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Most of us have kids, and they are the prime reason we are going through this astronomical expenditure of emotional capital. Someone without kids would be insane to stay in a similar situation. That's why MRP is 'hard mode'. Some days I see a light at the end of the tunnel, some days I don't. My goal is to 100% not care what happens via an abundance mindset. Not there yet, but I'll get there.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 04:43 PM
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My wife has thrown exactly one object at me in the decade of our marriage. It didn't hurt, but getting whapped in the face with an unexpected object is enough to make anyone see red momentarily. Wives think they can get away with shit that, were it any other person on the planet, would end up in a pile surrounded by a puddle of their various bodily fluids. The sad thing is, they've been trained this way, and usually do get away with it.
/r/askMRP12/12/16 08:08 PM
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You are getting the best quality sex you've ever had, at an average frequency of every other day. You poor mistreated thing. Read some poor guy's story about getting it twice a month starfish duty & estrus sex, and maybe you'll have a new view on your 'problem'. Is everything else great other than she doesn't fuck you every single day? If so, that's kind of a throw the baby out with the bath water kind of viewpoint, is it not? In all seriousness, spin a plate or three if you are in need of that …
/r/askMRP12/12/16 07:47 PM
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Great post. This will help a great many Men come to terms with the realities that we all had to grasp at one point. The shift in world view can be devastating to a guy who was lied to his whole life about 'how things are'.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/16 07:38 PM
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Say hey... there's my sexy wife. Then pull a Trump and grab her by the pussy. Results vary depending on your frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/16 05:26 PM
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Am I homeschooled? No. Enormity of the task? You can't be serious. Have you seen the requirements of Common Core? It's laughable at best. Anyone with an IQ of room temperature can teach a state approved curriculum. Even you. Not seeking succor. Don't care one bit. But you seem awfully butthurt that I called you out on your non-advice of getting the OPs kid out of homeschooling without providing a single alternative for him. Again, more opinion, zero actionable advice. Other advice here may be op…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/16 05:45 PM
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We are on a redpill site trying to revamp our lives because everything we though we knew about... oh... everything... was a lie. So the solution for future generations is more of the same public indoctrination because of some imagined 'social problems'? Holy crap bro... lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/16 07:53 AM
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Your comment was complete opinion and entirely unhelpful. You did not even provide the OP any alternatives. Just told him to cut out homeschooling like it was some self evident problem. Nice backpedal/save though.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/16 07:49 AM
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Worst advice ever. Children competently homeschooled are light years ahead of their public schooled peers in almost all areas. Unless you've homeschooled a few kids, you have nothing but an opinion. Which means jack shit vs experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 06:53 PM
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If you don't know what a covert contract is you shouldn't even be posting yet. Read the entire sidebar first and put in the work. Especially No More Mr. Nice Guy. What you are doing here is just polishing your ego and absorbing very little of the awesome advice you are being given. But fear not. It can take the redpill a while to sink in. Especially if people's usual response is to get defensive.
/r/askMRP09/12/16 05:41 PM
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The interviewer described him as intense and jittery. I don't think 'jittery' is something I'd care to be described as. Also, he says he doesn't practice much of what he preaches. So I have to ask: fraud?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 08:13 PM
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Mine goes into shit test city when I'm sick. Be aware that no woman ever got wet panties from being a man's nursemaid. Nor will she EVER truly appreciate you taking care of her in turn. It's just expected.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 07:57 PM
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Q: if it was dead bedroom before wife 'found out' she was pregnant, and 3-4 times up from almost zilch, she could be banging someone on the side. DNA test for the kid would be a must for me. As the fellas here will corroborate, one of the tricks chicks pull when they get knocked up by their boyfriends is to go all nympho all of a sudden on their main man whereas low sex starfish is their main modus operandi. Gotta convince you it's yours after all. Now, it very well could be yours. Just don't be…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 07:51 PM
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Glad you are contributing to the OYS. It's always a help to read the real shit other guys are struggling through. Many times I get answers for my own behaviors by seeing what others have tackled, and how they handled... or failed to handle it respectively.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 06:13 PM
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Read the shit out of the sidebar books. Start with No More Mr. Nice Guy, in your case. You are way too much of a Nice Guy. Then read When I Say No I Feel Guilty. Dry read, but vital. Lift. Practice STFU. Read threads on this sub to grasp what STFU really means and how to apply it to your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 09:27 PM
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This. So very much this.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 06:15 PM
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OYS #4 12/6/16 Books/RP Learning: B+ Still reading MMSLP, and Saving a Low Sex Marriage. 90% through Rollo's 'The Rational Male'. TRM is in audio format so I tend to save it for when I can't physically read, or I'd be finished already. It's an awesomely informative read. Just got the audiobook of WISNIFG. It's read by Sir Cuckly Cuckalot though. The reader's voice both grates on my nerves and puts me to sleep in what is already (IMO) a dry read/listen. Sex: None. Dead in the middle of shark week…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 05:03 PM
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Trust me when I say this from personal experience: If you change into everything your wife tells you that you need to be, nothing will improve. In fact she'll loathe you for it and things will be worse than ever.
/r/askMRP07/12/16 04:20 PM
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You sound... foreign. From whence do you hail, good sir? Cultural differences could put some of this in context.
/r/askMRP07/12/16 04:14 PM
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If their marriage fails, they'll get in shape a bit, and 'improve' just enough to snare another dumb Beta cuck provider. Then it'll be back to the same suck. (And not the good kind, either...)
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 04:09 PM
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Stop. Wait a moment. Prepare yourself to wholly accept the following statement: You are acting like a spoiled rotten child. Period. Would you find that behavior masculinity or sexy? All you are expressing to your woman is what a butthurt clown you are.
/r/askMRP05/12/16 07:57 PM
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This is a bitch response. Of course you need to do more. Even if you are in top physical shape, your mindset is shit. Covert contracts aplenty and beta cuck behaviors out the ass. And yes, even if you lay brick all day you must lift. Getting physically stronger is only one reason, and perhaps not even the most important one.
/r/askMRP05/12/16 07:54 PM
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'Working wonders' lol. She's speed dialing Chad while you are giving her the silent treatment like one of her girlfriends. You obviously have not read and internalized the sidebar. Why then are you here on MRP if you refuse to put in the basic foundational work?
/r/askMRP05/12/16 07:50 PM
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Actually physically beat you and bashed a door down? If this isn't pure trolling, call the police and press charges immediately. Then dump the loser.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 03:46 AM
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Another one that needs carved somewhere. Or at the very least, t-shirted in 10 point font to make people squint to read it.
/r/askMRP03/12/16 05:06 PM
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Damn. Bravo, other than the works part that bulletpoint list described my wife to a T. She's a SAHM, who has the SAH part down pat, but is severely lacking on the M part.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 06:18 AM
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No one wants to believe THEIR snowflake is capable. They all are, brother. AWALT.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 06:14 AM
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She told you she's not in love with you, and yet you are NOT worried about her cheating. Can you hear yourself? "My wife told me she's not in love with me, and to gets girlfriend, but I'm not worried." Bud, you are in stage 3-4 of the stages of fucked that someone else posted.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 06:10 AM
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Ah the famous "I love you but aren't IN love with you." Line. It's so common it's like they all read from the same script. A woman who says this in my experience is either having a physical or emotional affair, perhaps online, or is mentally preparing herself to do so.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 05:36 AM
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Holy shit, I have no idea what else you or anyone else said after you visited her in the hospital after she murdered her child. That should have been 100% nextville right then and there. Actually earlier the second you found out she was knocked up with someone else's kid.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 05:58 PM
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Your FR is a case in point example of the opposite of 'outcome independent.' You are doing what you are doing to get a rise out of her and make yourself feel better. Weak.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 05:37 PM
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'Her vows mean jack shit.' You will in all likelihood keep your vows. She, in all likelihood will not. Sorry, brother. AWALT. Whether she sleeps with the neighbor next door, or 'falls in love' with some guy online and imagines banging HIM every time she had non-starfish sex with you, the chance of her honoring her vows is zero to none. Even if she somehow manages not to physically or emotionally cuck you, do you really think she'll honor you and be there for you in sickness and in health? Unless…
/r/askMRP02/12/16 05:28 PM
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In reading your responses, you seem to be in her frame an awful lot. Just recognize that and act accordingly.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 08:37 PM
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OYS #3 11/29/16 Books/RP Learning: A+ Still reading MMSLP, and Saving a Low Sex Marriage. 75% through Rollo's 'The Rational Male'. Read most of the posts on the website originally, but it's GREAT to have in audiobook form where I can just go about my day and get the sidebar 'read' at the same time. I'm going to get them all in audiobook format when I can. It's definitely the way to go. Sex: A-. As predicted, bumper crop. I'd be lying if I said I didn't have a huge smile on my face. Let's just be…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 08:07 PM
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Your OYS was in depth and comprehensive. I read the whole thing and took a double take on the last time you banged out you wife. Two YEARS?!? Damn. I thought I had it bad when mine decline to a twice a week average. Bad enough that I knew something was severely wrong and sought out answers, and found RP. So you RP'd last Oct, hit your goal over the summer, and your woman had zero interest in fucking your much improved self over the past few months at all? There is either something severely broke…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 05:58 PM
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Way to go Chad. Proud of ya son. :)
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 01:43 AM
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Gotta have the frame first. Otherwise she'll see it as creepy. First ass slap I did was when she was bent over taking laundry out of the dryer. Just slap cupped her right ass cheek. She said 'hey!' But there was a smile she was trying to not let show. I gave her a wink and said I'd take care of the other side later. Full ear to ear grin on her part. Walked away. She was thinking of that ass slap all night. I'm pretty sure she initiated that night, but I do know that I pounded her into the mattre…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 01:14 AM
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You read the entire sidebar and are STILL arguing with us? I'm totally fucking done wasting my time on this retard. drops mic
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 12:03 AM
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She said... etc. She said a lot of things. Including many OVERT things. You're fucking DONE once a woman goes all out overt. She's also done a lot of things, and these are the things you need to be 'listening' to. In addition to the outright overt stuff, of course.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 11:59 PM
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Are you in the house or is she? Are the kids living with you or her. If she has the house AND the kids, you are 100% officially fucked. Lawyer up. You constant denial will be your ultimate downfall.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 11:57 PM
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Double down that he hasn't even cracked the phonebook and flipped to Attorneys yet. That means he'd have to accept and internalize the fact that his marriage is over.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 11:54 PM
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''The Fapinator(TM)"
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 11:51 PM
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It's not just the 'best' way to fix problems, it's the only way. People must 100% get over the butthurt and own their shit. Once you can do that, the healing begins. But that prerequisite cannot be skipped. He doesn't want help. He doesn't want to get better. This makes him feel better about himself. He's addicted to the responses. Just like he is to porn. He finds a brief moment of a rush with every (in his mind) negative response, and his righteousness Blue Pill rebuttal.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 11:48 PM
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So start salvaging. It starts by accepting the truths these brothers are taking their valuable time to show you, that you keep spitting back in their faces. Rage? No one here is raging at you. FFS we are trying a last ditch intervention. You have your head so far up your own ass that you'll never, ever, take the wisdom that's been offered to you here.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 11:37 PM
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Not one woman in his geographical area is like that. He must live in the magic land of Oz.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 11:34 PM
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"My wife would never.." lol. Absolutely wrong. AWALT. Fuck up enough, and she's on Chad's dick. And you've fucked up enough for several lifetimes.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 11:31 PM
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"If she's meant for me she'll take me back." This is why you fail. No one is meant for anyone. You don't get a 'be a putz for life and get off Scott free' pass. Damn man. Do you need one of the lads to come over and give the Mrs. a good rogering? Maybe you can video tape it and take notes on how to reclaim your balls.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 11:27 PM
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Do you even realize the sheer volume of wisdom that has been shoveled your general direction? All the keys to picking your life up and becoming a god are in THIS THREAD! And what do you do? Get butthurt that the mods aren't giving you a shoulder to cry on and a reach around as they are giving your ass the well deserved reaming it needs. I predict you'll invariably do the same thing you did the past 151 days. Nothing. Then you'll find a new forum and start the cycle all over again. Have the guts …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 11:22 PM
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Absolutely. Trial separations in my experience are never trial. If she's asking for this she either sees you as so LV that she wants you out of her life, is fucking or planning on fucking someone else, or is just giving you a giant shit test to get you back in her frame. "I think we should separate for a year." If she's serious and presses this, it's time to lawyer up.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 11:12 PM
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Diplomacy: "The fine art of saying 'nice doggie' until you can find a big enough rock." That deserves to be carved in stone somewhere.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 11:06 PM
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60 pound squat is a start, and more than you were doing a month ago when you weren't lifting at all. Well done m8!
/r/askMRP28/11/16 10:54 PM
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This. Take it out of the box, throw it around a bit. Scuff the paint, and bash it together with other toys. Then take it out and play with it in the sandbox. If you outgrow the toy and you don't have any more need for it, donate it to a worthy friend in need. Or blow the shit out of it with a pack of Black Cats in the sandbox. Your call. Edit: typo.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 06:46 PM
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Never, ever assume that right or wrong, logical or illogical ever matter to a woman. Emotional roller coasters are their permanent state of existence, especially pre-menopause. Common sense means jack shit. Whether you are the innocent and injured party (it's 100% her fault) mean jack shit. Her wedding vows to honor you mean jack shit. The sooner you truly internalize this, the easier life gets, and the more sense the other truths make.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 06:41 PM
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"Thanks hon. That means a lot to me. We'll discuss it further if you like at home." A sincere apology should be responded to with grace. She bowed her head before you, time to scratch her behind the ears and give her a pat on the head. Good going. Nice kitty. She'll feel listened to, which is HUGE for women. 99% of the time you just need to be the oak and let the waves of her emotions crash against you. Suck it up and be her rock, and later that day she'll probably be sucking your cock. Learned …
/r/askMRP28/11/16 06:37 PM
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I'm going to order a T-shirt with that on it. Maybe a dozen or so as Christmas gifts. ;)
/r/askMRP28/11/16 06:30 PM
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Message him a link to the forum and see what he does with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 05:05 AM
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I'm not haranguing him by any stretch. I wondered how old he is because I am highly impressed that someone found RP before ever having a girlfriend. That is the ideal, and many young men would benefit from the same. Bravo, friend!
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 04:27 AM
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You found the RP and haven't had a girlfriend yet? How old are you m8?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 03:21 AM
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He was given very actionable advice all around. He'll either heed it, or he won't. Doing the right thing is hard work. Laziness tends to win out with most people.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 03:03 AM
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Once they cross that line, you will never, ever, trust them again no matter what they say or do.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 02:42 AM
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Chad just created an instant Alpha widow.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 02:38 AM
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Until you have mastered frame control, STFU is a lifesaver. I know it feels like an admission that you are somehow in the wrong if you don't defend yourself in the face of her bullshit emotional onslaught, but you just need to get over that. Emotional BS is just that. It takes two to play ball. Don't catch the ball and she'll eventually tire of the game. I'm getting a lot better at frame control, but she still catches me flat footed sometimes with things out of the clear blue nowhere.
/r/askMRP27/11/16 11:20 PM
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No does mean no if she's getting legit pissed about it. If she gives you a hard no, then go hit the gym or the weights in your basement. You do lift, right? Maintain your frame, and stop living in hers. That was the #1 thing I had to learn the hard way.
/r/askMRP27/11/16 10:54 PM
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Absolutely. Lawyer up, get prepared, then read the sidebar and suggested material.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 09:53 PM
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Since you suggested it, I looked at some of your prior post history and back story. Feel free to correct me at any point here. About 151 days ago you posted on the r/nofap Reddit that you were masturbating 7-9 hours a day. Holy catshit. That's some serious abuse to the plumbing there, m8! At various times it seems that your wife has both taken the kids and left, and kicked you out for this behavior. So, problem #1. Stop fapping. This seems to be easier said than done for you as you obviously hav…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 09:50 PM
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This. Wife turns you down, go bang out some reps in the Iron Temple. Whether that be your local gym, or your basement with free weights. It's liberating.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 09:17 PM
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Just found it. Page 134 in my PDF copy, under the heading of GAME, is a chapter entitled THE PHEROMONAL BETA. Read that.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 09:14 PM
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I'll add to this also saying to read the sidebar books. A lot of guys look for RP because their sex life sucks. You went a few steps further by actively exploding your marriage and screwing around on your wife. I don't know you from Adam, all I know is what you have written. We don't know what went on leading up to this porn addiction and you cheating on your wife. From what you have written however we can see that so far the onus looks to be on you. You can't fix your marriage. Your wife would …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 09:05 PM
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Have you read or listened to Rollo's book The Rational Male yet? I believe there is a section in there about the whole pheromonal beta thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 08:29 PM
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An ass slap given playfully and sexily is like magic.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 08:00 PM
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When you fap you blow your T load. If you do this frequently you 'smell' like a pheromonal Beta to a woman. Not a turn on. Your fapping may be what is preventing you from getting the sex you crave. At the very least, it's an energy drain. Empires were not built by guys choking their chickens and playing video games. Fapping & porn rob a man of those literal creative juices.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 07:59 PM
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Absolutely this. Never be afraid to finish a fight. Whether you get your ass kicked or not, you will get respect. Respect from other men, and self respect for standing up for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 07:33 PM
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Dear cunt, I told you I was done commenting over there. You still responded anyway to get the last word in. AWALT. Then you start looking up and reading my post history, then you start stalking me over HERE, haranguing me for my few posts over THERE, when I told you I was done. What is the point of this vitriol? You just start laying on the ad hominem hard and heavy and expect people to take it? That's just spineless. Of course my marriage is shit, oh Captain Obvioustits. Why do you think I'm he…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 06:34 PM
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That is certainly a philosophical way of looking at it, and you could very well be correct. In the case of regular redpill however, I value my time and choose not to wade through mountains of shit to find that one pearl. R/Askmrp and r/marriedredpill are of infinitely higher quality.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 06:12 AM
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Aye, especially since the rule is watch what they DO, not what they SAY.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 04:07 AM
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It's interesting that if you get 20 people in a room and ask them what RP is, you'll get 20 different answers. Everyone has their own definition. At least, it certainly seems that way. As it stands, I think I'm going to steer clear of the regular redpill Reddit as well. The younguns over there are making my head hurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 03:02 AM
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Ah, a concise and respectable answer. Well met, friend!
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 02:51 AM
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What's cute is how the main redpill Reddit has somehow turned from quality material like Rollo, into this preteen fapfest 'fuckbuddies' shit. You react like a woman having been told her emotions are invalid.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 02:49 AM
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This will be my last response. When I was in my 30's, I married my wife, who was a hot bodied 20 year old. We had and have, an enormous amount in common, intellectually. She's always been attracted to older, more mature, and more stable men. Almost a decade of marriage later, She still thinks of men in her own age group as 'boys'. If we divorced tomorrow, she'd likely end up marrying someone in their 40s. She is also not an anomaly. I get that it sucks to be post wall. I really do. But you'll ha…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 01:17 AM
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I made the mistake of perusing the redpillwoman and redpillwives Reddits earlier today with the (mistaken) assumption that base material was base material and that there would be common ground somewhere in RP truths. Holy fucking catshit, was I ever wrong. Never again. How can people read the same basic material and come away with such an ass backwards viewpoint? Because vagina, I guess.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 12:52 AM
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My comment was that if you want to keep a high value mate, you need to be high value yourself. A high value older man will always have more options than a high value woman of the same age. It's not fair, but it's the raw truth of the matter. Some 60 year old men I know look absolutely phenomenal. One's married to a 40 y/o woman and they've been together 20 years, the other had his wife leave him for another man. What did he do? At the age of 58 he went from a flabby overweight cuck to a hard bod…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 12:40 AM
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Edit: I had assumed the base RP material was the same. Removing comment.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 12:14 AM
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Perhaps it's me. I'm assuming at least a general familiarity of RP concepts. One of which I assumed RP women would be familiar with is dread. Think of it this way: ever notice how guys who are by themselves may not get much notice from women, but the minute there is a ring on his finger, or better yet, a hot chick on his arm, all the other ladies take notice of him? It's a form of pre-selection. The very act of other women thinking a guy is worth paying attention to, causes him to be desired by …
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 09:06 PM
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Do you people even read the sidebar?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 08:58 PM
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That's an awful lot of text to say: "I'm plating her with no intent of LTRing her."
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 07:57 PM
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Guy here. I met my wife online. Not a dating site, just online in general. We 'clicked' and went from there. She's younger than I am and lived in another state. I waited for her to finish college, then we moved in together. Seeing as how she was a virgin, I was willing to wait longer than I otherwise would have. We met in person about 6 months into the LTR, did some fooling around (everything short of intercourse), then met again later in her home state where, upon her request, deflowered her in…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 07:27 PM
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Dear OP, You have every reason to be concerned. If he's a high SMV man, it means he has options. In 10+ years if he maintains himself in good physical shape, he'll STILL have options and could easily bend over 22 year old hotties. You, on the other hand will be post-wall and yesterday's news. At 30 your SMV is already on the decline, as you have noticed yourself from 5 years ago. In another 10 years, the disparity will be glaring. Solution: suck his soul out through his cock. Regularly give him …
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 07:02 PM
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Fuck his brains out. If you are able to do so, it means his wife isn't doing her job.
/r/askMRP26/11/16 06:46 PM
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It's amazing to me how many ppl argue on here and who obviously haven't even read the sidebar. If you aren't going to better yourself, why are you here? Rollo is ESSENTIAL. Read it. Or buy the audio and listen to it as you go about your day.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 06:11 PM
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The amount of downvotes this got highlights the amount of children here. C'mon lads, I thought you wanted to better yourselves here. Do you really think you are going to do that playing video games? Wrong kind if 'game' brothers.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 04:46 PM
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This. How much more useful would it be, not to mention adding real world value and demand to learn another language? Use the Duolingo app. You'll get both your fun 'video game' fix, as well as learn something financially valuable. I've been learning Spanish on the shitter every day instead of browsing Twitter.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 04:42 PM
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A game is a vehicle. It can either help you learn things, or take some much needed 'down time'. Or, it can be a tool of enslavement for your mind. Most guys I know, myself included, spent countless hours of our youth playing video games. If even 1/4th of that time had been redirected towards other, more productive pursuits, where would these people be today? These same people still have shitty lives, are addicted to video games and porn, and are either the perma-single Sir Fapalot, or married to…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 04:37 PM
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It started out great, but you'll soon see that the devil eventually gets feelzy and develops onetis for the female detective he's not even banging, even as he's having orgies.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/16 04:20 PM
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There is no 'one' the soulmate myth is just that. A nice fairytale.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 06:47 AM
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Channelling... shit, this brother is possessed! ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/16 08:53 PM
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16 days ago, you posted the following comment: "Someone I won't get bored of. Someone who will actually get me to at least try. Someone who is independent enough to make me happy and dependent enough to make me feel at ease." No one else can 'make you' anything. You seem to be on the wrong sub. Thanks for the laughs though. Morons like this just help to reaffirm that we're in the right place and on the right path, lads.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/16 08:50 PM
4

My Dad was also 'that guy'. His one glaring flaw was his ONEITIS for my mother. He loved her far more than she deserved. He owned his shit, and didn't bend over for her by any stretch, but IMO he gave her far too much leeway.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/16 07:53 PM
4

Alpha widow?
/r/RedPillWives25/11/16 05:01 PM
5

We have very different goals then, which is perfectly fine. Mine are to reclaim my own masculinity, then help others claim theirs. It is only by strengthening our brothers in arms, can there ever be a societal shift. Some may be content with just themselves. I want more. People like Rollo, the professor, TFA, etc have given back once they've got a good deal of their own shit in order. I will do the same.
/r/askMRP24/11/16 10:42 PM
6

I'm going to say that from my own experience and lurking in various RP blogs, Twitter, Reddit and the line, that the overwhelmingly vast majority of us found RP because something was 'wrong'. Mostly with our shit-tastic starfish or pseudo sex lives. IMO no one goes looking for RP answers because they look like Hugh Jackman and are tagging their HB8/9 Jennifer Lawrence lookalike wife every night. But somewhere along the journey we learn that not only is it NOT about the sex, we learn that sex is …
/r/askMRP24/11/16 06:43 PM
7

Neither has mine. Prior to me becoming RP, my wife and I agreed to spend a year 'improving' our marriage. We both had lists of thing we wanted to see different in the other person. We went over the lists and agreed they were fair, and that we could accomplish them in a year. I knocked that list out. Every fucking item. Changed so much of myself to be what she thought she wanted that I barely recognized myself. Her list? Not one. Not a single fucking one could she complete in a year, including su…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/16 03:01 AM
3

As the other fellow pointed out "She's not your rock but she expects you to be hers." Man, I'd have saved a decade if hell had I internalized this earlier. My realization came from getting sick and her being utterly not giving a shit about my well being, and endlessly shit testing me when I could barely move. We are taught that our wives are that one special person we can confide in and open up to, and who will love us in sickness and in health. Wrong. Her vows mean jack shit, and you can't nego…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/16 02:50 AM
2

The amount of time people spend fucking around on their phones nauseates me. Imagine if they spent just 25% of that time bettering themselves. What a Renaissance we would have!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 08:08 PM
1

I am absolutely always early. When other people screw that up, it's one of the very few things that piss me off. But, there's a solution to that. The bus is leaving at X o'clock sharp. The passengers can either be on time, or fucking walk.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 05:28 PM
1

Give her a good healthy cavemanning. She'll remember that over any hit or miss bauble.
/r/askMRP23/11/16 05:20 PM
1

Oh, I'm long time friends with both pain and discomfort. Taking it slower than I'd like due to nearly a lifetime of back pain. I wake up in pain every day. Pain that would cause most people to piss in their pants. I've just had it for so long it's 'normal' to me now. The first day after I started lifting again, I couldn't even fully extend my arms. That lasted for about a week, and I dialed it back a bit after that. Slowly getting better every week, and this pleases me to no end. I'll get there.…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 12:39 AM
3

I read a lot of myself in your post. Thanks for sharing that.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 08:01 PM
2

How about you piss off. 99% of the rest of the posters either enjoyed the thread or had something interesting to say. You are acting like some butt hurt child. Over what? A comment on the internet that you don't like? Don't like it, don't read it. Instead of simply admitting that you misread something and being a man about it, you had to resort to ad hominem. You lose. Play again to win.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 07:58 PM
1

I am lifting. Just not 'where I want to be' yet. I have the habit of rushing into things and doing it full balls. Ultimately I push myself further than I should, physically, and end up being in extreme pain and not being able to move for a week. Thanks for the feedback, but I'm playing it a bit smarter this time and easing into it. Every week gets a bit better, and progress is being made. I won't be Mr. Universe overnight.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 06:27 PM
1

Just copied and pasted an inquiry I wrote from married Red Pill to get more eyeballs on it. Wasn't really expecting much either way, but I'm pleased with the quality and quantity of responses.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 05:51 PM
1

OYS #2 11/22/16 Books: A+ Still reading MMSLP, and RP Professor's Saving a Low Sex Marriage. It's been a hell of a busy week, but I either get up a bit earlier or stay up a bit later to get quality reading in. Sex: B+ Wife has been doing kegels lately to strengthen her vaginal barrel. She's always done them since she gave birth to our kids, but she's been putting some good effort into them lately and can feel the improvement, both in general snugness, and also in her ability to 'squeeze' me down…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 05:46 PM
3

"You should only be worrying when I don't want you for sex." That's got to be the hands down winner. Before I found RP and even knew what a shit test was, I used a version of that to great success. She was bitching that all I ever wanted from her was sex. I calmly told her that if she expected me to apologize for being attracted to my own wife, that she had issues that had nothing to do with me, and should be worried when I DIDN'T want to have sex with her. That shut her up. She stomped off all …
/r/askMRP22/11/16 05:14 PM
1

Not shaming you. I don't care one bit what you do or do not do. Traditional 'morality' and RP aren't even in the same zip code friend. Why would I care what you do? It was a simple inquiry born out of curiosity. Nothing more, nothing less. Raw dog away, it's your life, mate.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 05:03 PM
2

WTF are you on about? I wasn't encouraging non-use of a condom. I was pointing out that they aren't a magic 'stay disease free bullet'. Learn some basic English comprehension before telling others to unfuck themselves, mate. Your assholery is showing.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 04:58 PM
2

This. I have a wife who is perpetually sick due to anemia and other factors. During shark week she has very heavy periods, and it's particularly bad. Some weeks she barely gets out of bed, and if course I take care of everything myself during this time. The last time I got sick, it was a real eye opener for me. I started searching for answers and eventually found RP. It was the sickest I'd been in about 10 years, and my wife didn't do jack shit for me. I didn't know what a shit test was yet, but…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 04:48 PM
1

Sorry to hear about the Lyme Disease, mate. I've known a few folks who've had it and I know how rough it was on them, and they all got early diagnosis and got it from a tick bite. Hang in there. It's rough, but it'll get better. As for the marriage, I'd under no circumstances accept a leash as a condition for reunification. Especially considering that she hasn't done jack shit in regards to trying to improve. YOU, sir, are the prize. Not your wife. One who acts as such is seen as much more high …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 04:05 AM
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Lol! That's like saying RP sucks the fun out of one's ignorant BB life. Knowledge and information are power. Yea, it would be great if we could all just go around dicking bimbos with no ramifications, but unfortunately that's not reality.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 11:16 PM
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That poor bastard needs redpilled so bad it isn't even funny.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 07:46 PM
1

I actually just cut and pasted this from my earlier post over at married Red Pill. I did not alter it, so I can see how you might think that in regards to my wife, though it's pretty hilarious to see someone in RP have that kind of response. The whole "I'm a piece of shit if I'm planning on cheating on my wife" thing is priceless. I figured you plate spinners on the main RP would have more practical info than married dudes on what you do to avoid coming down with something nasty. Was just genuin…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 07:39 PM
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You know what I never have seen addressed in any RP discussions? STDs. As in sexually transmitted diseases. Condoms only give you a small margin of protection. They are mostly designed to ward against unwanted pregnancy. So say you are Mr. Stud spinning 3 plates. Then what? How do you guys know you aren't bringing a permanent friend into your marriage bed. The rules are clear with my wife. 100% exclusive monogamy. You fuck anyone that isn't me, pack your shit, you're gone Felicia. I will not tol…
/r/askMRP20/11/16 11:12 PM
2

OYS 11/15/16 Books: A+ Reading my ass off. Every spare moment. Read No More Mr. 1/3rd of the way through WISNIFG. It is hands down the dryest, most boring book I've ever read in my life, but I'm slogging through it. Read most of MMSLP, and it was MUCH more helpful, and interesting to read. I should finish it soon. Halfway through RP Professor's Saving a Low Sex Marriage. Also immensely helpful and easy to read. Sex: B+ Just getting off of shark week, where she likes to be snuggled but not sexual…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/16 07:29 PM
1

If I had a hero, you'd be it right now. Starting a "life I want" list immediately.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/16 01:00 AM
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If this is not a troll, then they have the problem most men have. Their spouse is a boring twat and won't put out. Obviously he's not interested sexually, even though the OP says she's down to pre baby weight and doing martial arts 3 times a week. In the past I'd have given my left nut for that to have been my wife. And her initiating once a week and him entirely uninterested? That boy is massive low T. He needs to lift and research TRT. Every time my wife initiates, regardless of whether I'm in…
/r/askMRP19/11/16 09:46 PM
1

I think of starfish as a woman just lying there waiting for you to be done, and probably being near zero responsive. Sex feels good, so you'll probably get a moan here or there, but if she's not actively thrusting you into her, she's probably starfishing. She can't wait for you to finish so that she can go back to watching/reading Fifty Shades of Gray, or whatever gets her wet.
/r/askMRP19/11/16 05:47 AM
1

"I have new friends too. From work, rec-league sports, other parents, and I'm in a man-book club -- which is where many of these titles came from. We meet in clandestine locations and drink obscure spirits." That just resonated with me on an incredible level. I have few 'in the flesh' friends. All the guys I know are Beta cucks. I really need to do something like the man book club.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/16 12:38 AM
1

"She hates the idea of "submission" (but she loves the way it feels.) I have the exact same unit. Feminism, fucking with women's mind for 100+ years." Triple ditto here. I do sometimes wonder what modern women would have been like without the internet and 100+ years of feminism warping them.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/16 12:32 AM
1

Thank you very much for this! I've been looking for a decent program to start lifting heavier. This really saved my bacon. Thanks again!
/r/askMRP18/11/16 08:02 PM
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I approve this message! My answer to every starfish was the caveman. Trust me, you'll turn that shit around in a month or two!
/r/askMRP18/11/16 07:51 PM
2

This likely explains a lot in my case. I've never had dead bedroom, though it certainly started to feel like it for me. 2x a week on average felt like exile. Then the whole starfish thing. If you are getting laid 8x a month, but 7/8 are starfish except when she's on estrus, it's still pretty meh. Since we started out with having sex multiple times a day at the start of our relationship, and I'm acting more and more like the guy she said 'I do' to, and looking like him too, it seems easier for he…
/r/askMRP18/11/16 07:49 PM
1

I've fallen into that trap along the way. You start seeing some respect and desire in your wife again, and it starts to fool you into thinking that she 'loves you for you' vs the honest reality is that you are the convenient cock of the moment, and will be replaced in a heartbeat should you lapse.
/r/askMRP18/11/16 07:40 PM
1

Have you tried flat out cavemanning her when she pulls the starfish? You've commented on being angry. Why not direct that to being savage in the sack. Anger fucking, at the very least, always made ME feel better when my wife pulled a starfish move, which hasn't been for a while now.
/r/askMRP18/11/16 07:18 PM
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I'm on a phone, so no I didn't look at your profile. The way you were him hawing around let me to believe you'd just encountered RP, and were still in the anger phase. If you've been doing this 4 mos and still want to leave your wife because you want to sample the pussy buffet, then by all means, do whatever makes you happy. I was just shocked. Not at your notch count, but rather the fact that it seemed your prime reason for wanting a divorce was free access to pussy. I'd seen virgin chicks do t…
/r/askMRP18/11/16 05:25 AM
1

Is she disinterested because you are disinteresting? Are you a dadbod slob, or a hard as steel superman? Do you get her wet just thinking about you, or do you dry her up instantly when you push her for starfish sex? You've talked a lot about how shitty your wife is, but as the saying goes, do you even lift, bro?
/r/askMRP17/11/16 08:33 PM
1

Ah, so that is what all this is really about. Your non-existent notch count. You know, usually it's the virgin bride women that go through a mid life notch count crises. But damn, son, that's at the crux of what's gotten you in a tizzy? Step back. Breathe. Work on YOU. Lift, read the sidebar. Get on a healthy diet. Maybe take some NAC to get yourself thinking clearly. Lift. Read No More Mr Nice Guy and When I Say No I Feel Guilty. Lift. Did I mention lift? Do this for at least 3 months, then re-…
/r/askMRP17/11/16 08:26 PM
1

With this mindset, def don't have kids. Get the boys snipped, and soon. In fact, I'd hold off on even having a dog or other pet until you can separate what you really want from the emotional over the top feelzy shit in your head ATM.
/r/askMRP17/11/16 08:13 PM
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Responding with a 'yes, and I like where it's headed' will make her feel like both a good girl that's pleasing her man, and a naughty sex slut. Any time you can achieve both in one sentence, you are doing well. She wants you to lead, and she wants to follow. She also wants you to be worth following. Since I've started lifting, STFU, not DEERing, AA & AM, my sex life turned around on it's own. Honestly I've been so busy working on ME, that she's initiated sex more often than not. Even on her peri…
/r/askMRP17/11/16 06:33 PM
1

The title alone about caused a gag reflex. Then I though it was trolling. Then it slowly sunk in that it might be serious. You know what they say: no matter how bad you thing you may have it, some poor SOB has it worlds worse than you. Other than her dislike of sexy movies, how is your sex life? Getting plenty of nookie? Hopefully, an average of 2-3 times per week, minimal?
/r/askMRP12/11/16 05:18 AM
1

Not likely, but ferals will feral, after all.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 11:37 PM
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Many Asian chicks will complain, yet exclusively date white guys, as they are typically more masculine than their effeminate Asian male counterparts. These Asian guys aren't Bruce Lee or Jackie Chan. They're typically guys who don't lift anything heavier than the controller on their Xbox. As such, they go for the next closest thing. White guys with bigger dicks. Sure, they complain, but watch what the DO, not what they say.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 10:03 PM
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The butt hurt is strong today. And yes, most of the guys are smiling and almost giddy. This will be a major step to a lot of guys discovering their balls for the first time in their lives.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 09:06 PM
1

He does what he believes in, and never quits. Qualities that are admirable in a leader.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 09:01 PM
2

Van Jones is, and always has been, a racist POS that is trying to say that 'Whitelash' is the reason Trump won. Incredible disconnect.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 06:00 PM
1

Yep. Riots in Oakland.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 05:58 PM
1

That's a hell of an assumption. I had the extra 20 pounds for about a year out of a ten year marriage.
/r/askMRP07/11/16 09:00 PM
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No shit testing + no sex = total disinterest. She's getting her needs met, either physically, emotionally, or both somewhere else. Since there are no kids involved, wrap up your own shit and next the bitch. If you have your stuff together, you'll find a woman that can appreciate you easily enough. Men are truly the romantics. We are loyal to a fault.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 04:11 PM
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I've never been more miserable in my life than when I put the kids first, above and beyond everything. Second only to putting my wife first beyond anything. IMO if kids are your mission, then you don't have one.
/r/askMRP07/11/16 02:55 AM
1

Kudos for having the guts to break free of the pharmaceutical roller coaster. That takes balls and belief in yourself. Good going, and keep you head high, m8. You'll get where you need to be!
/r/askMRP07/11/16 02:15 AM
0

You fall under that rare exception. Most women are def not RP and highly freak out if they see their man reading RP material.
/r/askMRP07/11/16 02:12 AM
2

Then he's in your frame...
/r/askMRP07/11/16 12:56 AM
2

Sounds like you answered your own post and know what's up. What specifically are you asking for an opinion on?
/r/askMRP06/11/16 08:13 PM
1

This. I learned this raw truth the hard way. Been trying to talk to her reasonably for a decade. Zero point. Treat her like the emotional infant she is.
/r/askMRP06/11/16 08:08 PM
1

I'm new to the sub, but it's pretty apparent you are still in the anger phase pretty heavily. I kind of found RP months before I ever used Reddit and way before I read any of the sidebar. (Reading most of it now.) What that allowed me to do was shed (most of) the anger before I even started. That was quite a help for me, that I was already mostly 'over it' and improving myself before I even knew what RP really was. Yea, I still get occasionally irked based upon what logic says someone 'should' d…
/r/askMRP06/11/16 08:00 PM
3

Welcome to my world. Though in my case it would be low vs zero libido. I still get it about 8x a month, but it tends to be sporadic. Some, like yesterday, will be twice in one day. Once when I cavemanned her in the morning, and the other right when I was exhausted and ready to go to bed, but she wanted it so I cavemanned her again. She's not even in estrus. (We track it) In my wife's case she does have legit medical issues. Anemia, vertigo, etc. I'm sure some some have been 'exaggerated' dependi…
/r/askMRP06/11/16 07:11 PM
2

This is true. However, I don't think I've ever come so hard as one time a few weeks ago when my wife was ovulating and so cranked up that she was literally sopping, grabbed my dick, went down on me, mounted me, bit me, then begged me to 'fuck her as hard as I could., A man should typically initiate, yes. But if you, as a woman, are wound up and ready to pound ground, your guy will be thrilled to give it to you as rough as you can handle it. I've yet to meet a guy that wasn't turned on by his wom…
/r/askMRP06/11/16 05:18 AM
1

Never quite got the MGTOW mentality. My uncle is like that. He's not gay, but he hasn't has pussy since before my balls dropped. I asked him about it and he said that women weren't worth the trouble, and I'd see that one day. I dunno about that. I'm awfully fond of pussy. To give that up for a bit as a part of personal growth is one thing. Forever? Not happening. If anything happens to my marriage I'll just continue on the path I'm on, get as buff as I can for my own reasons, and become Lord of …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/16 10:26 PM
2

This. Had a similar circumstance with the MIL a while back. She has this habit of insulting my wife in front of the kids, which I will absolutely not tolerate as it guts her authority with them. Anyway, she just wouldn't stop at the last family event. Wife was DEERing to her Mom, FIL was pisses off because MIL does this at nearly every family event. In short, I told the MIL that her behavior was unacceptable and that I would not tolerate it in front of my children. Her response? 'Yes sir.' She i…
/r/askMRP05/11/16 10:11 PM
2

The funny thing is that women are right. There ARE a ton of men out there waiting to entertain them.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/16 08:44 PM
3

The best answers come from within, once you have a solid frame. Prior to that, not knowing our asses from a hole in the ground is how we all ended up here... looking for the wisdom of others who had been in the trenches of this crazy shit called marriage. If it was all laid out to a man what marriage was truly like, how many would EVER tie the knot. Knowing what you know now, how many would get married again? Think back to the death knell of your relationship. I'm willing to bet, if you are comp…
/r/askMRP05/11/16 06:02 PM
2

I've gotten incredible results with the occasional ass slap. She was bending over getting something out of the dryer the other day and gave her a firm slap on the ass. When she looked at me I had that wry "I want to fuck you look." She giggled and smiled and blushed a little. I'd have never thought something so simple could be so effective. I use it sparingly however, as I don't want to over use it and thus kill the effectiveness.
/r/askMRP05/11/16 05:56 PM
3

It's usually when she's having one of her anemic episodes and is having trouble doing things herself. I think intellectually she realizes that she 'needs' me, but need and desire are on opposite sides of the spectrum.
/r/askMRP05/11/16 05:51 PM
1

When your boss is asking for your opinion vs discussing something with your wife, is a huge world of difference, you are absolutely correct.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/16 04:29 PM
2

I never really thought about how pussified I think or I feel sounds. Thanks for bringing that to the table. It will help many.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/16 04:27 PM
2

I married my LDR. She came to me, I didn't move to her. Was great for a while, but of course got onetis bad and later segued into not a dead bedroom, but damn near complete starfish. BPP: reading your book and listening to your podcasts. Thank you sir for the efforts you have made on behalf of men everywhere to reclaim ourselves!
/r/askMRP05/11/16 06:40 AM
2

Just started on my own STFU. Having the soul of a writer, I can be a wordy cunt from time to time, and in the past have tried to negotiate my way through things like my wife was a rational creature with common sense. Now when she starts in, I just STFU. Takes two to tango. Without any fuel her rants die very quickly. She drops them in fairly short order and becomes more pleasant. I'll kiss her on the head, tell her I love her without expecting one back, and exit. 5 mins later she's right as rain…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/16 06:10 PM
1

Thanks. That could have been written exactly with me in mind. Much to ponder.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 05:07 AM
1

I need to do some 'me' time, and soon.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 05:00 AM
1

You and me both, brother. When people are balling their eyes out over something emotional, I'm dry as a bone. Had to fake emotions in certain situations in the past, like when a woman is balling her eyes out, and in the back of my mind I'm thinking: really?
/r/askMRP04/11/16 04:57 AM
1

I thing sushi may be more RP than her man. ;)
/r/askMRP04/11/16 04:50 AM
1

Found out a few months back that the wife was having an emotional affair with some weasely little cunt a few thousand miles away that she met playing a video game online. Before that, I'd trusted her 100%. Now I trust her not at all. I'd started on the road to RP a few weeks before finding all this out, but hadn't put any of it into practice yet. My virgin wife, whom I thought I'd vetted so thoroughly had betrayed her vows, even though she never fucked the guy. (100% sure of this. He's thousands…
/r/askMRP04/11/16 04:40 AM
2

Been there. Still trying to figure out this one. Seems to me that there's got to be some balance. Simply ignoring someone when they are legit sick in bed is lower than whale shit and def NOT taking care of one's family.
/r/askMRP03/11/16 03:23 PM
2

Let's try this again. In the outset it was my frame. The non-slothy one. She did not adopt this frame despite the positive example, and after a few years, I eventually adopted her frame a bit at a time. Eating things I shouldn't. Not lifting, because it was easier to just snuggle and watch movies, or play video games with her, etc. I never adopted her messy clutter house frame though, and have spent the past decade trying to get her pick her stuff up. Realize back then that I was in full BB mode…
/r/askMRP03/11/16 03:18 PM
1

It obviously wasn't, nor did I say it was.
/r/askMRP03/11/16 05:54 AM
1

Helpful, thanks!
/r/askMRP02/11/16 11:43 PM
1

That's the point of posting, to get feedback. We can think we are in a certain spot, and such and such and so and so, but other pairs of eyes can show us where we're lacking. Thanks fellas!
/r/askMRP02/11/16 09:09 PM
1

I could have written the OP. Virgin bride. Can't climax vaginally, and never has. Only by being clitorally stimulated. I'm a bit above average in the gear dept, so that should not be an issue. I've tried damn near everything prior to RP to the point that sex with her had become a boring chore. It's only now that I've adopted some basic RP stuff over the last few months, and truly not caring whether she gets there or not, that... guess what? She's getting closer and closer to getting there. It se…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 08:08 PM
1

Well it's my fault. Realistically it happened because I bought into my wife's frame. Ask any guy what they were like pre-marriage. Compare. Then we have to treat them like ignorant and unruly children instead of grown adults. I do find it interesting though that we have to take full responsibility for another human's actions, yet have a very minimal toolbox to accomplish this in today's day and age. Oh well. More reading, more doing, more application.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 07:46 PM
3

It was merely meant to create a dialogue. One of the problems leading to the betafication of the West is the lack of places for men to discuss things openly and honestly with other men. If you don't like the thread, feel free to not click it or respond to it.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 07:39 PM
1

Intellect and looks. Mistakenly thought slothy part was just because she was young, (and both of her parents are total sloths) and thought with a positive example, she'd get the idea. Nope.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 07:33 PM
1

This should be chiseled in stone somewhere. Wisdom for the ages.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 06:01 PM
1

Are you a RP female, or a guy in a relationship with another guy? If the former, and a woman, what is the allure/benefit to being on a RP forum primarily geared towards men? Seriously curious.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 05:52 PM
1

I very well may be handling too much of the load. But there is a problem there as well that a man doesn't let his kids suffer. Any time in the past that she has been tasked with something that needs done 'right now', 40+ minutes later it's still not done. Like I have a shit-ton of things on my plate and I'll ask her to make the kids lunch, because they are bugging the shit out of me because they're hungry and they know they'll get a reasonable response from me. Wife says, sure, no problem. I lea…
/r/askMRP02/11/16 05:40 PM
1

Good point. That's exactly how I used to view her in my mind before we got married, back when the sex was frequent and wet. I had the concept that she was just an innocent and ignorant sweet young thing that had less than zero clue about how the real world worked, and who needed guided by the hand to accomplish the most simple of tasks competently. Then something changed. Along the way she started literally demanding to be 'taken seriously' and treated like an 'adult'. I made the mistake of tell…
/r/askMRP02/11/16 05:23 PM
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You bring up a valid point. I think the resentment stems from her utter thanklessness. I work from home, and have done so since the kids were little. This, I think, has bred a sense of expectation on her part that I'll always be there to take care of every little thing if she's having an off day. So days that she probably could get through, she likely makes zero effort since it's easier to just let me handle it. Yesterday was one such day. I got jack shit done work-wise and that just doubles the…
/r/askMRP02/11/16 05:12 PM
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Great, thanks!
/r/askMRP02/11/16 05:02 PM
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Indeed. All our lives we wanted women to 'just tell us' what they want. It's a dam near impossibility. They have no effing clue what they 'want' 99.9% of the time, and even less of a clue about what they need. Nowhere is this more apparent then when the poor BP guy does everything his wife asks him, and more. Going way above and beyond the call of duty to, in his mind, 'make her happy.' If 'happy wife happy life' had anything to it more than a catchy phrase, we wouldn't be a nation of Beta Cucks…
/r/askMRP02/11/16 04:55 PM
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Regarding her father and trust. My wife trusts her father more than anyone, including me. And yet her desire to dominate is immense. Me not being a pushover seems to make it worse. She so desperately wants the Commander's chair, but has proven time and again of being incapable of handling such responsibility, even if she were single.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 03:01 AM
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Once when I was still in BP mode, the wife said to me that I try to approach and fix things from a logical and rational mindset, and that sometimes (read: ALWAYS) women come from an emotional point of view that has nothing to do with logic or reason, and can't be fixed. Had I been RP at the time I'd have seen her comment for the rare truthful insight into her mind that it was.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 02:50 AM
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The thing is, is that she's not playing sick. Her father has severe vertigo that she inherited, albeit a less severe version in her case. She'll get dizzy to the point she can't even stand up. She'll then have to cancel things that she really wants to do. She sees herself as 'weak and frail' and hates it. The times she has tried to just push through it, it has gotten extremely bad. She konked out in the tub one time, and could have easily drowned. But yea, I get what you are saying. I've got a h…
/r/askMRP02/11/16 02:11 AM
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Thanks for the response. Already doing just that. Yesterday was the first day back at the iron temple in years, and it felt awesome. Sore as hell today of course, but that's to be expected. I'm doing all of this for myself. If improves my marriage, great. If not, I'll be in the best place and shape of my life. Her loss.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 12:59 AM
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This had me actually loling to the point the kid asked me what was so funny. My one word response: hamsters. :)
/r/askMRP02/11/16 12:53 AM
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I found this reply insightful. Absolutely the only time I ever thought of my kids as assholes was when I was getting 3 hours of sleep a night from the nonstop screaming and my also sleep deprived wife was not putting out much. Go home and fuck her socks off and make sure she climaxes hard. Repeat if necessary. Both of you will be in a much better place.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 09:27 PM
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As someone who has had to deal with the SAHM being an absolute and utter failure, and having to handle the various situations myself after being utterly exhausted, I can sympathize. Did the guy make mistakes? Sure did. Does that excuse any and all incompetence on the part of the wife cuz vagina? Sure doesn't. A guy needs to own his frame. That's very clear. But no matter how on point a man is, one cannot control, nor are they ultimately responsible for another person's psychotic actions. Never i…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 05:18 PM
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This article hit me like a ton of bricks. I actually thought that during a moment of clarity when my wife said tearfully that I deserved better than her, that she had a shred of humanity, self respect, and decency. She had seemed so honest and genuine in her regret. Maybe it was even both. Maybe she both regretted her behavior on some level, and yet, still wanted me to be the one to end it so she could play the victim.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/16 12:42 AM
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Realizations like this are brutal, but necessary.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/16 10:36 PM
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"Only with other fellow men..." Man, did I ever learn this lesson the hard way. Women SAY they want a sensitive open man, but they resent you immediately if you are. And if you open yourself enough to be able to cry in front of them, for any reason, they immediately think less of you.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/16 08:47 PM
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They've got the wife, kid, and car, but still there's a void... Exactly this. We ignore our gut feelings and rationalize that everything is A-OK because our wives tell us they love us and throw us some pussy twice a week. That brick wall we slam into at 120mph is one hell of a wake up call.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/16 07:50 PM
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