Masculinity

Kundalini-Electric · 2022-08-06T18:03:16+00:00

Be decisive and take lead. Don’t be afraid of showing her attraction. You are a Man, she is a Woman. Sexual tension will always naturally be there unless you say something stupid. Feel the tension and run with it. She will feel it too.

dub_side · 2022-08-06T17:47:44+00:00

Read Models.

Superb-End6273 · 2022-08-06T23:48:54+00:00

You've got it all wrong masculinity is your natural energy because you are the physical manifestation of a man. So you don't do anything to be masculine... you just be natural. Now many men have lost masculine qualities due to the comfortable society we live in today including competitiveness, dominance, leadership, logic, and assertiveness. But if you think "I gotta walk like this and talk like this and act like this" to be masculine then your mistaken.

I will give you the best possible formula for masculinity humanely possible:

Surround yourself with the right people that are heading in the direction and have the qualities(of masculinity) that you want to adopt. If these people are productive you will become productive, if they can smooth talk women you'll develop some smoothness yourself, if they are always disciplined you will become disciplined. These type of people are like balloons because they'll lift you up to the next level. However, just as I described there are people like this there are also people who are like weights that pull you down. Now here's my question to you... which type of people do you surround yourself with?

Another example: Think about how men were in tribes way back. These men fed off each other's masculinity constantly lifting each other up. It' works no different nowadays.

argusboy · 2022-08-06T21:12:42+00:00

Masculine energy is sure if it’s self, confident, controlled, drives the fun bus, is balanced and is consistent. Feminine energy is chaotic like the ocean. Keep the boat even keeled while always looking for adventure and fun and unbothered by the crashing waves of interesting and unending unpredictability. Masculine energy wants to keep things predictable and female energy wants the new shiny. So mix it up. Have fun. Be authentic but creative. They’ve seen it all before so show them something new.

Vangelis76 · 2022-08-06T18:45:19+00:00

Abundance mindset is among the most important things that will separate you from simps and "beta" male as they call it. This means that you are going to carry on with the belief that if this girl were to ghost you or just walks away from you, you're going to not give a shit. Why? Because there are other women out there waiting to be approached and etc. Keep your options open. Talk to other women when you get the opportunity. Be sure to prioritize your needs! And don't be afraid to say no. I'm a recovering frim nice guy syndrome and I wish i did this years ago. Getting friendzoned is inevitable with women if you don't have the right skills.

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-08-06T19:38:19+00:00

Being masculine around a girl usually means me just being dominant, assertive, and taking the lead while ofc pays attention to her and finding out where your limits are, at least how I personally do that.

alfytony · 2022-08-06T19:38:50+00:00

Masculinity is more than how women perceive you. It is about relentlessly working towards building yourself physically and mentally to face uncertainty and convert that into structure and stability. You may not fully succeed or partially succeed but that’s part of it. Perception by women should naturally improve if you focus on above.

TheMrShmoove · 2022-08-07T02:17:30+00:00

Think of a millennial…and do the opposite!!!

Knbnc · 2022-08-06T18:34:09+00:00

Manspreading, whiskey and a toothpick.

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-08-06T18:08:42+00:00

Center yourself and your motives. Don't get lost in tangents that are off base or don't fall in line with your goals and your motivation.

Be aware of the seeds of doubt: manipulation, selfishness and meekness. Don't doubt yourself or your goals, especially as a cost of being more attractive to her. Don't give into arguments or justifications, or more self validation through speaking. It is better to just listen. If anything you speak to reinforce yourself as someone who is "winning" in life, which is what actually attracts women beyond superficial boast or sexuality.

You are what you are and your goals can speak for you as long as you are actually attaining them.

Liprubber · 2022-08-07T01:13:34+00:00

Watch Jax Teller on Sons of Anarchy

Perfect_War5446 · 2022-08-07T15:11:31+00:00

Sometimes I feel like myself isn’t enough ya know

DontTakePeopleSrsly · 2022-08-07T05:10:52+00:00

Stop taking them seriously.

ophispegasos · 2022-08-09T09:01:59+00:00

Just be yourself. You're a man, right? Then no need to "perform masculinity" - especially toxic masculinity. Performing masculinity is usually a turn off for any healthy minded person. Just. Be. Yourself.

ElektroLogik · 2022-08-06T22:27:18+00:00

Best advice: Find women who don’t give a shit about masculine vibe. They are shallow.

sincere_blasphemy · 2022-08-06T21:44:05+00:00

Superficial, but having a nicely trimmed beard or mustache is really nice. Also confidence! Be confident in who you are, that's manly as fuck :)

throwaway_6196190012 · 2022-08-06T22:16:32+00:00

Do things that boost your testosterone

Silent-Recipe-3600 · 2022-08-06T22:56:21+00:00

There are so many ways to enhance your masculinity that even the most masculine of men don’t even if have all these qualities. Think of Idris Elba, Tom Hardy, Daniel Craig, Tom Cruise. They all have different masculine traits. Idris Elba and Tom Hardy both have beards. Tom Cruise is very charismatic. Daniel Craig has a mysterious aura about him. Because there are so many traits to masculinity it is better to read books and also analyze traits of masculine figures.

pixieasf · 2022-08-07T02:39:05+00:00

i’ve never been attracted to that “macho” or super masculine type , nor do I know many other woman who are. I would just suggest being yourself lmao that will get you way further than acting like some dick

2022-08-07T07:03:59+00:00

It depends on what you think is “masculine”. Do you want a woman who primarily wants those kinds of traits in her partner? There isn’t inherently anything wrong with that, but my gut tells me that if she requires a “manly” man, she might also be a skosh high maintenance. If your belief is that that’s what most women want, then you’d be mistaken. There are plenty of women who prefer their partner not have classically alpha qualities. Wouldn’t you rather attract people who are attracted to what you already bring to the table?

wannabe-WAussie · 2022-08-07T07:30:04+00:00

it's also a cultural construct. What's masculine depends on the culture, rather than the appearance/behavior. What's masculine and ok for men in a certain country it might considered feminine in others.

johnnyxton · 2022-08-07T09:01:36+00:00

There's so much speculation about it, while it's so simple. Let me tell you a thing. You can't fake anything around women. They'll get it. Men aren't as naturally clever to detect that hence even this question, you think you could fake it because a woman can without you noticing (which is normal unless you have a tonnnn of experience with women). Naturally often it's expected to play for a woman harder for a man. (Playing hard to get). However. You as a man, should never fake anything. If at all, it's YOU. And you do it because it's YOU. If you're shy in a certain situation, you're shy, because that's you. If you're on top of the world in another situation you do it, because that's you. That's your inner force. Now the question should be changed, how can you change your inner nature? Look at the word nature here, it's important. And the answer is simple, you get your T-levels up. Simply put, hit the gym, and go for legs atleast twice a week. (That'll make you feel different after a few weeks believe me). Don't ever believe that psychological explanations (that won't resonate with you anyways if you don't feel it from the inside) or formulas will change anything. You gotta be yourself and respect yourself for that. The simplest way to achieve that is by being contempt with your own acts. Meaning you always have a backup in your mind. The strongest you can have is alternative women, but to build that you need something else, which will be you. That's the one you gotta pet. YOU. The confidence comes naturally when you got something else to hold on to. You don't make your happiness dependent on anyone. Which cause you to be yourself. This is the REAL confidence. It sounds like a reversed vicious cycle because it's like have alternative women -> you are confident. The other way around if you don't have alternative women it'll seem impossible to be confident. Hence the tip, start working with yourself first. The rest will come automatically.

Ready-Opinion2170 · 2022-08-07T11:31:47+00:00

Besides whatever you are doing. Contó the gym. Train hard then You Will get more testosterone. I have been 10 times accurate with girls. Even i got much more confident.

Magneto_1 · 2022-08-07T13:10:58+00:00

Just be yourself! Don’t act like someone you are not!

yo_saturnalia · 2022-08-07T16:35:10+00:00

Maybe keep your dick hanging out? Doesn’t get more manly than some loose dick lounging around .. swaying in the breeze

Kindly-Article7336 · 2022-08-07T16:53:18+00:00

Being more masculine is being attentive and kind. Show her your interested but be natural. Women can tell if it is fake. Believe it or not being vulnerable is masculine and sexy.

bandsupjay · 2022-08-07T17:39:33+00:00

By not being needy. Be a leader not a follower and do your own things. Its not about having big muscles and looking manly but your internal compass. If you’re confident enough, you won’t try to get them to like you and do things on your term. That communicates a strong man. Personally, I feel as I possess all these things, it just needs coaxing out of me. Higher the esteem mine is the 10x easier this comes because I don’t care and I know people like me for me.

DrinksAreOnTheHouse · 2022-08-07T23:35:32+00:00

Do ever seek their approval. Be true to your wants and opinions.

Title	Masculinity
Author	Perfect_War5446
Upvotes	13
Comments	64
Date	August 6, 2022 5:42 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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