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| 2 | Why do girls want to do only foreplay but not have sex?Foleplay is like stretching a string as far and as long as it can before it snaps. | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 07:35 PM |
| 3 | how to create situations where you can break the touch barrier?Also, hugging when you first greet her is a great way but not mandatory, when I met my fiance we never hugged until right before our first kiss, bud did lots of pats, high fives, hand comparing, held hands briefly and holding her by the arm to help her down a flight of stairs and even walked holding hands. | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | how to create situations where you can break the touch barrier?By pull, you mean 3rd base? | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 10:22 PM |
| 5 | how to create situations where you can break the touch barrier?I like first bumps, then comparing hand sizes and shoulder taps to emphasize the Convo. | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | What kind of social interactions with women do you enjoy the most?Conversations are very deep with women in general, and they love talking about their lives, past loves and they love animals... Some basic starting points. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 11:22 PM |
| 2 | You'll never be too platonic if you just know how to ESCALATEWhooosh for me then lol | /r/seduction | 27/07/23 11:25 PM |
| 2 | You'll never be too platonic if you just know how to ESCALATEOf course, I appreciate that, but that's not the reason I comment here | /r/seduction | 27/07/23 11:18 PM |
| 15 | You'll never be too platonic if you just know how to ESCALATEI second BritishBatman (love your name btw)... an initial hug works wonders for setting the frame, it distances you from other guys that she might be meeting, I even compliment her outfit or "you are very cute" to go with the hug. | /r/seduction | 27/07/23 10:54 PM |
| 1 | I don’t have my own place, how to get invited back to hers?It's better for her to bring you to her place since she has the home field advantage, there's no risk for her entering a stranger's home, she knows who is in her house beforehand and she can kick you out of things go south, call a neighbor, etc... Soo you have to do your job so she wants to sleep with you, and then suggest to drop her at her place and take it from there. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Going to a Halloween party this weekend - how do I flirt?Dress as a vampire, offer neck bites until a girl offers bitting you back, it doesn't have to be limited to the neck. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Where's that instructional video...This is for r/sex | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 12:43 AM |
| 1 | What to do after a fail approach?Pick your nose and walk aimlessly, this will automatically make you adorable, girls love adorable. | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Looking for RSD Tyler infield videos. Any leads?It's more about the date | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | After making plans to meetup with a woman, do you continue the conversation or not until the date?Post interesting or funny shit on your status updates so she can see you have a life and may also want to comment, or you can also do it on hers but like once, not every single day until your date. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 09:20 PM |
| 2 | How to display dominance with a girlI'm not gonna upvote this just for the fact I won't ruin the tally | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 03:55 AM |
| 4 | How to display dominance with a girlYou pee on her of course | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 03:54 AM |
| 4 | 29 years old just about recovered from mental health setbacks and I want to meet beautiful girls but feel lostAs an introvert Introvert=/=shy Shyness comes from fear of rejection and judgement Lower your expectations, not every hot girl out there will be attracted to you. But this is ok. Meeting a sexual partner depends more on how 1) comfortable are with yourself, as a result people feel comfortable around you. If you're ok with flirting then girls will love flirting with you. 2) How good your social skills are and for this you have to learn how to talk to anyone. Doesn't matter if it's an old lady, or… | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 12:40 AM |
| 3 | "Work on yourself bro" is actually bad advice for young dudesYeah, but I think many guys forget to pay attention to themselves, and make the girl in question their world. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel they never get Indicators of Interest (IOIs) from women?Yup your vibes, girls love feeling safe | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 03:57 PM |
| 5 | Does anyone else feel they never get Indicators of Interest (IOIs) from women?You must be charismatic af! | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 05:39 AM |
| 4 | Does anyone else feel they never get Indicators of Interest (IOIs) from women?It's called real life | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 05:36 AM |
| 1 | I can get numbers but not a date.Nothing, that's just normal, keep chatting until you find a girl is interested in going out. DM me and I can take a closer look at your convos if you like! | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 04:30 PM |
| 9 | How to deal with her Instagram stories?Why waste your time with this nonsense? IG stories are just for pleasing her attention needs and real dating takes place outside social media. Ask her out on a date. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Gaze shift from face to chest, what does it mean?Yeah, that was not my point, I mean I don't want to go to Targaryen territory. But point is, she proly was just doing that because it's a habit, and not trying to bang her family. But how many times have we heard or seen this advise of how to tell if a girl likes you. And guys end up just hunting for these petty signs, maybe other more important IOIs flying over their heads. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 09:33 PM |
| 20 | Dealing with other menYeah, weak and insecure men tend to overcompensate with over masculine behavior or try to appear more "alpha" and try to emasculate other men. Just ignore them, they'll dig their own grave. What I've seen is they try harder to get some chicks attention. Never works. Done this myself, not proud, but when you're on scarcity is kinda natural behavior. One of my close friend's xbf had these behaviors, often rejected interaction with other men, always had this overprotective attitude like a guard dog… | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Gaze shift from face to chest, what does it mean?Yeah few days ago I was talking to one of my aunts ( she's milfy) and she was paying attention to me while twirling her hair, so does that mean that she wants to bang? Like do I really want to? Like nope. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Gaze shift from face to chest, what does it mean?Don't fixate on these little things! They are just a waste of time! If you like her then make a move, if she likes you back then things will progress very easily, if she doesn't she will keep you guessing. And don't narrow your universe to just colleagues! Is a better strategy to befriend your colleagues and more often than not they have female friends that can be met. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | How to get over being rejected by a girl I thought was in my leagueYes the mere term of league is relative, like in highschool, that's like the popular girl vs the nerdy kid, but that same popular girl in levels of attractiveness may be the same of a Hollywood superstar, but you can't say that are of the same status. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Asked another girl out on Instagram, date is in a few hoursReport back! there's nothing that we can do here! You got this! | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | I pretty much only get a chance at fat women online. How do I upgrade?Apps aré just so superficial, so use them to compliment your dating life. You re better off showing confidence and attracting fit women irl than trying for the same type of chick at a dating app. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 04:49 AM |
| 1 | IOIs are only when you are already out with the girlOh boy, back in 2011 I had this girl, that in hindsight, she was throwing herself on me but I never made a move because fear of rejection, and she went back to her ex, I made out with her at a party, she was wasted lol. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 01:08 AM |
| 1 | IOIs are only when you are already out with the girlThis is more for beginners, fear of rejection one big part of it. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Does the phrase "strike while the iron is hot" applies to dating?Yup! | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 12:09 AM |
| 2 | When someone says there is "lack of connection" what exactly is that?Are you Kevin Magnussen in disguise? | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | What're good secrets you can share about yourself to build rapport on a 1st date?This! | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 04:49 AM |
| 18 | How to get past the age problemDon't answer her direct questions like a good boy! Tell her something like "I'm actually 50 but I have an illness like that Brad Pitt movie" or something wittier or better, it's just an example! show her that you control the frame! | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | AdviceSo this is real life, not a romantic movie, stay clear from those ideas, learn the fundamentals of how attraction works! Read the wiki from this sub! | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 09:32 PM |
| 2 | How do I get over the fact that I won't have sex until I'm a adult in my 20s and missed out on sex and dating as a teenager?Yeah and some have teen pregnantcyies! Seen too many young people mess up their careers because they "didn't miss out". There's no rush! 20s is still teenager, when reach 30 you'll get me. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 04:35 AM |
| 3 | I’m the only one who always get left on delivered by long periods by girls wherever is ones I’m dating or ones that are just friendsAre you escalating with these girls on the first date?? | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 08:39 PM |
| 6 | how to touch a woman?For starters, with woman you wanna always be delicate, not like when you're with your buddies, no strong handshake, no squeezing her arm, no strong high fives or bro fists. Always light touches. For initiating touch, it takes lots of practice calibrating for the situation, but in general she has to be comfortable on your close proximity, some mistake I used to make is to leave like half a meter or more of space, like she was radioactive or something. For a first date a subtle way of initiating t… | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Have you guys stumbled upon really old texting convos?How old are you dude? Glad to hear your working towards meeting your gf! | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 09:22 PM |
| 4 | What should you be on the lookout for when you have ADHD?Work on the active listening part, it's hard I know but works wonders. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | What do you say when a girls asks you about your previous relationships/experience and your a virgin?Say, yeah I'm sooo virgin that I'm almost a monk, in a jokingly manner, you'll leave her wondering ... | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men who only act nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will lack success.Dude you just showed everyone here why you're single. | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Ladies: Asking for consent before a kiss or just by reading non verbal cues? Rule or preference?Game in a nutshell! | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Ladies: Asking for consent before a kiss or just by reading non verbal cues? Rule or preference?My girl is a self proclaimed feminist and always speaks for women empowerment, but when it comes down to business she loves to be commanded. Funny how this works. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Any advise on someone new to the gameDon't let your age deter your purpose, girls don't know if you have zero XP, only you... So yes the fake-it-till-you-make-it works. If your vibe smells desperation the girls will run from you, but if your vibe is calm and confident then you'll be interesting. 1) Erase your mind of all the info you've learned about dating during your life. 2) Learn that girls are just human beings, they are not queens nor goddesses, just the opposite sex that also love to have sex. Beauty is just a facade and wha… | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Holding her by the hand on the 1st date is totally OK.Okey now this is becoming pointless, you're just trolling . . . And yep... That's why there are things called trials nothing's cut and dry. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Holding her by the hand on the 1st date is totally OK.Well let's agree to disagree, you wanna do it that way great! That's your style. However if I go by the logic of your other comments, I should've charged my current gf for sexual assault, because, I did not give her verbal consent for multiple occasions on our 1st date. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 07:09 PM |
| 6 | Men Need to Get Out Of Their Romantic DefaultMove on, that's other thing they teach men, persist until she says yes because she only was "playing hard to get". | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Holding her by the hand on the 1st date is totally OK.Yup, I agree, you'll never go to a random person and hug them for no reason. In my post, both parties agreed that it was a date, hugged from the start, and before the kiss we were already holding hands, all I had to do was guide her towards me, and she reciprocated by closing the distance to my face, what more consent you want from that? It depends, some girls need a 2nd date before they kiss the guy, it's reading the room, and if you like to ask them explicitly it's fine, but it can be done jus… | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Holding her by the hand on the 1st date is totally OK.Exactly my point, and game is not always verbal! You sound like I'm describing battery! Remember when we say girls touch someone they are attracted to? So that's without consent... Do I have to feel violated everytime a girl touches me?? | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Holding her by the hand on the 1st date is totally OK.So game is sexual assault? | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Holding her by the hand on the 1st date is totally OK.I like to imagine that too, lol but I'm dating other girl ATM, so no blue balls lol. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Holding her by the hand on the 1st date is totally OK.I know girls that don't like it when a guy looks for consent, some girls prefer action in a man. There are limits to this, like having sex we all have to be 100% on the same page, but for a kiss, is a skill knowing she wants to be kissed, and IMO is a lot more exciting having that feeling that it just happened, like reading the other person's mind. If in doubt, a clear no from her or a turn from her head is enough to stop. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Holding her by the hand on the 1st date is totally OK.Its a skill that comes with practice, it is social intelligence and leading the interaction, and girls love it when you lead. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 04:30 PM |
| 11 | Men Need to Get Out Of Their Romantic DefaultThat reminds me of the 3 day rule for calling her. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 04:59 AM |
| 23 | Men Need to Get Out Of Their Romantic DefaultI blame Disney, rom-coms and family. Too many men just want to convince girls into sex with romance 🤮. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Women are people, and people make dumb decisions.I'm late for the party, OP deleted everything :'D... Did he just said that is better approach dumb women? | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 05:12 PM |
| 3 | How to ‘take it slow’ with women?There's sexual women that can take it long term, sex on first date really doesn't mean anything on terms of how long the relationship will last. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Girl on Tinder invited me over within 24 hours of matchingAlso there's scams that are running on dating apps, so beware of girls that want to chat with you via WhatsApp or telegram asap and never want to meet | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Why can't I talk to women?Aren't all of these ex-RSD? | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 05:17 AM |
| 3 | Girl on Tinder invited me over within 24 hours of matchingSketchy AF, skip! | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 05:11 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid girls who just want another male orbiter?Then you didn't understand why men en up as orbiters in the first place | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 05:02 AM |
| 2 | How do you avoid girls who just want another male orbiter?The same way you avoid other guys that can be manipulative. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 03:35 AM |
| 8 | How do you avoid girls who just want another male orbiter?Mmmm I think you have this backwards, guys end up as orbiter not because she does something, all she has to do is being attractive to the guys. If you don't want to be an orbiter, then show intent from the get go, ask her out. Almost all girls will have orbiters. Specially in environments where there's few women such as engineering schools. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Shower thought: The process of seduction should feel easy. If it doesn’t, then she’s probably not into you.Black pillers in a nutshell | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 02:09 AM |
| 2 | how to keep a girl on hook for long time?I don't recommend long distance, have you established that both of you are on a relationship??? If not. Then she owes you nothing, she's just a pin pal. What makes someone hooked to another person is sexual and emotional connection that is best done in person. Long distance only works when in an already established relationship, for reasons such as work or career decisions, one of them ends up moving. TL;DR don't waste your precious time with someone that you might never see in person, plenty of… | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:20 PM |
| 7 | Why is it that only old women check me out?I totally got the reference v: | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 10:42 PM |
| 104 | Why is it that only old women check me out?You made me imaginé a bunch of grandma's checking you out | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Can therapy help with my fear of approaching? Possible social anxiety issues?Meditate! It's a good way to stay present, calm your brain down and makes you not give a fuck. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | MasculinityAnd is all about practice that this balance becomes second nature! For me abundance is that with each girl you meet you have absolutely nothing to lose! | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 08:10 PM |
| 4 | MasculinityAnd is all about practice that this balance becomes second nature! For me abundance is that with each girl you meet you have absolutely nothing to lose! | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 08:10 PM |
| 11 | What's a no no during texting?doing nothing else but chit chat, waiting for the perfect convo for asking her out! Double texting when she ghosts Lots of emojis Always being the first Only thing you have to do on your entire day is text! Stop waiting for her texts, do your normal life! | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 07:19 PM |
| 2 | what movies should I watch to know more about seduction or pickup.None and don't be fooled by Hitch, he's not a real dating coach | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Help with escalationDefine "talking to", how much have you escalated already? Have you kissed yet? Have you even held hands? The goal of escalation is to lead her to sex, what's your end plan? | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Which city or country did you have the most success in?Tatooine | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Never use a girl's interests to try to impress her, worse if they are not yoursLol, that finding out a month later part is just the cherry on top! What did you do with that I formation? | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Going to approach a girl I like tomorrow (or whenever I meet her next)Do a Sheldon Cooper impression "That's my spot" Or "Hey thanks for saving my seat" Or "Thanks for waiting, sorry I took so long" | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 04:14 PM |
| 0 | honestly speaking, how is anyone supposed to be confident in this day and age?Confidence is when you know that you can do things and even if they don't go the way you hoped you know that no matter what, you'll be just fine. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general?I used the pandemic to my favor, suddenly girls that normally weren't on OLD downloaded an app and few months into it met my current gf. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 12:47 PM |
| 4 | Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general?Nahh I'm more of the idea that if you only want to date hot, top model girls and you yourself is fat or unkept, no job nothing interesting going on, living in your mom's basement, then it is entitled. Just because a pretty girl is pretty doesn't mean she owes you sex for being attracted to her, she has to be attracted too. So if these guys are fat then should lower their standards or work on become fit and then approach the "hot" ones. Look at Skippy in YT he's all that and is a 45 yo virgin tha… | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Is she into me or just sees me as a friend l?That's ok, I had my first date at 19 and went horribly wrong, but that doesn't mean that you should be afraid because it's just dating and it's quite normal. In fact don't be surprised if it leads nowhere. The important thing here is you not her. She doesn't has to be the mother of your children, she might be the 1st of many that you date, that comes with time and you'll know. You're very young and your career should be top priority. Girls will tag along. Approach this as Xp points. That said, I… | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 02:10 AM |
| 9 | Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general?Agree | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 12:10 AM |
| 7 | Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general?Oh the oneitis | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 12:09 AM |
| 14 | Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general?Because almost nobody teaches us how to flirt aka how to talk to women so we resort to movies or family members. And guys who are successful do it at a subconscious level so explaining it is the issue. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Is she into me or just sees me as a friend l?Positive behavior is positive behavior, ask her out. How many first dates have you done? Your job is to make your behavior so it communicates your attraction and/or interest. Not friendship. So any help with that feel free!ñ to ask! | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Friendzone or NotTry to ask her out without the app context and try to make it non platonic. If she agrees on a whim then there's your answer. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 12:11 AM |
| 50 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?Not to waste time, learn to move on if things don't work out. Your own goals are more important than having a partner. Looks start to become a secondary trait | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 07:29 PM |
| 12 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?Yeah elaborate... Does it impacts it negatively? Girls with experience are the difference between a good bj or leaving marks on. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 07:24 PM |
| 2 | So self improvement is preached here. But at what point are you good enough?Best thing I've read in a long time! | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Easiest country to get laid ???Stop watching too much TLC! Specially 90 day fiance lol | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Limiting belief that nobody has ever been into meExactly! Forgot to mention that! | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Limiting belief that nobody has ever been into meIf you think that you're not compatible with certain demographic, then start looking for your crowd. If you like hiking then go find people with the same interests. Don't try to find your "soul mate" at a bar or club, simply that's not your tribe. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 04:48 PM |
| 4 | Limiting belief that nobody has ever been into mePractice the basics until you are on autopilot. Logical thinking kills game. And getting attached to just one girl also kills game. It's key to be able to let go until your sure you find a girls that is relationship material( in your view of course). | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | how can I flirt with and seduce my teacher?This is not the purpose of this sub!!! Seduction doesn't work the way you are thinking! I know that you want to manipulate your way into your teachers pants! And because you're just horny! You just watched a lot of porn fantasies. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Is GF posting status in underwear a shit test?Yup, something that guys take a lot of time to understand. Oh btw, does the amount of skin shown important to you? I forgot to mention that the post is only showing legs, like only pants off, would it make a difference to you? One argument I hear is that what's different from posting a bikini photo. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Is GF posting status in underwear a shit test?The post is like neck down, b&w, draw me like your french girls pose, XD. ( TBH I'm posting out of curiosity, the gf in question is not mine, some friend I want to advice) First time, she's ever done this, fresh into a new relationship. She got a reaction out of her SO (he's kinda simpy), not a positive one but nothing out of ordinary. The type of girl that has a lot of male friends. She says she did it because she wanted to express her body security. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 07:26 PM |
| 2 | What things do women go through with dating?Point 1 I think is the mistake that most guys make, in retrospect, I've let go of so many opportunities, lol. 2 my country is full of this 3 my gf's best friend is just into a relationship with a guy that's been in "love" with her for 20+ years. And now that his dream is accomplished, doesn't know how to handle her, only 2 months in. She tells us that's she's having doubts. Basically the guy is a hopeless romantic simp that idealizes the girl from 20 years ago but won't realize she's has grown. … | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | What things do women go through with dating?How did you find out and did you told him?? | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 03:14 PM |
| 8 | 20(M) I match with a lot of girls but never know what to say.Anything that is not boring like: Hey! How are you? Hello You're beautiful Hi | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 02:35 AM |
| 0 | Unless you are in an established relationship with someone, there needs to be a degree of emotional detachment regarding a potential future with themYeah, for me girls that are just fresh out of a serious relationship are low hanging fruit, there's lots of single ladies out there. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 04:52 PM |
| 5 | Unless you are in an established relationship with someone, there needs to be a degree of emotional detachment regarding a potential future with themYeah, for me girls that are just fresh out of a serious relationship are low hanging fruit, there's lots of single ladies out there. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 04:52 PM |
| 2 | I wonder how many guys who share advices here are actually getting girlsI limit giving advise on what were my previous experiences, sometimes it's in line with other sometimes overlap, the thing is that you go try it yourself and see if it works. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 04:37 PM |
| 2 | I’m a simp…..Well simps usually don't get to fuck, so just understand that giving her space will not push her away, to the contrary, it will make her miss you. And try to limit your time with her to 1 date per week. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | I’m a simp…..Have you shown intent?? Because I've been there when I'm going out with a girl for weeks but I never make any move or show intent, so she gets bored or tired of waiting and starts to call you friend. What are you exactly doing while in the date? Have you guy already kissed? | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 04:20 PM |
| 2 | I’m a simp…..Please help the man, this sub is for advice not turning users away! | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 04:18 PM |
| 153 | Unless you are in an established relationship with someone, there needs to be a degree of emotional detachment regarding a potential future with themGuilty of this so many times! I even treated the girl as we were on a relationship, without even been on a date lol. Worst offenders ... Texting q lot... Like sending good morning texts... Yikes. Act worry if she was going through something... Feeling jealous from other guys. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | 34M Just returned to the dating game and I’m rusty. Any advice on how to get up to speed?Avoid boring openers like Hi, or hey what you up to, o the worst offender: hey. Before sending the 1st message look at her profile really good. What I like to do is to tease her, on what she's doing or something she likes. The goal here is to get her to respond, if she laughs great sign! Exchange a couple or more messages and invite her out! | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Women are so bad at dating advice…I think he's black pilled | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Are dating coaches a waste of money?Wow it would be cool if you do an AMA | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Are dating coaches a waste of money?Best value advice here | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | My female friend just let me cum on her tits .. is she gf material?Today on things that never happened | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Give me your best openersHey! Proceeds to get ignored T.T | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Tips for a 21 year old virgin?Talk to women without drinking anything. It might seem that society pushes us to drink in order to have fun, but if you feel that social pressure just say I just don't feel like drinking, ir I'm driving or health reasons! Usually people won't say anything else and if they do they're jerks! So go and hit on girls sober! Might feel like going to square one but 21 is so young that this doesn't matter. Besides it's very common for men to still be virgin at your age. So next time just go for it, don'… | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular seduction opinion? Something you really believe, but would get down voted on this sub?Women love sex and we must pursue a sexual relationship on the get go, if you already went platonic then forget her, doesn't matter how special she is just move on! | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | I'm nervous when I'm going to meet a girlWait until he gets to meet her family, now that's how you get nervous lol | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | I'm nervous when I'm going to meet a girlYou're not ugly! How did you meet? If she agrees is because she was interested AKA she liked you! There's a guy on YT that published a video "Being ugly" Guess what? He has a cute gf now! | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 01:10 PM |
| 2 | I'm nervous when I'm going to meet a girlYup! They just sweat all waste away | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | 20M never been on a date. Any tips?How did you ask them out??? | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | What is your tinder strategy?Figure out if we are for drinks or food, give her my contact info, continue conversation outside the app, meet her. Real seduction happens in person. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:29 PM |
| 5 | I’m so confused by all this game bullshitThis!! If there's no effort then where's the fun? As with everything else in life! | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:25 PM |
| -1 | I’m so confused by all this game bullshitWell that's not how game works! The secret is getting good in each skillet that you just do it without thinking! One big game killer is overthinking and over strategizing! | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Why I feel so nervous while talking to girls and run out of words to say?We as men tend to put a woman's beauty the reason of what makes her valuable, but there's more to them than their looks! Flip that around, she has to convince you why she can be a potential partner! Her looks are just the cherry on top.. Show her that you also have internal value, that talking to her is not because of her physical attractiveness, like you talk to models every day like it's nothing. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | On miami beach during spring break solo trip what are the next step.Don't get passed out drunk! | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 11:53 PM |
| 2 | first date, is talking friendly but not flirty a bad idea?No problem bro! Yes it is indeed, but this art works itself out the more you do it, and how social you are everyday, not only with the girls you like. This is a lot of info and trying it all at once will make you anxious and may hinder your attempt at practicing, so pick a skill you're the most comfortable (or uncomfortable) with, and master it, e.g. eye contact or having great conversation. When you feel you're getting there then go on with physical escalation. You can take several months with … | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 11:50 PM |
| 6 | Whats the hardest youve ever caught oneitisThat one time I rebuild the house where we lost our virginities... 10 years prior. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 11:10 PM |
| 3 | Need some helpWhat was your goal snapping with her? You didn't make a move for a week, called her pretty, she got her ego inflated and lost interest because she doesn't need your attention anymore. So, if you're giving free attention without making any move, things will never get anywhere with any chick. It's not that confusing, girls love posting their photos online so 1000s of guys like them and tell them they are beautiful. She feels validated, wash rinse repeat. You wanna succeed? Go against the crowd. Mo… | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Why am I struggling?Or going the fifth element route | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 10:44 PM |
| 0 | Why am I struggling?Nonsense! I am the least experience in my relationship and she doesn't give a fuck! This doesn't matter once a girl is attracted and fallen for you. Also don't advertise your experience! Fake the experience, it's not that bad lol. It will turn into real experience anyway. Focus on practicing your flirting skills, also called game, courtship... You get the point. To get good, you must date a lot of girls, so 2 dates it's not enough. Every date is a learning opportunity, if you fuck it up, move on… | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 10:40 PM |
| 2 | first date, is talking friendly but not flirty a bad idea?There's lots of content on this sub here, look for kino escalation guide ;) it's very extensive! But shorter version: Good eye contact, look at her like she's the cutest girl you've seen. Sit next to her! Touch her on the arm, or shoulder when asserting a point or teasing her which brings me to: make her laugh! Tease her about the things she tells you. It's ok to pick on her. It's a lot easier than it seems! Conversation can be of anything, like when you're with friends, one thing leads to anoth… | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | first date, is talking friendly but not flirty a bad idea?That move used to scare me, I thought I would look like too intense or a creep, but later found out that girls take this as a sign of confidence and eventually get closer to you if you do your job well (flirting) :) | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | first date, is talking friendly but not flirty a bad idea?He hasn't heard about non verbal communication | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Ghosted after first dateWhy do we focus so much on texts??? How was the date like? | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I become attractive enough to have success on Tinder?I've gotten a girl out with her putting absolutely nothing on her bio, just pics. | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to go out to dinner on a first date in the US?I'm from latin an American country and it is not weird, but sometimes men use this tactic to show off and being super romantic but depending on the girl, she's either turned off, just there for free food or it might work for the dude. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have good tinder text sequences?The only standard I have is to just ask the damn women out! Step 1, funny comment/observation about something on her pics or bio. This will make you stand out from the 100s of guys that message "hey" or "you're beautiful". Step 2 take something from your or her bio and spike the idea of going out and doing it together. ( Street food never lets me down) Step 3 get her out the app, i.e. give her your number (or maybe she gives you her's at this point) and make concrete plans over Whatsapp or SMS. … | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Anyone have good tinder text sequences?Pressed Y instead of X, got dick stuck in her bio. :( | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to ask a random girl for her number?Why are they scary to approach to you??? | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 07:33 PM |
| 3 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexMy brother is doing this with this gorgeous Romanian girl and won't listen to me! 🤦🏻♂️ | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Do anyone else see being a male cockblocking friend a dick move?Not in this case, she seemed very into the conversation and even asked stuff about me. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Do anyone else see being a male cockblocking friend a dick move?Lol | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Need as many opinions as possible, I think this girl friend zone me with no chance of being a coupleDefinitely leave her, how is it that you want friendship from someone that already disrespects you? Just don't! that "let's be friends because you rejected me" is total BS. If you want to be friends with a girl then be friends from the get-go and don't waste your time. If you want to date a girl then date her, don't mix the two, this will save you from a lot of heartache, believe me, I've been there! HNY! And good luck! | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 02:56 AM |
| 5 | Need as many opinions as possible, I think this girl friend zone me with no chance of being a coupleListen to good advice like this one dude, can only say I've been there and it's just a waste of your precious time trying to convince a random girl on the internet to like you. Have some self respect, if someone does not pick up then stop harassing! | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Men should be passive and not invite to relationshipYep, sexually I try to go fast, relationshipwise, I like to take things slow. I date a girl for over a month, 3 months tops and then ask her if she wants exclusivity. | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 07:08 PM |
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