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women will finally bear some responsibility ...HA
/r/MGTOW14/08/18 02:58 PM
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I've been on many first dates, I've dated many women long term. The money I've spent I don't really care about. It's easy for me to make money. What I have come to find, is that women aren't capable of love. That's all I'm really looking for, but it falls short every time. I'm at the point where I think it doesn't exist. So now I just go out to have my fun.
/r/MGTOW14/08/18 02:52 PM
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They are upset that non chads are looking at her. Stop it you ugly incels.
/r/MGTOW13/08/18 09:53 PM
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Truth right here. And if you're fat, just fucking lose the weight. It's just discipline and patience. It's all about what you eat. I was fat all through my teens and early 20s. I'd get passed up for chads all the time in college and it sucked. Mid 20s I had enough. I made a list of all the things I liked to eat, Steak, seafood, chicken, pizza etc and found healthy ways to eat it. I filled my diet with more fiber to fill me up and I moved more. Lost 100lbs. Now all I have to do is dress well and …
/r/MGTOW13/08/18 09:14 PM
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That's why you tie all that shit up into different things so that on paper your net worth is 0.
/r/MGTOW13/08/18 09:04 PM
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I legit was worried about this one time when I was in college. Had a drunken hookup with a girl at my own party. Woke up in the morning, we were both really awkward and I never saw her again. Now I bet she'll come out and say I assaulted her when I run for office or something. FML
/r/MGTOW13/08/18 08:59 PM
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Ha, I remember school teachers doing this too. Not surprising they were all women.
/r/MGTOW13/08/18 08:27 PM
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Welcome my brother. You are starting to learn. Put yourself first. If she wants to play games allow her to play games as long as you get what you want.
/r/MGTOW13/08/18 08:26 PM
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It's not become impossible. Like he says all the time when giving advice, lower your standards. He'll need to lower his standards when it comes to a relationship. You can still find a woman that will be in a committed relationship. You might have to lower your standards on how many partners she's been with, the fact she might not want kids, she won't be a stay home mom, she won't cook or clean etc. oh god... we're all fucked
/r/MGTOW13/08/18 08:20 PM
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I know, but have you looked at men? They're not that great looking. I'd probably say the same thing and I'm a man. But men don't need to be pretty. We just need to know how to work and get shit done.
/r/MGTOW13/08/18 08:02 PM
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I agree with this. Don't ask, don't tell. Some women don't mind, some think it's a big deal. I know the first girl I was with told me "I respect you to much to do this to you" No joke lol. She said that, but what she meant was "you didn't escalate it correctly/I don't trust you not to get overly attached."
/r/seduction06/04/18 08:23 PM
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oh, just do it. Worst case you get a free drink and someone to hang with for a night.
/r/seduction06/04/18 08:20 PM
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Send her a value giving snap. Something funny or a meme that is relevant to past conversations. Value giving texts are like facebook statuses. It's not a question just a statement that provokes some emotion. When she responds, ask her if she's doing anything tonight. If she says no invite her over/out. If she is doing something tell her to cancel and hang out with you. If she's resistant/doesn't come up with an alternative, then move on. Hit her up again some other day.
/r/seduction06/04/18 08:18 PM
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Talk back and forth a couple times and if it's going well just say "add me on snap [insert snapname]" On snap chat continue the conversation. Fill your story with a bunch of cool stuff that you're doing throughout the day. That will give her a sense of what your life is like. Then continue the convo on snap. Watch her story if she has one. Then if it goes well there, ask what she's doing today or tomorrow and set up a meet up for drinks or coffee. I wouldn't recommend any more than a day away be…
/r/seduction06/04/18 08:11 PM
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Got 30 seconds in and stopped at "going in for the kiss can be super awkward." lol Only if you don't escalate properly and you try to kiss her out of the blue and you don't judge her emotions/state correctly.
/r/seduction06/04/18 06:04 PM
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Hugging is a great way into to physical game. It can also help you judge if the girl is into physical contact. Your friends suck.
/r/seduction06/04/18 06:01 PM
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That's what's so cool about having an abundance mind set. She rejects you, you say it's cool and you hit up the next woman and ask her to come join you for drinks/movie/event/come over.
/r/seduction06/04/18 06:00 PM
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It doesn't matter. You can't change it, she can't change it so it's literally pointless to think about. Also, you have to remember everyone loves sex. So if it was presented to you more often would you turn it down? Think about that next time you go to judge a woman for her sexual history.
/r/seduction04/04/18 06:55 PM
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No, never tell them. If she asks just lie and say it's been a few years.
/r/seduction04/04/18 06:51 PM
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Have any friends that throw house parties? Do those on the weekends.
/r/seduction04/04/18 06:48 PM
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Yeah, it boosts new profiles. 8 matches is decent. I get probably 20ish a week. I'm average looking. The best thing to do is to optimize your pictures for tinder. Size them correctly, bring them into photoshop or gimp and color correct them. Make them pop, get the right aspect ratio, etc. Next is the kind of photos. Have the pictures describe your life. What are you into, what do you do, what is your personality like. Describe your life.
/r/seduction04/04/18 06:47 PM
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Yeah never do hookups on the weekend unless you're pulling a girl from a party, bar/club. Tinder hookups are to be done during the week.
/r/seduction04/04/18 06:37 PM
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dude... Stop it right now. This is needy behavior. Chill and relax. She sends you a snap, you say "hey what you doing tonight?" She says "nothing" You say "come over at 7" then you fuck. If she's busy you say "Cancel what you're doing and come over" She says "I can't" You don't respond and you hit up the next girl. Repeat every time she contacts you.
/r/seduction04/04/18 06:35 PM
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lol I think you misunderstood me. I'm not hanging out with her in hopes of someday banging her. I'm hanging out with her because she's a cool person. If she becomes available in the future, sure, I'd like to get with her. But I'm not going to walk away and be all like, we can't hangout now because you have a bf. That seems manipulative, especially if you click and could be good friends. I 100% respect her decision to go with that other guy. I'm not going to try and "steal" her away either. Like …
/r/seduction04/04/18 06:31 PM
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Quiet awkward resting bitch face not many friends find holding conversations difficult Work on those and the rest will fall into play. Here's what you do. Get loud. Stop caring what people think about you. Smile more. Do more shit with groups of people. Talk to everyone and anyone that looks at you and smiles.
/r/seduction04/04/18 06:14 PM
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Sounds like you don't have a problem matching so your profile is probably on point. So here's what you do: Stop going on coffee dates. That's terrible. If you manage to escalate it at the coffee shop you're going to kill it when you say "oh I have class now bye!" If you want to hook up, always do night stuff. Pick venues close to where your place is so it's easy to pull. Escalate the interaction. As her emotions are high invite her back to your place for one last drink or what ever. Edit: Some t…
/r/seduction04/04/18 06:09 PM
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I don't care if a woman has a boy friend. I'll still hangout with her and do stuff. Be her friend. I'm not waiting around for her though. Just keeping her as an option for when she's ready. I'm still getting with other women. The cool thing is, if she's attracted to you, she'll introduce you to her hot single friends. Don't discount the friendzone. If dating was like sales, it's another lead generation method.
/r/seduction04/04/18 05:51 PM
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tinder boosts, but yeah if you're short... lol
/r/seduction04/04/18 01:51 PM
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It's looked down upon for men as they get older because it shows you're not desirable. It's a way for the woman to know, evolutionary, am I making the right choice? Did others see him as worthy to reproduce with? Did someone else see something in him that I didn't?
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:23 PM
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Practice, practice, practice
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:19 PM
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Acting like you don't care is the correct response IMO. Even turning it into a joke would have been ideal. If my girl told me she was flirting with a guy I'd ask if he was hot. You have to be emotionally stable and not phased by her tests. This sounded like a test. If you do what you did, she could feel uncomfortable next time it happens and it WILL happen. If she's pretty, it will happen a lot. She may get to a point where the only way to not feel guilty every time some guy flirts with her is t…
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:17 PM
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You should be in such abundance that it doesn't matter. Keep living your rocking life. Most likely you sent something chode like.
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:08 PM
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Go do shit and if you can't because of your job, get a new job, because that's no way to live.
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:07 PM
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Just ask her what she's doing tonight. If nothing, tell her you'll be at such and such place grabbing a drink and tell her to stop by.
/r/seduction03/04/18 08:06 PM
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hahahahahaha That's what you do. You laugh and say fuck you too.
/r/seduction03/04/18 07:57 PM
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Go out and have fun. Don't focus too much on she has to be my date. If you go out and have fun with these people as friends then slowly escalate it through playful flirting then you'll maybe turn it into more than friends. I've actually done this and I run into the issue where women fall in love with me and I have to tell them that I don't like them that way.
/r/seduction03/04/18 07:54 PM
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Try different things and don't be afraid to look stupid or not get a response. Try to entertain yourself.
/r/seduction03/04/18 07:47 PM
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A) I’m Ugly B) I’m boring C) Both You can change all of that. A) Better hair cut, hit the gym, wear better clothes. B) Do interesting stuff, improve your social skills, learn to be playful and in the moment Pictures should tell a story of who you are. Here's an outline of the type of pictures you should have: Adventures picture showing you doing something fun and entertaining. Picture that shows you are empathetic. Shows some type of emotion. Usually dog pic Hansom picture. You in a suit, at an …
/r/seduction03/04/18 07:45 PM
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Ding ding ding ding!! So many guys are clueless. Also the friend zone crap... Come on guys if you're worried about being labeled a "friend" you need to meet more women. Hey guess what! That girl that just friend zoned you, she has friends and if you're not an ass about it, she might introduce you to her friends. Also you can practice your flirting on the girls that friend zoned you. You don't out right say "let me practice flirting with you" < choad. What you do is you talk to them, get in a pla…
/r/seduction03/04/18 07:37 PM
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All of this. It amazes me how little guys know how to present themselves.
/r/seduction03/04/18 07:30 PM
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lol no Women aren't that picky with looks. Seriously, they aren't. Be in shape ( 98% of people in shape look good ), dress well, and be flirty/funny/playful in your conversations. If you come across as a guy that could be fun you'll do good. Most guys have the shittiest profile pics. Their conversations come across as boring, clingy, or weird. If you're skinny AF, put on some muscle. If you're fat, run bitch. Take good photos. Don't do the selfies. And buy boosts!! It's worth it.
/r/seduction03/04/18 07:27 PM
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Romance is for when you're in a relationship with a woman. What you're describing is fun one night flings. That's what you're going to get in college.
/r/seduction02/04/18 11:27 PM
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From my experience, the no contact in between dates, has actually led to more flakes. What I've found that works is value giving texts or snaps. Stay away from date like questions or boring "how's your day" like questions. Instead send funny/interesting stuff. But don't over do it. What I do with snapchat is I will go out and do interesting shit and put it on my story, rock climbing, parties, hiking, playing guitar, concerts, traveling, working on renovating properties, etc. This gives the woman…
/r/seduction02/04/18 11:11 PM
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It doesn't matter where you are, what you've done, or really anything about you. If you're upbeat, positive, funny, playful, you can do anything. The woman doesn't care what you do. She's not looking to date you. She's looking to have a good time. Provide that to her and you'll have a good time too.
/r/seduction02/04/18 09:54 PM
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It's a great starter book. But if you want to know more look into RSD and inner game.
/r/seduction02/04/18 09:49 PM
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The reason for this is because no one wants to be the bad guy and hurt someone's feelings. In my early days I would do this. I'd get too attached/invested and when she cut away I'd blow up. It wasn't until I started dating more woman did the reverse happen to me. Now I understand. It sucks telling someone you don't want to see them and then have them burst into tears in front of you. The resolution is to break it off sooner than later if you sense over investment. That's why these women see your…
/r/seduction02/04/18 09:47 PM
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Advice for where to find women to date. I never really thought of it and I've always been against the friendzone, but I think I"m changing my mind on that. Don't be afraid of the friend zone. You want friends that are girls. Women love match making and if you have a lot of female friends, then they will introduce you to their friends. Play the social circles.
/r/seduction19/03/18 09:19 PM
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You want to know how you get experience? You go out and get experience. You already did it here: I improved a lot when I started waiting tables a couple years ago It doesn't have to be just talking to women. Talk to anyone, because, you know, women are people too.
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:34 PM
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Ask her
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:31 PM
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Simple ask them out.
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:31 PM
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No, women want men. Most "bad guys" act like men and don't let people walk all over them. If you acted like a man and you weren't a douche you'd have women crawling all over you. Women also hate hurting a guys feelings. If she's with an asshole they feel more comfortable because he's feelings won't get hurt or it's justified because he's an asshole, but if you're a man you shouldn't be affected by what a woman thinks about you. You should be grounded and focused on your own shit.
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:30 PM
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As your doctor I prescribe "go talk to more women" It should cure that oneitis in a couple weeks. Come see me if it starts to flare up again.
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:25 PM
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You just tell her you're not interested in a relationship.
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:23 PM
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I've had people who are coupled tell me to stop looking for a relationship and just let it happen like they did. lol That was before I got involved in this stuff. I was thinking right, cause a woman is going to find me in my basement playing video games while I munch on cheetos and say "hey want to go out?" No what I had to do was get my ass to the gym, find a hobby other than video games, improve my fashion, and start talking to women. Now I have several dates lined up every week... Just let it…
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:23 PM
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That's when you smile and do slow walk away.
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:16 PM
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Confidence comes from experience. So get out there and start failing, learn from those failures, and become confident.
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:14 PM
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Not just girls, everyone likes recognition for their efforts.
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:13 PM
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Yeah, are you planning on transitioning to a female? Cause this sounds like you're complaining. Cool thing about being a man is to realize it's hard and going after it anyways. The challenge and struggle makes the man.
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:12 PM
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You want to know how to beat shit tests? Don't play them.
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:08 PM
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Brewery/coffee in an area where I can turn it into dinner, bowling or something fun by walking a block or two.
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:07 PM
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It's a skill. It dulls over time like any skill. You just have to sharpen it up again. Work your ass off. No other way. But this time around it will be quicker.
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:06 PM
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lol that means nothing. Girls give out their snapchat like it's candy.
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:04 PM
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Once you've done it several times you get used to it. Rejection is the least of your problems. Once you do it a lot the next big hurdle is finding someone you would actually like to date. Then having that person want the same thing in you. That's the struggle.
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:02 PM
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Ask her out?
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:00 PM
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I feel like if I was a 10/10 guy, she'd be into me. You're still insecure and you still put women on a pedestal. Fix that. You shouldn't be in the mindset of you having to offer something to her, you should be thinking what does she offer me?
/r/seduction06/03/18 09:54 PM
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I sometimes get the opposite feeling. I set date when I'm really interested but then later I don't want to go because I lost interest not because I'm scared.
/r/seduction06/03/18 09:51 PM
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When she starts throwing around the "I feel so bad" It means she's not interested but doesn't know how to or doesn't want to say you're not doing it for her. Best to keep it open with her, just in case she hits you up in a month or so, but look else where and stop sending her messages.
/r/seduction06/03/18 09:48 PM
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Wait... She said "she doesn't want anything serious" and then "She expressed her fears about how guys don't really see her for who she is past her looks etc etc" What a load of crap. You should have pointed that out. She's not worth the headache. Most 10s aren't but that's just me.
/r/seduction06/03/18 09:43 PM
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God you guys are too good in this subreddit. OP what this person said!
/r/seduction02/02/18 10:20 PM
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Small steps. First make eye contact with everyone you walk past and smile until comfortable. Say hello to everyone you make eye contact with until comfortable. Ask a question "how are you", "Where's a great place to do..." until comfortable. Start approaching everyone woman you see old, fat, ugly, young (not under 18) and give a compliment about something not god given. IE shoes, hair style, clothes, dog etc. Be genuine. repeat until comfortable. Start only approaching girls you find attractive.…
/r/seduction02/02/18 10:16 PM
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Go to the gym and bulk up. Get a tan. Wear better clothes. Be lucky that in 10 years you'll still look like you're in your 20s.
/r/seduction02/02/18 10:10 PM
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That stuff just comes from experience. You can try reading more. Read about pop culture, classic novels, cool things you can relate to a joke. I was reading a book about the symbolism of biblical stories and recently went on a date with a woman. We started talking about traveling and I referenced pilgrimage and the relation to biblical text and the symbols associated blah blah blah. It was a pretty deep engaging conversation that came from me just reading a book. We both aren't religious but it …
/r/seduction02/02/18 10:08 PM
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Fun isn't it? The problem now though is finding a woman that's interesting to talk to. That maturity level isn't usually there.
/r/seduction02/02/18 10:01 PM
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RSDMax They have some good advice, but some stuff is BS. College is probably going to be the height of pickup in your life.
/r/seduction02/02/18 09:55 PM
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I'm a late bloomer and it's bugging me :( Don't worry about it. You're starting at about when I started. If you work at it, it will get better. It's like any skill at first you suck. You suck bad. But if you're willing to learn from your mistakes and stick with it you'll progress fast. My advice is to learn to entertain yourself with it. Don't have anything to say then ask something you think would be fun/funny to know. If you bomb, then you know what doesn't work. If you embarrass yourself then…
/r/seduction02/02/18 09:53 PM
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I'd agree. I just assume the woman wants a Muslim man so I just don't approach.
/r/seduction02/02/18 09:49 PM
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Let your feelings take over and do what feels natural. Relax and breathe.
/r/seduction02/02/18 09:46 PM
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Solid advice. I say this to everyone asking how to talk to girls every time. When I started I just started talking to everyone. I would go to meetups, events, parties, bars, malls and I would just talk to anyone and everyone about anything. Soon it started to come naturally to me. The first time I noticed I didn't have anxiety was at a bar. A person sat next to me and we struck up an interesting conversation. I ended up getting a job offer from that person.
/r/seduction29/11/17 09:22 PM
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Solid advice.
/r/seduction29/11/17 08:16 PM
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Don't drink. I don't drink either. You'll also find hanging out with people that do is really fucking boring. They use alcohol as a crutch to subdue their social anxiety. I used to drink, but only to dumb myself down enough to tolerate people. I've recently just started hanging out with more interesting people.
/r/seduction29/11/17 08:11 PM
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how are you supposed to achieve that with so much work/school on your plate? By making your school and life something that's really interesting to you.
/r/seduction29/11/17 08:06 PM
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