One of my problems is that I can't make a girl laugh. I am a fun but not funny guy.

I think I have a different standard of hilarity then most people that I hangout with. I laugh at jokes in conversation but most of the time I am just going through the motions since I don't genuinely appreciate the joke. (Even if other people are laughing hard).

A lot of times I catch myself throwing interjections into a group conversation that will confuse people. In my head, those interjections are funny. But I always get a awkward response.

In group conversation, I have trouble leading the conversation or adding to the conversation. I have been a listener my whole life. I find it hard to contribute to a group conversation. I can usually find that pause to speak something of my own mind. But usually those would be obvious facts that only agree to the conversation without adding anything new.

Help!