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[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 15 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I hate "that talk".
[–]The_Cake_Is_A_Lie 2 points3 points4 points 15 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
How long do I have? My FWB is still encouraging me to see others....
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 15 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Everyone has a different policy with the free samples.
[–]The_Cake_Is_A_Lie 2 points3 points4 points 15 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I hate it when you go to leave and get a bill which includes all the samples you thought were free.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wasn't that on Boiling Points?
[–]blackdevildisco3 points 15 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Dude, if she's encouraging you to see others, you're golden. The talk may never happen, and if it does, you can probably just be stubborn ("But we agreed..." "This is how we've always done it..." etc.) and she'll say OK.
The girl I was posting about was obviously not completely comfortable with nonexclusivity from the beginning (I mean, she said she was, but I could tell she wasn't stoked about it), and never would've encouraged me to see other girls. So it was no great surprise when the talk happened.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just maintain your power, and she'll be calling you back in a month anyways. At least in my experience.
[+]RedShirtedAss -9 points-8 points-7 points 15 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
OP, if you want to post a picture like this then it should really belong in adviceanimals or some other subreddit. This community should be about discussion, and its a shame that this got voted up so high because the last thing we need is for this subreddit to turn into r/pics
[–]djadvance22 5 points6 points7 points 15 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In my opinion, a little spice never hurt anyone. And by spice, I'm of course talking about Jenkem. Whose holding?
Camaaaaaahn
[–]recoil669 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Spiced wolf meat you say?
[–]blackdevildisco14 points 15 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
Dude, lighten up...
[+]RedShirtedAss -6 points-5 points-4 points 15 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Look, comments like "start exclusively seeing other girls" is the kind of dickish reputation that seddit doesn't deserve to have, and the kind of one that gives PUA's and members of this subreddit a bad name. If there's discussion to go along with the comment then that's absolutely fantastic, but something along the lines of "Fuck it, bang as many chicks as you can" isn't the sole purpose of seddit and will most likely end up having the person look like a total douche
This reddit has a great community in terms of understanding the female psyche and pleasing the opposite gender, and sometimes the "friends with benefits" can escalate into a relationship, but its really dickish to just start seeing other girls and cut her loose because she wants something more. Maybe the situation calls for cutting her loose. Its just not good to show this community as a bunch of assholes though, because we aren't and I know you aren't as well.
[–]frogma 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think it's assumed that OP doesn't want it to be exclusive, in which case his only options are to stay strong or to bail. It doesn't make him an asshole. In fact, he'd be more of an asshole for making it exclusive when he doesn't actually want to. That's not fair for him or the girl, and I've been faced with that situation many times.
The meme itself is kind of lame, but the situation is pretty common.
[–]RedShirtedAss 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In that case, OP should have just submitted a self-post open to discussion, rather than some lame Courage Wolf picture. When I see the top comment as 'I hate "that talk"' it shows me that nobody really gave this any thought. I appreciate your input, because its what makes this subreddit great, but turning r/seduction into a Courage Wolf circlejerk is going to make this community look stupid.
[–]blackdevildisco1 point 15 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
"start exclusively seeing other girls" is the kind of dickish reputation that seddit doesn't deserve to have, and the kind of one that gives PUA's and members of this subreddit a bad name.
Look broseph, if somebody thinks less of seddit because of something as tame as "start exclusively seeing other girls," they're a hater or hypersensitive, and who gives a shit what they think? Save the righteous indignation for stuff that actually deserves it, like the residual misogyny and homophobia that pops up from time to time.
If there's discussion to go along with the comment then that's absolutely fantastic, but something along the lines of "Fuck it, bang as many chicks as you can" isn't the sole purpose of seddit and will most likely end up having the person look like a total douche
I don't know what on earth you're talking about – seems like you're putting words in my mouth. And there's discussion happening in this very thread.
This reddit has a great community in terms of understanding the female psyche and pleasing the opposite gender, and sometimes the "friends with benefits" can escalate into a relationship, but its really dickish to just start seeing other girls and cut her loose because she wants something more.
Um, no it's not. Am I supposed to get into an LTR with every girl that asks for one?
[–]gpua 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have to agree here, despite your downvotes. Courage wolf and other similar memes that get posted here are one of the main things detracting from the quality of seddit.
Courage wolf flies to the top of the page, while legitimate posts sharing solid advice or meaningful field experience for the benefit of others sink to the bottom, rarely getting their fair share of views. The problem I have with it though, is that when people come here and see something like this at the top of the page, with over ten times the upvotes of anything else, it makes the seduction community look like a joke while confirming the bad reputation that others see in it, without adding any practical value.
[+]pansartax -15 points-14 points-13 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is not courage wolf.
This should be the black fuck-you-up wolf.
Fucking newfags.
EDIT: O shit, in seddit? gtfo plz.
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