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Yeah why not. Bulk up, get a hair transplant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 08:01 AM
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When my father dies, atleast 1mil+. Until then, it's-8000.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:18 AM
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Time to change up your approach then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:05 AM
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Youre cute! Nice to put a face or a body to all those posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:40 AM
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I'll pray you get to first base today.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:39 AM
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Is it as good as playing Budaki 3 or Tenkaichi for the first time? I'm thinking of buying it for nostalgia
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:31 AM
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Thanks bro. I def need to change my style. I've been stuck with that goatee since I was 20. But its been a tough few years so I havent been overly focused on my look. Now that I'm pushing 30, I'm probably going to have to revamp my style. I'm thinking of growing out my moustache and going Van Dyke. Itll be a fresh new look.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:11 AM
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Loving them biceps. Biceps have been my weak points and yours are pretty much my goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:05 AM
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How tall are you? Beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:04 AM
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Nice. Loving the bracelets. Handsome man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:00 AM
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I like good for 29, but I'm not as good looking as you younger folks. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:27 AM
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My mildly hot ubereats Chinese meal I shared with my client was hot enough that she needed to drink milk to stop her mouth from burning. This reminds of when I had a relationship with a WASP girl and had to nerf all my spicy meals so it could be edible for her. Never knew how much growing up eating chillis in meals has desensitised me to heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:16 AM
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Im a switch, so luckily I can be dom in bed and enjoy it to a certain extent, back when I was dating and having relationships. But finding a girl who accepts my subby side is so rare that when it does happen, it results in some of the most memorable and enjoyable sex I've ever had. Subby guys definitely live hard mode. It's like being gay in the 1950s. It's so taboo for men to enjoy being dominated by a woman, and unless a girl mentions it in passing as a slight invitation, I would never admit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:53 AM
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I believe the same ick factor associated with bi men is probably similar to the ick women get when they find out their man is submissive in bed or has a nonmasculine fetish like getting pegged. Most women believe in strictly defined sex roles for men, and men who diverge from the norm are looked down on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:39 AM
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Had my nieces and nephew over today. I think because of how close we've become since their parents separated as Ive become second only to their mother as an adult figure they spend the most time with, they seem to be more candid about their parents marriage to me and how sad they are that their former lives as previleged upper middleclass kids is over. Anyways, it just reminds me of my own childhood and how fleeting happiness and stability is when youre living with intergenerational trauma. Pare…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:45 PM
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She was no average dominatrix, she was like a master of male psychology. Apparently she was under the tutelage of Ilsa Strix(the dominatrix that was famously rumoured to have played a role in the Wachowski sisters transitioning),
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:08 PM
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There are more men with subby tendencies than there are women who are tolerant enough or happen to have preferences that align with men to meet their needs and sexual predilections. I was in the bdsm community for a brief time and I was surprised by how many subby men were in the club whilst Dom women were rare and highly sought after . Male sexuality is a lot more diverse and broad spectrum than women's in my experience. Many men have to repress their sexual preferences and learn their pre orda…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:55 PM
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India is a patriarchy. The west is not. A proper patriarchy will warp men's view of women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:12 PM
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Is it b/c mainstream media already does a good enough job of shitting on men it's not needed? Pretty much. It's cathartic for some men to see women get shitted on by bropill podcasts because it's so rare to see that in the mainstream. Women get their misandrist needs met drip by drip from mainstream media that just loves to have random jabs at men when they're not outright demonising them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:57 PM
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I know, but I dont want to involve myself with a low intelligence drug addict with a million STDs or lose my license. It's a comfy job, I want to keep it. Despite what guys here say, most decent men do not want to fuck everything they see.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:43 PM
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My client keeps mentioning her sex life to me, how annoyed she is by her boyfriend. I keep telling her stop to stop mentioning your bf porn induced ED or how he is bad at sex but she can't help it. I like this girl, she always let's me finish my shift earlier than the time that she outlined ro my manager, so I'm pretty much getting paid 6 hours of work for 2 hours of real work as a social worker twice a week. But man, she is testing my patience. I feel like an emotional whore being a social work…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:29 PM
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This mirrors exactly my sisters situation. She also has MS and her husband left her for another woman which is why I spent two weeks raising her kids while she worked with a degen disease. I reckon the kinds of men women are attracted to don't usually do well when their wives are sick. Assertive, high dominance guys with low empathy usually don't stick around. I knew my sisters husband would not stick around when she got the diagnosis in her early 20s. And I was unfortunately right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:10 PM
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Will she take the call?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:35 PM
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Be me: Annoyed that I'm slighly losing hair on my temples and I don't have a sharp kpop jawline at 29, despite still looking mid 20s and having clear golden skin and no wrinkles and a full head of hair. Look at my friend: 29, losing hair, greying, wrinkly ballsack who still gets laid even if he looks years older and fatter. My perfectionism that got me into law school is starting to bite me in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:09 AM
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Is he into findom(financial bdsm)?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:03 AM
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Nurses always seem to be the ones with the most bizarre beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:59 AM
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Who are you fighting against, the Athiest Cultural marxist Trans-Jihadi alliance?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:44 AM
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You should have asked for 100. Now she thinks you're a try hard amateur and probably laughed at you afterwards as you walked away for asking money that can only buy a sandwich
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:40 AM
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Im doing my best to enjoy seafood before the Chinese and Japanese fish them to extinction within my lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:50 AM
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Im still working on it myself. It's definitely something that takes years to rewire your brain. But it's worth it. Being nice is a liability for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:35 AM
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Do any "nice men" feel like they have to repress their nice tendencies? It seems like in the hyper competitive capitalist world and dating market, being nice is definitely a liability as a man. I've been burned so many times being nice to both men and women when I was younger that I've definitely had to keep the niceness to a minimum. To many people, being nice as a man means you must be a doormat, and arseholes will start testing your boundaries when given the chance or if they interpret your n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:05 AM
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Being a nice man definitely feels more like a liability these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:41 AM
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Yeah, I'm starting to think its all about power. In my younger days, I was definitely attractive but even then, women just stairfuck me until I could be bothered getting out of my shell and asking them out. I guess I was Chadlite. Goodlooking enough to get above avg women interested, but not good looking enough to have enough of power advantage to get women asking me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:36 AM
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If only they all looked like Jessica Chastain <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:49 AM
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Cougar bait era has made me realise how forward older women are with men if they're attracted to you. Although I wished they didn't have to wait till their late 30s to start breaking down gender role barriers and start asking men out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:40 AM
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Says the gay man who's never dated women and has no conception of a straight man's experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:19 PM
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These days you can capitalise on status within ethnic communities or subcultures now that government funding is being funnelled into supporting these communities and advocacy groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:17 PM
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Lmao <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:15 PM
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Where do you live in Nevada?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:28 AM
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You seem like a punter type.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:45 AM
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What would be a trashy yet acceptable place to take a woman for a date? For me, it would be the Casino. Casinos are so underrated for a date. You've got nightclubs, restaurants, and the Casino all in close proximity. It's like a playground for hedonists. And there's always mix crowd full of ugly or middle aged dudes and girls with gambling addictions mixed in with some high rollers from Asia and hot younger people. It's always good to have normies around you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:24 AM
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Probably have a year long year long spiritual journey to heal my childhood trauma. Search for a guru that can help me overcome existential nihilism. Get into Charity in a big way. Finish my law degree after dropping out in my early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:56 AM
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Imagine the smell. Bacon grease + BO is like perfume for some guys into BBWs. Not me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:19 AM
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I resent Spring cleaning. It's 7 intense days of thoroughly cleaning up the whole house, and polishing every nook and cranny before the land owner does his bi-yearly inspection. I didnt realise how much cannabis smoke tend to accumulate oily resin on the front porch ceiling. I guess this is what I get for boarding with two weedheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:24 AM
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The problem is that women tend to treat men as homogenous monolith if they have a few bad experiences with them. For example, I have two older maternal sisters, and I didn't know it at the time, but they were having major boy issues in their 20s, which sounded like they were going for fuccbois and being predictably mistreated. Instead of realising that these men are simply bad and that they should probably choose better, they blamed all men for the actions of a few who happened to find attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:05 AM
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My female cousin put makeup on me a few years as a joke when she was getting married and I was helping her out with some things. I actually looked really good, like kpop prettyboi good. Women really do underestimate the impact that even light makeup has on attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:42 PM
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OLD is dead. Even my fuccboi lil brother who used to get matches left and right said he hardly gets matches anymore because women are leaving in droves. The best place to meet women now is IRL or instagram. The workplace might be your best shot..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:56 PM
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Their BO trail always smell like Bacon grease
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:30 PM
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Wow. And people here say it's only PPD men who are fatphobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:26 PM
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This reminds me of some girl who kept staring into my soul when I visited the Crown Casino pub with my brothers and recently engaged friend. I just kept ignoring her bevause just looking at how she carried herself and her expensive dress, she probably expected me to wine and dine her and buy her hundreds of dollars worth of drinks, and entertain her for the night just to get to know a 304 thot I have no interest in. High maintenance girls so deeply into gender roles that they can't even say Hi t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:14 PM
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Gonna create the great Soviet-Americana union with his mate Putin too. His protectionist policies is straight out of the USSR
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:47 PM
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Exactly. Trump is a commie double agent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:46 PM
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Obama deported more than Trump. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:32 PM
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Trump is so left leaning. Supports welfare expansion. Anti war and pro isolationist. Protectionist. Destroys the credibility of the Pax Americana in the global arena through stupidity. Pro workers rights Lefties should just support him since his policies unintentionally or not fulfil key lefty agendas and aims whikst corporatist like Kamala will continue with the status quo. Trumptards dont even realise that beside his immigration and reactionary climate change policies, Trump is on the left of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:27 PM
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It's not just autism. Lots of men suffer from anxiety and that's enough to overload once brains with analysis paralysis that it becomes hard to understand subtle social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:21 PM
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It's weird. I was watching violent cartoons at 5. Me and my brother were never traumatised or had nightmares despite being exposed to violence on TV. The matrix used to be a weekly watch for us when we were around that 7-12 age mark. It's even weirder because their father who was in their lives until recently was a reformed bully who knows the value of violence and not being a softy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:55 PM
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Day 8 of being a simp and taking care of my shitty sisters fatherless kids. The boy is a soft kid who can't even watch violent cartoons and seems to think DBZ is cringy for being so violent. Ive even tried to get them to appreciate modern greats that I liked when I was a kid like matrix and LOTR. But apparently, it's too violent for this 9 year old. I now appreciate my older sister for turning me into a film patrician as an 9 year old, and letting us watch m15+ adult movies whikst she explained …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:28 PM
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Same reason single women are the biggest consumers and stimulators of the economy. If men aren't wasting their money on hedonism or getting stuck in toxic spending habits, they're saving their money and putting it in investments and building wealth. Men's value continues to be based on how much money they have. We aren't just going to give it away so some NGO can make money on exorbitant fees in exchange for feel good chemicals. FDI and responsible government spending which men have a greater ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:22 PM
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After a certain time with mental illness, your brain structure changes enough that theres a good chance that you'll always be prone to mental illness with the right stressors. You might need to treat it as a management issue. You'll never be fully cured of mental illness. Relationships does make it easier but it can also become a stressor as it did for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:13 PM
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Yep l. My girth ruined it for me. I can only remember once when oral felt good because of it. Teeth grinding is painful. I know some women like give oral to men as apart of their subby tendencies but I never liked it. One of the most pleasurable sex acts is impossible for me to enjoy. Maybe I used monkey paw luck thing when I was a young kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:17 AM
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They looked good. Stereotypical curly hair olive skinned addeno Mediterranean Chad all seem to have the same tattoo. Seems like a pretty popular look for them pretty wogs. Could be a different situation in your area. I'd still do it. It's all about confidence rocking that tattoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:18 AM
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My last partner was not very hygienic(4+ years ago). I think she was one of those girls who didn't wash her hair for a week because of all the hair products she was using. Im sure it's a different experience for a different kind of girl who knows how to wash their necks properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:16 AM
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Salty + faint BO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:07 AM
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This is like the tribal tattoo for fuccbois. I see it everyday in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:06 AM
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Depends on how well you can sell it to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:02 AM
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Shell think it's a giant 8 inches aswell since it sits just outside the norm that she'll feel the difference and women inches do exist, especially if a man is above average in girth. She'll brag to her friends about her mandingo 8 inch bf despite the guy being only slightly above average. It has happened to a friend back in uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:23 AM
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My sister accepted a 15 grand dowry from her high school sweetheart. They didn't even have a wedding. Same thing with my Mensa girl cousin and her university love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:45 AM
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Have big dick. Sex always feel sore after 5 mins .Rarely get commented on my size when I was younger other than the odd 304 who's brain is probably mushed by social media. No quick sex. Must always plan ahead to avoid pain for a girl which sucks when you're overworked and just wanna have spontaneous sex. Normal girls do not care about big dicks like the way some men think they do. I'd rather be 6 foot 3 than have a big penis. In fact I've had compatibility issues because of my size that has dest…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:43 AM
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My sister is a doctor who married a lowly accountant. He makes half of what she makes when she's not doing overtime and he's overworked. Sometimes it's 3x as much. Despite both being anti social arseholes, their relationships seem pretty smooth sailing. They've been together for 10 years. Although it helps that they're childless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:33 AM
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Well that happens most of the time when a partner becomes sick enough that they can't fulfil their roles in a relationship. Ive seen it happen in my family. It is what it is. There's no such thing as unconditional love in romantic relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:51 AM
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As someone with a larger member( I can post if you guys think I'm lyin) I've had penis fractures and bruising when a girl was too tight back when I was a younger guy. And I even tried going down on her and going slow. And some girls get too excited and forget how tight things were over there, and I suffered damage and desensitisation to my member to the point where PIV sex was not enjoyable for months after the incident. A girl who is too tight or too loose is always going to be a problem. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:36 AM
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Contentless rhetoric and transphobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:26 AM
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You're delusional if you think any parts of the west are comparable to the developing world like ME/Africa/SEA when it comes to entrenched patriarchal values and gender discrimination. You need to stop drinking the western feminist victim hood coolaid before you overdose.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:19 AM
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This is another "married men are healthier" correllation=/=causation fallacy. Men who aren't outearning women, or dont have a positive trajectory in their wealth accumulation and income growth are less likely to get married because western women put a premium on their partners income growth potential just like women tend to be in relationships with healthier men than men with health issues because marriage filters out so many men low in social and physical desirability Marrriage does help in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:32 AM
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These societies make it easier for men to outearn women. In many parts of Africa(Im african), men hold most good job positions within an enterprise l. Theres no affirmative action and gender discrimination is acceptable. Your underappreciating how much patriarchal societies give men a leg up in accruing wealth and employment compared to women vecause they understand women irrespective of politics will always want men who abide by gender roles which includes outearning their partners or being the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:24 AM
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Theres a lot of gamers here, I'll give an analogy that everyone can understand. Western women enforcing gender roles and expectations on their men when convenient is like a subsidised game sneakily placing micro transactions on every purchase. Sometimes it's better to buy a quality game for full price which you know what you're getting into, than a subsidised game full of hidden micro transactions that will cost the gamer far more in money in the long run and dissatisfaction. You know what you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:06 AM
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If a girl is demanding an exorbitant dowry, it's their way of saying she's not interested in you. Muslim and arab girls usually have low dowry for guys theyre interested in. Arab girls are less likely to cheat and display thot or monkey branching behaviour. Ofcourse nothing is perfect, but I've seen plenty of western guys do well with cultural Muslim women after being fed up with western women. This is coming from an ex muslim man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:54 AM
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Im glad young men are doing something right/better tgan older men instead of this constant reinforcement by many that young guys are defective compared to boomer guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:55 AM
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Yes, we know that women's sexuality is reactive for average men, proactive for Chad. You don't have to remind us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:44 AM
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It's the price of having one gender do 90+ percent of the approaching and face most of the rejection until they find someone who wants to dance. If we didn't have testosterone, we would probably have died off. If women actually pursued men(and not just Chad), we wouldn't be in this situation where men have to get into such a mindset to override their impulse to preserve their mental health. This is what happens when women put men in a pressure cooker situation where you either pursue or die alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:22 AM
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Despite the cope from MGTOW, marriage rates tanking is not about men refusing to marry but because marriage is increasingly a middleclass and up previlege. Relationships are also less stable when both men and women think they can do better and monkey branch and many are forgoing marriage until they find their optimum partners. Everyone is a place holder, but life happens, children are born to single mothers and NC fathers. The breakdown of lt marriage allows many people who cant function in long…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:36 AM
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Are you watching the finals
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:02 AM
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There's always going to be an actor who doesn't deliver in these movies. Predictably it was the zoomie influencer cast for her clout. Not every movie can be a Citizen Kane or a NCFOM when it comes to impeccable performance from all the cast. But the rest of the main crew delivered great performances. Ferguson, Butler, Timmy and Javier did a great job. I hope they cast another actress's for Messiah. Preferably a middle eastern or Mediterranean actress who has more than a few facial expressions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:43 AM
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You show her King
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:15 AM
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Probably the second one. But if it's a really bad day, I watch both back to back. This is the recent one and not the David Lynch one
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:06 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:02 AM
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Anyone have that particular movie that they go to when they're having a bad wageslave day at work and just wanna turn off their brain and vicariously live through the protagonist and his journey? For me, its definitely dune. It's comfy scifi escapism. I just wanna go to war riding on a giant worm following the One.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:58 AM
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Nah, no worrys. I struggle inside but I usually don't show it unless it's a stressful social situation. Im pretty good at masking these days. I'm aging pretty normally as an almost 30 year old, I just have really high standards for myself. But things mentally were way worse when I was younger, but the treatment was a lot better from women of all ages. It seems like a common experience for guys who lose their boyish looks and look hypermasculine in their late 20s/early 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:56 AM
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I have anxiety so that could be it. I'm still attractive considering I'm embracing my cougar bait era and I regularlyget SOI from women, but yeah, sometimes I can't mask my anxiety well. But the thing is, I had worse anxiety when I was younger and cuter, but I think because I didn't have the hard features I have now and I was skinny, maybe I looked less suss?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:17 AM
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I miss being a Twink. People treat you so nicely when you're a cute looking young guy and not some dangerous criminal looking late 20s guy with all the signs of someone who looks hyper aggressive high T red flag like a giant jaw, muscular and hard features. People assume Im aggressive despite working in social work with kids and vulnerable women. I intimidate normie women for sone reason. Maybe e working with criminals in my last gig as a heavy lifter and sawman at a dodgy abbotoir after droppin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:09 AM
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Maybe women's metrics for what constitutes a quality guy is different to men's and their view of women? Women tend to want men who abide by gender roles and expectations and are high in the social hierarchy. Some common mental illness will severely curtail a mans ability to be a confident go getter exciting Alpha man that women tend to want like depression and anxiety. Despite it being 2024 and the progressiveness of the average young woman, narrow masculinity is still in vogue. Men are less dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:54 PM
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Bingo. And whilst ND girls are racking up relationship experiences and being in social situations which helps them form strategies with masking, ND men are in the sidelines not developing skills which deepens their issues as they approach middle age. Relationship experiences, even ones that don't lead to LTRs are always precious for ND people because it let's them learn tgroygh trial and error how to formulate strategies to mask and to self regulate. Women here who are unironically saying that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:26 PM
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If you've lived with mentally ill sisters, you'd know how wrong that assumption is. Women don't often weild violence the way men do, but they do utilise a much more damaging approach to hurting people, namely emotional abuse paired with gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:26 PM
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I am one of those guy who was "good looking" who had a mental illness(anxiety, ptsd) because of a tumultuous childhood and even I had severe difficulties dating in my 20s despite getting lots of SOI. Whilst my sisters who had the same thing are all married or have ltrs. They could share their struggles with their partners and face hardly any problems whilst the few relationships that I could form had me devoting so much energy to masking because being honest with my illness to my partners compli…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:46 PM
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Stacynator 2035 after identifying mate potential 0003: I need your instagram, your mobile number and your Linkendin profile
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:54 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:32 AM
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It's 2035 and Zuck AR glasses have been on the market for 5 years. Gen Alpha girls in their 20s are using AR glasses powered by AI, cloud computing and sensors to rate men in metrics like height, income, muscle/fat levels and their personality type, leveraging Facebook database and the glasses AI programs and sensitive sensors to measure the biometrics of someone from talking distance away. AR glasses with AI can also make an accurate measurements of a dates level of literacy, humour, deceptiven…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:18 AM
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Is malaria and dengue fever a problem during rainy season?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:58 AM
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Just gotto get it out in the savannah and exhaust it to death using my superior running ability and stamina, constantly hitting it with a rock and running away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:52 AM
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I think that's definately a thing in the Indian community considering how much fobs are overrepresented in high tech, medicine and finance and indian fob muslims are moderate so there's less of a culture shock for western born desi muslim women to date fob men. But if you're talking about the Arab community or the African muslim community where there's a huge culture and wealth gap between those raised on the west and recent migrants, it isn't much of a thing. I think the muslim community is goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:44 AM
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Could be an Australian muslim thing. I don't think they're promiscuous, they usually just have a boyfriend or two before they're marriage age. But that's enough to freak out some muslim men. I went to an Islamic school and all the women had boyfriends. I see no problem having a relationship before getting married. That's valuable life experience I agree that many muslim men aren't prepared to play second fiddle to their more successful wives. I too come from a liberal sufi muslim family, and mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:26 AM
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Dumb AI is probably going to penetrate every field in a few decades, and you need coding skills to understand how to extract the maximum productivity from dumb AI tools which will be the successor to today's LLMs. We won't be replaced by AI, but workplaces will increasingly be hybridised and you will need to kearn how to use these tools.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:50 AM
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Kids these days learn code at primary school. Older people are never going to able to compete with that. Chatgpt only helps with humanities. You're not going to get a high paying job in the humanities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:41 AM
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I'll put my muslim helmet back on. I think second generation muslim men are failing to match the success of muslim women, and so theres a success gap. Attractive muslim women are pretty adamant about gender roles and men becoming primary providers after a certain age, so there's pressure on muslim men to be successful and to pay the exorbitant dowry which sometimes amount to an average mans income plus the wedding, ring and a down payment for a house. That'll take years for an average accountant…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:25 AM
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Lmao. You sound so young and naive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:02 AM
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Many married couple cheat in my experience. And most get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:17 AM
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PPD women are right. Be friends with women, and maybe during a trying time in their relationship, they'll let you hit it. Trust me, I've has more attention from married women these days than single women. Youre only competing against her husband. Use the fact that a non insignificant proportion of women can't even pair bond enough to avoid temptation. Ofcourse no one will admit it, but any man who is cougar bait knows what Im talking. Ofcourse, I would never cheat. But I think if the right girl …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:03 AM
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It's just OK when the self imolating misandrists blame and demonise men for men's and women's problems, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:51 AM
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Do the mods still censor legitimate opinions like Stalinists in that sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:45 AM
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Some women here are giddy with the fact that the competition for men is so intense that we will see a class of men who will never marry or have children. Soft social Darwinism is a ok I guess. But they don't realise or will avoid thinking about how this environment will create winners among men who will be more likely to monkey branch. The winners among men will be serial monogamists. There won't be many life long partnerships in due time , hence the tanking marriage rates. That's just the price…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:07 AM
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It's cathartic when you get a self aware feminist. I remember some feminist journalist who had been in a crusade against rigid masculinity in Australia for years started realising in her op ed that all her boyfriends were almost hypermasculine caricatures and came to a conclusion women like her might be part of the problem when it comes to incentivising men to behave a certain way. Ofcourse she went back to demonising men for only acting logically, but it was nice to have a moment where a notabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:06 AM
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No one is talking about jobless men here. But yes, progressive women prefer men who outearn them or at the very least match them in income. Low income men need not apply. Our worth is still equated to our ability to be primary breadwinners and to abide by other masculine gender roles but with a progressive veneer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:12 PM
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Nah, no data, just the experiences of many men around me and being raised by feminist sisters whose progressive views stopped at relationships. It's almost a meme at this point. Most progressive men know what I'm talking about and have experienced the same thing when they started dating. Women can have careers and their own lives without relationships. No one is stopping them. What sucks is that when progressive women implicitly tell men that they're not worth their time unless they fulfil their…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:09 PM
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If you spoken to female advocates around the 1970s-2000 period, that exactly what they were saying. Women being empowered would benefit men who won't be over burdened with their provider roles and will be in equal egalitarian cooperative partnership with women which is why they posited that men should support affirmative action and other feminist policies. Turns out egalitarianism is a turn off for most progressive women whose progressive views stop at relationships. It has only increased the ya…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:31 PM
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I think this is the main reason why feminism has lost good will with the average man. Ive never seen a hypocrite as much as the average modern empowered woman. They believe in empowerment and progressive values until its comes to relationships, then it's all about trad values and pseudo social Darwinism to justify it all. Atleast with traditional minded women, you know what you're getting. With progressive women I know, it's all about picking and choosing gender roles, and having your cake and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:13 PM
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Men are kind of bind by gender roles and part of the male gender roles is knowing how to please women sexually and being assertive and competent. As a man, you kind of have to get into relationships with women sometimes you're not even attracted to in order to upgrade your skills for the girl you are interested in. Women do not face such pressures, or not to the same extent. Being longterm single is more of a problem for men in dating than for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:16 AM
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Persia/Iran
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:37 PM
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Reread my edit. I do prefer finding a likeminded egalitarian western woman, but because it's uncommon to date egalitarian western women who wont selectively impose gender roles when convenient, I'd probably prefer places where there is a fairer and straightforward gender contract like parts of the ME where's theres less risk of bait and switch if I cant find an egalitarian girl. I like educated Persian women because I think theyre a lot different than the average submissive and docile ME woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:32 PM
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Western, I do not like rigid gender roles or submissive women. I grew up as a muslim and I found muslim women who weren't western born and believed in the patriarchy and the unquestioned dominance of the husband kind of cringy. Although I am an egalitarian in the literal sense and I am not the norm because I also find western women to be too hypocritical for my liking. Im not a fan of this whole "I am a feminist and empowered woman until its relationship time" mentality that most western women h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:18 PM
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This reminds me when some fat person said he kept going to the doctors for knee pain and the doctor told him to lose weight to manage the knee pain, but he was convinced he was one of these rare healthy fat persons whose knee pain had nothing to do with his obesity and that the doctor was just being dismissive of his concerns, despite the fact that obesity is a major comorbidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:29 AM
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That's just her though. Theres plenty of western women like her who are demure, reserved, and prefer sex within relationships, and that has lrss to do with her faith and is probably more as a result of her psychological makeup . Western women are not all sluts, and not all muslim women are pious virgins. All I'm saying is the gulf between non Muslim and western born Muslim women in how they behave is very small. Individual differences and preferences are more influential on the behaviour of thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:58 AM
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Some of the worst players are muslim men tho. My sister was cheated on by her muslim husband and gave her an STD because he was hooking up with multiple girls when he was running his family business into the ground and going on business trips to Africa and the ME, and now shes divorcing him. Muslim girls raised in the west are not any better than western women, they just cover up youthful debauchery better like my cousin who's a hijabi who according to my little bro had a sex tape that was leake…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:38 AM
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Establishing healthy sleeping patterns
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:50 AM
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We need Mexican migrants in Australia. Im getting tired of paying 30 dollars for mediocre traditional Mexican tacos made by limp wristed business school gringos who drunk Ayahuasca in their Mexican holidays and decided to make money selling overpriced Mexican food over here. If I'm going to spend steakhouse prices for Mexican food, I might aswell pay real Mexicans who know the secret family recipe for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:43 AM
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Bruh, me and my mother were just talking about the string of divorces, breakups and cheating in our family for those under 40 who grew up here and she was just spitting RP lite talking points like as if she wrote the book. This is a 60 year old muslim woman with some trad blue pilled beliefs. She basically told me that in this culture, you have to behave the way my player little brother is behaving to maximise your options and to not be taken advantaged by western women or men. BP morality will …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:28 AM
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Bjork is for the pretend arthoes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:14 AM
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I feel like dating a smoker for a year would reduce your lifespan by 5 years. There's nothing as deserving of a redflag than a shameless smoker. I still can't believe people used to smoke like chimneys a few decades ago and Hollywood convinced everyone it was cool. I mean you might aswell drink chlorine, I guess if it gives you a rush before inevitable death. Do you want to prematurely age yourself, destroy your body and those around you slowly, and smell like an ashtray all for a temporary hit …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:08 AM
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Why are they so uppity? They should indulge in the same self destructive working class habits as everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:57 AM
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I hope you stay away from pagers and walkie talkies for a few months....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:55 AM
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Teacher/coordinator
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:18 AM
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Donate it to my account plz. Honestly if it's above 50 dollars, I'd probably report it to security. A 100 dollars might be the difference between starvation and eating good for a week for some poor students
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:22 AM
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What would you do if you had a kid like me who was sick for 10 percent of the year during 6th grade? Some kids are just prone to being sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:21 AM
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That's definitely a redflag
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:09 AM
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Leg press is so enjoyable and it's such a lovely ego press. I could literally lift 12 plates ass to platform even though I can barely do 120kg squats in proper form. She's probably enjoying herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:06 AM
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Start unloading about your problems the next time he does that. These people aren't really known for their empathy even as they demand others behave like Mother Theresa and listen to their sob stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:00 AM
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Ive done legs in the gym at 5am in the morning. Now Im going to cycle in 30km headwinds. I feel like this unwise to do so much in one day, but the whole week is going to be windy always. I also over indulged at a friend's baby shower a few days ago, eating 3 pieces of the best tropical cake I've ever had. And the best Sicilian cannoli Ive had this year. It was huge as well. My cousins wife family are full of doctors and overachieving types. Even the food they make is bloody perfect. I'm still dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:51 PM
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To find a girl who is enjoyable to be around and will let you be yourself without judgement is so rare. I feel jealous of guys who found that special someone who they don't have to always put on a front, filter or "frame" to maintain attraction and general peace. It must feel liberating to date women who aren't t hang up on policing or incentivising men to behave a certain way. No wonder for those men who can have sex regularly end up in situationships until they find someone special. Relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:18 PM
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Because any implant above a certain size must be saline(water based) for safety reasons, these implants will always be inferior to small silicone boob implants. Ive rarely seen a saline implant that looked good, they always look like inflatable balloons. It doesn't have that much lauded tear drop shape. Bigger isn't better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:08 PM
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I had to take care of my nephew today(his mother has MS), because the little guy had a flu and the school forced him to take a day off. I remember as a perpetually sick zillenial kid coughing and barely able to breathe at school, yet I had to still go school because the teachers didn't tolerate absenteeism unless you had a missing limb. Kids are missing school for a little flu. Lmao. Bruh, I used to take two rolls of toilet paper to school in order to tough it out for a few days whilst my nose l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:59 PM
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Going through a mental health crisis is pretty blackpilling. Just when you need people in your life, your social networks and relationships start withering away because you don't have value to those around you anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:53 PM
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29 - People say I still look good, but I dont believe them. I no longer get that infatuation and halo effect from random women. I feel invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:33 AM
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Try being a former Chadlite. I keep comparing to what I looked like when I was a young buck who used to look like Prince with higher T levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:09 AM
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Maybe when I reach management. The bosses office smells like ice cream and bad coke
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:30 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:10 AM
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My workplace is stingy asf.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:04 AM
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Once Tesla actually makes a track competitive model 3, I'll probably get an EV. The new Tesla model 3s are so good looking, especially if youre in traffic and you have to follow one bumper to bumper and you witness how fast they can accelerate. They just need to improve the performance since Hyundai has stolen their thunder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:02 AM
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It's so easy to justify buying an expensive espresso machine with the price of coffee reaching 6 bucks minimum. By next year, it'll probably be 6.50 for a small cup. And no one is going to use my espresso machine at work when they don't even know how to use a vintage lever machine and you need man strength(I work in a female dominated office) to pull a 9 bar shot by hand. I'm going to have some nice third wave coffee coffee at my desk in 3 minutes whilst everyone else will be forced to go to som…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:55 AM
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My brother works as a senior business analyst and he's probably going to go back to security for a month because the pay is so good during the holiday season. It's a gold mine. And it's fun asf
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:47 AM
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Festival and event staff. My brothers were getting paid good money when they were security guards at the Aussie open, like 10 grand for a one month tournament. T
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:34 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:56 PM
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And misandrists on PPD still laugh when men on here say the system disproportionately benefits women even as they do better than men. We don't live in a patriarchy in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:05 PM
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Im not saying violence is acceptable but that simply you reap what you sow. If Trump and his supporters are all for rejecting respectable political discourse inexchange for hate speech, divisiveness and even violence against opponents, don't be surprised when the extreme ends of the other side starts adopting the same rhetoric and actually follows through with violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:51 PM
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My natural taper
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:43 PM
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I know our resident Trump supporters may disagree, but if you propagate hate the way Trump and his allies does so well, you shouldn't be surprise that so many deranged people fuelled by that same hate will try to unalive you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:37 PM
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QFA: How do you see women who get cosmetic surgery such as breast implants or a bbl to please their partners? Im seeing more married millenial women with obviously fake triple Ds and BBLs around my neighbourhood for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:16 AM
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Shifty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:25 PM
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We get it, you need to be Abercrombie male model to register as valuable to the average woman physical wise. I learnt this in my early 20s when I lost the weight after ballooning to 31 bmi and realised I got marginally more attractive to women when I achieved a healthy bmi through fasting and I didn't get much attention from women which us when I started going to the gym. To actually be attractive as a man requires good genes and work in the gym these days. A woman simply has to be a healthy wei…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:27 PM
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I know way more women who are vegans than men. Im ok with vegetarians. They dont turn their dietary preferences into a quasi religion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:46 PM
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Lol. My vegan cousin told me she can smell the breath of death from me just after I ate a tasty burger. When I was younger and I lived with her for a few months, I couldn't even cook a steak when she was in the house. I don't know how some guys can date girls who are religiously Vegan if theyre not vegan themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:14 PM
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No. Half of the marriages that survived the 10th year around me seem like unhappy unfulfilling marriages. The other half had cheating/emotional cheating/domestic violence end the relationship. My family are probably more on the dysfunctional spectrum but I also assume it must be in the blood. Many of us aren't designed for longterm monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:06 PM
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I have hyperphantasia(which is why I am susceptible to ptsd) so I never needed porn. My sick imagination is better than any porno I've ever watched.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:21 PM
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If you say so lil man. But I could barely keep my girl satisfied with my 10 incher, and nearly got cheated on by a man sporting a 12 incher. 11 inches is definitely the way to go. Gotto stimulate the womb for those epic F waves nomsayin?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:15 PM
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They really hate women who inflate men's physical standards which porn does. I mean back in the day, a c cup boob was huge. Now its tiny to young guys who got their first sexual experience jerking off to triple DDDs and young girls are getting boob implants and doing BBL at greater rates as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:12 PM
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I don't hear many men in the manosphere or the PPD or irl talking about how you need to have a giant penis to please women and participate in casual sex. Dare I say, are we passed peak penis fixation?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:02 PM
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OK coat gonna be stalking random men at upscale rehab centres
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:41 PM
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Ginger/Auburn is the new blonde for most mid white guys with simpish tendencies. Looksmaxxing Women should start dyeing their hair red instead of blonde. I never saw the appeal of blonde when I was younger either, and I'm glad younger men are starting to see the light. Red haired girls are definitely in vogue. For me, its Auburn> Red>Black>Brown>Grey>Blonde
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:52 PM
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Tbf, I didn't go gym or cycled for a week because of work. I'm not as intense with my fitness regiment as I was a few years ago. I have to improve in this aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:38 PM
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Yeah. I'm waiting 3 hours. Just had a small high protein meal after gym aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:36 PM
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Islam is only great if you enjoy traditional gender roles which I don't. Islam and muslim women put men in a smaller box when it comes to masculinity and gender roles than even hypocritical progressive women. And plus, I enjoy being the ex moose guy that muslim women would DL have a fwb with, when I was young and attractive since they knew I wouldn't judge them like the average muslimbro.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:34 PM
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It's the gender equality paradox supped up in dating for men. The most progressive women who are attractive want the most masculine men out there. My sisters were berating us with feminist dogma, talk of toxic masculinity and were classic progressive millenials attending feminist marches when we were kids, yet their dating lives were full of hyper masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:30 PM
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Push day in the gym followed by a 40km HIIT cycling session. Torturing myself for a 6+/10 Dominatrix lite girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:24 PM
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In Dubai, you're OK to have multiple wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:22 PM
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Lol. I can't wait for RPW to start embracing Islam since a HVM can have 4 wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:21 PM
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Go to New York city
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:43 PM
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As suspected, most women here are middle aged millenial overweight married/divorced women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:29 PM
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It's a turn on to damaged men(like me) because I can relate to the struggle of living with a bad childhood. I can't do relationships with women with pristine childhoods. Although ultra neurotic low energy women ate a no to me. She's gotto have some fight in her and some resilience to persevere, like me. I experience low energy moments as a result of have long term ptsd and back when I was in relationships, normie girls I was in relationships with would make a big deal out of it, so I'd like to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:04 PM
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Im still in my Vietnam. But Im at the final campaign stage. It's been a long battle and incredibly bitter sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:27 PM
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Corn is the staple of American life. We should be celebrating pioneers of the Corn industry who have helped the poor get cheap calories which has powered population growth for a hundred years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:20 PM
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Hot take but I think men underestimate how porn use has affected their sexual health and sexuality. My friend who wasn't in a relationship for a year couldn't even get hard for a a normal looking girl he was seeing for a few months, and he could only get through the act by imagining his favourite pron star. He apparently watches porn when he needs to relieve himself(once a day). Hes not even a porn addict, just an average joe porn watcher. He's healthy and in his mid 20s. If sub 5/10 ugly guys w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:32 PM
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Having higher standards will do that. Most poly people are bottom of the barrel types.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:20 PM
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1+1=2
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:09 PM
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I know its not intended but you're making good arguments for why society should go back to favouring men and rolling back female targeted DEI programs if they value more people raising families and getting married. According to women like you, the egalitarian arrangement that society has been trying to achieve by equalising the sexes is a dead end for women's mating strategy. You're a good advocate for patriarchyLite
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:01 AM
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Ive rarely met women who are accepting of gay men but will say something bigoted about bisexuality. It's just that they don't wanna have sex with a bisexual man which is fine. It's OK to have a sexual preference that excludes bisexual men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:54 PM
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I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:51 PM
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This. Like I had a friend who grew up here but is of Sri Lanken heritage, and the way he is treated by western women makes my heart break. Whereas my colleague who is Ghanaian but pretends to be African American with his West Coast lingo and his Creole inspired name has scored countless of women. Women are a lot more influenced by stereotyping and media rep. Personally, I'm racially ambiguous and I love the fact that women can't pinpoint my ethnic origin and stereotype me. I'm just me. I'd say b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:35 PM
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Hmm. I agree. That is an actual issue that I've seen happen, but women have to set some boundaries and standards. Don't enable laziness in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:02 PM
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That's the impression I get from women here. Aside from the trauma issues, every other dating issue seems benign. They're bemoaning men who don't have "rizz", aren't funny and don't want to entertain them and are not charismatic movie stars. The men are pretty basic and average aside from passing the high attraction threshold . But have they ever asked, what do they offer? Do they have female swag? Are they as funny and entertaining as the men they want? This thread will only confirm the impress…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:57 PM
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Lmao. Aside from the things that are marriage specific(most men here aren't married), most of your list can be answered by any man who has lived outside of their parents home dueing an extended period of time. I think you're being daft.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:39 PM
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Sounds more like adulting. Every man under the age of 35 should already be doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:31 PM
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I thought women enjoyed sex too? Or are you girls asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:27 PM
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Women lie for self interested reasons and social conformity. You should know this by the time you're an adult. Same reason why my mother told me to be a good respectful man and that a girl would be into me for me when I was an insecure 15 year old, even though I later found out from my playboy uncle who taught me the ropes that my mother had a thing for bad boys when she was young. Women are people pleasers and will conform to their social groups view of female sexuality. But if you're close fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:36 AM
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I assume this was the case. But honey, it's the 21st century. Women have broken down so many barriers and obstacles, what's so hard about breaking this taboo? Many men who aren't conservative prudes would enjoy a woman who takes a more active role in sex. It actually gives considerate men more to work with. We don't have to mind read what you girls really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:23 AM
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Im bigger than her bf. Ive worked in labour jobs and in an abbotoir for 4 years after dropping out of law school. Im built like a rock after lifting 50kg-80kg carcasses for years in the drop zone whilst dodging falling hazards. Ive actually been in fights because of the nature of my work and the fact that I've worked with criminals and tough islander boys. . I'll take both of them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:13 PM
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Yeah, I'm starting to ignore her phone calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:07 PM
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Becoming an emotional tampon for your neurotic female friend is a good way to stop taking domestic violence seriously. I mean like how many times do you need to complain to me about how abusive your bf is and how you're going to leave him, but then forgive him the next day. And the process repeats itself a week or a month later with the same old complaints. I feel like she wants me to one day came bursting through her door, and confront her boyfriend Jersey Shore style when Ive met the guy and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:57 PM
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Probably easier than becoming Chad for these guys. I wouldn't mind having a titan of industry to come from this place
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:15 PM
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Fuck I hate reading this because it reminds me of when I used to self loath about being "broken" blaming myself for women failing to find my behaviour attractive. Yet fortunately for me, this was about poor mental health/Chronic anxiety and not something as permanent as neurodivergence. I don't know man, could you date other autistic women? Maybe Elonmaxxx and use the ism to become a successful man and become that eccentric sophisticated moneyed autist that some women like?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:45 PM
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That's why I dont even bother meeting women when I have anxiety. Women being brutal and ablest towards men who arent able to fulfil masculine expectations is something I've known ever since I was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder in my early 20s, and I went from scoring with hot attractive women in my late teens and early 20s to being a sexless anxious dude in my mid 20s. But atleast you're being honest. I really dislike it when someone like my cousin tell me to put "myself out there" when my a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:02 AM
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My personal experiences is seriously starting make me doubt this. This is pertaining to my posts about my sister and her soon to be ex husband I think attraction most likely fogs the judgement of the average woman when it comes to bad men, but any man who knows abusive men will tell you the redflags were always there. No one is that slick unless theyre one of those narcissistic sociopaths who know how to act.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:44 AM
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As a disillusioned egalitarian, you've pretty much written what I've been thinking about dating for the last few years. I think I'm so cynical about it all that I dont think it's possible to be in an egalitarian relationship unless you're lucky. I unironically think it was easier to be an egalitarian before the advent of dating apps. When it comes to the dating process, I'm even more cynical about women embracing egalitarian ideals. The impression I get from women is that pseudo trad ideals is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:32 AM
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That's why I'm perfectly OK with the way men behave after they "make it". There's nothing moral about dating, selection and relationships. Then fuck it then. Screw the social contract. If guys can climb the massive mountain that is female hypergamy, they have every right to cheat and to play around. If you devote so much of your energy to being seen as attractive by some over entitled woman who thinks being on Chads rotation means she can sneer at average men, then when men make it, I can totall…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:13 AM
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Being a good man is a liability in dating as a man. Better to not care about morality at all. Morality doesn't factor in attraction or it's a hindrance to being an attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:50 AM
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All I hear is "Men get your shit together so you can perform your role and shoulder the burden of some girls internal chaos". There's plenty of women with emotional baggage in relationships. Hell I dated one, and provided support to her as an empathetic man. And I, like many men enjoy helping women. No one's telling women to be fully self realised and secure people before getting into relationships. Although for some reason, many women seem to find the idea of men using relationships as apart of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:52 PM
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I heard the tail can move with your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:40 PM
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Why do you have a booty pic of your doll?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:38 PM
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Don't most sane women admit this on PPD? I think the last few months, women on PPD have kind of started agreeing with guys here that dating is harder for men, even if women have their own host of issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:24 PM
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Yes, but hair is good at covering up bad facial structure. Generally girls with great facial structure can pull off short hair or even baldness. Long hair is the female version of the beard for weak jaw millenial men. I like bald women for a reason, and I think that intersects with my love of strong jawed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:20 PM
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It's a thing for a certain kind of women. Mostly divorced or separated boss girl types who had an adventurous youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:54 AM
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Lots of women in this age range have had children, previous marriages and careers and have achieved most of what they set out to achieve in their lives and are going through their mid age whore phase before menopause takes hold. Young guys are still attracted to young women but lots of these men have a thing for older women or cannot deal with the expectations of youthful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:44 AM
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They get laid tho. Just with men who roleplay as women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:57 PM
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Ive been alone for enough years that the thought of having a partner around me who isn't perfectly compatible annoys me now, even though I used to fantasize about getting back with an ex. Once you're comfortable being alone, having an ltr partner seems suffocating. Especially when you know how judgemental and intrusive people can be in relationships and how much energy it takes to cater to someone else's habits. I'll probably meet someone eventually but I'm going to enjoy the freedom that loneli…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:49 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:11 PM
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Femcel don't go to "woe is me" online forums like the average male incel, they go to relationship forums to in the hopes of spreading their dysfunction to more normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:30 PM
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Nah, in these events, it seems like everyone was in PR mode. Every guy I spoke to seem to be in some kind of race to seem the most extroverted, and charming and funniest guy there, even when they seemed uncomfortable. Women were just extra judgemental. It was corny. Im not someone who enjoys being fake and at the moment, I was kinda lukewarm at the idea of going to the event as my brother was supposed to join me but his fwb was leaving for Korea, so mentally I was not prepared to go business mod…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:39 PM
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I went to a singles event a few weeks ago and I enjoyed it. Some of the women there were pretty attractive for their age range, but I did get the feeling that most were "leftover girls" with tons of baggage and kinda acted really fake and judgemental . Overall, I wouldn't mind attending another one and probably be more mentally prepared for it and change my approach. I feel like you have to cultivate a public persona that's a bit fake and business to deal with women in these kind of events, auth…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:26 PM
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No one in this thread except for a few fringe weirdos have said women are not capable of such things. But it is something that women reserve for a minority of men. Most average men aren't going to get that kind of intense love. It'll be transactional like it has been for most men for much of history. It is why marriage rates crash during economic depressions or wars when men cannot prove themselves financially. Women find it insulting to admit the harsh reality that women often exhibit different…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:27 AM
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This coming from the gender who sees most men as NPCs barely worthy of empathy unless they can derive value from said man or he's high status enough . Most men are not seen as people by most women, they barely care for men in their own lives. Men are already in this state of non personhood to the average woman. We are called the disposable sex for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:00 AM
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Most average women find sex with the average man in their age range totally unappealing unless he's Chad or has done the dance of romance and a million other things to get through the maybe Bf material threshold. Women sexual desire is conditional and reactive unless it's Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:57 AM
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Yeah I agree. It's an apt comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:29 AM
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Pretty much how the world worked before the romantic love obsession post Victorian era. It sounds like you're more concerned that the more productive gender will lose some of their motivation to be the mouse in the spinning wheel powering civilisation than whether it is wrong to fill up boys heads with fantasies that may be only actualised by a minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:19 AM
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I don't know why women here seem to be against a lot of men coming to this conclusion? This would destroy the nice guy syndrome which is a universal positive. No one like a naive man who believed in corny "true love" tropes. You gotto measure up and work for it. Love with women is transactional and conditional. Applies to men as well, but probably less so. Romantic love is just a form of emotional labour men do to get women feeling all fuzzy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:18 AM
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The truth that isn't the fantasy we sell to little boys who eventually become naive nice guys who believe true love and that theres a soul mate for everyone is real is dehumanising?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:09 AM
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Pretty much my opinion aswell. I think more men getting into this mindset will save them from the nice guy syndrome abd being constantly disappointed by unreciprocated love. Realising this is apart of growing as a man. More women should be encouraging average guys to embrace this mindset since women find them so unappealing until they prove themselves like utility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:07 AM
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They act like they're still in their 20s and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:25 PM
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For real. They take instant attraction for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:45 AM
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Yeah. I went out with women who had a mixed race fetish. I even pretended I was Brazilian at one point to impress some girl who was really into Brazilian culture and men. Yes, it was cringy but I got I laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:28 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:41 AM
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Nah, average
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:43 AM
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Yep. My life is testament to that. Yet people keep trying to pressure me to reconnect. Nah, I'm staying away from those human shaped viruses. Nothing good can cone out of reconnecting with people who have such a disregard for your emotional and mental wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:10 AM
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She looks like one of the Wachowski sister post transition. Either way, theyres both looksmatched Edit: Specifically Lana
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:02 AM
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Basically how my older feminist sisters raised me after being treated badly by our patriarchal father. Literally penalising the next generation for the crimes of the older generation. Let's just say theres a reason I don't have much of a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:26 AM
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You give me hope. I've just recently got out of a pretty bad mental illness episode that lasted for 5 years and I'm kind of feeling disillusioned after realising people my age were getting their shit together whilst I was having my mental health problems. I'm not bad looking and Ive recently gone to dating event which confirms I still have some looks left and I havent hit the wall yet, but my social skills and my financial position has taken a dive. But knowing there are women who might give me …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:37 AM
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Monica is a whole package kind of girl. You can't just look at her face, she'd got an OK face but her body carries the weight, so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:01 AM
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That's because having casual sex as a man is about 10 times as hard as getting casual sex as a woman. If having sex as a woman was just as hard as it is for men, you'd probably be getting high 5s aswell. People naturally complement people who achieve something special and getting laid as man, especially if youre not Chad is in that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:19 AM
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Millenials were getting some crazy feminist propaganda throughout media about how hard it is to be a woman and men were privileged oppressors until the backlash started at around 2015 and ramped up until today. There's a reason why the counter culture was so anti feminist during that period.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:17 AM
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You're black aren't you? Would you want to deal with constantly being seen as a threat and having a likely chance of being stopped by the police and even going to prison for something harmless? Would you want to deal with extreme masculinity standards that black men face?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:59 AM
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No you're right, I made a bad argument then and I agree with your point that OP made a bad argument. Im just continuing the discussion that perhaps OP should have went. If you don't want to continue with the discussion and see it merely as a rant, then that's your prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:20 AM
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So edgy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:54 AM
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Feminism is a broad church and has an uncanny ability to absorb fringe movements within its lower ranks if theres enough support. There will be a time when the retrograde opinions of its adherents when it comes to the topic of dating and relationships and masculinity will be baked into the ideology, probably in some form of 5th wave liberal feminism since even progressive women cannot seem to move on from male gender roles and the appeal of narrow/toxic masculinity. OP may be wrong today, but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:50 AM
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The middle esst is not polygamous. Only a minority, maybe at most 10 percent of men in war torn areas pf the middle east partake in polygamy. The most polygamous societies are in central Africa where polygamy is often blamed for civil strife and regional wars between clans.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:26 AM
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Feminists should be concerned about how much of its adherents are giving feminism a bad name though. I honestly think this widespread hypocrisy to disregard male liberation and the impact of the reinforcement of male gender roles in the courting process by many progressive women who believe in the appeal to nature fallacy and retrograde male gender roles when it benefits them is partly what led to the backlash against feminism which has only become greater in recent years. You can't sell an ideo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:22 AM
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She's a hypocrite and ideologically inconsistent, which many feminists I know are, especially pertaining to areas of life where retrograde expectations arent as harmful to women. There are many Feminists who follow the tenets of Feminism in their social lives where they see benefit, whilst casting aside feminism where they see traditional gender roles and expectations being beneficial to their preferences. It's the no true Scotsman all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:52 AM
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I think a lot of young feminists hold onto very contradictory opinions, and most of it is as a result of many women treating feminism as a self empowerment movement and not an all-encompassing ideology that has many things to say about male gender roles and even the importance of male liberation in the wider effort to completely disassemble the patriarchy. OP is wrong in saying that Feminism holds redpill positions about dating that appeals to nature fallacy and male gender roles but I've seen c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:32 AM
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You're talking about standards that existed 20 years ago and maybe in some conservative rural parts of the west today. Being a slut is socially acceptable, nothing wrong with it unless you've made some poor decision and had a kid out of wedlock or have a multitude of incurable STDs. Most men who do dislike sluts have to deal with it and cope because the truth no one's knows your past except yourself and any man who questions your sexual experience will come of as insecure which is anti masculine…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:39 AM
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It's not just about looks, but the requirement for performance masculinity and high competency. You almost have to be the complete package ubermench to date a lot of women. Have high confidence, funny, good looking , high emotional intelligence, good job whilst the girl is offering not much, and maybe in some cases just her looks and maybe the next date. As one of the female posters here said, men tolerate mediocrity in women but women do not tolerate mediocrity in men and that's why dating suck…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:17 AM
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With the exception of guys from the urban areas of the middle east or Europe, most immigrants do badly here. The cultural differences is just too great for these guys to transition to dating Sheila's. Most end up becoming the number one clientele of brothels around Australia until they find a girl from their community or their homeland. Actually as a mixed race guy who can sometimes pass as one of these ethnicities, my dating chances has been affected detrimentally since the immigration boom of …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:19 PM
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Young men are starting to get the "Be attractive/Don't be attractive" rule of cold approaching. Only a minority of men can pull of the cold approach without getting thousands of no or having their reputation or mental health ruin by character assassinatinmon by women who are insulted that ugly or average looking guy with bad social skills would dare to ask them out. There are better ways to approach women for most men. As they say, it's insanity to do one thing constantly and expect a different …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:59 PM
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Moral of the story...lie to women if you just want to get inside their pants
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:54 PM
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Im a late millenial or Zillenial(29) and certainly dealt with those standards though. I think theres a bit of a recency bias at work since it's been quite a few years the bulk of millenials were at that age range. I remember being told I was too short by a couple of girls when I was 20 because I was about 5'10" and it was a common theme that men under 6 foot or 5'10 were going to find dating difficult. But it does get better the older you get though. I think young girls have always had pretty in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:18 AM
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What feminists parrot as a part of their ideology does not usually translate to what they do or who they may prefer in their personal lives. Take it from a guy with sisters who were third wave feminists but whose dating lives mirrored that of the average girl enamoured by traditional masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:17 AM
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As Ive already said, Ive battled anxiety all my life and the one thing I've noticed in my relationship and dating journey is that when my anxiety becomes too high, I do find it hard to channel the masculine and thats when I start have problems attracting women. Even my brother notices it when we go out to meet women at a bar. Masculinity is a mindset that men must incorporate into their personality or else you'll find it difficult to attract most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:33 AM
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But these are apart of prevailing trends of normie women preferring hypermasculinity/trad masculinity. Gang members who get a lot of Attention from women are an extreme manifestation of this preference but it is still apart of the trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:07 AM
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Someone with a lactation fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:43 PM
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Well then we agree, many women do behave this way and men must tolerate it because dating is a market dictated by women for the vast majoroty of men. Nice to get that confirmation, but it still isn't nice. No one likes having their character questioned or assissinated because of I'll feelings. That's why libel lawsuits exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:57 AM
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Well we weren't "staring" but observing. Like quick glances and we were pretty near where they were so we heard everything. It's what we do, also we have a few players in the group who can school some of the inexperienced boys about their approach and help them out. This was a few years back when I was clubbing regularly. Either way, I've seen women casually character assassinating guys who approached them respectfully. There are many shitty women out there. Women aren't angels or morally superi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:42 AM
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No they do, the boys in my group usually are there when a guy tries to make a move and we watch tentatively. We saw him ask the girl out pretty respectfully, although he was 5 foot 7 so maybe his height wasn't respectful enough for some of these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:34 AM
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Calling a man a "nice guy" or creep is Character assassination, especially if he doesn't display "Nice guy" traits like most men in my experience who are called Nice guy after approaching some girl respectfully
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:43 AM
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Thanks alot u/LockedDownHalfGuard, you've messed it up for the rest of us. She probably told the female hivemind what you've done and scared all the girls from approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:39 AM
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Nothing wrong with being shallow, just don't casually character assassinate a man because you don't want to seem shallow to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:18 AM
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This right here. Being nice is for the boys and my clients. The girls I'm interested in are not to be treated nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:10 AM
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It is either a neutral or negative trait. Ive never heard women passionately talking about their men and bring up how nice he is. As a man who is casting the widest net as possible, being nice is no doubt a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:00 AM
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You forgot the third option, the women who are being honest and not facetious and are actually not attracted to nice men who have failed to demonstrate having an edge or traditional machismo. There are women, like my sister who can't stand men who aren't masculine and edgy. She gets bored with nice men. Nice men are boring and predictable , and lots of young women would prefer a man with an edge, even if it comes with risks. Dating success shouldn't be a motivation to be nice or good as a man be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:45 AM
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Mashallah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:32 AM
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My pallette is so hard to accommodate. I've never liked any of my previous partners cooking. Something was always off
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:14 AM
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If youre single after your early 30s, you're pretty much going to have to mate poach or else resign yourself to some pretty low quality mate options. Sometimes I wonder what would of happened if I didn't have morals and partake in an affair of some of the attractive mid 30s married girls who were into me and who lived in my densely packed neighbourhood ? I doubt it would have lasted though. I
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:09 AM
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My jawline was my best feature. I was handsome in my early 20s, pretty much Chadlite before weight gain and stress and normal late 20s aging ruined it for me. Although hopefully I can improve my facial aesthetics even if I won't look like I did at 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:06 AM
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Any fit guy here went from 20 percent bf to 12 percent? How was your face gains? I wanna get my early 20s strong jawline and strong chin back. My lower face is a bit rounded as a result of letting myself go a little. Im 5'11 and 83 kg. I have a strong man figure, I do PPL and I'm planning on losing the weight through cycling and a moderate calorie deficit. Ive already lost 4 kgs. I just wanna know if the face gains were dramatic and do you think the extra effort was worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:49 AM
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Or Ice "Cop Killer" T playing a cop on Law and Order for 10 years after making a career out of demonising the police in his music. There's plenty of examples of gangster rap stars mellowing out with age in the most strangest of ways. It isn't just Snoop
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:11 PM
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Rock is no longer apart of the cultural zeitgeist. Im very much aware Rock music is still made and concerts sell out. I'm into Taureg, Nu metal and Indie rock myself. But it has lost cultural relevancy and it isn't the voice of a generation anymore. I see more 30+ people at a rock concerts these days than those under 24 and rock seems to be catered towards affluent boomers and millenials with their ticket prices and not poor gen Zers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:00 PM
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I still find it jarring seeing these aging gangster rap stars of the 90s and 00s doing commercials and afternoon talk show interviews with some conservative 60 year old woman who probably would have wrote a scathing article about how rap was destroying the youth when they were at their peaks. Rap artists going from edgy culturally transgressive icons to mainstream backgrounds noise is a big surprise. I guess this is what gen X punk rockers experienced too. Music subcultures that are no longer co…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:44 PM
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That's life of the chronically socially anxious. Moments like those just fuels my will to fix brain and rewire my nervous system so I can be the person I used to be
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:46 AM
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That's just one sick fetish popular among the Arab rich, there are others...like vomit play
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:03 AM
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It's short to zoomie and late millenial girls in Australia. 6 foot is the cuttoff these days
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:01 AM
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Never date girls with Dubai in their instagram travel logs. Alot of things go down in Dubai that'll make American sugar daddies look like angels. I remember being friends with some Arab guy from the UAE who was in my course and because he thought I was an Arab like him with problematic views of women, he showed me all of his dirty pics of rando I Instagram girls he used to pay to fuck him and do some weird acts together in his families palace as a flex. And man, they were pretty horrid pictures.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:37 AM
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Im 5 '10.5" man and Ive been called short by women. Feels bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:44 AM
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And he was a short king as well at 5'10". Proof face > height after a certain height
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:40 AM
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I wonder if theyre going to start releasing limited licenses in order to talk about dating woes. It'll be 200 dollar yearly subscription just to cry on twitter about not getting a date or else to the Gaol you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:37 AM
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Let's be honest here, only an over previleged upper middleclass woman who has never been humbled in their life can pull off something like Dr Raygun in the Olympics. This is the natural consequence of a certain type of woman never being criticised and always being uplifted by simps and enablers throughout their life until reality hits them. And shes playing victim now on Tiktok, claiming sexism because people dare to criticise her performance. The next worst performance in recent Olympic history…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:32 AM
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I wish you kept your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:42 PM
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I'd invite some vampire fetishists over and profit from this woman's blatant lack of hygiene
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:41 PM
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Preferably the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:32 PM
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What are some of the weirdest beliefs that you have but which you would never share irl despite believing in it wholeheartedly? For me, its definitely UFOs. I really do think we are in an intergalactic Zoo and those UFO drones that defy normal laws of aerodynamics when they stalk our air forces fighter jets are sent by some interdimensional or extraterrestrial civilisation to observe the herd and our technological progress. I feel like once we cross a technological threshold, something major wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:19 PM
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Yeah. Definately. Any man who suffer from anxiety other mental health issues will know that they tend to not get much attention or attraction to women when their anxiety shows through their body language. My little brother is a huge player, and has been with partners in the triple digits but he's been going through mental health issues as a result of a double whammy of a bankruptcy caused by bad business deals during the pandemic and finding out his longterm gf cheated on him, and the guy is sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:44 AM
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I don't think women in Australia are getting their rocks off with Male immigrants with problematic views of women and a culture where dating is taboo and inexperience is the norm. But I do think Asian migration did lead to many Australian born guys preferring Asian women over natives considering a quarter of my class mates were Hapas with white fathers and first gen mothers from China/Vietnam/Malaysia. Id say because women don't usually date socio economically disadvantaged male migrants whilst …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:36 AM
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Im not downplaying my sister becoming a doctor. Im proud of her for reaching her goals. Im just saying, just because you're super educated does not make you entitled to the top tier of men. That's not sexist, most successful men date down or at their level. Lots of successful women still expect to date men at their level or above it when it comes to socioeconomics and education, when the pool of high status men is so limited. Women have torn down gender roles for themselves and become boss babe'…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:17 AM
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My sister emotionally abused me when I was 17 and was mentally unstable and has a God complex like many doctors. Maybe my negative feeling towards her filtered through my comment. I haven't spoken to her for 7 years. I really dont like her, but I can also acknowledge the growth she went through in her dating life moving pass her shallow standards of her 20s and finally finding happiness in her mid 30s with an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:11 AM
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Women are empathetic towards children and pets, not towards stranger men or even the men in their lives. Any man after the age of 16 will know this. Like seriously some of the worst emotional abuse I've experienced were from my female relatives and siblings after I officially became a man to them. I know so many men whove noticed tgat change in treatment from the women in their lives crossing from Childhood to adolescence. The transition does hurt, and when you start to feel disposable as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:00 AM
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Psycho incels maybe and probably a few insecure conservative male chauvinists. But most men dgaf about women's success in their lives until it means they overinflate their dating preferences like as if having a Phd in African dance entitles them to Chad doctors. It would be nice if women can succeed in their lives without needing to feel like it makes them superior to the average man to the point where high earning women cannot date down because they still hold onto male gendered expectations, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:55 AM
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Being nice isn't going to get you laid, it's at best a expected trait for partners to have if you're a well adjusted woman(lots of women arent).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:39 AM
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I'd wear a condom. Going raw without getting tested is also pretty stupid. Why is PPD so against safe sex? You guys do realise STD rates are sky-rocketing? Stop valuing pussy over your health dumb simps
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:20 AM
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Maybe 6 longterm partners. But every semi attractive girl and above I've known had a hoe period.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:47 PM
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Especially considering our culture gives then such huge leeway to be that way. Ive been height shamed because I'm 5'10", but according to PPd girls, that never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:04 PM
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How would you feel about AI porn then? Is it in the same category as smutt since these women don't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:28 PM
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I didn't they're disgusted by my sex(nice personal dig BTW petty mofo), but they look down on male sexuality as being inherently depraved, shallow or predatory instead of something that is beautiful. Our culture does its hardest to downplay or demonise male sexuality and women will pick up on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:10 PM
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You know youre losing the argument when you resort to personal attacks. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:04 PM
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Uh no one's talking about you darling, we are talking about womens lack of sex game in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:24 PM
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The vast majority of western women have more sexual experience than the average man or any generation of women yet that isn't helping them develop their sex game. Women still have undeveloped sex game. Sex game requires an actual interest to improve and to observe and appreciate male sexuality instead of treating it with disgust or indifference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:10 PM
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You conform to beauty standards to increase your pool of attractive men, not to get good at sex.. Getting good at sex is learning how to give oral the right way, learning about prostate play, nipple play, kissing mens bodies, being sexually aggressive at the right moment, learning not to grind our dicks like it's a plastic dildo. Id probably met 2 women out of my 8 previous sexual partners who did any of these. Most women have pretty basic sex game or it's non existent because most men are despe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:42 PM
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Nah, I'm still looking for the Switch unicorn who will complement me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:26 PM
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Ive done drugs,(although not anymore) and yeah, the hierarchy of sexual pleasure is a thing. Having great sex is like the first time doing cannabis or MDMA and it being the most memorable moment of your life or year vs being a cannabis user for years and taking a hit of mediocre weed and having a slight high that never really hits and getting the anxious lows aswell. Not all moments of Cumming are built equal yet many women seem to think just because a man cums, it means he must have enjoyed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:15 PM
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Yeah I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:45 PM
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Nah, I experienced it during and after the sex. I'm an athiest and I have no trouble having my rocks off as a switch into light bdsm with an enthusiastic partner. It just felt underwhelming, like I was doing a chore having vanilla sex with women who constantly expected me to perform while they laid there. . Doing all the work sucks man, and having performance anxiety when your partner ain't trying also sucks. I like enthusiastic women who are into experimentation and role switching.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:44 PM
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When I wasnt sexless depressive in my early 20s, I used to remember having sex with these women who were terrible at sex and expected me to do most of the work. I still came because Im not a 40 year old with ED, but I didn't feel particularly great afterwards. Turns out you can cum as a man and still dont enjoy the sex. It was worse than masturbation for me. Just no real excitement or the afterglow sex feeling that makes your day feel great. You just feel disgusted by yourself that you put a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:33 PM
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Stupid men do oral without getting the girl tested. If I were to do Oral, it wouldn't be in the context of a casual relationship, only longterm of if she gets tested and it's a fwb situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:24 PM
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Meth dens
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:22 PM
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Being in love is rare. It's better to have the next best thing if you can't capture lightning in a bottle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:17 PM
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Yep. I think it destroys that rosy view of love we all have when we are young and increases your anxiety if you happen to be apart of the majority that needs to work to be considered mate material. I can totally see why the older men in my family have a "women ain't shit, stop believing in fairy tales" attitude to relationships. Romance and lust without painstaking work is the domain of women and lucky minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:00 PM
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So many women marry just as they lose their youth and beauty too. Being marriage material for most men is not being good enough when shes at her physical peak which is always important for a man, but just as she starts to her slow descent into menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:31 AM
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Probably because he thought she was the best he can attract as he was approaching late 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:12 AM
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I wouldn't say revenge. Most men arent that petty unless theyre straigt up incels or Tate wannabees. But I do think their experiences harden their hearts enough that they lose a bit of humanity towards the women they date and have relationships with and they become cynical about the idea of love. They do act lot more coldly and transactional towards women and are probably more likely to monkey branching in their 30s. My older cousin is one of those late bloomers and he is pretty ruthless to wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:31 AM
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Serial monogamy will help with that. Most women might be in relationships with an attractive guy for a few years, until the guy gets bored or has the lingering eye for another or until the woman gets tired of being a perpetual placeholder. There's going to be millions of Elon Musks lite with multiple baby mommas. We already have a precursor to rabid serial monogamy. It's called the situationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:10 AM
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The ick is a worse fate than being a masculine attractive abuser. Don't get the ick because to women, your probably far worse than an actual abuser who makes her cum. That's why I dont think men should worry too much about morality when it comes to women. Be responsible but also have an edge. Dont get carried away with being a nice guy. A nice guy without a spine is worse than a thug who beats women but knows how to be attractive. Women can forgive a thug but they can't forgive weakness in men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:02 AM
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Maybe that would be the case if everyone were in long-term monogamous relationships that'll last till middle age. But enough women and the top 20 percent of men practice serial monogamy that can probably explain why there are more men who are lonely than wonen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:58 AM
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Boss babe's are based
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:10 PM
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Unfortunately, female culture for the under 35 crowd is big on getting university degrees, boss babe shiz and upping their aesthetic game which is good, but not much on upgrading their personalities. Men kind of get it that most interesting, charming and funniest guys get laid and attract others to their orbit yet women don't get those same incentives to focus their energies on improving their personalities until they're older. Younger women aren't punished as much as average men for being too b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:37 AM
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Don't forget mental strength, especially for a man. I went to an elite selective school just like most of my cousins, I was attractive and was going to become a lawyer but mental health, specifically PTSD messed me up in my early to mid 20s. All those qualities don't matter if you can't deal with the stresses of life. As a man you are expected to have your shit together and be able to shoulden the emotional burdens of others, and yet when you fall, the world won't care. In fact, other men, your …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:22 AM
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PPD is gaslight town. Like I understand why incel rhetoric gets disrespected here, but things like young women intolerance of male vulnerability has been a hallmark of the young male relationship experience since we were living in caves. It does get better as you get older and women grow up a little, but to say this isn't a problem is bizarre. There's a narrow line between weakness and the ick....and being appropriately emotionally vulnerable as a man, and that line gets pretty blurry when you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:16 AM
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As the Greeks say, women are for children and sex, men are for love..... But no seriously, there's a tricky balance. You can't be too emotionally vulnerable, but you need to let her have a little peek into the hole of your 20 feet wall defense so she knows your human and not a total sociopath. Also, young women are really bad at determining what is weakness and what is appropriate emotional vulnerability for a man, and once she gets the ick, it's difficult to reverse it, so I'd just keep it at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:03 AM
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Have fun lying about your life to others online just to support a shitty argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:35 AM
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You're the one stereotyping millions of lonely men because of your limited experience with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:31 AM
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Sounds like it never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:01 AM
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OP sounds like he's on the precipice of going through the stages of grief as a male feminist ally figuring out how hypocritical most feminist women are in their personal lives. He might resign himself to enlightened egalitarianism or one of the pills if he goes down the dark path. Don't worry bud, all of us former millenial male feminists went through the same thing in our adolescence when we figured out what the average "feminist" woman really wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:07 PM
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The problem is theres so many types of feminism that clash with other types of feminism. I mean to one feminist, a woman who believes she doesn't have to abide by gender roles yet expect her partners to be in line with masculine gender roles and expectations is an empowered woman practising her choice to mate with who she wants. Yet to another feminist, she's enabling the patriarchy and a hypocrite. Theres no one overarching ideology within feminism. Feminism is a female identitarian movement to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:52 PM
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And affluent software engineering types
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:23 PM
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When Ukraine loses this war, which they will, you're going to be looking at a very unstable situation with all these PTSD ridden, disabled and mentally broken guys coming back to their lives resented by the few women who will stay in Ukraine for losing the war while having diminished marriage prospects compared to the average drafting dodger
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:12 PM
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I'd probably get her an opal ring because I like opals. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:01 PM
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This is why I agree with redpillers when it comes to the importance of frame to a certain extent. Every man has their individual icks that could be just a manifestation of them being imperfect individuals but which will be detrimental in a romantic context. It's easy to lose attraction than to gain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:15 PM
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Maybe 20 years ago, but Thailand is very much a successful middle income country. Maybe Cambodia
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:14 AM
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Swim the Mississippi River naked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:01 AM
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I was drunk and going through a druggie phase
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:42 AM
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Ive had some bad pizzas that I've regretted eating just like I've had some pretty bad sex. Hell I once ate out a girl with a yeast infection when I was 20 and I threw up for a whole day. Women can be shitty lays, have bad breaths, or just act weird during sex. But that's just me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:12 AM
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That sounds very healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:03 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:01 AM
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Sounds like you need to get something off your chest. Spit it out, whos this man who made you feel bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:56 AM
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Then when the relationship ends, they're surprised that they have no friends whilst their ex wives who maintained her prior friendships are reaping the reward and going out with attractive guys connected to their friends network while he is jerking off alone in a studio apartment. Men need to stop putting all their eggs in one basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:52 AM
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Im starting to think fuccbois who need to have sex with different women every month or week are attracted to the chase or validation than the actual sex itself. I mean how great can casual sex be with a girl you barely know and doesn't even know your kinks, preferences or which positions suits your and hers unique body dimensions? Casual sex with a girl for the first few times is rarely great, good sex requires practice, trust, emotional connection, knowledge of your partners body and preference…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:52 AM
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My TMS nurse and psychiatrist suggested that type of therapy to me but it is expensive. How many times in a month do you go therapy? Does EMDR necessitate frequent weekly visits?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:38 AM
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Your place in the hierarchy I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:24 AM
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Does it actually help? Im thinking of going back to therapy to deal with historic ptsd but Im not sure if Im just throwing away 300 dollars a session just to ruminate further about the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:22 AM
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Pretty much. Women like OP reinforce toxic stereotypes about women. I can imagine this is in the same vein of thinking as someone claiming that if your man is not passionate enough to hurt you physically or emotionally when there's conflict, he doesn't really love you at all because he's not behaving like he's got skin in the game. This kind of thinking, where men don't respect the wishes of women as a demonstration of their passionate love, drive and commitment is very prevalent belief in the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:48 AM
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Embrace the Homoromantic. Reject Heteronormative culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:19 PM
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I know it's not intentional, but this is a funny thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:09 PM
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It's depends on the age range. Women under 30 might not actually like a single dad as a partner and may see his duties to his kids as potential obstacles to having a fun young relationship. Women over 30 do change and may prefer more of the stability and proof of parental investment that a single father demonstrates. You won't be seeing too many young childless women who are into young dads unless he's Chad. Children get in the way of the average young woman's lifestyle expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:45 PM
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I guess are well crafted personas are our makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:45 AM
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Nah that's just prostitution with extra steps. Nobody enjoys getting shit on by some sheikh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:34 AM
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Really? I thought most western countries aside from Eastern Europe have as much casual sex as Americans? Italy had their sexual revolution too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:25 AM
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I think the green card system is far more open to abuse in America than in countries like Australia ir Europe, so maybe that explains the loss of appeal of America for prospective foreign spouses. Nobody wants to be in limbo for years just because their American partners do not want to make it official for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:20 AM
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If a woman is comfortable enough to discuss her sex life with a male friend, does that mean she sees you as a gay friend, or she doesn't respect t you enough to respect normal male-female boundaries or is she trying to make you jealous?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:09 PM
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I think the average man figures out by the time he is 25 that women give pretty worthless platitudes. Most sane men look at women actions far more than their words. Women's hollow platitudes and empty words only serve to muddy waters. It's not for our feelings. I think if women really cared about men, they'd be more honest so those on the spectrum or neurodivergent can get the message instead of believing women's hollow words and causing more heart ache when they inevitably fail. So hopefully th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:41 PM
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Same situation as you bro. I also miss having a relationship but my mental health is such a huge ick for women and an obstacle to relationships that I havent had one since my PTSD had such a hold on me. Sex without love is marginally better than masturbation anyways. It's the connection and physically intimacy that you have with someone you love that I miss the most. There is such a huge expectation for men to perform and have his shit together for relationships that its leaving those with emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:37 AM
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Theres lactose free option tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:37 AM
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It should be easy for you muricans. In Australia, obesity is mainly relegated to the 35+ age group whilst younger men all wanna become like Zyzz and be shredded. But in America, men who are in the prime of their life are obese. According to the logic, you just have to put a year of effort into the gym and seem normal and you're in the top 30 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:20 PM
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Take a camping trip to bear country and let her know what living with a bear really is like. Nothing better than life experience to correct a wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:05 PM
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I pretty much water fasted for a month to lose 20kg that I gained when I was on SSRIs when I was 23. I ate nothing and drank only snake juice for 30 days. I was in Ketosis for 28 days. If you have the will, there's a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:56 PM
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Ill be touching a few broken bottlez over the weekend once the inevitable bar fight happens with my lil bro who's going through a mental health crisis and needs to punch someone to relieve his stress yet will never tell me what's going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:33 PM
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Just steal it when he's not looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:30 PM
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Im so jelly of Americans. Step outside of the main cities of Australia and aside from beautigul beaches and the few areas that record reliable rain fall , we just have sparse bushland choking in clay soil or thirsty looking forests. Our answer to the majestic Grand canyon is a giant pebble called Uluru.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:30 PM
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I havent drank soda for 2 years. I don't even know what Mountain Dew tastes like anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:25 PM
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They're genetic freaks, they'd probably be jacked either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:54 PM
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I see it in my gym and when I used to work in an office
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:47 PM
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Yeah, I agree. But most men won't treat ugly girls with hostility, more indifference, like how they treat most men. Although they do treat beautiful women better. Ive seen women treat short or unattractive men with hostility like they had an incurable virus or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:27 PM
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Indian guys are just catching all these stray bullets from women. Tsk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:21 PM
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There's a lot of gaslighting when it comes to women. I was formerly attractive and now just average as a result of late 20s aging and having a pretty stressful few years, and man, the difference in treatment was astounding. Just general treatment from women. Not even in a dating context. Women, in some respect are just far more shallow than men in how they treat men based on where they are on the attraction heirarchy. Ive never treated anyone as differently according to their looks as women will…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:24 AM
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Always listen to the marxist in the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:18 AM
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So, the important question of the year: Do you think Drake really is a paedophile?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:00 AM
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I grew up thinking all my uncles and aunties were happily married which was the impression I got as a kid. Then I became an adult, and my uncle told me the truth. Half of the men were cheating and a few of my married aunts who had careers and businesses were playing the field and wanted to divorce their husbands when they found a guy who was better. It could just be my family who's a bit dysfunctional(a likely reason), but from my own experience, it's more true than false.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:40 AM
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Im a former muslim and one of the best things that religion did for me was to disallow me from drinking alcohol. I don't drink at all and I am thankful for that, especially seeing how much my paternal uncle nearly died of alcohol related illnesses recently. And I get to save my money and spend it on far more interesting things....like drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:39 PM
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I think the porn free to reborn Evangelical fundementalist crazy pipeline has just been discovered.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:24 PM
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Hahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:21 PM
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Women who are for the sexual free market are like capitalists who are for the free market until they need government intervention to decrease natural monopolies and competition that eats into profit margins. They're for free market when it convenient, and are pro intervention when it's convenient. True free markets are inherently brutal for most parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:39 PM
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Ive rejected fat and ugly women all the time, despite being sexless for 6 months. I think past the perpetually horny periods of adolescence, most dignified men will be a bit choosy about their sexual partners. But less so than women in their age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:04 PM
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But you might actually want t to stop being a degenerate manchild one day, and having HIV would mess up your chances of attracting women who are interested in a LTR and a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:26 PM
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Bro needs to gtfo of that relationship. She's going to chip him eventually while he sleeps like a dog and watch his every movement. Some of those women are toxic asf a d might actually be the main problem in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:01 PM
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Hearing about how dating was for my uncles before the advent of OLD, I think Online dating has had a catastrophic impact on men culturally and psychologically. Id imagine the problems men have would be less if we didn't have the Match group warping how women see the average man. My uncle, who is a 5 foot 6 immigrant, had no problems bedding women and having fulfilling relationships in his youth, even when he was job insecure. Now his son who unfortunately inherited his height but is a mechanical…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:15 PM
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Jaw shaving is a thing in Korea where men who are too masculine looking shave parts of their jaw bone to get the Kpop feminine pretty boy look. The kpop look doesn't just requure makeup but surgery too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:54 AM
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It might start being a requirement though, especially with how male attractiveness has become far more important as male wages decrease relative to women and women dont rate the average as attractive. I can totally see gen Alpha guys start wearing makeup when they're older.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:51 AM
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Maybe in America, the land of the lard. But Cops in Australia have pretty strict physical standards. The girl cops Ive seen are gymthot hot. They've got the hot and intimidating combo that makes me weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:30 PM
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I just went to a pull gym session after a 45km bike ride in the 2 °C winter cold. Doing this for 6 month better give me some results. Doing heavy cardio and heavy lifting is torture. My body feels like it's been stomped and ripped apart by an elephant as I lay in my bed for another psycho shift with my bipolar schitz client. Those abs better be poppin by summer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:19 PM
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You just have to be attractive and have advanced levels of social skills to pull it off. No biggie
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:14 PM
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But they're fit, and that automatically adds 2 points.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:13 PM
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Do men who aren't incels still see wonen with kinks as being a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:52 PM
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This. Sexual compatibility is important, not just for women but for men. Id probably see a chick who looked down on men with subby tendencies(Im a dom/sub switch) as only fwb material if I was dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:51 PM
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Falling in love and having a relationship is a lot simpler when you're a teenager. Savour these cute moments with your gf. They'll be harder to come by when you enter your late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:40 PM
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Sex with someone else you love is ofcourse is going to be the greatest thing ever. But how many people are in loving relationships and not just settling? How many people are in situationships? Let me tell you, having sex with a woman you don't love is marginally better than masturbation. Im guessing only a minority of people are actually in love. Most people are in loveless marriages or have passed the honeymoon periods and are glorified room mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:20 AM
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Im a late millenial/Early gen Z(Zillenial I guess), and Ive seen drastic changes in how many young men see women in the last 10 years. OLD has really changed things for average guys, and mostly for the worse. I definitely think the death of romantic love will be faster than that. Especially with the upcoming AI hollowing of the working and lower middleclasses. Men will soon see how disposable they are when there aren't any way to improve their station in life unlike the older generation of men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:12 AM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:29 AM
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Over the years as a battle with my own demons and shed my conservative upbringing and toxic people in my own life, Im slowly reaching the same conclusion as the OP, but you've put it so succinctly. Great thread. Its one of the few highlight threads on PPD that isn't just worthless circlejerking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:02 AM
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You're a good man OP I'd give you an award if I wasnt a stingy guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:57 AM
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Yeah, tell me about. I've had emotionally abusive sisters who destroyed my self esteem and spilled kerosene into my pre existing mental health issues as a teenager that led to severe disassociation and ptsd anxiety 15 years ago. And those sisters still downplay it. Men's Violence is often physical and the emotional abuse that women can wrought on others, especially those you trust can create scars that can last a lifetime. Emotional abuse can be just as destructive as physical abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:32 PM
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These men don't understand that women are just as shallow as men and have a sexual caste system that often affects how you are treated by women in general. If you don't want to be the equivalent of a Dalit to women, don't be an ugly guy, upgrade your looks through any means possible with minimal personality and social aptitude improvement and you won't be treated like a danger sign. Go to the gym, have surgery, get a hair transplant and dress well and you'll see an improvement in how wonen treat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:03 PM
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Yeah. Nah. You guys have it bad. It's marginally better in Europe, Canada and Australia. But the US is pretty much ground zero for shitty dating dynamics for men. Everyman has to be a passport bro, even just go on Holidays and see how other women behave. It is an eye opener. Even going to some urban Americana wannabee city in Eastern Europe is better than the average East coast city. I used to travel as young guy amd American women were pretty materialistic. Although all women are, but the extre…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:43 PM
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Pretty much. The system is working as intended. As a man, ypu have to accept there is a sexual caste system that women subconsciously enforce. When I was a good looking guy, girls everywhere were pretty friendly towards me, smiling at me in the trainstation and in classes. Relationships were pretty easy to get into as a younger guy with pretty boy looks. Plenty of doors opened for me. I didn't know how rare this was until I noticed how resentful guys around me were seeing girls treat me pretty n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:38 PM
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Are you a gay man by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:24 PM
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Im not American, Im Australian. I work in the NDIS
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:00 PM
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I help disadvantaged people access services like psychologists or specialist doctors, and I also provide emotional support. I also do a lil Child protection on the side, observing mothers with their kids who are stuck in the system give my findings to the committee who decide if negligent mothers can have custody of their kids. Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:57 PM
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Social worker
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:52 PM
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My client(Bipolar, semi homeless, former stacy before drugs ruined her), kept talking about her sex life and how good she is in bed with her current partner for an hour in the car. Im kinda desperate for hours since men are discriminated in pink collar industries and she's nuts, but fuck me, getting to know the meth addict stacies sex life for 50 dollars an hours is probably worth the cost/reward after working in the indentured slavery of the meat industry. Gotto grind it till next year when I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:48 PM
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Women n count can probably be equivalent to men's self reported penis size studies. They're rarely based in reality. We delude ourselves about the size of our peckers as women delude themselves about the number of sexual partners they have because it threatens their own sense of ideal masculinity and femininity. Unless an AI drone can follow a woman through her sexually active periods of her life, and tally the number of sex acts women do, even those they don't see at the time as a sex act. Or p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:08 PM
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All I'm saying is there are valid reasons for men to blame women for how constricted many men feel in relationships and dating, almost like they're being put into a mould to try to appeal to the average western woman who subscribe to many aspects of male gender roles and heteronormative masculine expectations. It doesn't help that lib feminism that has been all the rage in the last 30 years has only enabled this double standard in the guise of empowering women and their choices which often leads…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:57 AM
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Im not saying feminism is the enemy, Im saying women have these expectations irrespective of ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:37 AM
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Muscular girls with a bit of fat/curve and c cup boobies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:35 AM
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Anyone who's been in a relationship with the average Woman will know that the biggest source of pressure that men face to conform to narrow gender roles and expectations no longer come from their friends or family, but the women they're dating and having relationships with, even those who proclaim themselves as progressive. There is absolutely justifiable reason for men to criticise women when it comes to enforcing or incentivising sexist and restrictive gender roles and masculine expectations f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:27 AM
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Lots of women are great at putting up a veneer of confidence and security, but most young girls insecure as fuck. Especially when they're with the guy of their dreams. Don't underestimate the average young woman's willingness to put up with unacceptable behaviour from attractive guys. Trust me, I have a family full of "strong women" who seem to always get into shitty relationships with men. It does get better when they're older.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:50 PM
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This is basically me, but swap getting a phd with having a sound mind. I have PTSD and my relationships with women have always been complicated by mental health issues, since even the feminist women I dated expect men to be stoics and their emotional rocks and have over time grown to expect me to fulfill trad masculine expectations. Shit tests when having PTSD ain't fun, but that's what every woman seem to do in a relationship. Ive met some really great and empathetic women that I've vibes with,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:38 PM
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Dont expect sympathy from Western women, they want t the gravy train to continue. Another worthless debate that hinges on the antipathetic party to consider the feelings of those they exploit without a thought. PPD women are very good at justifying inequities that benevits them if it's rooted in biology but will cry bloody murder if men did the same, and will use movements and laws to alter society to lessen the natural inequalities that women face. Just do what you need to so to be in an advant…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:22 AM
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I trim my hair. Never shave bald or else I feel like a prebuscent child
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:44 PM
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Some of the best moments Ive had were random adventures whilst under the influence of psycheledelics, going to a mates house and randomly ending up in a small bar chatting up with a few guys with interesting life stories or witnessing a talented musician on the up in a small popup at a bar. That beats me spending thousands of dollars on holidays and "experiences". Travelling has always been overrated to me,
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:39 PM
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Some women react to a Tall man the same way men react to a girl with nice boobs. I find it hard not to see height worship among women as partly sexual in nature. But yeah, there are plenty of other examples such as women who fawn over fit guys or guys with large dicks. Its still far more socially acceptable for a woman to say she chose so and so partly because hes tall or buff than a man saying that he pursued a woman partly because she has a nice pair. I mean we cant even acknowledge boobs anym…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:27 PM
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but he was. Hes just not pumped full of roids and jawline fillers to complete the look.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:04 PM
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Why is it socially acceptable for women to shout out how men who are under 6 foot or make less money are undesirable, yet big boobs guys are seen as pornified creeps who objectify women?Its so hard to express your love of big breasts without feeling like a creep as a man. I feel like we even get more flak than butt lovers, since having a nice ass is such an easy thing for women to accomplish, just eat a few burgers and do some squats. Its almost compatible with the body positivity zeitgeist sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:46 PM
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oh come on, he was having a vulnerable moment with his mother. You guys are insane. Do you think every man has to be a stoic wall to their mothers when theyre expected be that way by everyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:23 PM
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If youre a Chadlite or Chad, that could work. Back in my youth(Im 29), my first gf chased me because I was pretty shy and introverted at the time. But I was also pretty good looking. These days, not so anymore and I have to initiate. Average guys can't play that game. You need to expand your social networks and chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:36 AM
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Yeah. Your gut bacteria actually does a lot of the breaking down of food. Ypu actually might benefit from a fecal transplant from a healthy person
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:06 PM
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It's because your gut biome and the stuff the breaksdown the food like your enzymes aren't used to complex carbohydrates and proteins. It'll take time for your digestive system ro start producing more of those enzymes and for your gut bacteria to change and adapt to your new diet. That's what you get for surviving on pink slime for all those years. Your digestive system was living on easy mode as the the RPer say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:02 PM
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Advanced social skills + upper hierarchy in a social group(popular I guess)+ attractive personality. It's many things, but you find them in charismatic dudes who get laid even if they're poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:58 PM
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. I think Dating apps will be a late millenial/ zoomer thing, and will eventually go the way of MySpace. It's not because of men getting mad but because there's not enough product(women) to go around to the customers(men). Eventually the bots and the scarce number of women who are on the apps and are only picking the top 20 percent of dudes will frustrate the average paying user once they get over their delusions of free untapped sex and dates. It was always going to be an unsustainable business…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:51 PM
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South Korea is an example of a society where hypergamy and materialism is on overdrive to the point where young girls are content to be some rich guys mistress and theres a problem of younger mem finding partners because of it. The only thing a dating market skewed far more to valuing socio economically well off men will do is increase the rates of women becoming mistresses and younger women stealing rich men from their older wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:45 PM
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It applies to men who get to have casual sex(as much at the look black pill determinists wanna delude themselves). But yeah, money is way more important for LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:42 PM
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It takes treating porn like wine or good quality comic books to be able to appreciate it enough to go to one of these things. I can only imagine how rancid these guys porn folders are. Like most men jack off to porn a few times a week to porn to relief stress or a dry spell and dgaf about the content or creators but these guys are actual connoisseurs who probably see pornography as an intellectual and sensual pursuit. I imagine the porn actress and OF are pretty creeped by men who actually go to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:38 PM
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He wants your d@ck playboy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:28 PM
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It's basically a different games in terms of tactics and play style. It's almost like rugby with how rough they can get. No wonder they have rates of injury.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:00 PM
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I think that also contributes to the 7 year itch. People do change and people within marriages can see a perceived drop or increase in value relative to their partners according to how they age, income growth, me tal health issues(he's no longer fun anymore). It probably does contribute to the incentive to divorce, especially after emotionally tumultuous times like a job redundancy. Ive made an observation among my mates who married in their early 20s that they tend to divorce in the late 20s or…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:30 PM
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Im starting to warm up to the idea that those on the spectrum are overrepresented on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:25 PM
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I can get with radical and marxist feminists since they seem to have e a consistent ideology that calls for the emancipation of both genders from the constrictures of gender roles and gendered expectations and don't understate women's role of upholding the patriarchy and male gender roles. But lib feminists or corporate feminism ideology seems to be all about women having their cake and eating it too. Gender role lib for me but not for thee. Etc etc. I am indifferent or even hostile to lib femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:33 AM
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They were considered freaks. Now you see roidheads everywhere in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:05 PM
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Menslib is one of the worst places for a man with some level of self respect to go to find support. That sub is just full of self hating male feminists and mods will censor any dissenting opinions that suggest that women in any way contribute to mens issues. Its the North Korea of male advocacy sub, as in its very authoritarian in its censorship and you always need to preface your comments with a praise for dear leader Kim Jong Un feminism. I would have suggested r/ left wing male advocate but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:45 PM
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I guess I went from an attractive sociable law student future corporate lawyer to a ptsd ridden loser drop out with severe anxiety to anyone who saw me. Either way, I would be considereal a "loser" between the ages of 20 to 25 when my illness was at its worse. Many successful people in my family told me to pull myself by the bootstrap, they never wanted to help. My ex cheated on me within the first few months admitting to her I had PTSD from my Childhood. It took me years of therapy and a suppor…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:14 PM
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As a man, that won't ensure that your social networks won't fail you in hard times. As Ive said, it was my own family, ltr friends and gf of 3 yrs who abandoned me. I think it's better to go through life relying on yourself than depending on others. People are too unpredictable, especially the older they get and the more emotional baggage they'll accrue over a lifetime. Too many I know are wrapped around their own self delusions that reinforces their personal narratives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:57 AM
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I lost my social networks within the first year of having depression and PTSD. It was rapid. Id understand if people stopped caring after years down the track. But nope, it was like the moment I wasnt the funny fixer bf and brother , I lost value to those around me. The speed of which those who I loved abandoned me still haunts me today, and I no longer trust people. My psychologist says it may have contributed to the long duration of my mental health issues. Apparently this is very common with …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:30 AM
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Going through 7 years of mental health issues has opened my eyes to how fragile men's social networks are and their disposability. Im not even a trad masc guy, but I was rejected by my own family, friends and ex gf because I was going through a crisis and I was no longer useful to them as the older fixer brother and bf. I was never a toxic guy, but because most mens descent into mental health death spirals is usually preceded by a drop in social status, people lost empathy and care for me rather…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:17 AM
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I had a feeling you were from Menslib reading your comments. The only think I will say is most men aren't like you and your ilk. Most men desire relationships with women which necessitates following the masculinity script. It's unrealistic to expect men to behave the same as you in regards to relationships as youre clearly wired differently to the average man. Hell you might be on the asexual spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:09 AM
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Yeah man. It feels good to have a sexy body in Lycra. Although Ive recently gained weight, and I'm in the process of going back to sub 15 per bf. You haven't ever been fit and young and have girls stare fuck you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:40 PM
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Ive already shared my cycling hobby here. Ive got no reason to tell lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:11 PM
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Back in my Chadlite days, a girl who's constantly glammed up even at work and not just on a Saturday was seen as high maintenance and soneone who is hiding something. Even my lil bro who is going through a fuccboi phase has never been into girls who look like dolls. That aesthetic is so 00 -10s. The cool girls with a Chad boyfriends most look like they're perpetually in the gym or are into indie scene. The only girls I know who constantly look glammed up wearing dresses are gold diggers with old…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:02 PM
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Yep. One of the most awkward realisation of this was cycling to my friends house(im a full time cyclist/part time gym bro) which was 30km away and had a 500m elevation as a challenge. Upon reaching their place, my thighs were bulging in the as a result of the hill pump and my friends sister who were in their late teens couldn't stop gawking at my thighs when I was resting. I thought they were just impressed, but my cousin later confirmed they had their horny faces on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:39 PM
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I have severe anxiety so most likely 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:45 PM
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Pathetic simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:37 AM
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She's a habitual "straight from the carton" drinker who doesn't use a cup when no one is watching. A true monster
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:52 AM
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Remember, dont think too much about it. Just have fun and channel positive energy and the women will come to you. Especially if youre a giant who dresses well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:08 AM
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Do you feel better now? Acting like an edgy kid online is pretty cringey after a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:05 AM
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Youre disgusting misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:02 AM
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My family friend died in Egypt when he travelled there to enjoy his 30th. Apparently Egypt has some of the highest casualty rates for tourists because of the dangerous roads. I wouldn't go to Egypt as a tourist. Egypt might see another Arab spring considering how bad things are there. Youre most likely going to get mugged as a tourist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:59 AM
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The thing is, there are some women who wouldn't mind sparing their time to raise someone else's kid. Maternal extinct run strong even in childless women or lonely elderly women who have become empty nesters. My sister is childless and doesnt want to have kids, yet is still keen on looking after our neices and nephews. With so many Childless women around who haven't had kids because they haven't found the right partners yet still have a maternal longing for children s, a communal model could be w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:25 AM
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Egyptians are the hillbillys of the Arab world. Even other Arabs with problematic views of women find Egyptians pretty backwards, especially with the FGM acceptance. My morrocan mates warned his non hijabi sister to not go to Egypt on a holiday because Egyptian men will see an Arab woman not dressed conservatively as prostitutes. She ended up going to Beirut and having a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:12 AM
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10/10. I don't like my father but he did good giving me a memorable unique name.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:03 AM
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I use a prostate toy to spice up sex and masturbation, so it's all good in my books since I understand sex toys can help certain women with orgasming. Although I just hope she doesn't judge me for using sex toys(which is a given at this point ). Im pretty comfortable with my penis size so maybe it'd be different if yoyre a smaller man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:44 AM
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That's pretty much me minus the neck fat and the arm rolls. I'm in the process of losing that weight though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:09 AM
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I prefer someone with more feminine curves paired with muscles. And I love girls with nice faces. She's probably too much on the masculine spectrum for me although tge average rugby girl does it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:01 AM
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Once you've brrn with a few gorls with big boobs, boobs lose their appeal and you realise theyre just blobs of fat tussue. I was a boob man when I was a youngin, now I'm a whole body guy who loves fit muscular women . Problem is, average guys don't have the chance to have sex with women with nice boobs so the mystique and appeal of the boob is everlasting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:09 PM
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If everyone tells you you're attractive(friends, family, clients, randos) except for the women, what does that make you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:05 PM
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Yes. He also has ADHD and the tism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:00 PM
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Ive been around, holidaying in random destinations across Europe bunking at relatives house. And the most attractive nation whennit comes to women were those from Portugal and Spain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:53 PM
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Are you an Arab gay man?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:43 PM
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He sounds like Elon Musk🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:34 PM
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I love women with muscular backs and legs which are considered masculine traits. Although Ive been around muscular women in labour roles and I am a gym bro, so It could just be attraction through familiarity. Im not a fan of feminine petite fragile looking women. My ex was a tomboy. I love masculine women and those who can make people laugh and isn't all feminine and shy. Im told I have feminine/masculine energy and I'm attracted to women with masculine and feminine qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:24 PM
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Monasteries are full of self hating gay men, men on the edge of the behavioural spectrum and asexual. Monks and preists who abstain from sex with adult women are not normal men as you can tell by tge high rates of paedophilia(And I don't mean being gay is abnormal, just being a self hating repressed one is)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:54 PM
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I dunno, I wasn't paying attention but most of the shows she watched was in Arabic. One was in Turkish, abd had a blonde tall lead but the rest of the guys were short mediocre looking men dating or pursuing really attractive women on the show. The Turks are a lot more westernised so you could be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:24 PM
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But not really. These societies are undergoing a sexual and gender revolutions at this very moment, powered by female empowerment and the internet. My friends who went to Beirut and Libya to visit relatives have said that traditional girls are no more in the city abd even in the countryside, they're decreasing. Premarital sex is becoming the norm. Dating apps are even a thing. Its better to not delude the guys and get them well prepared for brutal SMP. The transition will be slower than what hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:22 PM
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The Turkish and middle eastern dramas my sister watches with me when she's over always seem to have mediocre looking short guys paired off with supermodels or girl next door cuteys as love interests. I find this so unrealistic. It's like I'm watching a male centric 90s sitcom all over again. I wonder when the rest of the world, not including east Asia who caught up with the western obsession with Male looks will realise girls love a handsome man as much as men prefer an attractive woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:06 PM
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The only thing he did wrong was reveal that he was unsatisfied in the current arrangement to his wife. Many men and women will cheat when they reach mid life. Marriage gets stale, you feel like it's the last time you can sexually explore etc etc. The thing is, most people do it in stealth and their marriages aren't affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:44 PM
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The equivalent for a man is if your girl told you if she can make the relationship an open one and that youre not enough. This is pretty bad and I can't believe this guy who knows his wife thought it was a good idea. At this point, just have a quiet little affair like all the other mid life crisis guys and gals I've known and pretend it didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:35 PM
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I used to hear stories about the giant Pizzas in the US as a 00 kid. Filled me up with dreams about visiting the US. Now its sad that I'll never get to experience Giant 2 dollar pieces of pizzas that could fill me up for the night. Shrinkflation sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:17 PM
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He knows how to choose his ghost writers well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:14 PM
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I think growing up as a man and getting into the workforce and seeing how people really behave, both men and women kind of destroys youthful idealism and fosters some kind of realpolitik pragmatism thats makes it easier to reconcile the brutality abd hypocrisy of those living in the real world. It's why I no longer care about "meritocracy" when I see nepobabies everywhere or why I no longer care when someone gets punched after instigating a fight with a stronger person. Or why I care less about …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:04 PM
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I feel for healthy Americans. I come from a pretty fat country myself and I find it hard to pursue women who are over 24 and aren't overweight. I can only imagine how hard the Americans brothers have it when their obesity epidemic is much worse. Part of the sexlessness issue among men must be because of how hard it is to date non fat women if you're fit and above 22 or if youre a fat guy with no confidence and you fail to see yourself as sexual being after a lifetime of jacking off to fit guys h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:24 AM
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Lol. Sally. Im definately in that Ive sworn off social media. And I'd like to become more "in the present moment", so she'd be a good influence on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:24 AM
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It's not a good way to cope though. She needs therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:34 AM
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It's a nice change when the resident blue pills make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:33 AM
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Women should be greatful porn exists. It's keeping this unsustainable dating market viable. Porn is the greatest pacifier of man since the Romans invented the concept of bread and circuses. Women should be thanking the porn industry and those poor actresses getting exploited by abusive producers because now so many guys are just wracking their sausages off in their homes instead of approaching women who see unattractive men pursuing them as a form of trauma or an annoyance at the very least. My …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:08 AM
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I have a major thing for girls who can pull off short hair or even the bald look. Bu
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:38 PM
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Says the Kendrick Lamar stan
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:36 PM
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When I went to France for a friend's wedding, I was surprised by how fit and attractive girls over 25 were. I was so daunted about turning 24 at the time because I saw 25+ girls and they mostly obese, overweight or their party girl lifestyle caught up to them in my own country. It's astounding how fitness levels have just cratered across all demographics. Im assuming male sexlessness and the loneliness epidemic has something to do with the obesity epidemic. I mean why bother chasing a girl and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:59 PM
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OK. You know a thing or 2 about body fat. What do you think is a realistic time schedule to reduce your bf from 21 to 15 percent?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:48 PM
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Unfortunately being in my late 20s, I have to be careful about going to low as premature aging can happen with too low bf for those of a certain age. I already have pretty flat cheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:38 PM
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Nice. That's basically my goal. I'm around 21 percent bf right now. I'm cycling hard everyday so hopefully I can reach 15 percent within 2 months. I know we all have different results when it comes to fat, but it gives me hope that someone achieved their aesthetic goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:36 PM
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Isn't 5 foot 6 ick territory for most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:28 PM
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For your case tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:23 PM
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Honestly if I was suicidal and really thought Trump was the second coming of Hitler and the anti christ all rolled into one, I'd probably think it would be a good way to go. Im guessing as suicide rates increase for men, you're going to see more of crazy guys murdering and killing others for the intention of suicide through indirect means but also having your life mean something if it's to kill a potential tyrant or to do sometching crazy and be in the history books forrver. It's such a male thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:21 PM
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Nice. How drastic was the difference? Personally I'm probably going to stop at 15 percent. Hopefully that'll be enough for some face gains.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:06 PM
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I think you still have inertial high metabolism if you've recently stopped riding so jt wont be too bad if you eat extra after a few days of not riding. Although Ive personally started gaining weight after a few weeks of not riding abd maintaining my eating habits which Im in the process of burning off. Cycling got me too comfy with carbs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:59 PM
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It's different for every man tho. I have a 30 inch waiste because that was the first place fat left. My thighs are huge tho, a combo of cyclist muscle but also fat from my sadboi fatty days in my early to mid 20s which Im trying to lose. Did you see face gains as you lost weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:35 PM
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It's always the ones we most expected
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:27 PM
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I want to go back to my Chad lite past and live a few good years. I'm 28 so I still have some left but I feel like my looks turned to shit when I gained weight during my PTSD years and my once sexy jawline got bloated. For those gym guys who manage to lose weight starting from being marginally overweight, did your facial aesthetics improve as you reached 15-7 percent bf? Im strong and fit, but just a little overweight. I cycle everyday 30 miles and have a PPL routine. I feel like I've got good b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:25 PM
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I have long eyelashes being part Middle eastern. My eyes might be the trait that I've been commented on the most by women, which I never understood until I realised how much women artificially enhance their eyelashes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:06 PM
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If Hitler was still alive, after going for the Jews and all the other undesirable ethnic minorities, he probably would have went for the left handed. You were 3 swperated degrees from being a victim of genocide.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:04 PM
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As long as men are judged and valued by how much access he has to "pussy" by most women, it'll never change. Preselecton is a major thing for attractive women. Girls want what other covet, and what better way to be coveted than to have a extensive history of fucking and having relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:00 PM
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Never got the appeal pf fake meat. When I needed a break from meat because I felt bloated and I had high sodium levels(I eat half a kg of meat daily for gym/cycling), I simply ate a ton of black lentils and barley and quinoa. Nothing taste better the well seasoned beans. The fake meat often tasted so bad, like a really bad imitation of meat that came from the same place that made pink slime. Anyone who's cut out hyper processed food from their diets would barf at imitation meat. Bloat central to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:55 PM
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We need a European jousting competition
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:46 PM
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Men are attacked at far greater rates by strangers than women. Women are primarily victims of crimes committed by so.eone they know. Men have more reasons to be afraid than women, but bevause of how we are socialised and the benefits of testosterone in behaviour, most of us don't care....unless we hear gunshots on the next street or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:36 PM
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If a neighbourhood has an assault rate of less than 1 in 100,000, theres no reason for men to be overly concerned about crime. I get it if it's a crime ridden area, but most of us dont live in Compton. Women are god damn neurotic and it's time to admit it. My mother still can't get out of house after 10 pm and I have to drive to her place whenever something happens and she lives in a million dollar neighbourhood in one of safest countries in the world. She's been like this since she was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:33 PM
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Some would say even emotionally abusive, especially those women who use the danger card liberally as a way to control men and to compel other men to act violently on her behalf. But we don't recognise how certain women use their female previlege to emotionally abuse men as a legitimate grievance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:24 PM
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Experience
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:09 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:08 PM
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As Ive said countless of times, even ignoring lookism, dating as a man is an exercise in suppressing your individuality to appeal to girls narrow collectivist view of what constitutes an attractive man they share with their social circle. Dating most Women breed homogeneity in men who are far more of individual than what women would desire. Unless youre lucky, you're just fulfilling some women's desired male pseudo archetype. Women wonder why we sometimes prefer the company of our friends when w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:48 AM
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it sounds from your description that it's incredibly superficial and unempathetic. That's basically dating in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:43 AM
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Smoker. Smokers smell but so do fatties. Atleast smoking is an appetite suppressant and a girl who smokes is impulsive so you know you'll get sex daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:38 AM
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Mods should seriously limit certain posters Threads based on topics. This is like her 4th single mother thread. Change it up a little Lilith. The single mom thing is getting stale.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:28 AM
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I have a pretty large masculine chin and jaw, so going beardless always makes my face look disproportionate. I keep it short(always less than 5mm ), but I do style it in different ways. I switch between extended goatee and round.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:20 AM
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I guess to some women, playing with a man's heart is less worse than consensual sex between two people. But we will agree to disagree. Women engage in their own shitty dating behaviour that has turned a generation off from the courtesy that women like you believe men should practice when they interact with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:11 AM
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Every guy I know has experienced shitty female dating behaviour. My brother just got ghosted by a girl he was seeing recently after 3 months of contact. Turns out she was stringing along several guys, weighing her options like these men's feelings didn't mean much. I had to comfort the dude after he though he finally found the girl of his dreams, I stead he was just another competitor in an endless rounds of dates of this girl who probably emjoyed being wined and dined. It is normalised for wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:01 AM
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Yep. Despite what they say, most young women have been pumped and dumped, which is why this thread is evoking such strong emotions from women here, despite the insistence that they're all gud girls who wouldn't find themselves in such a situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:03 PM
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I live in a country that isn't the US, where getting a degree is the expected norm. Some of us aren't Americans. Degree holders here fair marginally better than tradies because of how many people get degrees from mediocre universities. A degree is nothing special here. I got paid more doing a trade than when I went back to university for my Child protection job. But I prefer the environment in my new job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:53 PM
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I mentioned "desirable men" in the OP for a reason. It was implicitly implied that I was mainly talking about the men that women are attracted to. The average PPD man who says this most likely is not apart of "desirable male" group. I don't need to keep reiterating the 20/80 or 40/60 rule, it's understood widely here that men who are doing the pumping and dumping aren't average or below men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:46 PM
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I guess She found a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:14 PM
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Modern dating has always been morally grey, if not immoral and never fair though. Lots of men complain about strung along by women who will be dating multiple guys at once or putting several dates on a day and ghosting a guy who may have been communicating to her for months because the other prospects were better. Same thing with women. Dating is dirty business and everyone is in it for themselves. Its time to stop pretending that dating should be fair and free from deceit or subterfuge. It's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:11 PM
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You do it for yourself, so if the day comes that you meet the man of your dreams, you have the tools and the personality development to attract him and be more than just an easy lay. It's the reason why I, despite an above average guy(I've shown my face here), I will always keep improving, getting better in all aspects. You do it for yourself so you can enjoy life and relationships with valuable partners and not be apart of the sea of bitter lonely people who complain about issyes with relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:38 PM
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I get the idea that some women here think the young guys who frequent PPD are conservative boomer guys who are too insecure to entertain a woman outearning them and just want a good traditional girl. Lol. It really tells you what kind of women actually come here:older women projecting their generations of men's hang ups to younger guys who grew up with totally different principles
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:54 PM
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Isn't that a plus? Brah, life is easy if you have a radical feminist lawyer boss babe who won't expect you to be a work mule and will pay for your dinner to defeat the patriarchy and will escalate in sex as a masc women. Thats my dream right their. Im in awe that some men see this as a negative, although I do come from a family with successful women married to average men, so I'm probably more at ease. My masculinity isn't equated to outearning women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:33 PM
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I'd take A, B, F, C. And compensate that deficit with H, K and I. I have nothing against radical feminism, I prefer them over hypocritical "Gender liberation for me but not for thee" lib feminists. Atleast radical feminists are ideologically consistent and dont want to save parts of the patriarchy and gendered expectations for men that advantages women unlike so many lib feminists who turn traditional when convenient. I also don't have contact with my father, so less awkward conversations about …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:23 PM
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Men are romantics. The problem is, once a girl pass the look threshold, theyre able to be attractive to men for sex but that doesn't mean they'll be relationshipable. Women are so complacent these days with the easy access to sex and male affirmation that they forget to develop themselves. Most women are boring despite what PPD gals say. I mean going to a club or a bar and talking to a girl is just mad depressing, I mean half of the time, I feel like Im only talking to these airheads to sleep wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:42 AM
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Arguing in bad faith and gaslighting is the default with so many women, especially if you know her past .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:08 AM
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As my uncle says, true love with women dies in your late teens/early 20s. After that, it's check-list time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:44 AM
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Knowing Trump, he'd be loving it. He'll I wouldn't be surprised if he paid someone to fire a shot near the rally. The narc gotto have his JFK moment Edit: OK, just saw the video. Heh, wow. Almost looked like movie. Wtf is this timeline? Trump is going to win. That was the perfect PR moment and Trump executed it perfectly. Gotto give the man the credit, the US is fucked tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:49 PM
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Women care as much or even more than men about the physical appearance of their partners. Theres a reason dating apps are a shitfest for average looking men. Women are as shallow as men yet have the advantage of makeup to prop up their value while men don't innan age whete male looks are gaining inportance. It's kind of unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:52 PM
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I used to have bad skin due to cumulative stress but after getting into skin care, I've got pretty good skin. Most men are OK with women using skincare products
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:40 PM
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Tell me about it. I have to cycle 5 times a week and strength train 3-4 to get back to the body I had a few years ago. W And women don't even think much about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:34 PM
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Heh, she sounds like my sister...who's still single at 37 and is still looking for the elusive "One".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:41 PM
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An extreme minority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:03 PM
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Yeah, I don't agree with much of what you said but you do you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:31 PM
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Yep, I agree with this take on OP reply. It is hyperbolic but there are seeds of truth in most of those statements. As someone who went through a decade of mental health issues, and aged out of the youth mental health system before finding my own way of fixing my problems, I did experience what many describe as being treated as a defective girl by health care providers and therapists. I also had many bad experiences with women in my life when it came to my vulnerabilities. Any man who's had his …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:18 PM
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. Someone like Sarah Ferguson has only gotten hotter in her 30s and has dipped a little as she approach 40s. And I'm not going to circle jerk, because I know more women than men who take care of themselves, I've noticed the men in their late 20s who are in my friends group look a decade older than some of the girls I know who really care of themselves. I think it's bullshit that women age worse than men, but those who do, really age badly. Which might be because of hormones or pregnancy. They te…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:06 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:53 AM
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The problem is, condom sex feels marginally better than masturbation whilst going raw is just another experience. They need to improve the sensitivity of condoms or educate people about other ways of contraception. Ive known many young women who've admitted they refuse to get their partners to wear condoms because they couldn't orgasm with a penis that was covered when they do PIV. To them, a raw penis just feels better and worth the risk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:32 AM
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That sounds like Islamic polygamy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:20 AM
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Best answer of the thread. If you single mothers really want a single childless men to fix your mess, treat him like a God.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:12 AM
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What causes single mom's is lack of safe sex and choosing shitty men as partners. Women love to stick in our faces that they are the primary selector of mates and sexual access, which grants women previleges such as easy access to sex and relationships, yet can't seem understand that this comes with responsibility, like choosing the right guy to be the father of your child and not random fuccbois or unreliable or violent low character men who most people around the girl sees red flags. Hell I co…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:03 AM
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They won't. They're using it for their anti aging facials. Now the evil women will look years younger than us foreskinless chumps and be dating 20 year old fuccbois when we are all middle aged. The evil never stops :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:07 AM
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And yet he's dating hot dentists, lawyers and accountants and not your average PPD gal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:21 PM
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Fat guys are the OGs. They know they've got work to do and won't make excuses and will either try to improve themselves or learn to be content with their place in life. That's like the complete opposite to fat girls, which much create lots of interesting dynamics when they do pair off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:49 PM
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Exception to the rule. Look at the average single mother on main street and draw your conclusions. Many on PPD have no trouble telling sexless men that their problems are caused by themselves and reconcile their place on the brutal hierarchy, maybe single mothers should do the same? There is no fairness in dating. Single mothers are objectively undesirable to the average single childless man for many reasons mentioned here. Single mothers should try to pair off with single fathers imo. It's a mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:24 PM
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My lil bro, who's been with atleast 200+ girls occasionally uses prostitutes. He's a sex addict but no one's going to call him a loser for using escorts because he's Chad who's been with more women than most men here. The guy nearly married a dentist a few years ago, is a partnered accountant(very rare in his young age) and does plate spinning like a pro, so yeah, not a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:43 PM
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Widows =/= single mom. Totally different dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:35 PM
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Single mom's are good for casuals, but yeah, I would never marry one if Im desperate. Too much drama with baby daddies wanting to eventually come into their ex lives again, and split focus on the kid which usually ends up naking the male partner feeling second or third priority in a relationship. I feel for single childless men who have to resort to single mom's for relationships. Single mothers should pair off with single fathers. Just like in a just world, fat men should pair off with fat wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:31 PM
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Ingerland
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:21 AM
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They sound like boomers or gen X. Millenial and gen Z guys appreciate a compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:48 AM
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Well it doesn't help that there are many status implied perquisites to dating as a man and complements even from your own partner is rare for many men. Above average men aren't as affected by this though as average and below average men. I think for some women, refusing to give a complement is their own version of negging too. I think they don't want to gass up their man too much and would like him to always see himself as utility so he can keep working hard for her love and affection. I think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:55 AM
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That sounds similar to a dozen or so incel arguments about curbing tge excesses of women's natural hypergamous instincts "for the good of society".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:12 AM
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I think incest porn appeal is its taboo nature, but also the fact that men unconsciously or not, feel like the only relationship that isn't purely transactional or conditional on them being utility are those relationships with their step mothers and sisters and that may have added appeal. Men want to be loved and be attractive irrespective of their utility and some men may find incest porn as a weird but understandable outlet for that need.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:05 AM
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you can go to prison for starting a fire here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:31 PM
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I live in Australia in a green suburb and I'm pretty sure I have a Spider nest near my house. It seems like with the exception of winter, Im always greeted with a face full of Web and even a spider surprise whenever I come back from work at night and I have to pass through two trees that are near the entrance. Ive been so desensitised by how much Spiders exists in my area, that I've stopped caring. Hell when I take care of my nephew, I always like showing him how I kill spiders with my hands sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:12 PM
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Nah. Not interested that sort of drama nor am I attracted to them. I'd hate myself for the rest of my life for breaking up a family because some 40 year old house wife got bored of her marriage that is past the honeymoon phase and wanted a fling with some fit exotic meat whom she wouldn't even entertain a serious relationship in her prime. Im just exotic meat to these women. Im just a fantasy to distract themselves from their mid life crisis, not a real person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:00 PM
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Why is it only older women(35-50) who tell me I'm handsome and openly pursue me, yet I get ignored by younger women or women my age? What category do I now inhabit? Im clearly not Chad yet I'm getting so much attention from older married women who Im not interested in. Milf Magnet maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:49 PM
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Im not talking about virgin men. Male virginity passed a certain age is rare. Whilst men who are inexperienced or have experienced years without having relationships are a a lot more common. I think blaming inexperienced men for their lack of sex game whilst also not addressing the fact that these very same men aren't getting experience to develop their sexual game is counterproductive. There are things that you could only learn with experience and practice. Ive learnt that after experiencing a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:16 AM
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Let's be realistic here, most women even virgin women filter out inexperienced men. Having sex as a man, especially the first few times is not an enjoyable experience and is all about performing so you can get over women's high standards and ick filter for sex which only gets higher the older and more experienced she is. Most men who arent Chad and aren't just pumping dumping girls without any care for pleasure, because if average men did that, the likelihood of getting a second date or booty ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:31 AM
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It's a chicken and egg problem. How can so many men get better at sex and be able to make women orgasm if the only men who get practice regularly those in relationships or Chad, whilst regular single dudes might have sex once every few months or years?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:23 AM
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Yes sir. I scored on NYE at a bar with a great dance floor. It's so much easier to stick out when you're not in some overfilled dark dungeon club . Talking to a girl is easier. Once she feels comfortable with you, you can dance on the dance floor. Clubbing is to me a purely dancing experience. No chance of picking up girls there. Youre only there for the music and the vibes. Yeah, they're full of annoying college kids too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:17 PM
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I can't wait for the AI era of warfare. That's when things will get very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:54 PM
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Any man who is surprised that clubs are a sausagefest don't know many women. All the attractive young single women in my family are either at their friends house or doing a hobby on a Friday night. Dancing in a small space full of horny guys isn't the idea of fun for most women except a minority. Most women I know go clubbing maybe once a month or less. Unless youre super attractive ir a great dancer, clubbing might be one of the low ROI places to find women. When I was younger, I had better luc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:40 PM
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Porn is to women what dating apps is to men in that it has changed the beauty standards. L
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:26 PM
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When you're r/datingover30 as a man and you meet the bipolar gang.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:22 PM
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No, I'm the individual over the collective kind of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:39 PM
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Im racially ambiguous. I dont have a race
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:05 PM
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Fair enough. I thought you guys thought of yourselves as a gender collective considering how much the media pushes the whole women president thing, or first female astronaut or the first female F1 driver etc etc. I thought it's important for women to see one of their own do well. But yeah, I agree. If it's not my accomplishment, I couldn't care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:29 PM
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Eventually, AI is going to do all the thinking for us and we are all going to live like women wedded to rich men who don't have to do anything and we will live a life of post scarcity luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:24 PM
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I still find it bizarre that the only successful female silicon valley start up founder of recent times was that Theranos chick who turned out to be a fraud who faked results of her blood diagnosis machine. I wonder how women felt at the time seeing their only chance of Steve Jobs fame ending up serving time for fraud in Prison? She tried to even fall pregnant before the final hearing to get a shorter sentence on compassionate grounds...lmao. I wonder if she's hated in the female equivalent of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:13 PM
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Im a switch, I go gym, I have high test and I'm black. I just like switching it up around sometimes. Playing the same role gets boring. I think who are into that degrading "use your stelletos to hurt my balls" shit might be pathetic though. It's hot when a girl is so thirsty for you that she takes a more active role. I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:03 PM
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I feel like this goes up dramatically with age. I hardly see many guys under 30 who are fat. I'm a gymbro and instead I feel small compared to some of the gymnuts roaming the streets of Melbourne, Sydney and Brisbane. But guys over 30 or 35 will mostly let go and get fat unless theyre upper middleclass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:01 AM
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Bingo. I wouldn't want anything to do with exorbitant dowries or strict gender roles myself which is why I'm looking for another ex muslim or cultural muslim girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:59 AM
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No, fat women disgust me. I've tried having sex with fat women when I was desperate and couldn't even go through with it. It's a changeable trait. You've got diet drugs now that supposedly make losing weight easier. Being obese is a sign that something is not quite right in the mental health department.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:23 AM
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Most women want men over 6 foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:12 AM
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It's rare. I don't see many temporary marriages in the muslim community.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:16 PM
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Unfortunately a lot of boring ass nerds are also hopping onto the septum ring and sleeve tattoos trend to seem cooler than they really are, so eventually, it'll just be not cool and cringy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:49 PM
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The thing is, the middle east does not have a western base for its culture. It's adopting little bits of western culture, but the base is still very much Arab honour culture. And most countries are led by absolute monarchs or secular dictators that practice top down reforms. I doubt they'll go all the way to pride parades or full female empowerment in a few decades. They will have female empowerment in check, but so will the Islamists be curtailed too since the nuslim brotherhood are a threat to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:44 PM
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Septum rings are the sleeve tattoos of the under 40 women crowd. All it says is that sone girl likes following unoriginal or basic bitch trends that says nothing about how unique and interesting they are, just like sleeve tattoos for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:34 PM
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Yes, my brother in law had to pay my mother 30 grand in gold jewellery to marry my sister. It's like insurance
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:28 PM
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That's mainly a Shia practice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:08 PM
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As someone who's parents come from a middle east adjacent culture and went to school with a lot of Arab boys and girls, I will say that middle eastern relationships tend to be very dysfunctional. It's a very materialistic culture with high dowry prices and commitment to strict gender roles and expectations. Abuse is rife and despite what the mullahs say, the under 40 generation are undergoing their own version of a sexual and gender revolution that is not yet acknowledged by out of touch elders.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:50 PM
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For a certain type of woman, yes. We are going back to the wealth inequalities of the medieval period, to think that our RMP won't be affected is laughable. Anytime wealth and power was disproportionately focuses on the top echelons of the male heirarchy, cases of serial monogamy and polygamy among the top percentile of men increased because women are attracted to power and wealth. Most of the dating woes today are disproportionately affecting working class and lower middle class men and women f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:45 AM
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Nearly every married 30 something year old guy I know complains that sex gets infrequent past the honeymoon phase. And these are childless couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:46 AM
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Good for you. Reading this gives me hope that not all women are stuck in their gender roles when convenient in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:49 AM
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Women have it in their heads that men must be the jesters in the dating process, whilst they're the gender of aristocrats who should never be on the same level as those pesky male peasants who have to work for it. It's amazing coming from the gender who seem to keen on ending female gender roles and expectations yet can't even entertain a different script than the millenia old dating gender roles because it's convenient for them. Also it doesn't help that women have bad talk game since they've n…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:31 AM
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Ever since I hit the late 20s mini wall, the only women who show me obvious interest are 35+ year old women. I have mixed feelings about it. I just wished my Chadlite era lasted till my early or mid 30s so I can easily date girls in my age range or younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:21 AM
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With all due respect, you don't know me or what I offer in relationships. Men aren't just monolith offering the same thing for women in relationships. You don't have to be a traditional man to have a 50/50 relationship with a woman. Anyone with a bit of life experience would know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:02 AM
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Im an egalitarian so I split when I'm dating. It lets me filter out all the hypocritical princesses who believe in liberation for me but not for thee. Im not interested in a traditional relationship, I like cooperation among equals. Im not a dominant man nor do I have the desire to be one. Im glad men on this thread are adamant about having boundaries which includes splitting the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:13 AM
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It's pretty important in most western countries. Australia, Canada, Europe etc. I'd say it's far more important in parts of Europe than even the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:02 PM
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Cats are pests here and are killing the native fauna and have been the cause of multiple extinctions of native species. Id probably join a cat hunting party before joining any cat rescue team. Maybe once Cat hunting is a thing here, which it will be eventually with the kinds of damage they're doing to nature, I'll join with my rifle. Hopefully, there will be a few ladies who share my distaste for invasive species and love of the Australian white tail rat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:14 PM
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Are you familiar with the smell of cat pissed scented homes and the permanent soundtrack of screeching cats trying to behave territorial?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:36 PM
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Women don't all like the same type of man. You just refuse to acknowledge it. And somehow we all know that the same type of men(Tall, career focused, handsome, full head of hair, charismatic) seem to always do well with all kinds of women whilst the ugly exceptions only exists in women's anecdotes when they need to pretend that they're better than men in selecting partners who aren't conventionally attractive look wise or personality/social status and see past the superficial. Im not saying exce…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:32 PM
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Yep. As a broken guy working in social work, I can resonate with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:13 PM
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Yep. That's why I'm planning on going back to my law degree once I resolve a few health issues. In my experience, women's attraction to virtue stops at a man's pay check. In other words, it's very shallow and won't save you from being status critiqued by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:58 PM
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OP probably had a picture of a masculine self assured fireman rescuing a kitty stuck on a tree or a upperclass vet who rescue kittens in his spare time like batman for kittens. Not some average looking soi guy who's main thing was to rescue kittens and probably has a lair full of rescued kittens whom he couldn't hand over to the local lost pet org because they were going to euthenise them and now has cat fur all over his place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:56 PM
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Im one level better though. I rescue humans by being a social worker to drug addicts and rescue children in broken homes as my role as a Child protection officer. Yet for some reason, that doesn't help when I date because all women hear when I tell them what I do is that I have a mid salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:50 PM
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What's to make sense? The institution of marriage is dying in many parts of the West. More women and men are in longterm situationships and polyandrous arrangements. Knowing which kid is whose father is becoming more complex, especially when some of these women's biological clocks are ticking and may weaponise children to get some guy to commit, even if it may not be his. According to your hypothesis, single motherhood shouldn't be in the double digits since no one is having kids, and those who …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:43 PM
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You've clearly never observed the sexual behaviour if tge under 40 crowd. Most people go condomless these days when they have sex. They over rely on birth control which can be finicky if youre not taking it regularly. Protection hasn't had much of a push since AIDs became less of a concern. In fact with our low birth rates, I wouldn't be surprised if government will start winding down on easy access to protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:31 PM
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Just my experience working in an office for a few years. No need to insult me just because I offended your naive blue pilled sensibilities and you cant seem to understand that loyalty isnt a given in a marriage. Either way, we will never know the true rate until we can conduct a randomised study on paternity fraud. And 3.7 percent is huge. That's almost 1 in 25. That's not very far away from 1 in 15. And those in the study tend to be men with high confidence of paternity legitimacy. It's a given…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:03 PM
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Cities vs regional would he an important subset. If you live in a progressive city in a country that has a laiser faire attitude to monogamy like France of Northern Europe and higher rates of female,/male interactions in the workplace, I think you're likelier to find yourself raising some guys kid than if you're a from a farming g community in conservative Poland. Most people over 25 who cheat do the deed in the office place. I mean, we spend more time with our colleagues than our partners somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:58 AM
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Crazy. That's just the low end. It probably as high as 1 in 15 in general pop and 1 in 10 if ypure talking about commitment laiser faire cities in countries like France and Northern Europe if we are being real . We will never know until we can test randomly 1000 kids and their parents to see how serious the problem of paternity fraud is. But I doubt the resident feminists would allow such a study to be conducted. Many women fixate on sexual violence when it only affects a minority of women. Yet …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:25 AM
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Wrong link. I posted the new one "The VRs for target-sex are reported in Table 1 separately for the facets of N, E, O, A, and C. In addition, the rightmost column reports the VRs averaged across all 30 facets, and the bottom row reports the VRs averaged across cultures. Averaged across cultures, men varied more than women overall and on E, O, A, and C, but not on N. For five facets of N, more variance was found in descriptions of female targets, the exception being N2 (Angry Hostility; VR = 1.09…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:54 AM
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I think the vulnerability approach takes men a lot more time and practice to master and practice even with women who are OK with their mates divulging some of their vulnerability and trauma. As a man, you cannot talk about your issues to a woman like how you would with a male friend you've been close to for decades. They would need to frame it in a different way, and avoid the ugly bits and and basically cut half of the details to avoid the ick. Lots of men don't have practice with moderating an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:33 AM
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Maybe, maybe not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:46 AM
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Unfortunately for men, males more variable personalities are suppressed because they need to conform to the narrower band of masculine behaviours and archetypes that women find attractive. Id say women are affected by this, and men more so because of greater male variability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:40 AM
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Yes - part time social worker/Child protection officer. I work with broken people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:33 AM
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I have a client who has bipolar and I have call her everyday just to make sure she hasn't ended it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:25 AM
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Maybe if youre dating women under 22. Women in those age ranges are pretty shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:20 AM
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Men shouldn't pressure women to be virgins since thats just unrealistic and probably undesirable for most well adjusted men but it would be a cope to say that having a high n count is not going to introduce complications in the future which most men do not want to deal with. Personally for me, I'd want a girl to have an n count below 8. But with women you will never know unless you put them in a lie detection test. Self reported data is inaccurate and women won't be honest about their sexual pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:00 AM
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An incredibly small segment of men. Most young men arent conservative. Your post is a bit retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:31 AM
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Humour and ability to chill without judging others. Seems pretty rare in women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:52 AM
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Speak for yourself. I just want a dominant or non sub woman who can make me laugh and protect me when I'm feeling like shit and be in a cooperative egalitarian relationship. Most men have far more variable sexual and relationship preferences than the average woman who seem to all go for the same old heteronormative masculine men. Ultra submissive women are a turn off for me as in my experience, they tend to expect more of the bullshit gender roles and masculine expectations than the average woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:55 AM
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Women can be as selective as they can on dating apps and irl and further make dating increasingly a winners take all affair among men, whom the winners will be more likely to have multiple families, wives and mistresses over their lifetime whilst single men and forever bachelour increases as has happened in Korea. But I don't think women should expect men to care when they start complaining that the men they choose are likelier to never commit, cheat or entertain non monogamous arrangements. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:51 AM
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Women being single isn't really single most of the time. Most of the single girls under 30 I know have fwb, dates and situationships. A minority will be voluntarily celibate for long periods of times. Because women don't have as much sexual needs as men or those sexual needs can easily be taken care of, women experience singledom a lot differently than average or below men. Their emotional needs are met by friends. It's honestly a good Trump card. Men would need to make escorts normalised and ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:00 AM
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South Korea is a patriarchal society tho. I don't what you're smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:17 PM
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Thank you. Hopefully it'll be good funk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:14 PM
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The apartment is vacant, everyones either at their partners place or working overtime. I think it's time to cut the smelly Durian fruit and get it over with. Hopefully it's ready and not too ripe verging on being rotten or raw and flavourless. It needs to have the right funk, like the same kind of funk in a good natural processed fruity coffee. Good funk is the door to complex flavours. I'll report back tomorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:03 AM
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You mean Passport sis
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:07 PM
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Korea has a huge surplus of single men compared to single women. And these trends are in every advanced country. Pretty much wealth and sexual inequality is playing out in the marriage and dating market, with higher status men having mistresses even when married. But normies don't want to face the fact that things aren't equal and would rather hamster away. Expect things to get worse with wealth inequality and the acceptance of non monogamous arrangements. It's going to be tough out here for yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:01 PM
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Right now I have 200ml of Polo black which I hate, so I use it everytime I go work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:16 AM
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Bros and gals, Im going clubbing with my Chad lil bro. Wish me luck. Tonight we are going to a middle eastern house music club that is very popular among the Persian and Lebonese under 30 crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:10 AM
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Wew. Well if you mentally survive that, you can survive anything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:37 AM
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Rebecca Ferguson is hotter in her 30s than when she was 20. Some women benefit from a little bit of aging and baby fat thinning out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:45 PM
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Nothings like disappointment than being an F1 fan and seeing the same person win the thing for 7 years in a row followed by another half decade of dominance by another guy whilst you watch your favourite driver age out of contention and into a back marker team before they get a whif of the championship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:14 PM
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I was thinking of putting it into lock bags and freezing it, so I can use it for milk shakes and my morning weetbix cereal. It's 2kg of fruit. That's a lot of fruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:24 PM
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I just bought a Durian fruit that cost me 30 bucks as a self present for negotiating a pay rise and Ive just realised the funky mangoey tasting viet shakes that I've been addicted to for the last few months was not made from Durian but Jackfruit. Now I gotto do something with this smelly fruit sitting near the laundry room since my room mates hate the smell. Asian folks, what should I do with Durian? And is a Durian milkshake so different to a jackfruit milkshake? I mean to me, they look near id…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:18 PM
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Women are the sexual aristocrats. Non psycho Incels are like the Dalits or peasantry whove accepted their places in the hierarchy and are now trying to live their lives in the face of cosmic defeat. Redpills are the ever envious and resentful sexual mercantile class who know they are one business deal from generations of ruin, or riches that can transcend them near the sexual aristocracy(which are Chad and most women) and are resentful that they have to work and risk it all for their place whils…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:09 AM
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I don't know who has the time to watch hours pf streams except college aged people and below. Why would you waste precious time on bullshit? Proceeds to ignore reddit use while on the job
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:58 AM
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Im into really into exotic looking women with strong features like American indian, Arab, Central Asian and Eastern European girls. But it may be because be because I have pretty strong exotic features myself. I think people gravitate towards partners with similar features to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:27 PM
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Don't worry, I dont drink much. Molly and cannabis is cheaper than club whiskey
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:12 PM
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The only way to disprove this theory is for women to post their pics with some censorship. Im very intrigued by what the average PPD woman looks like, especiallythe self described stacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:31 PM
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I live in Australia with an alcohol tax. A shitty red label 750ml cost me 60 dollars. Clubbing is just expensive here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:37 PM
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Im convinced many of you guys don't get laid. I mean if you've experienced how tight some women are over there, you'd know having a big penis can be problematic. The size queens with large vagina canals are a loud minority. Most women are more compatible with average size dicks than large ones. I mean I've had to stop sex with certain women because my dick was getting bruised . I guess most of the thrill of having a big dick is psychological but once that's over, you're left with trying to fit a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:34 PM
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The guy didn't even have a Tax policy for middle earth. What a hack.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:05 PM
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Most women seem to be happy with their partners average size.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:53 PM
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LOTR fan would probably regard those Jackson films as haughty hollywood abominations when it comes to not respecting JRR Tolkien vision. LOTR novel fandom elitism runs deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:50 PM
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I cannot wait till the next AI winter. Id take a 500 dollar 4090 when everything comes crashing down. The AI wave will eventually crash and so will the temporary crypto boom
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:46 PM
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Only if your knowledge of sex comes from porn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:38 PM
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I dunno, some white guys just age badly here. Must be the Australian sun. We have terrible UV ratings here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:28 PM
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Im not. Just from my experience but Ive got a big dick and Ive never felt it gave me sex super powers which seems to be the consensus among the big penis black pill dudes. Having a big penis is overrated to me. Vaginas just don't care if your dick is huge, most girls are only really sensitive at the first 3-4 inches into the vagina canal. Id probably take 2 of my penis inches and put towards my height if I could. I think the Height pill is a lot more real than the dick pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:25 PM
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It's the angles. I look handsome in some angles and terrible in others. Anyway he look so like your typical youngish 24 - 28 year old high test white dude so I dont where you're getting this idea that this guy is old unless you regard everyone over 22 as being old.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:17 PM
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Ive noticed men on the internet are less enthusiastic about their obsession with big dicks and proving women are attracted to big dongs. Have we reached peak Penis insecurity? Are men finally getting it that having a big penis is marginally more impressive than doing 10 push ups?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:12 PM
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They keep driving up the prices of my precious gaming GPU. Ive been delaying building a gaming PC since the pandemic. I think I'll just sit this decade out and just use my PS5 until GPUs stop being so god damn expensive. I'm not going to reward price gouging.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:06 PM
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Yep. My chadlite phase was one where no girl was afraid of me. I was thinking men at the time were approaching women wrong or giving creepy vibes to get women so scared of them because I, a nice guy never got women scared from first impressions. But going through the late 20s mini wall, I started generating the fear factor from women. Fear is reserved for average and ugly guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:22 PM
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One of the best places for young men to meet women are in those thousand cubicle mixed space office blocks. Take the office pill bros. You're already filtered by being an educated professional, you see the same girls and it's easierbto build rapport over time if you can't cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:11 PM
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Naww
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:46 AM
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Clubbing for a man is expensive. We are talking about 150 dollars worth of drinks when you're guy alone and unsuccessful and possibly 250+ when you're lucky and you have a girl. Me and my brothers can only go clubbing once every few weeks. There needs to be less expensive ways to meet single girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:45 AM
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. That's a lie though. I mean how many y of those are in situationships that they're delusional about? A lot. I have sisters and lots of female cousins and I know. Personally, until she has a ring on it, don't trust women when they say they're in a committed relationship, especially young women who can monkey branch faster than a monkey. My Chad brother main strength as a player was converting a girl who was in a situationship with a guy to one of his lovers. Ive heard so many stories from this …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:15 AM
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Why not approach them with the intention of expanding your social networks, which will hopefully open doors to relationships with her friends who may be interested? You don't have to be sleezy Michael sheehan type when approaching women. You could just be trying to look for a friend who happen to be a woman, and may share your interest or who you could get along. Then they can vet you after a few months and open doors to their single friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:09 AM
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Basically what my uncle told me when I was younger. Reddit is full of alienated young men and weird women. Don't trust advice from this place. Be respectful and approach girls, even without the intention of fucking them. Learning how to socialise and increasing your social network is pretty Important for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:59 AM
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Sounds like me if I didn't have shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:59 AM
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My uncle nearly died of pneumonia because of his vape habit. I used to be indifferent to vapes, but after my uncle nearly died and was in a coma for 4 months because of vape, Im glad Australia has banned them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:57 AM
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The only date I had on Tinder in the 2 months I used it was with this girl who looked 40 pounds heavier than what her Tinder profile suggested. Now I know what app she used.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:56 AM
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As a man whos a switch, my dream is to get a dommy mommy's gf with big boobs who let me sleep on them as she cuddles and protects me. I'll do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:54 AM
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Them Fibonacci sequences are in those cheeks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:50 AM
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In a 1000 years we will either be usurped by synthetic life forms or we will be dying in mass extinction events caused by the deterioration of topsoil, climate change, ayys pressing the red button and ending the experiment, nuclear war, a science experiment gone wrong(genetically engineered virus) etc etc. Theres a good chance your "genes" won't make it pass the great filter. Genes might be the most weakest argument for anyone to procreate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:23 AM
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Every girl who is under 22 and is not a whale is Stacy to you old guys. The girl is mid for her age. But that's good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:16 AM
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That's my experience too. It seems to be baked in with the under 30 culture, but nobody really will admit what they say is explicitly red pill. People will still treat the redpill as a small subculture when it has permeated through normie dating for those who aren't old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:09 AM
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That would be my older sister. She went from nice, empathetic but insecure nerdy girl in her late teens/early 20s into a cold hearted narc in her late 20s. Seems like becoming a doctor and going to top med schoool either made her an arsehole with a god complex or brought those hidden tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:51 AM
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Happy Eid to all the cultural muslims of PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:22 AM
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Become numb to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:47 AM
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This is the dream when I go back to my law/commerce degree and stop working with mentally ill meth addicts and parentless delinquent teenagers who are probably going to give me an aneurysm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:57 AM
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This is some "violent video games cause massacres" kind of cringe man. Porn is everywhere, everyone watches porn even if they deny it yet violent sexual crimes are on the historic decline. As Ive gotten older, I've stopped watching porn because I thinks it cringy and just use my sick twisted imagination when I need to masturbate yet I don't see changes from going porn free that has turned me into He-man or something like what some of you porn free advocates will claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:27 AM
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Unless she had nose the size of some antisemitic caricature or a witch, I don't think it's worth it. Ive been attracted to girls with non conventionally attractive noses. Most men don't care. Chad doesn't care. It's a sad world when every nose looks like the same pointy barbie nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:45 AM
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What is it with so many women getting nose jobs these days? I swear to god, a quarter of the girl I worked with seem to have confirmed they had a nose job and their previous nose had nothing wrong with it. It's crazy though, a nose job is like the price of a new car. I cant even imagine spending that much money for a small feature. Ive never heard of any guy mention about a girl nose when they talk about how hot she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:28 AM
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I dunno tho. Maybe I'm just weird but I get along with my autistic clients pretty well and I see their humanity and unique strengths. I work in the care industry(Child protection+disability) while Im trying to get back to studying and I can befriend a drug addict with a history of abuse, bipolar, and autism and schizophrenia, and despite their behaviour, I can still relate to them on some level. Although I was raised with Dad with psychosis and schizophrenia so maybe I might not be a normie afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:58 AM
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When she was in her prime, she was gigastacy. Time takes us all. Although that stupid buccal procedure doesn't help either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:48 AM
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I can't wait till Ozempic makes bitches like these an endangered species. Just imagine going down on a fat girl and smelling that foul whif of old sweat that's been there for weeks because she couldn't wash her arse properly. I give you my energy Ozempic \□/ to do the needful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:34 AM
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Penis size is usually just a nice lil topping though fir most women. As a man, you'd be more concerned about things like height, social presence and looks. I have a big penis, but because I'm only 5'10 I rarely get to show off the goods because I rsrely ever get to the bext stage of a relationship or casual encounter as height is almost a prerequisite for casual or a relationship with a hot girl. Honestly as someone with a large penis, it's overrated. By the time it matters, you're already in he…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:21 AM
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It's why as an ex muslim, I'm actually kind of concerned about it. I acome from a community that despite its dysfunction stemming from shitty beliefs is growing its members because it offers structure and meaning to men and women which makes it easier to marry and procreate. Then you have atomised converts who are attracted to the whole thing. We will either see the west embrace pseudo religions if this isn't resolved or the west will enter a demographic death spiral.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:04 AM
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I agree, even if I think women's self reported sexual partners count are always going to be a lot lower than their actual number. All Im saying is, it's not a gotcha to be claiming that average and below average men who complain about not getting laid are slut shaming women are against their own interests of getting laid by shaming women who go around. Average men know they dont benefit from women's increased promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:37 PM
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Someone who doesn't like gender roles and masculine expectations in relationships or dating, Im more egalitarian than feminine though. But I do have some feminine interests abd traits, and when I was younger I was a bit flamboyant according to my friends. Im also a sexual switch. I prefer to be both dominant but also submissive in bed, but when I was in relationships, Ive always had to repress those sub needs because it would disgust my partners, even when they purport to be sexually open minded…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:04 PM
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That's the testosterone and social conditioning talking. As a man, you're more prone to violence, and every other social malaise whilst getting less support than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:55 PM
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Im a non masculine man who feels trapped in relationships with women who demand themselves to be liberated from gender roles and expectations whilst imposing masculine expectations on me because they cant help it, even when I've never signed up for it. So yeah, I'd swap a prison for a mansion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:51 PM
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Below average men don't get sex with promiscuous women through hookup culture though. Relationships have always been below average and average men's way of getting sex. Promiscuity in women has never benefitted average or below average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:42 PM
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It's not like average or below men benefit from hook up culture though? You're telling average and below average men who can't get a sexual partner to tolerate promiscuity in women, when the said promiscuity will only benefit a certain cohort of men. Average and below average men will mostly only get sex in longterm relationships. Slut shaming even ignoring the idiotic evo psyche or mate guarding reasons that doesn't apply in a post pill/genetic testing world just makes sense for low value and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:33 PM
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Personally, I can't get turned on if a girls bewbs are less than a C cup. For me at least, boobs matter. I won't be dating a flat chested girl anytime soon. Same thing with a nice torso. I get so turned on fro..kissing a nice torso before going down on her. I can't do fat women. It is one of those things that I will preselect when I start dating again. Im probably the minority though. My high standards is the reason I only have 6 sexual partners despite being above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:37 PM
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I have a 7.5 x 6 penis, so according to statistics, Im within the top 1 percent when it comes to penis size. And aside from a few remarks, I've never gotten the penis worship that some men seem to think happens with big dick guys. In fact, being a bigger guy means that you have to get your technique right because the likelihood of injury and soreness that makes regular sex infrequent is higher. When I first had sex, I hurt a girl because I didn't know that I had a big dick(I thought it was small…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:47 PM
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Yeah, now I think about it, I was a bitch ass kid. Should of used those detention sessions to build rapport with the School thugs who were going to get major puss in a few years instead of trying to get As and please my cute teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:14 AM
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That's a problem for a different reason. Everything is so easy these days. The things that are hard physically to use is easy with some genius gizmo's or robotic assistance or have some kind of powered mechanism. Unless women are into rough play with their SO, most don't appreciate the physical gulf between non soy men and women. Until they get into a bar fight in some night club with a dude who was staring at her wrongly and the man decides not to pull his punches because theyre both drunk and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:12 AM
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Like your average HR department
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:19 AM
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Pogroms and persecution followed them whenever they went. That didn't stop them from being an industrious wealthy minority, even if it made them targets from envious local elites and conspiratorial Christians
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:58 PM
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If youre a rich industrious Jew in pogrom infested Eastern Europe or Baghdad during the 19th- 20th century probably yeah. That didn't stop them from trying to accumulate wealth everytime their assets were appropriated by antisemites every century.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:49 PM
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And yet despite these dangerous risks that only eventuate for a fminority of women, I bet the average woman would still prefer to maintain their more previleged position in dating instead of mens. Just like the rich would prefer to stay rich instead of being in the same position as the poor, even if it makes them targets by criminals
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:40 PM
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"Poor people don't know how hard it is to be rich...Rich people get mugged by poor people everyday. I even heard that there was a burglary that led to a death".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:30 PM
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Bro you're so hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:47 PM
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"Christ is King and Mohammed is the Messenger of Allah" according to your ole boy Tate. It sounds like Tate is going to create his own version of the Bahai religion but with trafficked hookers and blackjacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:55 PM
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Being a millionaire is nonlonger impressive these days. Just own two shitty home rentals barely making profit and you're a millionaire. Being a millionaire 10 or even 15 years ago is like 5 million now with inflation. A multimillionaire with assets over 4+ million is far more lauded.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:49 PM
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You mean our Lord and Saviour Andrew Tate (Peace Be Upon Him)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:34 PM
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Yeah, I thought so. You're getting dating tips from movies and TV shows featuring traditionally masculine characters that are often unrealistic caricatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:58 PM
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This post is hilarious, especially the last part. It's like a caricature of a boomers idea of an Alpha male. Are you one of those young men deeply into Mad Men? Did you form your opinions by studying Don Draper?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:36 PM
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This happened during the early phase of the agragrian revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:17 AM
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You forget that polygamy is a thing many powerful men practiced in agragrian societies and was only made possible due to the centralisation and concentration of resources and power in the hands of land owning elite. In west Africa, the tribal chiefs who owned plantations often had dozens of wives whilst the partner less male serfs were incentivised to wage wars on behalf of the chief to capture women from other nations and tribes in order to procreate. Agragrian societies are deeply unequal, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:59 AM
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Its been a while ever since I've been in a relationship, but all I know is, when I stopped being able to give my partner what she wanted and I started ro succumb to my childhood PTSD, I felt like our love started to dwindle. If you don't perform as a man or youre neglectful and you start to change, sometimes due to no fault of your own, that love eventually dies even with the most patient of partners. Romantic love is different to a mother's love of her child. It is transactional and conditional…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:58 AM
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8000 years ago isn't recent history. It was the shift from Hunter gatherer/pastoralist led societies to the agrarian farmer period which was sociologically very disruptive. Like dating apps x 1000 when it comes to increasing inequality between men and where wars were rampant. We are talking about the post industrial era, not some time period tgat we have no writing about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:46 AM
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More like 15 -20 percent don't have a chance to procreate, a further 40 percent will have a have a hard time but will end up in committed relationships whikst the other 20 percent will be living easy. You only think 80 percent won't have that chance because downtrodden men are more likely to be chronically online on reddit. But make no mistake, you are only a large minority. But yes, things aren't looking good for most men. Raise your sons better so you dont end up in the 20 percent of undesirab…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:39 AM
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Women, just like all humans. are driven by self interest. Give her the freedom and power to exploit men and and to have dating strategies and they will employ them. Even blue pillers here admit women have a lot more power than men post sexual revolution and there inevitably will be implications for men when it comes to this power imbalance. Women are just doing what humans do and maximise their self interest and desires when they can, even at the expense of men as a whole. Men would do the same,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:04 AM
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Yep. Don't take this sub seriously. Honestly it's probably better to r/dating or r/okcupid for normie women under 30 opinions. And even then it still skews to weird subsections of the female population since reddit has a problem of attracting normie women. Legit female social media sites and tiktok are probably the best places to see where most women's opinion are on dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:46 AM
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180
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:27 AM
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Looked like me but a lil younger and 2 inches taller. My pix is in my user profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:52 AM
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Adults can do what tgey want but they can't expect government support when they predictably produce defective children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:45 AM
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I would turn weak in my knees if I found an attractive woman with a sense of humour. Maybe because I had pretty bad childhood, but in my family, have developed sense of humour is hugely important. Being able to make someone laugh is a gift, especially in shitty circumstances. Unfortunately a woman who is attractive and funny is one of the rarest unicorns. The first time I fell in love was with an eastern European exchange student who had a dark sense of humour and was just a joy to be around. Ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:15 PM
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Hyper Neoliberalism has hijacked our relationships. And we are paying the price. Relationships has always been downstream from economics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:49 AM
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"I dated 8 foot giants in my prime, but now that I'm aging 30 something year old, I get to date you shorties so be greatful".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:11 AM
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I can't believe that guy disfigured himself with penis lengthening surgery. I wouldn't be surprised if he ends bogged at 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:08 AM
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Moreso manipulation. I would not be surprised if rape allegations were to surface though. The dude has fucked atleast 400 girls, some of which probably happened through grey moral grounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:18 AM
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No, I think people change and prioritise different things as they get older, especially women. Dating under 30 vs dating over 30 are different experiences, especially between the 16-24 demographic. Personally, I don't believe in everything in RP ideology but I do think sone of its tenets are more suited to dating when you're younger and you're dealing with immature and impulsive women who care a lot more about social status and looks and have an inflated sense of worth than your average 30 somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:55 PM
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There's a reason blue pillars here tend to skew older and married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:17 PM
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I don't think they ignore it, but some are actually attracted to toxic traits in men. My brother used to be a toxic arsehole Chadlite, and got laid like crazy. Like I remember in one holiday, he got fucked 6 girls in 10 days and would organise threesomes with girls he pressured into having sex with his other partners. But the minute he started maturing and started realising how he was behaving would lead to a pretty bad future and decided to reform himself, he's admitted that his sexual exploits…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:56 PM
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That women are not as great at being empathetic as they like to believe they are. That they are flawed, shallow and selfish as men. After a few relationship with women, I've increased my standards because I know how taxing relationships can be for myself with my condition, and If I have to deal with the bullshit of constant emotional unloading, bullshit tests, neurotic behaviour and unspokened gender roles, I should pick better women so it can be worth it. It's better to be single than to be in …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:25 PM
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Unexceptional men have to rely on their personality to attract mediocre boring women. A basic becky who's boring and is bored wants an exciting man who's fun and can entertain her. Men with developed personalities, interests and social skills have something the average girl wants which is excitement. Thank your lucky stars many women are quite boring and men can improve on this area quite easily, unless they have behavioural problems and mental health issues or high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:14 AM
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Are we passed peak penis envy among men? I've noticed I rarely hear men complain about their penis sizes as much as the 10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:40 AM
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Lamb brains and hashish milk are good substitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:27 AM
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The barrier to sex and relationships in Islamic countries are alot higher. If Incels think the west is hard, then they might off themselves living in Iskamic countries. Especially with polygamy and excessive dowry making marriage for an average man daunting. But once you pay the dowry which is often several years of income, you pretty much own the women in so many Islamic countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:25 AM
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It only brings shame to the man if the man ain't getting any.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:13 AM
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How do we solve the dead bedroom and 7 year itch problem then? It seems like love and passion naturally dies in monogamous relationships after a certain type period and unless youre willing to create more broken families, I think it would be beneficial to open up the marriage when either parties gets bored or unhappy. Let them screw who they want then they can go back home to their families after scratching that itch, instead of the messiness of divorce n all. The way I see it monogamy is unsust…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:02 AM
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I think being a product of passion is always better than being a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:40 AM
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If youre too cheap for Ozempic, water fasting can drop your bmi a few points down within a month. Like I didn't eat for weeks and just water fasted for a month, relying on snake juice for electrolytes and I went from 215 pounds to 185 back when I was in my early 20s. And Ive kept the weight off and built muscle since then. If you've got the will, a slightly obese girl can drop weight quite easily. Water fasting is only hard for the first few days, after that it's smooth sailing since Ketosis wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:32 AM
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Mediocre dick is abundant. Thick dick with good game is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:19 AM
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Young attractive women are solipsist narcs until they hit 26. So many young women who seem to think men are just an accessory. I can totally see why so many young guys just want to hit it and run. They're hot, but they make really unfulfilling friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:15 AM
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Yep, I'm on that homosocial train because I realised after 22 how little most women offer men in social interactions when sex wasn't on the table. There are some mad charismatic, funny and interesting women, but they're so rare and always taken . I blame men and our low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:39 PM
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Lower class ugly women are probably one of the most promiscuous women I know. I work with women in disadvantaged communities who are unattractive, what you may call a legit 2/10 woman with substance abuse issues, and they're having baby dadies left and right. Ugly guys are dealing with bad odds with how so many ugly lower class girls would rather be some 4/10 side chick who gets paperbagged during sex than be some 2/10 mans loving wife. Monogamy is dead for a certain social class and attractiven…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:37 PM
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At a certain age, you just stop caring and hope that the girl you choose isn't like the hoardes of hypocritical toxic masculinity reinforcing women that plague the dating pool of the under 35s. All you need is to vet for the one who isn't that way. Im still trying to find the one, but inshallah, it will happen eventually. If not, no worry, I got my bros, my dog and my little nieces and nephews to preoccupy me. Men need lto stop being so desperate, especially when you're deciding to pair up with …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:14 AM
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Im sorta like you. I've noticed my ability to emotionally disconnect and judge my own emotions, and the emotions of others has been beneficial in my line of work as a Child protection officer. There are things that would traumatise my partner in our line of work, whos a middle aged woman which doesn't phase me at all. I've seen it, I've lived neglect and abuse, and now I'm partly numb to it. I'm more interested in results then sentiments which is helpful when you're trying to disconnect from you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:24 AM
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Confidence takes time to build when you've been in PTSD induced melancholia depression for nearly a decade. I loved who I was before PTSD. I was doing a law degree at 19 and I do come from a high achieving family but I had to stop doing my law degree because of the illness. Im currently a child protection officer earning mid wages. Im thinking of going back to law eventually once I get better enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:51 AM
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Ive avoided dating for nearly 4 years. My symptoms have improved and I'm a totally different person than the broken guy who I was at 23. Im not a bad looking guy either. I used to believe I can cure this illness with my self will, but I have shifted towards longterm management. I think I'm a good person with much to offer and I think I can get into relationships if I can shift into gear again, as I have in the past. I don't think it's realistic to tell the so many men with emotional scars that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:36 AM
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More like a set of behavioural metrics once the looks threshold is passed that is often a double edge sword for the girl. The same dark traits that is lauded by women that can indicate HVM can protect the girl against threats or compete with other men or hell even disrupt the hierarchy, especially in tyrannical honour based societies can often also mean having a higher chance of those traits hurting women when the man hasn't honed their shadow or wants to be a tyrant. It's a gamble most women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:08 AM
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And knowing how genetic inheritance plays a role in the behaviour of offspring, theres a good chance the next generation repeats the cycle if there isn't a strong male figure or personal will to stop the vicious cycle. Its only been our generation that has stopped the dysfunctional cycle of behaviour that has haunted our family for 200 years. My father was an abuser. Just like his father, abd his father before that. None of them had trouble attracting beautiful women then cheating and abusing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:37 AM
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Aside from the east access to sex, Ive pretty got everything you say women enjoy despite being a man. And my standards for relationships are a lot higher than the average man. Often not, I see the average woman without the tinted glasses of a high male libido and I see no reason to rush into relationships with sone rando unless she's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:21 AM
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Women lie about their age, their n count and their single mother status all the time without feeling guilty. As they say, all is fair in love and war.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:50 AM
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Yes. That is rare. Thats 1 in 180 people. You'll meet more people who are trans than meet a man who has a micropenis. This is in the same territory of women complaining about men who don't want to date a hermaphrodite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:03 AM
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Micropenises is like dwarfism, it's pretty rare. Having a smole dick, like between 2-4 inches might be the better example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:05 PM
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Meh. It's complicated. In my own family, i have one spinster sisters approaching 40. She's at first glance what the redpill sees as a spinster. She's tells everyone she's happy but no one believes it. She still thinks about her Chadlite boy friend that dumped her at 24 and is in an unhappy 5 year long situationship with some guy the family has never met. She'll never admit she's unhappy but everyone can see it. But she gets by, has her friends, and has become godmother to our niece and nephews. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:04 AM
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No, why would I do that? They're usually someone girlfriend, so if I end arguing with them about their behaviour, I'll be going against her bf and a few mates who will always defend a girls behaviour unless it's overtly abusive, or they'll just tell me to shut up, and so and so wants to get in her pants, don't create drama. My group may be chill, but when it comes to women, they do end up a bit pussywhipped because scoring is so important to them. I dunno, too many girls in our group always end …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:28 AM
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All of the above
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:44 AM
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Brah, I've never gotten a girl to orgasm as much as when I adopted my Lesbian friend sex move. Penetrative sex rarely gets girl off like give oral, and stimulating her erogenous zones unless she's really into deep penetration which a minority are. Ive only had 5 partners and only 1 was really into that. Pay attention to the lesbians. They're a valuable source of knowledge for the straight man. This isnt just for small penis guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:26 AM
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Yeah same. Above a certain size, let's say a c cup, shape trumps all. I think women rationally respond to a certain segment of the male population obsession with boobs. But I think they overestimate the appeal of large boobs. A c cup is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:23 AM
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Speak for yourself mate, I love big boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:15 AM
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Yeah, that's what I mean, men care more about big pennis than the average gal. We've all been brainwashed by pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:11 AM
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I guess that goes for a lot of women. I'm still sticking out for the rare girl who isn't a total bore to be around abd can actually make me laugh and isn't just expecting me to be her personal jester
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:50 AM
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Well, that can change. It's not a permanent state of affairs. More women can chill the fuck out for one and stop judging men and other women or becoming passive aggressive like youre in highschool again, and offer more in those situations. Like improve on your humour or learn how to banter, and have some humility and be in the background and chill if you can't, instead putting yourself at the centre when you can't even carry the energy like a leader of the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:46 AM
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The only short men I know women were going crazy over in a time period, was probably during the 90s when short sensitive artistically gifted Jewish men were at the forefront of western culture at the time, and there were women who were chasing these men because they fulfilled that stereotype, usually arthoes. Other than that, not a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:21 AM
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I never got this obsession with penis size among some men. Any man whose above average will know that it rarely gets brought by women when you fuck them. It's not important unless you're under 4 inches or something, and even then, you can take a page from lesbian sex. I wished my 7.5 inchers would get me seat on the Chad table, but it doesn't. Women don't care aside from the odd comment. Seems like men care about penis size more than women, aside from immature teen girls who probably get their i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:19 AM
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I can't believe I'll say it, but redpillers are right about the average prog woman being hamsters. If youre incentivising men through mate selection to be dominant, hyper masculine social climbers who fulfil their gender roles in relationships whilst ignoring men who dont fulfill those expectations, you're contributing to the patriarchy or atleast major aspects of the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:11 AM
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Fatties seem to be disappearing from the 1%. The elite are always the precursor to changes that will happen to the rest of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:15 PM
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So guys, how do you think Ozempic will affect the west in 20 years? Are we going to be the last generation to tolerate fattys in the Sexual market place? It feels like this is going to be bigger than Viagra in the 00s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:50 AM
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Huh. We've got ourselves a Homosocial. 🤛 💪🫂💪🤜
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:28 AM
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It's not hate, it's criticism of female behaviour in male groups. Don't mess up the group vibes because you think you're too self important or you're overly concerned about your boyfriends mate hitting on you so you put on an overly hostile front, when that has never happened nor is tolerated in the social group. It's a safe space for men, and women shouldn't feel the need to disrupt that safe space to indulge in their neuroticism. It really kills the mood when you're doing psychedelic drugs tog…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:05 AM
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I can sympathise with a woman having a bad day. But I can't excuse it when they decide to spread that negativity to other people in the group and create drama and an uncomfortable situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:58 AM
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This. There is something very wrong with dating dynamics if society, feminists and male allies have been trying to shut-down redpill ideology for a decade now, but it has only grown and become apart of mainstream culture. People used to laugh at the RP, but now we are using their terminologies without even knowing. Lots of men who aren't incels are using RP to describe their experiences in dating and the behaviour they observe among women. Instead of gaslighting the millions or hundreds of milli…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:58 AM
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It is in the dating world for those under 34.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:41 AM
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I used to visit the menslib sub in my bluey days. And if tgete was any moment where the discussion on male issues were to logically reach a conclusion that women were contributing to these issues by well meaning members, it was an instant delete and ban. That sub is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:19 AM
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I don't even know what to say. I don't think Ive ever expected women to cook, nor most of the boys I know. Is this like a Gen X thing? Young women don't do this. And when they do, it's not like something Im even thinking about or hyper analyse. Men are primarily concerned about women putting out and being able to chill and make their lives pleasant. Cooking is not a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:38 PM
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I also think you should keep the really traumatic stuff surface level or never mention it if youre a guy with deep trauma. I have PTSD as a result of Childhood abuse and neglect, and Ive never felt it added anything to the relationship when I was in one, when I told my SO about my traumatic family history which includes being raised by an abusive schizophrenic. Most women are not equipped to deal with such heavy emotional loads and will in time resent you for unloading your trauma onto them. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:46 PM
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Everyone who has been to a club with a hot friend or a university campus knows this, yet I don't know why so many on PPD are trying to deny the obvious. Just because they're not like the average girl when it comes to exclusively being attracted to long term relationships doesn't mean the average girl is. I guess some women are fatally invested in the femme purity myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:29 PM
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Yeah, young girls are just as likely as young guys to have their plates. But to be fair, they usually stick to one or two fwb whom they're close to whilst guys will try to string multiple girls along.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:23 PM
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You have one life, don't be waste it worrying about what you can't control.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:03 PM
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Become a passport bro. Im sure thete are countries where you're height is seen as the norm or atleast not an extreme outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:58 PM
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But it's something most of my friends agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:54 PM
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They have pussy and boobies kinda like how Impossible Burgers have non animal derived "meat patties". It just ain't the same as the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:07 PM
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Keep throwing the misogynist label everywhere. It's not going to convince men like myself that our experiences with women are not real and deserve a change in approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:04 PM
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I respect them and care for them. I simply just want time for my bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:54 PM
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I like pussy and boobies. I think that counts me out the tranny community.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:52 PM
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I guess our lived experiences is misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:48 PM
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I guess we are all wishing to win the jackpot like you have, but most of us won't will only have our purplish/Red pill views strengthened through our experiences. Hope for the best, expect the worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:28 PM
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Ok. What good is that going to do me? I still like pussy too much, even if I love my bros
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:13 PM
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Yes, that's probably also a contributing factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:29 PM
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They weren't outwardly toxic, just a little neurotic and overly suspicious of every man they interacted with unless they had prior friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:05 PM
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Yes. There was also a spectacular rainbow that day too. How did you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:03 PM
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They're usually very attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:57 PM
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Well it works. My group hasn't has conflict when we were out and about for years. Before things get messy, we talk about our feelings and what slighted us or hurt us and what to do next time to avoid those situations. We have pretty communication and we understand each other. I guess we are a hybrid of Zoomie progressive masculinity + redpill PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:30 PM
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We did have a picnic overlooking the cove near Sydney Bondi junction when we visited a friend who recently married a doctor, it was beautiful and chill. We played beach volleyball with a couple of the bondi gals gym club afterwards and partied till it was time to go back to Melbourne. One of the best days of our lives. Id post pics if I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:20 PM
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Nah, that's experience of my group. We've actually made a rule about it. Many men I know feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:00 PM
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Pretty much. Maybe you should have wrote OP, youve expressed what I wanted to convey in a much more diplomatic way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:57 AM
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Yeah, I agree. That's what I pretty much said at the end of the OP. But unfortunately when you treat certain men in the group that youve just entered according to how much he turns you on, you're ruining the group vibes because of your neurosis. Like girl, your boyfriends right there, most men in the group aren't interested in a taken woman either way. So let's have fun and you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:50 AM
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I wouldn't say the main issue is being boring, but how neurotic and judgemental women can be innthose situations. We in the group kind of have this non judgemental language that we use when want to create an atmosphere of chill during a night out. Women who try to get into the group just don't get it, they just create drama and mess up the flow and the chill vibes within the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:44 AM
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OK. Toxic people then. It's just the experience of bringing girls into the group. We've had too many bad experiences with girls in our group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:30 AM
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Yeah, this is a PPD. We aren't here to be nice to each other but dissect why genders behave the way they do. Generally homosocials is a real thing despite what PPD says and there are plenty of men like myself and my bros who prefer the company of men for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:21 AM
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I'll give you that, I probably should have titled the Op better. But yeah, that's my experience and the experience of my friends group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:16 AM
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Nah, not really. Most men arent toxic people, when we make time off to have fun and we are spending money for the night on expensive drinks, we generally don't want to be in the mindset to neg others. We just want to have fun and live for the moment. It's just my experience and the groups experience of bringing in girls into our group. It just messes up the group dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:11 AM
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Hey, I said some are great. You women seem to think most men don't have much to offer to women. I guess I have the same opinion for women. It's not hate, I just think everyone should try to make the world a better place, and there are more men in my life who seem to enrich my life than women, who seem to be all for demands but rarely give. I try to do the same, and make and the lives of people around me better by being funny, caring and loving and non judgemental.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:58 AM
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You do you girl. Goodluck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:40 AM
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I don't hate women, I just find too many of them boring, uptight and judgemental. Some are great though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:37 AM
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Delusional cope. Women watch porn too. Id say having a laissez-faire sex work culture like Japan would probably do what you're describing. When men can just fuck a skilled hooker in a tea house right after work, and not feel bad about it or looked down on, and have his physical needs met, thats when women start having problems as Japanese women are experiencing. But the west is a long way from making sex work less taboo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:43 AM
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Delusional. Women don't give a fuck. I don't think I've ever heard a woman actually raise porn as an issue except in those niche subreddits or Christian societies. Ive heard more women be against the decriminalisation of sex work than be anti porn. Most women have watched porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:37 AM
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Lmao. That's a lie. Most muslims have the drunk uncle who has an addiction to low grade alcohol and cannot be invited to family get together for a reason. Every problem in muslim society's are covered up and window dressed. In Saudi Arabia, you have alcohol addiction abd STD rates increasing as a result of the use of sex workers among the youth. But nobody talks about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:34 AM
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With enough experience, the process does get streamlined and you know what you like. It shouldn't take you more than 10 minutes to locate a video that you'd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:28 AM
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There's hardly any of our resident PPD women commenting on this thread so I doubt most women care about their SO lil porn habit that only affects them when they realise that his taking a lil longer in the toilet than usual. Porn is a non issue
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:21 AM
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If porn is seen as better than sex for these men, then maybe they should get creative with their sex lives or realise that putting all the agency and expectations on men is leaving these dudes too tired to bother with real sex. Women and men should be proactive with sex if they want to maintain the spark. Pornography is a low bar. Sex is always way better unless you're married to someone you're not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:59 AM
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ED only develops if your wacking it multiple times a day on death grip mode while watching some freaky shit. Most normal men who are horny just wack off maybe once a day or every few days with a 5 minute soft porn video, then go back to living their lives. Porn shouldn't be something that takes a major proportion of your time. If that's the case, then you have a problem and you're not within the norm. I barely think about pornography. Most men just see it as something that helps with their mastu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:55 AM
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Most women don't care about porn use among men unless it becomes an issue of addiction. How is this an issue? God damn it, you guys have too much time on your hand. Jerking off and watching some lewd vid takes 5 to 10 minutes of your time if you're a horny single guy. This is barely worth thinking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:51 AM
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Do you have a link to buy your enhanced Alphamale rizz masculinity supplement that is actually just flour and salt in plastic capsules?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:07 PM
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King, you dropped this👑
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:44 AM
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I must have low T or something because Id never felt the urge to fuck a fat woman. Hell average women aren't very physically appealing to me unless I can emotionally connect with them. Id probably throw up fucking a fat women, especially since most have that bacon fat residual body odour. Id prefer to jerk off and focus on self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:23 AM
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This. Most fat men only get fat after the wedding and they've locked down the girl. My uncle became Fat working in a high stresd Trucking job and his wife hates him being fat and has told me he hasn't had sex for months. Although their marriage seems dysfunctional
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:06 AM
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Well, I didn't say conform to masculine behaviour and personality, but being within the masculine behaviour spectrum or personalities that women deem desirable. The fact is, despite autism being considered the extreme male brain, it doesn't manifest masculine behaviour within those diagnosed that women deem attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:31 AM
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Well for argument sake, we arent talking about the exceptional but the average. And yes, when I was younger, I was very attractive(I looked like Prince, with a broader jaw), and I could pull off some very flamboyant neo-80s fashion styles back when I was at uni that I don't dare to wear today when I'm 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:17 AM
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Famous and top tier attractive men do not follow the same rules as the average man. We don't need to keep repeating this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:10 AM
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There you go, you're a twink with good hair and you've got your own strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:56 AM
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Your chances are severely reduced if you do express that side of yourself in the dating process. More women believe in pseudo traditional masculinity than there are men who naturally have a masculine dispositions and dominant personalities, which is why most men whove never heard of the redpill will go through years where they are trying to remould themselves into what women see as an attractive man and what other men respect, which usually means embodying certain traits, values and behaviours a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:33 AM
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Yep, men are far more variable in personality and behavioural traits than women and will prefer different traits in women, whilst women are far less varied in their preferences and in their behavioural disposition. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0092656612001730#:~:text=Importantly%2C%20men%20tend%20to%20vary,results%20with%20this%20in%20mind. As a switch who isn't traditionally dominant and have to suppress my sub and agreeable side in bed and in real life, it sucks to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:00 AM
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Ive noticed even in my own big family that the older the women get, the more likely she's stuck in a situationship with men in soft polygamous relationships, are celibate or in a marriage. Many single older unmarried women are in situationship with a man she wants to lock in, and has invested too much of her youth in the relationship whikst the umloyal man who keeps breaking up with her once he gets bored then remend ties after a few months, once hes done fucking his side chick. Its like a const…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:10 PM
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Bars are good places to score. Nightclubs are absolutely shit. The music is too loud to have a conversation with a girl, and unless you have stellar dancing skills or a 6 foot 8 giant, it's hard to stand out. As a talker, my best scores were always bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:54 PM
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"Men facing increased levels of mental health issues, anxiety and depression as a result of their precarious situation....women most affected". This totally tracked with how I was being treated in dating after a much needed split with an emotionally abusive ex. As a man, you can't show any signs of cracks. If youre a lil broken but still a good person, you're unfit for relationships to the average woman who expects men to have the veneer of never wavering strength and to fulfill their gender rol…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:30 PM
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You need to calm down. Take a break
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:10 PM
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Sounds like a fair assessment that doesn't swing either RP doomerism or blue pill delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:16 AM
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Gen Zs are the ultimate posers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:08 AM
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When the average woman is overweight or obese, men are kinda forced to be attracted to fat women. We don't see men fawning over fat women in countries with <10 percent obesity rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:04 AM
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As long as it not too long and I dont develop hairball going down on a woman or kissing her body, it's all good. Remember, long hair isn't practical for many men who love to use their mouths and lips during sex. It's a turn off choking on pieces of hair. Everyone should be grooming
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:58 AM
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I live in Australia, we've got a bit of a toxic feminist stronghold here. Feminists may admit in passing that women perpetuate toxic masculinity in the country where you live, but do they promote proactive steps and changes in how some women think in order to weaken toxic masculinity within women? Or is that only for the men who are still considered hyperagents?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:22 PM
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With the exception of physical abuse that leads to death or PTSD, emotional abuse, especially when it is systematic and longterm can lead to considerable damage to someone's health and well being. I think it's time for women to realise that just because you can't hurt men physically, doesn't the mean the emotional abuse many women are adept at weilding against men in their lives doesn't have longterm ramifications on someones health. People's lives are shortened and prematurely age and years are…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:19 PM
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The problem is that those "boogiewoman" feminists only raise the issue of toxic masculinity when it gives them the opportunity to demonise men whilst ignoring how even so called progressive women perpetuate toxic masculinity. If Feminists approach maladaptive masculinity as a belief system that everyone, even those without a penis buy into and reinforce and have an interest in maintaining, instead of a stick to bash men with, you'd probably get less men who are annoyed by the whole concept. In m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:05 PM
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There has never been a time when telling my vulnerabilities to a woman or a man has helped. I prefer to keep it safe abd not even tell a tree. If I need to, an online therapist hundreds of miles away is the safer option. If I started talking to a tree about my problems, I'll probably get weird stares from my neighbours
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:44 PM
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Islam breeds dysfunctional marriages that is full of unhappiness and normalised abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:19 AM
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I left my very patriarchial, sexist and backward religion at 15 because of how they treated women, even if it gave me perks as an average man and apostacy laws rewards people like me with death. I don't know how some women seem find the concept of men being driven by principles and morals as hard to comprehend. I guess some need to believe all men are ruthless amoral self serving cavemen who disrespect women to justify their bigoted views.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:45 AM
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Before I deleted that part of the OP, I didn't just delete 666 but also "industrious worker". It's a fact that modern dating for men, just like in labour markets and wealth distribution, more of the power and opportunities is being accrued by fewer men who are benfitting from self reinforcing feedback loops, and workers are being shafted and are losing their economic power. This is happening during a time when average men are becoming far more disposable in dating, so not only do they have fewer…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:21 AM
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I live in Australia. The average height might be a little more than the US. I didn't say it was impossible to get into a relationship, but as a man, even being average height is seen as an impediment dating, especially casual relationships. I see nothing wrong with my height, but many women I know seem to think men who aren't over 6 foot are undesirable, including my own sister who's short and average looking. There aren't many female traits where being seen as average in an area is undesirable …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:57 PM
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I did say "relative to women", so I do agree women experience this and I dont believe women are living life on "easy mode" according to deluded rpers, but average men and men as a whole still have it significantly harder. Women tend to have better social safety nets and arent completely disposable, whilst men are far more atomised as a class and a gender for a host of reasons. Women whove become transmen are often traumatised by the social desolation of the male experience for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:42 PM
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Ive deleted the 6-6-6 part. This is becoming tiresome. The the obsession with height among women is well documented and Ive experienced it myself as a guy who's on the average side and whos been rejected on dates for not being over 6 foot as my larger torso and shoulders on dating profiles gave them an impression that I was tall(Im only 5'10). But I'd rather focus on most of the OP than something our resident blue pillars are so deluded about that they'll spend the whole thread nitpicking it. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:40 PM
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It's a cynicalpilled generation. Among my younger cousins, only 1 has regular relationships. The rest are fighting for scraps or are perpetually single. These guys are from middleclass families and are probably considered average beta types or marginally below average. Young women gotto get used to cynical guys, they're making them by having duel dating strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:53 PM
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Ive heard 10 inches is where it starts because painfully poking the cervix is an act of dominance that women can't get enough of. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:36 PM
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"Bro, just turn yourself into a jester for mlady and all your problems will go away"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:14 PM
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What a big boy you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:40 PM
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Careful OP. Reddit and most mainstream social media sites are Trans allies. You might be banned retroactively once reddit starts clamping down on dissenting opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:31 AM
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It's why at 5'10", I still need to wear 1 inch lifts when I go out to party. Women are intensely shallow when it comes to height
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:24 PM
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At the point they're just performing a role of a hobbyist debunker. I doubt they believe in anything they preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:23 PM
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My older relatives are traditional migrants in longterm marriages. None of them are happy, they just tolerate their partners and see the upside in monetary terms and stability for their children. Theyre more room mates than lovers. . But its clear that they've stayed in their marriages for their s children and for how they are perceived in their community. There's a reason none of our generation are in traditional marriages. Longterm monogamy is unrealistic for most people. I wouldn't t be surpr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:19 PM
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AI porn is the only ethical porn out there where you definitely know women arent being actively harmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:39 PM
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Maybe that's the case for previleged women married to rich or upper middlclass men who can afford to be a SAHM. But in this economy, women work by necessity. It only shows his privilege that he thinks most women have a choice. Women just have to love their careers like men or spend every day of their lives coping. Maybe rich men like him should support wealth distribution in the US if he wants families to have a choice in the kinds of family arrangements
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:35 PM
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Women are invested in protecting today's status quo in dating, government imposed wealth distribution and gender dynamics as they know that they have it good and things can go bad as Afghanistan's women have shown. They'll protect women's image and every advantage and, double standard they have over men. Women are a very good union. I wished men behaved more like women instead of tearing each other apart for crumbs of social status, naive ideals and social approval. OP, you should be asking why …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:39 PM
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Because it's within the context of masculine expectations and gender roles that tells men that to take emotional hits from supposedly neurotic women is just apart of being a man and that if you can't be the rock and you raise issues about emotional abuse from women, especially pertaining to your vulnerabilies, you're a beta pussy who failed the test. Women and men deal with different baggage when it comes to dealing with abuse and processing trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:49 AM
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Never said they didn't, but in this thread we are talking about female on male bullshit tests/emotional abuse which tends to be less brought up in our culture than male on female abuse and has its grey zones
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:33 AM
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Yeah. I agree mate. I havent spoken to my sisters for nearly a decade after those toxic years and I left my first relationship when things got bad with the emotional abuse even when it led to me being alone for years. But I'm a weakling according to my uncle for not forgiving my sisters for something they apparently they cannot help do as a part of their "chaotic female nature". I think this is definitely a common belief among the older generation because my little brothers don't think this way.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:03 PM
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Nah I think women and men both have the knack to be influenced by their emotions. The only difference I see between the sexes is that men generally see their emotions as a weakness and impediment to their overal goal of being a competent man and competent men will try to develop the skills to control or blunt those emotions, whilst many women see emotions as a tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:01 PM
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As I said, if you're privileged enough to marry a rich dude who desires a trad wife, then go ahead. The bait and switch girls aren't just a small minority. They exist in large numbers. Everyone knows one in their immediate social group or family. But fortunately most women understand that to live in this economy, they can't just act like privileged princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:22 PM
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All due respect, some of us aren't Americans. Some of us live in feminist welfare states like those in western Europe and Oceania where the state has had a firmer hand in equalising the sexes at the expense of men. Anyways that isn't my argument. My argument is that women have achieved great things with the help of the government and resources(predominantly male taxes) have been directed towards women with the understanding that they'll be productive workers, living in far more egalitarian partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:02 PM
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Sounds like your average "trad" girl living in the west though, unless you're a full blown muslim. Traditional girls were some of the sluttiest girls I knew before they shacked up with their partner because they got pregnant or fell in love and suddenly felt like being Traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:08 PM
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Lauren Southern believed in it before that kind of lifestyle opened her up to abuse by her trad christ pilled husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:47 PM
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And thank God for it. I don't think most modern men would appreciate it if women who were given preferential treatment at school, and demonised men for the gender pay gap and warped the economy enough that a two income household is only feasible suddenly started to feel the feminine inch to be trad housewife when theyre done playing career woman. Women took away government resources, top university and internship places from men and gave men the impression that relationships will be equal which …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:42 AM
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The point is, it's all trending downward from past highs. A third of people, moreso for men never experiencing the stability of marriage is tragic. And I'd like to remind you that not all of us live in America, some of us live in Asian and European nations with much more dire situations. Anyways its clear that you're OK with a large minority of men and increasing, missing out on what makes life bearable, even if a slim majority gets to experience those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:20 AM
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What delusional mumbo jumbo. We have a demographic crisis and a marriage strike in many industrialised nations and increasing gender divisions, and you're saying everything is the same it has always been? Nice bait
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:59 PM
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It's clear that blue pillars are trending older on this sub with how disconnected they are from dating as a younger person. They're stuck in the early 2010s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:57 PM
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Women have it good, despite the obvious drawbacks. They won't change anything. What will change is the reformation of modern relationships and the welfare state that will reflect women's increasing power over men. Which will mean standardisation of situationships and the social acceptance of an increasing minority of men never having serious relationships or children. Gender realpolitiks is going to be a thing. Some men aren't meant to breed or have any sort of happiness with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:54 PM
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Women here and in my own life are repulsed by broken vulnerable men. It'll take a lifetime to heal what's been broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:51 AM
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Nah, it's over for me. The only thing I look forward to is getting justice for my abusers. I'm too broken for relationships and for women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:28 AM
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Nope. At 30, I still have those wounds. I've tried meds and counselling but they dont work. My sisters traumatised me so much and made me hate myself because I was becoming an attractive potent man and so they had to destroy me before they thought I'd become like many of their former partners and patriarchal father. Its their revenge on men that fuelled the abuse . My doctors think my brain structure has become irrevocably changed by those traumatic early experiences, and so I'm trying far more …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:07 AM
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My maternal feminist man hating sisters who ruined my life because she thought I was going end up like the arseholes she dated and so shamed me, tormented me and emotionally abused me and put it in my head that I'll end up becoming a monster at 14. I developed depression and anxiety as a result of those experiences, and other factors, and lost my good looks as a result of the stress and developed lifelong mental health issues that made be invalid for relationships with women most of whom find my…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:49 AM
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That would be the dream. What we actually get is a class of women who are very sensitive to equity in areas that are desirable whilst shunning or ignoring gender equality in areas when they benefit from traditionalism. A woman whos an actual egalitarian is a rare thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:16 AM
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Im a millenial and I used to remember even amongst "normie" men, there were pretty outwardly pro feminist men in college and it wasnt frowned upon to be a feminist man. But as I understand from my younger cousins in college, unless you're in the alternative scene, most men in college are either neutral or oppose feminism and will attack men who are repping feminism. There's definitely a trend here. I really thought the redpill trend would have died out with the loss of Trump and boys abd girls w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:06 AM
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OP if you've been around women, you'd know that a huge percentage of them are neurotic as fuck and emotionally toxic. Hell I got emotionally abused by my sister from 10 to 17, who told me I'd end up becoming a monster when I reached puberty and had the hate men phase. But it turns out she dates monsters and arseholes whilst claiming I was one. It's pure self projection. Many women are in constant conflict about their primal attraction to the very traits that their higher brains tells them would …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:33 PM
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I agree this would be the case for these girls when they're young and exploringtheir sexuality, but trust me, as a brother whos heard all the "Chad broke my heart stories" from my sisters who need emotional connection and relationships for fulfilling sex, eventually they'll realise the hurt they get from being vulnerable to some guy who treats them like a cumrag is worse than the euphoria of casually being with a man. These girls become pretty untrustworthy of fuccbois in their mid 20s and are c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:40 AM
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Eventually, we all blues turn purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:33 AM
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I think you can't generalise women . Whilst there are many women who can do casual sex, fwbs and situationships, there are many Women who also require emotional connection and exclusivity to get satisfaction from sex and find casual relationships redundant. But generally in my experience as someone with many female cousins, sisters and friends and is privy to so e of their personallives, these camps are probably 50-50. The thing is, women on the camp that don't do casual sex often over estimate …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:14 AM
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Im not against education, in fact I'm in comp sci degree at aged 28 after experiencing an "unforeseen circumstance" in my youth which made higher education attainment difficult, so Im very much aware of the value of education. Although I still don't understand your point, my initial argument wasnt about the merits of dating uneducated bums. I never made the argument about women dating way below their educational level to the ranks of highschool drop outs but the problems of maintaining unrealist…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:05 PM
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It's usually part time for the average white collar female worker with a husband and white picket fence. And Im talking about these exceptional women who were in those gifted programs that my aunt had a hand in creating at her school. A lot of these women with options when given the choice, tend to wanna take a back-seat to full employment in their 30s and 40s after getting married and sought partners who were more in line with traditional male gender roles forbthis reason. Most women don't have…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:10 PM
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Yes, but even people who are highly educated and have degrees fall for the poverty trap if their degrees aren't economically attractive. In fact in Australia, those in the trades often outearn accountants and teachers, with enough experience ofcourse. This whole idea that higher education is the be all and end all for someone's station in life is an anachronism from the 00s. In this era of overly inflated university degree fees, mass white collar immigration from the third world, AI fuelled unem…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:54 PM
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Im not talking about my family, I'm talking about the most promising female students that my teacher relatives helped cultivate and develop when they worked at a few good government schools in Melbourne who had programs for gifted girls. Plenty of men in my family are successful, some are not. We were raised valuing education just like your family, yet outcomes diverged based on interests, IQs and unforeseen circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:40 PM
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After wasting my Chadlite years as a result of depression, anxiety and PTSD caused by Childhood trauma, I've finally found something that works. It's something called TMS. Its a sort of treatment that apparently stimulates parts of your brain that are dormant as a result of treatment proof mentally illness. I havent had a relationship for half a decade after becoming a mess as a result of major mental disorder, because mental illness is an an ick that can't be masked if you have it bad as a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:11 PM
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My mother is a 60 year old gen X and is a grandmother, Im 28, and my oldest sister is 40. Most Gen Xers are middle aged or older. Im not saying it's absolute and a minority of women do marry men who dont outearn them, but there are trends. Most women would preferably marry someone higher status than themselves or atleast equal. I have a huge family with many older marriage age female cousins who are doing quite well, and most of them are married to men who are either outearning them or equals. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:07 PM
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I come from a family of second wave ideological boomer and gen X feminist teachers, and I noticed a ton of older egalitarian feminists I know kinda slowly gave up on the destruction of gender roles as a goal as they've gotten older and saw the young millenial and gen Z girls they taught to value empowerment and leaving oppressive gender roles and finding your own way kind of regressed according to these women. They soon realised most of the most promising empowered girls they helped get into the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:48 PM
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The matriarchy will come. Women will use their power to sterilise the undesirable 40 percent(under 6 foot, low IQ, non Chads, low Industrious, mentally ill, neurodivergent) whilst instituting laws to make situationships recognised by the law and welfare state to cater to the new normal. Ofcpurse this is an exaggeration but you'd be a fool to think this won't lead to very favourable laws for women since they have the powah. Men gotto adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:17 AM
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I wasnt blue pilled, I just don't fall for the red pill blue pill tribalism. I hold some reddish opinions, and some bluish ones as well. Hence why I see myself as purple pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:41 PM
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Most are not totally single, just in situationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:13 PM
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So when are feminists going to turn their gaze at many modern women who uphold the patriarchy through the overt and covert reinforcing of male gender roles in relationships and masculine expectations or does this clash with feminism's goal of female agency? When should feminists discard the female agency excuse when it comes to criticising women who enable parts of the patriarchy or atleast give men less reasons to be receptive to feminist ideas when men are trapped in a double bind when it come…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:35 AM
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Probably more self centred than insecure. When I was in relationships as a younger dude, sex was so demanding and I put so much pressure on myself to perform that sometimes I just don't have the energy to make the moves and being my A game but I was still horny so I jerked one off to a few pics of some girls in bikinis(I need some inspiration for my porn imagination reel and I had a thing for busty milfs at the time). Not even watching porn. And she got mad at me. Some women find it so difficult…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:39 AM
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Dating and life as a man is designed to strip us of our hearts a d turn us into solid hunks of unfeeling metal. Then society is surprised men can't emote as well as women and have trouble feeling emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:41 PM
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People grow apart, love wanes with time. Grass is greener on the other side Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:15 AM
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Neglecting your duties as a husband, neglecting the rights of the wife
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:13 AM
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As I said "neglect" and "domestic abuse". Read the fine print. But couples splitting apart because they no longer love each other as passionately as they did in their first few years of marriage should probably not be so divorce trigger happy for the sake of their children and their futures. The grass isn't green on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:08 AM
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Yeah pretty much. Guys who've been emasculated through 12 years of progressive public school education or were raised by single mothers who didn't instill in them the virtues of masculinity have to go through a hard few years of dating when they realise women are attracted to outwardly masculine men and not soft nice boys. You gotto have an edge
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:03 AM
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It's not just dating, but life in general. If you're a man going through hardship, you know how quickly those who supposedly love you will quickly see your presence as a hindrance once you're not performing ss you should. Men are just told to deal with it, be a man and all. Only " mothers give unconditional love" you see. But man, doesn't that just make anyone hardened and bitter about the truth of our own disposability. It makes leaving relationships far more easier when you realise the day I l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:58 AM
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Problem is, I lost facial fat in my midface which might be weak point in my face and gained facial fat in my jawline, which was definitely my most strongest trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:48 AM
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People change, especially when they're young. And I was battling mental health issues stemming from childhood trauma and my twin sister being diagnosed with MS at the time and that complicates things in relationships. My mental health issues has really messed up my romantic life unfortunately and I'm now putting a lot of effort into fixing my mental health because I know even if I get into a relationship with the girl of my dream, a few months of severe depression will jeopardise everything as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:34 AM
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I didn't spin plates when I was young. I'm not a heartless RPer, and spinning plates takes too much mental energy and low level sociopathy. I just had a lot of medium term relationships until I found the gf of my dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:29 AM
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The 60s were like, a 100 years ago. Thats ancient memory. When I'm talking about the previous generation or the "old days", Im talking about my parents generation....Gen Xers. They had it good, even with their problems. I definitely I feels we've passed the dating and relationship happiness peak in the early 2000s, where both men and women had their thing and the power dynamics wasn't lopsided in either side. The state of relationships is only going down the drain in my social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:17 PM
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Theres a good chance that unless your kid is to top 10th percentile in intelligence, they'll likely be on government handouts by the time they're of working age. And that's if we only achieve narrow AI ubiquity. If youre talking about ASI, then your kids are going to be living in either luxury AI space communism or a AI corporate feudalism and there will be no jobs. Either way, it's good that you're trying to optimise your kids chances of being high value productive citizens, but there's a good …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:38 PM
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Me too. I wanna go back. Such a magical and simple time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:02 PM
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Not just male loneliness, but the rise of the "situationship" for women. I can't count how many women in my family I know who aren't married and are in dodgy relationships with commitment phobic dudes who breakup with them constantly to fuck some other girl I assume. It seems for some men, like once you've made it in dating, your prerogative is to treat girls as disposable as they treat men. Women are definately not unscathed by the shitshow that is modern dating. They just hide their frustratio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:02 PM
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I'd say we are probably more miserable and less successful as a family than the last generation who had more pressure to stay together, but seemed to have built a far more successful and fulfilling family life that became a solid foundation for the success of that generation(Three of my uncles are doctors and have a networth of 5+ million for example). I think there was a reason society back then pressured people to stick together aside from cases of domestic abuse or neglect, especially when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:38 PM
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My oldest sister still hates men and refuses to marry at 37 after a messy breakup in her early 20s where the guy ditched her for another girl her family saw as more proper for marriage. She was a feminist/and sexually liberated cultural muslim girl and the guy wanted a more traditional muslim girl when it came to marriage. That first serious relationship ruined her view of men. Hell she emotionally abused me as a teenager because she was getting back at the men who "used her". Kinda sucks to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:26 AM
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My mother had long hair that came to her butt until she was in her 50s l. She used to immerse her hair root in bone marrow reduction. Seems like it worked for her. Fatty acids and Collagen can do wonders
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:05 AM
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I wish you the best aswell. 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:53 AM
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When you're attractive, other men will see you as a threat and will try to neg you if you're not friends with them. I was bullied at school and got into a lot of fights because girls who were crushing on me would tell their friends and it'd get out and the arseholes with no chance tried to destroy my status through negging until you can one up them. Trust me bro, some dudes are envious and will let you know. This is like 15 percent of the population. But it's a loud minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:51 AM
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Yeah, you probably can. She's looks like your average early 30s girl I see in hip hop clubs tryna get with younger guys a lot the guys they pull aren't that handsome. They're masculine average looking dudes with an edge though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:27 AM
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I keep dreaming about the Chadlite days of my early 20s to mid 20s. Im struggling now with dating because I look average after hitting a "mini wall" after a messy relationship. I dont have a good full time job since I'm studying comp sci right now. Back then, it was so easy to get a woman's attention even when I was unemployed. I used feel like I could do no wrong. Now its snail pace torture, even amongst women in my age group(late 20s, early 30s). Im contemplating doing a few cosmetic procedure…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:00 AM
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Fit women are too sought after. If you think the average girl gets gassed up by her orbiters then you've never seen the DMs of the average fit girl. I go to the gym and know a few girls acfive on instagram and they're legit getting 100 messages a day. Crazy. These girls only date 6 foot 2+ muscular dudes with decent jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:46 AM
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LOL. Yeah, I'm on like 8 different skincare products right now and I'm a man in his late 20s. 5 years ago, I would have laughed at men taking care of their skin. It's just nature of the beast. The necessity of keeping up with the competition will compel people to become more materialistic and vain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:42 AM
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Atleaat go dark purple then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:53 PM
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I think its time to retire that purple pill label and go all black.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:03 PM
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I didn't say the exact treatment, men and women are different and their antisocial behaviour will manifest itself in different way. Women using men as bank cheques for expensive restaurants, dragging along a date just to subsidise their lifestyle with no real intention of getting serious. Height shaming. Income shaming. Getting the ick for the smallest reasons when messaging dates. Only using dating apps for validation. Ghosting. Dating can be crushing for men's self esteem because of how toxic …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:25 PM
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Treating women better than how the average woman treats men on dating apps. Women have been pretty anti social and annoying on dating apps since the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:55 AM
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A lil too melodramatic mate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:06 AM
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Nah, I think average girls can definately play plane Jane role without much penalty to their dating lives. Ofcourse you can't be some anti social bum either
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:49 AM
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Aside from the concerning display of social imeptitude, sounds like less young men are putting women less on a pedestal which is always a good thing. Although one must realise is that these guys are probably not "average" either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:39 AM
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Ugly women can't just offer sex or else they'll just get pumped and dumped. But ugly girls don't get this, and will keep getting hurt whilst racking up the n count. Ugly girls need to stay on their lane and offer something more than sex to men if they wish to have a relationship. Ugly girls are just as disposable as men when it comes to relationships, abd just like men, they have to offer more thing than just themselves. They're not playing the same game as Stacy or the average girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:21 AM
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I think women and men fundamentally cannot see eye to eye when it comes to dating and relationship issues. In the Old world, you had experienced elders who tried to bridge this gap through mutual understanding and some pressure to get both parties working together to make compromises so harmony is restored. Today, those elders don't exist. Instead we have social media, feminism and the manosphere circlejerk which is only worsening the divide and the ideological bubble both genders are in. We nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:42 AM
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This summer, I've seen South American, Arab, Indian, SEA and European girls in the cities of Australia. We've got the right kind of diversity. It's not a sausage fest either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:36 PM
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Immigrants tend to make more money than the average citizens in countries where immigration is heavily regulated, like in Australia, Canada and New Zealand,
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:33 PM
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Nope, that's just one example of what can happen in a cross cultural relationship. Im sure not everyone has the same kind of experience or perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:17 PM
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Nate Dog
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:37 PM
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I dunno buddy, it seems like every few years, the American media goes on an anti Chinese tirade. It's probably best to wait till the late 2020s and to know the true trajectory of the Chinese superpower. Theres too much propaganda these days. China is still advancing in many strategic fields like battery tech which will gain far more importance with the global move towards renewables and electrification.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:31 PM
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Well atleast they're adapting to their situation and not becoming doomer incels
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:28 PM
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Or do both. I road bike while doing strength training to increase my power
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:27 PM
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Yes, he's another Taiwanese American success story. His real name is actually Dong un Chun
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:26 PM
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Yep. I was Chadlite in my early 20s. I dated my boss who was an attractive woman in her late 20s when I was a semi employed depressive without a degree but hey, I looked like a masculine taller Prince(the singer) and pulled off the tortured artist trope. Today, at 28, I have my shit together whilst completing a comp sci degree and working with disabled children on a wage comparable to an accountant. And yet I'm scoring way less girls after my relationship breakdown than when I was an unemployed …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:49 PM
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Gaslighting is a colloquialism, loosely defined as manipulating someone into questioning their own perception of reality Sounds like gaslighting if some of these women are intent on denying men's own experiences and the experiences of other men in dating and the hard data that suggest modern dating is only getting harder for average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:39 PM
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Pretty much this. Women succumbing to Apex fallacy as usual
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:36 PM
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My guy, I do that shit as well. I used to make magic mushroom chocolates with my ex when we grew our own golden teachers. Good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:33 PM
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Im part African, so yeah, similar traditions. People don't know what they're missing out on. Ethiopian coffee and a piece of high quality dark chocolate in the afternoon is so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:29 PM
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This sounds more like the complaints of a woman deep in a relationship. Complacency breeds laziness. OP is talking about getting into a relationship, not the part of the relationship when either partners start getting complacent because they get comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:25 PM
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Past the age 20, the only sweet you should tolerate is healthier dark chocolate. Anything else won't serve you well. But that's just me being a fitness nut
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:22 PM
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Yeah, it's a chocolate bar
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:16 PM
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It's textbook gaslighting. I don't know why more people aren't calling these girls our when it's pretty obvious things have gotten significantly harder for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:14 PM
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I went throught therapy for 3 years actually. CBT therapy to be exact. I dont mean a group therapy kind of thing. I mean have therapy in a group setting that isn't just therapy by itself, but actually doing something in conjunction. Like having a group talk whilst building a cupboard together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:01 PM
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I think it needs to be actionable and there needs to be a social aspect to therapy as well. I think If I was a therapist who wanted to appeal to young men, I'd probably have half of my therapy sessions at a private gym or a sports centre. So we can be discussing things whilst bonding over sports and having a health outlet to de- stress because talking about deep trauma can be anger inducing for men and cloud ones thoughts, so sweating our that cortisol will help. I dont think women and men can e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:44 PM
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I'd be more mad that she didn't bring me along to the drake concert. Drake was my jam back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:18 PM
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Immigration only works when it's a trickle and there's enough time for migrants to integrate. In Australia and many parts of the west, mass immigration has led to ethnic ghettos forming and communities failing to integrate because when you're letting millions of people into your borders, they form separate societies. Social stability is being tested, far right parties are gaining power. Racial demographic are changing and resulting in insecurity among natives. Eventually, we will run out migrant…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:40 AM
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Yeah well enjoy being inundated with migrants from incompatible cultures because our welfare statem can't survive without a stable population. We can agree that having 9 kids is redundant but also that going to the extreme end of having so many people fail to have meaningful relationships and have fulfilling family lives with kids because of our dysfunctional econony, dating lives and relationships is also a bad thing. It's not something we should ignore nor embrace totalitarian solutions for. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:30 PM
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Yet the problem persists in Nordic welfare states
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:46 PM
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He'll yeah, I'd sleep with Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:13 PM
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We might have to dob her in to her Male guardian for some necessary beatings. Good muslim girls shouldn't be on threads discussing pornography. Astagfurlah!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:37 AM
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Thats because Heterosexual porn is terrible. The average Hetero porn is some roided up dude or incel self insert jack hammering a plastic bimbo who's obviously faking it but also looks like shes in real pain because porn directors don't care about the welfare of actresses. Lesbian porn has a lot more passion, more better storyline and plots. And definately better acting. Ands its mad educational if you're interested in bettering your sex game and not just using porn as a gf simulator. Sex moves …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:34 AM
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He's 20? he looks 25 atleast. Well good for him I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:36 AM
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Also he does quite well with the ladies even tho according to ppl who knew him b4 he used to be very quiet and reserved Pretty much what I thought. These types of guys usually have uneventful average dating lives in their younger years. But as these guys develop their passion andbstart coming into their own, and girls mature and leave their obsession with looks behind, these men start succeeding in dating. Girls<22 will prioritise looks over interests, while Girks over 22 start to realise they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:15 AM
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He's so average though. He's attractive in that he's got things going for him. But purely from a physical stand point, he's average. If he was an average npc man without an interesting attractive passion, he wouldnt be getting too much attention in my country. Maybe in the US with your alarming obesity rates, the dude above average. .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:32 AM
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You can be very popular among mid women if you have enough game and you cross an attraction threshold. Emos are less into looks than some other subcultures though, it's why you see so many ugly men in emo costume and make-up with girls hotter than them. It's more about their persona and presence after a certain point, and I guess emo girls love the suicidal sensitive artist trope. Dating within a subculture is a lot easier for mid and ugly dudes because women artificially restrict their dating p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:29 AM
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Meh. Im a fitness guy, so "in my scene", he wouldn't do well. But when youre talking about the emo scene, these men with average looks do well with women in their prime because they have good game, and and benefit from a smaller dating pool being in a small subculture which most men don't have and most likely this dude does not have that great of a game or else he wouldn't be on hinge reddit. But I doubt he'd be suffering. He's probably average in looks, but above average in personality and stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:14 AM
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Yeah, he's mid, you might be mid. I guess it can work out. He's not ugly and he's got things going for him. But he won't be playing the field like a chad lite/Chad. He will be the type to be in committed relationships throughout his 20s. Which works for some men. He's got a high RMV but a low SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:05 AM
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He would be pretty mid for girls under 25. Interesting masculine albeit low paying job+mid looks+nice smile+mid fitness would be pretty impressive in the age demographic where non taken men are turning into homer and some women are living good lifestyle and can entertain dating low paying men with interesting masculine interests. But the guy wouldn't stand a chance when you're talking about women in their physical peak. Maybe I've just been immersed in fitness culture among younger people but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:54 AM
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Probably not. What will have more of an effect on our gene pool this century will either be advanced versions of embryo selection or genetic engineering. There are still plenty of low IQ men, ugly men and ugly low IQ women breeding. It's not helping that societies where mate selection has gotten so selective are facing demographic issues which is necessitating mass immigration from cultures with far less selective traditional dating and mating strategies
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:20 AM
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If men as a collective can tolerate lopsided power dynamics that hurt women for centuries as a part of their social contract, why do you think women should care about men when the pendulum swings a little to their advantage and they get to dictate dating and relationships? Gender wars will always exist, men and women will always have conflicting interests. It's not fair onnthe current generation that had nothing to do with men of the past , but it is what it is. Adapt and don't put women on a mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:25 AM
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Just remember that in the societies you glorify that had curbed the worst of female hypergamy, they were also heavily oppressing women to the point where women were second class citizens. They had no agency and abuse towards women in marriage was seen as a normal part of relationships. Theres nothing fair about what women went through just so then undesirable men could get their dick wet and be some quasi patriarch in a deeply unequal and hierarchical society that used women and children as the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:10 AM
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Unless it leads to unsustainable population collapse or the normalisation of unstable alternative relationships that can result in the propagation of social ills, I dont think theres anything society should do to curb hypergamy. If it gets worse(which is a huge if), societies might just start regulating monogamy again just to keep civilisation viable. But I dont think you can control female behaviour or preferences unless the powers that be can see that female behaviour is a threat to the viabil…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:31 AM
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You've disqualified yourself about knowing what women want once you mentioned porn and online activities as your only insight into female behaviour. Incels with sparse relationship experience shouldn't be talking about what women want. Your point still stands about female strategy but I dont think you realise how non intentional it is. Women are just different to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:22 AM
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I feel for the older men. I mean some of these women think that men will be interested in treating them like some hot 20 year old that needs to be constantly coaxed and near worshipped to have what many men would consider to be an essential part of the relationship. In an age where men are working 50-60 hours a week to fulfill their roles as primary breadwinners so their wives won't leave them. I mean personally, I'd rather keep the sex infrequent if it means putting out more effort when Im alre…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:51 PM
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Most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation/oral sex, not PIV like men do. Most men just aren't packing the right equipment to stimulate those nerve endings. For men who are thicker down there, PIV sex is more than enough to stimulates the clit for most women. Foreplay is still important, but personally Ive noticed that my partners found it easier to orgasm with me than their previous partners because the angles I take and my larger girth has meant an easier time stimulating the clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:16 PM
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Ive been partnerless for a year. I kind of wanna increase my chances of meeting someone special. I think I will include an extender in my gym/self care routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:33 PM
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Interesting. I wouldnt have guessed penis size was that important in sexual stimulation given my own history. Maybe a 7.3-7.5 incher isn't enough in iliciting that kind of awe. Im thinking about buying the only medically approved penis augmenting device, a penis extender to get to that 8 inch ideal. Do you think I should do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:32 PM
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It was a bad relationship, really bad. Last time I saw him, I was 18 and a threw him out of the house after he abused my mother. Pretty sure I gave him a black eye. 10 years later, they've finally divorced. We had to pool together as a family 200,000 dollars to buy out my father's stake in the property my mother lives in to finalise the splitting of the assets during the pandemic, which crippled my finances. My dad has several other properties worth 5 million and has tried to use his wealth to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:04 AM
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It was unthinkable to teach kids about gender identity or gay, bisexual or lesbian relationships when millenials were at school. Within a generation so much has changed. We I think the generation after gen Alpha will have polyamory in their social studies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:38 AM
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Social media is so toxic and damaging to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:08 AM
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My sister is in a situationship with a man who cant commit, and breaks up with her every few months. She's 37, and no one thinks the pattern is going to stop. But we like to call her our beautiful single aunt who's too good for men in front of the neices and nephew and conservative older generations of family, when the siblings knows that she's just been hook, line and sinker with an unreliable charismatic manwhore who has status as a partner in a law firm since she was 33. Apparently the guy is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:40 AM
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When men collectively punished women for going outside of their traditional gender roles and limiting them through social pressure and shaming like back in the 50s, I guess that was just empowered male CHOICE. Totally not something we should have done something about. Women using their superior collective social bargaining power enabled by feminism to perpetuate narrow gender roles and expectations for men and punish any divergence from status quo through shaming, alienation and positive/negativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:42 PM
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Im not saying it's a conspiracy, it's just a fact that feminism is about augmenting womens power relative to men, and then some in order to achieve more rights for women. As you say, it has had an intended effect on women's rights which is a net good for society. But it has also enabled women to have a lot more social power than men when it comes to the social sphere where inequality against men persists. All Im saying is, feminism today is not about greater equality in dating or the elimination…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:07 PM
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I think there's a certain type of naive man who's drank the feminist/egalitarian koolaid and actually believe that dating/relationships as man should be like dating and having a relationship with another man who happen to have a pair of boobs. They don't realise that sexual dimorphism does not care for equality and that their fantasy of gender equality in dating will never bear fruit because women and men are different. Not to mention women can have their cake and eat it too even if it is hypocr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:28 PM
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I dont think you know what testosterone does to a man's physiology. Crying becomes impossible, and anger is one of the few emotions that men find easiest to express after 15. Personally after a certain point of despair which I experienced during the death of a sibling from cancer, I didnt get sad, I just got really numb or angry. And I was back then one of those progressive "crying is ok, be in touched with your emotional side" millenials who drank the koolaid yet still couldnt do what many wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:43 AM
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Then immigrate to a healthier society. Or be better so you can upgrade your dating pool. You can move to healthier states like California or Colorado
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:14 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:04 AM
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Use them then, treat them like crap. Don't forget how they treated you when you were down on your luck, return the favour. Dont every yield your heart to women who are undeserving. The most important thing is, don't ever sit still in self pity, try to do what you can to rise as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:53 AM
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It'll never happen. Women vote better on identity politics issues than men and theres always simps. What men need to do is get on women's level, and be as ruthlessly self interested and unempathetic to women as women are to men. Leave your wife if she's no longer giving out. If youre a LVM, Become high status than low status women and use them. And if you can't get a girl, be single and use escorts for your needs but don't put women on a pedestal. Promote a culture of female disposability and a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:04 AM
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The world has always been immoral. Degeneracy has always existed. You sound young and naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:32 AM
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Im not promoting anything. Im just sayimg, it is what it is. You can't reverse the sexual revolution anymore you can reverse the effects of gravity. Learn to adapt instead of complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:29 AM
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Ypu talk like an incel, "Red pill man" and not a true RPer. Nothing's fair in life, you have to find the strength to adapt to the situation you were given. No point of crying over spilt milk. That's what being a man is. You can use those bad experiences to inform yourself of the true nature of the world, have less sympathy for women, use them just like they use you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:25 AM
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Yeah, because a simp would advise LVM to improve themselves and to have less empathy for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:18 AM
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Disillusioned low status men will just have to realise that a non insignificant proportion of women are tragically attracted to men that won't commit amd are above their pay grade and it will always warp the dating market. This is just one of a few drawbacks of the sexual revolution for LVM. You either upgrade yourself through surgery, fitness learning game and becoming the best version of yourself so you can be that arsehole or have an abundance of options. Or sit back, whinge like a bitch and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:52 AM
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Purple pill is mainstream society. Most normie couples I know who look bluepilled from the outset are shades of purple when it comes to their own dating pasts, and their adherence to gender roles, behaviour and expectations when you dig deeper. People from the outside will only see blue because the unPC and messy details that gets left behind when they discuss their relationships to other people are not the things they leave out when they talk about their lives with their best friends. Blue Pill…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:08 AM
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Atleast shes trying to be authentic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:48 AM
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I can't wait for the Plastic Surgery-pill to be a thing with men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:12 AM
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The things that men can change will clash with the ego of the average man. My brother is one of those late blooming players and the depth of change he has had to instigate in his personality would be so daunting for so man men that I don't even know if it can be done past a certain age. At 18, the guy went from sensitive awkward nerd who used to write poems to a full blown charismatic but at times sadistic bully just trying to imitate friends or classmates who were succeeding with women. But the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:21 PM
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If that was the case, I'd be promoting polyamory, not destigmatising cheating and healing so more relationships survive the bump on the road that is cheating instead of going overreaction mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:50 PM
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A+
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:43 PM
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FYI, I've never partook in someone elses affair. And yes, I was a former Chadlite. Im not that attractive anymore though. Im guessing the married girl who approached me was probably in an unfulfilled relationship she didn't want to get out of for various reasons. She probably approached me because Im the only youngish single dude in the neighbourhood who was single and I jeot to myself most of the time, so there would be less chance of rumours spreading. Im not some gigachad, just a normal guy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:35 PM
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I said I had 2 serious relationships. Not two partners in total.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:25 PM
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God damn you're a fast one. Lol. I didn't think it was relevant tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:18 PM
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People understate their socially undesirable behaviours even in surveys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:17 PM
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Prevalence: Extramarital Affairs/Infidelities are common. Most estimates indicate that around 60% of men and 45% of women are willing to report that an affair has occurred sometime in their marriage and it suggests that 70% of all marriages experience an affair. https://www.sexualhealthaustralia.com.au/extramarital-affairs-infidelity.html#:~:text=Prevalence%3A,all%20marriages%20experience%20an%20affair. I live in Australia btw
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:47 PM
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I deleted the "scarcity of sex" bit before anyone commented because I realised it was a stupid argument. But you must have read the OP a minute after I posted it then made the edit. Apologies for that. The OP has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:40 PM
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You're overreacting if your willing to breakup the family and put yourself through decades of poverty all because of a few minutes of shallow coitus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:37 PM
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I could say the same about men. Cheating is not a female exclusive problem
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:32 PM
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Read the OP again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:29 PM
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Maybe we shouldn't indoctrinate people about the permanence of monogamy. And teach kids and young adults that affairs are common, that it happens and it's alright to be hurt about it and youre not defective for being a victim of an affair. Affairs happen whether you like it or not, just like any other relationship transgression. Most people just don't find out or keep a blind eye. I think we have to move away from this notion that sexual exclusivity is precious because it is leading to a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:28 PM
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Well as I say, it's happening mate. Your fairytale beliefs about relationships are not a reflection of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:20 PM
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It's not a solution. Im just relaying my experience of being approached by married women. Affairs are happening whether you like it or not. People will always be attracted to the novelty of new dick or pussy, even when theyre in marriage. I think we should destigmatise it instead of destroying families because of a shallow fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:13 PM
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I feel you. My mother was a "submissive doormat" and she let my father abuse me and my siblings because she was an enabler. So I can appreciate the value of a strong woman in family life which is why I'm intent on partnering with strong women. If I become a tyrant, I'd like her to pull me down a peg.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:51 PM
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Strong women are sexy. Who the hell would want a submissive doormat?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:10 PM
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Popular comments like these remind me that PPD is mostly a conservative sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:58 PM
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Democrats are pretty much centre right according to most European political compass. They're not a left wing party, even if they have a few loud lefties in their ranks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:56 PM
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Yep. At 15, I thought I was going to be a lawyer seeing how successful most of my family was at the time (2 uncle doctors, cousins who all went to elite selective schools, sister who recently graduated from med). And I was doing very well at school to the point where I was preparing to take the test to get into one of the most prestigious schools in Australia which was where my cousin was enrolled (Melbourne high). But I later found out at 16 that I had a brain disorder that affected my cognitio…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:43 AM
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It's not just that, it's balancing the masculine with the feminine. It's knowing when to be assertive, dominant and aggressive at the right moment without being a brute, and knowing when to be softer and vulnerable without giving the impression of being unreliable and weak which will get you the instant ick from women. It's a balancing act. It's a lot harder than you think for the average man to master. It's difficult for men who grew up being sensitive to harness their inner masculine and aggre…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:01 AM
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What are on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:49 AM
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Women want a man who's a jack of all trades, master of none when it comes to personality traits. They want someone who's masculine at the right time, and feminine or sensitive at the right time. It's take time for men to develop this multiplicity of traits that's suited for relationships with the average egalitarianlite, Patriarchylite woman, but when they do manage to build themselves to this ideal, they become valued partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:14 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:34 AM
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Im culturally Ethiopian and Ive been disconnected from the community since I was 10. I don't even know the language.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:44 PM
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Stress. Ive been battling a mental disorder for 10 years. I mean I still look OK as a late 20s guy, but it's a far cry from my prettyboi peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:18 PM
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Im nearing 29. That boat has sailed. And I actually wa t to have a serious relationship. Big age gaps don't work for serious relationships, only flings
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:16 PM
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Yeah, I'm getting tired as well. But where do they go to socialise? Feels like there aren't many third spaces for single people in their late 20s, early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:11 PM
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Im not indian, im Ethiopian Armenian
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:06 PM
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Im still trying to cope with being a former exotic chad. I gotto get used to actually pursuing and working harder for women and not over relying on my looks which was something I did when I was young and not mentally stable. I regret not learning game as a younger guy. But how do ypu move past the regret and the wasted opportunities? Im studying computer science whilst working with disabled children as an early childhood educator, but Im finding it hard to meet women in their late 20s. Im done w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:51 PM
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This is it. The bar for social competency is pretty high for average men to the point where if you're off your game as a man for any reason, you stand no chance unless the girl in question is the understanding type and not someone who mindlessly embraces hyper masculine expectations and will nitpick any chink in the armour or awkward moments that is inevitable in social interactions like most younger women. I suffer from bouts of dissociation/depersonalisation as a result of childhood trauma, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:09 PM
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I dunno about that comparison. Big boobs with the right shape in the right outfit can look beautiful. Can't say the same about peen. Most girls like my ex think it looks funny, even if its the most epic looking penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:05 AM
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To fully live by the tenets of religion designed to disarm, trap and disempower women would make any women bitter. And longterm bitter women don't just internalise that shit, they'll try to drag you down with them. Any person whose lived with sisters or mothers with mental health issues know this. The most emotionally abusive, toxic and anti social women I know where always longterm mentally ill and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:30 AM
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The Passport phenomenon is a desperate cope/revenge fantasy. Probably started by the same pathetic dudes who were MGTOW in their early 20s. With enough freedoms, people are the same everywhere, no real difference. Believing otherwise is Orientalist. The only exception might be those extreme muslim countries like Afghanistan doe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:39 AM
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Fucking randoms and having longterm relationships involving children are two different things. One is harder than the other and involves a whole lot more qualifiers in spite of what incels and rpers believe. I thought you'd know this obvious truth by now Blue pill man, being the stud you are ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:05 AM
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Like most civilisations with shockingly high wealth inequality between men of different social classes, polyamory and polygamy acceptance will be seen as way to trickle the wealth of a few men to more people as more children in these arrangements will be able to access their fathers wealth. This already happens through mistresses and high rates of serial monogamy turnover among upper class men. But eventually it'll be even more normalised and made legitimate, like some kind of alternative family…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:29 AM
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Good sex is like 80 percent mental game, 20 percent physical. Looks like you figured out the mental game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:06 AM
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Theres no such thing as a "loose vagina". Womem vaginas are just as varied as mens penis and some women have preferences that is on the bigger side. Get outta here with that incel logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:22 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:16 PM
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You're putting words into my mouth. There's a reason why I specified "you" instead of women in general. I just want to know what some girls see as "too big to enjoy".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:15 PM
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So what is "slightly bigger than average" where sex is better to you, and when does it cross over to the too big to enjoy threshold?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:03 PM
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You sound like you've got experience in the casual game. Ive only had a few partners and I've recently just got out of a lonterm relationship that was in since I was 20(Im 28) and I refrained from oral sex in that relationship. Im still learning the ropes when it comes to this all. Hopefully I'll get better with my short term partners. I don't know what that girl did when I was 19 to give me such a good BJ tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:40 PM
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It sucks doesn't it. I think I've only had one girl give me a BJ that wasn't just teeth scraping action and she made me cum through oral alone, it was the best sex I've ever had. Id give back my 2 inches just to have decent blow jobs. Having a big penis is a sort of monkey paw deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:32 PM
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There's also the question of inexperienced men not being able to develop the skills to the sexual needs of the average experienced woman. So for a lot of dudes who didn't have that sexual exploration period where they learn a lot about what get women off and develop the sexual confidence to take charge, they feel like relationships become even more harder to reach because being good in bed, or escalating and developing sexual body language is now just as important as having a good salary or bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:26 PM
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This place is already verging on becoming a RP circlejerk considering women and blue pillars are outnumbered by RP men here 5 to 1. The rules ensure that this place doesn't become a total RP echo chamber. RPers are suffering from success.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:45 PM
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5'11 186 pounds 15 percent bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:23 AM
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Maybe against limp wristed white collar men who haven't done a day of labour in their lives or who dont go gym. But if you're a dude who has gone to gym or has done hard work, it's very easy to overestimate the strength of the average limp wristed nonathletic man, let alone women. Ive always been fit since the days I used to work as a heavy lifter at a meat processing factory when I was a part time student, and Ive accidently hurt women when I had to get between a violent girl and my female cous…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:37 AM
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Starfish sex gets old so quickly, even with the hottest of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:55 AM
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If your partner is okay with porn and is sex positive, than sounds like you have a good arrangement. My position is more about playing devils advocate than being an anti porn absolutist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:56 AM
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Aren't you a lucky man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:34 AM
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Sone drugs do that like cannabis, other drugs like MDMA or cocaine will do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:20 AM
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Im sure you've been masturbating long enough to have compiled a memory bank of fantasies that get you off quickly. Or at least I have. I don't even watch porn because of how rich my sexual fantasies have become. Porn is 2 dimensional and boring once the novelty wears off. If I lived another life, I think I'd be a hentai artist or an erotic novelist with the sexual fantasies I can come up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:17 AM
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Yet porn ED is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:48 PM
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Dude, when you're in a relationship, you shouldn't use porn. How would you feel it if your partner flicked their bean to gigachad porn and wouldnt orgasm in sex unless shes thinking of that porno she watched the day before?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:30 PM
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Drugs are unironically based if you need to get out of your low energy zone. I do MDMA every few weeks because I suffer from melancholia I score everytime I do it. Some men just need drugs to get out of their heads to let their inner dark triad to flow freely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:22 PM
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Avg dudes are also 200+ lbs. Lets not pretend women are much worse looking than the average man. They're lookmatched, yet both feel they can do much better and don't feel satisfied with their sex lives because the female slobs are had casual sex with men 2 to 3 points higher in the SMP in their youth peak whikst the slob men are jerking off to pornstars with 1 in a 100 looks or bodies and can't get rock hard for their looks match.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:18 PM
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