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the friends of one girl I tried dancing more with called me creepy. Who is she? Does she know your name, where you live, who all of your friends are? Is she going to announce that you're a creep on CNN to the entire world and you're going to be known as that creepy kid forever? No. She's just some random girl who probably called 20 other guys creepy because she was being a bitch. I got a cold rejection from a group of girls because I was asking them for directions! I wasn't even hitting on them!…
/r/seduction19/01/14 12:30 AM
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From my personal experience my social life is greatly impacted by my personal life. I fell into a rut because I hated my job and that carried over to me being an "AFC". I love where I am now and that translated over to my interactions with everybody, including women. Maybe there's something personal in your life that is affecting you? If there is, focus on fixing that first and that will carry over to you having much more genuine interactions with women.
/r/seduction19/01/14 12:26 AM
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Drugs can help, and of course you're going to get the people saying "DON'T DO DRUGS THEY'RE BAD FOR YOU!". Its your life man, do what you want. It just isn't going to help you if you keep relying on drugs as your crutch because you're not developing those skills by yourself. At least see if you can tone down the dosage little by little to the point where you don't even need them. But feel free to keep with xanax if its truly the only way.
/r/seduction19/01/14 12:23 AM
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What do you mean by a shitty job? Have you tried talking to him about it? If its something like you're trying to isolate a girl and your friend is hitting on her, then maybe he doesn't even know. Communicate and see where the issue is. A wingman can't read your mind, and he's not going to automatically hook you up with the hottest girls. There's got to be at least equal if not more effort on your part.
/r/seduction19/01/14 12:21 AM
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I think that not caring about getting laid is huge. Obviously its a little bit of a paradox because most guys want to get laid, but don't want to come off as desperate. One of the most common pieces of advice is to stop sitting at your computer and go out and get laid, however even the act of going out carries the nuance of being desperate, since you're going out solely to get laid. So your interactions aren't going to be completely outcome independent. I think this gets reinforced by the fact t…
/r/seduction19/01/14 12:18 AM
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Look at the guys who manage to get all the girls in class. Do you think they are worrying about these kinds of things? Not really. They're usually the fun, outcome independent guys who dont give a fuck. I think as long as you show that you're interested and confident, a girl would appreciate that you were confident enough to tell her that, as evidenced by your self post. Just don't be clingy.
/r/seduction12/01/14 07:46 PM
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Always assume attraction, escalate Smile, truly enjoy having interactions with others Have an interesting lifestyle/stay clean and hygienic Use time constraints; stay busy Always be closing
/r/seduction07/11/13 12:49 PM
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This guy has some self esteem issues.
/r/seduction11/10/13 10:29 PM
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If you're disappointed if she doesn't respond positively, you were being desperate. I just want to say...that line really got me to rethink myself. And its very rare that something really gets me to evaluate my entire mindset.
/r/seduction12/08/13 02:19 AM
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I think everything on the internet should be taken with skepticism. The important takeaway is going out and seeing if it actually works. That's the whole point of field reports. Then we can decide if the story is real or not.
/r/seduction08/07/13 07:08 PM
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Its not ridiculous but picture a hot girl's inbox. Its going to be flooded with thousands of messages, so its going to be very hard for you to stand out. That's why daygame is so much easier because the guys that online date don't approach these girls in person, so when you do an approach in person you stand out a lot more. Bravo does a decent clinic on online dating, you should check out the video on youtube.
/r/seduction18/05/13 02:13 AM
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Bottom line, some women will think you're creepy. It happens. Even to "PUAs". To further prove this point, here is Cajun getting called "creepy". Notice how easily he plays it off though. He's not reactionary. Its not even a big deal.
/r/seduction27/04/13 11:03 AM
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For some reason, when you said "power poses", this is the only thing that came to mind.
/r/seduction26/04/13 03:30 AM
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Alot is a great wing for picking up girls btw.
/r/seduction07/04/13 05:29 AM
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What's your alternative? Stay at home and jerk off?
/r/seduction10/03/13 07:50 PM
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Its honestly random man. Some girls will love it and some girls will hate it. Remember that its not necessarily the line, they could be having a really shitty day.
/r/seduction10/03/13 07:49 PM
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I felt that a major point of the book's philosophy is that you give without expecting reward. Too often we do not approach a girl for fear that she does not reciprocate. We give expecting a reward. When we give and do not expect anything, then we have reached spiritual enlightment. Well then, you might ask, what is the point of picking up girls if we don't attach any sort of expectation to that interaction? I believe that is the whole point. We are always in the now, not thinking about the past …
/r/seduction05/03/13 02:32 AM
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Its all about execution. A guy in the situation you described is going to fail 99% of the time. A guy that is in the club with 20 girls fawning over him and massive social proof is going to have a much easier time.
/r/seduction27/02/13 10:09 PM
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20 guidelines for first dates would have been a better article. Rules are dumb. The only "rule" I could really think of is "relax and have fun". Anything else is fair game.
/r/seduction18/02/13 07:06 PM
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I think this is pretty relevant A problem we all have is that we follow our gut, but if that gut feeling has led us away from approaching women before, then why do we keep following it? The 3 second rule is a good rule because it doesn't allow you time to think, or react. The key is basically "no mind". Don't think, just act.
/r/seduction16/02/13 01:25 PM
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I'd say try going early if you know the guy, ask to help if you can. As people are coming in, its much easier to introduce yourself as its going to be much more condensed. Later on in the night, it'll be cake to reapproach them as you've already introduced yourself.
/r/seduction16/02/13 01:19 PM
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The only way you blow it big time is by not going out.
/r/seduction16/02/13 01:17 PM
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Secrets? They're aren't really any. If you want to see how guys act in a club, watch Keys to the VIP or something. Ajay is pretty good. I haven't really seen guys tear up a club, and if they do they're usually part of a large entourage so the girls they are picking up could be girls they already know. Also could be regulars that know the girls from before. It helps to go with friends and just dance with them. Often girls will come up to you on the floor if you look like you're having a good time…
/r/seduction16/02/13 01:16 PM
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I don't know, because for many of us its engrained in our memory rather than making an active choice. Case in point, a lot of us will go out, think that this quote is money and there's no way we'll put girls on pedestals ever again, and then BAM we see a hot girl and freeze up. A lot of it is subconscious programming built up from years and years of being a certain way. I think recently I've learned to accept that there will be situations where I don't make the approach, or I put the girl up on …
/r/seduction16/02/13 01:11 PM
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I feel like its an evolutionary thing, such as we associate overweight people with health issues and a general negative social stigma so we naturally tend to be cold with them. Going back to your point I know a 300 pound girl and I can talk with her much better than 90% of other girls. Its hard for us to break social conditioning but it becomes a lot easier the more social we are.
/r/seduction12/02/13 06:09 PM
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The key is stop caring. Hot girls are hot. But you shouldn't be obsessing over that.
/r/seduction10/02/13 11:16 PM
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Read the rest of my comment.
/r/seduction29/01/13 05:58 PM
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Maybe you have to reframe interaction, like you say that you are happy but obviously you're not if you're looking for someone else. I guess people will tell you its ok to be that way but I feel like if you aren't truly happy with yourself then you tie your happiness to other things which is really self destructive. If I go out and get no numbers, im fine because im perfectly content with my life as it is now. Sure i love meeting girls and having dates, but i have just as much enjoyment reading a…
/r/seduction29/01/13 05:50 PM
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Well yeah because science isn't necessarily true. In no way is this hard data because there are too many variables. I think it's definitely interesting subject material and its fine that OP posted it but we have to know that the title is misleading.
/r/seduction29/01/13 05:42 PM
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Sorry but Owen just proves you can make out with drunk chicks. Cajun's keys to the VIP video is much better.
/r/seduction25/01/13 02:21 AM
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Detailed but simple at the same time. Great stuff.
/r/seduction23/01/13 11:30 PM
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I mean yeah if you keep trying to live up to societal norms you're never going to be happy. What are YOUR norms? Are you going to go for a hot chick because society tells you its good? Or because YOU want to be with that hot girl? Shit man I like to go out, socialize and meet girls, but I love to spend nights at home playing video games and being lazy. I don't give a shit because my friends might think I'm a nerd or some PUA says I should be sarging every night. Screw that. I ENJOY playing video…
/r/seduction23/01/13 08:51 PM
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He said he knows the general manager. Like everything in seduction, you don't know until you find out. Never assume.
/r/seduction19/01/13 05:28 PM
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Talk to the general manager, he's the floor manager's boss. The floor manager is just an employee of the place anyway. If he knows you're cool, and you have the bartender's support, he might go ahead and fire the floor manager. If he was giving you shit, he's probably giving other people shit too and his conduct could be detrimental to the club. So you might be doing the club a favor.
/r/seduction19/01/13 01:58 PM
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And the problem is that guys do not understand these hints, not necessarily of which is their fault. Here’s a situation every woman is familiar with: some guy she knows, perhaps a casual acquaintance, perhaps just some dude at the bus stop, is obviously infatuated with her. He’s making conversation, he’s giving her the eye. She doesn’t like him. She doesn’t want to talk to him. She doesn’t want him near her. He is freaking her out. She could disobey the rules, and tell him to GET THE FUCK AWAY F…
/r/seduction18/01/13 08:24 PM
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This is a load of bullshit. Basically, don't do anything that could creep any girl out. Hell, I'll just stay in my room forever and do a huge service to girls by not ever being near them again. I appreciate the aspect of trying to generate ideas for not coming off as creepy but the source material is junk. You're attributing personality traits to the action itself. Many guys are quiet and shy by nature, and awkward in public. It does NOT mean we want to rape girls. By perpetuating this stereotyp…
/r/seduction18/01/13 03:38 PM
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What? But if you don't DHV and Kino, how are you supposed to look for IOIs and avoid LMR? I'm kidding, of course. I agree with you and I think a lot of guys are treating women like variables in a science project instead of...well, women. I'm glad I read this, it reminds me to be more natural.
/r/seduction02/01/13 03:32 AM
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Don't EVER act apologetic. Don't use excuses or feel the need to explain your actions….EVER! No. If you're really out of line then you're going to come off as an extreme asshole if you don't apologize for your actions. The goal is to be an attractive man, not an asshole.
/r/seduction22/12/12 04:23 PM
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Honestly dude I've spent so much time going out solo and not doing a single approach. But you gotta get out there and step out of your comfort zone. If you're completely broke then its fine. I'm not going out at night because I literally have $20 in my bank account. But I'm still hitting up the malls and bookstores and trying to get out of the house as much as I can.
/r/seduction24/11/12 03:42 PM
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You have a good point but it seems like you don't really know what you want, just that we have to go get what we want, whatever that is. I'm only 23, and whether its work, lifestyle, or girls, I'm not even sure what I want to do. Honestly, I just do something until I get bored or sick of it, and then move on. I've tried running and hated it. I tried guitar and loved it. I'm going to try yoga to see if I like it or not. For all you know, a romantic relationship can be extremely frustrating. You h…
/r/seduction24/11/12 03:34 PM
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If it works for you, sure. Why are you asking us if its good? If its working then its obviously good. It probably works as well as anything else, honestly.
/r/seduction24/11/12 03:27 PM
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Even Tom Brady throws interceptions.
/r/seduction29/10/12 12:15 AM
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You're gonna need to keep track of details. Find out what you did wrong and improve on it. If the end result is "feeling down", then you're not going to progress. Thankfully, you're at the part where you're going out and making mistakes, rather than sitting at home and doing nothing. But its what you do about those mistakes that will make you better. Its fine to feel upset sometimes. My friend busted a 2 set I was working on yesterday, and I felt pissed off about it. But I thought this morning a…
/r/seduction21/10/12 01:30 PM
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Tyler is really weird, but incredibly experienced and smart. I have trouble listening to him but he really does have a lot of great stuff to say.
/r/seduction17/10/12 12:40 AM
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Yeah but even in martial arts, you get your butt kicked a few times and that's how you eventually learn to implement technique. I can know everything about karate or jiu-jitsu but if I don't actually fight anyone, its not really too helpful. Reading is awesome and builds a great foundation but I believe that the core of development is through trial.
/r/seduction05/10/12 09:11 PM
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go OUT to practice That's the hardest part. We are uncomfortable stepping outside of our comfort zones. That is an issue that I think needs to be more thoroughly addressed in this sub.
/r/seduction05/10/12 09:09 PM
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Do improv. Join an organization like toastmasters or something related to public speaking. Network. It isn't the same as cold approaching hot girls but you have to learn to walk before you can run.
/r/seduction03/10/12 01:03 AM
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I disagree with that notion that humiliation is more powerful than monetary loss. I think they are both impactful in different ways. Humiliation would only serve to discourage me and associate pickup with not having fun. With monetary penalties, they're automatic but I can still go out and have fun. I still need to meet my minimum but I wouldn't have to face the fear of humiliation on top of the other fears I already have.
/r/seduction22/09/12 01:08 AM
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In my opinion, egotistical means that you take stuff really personally. You get really high and really low on yourself. Confident is more neutral. If someone compliments me, I stay neutral. If someone insults me, it doesn't affect me at all.
/r/seduction21/09/12 11:59 PM
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A lot of this stuff I've read before, but unfortunately when push comes to shove, I'm back to my old habits. I've tried something different recently. I start with a target and a set monetary penalty for the day. Lets say my target is 5 approaches, and the penalty is $50. That means for every approach I do, the penalty decreases by $10. If I do all approaches for the day, there is no penalty. If I don't, then I incur the remaining penalty. If I don't go out at all, I pay the full penalty. My idea…
/r/seduction21/09/12 11:48 PM
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I don't drink at clubs either. Honestly, I hardly drink at all unless a girl is forcing a shot of liquor down my throat. I used to use it as a crutch but once I noticed that the guys who drank ended up standing by the bar not doing g anything or just socializing with their guy friends, I saw that liquor wad unnecessary and actually hurt my game more than helped.
/r/seduction20/09/12 02:59 PM
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Don't worry about downvotes. What you speak is the truth and if guys have problems approaching in this environment, they probably don't have as much success in daygame. Its all about stepping out of your comfort zone, and the most successful puas are good qt both day and night game.
/r/seduction20/09/12 02:56 PM
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Drinking and smoking is probably gonna mess up your game significantly. Smoking cigs is fine IMO though it can be a turnoff, but if that's also messing with you then its not a good idea. Girls can also sense desperation, so if you're giving off that vibe then tone it down a bit. Remember that you're not gonna see these girls again. College is huge. Even if you do, if you really don't care about it then its not gonna affect you, and it shouldn't. But you're doing a lot of good things, so don't fe…
/r/seduction16/09/12 09:07 PM
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I mean dude I don't blame you for any of this, I still feel anxious a lot and don't approach when I should. If you've seen the Project GO series by the SimplePickup guys, they just go out there and do shit regardless of how foolish it may look. A lot of what they say would be really creepy normally, but their attitudes are like way up there and they can get away with pretty much anything.
/r/seduction10/09/12 09:06 PM
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Probably the most important thing is not being afraid of failure. You're most likely too concerned with looking like a fool, so you don't move at all and end up looking like a fool anyway. Its a trap. Just say something, but don't base your feelings on the other person's reactions, whether good or bad. You must maintain a state of high energy internally; don't feed off of other people's energy because this will cause you to fluctuate and end up very depressed. You can work with negative feelings…
/r/seduction07/09/12 11:19 PM
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AMOGs might just be friends with the girls. Face it, they probably knew each other at least 1 to 2 years longer and the girl is gonna go with the guy she knows to hang out with more people she knows than someone she just met. Unless you're ridiculously good looking or spitting some massive game. I'd say the best advice is going around and making friends with her friends so she feels more comfortable and you're not an intrusion.
/r/seduction07/09/12 07:52 PM
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I don't look for signs but just go with the feel and the flow of the conversation. If its cold I stay cold and try to move it warmer. If its warm then I can move on to touching, more joking around, deeper questions and stuff like that. Its pretty easy to tell, its just like if you were randomly making conversation with strangers at an event and you get along with some but not others. You must start off hot though, if you're too timid then she's gonna be cold.
/r/seduction07/09/12 07:50 PM
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Ask at the Macy's counter, usually its girls that work there and they have their favorites so you can't go too wrong with that. I have a really nice Lacoste one that came in a green box as well as a Zara fragrance I got as a gift and rotate between the two. Don't put too much on though.
/r/seduction07/09/12 07:48 PM
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If you add her on Facebook, its gotta have purpose. Send her a message, saying you wanted to get in touch again and meet up. If she doesn't respond/blow you off then at least you went out big. Adding her and waiting around for her to do something will not lead to anything.
/r/seduction07/09/12 07:46 PM
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I think its more important to focus on how you are saying things, not necessarily what you are saying. People are telling you to say interesting things which is good advice but which can also be a trap, because you can end up talking too much about yourself and losing the target. Be calm when you talk about things. I can talk about the weather just fine because of my body language, a topic that would normally be a conversation killer. You can go ahead and riff off of that and ask her more questi…
/r/seduction07/09/12 07:44 PM
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Its seems like girls are getting stupider as I get older, I blame Facebook and smartphones I'd suggest not having this attitude as it can quickly make you cynical and pre-judgmental of girls. Outcome independence is good but the mistake I made was going from one extreme to the other and it sounds like you're probably there too. My suggestion is just asking the girl about herself, her hobbies, studies, that sort of thing once you've established comfort so that its not like an interview or anythin…
/r/seduction01/09/12 10:38 PM
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Yeah, never get too attached to one girl, it'll make you look very desperate, and I'm sorry I'm not going to mince my words but you probably are desperate. Its okay though and a lot of guys go through this, but you gotta keep your head up and move on. Think about it this way, the time that you're wasting with this girl could be spent on going out there and meeting at least 10 girls who are just like her or even better.
/r/seduction01/09/12 10:32 PM
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I would suggest making plans instead of letting her do it. Instead of "would you be free to do x?", I'd say "Tell you what. Lets meet here at this time to go do x." If you plan your day around her, you're showing you don't have direction in your life. Make her a part of your plans, not the other way around.
/r/seduction01/09/12 10:28 PM
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I know a lot of people here are telling you to man the fuck up, and while it can be really good advice (it helped me get out there and do my first approach) it can get tiring especially if you don't act on it, and I don't blame you if you can't. Only a few actually go out there and do it, and you're part of a large majority of guys that don't, so what you're going through is normal, and that's not a bad thing. My advice is try to find someone in your area that will be your wing and almost litera…
/r/seduction01/09/12 10:25 PM
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To each their own. I personally wouldn't do it, but if his friend wants to and she likes it, I really don't care. I have friends that do it too and I'm fine with it.
/r/seduction01/09/12 10:17 PM
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Its not irrelevant. Good looks matter a lot. Confidence will get you girls but sadly, its nearly impossible to beat good looks + confidence. I could have the biggest balls in the world, but if Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp is in the same club as me, 99/100 girls are going home with them. Fortunately, we're not put into those circumstances too often, and a huge amount of confidence is usually good enough to close even the hottest girls.
/r/seduction01/09/12 10:16 PM
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Yeah its definitely helpful for the guys who are more introverted, even if they might get into a lower fraternity for rushing. It can help give them the push they need to go out there and meet guys, so there can be a good return on the money. In your case though I can see why it would be a waste of money for you, since you already have those skills.
/r/seduction01/09/12 09:50 AM
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Ahh shit I just missed your AMA. On the offchance that you catch this, I'd love to take a bootcamp with you if you're ever in the South Florida area. You're a huge inspiration and I'd love to learn from you.
/r/seduction19/08/12 08:52 PM
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the science overwhelmingly shows that looks matter more than anything, not just in sexual attraction but in every form of attraction. That's what I'm disagreeing with. As long as the guy doesn't look like he got smashed in the face by a dump truck, he can have the tightest game and pick up more girls than a pretty good looking guy.
/r/seduction26/02/12 05:33 AM
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Neil Strauss isn't that great looking. Mystery looks really weird to a lot of people. Looks are an advantage but that doesn't mean its necessary to be successful.
/r/seduction26/02/12 01:47 AM
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Hi Neil, I know you have a ton of questions to answer so I'm not going to be upset if you don't get to this one. But my question is: Do you think that depression is a major factor in guys that don't realize they suffer from this, and subsequently would this be holding back their game? The reason I ask this is because I'm in the process of reading Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy by David Burns and I feel about 100x more confident than I used to even though I'm less than halfway through the boo…
/r/seduction14/02/12 08:16 PM
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How about "I have nothing to talk about"?
/r/seduction08/02/12 02:24 AM
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Why don't you give it a try instead of judging it? SMH this is what's wrong with the seddit community nowadays.
/r/seduction27/01/12 09:16 PM
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Its not all about attitude. You still need to take care of personal hygiene. Having a muscular body isn't necessary but it can help so much.
/r/seduction10/01/12 01:29 PM
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There is no "Golden Rule" to Seduction. As a matter of fact, there aren't any "rules" to begin with. Seduction isn't like Physics, there aren't any solid concrete laws of nature that you can't disobey(ignoring the obvious legal overlap like assault). Seduction is a unique experience for every individual person. That's why I can't just emulate one of Mystery's approaches and expect the same results. The "rules" are just rules for those people's methods. That's why its called "The Mystery Method",…
/r/seduction16/12/11 03:42 AM
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I agree, the problem with mods starting to ban certain kinds of posts is that it opens up a lot of controversy in the subreddit. At the same time, I stopped browsing r/seduction because it was full of one-itis posts and the kinds of things that were easily answerable had these people read the sidebar. I like the open forum style of this subreddit, but I suggest the mods should start discouraging the use of certain types of submissions in the form of a comment on the post (e.g. these posts are di…
/r/seduction15/12/11 02:01 AM
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A rage comic (which is terrible) is currently at the top of r/seduction? Come on, guys...
/r/seduction14/12/11 03:42 AM
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Not really deep, moreso "just don't give a shit". Like he doesn't really care whether or not there's a God, he entertains the possibility but doesn't concern himself too much with it. I really like his simplistic approach because it really applies here. We're too wrapped up with "what is the consequence of x action" when we should really just be going out and having fun and not giving a crap about what happens (unless it can get us killed somehow)
/r/seduction13/12/11 04:15 AM
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Definitely, but reading can only help so much. A lot of guys expect to absorb information to the point where they think they can become AFC Adam or Mystery just by reading field reports and theory. PUA material will only get you so far. I think that all of us have read enough material to where we should be able to go out and utilize it. But experience also helps us learn about advanced theory. There's no point learning how to deal with LMR when we have no experience escalating.
/r/seduction13/12/11 01:29 AM
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Sure. I could also go out and start verbally abusing people because I have freedom of speech. Just because we can do it, doesn't mean we should.
/r/seduction13/12/11 12:21 AM
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Christ, please no. The last thing we want is for the AMA to be flooded with stupid questions like "how big is your dick?" or "how do you walk around with those huge balls of yours?". Lets try to not make a joke out of the community.
/r/seduction12/12/11 05:08 PM
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While Cajun is hands down the best to do Keys, Ajay was super knowledgeable and used concrete game. His delivery could be better but that always comes with experience in the field.
/r/seduction12/12/11 05:14 AM
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Are you this guy?
/r/seduction12/12/11 04:39 AM
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If you look at the sidebar, what you'll notice in the description is that seddit is "the reddit self-improvement and seduction community." What many people misunderstand is that this community is primarily based upon improving oneself. The act of seduction is really an interview process where you screen girls and see whether or not they're compatible with you, rather than seeing a hot girl and trying to latch on like she's the last piece of meat. Girls want to meet men that are presentable, and …
/r/seduction11/12/11 03:02 AM
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I'm really trying hard not to be sexist, but I find that whenever women including this journalist talk about anything pickup related, there's an immediate bias to which they are vehemently against it. Unless of course, those women have been picked up and are impressed by the techniques (the two girls picked up by Love Systems students on Dr. Phil, Jessica Alba being picked up by Neil Strauss on Kimmel) and then realize that the community isn't built on being demeaning to women but helping guys u…
/r/seduction09/12/11 08:09 PM
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The issue with reading is that there are multiple points of views that will all end up conflicting with each other, and by trying to implement them all it actually hinders your game worse than when that person began. For example, the approach mindset can either be "she could be your next wife" or "who cares, you're never going to see her again if you fail" or "just go out and have fun!" and when you mix up no-consequence with high-reward with life changing with serious overtones its going to fuc…
/r/seduction09/12/11 07:56 PM
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I think the guys that are talking about how the "secrets are getting out" or that the "community is being overexposed" are completely missing the purpose of what these guys stand for. The point of Simple Pickup is helping guys out that are disadvantaged at this kind of stuff. I think its absolutely fantastic that they're getting this kind of exposure. One of my friends is in a wheelchair and feels like its a huge crutch to him being able to get into relationships with women. I've never been in a…
/r/seduction08/12/11 03:18 AM
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I disagree that its not practical. Its called peacock theory and its something Mystery is famous for and has been going around in the community for ages. David Faustino picked up girls with a dildo strapped to his head for one of Neil Strauss's videos. It has its weaknesses, such as girls might think you can't be taken seriously or something of that nature, but to call it completely impractical is false.
/r/seduction08/12/11 03:13 AM
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Not when you're in a club scenario. Problem is that guys don't escalate quickly enough and its weird when they finally engage in kino. That's why establishing physical touch right off the bat is so important.
/r/seduction03/08/11 01:03 AM
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You're not the only one. But its harder up in the higher ranks, because your game is probably so individually calibrated that it would be difficult to adjust to different systems of those in your ballpark. I agree that 95% of seddit right now is absolute beginner stuff...I'm not really getting that much out of it besides the times that PUAs like Fuji or Manson are on (and hopefully Neil Strauss sometime soon). It would be nice to have an advanced seddit; the only issue I see with this is the amo…
/r/seduction19/07/11 11:50 PM
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I don't get why you tell us to 'not give you confidence' but then you're concerned about how bad Asians have it in the US or UK. Sounds like a confidence issue to me. If you really have a high amount of value invested in yourself, then there is no way that you should get beaten out by other white guys. One of my friends is a very good looking white guy that can get a lot of girls based on his looks, but he has no game. For this reason, he gets flaked on a lot. I'm a short indian guy but I consta…
/r/seduction19/07/11 11:41 PM
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Devil's Advocate: Some criticism is warranted. I've seen a lot of posts on here about "how do I get this girl to like me" and guys on here using seduction as a means to trick the girl into liking you. A lot of these guys don't realize that seduction doesn't work that way. As a result, many of these guys look at the "douchebags" that get all the girls and try to become those guys without investing in themselves. They're perceived as assholes, and rightfully so, because if you have great outer gam…
/r/seduction18/07/11 07:24 AM
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If I had to say there was a core principle, it would be to make the reader a more attractive man to women. Its not, as many people think, to just get girls or get that "one girl" that some guy is having trouble getting. I'd say its more of a self-awareness and personal development process. I supplement this subreddit by following malefashionadvice, mansformation, and fitness subreddits just to name a few.
/r/seduction01/07/11 02:51 AM
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That's not the same thing. Edit: Ok I'm going to clarify. "Remember, 99.7% of the time women are going to be useless, passive little cowards who wait for you to do everything for them". is NOT the same as 99.5% of the time, girls will not lead the interaction. They’re responding to YOU and waiting for YOU to lead. So by equating these two comments to mean exactly the same thing, you're saying that girls that are not leading the interaction are "useless, passive little cowards who wait for you to…
/r/seduction29/06/11 08:15 PM
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Its definitely interesting but would seem like it would only work with girls that know how to lead. I'd say that 99 out of 100 cases, girls are waiting for the guy to make the first move, and by following this style of game it seems that success is going to diminish without the male first establishing comfort, and instead waiting for the girl to initiate it. I know you said it should be alpha, and its really interesting to see this style of game, but I can't shake the feeling that it really is b…
/r/seduction29/06/11 07:54 PM
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You're either comfortable with strangers or you're not. There is no switch to flip. Go out and interact with people. More you do it, more you get comfortable with strangers. Switch flipped. Also, I think it's really cute how that site is supposedly about "getting women to chase you", but in every article it repeats the mantra of "Remember, 99.7% of the time women are going to be useless, passive little cowards who wait for you to do everything for them". You entirely made that shit up. Nowhere i…
/r/seduction29/06/11 07:43 PM
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I think this just adds to the point that the opener really doesn't matter. You can come up with the most random topic and still open the set successfully.
/r/seduction29/06/11 07:20 PM
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The only guys that have unrealistic expectations are virgins, to be honest. Getting to talk to every girl regardless of looks does several things. One, it makes you less of an asshole because you don't just talk to girls based on looks. Second, it really gives you an idea of how girls interact and react differently based on their looks, which is huge in seduction. Your advice is spot on.
/r/seduction29/06/11 07:18 PM
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You're an idiot.
/r/seduction29/06/11 07:16 PM
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Ironic, considering the article is called "How to get Perfect '10' girls". I get his point though; in order to get the hottest girls, you gotta stop focusing on their looks.
/r/seduction29/06/11 07:14 PM
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Yeah and honestly online dating works fine as a supplement to real world interaction. AFC Adam posted a video about a pretty cool Facebook hack that can help you with online game and it can be really useful and get great results. Its just that a lot of guys see this as the only way because its the most comfortable, which is just the wrong way to go about this.
/r/seduction28/06/11 08:25 PM
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Its just that a lot of guys are trying to use online dating as a substitute for real interaction, as evidenced by the influx of OkCupid posts in this subreddit. Seduction really is a self-improvement thing. If guys are relying on manufactured posts to get laid (no offense) then they might as well go hire an escort. Being good at seduction involves a lot of self-investment. Thats why there really is no substitute for going out in the field. How are you supposed to know what not to say if you don'…
/r/seduction28/06/11 08:04 PM
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Always look busy. If you always have something to do, she will perceive you as high value. Example: You're at the mall and she has to go home. Say that you have to go shopping for your friend's birthday. Or if you're friend is picking you up, tell her that you're attending his family member's birthday celebration. Going home is not attractive. Being a social figure is.
/r/seduction28/06/11 07:47 PM
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Watch a lot of stand up comedy. Better yet, take a class in improv or stand up. Not only is it going to make you a lot funnier, it will do miracles for your social interaction. If you're watching stand up or improv, pay attention to the body language. Something like 90% of communication is body language. Tell a joke with confidence slouched over and with no confidence. Then tell the same joke as though you're Brad Pitt. The impact of body language really is astounding, and will help you a lot wi…
/r/seduction28/06/11 07:44 PM
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Sounds manufactured as hell. Listen, if you want to improve your interaction with girls, get outside. When you meet up with these online girls in real life, you're gonna have no idea how to act. No sex. Get outside and interact with people. No more OkCupid or anything like that.
/r/seduction28/06/11 07:41 PM
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I don't know why you're getting downvoted for this. That being said, there is a difference between sleeping with multiple girls and dating multiple girls. A lot of girls are fine with the idea of a guy sleeping around, as long as they are in-the-know and you practice safe sex. Obviously the guy has to be pretty high value for this kind of thing to occur.
/r/seduction28/06/11 07:39 PM
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Just remember that a year ago, you wouldn't even have the confidence to make an approach. You're taking great strides.
/r/seduction28/06/11 07:28 PM
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Terrific field report. I think the 4 key things are absolutely spot on.
/r/seduction28/06/11 04:51 PM
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One-itis was a huge issue for me. I solved it by deleting the phone numbers and Facebooks of the girls I liked. It may seem like a dick move but the only solution to getting over one-itis is by completely erasing that girl from your memory. Approaching is probably the area I have most difficulty with. Its not the fear of approaching, its the notion of running out of things to say. I generally have a prepared stack whenever I go out so that I always have a bunch of topics to talk about, but I try…
/r/seduction28/06/11 04:46 PM
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However, the dream is over when I reason with myself that shes: older, I'm guessing 23-24, but I suck at guessing age taller (stupid superiority issue) wielding a porn-star body and I still don't know or have even practiced opening in a gym, let alone anywhere else Top it off: I haven't taken a shower in awhile and I get pretty sweaty from my 1.5 mile sprint at the start of my workouts Stop doing this. Never make excuses for approaching. I don't care what condition you're in, its always better t…
/r/seduction28/06/11 04:33 PM
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If she's giving you LMR, you could always break it. Don't whine or anything, if she says "we shouldn't do this" or whatever, just say "fine", get up and go to your computer and check your mail. As soon as she sees that, she'll try to get you to come back to bed and you can start up the foreplay into sex again. This seems like more of a r/sex topic than an r/seduction one though. Try asking over there and see what other advice they might be able to give you. Other than that, I hope this advice he…
/r/seduction28/06/11 03:59 AM
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Direct is more like: "Hi I thought you were cute and I had to say hi". Indirect is opinion openers and stuff like that. Either way works, its just that you gotta go through some sort of progression before closing.
/r/seduction28/06/11 03:52 AM
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In the approach on the group of 3 (1 HB 7, 1 HB 7.5, and 1 HB 8) I got the number by just walking up and saying, “My friends and I were walking by and I saw you. Unfortunately, I need to catch up with my friends, but you should give me your number.” This part really confused me. I admire your balls, but how do you expect these girls to call you back when they don't know anything about you except that you're some random that asked for their number? Guys do this to them all the time, and if you do…
/r/seduction28/06/11 02:15 AM
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The first three sentences you wrote is all you need to know. Nothing worth gaining in life is gained easily. It takes a ton of hard work. But in the end, most people are happy with where they end up. Look at all the PUAs that make their living on helping other people out in the same area of their life. If they were really disillusioned by pickup and its implications, they wouldn't teach these kinds of things. Its a genuine area of someone's life that can lead to significant improvement, but ther…
/r/seduction28/06/11 01:57 AM
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Truth is, if everybody was natural then a lot of guys wouldn't end up getting girls. Our lives can be boring. You have to make it exciting.
/r/seduction27/06/11 02:01 AM
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If you're friends are getting the girls more interested, then obviously what or how they're saying things is more attractive. Pay attention to how they speak and try to learn from it and improve your interaction. You also have to learn to lead and guide the conversation. Don't let your friends take over and don't be complacent if you're feeling left out. If you do, leave the conversation and pretend to take an important call from your friend, then come back with a new set "oh my god guys, you wo…
/r/seduction26/06/11 11:01 PM
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Nothing is wrong with mall chicks. Have fun and don't take the interactions seriously, you're just looking to socialize. Just don't reek of desperation and be completely comfortable with the fact that you're willing to go home alone. Build upon overcoming AA and just have fun with it!
/r/seduction25/06/11 04:31 AM
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Alright cool, sorry for the confusion :S
/r/seduction22/06/11 02:51 AM
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Hey Fuji, first off I know that you're taking a lot of your own free time to do this and could be doing a lot more important things in life instead of this AMA so it really goes without saying that all of us here really appreciate the time you're taking to do this. 1) How much do you emphasize inner game in relation to outer game with your students? I just watched your interview with Manwhore and both T21C speeches online and I think that you probably emphasize inner game more than most of the o…
/r/seduction22/06/11 02:48 AM
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Lmao, maybe Fuji will give two different answers for each of the questions
/r/seduction22/06/11 02:35 AM
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Haha just did it. Sorry man.
/r/seduction22/06/11 02:25 AM
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HighSchoolLTRpickup asks: Hey, thanks for doing this DJ Fuji. A bunch of us are incoming freshman to colleges- what would you say are the most important things to know and consider for college game (and social success) and what resources would you recommend, if any?
/r/seduction22/06/11 02:24 AM
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-Origin- asks: Q for Fuji: I've been doing the word association drill. In your attraction TC, you say I need to be able to do 60wpm, that's 1 word per second. That's a lot. I'm way way slower than that. I'm somewhere between 9wpm and 25wpm. I also find that I get stuck, because sometimes the first word that comes to mind is a word that rhymes, so then I get stuck doing only rhymes. Other times I get stuck in a 3 word loop, so I force myself out of it, but that slows me down. Am I doing this wron…
/r/seduction22/06/11 02:23 AM
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razqel asks: 1. What unique challenges would you say Asian men face when it comes to seduction? What would you recommend to them? Which thought leaders in seduction (or other arena) has been been the most influential force in shaping your current perceptions of seduction/relationships? Which model(s) of seduction (or other field, like psychology) do you find most useful for understanding the core or essential elements of attraction/seduction/relationships/self-improvement? What widely-accepted c…
/r/seduction22/06/11 02:23 AM
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Boonana asks: What made you want to become a lifestyle coach, and do that for a living?
/r/seduction22/06/11 02:23 AM
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tryglucose asks: What would be your best advice for someone in highschool?
/r/seduction22/06/11 02:23 AM
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_clifton_asks : Thanks for taking the time to do this. Being asian myself, I'm definitely interesting on getting more information on your style and experiences. What was the hardest part about the entire process for you? How much of your own upbringing did you have to change or disregard to become successful? I hear a lot about asians being less attractive to women in the field. What are your perspectives and experiences about asian males trying to pick up in the field? What's your retort to the…
/r/seduction22/06/11 02:22 AM
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Very cool! Fuji is definitely one of my favorite PUAs in the field, definitely looking forward to the Q&A.
/r/seduction21/06/11 10:57 PM
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How is this relevant for this subreddit?
/r/seduction21/06/11 01:45 PM
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I just shrug and change the topic, normally.
/r/seduction21/06/11 03:55 AM
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The Fuji, Sinn, and AFC Adam videos have helped me TONS. I've probably watched them about a couple months ago and continually revisit them.
/r/seduction19/06/11 04:35 AM
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Ok. And that's totally fine, but you have to be comfortable with that choice because you're going to be in an environment where pretty much everyone is going to be drinking except you, and naturally you're going to feel excluded and awkward because of it. The thing about dance club game is that you can't feel awkward; you have to feel the music and just go with it, and that's really something that can't be taught and has to be felt. But at the same time, don't force yourself to feel the music, i…
/r/seduction18/06/11 07:01 AM
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The Game is important because it talks a lot about Neil Strauss' development. Inner game is crucial to being successful, and I think that's what clutchPUA is implying when he talks about foundation. The SIRC Guide to Flirting is great and will probably increase your success right away, but flirting overall works exponentially better once you have inner game worked out.
/r/seduction18/06/11 06:56 AM
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Good stuff man! Just try not to burn yourself out, 30 days is a long time and if you go at something with too much intensity, its going to seem like a chore. Give yourself ample break time and be sure to reward your hard work. And most importantly, have fun with it!
/r/seduction18/06/11 06:49 AM
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Out of curiosity, why don't you drink? Is it an underage type thing, lifestyle choice or culture thing(e.g. religion)? Or something else altogether?
/r/seduction18/06/11 06:46 AM
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Dude, you're way too concerned about getting girls to be the cool guy. The way you feel is totally fine; I was a nerdy kid growing up and didn't have a girlfriend throughout high school, and was never the cool kid. I felt that by joining Seduction, my ego would be validated because I would be dating 3 or 4 hot girls at a time and all the guys would ordain me as the 'cool kid'. I mean, it wasn't this cut and dry and I never realized it, but once I did self-reflection I realized that I would want …
/r/seduction18/06/11 06:44 AM
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Talk about feelings and emotions. Open the conversation with any kind of question e.g. "how's work going" or "whats new in your life" then transition to an open-ended emotional response "you must be tired from working so much", "I bet that concert was amazing". Like Sinn said (I think it was Sinn) you can't go wrong talking to a girl about feelings and dreams.
/r/seduction18/06/11 06:28 AM
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My biggest point of Zen was actually my biggest fuck up. I saw this incredibly cute girl on the train going home once and for the life of me could not work up the courage to go talk to her throughout the whole ride. As soon as she disembarked, I felt this incredible sense of disappointment in myself that I could not even work up the courage to talk to this girl. This was after I studied seduction for a while, but I think that failure was the greatest lesson to me. Now, whenever I see a girl I wa…
/r/seduction18/06/11 06:20 AM
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Best way for many FR's to be verified is through pictures. I know that there are privacy concerns and that pictures can be put into fake situations but it does add a little more to the authenticity. The Japan FRs are generally pretty good because they do blur out their faces but their stories match up with the photos pretty well, so its not a surefire thing but its definitely a lot more believable.
/r/seduction14/06/11 12:04 AM
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Its sad but honestly this notion exists in every society...people getting fucked up at bars because they haven't found true love and are waiting for Prince/Princess Charming to show up but they haven't yet. Others are in crippling relationships in which they're constantly worried about their significant other being dishonest. I think the film just exacerbates these traits as it directly deals with a situation that is relatively unnoticeable in other societies. There are probably as many STD's in…
/r/seduction13/06/11 11:59 PM
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Just finished watching the film. Really interesting, although I feel that the film's message was about the social structure of hosts and their clients in Japan rather than the techniques they employ. In which case, its not really applicable to this subreddit but nonetheless adds a very interesting perspective to pickup. One thing I took away was the conversation between the hosts in which one host said to the other that you can't feel guilt or fall in love because what they were doing was a busi…
/r/seduction13/06/11 11:54 PM
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You can literally talk about anything if you're not actively showing that you're grasping at straws for conversation topics. Relax and just bullshit, conversation can get quiet and too many guys make the mistake of panicking at something normal like a break in talking.
/r/seduction06/06/11 09:07 PM
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I get the feeling that the game is shallow if you perceive it to be that way. A lot of people turn to pickup to impress their friends, thinking that regularly seeing 9-10 hot girls is going to catapult them into fame and adoration. I see the game as a great way to break the ice between girls and get to socialize and connect with them a lot better, and of course for sex. But even still, there are many many more things important in life than finding a girl and having sex, and those who define them…
/r/seduction04/06/11 03:35 AM
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Absolutely helpful advice. I notice awkward guys who rarely talk at all break the ice with simple one-ended questions rather than being open-ended. Your improv teacher sounds pretty educated.
/r/seduction03/06/11 09:47 PM
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If you had to give beginners advice, what would it be?
/r/seduction03/06/11 09:45 PM
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I think you're too worried about closing every girl you meet. Open the girl with the knowledge that there's a possibility that things aren't gonna go smoothly and it'll be a lot easier. Every girl is going to react differently to what you say so there's no way to get a perfect 100% response every time unless you're really good (Style/AFC Adam). Think about it this way, NBA players shoot the ball all the time and miss plenty of shots, but that doesn't stop them from taking more shots even if they…
/r/seduction03/06/11 09:40 PM
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Good answer right here. The Jealous Girlfriend opener is usually a good one to start with.
/r/seduction01/06/11 04:57 PM
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The problem with To-Do lists is that its either way too rigid or too vague, so people don't know how to adjust to situations or have no idea what the author means. Its much better to teach concepts rather than rules.
/r/seduction01/06/11 04:50 PM
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Love it!
/r/seduction01/06/11 02:47 AM
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What Tofu said, and also being a nice guy can be a turnoff if you're TOO nice. The confident, "asshole" type gets the girls because he knows what a girl wants in bed and girls see that, while the "nice" guy is unsure of himself and so girls see those insecurities translate into the bedroom, which is not sexy. The types I described were general and not very accurate, but I just wanted to illustrate the point as to why the "nice" guy route doesn't usually work.
/r/seduction01/06/11 02:36 AM
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Oh yeah I gotcha, because you're gonna be starting in Fall. I meant that sometime closer to the semester you should start talking to them and invite them out. I'd keep Facebook conversation to a minimum or zero until its closer so that you're not seen as the guy who always talks on Facebook. I wouldn't go for the "activity x" thing, makes you look like kind of a FB creeper IMO. If you're feeling brave, go with the "hey so since we're starting in the Fall lets get to know each other better. what …
/r/seduction01/06/11 02:11 AM
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If its my first time, I usually say "hey, I remember you from (place)" or something like that. In your case I'd say "hey you're part of the class of 2015 right?" and go from there. Talk for 5 minutes max with these girls, Facebook is DLV in my opinion, but set up an event and say "hey I gotta go but I'm really interested in meeting you, I'm thinking about (having a house party) or (checking out this pizza place), I'll let you know when that happens"
/r/seduction31/05/11 09:53 PM
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Dude, its good to think but you're thinking way too much. Its not like you're gonna come to this 'aha' moment and life all of a sudden makes perfect sense. I know it sounds naive but thinking about the purpose of everything is just gonna make you a really depressed individual, and I know it very well because I used to be the type. Man, just go out and enjoy yourself! Life is too short to worry about everything...opportunities and girls are going to pass you by if you don't take advantage of the …
/r/seduction31/05/11 09:44 PM
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Its okay, truth is if the guy wants to be successful at anything (girls, career, life) he's gonna need to sack up sooner or later. You can teach him all of pickup but as soon as he gets AA or blown out its all over. Confidence comes first before theory in my opinion.
/r/seduction31/05/11 09:29 PM
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I try to go for feeling-based conversation rather than fact based. Asking where she went to school is interesting for a while but gets dull and she might associate that conversation with you being a dull person. I like the example from "The Game" where Papa asks Paris Hilton for her opinion on a girlfriend who's still friends with her ex. Asking girls for their opinion on something is great because she feels that you trust her feelings. From there you can segway into other fluff - palm reading, …
/r/seduction31/05/11 09:16 PM
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Good post. But be careful, sometimes she just sees a nice date as a nice date and not much more. Thinking she might chase you could end up in her forgetting about the interaction. I usually have something planned far in advance for us to meet up next time, something that she likes (that hopefully I found out from the first date). I call her the next day and tell her to meet up with me at that time, usually about a week. That way, the previous date is fresh on her mind and those good feelings las…
/r/seduction31/05/11 09:13 PM
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You're putting too much value on your looks. Don't worry about how attractive you are, because that insecurity is going to follow you around if you focus on it. For example, I'm not white, and that could be a huge breakdown in confidence for me if I let that get to me, but I don't. I focus a lot on my fashion and fitness. I bodybuild at the gym and wear shirts that accentuate my muscles. Now, when I go out I feel good about myself because of those two traits that I highlighted. I don't look like…
/r/seduction30/05/11 04:41 PM
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If you're looking for another great video regarding dance floor game, check out this one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PRLEDSA4afo
/r/seduction30/05/11 06:38 AM
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I'll ask you a question. Why do you want a Lamborghini so badly. Because its fast? Because it looks good? Probably. But mostly because its rare. If everybody had a Lamborghini, the value of that car goes down because its taken for granted. But imagine if everybody drives a Ford Focus, and one guy in the world has a Lamborghini, but refuses to sell it. Now everybody wants it so badly, but they can't have it. Same goes with girls. They may take you for granted when you're around them, but once you…
/r/seduction30/05/11 06:34 AM
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A lot of the issues I first faced was the "why" aspect of picking up women and isolating the causes. Why did I want to pick up the girl. Why did I feel pressured, why did I feel like crap when I got blown out, etc. When I isolated those causes, it helped my approaches a ton. I'll explain. The answer to most of my "why" questions were that I felt socially obligated to get a hot girl. Society rewards the man that gets the hot girl with high-fives and respect, while ridiculing the guy that gets blo…
/r/seduction30/05/11 06:28 AM
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Awesome breakdown. Much appreciated. Btw I love the username.
/r/seduction23/05/11 01:47 AM
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Relax! Stop letting her dictate your moods. I know you want this girl but feeling sad when she doesn't respond and lighting up when she does is evidence that you're being controlled by this girl whether you know it or not. Respond like you would normally, don't ask others for what you should say because that shows you're not confident in your own answers. Believe in yourself my man.
/r/seduction23/05/11 01:43 AM
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Just say "I wasn't. I was just thinking of something else." If you want to come on to the girl, say something like "I had a hard time figuring out where you got that shirt. My cousin had one just like that and I was trying to remember where she got it since I was gonna get her another one."
/r/seduction23/05/11 01:27 AM
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And if you feel really bad, the AFC who made that thread in TwoXc also posted a bunch of pictures of himself as a crossdresser. I guess he feels closer to girls than guys. Look, if you want to call out the guy who made the thread then fine. But making fun of him for cross dressing is completely unrelated and petty. I understand your frustration at the situation but lets try to leave the personal stuff out of this. That being said, I agree with you heresmokethis and the OP. Posts on this forum sh…
/r/seduction23/05/11 01:24 AM
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It really is an awareness thing, and PUA's have an absolutely valid point when they say "stop reading and go out and practice!" but if that person isn't really conditioned then it becomes too easy to give up. Practicing what I learned has helped tremendously in not caring about what the results were but too many guys are focused on getting laid rather than looking at the progress they're making. One of the problems I see is that everyone has a certain expectation about how things are gonna devel…
/r/seduction23/05/11 01:09 AM
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Inner-game is great for people who either already are, or have become socially adjusted. But when somebody comes here and needs to start from the ground up, they need more than just motivational words. The issue with beginners on this level is that most of them care too much about how they will be perceived within their social circle. I think during Sin's talk at The 21 convention, he told the audience "be prepared to lose all of your friends if you get into seduction". Honestly, not caring what…
/r/seduction23/05/11 12:49 AM
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Seriously? This is what seddit has turned into?
/r/seduction20/05/11 07:45 PM
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It looks like /r/seduction has caught on to the masses of reddit. More posts with useless videos, posts about not getting the one girl, etc. are becoming way more prevalent. I think its time you jumped ship, this one has been lost.
/r/seduction20/05/11 07:45 PM
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You're half right. Someone that has enough game can make up for this...but this means that OP has to have an incredible amount of game to make up for this. Lets face it, a good looking guy with the same level of game as OP is gonna get the girl, ten times out of ten. That's just life. I'm from a non-white background, so I realize there are some girls that aren't into that and not gonna dig me. That means I have to either step up my game or realize that I'm not gonna get every girl I approach. It…
/r/seduction20/05/11 05:21 AM
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I don't think anything is a deal breaker if you don't give it value. It becomes an issue when the guy reacts to the girl flipping out. Girl I knew on study abroad made an issue of me smoking cigs but I didn't care...and she kept being attached to me although she kept complaining about the cigs.
/r/seduction16/05/11 04:45 AM
1

Reddit in general is known for trolls. Dunno if this guy has/wants to show photographic proof and while its a nice story, sometimes a lot of this shit gets made up. professor_osborn has a valid point.
/r/seduction16/05/11 04:25 AM
1

My opinion: most girls are different, so they'll usually be thinking different things. Being nice to a hot girl ain't gonna work, they're used to getting hit on all the time by nice guys. Whereas being nice to an average looking girl is more likely to work, but not always. So hotter girls are probably looking for the football-type athletically built good-looking guys, while average women might just be looking for bf material. Either way I'm sure that women are always thinking about looking for g…
/r/seduction16/05/11 04:22 AM
1

In that case, OP should have just submitted a self-post open to discussion, rather than some lame Courage Wolf picture. When I see the top comment as 'I hate "that talk"' it shows me that nobody really gave this any thought. I appreciate your input, because its what makes this subreddit great, but turning r/seduction into a Courage Wolf circlejerk is going to make this community look stupid.
/r/seduction09/05/11 03:30 PM
11

＞When greeting guys, shake their hand, give them a bro-hug or sometimes even a kiss on the cheek (depends if it is generally accepted to do this with good friends or not) Just out of curiousity, where do you live? I'm pretty sure kissing other guys on the cheek in the US won't get you a friendly response :)
/r/seduction09/05/11 01:24 AM
2

Women that have been cheated on before in relationships are going to shit-test every guy they meet, which is fair because a lot of them are genuinely nice girls that want a solid relationship. To their credit, 99.99% of the guys that hit on them are talking to her because of her looks, so she needs to validate their intentions as well as her compatibility with them. She just wants somebody that she shares similarities too. So I don't think its puppetry as much as it is testing the guy. Girls are…
/r/seduction09/05/11 01:07 AM
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Look, comments like "start exclusively seeing other girls" is the kind of dickish reputation that seddit doesn't deserve to have, and the kind of one that gives PUA's and members of this subreddit a bad name. If there's discussion to go along with the comment then that's absolutely fantastic, but something along the lines of "Fuck it, bang as many chicks as you can" isn't the sole purpose of seddit and will most likely end up having the person look like a total douche This reddit has a great com…
/r/seduction08/05/11 07:25 PM
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OP, if you want to post a picture like this then it should really belong in adviceanimals or some other subreddit. This community should be about discussion, and its a shame that this got voted up so high because the last thing we need is for this subreddit to turn into r/pics
/r/seduction08/05/11 09:43 AM
1

This needs to be in r/askseddit
/r/seduction27/04/11 11:38 PM
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A lot of this stuff is going outside of your comfort zone. I thought it was creepy as hell when I was watching it, but they're obviously more experienced and know what they're doing.
/r/seduction27/04/11 10:11 PM
1

Just because its their job doesn't mean they don't like doing it
/r/seduction26/04/11 12:40 AM
2

I think you really hit home on a lot of the negatives of Seddit in a way that can be seen as constructive. I don't think anybody here wants to look like a sleaze, but seduction is very helpful in developing deeper relations with a significant other, and it ties in with dating advice and relationships really well. When you said I found seddit and suddenly I was doing much better for myself 'romantically' speaking. However, I soon became completely unsatisfied with how shallow everything was. I th…
/r/seduction25/04/11 02:13 AM
5

Here's the issue. First off, "Right now I'm just sort of coasting and waiting for the right girl to come along." and then, right in the next sentence "From your perspective, what could I be doing differently..." you contradict yourself. Being patient and coasting along is one thing if you're happy about it, but obviously you're not content if you're asking what you could be doing differently about it. Just go out there and talk to girls. You sound like you're worried about looking desperate, hen…
/r/seduction25/04/11 02:00 AM
2

Give yourself some value! Tell the girl that you DJ at so-and-so club, maybe that you can get her and her friends in. She's more willing to be into you if you can show value. But its dangerous, because she might use you as an "in" to clubs.
/r/seduction21/04/11 05:11 AM
1

Well in that case yeah, seduction seems creepy to those who have no clue what it really means
/r/seduction21/04/11 05:08 AM
1

I like the Lacoste Essential (green box) right now, and Davidoff Cool Water is always the old standby. I'd suggest going to Macy's and asking the counter-girl what her favorite scent is, its a great opener and these girls LOVE to talk about it, but I wonder how many other guys ask them this question everyday.
/r/seduction21/04/11 03:47 AM
1

Good on you! Just one thing "My friend says she's thirsty and asks for some water. I resist getting it for her because I think that's a beta move." You should be more concerned about looking like an asshole rather than a beta. If you feel like it would make you look submissive say some bullshit like "I was just about to get some water anyway so whatever I don't mind" the other two girls ask for waters too when I'm on my way. Le sigh. I think that established me as a beta, huh? Have fun with it. …
/r/seduction21/04/11 03:42 AM
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I agree with you, I liked reddit for the rare finds and balanced discussions, but its sad to see so many losers with rage comics on the front page. And yeah I said losers, because its pitiful that most of these guys agree with the sentiment that they'll be "forever alone" and that women are evil and conniving and any meaningful relationship ends in separation or divorce. These guys use women as scapegoats for THEIR problems because they can't come to terms with the fact that they're lazy and unm…
/r/seduction21/04/11 03:23 AM
3

How is it creepy? This isn't r/stalker, this is discussion about what women want to hear and are looking for in a man. I personally feel a lot more educated about social behavior and exponentially more confident in social interaction from this reddit.
/r/seduction21/04/11 03:12 AM
2

I like to think of reaching escalation as a goal. That way, in case of a negative reaction, you think to yourself "Its totally fine, I was perfect in everything I did and achieved my goal, which was to escalate." Start trying to think in abstract concepts rather than immediate results and you might find it a lot easier to escalate.
/r/seduction21/04/11 03:06 AM
1

Just pick a popular song, and be dynamic with it! If you pick "Pour some sugar on me" get down and dirty. Anything that'll make your friends laugh and want to join along will get a great response. And have fun with it! Karaoke is sure as hell intimidating for me, you have serious balls for doing it
/r/seduction16/04/11 11:39 PM
3

Cool. Sounds like you have a great opportunity ahead of you! But remember, you did a favor for this girl and so far she sees you as somebody that will do whatever she wants at the drop of a hat. Instant friend-zone! My advice is take her out somewhere fun. If she says no, tease her with a "hey, you owe me one for the volleyball game ;) besides, it's gonna be something you'll never forget" and I think she'll be a lot more enthusiastic. Of course, thats my style and may not work for you. Use your …
/r/seduction16/04/11 11:36 PM
7

Way too vague. Stop with "lets meet tomorrow?" or "You free?". Start using "I found this amazing Italian Place, best Pizza you'll ever have. Lets meet at 8 at the corner of 34th street" or whatever depending on your scenario. She wants a guy to take her on a journey, not for her to make all the decisions. Remember, you wear the pants.
/r/seduction16/04/11 11:24 PM
2

You didn't post a video... Edit: Well I guess we should actually discuss the self post since there's no vid, but in all reality it is a good post. Its misleading in the sense that the poster is comparing apples and oranges though; somebody can be great at lion taming and have an absolute breakdown when talking to someone of the opposite sex, and vice versa. People are afraid to approach women because of the risk of looking like a fool to everybody else. But hey, fuck everybody else.
/r/seduction15/04/11 10:08 PM
2

Just drop her. Go out and meet other girls and you'll get over your one-itis. If you have the Alpha mindset but want to stay with the same girl, its gonna bring out the Beta in you. It sucks to say it, but I suggest just going out there and making new relationships
/r/seduction13/04/11 11:22 PM
5

I'm actually really glad that they posted so many of their failures in this video. The past two videos mainly dealt with a lot of successful number closes, and the average AFC is gonna see these videos, go out there, get rejected by the first girl, and give up. Pickup involves a ton of failure and a lot of persistence, and it sure as hell ain't easy. I'd love for these guys to do an AMA on the site, Savoy gave a lot of cool insight to these approaches and I'm curious as to how Kong, Jason and th…
/r/seduction13/04/11 10:29 PM
2

Its not like these guys seem to care, they're just having fun with it and if the girl gets offended or creeped out then whatever. Its about having the balls to go out there and have a good time with it, I'm sure if they really wanted to get the girls number they wouldn't have used internet memes to pick her up.
/r/seduction13/04/11 10:18 PM
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