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SELF CAREQueenBee126/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 02:19 PM
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LIFESTYLEQueenBee126/r/RedPillWomen16/05/16 12:57 AM
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HUMORQueenBee126/r/RedPillWives19/12/16 02:27 PM
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GIRL GAMEQueenBee126/r/RedPillWives15/02/17 03:55 PM
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HUMORQueenBee126/r/RedPillWives29/12/16 02:30 AM
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INSIGHTFULQueenBee126/r/RedPillWives05/10/16 03:13 AM
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DISCUSSIONQueenBee126/r/RedPillWomen18/07/16 11:10 PM
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DISCUSSIONQueenBee126/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 01:02 PM
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DISCUSSIONQueenBee126/r/RedPillWives06/10/16 12:35 AM
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HUMORQueenBee126/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 10:51 PM
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QueenBee126/r/RedPillWomen10/04/16 02:00 AM
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DISCUSSIONQueenBee126/r/RedPillWives26/08/16 01:53 AM
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GIRL GAMEQueenBee126/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 12:02 PM
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DISCUSSIONQueenBee126/r/RedPillWives04/11/16 04:40 PM
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DISCUSSIONQueenBee126/r/RedPillWomen17/07/16 06:14 PM
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Cheerleaders don’t join the huddle. Cheerleaders don’t tell the players what plays to run. They don’t correct. Cheerleaders just cheer. Even when the team is down they just cheer. THAT IS AWESOME!
/r/RedPillWives23/07/17 01:11 AM
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This is sooooooooo adorable! P.S. Congrats on becoming a Red Pill WIFE!!!!!
/r/RedPillWives08/07/17 12:47 AM
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"Staying neutral for a while keeps your SMV/RMV good" Lord, I don't even know where to begin. OP, I think you should do some essential posts reading here.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/17 10:28 PM
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CAN WE PLAY THIS EVERY MONDAY
/r/RedPillWives05/06/17 05:26 PM
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Red Pill Hotties Deserve Everything ;-) BAGET
/r/RedPillWives05/06/17 05:26 PM
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But Trannies Love D*ck Also (Where is this comment going LMAO) TFBAF
/r/RedPillWives05/06/17 03:15 PM
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The Duchess of Cambridge & Princess Diana are fans!
/r/RedPillWives27/05/17 07:18 PM
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You should volunteer at an assisted living facility with the activities director. Old people are a HOOT! & they really appreciate it <3
/r/RedPillWives25/04/17 02:35 AM
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Yay congratulations!
/r/RedPillWives17/03/17 01:16 AM
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Appreciate you writing this up, it's very interesting :-)
/r/RedPillWives15/03/17 03:09 AM
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The 48 Laws of Power. This is great as he can apply to his career, which can give him confidence. You might also enjoy. :-)
/r/RedPillWives11/03/17 06:44 PM
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So many fundamentalists out here! Yay! It's too be expected I suppose. I'm Catholic as well. Not a fan of Pope Francis or his political agenda.
/r/RedPillWives11/03/17 04:00 AM
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Hehe you're welcome!!
/r/RedPillWives16/02/17 03:59 PM
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She did!!
/r/RedPillWives16/02/17 03:59 PM
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I want preface this by saying I have no advice to give but I just read through this comment thread & I just wanted to commend you both /u/BellaScarletta and /u/melbautoast on how constructively and maturely you both communicated here. YASSS QUEENS!!! I love this sub. You would never see this in another community. Makes me heart swell. And gives me hope!
/r/RedPillWives13/02/17 04:01 AM
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I'm not a man but I have the exact same problem as your husband and would not AT ALL mind if you handled the issue the way Stingray advises it... in fact your husband will feel very grateful to you! You help him remember the little things so he can concentrate on the huge things. :-)
/r/RedPillWives08/01/17 10:33 PM
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Love him
/r/RedPillWives06/01/17 01:59 PM
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Hehehehehehehehe
/r/RedPillWives05/01/17 10:33 PM
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Smh ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWives12/12/16 01:49 AM
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And also 50 cats
/r/RedPillWives09/12/16 01:22 PM
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wait, is beauty now edgy because it isn't mainstream? Yes, along with being feminine, having decent manners, wearing dresses that don't show your organs, etc. WE ARE SUCH PUNKS YOU GUYS
/r/RedPillWives09/12/16 01:22 PM
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/u/TempestTCup - Thank you for sharing this!! I am now on a third video of hers. :-) New subscriber!!!
/r/RedPillWives09/12/16 01:11 AM
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Hehe you definitely made my day!
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 11:33 PM
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Please note: I COMPLETELY get what you are trying to do here. And I love it! It's a great example. But this made me LOL like no other! I spit out my water!! HAHAHA Now, I'm sure we can all agree that Donald Duck isn't what we'd typically consider Captain material,
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 10:30 PM
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Hehehe!
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 01:29 PM
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Sure, if you would like to! I'm halfway through week 2 in month 1 (the beginner month) and I have seen a difference already! I really like the different levels because the RPWs can pick for their level, but we all get to bond over our growing booties <3
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 11:33 PM
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Wait and see what your BF said but the touching thing is wierd coupled with the work wife comment. Maybe they want a threesome LOL
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 10:54 PM
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I am not on Facebook or Twitter. Maybe I should make accounts that don't use my photo or real name this is a good idea because you can put UK in your profile and UK people can search that way, and if you strike up a convo with someone you seem to get a long with, just DM your phone number privately. This is extremely common for people who don't have PC viewpoints; I have made 4 great friends this way
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 10:48 PM
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Here is what I have been using; it has different levels for different levels of physical fitness. Squat Challenge
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 10:39 PM
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I have bookmarked it!!!
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 10:38 PM
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You can if you wish!
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 02:32 AM
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Really good FR. I am so happy things worked out for you! Also, that cookie recipe looks DELISH!!!!
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 02:29 AM
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I love reading FRs like this! I started reading some books on etiquette that I had and refresh myself, as well as some books that explain the importance of femininity. Please share!! :-) I understand RPW is all about psychological femininity, of course, but if you let that seep into your outer appearance, gestures, vocabulary and intonation, you will see an amazing change to how everyone reacts around you. The God honest truth. In my opinion, making changes on the outside helps a lot with making…
/r/RedPillWives05/12/16 02:16 AM
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Do you watch Wendy Williams? She is a very tall and busty woman but she wears dresses all the time and they never look slutty. She always looks very put together whilst also being fashion forward. Anyways, she has her own clothing line on QVC (it has extended sizes in the bust and her shoes go up to size 14) and her fans post pictures of her outfits tagging the designers. Hope this helps!
/r/RedPillWives03/12/16 07:19 PM
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This^ In addition to: don't go to bed with your hair wet & follow the rules in my hair post (it will help your hair look thicker and behave less unruly)
/r/RedPillWives03/12/16 07:17 PM
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Here is a housekeeping schedule I follow. I posted it before and it was a huge hit!
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 10:57 PM
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Same lol I usually look like the pillsbury dough boy in the winter
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 05:21 PM
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HELLO AND WELCOME!!!!!!!! We are a great and supportive bunch! But we can also get pretty sassy so look forward to that! Check out the December 2016 Events in the sub and get involved!! <3 I also take psychological femininity very seriously. I only wear very feminine clothes, I care about speaking eloquently and always gesturing and moving in a dainty manner. I think this reflects a soft personality. Sweet and lovable, but courageous! You're gonna love it here LOL
/r/RedPillWives01/12/16 05:19 PM
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These sound so fun. I'm looking forward to the share your favorite meme one!!! Gosh, how can I choose just one?! /u/BellaScarletta and I are gonna have a hard time with this LOL
/r/RedPillWives30/11/16 07:59 PM
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If you push it, it will be fake for them. Let it flow organically. THIS
/r/RedPillWives30/11/16 07:57 PM
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Sex Challenge update: Hey everyone!! LMAOOOOOO
/r/RedPillWives30/11/16 12:27 AM
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Afterwards I had a bit of guilt, thinking that I should have done more. I really let everyone else do the bulk of the work - I wasn't even tired! But the morning after, while at breakfast with his family, everyone wanted to do the same and more at Christmas dinner. They kept throwing out different ways they could help more next time. Ugh, I can relate so much to this!!! It's like a former feminist guilt "I should be able to do all this myself, I shouldn't be accepting help from others; I am inad…
/r/RedPillWives29/11/16 09:34 PM
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Day 1 - Do something kind for yourself. I think I will do a beauty treatment. "Me time" is a gift because it makes me prettier but it also relaxes me. Day 2 - Do something kind for your SO or a guy your crushing on. Hmm, maybe bake some cookies! Day 3 - Do something kind for a family member or close friend. Spa day for my mom. She works very hard & she deserves it! Day 4 - Do something kind for a co-worker. Again, with the baked goods! Day 5 - Do something kind for a stranger (or donate to chari…
/r/RedPillWives29/11/16 09:28 PM
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I loved this! My fave bit was deciding what to eat 😂
/r/RedPillWives29/11/16 02:47 PM
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Me! :-)
/r/RedPillWives27/11/16 10:42 PM
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I loved doing challenges this month. Would anyone be up for a Squat challenge??
/r/RedPillWives27/11/16 06:24 PM
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I did a funky pedicure today - dark maroon nails with gold French tips! I feel wintery This sounds so pretty! And perfect for the holidays! You should try and find a coordinating lipstick or lipgloss in maroon. That would be cute!
/r/RedPillWives27/11/16 06:23 PM
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6/19 Those were hard!!!!! But the explanations made quite a bit of sense. I really liked the idea of everyone sitting and rising from the left, that way no one bumps into each other.
/r/RedPillWives27/11/16 06:22 PM
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Leave it in longer, and apply heat (I wrap a towel around my head fresh from the dryer). Also, it is a product that the more you use it, the better the results. When I first used it, my hair was shiner. After a few moths if using it my hair is noticeably shinier and has been commented on by random people even at the grocery store! Good luck to you!
/r/RedPillWives27/11/16 03:11 PM
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What kinds of flirty things do you say? Or what would you consider a flirty comment? Try reading Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood. There's a chapter in there regarding compliments, specifically. How to do it & why to do it.
/r/RedPillWives26/11/16 10:17 AM
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Your parents are so awesome!!! I love your mom, what a go getter.
/r/RedPillWives23/11/16 01:34 PM
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Good job!!
/r/RedPillWives22/11/16 09:58 PM
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I would try Unique Vintage and ModCloth for inspiration. I like vintage/skater style as well, and I normally do a full midi skirt with a top (sleeveless, sweater, turtleneck) with tights/bare legs, boots/heels/flats depending on the weather. I find a lot of skater dresses in stores to be too short! Full skirts are not difficult to make, you could even see them yourself! It would be a great hobby to pick up; you can buy your own material and add petticoats for even more fullness like this
/r/RedPillWives21/11/16 01:42 PM
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What kind of dresses do you like? Sheath/pencil dresses? Fuller vintage style dresses? Also are you a special size like petite?
/r/RedPillWives20/11/16 09:43 PM
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He stared at it and asked: So it is not worn directly on the skin?" "Uh, no, it is a fall dress. Would be too chilly without underwear or camisole." This made me LOL. Ahh, men.
/r/RedPillWives19/11/16 02:18 AM
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Hehehehe /u/BellaScarletta I wish!!
/r/RedPillWives19/11/16 02:16 AM
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Some of my favorite scents (I like gourmands!) Angel by Thierry Mugler. This is a love it or hate it fragrance, and it smells different on every woman. My mom has sprayed it on her and it smells very sweet. On me, it smells very chocolate and peppery. So I like it for a night out. Definitely worth a sniff IMO, it's available at Ulta and department stores. Fresh Beauty Love from the Eat Pray Love collection This fragrance is limited edition and if you are ever in NYC or Europe, definitely sniff t…
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 08:47 PM
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Ahhhh Ulta is having a huge sale; definitely going to check this out this weekend?l! Curious, what DOES it smell like??
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 08:38 PM
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Woo!
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 08:38 PM
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/u/littleknownfacts TAGGING YOU IN THIS! I think you'll find this fascinating
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 02:51 PM
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regularly pass for a high schooler but my hand are showing a bit of wear YAY! You are going to love my article. YOUR HANDS SHALL MATCH FOR FACE if I have anything to say about it!! #TheQueenBeeWay #QueenBeeMagic Her left hand is as soft as a baby's bottom and considerably less wrinkled than the other hand. It's pretty fascinating. That is fascinating! Reminds of this man who only got sun on 1/2 of his face for most of his life.
/r/RedPillWives17/11/16 02:14 PM
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Hehehe more than happy to be! You should start your shower routine with cleaning your hair first. For your hair length, a quarter size amount of shampoo should be sufficient. Concentrate on your scalp to the nape of your neck ONLY! The ends of your hair are already dry, so the little amount of soap running from scalp to ends is all you need to clean them; there is no need to further dry the ends out by scrubbing there as well! For your ends; make a ponytail at the nape of your neck and apply a q…
/r/RedPillWives17/11/16 02:10 PM
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Day 1: Makeup: I wore lipstick & false lashes! The lashes took like 5 minutes to put on LOL but I bought a special lash kit (on sale! WOOP) that came with a tool, so I think that helped. Hair: My hair oil got into my roots while I was sleeping so it was limp. I didn't have enough time to wash it so I made lemonade out of lemons and did a super "shiny" sleek side ponytail! Outfit: I had been planning on wearing a dress but an unexpected cold front came in so I settled for black leggings, a cardig…
/r/RedPillWives17/11/16 01:55 PM
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Aww!
/r/RedPillWives17/11/16 02:01 AM
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/u/Sunhappy_DC are we doing an update at the end of the week on a sperate post or are we writing our updates here?
/r/RedPillWives17/11/16 01:03 AM
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I didn't mention any of my changes or purchases to my husband, but after almost a month of my new routine he told me one day, "wow, your hair has been so shiny recently! It looks extra beautiful and healthy. I love it!" Needless to say, that made my day. He's mentioned it several times since as well. Thank you so much! :D OMG A TESTIMONIAL! This makes my heart so happy. I am so happy to hear this! Wait till you add the Kenra serum (expensive, but soooo worth it) ALSO: I am working on a post RE: …
/r/RedPillWives17/11/16 01:02 AM
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Hopefully this will help you!
/r/RedPillWives17/11/16 01:00 AM
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There are no bake dessert recipes on Pinterest, they don't require the oven yet are very delicious!
/r/RedPillWives17/11/16 12:48 AM
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I understand. I'll try and find a video for you to do it home! Is your hair style complicated with layers or is it all one length, etc. Can you attach a random photo from Google of a similar hairstyle as to yours?
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 08:40 PM
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You will see results from the first week, full results after 6! Also, results will come faster if you trim your split ends (in general, trimming the ends will make your hair look healthier)
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 06:42 PM
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A test kit! Pretty cheap. Try a drugstore or home store like Home Depot. Here are some DIYs
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 03:05 AM
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your skin tone would be good to take for home decoration as well so that the consistency not only makes a room look good, but you also look good in it. THIS. THIS IS THE GOAL. This is the level of Girl Game & SMV I want to achieve LMAO
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 02:04 AM
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this video was AMAZINGGGGGG. And now I'm binging on all the other ones on his channel, OOPS! :-P
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 02:02 AM
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Ooooooooh sips sparkling water!
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 02:01 AM
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Pinterest has easy 5 minute hair styles that are super pretty too! Buns, braids, dressy ponytails! :-)
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 02:01 AM
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Awww!! PM me if you have any questions!!! :-)
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 02:00 AM
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For any ladies needing help with makeup: If you have 5 minutes If you have 5 EXTRA minutes
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 01:59 AM
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I am so excited about this!! But I am going to start tomorrow, as it is 1.5 hrs before dinner time where I am :/ #oops
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 08:24 PM
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Same! Let's do it 😎
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 08:20 PM
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Mine is you /u/BellaScarletta !! I always enjoy your humor on the IRC & on here. And I always look forward to Sh!t Post Saturday because I know your posts will have me hysterical! I also enjoy reading your FR from Bella & your old user. They are extremely insightful and wonderfully well written. I would also like to add /u/littleknownfacts . I am amazed at how you always find the most interesting articles to share here, especially the very scientific ones. Those are fascinating and it's always a…
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 03:04 AM
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Yeah this aren't real RPW. They think RP only applies to politics
/r/RedPillWives13/11/16 04:23 PM
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posts images of her being spanked by strangers in BDSM get up. True story. cough SPITS OUT SPARKLING WATER
/r/RedPillWives13/11/16 04:21 PM
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These posts are 5/7 Or maybe I should take a chance and say 8 and hope people will get it
/r/RedPillWives13/11/16 04:18 PM
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Welcome! Thank you for sharing! These are some great tips; I had heard before about this theory RE: children & boundaries but you explained it so well and in depth ❤️. Can you please talk more about what you referenced in the title ie. With other "adults"? Also: Congrats on the babies! Is it boy/boy, boy/girl or girl/girl?
/r/RedPillWives11/11/16 07:31 PM
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This is such a good field report! He sounds like a good Captain. Happy for you, OP. :-)
/r/RedPillWives05/11/16 11:29 PM
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We want to be wives, not just brides! :-)
/r/RedPillWives05/11/16 07:20 PM
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Wine is basically a fruit right? AHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHA I love you Camille
/r/RedPillWives05/11/16 02:12 AM
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Wine is basically a fruit right? AHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHA I love you Camille EDIT: (because RPW needs more wine) My favorite wine is New Age White Wine from Argentina. My friend got it for me, and I haven't been able to find it since BUT I WILL DRINK IT LIKE IT IS WATER!!! LINK
/r/RedPillWives05/11/16 02:12 AM
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Most men don't actually study a woman's social media page in the same way that women will Hmm, another good point! Girls can be like the FBI sometimes with social media, LOL. You posted some really good "don'ts" which I will incorporate. Thanks for giving me examples!! Social media can be so tricky!
/r/RedPillWives05/11/16 02:11 AM
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Sorry if I was unclear but /u/Camille11325 & /u/Manbeol both gave me information I found really relavent and helpful. Also, regarding your point about me evaluating women as useless because I'm not seeking to vet women- I am trying to see how I am viewed online from the point of view of a man trying to date me, to make sure it is in line with what I'm wanting to present. I'm a millennial so I was raised in the over share generation. And now I know that isn't the best way to be, but social media …
/r/RedPillWives05/11/16 02:03 AM
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CatsInHats http://m.imgur.com/cCF3Hog?r
/r/RedPillWives05/11/16 12:12 AM
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Really love this!!! This is exactly what I was looking for!! And yes, this could totally be its own topic/discussion.
/r/RedPillWives04/11/16 11:37 PM
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Hi, thank you for your post. My question wasn't so much as finding a RPW role model to follow as much as helping to clarify what comes across as seeking validation online and what doesn't. Thank you anyways for your help!
/r/RedPillWives04/11/16 11:36 PM
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IMO if they aren't seeking validation, most of the time the entries will sound like "hey check out this cool thing I saw/did". Really good point
/r/RedPillWives04/11/16 11:33 PM
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The posts I would make would only be major milestones or the like. So I wouldn't post things like my chai tea latte or me sitting at my desk at work. Those things are reaching for validation. I think you just have to actually post things of substance for them not to come across as narcissistic but genuine in the intention to share your life I really like this point, thank you!
/r/RedPillWives04/11/16 11:32 PM
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rolls eyes
/r/RedPillWives04/11/16 08:19 PM
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5 Mistakes Men Make Proposing: Proposing To The Woman Who Wrote This Article
/r/RedPillWives04/11/16 08:19 PM
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I really enjoyed reading this. The part where she says her son WOKE HER UP, it goes to show you how valued parents are during the teen years. Particularly with school nowadays, kids don't spend a lot of time with their parents. To raise them RP and not have them indoctrined by their teachers, it's important to talk with our kids/teens.
/r/RedPillWives04/11/16 04:56 PM
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Link?
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 03:06 PM
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.... sips sparkling water /u/CoochQuarantine
/r/RedPillWives01/11/16 10:44 PM
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I don't know where to start with this but I'm glad you resolved it I suppose
/r/RedPillWives29/10/16 06:55 PM
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Least favorite names: STRIPPER NAMES Ryker, Kaden, anything ending with -lynne (or God forbid another variation with even more letters) I HATE IT, UGH SO TACKY I think it's a little boy. So excited for you!
/r/RedPillWives26/10/16 07:19 PM
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I find that once I open up about my problems to ladies it opens to floodgates to them butting in at EVERY aspect of my life, with follow ups. Almost feels like a dr checkup. cringe It's for this reason that I barely open up. I go online, post on here but the only person I'll talk to is my mom, dad & brother. They are only people I can trust, & they don't continuously bring up resolved things.
/r/RedPillWives26/10/16 07:13 PM
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Soft MGTOW that’s been a part of modern marriage for four decades now. That we know of! My Father is always remarking to my Mother about the men he meets during his work travels and how they are becoming workaholics. They have been married for a long time, yet hate going home to their wives so they throw themselves into their work, a hobby, etc. And he said he sees it across all age ranges and marriage lengths. This makes me want to be even more RPW! :O
/r/RedPillWives22/10/16 12:06 AM
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Awww proud of you CQ!!!! YAY!
/r/RedPillWives20/10/16 05:22 PM
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Are you actually serious...
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/16 12:48 PM
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I mostly get turned on knowing he is turned on by me YES, EXACTLY
/r/RedPillWives17/10/16 11:25 PM
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“It is to a woman’s advantage to stimulate as much sexual desire as possible from potential male suitors because this “demand” for her (as a sexual partner) raises her “price” in the sexual marketplace and ultimately determines what she can expect from men (in terms of resources) in return. This was a very interesting point to me & it highlights what we do in girl game. I wonder if we could start a discussion regarding this point and social media. How do we increase our ODSC in social media (tur…
/r/RedPillWives17/10/16 11:24 PM
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Also extends to RPW as well! :-)
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 09:52 PM
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Appreciate it!
/r/RedPillWives15/10/16 02:29 PM
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Your home game can only lack if you're super rich Or lazy!! Also, thank you Cooch about adding my post as a reference
/r/RedPillWives15/10/16 02:11 PM
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CHERRY!!!
/r/RedPillWives15/10/16 08:21 AM
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Mind linking me? Curious to read this A great post about a historical example of female power-play and a president's reaction to it was posted here,
/r/RedPillWives14/10/16 07:01 PM
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Vinegar!!! Congrats on loosing the weight girl!
/r/RedPillWives13/10/16 10:47 PM
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Oooooh I love this. So straight forward. <3
/r/RedPillWives13/10/16 10:46 PM
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I don't think there are, but I would be VERY excited if someone here created some! Has she read the books we recommend at least? Those are great places to start.
/r/RedPillWives09/10/16 06:30 PM
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Yep!
/r/RedPillWives08/10/16 04:11 PM
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Here is the new petition: NEW
/r/RedPillWives08/10/16 04:10 PM
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And the government removed the petition instead of addressing the problem. sigh
/r/RedPillWives08/10/16 12:40 PM
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What’s interesting, though, is that people start paying attention to Katniss after she’s been gussied up for ceremonies and Capitol events. Oppressive regime aside, her beauty, newly revealed, is her gateway to being valued and thus noticed and praised for her other gifts. 100% of credit for this RPW brilliance goes to Cinna, a beloved character whose real value and cleverness is nonetheless underappreciated. Cinna understands how people work. He understands that Katniss will be judged first and…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/16 12:33 PM
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Honestly in this situation I would ask my husband to talk to them BOTH together, and be done with it. I wouldn't want to get involved, I don't like confrontation if I can avoid it. This is where I would duck submissively behind my rock and make him do it (IF AT ALL.)
/r/RedPillWives08/10/16 12:28 PM
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My two cents: Democrats whine about Trump’s locker room banter which opens floodgates to Hillary and Bill Clinton’s ACTUAL treatment of women. Trump wins, persuasion wise. Same with tax returns. RP Note - This isn't about redpill, this is about an election. He leaked it himself, classic persuasion/behavioral psychology.
/r/RedPillWives08/10/16 12:25 PM
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Thank you!!!
/r/RedPillWives07/10/16 07:38 PM
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JusticeForEmmaleigh 9 MONTH OLD BABY RAPED... TO DEATH. West Virgina does not have the death penalty. An official petition has been created to publicly hang him. (Or at least get a response from the White House allowing an emergency vote on the death penalty in WV.) IF YOU WANT ANY SORT OF JUSTICE FOR THIS GIRL, SHARE WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY! Here is the story. Here is the petition.
/r/RedPillWives07/10/16 07:02 PM
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This is excellent advice.
/r/RedPillWives05/10/16 10:34 PM
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Check this out!
/r/RedPillWives05/10/16 06:06 PM
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I loved the about me/manifesto section too!!
/r/RedPillWives05/10/16 06:02 PM
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Just some food for thought I guess. And what DELICIOUS and NURTITIOUS food this is!!! I shall eat it with my glass of sparkling water. No really, thank you for this great FR. I have been struggling with my RP principled life and how to apply them (or if I even should) at work. There's a post in my submission history if you would like to read it. Admittedly we here do extend RP philosophy to work so that discussion IS strictly a discussion and not a philosophy! However I really enjoyed this persp…
/r/RedPillWives05/10/16 03:06 AM
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My skin totally cleared up but upon getting off of it I had terrible cystic acne which I never had previously. The skin issue is the only reason I take BCPs. How did you fix this?
/r/RedPillWives04/10/16 08:07 PM
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I stay off of FB now. It just depresses and disgusts me.
/r/RedPillWives04/10/16 03:10 AM
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AMEN TO ALL OF THIS!!! Why has the idea of tact being the norm left our society?! Awful.
/r/RedPillWives04/10/16 03:10 AM
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I have been wanting to find this book too. I am very much looking forward to reading anything you can find on this topic!
/r/RedPillWives29/09/16 08:12 PM
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Try doing it less often, maybe once a month. I had the itchiness too and it was because I was doing it too often.
/r/RedPillWives28/09/16 01:12 AM
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Yeah just be extra careful! Alternatively, you can pluck!
/r/RedPillWives28/09/16 01:12 AM
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Asian women have been doing it forever and shaving your face will make your make up last longer and personally it makes me look younger, with a more even tone of skin. I've heard men's skin looks younger because of this exfoliation. However I would advise from shaving too often. Women have thinner skin then men! I was doing it once a week, and had to take it down to once a month. My skin was just too thin!
/r/RedPillWives28/09/16 01:11 AM
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I love this article because it is SO TRUE!
/r/RedPillWives28/09/16 01:09 AM
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I've seen a comment about this idea before (I'll try and find it and link it here) but I would enjoy a discussion based on this topic.
/r/RedPillWives21/09/16 09:14 PM
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This sounds like a REALLY good post, especially the attitude of martyrdom! That is why I left the RPWomen sub; it all got too much.
/r/RedPillWives21/09/16 09:13 PM
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Oooooh! I love this post! It SO sums up how I feel about cleaning. And also exercising! Once I get over the initiation of the activity, it feels so good! Cleaning promotes a calm serenity and exercising a joyful exuberance :)
/r/RedPillWives21/09/16 02:06 AM
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Once a week! Honestly it is worth the cost. You will use barely any hair care products, shampoo, etc. It makes your hair so HEALTHY.
/r/RedPillWives21/09/16 02:03 AM
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Thanks for thinking of us!
/r/RedPillWives20/09/16 09:01 PM
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Omg I just saw this slay BELLA SLAYYYY
/r/RedPillWives20/09/16 08:57 PM
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I buy mine at Ulta! One bottle usually lasts 8-10 times. (I have extremely long hair, like down to the middle of my back). If your hair is BSL or shorter it should last double as long! Also, Ulta usually has a sale going on (you can check online just type in John Frieda) and see. When I went to buy more 2 weeks ago, it was on sale BOGO half off, and I used the Ulta $3.50 off $15 coupon! :-)
/r/RedPillWives20/09/16 08:48 PM
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I may have stressed a bit here about that process (sorry!), but it all worked out :) Heheheh I remember! ;-) On the drive back hubs said something like "you looked gorgeous, I really liked your dress, and you didn't look like you were going clubbing." Later he said that it I looked like a wife, not a girlfriend. This is such a nice compliment! So, anyway, I think that dressing appropriately is part of unspoken communication which men really pick up on and it would be good to hear other ladies id…
/r/RedPillWives20/09/16 12:27 PM
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Try the John Frieda one. It won't weigh your hair down (I have a similar hair type!) :-) Edit: Do it on dry hair the first time and leave it on for 20 mins. Also it dries on contact so don't think you're not putting a lot, because it keeps drying and you don't feel anything. I seperate my hair on four sections (bottom left and right, top left and right) and use a quarter size amount of product on each section. Then clip it up and wrap my hair in a warm towel out of the dryer. Then leave for 20+ …
/r/RedPillWives20/09/16 10:28 AM
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What's your hair type/What glaze are you looking at?
/r/RedPillWives20/09/16 02:19 AM
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Good example Miss Sadie
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 01:36 AM
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Can you hire your own staff? Like at least one or two? Or a wedding planner to boss the staff around so you don't have to be the bad guy about getting things done? :)
/r/RedPillWives20/09/16 01:36 AM
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Heheh and aww! I'm glad to here it! Try the glaze and the Kenra hair serum next!
/r/RedPillWives20/09/16 01:35 AM
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Hahahaha "hangry" is something I know all too well!
/r/RedPillWives19/09/16 02:45 PM
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Congrats on being smoke free!! What a great accomplishment!!
/r/RedPillWives19/09/16 02:44 PM
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Ahh I am so happy I inspired you and I can't wait to hear about your results!
/r/RedPillWives19/09/16 02:42 PM
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Good: I have stayed on track for my workouts for over a week now! I've struggled with this hurdle for a long time; it feels good to overcome it. I have been reading more, which has helped with distressing! I have a great interview set up for a new job! My hair is looking amazing ever since I switched to sulfate free shampoo! The difference is night and day! (My hair care post is here.) Bad: Nothing too bad. I could have eaten healthier this week. I need to start packing healthy snacks. When I'm …
/r/RedPillWives19/09/16 02:40 PM
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Of course they start to hate women, when measure us against male markers for success only to find us constantly falling short. Yet they would say we are hamstering. And not see their own furious hamster.
/r/RedPillWives15/09/16 11:43 PM
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The conclusion that many of the commenters of that thread came to was that men were more concerned with pushing society forward and taking care of society that way, whereas the women felt that society should take care of them regardless of their career path. This isn't entirely wrong, but there is more to it, biologically speaking. Because to me it seems the high IQ women were not avoiding hard work out of laziness or because they believe society should support them, but because they wanted to p…
/r/RedPillWives15/09/16 06:31 PM
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Did you post this under another account OP?! /u/MissSadieDunham do you see this?!
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/16 06:29 PM
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YASSSSS SADIE GET IT
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/16 06:27 PM
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I HAVE A SIMILAR HAIR TYPE: THIS IS WHAT I DID: Test your water. Make sure you are rinsing with soft water and using sulfate free shampoo and conditioner, and leave in products without alcohol. Redye your hair your dark natural color. It will help fill in damage. Do not use heat products for a few months. Rinse with cold water. Sleep on satin pillowcase. Remove split ends yourself or get regular trims. Do a hair mask once a week (again sulfate free.) AND DRILL THIS INTO YOUR HEAD! Are you sure y…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/16 06:22 PM
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I hate it :(
/r/RedPillWives15/09/16 04:09 PM
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YES!!!!
/r/RedPillWives15/09/16 04:07 PM
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Yikes!!!!! Anna, a public-relations executive, saw her relationship with her Web-designer husband collapse as she became more and more successful and he floundered. In the last year of their marriage, she earned $270,000 while he brought in $16,000. “He never spent money that wasn’t his in an extravagant way,” she says while taking therapeutic sips of a Sea Breeze at Tribeca Grill on a recent evening. “But by not helping, he was freeloading.” Example of what's yours is mine and what's mine is mi…
/r/RedPillWives15/09/16 03:07 PM
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Raises the hand that isn't holding my glass of sparkling water. "I'm in!"
/r/RedPillWives15/09/16 03:02 PM
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I really enjoyed this cross post, thank you for linking it!
/r/RedPillWives15/09/16 03:02 PM
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SMILE: * I love to read. A lot! And it makes me smile when I can multitask and do yucky chores while listening to an audio book or podcast :) BOOST CONFIDENCE: * Mascara! And shiny hair. But I just loveeeeee the way my face looks even without a stich of makeup if I have lashes on. I am even looking into lash extensions or reusable false lashes. :)
/r/RedPillWives15/09/16 02:59 PM
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The first is that he says that women should wear things that women in their 20s would wear (or whatever else they want that is sexy) and that "age appropriate" doesn't really exist. Now this actually is in alignment with Stacy's opinion but I feel the exact opposite. Not that older women can't be fashionable, attractive, or even sexy, but a woman above 40 dressing like a woman in her 20s is a bit ridiculous to me. And especially a woman who is taken and/or has children. Dressing as if you are on…
/r/RedPillWives15/09/16 02:53 PM
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Looks are the MOST important thing to men and SMV.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 02:30 PM
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Yay!! Can't wait! I am not a bot. I am a genuine old person trying to forge her way into social media. THIS MADE ME LOL SO HARD.
/r/RedPillWives13/09/16 08:24 AM
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To get over my subconsciousness I would tell myself that if I was wearing an item of clothing that covered my body, was my size (not too tight), then I was not attempting to dress slutty and no one could rationally say that about me. Tell yourself that you were given a sexy body and it's not your fault that it looks sexy and amazing in clothes. Great advice here, OP.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 08:23 AM
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Men want a woman who is stared at by other men. Not because her clothes are begging for the attention (i.e. she is wearing a bikini when no one else is), but because she is beautiful Truth.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 08:22 AM
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I don't feel the need to dress promiscuously by any means. But I have noticed that even my friends in LTRs will wear items I feel too prude to wear (tank tops, regular shorts.) Don judge, perhaps their men LIKE them to dress that way. Of course, I feel like this is also driving away a potential boyfriend. This is definitely probably not the only thing. But it is some of it, yes. Most guys want a woman that is viewed as attractive and stylish. True. The few times I wore something classy but fitte…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 08:21 AM
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This week I went to my pet project house. It still isn't done and I was ready to blow-the-fuck-up to my contractor. What I did INSTEAD was waited til I calmed down, which was about 4 hours, and I finally called my contractor and told them how great the place looks but if we could focus more on some specifics on the interior rather than the exterior for the next couple of weeks to get it livable. They agreed and said they would get right on that asap. I handled it so much better than I would have…
/r/RedPillWives12/09/16 09:44 PM
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Ugly: I did lose my temper over a work based issue with him. It was pre-shark week, which is no excuse but it was a factor. I know I need to work on this and on keeping a more even temper generally. Also probably because of the new job/working in closer prox to your SO. You will get through it! :)
/r/RedPillWives12/09/16 09:42 PM
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I realized at that moment that people use "appreciation" as a guise for their validation. I do something for you so you'd better appreciate it. While it is nice to get appreciation, if you are expecting to be appreciated at every single act of love you commit, then you have bigger issues at hand. My friend suffers from this problem and can not figure out why each of her relationships BOMBS in a matter of months. It's sad and when she asks for advice I give her tough love. But you can lead a hors…
/r/RedPillWives12/09/16 09:39 PM
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However, that doesn't mean that that is supposed to be a major trait in you. Yes. And women who express this too much, get labeled as needy and nerve understand why. So she hooks up with a beta guy who reassures her every whim, and the cycle continues. That may also wax and wane depending on situations (eg loss of family memeber/job). You wouldn't want a man acting like someone in his family died every week (of course if no one actually died). For women that also means not being a doormat/robot.…
/r/RedPillWives12/09/16 09:32 PM
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This article is FANTABULOUS. 'sips sparking water' Perhaps we ought to link it in PPD ;-)
/r/RedPillWives12/09/16 09:30 PM
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First off, I love Stacy. But this article is a little weird to me. She just seems to be pontificating on age and fashion, and doesn't reach a direct conclusion. But maybe that's the point? Either way, I refuse to prescribe to the idea that just because your older you can't be feminine. And I cite THIS article, written by a MAN, to prove my point!!!
/r/RedPillWives12/09/16 09:26 PM
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It isn't about talking more, or forcing yourselves to talk about your day or to do things together. It's more about the responsiveness percentage when you share information with each other. The more bait goes unbitten, the more detached a couple become. The more bait we bite, the longer the relationship lasts. So skip the candlelit dinner or the relationship adviser if you want to revive the spark. Perhaps first try and look at your partner, respond to their comments, and invite them back into y…
/r/RedPillWives12/09/16 03:05 PM
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Agree with everything here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 02:56 PM
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Love #2! Hahaha
/r/RedPillWives11/09/16 05:01 PM
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It does!!
/r/RedPillWives11/09/16 05:00 PM
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Loved this!
/r/RedPillWives11/09/16 05:00 PM
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I love your captions so much!!
/r/RedPillWives11/09/16 12:39 PM
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Lena Dunham is a Monster of our Own Creation
/r/RedPillWives11/09/16 12:37 PM
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Why not just give him a BJ/HJ and then finish with PIV/anal when he wants a second? You said he finishes quicker with that, that seems like a good solution. Besides, 2 BJ/HJ is A LOT of effort, your mouth and hands will get really tired without being given a break.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 10:14 AM
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This is beautiful!!!!!! So wonderfully well written
/r/RedPillWives10/09/16 09:45 PM
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This is beautifully written, and I would like to add this also applies to toxic friends!
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/16 08:30 PM
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I would search the side bar here and on TRP using the tag "feminine bahavior" and "feminism." We talk about this all the time! And then make a discussion topic about a behavior you want to address specifically :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/16 06:55 PM
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'slides a plate over'
/r/RedPillWives10/09/16 12:19 AM
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Sounds delicious!!! You have intrigued me. I will have to make some! I love fish and I love tacos and I've never thought of putting them together!
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 11:38 PM
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What sort of degree do you have? Could you get transcriptionist work?
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 11:38 PM
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Plain taters, plain peas, and southern style honey cornbread!! (the best IMO)
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 11:37 PM
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The last minute. I was "Amen"-ing!
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 10:23 PM
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How old are your children? Does it have to be from home? Or can you do part time (i.e. AM hours?)
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 10:15 PM
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Ok, I have to ask. How are fish tacos? Do you use different seasonings and sauces?
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 09:29 PM
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BBQ boneless wings, mashed potatoes, peas and cornbread!
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 09:29 PM
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I would search though the Theory flair :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 09:02 PM
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Ahhhh PM me!! I'll help you out!
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 06:32 PM
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Vetting Part 1 Vetting Part 2 Vetting Part 3
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 05:27 PM
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We can't help you if you don't know RPW theory/haven't read the side bar. In fact, it's a little insulting. This sub has so much information, just for these purposes. We help when women have issues AFTER they have taken recommended steps. Read here about vetting and red flags and see if you can answer your own question first, or if you still need assistance.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 11:41 AM
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How else have you vetted him? Is this the only issue?
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 11:16 PM
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Ok so here is the link to this article written by the lovely Miss Sadie. This article in particular concerns the ability to get your captain to lead you; however the idea of leading from the bottom up, or topping from the bottom, is a big no no in RPW theory. LINK This is because RPW theory shows that when a woman tries to lead a man, or offer suggestions (in anything really; simple things from doing the dishes to lifestyle changes) the man views that as critical and disrespectful. It has to do …
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 10:06 PM
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Yes of course!! When I get home on the desktop I will search some links for you. I hope it will give you clarity and how to exercise your values in a more RPW friendly way! When I first read about "leading from the bottom up" it really changed my perspective and gave me insight into my relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 09:42 PM
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This post's topic isn't as much as "should men and women be friends as much as it is" as much as it is "are OP standards too unrealistic/controlling." Which, they are in my opinion, and others (thanks /u/bonerdude420 ) OP is asking if her standards/values are are the norm and whether her the way she is going about enforcing them in relationships is controlling or not. It is my opinion the way OP is going about this issue is "leading from the bottoms up" which is against RP theory. I am voicing m…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 07:24 PM
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You have just said everything I feel so succinctly! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 07:21 PM
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Hehehehe!
/r/RedPillWives08/09/16 07:18 PM
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This title is AMAZING. Thank you /u/littleknownfacts for teaching me something (love the plants tip) and making me laugh!
/r/RedPillWives08/09/16 07:16 PM
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He's definitely amused by all the girly things I do to my body, and I catch him watching. So I agree! Even if he isn't vocal about it, he likes it when you remember the ways he likes things. I remember my Dad would always be amused (but happy!) whenever my Mother would drag me into the bathroom with her to try some new hair mask, face mask, etc. Dad would always stand at the door way and teases us, but you could tell he was happy my Mom indulged her girly side and was teaching me the same - My D…
/r/RedPillWives08/09/16 07:14 PM
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Awwwwweeeee I loved loved loveddddd reading this!!!! I am so happy for you and your SO <3
/r/RedPillWives08/09/16 07:12 PM
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I will definitely get this for when I become a Mamma!! :) Thank you!
/r/RedPillWives08/09/16 01:45 AM
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Great to hear!!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 01:45 AM
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This book sounds like a Godsend!!!!!
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 11:27 PM
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You came on here to ask to others if your idea about same-sex friends was too controlling, since that is what you have been accused of in the past. I have given you my opinion, as with several others on this board. Why are you defending your opinion? It's obvious you value this aspect of your personality/standard you hold yourself too more than finding a relationship with someone. You also do not seem interested in compromising, either. Your best bet is to find someone who reflects these values.…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 11:24 PM
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I hardly ever contour, except for correcting features. I find contouring my face is too harsh and too masculine of a makeup look :) How about yourself? I find random people- male and female- in the street or shops are much more friendly and likely to strike up a conversation in a queue or something, when I'm dressed well and wearing my heels. Same for me! How interesting :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 11:15 PM
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I've been told this is controlling behavior, but I don't think it's controlling to want to be with someone who agrees with me that spending time with your opposite-gender friends in person is unnecessary while in a relationship. Is it? YES!!! This is a little insane actually. What about someone he has known from childhood? This is nuts. Personally I feel like it's my prerogative to decide the kind of person who I want to be with You absolutely do. However, I don't think you will be successful in…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 10:01 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 06:12 PM
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I think you bring up a good point here, /u/littleeggwyf almost like combining the two. I think sensing when it gets a bit too long a locked gaze and looking away demurely could be attractive to a man, it's inviting but feminine then?
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 04:54 PM
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Interestingly enough, a part of why it's not okay for a woman to do it in these societies is because it could be misinterpreted as romantic interest. So in this sense the article is actually right that staring at a man's eyes would get that message across This is so weird and interesting!
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 04:53 PM
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Interesting! I did not know this!
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 04:50 PM
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Oooh that sounds good! Behavioral science is a hobby of mine! Especially fascinating during this election. Would you mind linking me? :)
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 04:46 PM
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Actually I have done this when I first meet someone (can I borrow a pen? Oh can you grab that for me? Etc.) It has to be a small thing not a big thing (that will seem like using), but I find the person is really happy to do it and feels really happy and smiley after. I think it has to do with the idea of "Wow! I just met this person and they are trusting me enough to help them, they must really like me." People like people that like them. Almost in a way that if you are already acting like you h…
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 01:40 PM
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Troll
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 11:37 AM
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I also personally don't wear heels with maxi dresses or skirts, I think they look funny, Agreed. Sandals or ballerina flats. Unless the maxi skirt of maxi dress is an evening dress! LOL OP: Wear whatever you want, that is comfortable to you! It's probably best to wear shorter heels with shorter skirts, but if you like it, wear it! Don't be intimidated that the other girls don't wear heels, they are just jealous of your confidence to be a lady.* Also, remember to wear a slip or half slip or slit …
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 01:02 AM
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I like these ideas too. I suggested volunteering as well, because I feel like that is an activity that would attract a lot of RP friendly women.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 12:55 AM
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Well, you can socialize at a volunteering event. And the monthly meetings include a little social after wards to chat with the other ladies. The reason I suggested it was because you are looking for more RP type friends.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 12:54 AM
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Yes and that's my point that I addressed earlier. When you find a man that leads you, you react to his leadership. You don't need to know how to act to start relationship talks, etc. and other things you've been asking about because he will do that for you. IF YOU LET HIM! So in regards of how to "act" after this, there is nothing to act other than what you are doing in the day to day. For example: if you have been sending him a get everyday, don't suddenly atop sending him texts because you thi…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 10:57 PM
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The dues pay for them to put on events, pay for transportation of volunteers to big events, pay for rent of junior league meeting space each month (my JL is massive and it's a relatively rural JL.) Also the dues are cheap compared to what you get out of it, IMO. I don't know your financial situation though. How about fitness: Join a running club.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 10:52 PM
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How about volunteering? Junior league, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 03:00 PM
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I have no problem finding guys I'm interested in. But my question is, how do I find someone who's actually interested in an actual relationship? You might need to broaden who you are interested in, as your "type" isn't interested in a relationship right now. Get new hobbies, try new things and meet new people. Also, search this and any related topics to finding a boyfriend in the side bar. Your question has been asked in an infinite amount of ways time and time over, and you will have access to …
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 02:48 PM
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I expressed that I am looking for long term relationship with the right guy, and I need to be in an exclusive relationship before having sex. He said that he sensed that's what I'm looking for, and that's why he's not trying to get intimate with me yet; he respects me and doesn't want to hurt me, he just needs more time to decide. What do I do next? For now I just want to hide. Should I still see him? Would it be awkward? It's hard to tell if you are being actually serious.. You told him what yo…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 02:44 PM
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How about a book club?
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 02:38 PM
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You are welcome!
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 11:26 PM
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That, and as you noted, self control and discipline is appealing to many women. There's something to be said for a man waiting to have sex because he wants only you, the right woman for him who he's been searching for and now pursuing when he finds you... and the woman who he'll ravish daily (and nightly) and make up for "lost" time when you two are together. This is a very good point, and I honestly think it would just depend on the situation. I don't think a low or zero n count would be bad in…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 09:55 PM
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Again, I wouldn't say anything. Let HIM bring it up. But pray he doesn't! But if he does just tell him the truth and completely change the subject
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 09:52 PM
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Hahahaha! Sister wives lol
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 09:51 PM
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Ok, this makes much more sense now. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 09:51 PM
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Kind of inclined to agree with /u/runway. You're 25 and that makes me suspicious
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 09:25 PM
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Omg this is so embarrassing!!! I would say don't draw attention to it. If he does bring it up, explain what happened then drop it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 09:16 PM
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I completely agree with this post; it has everything to do with personality. I am more attracted to alpha (and short too!) Jason Statham then the tall good looking beta at my Uni.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 09:14 PM
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Ahahaha same!
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 09:12 PM
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In an SMV guy Op, I don't think you understand what SMV means. You cane be an SMV guy. SMV means sexual market place value. Do you mean a high SMV guy?
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 09:10 PM
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Ugh, and isn't that the goals?!?! Happy to have you! <3
/r/RedPillWives05/09/16 04:51 PM
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It's human nature to want to be valued highly by romantic partners, men just have different traits they want valued (on average). Good summarization.
/r/RedPillWives05/09/16 03:15 PM
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I don't know if I am the type of man that an RPW is in the market for, but just knowing that you ladies aren't unicorns makes my heart swell with hope that I can become one once I get myself back together. Aww, this is very sweet! I wouldn't suggest reading too much of TRP sub. RPW aren't really with RP men per say, a RPW can be with any man depending on her dominance threshold (her needs for more beta or more alpha behavior.) You should do a search on here and see what I'm taking about. There i…
/r/RedPillWives05/09/16 03:21 AM
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Exactly!!
/r/RedPillWives03/09/16 10:57 PM
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How does me telling him earlier change anything though? You answered your own question. He has told me that if I had been more direct about finding it attractive if he worked out early in the relationship, that he probably would have put more effort in on that front. And again. This isn't a deal breaker to me. But I also don't want to stay with someone who will never
/r/RedPillWives03/09/16 10:55 PM
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even if my husband and I aren't Captain/First Mate status. Could we be? Maybe. I'm going fairly slow and have just been "watering my own grass" so to speak. Slow and steady wins the race most times! Go at your own pace! And you're right, as long as your respectful, we are respectful too :) Lovely to have you
/r/RedPillWives03/09/16 07:04 PM
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HAHAHHAHA
/r/RedPillWives03/09/16 07:02 PM
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clap, clap, clap
/r/RedPillWives03/09/16 07:02 PM
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Never a Red Pill Wife...
/r/RedPillWives03/09/16 05:26 PM
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It seems that you are inferring a lot of things from my post which I never said. Did you even read it? This is SOOOO rude to /u/CoochQuarantine who is a great contributer here, my friend, and gave you great advice! You are coming to us, and she gave you tough love (a cornerstone of this sub) and you are being very impolite. I don't nag him. Mentioning that I find it attractive if he works out is not nagging or "forcing my ideas on him", and I have only mentioned it a few times over our 2.5 year …
/r/RedPillWives03/09/16 02:11 PM
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The few times we have talked about this, he has blamed me, as it's "my fault" that I didn't tell him this sooner in our relationship. To me, that seems a bit unfair. This is obviously a huge issue for you attraction wise, and he is right, you should have told him sooner. You should either A. break up with him OR B. love him as he is. Think of it this way: What if the roles were reversed? And YOU didn't work out and working out was a deal breaker for him? He would break up with you. He wouldn't s…
/r/RedPillWives03/09/16 02:03 PM
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Special thanks to whichever user on TBP linked to this post, it's perfect for the sub haha :P Ahahaha. I'm gonna go lurk on there & PPD for a while, & then I'll come comment on this :P
/r/RedPillWives02/09/16 11:36 PM
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OOOOH! Thanks for sharing :)
/r/RedPillWives02/09/16 10:14 PM
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It's more like...having him take an active lead. showing some interest. Leading me instead of me feeling like I'm leading everyone and not doing well at it :/ First up, you need to understand that men and women are different in how they communicate. If he isn't mentioning anything about your housework, that is because there isn't a problem. If there was he would say something. By not leading you, he is asknowleding your sovereignty of your domain, the household. You could invite him to lead and …
/r/RedPillWives02/09/16 09:03 AM
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And impatience can make me unpleasant. Very true!! A big part of femininity is being secure in the knowledge that your attitude is the greatest prize. For example, a man would rather come home to a sub par dinner and a happy wife that greets him at the door and takes a few moments to honor their reconvening than a gourmet dinner and a frustrated rushing wife who doesn't even notice him when he walks in. A huge part of being feminine is letting things go a bit haywire, but still keeping composure…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 08:53 AM
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Yeah! I am clumsy too! Not a lot but a good amount of my clumsiness came from not pausing and moving around too fast. That was bad because sometimes that would affect other people (ie. breaking something). So I've worked on that. But my regular clumsiness (ie. Poking my own eye while putting my contacts in, accidentally walking into walls, etc.) I play off and everyone finds it kind of a adorable. At least they aren't laughing at me, they're laughing with me!
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 01:48 AM
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My SO has described me as "a gorilla in a tutu" OH NO!! Well we can help. To be honest, this sounds like we will be able to take this step by step. FIRST UP: YOUR THINKING! Things I already know to avoid and have been working on: No, no, no. It shouldn't be "working on" it should be "eliminated." I went through a similar femininity transformation and it's best to start small but COLD TURKEY!! Here is a great YouTube channel that will help you with feminine walking, sitting, eating, posture, ente…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 01:41 AM
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My daughter would tenderly rock anything as a "baby" as soon as she could sit up unassisted. My baby cousin does that!! Also loves "cooking" in her play kitchen that she JUST HAD TO HAVE and also pretend cleaning with her mops and brooms. Ironically she is almost always wearing a mermaid costume, so when she is "cleaning" she is a MerMAID. XD
/r/RedPillWives01/09/16 10:10 PM
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My daughter is 9 now and is a hilarious hybrid princess-tomboy. Sort of reminds me of a tweet I saw once about a Dad who painted a Darth mask pink, because his daughter wanted to be "Princess Darth Vader for Halloween! Apparently this is not uncommon...
/r/RedPillWives01/09/16 10:07 PM
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Aww these events sound really fun!
/r/RedPillWives01/09/16 04:53 PM
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I guess your comment reminded me of it because most of the wishful thinking was based on staying positive and the idea that you attract things into your life based on how you frame your life :)
/r/RedPillWives01/09/16 02:35 AM
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I had to watch it as part of my health class ................dafuq kinda health class is that LMAO!
/r/RedPillWives01/09/16 02:34 AM
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It's like your attitude is reflected back onto you magnified by 100x. If you are restless, hostile, judgmental, suspicious, etc, you will find all of that--and mostly only that--in your life. This bit reminded me so much of the Law of Attraction/The Secret. Have any of you ladies heard of it?
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 11:01 PM
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Reading all these cute posts... wishing I could wear scarves and tights... And remembering I live in FL... Good things and bad things ladies!
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 10:59 PM
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Yes but I also think that our collective feelings have to do with what we want: Women:Commitment Men:Sex Men could argue all of our girl game, etc. is just more subtle manipulation to get what we want.
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 10:57 PM
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But of course!!
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 10:56 PM
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Hahahahhaha
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 10:55 PM
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it's almost funny how in the feminist world of bdsm, everything goes to extremes IT'S ALMOST FUNNY HOW IN THE FEMINIST WORLD, EVERYTHING GOES TO EXTREMES
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 10:53 PM
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I read RPW regularly because, oddly enough, I find you ladies more rational than TRP in many ways (or maybe just less pessimistic about the female sex/world in general). Also, it gives me a better idea of what to seek in a long-term partner. (TRP is no help with this at all; they just generalize all women as being disloyal and unworthy of commitment). Nice to read this!! I have seen other posts on TRP about the RPW sub and they seem to echo that sentiment. We might not be able to get rid of our …
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 10:51 PM
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:) Sweet
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 09:16 PM
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Very true!
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 07:35 PM
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That is AMAZING!!!!
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 07:30 PM
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We love you LOL
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 07:29 PM
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Hi my name is Bella and I've been clean from feminism for 2 years now. Resounding Chorus: Hi Belllaaaaa. Ok, I lost it at this point!!! Bella you need your own comedy hour LMAO
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 07:29 PM
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If not, fuck em! Raises glass and clinks
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 07:28 PM
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Now I can't stop seeing in others how I used to be and how it is tripping them up. Ahhhhh, I thought I was the only one! The urge to share RPW with them kills me, but I know I would be crucified for it.
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 07:21 PM
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I have to say, the fact that the women around here are totally comfortable calling out TRP (the sub) for its bullshit They go too far some times. Although they will probably say that's me being AWALT
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 07:19 PM
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this Russian proverb ... Better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie. .... That there is! sly smile
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 07:18 PM
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OMG I remember her!! I think I wanna read that book now. I'm totally a self help book junkie. COOOOOOOOOOCH make a post and enlighten us!!! And we can all comment our favorite books!!! :)
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 03:57 PM
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The idea of vulnerability is what I believe fosters the most intimacy within a relationship. I know that for women that means submitting and allowing her SO to take more control. But how does that manifest for men? Ooooooh I really like this idea. And also, how quickly does it usually occur, i.e. A woman can be vulnerable on the first date. Edit: it would also be interesting for everyone to comment examples of their man be vulnerable and examples of them being vulnerable to their man, so we can …
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 12:34 PM
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. I don't think she knows of RP because she is really not an internet person. But she really confirmed all those RP truths. Wow!! Well hopefully she does soon, she seems like she would be a great addition here! Also: you now have a friend who you can be traditionally feminine with! I see loads more lunches in your future :)
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 10:57 AM
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That was a good read! Thanks for the link!
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 12:36 AM
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Their frailty or inability to completely open themselves to a complementary partner is an aberrant psychological flaw not a characteristic strength to be celebrated. BOOOOOOOOM
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 12:28 AM
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Oh sure but we're the crazy ones! 😂😂 unreal. sips sparkling water
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 12:26 AM
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Also feed him :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 12:24 AM
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To be perfectly honest, though, vetting a good captain means keeping an eye out for signs of these behaviors. I think there's a lot of key differences between guys that are not captain worthy and guys that are. One of those difference being that the latter accept responsibility for their lives and have an internal locus of control. That's why (in my humble opinion), they tend to have more resiliency to weather life's storms. It's not your job to build that level of responsibility and resiliency …
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 12:23 AM
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Are there certain things that he tends to focus on more than others? By this I mean chores or tasks that he is very quick to notice whether they are done or not? If so, always make sure those chores are done the night before, or in the morning before you leave. Great advice Phantom!
/r/RedPillWives30/08/16 03:44 PM
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Maybe even take a moment to compose yourself before you walk in; smooth your hair, touch up any makeup, meditate and breathe if you had a particularly stressful day. :) Also, if you have things to carry in, walk in first and greet him. Take a moment to make that 30 secs or so all all it him; I promise this will have a great effect! THEN, walk back out to your car to grab a box or groceries etc. he might even help! ;-) When you walk in, it should be total GOLF vibes!
/r/RedPillWives30/08/16 03:43 PM
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This is a great idea. Say for example one of your chores was you were folding laundry before work but hadn't finished, don't leave the basket out somewhere he can see it right when he walks in; put the basket back in the laundry room, on your bed. Essentially the idea is, have the areas where he goes before you go home nice, tidy and inviting. The laundry room, bathroom, your bedroom doesn't have to be as perfect as your foyer, kitchen, living room etc. Maybe you can also invest in some flame le…
/r/RedPillWives30/08/16 03:40 PM
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Franco the giraffe is the new RPWi mascot. Fill that mug with sparkling water!! * it is law *
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 07:49 PM
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HAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHA oh my gosh so adorable! Just a lil scrub in the tub
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 04:58 PM
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Mods, I think this post is better suited for asktrp
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 02:17 PM
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. My hair is luxurious bitch!!! LMAO I LOVE IT I LOVE ITTTTT!
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 02:16 PM
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This is sooooo sweet
/r/RedPillWives29/08/16 01:34 PM
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Ugh
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 10:49 AM
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This is good advice. Personally though, I think you'd should try and move if you can.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 02:34 AM
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I would recommend reading the blog the Rules Revisted. There is a chart here and literally start going though this step by step. All of it won't happen overnight (i.e. The weight loss) but you can put in place a long term plan that you work towards every day. Then, in the mean time, you can post on here more detailed posts about your unfeminine mannerisms, emotional or any personality type issues, issues with friends, etc. that you think are unfeminine and we can give you specific advice to addr…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 06:00 PM
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Yes you should just focus on your SMV for now, and then your RMV. Use the search bar for specific topics (ie. Makeup) and read the side bar. Everything you need is one click away. Also read the blog the Rules Revisted!
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 01:02 PM
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Yes you should just focus on your SMV for now, and then your RMV. Use the search bar for specific topics (ie. Makeup) and read the side bar. Everything you need is one click away. Also read the blog the Rules Revisted!
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 01:02 PM
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Agree with this.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 01:00 PM
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I would recommend reading the blog the Rules Revisted. There is a chart here and literally start going though this step by step. All of it won't happen overnight (i.e. The weight loss) but you can put in place a long term plan that you work towards every day. Then, in the mean time, you can post on here more detailed posts about your unfeminine mannerisms, emotional or any personality type issues, issues with friends, etc. that you think are unfeminine and we can give you specific advice to addr…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 12:58 PM
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There is nothing a counselor can tell me that I haven't already tried, and besides all they would tell me is the same hippy dippy liberal crap that you're saying, I can't let myself be loved until I'm a strong independent woman who don't need no man. Kimmie this post is getting ridiculous. I think you need to talk to the Mods and find another sub. Best wishes
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 12:52 PM
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No you have not! I like your ideas, and that is why I suggested her seeing a counselor or life coach, someone who can teach her methods of breaking out of her mindset, because obviously according to her responses this issue seems to big to be solved on the Internet, etc. Mostly, stop looking for a white knight to fix the nasty stuff inside your head. claps
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 12:49 PM
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Ahhh I like this analogy
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/16 11:02 PM
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I meant that have a lot working against me and some therapist isn't going to magically make it go away if I pay her, with the money I don't have, to talk at me. My problems in life are less emotional and more environmental, physical, and economic, and a therapist can't make those go away. She can put a band-aid over the emotional aspect but it won't fix the root causes. Therapists are trained professionals and have access to resources that can help better your situation when they determine part …
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/16 10:52 PM
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Great advice for you here /u/KimmieBlag
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/16 10:48 PM
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Thank you!! You get it!! When people are living a sunshine and roses life, that means they have MADE IT THAT WAY. And it was difficult, and sometimes the thorny parts of life start pricking at you. A constant battle, but a worthy one! Thank you, /u/prettyredpill
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/16 10:43 PM
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Cute
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/16 03:49 PM
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"Depression" has always been a part of my life. I promise it'd be part of yours too if you had the kind of life I have. Some people just have shitty, lonely, difficult lives and they have to do their best to suck it up until their circumstances change. Sometimes I think people just slap that "depressed" label on those whose life circumstances they have no experience with and don't really know how else to help. This is SO assuming it is disgusting. Reminder: you are on the Internet, I don't know …
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/16 01:55 PM
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Don't follow this advice. Your problem is much bigger than you finding a man
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/16 10:41 AM
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Reading your post it was very easy to identify your issues and how to fix them, but I clicked on your post history and it seems to me you are depressed. Essentially, you can work on your problems with immaturity, accountability and gaining skills once you fix the depression problem. Search online to find a counselor who will talk to you and point you in the right direction to find a doctor and get treatment. Best wishes
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/16 10:40 AM
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This is so interesting to read, I really enjoyed it
/r/RedPillWives27/08/16 10:34 AM
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if you try to bleach your hair the indigo part can turn green (I haven't done this personally). It really works well for me though, and i really like the subtle copper highlights Yeah it's things like this and how permanent it is that make me not want to use it. But different strokes for different folks!
/r/RedPillWives26/08/16 05:23 PM
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Hahah thank you! Make sure to try a hair glaze/gloss as well! I think you will really like it!
/r/RedPillWives26/08/16 05:22 PM
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Yes I think these things are true as well. I'm well off enough to where the work I do is mainly for pleasure and not so much an income; I do what makes me feel happy and successful. All of these answers have given me the opurtinity to reflect on perhaps changing my position to a less authoritative one, and perhaps working with more men, so that I don't have to be looked at as being bossy or deal with the pettiness I have encountered. I just think it would make me happier!
/r/RedPillWives26/08/16 05:21 PM
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I just ordered it thank you!
/r/RedPillWives26/08/16 05:19 PM
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I loved your comment but especially this idea; it perfectly represents how I feel a lot of the times with being a self starter. I come up with ideas and it's no big deal if we don't do it! But perhaps I am not communicating effectively as I wish; this phrasing is super helpful and I'm going to start using it! Thank you Bella :) I just announce that it's not my dog and if the team doesn't like it, then let's move along - I don't have anything to gain whether they use my idea or not.
/r/RedPillWives26/08/16 05:18 PM
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Thank you for your input /u/FlowersandPetals an /u/Steigertochter!
/r/RedPillWives26/08/16 05:16 PM
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Thank you for sharing this article!! I really appreciate it :)
/r/RedPillWives26/08/16 05:15 PM
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LMAO
/r/RedPillWives26/08/16 05:14 PM
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I enjoyed reading this :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 02:08 AM
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Hey!! I am so happy it is helping you! It really is amazing. I love the way she talks about clutter and her philosophy and it helped me to reframe my mindset as well, which has made a massive difference to me!
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 10:28 PM
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I can't even... P.S. I just deleted my tumblr a few weeks ago and this post reminds me why LOL
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 08:29 PM
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SO HAPPY TO HEAR. My hair always looks instantly disgusting and greasy any time I even look at a bottle of Argan oil lol. It sounds like we have basically the same hair type because my hair is just like that!
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 08:23 PM
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You're welcome!! :-)
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 08:22 PM
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I love it because I feel like the more often I clean, the less time I have to spend cleaning! Back before I swallowed the pill my cleaning was sporadic and each time I worked up the courage to tackle a large area it took HOURS and killed my motivation.
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 08:21 PM
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No problem! :-)
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 08:20 PM
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THE GOOD: Stuck to my exercise schedule, ate right, did my hair and makeup everyday, made 3 meals from scratch, WROTE A POST FOR RPWi (!!), started a new book. THE BAD: A new semester of school has started and I am not as organized as I should be. I didn't get to volunteer this week at my charities because of poor planning. THE UGLY: Nothing, yay!
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 05:16 PM
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Hehehe that's cute Jade!
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 05:13 PM
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Belllllllllla you kill me!!! I'm in school right now and I'm bookmarking this to read later! I know I'll laugh out loud too much 😂
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 05:12 PM
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THIS IS MY GUIDE. Highly recommend for girls who don't have a schedule and don't know where to start!
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 05:11 PM
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Henna kind of scares me!! Can you tell us more about it?
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 05:09 PM
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I used about 3 pumps of the Kenra, expecting it to look way too shiny or oily but it doesn't :) YAY! Also about your glaze, did you clarify your hair first and make sure you didn't have any scaling on your hair? What is your water situation? Hard water might be decreasing the glaze's effectiveness.
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 05:08 PM
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You better PM when it comes in! I am so excited!! just girly things
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 05:07 PM
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The Kenra gloss smells aaaaaamaaazing. Already put it in my hair. Oh yeah, they were giving away sample hairspray with it too. IT IS MY SECRET WEAPON!!!
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 05:06 PM
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/u/BellaScarletta A WOMAN AFTER MY OWN HEART! LOLOLOL
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 05:05 PM
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Hi the Kenra Silkening Gloss is an everyday hair serum. The Kenra Silkening mist is a shine hair spray. Pick on according to your needs! Please note: the Kenra Silkening Gloss is NOT THE SAME as a hair glaze/hair gloss; it simple has gloss in the name but it is a everyday hair serum!
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 05:04 PM
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You are welcome!
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 11:42 AM
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Hehehehe how very RP of you ;-)
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 10:28 PM
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Hahaha sorry! You'll thank me later ;)
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 10:00 PM
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I think having an abundance mentality in this regard will allow you to think with better clarity in terms of evaluating partner potential. I missed this first go around but this is all kinds of YASSSSS. Abundance mentality prevents you from settling for flags you think are yellow but are really RED!
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 09:52 PM
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Thank you! Ladies please take note!
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 08:49 PM
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I use it with them! The hair glaze once a week (or hair gloss every month) and then the Silkening Gloss (which is really actually just a serum) everyday.
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 08:49 PM
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A glaze is a different product than the gloss she listed. Yes this is actually a separate product meant to be used everyday. This is NOT A HAIR GLAZE OR GLOSS, it is actually a serum. you use won't really add much depth or tone where as that is what a glaze is intended for Not necesarily! Clear glazes exist!
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 08:48 PM
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Hi /u/littleteafox, that is actually a serum. It is just called a gloss but it is a separate product from the hair glazes and glosses I was talking about. But yes, I would recommend the hair glaze you mention for dyed red hair! John Frieda also makes a good one as well, which I believe is sold at Ulta. Smell which one you like better LOL
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 08:46 PM
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Yay!!!!! Please share the results with us! Also make sure you google Ulta $3.50 coupon!! Save you some $$$ :-) Your SO can thank me later lol
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 08:45 PM
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I think you will LOVE IT!
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 08:44 PM
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Do you use dry oils? I like them but I find even a little oil will make my hair limp. That's why I like glazes :)
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 08:44 PM
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The Duchess does have great hair! Although my favorite royals hair-wise is Princess Bearice of York (that color!) Crown Princess Mary of Denmark (the Princess that Kate copies LOL) and Queen Rania of Jordan
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 08:43 PM
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EDIT: OMG I CAN'T BELIEVE I FORGOT THIS PART Use a glossing serum/mist! I see in the comments people have mentioned there use of oils, which I LOVEEEE but using a specific glossing serum is my favorite. This is great for people with dry ends, and glossing mist is essentially a shiny hairspray so it's great for ponytails (If you need more hold just spray your hairspray, wait a few minutes, then spray the glossing spray to add back the shine). For glossing mist I like Frederick Fekkai Sheer Shine …
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 06:17 PM
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Yes ma'am! Ulta brand makes a clear glaze too. If you wanted to go the hair gloss route, I would try this in clear. All you do is mix it with a developer. Ion is a GREAT brand, their high gloss hair color is the ONLY color I use. I'm trying it next so I'll update this post with my results :-)
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 05:36 PM
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DON'T WEAR A LOT OF MAKEUP You want to look like you but better. Reference this post.
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 05:28 PM
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Pay attention to your body language. Keep good posture, and remain engaged with him. Keep eye contact, and don't shy away from well, being shy. If you're feeling slightly shy show him that. Your vulnerability will most likely be very cute to him, and you don't need to feign exaggerated confidence that you don't really feel. Allow yourself to giggle and blush, laugh and look at the ground if he makes a joke at you. Let him enjoy your femininity. This is a VERY important point!!! He is a guy & he …
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 05:26 PM
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I'm obsessed with the new show on history channel about Jack and Ozzy Osbourne called Jack and Ozzy World Detour; apparent Ozzy and his son are huge history buffs and the show is about their road trip; they go to some really interesting places! Not to mention, they are hilarious. It is streaming as well!
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 12:55 AM
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Love this
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 09:44 PM
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Really enjoyed this submission, Tempest! Made my day!
/r/RedPillWives22/08/16 01:27 PM
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Irrelevant to this sub
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/16 06:34 PM
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Thank you ladies!! Such a great, thorough article. I am bookmarking it!
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 11:23 PM
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This is a very interesting observation- I sometimes wonder what our advertising (feminist, overtly sexual "yo go girl" mentality does to our society). What sorts of advertisements did you see in Japan for women's products? Did it reflect an idea of femininity?
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 12:11 PM
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That's great but this is a sub for RPW sexual strategy, I don't think it deserves it's own post.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 12:09 PM
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Congratulations!!!!!!! I was actually just about to send you a private message wishing you well, and I saw this! So so SO happy for you, your family, your little one!
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/16 11:51 PM
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Agreed
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 11:48 PM
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When you are making your lists, do you use an app? A notebook? What have you found works best for you?
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 09:04 PM
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You can also have the ability to make your profile picture something anonymous, like flowers. In regards to other social media, what sort of things are you interested? News & funny things? - Try Twitter! Weird at first but once you get the hang of it, it gets kind of addicting! You also have the ability to be anonymous. Food blogs, fashion blogs, photography? - Try Instagram!
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 12:17 PM
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I completely get where you are coming from! Facebook has some great options for privacy settings, as well as the ability to NOT list your place of work; I firmly believe in this! Almost all mix ups deal with your page being on public or your place of work being mentioned in your about. Use judgement in who you friend as well! Friends and family you trust. When you first join Facebook, you will encounter two types of people: the person who friends everybody they remotely know or worse, know of th…
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 12:15 PM
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Oh no! Well for sighs in relief, yes it is in the right context. Are you on mobile or desktop Reddit? When you are typing comments, look under the text now and you will see 4 things: save cancel content policy formatting help Clicking formatting help will open a short page illustrating how to format basic things (i.e. paragraphs, quotations, bullet points) and will give you the option to open an additional, more in depth Reddit formatting page. :)
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 12:12 PM
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Oh that's lovely!!
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 10:28 AM
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My daily dose is to watch yesterday's Hot Topics of the Wendy Williams show on YouTube! 20 mins and a great watch while I do my makeup, etc. She basically reports pointless celeb gossip but in a fabulous, trashy, dishing-with-your-girls way. Also my cleaning routine is to listen to the Laura Ingraham show podcast, which is political drama LOL.
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 01:24 AM
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Is this the app? IRCCloud by IRCCloud
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 01:21 AM
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What social media are you using? I can help give tips specific to the site. Also, Twitter allows for drafts :) 140 characters can be a short paragraph some times!
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 01:18 AM
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Does the IRC chat work on mobile? Also I would love for the "daily dose of drama" to become a "weekly dose of drama" post where we post crazy stories or news we have read and then I can bookmark the post for when I need drama but need to be a GOLF at home ;)
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 11:32 PM
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YES!!!
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 11:29 PM
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OMG please post the best comments!! /u/CoochQuarantine offers you some M&Ms for a bit of your popcorn
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 11:29 PM
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THIS
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/16 09:14 PM
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Yes!! Good for you! I can't remember but there was a thread recently that talked about activity friends and how you might have a friend you go to concerts with, but you can't tell secrets too etc. Or one you can trust but is a bit boring. Basically how each friend can not be totally perfect for you and instead represents an aspect in your life.
/r/RedPillWives15/08/16 11:47 AM
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And when they do call, they feel insulted I don't want to hash about my relationship or analyze my anxieties. Sometimes I find it easier to just be alone... It's like they take your growth as a personal attack! Mainly I experience this phenomenon with female friends. Make friends accept it and move on from the topic or they don't and we stop being friends. People are weird.
/r/RedPillWives15/08/16 02:51 AM
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HM Queen Elizabeth the Queen Mother is a great example of a first mate, in the movie and in real life. Did you know she was consulted on her portrayal in the movie before she died? (It was in the works for several years, the story behind it is pretty fascinating.) HM was a great First Mate because she was submissive to her husband's wishes but knew when he needed help and helped him in a way that made him feel like she wasn't REALLY helping him. A great tag team!
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 05:28 PM
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Oh I remember this episode!!! The pettiness!!
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 05:25 PM
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That is so sweet! I hope to hear that one day. I think a lot of the part of that is the mindset! Realizing that your tasks don't matter, your attitude does!! That quote changed my life. A man would rather have a happy wife and burnt dinner (and get takeout) then an unhappy wife and a gourmet meal!
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 04:23 PM
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I still haven't watched the last season, I'm putting it off because I know it's the end, end Oh I can ABSOLUTELY relate to this feeling, hahahaha
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 04:21 PM
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I still haven't watched the last season, I'm putting it off because I know it's the end, end Oh I can ABSOLUTELY relate to this feeling, hahahaha
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 04:21 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWives14/08/16 04:20 PM
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That sounds find! You know what is best for you! Maybe shoulder length or a v cut - that's when hair is cut to look long in the back but short in the front, best of both worlds! Edit: this is what I mean. From the front her shorter layers will come forward, meaning she looks like she has short hair, but from the back she has a bit of length, great for ponytails, buns, braids, etc! I really like adding shorter layers and v cuts. My hair is thick but fine and gets weighed down easily and my hair l…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 08:53 AM
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TV- Joan from Mad Men. I don't agree with her morals but she is the essence of femininity, even though she is a top executive at their company! Everyone always manages to take care of her, because everyone likes her; she does everything in a pleasant way. I highly recommend Mad Men; Betty is another character who seems like a great RPWife on the surface but we end up finding out she is a horrible nagging immature bitch. All the Mad Men episodes are on Netflix. Sadie Dunham from 11/22/63 on Hulu …
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 08:49 AM
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Hmm, this sounds like it could be it's own discussion topic! I'd be interesting in hearing more too.
/r/RedPillWives14/08/16 03:06 AM
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Oh yes!!! I have friends that think nothing of this- they even take pride and flaunt it! But am I correct in thinking this would lower SMV? It sure seems like it. I'm glad it is more socially acceptable now for people to access the help they need, but there is a line to be drawn- especially when a friend wants to make you their doctor too!
/r/RedPillWives14/08/16 03:04 AM
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This sounds so interesting!!! Thank you for writing up such a detailed comment, /u/PhantomDream09 :) I really appreciate it. /u/Camille11325 and /u/_wingnut_ can you link me to one of your articles, preferablely one for a beginner? This topic seems very expansive!
/r/RedPillWives14/08/16 03:01 AM
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/u/StanleyVain Put some searches in on Pinterest for hair styles; they have everything you can imagine, all skill levels and all hair types/lengths!
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 02:57 AM
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Oh my gosh, this brought such a smile to my face!!! What does he highlight in particular? :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 02:55 AM
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My end goal is that when my husband is home, our time is free and relaxed. This is a really good point. When I'm working and doing housework, I like that to be the focus (almost like work) and then after work time is all relaxing and activities for fun.
/r/RedPillWives13/08/16 10:40 PM
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I second this!! A happy disposition is key!
/r/RedPillWives13/08/16 10:37 PM
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What do you mean by low rent? Where I come from classy means elegant, gracious, etc.
/r/RedPillWives13/08/16 10:35 PM
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How interesting!
/r/RedPillWives13/08/16 10:33 PM
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Ooooooh you go girl!!!
/r/RedPillWives13/08/16 10:26 PM
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Do modern feminists think that men will adhere to their ultimatum of "either accept all of our ideology with a smile, or have it forced down your throats whether you like it or not"?. Did feminists really not consider or care about the possibility that men would seriously withdraw from society as a result of being mistreated and undervalued ? When men opt out , they really do commit. They become ghosts. THIS
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/16 02:13 AM
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You are going to have to be PERFECT IN EVERY ASPECT to makeup up for what your past mistakes have done to your RMV. It will be hard but it is possible! Read everything on here about hair/makeup/clothes/femininity in public to present yourself well and raise your SMV as high as possible. Then work on your girl game. Read articles and books like Surrendered Single and Fascinating Girl to know what exactly you need to be providing a man in a relationship. This forum is a great resource. I would rec…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 05:30 PM
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This is a really interesting article. The Red Pill network is in itself an alternate reality world.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 05:22 PM
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It could be the makeup she had done was professional and she might not feel comfortable in her skills to recreate it! Why don't you surprise her by making her a teaching appointment with a makeup artist? I'm sure she would love to please you, she might not know how. Makeup is difficult! I would love to be surprised by something like that and I'm sure many ladies here feel similarly!
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 09:15 PM
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A lot of subtle cues are more or less invisible when they're working. THIS!!!
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 09:11 PM
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This is an anti-feminist reddit
/r/RedPillWives10/08/16 12:02 PM
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Oh I must have misunderstood! I thought you meant for starting a family
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 04:09 AM
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Their is no difference between what a BP and RPW want, but giving it to an 6 RPW rather than a 9 BP woman will be worth it in the end. RPW means no bullshit in a relationship! Reminds me of the quote "for every hot girl there is a guy tired of dealing with her shit." RPW isn't necessarily a sexual strategy as much as it is getting us what we want (LTR monogamy) and keeping what we want (by keeping the man happy so we don't get divorced) Pretty simple IMO. Wouldn't you rather be with some who alr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 04:05 AM
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IT IS NEVER EVER EVER TOO LATE FOR THE PILL!!!! A woman who has swallowed the pill is infinitely better off than one who hasn't, no matter the circumstances! It's late at night where I am but I wanted to reassure you and I will elaborate tomorrow.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 03:55 AM
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Always love your insightful posts, Bella! I'm bookmarking this :)
/r/RedPillWives09/08/16 11:10 PM
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Thank you Sadie!!
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 06:08 PM
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Food, affection, sex and help when asked I can provide. What/how exactly do you provide entertainment?
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 05:45 PM
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I think if you want more women to see this question and reply, make a separate new post!
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 01:47 AM
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This is a lovely post.
/r/RedPillWives07/08/16 03:22 PM
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This topic is very interesting. A few years ago, personality was I was EXTREMELY intense in absolutely everything I did. Looking back now it was partly because I was controlling, and partly because of my priorities-nothing but my career mattered. This is not the case anymore. I experienced a death and personal failures which shocked my value system; I entered a short depression which triggered an introspection as to what I wanted in life and came to terms with our short existence. This completel…
/r/RedPillWives06/08/16 04:50 PM
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Thank you Miss Sadie! :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/16 01:09 PM
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I am a clear too! A clear winter (or spring if I color my hair lighter) . Which makes sense. Whenever I wear fuschia, I gets ridiculous amount of compliments. :) Knowing your colors are the best!
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/16 01:08 PM
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I second this. OP- this sounds like a deeper issue honey, that you are hamstering as just a relationship issue.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/16 01:07 PM
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No one ever died from STFU. If you're feeling bitchy or mean or rude or irrational, just be quiet! Or call a friend and vent to her. Don't take it out on your man. This is some of the best advice I have ever read on this sub. Sometimes we ladies just like to vent our problems, and then out Captain gets confused because he doesn't know how to fix it. My rule of thumb is: CAN MY PROBLEM BE FIXED?! Bring it to your Captain! CAN YOUR PROBLEM NOT BE FIXED?! Call your Mother/Nana/Auntie/Cousin/BFF for…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 10:34 PM
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TI really like this post, because I relate to the feeling of having friends who don't know their place. If you give them an inch of influence, they takea mile... AND then get SOOOO offended when you don't automatically agree with them. "If you were really my friend..." "I'm just trying to look out for you..." When in reality, they can't compete with you so they are trying to bring you down. I think since finding RPW, it has confirmed what I have always thought about life/sociology so I only keep…
/r/RedPillWives03/08/16 05:47 PM
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Awww
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 06:06 PM
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I agree with /u/MsSadieDunham - go through the sidebar and see what jumps out at you! Pick one easy-ish goal and one hard goal. In regards to outward RP, identify what if your biggest problem area, be it makeup, fitness, wardrobe and work on that! :) When I first started RP, the great feedback I got from fixing my outer qualities was a motivator to keep going with internalizing the concepts.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 05:23 PM
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Here is a makeup guru who I think you will like; she does makeup that isn't too heavy and is very girly! LINK Depending on your budget, Freddy does a drugstore vs high end makeup look, and they are virtually identical! LINK
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 12:53 PM
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My current makeup philosophy is "my bare face but better." I used to wear quite heavy makeup (heavy but nicely done) and it got to be disappointing and shocking whenever I would take my makeup off. I was still beautiful, just in a pretty way instead of exotic and dramatic like the makeup I used to do. So now my makeup philosophy is to do no-makeup makeup during the day and to play up my eyes and lips (my favorite features) for evening events. I find that because I normally wear such a little mak…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 12:49 PM
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OP- I think it would be great for you to get color analyzed!
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 12:24 PM
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I think we should make a master post of helpful RPW books!
/r/RedPillWives02/08/16 01:39 AM
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Good, Bad and The Ugly Good: I have achieved a great balance between taking care of the home, school and a part time job; I finished the semester with all A's! Finally worked out an effective cleaning schedule that results in a very tidy home, easily spruced up in 15-20 mins for guests! Ate reasonably well (it's much better than last week so I'm putting it in the good section) 90% done cleaning up my online social media presence (getting rid of pointless accounts and deleting photos/posts that m…
/r/RedPillWives01/08/16 11:09 PM
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This is the book it's based on. Looks good!
/r/RedPillWives01/08/16 10:16 PM
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You're welcome! :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 07:02 PM
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LMAO
/r/RedPillWives29/07/16 09:01 PM
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Hahah oh wow!
/r/RedPillWives29/07/16 09:01 PM
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36% Masculine 78% Feminine I am typically feminine :)
/r/RedPillWives29/07/16 09:00 PM
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HAHAHHA
/r/RedPillWives28/07/16 12:08 PM
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Hi and welcome back! What website did you use to get your color analysis and image archetyping done? I am very interested in getting this done myself!
/r/RedPillWives26/07/16 07:27 PM
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Yes! I love her line of shoes. :) Good quality and great style!
/r/RedPillWives25/07/16 09:50 PM
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Same here! She will bring back graciousness and elegance to the White House!
/r/RedPillWives25/07/16 09:49 PM
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I second this. Men communicate in a very straightforward way, so when something is important, be blunt.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 03:22 PM
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This is great advice for OP.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 03:21 PM
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This was such a helpful FR! I was nodding and smiling throughout. OP you are very lucky to have such a great MIL; she will be a great resource throughout your marriage. Hopefully you two will become close friends as well!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 10:37 PM
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This is a really great analysis. I agree. OP- you have to lose the weight first. This is the biggest issue. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are hamstering about your other problems. You'll see :) Check out some of the resources here on fitness, and see what happens!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 11:38 AM
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Wow /u/LuckyLittleStar this list is incredible. It must have taken a very long time to compile it; thank you for doing this for all us ladies! /u/pinkdrawings I just saw your ask. This doesn't answer your question but you mention it in your post; I think this post will help on your journey to becoming and RPW! :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 01:40 AM
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Your looks still matter. You are definitely not married to the exception, there are no exceptions when it comes to men valuing looks the most. I think he is mate-guarding you and preventing your SMV from becoming higher than his so you don't leave him. The fact that he has you still working on your personality is evidence of this; everyone sees and benefits from your looks but he is the one who mostly benefits from your personality. Normally, an RP man would raise his SMV higher if he saw you ma…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/16 12:24 PM
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The special snowflakes one slayed me! That is too perfect /u/TempestTCup!
/r/RedPillWives23/07/16 12:19 PM
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HAHAHAHAHHA
/r/RedPillWives23/07/16 12:18 PM
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I like your point. It is kinda all about the ego; when a man can't be your rock, a good woman already knows and anticipates this and doesn't make him feel even more vulnerable. Almost like she doesn't even notice he was down :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/16 12:03 AM
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OP- there is a huge difference in being Alpha and being controlling! Not all Captain appearing men are Captains you want to follow.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/16 12:00 AM
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This is written so concisely! Great read for newbie RPW. Thank you for taking the time to write this and share it with us!
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/16 11:59 PM
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YES!!! This is exactly what happens! They think I have my life all together * sips sparkling water *
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/16 10:52 PM
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Personally my parents got me both dolls. I wanted to have all of Barbie's jobs and outfits but I wanted to have the American Girl dolls intelligence and personality. A win-win!
/r/RedPillWives22/07/16 10:50 PM
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I think the whole Barbie debate is silly; Barbie essentially is a fashion doll, meaning little girls who play with Barbies are constantly changing her outfit (This is her beach outfit! And now she is going to a Princess ball! This is her chef outfit! Etc.) When I was a little girl, I wanted as many outfits as possible for when I was playing with me Babie. It doesn't make logistical sense, nor is it cost effective for there to be different size Barbies; each time a new outfit is promoted, Mattel …
/r/RedPillWives22/07/16 10:49 PM
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Wow I love that desktop. What a powerful quote!
/r/RedPillWives22/07/16 10:43 PM
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/u/MsSadieDunham First off, thank you for all your posts and comments; they are always super informative! I don't always comment but they are always appreciated. You are a MVP of RPW :) My tip is to go during semiannual sales, i.e. Victoria's Secret, Macy's etc. and prepare cute little gifts to have on hand for when you are surprised with a guest or a coworker's birthday, etc. I think a little gift goes a long way and shopping during these sales allows you to get some great items for a low cost:…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/16 03:44 PM
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My fridge has a lot of sparkling water ;)
/r/RedPillWives22/07/16 03:36 PM
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This is a really great reminder, thank you /u/CoochQuarantine :)
/r/RedPillWives22/07/16 03:33 PM
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It is so strange how many women don't want to look their best; when I look my best, everything comes so much easier to me! Why wouldn't other women want to take advantage of that?! Foolishness!
/r/RedPillWives22/07/16 03:32 PM
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I totally agree. I have a younger brother and I realized he grew up but I never stopped looking at him as a baby. I would mother him a lot, which I think a lot of older sisters can relate to! :P He had a heart to heart to me and was very vulnerable and expressed that he wanted to view me as a friend not a parent. I applied RPW principles of respecting men to our relationship and it is night and day! He is more patient with me now when I make mistakes instead of us fighting. He is more confident …
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 10:42 PM
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Welcome Bella :) We support you!
/r/RedPillWives20/07/16 09:33 PM
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What a fabulous post! Thank you for taking the time to write this!
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/16 05:28 PM
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Have you considered culturally differences as to why you feel uncomfortable with him sharing things with his mother and he doesn't? In my Italian culture this isn't weird at all, actually expected and advice is welcomed!!! But in WASP culture I know my relationship with is "weird" (all my WASP friends are in loveless relationships or divorced so... whistles)
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 07:57 PM
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Sidebar for this too.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 07:54 PM
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What is wrong with her picking out things for his home? This is a strange comment. Also I see from your post right before this one that you are new to RPW. You should spend some time reading the sidebar and recommended books as the more you familiarize yourself with RPW theory, the more you will be able to answer your own questions.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 07:53 PM
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This is very good advice.
/r/RedPillWives14/07/16 07:42 PM
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I get the feeling that you are nervous because you won't have any savings if you guys divorce. He also will not budge. If this is the case than here is what I would do: You can improve your position by not paying your student loans down as much, and just paying the minimum, having your husband pay the debt after you are married. This will give you at least a little savings.
/r/RedPillWives14/07/16 01:15 PM
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This looks fun, thought I would share! I think I'm going to do it. GlamourToned
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 09:03 PM
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May I ask your height? I am trying to figure out what my weight should be for my height, if I were to go by BMI I wouldn't be thin at all!
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 08:57 PM
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It is not something specific or personal to me; it is a pattern of behavior with the sister-in-law. She is very insecure and views me as competition with my man who she used to believe she had influence over. It doesn't help my man has been raised to believe that his brother is always noble and right, and that my man should support his brother and sister-in-law in all decisions (even when they are terrible). Basically, he knows they are awful people and they are doing awful things, but his loyal…
/r/RedPillWives23/06/16 12:15 PM
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Good: I finally worked out a cleaning/schooling/working schedule planner and it has been working flawlessly! I also went shopping during a sale and bought some great feminine clothes that I have been getting a lot of compliments on. Thinking of doing a closet purge soon. :) Bad: My workout routine has been pretty much non existent the past month (I've been super busy) and I'm getting comments. It's time to go hard in the gym! I also screwed up my BCP schedule and now I have a breakout. Ugly: I d…
/r/RedPillWives22/06/16 03:00 AM
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I follow this same rule and the confidence boost is amazing; I find that whenever I go out like this, my energy completely changes; I feel warm and open to being receptive (to men and female friends!) as opposed to not looking my absolute best, thus not feeling my absolute best, and almost looking down as I run errands, trying not to have contact with anyone. Looking your best at all time is important because it opens up your ENERGY to meeting your Captain, who you could meet anywhere!
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/16 09:45 PM
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I agree about not starting anything with anyone except family. Can you give me advice about with in-laws? i.e. A sister-in-law that is always disrespecting you or your man; what would you do in that situation? (sister is man's brother's wife; they are not related) Would you let your man handle it or would you defend yourself?
/r/RedPillWives21/06/16 09:26 PM
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I had this issue yesterday - giving in and talking about things which created a HUGE!!! problem - much bigger than the original one. Today is a new day (and has been great so far) but I can't ever slack! What ideas do you have about visual reminders?
/r/RedPillWives21/06/16 09:21 PM
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Great submission, thank you for finding this and posting this!
/r/RedPillWives21/06/16 09:18 PM
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Hi! What a great update! I love the idea of GOLF ;) Also, about your smoking, I'm not going to sit here and lecture you about it, because I am sure you know all the information you need to know already. But we are all here to support you, always! Xoxo
/r/RedPillWives21/06/16 09:17 PM
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I'll join the challenge! Looking forward to your FR!
/r/RedPillWives18/06/16 07:53 PM
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This is soooo cute lol
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 01:28 PM
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This is a really great article, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/16 01:18 PM
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I agree with /u/vanBeethovenLudwig about the wedges; such a great feminine alliterative to wearing heels! I hardly ever wear flats.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/16 11:14 PM
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It is kind of a toss up. Some pieces I get are amazing department store quality and others are Forever 21. Generally the more prom/dressy clothes are great quality. They offer free returns so I usually just buy what ever catches my eye, and then I return what I don't absolutely love.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/16 11:13 PM
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These blogs inspire me: J'adore Lexie Couture and Blair Eadie / Atlantic Pacific Freddy Cousin Brown does great hauls and an awesome feminine makeup tutorial here A good place to shop is: Agaci Chi Chi London Lipsy London and ASOS I also like Lulus and Love Culture but you have to sift through less feminine options to find good deals on great dresses.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/16 08:16 PM
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I agree, thank you /u/Camille11325 :) I am looking forward to your Part 2 to Charcateristics of Feminine Beauty as well!
/r/RedPillWives11/06/16 03:58 PM
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I highly recommend Cerave Facial Lotion SPF 50 it has never broken me out and doesn't smell at all! Although it is a bit difficult to spread so I mix it with a smidge of my moisturizer to make it easier to spread around on my face (never tug at your face!) Also if you buy it from Ulta here is a couponyou can use. Cerave also has an email signup that sends you a $2 off manufactures coupon you can combine with the Ulta coupon Xoxooxo crazy coupon lady
/r/RedPillWives10/06/16 11:11 PM
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I have super dry lips too! And these aren't drying at ALL. Mostly because once they are on, they are ON!!! And if your lips get dry, you can just put lip balm over top. Nothing smudges or anything. If you were to pick one I would recommend The Balm Staniac because it is a gel lip stain, as opposed to Benetint that is a liquid. The gel consistency is less messy and it's just easier to put on. I also prefer the Staniac applicator.
/r/RedPillWives10/06/16 11:07 PM
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True!
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/16 04:38 AM
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A Tretinoin prescription!!! But if for some reason you can't see a doctor, try Curology or one of these I HOPE THIS HELPS!!
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/16 04:38 AM
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I promise it works!!! It's a model beauty tip that has been around for forever. Check this out too
/r/RedPillWives10/06/16 04:30 AM
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Try The Balm Staniac or Benetint. I find when I wear red lips they tend to go all over my face. So I like lip stains! :)
/r/RedPillWives10/06/16 12:16 AM
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TWO WORDS... Preparation H
/r/RedPillWives10/06/16 12:12 AM
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Thank you for this razor tip!!!
/r/RedPillWives10/06/16 12:12 AM
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I really enjoy Freddy Cousin Brown She has great makeup tutorials that are like and natural (and not with million dollar products!) and she also does great feminine clothing hauls.
/r/RedPillWives10/06/16 12:09 AM
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I love Lisa Eldridge!!! She is so great
/r/RedPillWives10/06/16 12:07 AM
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This is a great tip 💖
/r/RedPillWives10/06/16 12:06 AM
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Do you ladies know what I like to drink with my RPW donuts?! ;)
/r/RedPillWives07/06/16 01:26 AM
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Oooh yay this post sounds very informative and exciting!!
/r/RedPillWives02/06/16 01:08 PM
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Oh wow that is so detailed and lovely!!! I wish I could draw like that; you are so blessed with talent!
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/16 12:46 PM
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Love this! Wish someone of these Reddits were more active (i.e. Get Feminine) but it makes me thankful for an active Reddit like RPW
/r/RedPillWives31/05/16 06:17 PM
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I'm sure you will find a lot of great advice :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/16 04:19 AM
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Hellllllllo! And welcome! Pretty much discovered RPW the same exact way LOL :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/16 04:17 AM
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In my opinion, the dress you have linked is one of those dresses that can be casual OR formal depending on shoes, makeup, hair, etc. :) My favorite summer outfits are co-ords a/k/a pleated or swingy shorts, or a skort with matching crop top. I don't like to show a lot up top, but I live in a place where it gets to 100 degrees with 80% humidity so sleeveless and shorts are a must for me. I like swingy shorts more than fitted in this instance because I feel like fitted is too immodest (and I like …
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/16 04:13 AM
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Message me if needed :) I'll help you out
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/16 02:12 AM
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AHA/retinoid not both! AHA exfoliates off what retinoid builds up!
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/16 02:10 AM
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Wow that is amazing!
/r/RedPillWives29/05/16 09:55 PM
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I agree with Beautiful Space Cadet on this :)
/r/RedPillWives29/05/16 09:54 PM
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I really enjoy Lexie Couture!
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/16 09:52 PM
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"Like, I enjoy writing, but if me helping my boyfriend with something gets me closer to being a wife, I would rather focus my energy on that. Being a wife is much more important that being a writer," OP I feel the same way! So marry the two and focus on a hobby that is wifely :) Cooking is a great example! See if there are any cooking classes in your area, or order a few cookbooks on Amazon (check the used section, those books can be pennies! And are in great condition) and make a new recipe onc…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/16 07:30 PM
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Yummmmy
/r/RedPillWives27/05/16 12:24 PM
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You guys this isn't fair. Some people aren't sparkly enough. Why can't everyone be equal?!
/r/RedPillWives26/05/16 11:34 AM
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I'm CRYING
/r/RedPillWives26/05/16 11:31 AM
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This is the cutest thing everrrrrr
/r/RedPillWives26/05/16 11:10 AM
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I was at the post office the other day mailing a package and they had this lovely stationary set, it was spring time/cherry blossom themed, 12 note cards, 12 matching envelopes and get this: MATHCING CHERRY BLOSSOM STAMPS! And it was reasonably priced too! They had a few other types but the blossoms were my favorite
/r/RedPillWives26/05/16 11:08 AM
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Isn't it great when things like that are already done?! 🙈 Love the room & color choices! It's going to be beautiful, keep us updated
/r/RedPillWives26/05/16 11:06 AM
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Okay... This. Is. Awesome!!! Really it is! You might be able to get a little Etsy store going for yourself selling pieces like this even? Or a renaissance fair booth? Love!
/r/RedPillWives26/05/16 11:04 AM
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You are so talented! Those are gorgeous :)
/r/RedPillWives26/05/16 11:03 AM
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Great point!!! Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/16 09:30 PM
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Hi! AHA is an Alpha Hydroxy Acid, they are a specific type of acid structure chain. Lactic acid for example is an AHA. Asian beauty products are amazing and amazing quality! They just require a lot of time and research in my opinion to make sure Serum A isn't reducing the effectiveness of Cream B, etc. :) But I highly recommend! This was more of a basics list for a beginner or a woman who didn't like a lot of fuss, but feel free to add your own!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/16 09:29 PM
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I think you would like the line Dermalogica Ultra Calming, it has a lot of essential oils or Cerave which is created by dermatologists for extremely sensitive skin! But yes, please let us know what products you are allergic too :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/16 09:25 PM
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This list was geared toward women who want to be able to look for these basic ingredients in their skin care that are time tested to work for anti aging and increasing SMV. I also geared it towards more readily available (cheaper) ingredients for budgetary and simplicity reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/16 09:24 PM
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I second this; any book recommendations ladies?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/16 02:13 AM
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Dear mods, can this be added to an essential posts section? :)
/r/RedPillWives24/04/16 03:42 AM
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Tobi is great! I love their website, it has a lot of mint, baby pink and periwinkle color palettes (and those are the colors I wear a lot because they make me feel the most feminine/go along with my coloring). I checked the website and it says they ship to France, let me know how you like the stuff! :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/16 03:39 AM
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OH MY GOSH YASSSSSS. I think we just became best friends. My favorites are the Anastasia Beverly Hills Glow Kits (specifically gleam) and Becca pearl. They are so finely milled! Believe it or not I also wear SPF on my body daily (I'm very fair!) and I mix that with half of my illuminator. ******* ALL DA SHIMMER ********* I want to bathe in highlighter to be honest. I wish they made shimmer products for hair, but I guess I will have to make do with plain old shiny hair ;)
/r/RedPillWives24/04/16 03:28 AM
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Loved loved LOVED this post! I love the art of makeup so much but have recently decided that it's better for me to wear less :/ it K's making me feel more feminine and girly though! And far less aggressive in my interactions then usual! So that's a good thing. I loved the tip about young dewy skin vs aging matte skin; totally true! Another way I add a little more radiance (and protect my skin) is by mixing 1/3 liquid highlighter (Nars Copacabana or NYX illuminator), 1/3 my Cerave SPF 50 facial s…
/r/RedPillWives24/04/16 02:11 AM
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You're welcome! I'm going to try and write up a makeup post soon, hopefully this weekend, based on my research in the manosphere, The Rules Revisited and Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood. So look out for that! It will be geared towards beginners/people who don't wear makeup.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/16 02:22 PM
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First off, welcome! <3 Make a list of things you need to work on. Because feminine beauty is highly controllable, this should be the first thing you start working on. Make a goal list of areas you need to address. http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2011/09/feminine-beauty-is-highly-controllable.html?m=1 In regards to hair, start eating a lot of food cooked olive oil instead of cream. I eat a Mediterranean diet and my hair grows an INCH per MONTH (I have the root regrowth to prove this! LOL). In re…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/16 02:26 AM
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Haha oops!
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/16 12:06 AM
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So sorry!
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/16 12:06 AM
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Hi OP :) Congratulations on being proactive on your situation! Focus on honing your inner femininity as best you can... I would recommend reading Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood which I will link you to; you would be surprised at how much you can improve your interaction with men by adopting these traits! As for your looks: LARGE FOREHEAD: I agree with debate pony about not getting the hairline reduction if you have a large forehead. I would instead get soft bangs with longer pieces which help …
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/16 05:19 PM
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Wow, this is such great advice. Thank you for all your replies everyone! I really appreciate it :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/16 11:11 PM
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