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| 22 | TRP is a Toolbox. MGTOW is a Lifestyle. Use accordingly | Red_Faust | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/21 08:40 PM | |
| 8 | How to handle MLTR logistics when you are a (semi) public figure? | Red_Faust | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 10:34 AM |
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| 3 | You Can't Comply Your Way out of Censorship -- Whisper Has Been BannedThanks, I was looking for a backup of his comments. There's gold and diamonds in there. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/22 09:39 PM |
| 3 | You Can't Comply Your Way out of Censorship -- Whisper Has Been BannedEvery day, every single day I went to Whisper's user page to read his comments. On TRP or anywhere else. His analytical insights on every human system, from psychology to geopolitics, are without par. I've successfully implemented positive changes in my life from single Whisper's comments. He's the uber engineer of life, love and guns. And I'll follow him wherever he goes. By the way, does anybody know if there exists currently any of those websites that automatically backups reddit, like "remov… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | What is “red pill”?As you said in your piece "The Obsolescence of the Argument", debate nowadays is only for the audience And we, the audience, even if seldomly vocal, are very grateful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Can Someone Explain Why Women Are So Hellbent On Deflecting Responsibility?Isn't it awesome when you share a learning experience so that other people can have another example in their toolbox, and there's always someone waiting to pounce with "lol u dumb" ? | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend is down for a threesome but doesn’t want to know the girlThis is the real response. This is how it goes. I've had experience with both types, real threesomes and what Matty calls here "pretend threesome". Try knocking down the list of requirements to a more achievable level. Girls think picking up girls is as easy as picking up men. It isn't. You will also know if it's because she's that picky or if she never had the intention of following through (when in doubt, escalate). A no-strings-attached stranger can be done but it's hard. I've done it several… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Perfect Stripper Game, F Close, Went SoftHey /u/BurntYams. Was it too hot? Beware of dehydration. In my city in summer it's too hot. I had soft dick some times but couldn't pinpoint why. Turns out it can be from dehydration. Once I took a break, relaxed, and after drinking a couple glasses of water I was performing without flaw. Also, while drinking alcohol you dehydrate faster. So there's that. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Affirmations With a Plate.Hey this is awesome. I'm decades into the game and had not read/seen several of these. The "holding out your hand" is devilishly clever. Could you maybe do/link a whole post on these? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | I hate having to ignore.Of course the amount of drama depends on the girl. And of course you don't really need to tolerate or manage her drama. You can always ghost. >> What happens if I get official with someone? Why would you do that? In any case, it would be best to break up with her saying you see it's not working. Don't tell her you're gonna get official with someone else. Why would you stir the hornet's nest? And if she ghosts you, your turn ended. Proceed as usual. Why would you tease her with a new woman? Your … | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Why so Scared?Around ten years ago I had the insight that fixed this for me once and forever: "The problem it's not that I don't want to be cheated on, the problem is that I don't want to be worrying about being cheated on" When you notice that the ruminating thoughts about your partner's potential lack of loyalty distract you from your priorities, and that you can't control other people's behavior, the course of action is clear: LTR? it's her job to not give me red flags like hints of cover ops, hanging arou… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/21 04:01 AM |
| 2 | TRP is a Toolbox. MGTOW is a Lifestyle. Use accordinglyThe hard shit tests for me are the ones that attack when I have some rational doubt. Well, another name for shit tests is "congruence tests". People test your frame to see if it's rock solid. And when you have any kind of doubt, they will test for congruence. It's very irrational that people prefer blind confidence to rational doubt, but that's how human minds are wired. There's this technique of the awkward silence: https://www.inc.com/justin-bariso/why-intelligent-minds-like-elon-musk-steve-jo… | /r/MGTOW | 22/05/21 05:20 AM |
| 2 | I hate having to ignore.Ok we should be wrapping this thread up. Yes, you have those two options. Breaking up or ghosting. Breaking up will make you get out of your comfort zone, and you have the risk of her trying to reel you in with more promises, creating drama or what else. If you do this, it's best to do it at a public place. Not a bad idea to record the conversation with your phone, that way if she creates drama you have a record, and you can use it as personal feedback anyway. Ghosting is easier, it's common now… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 10:18 PM |
| 2 | TRP is a Toolbox. MGTOW is a Lifestyle. Use accordinglyI do care for what is truly right, and I have trouble adding to the social mess, even to get my needs met. There doesn't appear to be much of an alternative now though. I'm afraid so. You have to be a little selfish, a little dark triad, to put TRP into practice. It's perfectly understandable to not want to do so. This is also on women. If women had sex with guys who gave them roses, every guy would carry buckets of roses all the time. Since women respond positively to dark triad traits, that's … | /r/MGTOW | 21/05/21 09:36 PM |
| 1 | I hate having to ignore.Having Multiple relationships and then focusing on ONE monogamously after having so much under your belt that you know what you want and are with a SOLID valuable woman. Well, this is practically the definition of red pill tools, blue pill goals. I don't think it's impossible. Heck, one of my best buddies managed to marry a virgin ffs. But you don't search for unicorns, or else you end up glueing a horn into a horse. You live your life, you screen hard, and sometimes quality girls appear. Needle… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | I hate having to ignore.The thing is I wouldn't mind being a provider to the right woman. Please don't try to use red pill tools to achieve blue pill goals. Or if you're hell-bent on doing so, please do at least these two things: 1) Get more experiencie, as in way more, under your belt, so you can easily: 2) Screen hard for an unicorn, instead of glueing a plunge into a donkey Specifically when you provide for a single mom, in the majority of cases you stop being a partner and start being prey. had a narcissistic mar… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 09:07 AM |
| 3 | TRP is a Toolbox. MGTOW is a Lifestyle. Use accordinglyI lost track of the man. Sorry to hear he passed away! He did so much good to so many people, will surely be missed. My big problem is that I keep trying to purple pill things Yeah this is trying to use red pill tools to reach blue pill goals. Kinda like Cypher when he wants to be put back in the matrix. How do I fix my instinct? A very complex question. You will need to find within yourself why are you compelled to do things that are expected from you but against your interests. Parental progra… | /r/MGTOW | 21/05/21 08:43 AM |
| 2 | TRP is a Toolbox. MGTOW is a Lifestyle. Use accordingly"Absorb what is useful, reject what is useless, add what is essentially your own" - Bruce Lee | /r/MGTOW | 21/05/21 08:33 AM |
| 1 | TRP is a Toolbox. MGTOW is a Lifestyle. Use accordinglyHave you read about the "Always DARE, Never DEER" frame? DEER: Defend, Explain, Excuse, Rationalize DARE: Deflect, Amplify, Repeat, Exit For me it's an useful mindset to pass shit tests and overexplaining myself, without the need to use canned lines, or being an ass. Either way, plates are the only way to go. Good company, nothing more. Agreed. | /r/MGTOW | 21/05/21 08:32 AM |
| 5 | TRP is a Toolbox. MGTOW is a Lifestyle. Use accordinglyNow this is a logical, informed response. Nothing to argue with a conscious decision. /u/Cursedwithknowing, let me tell you about a hypothesis of mine and if you care, tell me what you think As you know, there are survival reactions in nature, the fight-flight response. We humans react to painful or unwanted circumstantes in a similar way, even when they are not immediate threats like a predator. According to this hypothesis of mine, the strategies for the current social climate with respect to … | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/21 11:46 PM |
| 5 | TRP is a Toolbox. MGTOW is a Lifestyle. Use accordinglyThanks for your reply, I think your definition of TRP is too focused on dating Yeah, sure, I was referring specifically to the "TheRedPill" subreddit, which, by its own definition in the sidebar, is: "The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men." So basically yeah, in the OP I meant only the sexual strategy. Then there's the "Red Pill" concept (which comes from this really old movie that came up when I was young :P). Choosing the red … | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/21 11:33 PM |
| 2 | I hate having to ignore.Sorry mate, another thought came up. She has you firmly planted in the provider role. This means that once she sees absolute proof that you are seeing other girls she will give you the drama of your life. I have been in this situation a few time and it's not nice. She sees your non-monogamy declaration as a bluff, and tries to unlock the good little bitch beta provider underneath. When you show her that you really, for sure, are 100% non monogamous her expectatives will be brutally shattered. Ex… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 09:38 PM |
| 2 | I hate having to ignore.Well, the girl has game. No doubt about that. Look at the bright side. If you come out of this unscathed (no babytrap, no lawfare...) you'll have learned a lot. Most girls are milder. She initially expressed her having threesomes, used to be a dominatrix, dated a dude in porn. Now she seems super closed off My first bi girlfriend did this to me. She said she would have threesomes with me after I dropped my other plates. Guess who didn't got any threesome after that? My last bi gf tried the sam… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 09:33 PM |
| -5 | TRP is a Toolbox. MGTOW is a Lifestyle. Use accordinglyWell, now I can see clearly from here how not bitter you are :) | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | I hate having to ignore.Never ever believe a girl saying she's cool with you seeing other girls. Even if she is cool with the general idea of you sticking your dick in foreign pussy, it's on her best interest to secure you for herself alone if only to not share your resources (as in: time, attention, money). It's better to frame it as "this is my life and this is the deal". And then reward plenty those girls who are ok with that, and reward even more those who are monogamous on her end. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 09:05 PM |
| -4 | TRP is a Toolbox. MGTOW is a Lifestyle. Use accordinglyTRP and MGTOW have nothing in common I didn't say they had things in common, or did I? ;) I said that MGTOW is a lifestyle strategy while TRP is a toolbox. However, they do have one thing in common: the endgame in both cases is to life your life however the fuck you want. stupid tricks to attract stupid women. Now this sounds a little bitter. Sour grapes? But hey I'm not proselytizing anything. Your life your way. | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/21 09:01 PM |
| 2 | I hate having to ignore.I've had a few girls added to my rotation here and there but I get this guilty feeling when I do. I feel like I'm being sneaky and it feels beta not alpha doing so. As if I am cheating. OK this might be a mindset issue or a communication issue. For the second, check "The Talk" by MattyAnon: https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/274 If it's internal, well, it's beyond the scope of a reddit comment, but deprogramming usually begins finding out where programming comes from. I feel as if I've fallen int… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 07:27 PM |
| 5 | Got asked out today by a woman, TW: blue pillsThis post sounds too much like rationalization to me (I'm a therapist). There's nothing wrong with having casual relationships with women (except a higher risk of drama and STDs, you are the one who defines which degree of risk is acceptable). Heck, I'm more TRP than MGTOW myself and I keep a rotation. But this post smells to me that you're trying to convince us, and by proxy convince yourself, that this date is a good idea. Mi recommendation would be to try to find out what you really want from… | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | I hate having to ignore.the fact that I had her come live with me right away was a giant weakness I'm my frame from the beginning that I don't know if I could rationalize doing again short of a child rearing situation (which is hard mode anyway). As may others before me, I found out the hard way that cohabitation is the fast lane to betaization. Because she will see you at your worst moments, you will have nowhere to retreat to recharge. Suffice to say, nevermore. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 09:06 AM |
| 2 | I hate having to ignore.Breaking off is easy. Everyone knows how to break off. The more nuanced solution to your issue is to get more girls in your rotation. This would not be a problem if you were seeing 2 more girls. The worst number of girlfriends is one. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 09:00 AM |
| 8 | It's not always about making $. Hollywood and big tech have lost billions pushing a leftist agenda. That's how important it is to them to destroy western civilization. They know they are losing $ but no sign of this agenda slowing down much less ending.And in fact, the Doctor becoming a woman after a regeneration makes sense "in universe". Hell, in fact, if I could regenerate and keep my memories, I'd try being a woman for a change. And the thing is, even given this context where it makes sense, they still fucked it up with their woke agenda. | /r/MGTOW | 19/05/21 10:20 PM |
| 4 | My First GirlfriendSirens are not a problem. Treating them like a delicate flower is. My main is bisexual, very emotional, prone-to-drama-but-not-too-much. I screen for good intentions and absence of lawfare against men. The rest is manageable (try getting a bi girl that doesn't create drama. quenching that is my job). The reward? Host steamy sex. And threesomes. And sex clubs. Try having those with a Jane. The management? mostly the opposite of what all these guys in the examples did. you don't drop other plates … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Dr. Phil tells that guy that if a woman assaults him he should walk away and never lay hands on her for self defenseAbsolutely. These days I don't do marriage, or cohabitation, not even monogamy. At the first sign of irrational verbal drama in public or at her home, I bolt. Soft next for several days. If we're at my home, I do whatever necessary psych tricks to not generate drama, or to quench it if started. New girls in my rotation don't get to lounge around at my home until I get a feeling on how they vibe with drama. | /r/MGTOW | 15/05/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Dr. Phil tells that guy that if a woman assaults him he should walk away and never lay hands on her for self defenseI think it's a sound strategy. Remove yourself from the situation. Of course ideally she is NEVER in your home to begin with to not have an option to remove yourself. Wonder how I had to go so deep in the comments to read the correct response. You're not here to fix the injustices of the world. You're here to learn to navigate the waters. If there's a girl in your life capable of physically assaulting you, you will be seeing red flags way before the event. Then you should remove her from your li… | /r/MGTOW | 15/05/21 08:22 PM |
| 9 | And she's also active on FDS. Can't be fuckzoned if you distance yourself from chad- ah nvm i got a couple more years till the wall hitsIt's almost as if the mating strategies of men and women arediametrically opposed to one another. This is why marriage technologywas invented This is it. Fuckzone is not 100x worse than friendzone, it's more or less the same. Both means one side deliver their goods while the other won't deliver theirs. The solution is simple: do not deliver your goods until you're reasonably sure the other side is acting in good faith and will deliver theirs. But of course, for girls it's fun to fuck hot guys,… | /r/MGTOW | 13/05/21 12:45 PM |
| 7 | Women cannot be trusted... Guy finds out his wife was an escort/porn actress FIVE years into his marriage.The kind of man smart enough to thoroughly dig in a woman's past before marriage, such as hiring a PI to check on past friends and lovers... is already smart enough to not get married, which is cheaper. | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | anyone else find it funny how the red pill can't use mental gymnastics to explain bill gates?This is it. Bill Gates was the ultimate provider. Everything is working as expected. | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/21 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Life is just better! do you, invest in you, and be great!The juice isn't worth the squeeze. Think about it this way: If your personal path naturally attracts women, you don't need to diverge from it. I like weightlifting and socializing, so I do that and I attract some women effortlessly. I don't like salsa dancing, so I'm not doing it no matter how much women I could get from that. (obligatory disclaimer: not in USA, so sex not as risky. no monogamy, cohabitation or kids. YMMV) | /r/MGTOW | 07/05/21 10:52 PM |
| 2 | I (31M) threatened to take my wife’s (29F) weekly stipend away if she doesn’t do more chores or get a job. Now she won’t speak to me. What do I do?If he wants to be even more machiavellian, he can go to marriage counseling, nodding and agreeing to whatever simping bullshit he's being told, all the way planning for divorce in the backend. But I doubt OP can reach that mindset yet. If he manages to become aware that he can dodge a lethal bullet by divorcing now before children, he'll be lucky enough. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 06:13 PM |
| 3 | As a somewhat attractive younger guy, I cannot understand why anyone would get married.there are plenty of girls that remain loyal, as long as they remain attracted to you too much overthinking this might make you paranoid. if you focus in improving yourself instead, you will keep her loyal for longer and yes I know AWALT, but AWALT also includes that girls are attracted to their top option. as long as you take care of yourself and are lucky that no gigachad enters her orbit, you could keep being that top option for quite some time no need to mindfuck yourself "just in case". ther… | /r/MGTOW | 08/01/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | The untenable position of the female today.Thanks a lot for the links and the further analysis ! | /r/MGTOW | 03/01/21 12:28 AM |
| 4 | The untenable position of the female today.Hey great post! You got me very interested here. Could you recommend any insightful resource on military planning? (book, video, etc.) Even better if it's applicable to life/business stuff. | /r/MGTOW | 02/01/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Imagine if the roles where reversedWell yeah this is the "three wolves and a lamb voting what's for dinner" problem. Feminists, white knights, freeriders, etc. clearly outnumber everyone else. There's so many parasites a system can feed before collapsing. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/12/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Imagine if the roles where reversedHey Whisper, thanks for the insightful answer. When I see you writing about american freedom, how the power goes from bottom to top, and how guns are essentially the tools to defend your freedom, even though I think in the USA these values have been forgotten or distorted for the common man, I feel kinda jealous. In my country people are just lazy rascals. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/12/20 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Imagine if the roles where reversedHey /u/Black_m0ngoose, of course I agree that the key supporter issue has been, well, key. As Whisper eloquently explains and you agree too. Let me show you an additional concept to which you might, or not, give further consideration. Let me see if I can also explain myself with engineer-like clarity, Whisper-style (English not being my first language and all). There's this concept called "trivialization". For a person or group of persons "A", some problem that person or groups of persons "B" se… | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/12/20 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Imagine if the roles where reversedAnd as a daily reader of your comments, let me thank you for your clear expositions and critical thinking. IMO Trump's biggest mistake has been trivializing covid. People just don't like their relatives dying. I think if he had been less stubborn with that, and recommended just common-sense measures, instead of going hardcore negationist, he would have won the 2nd term. (I'm not an USA citizen so I'm not emotionally invested either way, I just like the sociopolitical analysis) | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/12/20 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Are the youtube life gurus and self-help actually doing what they should?Well, I for one am in the self-help niche. Probably a few countries away from you and probably speaking a totally different language, and not keen on doxxing myself so the plan here is not really to sell you anything. Sometimes professional personal development can be useful, but there's a lot, and I mean a real lot, of oil snake sellers out there. There are three kind of personal development advice that are next to useless: Platitudes, because everyone knows of should know this stuff, and it's … | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | The redpill is NOT about womenI am one of those that read your entire feed, everyday, so thanks for your rationality and your critical thinking. As you yourself point out in "The Obsolescence of the Argument", it's not for the opponent, is for the audience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 08:16 AM |
| 2 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?I'm in my early forties, 15 years into the seduction community, fairly jacked, I have 3-4 girls on rotation (currently 3), and I still read Whisper's profile every day for insights because he's like the Don Corleone of the red pill, you have a veritable trove of knowledge right here at your fingertips. You can start by reading his all time top posts and comments. Even though Whisper is absurdly knowledgeable in game, I'd daresay his best skill is critical thinking. Modelling reality, situations … | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 08:47 AM |
| 1 | How to handle MLTR logistics when you are a (semi) public figure?I usually handle 3 girls, more than that is too much time and logistics consuming. Less might be better, business-wise, though of course one runs here the risk of having de facto monogamy. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How to handle MLTR logistics when you are a (semi) public figure?Thanks for your reply Whisper, I read your profile everyday soaking wisdom in all areas of life. Well, except on guns, since we can't carry them around in my country! You hit a spot... I might be scared, more like worried, of public drama. Not about losing the girls ("I don't chase 'em I replace 'em"), but in how a public scene might impact me negatively. I'm more flexible in my personal life but when working I'm kind of a perfectionist. And maybe that's the trick. My mind is warning me: "tread … | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 08:39 PM |
| 2 | How to handle MLTR logistics when you are a (semi) public figure?Haha loved your story! This is the kind of ingenious thinking that make these situations exciting instead of cumbersome! | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 05:34 PM |
| 1 | How to handle MLTR logistics when you are a (semi) public figure?This is way too complicated. It kind of sounds like you’re overinvested if you have to put this much deep thought into it My thoughts as well, this is the reason why I want to simplify my logistics. This is some focus I'm getting away from my business and into relationship management. Me no like it. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How to handle MLTR logistics when you are a (semi) public figure?Thanks for your response itiswr1tten, The bad news is, what aren't you telling us? do these "MLTRs" think they are your girlfriend? That is your fault if so. No, nope, not at all. My policy is to tell them that I am not monogamous, but never reveal details. They do the usual thing, they try to get monogamy and drop out if they don't get it in 3-6 months, though some stick around for longer. Through the years I've found out that being truthful about this is the best option. I have a friend that d… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 04:59 PM |
| 2 | FR: Crabs in a bucket mentality - Don't change. You're already great.You did awesome. The correct move here is not to argue, but to nod, smile, and agree, and then keep going your merry way. Which is what you did. Congratulations. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/18 08:58 PM |
| 6 | FR: Crabs in a bucket mentality - Don't change. You're already great.Some high IQ girls have melted by seeing me as a dominant and high IQ man. As like, they usually have to choose either one. Having both traits, i.e. being a smart alpha, is a very rare combo. Of course if you have to choose between showing alpha behavior and being smart, it's better to show alpha behavior. In fact, it's even better to hide how smart you are until after you have had sex. Because some girls instinctively associate "smart" with "beta", so at the beginning it's useful to downplay th… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/18 08:48 PM |
| 6 | Cumming Inside Girls on VacationI don't condone the actions of the OP but I find the moralizing in this thread disturbing. I have qualms with unprotected sex, since it's my health we're talking about - I don't give a flying fuck about the cucks, but my health is sacred. However, the strategy of impregnating women and then storming off is exactly the masculine imperative. For one gender to maximize its sexuality, the other must abandon theirs. This man is maximizing sex and offspring while minimizing commitment and providership… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/18 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Co-Worker/buddy sold his car and motorcycle to buy a more expensive car for his wifeHe's stupid, but not because he fell into the trap. It's because when you try to explain to him how things work, he doesn't listen. You wrote it yourself in the OP: I've offered advice, only to have it thrown back in my face. We can all make mistakes. But if we make a mistake and, when called on it, double down, then we're being stupid. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/18 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Disappointment in the Lack of Critical ThinkingI think you are referring to non-reactivity, non-neediness, being in your center, being serene or calmness. No. Those are also by-products, wouldn't you say so? This is why I don't think so: Ideally we would walk all the time with a clear head and choosing at each intersection the optimal, to the best of our knowledge, path to our goals. However, we don't work that way. We (humans, as a collective) make suboptimal decisions time and time again. Like getting married, doing drugs, driving under th… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 12:23 PM |
| 3 | Disappointment in the Lack of Critical ThinkingI think you are referring to non-reactivity, non-neediness, being in your center, being serene or calmness. It's when your intention and focus are not swayed neither by external circumstances nor by rogue thoughts and emotions spontaneously sprouting from your unconscious. Your mind and soul being in peace like a still lake. The shortest path to this is, as you say, mindfulness meditation. I meditate 15 minutes each and every day. There are other things you can do. For instance, with NLP I've be… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/18 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Top 20% height ?Yeah Vasya I became tired of bashing that into the skulls of my inane real-life friends. Height is a variable where you can do the quickest A/B test. Go to some club with flat shoes. Calibrate IOIs. Go out to have a smoke, whatever, go to your car, switch your flat shoes for high heeled boots with shoe lifts inside (around +10 cms height). Go inside. Recalibrate IOIs. I did that, several times. Results were outstanding. I never go out at night anymore, and never go to a first "date" (meetup real… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 07:37 AM |
| 3 | Disappointment in the Lack of Critical ThinkingTrue | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 06:58 PM |
| 6 | Disappointment in the Lack of Critical ThinkingThe three pillars of attractiveness are status, physique and game. PUAs, with different levels of success and sellout-ism, distilled game, inner and outer, to never-before read levels. What did we have before? Casanova, Marquis de Sade and The Art of Seduction by Greene? We made a terrific revolution on one of the three pillars. And now we know better and try to achieve goals in all three areas. We were pioneers 15 years ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Disappointment in the Lack of Critical ThinkingThis is why Whisper is one of my favorite authors, ever (meaning, not of TRP but in general). He's always bashing in people's skulls the importance of learning how to think, instead of what to think. However, these kind of messages always fly over people's heads (ask me how I know). Today I was trying to bash into the head of a particularly thick-headed woman (IKR?) that to make money it's not enough to desire to make money, but to deliver value that an employer, or clients, will want to pay you… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 04:58 PM |
| 2 | I don't know how to handle my weirdly behaving grilfriend anymoreWoah, wait. Show she intreprets me trying to save her sorry ass from destroying herself is mate guarding and weak? Actually yes. It sent you into the provider downward spiral. It's not your job to save people from self-destruction. I am very good at helping people. Well, at least IRL. Trust me on this one: Some people don't want to be saved. Some people just want emotional support and hand holding while they screw up their lives. For me, if a girl doesn't listen to absolutely sensible advice, be… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | There is only one woman you will ever truly love.Parents' love is the core of self esteem. When you're a baby you need your parents' love to survive. As in, if mom and dad don't take care of you, you literally die. That's why humans have evolved to try to grasp love from their parents. This is an instinct because those humans who didn't have it, kicked the bucket. You can watch this video of the still face experiment to see it in action: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=apzXGEbZht0 When your parents don't show you love you try to do things to g… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/18 11:36 AM |
| 8 | There is only one woman you will ever truly love.Let me disagree with you for your benefit. You should not look for unconditional love, either give or take, on anybody else. Nor even your mom. You should love yourself unconditionally. You are the only person that you can trust that will love you for who you are, because it can be your decision to do so. I can tell you that it's ok to love yourself unconditionally, and to stop looking for your self esteem externally. Yes, even with your mom. You do you. If you want to get along with your mom, o… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/18 11:17 AM |
| -1 | Feeling like she might flakemallard, if you don't mind the request, would you consider expanding on tinder flaking (or just flaking) on a future post of yours? how to detect those patterns, and how to prevent them on the first place. as a recent example, yesterday a tinderella flaked on me after what it seemed like a meaningful connection in the first conversations. according to her version, she has these migraines and had only slept 2 hours, she told me she was going home after work and text me if she got better. of cours… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 08:35 PM |
| 9 | The Wrong Idea about Disciplineit's literally two minds colliding. your rational self has a sense of the future, while your primal mind cannot project itself to the future, and only understands "now" (as a side note, you can see how overfocusing on how you "feel now" is a childish/feminine trait. in fact, the marshmallow experiment showed up that kids with greater delayed gratification ended up doing better later in life) in order to avoid procrastination you have to make it hard, way harder for your monkey brain to run its c… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 07:15 PM |
| 11 | You're not her top optionI like how MattyAnon writes it (I'm paraphrasing here): Poligamy is the only rational answer to hipergamy It's very beautifully condensed. Poligamy vs Hipergamy. If she's constanly and mercilessly screening for the top man available, the only possible answer is to manage several options at once to increase the odds of being the top man for one or several of them. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | A Woman's Trick to get Me to Support HerAs it happens, he's right and you're wrong, but whatever, don't listen. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 08:11 PM |
| 73 | You're not her top optionMallard, you are becoming one my favorite posters here in TRP, your material is incredibly insightful and this post is memorable like every one of them. You're pampering us. Regarding your post, after more than a decade of experience, one of the few things that still irks me is when you're a girl's top option, and you can feel it, and somehow you get out of the top position. It happened recently to me and oh man it still stings. Seeing someone so into you, and switch that off overnight is pretty… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | The way reddit makes it sound... no one dates anymore.. Is that the case or is asktrp full of..My life in a nutshell :D | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 09:59 PM |
| 1 | A basic supplement guideI do leangains and use BCAA for fasted training. Loving them! (upvoted you because you're right, but chimed in to mention that that's not too rare of a situation) | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Is MeToo turning into NotYou at small companies?After a lot of experience I came to the realization, even before TRP, that women simply don't understand the principle of cause and effect. It was hard to grasp because as a logical being, cause and effect is in fact the foundation stone of all logical thinking, of plan making, of strategy including relationship and business strategy, heck of whatever you can think, "if I do A, B happens" is the staple. Like in, if you are always getting an outcome you don't want, just try different actions to t… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | I am quite surprised by the reaction of my buddy's GF and her 3 friends in relation to a hypothetical scenario. This is the type of shit that I can't wrap my melon around. Are men not worth anything?Actually it's not something I've given much thought to. It's a matter of being unattractive, and we already know that the 2nd rule is "don't be unattractive". It's been a really long long time since I don't have social circle problems, specially because I don't run in social circles with females that I'm not having sex with, except for business, where I'm very disciplined with the "don't shit where you eat" rule and try to get along with everybody. One could try probing the guys to see if they c… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/18 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Every man must face a huge crash to learn and strive for a better future - a lesson on AWALT, family law, and the hamster.Oh! what is this! shaming language in TRP! Everyone who's not capable of So now we don't want kids not because it's a terrible idea in the current zeitgeist, but because we're not "capable of". To all the rest of readers: this is a well written but not-so-subtle shaming language. Man up and raise children! Pander to the feminine imperative! You go plow horse! Yeah well nope. If someone had kids before he knew better, ok let's help them rise above their challenges. If someone does want kids becau… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/18 03:10 PM |
| 48 | I am quite surprised by the reaction of my buddy's GF and her 3 friends in relation to a hypothetical scenario. This is the type of shit that I can't wrap my melon around. Are men not worth anything?This is the best reply of the thread. It's not the situation (it's a shit test, solved by agreeing & amplifying) but why are they setting you up for this trap. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 03:05 PM |
| 46 | I am quite surprised by the reaction of my buddy's GF and her 3 friends in relation to a hypothetical scenario. This is the type of shit that I can't wrap my melon around. Are men not worth anything?Shit test, Agree & Amplify: "If you seen a girl at a train station being harassed, would you intervene?" Of course! I'm always up for a good harassment! IRL I once said something in a similar situation: hey, would you ever kill someone for money? Hell, I would do it for free They stop asking these questions real quick. However sadomasochrist's answer is the best. There's a character assasination at play here. You should check your social standing within the group and investigate why they want yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 02:56 PM |
| 36 | Women Will Be Sexual With Lesser Alpha Orbiters To Keep Them Hooked (Trap for Advanced Gamers)You (not you /u/CMajorThe3rd specifically, but any reader reading this) should make your own rules based on your level of attractiveness and the past responses from girls who were into you. For instance in night game if a girl I meet in a public space (a club or pub) doesn't want to kiss me the night I meet her, unless there's a very specific logistics reason for her not to (like unable to isolate), I don't even bother getting her number. On the contrary, if the first tinder date doesn't end up … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 10:23 PM |
| 34 | Women Will Be Sexual With Lesser Alpha Orbiters To Keep Them Hooked (Trap for Advanced Gamers)women will even have sex once or twice with a man they consider an orbiter I had this happening to me when I first started learning seduction and becoming a more masculine version of myself. Also, girls flirting with me in front of their boyfriends, in hindsight to make them jealous by flirting with a somewhat attractive, but still safe guy. Once you cross some threshold this behavior stops. Girls quickly realize you aren't gonna orbit her no matter what so their reactions and behavior are more … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 10:10 PM |
| 1 | How red is your red ?Respect for myself is earned, not given unconditionally. Only by earning my own respect can I ever hope to attain true self-love, which is the key to the true IDGAF and uncrackable frame. NO!!! You should love yourself unconditionally, starting right now, till the end of your days. Then you can start developing self-discipline and achieving things, first small victories, then onwards to greatness. If you punish yourself and base your self-esteem on your results, you will only create or make deep… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 09:02 PM |
| 12 | Height-related Red Pills from a Short ManHeight and muscles are to guys what boobs to a girl. They attract the attention of the opposite gender but are nowhere near enough to seal the deal. But they are a damned good attractor nevertheless. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 03:55 PM |
| 4 | Height-related Red Pills from a Short Man5'9 here. Average in my country, though sometimes in the past I've lost targets to taller/buffier guys. I wear high heeled boots when I go out to look taller. They also fit my rockerish style, so all in all I look awesome, and have never gotten shit for it, furthermore, sometimes I even tease girls with this, if I find it's appropriate. I see several things I wanted to nitpick about your post: Just be aware of what this implies: if you think there's nothing wrong with being short, and you are we… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 03:53 PM |
| 5 | A Doxxionary Tale.If you are who I think you are, and I think so because I used to read your profile everyday, TRP has lost one of its most awesome contributors. Thanks for everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/18 07:36 PM |
| 2 | A Doxxionary Tale.This. PPD could burn into oblivion for all that I care. Reality is non-debatable. Approaches to reality can be, but that debate can and sometimes shows up here. The only thing worth of PPD are sadomasochrist's musings, which I find very insightful in order to better understand sexual dynamics. The rest can rot in hell. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/18 07:14 PM |
| 0 | Plate cancelling/flip flopping. What would you do?I like this plate, and eventually, once I've enjoyed single life a bit more, a relationship is not out of the question. Not a good idea with this one. A potential girlfriend should earn that title while being a plate: "dress for the job you want, not the job you have". A plate that openly shows on your face that she's fucking other guys is not a good candidate for an LTR. A good candidate for an LTR should be trying to show you that she's the best deal so that you choose her over all other girls… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 12:24 AM |
| 7 | AWALT example: Bluepill Gymbro tries to white-knight a single motherThis is one of the best quotes I've ever read. Kudos to you, sir. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 12:19 AM |
| 1 | If 99% of women have hoe tendencies, why or why not turn a _pristine_ hoe into a housewife?I asked for arguments for (none) That's because it's a terrible idea and you are rationalizing like hell. You don't listen, so whatever. Come tell us in a few years how it went. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | You will not make itYeah perfect form is key. But in addition to that, the "big 3" McGill exercises have helped me reduce pain immensely, to the point where in normal circumstances I don't feel any pain at all. Can't recommend them enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 12:05 PM |
| 1 | You will not make itHave you checked Stuart McGill's system for back rehabilitation and performance? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 11:37 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread May 02I use BCAA before training, just as per the leangains system. Supposedly BCAA won't break your fast (technically it will, since it has calories, but it doesn't have enough calories to interrupt the benefits of the fasting). Martin Berkhans explains it over here: https://leangains.com/early-morning-fasted-training/ | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/18 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Said I'm dating someone else, girl went crazyYou, listen. Her making you feel bad is a manipulation on her part on your feelings of guilt and shame. Source: I know. Was trapped in that dynamic for years. I guess they smell it and sunk their teeth on my guilt. Now I don't consider it my problem if a girl assumes on her own that we're monogamous when we're not. No more drama. Of course you can do better by stating it implicitly rather that explicitly. That, you can improve next time. But there's no need to feel guilty about this one. It's a … | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Said I'm dating someone else, girl went crazyThis is golden. Non-monogamy must always be implicitly stated, never explicitly. "I am non-monogamous", or in my words of choice: "I'm a free spirit" Much better than "I'll be seeing Stacy tomorrow". The first one can be hamstered away, the second can't. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Most experiences I've had with females in my life have been negative ones.This is what I come to TRP for. I read everything MattyAnon writes because I could have written that myself (except I couldn't since english is my second language so would look worse). Here's a mindset of accepting and adapting. If you accept reality as it it, and adapt to benefit from it, i.e. you stop fighting reality and start flowing with it, you can reap immense rewards, have awesome success and be quite, quite happy. Marriage, cohabitation or even monogamy put all the power in her hands, s… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/18 05:54 PM |
| 3 | LTR mad because I'm getting my own place?If a girl suddenly stopped fucking you, you'd get mad too. Men don't want de-escalation of sex. Women don't want de-escalation of commitment. The lesson of the day is: do not plan with her any commitment that you don't expect to agree to. It's better to define early which one is your limit (e.g.: I don't do monogamy) and enforce that from day one, than agreeing, or planning to agree, to a commitment then withdrawing it. It can feel like a punishment, because it is. That being said, it's smart fo… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/18 05:45 PM |
| 17 | Tip to Look More Masculine and Skyrocket SMVWhat about the safety of these exercises? I followed Starting Strength by Mark Rippetoe without being prepared for it and developed a nice lumbar protrusion thanks to it (and no, it wasn't for doing it in bad form, I even hired an expert personal trainer to supervise my form, it's because most office bodies are not ready for some movements, GayLubeOil explained it perfectly here: http://archive.is/SEoxZ - only, this post came out 2 years after my injury). Of course people always say "it's safe i… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/18 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Am I getting used / Getting beta'd on?Escalate. Escalate. Escalate. You'll quickly figure out where you stand. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Once again, why all the hate on TRPBecause we live in a feminine-centric society: https://therationalmale.com/2011/12/20/the-feminine-reality/ "For one gender to realize their sexual imperative the other must sacrifice their own. Society panders to women, so anything that gives sexual power to men is anathema. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 07:47 PM |
| 5 | Get to average firstI am... kind of a therapist. Can't say more without risking being doxxed. I have met few, very few female colleagues of mine that have good insights on the mindset and beliefs of a masculine male mind. Most men in my niche are beta men too, but at least there are a handful that are masculine and know how to transmit and help you develop it. Females? Maybe one or two that I've met in my whole life. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/18 11:14 AM |
| 1 | MUST READ recent scientific research on male bodily attractiveness (Importance of strength, height, and weight)The thing is, if we listen to anecdote or personal opinion we can easily fall into bro-science. But we also can't blindly believe scientific studies because a lot of them are biased, or the conclusions twisted to fit the feminist imperative. For instance, not many scientific studies, when investigating female mate choice, make a distinction between STR and LTR, i.e. AF/BB. So I think it's best to take into account the scientific studies that align with the collective (not individual) experience … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/18 08:13 PM |
| 16 | MUST READ recent scientific research on male bodily attractiveness (Importance of strength, height, and weight)Awesome, thanks for the reference and the insights. Recently I shared in another thread this other paper, stating that the optimal bf % for attractivenes is 12%: http://rspb.royalsocietypublishing.org/content/280/1751/20122495.full "All facial and body measurements were linearly related to attractiveness, except body adiposity, which showed a curvilinear relationship, peaking at a body fat percentage of 12 per cent." I encourage everyone else who has links to quality studies in human female mate… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/18 05:52 AM |
| 5 | PUA skills will not compensate for lifting. My experience over the past first year....Leangains: https://leangains.com/ Unless someone is truly advanced, leangains can be used to do both quickly and efficiently. There's a whole subreddit on the stuff: http://archive.is/6zl2F | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/18 08:56 AM |
| 2 | The ONLY proven way to lose weight and some life hacksThis is a very insightful video, thanks for sharing. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/18 07:54 PM |
| 1 | The ONLY proven way to lose weight and some life hacksWell ok, so "normal" carbs per se doesn't make you obese, while mixing refined carbs with unhealthy oils make you fatter even. I think we can agree on that. For people with insulin resistance, like me, it's even worse since the pancreas starts generating even more insulin to compensate. Lowering carbs helps a lot: http://annals.org/aim/article-abstract/718265/effect-low-carbohydrate-diet-appetite-blood-glucose-levels-insulin-resistance?doi=10.7326%2f0003-4819-142-6-200503150-00006 People with no… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/18 07:50 PM |
| 3 | The ONLY proven way to lose weight and some life hacksWell of course you're right and processed foods are the worst for fat gain. The very link you have at the end of your comment says it: "A diet high in sugars for just a few weeks produces numerous abnormalities found in patients with coronary heart disease including elevated insulin levels and insulin resistance. A diet low in added sugars and refined carbohydrates has been found to reverse all of these metabolic defects." The keyword here is "refined carbohidrates". Carbs increase blood sugar a… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | The ONLY proven way to lose weight and some life hacksAgreed, my grandpa died from diabetes and I had all the early signals like being a fatty kid, always tired, same amount of food made me fatter than other people, eating carbs like pasta made me really really sleepy. Of course you need some carbs, but the cleaner the better. Low or mid-range GI/GL after training works best for me. Veggies + proteins. Good old Paleo diet :) | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/18 05:04 PM |
| 49 | The ONLY proven way to lose weight and some life hacksSo if Keto, Low carb, Paleo and so forth are all crap, what does really work? Bro science. Insulin resistance is a thing: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Insulin_resistance If you are insulin resistant you can develop metabolic syndrome and end up having type 2 diabetes. And guess what also happens? That carbs make you fat. And guess what keto, low carb, paleo have in common? they control the high GI/GL carbs you body receives so that the above things don't happen. Please stop spreading false info… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/18 11:04 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread April 11I like this question because it aims for the core of the problem. OP said she's submissive, can you set up limits that she would obey? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/18 10:54 AM |
| 20 | I have no one to tell this toI walked into this voluntarily, once. I'm writing my story here just for the learning experience. Weekday night, normal pub, me in pickup mode, lone wolf. Cute (thin, cute face, but not too hot) girl smiles at me. I open. Nice conversation, she seems to open perhaps a little quickly into me, but since I look somewhat good and I've had other chicks open up faster, didn't ring any alarm at that time. We have some laughs, I escalate kino and she reciprocates. Faster than typical but not too fast to… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/18 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Most of you are too fat to have High SMVIn imperial metrics, 5 ft 10 in. (Currently ~74 kg, 16.5 % bf) I put on mass quickly, be it fat or muscle, so being relatively ripped looks good on me even with a little body fat. (Though this is not an excuse to cheat, and I am working very hard to lower my bf to the most attractive levels) | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/18 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Most of you are too fat to have High SMVLeangains - https://leangains.com I do leangains (but with a specific weights routine since I have an injured back). I lift fasted, eating some BCAAs to prevent catabolism. I eat once a day, after the gym. I eat paleo (veggies and lean proteins). You can get results with a bigger Intermittent Fasting window. "Warrior diet" is just an intermittent fasting where you eat once per day (i.e. instead of 16/8 or 20/4 I basically do 23/1). If you want to get over a plateau you can do a 48-hour fast. I r… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/18 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Most of you are too fat to have High SMVYeah. The golden triad really is: Looks (mainly muscles & body fat. height too, but you can't control that) Status (mainly social hierarchy and money) Social Skills (mainly inner frame & outer game) Why would you neglect any? Specially because the newbie gains in each of them are really low hanging fruit. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/18 09:49 PM |
| 21 | Most of you are too fat to have High SMVMy normal state if I don't lift and fast is around 21% bf. Given my height, build and facial aesthetics, I look good with that bf. Good enough to have several MLTRs at each given point in time and enough rotation to lead a happy sexually varied life. A few months ago I resumed lifting (after recovering from a serious injury), made my diet a couple notches stricter and started fasting hard (warrior diet, I eat only once each day, after lifting) Long story short, I'm at around 16.5% bodyfat now, w… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/18 09:18 PM |
| 4 | Uncle Vasya's Guide To ThreesomesThis is awesome. I've had several threesomes, the first one was quite a flop because of jealousy on my main girl's part. From that onwards they've been scarce but awesome. As described here, if you make both girls feel special, and lead like an orchestra conductor, it is one of the best sexual experiences a guy can have. I would have paid big $ for having a guide or a mentor when I was starting with 3somes, and I am going to put this guide to good use. Thanks, thanks and thanks uncle Vasya !!! | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Autists vs BorderlinesThanks for your reply dripdripdropdrop! I think one good way for you to become more intuitive is to just ask your clients questions where they would have to talk about themselves. Thanks, this is a good tip. I'm trying to form the habit of meeting my potential customers in real life, not only online, and asking them questions. There's a method I'm learning to survey audiences called "Ask Method" by Ryan Levesque, in order to understand better your audience (the thing is, I think I understand the… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/18 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Autists vs BorderlinesThanks for your reply Heathcliff! Don't worry, good ideas and advice don't have to correlate with age. I feel absolutely qualified to learn from you :) In regards to connecting better with customers in your business? Hire people who possess the qualities you lack. In this case, hire a woman. This is a good tip and actually I've done it. My manager (the person just below me) is a woman. One of her most important task is to tell me when I'm miscalibrating by leaning too much to the rational side, … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/18 11:42 AM |
| 3 | Autists vs BorderlinesOK, I for one commend him and promote his content. Enough? This might be the most important TRP post I've ever read. For me. Different strokes for different folks. The length of the post has nothing to do with quality. If a long, well-structured post seems to people a surmountable wall of text it means this subreddit has become a channel for the masses and brevity and impact have taken the place of quality and usefulness, a la Vine and 2-second cat videos. This post might not appeal to the wide … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/18 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Autists vs BorderlinesHey Heathcliff. Thanks for this post. This might be one of the post that has most resonated with me. Maybe the most, even. You hit me in the gut. I have a question for you, let me try for starters to sum up my case briefly. I'm extremely analytic. Borderline asperger, if not for the fact that I'm also an extrovert, funny outgoing dude, I throw shit all around, tease everyone and so on. I'm also very fit for my age. Mid-low bf and ripped in my early 40s. I really identify with the hyper-male mind… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/18 09:59 AM |
| 8 | Your hair matters significantly to your SMV - do the best you can for it.Agreed. Another shaven & muscled here. Very happy with the result. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 02I would love to read your 1.500 word writing (on animal masculinity, if I haven't misunderstood) Ask yourself why you're attached to the unattractive behaviors, and if it's to the exclusion of attractive ones? I don't really understand this question. In my experience rational thinking, intelligence and so on are not unattractive per se, just "not attractive". One can easily downplay his intelligence in front of women, it's an easy thing to do. So you can showcase first your more primal traits. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/18 09:42 PM |
| 6 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 02Great comment. Got me thinking. I'm a fan of self improvement. It's improvement of the rational self. The neocortex if you will. Critical thinking, rationality, emotional intelligence, mindfulness, mindset and beliefs... But I am also a fan of lifting. Getting better at lifting, MMA and sex is improvement of the animal self. And of course girls are attracted, most of all, to your animal side. Not your rational, evolved side. There's absolutely no reason why anyone couldn't develop both. But you'… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/18 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Why we should openly talk about a certain 'mysterious' aspect of realityThis is the Reticular Activating System at work. It matches external reality with internal thoughts, acting like a filter, a "radar" of sorts: http://danpouliot.com/blog/2012/06/you-get-more-of-whatever-you-think-about/ Nothing magical. There's no "Law of Attraction" at work. It's just your neurobiology doing its work. The OP is between broscience and new age quackery. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/18 11:31 AM |
| 7 | I white-knighted and paid the price... Never be the white knight.sharing mistakes is useful for the community so that we all can learn from yours (and you, through writing it down, reinforce the lesson in your brain) trolls who come and shame on people that share mistakes are incentivizing other posters to not share. so thanks for sharing. and fuck trolls. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/18 06:37 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread March 21Cool, hehe. Flying solo is an insightful experience. My modus operandi for night time, if I have to go solo, is to go frequently to some club that I like, and that has a cool crowd, and get to know the regulars. Maybe not optimal but has worked nicely for me in the past. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 10:42 PM |
| 4 | Sex parties and sex clubs could be the next level of game: How to think about non-monogamyHey qx4758, thanks for this insightful comment. You seem more knowledgeable than me in the lifestyle, even if it's from a couple you know. Mind if I ask you a question? They will know if you just hired a hooker for the evening I've always wondered how can I notice this. I mean, obvious cases are obvious, but I'd like to go one step beyond for this calibration. Any tips to notice this? (OTOH, some may argue that it doesn't really matter, since you're basically fucking a hot escort for free, but h… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Sex parties and sex clubs could be the next level of game: How to think about non-monogamyYeah you're right. Anger above all. Younger age, a majority of people from the USA - a culture with christian roots (monogamy) and fear of "being a cuck" complete the picture. Nevertheless I would like to have a place to discuss TRP swinging et al. Heck, even a single thread without moralizing would do. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 07:37 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread March 21I'm not getting anything done if I don't have a circle. Other people will give you good advice on creating a social circle. I would like to point to you that this is a limiting belief. You might want to do some introspection to find out why this happens and what can you do to change it. You should go out and create that social circle, ofc, but it'd be better if you don't need it to get stuff done. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 07:33 PM |
| 10 | askTRP Megathread March 21Like everything else, you accept and adapt. A more accurate belief could be: "Women are less likely to cheat on attractive, masculine, iron-solid frame guys, so it's in my interest to either achieve that and/or not expect loyalty" | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 07:27 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread March 21If you like thinking, probably your branch of procrastination is to live in your head for a long time before starting. IOW your problem is not about persisting, but about starting. The trick? Do not think. When about to start, just start. Two tips for that: Mindfulness help. Subdivide the first task in such smaller taks that the first three are so easy that you are ashamed of not starting them. E.g. you gotta send a mail, subtask 1: open your mail client. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 07:25 PM |
| 4 | askTRP Megathread March 21Overthinking. He might get the hottest babe (s), you might gess her a-little-less-hot-but-still-hot friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 07:23 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread March 21Personal choice. Knowing full well that if you choose "family man" you're swimming against the current. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 07:19 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread March 21Came to say this. I've done this and it worked. Yeah. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 07:17 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread March 21On any source of knowledge, accept what resonates iwth you, reject what you don't like, and adapt it to your own characteristics (paraphrasing Bruce Lee). Roosh has sound advice, but it's pickup artistry. You'd need also to grow from the inside out (lift, frame, finances, status...) My favorite game blogger is Chase Amante. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 07:17 PM |
| 8 | Sex parties and sex clubs could be the next level of game: How to think about non-monogamyAddendum: it seems impossible to have a level-headed, rational discussion on swinging here in TRP. Hell, even one guy made a non-monogamy TRP subforum, for threesomes and that. The moment I mentioned me and my partner hunted for girls or couples, morality ensued: "no, that's bad, if there's another dick you're a cuck". Yeah right. For instance I don't do MFM, for reasons, but I am able to hold a rational debate on that. For being a promiscuous-reality based subreddit, it's strangely full of mora… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Sex parties and sex clubs could be the next level of game: How to think about non-monogamyTrees, by Whisper, might be one of the best posts on this forum, ever: http://archive.is/hDBm6 I will never obey or enforce upon others a one-sided social contract | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 06:24 PM |
| 13 | Sex parties and sex clubs could be the next level of game: How to think about non-monogamyThis is an unfortunate reality. Swinger clubs full of creepy 50-sthgs with horrendous physical shape. Went once to one, never again. In my country there's a private website where you can see profiles which usually have body shots, so you can see more or less the physical shape of the girl/couple (except faces ofc). So you can contact people around your hotness level. BTW as usual the threshold for physical shape is way stricter for men hehe not even swingers can escape reality lol. I suppose in … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 05:23 PM |
| 4 | Sex parties and sex clubs could be the next level of game: How to think about non-monogamyI've done this. With a couple bi gfs, and now since I don't do monogamy anymore, with plates. It's grabbing low-hanging fruit. And it's fine for me. Some people don't like it, won't understand it. It's OK. Just please don't rationalize ("don't hamster" in jargon) that because you don't like it's a bad thing because personal development, morals or whatnot. I go for the high-hanging fruit which requires me to lift, to develop my masculinity, to master frame and game. It makes me a better man. And … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 05:16 PM |
| 14 | monogamous males/u/Mattyanon and others have said it countless times, and I thought it was a dead horse, but based on the most upvoted comments on this thread it bears repeating: She can fuck hotter than she can get to commit. She will rationalize that a man who commits has lower value that a man who doesn't. Now you can purplepill this post from here to Mars with your morals and all. The above sentence keeps matching with reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/18 08:12 PM |
| 2 | monogamous malesThis comment has three upvotes (incl. my own). A comment above says this: dread games, which by definition only works with shitty girls who have weak character. 21 upvotes right now. yeah, this sub is going purple pill all the way down. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/18 08:08 PM |
| 10 | Get out of your friendzone right nowHave you ever seen HB trying to pick up some other HB because her man wants 3some or something? That is the lamest thing ever, girls suck at pick up. Heh. I've done this multiple times (I screen for bisex girls and go tandem-hunting with them). Girls absolutely suck at pickup. They self-sabotage themselves in ways an absolute newbie wouldn't. And the thing is... they don't need not to. They're girls. They play on easy mode, even when picking up other girls. Some of the fastest escalations of my … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/18 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Rule Reminder: Why keeping RP to yourself will save you trouble.Not from any other internet nick of mine (not eager of being doxxed). For me the story of Faust is a metaphor for red pill teachings, and the ultimate freedom from needs in order to achieve peace of mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Rule Reminder: Why keeping RP to yourself will save you trouble.And don't think men will support you either. Unless they're already fully unplugged And maybe not even then. If I saw a guy spitting RP truths in public and getting flak for it, I would try and talk to him, in private and after the event, and briefly explain why that was a bad idea. Once. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Ex girlfriend admits to opiate useUpvoted cos hindsight is 20/20 Don't be sorry. I get you, man. We want the best for everyone, we want to be protectors, take care of people. I've been in your shoes. You can't be Captain save-a-hoe but don't be sorry for being kind-hearted. Just learn to better calibrate who is deserving of your help. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 09:25 PM |
| 1 | PSA - what is a plate ?Thanks for the reply MattyAnon, Yeah "hamster" is a fun analogy. The problem, like with all metaphors, is when they get overextended, they start to get leaky. Like those posts that start with: "Hey, men also hamster, but in other areas! Here's proof!" Go figure. The well known and well documented phenomenon of rationalization works in all human beings. Who'd have thought? My point is, apart for being a bit aspie here for the sake of discussion, is that fun terms are leaky abstractions and when y… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/18 02:07 PM |
| -1 | PSA - what is a plate ?This. FWB is a great term. FWBs can be upgraded to MLTRs, a term from the fastseducion days, acronym for "Multiple Long-Term Relatipnships". I.e. you treat them like girlfriends, but you have several and don't promise them exclusivity. One of my pet peeves with TRP has always been jargon. Why use "plate" which is an obscure metaphor when you can say FWBs or MLTRs or even yet "(non-exclusive) girlfriends"? Why use "hamster", another obscure metaphor, when there's a perfectly accurate psychologica… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/18 01:35 PM |
| 3 | I'm a hideous fuckAlso: I've taken the red pill and I completely get it Not really. TRP says that, unlike women, we men don't get away with breaking rules because of feels and wants. As you will undoubtedly soon discover. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/18 01:26 PM |
| 3 | I'm a hideous fuckPost questions in asktrp. If you say this, then proceed to answer you're incentivizing undesired behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/18 01:25 PM |
| 7 | I'm a hideous fuckDo not ask personal questions on TRP Do not answer personal questions on TRP. Come on guys, it ain't that hard. Reported. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/18 01:23 PM |
| 5 | "The Talk" is Socially Retarded, Do Not Tolerate It.Good post. Agreed with everything. When I start receiving "the talk" I start investing less in that specificic MTRL since I know she's going to get pushier down the road. Once, to a very specific and tech-minded MTLR I had to verbalize something similar to the content of your post. So she was kinda blue-pilly herself. But she got it fast and upped up her feminine game and lasted a long time (> 2 years on my rotation, with special privileges). Beware also of the boling frog. I'm referring to the … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 06:47 AM |
| 4 | Focussing on Pussy isnt Beta BehaviorWhat the hell is broken with you guys today? I'm reading more fallacies in this thread today than I ever thought possible. I've replied to some but I'm done now. You are distorting so much the words of stacy's post and comments, stating implications that he's not positing at all, that I don't believe it's even possible you've thought this out. And along these lines, a boatload of fallacies in a lot of replies on this thread. So it's not you, it's half the people here. /u/stacysmomlovesme has str… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 04:53 PM |
| 4 | Focussing on Pussy isnt Beta BehaviorYou come here, distort his words, build up a straw man then get all reactive when called on it. Logic please? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Focussing on Pussy isnt Beta BehaviorYour point seems to be that getting sex should be an action, not an addiction. As in you do it because you want it, not because you need the fix. And it applies to everything in life, really. And I agree with you. (Not really against OP's postulate, OP is against whiteknightly moralizing) | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Focussing on Pussy isnt Beta BehaviorThey might. Or they might not. Sometimes I pass on easy sex because I want to do whatever else. Sometimes I'm on the mood and go hunting with a vengeance. Own your choices. The point I take home is that it's not a shame to do something for pussy. As long as it ain't for that one pussy | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Working on your looks is much more important than working on your gameWhile I agree with both of your comments, I have it incommensurately easier when I am more attractive and get more IOIs, to disarm myself, than to overcome my worse looks by gaming. And, dare I say so, my game is tight. Having done both, I prefer the former. Easier. Source: I've been a fatso, or ripped, several times in my life, due to backsliding because of workloads, injuries and so. Also a disclaimer: never been a 9.5-10. Maybe oscillating between 6-8. So my mileage may vary. Just wanted to t… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/18 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Girl denies sex after we have future arrangements towards it... SHIT-TEST?Talking about having sex in the future doesn't work 99.9% of the time. Why? Because agreeing to do something at some point in the future is logical. Women don't operate in that wavelenght, moreso in regards to sex&relationships. So don't do that. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 09:21 AM |
| 224 | My buddy's newfound success caused his (now ex) girlfriend to lose her mind.Yes, this is it. Translating it to a more process-oriented analysis, her behaviour was an overreaction to a supernormal stimulus. Like, in, you drink 10 coffees at once and get ultra excited and hyperactive (or do like Fry, drink 100 and stop time). A woman usually reacts to a supernormal stimulus from a lover by having sex with him immediately. Like meeting a Chad in a disco and in 5 minutes fucking him raw in the restrooms. And she reacts to a supernormal stimulus from a provider by trying to … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 06:07 PM |
| 6 | How to Thrive in Upside Down Clown WorldMen are like a GPS. They have their end destination as "Get married" and no matter what they do, even if they come to TRP, the path continues to re-calculate and re-adjust to marriage. Fuck, this hurt. Not for me, but because of my unsalvageable friends. You, sir, are a genius. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Just how much do looks matter then?Looks * status * game Do your best effort on at least one. Neglect none of them. Skill growth is logarithmic, i.e. has diminishing returns: it's easy to get above average on all of them (because the average person is lazy as fuck); it's hard to maximize one, and even harder to maximize all three. Newbie gains are awesome in each of them, so yes, work on your looks, you'll get an awesome return on your investment. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/18 10:43 AM |
| 4 | Game for extremely successful men: what changes?I don't like confrontational answers, but there's no sweeter way to say this, so I'll say it confrontationally: You are too stubborn for your own good. Let me recommend you this article: http://www.girlschase.com/content/are-you-unique-special-individual-youre-probably-missing-basics However, you will do whatever you please, so peace out. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 05:27 PM |
| 9 | Notes from the book 'Deep Work' ( My fav on productivity). 1. Remove all distractions before commencing any deep work, hide in a cave if you must 2. Be consistent with your work 3. Don't Multi-task (it doesn't work) 4. It's not meant to be easy but do it anyway.When using time blocks, you don't have to stop at 25 min if you desire to keep working. This is my case most of the time. Any productivity system, such as these, or GTD, shall be adapted to your specific situation, and to whatever you are most comfortable with (while being very productive, of course ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Unofficial TRP discord community, The Tribe, is welcoming mature red pillers!Fuck LOL at that page. It's pretty accurate, and that's dangerous! :D hehe I have a dog. I love submarines. I live in Helsinki. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 08:57 PM |
| 1 | GF into swingers and threesome, is porn ruining the relationship?wow. so judgment. many bitterness. very next? haha. my take? accept. adapt. enjoy. I deliberately screen for bisexuality for my MTLRs. FMF's are awesome. Or if you don't like that, screen her out. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 08:37 PM |
| 5 | Game for extremely successful men: what changes?your comment is awesome I have realized that in business/entrepreneurship, I've splatted against this wall of "what I thought it would be" vs "what it really is". "It ain't what you don't know that gets you into trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so." - Mark Twain | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/18 07:43 PM |
| 5 | College rising star quarterback kills himself - Is it really about game / frame / etc.? Is there something TRP isn't willing to admit?Again: looks * status * game maximize one or two. neglect none or suffer the consequences inner game is a part of game a clear mind and solid beliefs about yourself and the world are critical components of inner game | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/18 10:24 AM |
| 3 | Don't Rely too much on your SMVyes, I agree with you looks-status-game is a triad where the impact of each component depends on context and the particular nuances of a given girl's psychology so your best bet is to improve each of them to the limit of your ability. also personal preference: some people love the gym, others love achieving fame or money, others love the challenge of pickup artistry. so some people will excel in one area, but it's useful to work in all three what doesn't really makes sense is to focus too much o… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/18 08:32 PM |
| 8 | Don't Rely too much on your SMVLooks and status are products. Looks signal good genes as a product. Status signals resources as a product. Game is marketing. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/18 08:43 PM |
| 6 | Protectors vs providers, AFBB. Killing the blue pill dream.The post is awesome, I would only argue semantics like sendek888 over here. I don't know who coined the term "protector" (maybe from the studies you mention?), and it has some logical sense when you picture a strong warrior protecting a tribe, but it can also sound like a provider. Maybe some other term like fighter or lover can evoke better the alpha archetype. David DeAngelo back in the day wrote about the difference between "lovers" and "providers". This may sound nitpicky but our language, t… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/18 09:30 AM |
| 5 | Back to Basics : Hypergamy doesn't care... about women either.Hypergamy is not a hamster, it's a honey badger! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg The post is very good. A super alpha male is a super stimulus for a woman looking for a mate, same way a high carb processed meal is a super stimulus for a person looking for something to eat. If one does not exert self-control, one can damage his/her own life with super stimuli that activate our pleasure receptors but are bad for us on the long run (alcohol, videogames, etc.) And we all know how much se… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/18 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Women: Not worth an investmentWhich sounds awesome, considering I'm starting my 40s now and doing my best to take care of my body, my mind and my finances Also I have a baby face, people usually say I'm 35, this used to be a curse in my 20s but is a real blessing now :) And absolutely no desire to get married, in case anyone wonders if you get "marriage-rabies" with age | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/18 01:20 AM |
| 27 | Women: Not worth an investmentNO. DO NOT MARRY. Why do you guys keep saying stuff like "don't consider marriage until your 30s"? It's not that suddenly it becomes a better deal. Besides, male SMV peaks at 35 and declines slowly from that age. Don't marry. At all. Ever. It's a stupid idea. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 05:24 PM |
| 45 | Here's how to fuck one girl/week from swipe apps in 2018 with little time investmentThis. TRP is full of belligerent nitpicky aspies, who when presented with actionable information are too eager to cry "sour grapes". Whoever is playing the field these days knows for a fact that night game is all but dead as the chicks have moved to Tinder to hookup. You can adapt or you can cry for the spilled milk. I already do many of the things OP says in the post but again there are some useful tips on things I hadn't noticed, so thanks /u/corsega. One thing: you don't need an external clie… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 12:28 PM |
| 1 | The Angel MotherSelf sufficiency, rather than dependence mastery. One chooses time control, the other chooses mind control. I like your thoughts. Been having a look at your post history, your philosophy resonates with mine at many levels. The honorable one chooses to control time itself so that the universe will bend to his will, noble or cruel. The wicked will pull people under their curtains and pull their strings for each person underneath its finger. Either/or? Why not both? Why can't someone steer his own … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 11:20 PM |
| 2 | The Angel MotherI haven't said females are stupid. I have said that moms can be as stupid as any other female can be. I have also said that a dad can be as beta as any other man. That doesn't mean all dads are beta, does it? In retrospective, I think "solipsistic" might have been a more accurate word than "stupid" for this specific example. That doesn't detract from the fact that in this sub there is a subset of readers that are always nitpicking and quarrelling just because. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 11:11 PM |
| 2 | The Angel MotherI said this in your original comment and I said it here too, you've summed up in a sentence the oxymoron of how women "think emotionally": They generally do not hold onto their arguments, but consistently re-direct focus on the present circumstances of their emotional state, rather than disclosing (and taking responsibility for) the root cause of it in the first place. This is gold. As an experiment, I've just enunciated this to a plate of mine (I have 4, so no abundance worries). She's into sel… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 09:57 PM |
| 2 | The Angel MotherMoms can be utterly stupid like any other female (and for that purpose, a dad can be as beta, or stubbornly ego-driven as any other male). Having given birth to you does not immediately confers her infallibility. However, living under their roof gives them power over you. Which, if you are smarter than them, is kind of a handicap. A smart son can learn to handle his stupid parents like a smart employee can learn to handle his stupid boss. Your relationships with your mother is different then wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 09:45 PM |
| 4 | I implemented TRP doctrine for two years. Here is the results.This comment is awesome. I'm saving it for posterity. This is how women "think" emotionally, and you have deployed an uncannily accurate analysis of this. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Your Competition Online: 100 to 1, Offline: 3 to 1.False dilemma. Online game gives you quantity. Live game gives you quality, specially if you have some kind of status. No reason at all to not do both, unless you're so drowning in quality pussy that you only want to reach for the top hanging fruit. In that case, go ahead my man. A someone posted here recently, you can swipe tinder while in the shitter, so why not to? P.S.: as a bonus, for me (this is my experience only), using Tinder has given me another reason to keep working hard in my looks.… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/17 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Cheating wife tells her lover (me) how loyal she is (reposted 3 years later)Yeah, congrats on your birthday :) I read your comment history before the main TRP page every day! | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/17 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Destroy Nations/Civilizations and other uncomfortable truthsThey'll be. It's a matter of time. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/17 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Are You a Lover or a Fighter? That Depends... Is Your Goal Attracting Women, or Intimidating Men?It might be astroturfing, but for instance I'm a Chase Amante reader (a fan, but not affiliated in any way) and this article came out several weeks ago, and IMO this one is very very good. Some people think that being alpha entails being the most masculine possible, "raised by wolves in the forest" way, and in my experience this article is right, the ultra-masculine types get a lot of action, but the balanced behavior between masculine and sensitive gets even more. A very nuanced calibration. Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/17 09:30 AM |
| 1 | [CA] Prenup for couple with significant difference in earningThe workaround is have children but don't offer the mother money to break up the family, ie marriage Yes, yes and yes! How come this always shows up in marriage threads? "boo hoo, how can you have children if you are not married" Children are made by a fertile male and a fertile female having unprotected sex. Marriage is a social construct that incentivizes the woman to break the family for cash and prizes. This should be a non-issue by now and this undead horse should stop being beaten. Do Not … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 11:09 PM |
| 1 | It's quite disheartening that we rarely hear the story of the older bachelor with his shit together.Early 40s here too. I was going to write a long winded story on how I ended up in my 40s and single (and never divorced) but the TL;DR is: I've tried LTRs. For more than a decade. I saw the betaization attempts and nexted them when they were crossing boundaries. Women always do that. They have no clue on how to maintain a long (emphasis on long) term relationship. If you go beta they lose attraction, if you're untamable they go crazy. So that's it. I don't feel lonely (mainly due to my job, I in… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 01:40 PM |
| 5 | iPhone is the best phone because even though it's overpriced, has subpar tech compared to Samsung, and the battery drains rapidly, the iPhone wins bigly in the most important category: Perception with women.Hi there! I don't have anything against your post, in fact it's quite an interesting fact. And I agree, perception trumps reality (for women and herd males at the very least). I'm just saying that after discovering a new piece of reality, it's up to us to use it to our advantage. BTW, in my country almost everyone uses exclusively whatsapp, I don't know if it shows different colors for different OSs (I think not) | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 04:05 PM |
| 6 | iPhone is the best phone because even though it's overpriced, has subpar tech compared to Samsung, and the battery drains rapidly, the iPhone wins bigly in the most important category: Perception with women.I have an older galaxy S3 with a broken back case and I make a point of showing it up to girls, only after I've shown value and most times after I've already made out with her. Why? Because I want to screen out golddiggers fast as hell, that's why. Ideally before they see my car (convertible) and my flat (huge). Edit: also when they have an iPhone I tease then about me being a pragmatist, they being posh, let's quarrel about that and so on. Turn every situation into your advantage, be water my f… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 03:53 PM |
| 2 | AWALT is for betas. Alphas see the beauty of female novelty.The first step to making you hate something is making it homogenous. I'm not sure if I agree with your original post but this sentence is gold. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/17 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Fucking on the first tinder date.Don't overcomplicate it. Create a fake FB account, just upload your best pictures and use that for tinder. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/17 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Women Should be The Least of Your ProblemsNot an economist, but I like finances and I try to invest my money in a smart way. When I learnt them, I found these concepts very useful for describing indicators for any system (life, career, money, sex, weight... you name it). I found out that people like to measure lagging indicators when it's more useful to measure the leading ones (or both, of course). | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/17 03:18 PM |
| 29 | Women Should be The Least of Your ProblemsLeading indicators vs lagging indicators A leading indicator comes before (inputs) and a lagging indicator comes after (outputs). The frequency, time and quality of your workouts are leading indicators. The muscles you get are lagging indicators. In your business, the strategy, money you (intelligently) pour in, and the smartness and industriousness of yourself and your employees' work are leading indicators. The number of sales and money you end up with, lagging indicators. The amount of smart … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/17 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Fucking on the first tinder date.This. Sometimes some guys get swamped in logistics in a way that I can't really comprehend. I am shorter --> look stronger + high heel boots + shoe lifts I am older --> lose weight & lift as to look way younger than your counterparts, then make a fake FB profile That's it. I think these are pretty straightforward. It's not rocket science. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/17 01:32 PM |
| 14 | Bitches. Ain't. Shit!OP, you are receiving excellent feedback in this thread (albeit in a combative/condescending tone, which is one of my pet peeves with TRP, the one-upmanship) And you are refusing to listen to this feedback. I'll try to explain my analysis of the situation in an objective way, but just because I don't like behaving aggressively, not because I think this way you might listen (but might be useful to some readers). The big problem here is OP's frame. When OP says "Wow, I wonder if anyone's ever gush… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/17 11:27 AM |
| 9 | Don't bother with her if you already lost frame. Not worth the time or effort.Agreed with both quicklogaccount's and GoblinSupply's comments. If you do not have experience, better to let it go instead of obsessing. If you have some experience, you can experiment with different no-contact times to see how and when can you reset the frame. If you already know what you're doing and you have abundance mentality, you can let it go because you have other girls, but if and when she contacts you, you've got the tools to reel her in. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Stop Trying To Cover Your Neediness Up With Your Words.I also had to learn it the hard way. After ~15 years into the game, 2 LTRs and ~40 notches even. One of the most entrenched beliefs to change. Verbally setting the expectations and rules of the relationship. Verbally leading. Verbally setting boundaries. Verbally announcing the imminent crossing of boundaries. Verbally announcing the consequences for having crossed said boundaries. All of this, for nothing. Like talking to the wall. The ancients had a laconic sentence for this that I should tatt… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 04:46 PM |
| 10 | ULTIMATE LOOKSMAXING GUIDEAs of lately we've seen a surge of post around here telling people to develop a thick skin and hold frame through the shit shooting that is this sub. As in, if you can't hold men's shit test, how are you going to handle women's? I want to make the case to the mods and ECs that this is not really the case. This post is: On topic (rule 0) Non-trivial Well researched (at least on the parts I know about, ofc as it has a lot of content) Practical, useful Has a lot of info (any sensible non-aspie pers… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/17 02:43 PM |
| 3 | ULTIMATE LOOKSMAXING GUIDEThanks for the guide, it's very thorough. This is one of the times when I miss photos. This would make for an awesome blog post with pictures (maybe at trp.red you can do that?). I've heard wonders about philips zoom teeth whitening, anyone has tried it? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/17 01:44 PM |
| 3 | 16 YEAR OLDS NOW BRAINWASHED BY FEMINISMDamn you're good for your age. Let me recommend you the blog "Wall Street Playboys". I think it will fit your mindset and you will benefit a lot from it at your young age. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/17 05:49 PM |
| 5 | 16 YEAR OLDS NOW BRAINWASHED BY FEMINISMActually I think it's not useful to deal such a comeback to a person in a position of power. Law 1 - never outshine the master. Once ages ago when I was young and inexperienced, but already a thriving seduction apprentice, I threw a powerful comeback to my boss of that time. His attitude changed overnight - for the worst ofc. Not that it mattered in the long run (many positions and bosses since then) but I learnt that lesson. Your comeback is damn good anyway :D | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/17 05:45 PM |
| 3 | 16 YEAR OLDS NOW BRAINWASHED BY FEMINISMWell done on holding your thoughts. We men value justice and truth and when we see injustice and falseness our blood boils. Not only what you did was the most useful course of action to reach your goals, which it is. But also serves as a training to learn to control your boiling rage, to keep it under the surface, to use it instead to sharpen your sword (build a successful career/business, train hard, keep your harem and so on). Once you are on top you'll have the last laugh. Well done sir. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/17 05:25 PM |
| 0 | Shift in the social seismic plates-Shoe lifts look far worse than being short This is not true, according to my experience, as long as the lifts are not easily noticeable (e.g. wearing boots instead of shoes) | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/17 05:15 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I will never settle down or start a familyYou can start here and then search for related terms here, in AskTRP, and in Married Red Pill: http://archive.is/pKmGr IMHO surrogate mothers are the safest way. But since I don't want kinds I haven't investigated this in depth. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/17 07:43 PM |
| 6 | The Red Pill is Uncompromising RejectionThe thing is, girls might need a helper to save them from their disastrous life decisions (from our perspective), but what they want is a sexy alpha male to fuck them silly. As in, people don't buy what they need, they buy what they want. E.g. people might need therapy to quit smoking but what they buy most are cigarettes. So, in order to help a woman, this is what I do. I don't claim this to be perfect, and suggestions are welcome. 1 - You gotta be the sexy alpha male they're attracted to. 2 - … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/17 07:33 PM |
| 29 | The Red Pill is Uncompromising RejectionIf you do not have emotional control over an area of your life, then you can't compromise. An alcoholic that can't stop after 2 drinks and ends up blacking out every time shall have exactly zero drinks. A recovering nice guy shall show exactly zero provider attributes to be able to get out of the trenches. No compromises. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/17 06:06 PM |
| 5 | The Red Pill is Uncompromising RejectionI'm not feminist enough for her to date these days It's not what marks on her santa claus checklist you hit, it's how many tingles you give her. If you gave her the tingles then this would not be a problem. But I did more for her (no bitterness, love her) than 95% of the so-called male feminists out there. It's not what you do for her, it's how many tingles you give her. Waste of time, she wouldn't hear me. Women are only compliant to accept your leadership (or pretend to) when they are after yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/17 05:50 PM |
| 20 | The Red Pill is Uncompromising RejectionNature and reality gives precisely zero fucks about your delusional beliefs, and has a habit of forcefully shattering flimsy belief systems into the million shards of brittle rationalizations they are constructed out of. This is the beauty of truth. I'm saving these words to keep them in mind, forever. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/17 05:35 PM |
| 1 | "Why so many women cheat on their husbands"Denver, I also prefer to be in a liberal couple and live the swinger lifestyle. Last one didn't work out, because reasons, but I'd like to try again (next time I pick up a bisexual proactive girl). Is there any place where we can discuss these things? I saw the RP non-monogamy forum, wonder if it's a good place to talk about this. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/17 10:52 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I will never settle down or start a familyI go out and pick up girls in bars at 40. The trick? I don't look like 40 at all. Also, I'm not sure what is your question or point here, if at all. If you want a family there are some good written redpilly info on how to achieve that. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/17 10:21 PM |
| 1 | LTR withholding sex on 1 year anniversaryYes, from my perspective this is a boundary test, also an attempt to box you as a provider (given that it happened at a meaningful date), it's the start of the betaization process. Your countermove is to demonstrate (show, not (only) tell), that you cannot be tamed. Other posters have given good ideas on how. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/17 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Sugar-bowlThis is a more insightful observation than many commenters make it out to be. My opinion: if I have to exert the mental and emotional price to micro-lead a woman in every little detail of her life... for the same price I want to be with a lot of them. Having a LTR like this is like having a child that never grows up. Tiresome. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/17 05:21 PM |
| 8 | To Each His OwnThings are what they are. And "the red pill" being a metaphor from "The Matrix" meaning to see reality for what it is, instead of for what we want it to be, it could be beneficial to see even this forum for what it is, instead of what people pretend it to be. This forum is useful. This forum reveals ugly truths. This forum can be a trove of insanely powerful information. And this forum is bitter. It is, it's full of people in the anger phase. And it's ok, we must let the anger out, after being r… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/17 10:58 AM |
| 6 | Part 1: Cunt woman tries to steal everything from me and make me homeless! Part 2 (coming soon): Single Mother beats my brother like a drum. Screams at the top of her lungs in a hotel from dusk till dawn. White knights try to save her! AWALTWow. Just wow. I thought I had one of the worst breakups of my life, and my life is a walk in the park compared to yours. Best of luck to you pal! For the future, if I were you (and if I were me too, cos this is what I'm doing), I'd try and establish a proper life structure, baby steps, but build something that is resilient and that cannot be taken away from you, by noone. No girl, family member or business partner should be able to take you to the cleaners. Don't know if you read self-developme… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/17 06:34 PM |
| 5 | Study: women won't save you if you had a heart attack during sexI suppose this is how "beta widows" are made :P | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/17 09:25 AM |
| 3 | I've got 8 months of complete freedom. Be ruthless.This. You can have a side business and also lift if you optimize your times (an efficient routine, train at home/on weekends, gym near home or work). | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Any advice next fellas?She ended things, so it's up to you to take back your life. Worst problem with breakups are the longing emotions. So try not to do anything that triggers those longing emotions: Don't see her for a while, if at all. Couple months minimum. Hide all her pictures and other stuff that can remind you of her. Focus on something you like and/or something useful: gym, your career, a musical instrument. Set some challenges for yourself. Once you're ready, start picking up girls again. A trick I learned f… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 06:04 PM |
| 12 | Considering going to prostitute to lose virginitypersonal questions go in asktrp | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/17 06:00 PM |
| 6 | men are increasingly undergoing vasectomy's to avoid having kidsAfter some research to get it done myself, I stumbled into its secondary effects: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-vasectomy_pain_syndrome quote: The most robust study of post-vasectomy pain, [...] found a rate of 14.7% reported new-onset scrotal pain at 7 months after vasectomy A 14.7% chance that my balls will hurt when having an erection, having sex or even doing sports... too much risk for me. Have you guys more information/experience on vasectomy complications? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/17 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Boundary enforcement with the Stink EyeThanks, this is a very good post. Don't know why it doesn't have more upvotes. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/17 06:11 PM |
| 3 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.This. I won't invite another girl to move in so that she can occupy most of the space and I have to retreat to my safe zone in my own home. I'm stealing it: "why have a man cave when I can have a castle?" | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/17 05:31 PM |
| 1 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.It's fine if you think my reasoning is wrong, but I assure you my intentions are genuinely to get at the truth of the issue rather than being argumentative or confrontational. Hey thanks TRebirthP. As of lately I see a lot of people in TRP with the only goal of out-alpha the guy before, so I am kind of wary when I see a barrage of questions. My mistake. you are talking about a singular moment of emotion. When it comes to the nagging and all the other behaviors that lead to that kind of break up,… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/17 12:17 PM |
| 3 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.Exactly. Thanks for the comment, this is what I meant. Our basic strategy as reality-enlightened men is to spark and maintain attraction from the girls we like (be them ONS, MLTRs or LTRs), and the easiest way is to accept this nature of theirs, and structure our life, thoughts and actions to our benefit, maximizing the chances of them staying attracted to us, and minimizing the chances of them seeing our weak spots which make their attraction fade out. Every time you pass a commitment point - e… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 04:12 PM |
| 1 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.I'm building my own business from scratch. In hindsight, I should have gone to work elsewhere, like a coworking space, or a library, or any other place with wifi. As you've said going to a starbucks and meeting girls there would have been best :) Oh well no use crying for the spilled milk. Thanks for your insightful comments shinola_ | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 03:48 PM |
| 1 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.Why does this difference matter when, in the end, even the most compassionate women can wreck havoc on a man's life It does matter a lot. Good natured people, when getting carried away by instincts, usually try to fix things afterwards. Of course the proper course of action is to structure a life (a home, a business) unassailable by other people, be them good hearted or not. Thus, no more cohabitation (my original point). if a man screwed you over in a business deal and stole or cost you $1,000 … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 03:39 PM |
| 92 | Some nice statistics about US population - is it easy to be a 0.1% man?And the older you are, the less competition you have. Basically from what I've seen, the majority of 40+ yo men are out of the game. Even if they are single they don't lift or take care of their social skills. Every girl consistently says I'm 5 years younger than I really am. Of course, if you go for really younger girls (I've been with a 21 yo last year, and another 21 yo this year, among others more near my age), the stronger your competition, those younger men they tend to hook up with. But w… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 02:03 PM |
| 2 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.I don't blame women for being women. As I don't blame my cat for occasionally biting me when playing. It's in their nature and to a great extent they can't help it. There's a difference between getting carried away by their instincts and having an agenda. Decades ago, when I was a young Average Frustrated Chump, I had a GF who moved in because she was thrown out of her parents'. She broke up with me not long after, and tried to stay there, living rent-free and going out many nights to meet other… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 01:19 PM |
| 7 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.Very insightful reply JamesSkepp, here's my take on this: I can't believe she doesn't know or at least suspects that you will turn out not to be "the perfect man" and that she will desire other men just as she desires them now. Therefore I'm almost certain that from a woman's standpoint, by default (as in premeditated, conscious, deliberate, with full knowledge), marriage is based on lying to the man she marries. From what I have seen, there are many women who are actually deluded when they meet… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 12:24 PM |
| 1 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.This is good advice, and to some extent this is what I tried to do: spend some time outside the house, blowing some steam in other activities (mainly lifting), meeting friends and so on. In the last LTR, as we both worked from home, and thus spent a lot of time here, it was just a little bit effective. But yes, it's useful advice. Yes, you need to be a rock in the presence of your woman close to 100% of the time. It's much easier when you see her 2-4 days a week and the rest of the time you can … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 12:08 PM |
| 9 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.I have no interest in having children. As I mentioned in another answer, as I am 40, this is unlikely to change in the future. If and when that happens, I'd try to set up a resilient family arrangement, or through a surrogate mother. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 12:04 PM |
| 3 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.I don't like children, and as I am 40 already, this is unlikely to change in the future. So, no children for me. YMMV of course, but I have no clue how to have children in a redpill way. Surrogate mothers, as you say, are a possibility, though they are banning it in many countries as we speak (the system can't give reproductive alternatives to men). | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 12:00 PM |
| 0 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.Weird that when you confront them over some unacceptable behavior, even if you don't insult or make any other judgement of value over her, and just keep to the facts... They start complaining, pouting and crying over your tone of voice... Which tends to make us even angrier because she's not even listening... And thus she enters the victims role, where any misdeed on her part is balanced with your evil mansplaining... So now that we're even, no reparation or behavior change is needed... If you t… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/17 11:24 PM |
| 10 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.Agreed. This chick leans heavily on the Cluster B / BPD side. While most chicks will increase dissatisfaction, nagging and drama in cohabitation, the rampant cheating and badmouthing is not that common. Fortunately. We don't know the ages of the parties involved. OP, would you care to tell us? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/17 11:18 PM |
| 56 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.Similar to a situation of mine, minus the cheating and badmouthing (that I know of). Instead of that, I saw decreasing compliance, increasing nagging and above all a total and absolute lack of listening, understanding or action taking when discussing the points where I was dissatisfied with their behavior. In fact, I'd change 8 to "Never move in with someone". For me, cohabitation has been the doom of two great relationships with two great girls. Because when you have downs, and everybody has th… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/17 11:01 PM |
| 1 | You want to attract girls? Click here to learn the only thing you need to know.I think alphas also learned it, though earlier in life, so it's fully internalized. Anyhow all views are valid since the pragmatic course of action is to try to become as alpha-like as you can be. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 10:47 AM |
| 3 | What I learned after approaching many, many women.Can't stress how right this comment is. A big BIG problem of guys regarding girls is speculation, mostly due to projection. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Your Main Focus Should Not Be WomenYes HumanSockPuppet, this is exactly what I meant as well with my previous comment. I love personal development, it works for me, it helps me become more attractive. Awesome. You (OP) might love personal development, it might work for you, it helps you become more attractive. Awesome. But there's absolutely no need to get into personal development to have sex with girls. And it might even bother some people that after a lot of personal development their crush goes to suck her dealer's dick inste… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/17 10:46 PM |
| 10 | I'm looking for some tips about going out into the night life alone."are you alone?" "not anymore ;)" | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/17 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Your Main Focus Should Not Be Womenself-improvement should be the cause of one being sexually successful and having successful relationships No. "Shoulds" have no place when describing reality. Your average drug dealer has much more sexual abundance than your average self improvement aficionado. Self development can help you in many areas, including seduction. I'm a self improvement fan, I'm deep into personal productivity and NLP myself. It even helps when connecting with (some) girls. It's useful. It's nowhere near necessary. M… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/17 02:49 PM |
| 9 | Putting the seat down. How to win the war.This. The proper thing is to close the lid because that's how the toilet is supposed to work. Also that way it prevents accidental falling of items inside. And the bathroom looks neater overall. I've been doing this all my life, with or without females around. Doing the functional, effective thing, trumps opinion wars, IMO. YMMV Of course you can leave it up deliberately to piss off a nagging female roomie. Your call. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/17 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Frame: A Crash CourseThe trick here is to switch the focus, your attention. When faced with an unexpected problem, an "incident", you can set your focus on the actions you are taking. Some people call this focusing on the process instead of the outcome. For instance if you get lost it's easier to keep calm if you keep your focus on the process of finding your way, instead of letting your mind wander into extravagant consequences (like someone shooting you). It's nuanced because in both cases you're focusing on the p… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Resubmission - SWALT - A letter to you all from one happy postwall :D"I'm a special butterfly, therefore rules don't apply to me" However it's been invaluable to read /u/MattyAnon 's comments. I have the thread saved for posterity. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 04:42 PM |
| 14 | Great book on holding frame and negotiating; 'Never split the difference' By Christopher VossThis is a very insightful book on negotiations, and I used it to some success after just having read it. It's a very different approach from the MBA-like standard negotiation philosophy, like the famous Harvard Negotiation Institute for instance. I think it's useful to know both, but for me Voss's negotiation framework rings more natural and it's easier to apply. I also recommend subscribing to his company's (The Black Swan Group) newsletter, some interesting tips in each issue. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 09:04 AM |
| 5 | How can I get a good physique when I am injured?For back issues read Dr. Stuart McGill's work, it's awesome and I've managed to rehab myself with a lower back protrusion (L5-S1) up to the point where I don't feel pain. I recommend starting with the free papers and articles you can find on the net, then follow with the book "Back Mechanic". For tendons you might want to look at the studies where they found that eccentric exercise strengthens tendons. I've used them to train with tendinitis and to remove pain as well. BTW Tendinitis should be c… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 12:37 AM |
| 8 | Have any of you read Doc Love's "The system" and what were your opinions on itHeh. This brings the memories. Doc Love was the first stuff I read back in the day and it opened my eyes to the real nature of women. I remember it as a lighter, more palatable version of the seduction systems I later found. I even downloaded and compiled all his free articles from his original site and passed them to some friends. With the success you could imagine when showing the truth to plugged-in people (none at all). Heh. The memories. If you want to read some powerful stuff without the b… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Been waking up at 5 AM for the past 2 years and it has really changed my life. Here are 5 reasons to get up at 5 AM, and also some tips on how to get started. | Join the 5 AM club.If you take a nap in the middle of the day you can wake up earlier, stay up late. As, say, 6 hr sleep at night and 90 minutes nap, makes for 7.5 hrs total. Also people who do biphasic sleep claim that 4.5 hrs at night (3 sleep cycles) plus one 1.5 nap during the day (1 cycle) is enough. I've tried this with varied subjective results at some periods, but at some point it started conflicting with my schedule, so I stopped. Might try again one of these months when I sort some other pending stuff in… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/17 04:08 PM |
| 10 | Been waking up at 5 AM for the past 2 years and it has really changed my life. Here are 5 reasons to get up at 5 AM, and also some tips on how to get started. | Join the 5 AM club.Wake up early (though maybe not so early as usual), then take a nap at around 12:00 or whenever suits you better, as to recover some sleep but not so much that your sleep pattern remains disturbed and you stay up late that night. Or push through the day, then go to bed a little earlier than usual. Usually what I do is to take a nap the day I'm going out (so I have more energy at night) then wake up early (but not too early, later than usual, say 4-6 hrs sleep), push it, and go to bed a little ea… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/17 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Google Fires Ph.D Biologist/Engineer For Claiming -- "On average, men and women biologically differ in many ways. "This is a super important bit of wisdom, confined here deep within a thread. This applies to all areas of life. "Should" doesn't belong in reality. Less fantasizing, more seeing reality as it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 10:41 AM |
| 3 | Sexual assault accusation from childhood best friend's LTR GFMachiavellism at its purest form. I'm fairly machiavellian myself and I hadn't thought of this possibility (I was thinking more in terms of sour grapes). But once you laid it out it became clear as day. A perfect example of pure, unadulterated, red pill view of reality. You, sir, are the embodiment of red pill wisdom. Respect. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 12:20 PM |
| 123 | ALWAYS follow a compliment with a complimentHaha! after reading the first paragraph I thought you meant complimenting her. You got me there! What I do is, when the girl gives me a compliment, I escalate kino. Like, when picking up, touching her in the lower back, hugging her; or if I'm already with her, I kiss her, slap her ass or whatever. It's one of the most natural ways to escalate kino and you are anchoring your kino as a reward for her compliments. Will try doing both, escalating kino and then complimenting myself, to see what happe… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 10:21 AM |
| 5 | The Taming of the Shrew- A Red Pill analysisWhile I agree with the non-fiction rule, there's a main difference between the classics and the modern fiction. Many classics tend to reflect human nature, while modern works try to push a moral agenda. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 10:03 AM |
| 7 | Seems that no one has a clue about weight lifting.I'm not commenting your post on lifting, but your attitude about this. You have written a hurried post, by your own words, with "fucked up retard grammar". When you are tired and wanting to go to sleep. Why? Because someone disagreed with you on an IRC chat? Your post seems solid, but your attitude seems reactive here. As per xkcd - http://archive.is/XxEMt/image Just pointing it out in case it might be useful to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 09:58 AM |
| 7 | Having Sex With a Female Human? Focus on Your Pleasure Only.This post is very accurate, according to my experience (over 30 women, not that many since I'm 40yo myself). Chicks dig this. Of course if you're new to rough sex it's preferable if you start slowly and calibrate from there. Also each girl has a different preferred point of roughness, no size fits all. Thanks for a very complete post. There are some ideas here that I don't do right now, will try them. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/17 11:27 AM |
| 1 | The Red pill is training wheels for betasMystery and MM precedes RSD and most likely both Juggler (first one from the old gurus who advocated dropping routines) and Gunwitch (his escalation ladder got a new point - if she rejects you shoot her in the face from a handgun). Actually, Juggler's and Gunwitch's methods were downloadable at fastseduction.com before Strauss' "The Game" and "The Mystery Method" were released as books. I know because they were my first learning materials, along with swingcat's archives and some others. I rememb… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/17 02:51 PM |
| 5 | First post - unsure about gfPlease guys stop saying "don't marry until [X]" Marriage is a bad deal for men in the current climate in the western hemisphere. Set whatever rules you want for LTRs, settling down, kids if you want them, whatever. But don't set a rule to marry. Don't marry. Period. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/17 02:34 PM |
| 3 | First post - unsure about gfThis is the current best response on this thread. To drive again the point home: Marriage does not offer any benefit to the man. Don't marry. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/17 02:33 PM |
| 2 | First post - unsure about gfSettle at 35? When you're at your maximum SMV? Are you really guys thinking this through? At 35 you are ripe for betabucks hunting. I remember that age (6 yrs ago) and I had to constantly shake off the provider vibe, all the chicks wanted to settle. Now I'm at 41 and having the time of my life (and for the record, I have an LTR but we pick up other girls together, and if I hadn't found this bi chick, I would not be settled by any means). Sometimes, not a rare occurrence either, we can pick up gi… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/17 02:31 PM |
| 6 | The Red pill is training wheels for betasI started my journey on fastseduction.com before "the game" even existed. When was that? Around 13 years ago IIRC. Back then people read juggler's and gunwitch's methods. The compiled archives of Mrsex4unyc and others. There was an "inner game" subforum full to the brim on beliefs change and philosophy. Very similar to what is discussed here everyday. Everyone agreed that looks, being fit, hitting the gym, having social status and developing the right beliefs worked wonders. Later when Mystery a… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 11:51 AM |
| 5 | The Eunuchs of The Red PillThe Spartans followed a strict nuclear family structure that has been reused for most of western civilization. You're implying that they were BP. I can't for the life of me understand why you arrive to such a conclusion. I have no clue why you are putting words in my mouth that I have not said. I have no interest in quarreling over straw men. (makes me wonder why people around here are so confrontational nowadays) The situation right now best suits disloyalty, low-trust interactions with women. … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/17 06:37 PM |
| 2 | The Eunuchs of The Red PillRollo didn't say that. What he said is that purple pill men, were just blue pill men who were trying to dress themselves up as red, and look to other red pillers for their "stripe" in affirmation. Well, more or less he says it in several places. Like here: "Blue Pill Conditioning and Equalism" - http://archive.is/jvMrK "Once again, you will never achieve Blue Pill idealistic goals with Red Pill awareness. Most men are taught that those Blue Pill goals are worthwhile, but they are carrots proffer… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/17 06:29 PM |
| 3 | The Eunuchs of The Red PillScheme up ways you can be different and game the system This is it. This is the switch that clicked somewhere down the line for me. At some point you take all the relevant pieces of the puzzle like: "Women react emotionally" "Women have quick sex with lovers and delay sex with providers" "Err in the side of boldness" "Marriage is a fantastic deal for women and a terrible deal for men" "Freedom is men's most valuable asset" "Male promiscuity make women horny, while female promiscuity repels males… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/17 06:09 PM |
| 43 | The Eunuchs of The Red PillIt is inefficient to use red pill knowledge to try and achieve blue pill goals. (paraphrasing Rollo Tomassi) As of lately, there's a horde of these around here. I was pondering about sharing my experience, after a decade and a half of non-monogamy in MLTRs I've set up a swinger lifestyle with a bisexual girl as a long-time partner and tandem hunting every weekend. But seeing the kind of posts and comments that show up around here lately, I don't know if it makes any sense. People here have a rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/17 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Demand Respect - It PaysIndeed it's a boundaries problem. And the problem is how to enforce those boundaries in a social context without fighting, or pissing people off, or looking like a bitch. I'm starting to consider the alternative of shaming the culprit. But that will only work when he behaves in an AFC, beta way. This is only a hypothesis. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/17 09:46 AM |
| 10 | Demand Respect - It PaysHere, I can tell you some tips. Don't bring your LTR or plate to night venues where there are alpha friends of yours. Never a good idea, specially if they have learnt pickup material. I've seen supposed "friends" of mine trying to pickup my dates with the same strategies I had taught them. Heh. Good luck with that. Another alternative is to bring up a plate you don't care too much for, and see which of your friends hit on her. This will show you who disrespects you, and you can use it like a fil… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/17 09:41 AM |
| 19 | Demand Respect - It PaysNo, not really. There are nuances. show that you are not timid, weakling, easily frightened? yes be ready to fight in actual self-defense? yes look (and be) strong? know a couple (or a lot) martial arts movements that you can throw to save your life? sure, why not? But in the end, actual fighting is a very, very bad idea. Not only can you get badly hurt or even killed, easily. And face legal trouble. Or being denied access to specific venues or social circles. And even if you win, you actually a… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/17 09:32 AM |
| 6 | Demand Respect - It PaysThanks redsorceror, awesome reply. Will add your points to my arsenal. I'll see how it works out and if I find out something worthwhile I'll get back to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 11:17 PM |
| 91 | Demand Respect - It PaysFirst, thanks for this. I really liked your post, it resonated a lot with me. Due to the nature of my relationship, we tend to go out a lot together and I find a lot of guys that try to disrespect me and directly go pick up my girl. It's the nature of the beast it seems. I'd like to learn more techniques to navigate this social landscape. So far I can see: keep lifting (of course), leave subtly when guys become obnoxious (which we do 99% of the time). I don't like to fight, but just one time it … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 09:11 PM |
| 11 | Something ELSE not to do; everybody knows this, yet so many still keep doing itI don't know what happened to this forum since new year, it's full of oneitis, "there's this girl" questions, and posts like this one that throws rationality out the window. I had to login to comment because this line of thinking seems very, very dangerous to me. Not for the OP (I doubt anyone here can move his beliefs) but for the rest of the readers. This simile is completely broken because, as others have point out, building a business is high risk/high reward, while marriage is high risk/fuc… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 09:51 AM |
| 5 | Why You Shouldn't Start With Starting StrengthHey GLO thanks for this post. I only wish I had read it 2 years ago. I started SS after reading the book thinking it all made sense. Nowhere in the book (not that I remember in any way or form, and I read it thoroughly) said it was not to be used by people with sedentary jobs because of risk of back injury. (I was 38 yrs at the time, on/off the gym for 10 years doing some other trainings, job was heavily sedentary, all day long in front of the computer) It surely stressed out the careful executi… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/17 12:21 PM |
| 5 | How to consistently get 3somes. Specially if in a relationship.Big THANKS for this post! I'm in a similar situation, my LTR is bi and we're picking up girls for threesomes. It's been a hard road, with many failures and some awesome successes. BTW I wonder how are here so many naysayers, it's perfectly possible and in fact in my case this is the second girl with whom I do this (I screen hard for active bisexuality and extroversion). I have been quite lost in the management of the logistics (with the other girls, not with my main girl, since she's quite aware… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/16 10:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR]: Pushing Dark Triad Game Too Far Part II. [Leaving Stripper Girlfriend Stranded]Heh. I try to never argue, but I absolutely won't argue at all when driving. Reminded me of Chris Rock: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OEvMc-K8XHY&t=3m13s You have a BPD girl here, the sex is hot and they are insane in the brain. Though you seem to have some skill managing this. I enjoy your FRs. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 09:29 PM |
| 6 | What exactly is Rationalization?Rationalization is the generation of rational excuses by your neocortex to justify an emotion-based decision made by your primate brain. "Hamster" is a nice shortcut, and the image it evokes is powerful, but this word has been abused on TRP. People use "hamster" here all day long, like "male hamstering exists", "everyone hamsters" as if rationalization was not a psychological mechanism deeply researched by a buttload of scientific studies. When religious men here say that religion is Red Pill be… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/16 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Religion is Blue Pill as FuckGolden comment here. Buddhism is more of a philosophy and a way to enlightenment than a religion. Copypaste from the wikipedia (it does not get any more red pill than this): "Reality in Buddhism is called dharma (Sanskrit) or dhamma (Pali). This word, which is foundational to the conceptual frameworks of the Indian religions, refers in Buddhism to the system of natural laws which constitute the natural order of things. Dharma is therefore reality as-it-is (yatha-bhuta). The teaching of Gautama B… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Religion is Blue Pill as FuckThis. "Religion is regarded by the common people as true, by the wise as false, and by the rulers as useful." Seneca | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Religion is Blue Pill as FuckReligion is necessary to keep the unwashed mases in check. That makes it useful. That DOES NOT make it true. It's a pretty, useful lie, thus bluepill. I agree 100% with you that it's important to society. However, we're not in a sub to keep society in good order, we're in a sub that values seeing reality as it is, instead of the pretty lies. One could argue that outside of this sub, we should promote either religion or moral values very aligned to those of religion. And I'd have to agree with th… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Religion is Blue Pill as FuckIf you define "blue pill" as "letting women run amok", yes, some religions are not blue pill. If you define "blue pill" as seeing the pretty lies instead of reality - which was the original metaphor in The Matrix -, then most of them are pretty blue pill actually. Pigs are not impure animals, pigs transmit trychinosis and eat valuable plants in the desert, but desert shepherds don't understand that, so the leaders say "just don't do it, it's a sin and god is watching you". Pretty lies all the wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Religion is Blue Pill as FuckLet me start by saying that I am sorry for your loss. However, your story is an example of how blue pill religion is. It's all feelings and wishful thinking, and as you've said, zero results, zero evidence in real life. Of course, if I was expecting to die, I'd rather be feeling good than miserable. I suppose that's why some people turn to religion when nearing their deathbeds. But IMHO there are other valid ways to create good feelings inside as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 09:48 AM |
| 2 | You all still think you're special - and here are the ways it's holding you back.Indeed. I'd love to read more on /u/BoloBouncer 's thoughts on influence. I like his style. It worked with me and seems useful. Would like to know more about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/16 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Thank YouEach time I see a "red pill christian" post I die a little inside. And there are a lot of these nowadays. "Blue Pill" means a system of pretty lies designed to keep you compliant and obedient. "Red Pill" means seeing reality as it is, then deciding which parts of it you will use to your benefit. Which one do you think religion is? Comply, behave, work hard and give us money and you'll enjoy the rewards in the afterlife. Pretty pinky promise. Seeing reality in women but refusing to see religion a… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/16 11:40 PM |
| 46 | You all still think you're special - and here are the ways it's holding you back.Ouch, a couple of these actually hurt. You hit home. Which for me it means it's an awesome post. Thanks for the reminders. (For me, the stinging ones were the negotiating one, and the wasting time one. Girls are now easy but business is still hard and I have to accept that reality. Also, I like the fact that you bring a dose of humility without using derogatory language, which seems too common in this forum these days.) | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/16 08:10 PM |
| 5 | The story of a Beta-Christian boy, and the questions that still trouble me...Religion is the bluest pill of all. The pretty lie is that if you behave and comply, your immortal soul will have an eternity of rewards after death. Makes you feel good on the inside, and is completely unfalsifiable. Can't be contradicted with anything in reality, so there's no way to prove it false (unlike women's psychology and sociosexual dynamics). The perfect blue pill indeed. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/16 07:26 AM |
| 0 | The story of a Beta-Christian boy, and the questions that still trouble me...This! I find utterly unbelievable that, in a forum named explicitly after a movie metaphor of seeing reality as it is, instead of the pretty lies you've been fed all your life, people are talking about religion as if it was a true thing and not a mass psychological manipulation tool. And lo and behold, the comments pointing this are being downvoted. So you can realize all you've been told about women, women's psychology, dating, seduction and being a man is wrong. Also most of what they told you… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/16 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Dad had "The talk" with me about marriage and kids.Slay the father: https://therationalmale.com/2015/01/30/father-knows-best/ | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 12:00 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Sweet girl believed to be a possible ltr material drop an AWALT bomb out of nowherePartially disagree (edited after your edit) You should always be ready to demote or next any girl based on her actions. Basically, because you can't negotiate with girls about their behavior these days. Only carrot and stick (managing your commitment). However, I agree with you that treating this as a shit test, and not taking measures until after she has actually done the deal, is a good calibration. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 06:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Sweet girl believed to be a possible ltr material drop an AWALT bomb out of nowhereI think yours is the proper response. It shows you accept what's going on and won't supplicate for her not to go, while at the same time you remove your most precious assett (commitment). Carrot and stick instead of negotiation, seems the proper course of action. Just work a little bit on the "being pissed of". Has more to do with your previous expectations, which have been shattered, than with her nature or actions. Might I recommend some meditation and introspection to find out why this embitt… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 06:43 PM |
| 10 | ex is now a homeless pan handlerFirst thing I thought when read the post. That part shocked me more than the BPD girl's story. Here's a man telling the tale of a person that got screwed up in life because of making bad decisions. Then a few paragraphs later, states he's getting married. I think the parallelisms are interesting. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/16 01:47 PM |
| 1 | The Fundamentals of FitnessThanks GLO and everyone else who replied! I'll follow the pointers to the additional information, specifically the Kelly Starlets book. I hope with therapy, rehab and calisthenics I will progress. Hopefully will report back in several months with results. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 06:42 AM |
| 6 | The Fundamentals of FitnessHey GLO, got a question for you if you don't mind. Thanks in advance. What fundamentals for strength would you recommend for someone with back injury? I'm early forties, couple years ago I developed a protrusion on a lumbar disc. After much researching I'm improving a lot by following the system of Dr. Stuart McGill on back recovery (http://archive.is/uUIEV). However, my strength and size have been greatly impacted by this. If I deadlift even the smallest weight, my back hurts like hell the next… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/16 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Help a brother in a tight knot.This belongs in askTRP. How FUCKING hard is it to understand? Ok, IMO this is a problem of incentives. The utility of asking questions in TRP main is greater than the utility of asking them in the proper place, because there's more people here. When the answers are of the form "This belongs in AskTRP, but here's the answer" (which almost always are), in power speak people are saying: "you misbehaved, but here's your treat anyway". Creating a huge disincentive for posting in the proper place to b… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Why PUA is antithetical to The Red PillNo, this is not accurate. Only the most surface-level, hyped-up, ultra-marketed PUA products work like that. If you go to the mass market you'll only find the lowest common denominator. Of course they'll tell the masses that any nerd can get any hot girl, that's their way of selling their stuff. But go to any deep seduction teacher and see if he dismisses the looks. My favorite author, Chase Amante, puts a lot of emphasis on appearance, body language and voice. And on top of that, he builds a st… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/16 09:25 PM |
| 2 | How I've Learned to "Shit Test" Women - A little test that I've developed.This is very insightful drawingroomgentleman. I'm in the process of compiling a body of works on power moves (strategies of power), will share in TRP when it's done. For example, "dread" or "gaslighting" would be two examples of power moves. I like this "probe" move that you explain, have googled about it in the context of strategy games and found nothing of relevance. Do you have any pointer or recommendation where I could investigate more about these? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/16 02:39 PM |
| 4 | How I've Learned to "Shit Test" Women - A little test that I've developed.I assume the strategy that you mention is to not display provider qualities, only lover ones. Chase Amante writes a lot about that. You want to not display any provider qualities whatsoever as to keep them in the fast track. This is indeed what I try to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/16 02:35 PM |
| 80 | How I've Learned to "Shit Test" Women - A little test that I've developed.This is very good and I'm adding it to my toolbox for future use. I don't like the name "shit test", it's a misnomer. I prefer Mystery's term: "Congruence Test". This implies she's testing your congruence or frame. For men, there is the concept of "Compliance Test", is she allowing you to lead? Like taking her by the hand and spinning her: if she complies, she is allowing you to lead. Yours is like a "Lover Test" or "Sexual Test", does she see me as a lover or as a provider? does she see me as a… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/16 06:16 AM |
| 12 | The Viability of the Red Pill in the Future - Border ErosionIMO releasing the anger is helpful. Releasing the anger is "improvement for self". The fact that your antagonists recommend something doesn't need to mean it's not a good thing. But the use for releasing the anger is not to become more politically acceptable to the outside world. No need for that shit. No, the real use is for oneself: accepting reality and enjoying it as it is. The anger that stems from having being deceived about the nature of women and relationships fades when you learn to use… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/16 06:30 PM |
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