Imagine that for one minute, two minutes or as long as needed. Do it again imagining someone else. Eventually (hopefully soon) you will not have any approach anxiety. | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Will saying my plans got cancelled kill attraction?Tell us about your game. Are you doing mode one or something similar? | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Will saying my plans got cancelled kill attraction?I think I agree with this. I won’t know how it would play out. And waiting a few days won’t hurt. | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Will saying my plans got cancelled kill attraction?How old are you? How old are the women you are dating? | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Will saying my plans got cancelled kill attraction?How old are you? | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Dating in SwedenThere are many people who claim that daygame works in Scandinavia. People also say that most women won't remember you the next day when you text / call them. Part of it may be because Kino does not work. I want to hear from people who have been successful in converting numbers (obtained during daygame) to a date. How did you do it? | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Mall approach -- right caliberationWhat is right way to learn caliberation and escalation? | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 02:12 PM |
| 1 | How do I reply to this girl who did not validate herself?Haha. My texting needs improvement and I am committed to improving it. How about that? | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 09:42 PM |
| 12 | Approaching a latina with her family -- in fieldActually my success with women has been moderate at best. What worked here was: 1. I started by complimenting their family. Latins are proud of their family values. 2. It’s okay in Latin (and Philippine) culture to do what she did. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 08:44 PM |
| -7 | How do I reply to this girl who did not validate herself?Why is this not considered a tease? | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 10:03 AM |
| -9 | How do I reply to this girl who did not validate herself?I like women who show appreciation. With ones who don’t, I struggle. I am trying to figure out how to break through with them. This girl is not my typical type. I did not like that she said she wants a surrogate. How would you redo the whole conversation after her message: I want two kids. But I want a surrogate. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 06:52 AM |
| 10 | "If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be?Two things come to mind: Curiosity. Are you interested in getting to know her or interested in her already? Boundary: Is her interest in you key to you being interested in her? I think #2, for me weeds out many women who are trying to keep me around as an option. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 03:17 AM |
| 34 | "If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be?You don’t. Instead you have sense of self worth. And nothing or no body else will have that sway on you unless you want them to have it. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Reading women’s eye contactI don’t think girls hold eye contact if they are annoyed. They will likely just look away. I think of eye contact as an open from woman’s side. I generally just walk up to her, extend my hand and ask for her name. How she responds tells me a lot. | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Mistakes you have made in noghtgameMore or less. Help me. What I have going for me is I am confident and committed. | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Good indication she's single?I would throw a party and invite people. Ask them to bring their boyfriend / partner with them. Ones interested will likely come early, stay late, bring thoughtful / unique gift. | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 11:59 PM |
| 1 | I fucked one up pretty badly. Age shit test?Why not validate her? Something like — “And are you fun enough to keep me engaged?” | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Fuck / date closing on public transportThanks. I was thinking of doing so at my stop. Hoping that some kino gets her interested and I can pitch a great activity (like an escape room). If I show flexibility to meet at her stop, how do I retain frame, especially since I may not know best activities at her stop? | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 09:30 PM |
| 298 | How do we pick up a girl for a threesome ?IRL. If you think a girl is checking your boyfriend out, ask him to walk up to her and say my girlfriend thinks you are cute. Why don’t you join us for a coffee / drink. She will know what you are asking. I have done this and it works. You can do this in coffee shops / brunches / bars. | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Too old for cold approach?If your goal is to get to a date / make her remember you in a non-friend-zone way you may want to consider escalating and getting her to comply: Escalation: Kino is an easy , in the background start. You can also then make it personal — comment about her unique hair / nails / eyes. Comply: You have to get her to do something small for you. If women ask you for food recommendation, you can very teasingly say — I will tell you but you have to buy me a drink (in a very playful way). | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Too old for cold approach?Have you tried Kino when answering their questions? | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 02:29 PM |
| 0 | Too old for cold approach?I am in similar boat. But perhaps a few months ahead. You were in a relationship for long time and have had life experiences that are far deeper than many people. You need a bit of coaching. Sign up for 1-2 coaches (monthly service) and see which one resonates. | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Too old for cold approach?I am worth more than that. And I am in mid 40s. How do I nail 20-something (not looking for pay to play)? | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 07:45 AM |
| 2 | How do you prioritizeI am likely older than most people here (in my 40s) and have had more non traditional life than most people. I have accomplished things people think are very hard (such as successful career changes and geographical moves). Here is how I accomplish results in any area of my life: Plan the work and work the plan. Plan the work: I have three key areas I want to accomplish results in. The focus area can be a job change, getting in shape, improving game or learning a language. Business as usual thing… | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Picking up at restaurantLet’s disagree and move on. Cheers. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Picking up at restaurantNo brother. I found a girl cute. Have avoided approaching in a restaurant setting. So wanted to not avoid it this time. On a slightly more important dimension though, I am also looking for long term. And think fancy restaurants and wine shops are where many women hang out. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Picking up at restaurantWhy would you say that? If they were happily engaged who is someone else to say it was bad. | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Picking up at restaurantThanks bro. Ten odd minutes | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Advice on how to flirt as a womanThe indirect approach is likely more comfortable for you. However the risk is the guy may have approach anxiety and not do it. I had approach anxiety a few years ago and did not approach a girl who was literally giggling at me on multiple occasions at a common hangout place. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Advice on how to flirt as a womanYou said your objective is to get the guy. Here are some examples of how women have shown interest in me: 1. At a rooftop bar: a girl came up and asked if ai can take picture of her and her friends. After that she told me what they were celebrating. 2. Grocery store: come and stand next to me twice 3. Grocery store / shopping center: look at me and hold eye contact / not look away when our eyes met. 4. Coffee shop: offered me snacks I think it’s fine as a woman to open. You can ask for advice — … | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How to approach someone in a tech park?Hosting party is best way in work / apartment complex situations. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Following up with someone I met on a date a few weeks agoGive me some ideas about follow on messages. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate?I think the movie "Before Sunrise" has great first-date conversations. [If you have other movie references, please add]. Listen to her stories. Her most vulnerable moments and things in life, her passions and interests, double down on those, things that influenced her the most, some humor (some light call out humor), her dressing style (I love this because I can then ask her to show me pictures and creates opportunity for physical touch). I also ask about first crush, first great kiss, and what … | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate?Would you touch her face, or touch her earings and say your earings are really cute | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate?That is very elaborate. Can you give few examples of things you would whisper in ear? | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Short infield -- a girl approached me at a barMany great answers. But this answer moves things forward. | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Short infield -- a girl approached me at a barThanks. | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Where can I meet wingmen in south bay (San Francisco bay area)?Will DM you. | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 10:16 PM |
| 0 | Short infield -- a girl approached me at a barThere is no question flair though. That is why I picked this. | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Which Is The Best Pickup Artist Bootcamp?You don’t need bootcamp in Japan or Philippines. Philippines: let’s get beer. I have this cool thing in my room. Boom boom. Japan: random banter. There is this cool coffee shop. Banter. Let’s go get drinks here. Start caressing if the girl is not. Then — I have this cool thing in my hotel room. Japan— much higher quality than Philippines. Both countries — there is no resistance. | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Most young women are used to getting pumped and dumped by fuckboys. Thats why you aren't getting laidI am assuming you say -- "come over I want to see you" to girls you met on dating app / day / night game. At what point do you say this? Would the following work-- some flirting. Send her pics of my place. If she responds positively, say "come over I want to see you". | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Need advice -- learning game for travelThere was not any. I went to Rio before my LTR and was used to picking up women then. But feel so rustic now. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 08:34 AM |
| 0 | Need advice -- learning game for travelNo. Been to Rio earlier and that was not a problem. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 02:18 PM |
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