Many times you meet a girl and develop feelings for her almost immediately.

Must of us get blown away by her beauty, or sometimes she's very social and makes her look intimidating.

Whenever I met "the most beautiful girl I've ever seen", I asked, how I could get close to this beautiful girl? I started to treat her like she was very special and became friends with her, then the time flew by, waiting to develop the courage and ask her out. But that time never came, I started to feel the pressure from other guys and what was the most logical solution? Give her more attention and confess my feelings. Oh the heartbreak...

All this time took months and all I did was give her my attention and treated her like she was special and other people pick up on this...yikes!

Looking back, my interactions involved her being nice and friendly, but her body language told dude just stop being around me that much. Or telling me stories about her love life. Or calling me friend. Postponing us hanging out. And what all these told me: I know you like me.

You may swear that you're keeping all these feeling in, but your actions speak like 1000 times louder!!

What I've learned? Let her know a soon as you meet her that you find her attractive and get the "mystery" out the way. The easier part is the flirting and getting her attracted to you. The harder part is what happens after the relationship has started.