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Blue Pill ExampleRedpillbrigade17/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 02:42 PM
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Field ReportRedpillbrigade17/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 12:09 PM
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Redpillbrigade17/r/askMRP05/08/19 01:13 PM
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Basic QuestionRedpillbrigade17/r/askMRP16/10/20 12:21 AM
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You’re overthinking it. Makes me wonder if you’re ready.
/r/askMRP19/03/22 08:10 PM
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Dude Repeat after me: “odds are that nothing good can come out of marriage / couples counseling.” It dries the vagina. Like start people said on this sub years ago: it is a place where your wife / LTR gets a license to beat you over the balls with a bat. What the fuck. You’re learning about that now and how silly you feel afterwards. Be wise and learn from others’ mistakes before you. Come up with all sorts of reasons and indirect ways to postpone it / replace / delay it with something that make…
/r/askMRP18/03/22 12:04 AM
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Like every model, it’s imperfect. It’s suited as a general rule around things like managing the UNIT OF BOTH OF YOU like a family trip, or other situations that involve the couple or the family. But sure overall it’s you and your MISSION. The rest are complements.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/22 02:05 AM
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It’s innate
/r/askMRP01/03/22 12:58 PM
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Find meaning. It’s an ongoing quest. Some find it quickly and in many things / activities. Others take a long time and have to try many different paths. Good luck.
/r/askMRP23/01/22 03:56 AM
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Sad. And classic. Mr Nice Guy dies a thousand deaths every day.
/r/askMRP24/12/21 01:12 PM
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Holy shit this was funny as heck. 23-y old man child gets kicked out of fiancée’s house for GOING TO A BAR with his buddies. And is crying about it. Hahahaha
/r/askMRP20/12/21 01:59 PM
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So you’re saying you met her with your 18-year old brain and have been with her since. Now you’re going to spend the rest of your life with her supposedly. I have no advice for you - you’re either wiser than I ever was or are beyond help.
/r/askMRP20/12/21 01:56 PM
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Dude. She’s in your corner: she’ll probably be more frustrated than you think that you’re not implementing that shit in the books. Stop taking her and her shit tests so seriously.
/r/askMRP19/12/21 06:29 AM
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You need a vision for your life. Do you have one? You’re in the best time of your life. Your fourties. You should be max earnings and career for this decade. Map that out - don’t stop until the vision excites you and gives you burning fire to pursue it. Good luck.
/r/askMRP18/12/21 12:48 PM
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Getting her to get the babysitter? WTF - You do it, dude. The job of a man is to create the conditions for sex to happen. She already has a lot on her plate. Get an account on care.com if you need to. Post a job add. Ask a friend for a referral. Anyone in your guys network, community, neighborhood etc. Hey, ask one of HER FRIENDS. She’ll love you even more for it as she’ll get a chance to brag about, chat with them about how awesome you are that you go out of your way to take her out on a hit da…
/r/askMRP18/12/21 12:47 PM
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Be strategic. The best way to change course while riding a horse is slowly. Do it too quickly and the horse freaks out, throws you off. Start with small changes. Gym, guitar, etc. Slowly add the things and activities you want to your life. Smile at her, look at her forehead, hug kiss and slap her ass. She’s your woman now, and she may be in that future vision of yours (say 3 years down the line), where you’re living the life you really want with hot, complementary feminine energy by your side. Y…
/r/askMRP18/12/21 12:42 PM
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One more thing. (And I struggle with this too). From what you wrote, and that you guys have lots of sex, I bet your woman loves to cum and is more of the impulsive type - hence the drama she throws at you. Suggest you toy with her a bit , and not give her the orgasms right when she wants them. Delay, withhold, play with her. That will increase her really wanting you and pleasing you. Remember women want to (need to) feel like they win over a strong masculine focused man. If she’s already too set…
/r/askMRP18/12/21 12:23 PM
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Seems like you care about her opinion a bit too much. Like it really phases you. She smells that. And it’s a turn off. So she amps up the bitchiness. I get some women are total harpies like that. My ex used to be that way. Thing is you have to nip that shit in the bud right away, pass the shit test etc with flying colors and sometimes outright nuke it if she’s really out of line. But for the most part you do you, arm yourself with humor, and bang that ass like a hurricane door. I’d read 16 Comma…
/r/askMRP18/12/21 02:34 AM
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Lol
/r/askMRP16/12/21 02:40 PM
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Careful getting life advice from The Goat Herder’s Guide to the Galaxy.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/21 09:48 PM
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Hahahaha Just watch Bill Burr and you’ll learn: never argue with a woman. See my post a while ago with a few supplemental commandments to the 16 of Poon.
/r/askMRP06/12/21 02:52 PM
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Huh?
/r/RedPillBooks28/11/21 12:41 PM
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Use the ego to be better than you were yesterday, not to compete with other people. There will always be someone tougher, stronger, smarter, wealthier than you. Focusing on them can destroy you from the inside. You have two pieces of paper in your pockets, one on each side. One says “you are unique, the world is your oyster, God loves you and you have the gift of the most amazing and powerful energy that has ever existed. This world was created for you to leave a lasting impact.” The other says …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/21 10:01 PM
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Nice post. Focusing too much on one’s kids, even as a “RP aware” man, is leftover Mr Nice guy syndrome. Unfortunately society esp in modern western world caters too much and coddles children so it’s easy to get sweat away. Don’t please your kids. Create experiences, be there for support, mind your own business, set the example , and let the chips fall where they may. A lot is outside your control. The environment you put them in will do a lot more to shape them than whatever teachings you think …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 02:06 AM
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Haha this right here. So many fucking women deserve better. Not douche bags like OP who think they’re applying RP principles only to come off as major immature dick heads.
/r/askMRP21/11/21 11:22 AM
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Why don’t you move to Saudi Arabia and have her wear a mandatory garb all over her body and face too. To show her submission to your oh god almighty manhood that you so think you deserve. It is because of half wits like you that red pill gets a bad reputation. You don’t punish a woman you dummy. You just mind your business. You don’t explain anything to her, you lead her to your truth through charm, seduction and a compelling and attractive frame. It’s fine to objectify her in bed but beyond tha…
/r/askMRP21/11/21 11:20 AM
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This isn’t a MRP issue. It’s a basic boundaries and family relationships issue. If I were you I’d start making plans with your wife to communicate that he needs to move elsewhere. Your problem is that you’re already on a path where you have been Mr NG and have been taken advantage of. It’s inevitable that you’ll be seen as a jerk now… Be humane. But make a plan. Good luck.
/r/askMRP18/11/21 03:56 AM
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What is it exactly about his presence that irks you? List it out. Does he fart? Eat your groceries? Leave his shit around? Have a clear list of what is acceptable , what you can tolerate and what you cannot. You are doing the bro a massive favor and you can be a generous, kind human being. But you need to do that in a way that doesn’t sacrifice your objectives and your mission. Don’t be a dick but don’t be a pussy either. That fine line of being a man at the top of your game… Good luck.
/r/askMRP18/11/21 02:37 AM
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Seems you have a self esteem issue. And that she’s trying (and succeeding) to manipulate you with her moods. It will only get worse. You have poor /unclear boundaries of what truly matters to you and low ability to stand by them.
/r/askMRP07/11/21 01:41 PM
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Good step on both accounts. In the beginning of my current LTR of x many years I would set up alarms at like 10pm. That was her time to leave. I would politely and lovingly after so much high quality sex and cuddling tell her , look doll , have MMA or whatever dragons to slay tomorrow morning . And she would leave . It was that helped me fall in love with her much later and for her to fall in love with me sooner. Basically create small, and loving polite systems to prioritize you. Then bang her …
/r/askMRP23/08/21 04:47 PM
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Are you cohabitating ?
/r/askMRP23/08/21 02:55 PM
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Not at all. If anything congrats for not being low income and divorced with 2 kids in tow or whatever , by this age, for which to pay child support and barely see. Stop this nonsense of comparing yourself to others you don’t look up to, trying to fit in and having society dictate your priorities.
/r/askMRP22/08/21 02:33 AM
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Ugh Sometimes you have to call out a bitch . Give them the wrath. But not from a butthurt place - it should be a controlled , outcome independent outburst and display of moral strength, and assertive claim of the moral high ground. It’s called nuking around here. Key word is controlled. If you do it well she’ll learn not to pull that shit again.
/r/askMRP21/08/21 09:23 PM
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Yea you should. Read 48 L oP. Plenty psychological reasons and benefits for both of you why you should let her serve you here and there.
/r/askMRP18/08/21 05:39 PM
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You’re not ready to have kids. Stop the nonsense. You’re thirty years old and already are thinking like a woman, like you have some biological clock. Cut that shit out. Go play the field, OR have a solid frame and get preparation for basic woman/wife drama and to be a parent. You have neither.
/r/askMRP18/08/21 02:50 AM
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Stay in the game bud. Reap the rewards through her giving herself to you: have mind blowing sex.
/r/askMRP11/08/21 07:12 PM
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Take them with you to Jiu jitsu. Have them watch from sidelines. Have them get used to seeing you train. And of course join in when they’re 2 or 3 or whatever and can gently play get physical etc on the mat. Get a running stroller. Go run w them. Work on your side hustle and long term plan while kid is asleep.
/r/askMRP07/08/21 12:38 AM
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I swear I saw a joke about that a few days ago on r/unclejokes
/r/askMRP06/08/21 10:14 PM
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And cut it out with the 3 months of no sex . That’s crap . Don’t let another 3 months go by until next time!!!!
/r/askMRP06/08/21 03:54 PM
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Ha love it. “I thought about her ass as instructed.” lolololol this is NLP TonyRobbins type shit and it works. That look on her face when she sees the look on YOUR face how you’re enraptured by her and ready to take her…
/r/askMRP06/08/21 03:54 PM
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I had a hunch after reading your post and comments - then confirmed it with your Reddit history (see your old Tinder screenshots …)
/r/askMRP03/08/21 05:53 PM
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One more thing: are you Hungarian? You need to understand cultural aspects and influences that go beyond your individual life and abilities. IIRC Hungary has the highest suicide rate in Europe. There is some historic and societal programming that may act against you without you even knowing. Last time I visited Hungary every public place you go has all these maps showing how great Hungary was ~150 years ago. That nostalgic mindset cannot be healthy. I saw something similar in Lisbon: they call i…
/r/askMRP03/08/21 04:41 PM
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Do you have a men’s group that you belong to? Friends that you go skiing/ hiking/ fishing etc with ? Do you practice martial arts? Do you have an individual therapist? Someone to talk to who is qualified in basic mental health? You are not alone. The lone wolf is a myth. The lone wolf does not survive outside the pack. You need to find a pack that helps you, and reminds you that life is worth living, that you have so much to give and be thankful for, and that you should not take yourself too ser…
/r/askMRP03/08/21 03:30 PM
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Hey welcome. You have awareness. You’re starting to open your eyes.
/r/askMRP03/08/21 12:53 PM
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You’re living the life that society told you you should live. Think long and hard what’s important to you, what game do you really want to play and get good at. What life do YOU want to live? And if you’re so fortunate how do you give to others ? Do you volunteer? Do you give money away ? Happiness that comes from giving surpasses that which comes from taking. Ask yourself if you’re giving enough to the world, whether it’s time or money or energy and attention. Ultimately it may still be a part …
/r/askMRP03/08/21 10:35 AM
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Yeah you may need to throw her a bone here and there with “babe I wAnt to be the man you fell in love with” ; “life has gotten hard kids etc “ , “but you know how much you mean to me” etc “come here give me a kiss” / “give me some sugar/ your hot lips I worked so hard today” etc. Also nothing wrong with you going to see a therapist by yourself . You can pretend he / she gave you ideas, and frankly you can validate some of this MRP shit too if you want , so it’s more genuine and you don’t feel li…
/r/askMRP02/08/21 02:28 AM
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Ugh. Stay in the game man. Don’t give up, don’t overthink it. Don’t care so much about all her little moods and come backs. Keep going on your work and improving yourself. Results will come. And don’t fucking let her drink and drive with your kid. Good luck.
/r/askMRP02/08/21 12:00 AM
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Oh man. The hurt is real. Textbook. Your pure love was / is just an average woman with a past. How about you? What kind of man are you? What does it say about you that you get so triggered by all this?
/r/askMRP30/07/21 10:19 PM
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“I’m in early twenties” enough said .
/r/askMRP28/07/21 12:30 PM
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Like everything else - it’s all in the how. Do it from a loving, caring, leadership vantage point when you’re telling your team what’s going on and the information helps them navigate the course = good and helpful. Do it from a defensive, frustrated, DEER , wishful thinking place (even Glover talks about his victim pukes to his ex wife ) = terrible. The art is to know the difference and do that first part well. Until you learn that best be quiet. But remember that being totally quiet / secretive…
/r/askMRP27/07/21 07:40 PM
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Just another sad day in the world of relationships. Meh. Consider yourself extremely lucky you did not have kids with her. You have plenty of time. Find a woman who will fuck you on the regular and even more than you want / need. Then you’ll have other issues haha.
/r/askMRP26/07/21 02:06 PM
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You both settled. I see it all the time with bankers/ finance types, lawyers / doctors who “mary down”. He is the provider, has fairly insecure ego, needs to dominate at home, thinks he is a good match with someone arguably less ambitious and more available to serve him , since he’s such a a hotshot making so much $ ( conservative mindset ). She settles , thinking she’s locking down the provider, doesn’t need to work as hard, looks up to him - but it’s all on paper, in her head. She’s not feelin…
/r/askMRP26/07/21 01:10 PM
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You the provider, she a teacher = recipe for crappy marriage. Deep down you don’t respect her and deep down she doesn’t respect you.
/r/askMRP26/07/21 02:06 AM
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Don’t do it. You’re such a thrill seeker, but you don’t realize it’s not worth it and you’ll feel even emptier than you feel now afterwards. Talk to your woman, have you fully explored her and your wildest dreams as a couple? My hunch tells me no. Watch porn with her, ask her if she’s into getting another woman for the both of you to have fun with etc - always more rewarding than sneaking behind her back as a John.
/r/askMRP24/07/21 09:01 PM
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You should act as usual, smile and in meantime do your work: Read all the materials (sidebar). You’ll get better ideas in no time. Come back again in a month or so. Good luck
/r/askMRP17/07/21 02:43 AM
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You’ll get through this phase. Liberation is painful at first. But well worth it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/21 06:08 PM
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This right here, as far as approach. But OP seems has distorted views about city / career. Doesn’t seem to know what he wants and how to get after it. OP: don’t completely poo poo the city life. Maybe there is a job you can go to 1-2 days a week on average. Explore moving - focus on the value you add. Maybe become a consultant in your field. Rethink your entire approach to the marketplace for labor and your skills. Use mindmaps, expand your view of the entire field. Who are e buyers and sellers?…
/r/askMRP08/07/21 05:47 PM
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Exactly
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 05:34 PM
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Get a divorce ASAP. It will be hard but containable and you save the life you have left in you since you’re still quite young. You need to unshackle yourself of this woman legally lest she becomes and even bigger anvil anchoring you down. Go get therapy, don’t date anyone seriously for a few years. You need to unfuck yourself mentally and develop a healthy mindset for relationships and the rest of your life.
/r/askMRP22/06/21 01:05 PM
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Exactly . It took me 3y+ to get to a phase where I just “Netflix and chill” with my LTR. Even now it’s a rare event /activity.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/21 01:12 AM
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This right here. Sounds like a fine lady. Be thankful she hasn’t set you up with a few black dudes, to fuck both of you really hard on a regular basis.
/r/askMRP17/06/21 11:03 PM
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You’re overthinking it. Go make a killing on your life goals, then have fun with and fuck your woman. She’s your trophy. Enjoy the spoils of victory. Then kiss her forehead slap her ass whatever, go at it again. Repeat till death. The end.
/r/askMRP16/06/21 02:28 AM
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Plan. Be quiet about it. Then charmingly execute. She may complain but inside she’ll love the fact that her man is a fucking man and not a pussy whipped beta. Ah, and fuck her hard. She will NEED it. Fuck, she needs it now. Stop overthinking this.
/r/askMRP14/06/21 09:56 PM
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Meeting guys for beer once a week is beta Meeting an old buddy once a year or whatever over a beer is fine. Meeting guys for a workout/ shooting/ bike ride/ BJJ roll etc AND THEN MAYBE adding a beer after is next level. Do that.
/r/askMRP11/06/21 11:56 PM
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Have you tried SA ? You’re a systems thinker so develop a system. Also, Caleb Jones of black dragon has some good material for someone like you. Except for the cheating part.
/r/askMRP31/05/21 03:28 PM
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This is good reminder for class of what a weak or non existent frame looks like. Underneath it all is Nice Guy and misplaced expectations. The test or key to this is remembering that a woman/ in-law cannot be told anything [to change their behavior]. She /he etc must be lead to your conclusion. I am paraphrasing from a recollection from Roissy or Rollo (can’t remember). Charm, bluster, influence etc but the idea is that you should play with and take these people as they are, not as you would wan…
/r/askMRP18/05/21 09:39 PM
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Holy shit I stopped reading at “nuke my family” What family!??? You don’t have kids with this woman. You surrendered your balls to her AND HER MOM. “Explain yourself boy” - that’s their whole frame. Yours? Wet paper bag and missing in action.
/r/askMRP16/05/21 11:37 AM
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Ok whatever you say ,boss
/r/askMRP07/05/21 12:04 AM
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Maybe. Stop putting so much weight in what she says. She’ll say anything she feels like in the moment. Just because she says “oh PeacockInParadise you’re amazing, you could slay any pussy you want”, but then doesn’t lift up her game and make herself hot for you, that doesn’t mean she’s truly feeling the dread. She should be actively doing something about it if she really felt your OMG oak-like dominant frame.
/r/askMRP06/05/21 08:04 PM
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Ha. The age old question . Because he’s either still blue pill or he’s trying to wake up. He’s Mr Nice Guy tryyyyyying hard to make it work and his wife to like, fuck him, be different etc. He’s focused on the wrong thing. He’s still looking for validation for her. He’s still in the “look mommy, I am a good boy” mode. If I had a penny for every time I wanted to post a question here and then stopped myself either mid post or mid first word. Look, once you do the work, read this wisdom (side bar) …
/r/askMRP06/05/21 06:52 PM
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Will fall flat if OP doesn’t have high SMV to the point where she knows it and feels the dread. Also will fall flat if he’s faking it and he’s not attracted to her.
/r/askMRP06/05/21 05:59 PM
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“Hostility, anger and backlash” was/ is how she manipulated you into submitting to her. Falling into and following her frame, because you’re a fearful, insecure Nice Guy. Case in point you married a much older woman... probably out of some fear. You need to fix yourself first- all you do with putting up with “shit tests” will be like getting better music on the Titanic. It won’t make much of a difference ...
/r/askMRP06/05/21 03:58 PM
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Fair but be careful with any ‘virtue signaling’ lest it gets to your head.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/21 12:36 AM
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Haha Last minute tips: don’t drink too much the night before. Don’t drink too much the night of. And fuck her silly. Pile of fluids is the goal. Hold her tight after. Hold her tight in the morning. Give it to her again. Have fun ! Then go slay dragons &don’t think about her again until you come home and repeat steps above. Carry on for 50y+
/r/askMRP28/04/21 08:34 PM
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Why do you have a fiancée if you haven’t figured out what you want ? Stop thinking your six figure salary means shit. If anything, you’re just a rat in a nicer maze training yourself to be an even bigger beta provider. Do you have a good prenup? If your marriage blows up (which is more likely than not), and she’s a SAHM, you’ll be taken to the cleaners in divorce.
/r/askMRP26/04/21 12:46 PM
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Make her cum but you don’t. She’ll go crazy and you’ll have fun. Sounds like you’re at the stage where she wants to drain your balls constantly. Great! But you’re feeling something is amiss, quality is meh and you’re losing energy somehow. Build up the tension, hold a day or two or whatever and focus on quality vs quantity. An hour long session every now and then should beat 3 or 5 quickies for example. And have fun with it. Making her cum while you hold back and delay your orgasm is the way to …
/r/askMRP21/04/21 10:51 AM
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One day you regret it one day you feel blessed - and so it goes. Just make sure GF is has mommy skills. Good family? Stable or a psycho? And I assume you have a career and can provide financially? You shouldn’t be having kids if you can’t take care of them or hire help.
/r/askMRP21/04/21 02:48 AM
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Class: this is early stage onset of Oneitis. Mr Disney is hard at play. OP: write it down and read it 3 times a day: long distance dating is fantasy. Go get laid, stay committed emotionally to her if you want, have fun with her when you do get to see her, but understand you’re trying to put a square peg in a round hole. Do you really want to give the keys to your cock and balls to a girl you loooooooove that you only see once a month or whatever. Wake up.
/r/askMRP18/04/21 01:54 PM
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I should write a piece on this. I don’t think MRP ends at that. I have been getting laid like tile for a few years now and my lady is hornier than me almost all the time. Like she’ll literally wake me to fuck, and wants it every night. And that to me introduces the leadership part and using sexual energy for a higher purpose somehow (I’m still trying to figure it out) which I think it’s still part of RP. Optimizing that, and really living the Way of Superior Man , as David D puts it, is red pill…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/21 03:41 PM
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Yeah where is u/ whinemoreplease !!??
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/21 02:56 PM
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How about J10Hearts. Dude changed my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/21 02:42 PM
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You think and analyze too much. “Now we’re at the point where it’s an active choice for both of us to be in this relationship “ That’s actually a good thing. Think about it: would you rather she coasted, got fat and lose interest in pleasing you? Take you for granted? Or would you stop gaming her, stop working out, coast and again have her lose interest in you? The longer you can maintain the dynamic where you’re both choosing each other, and you both maintain as high as you can SMV, the better …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/21 01:58 PM
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Yes, sure. Go give unsolicited advice to women.
/r/askMRP06/04/21 08:34 PM
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Come up with your own , bro . That’s part of what having a Frame means. You set your standards.
/r/askMRP29/03/21 11:51 PM
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Textbook post for cluelessness on how to evaluate a woman. Can you all see the blue pill lenses here? Society’s expectation hard at work. So OP struggles. First level is to seek some old times medieval shit (again Saudi Arabia comes to mind), where a woman’s value is how much of a virgin she is. Put a chastity belt on her to be sure. Have her walk behind you 3 feet at all times and not be allowed to drive by law. Wake up bro. While there likely is some correlation between n count and [insert you…
/r/askMRP20/03/21 01:14 PM
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You = in box checking mode which tells me you’re not ready. Come back in 3-5 years, maybe then you’ll be in a relationship worth upgrading. You’re about to put blue pill blinders on with this view on life and marriage. And drop the obsession with virgins. Or move to Saudi Arabia. (I feel like this advice applies to most of you dim wits who obsess over controlling women).
/r/askMRP15/03/21 06:29 PM
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You think too much. Cut it out with the analysis- it’s not helping you. Get to work. You know what to do. Report back in a couple weeks. Stop taking yourself so seriously. Sounds like it’s definitely worth saving. Ah, and stop jerking off. I don’t think you mentioned it but I bet you’re doing that a lot and you were just too shameful to even admit it here. Good luck.
/r/askMRP15/03/21 11:58 AM
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You paying serious and unsolicited attention to any of her own (in this case insignificant) life problems, with a view to fixing them, is alpha ?? It’s you being in her frame. You have years of work to do, son.
/r/askMRP14/03/21 02:35 PM
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Doesn’t sound like you’re ready to get married. Do you have a prenup ?
/r/askMRP13/03/21 04:27 PM
11

Why don’t you just move to Saudi Arabia. Women are like slaves there. Can’t do shit without a man’s permission. Isn’t that what you want? You’ll be treated like a god, just because you have a penis. No work on yourself needed.
/r/askMRP13/03/21 12:07 PM
18

I’ll summarize it for you: don’t make your woman the center of your existence. You should be focused on some mission you determine for yourself as being the reason you wake up every day. She should be a part of helping you fulfill that mission. Whether she joins in or not, you’re still going after it. Your woman’s role is to support you with her feminine, complementary energy etc. Good luck .
/r/askMRP11/03/21 06:56 PM
10

Start following subreddit BDSMAdvice - you’ll get some good resources Also XRUniversity videos. Be careful, you’re playing with fire. Like Friedrich Nietzsche said, “The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything.” Good luck
/r/askMRP07/03/21 04:40 PM
9

“I love it when you’re so concerned with my emotional state. Come here, babe “ <proceed kiss, slap / squeeze ass, give her dominating look and smirk>
/r/askMRP03/03/21 12:41 PM
23

What does she think of this post? Go ask her. Lol Get up. Dust off. Reload. Repeat. The ego is the enemy. And stop taking yourself so seriously. Your work - yes. But not the outcome. Good luck
/r/askMRP25/02/21 02:12 AM
3

Yep. They’re all basically fitness / shit tests , with the covert message: “how will you handle this? Are you man enough for me? Let me feel your masculinity energy in your response”
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 05:37 PM
9

Yeah if you want to have a Saudi Arabia style relationship, go for it. I like to think it helps to have more tact than that... I think you read defensiveness in my example and DEERing, but that’s not how I meant it. Sometimes a diplomatic, subtle rejection goes a long way to say “sweetie, you got this, you don’t need me for this shit”
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/21 02:55 AM
5

Yeah that kinda goes without saying. My point is you’re already busy working on mission etc but she CONSTANTLY throws feminine energy at you in the form of silly requests and may catch you off guard. Mr Nice Guy (beta shit goblin !) is just lurking waiting to say yes, please her, agree to her random demands. Do that, fail to say “no, that doesn’t work for me” one too many times and before you know it you’re (back being ) a beta and she’s captaining your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/21 02:50 AM
5

Limited activity - what are your questions ? AskMRP could be good. Short answer don’t sweat it, be a good example, make sure you are present in his life. He’ll definitely grow up in his own way, most likely not how you want. The more you’ll try to control his life the more likely you’ll fail and he’ll fail too. Environment is VERY important.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 07:32 PM
2

Yeah, that’s how you build trust. And desire. Lol. And how dare she disrespect you?
/r/askMRP14/01/21 09:23 PM
1

Except for when you want to use it because it serves your purpose. Be a wolf in sheep’s clothes. Remember the world is 95% betas.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 02:14 AM
5

Yeah his keeping that secret is the perpetuation of the abuse. Now that the cat is out of the bag, and others are well aware it’s going to be hard to continue doing that...
/r/askMRP27/12/20 01:14 PM
8

What a telenovela. As others have said you need therapy. Probably a good 6-12 months worth. Just for you, individual therapy. No couples nonsense. You’ve been in and around immature and toxic relationships for much of your life. You frankly may not know what a fulfilling, low drama relationship should be like. Now you “discover” red pill and you’re even angrier and “aware”. But careful with that because it can turn you into an even more bitter and resentful human being. You’ll learn through ther…
/r/askMRP27/12/20 01:13 PM
3

Get to work. Stop wasting our time.
/r/askMRP25/12/20 01:55 PM
7

Hilarious. “I am a lazy entitled fool and you guys better help me and give me what I want”
/r/askMRP25/12/20 01:48 PM
3

Classic mr nice guy. Regain your confidence and you’ll be fine. And stop making nice guy mistakes - Nice Guy beta you will keep on lurking in your brain and tear its head A LOT. Beta shit goblin.
/r/askMRP25/11/20 01:30 PM
5

You’re delusional thinking getting that custody will be a walk in the park unless she’s doing drugs or is harming the kids. Frankly you sound overly controlling - I know, I have been there - regarding the kids which sets you up for a lot of disappointment and anger down the road.
/r/askMRP09/11/20 10:05 PM
3

Hahahahaha . You’re scared shitless of her. Divorce over a boat?? You have no idea how strong your hand is. Happens all the time. You have pocket Kings, she’s holding maybe a small pair. Yes you’re afraid of her. The way to get that is to start painting the vision, half jokingly, of how hot she’ll look on the boat. Amused mastery! Maybe tell her you’ll take her shopping for new bathing suits. Hey, throw in a necklace or hot ankle bracelet for her - she needs to start imagining her having fun - a…
/r/askMRP08/11/20 10:33 PM
0

OYS boys! Too many comments already so who knows if this is even read. - fell off the lifting routine wagon this week mainly because I got a little sick (cold symptoms) and frankly was a bit of a pussy. Resistance won. - tired now as my gf figured out she needs to fuck my brains out (including waking me up in middle of night for another round) in order to prevent me from going after other women. Not a bad place to be I guess but I need to be careful not to fall back in her frame, not to spend to…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/20 02:12 PM
1

Have fun. Teach through actions. Careful playing with fire.
/r/askMRP06/11/20 09:38 PM
3

Rule of thumb is not to throw out numbers first. If you have to, talk in wider, and higher ranges, just to set some brackets / playing field terms. Read books like Getting More and also the more recent one Never Split the Difference. Your best bet - if indeed your skills combo is in such high demand- is to get another offer or two, or at least get conversations going with competitors. Similar to sexual marketplace. Need to instill dread, have social proof etc and the only solution to getting wha…
/r/askMRP03/11/20 11:59 AM
8

The best way to change direction of a moving horse is slooooowly. Otherwise the horse will get uneasy and throw you off. You’re focused on the wrong thing.
/r/askMRP29/10/20 03:29 PM
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You’re approaching it like a little boy who wants his toy from his mommy. She feels it. You’re rocking the boat in an unattractive way. Plus you don’t have OI down pat. You’re think you’re faking it but you don’t. She smells your neediness a mile away. How are you going to release the inner slut in your woman if you act like a horny little boy? Focus on your Mission, hobbies etc. Not your woman. When together be a gentleman and charm her. You’ll be amazed how results wiht her will come without y…
/r/askMRP29/10/20 03:19 PM
1

And at 6’3 and 160 lbs you’re skinny AF. Get ready to start eating. Muscles are made in the kitchen.
/r/askMRP29/10/20 02:27 PM
4

I’ll tell you this. I’ve been on and off this sub for 5 years. Still learning and growing and getting kicked in the nuts every now and then by the fine gentlemen here when I fall back in Mr NG mode or just become a pussy-pedestalizing beta. Despite my 6pack and my high net worth or whatever. That’s besides the point. The point is take the long view. Man up for the rest of your fucking life. That’s all you have anyway. It will take you whatever is left. You need to change your mindset.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 10:30 PM
1

Hmm now those are some good ideas !
/r/askMRP22/10/20 11:00 PM
2

Red sfp plus have you graduated to prostate massager, you know, like the one attached to a strap, and her body moving with it, umm inside you? Now THAT’S some prostate massage right there. Just do it from your Frame and it’s all good.
/r/askMRP22/10/20 04:33 PM
1

Good one. Thanks
/r/askMRP20/10/20 10:39 PM
1

Thanks / this is best reply and most helpful.
/r/askMRP19/10/20 05:19 PM
3

Logistics. I have kids, she has kids. In different counties, an hour apart. And we got to the point where I was neglecting my own kids ( who by now hate her) to be with her. Not because of missing custody time, but because i was phoning in parenting. I guess kind of amazing how children smell your weak ass frame, and when you start abiding by someone else’s agenda.
/r/askMRP16/10/20 11:20 AM
2

Thanks man. It sucks i thought I had my shit figured out. Top shape body, career, women, and here comes Wonder Woman. Absolutely incredible in bed, wNted it all the time, submissive but with a clear agenda to lock me down.
/r/askMRP16/10/20 11:15 AM
4

Definitely not going back. For now no contact is the main strategy despite huge pressure from her parents and mine. It’s all habit change and like quitting a drug.
/r/askMRP16/10/20 01:29 AM
1

Thanks. I bent my boundaries in order to keep her basically. Ended up in current situation where we were very entangled and I was mostly in her frame, literally.
/r/askMRP16/10/20 01:27 AM
6

Fair enough. Thanks
/r/askMRP16/10/20 01:26 AM
2

I like it. Thanks
/r/askMRP16/10/20 12:28 AM
1

Every now and then my girl gets really turned on and wants it up the ass. Nothing unusual. Enjoy. In our case it’s more of a mental and psychological game where she basically is saying she submitting even more than usual. Remember, desire and sex are physical manifestations of a psychological dynamic & domination.
/r/askMRP11/10/20 07:12 PM
3

How do you deal with influence you deem bad in other areas of your life?
/r/askMRP17/09/20 04:42 PM
2

How dare she!! She’s a second class citizen and must treat you like a King. Have her walk two steps behind you at all times from now on.
/r/askMRP12/09/20 02:28 PM
5

A blink of an eye. And make the most of it until the next asteroid finds us.
/r/askMRP06/09/20 07:58 PM
1

Did you get severance?? I would take her on a weekend getaway and fuck her silly. Party for a bit. You don’t need the approval of some former employer. It’s their loss. Take a break and show her you’re the alpha dog of your life and she’s there to please you with her feminine energy as you go through a transition. She’ll be reassured by your insane self-confidence. Then come back and execute. You should have had a what-if SHTF plan beforehand and been prepared for this moment.
/r/askMRP01/09/20 12:06 AM
2

“It’s a trap”.
/r/askMRP26/08/20 01:11 AM
11

Falling is love is beautiful. I am in love now. She’s amazing. We have mind blowing sex, connection and she is a true life partner. We have each other’s back. She is hot, smart, sexy, witty and caring. But she’s a woman. That means I need to be careful not to give in and give up on my mission and priorities in life in order to be with her. And that’s what happens to most men. They slowly become accustomed to the comfort and lose sight of what truly matters to them when in a “relationship” or mar…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/20 01:57 PM
9

Nothing new under the Sun. As Rollo said, women are dream killers. Not because they want to but because men will give up on their dreams for a steady supply of pussy and the responsibilities that women attach to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/20 10:21 AM
1

Ha. Good one.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 09:32 PM
0

Like they even know why or that you can rely on what they say.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 08:21 PM
2

LOL on that last one. And yeah in that way (at least) its the right thing to do unless he wants to take legal risk etc.
/r/askMRP10/12/19 06:22 PM
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Nah. Stop looking for ‘our’ approval. I get what you’re going through. Because your wife sounds so much like my ex. And you sound like a total nice guy who is trying oh trying oh so hard. And maybe you’ll make it. And the nuke conversation you had maybe will work. My first thoughts after reading your entire post were “don’t get excited. Make her fall in love with you again. Train (retrain??) her that sex means love and connection. Sure over time add kink dirty talk and BDSM all you want. But sou…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 02:28 AM
1

This
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 12:41 AM
6

You sound clueless. And you also sound stubborn. It’s going to hurt.
/r/askMRP04/12/19 05:51 PM
0

You need to build a habit to hit the gym independent of whether she bangs you or not. Heck, you want to get to a place where she’ll want to fuck you to keep you home. And you’ll be so sex satisfied, to every now and then chuckle, kiss her on the forehead, squeeze her ass, and say “sorry babe, gotta run. But you’re mine when I get back.”
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 11:04 PM
1

Yes. The future order will be based on whatever is drafted and decided at “temporary” hearing. Stare decisis is a very powerful principle in American law and due process.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/19 10:42 PM
6

What? What do you mean by sex at work with your wife is “part of the job description”. Are you guys adult movie actors/ work in the porn industry?
/r/askMRP29/11/19 03:30 PM
1

What the hell is this. Why do you post it here?
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/19 12:37 PM
6

You’ll be fine. Three kids can be fun. You can stay married if it works for you. Take a longer perspective on life.
/r/askMRP22/11/19 01:19 AM
2

Keep it up bro. Have fun.
/r/askMRP12/11/19 08:59 PM
1

Inescapable pun! Intended or not. I am of course referring to you knowing you’re “shit”, according to your own flair. You clearly don’t know your shit hahahahaha.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/19 09:44 PM
2

Hahahaha hilarious. I can’t remember the last time I took life advice from a dude filming himself in his kitchen.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/19 09:41 PM
1

Anal! The great equalizer haha. Good post. Definitely do not fuck her ass in the beginning. Wait. Then when she’s ready (usually a few minutes in, after very very slow motion during which you will have added more lube), go at it - if you’ve done it well she’ll be asking for it at that point - and you’ll cum up her tight ass hole in no time!! Have fun!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/19 09:00 PM
1

You’re not alone in waiting. January and February are well known busy season for divorce attorneys. A lot of people either wait out the holidays or start new year with newfound power (new year resolution?) to make a new life. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/19 02:01 AM
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You’re fine. The world needs beta males. Lots of them.
/r/askMRP10/11/19 12:11 PM
9

Not your circus. You have your own relationship with each. Do not take sides.
/r/askMRP08/11/19 10:22 PM
3

It’s working! Keep up the good work. Don’t forget to add hugs and mild manner when she’s going through these tough times accommodating to the more masculine, oak-like you. Something like “oooh come here babe” and a kiss on the forehead at the right time, will show her you are not ignoring her emotions. That’s v important- lest this could spill into a Rambo phase where she genuinely perceives that you don’t care. You must avoid that. Of course you care- so you must be vv diplomatic, casual, funny…
/r/askMRP08/11/19 04:39 PM
1

Of course! But that’s not MGTOW
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/19 01:44 AM
2

Yeah well, nothing wrong with info. But MGTOW as I understand it also implies a lifestyle which am not sure is conducive to long term happiness.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/19 06:00 PM
2

Don’t sweat it. Enjoy the outcome. She sounds like a determined, thoughtful woman (i.e. saving for years to get something she deeply wants, as opposed to just going on an impulse to put it on a credit card). Good luck. Have fun!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/19 12:44 PM
0

MGTOW is too extreme my friend. Usually full of 20y or 25y olds who don’t have much life experience. May work for some, but likely not for OP.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/19 12:21 PM
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Going to give you some hard truths so buckle up. If you don’t enjoy being by yourself, you’re in bad company. You must become completely comfortable with being alone, without feeling lonely. Later, you will be ready to appreciate companionship for its real value. The worst thing you can be is needy. If you want loyalty, 100% dedication, get a dog. They will love you unconditionally. Unlike a woman. You should date, and have plenty of sex. But don’t hurry to introduce women to your kids. I would …
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/19 12:11 PM
2

I’ll add to this that the benefits of learning and applying grappling martial arts come in the bedroom. There is amazing pleasure from physically submitting her with the right techniques, without actually hurting her. No pain inflicted, no marks on body, and of course can be done quickly and cheaply when restraints are out of reach. Fun times.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 05:44 PM
2

Awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 04:19 PM
3

No. Depends on (1) how you do it (eg videotaped, good lawyer drafted, witnesses etc. beats a simple one page doc you do yourself) and (2) which jurisdiction (some states better than others).
/r/askMRP05/11/19 12:11 PM
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Nah. It’s your own preconceived notions talking, on both your points: (1) even virgins can become branch swingers and eventually jump back on carousel. Low or high n count. And (2) au contraire: move in if you want, to test the waters, but have a strong frame, and of course cohabitation agmt.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 08:47 PM
8

Yeah you sound like a beta male. 95% of men.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 06:39 PM
59

Yes you’re insecure. Yes you should have a bullet proof prenup. Good luck.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 05:03 PM
3

You’re lacking perspective. You need a compelling, insanely attractive vision of a bad ass future you at age 30,35 and 40. Paint that picture in as much detail in your head and then put in on paper (where are you, what do you do, who do you hang out with, how do you earn $, how much even etc.) then set out smaller goals to get there. Brainstorm etc. Make a plan, and get busy. When you get home, instead of getting depressed about being lonely, get excited at the blank slate that lies before you. …
/r/askMRP03/11/19 01:29 AM
1

Not tracking what you did there but hey you are the moderator.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/19 05:43 PM
3

In my notebook where I keep track of my workouts I occasionally write to myself “GBotH” which stands for get back on the horse. For when I ever off, or turn lazy for a few days, sometimes weeks. The blue pill matrix sucks you in, you don’t have to do much to live in it. The red pill system , matrix , praxeology whatever takes active, conscious effort. The blue pill is the comfort in the middle of the pack. Nice and warm. Step outside, and it’s cold, windy, and dangerous. Takes will, courage and …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/19 02:45 PM
1

This. Plus how about the “stormy night” ? Dude is in love with his own BS. Classic.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/19 01:14 AM
1

Yeah totally askMRP. Not sure why the extra saga entitles this to the main subreddit.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/19 01:12 AM
0

OP misunderstands desire. If she orgasms and is otherwise giving him enthusiastic BJs how can she not “desire” him? Seems dude lives too much in his head and she obviously is not very turned on by that. He doesn’t give her the tingles as we say.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/19 01:03 AM
0

Huh? This is America. You can see a doctor for whatever dreamed up condition you come up with. In fact the guide of the Psychology and Psychiatric Care keeps getting bigger and bigger every year. More and more disorders are “discovered.” They’ll hook you up on drugs right away and convince you you need them.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/19 11:46 PM
3

You still live in your head. That’s not sexy. She obviously picks up on it. Of course she doesn’t “desire “ you when in your head somehow she’s inadequate. Women have a dogs smell for betas. She’s dutifully fucking you because she’s probably a devoted, high-quality, stable woman. She may have started her sexual life early, and to her blowjobs and sex are not a big deal. But she’s not truly turned on by a hubby who has existential “is this all there is??” issues.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/19 08:43 PM
6

What the hell is with this whole obsession with being desired. What does “being desired” mean to you? Have you tried to please her, play with her, not just look to bust nut as u say, but make her cum once or twice first. Or arouse her, and then just walk away or delay the whole thing right before she cums. I bet you she will get desire in her eyes for you right away. And showing your wife that fucks you on the regular some research about being “asexual “ is probably one of the most gay things I’…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/19 08:19 PM
3

OK dude. What the fuck. What am I missing? Sounds like you fully get what this is all about, you can get laid left and right, she even orgasms, gives you enthusiastic blowjobs. What the hell else do you want? Plus, sounds like on a rational basis, she adds a lot of value to your life. And as far as reading about this whole asexual thing, keep in mind you may also suffer from first year medical student syndrome. Basically any condition you start reading and learning about, you start thinking you …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/19 08:15 PM
6

Dust off. Chin up. Move on. Grow a pair.
/r/askMRP28/10/19 06:09 PM
3

You’re an idiot. You’re fucking up your kids way worse by dying inside everyday. Don’t you think they see that? They feel it instinctively. You must be able to look your kids in the eye, and teach them the value of high quality relationships and pursuing what’s important for you (and ultimately for them) deep inside. You’ll serve them way better. Life is short. Otherwise they’ll just keep on living the way you did : that’s what they’ll learn. That it’s ok to take bullshit every day, cheat, lie, …
/r/askMRP23/10/19 03:25 PM
5

Why do you want to save something that sounds quite awful? Raise your standards, man.
/r/askMRP23/10/19 01:00 PM
1

Yes practicing martial arts are a crucial part of being a high value man, and of giving you a deep sense of personal, masculine fulfillment. The more physical and realistic the better.
/r/askMRP20/10/19 01:02 PM
9

Yeah shit test. The usual works: agree and amplify, ignore, or nuke if needed etc . This one was nothing. I’d say shit like “I know isn’t that awesome? I always knew I wanted to be savvy with what I spend money on” Or “I know, that camera is AMAZING! I should use it to take more pics/videos of your hot body.” Remember shit tests must be viewed as signs of interest and an opportunity to charm her through wittiness and cockiness. Make her wet with your IDGAF attitude.
/r/askMRP20/10/19 11:20 AM
2

With #2, it sounds like either naïveté or lack of maturity or both if you start talking about outside interests with the wrong crowd. Again, think in terms of usefulness: does talking about Shrodinger’s cat at a tailgate makes you more fun and enjoyable to be with? Would it advance your agenda and the quality of your relationships? And with #1, the internet is your friend to get started and explore. Plus let your creativity run wild on how exactly you can benefit and get social while pursuing yo…
/r/askMRP20/10/19 03:10 AM
5

Tough one. But it all depends on how you define truth and how you decide to incorporate that in your life. For example, you’re well aware than you’re smarter than the average gullible Bible Belt joe and that the Bible can pretty much be viewed as the goat herder’s guide to the galaxy. So that’s the truth. But how does that help you? It’s also true that man must find meaning in order to be fulfilled and be happy. It’s true that one (or at least most humans) need social interaction and bonding wit…
/r/askMRP20/10/19 01:39 AM
7

Go meet with a family lawyer ASAP.
/r/askMRP15/10/19 11:36 PM
2

Well you certainly sound advanced in BDSM if you’re doing D/s 24/7 and in that light the book may indeed be pure trash. But for the average middle age housewife who’s shamed about her naughty dreams, this book can work wonders. It’s women equivalent of pornhub. If not, any other romance novel BS should to the trick.
/r/askMRP14/10/19 08:54 PM
3

Fifty Shades of Grey , obviously
/r/askMRP14/10/19 08:09 PM
2

Analysis is fine as long as (1) you catch yourself doing it (self-awareness) and (2) you then transform it into productive use and actions. Don’t ruminate and let it drive you down the drain of self doubt or into anger, and doing something stupid (i.e. unattractive). Keep on improving, escalate levels of dread etc and eventually you should be able to say with a clear head and conscience either: nice, this is working, I am getting laid like tile; or fuck this, I’m going to go get laid elsewhere.
/r/askMRP12/10/19 07:48 PM
3

Move on mentally dude. Don’t accept shit. The world is your oyster. You’ll find yourself a nice younger lady to marry and move in with, if that’s what you want. This one: stick a fork in it.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 06:31 PM
8

Dude. Read your own fucking comment. Even if true that her SMV is low now because of her body, why are you taking a cut in your own SMV as a result ? She’s asking you to chastity cage yourself and you’re happy to do it. Your head is so far up your ass. You’re not you right now. You’re a lame version of you which is a fucking puppet under her spell. You’re like Indy Jones about to burn the Chinese boy. Wake the fuck up!
/r/askMRP09/10/19 06:20 PM
12

Hahahahaha. She “asked you not to see other women and she’s doing the same”
/r/askMRP09/10/19 05:48 PM
25

Moving in with a girl you’re not married to without a formal cohabitation agreement is asking for trouble. You’re like sheep to the slaughterhouse. You just quietly follow the heard and have no idea what’s going on. If you’re smart and own your shit and your life 100% you’ll realize it’s your fault. If you’re dumb or egotistical you’ll blame her for your issues and unhappiness down the line.
/r/askMRP07/10/19 04:36 PM
3

Guilt by association!!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/19 12:10 AM
1

Like everything else, start slow. Look up women erotica or thinks like that. I hear Netflix has a good show that women like with some time travel and some hot scenes. Don’t call it porn as it could be scary to begin with. Call it love making :-) haha just with lots of visual. Pretty soon you guys will be subscribed to pornhub watching all sorts of hard core and she’ll be dripping wet just at the thought of you opening the laptop in bed. Haha
/r/askMRP03/10/19 04:50 PM
2

See my reply (the second, longer one further down page) three days ago to a similar post by u/RJP4420
/r/askMRP30/09/19 11:54 AM
3

No. No validation here. You’re a sex god, an oak of a man, who leads his family and his woman. You know way better than to argue with women, and you know texts are for logistics. But hey even the best of us fail. BS. Man the fuck up bro. Look deep inside what triggered your ass to lose focus on what you already knew and start “fighting” with her. That’s when you lost. It’s in that moment.
/r/askMRP27/09/19 10:11 PM
3

Every day is a new chance for her to impress you and show her love. Don’t have full details but assuming it’s mostly her talk and similar BS that were sub-par, I’d ignore it and assume she’s gonna get dolled up, and be a hot date for you for this event. Now why would you want to risk canceling on that?
/r/askMRP27/09/19 10:07 PM
14

Nah. You’ve only been married for 6 years, it shouldn’t be that bad. Do your homework and find out exactly what the “what if” scenario looks like. And it’s only money anyway - you’ll make it back. Do not put a price on your life. Money you can recover. But time never.
/r/askMRP26/09/19 05:22 PM
15

Also: and more on tactical side: we need to talk more about your business trip to NOLA as I don’t think you fully understand the dynamics at play. You and her hanging out with dorks and how they’re in awe of her since she’s hot. You’re looking at it the wrong way. They are and should be in awe of YOU since YOU slay that pussy. But only if you act like the alpha you are. If you’re weak and insecure about the looks she’s getting, you lose. You should be teasing those “dorks” and act like the alpha…
/r/askMRP26/09/19 05:04 PM
32

Wow. Cool story. Love the way the drama unfolds. Ok, now in all seriousness, and to help you out: you have a solid degree of self awareness which is a good start. As you recognize, you spend too much of your time around her and wanting to be with her. That comes from your still wet paper bag frame. Yes you have oneitis. Yes you’re very (too much?) attuned to her, and that’s why you notice her every move. You need to disabuse yourself of the notion that your marriage is so so special. You need to…
/r/askMRP26/09/19 03:34 PM
6

Ego. A man’s ultimate foe.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 08:01 PM
12

No. You have no choice but to turn yourself into the best man you can be. That’s the right mindset. And it involves (among many other things) putting a genuine effort in the relationship with your wife. That may indeed lead to a good marriage, saving it etc. But your job and your focus should not be to save the marriage. Open your mind. Do you want your kid to grow up with a disgruntled dad? You have your whole life ahead of you. Don’t spend it next to someone who you don’t get along with. Ask y…
/r/askMRP20/09/19 02:05 PM
15

Seriously- Mods should consider saving all these for disaster scenarios that other guys can learn from. We don’t learn so much from successes, but from failures. Ideally others’ not our own. In this case, OP was like sheep to slaughterhouse (even before getting married she stopped fucking him!) as she locked him down. Female sexual strategy 1 - Man’s 0.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 01:44 PM
7

The S in this OYS is so big and smelly it deserves its own post.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 01:14 PM
29

Amazing. Dude has lots going for him. Is fucking 29yrs old, career, on the ascending ladder to peak SMV. Has this sub with tons of resources to genuinely awaken and become a better man. Ok, he made some arguably not- so-good decisions in the past and married a single mom, 4 yr older, with a kid. He helps raise another man’s son. Good lad. But wife stops fucking him. He either half asses his becoming a valuable, fuckable man, or indeed did his MAP the right way, but the bitch is even nastier, wea…
/r/askMRP20/09/19 01:13 PM
1

Yeah. A whole new level of primal fear induced beta. Red pill raw. Literally threatened by the woman’s father to marry her and become her provider.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 08:59 PM
6

Dude lives in Turkey. Enough said.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 04:43 PM
5

Best not to bang women at work. Make that part of your personal code of conduct. I have done in my twenties and it was a lot of fun. But I’ve learned not to do it now once I better understand the risks.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 01:55 PM
16

Assuming you’re not a troll.... You’re trying to fit a square peg though a round hole. It’s not going to work. You’re the peg. You’re like most men and have a biological urge to fuck a lot of women. On top of that you’re only 23 so your dick likely controls your brain and actions much more than it should. You’re what’s called “young, dumb and full of cum”. Most of us have been there. On that note you should channel a lot of that sexual energy in something productive. Your twenties and thirties a…
/r/askMRP19/09/19 01:18 PM
6

You’re a pussy or a beginner or both. Don’t fix a woman’s stated issues. Ever. Unless she’s being attacked by a bear or whatever and she truly needs you to overpower some bad actor with your brutal strength and resolve. All else is nonsense drama bullshit she can handle herself.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 01:54 AM
3

Facebook is a tool. It’s a “social media” tool. The question is “is it a tool that you can use ?” Or are you part of someone who else’s tool?
/r/askMRP17/09/19 05:29 PM
2

That’s true right now but sounds like the mom is coming after the kid. Unless she’s on crack or has serious criminal record, she’s probably going to get some custodial time. In which case OP may have to pay support.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/19 12:32 PM
3

You’re an idiot. If I had a penny for every time I almost broke up with my LTR because of shit she was saying. Watch what she does, ignore what she says.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 11:10 AM
3

Stick a fork in it. Be thankful you don’t have kids with her. You’re young you have tons of time to build a relationship even relationships you want. Good luck. And Stop being a pussy.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 11:08 AM
5

Piercings. Love a good naked chick with some extra shiny metal in the right places. It’s like permanent lingerie
/r/askMRP17/09/19 12:26 AM
11

No hard rules and individual cases may vary, but generally a lower n count indicates a higher quality, more trustworthy woman. Also as a general rule (paradoxically if you will), the more a man cares about a woman’s n count, the more likely it is he’s insecure and he either ends up with someone who lies to him in the beginning, or cheats on him toward the end. Recognize it’s only your turn anyway. She’s never really yours, n count high or low. The better man you are, the stronger chance you’ll h…
/r/askMRP17/09/19 12:13 AM
1

No. Not sure what state you live in but in mine if she has even a portion of physical custody, and there is an income difference that favors him he likely has to pay child support. And you’re correct on “child custody” but to be clear we’re talking support (which is impacted by both income and physical custody time).
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/19 11:18 PM
7

Start believing.Start believing. it may get worse from here before gets better. Importantly, learn to let these lawyers opposing statements and claims roll right off your back. Imagine they are strictly the other team cheering for their side. Nothing is final until a judge rules so in their court order. I used to get so angry and triggered in the beginning when I would get I need mail from her lawyer. My heart rate literally started jumping and I was fuming when I was reading all the bullshit.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/19 09:40 PM
4

Yes you’ll have to pay child support. Unless she makes more money than you. Get a lawyer ASAP. You can afford it. Do not argue with her. Do not get angry with her. Anger belongs in the gym. Buckle up for the long fight. This may not end quickly.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/19 09:37 PM
2

Hahahahaha this . Maybe an IF THEN statement too.
/r/askMRP16/09/19 09:26 PM
6

Sounds like you need to work on your Jesus Christ lord is my shepherd cult builder game. That is not blue pill. I think you still struggle to distinguish between shit test and comfort test. But let’s just say you properly identified a situation where she genuinely is going through crappy emotions, and needs a steady body to prop her self up. She needs the oak. What you need at that point is to watch, gently raise your gaze and look at her forehead, smile just very very little, imperceptibly, con…
/r/askMRP16/09/19 05:45 PM
4

Yikes. They don’t tell you any of that in wedding magazines do they. Mine wasn’t as bad but I definitely learned few things the hard way. I see young newly weds without prenups now like sheep to the slaughterhouse. Just clueless.
/r/askMRP14/09/19 02:33 PM
3

Well to be clear get out from relationship but not physically get out from house. Courts view that negatively as giving up parental responsibilities as a father.
/r/askMRP14/09/19 01:06 PM
4

No. Only if he doesn’t care about time with kids. See my replies. Been there done that. Move out mentally and move on. But currently his best bet is to buckle up, live with the enemy for a while, while he gets what he wants in custodial time. Signed by a judge, not promises or emails.
/r/askMRP14/09/19 11:48 AM
7

No. If he moves out he risks losing seeing his kids big time. His moving out is not inline with his kids “enjoy a happy Dad”. If court order limits his time seeing them, and she gets significant primary physical custody he will become the absent dad and relationship with kids will suffer materially.
/r/askMRP14/09/19 11:46 AM
10

“Lay down rules for her”? How is he going to enforce them?
/r/askMRP14/09/19 11:44 AM
15

File for divorce ASAP. See a lawyer. You’re at risk that she gets primary physical custody, including right to move with the kids out of state. You become the far-away, visiting dad then. If the house is jointly owned you can’t do shit. She can stay there as long as she wants including invite the boyfriend to live there, to intimidate you and make you move out. Buckle up for the long war. Your plan should be to make her move out, leave kids behind. Get yourself a clear support system for the kid…
/r/askMRP14/09/19 11:17 AM
6

LOL Is this a joke
/r/askMRP14/09/19 12:21 AM
3

Because if things don’t work out it will have severe negative financial impact. Best not to jointly own something so costly, with a mortgage on top, and that is also a marital home.
/r/askMRP13/09/19 03:50 PM
2

Ok. Take notes: Feeding one’s family is an essential almost spiritual experience. Enjoying a home cooked meal - and one that you’ve made yourself, and for your loved ones - will satisfy you on a very deep level. Hard to explain it until you actually live it. In this day and age one thinks that just by being a high earner one has fulfilled his duty to provide for the family. Maybe that’s the case in hard numbers, but it does very little to show true mastery and to give the feelz (think of all the…
/r/askMRP13/09/19 03:44 PM
5

So many similarities with my life 10 yrs ago. Now we are divorced. Money wasn’t issue #1 but it strained relations. More specifically my nice guy- ness and inability to lead myself and the family financially (despite my growing income over the years), which sometimes involves a hard look and choices when it comes to money. Get busy cooking and buying food. Learn. Not all the time, but start say once a month. Own the fucking kitchen, don’t be head in sand. Money is important. Try living on a cash…
/r/askMRP13/09/19 01:51 PM
11

I think you handled it well. My concerns are with the behavioral tactics nature of your question. You seem very heads down into the details. Once you get what this whole red pill approach to life and relationships is all about, you should be able to find your own answers to questions like “did I act ok in this case?” As I think you already realize, there will always be an element of my kids versus your kids in your relationship. Each party thinks that of course they are doing a better job at par…
/r/askMRP12/09/19 12:15 PM
11

Rich Dad Poor Dad is a good one. Classic, Also start following and reading through the personalfinance subreddit. Good nuggets there and wiki resources.
/r/askMRP10/09/19 09:19 PM
2

Hahahaha every once in a while??! Love the sarcasm. OP is clueless. Wet paper bag frame. Couldn’t fuck his poor lady if she looked like Giselle in custom sized Agent Provocateur lingerie.
/r/askMRP09/09/19 07:37 PM
3

You’re way too young to be married. And your little story is a case in point. You’re clueless and it’s just a matter of time before she leaves you. Would probably do you good.
/r/askMRP09/09/19 07:35 PM
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“Spend all our time together “ enough said. Your relationship is not on solid ground and eventually it will end. Sounds like she’s already there or working her way out. Good. You are a pussy so you need to outgrow this.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/19 05:24 PM
4

Ha hahaha tough one. If only the rest of the dads missed the party because they were working on something significant for them, instead of using the opty to play more video games or “watch the game with the guys”. And as far as the bluest of blue whales showing up, I probably would have pulled him aside and taken him for a tour, say your home gym if have one, or try to find that ounce of manhood in him and bring it to shine. Wake him the fuck up. But of course I am day dreaming. To your point, f…
/r/askMRP09/09/19 04:09 PM
-3

Pls tell me that doesn’t happen. I guess been a while since divorce and away from such scenes...
/r/askMRP09/09/19 01:51 PM
3

Not only that but why does any parent need to even stick around. Drop the kids off for a couple hours of free babysitting! Go enjoy some adult time, pick kid up when done. Unfortunately a symptom of the over-parenting and martyr mommy syndrome typical in the US these days.
/r/askMRP09/09/19 01:50 PM
8

It’s too late. The fact that she even thinks this is a possibility shows how much territory you have to recover from blue pill land. Never mind that YOU even consider the question. I mean look at the title of your post. What’s so crucial about a little guy 3 yr birthday. ?? So at this point maybe with lots of Bullshit, verbal jiu jitsu and jokes, and lots of slaps on ass, “ohhhhh come here babe” after she pretends to be upset you can get away with it. But you’d have to do some serious faking. Ot…
/r/askMRP09/09/19 01:22 PM
5

Shit tests. Classic manipulation to establish mommy’s (her) boy (you) dynamic, whether intentional or subconscious. Are you fucking her good?
/r/askMRP09/09/19 12:38 AM
3

Aha!! There it is right there. Fuck her good, reset the frame of your relationship as sex- and connection- first, and the rest should take care of itself, and fall nicely in place in your overall life vision. Which indeed may well be a two-homes one.
/r/askMRP08/09/19 02:36 PM
3

Never argue with a woman. Your issue stems from inviting a level of steady drama in your life. Every woman has some baggage or some agenda. You picked one with a bit of both and kudos to you you resisted so far to entangle further. Such as full cohabitation, which can be very limiting for a man. If the one relationship - two homes solution works for you strategically (sounds like it does), all you need to do is sugar coat it and sell it to her so she gets the comfort feels around long term stabi…
/r/askMRP08/09/19 02:17 PM
1

Ok catch me up. Why do you say you’re “legally obligated now to state 100%”?
/r/askMRP08/09/19 03:50 AM
5

It’s never too late to do the right thing. While your situation is probably worse than many, remember it’s all relative. It can ALWAYS be worse. Say that to yourself every day as you look in the mirror. It would be too late if you and your family were stripped naked, entering what you thought would be a common shower, and instead of water, they would turn on Zynlon B. It would be too late if you get pushed off a high bridge by some random truck that got in your lane. It would be too late if all …
/r/askMRP07/09/19 07:01 PM
9

Two issues here: (1) deciding what to do and what works for you - or call it strategy. Sounds like you got that and you don’t need help with it. And (2) tactics on how to deal with opposition and a potentially non-cooperating first Officer. The answer to that is diplomacy, charm, and flanking. Talk soft but carry a big stick. Let her vent out emotions, as long as you still get your way. Of course don’t tolerate crazy drama (unless you’re into that...). Confuse, distract, obfuscate. Do not argue.…
/r/askMRP06/09/19 02:46 PM
22

You’re still not getting it. Your whole post reeks of typical immature young guns craving. You’re like the karate kid who wants to get to the top of the food chain very very quickly. “Oh what is the exact formula, so I can ace it, so I can then know that I’ve made it. So I can feel good about myself, and then enjoy GUARANTEED results.” You are textbook nice guy. Most of us have been there. It’s OK to want some scoring system but you must defeat that craving that you’ve arrived. That’s mommy’s bo…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 03:36 AM
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Dude. First of all it’s tenet not tenant. Secondly you’re waxing poetic a bit too much. By definition MV is perceived. That’s what m for market stands for. You think your house is worth a lot, but until you try to sell it there’s no actual market for it. Anything else is not really market, but some estimate. Body fat, age and income are of course good parameters. But they’re not the full picture. We all know the fat fuck who’s got balls of steel, charms the ladies with his game, and gets done in…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/19 11:34 PM
9

Yeah you guys are done. I can tell by the way you’re thinking. You want the ** relationship **. You’re basically thinking like a woman. Lots of work for you to do...
/r/askMRP05/09/19 01:45 AM
1

Solid. Thank you,
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/19 01:10 AM
0

Yeah I only go for virgins too. Makes me feel like a man.
/r/askMRP04/09/19 01:18 PM
2

That depends on where he resides. Different laws regarding level of consent for video recording.
/r/askMRP04/09/19 12:37 PM
5

Don’t overthink it. This is actually a good test for you. Imagine being with an ex girlfriend, in a college roommate type situation. You guys are obviously free to pursue other interests, but there might be something between the two of you. No strings attached. Who knows, one of these days she may have an extra glass of wine, put some lingerie on and pay you a visit after midnight. What will you do then? Answer: whatever you feel like it. You have a busy hard day ahead, and you really need to sl…
/r/askMRP04/09/19 12:00 PM
4

You sound young. And that’s fine. What you need to do at this point instead of overthinking small stuff is go get laid with lots of women, and that should cure it. Find out who you want exactly to be with, what you enjoy the most in a woman, pursue that, and everything will flow beautifully and naturally. Focus on your mission not women.
/r/askMRP04/09/19 11:51 AM
1

Stop calling it emotional affair. He’s been banging her brains out. You live in la la land and are calling this upon yourself if you continue to think that the two of you can ever go back to being together.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/19 12:01 PM
1

Never talk to the cops. Get a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/19 12:00 PM
1

The DA does not work for you. Get a lawyer ASAP.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/19 11:58 AM
1

File for divorce ASAP. Get a lawyer. You cannot afford not to. Consider it price of protection and price of going to school. You need to put in at least $5- $10k or so in that over the next few months as you learn the ropes. After that you can go solo if you want. But right now the system is so much against you that you will suffer much more than you even realize the longer you stay married and the longer you stay unprotected and unprepared. Pull your head out of your ass regarding her. She is h…
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/19 11:57 AM
7

I can tell you from personal experience having been divorced for three years now, after a marriage of about eight years: Life after divorce is very good. And the freedom is invaluable. You are only 38. You can get married again at 48, and again at fucking 58 if you want. Stay in shape, do all the things we talk about here, and the world is your oyster.
/r/askMRP03/09/19 12:50 AM
4

You have oneitis. Pretty acute case. You must protect yourself financially as soon as possible. Why not use this opportunity to get the divorce, protect assets and income for equitable distribution, and continue to date her if you want. Even monogamously if you want. Wink wink. All these glimpses, and realizations are your manhood trying to kick you in the nuts and the ass to realize what the fuck is going on. All those touchy-feely thoughts you get around how you enjoy being married, how she’s …
/r/askMRP03/09/19 12:28 AM
4

Decide to live every day. On your own terms (Frame). Recognize that it could end any minute due to circumstances outside your control (OI). Relax.
/r/askMRP02/09/19 08:57 PM
3

You sound needy, green and give too many fucks.
/r/askMRP01/09/19 11:18 AM
5

Lawyer up ASAP. Especially since it sounds like you can afford it. Relax. You have it better than you think. Grow a pair of balls. Stop listening to her when she whines like that. Read up on father/ dads divorce forum (I forget exact website) on some good tips on how to handle extreme conflict from soon to be ex and mother of your kids. That is a must. You’re at war until the court order is issued and you have your custody schedule. From then on, you parent how you want to, on your own time.
/r/askMRP30/08/19 07:59 PM
2

Yeah let‘s all jerk each other off around the campfire since we don’t already spend enough time on reddit.
/r/askMRP30/08/19 04:35 PM
7

I hope English is not your fist language.
/r/askMRP29/08/19 05:27 PM
12

This . OP, apply this short rule of thumb : anything that starts with “you” is a shit test. Respond accordingly. Anything that starts with “I”, usually things like “I feel this I feel that”, that tends to be a comfort test. Again, respond appropriately. Importantly, you can reliably ignore everything she says, but you must not act like you don’t care how she feels.
/r/askMRP28/08/19 11:56 PM
11

Hmmm have seen this before around here. You’re too giggly at how far you’ve come, in such a short amount of time and have started to get used to you being the new IDGAF you. Meanwhile although she first thought it was hot, now sees through it, she’s playing the long game and tests the shit out of you. Now with extra ooomph and tantrums and drama like cancelling plans and sleeping on couch or what not. Mind you, this may be the best you’ll ever get from her. But the suave, shit eating grin, and l…
/r/askMRP28/08/19 10:00 PM
1

Hahahaha it hits you but it should not. Of course she longs for a man who makes more than her. She craves to submit and provisioning / financial resources are a way to keep track. If you make more somehow (she thinks) she gets the tingles and starts respecting you more. But that’s bullshit. Your goal is to laugh her out of the room, when she throws these shit tests, and be such an alpha dog that she showers you with gifts and resources, takes you out to fancy dinners, and sponsors your ass- ALL …
/r/askMRP26/08/19 09:35 PM
4

Read the menu, but eat at home mindset. You’re welcome to cook a nice meal, copy the recipe. Make fancy dinners. In other words charm and game and get your woman to be the sluttiest dirtiest you can imagine. Your private sex doll fulfilling all your fantasies. Anything short of that and you have to seriously look at pros and cons, and where you value not living your desires vs benefits of remaining monogamously married. A woman who is hot for you should be putty in your hands, and for you to hav…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/19 01:07 AM
6

Not wanting to be married again could be a good rule for leading yourself, but it should be secondary and a consequence from living your life on your own terms. Not the main goal. The work should be on finding what those terms are. Clarifying them, testing, and then living your mission.
/r/askMRP24/08/19 02:31 PM
1

Haha just a very productive use of time on the internet!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/19 09:02 PM
2

Not sure what the deal is with this metaphor. Can be taken in a lot of philosophical directions. But I’ll play. Does it serve my interests to tell him?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/19 02:42 PM
1

That sucks. But as you say, AWALT. So you should not be surprised. Your options: Ignore, move on, business as usual. That seems naive at best. Drop expectations of fidelity from both you guys. Start using condoms, make sure you understand who she’s fooling around with. Basically open the marriage up. That’s what it is anyway, from her part. Why should it not be from yours too? Be open about it all, talk it over- it’s exactly how she acts, so call it out. See what it does for you. Not everyone ca…
/r/askMRP20/08/19 11:10 AM
13

I almost stopped reading when you wrote “she tells me...” she’s amazing etc. Of course she does. Look through the BS. Follow 17th Commandment of Poon (and of course all others): ignore all she says, watch what she does. Your choices are to (1) maybe slowly try to open your marriage up. See if your fat wife is OK with you banging other women. Maybe while she watches or joins in. (2) cheat, do that behind wife s back. All sorts of risks. (3) divorce, go live independently, go bang whoever you want…
/r/askMRP17/08/19 10:40 AM
1

Ugh. Done something similar many years ago... sucks being a drunk captain and for her to be in charge. Congrats ... that’s pure beta right there. She’s the mature adult, leader of the flock, taking care of the pack, driving, staying sane. You’re the little whiny boy. Massive changes needed. I wouldn’t even worry about tactics and what to do / say now. Your problems are very deep and it will take lots of time and work to change.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 01:08 PM
2

Good points and thanks for the insights. Yes she is on the hotter side, and I hadn’t realized that because of that (or correlated with that), she is likely to have no game. She’s used to be hit on, not other way around.
/r/askMRP06/08/19 11:14 AM
1

Yeah there is a little bit of mate guarding thinking going on.
/r/askMRP06/08/19 11:10 AM
2

Thank you for that history nugget lesson.
/r/askMRP29/07/19 03:58 PM
3

“Save the relationship “ ??? What the fuck are you talking about. You sound like a girl. That’s her job. You want to actually save “ the step dad zone “?? The world needs people like you. Go back to being a beta. And thanks for your hard work.
/r/askMRP03/06/19 02:16 PM
10

So what’s your question?
/r/askMRP03/06/19 12:48 PM
1

Jacktenofhearts = the man, the legend
/r/askMRP30/05/19 06:37 PM
1

Ditto. Ever since I googled something like “drama with your ex “ or “how to avoid conflict with your ex “ and then stumbled upon his BD blog about two years ago, my life has changed dramatically. Mind you I had found the pill and this reddit 4+ years ago. Been working on living the “alpha 2.0” life since with great results. He’s not perfect (a bit too “autistic” / head in sand) but overall the mindset, relationship models and world view are fucking revolutionary.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/19 01:05 PM
8

I once fucked a married gal (haha she even came with me to a convention or two) who grew up religious like that and had a low n count. Hubby was her high school sweetheart. She would bring numbing spray to our dates in hotel rooms so she could take me all in as I fucked her face with enjoyment. So yeah, they may have hangups but miraculously they disappear with some dudes. OP needs to be one of them.
/r/askMRP29/05/19 11:00 PM
4

Hahaha hahah Fucking laughing out loud. I had missed that. OP is so blue pill and such Mr Nice guy he is already thinking about his next marriage. That’s like covert contract squared !!!
/r/askMRP29/05/19 10:55 PM
20

Classic. That said, Have you met with an attorney yet? You need to be ready for divorce. Financially and practically not just mentally. Don’t expect the “ultimate covert contract” to disappear completely even after you’ve moved on. It could be years from now and still deep in your mind you’ll find yourself you’ll still look for her approval. Her every word. You’ll have to fight that instinct in you for the rest of your life with her - and yes, since you have a child with her the two of you are g…
/r/askMRP29/05/19 09:51 PM
1

Thanks. This needed to be said to this guy, and you hit nail on the head.
/r/askMRP29/05/19 01:49 PM
11

Stories. The boy you were once was obviously sick and you remember that. But a lot of what that boy experienced (eg as a newborn) you don’t remember . It was told to you. Unfortunately sounds like your mom went though a lot with the boy you were (that’s not your fault by the way) and was not able to show that boy love in a constructive way. She sort of blamed the child. I’m no psychologist or psychoanalyst but it’s not a surprise to me that you have a hard time around your LTR and you fear trigg…
/r/askMRP28/05/19 05:16 PM
1

Listen to you. You sound like her. Rationalizing and taking seriously her objections. Look, women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas. What’s your approach here? Like anything else: slowly does it. Add humor. Start maybe by having a washcloth or wipes (there is a company that makes sex cleanup wipes exactly for these situations) handy. Do it on your own initiative to have a nice clean dick and then have her go to town. Do it for you, not for her. Ultimately the goal is that over time…
/r/askMRP28/05/19 02:11 PM
1

“But what if she thinks it’s unreasonable and you think it’s unreasonable “ that’s the crux right there. And that’s where strength of frame comes in. Of course her hamster is going to think it’s reasonable. The key is not to fight her, have arguments with her. Like Bill Burr said: never argue with a woman. You need to (1) correctly identify the shit test, and (2) apply the correct techniques. 1 - if it’s compliance with something unrelated to your stated mission and goals (clarify those for your…
/r/askMRP28/05/19 11:24 AM
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Compliance with her made up demands and wacky moods is what we’re talking about. Compliance with a rightful course of action that makes sense for the good of the pack is different (like bins overflowing or whatever in your example). That should not happen if the captain had done his job. And if it does happen and someone brings it to his attention then, it’s all fine and good: thank her, acknowledge her contribution to the good for the pack and move on. They have a point after all! Drop your ego…
/r/askMRP28/05/19 03:13 AM
1

Hahahaha she doesn’t like the taste of her own pussy?!
/r/askMRP28/05/19 03:08 AM
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... And to answer your question more specifically, you need to distinguish between true needs she says she has (like a true medical thing for example, where you can see real changes or negative impact on her behavior if you don’t comply), and mere apparent discomfort like dripping with your cum all day. Tease her how she’ll be getting a load of energy from you to last her the entire day, then send you pics as she changes her undies etc. She should be proud she carries your cum all day like that,…
/r/askMRP27/05/19 05:40 PM
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Short answer is it’s a shit test. Big picture strategy: the more you comply with stated requests the lower your attraction to her. Increase compliance = lower attraction. Decrease compliance = raise attraction. The key is when you don’t comply with stupid stated requests like that to do it in a charming, disarming James Bond fashion, not like Rambo or butt- hurt boy. Alphas get away with everything they want.
/r/askMRP27/05/19 05:32 PM
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Apply these simple rules and practice practice practice.: A quiet woman is a bad sign. Ignore everything she says and watch what she does. Engage with the emotion behind what she’s saying not with the meaning of the actual words she says. Listen. Always do 20-30 % of the talking. Let her do the rest.
/r/askMRP26/05/19 06:18 PM
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This. Also, always be ready and willing to let her walk away. If she throws a verbal storm at you in the beginning (could last for months as she struggles to test you before and as she falls in love with you) and if/ when she crosses a line, calmly look her in the eye and say “look, it was a fun night. We talked and I listened to you and beyond a certain point it’s just not fun anymore. I’ll drive you home/ open door/ it’s time to leave” end of story. You’ll see how quickly she changes the tune …
/r/askMRP26/05/19 03:55 PM
1

Thanks. Just got it on audible and will give it a listen. Speaking of books by guys in jail, recommend book by Shawn Hopgood, “Lawman” - book by a bank robber and how he turned his life around to go win cases at the US Supreme Court.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/19 03:35 PM
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How long have you been married for? Have you met with a divorce lawyer yet? If you haven’t, you’re not really ready.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 11:55 PM
2

Haha you had me google her as I had no idea who she was. Who needs to watch Game of Thrones when you can learn about it here at askMRP.
/r/askMRP14/05/19 06:46 PM
3

Wait, you let the mother of your children drive your kids around drunk?
/r/askMRP14/05/19 04:57 PM
3

Eyebrow raise = winner. Nonverbal communication direct to her hamster.
/r/askMRP14/05/19 03:31 PM
4

Strongly suggest you focus on your own reading. Specifically highly recommend Girls on the Edge by Dr. Leonard Sax, MD PhD - one of the most red pill books you can find on raising daughters.
/r/RedPillParenting14/05/19 01:19 PM
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The train has left the station probably months ago. When you first gave in to stupid little requests like that which are nothing more than silly attempts to slowly train you to be her beta errand boy. The short term tactical solution to that is to completely ignore it. Act literally like she didn’t say it. Look through her like a psychopath, talk about something else, if you need to. You literally do not hear stupid things like that. The longer term more strategic solution is to have a strong fr…
/r/askMRP14/05/19 11:27 AM
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Keep up the great work brother . Nice set of changes you’ve made and you already know (1) you’re moving in the right direction by now, and (2) the work on yourself never stops.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/19 04:44 PM
8

Hmmm. It depends. If you look at them like a needy, quiet squirrel whose attention is easily caught by flashy skirts, leggings or tits, it is a sign of being a wussy beta. Think about those guys who look but never approach because they are too scared or have no game or both. So of course she doesn’t like it and would not want to be around you when you’re acting that way. I’m going to guess your frame is shit and you’re a ball in the pinball machine, bouncing between your wife’s moods and these a…
/r/askMRP04/05/19 12:52 AM
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You’re still playing amateur league. You don’t have kids and yet you prostitute yourself by staying with this woman whom you’ve chosen years ago. Would 2019 badass you choose this woman? Keep growing man balls and pull the plug. Staying in a relationship with her is like wearing an old coat that no longer fits you. What’s your plan? Fuck around yet slowly die every day you accept something that’s not what you truly want ?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/19 06:21 PM
2

Troll
/r/askMRP03/05/19 04:21 PM
1

Validation does not involve others. Good sex does.
/r/askMRP02/05/19 05:58 PM
1

Haha touché
/r/askMRP01/05/19 01:57 PM
1

Marriage counseling is the anti-chamber to a trial hearing in family court. When you go through that, marriage counseling will seem like child play.
/r/askMRP30/04/19 04:44 PM
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I wonder though if part of that enhanced, 11-level shit testing is in fact caused by some rebellion (conscious or subconscious) against the norms that her parents followed in securing the arranged marriage. And regardless of what hubby does, there will be a very strong force inside her to chase some Alpha out there on her own, or some better beta bucks. She may view deep down the very fact that hubby married her as being very beta, and a result of his own parents’ pushing him into it or him comp…
/r/askMRP30/04/19 04:14 PM
2

One of the keys to this is identifying and understanding the difference between horniness and sex drive. Once you do it will be easier.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 11:52 AM
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I wonder if OP is worth saving or if it’s even possible. It’s like when a boy (OP) finds gunpowder (RP knowledge). May confuse him and he may end up blowing himself up.
/r/askMRP30/04/19 10:37 AM
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You’re fine. Keep up the good work. We need people like you in the matrix. Who’s going to do the work otherwise? You’re a pinball in the game of your mom, your upbringing (cultural/ religious) and your wife. And you play in the corset of US marriage laws. You’re a tool now so you need to figure out what game you want to play and what do to with all this RP wisdom you have access to. Good luck.
/r/askMRP30/04/19 10:35 AM
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BarracudaRP advice is spot on: you need to think more strategically about dread. But if you’re looking for small tweaks and tactics (without going overboard and overthinking the Machiavellinism), look to put some distance and longer lag in your call backs/ text replies. Just a bit in the beginning, to give her time to miss you more, wonder more what are you up to. Don’t go Rambo, autist robot asshole. Just subtly communicate you have better and more important things to do than communicate your w…
/r/askMRP29/04/19 11:32 AM
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You should come up with your own ways to verbalize this, to sound genuine and not rehearsed - can be as simple as “you need my cock, babe”, “take it”, “ come and get it” etc
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/19 12:37 AM
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Yes . But see my earlier reply to similar comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/19 10:29 PM
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If your goal is to create a Saudi Arabia -style relationship where the woman is second class and you can do whatever you want with her by law then go for it. Ignore her sexual needs. Focus purely on you. But assuming you live in a more liberal culture /country and you understand that long-term both you and your woman have choices, she’s more inclined to stay with someone who gives her tingles and orgasms. Someone with whom she truly enjoys sex. And it’s a law of large numbers, not an “every sing…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/19 09:12 PM
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Tactics and play-by-play advice on techniques will not help you much here. She’ll smell them a mile away, see right though them. Your frame is a wet paper bag. Deep down you’re still a Nice Guy. You must change that first. You must genuinely become that badass version of yourself who you have not been in years (or ever?) and who she hasn’t seen in years (or ever). Once you do that, all this nonsense will either not happen, you may not even notice it, or it will be like child’s play and you’ll sw…
/r/askMRP27/04/19 09:16 AM
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Tell her what? “Babe I have this side piece she sucks me so well. Why don’t you do it too? Here let me whip out my cock for you.” That’s really attractive. If you’re getting plenty action on the side then you should be sex-satisfied and not give a crap about whether she sucks you or not. Seems to me you’re stuck in your head (maybe for accepting sub par from her for many years? Too much Nice guy history?) and despite the side action you have not achieved abundance mentality and OI. Tell her how …
/r/askMRP25/04/19 12:20 PM
1

Look up XR-U Extreme Restraints University
/r/askMRP25/04/19 12:12 AM
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Already gave you enough advice for now. Also gave you similar advice 15 days ago. Strikes me you have not yet internalized/ applied. Yes if she’s directing things in bed you’re in her frame which makes you a beta and less attractive. You should be directing things in bed. And if it’s her on top playing some seemingly more dominant role you want for her, or fucking pegging or rimming you or whatever, that’s cool if you’re into it and as long as she does it in your frame. In BDSM it’s called toppi…
/r/askMRP24/04/19 08:49 PM
2

Basics, such as watch what she does, ignore what she says. Get educated. Plenty of online material on how to do anal. Be prepared. Have a towel nearby. Be patient. Anal usually works well after 1-2 solid PIV orgasms and she’s relaxed. While you’re at it, do actual butt play, as you said. Use a toy, if needed, see how she responds. Be patient. It may be a matter of weeks/ months where you slowly escalate butt play till the point where she takes your dick with enthusiasm. Imagine she’s a virgin an…
/r/askMRP24/04/19 06:59 PM
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Sounds like you’re overthinking it. Not sure as to the best tactical step. You decide - based on what makes sense for your frame at that point. The key is to become the dominant alpha male in bed. Read shit like 50 Shades of Grey if you need to. Internalize the character, start paying attention to the details. Slow down. Experiment. View it like a course/ getting an education / becoming good at this. Yes, it will involve some experimentation and lots of trial and error. In your case sounds like …
/r/askMRP24/04/19 06:31 PM
1

You definitely should start following the subreddit I mentioned re BDSM. Get schooled. There is a lot to learn and you can have some real fun with your woman. Always. Push. Her. Boundaries. Also XR University has some good podcasts. Start doing / watching shit with her, let her open up to you sloooowly if needed regarding what she’s really into. Test it out. Get toys too - beginner bondage etc.
/r/askMRP24/04/19 06:14 PM
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Interesting. Assuming you learn from your own self identified mistakes and correct any idiotic behaviors, let’s add some color. When she tells you what to do in bed, and you promptly oblige, you are not in your frame. You’re in hers. It’s a shit test and surprise surprise she doesn’t cum or is almost there, but not quite. That’s because you failed her shit test. Like when she wants to change a position despite her not being uncomfortable. You lost the frame 5-10 seconds prior, probably out of yo…
/r/askMRP24/04/19 06:11 PM
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Hmmm not sure what work you’re doing but sounds like you need to flip the script. Up your sales game. You must be so confident that your solution is the right one that they they should be explaining to you why they’re not using / adopting it yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/19 02:13 PM
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No. While you’re on to something it is not about rational/emotional. DEER and in general explaining yourself is a submissive position. It is deferential to a higher authority. Whoever does the questioning (verbal, implied, or otherwise) sets the frame. Has the power in that moment. Whoever does the answering submits and plays a part henceforth in that other person’s frame. So it’s not a man/ woman dynamic, it’s a submissive/ dominating one. It has to do with the power dynamic in the relationship…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/19 12:04 AM
1

Well abuse is abuse. Some people (women? White knights?) use terms like emotional abuse quite liberally so that’s clearly a slippery slope and of course makes it hard to define. I think the key distinction or the way to distinguish is answering the question: is the man’s behavior / attitude attractive? If yes I would argue it can’t be seen as abusive. If no, then maybe one can interpret it as abusive but more importantly and more likely, it’s not dread. For it to be dread, it must carry an aura …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/19 06:37 PM
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Dude. You don’t get a fundamental rule when it comes to women: ignore what they say and watch what they do. She’s going to say whatever makes sense to her in the moment and serves her agenda. Stop looking at her statements as confirmation of her commitment or value.
/r/askMRP14/04/19 11:55 AM
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Your opinion of yourself is the first and most important problem. From the title of the post you consider yourself “moderate” so you think you’re hot shit. You’ve banged chicks. You are sought after by young gals. You have standards. Wow. Then we’re presented with how deep your head is up your ass when we hear all this ridiculous background about this woman and how special she is. So it will be hard for you to accept probably much of the advice you’ll get, since you think you “got this”, or at l…
/r/askMRP14/04/19 11:50 AM
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OP has serious problems with that. He clearly sees himself as a stud and is so worried about evaluating women, to reeeeeeeally make sure they’re worthy of him.
/r/askMRP14/04/19 11:38 AM
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Hahaha. We all were at one point or another. So what.
/r/askMRP14/04/19 11:35 AM
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Oh my fucking God. The male hamster is hard at work with this one. No, don’t listen to your gut. Keep talking yourself into how amazing she is. She’s probably a unicorn. You nailed it! She’s not like other women. Look dude. You’re not ready. You care way too much about what she did how she did it and frankly that speaks to your views and attitude on women generally. Your blue pill glasses are so firmly glued to your eyes and face you don’t even understand half the stuff we talk about around here…
/r/askMRP14/04/19 11:34 AM
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Keep your man’s belly full and his balls empty. It’s as simple as that.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/19 01:23 PM
4

Yep. “Youth is wasted on the young”
/r/askMRP12/04/19 05:54 PM
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Sounds like not even that. OP too green and too blue pill to understand concept and how to treat women in order to enjoy them. I was there myself for many years and frankly I’m still learning.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 04:53 PM
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You’re such a hero. Do you think you’ll be OK another day ? I mean she does sound like a great woman. A 10!! With a career! You have invested so much in her already. Are you going to ever get anyone quite like her ?
/r/askMRP12/04/19 04:43 PM
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Good work, brother. Keep it up.
/r/askMRP09/04/19 08:00 PM
1

Read through 50 Shades of Grey or similar women romance novels - it’s women’s version of porn. Read it to understand how it’s a best-selling book and how women (most of them, that is) crave to be dominated by and submit to a strong man. It’s a need they have, not simply a wish. Learn how imagination and fantasy gets their heart and emotions going, and ultimately their actions. Follow r/BDSMAdvice Go to XR University and watch some of their videos, listen to their podcast. Lots of material there.…
/r/askMRP09/04/19 01:00 PM
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Very interesting, you Mormon guys have such high work ethic and sense of duty that even your OYS posts are very carefully written, solicitous and reek of neediness. “If someone could please just please show me the way. Here, I am doing all the right things. I am a dutiful sheep.” Not much advice for you, my friend. If you do the work and open your eyes, you’ll find the way. Duh.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 11:33 AM
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Head shake. You knowingly play with fire and look around asking “what’s that smell?“ when your skin is burning. You have no standards. You clearly don’t really know not to SYDIC since you do and it’s fine with you. You’re prone to drama and therefore you’re fine with it when it happens. You just haven’t learned that lesson. Wait till she gets pregnant with your baby, and/ or show up on your doorstep/ workplace/family reunion. You should not expect things you can’t control if you genuinely want t…
/r/askMRP09/04/19 12:12 AM
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You saved yourself with the face fucking. Good job. Otherwise a bit too much male hamstering. Sounds like you just need to keep upping the ante. If you haven’t already , hand cuff her arms behind her back as you face fuck her next time. Simply enjoy it, and the view right there. She craves that submission. Then keep escalating, with things like dildo strap on you for double penetration. Ties under the bed and drive her crazy some more. Labia clamps. Completely expose that sweet pussy of hers and…
/r/askMRP08/04/19 09:46 PM
1

Hmmmm . Misguided at best. Of course value matters. You’re refuting entire premise of red pill and provide no evidence or reasonable arguments.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/19 01:25 PM
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Have you tried taking a 30 day break from computer games ?
/r/askMRP06/04/19 07:45 PM
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You should write a memo on how important it is to have a clean house. Then send her an e-mail saying you want to talk to her about something important tonight. Attach the memo. Then sit her down and in no uncertain terms tell her from now on she will clean the house or else all hell will break loose. Tell her it’s a woman’s duty. You are a man, you deserve to be served that way. Tell her you swallowed the red pill and that’s the natural order of things. If she dares to open her mouth, start yell…
/r/askMRP05/04/19 09:43 PM
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Bottom line: juice is not worth the squeeze. Best said here and with lot more detail: https://blackdragonblog.com/2011/09/12/dating-people-at-work/
/r/askMRP05/04/19 06:02 PM
1

Make as explicit as you can. Put together a formal letter and mail it to her. /s Relationship talk is a woman’s field. If you’re indeed dragged into relationship talk defer, evade, change subject, “come here babe, I’ll show you exactly what you mean to me”. Focus on having a fun filled time with her and being suave and attractive.
/r/askMRP05/04/19 04:51 PM
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You need a fresh mindset and method to rank your relationships. Nothing wrong with having great sex with her. Just don’t get so invested. Downgrade her to a fuck buddy. You should have several fuck buddies anyway. Never commit exclusivity unless you want to eventually become a pussy whipped beta. Let the best woman rise to the top and gradually you can then invest more time, attention and resources in that one. But you should still be having fuck buddies even then. It’s the best when she’s way m…
/r/askMRP05/04/19 12:56 PM
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Strongly advise not to fuck women at work. Look elsewhere.
/r/askMRP05/04/19 11:25 AM
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Classic. Young stud find red pill, applies some of its tenets but ultimately doesn’t quite get it and acts like a domineering butthurt beta. Your problem is one of lack of standards, lack of guts and confidence to believe in yourself as you apply those standards and poor tactics/ technique. Lack of standards: list what to you consider as “wife material” . Be clear to yourself about it. If sexy instagram posts isn’t it and you want your wife with a hijab or whatever, be clear to yourself about it…
/r/askMRP05/04/19 11:20 AM
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Classic. She’s trying to turn you into her beta. This is hypergamy at work, red pill 101. And it’s particularly apparent when she pulls you in her frame. This is what this is: a trip to her family and her friends is her world. In that world she’s of course a shitty leader, and all she has are basic woman techniques like emotional manipulation, nagging, sex denial etc to turn you in to her beta boy and show you around to her social circles as an obedient provider. Yawn. The more you struggle the …
/r/askMRP04/04/19 01:16 PM
0

“Babe. You know I love you so much. I love what we have and what we’ve already created together. We’re on a life-long journey you and me. We have a lot to be thankful for blah blah. I just don’t want another child right now.” “I love you etc ,come here “, hug her, as needed. Repeat. Broken record.
/r/askMRP02/04/19 07:09 PM
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James Bond series. (Except latest few, with Daniel Craig) Catch Me If You Can The Thomas Crown Affair Crocodile Dundee Desperado
/r/askMRP02/04/19 03:55 PM
1

You can’t give up smoking because deep down you see yourself as a smoker and that’s OK. The moment you start thinking and seeing yourself as a non-smoker, and be happy and completely pleased with that person, it may set off a switch in your mind and personality that may hold the key. It may be as simple as that: turn on the light in a dark/ poorly lit room: once you do that, you can never go back. You see things you did not see before and you absolutely cannot go back to unseeing them. See yours…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 02:55 PM
1

Wow. You’re in for some fun coming up ahead. She knows exactly how to play you and break you. You’ve been her little boy toy for so long. She’s your fucking mommy and she knows it. She controls you and she’s playing manipulative harpy mind games. Good luck but it’s going to take some major wolf in sheep clothes to get back in the game and get her to trust you, otherwise very likely you guys are heading for divorce as she won’t go for the new you. She’s been too used to pussy beta you and she may…
/r/askMRP01/04/19 02:21 PM
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Granted. Giving unconditional love to my kids and being the best father and role model I can for them is part of my mission. That does not mean however 50/50 time. Much of the child rearing stuff is much better handled by their mom. I am better hunting for pray, for them and ultimately paying more child support than hiring a nanny for them when I am at work. I have been there. If I read the above two years ago I would not have understood it, or I would have considered it blasphemy. Of course eac…
/r/askMRP30/03/19 11:55 PM
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I too wanted 50/50 in the beginning more for ego and given I was so attached to the little ones. After a few years at it, I actually learned (in my case at least) quality is better than quantity and I stopped fighting so hard for the kids. Let her have more of the work and childcare while I focus more on my mission and other pursuits.
/r/askMRP30/03/19 11:14 PM
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You’re full of covert contracts. It’s a recipe for unhappiness. Get reading and implementing NMMNG. You care too much, you don’t have what we call around here OI. Outcome independence. Going through her phone?? Who the hell has time for that. Of course get your pussy ass in shape and focus on your mission. Set out your own terms for what you want in your life, be very clear about those to your own damn self in the mirror. Then work hard to make that happen and watch for your own boundaries for w…
/r/askMRP29/03/19 03:10 PM
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Yeah well if you’re sending OP somewhere might as well send him to r/MarriedRedPill
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/19 10:40 PM
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First part of your post: don’t overthink it. Second part: comfort. She needs a rock to steady herself when she’s genuinely hurting like that. You be that rock. At same time don’t be her emotional tampon. Encourage her to chit chat with her girlfriends and talk shit over. You have higher value to mind the ship direction. Basic stuff: don’t be a pussy (beta, boy, man child) ; don’t be a dick (don’t go Rambo). Read the 16 commandments of poon daily, apply them, and you should be fine.
/r/askMRP26/03/19 03:13 PM
1

Yeah go back in my echo chamber? That would mean no learning anything new & not helping anyone else by providing with a different perspective or approach. Just because it would “be easier” doesn’t mean it should be done. Only “hostility” is toward my past self and my own past mistakes. When I see them in others - such as OP - I try to give some tough love. For free. Take it or leave it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/19 02:54 AM
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Watch what she does, ignore what she says.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/19 09:54 PM
1

If you can’t rely on an internet stranger to give you honest blunt advice once you’ve asked for it, who can you rely on ?
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/19 09:53 PM
1

You must pull your head out of your ass and the Disney world you live in. Maybe after that you’ll get a better chance.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/19 09:52 PM
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Not really. You’re not supposed to dump on “friends at work” since people you work with should be at arm’s length. At best it’s unprofessional and at worst career suicide to involve them in very personal issues. Period. If you really want advice like that you need to provide more info, and present a few solutions you’ve thought of. Show you’ve weighed the pros and cons of each. Perhaps then ask for advice. Otherwise it’s lazy and ignorant. You’ll get what you put into it - much like everything e…
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/19 06:51 PM
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Yeah ask internet strangers what you should do with your life. /s
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/19 06:17 PM
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“No” is the most important word to say in a marriage / LTR. Before that advanced stage it’s “That doesn’t work for me”. Women will go nuts if you let them and may even ruin your life - even unknowingly/ unintentionally. Thanks for the reminder, Count!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/19 12:49 AM
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Stop arguing with her. Never argue with a woman. Period. It’s a lose- lose proposition. Get heads down for next 6 months to try to be a better man. Go to the gym a lot (do weights not just cardio), improve your eating and dressing habits. Focus on your career and quality time with your kids. I’m not saying ignore her, I’m saying stop fighting with her and focus on being an attractive man. Perhaps there is a way forward for the two of you but first you have to stop the behaviors that have fueled …
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/19 02:47 PM
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Yeah . Definitely make a plan to take care of yourself, eat better and hit the gym. Read books like Mark Manson’s “Models”, or the one recommended already by Robert Glover. Blogs like Natural Lifestyles , Black Dragon blog and lots and lots of others. Then as far as women, view it as a skill, like everything else. You’re rusty, and unattractive currently. Get attractive, then practice, practice practice. Give it time, patience, don’t wrap up your ego in it, and eventually you’ll have a satisfyin…
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/19 12:32 PM
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Also give it time. Let the hamster do its job. She’s going to start talking to her friends about how amazing you are, she’s going to relive all these orgasms you give her and she’s going to build you up in her own head. Meanwhile you just go about your business and your mission. Her opening up her legs and trying to charm you will be a side effect of you kicking ass in your life.
/r/askMRP19/03/19 10:22 PM
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Slow clap. Amazing transformation she’s going through and she doesn’t even know it. Classic: She hits play on her normal, manipulative, go-to bitchiness, it doesn’t work, then she’s instinctively attracted to the dominance, outcome- independent strength on display. She then activates her last innate tool: soften for, seduce and have sex with the alpha. Keep up the good work.
/r/askMRP19/03/19 09:33 PM
2

Get a good family lawyer ASAP. Look into local bar association events, family law section. Don’t just get any lawyer, but one specializing in divorce and ideally relocation fights. Do not move out of marital residence. Even if shit gets ugly, she screams, she cheats. Doesn’t matter. You stay where the kids are. Sleep in guest room, basement, wherever. If you leave the marital residence it will be much worse and the court will look at it as if you don’t care about the kids. Maintain your composur…
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/19 11:08 AM
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The moment you start putting your poker face on and stop taking her so seriously is the moment you begin to control the interactions. Also - slowly if you must - build some detachment. She should not know all the details of your life. She’s your mommy so the two of you will have this dance for the rest of your lives (esp. if she’s got issues and likes to keep controlling your little ass) where you subconsciously go into being a little boy, and she’s the nurturing protective momma. You must break…
/r/askMRP18/03/19 11:22 PM
5

17th Commandment of Poon: never argue with a woman. It’s as simple as that. Break this rule and you lose. You go down the drain.
/r/askMRP18/03/19 09:27 PM
2

Since you’re weighing potential future material loss so greatly and higher than current loss of this relationship, sounds like you already decided you want out. Also sounds like you jerk off a lot.
/r/askMRP18/03/19 05:48 PM
9

Wow. You mother fuckin go-getter you. I wish I had 0.2% of your big heart. Way to go bro. Haters gonna hate. But you sleep well at night having lived in accordance with what’s most important to you. Kudos.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/19 04:13 PM
2

One more thing: stop trying to influence her with respect to custody. The fact that she won’t talk to you about it outside of mediation speaks for itself. Your goal is to go to court to get what you want. Present the facts to the judge. He or she will decide. Not your ex. You’re wasting time and energy. You’re playing checkers, she is playing chess. She will only yield to outside pressure such as that of the court system. Of course, get a family lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/19 09:42 AM
1

Don’t sweat it. Courts expect people to throw crap at each other and will likely discount much of what she says that’s not serious (different story if you were taking him to strip joints, or cigar clubs, for example). You must rise above it and show yourself in a good light, how you’re focused on the education of the child, do not disparage her in any way. Show you’re the adult in the room, and by throwing crap at you she’ll be the one in a bad light. Become Mr Nice Guy in the court’s eyes. All …
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/19 09:39 AM
3

Have your testosterone tested. If levels too low talk to your doctor about what to do to increase it. Careful about your mental images and perspectives. If you start seeing yourself as hurting, affected negatively about this whole life change (which of course is significant and stressful) it can indeed manifest itself even more in actual outcomes. Don’t become a victim in your own head. You’ll need some guy friends, family (if you have it), people who you trust and care about you to talk to duri…
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/19 09:21 AM
3

Build yourself a support system. Other parents/ dads groups. Neighbors, church etc. Find a part time nanny (I hired on care.com). Not sure what kind of work you do, but ask employer if you can bring the kid there once in a while? Ask employer to document they’re flexible about work hours, if you need to take off now and then for a sick kid. Find a day Care Center nearby, show how it would work. Basically you must demonstrate that you can take care of the kid almost singlehandedly, don’t need her…
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/19 01:13 PM
0

You haven’t unplugged.
/r/askMRP16/03/19 03:14 PM
3

Timing - like all else - is everything. If you spank young kids in the middle of the night when they’re in need of some gentle rub on their head to fall asleep you’re much more likely to make things a lot worse.
/r/askMRP16/03/19 01:30 PM
3

Demonstrate, do not explicate.
/r/askMRP16/03/19 12:40 PM
3

Yeah when I saw the initial complaint and what was put in the legal docs I was seriously triggered... Took me a LONG time to understand that’s posturing and stuff of lawyers that ideally one should let roll one’s back. The anger phase is a bitch.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/19 10:05 PM
1

Suit yourself .
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/19 04:49 PM
1

Short answer is it doesn’t matter. Should apply everywhere. Long answer is be mindful of cultural aspects and differences. For instance some cultures are more “traditional” and thus recognize and expect levels of masculinity and femininity consistent with what you find here / in RP theories. Other cultures (eg America..) push out constant tropes that sink men even more in Blue Pill land (see for example how many fucking wedding-themed periodical magazines there are!) and blurring the lines (femi…
/r/askMRP15/03/19 12:11 PM
1

Dude . I read all your post history. It’s good that you seek help and are trying to listen. But the moment you stop feeling sorry for yourself is your first moment of real happiness and taking responsibility for your life. You should consider yourself lucky you don’t have kids with this woman. Your life could me much worse if there were kids in the picture, especially if you cared deeply about as I think you would. You’re only 40. Pick up the pieces, take a deep breath, start working out 4-5 day…
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/19 10:47 AM
1

You’re welcome, cunt
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/19 11:03 PM
-6

Go to r/marriedRedPill Short answer: man up.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/19 08:58 PM
3

Where does your confusion come from? What confuses you? You clearly can’t change the past. If you dwell on it you have not yet learned the right lesson. You sound like you’re still developing your own standards of what’s acceptable to you, and maybe you also are not fully ready to adopt the right measures if people around you do not live up to those standards. E.g. if your loved one pulled a knife on you and your son, it should be game over. Or something similar to lead to tension, unnecessary d…
/r/askMRP14/03/19 06:01 PM
1

“Babe, you’d look stunning in XYZ outfit. Go put that on for me, then let’s have some fun. “ Play with timing as to when to tell her that. For example, either after you’ve made her cum and ahead of round two, or when she’s horny and wants you badly, so she’ll do whatever you ask her to. Good luck
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/19 05:56 PM
1

You may get many comments to tell you some version of “hang in there.”, or “you just think you’re ready but you’re not”. But ultimately if you’ve changed so much that you realize you married this woman as a Blue pill different person, and now this marriage completely doesn’t do it for you on all your important levels (eg do you have kids together??, do you like at least some key things about her, does she add net value to your life ?) then indeed it may be time to abort. Go at it in next stage o…
/r/askMRP14/03/19 04:40 PM
-1

Hahahahaha you forget it could be a lot worse.
/r/askMRP13/03/19 01:04 AM
1

I swear these are all the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/19 03:57 PM
2

Cute. But keep in mind that you don’t want to limit yourself. Balls empty means you unload any which way you want. Ass, mouth, throat, pussy, you name it. Everything should be on the table, if you don’t push her sexual boundaries eventually she’ll find someone who will , Or she will simply be less satisfied physically and most importantly psychologically than is optimal. Good luck
/r/askMRP08/03/19 09:27 PM
3

Add ‘and his belly full’ and sounds like heavenly bliss.
/r/askMRP08/03/19 07:27 PM
3

You’re overthinking it. And it’s because you know too much and you understand the sexual marketplace by now way better than most people. You are objective almost to a fault. Can’t give any advice as a man, but it sounds like you want your cake and to eat it too, but more importantly on an emotional level you’re hamstering in “what if” land , in a version of ” he loves me/ he loves me not.”
/r/askMRP08/03/19 07:01 PM
1

Read your personal Mission statement. How does each job opty align with each sentence in your mission? Score each, tally total and decide on that basis. Don’t have a clearly written, well thought-out Mission for your life yet? Go spend time to soul search, review all your past decisions, ambitions, desires, sources of satisfaction and fulfillment and put the time to craft a half page Mission for yourself. You need that solid framework, that guiding light for what you want your whole life to be a…
/r/askMRP06/03/19 01:35 PM
4

Schrodinger’s pussy . Hahahaha
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/19 09:38 PM
1

Yes you should jerk off to online porn as much as possible. Preferably right after you wake up in the morning. /s Unless you’re using it for educational purposes or for turning on your wife/ LTR: Cut. Porn. Out. Of. Your. Life. And for education there are way better resources out there such as Extreme restraints university. Good luck.
/r/askMRP25/02/19 10:09 PM
2

OP is another one of those who asks strangers on the internet what his acceptable standards in life should be.
/r/askMRP22/02/19 12:19 AM
3

Don’t give up. Remember 95% of the people are beta followers. It takes time to find and connect with the 5% out there which is where you want to play.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 12:23 PM
11

Ha ha ha ha. Sounds very familiar. Your problem is that you are trying to fit a round peg in a square hole. You are or sound like a high-value alpha male. You are wired to have sex with a lot of women and you enjoy it. Nothing wrong with that. The problem is when you’re trying to fit a societal model on yourself and this condition you put up on yourself of being monogamous. Or being what are you calling in your head a “ family man.” Meanwhile she is doing everything she can to secure you - she h…
/r/askMRP20/02/19 12:39 AM
3

Also: what the hell are you doing fighting or arguing with her. Consider this the 17th Commandment of Poon: Never argue with a woman.
/r/askMRP19/02/19 07:27 PM
1

Your standards (or lack thereof), is the problem. You start by saying your wife is impressive? How the fuck do you say that when she treats you like shit ? In what way is she impressive?? If you’ve been at this for 2 years, you’re either doing it wrong, or you didn’t quite get it to begin with.
/r/askMRP19/02/19 06:06 PM
6

First of all, although it’s a “law” it’s neither a law or rule in the legal sense, nor a law in the natural world sense (eg no law of gravity). So take it with some salt and always see how true it is in your own observation of the world, and if there may be any exceptions. Now the way I read it, it simply says that short of rape, it is the woman who lets the man impregnate her. She chooses the AF/ BB based on her hypergamous nature, as we know. So it’s just another way to say ovules are precious…
/r/askMRP19/02/19 03:06 PM
1

Explore any or some combination of below: Watch porn together. See what she’s into; show her what you like. Talk dirty to her- increasingly so, and tell her what you feel like doing to her and how when she does X you get super hard and aroused she drives you crazy Text her the same as 2. Do it all. Slow at first but keep pushing her boundaries. Vocalize what you visualize and she’ll be happy to serve you.
/r/askMRP17/02/19 04:02 AM
3

You earn $250k and struggle to pay bills. Interesting and reminder managing money is a whole different skill set vs earning it. Check out the Collaborative Fund - a small shop out of NYC , had a good newsletter a few weeks ago on this: gist was a high paid corporate fat cat guy in his fifties barely had any money for retirement, despite 1% -er income. Meanwhile some old lady who had a basic number crunching job (I forget the details) had a $7mm pile saved.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 06:41 PM
6

Ugh. Not sure what to tell you - if you’re doing your reading, you work hard enough over many months (maybe a whole year) to implement MAP etc, and are confident you’re being be best you can and she still acts crappy then you decide if it’s crossroads time. Basically escalate dread till you move on. Divorce sucks but living with a harpy in a slowly deteriorating /stagnant situation also sucks. Take your pick.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:36 PM
2

Solid. Get those de la riva, single leg x and sweeps in while your hand is taking a break.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:21 PM
5

Depends on metro area. $160 monthly is market for a coast city metro with good coaches.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:18 PM
3

Keep in mind jiu jitsu WILL take its toll on your body. Look at most black belts and you’ll see the scars of years on the mat. Cauliflower ear, ribs, teeth/ jaw, fingers - you name it. That said if you love the art and it’s part of your mission and who you are you should absolutely not give it up. Just fuck her extra hard to remind her she should be licking your wounds of battle and making ou warm compresses, instead of bitching and picking at you when you’re down. Remind yourself you need to fu…
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:12 PM
6

You risk over-thinking it. I’d focus more on universals. Like relationships, attitude and play. What do I mean? Importance of knowing people and providing value to people, staying connected, networking in right groups. More than what you’re networking about and the actual topic (you don’t know what will be relevant in 20 years). But social skills and who you know / who knows you are crucial. Then learning how to learn is more important than what you learn. Develop life-long love of knowledge and…
/r/askMRP13/02/19 04:53 PM
6

Hilarious. Love the financial model she developed, as a function of height. A bit more wisdom into it (e.g. make it non-linear) and she’d be a real winner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/19 02:13 PM
-1

Who cares. It’s lunch - not happy hour. It’s highly unlikely to lead to anything. Even if it does, it’s none of your business. Stop trying to control other people. Don’t be ao possessive and they’ll (and she, if she’s the right one) come crawling to you, wanting only you. The more you act possessive like this the less attractive you are to her.
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:46 AM
15

Men don’t find themselves, they build themselves. Golden. Well said Rollo!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 02:28 PM
3

Haha excellent point. I think the key here is if you do it from a “Please thy man” frame when you’re overall the one dominating then yes (topping from the bottom as BDSM community may say). Basically on your terms and fully comfortable with her pleasing you - whichever way YOU want. In this case sounds like OPs wife got a bit drunk (thus more horny and curious), and took the lead while OP was the submissive. And now when she gives him mother of all shit tests by calling him gay, he is completely…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 11:26 AM
9

Exactly what are you talking about? OP sounds like so deeply blue pill and in her frame that he wouldn’t see anything right now. Even his reddit username checks out.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 01:14 AM
2

“The question is who” ;-) not what.
/r/askMRP11/02/19 02:39 AM
2

Don’t make it personal. Just because it comes from her and you’re in tantrum big boy mode that doesn’t mean you should ignore what she says if it’s valid. She has a point - fabric seats are shit when you have pets and look horrible after a year. Get yourself a nice ride with leather seats !
/r/askMRP10/02/19 02:57 PM
4

Fucking solid post bro. Saving it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 02:25 PM
2

A “level-headed TRP man” as you say would not promise monogamy to a woman, even if she checks all the boxes. Invest time and resources with her, be intimate with her, support her emotionally and physically, prioritize her above all fuck buddies, but that doesn’t meet she has a lock on your sexual satisfaction. That’s very dangerous to your long term happiness and health. There is a way to be suave and have a meaningful, loving long term relationship, while maintaining options and playing the fie…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 02:21 PM
6

One more thing that helped me: every time I’d get angry at her I try to remind myself I asked her to marry me, I invited her in my life many years ago. Call it extreme ownership of the past. Once I see it in that light everything she does or says becomes much more manageable - I do it from a distance and within my framework, with zero blame or expectations as to how she should be/ act. Note this anger and frustration will come in cycles and waves. Over time you should find yourself less and less…
/r/askMRP08/02/19 12:10 PM
2

Oh boy. Did you even read any of the basics we preach here? Your head is deep up your ass. Stop lying to yourself and figure out what the fuck you want in your life.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 12:38 AM
18

Yes, the bad news is that the two of you are stuck as long as your kids are around. So get used to it, and expect drama to get even worse. The good news is that you are a man who is now in control of his life, and the more time you put in between your separation and the present, the more confidence and experiences you will accumulate that will make you stronger and better. It’s like you slowly grow, and she may very well stagnate. Your friends will be attitudes such as ones inspired by Stoicism …
/r/askMRP08/02/19 12:35 AM
2

Of course. The key point of that is communicate things like that like encouragement and compliments when she’s hot on your own terms. Normally she would love to hear you say exactly what you like. That’s the problem with nice guys. They keep deeply hidden their desires and are far removed from knowing how to make them true. Verbal communication is the cherry on the cake.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 12:17 AM
5

PM me if you’d like. No formal training. But gone through it (spent $35,000 plus on legal fees so far) and learned a lot. Can share my $0.02 for free and to help a fellow brother.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/19 05:54 PM
3

Duh. Thanks for the English language lesson.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 09:32 PM
5

LOL good one. Some Ross Jeffries NLP stuff right here !
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 09:29 PM
1

You a troll or you jerk off too much. Meet with a lawyer first if divorce sounds “scary.” You’ll get better advice than what may come up after a post like this.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 07:52 PM
1

How about one of those hijabs they wear in Saudi Arabia ? Add that too. Have her walk two steps behind you and you’re golden. /s
/r/askMRP06/02/19 04:01 PM
7

You sound like you know what the right decision is and you just need some encouragement. You have your head screwed on right and recognize your own value. You also feel the inertia and memories with this fine woman that you’ve accumulated. What makes the decision harder for you is that you are not clear on what your mission is and what what you want in life. This is how you should evaluate big life decisions: does it align with your mission? If you want to settle down with a professional woman (…
/r/askMRP06/02/19 02:08 PM
1

Thoughtful post my friend. Keep up the good work.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 01:19 AM
35

No and don’t care. When I am tempted I recognize that’s the beta shit goblin on my shoulder whispering to check her texts. My energy should be spent on improving myself and not checking her. Blink and you’ll miss it -she’ll be gone while you’re in her frame, whining like a boy.
/r/askMRP05/02/19 12:47 AM
8

The moment you accepted her words at face value is the moment you died inside. She saw it and she knows it. She doesn’t want to be fucked by a pussy. Can you blame her?
/r/askMRP04/02/19 03:45 PM
1

I don’t get what you’re so hung up on. Let her have some fun. Ideally with you in it so you explore it together and you have a bunch of threesomes.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 01:03 AM
1

You’re not ready for a quick answer on any of this. Go read the books recommended here and come back if you still have questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/19 03:43 PM
1

Yikes. Bokanovsky egg -level blue pill right here, fellas. Seriously OP: if you make it a game and are not getting butt hurt in the whole process then go for it. Keep in mind though the goal is ultimately for you to get laid and sucked any time you want and any which way, without vouchers like these. She should be the one cashing these in with you, not the other way around.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 05:03 PM
2

“Rich Dad Poor Dad” by R Kyosaki is a classic. Good nuggets on managing money.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 07:11 PM
1

How much of that income do you invest in educating yourself ?
/r/askMRP31/01/19 06:49 PM
14

This. They go batshit when you don’t cum. The best is when you’re on your way out the door, and she holds you inside for longer, starts giving you a blowjob, to drain you some more and make sure you don’t have enough to give it to another woman.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 04:59 PM
3

Prioritize them. Distinguish for example between your main plate / LTR and FBs, and ONS if you’re into that. Keep investing in time with your main plate but be ready for her to walk. Quality over quantity. Keep FBs on the side ALWAYS and never promise monogamy to your main plate, even if you end up de facto only having sex with her for long periods of time. Dread is real when options are on the table. Do that and you’ll never have to cheat. You’ll just go have sex with whoever you want. You’ll h…
/r/askMRP30/01/19 08:30 PM
2

Ok. At least some of the issues are in your head: like the no porn binge. Sure, keep that off limits if you’re by yourself but if together it’s just a tool for you to get her more stimulated - if it works, of course. I’d look for porn where there’s more focus on the woman, and where they cum etc. find out what she likes. Toys : What does she use to masturbate ? To raise her enthusiasm try initiating a bit less (do you want sex because you’re horny or because you have a high sex drive ? - underst…
/r/askMRP30/01/19 05:34 PM
2

Really not sure what your problem is. Sounds like you’re getting some. Some questions: -Are you getting rejected? Wasn’t clear. -Does she cum every time you have sex or at least most of the time? -Do you watch porn together to spice things up? Like threesomes for example, or shit she’s in to? -Are you vocal enough in your bedroom game? And outside of it? -Bottom line: are you living your fantasies with her? For example if you want her to gag on your cock with tears in her eyes while handcuffed t…
/r/askMRP30/01/19 04:45 PM
3

You are asking the wrong question to the wrong audience. You need to take a few steps back and decide for yourself what life you want, and if this is it. This kind of high drama, uncertain, untrustworthy type of relationship. You are actively fueling this dynamic with your wife whether consciously or unconsciously or both. You have some major life decisions to make, and then perhaps you can come to this forum and ask more pointed, tactical questions. But when it comes to the major decisions like…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/19 02:22 PM
26

These “I love to laugh” self descriptions are so lame. Who the fuck doesn’t?!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/19 10:04 PM
32

The best you can do is visit, and be present. Demonstrate, do not explicate. Stop trying to control other people.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/19 11:01 PM
3

Because of people’s deep rooted need to believe.
/r/askMRP23/01/19 07:56 PM
2

Your ego is your enemy. This is very evident here. You must start to distinguish between what’s right according to your own view of the world (does the concept of frame sound familiar !?!!) and what she thinks and / or says. Sometimes the two are in sync - and that trips you up. When she’s in charge of the ship more than you are (like now) it stings . You’re a drunk captain. Get to work to recover.
/r/askMRP21/01/19 06:22 PM
2

“So I’m not the only one thinking about threesomes, huh. Show me the one you liked, babe.”
/r/askMRP21/01/19 06:16 PM
3

Have you met with a lawyer yet? Are you prepared to file in case you choose to, and are you prepared in case she files? If not you’re a pilot flying blind, no instruments for things like altitude and speed. Good luck.
/r/askMRP21/01/19 02:41 AM
1

Team of Rivals About Face Endurance - by Alfred Lansing Long Walk to Freedom At Army at Dawn Empire - How Britain Made the Modern World The God Delusion River of Doubt
/r/askMRP20/01/19 02:54 PM
2

Make sure you ask for your Honey-Do list before every weekend. Go to the store and display it in your cart so everyone knows what you’re doing. Call her with questions to clarify and make sure you don’t make a mistake by buying something slightly different than indicated. Let her berate you over something / anything really and then tell all your co-workers how you were in the doghouse last night.
/r/askMRP20/01/19 02:30 PM
1

You’re overthinking it. Watch the /sex subreddit , every now and then good reference material there Watch the /BDSMAdvice subreddit. Same as above .
/r/askMRP18/01/19 04:16 PM
2

Mistakes and fork in the road happened years ago when you slowly started to accept this kind of treatment. You’re a pussy whipped beta and she knows it. You get butthurt now you’ll seem even more of a beta and angry boy. Congratulations, she’s your mommy. Take 5 steps back, think long and hard about what your masculine nature means to you, then go live it. Slowly and deliberately work your way out of this whole. Build your sound frame and fight for it with tour life. That’s your battle, not squa…
/r/askMRP10/01/19 12:38 PM
2

Yikes. This is the kind of drama some guys put up and tolerate.
/r/askMRP09/01/19 06:57 PM
3

Also sounds like maybe you had some covert contracts about the two of you coming into this new city. Have you fully discussed beforehand what she would be doing? Are you planning things for both of you to do such that she is entertained and enjoys the ride? If she’s not busy enough doing something that fits with the plan, then her frustration and bitchiness comes out in crappy ways like this.
/r/askMRP07/01/19 04:37 PM
2

This is a tricky one because you can easily get rattled and show that you’re butt hurt. What I think is the problem here is a general weak frame. If you see her as a little girl throwing little jabs in the playground you would know what to do. The standard responses to fitness tests. You just can’t take her words seriously. If she is first and foremost your sexual toy as she should be, and if you socialize with others because it makes sense for you and what’s important to you and your life and y…
/r/askMRP07/01/19 02:49 PM
17

Dude . You must figure out by yourself what you want. Stop asking strangers over the internet what to do with your life. You know deep inside something is off. If it’s “bothering “ you know just wait till you guys get in a married couple routine and 5 -7 yrs from now your soul may be really crushed every time you look at her. You also like deep inside the comfort and how she’s pleasant in the near term. Are you fooling yourself? Figure out what you want. Are you guys exclusive? I assume you’re p…
/r/askMRP05/01/19 12:29 PM
1

Have you considered a cohabitation agreement? Who will be paying what bills? If you’re buying who is putting up the cash downpayment? Also have you considered renting a larger place for a couple years to really see what living with her would be like ? Then if buying makes sense you can go do that. And what is it exactly that moving in together will do for you that will be net positive in your life vs the status quo? Assume you have answered that question for yourself .
/r/askMRP05/01/19 02:39 AM
9

What frame to maintain? You don’t seem to have one. All you’re talking about is her her her. You’re overthinking her her her and missing out on pursuing what you really want your life to be about. THAT will be your frame.
/r/askMRP05/01/19 02:31 AM
2

Talk about a post in a vacuum. Thanks for the details OP but you go read those books in sidebar suggested list then come back . Most of your questions have answers written nicely and edited in those books. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 08:41 PM
1

It was actually top comment on the Wife going out Socializing post, from 15 days ago. Comment was by u/inchargeman.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 08:36 PM
3

Yeah. Sounds familiar. But careful when you want to settle down again you will succumb back to old habits and old Nice guy you will come back with a vengeance. Plus now that you decide for some reason it’s a good idea to be monogamous, you’ll have no options for real dread. It’s your expectations that are the problem. “Punishing” is a dick angry ass hole Rambo move. You know it. There was a good post a few days ago with distinction between boundaries and desires. Go read that (again).
/r/askMRP28/12/18 05:50 PM
2

What are you doing getting monogamous again? That is part of the cause for your frustration and getting butt hurt over texts.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 03:26 PM
4

How exactly sharing “ the knowledge “ would make parenting easier? Remember she only cares about what she sees you do and how you act. Sharing your theories about life and why you do what you do will likely have a net negative effect.
/r/askMRP23/12/18 12:34 PM
3

Hahahaha nicely done
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/18 03:28 AM
2

Strongly suggest you take this pic offline. Your lady looks beautiful by the way, for 57.
/r/askMRP19/12/18 09:29 PM
2

Stop trying to change her. If you want some deeper connection with her you may find it by embracing some of her conservative religious tenets. Not as your beliefs of course but as knowledge and practice. Read to her emphatically some paragraph from the Bible. Be a wolf in sheep clothes. And hey you may even learn something. Get a nugget of wisdom here and there. Lots of priests and preachers are atheists or agnostic. But the drug of leading the flock on this earth is oh oh so wonderful -and irre…
/r/askMRP19/12/18 07:35 PM
1

You’re facing uphill battle with her friends who have very high ASD (anti slut defense) and have a high degree of influence on her. Typical women clubby peer pressure and group dynamic. Any chances you have to widen her social circle or hang out with more sex positive type people - you may have a shot. Also see if you can take her out of this crappy dry environment either through travel (take her on a trip to some sexy place like Brazil or Colombia) or through seeing a cool sexy movie like Vicky…
/r/askMRP18/12/18 02:25 AM
1

Simply positing that a high-value man does not lose sleep over what’s outside his control.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/18 06:50 PM
8

Not to be argumentative but sounds like she’s making bank not hubby.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/18 06:47 PM
3

since she craves your dominance and she’s got the budget for it have her buy shit at stockroom.com. High quality expensive bdsm gear. My one plate a couple years ago showed up with a nice leather hog tie from there— still have it and use it. Put those $$ to good use haha!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/18 12:50 PM
14

Haha slow clap. I’d be careful though with these married ladies. Pure risk management on my part: have no control over some beta hubby who wakes up / finds out and shows up with a 12 gauge on my lawn before I get a chance to get my own lead ready. Also : as others pointed: you’re kinda bragging. Who cares how much $$ her shit costs. Seems you do and you’re getting impressed. Keep in mind she’ll toss you like a business meeting when this arrangement no longer suits her. Enjoy it while it lasts.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/18 12:31 PM
2

Men on average are taller than women. Duh.
/r/MGTOW14/12/18 02:41 AM
-1

No. MRP is RP on hard mode because dread is implied and covert and you can’t outright bang other women due to expectation of fidelity. You’re locked in. And as far as “slut” not sure how that helps. Women are going to fuck or not for all sorts of reasons, as we know (AF/BB, social factors, upbringing etc). Who cares. Call me a feminist but let women fuck as they wish. I am not here to keep her N count or have dreams of conquering and securing a virgin.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/18 12:51 PM
4

And one more thing: careful those sound like covert contracts: “I spend $$ and therefore she better be nice and faithful”. Textbook Blue pill thinking. Also: “time value” reference . Again sounds like blue pill. Should be more like: be careful of sunk costs: just because you spent a bunch of time on her, that shouldn’t automatically commit you to continuing to do so if it no longer serves you. Past time is almost irrelevant if she trips a boundary you’ve set.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/18 04:50 AM
2

You do all those things like invest time and maybe a bit of money because you want to for your own enjoyment, and you picked her as the best one worthy of your time. You enjoy her company, she’s pleasant, sexual etc and so you commit more energy, attention and resources to her than to any other. But she’s always susceptible to branch swing and I argue she should be free to do so (is otherwise anyway). If she does, you’ll just replace her. Remember Poon’s commandment VII ‘always keep two in the k…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/18 04:42 AM
-3

I think since by its nature MRP is RP on hard mode, some folks here genuinely have a hard time dealing with “what if” scenarios where the wife / LTR gets close to flirting or actually flirts with “infidelity “. A high value RP man in my book would be totally ok with “his woman” fucking some other dude. Who cares. Shrug it off. Demonstrate your high value and she won’t need to get tingles etc with others. Of course if she does things change. Think about those scenarios where guys get cheated on a…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/18 03:49 AM
1

Why don’t you join the military. That’ll get your whiny ass into shape pretty quickly. Youth is wasted on the young.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 05:28 PM
3

also watch for those weird weight balance videos where trailers pull you off the road if you make turns at wrong angle/ speed. Good luck !
/r/MGTOW11/12/18 12:22 AM
2

You should put a monitoring bracelet on her. Maybe even make her wear a headscarf hijab so other men can’t see her. /s Get a life bro.
/r/askMRP10/12/18 12:22 PM
6

Been there done that. Your gut is right. Meh, move on. In the grand scheme of things of what a worthy, high value man deserves this is a drop in the bucket.
/r/askMRP09/12/18 02:58 PM
1

You need to make that decision for yourself and then folks in this subreddit can give advice on how to implement. Basically: Do you want to build a life for you that offers enough advantages for you& kids to compensate for the long drive back and forth? Or do you see that future, ongoing cost as a bigger negative and build a life around your ex & kids? 75 miles is far and hard to see how a judge would grant you access to kids during regular schedule / school days etc. Also it will definitely be …
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/18 12:55 PM
2

No, bud . That’s some blue pill thinking. Go and read the fundamentals and you’ll see that long-term monogamous marriage/ LTR exclusivity is a modern construct - powered and encouraged by the state, by the church/ religious doctrine and reinforced by societal norms and culture - that overwhelmingly favors women and beta males (on the face of it). Opening it up threatens women much more than it does men. Agreeing to sexual exclusivity as a man to just one woman is a huge joke and a lie on most me…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/18 02:11 PM
1

Hmmm not quite following that. Why do you say that open relationships always favor the woman? u/UnbreakableFrame pls humor us.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/18 01:18 AM
3

Good stuff. Esp. the part about making peace with your old man.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/18 12:30 AM
4

Usually anything that starts with a “You” is a shit test. Treat as such.
/r/askMRP06/12/18 09:30 PM
5

It’s a mindset thing. Lots of guys think they’d be cool with open relationships. But when it happens they go classic needy whiny little boy ego shattered how-dare-she. If you go fully open you must literally visualize before it happens (Stoicism anyone ?!!) that she will one day walk away for bigger cock / better branch etc and be TOTALLY ok with it. Live it before it happens. See if you really can accept it. Yes? Great. No? Then you have no business even trying. And in meantime you’ll still do …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 08:28 PM
1

Hahahahaha take easy tiger.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 08:14 PM
10

Ok so first of all you’re not unique at all. Just because you live a very liberal sexual life that doesn’t make you unique. Good for you. Your problem is the same as everyone else’s which is one of covert contracts, unmet expectations and poor/ unenforceable and ultimately unenforced boundaries. Happy to explain more but I think the above summary should do, plus your own serious reading &introspection.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 08:13 PM
2

Ha good point..
/r/askMRP06/12/18 08:06 PM
2

A few years ago I was banging a married woman and she was at my house for an early morning session. Suddenly her iPhone rings and it’s her hubby. She had told him she went to the gym for an early workout. He’s like “why are you in [insert name of my small town]”, which was ~90 miles from their house, having used the track-my-iPhone feature on her. She yelled at him for interrupting her workout, concocted some quick lie and later when he pressured her more, she “admitted” she had been working on …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/18 07:30 PM
4

The way to change direction on a moving horse is sloooooooowly. Make any sudden moves and the horse will throw you right off.
/r/askMRP04/12/18 01:01 PM
60

Good post. Small but important correction: “you are responsible for your significant others behavior” - no. This is wrong and dangerous to think that way. You’re responsible for your own and she for hers. What you mean is you’re responsible for 100% of your life and that includes who and what you tolerate around you. But other people’s behavior is their own responsibility. What one should do is train others as to what he expects of them, and what we won’t put up with.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/18 12:57 PM
23

Never argue with a woman. It’s as simple as that. Like Bill Burr said “if they’re right, they’ll argue the point till they win and you lose. If they’re wrong, they’ll argue till you get pissed off and you call them a cunt, and then you lose again.” Plus one of the Law48 comes here too -can’t remember which one, but the idea was win through actions not arguments.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/18 03:08 PM
-1

Start with “All I think of is your hot body on the beach and how I would slowly rub sun tan lotion on you.” “Slip my fingers under your tight bathing suit.” “Feel you getting aroused as you relax more and more “ Etc Get her to fully live that sensuous vacation but get off with you virtually. Did she pack a toy? Does she prefer her fingers? Sext her till she cums so she feels your strength and dominant frame even from thousands of miles away.
/r/askMRP03/12/18 01:42 PM
14

You sound like you jerk off a lot. And you sound fearful. If you’ve truly internalized RP you should know that a clean break (ie. no kids with an ex) is a rare opportunity for an awakened man at the beautiful age of 38. You’re at your peak SMV from age standpoint. And you’re wondering what to do about a relationship started 15 years ago? Why?
/r/askMRP02/12/18 06:49 PM
2

The problem you have is one of prioritizing. The solution is to play a bit of what if, and really outline the vision you want to create for your future life. Paint that future you (lifestyle, relationships, activities, work, hobbies etc. ) in as much detail as possible. Use a 5- , 10- and 15- yr horizon. Ultimately I think you’ll find that the nagging feeling of not doing something that’s very important to your fulfillment because of some perceived future risk, is worse than actually doing what …
/r/askMRP01/12/18 09:44 PM
1

Hey man - your replies are messed up- you’ve entered them as post replies not comment replies.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/18 09:34 PM
2

Yes. Plus like you said it shows to whoever is there (eg girlfriend/ wife / kids / family) that you have a higher priority and take a moment 100% for yourself to recharge/ be spiritual / be completely insulated from the world - but are still there in case there is an emergency &they need you. It is a strong frame announcement. Plus it has actual neurological benefits. Personally I found that when I do it regularly it improves slightly the quality of my decisions, makes me a bit less distracted a…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/18 06:34 PM
1

No. It’s not about her/ them. It’s about the risk to him that in my estimation is (1) rarely worth it after “thinking it through” as you say and (2) value-diminishing. If “you’re high enough value“ you wouldn’t care about what she thought of it. So why hide it? Roosh said it better: “Be open and honest with yourself and those around you. Many of us lie to our women to avoid drama. You must put a stop to this behavior. This is what children do, and you wonder why she's treating you like one? Tell…
/r/askMRP01/12/18 01:21 AM
3

All you can “give” her is what you’ve learned with regard to how it applies to you. “Give” her the best version of yourself and it should be more than enough.
/r/askMRP30/11/18 07:54 PM
3

If cheating is a means to an end, and as we know we’re amoral here, then go do it. Get laid behind your wife’s back. And consider yourself “RP aware “ if you want. Feel good as your SMV gains become de facto. But if you consider that by cheating you’re exposing yourself to some serious drama and possibly dangerous and most importantly uncontrollable situations (what if she has a nervous breakdown, goes ballistic if she finds out? Does something violent? Or tells her dad/brother/friend who goes b…
/r/askMRP30/11/18 06:10 PM
1

You care too much about what she says.
/r/askMRP30/11/18 05:05 PM
1

Why?
/r/askMRP30/11/18 04:04 PM
3

Not a moral judgment on my part at all (though I can see how it would be for many), purely a practical one.
/r/askMRP30/11/18 04:02 PM
0

Cheating is a pussy move. RP is not being a pussy. Therefore cheating is not RP.
/r/askMRP30/11/18 02:21 PM
1

Why? Why are you attempting to be monogamous?
/r/askMRP30/11/18 02:05 PM
1

WTF are you thinking going exclusive at age 20. I’m not even doing that now at almost 40. You’re trying to fit a societal model to your life and low and behold it doesn’t fit. You get butt hurt when she wants to bang / flirt with other men. Let her. It’s her life. You do you - stop trying to control others and you’ll be happier.
/r/askMRP30/11/18 02:04 PM
0

You were not “RP throughout” if you cheated.
/r/askMRP30/11/18 02:02 PM
15

This. And keep in mind OP that once you do that it may very well involve that you’re not going to put yourself in that situation. So for example you may just decide to take a trip once a month for a couple days to do something else, or if this is really truly unacceptable to your frame outright leave her. The point is it is 100% your decision what you expose yourself to and what you allow in your life. Treat her moods like a snowstorm. Either you put up with it & it doesn’t really affect you, or…
/r/askMRP17/11/18 05:13 PM
7

Rah rah troops! Get after it. And for a lengthier discussion on this very topic, go read The War of Art by Stephen Pressfield. You’ll understand your enemy: “resistance”. Or the USMC Manual, and you’ll understand “friction”. Same idea: your mental blockage and satisfaction with or comfort in the present - THAT is your true and only enemy. Great post.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/18 02:06 PM
8

Rollo: with all due respect. You need an editor for the typos/ grammar misspellings. Someone like you has so much authority on these red pill topics it’s disheartening to see value diminished due to typos. First two sentences, two misspelled words, and boom people like me (nit picky English students of the language arts?? rigorous writing fanatics ?? etc ) lose interest fast. I volunteer to edit / act as spell checker. Use me!!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/18 04:45 AM
1

Butt hurt. Why are you doing all this to begin with? If you have expectations that they’ll appreciate it then it’s your problem. You’re spoiling all of them and you know it. You’re asking yourself “how come they all act like such spoiled brats while I’m spinning my wheels working hard and providing for all this”. OI means that once you decide (we can deal with that decision separately) you’re going to spend all this $ and energy for these betas in your life to be entertained, you are not attache…
/r/askMRP10/11/18 10:58 PM
2

Bad idea. You’re overthinking it and it’s a beta move. Which means she’ll be less turned on, not more. If it happens by accident, while you’re busy pursuing your mission and goals, now THAT’S true dread-inducing and tingles-generating.
/r/askMRP08/11/18 03:49 PM
2

Yeah. Stop thinking about it.
/r/askMRP05/11/18 12:11 PM
1

If you have a lawyer why is he not doing it instead of you ?
/r/askMRP02/11/18 05:58 PM
2

Hamster. Yawn.
/r/askMRP31/10/18 11:07 PM
3

You should definitely sleep on the couch on your own going forward. Maybe have her feed you dog food too. Collar your beta ass and put a chastity belt on your dick, give her the key. You may only use it from now on when she says it’s OK.
/r/askMRP31/10/18 03:02 PM
17

Keep waiting to live your life. You’ll get a chance someday. Maybe. Ah, wait... this IS your life. You’re just living it fulfilling someone else’s agenda...
/r/askMRP28/10/18 03:16 PM
3

Pretty much. Memorable moment when Nietsche’s Zarathustra goes to the old woman and she shares with him a secret. “You go to women? Don’t forget the whip!”.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 04:05 PM
3

You’re missing the point. Understanding female human nature is not al all same as “putting them on a pedestal” (worshiping, seeing as more valuable etc.). And as far as punishment, again you’re off the mark. If you use physical violence against either women or children you do it either (a) in anger (very bad idea as we know to let your emotions drive you to do power hungry insecure things like that); or (b) calmly and deliberately -which is again a bad idea, as there are a lot of better, more ef…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 11:11 AM
15

For women talking is a way to connect and to emote. They’re wired differently than us. Look at how she talks on the phone, or in person with her mom, her sister, or her girlfriend. They can go on and on for hours. Then she just feels better. Not to mention when she’s PMSing. Observe the fact that for her to talk (and have someone to talk to) is a LOT more important than what she is actually saying. Go back to Rollo’s “the medium is the message “ piece - he says it way better than I do. So bottom…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 02:54 AM
3

Now you’re circle jerking. You used the “never “ word so this reply can easily be said to you too. Now don’t you have some finals or something to go study for ?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 09:30 PM
1

Boom. Right here.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 09:27 PM
10

Talk about misconceptions. Perhaps OP can enlighten us. MGTOW in my limited ignorant knowledge is basically either gay twenty year olds or frustrated twenty year olds who have never given a woman an orgasm their whole short life. Also I think they jerk off to porn a lot, and they think that’s OK. I could be wrong though - waiting for OP.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 08:50 PM
3

There are a lot of types of LTRs and marriages, not just the traditional monogamous marriage. But to get that you need to be able to understand nuance and have some life experience. I doubt OP has much of either.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 08:42 PM
3

Yikes dude you’re beyond saving. You’re fully in her frame and you don’t even know it. You’re building sand castles in front of the waves with anything you want to open your mouth with when you’re in this state. Red pill reality hasn’t even hit you yet.
/r/askMRP24/10/18 02:57 PM
1

“Babe, you know I’ve been thinking, and had an epiphany. It hit me like a ton of bricks that an amazing woman like you deserves nothing but the very best version of me. Now scooch over here and give me a kiss. Those luscious lips look so delicious from here. You sexy little devil you.”
/r/askMRP24/10/18 09:02 AM
2

If I remember correctly the family alpha is Hunter Drew who used to be a moderator here, I forget his old username. /u/Bluepillprofessor and /u/strategosautokrator should know. Maybe /u/Sepean and /u/whinemoreplease .
/r/askMRP23/10/18 11:48 PM
7

Have you explored her getting off the SAHM gravy train? Even if part time, it will give her something to do to build of her confidence, and it is a good hedge in case the two of you end up in divorce court - you’d get crushed with support, alimony and likely equitable distribution too (depending on state).
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 11:40 PM
4

So what do you talk about now when the two of you go to marriage counseling ? Or is it just her ?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 08:07 PM
1

Stick with it. The goal with nasty divorces like these is to (1) not be afraid to go in front of a judge to make your case ; and (2) when you do simply show you are a good man, not that she’s a shitty woman (that will become evident by comparison).
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 07:45 PM
2

OK good luck.
/r/askMRP23/10/18 04:29 PM
1

Dude. No kids and you tolerate this woman pulling a knife on you?
/r/askMRP23/10/18 04:17 PM
2

Careful if you have kids. You don’t want to move out of marital residence as it may be used against your in a custody dispute.
/r/askMRP23/10/18 03:19 PM
6

There’s no replacement to being prepared. Have you met with a family lawyer yet? Need to have a 6-12 month outlook. Not saying take any action now but you should know dos and dont’s now over the next year or so in case you get there. Also see if you can get her to go back to work, even if part time. It will help you if you do end up in divorce proceedings. SAHM and no/ little earning potential and recent record means you’ll pay out of your ass in both child support and at equitable distribution&…
/r/askMRP23/10/18 02:59 PM
2

If you’re in a good spot financially why not rent a place nearby (a one bedroom) which could be your own spot, for when you need it. One of your jobs as a man is to have the logistics part down pat when it comes to getting pussy. Nothing wrong with going to her place, but in my experience your frame is stronger and ability to influence events better if you’re on home turf.
/r/askMRP23/10/18 02:19 PM
3

Yeah that’s hard to break. That would bother me somewhat. Again tact and subtle approaches are best if you want to wheen her off. Two come to mind. (1) tease her about how much she watches TV (you can come up with funny, non-aggressive ways I am sure - the idea is to be completely OI about it, and not seem controlling, or like you’re trying to change her. You genuinely find it childish and immature to watch so much Tv, so you’re going to playfully make fun of that). Over time she may subconsciou…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 01:15 PM
2

Thanks for sparing us. Good luck. Lots of bad mother fuckers out here ready to help ya and cut you exactly zero slack.
/r/askMRP23/10/18 01:09 PM
1

Sounds like you have a good thing going and a lot to fight for. Problem you may face is to take your transformation too seriously, and be too much in your head. For example, when you rearrange the shared/ her kitchen desk - your instinct is correct (you want shit done and handled!! You’re the man!!!), but she perceives it like an invasion of her space and an attempt to control her (very unsexy). Maybe in the future (a year or two from now?) you can do all that and she’ll be cool about it, but fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 12:45 PM
3

So you’re sensitive about how your wife interacts with your boy? You’re saying “this is becoming an issue to me”. I’d try to build and have more compelling, attractive things to do, that she may or may not want to be part of. Don’t get butthurt if she doesn’t. Remember OI? Attract her through the amazing things you’re doing and planning. Also sounds like you guys all watch a bit too much TV.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 12:31 PM
3

I read your past posts. If I were you I’d focus 100% of my energy on restarting my life proper and moving out on my own. Your marriage and living situation sounds troublesome and unsustainable to say the least. What are you doing building sand castles looking to date around in front of these waves which keep coming that is your home life?
/r/askMRP23/10/18 11:39 AM
2

From experience: cheating sucks. So if you’re thinking plates, you should either get your wife’s consent to open the marriage up OR get divorced and start playing the field.
/r/askMRP22/10/18 11:34 AM
3

Also: track your workouts. I still use the same notebook I started in March 2015 (almost at end now actually) and it’s both cool and helpful to have history of progress.
/r/askMRP21/10/18 07:33 PM
4

You should gush in long texts of how much she means to you and how devastated you are without her. Call her daily, and maybe go to her house and sleep in your car outside too. Show up at her work with flowers and candy for extra effect. /s/ Get a life bro.
/r/askMRP21/10/18 02:47 PM
4

Dude. What do you not understand. If you’re supposed to ignore shit she says (question/ homework for you: what is a hamster?) then how are WE supposed to care what she says and give you answers. You’re parroting shit without thinking. Get to work. When is the last time you went down on her? When is the last time you felt sore from lifting weights? Who cares how much money you make?
/r/askMRP20/10/18 09:38 PM
3

You sound like you’re whining and you haven’t internalized even the basic lessons from the sidebar readings. At a minimum you should know to ignore what she says and watch what she does. You take her way too seriously and it only demonstrates you’re a huge beta and have a wet paper bag frame. Go to work if you want to be happy. You’re in a rat race now. Congratulations on living someone else’s vision, trying to fit in.
/r/askMRP20/10/18 08:59 PM
1

Troll? What’s with the bad English. Especially for someone who claims to make well above median income.
/r/askMRP20/10/18 08:43 PM
2

She she she. You’re not living your life. You have blinders on and walk through this life fulfilling someone else’s agenda (your wife’s, your employer’s) and slowly dying inside as a result. You know it, you feel it. But right now you’re so far in your day-to-day routines and in your mindset from who you truly need to become to be happy - and attractive - that it will take you a long time and a lot of work. Get busy if you really want to change...
/r/askMRP20/10/18 01:11 PM
1

OP is fascinated with details of his wife fucking other dudes. Fine with me if he likes to watch. But OP is not living that life. He lives the life he thinks he wants, classic married man etc, yet secretly he likes to have his woman fucked. He may even want to suck cock. Again fine with me, if that’s who he is. The point is sooner or later these truths confront him- so he does not know which way to go. Come out and live his non-conventional life in some way, or carry out pretending and fighting …
/r/askMRP19/10/18 09:35 PM
2

Excuses excuses OP. Good luck with that.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 09:31 PM
3

The three kids will be better off once OP mans up as opposed to currently. If OP does nothing the three kids will wake up too, sooner or later to the lie that seems to be their home life.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 09:30 PM
7

Filing for divorce means balls and preparation, at least. OP seems to have neither at this point. He’s pretty much rudderless - the sooner he stops spending so much time online and jerking off to porn the closer he’ll be to gaining some control over his life.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 09:29 PM
3

This is so bad it’s entertaining.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 08:29 PM
1

Humor us with an explanation as to why straius post was removed ? Thanks in advance.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/18 11:41 AM
3

Recommend you read -if you have not already- 48 Laws by Robert Greene and books on negotiation such as recent one by Chris Voss, and an older one by a Wharton professor- forget his name, I think it’s called Getting More. Tact is a difficult thing to master, especially for newfound balls many a beta thinks he has once he takes the pill and starts seeing himself in a new light. Old assignments and roles all of a sudden feel like an old coat (or yoke for that matter) that doesn’t fit anymore.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 11:08 AM
0

Well how about in the beginning
/r/askMRP18/10/18 08:08 PM
1

Good job. You handled it well. A quiet woman is a bad sign. So let her talk, express emotions. Be there for her when she’s vulnerable like that. Hug her close, hold her tight, and fuck her gently if you want assuring her of your love. That’s what she needs. She’ll be extra sexy and horny I bet.
/r/askMRP18/10/18 07:13 PM
1

When I’m tired, have important work the next day and I’ve given her plenty orgasms in past 48 hours.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/18 07:08 PM
1

Why are you in this relationship ?
/r/askMRP18/10/18 12:01 AM
2

Yeah and from what I hear video taped prenup and with all sorts of other legal belt and suspenders to make it future challenge -proof.
/r/askMRP17/10/18 11:27 PM
5

I assume you’ve done the math of (a) staying in marriage to get her back to work, increase her post-separation earning power and thus decrease your support, vs (b) reducing marriage length ASAP to limit alimony . In most states as far as I know the longer you stay married the worse the alimony impact on the spouse who earns more - usually us dudes.
/r/askMRP17/10/18 08:20 PM
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How about connecting with other dudes. Not over drinks and a game at the bar (though that would be good too), but lifting together, shooting (guns, bows etc), hiking, biking, martial arts training etc. You need to be social. And ultimately you want to be in a place of whether next chick leaves or stays you will be the same. It’s her loss. That’s the mindset you’ll want to have because you’ll know deep inside you’re building an awesome and attractive lifestyle that chicks will want to be a part o…
/r/askMRP17/10/18 08:15 PM
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What are you going to keep yourself busy with in the coming weeks? What’s your plan?
/r/askMRP17/10/18 06:55 PM
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How much longer will she be a SAHM for ? I would start working on a plan to get her employed, even if part time. It will give her something else do to other than diapers and build up her confidence. Plus it will help you down the line if you two end up in a support hearing. She’ll get primary physical and you’ll get saddled with support obligation out of the wazoo if she has no recent earning power. You think your life is bad now?
/r/askMRP17/10/18 05:25 PM
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Rather research the laws in your state if you can actually use that as evidence. Unless you have consent you may not.
/r/askMRP17/10/18 04:46 PM
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The real question is how does this marriage support your mission? Money is a big deal and it already sounds like she’s using it to her advantage which is to build a strong frame (eg house, lifestyle). I’d be very careful to not lose myself in this and in the affluence she’ll bring about. Presumably you have discussed this with her? What will your life look like? With whose friends will you hang out? Will you become an accessory to her fancy lifestyle ? Bad idea. Will she support your mission wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 11:11 PM
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Hahaha I almost fell for this
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 11:07 PM
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I don’t get how a “no sex” moratorium can get you what you want. I’m smiling and shaking my head here as I could have been you just 3 years ago frustrated as fuck , and locked in a marriage where supposedly release with the wife is the only option. But unfortunately you have to do the work on yourself and distinguish between horniness and sex drive. You can use the former as energy/ fuel and increase your effectiveness to fulfill the latter. True sex drive and demonstrated desire from a strong, …
/r/askMRP16/10/18 08:25 PM
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Yeah play sports . Don’t watch them.
/r/askMRP16/10/18 05:05 PM
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I literally just gave this same advice to another dude on this sub minutes ago. She’s on her phone? If you have nothing better to do : Start sexting her right then and there. She’s your woman, no? Hit on her - make your intentions known...
/r/askMRP16/10/18 03:41 PM
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Make a list of 100 things you CAN do. Read it daily. Do at least 10 of them every day. You must begin to celebrate the things you can do. And do them. Your lack mentality is the problem. Gain a different perspective. Find good role models. How about the dude (forget his name, he was on a Jocko podcast) who lost all four of his limbs in a war, while in the military. Has a big smile on his face, prosthetic everything, is an awesome dad, makes shit happen, his wife probably bangs him all the time. …
/r/askMRP16/10/18 03:39 PM
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Sext her when you see that and you have nothing better to do: “ babe you’re so hot when you lie on the couch like that. I can’t wait to spread those beautiful legs of yours and feel your pussy getting wet when I squeeze your ass etc. etc”
/r/askMRP16/10/18 03:35 PM
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You’re the problem bud. Raise your standards. If sex is “pretty good” then you’re inwardly settling for less. She senses it on a subconscious level. If you accept sub par why shouldn’t she ? Of course she won’t blow you. And it’s going to get worse. Never give up on what you want . Start getting it elsewhere. Have a few FB on the side even if she’s your main plate and you care about her. And don’t lie about it. No need to be a jerk and tell her what you do on your free time but she should know t…
/r/askMRP16/10/18 02:42 PM
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Ha! Similar story here. 1) yes, got divorced /separated ~2 yrs ago. Been playing the field since. In a serious relationship now, BUT: 2) set frame and expectation from the very beginning that I would never be monogamous ever again. So even though now she and I are now very serious , blend families etc, I have a FB or two on the side. And trust me she’s tried and she keeps trying to get me to become exclusive. Not gonna happen. Or even if it sort of does , I will never allow those to be the terms…
/r/askMRP15/10/18 01:43 PM
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I’m on board with this. The only change/ suggestion is that best boundaries are “I “ statements. If you say “do not talk to me that way” that is a very direct order, and a challenge. It’s aggressive and it ultimately is a means of asserting control over someone else. Not cool and not attractive. I’d favor “I do not like it when you talk to me that way.” Or “ I do not enjoy being talked to like that, so I am going to walk away. When you’re ready to be nice and respectful, I am ready to talk to yo…
/r/askMRP15/10/18 12:57 PM
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Somewhat similar situation (ex wife a SAHM, I was in mid / law thirties when took pill) so I will keep an eye on you brother. My marriage eventually collapsed about 1 year after I started waking up. If you haven’t already strongly suggest you meet a lawyer so you’re prepared in case she files.
/r/askMRP15/10/18 12:51 PM
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Not a lot of background so hard to give advice on what seems like a very tactical situation... at this point in your journey I’d say not fucking things up &making shit worse is your greatest challenge. That may come when she’ll test you and play you like she’s used to, and your frame and newfound confidence will collapse under pressure. And you may find yourself saying things that can’t be unsaid (or worse: doing things, like getting angry and acting out etc). So my advice to you is (1) always r…
/r/askMRP15/10/18 12:47 PM
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“Come here let me decide up close”. Squeeze slap kiss caress you name it. Tease her - that’s what she wants: to see you’re a dominant confident man worthy of her feminine energy and time. Not an actual serious answer to that silly question.
/r/askMRP13/10/18 10:53 AM
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If she wanted divorce she would have filed in court and you would have been served papers.
/r/askMRP13/10/18 10:51 AM
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To paraphrase Napoleon, money you can recover. Time never.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/18 11:23 AM
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Freaking gold right here and 95% what happened to me in divorce... Thanks for this detailed quality post.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/18 07:48 PM
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Solid post - thank you. Articulate, on point and with lots of links to fundamental concepts... will save it for future reference.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/18 06:43 PM
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Hahaha. Nice story. Thanks for all the details and high quality narration !
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/18 12:26 AM
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“The Jewish people have never used terror in their wars ”? Really ? How about Irgun and https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/King_David_Hotel_bombing It was eventually effective and it drove the British out of Palestine. Nowadays of course it’s not needed. Just build huge walls around troubled areas such as West Bank/ Gaza. Can one be a Jew or Jewish without being circumcised? Don’t think so. But one can be American if not. As a matter of fact it’s on a slow decline among the general population in th…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 09:38 PM
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Well on terrorism it’s just a tool, it’s politically inspired violence- by definition. The question is to what end and what cause does it support. One that’s good for the world or one that’s not so much. I would argue muslim inspired anything is not good, because of the bellicose, fundamentalist tenets of their teachings On circumcision- yes there were safety benefits: centuries ago when sanitation was terrible or non existent. Nowadays it’s a relic, can be dangerous and is outright cruel on a n…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 01:41 PM
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Again I think I agree with you. There are clear benefits to humans enlightening and adopting positive, constructive, liberating “societal values”. Now as to Judaism and suffering- you’re kidding right? How about our boy Menachim Begin and Zionism. The state of Israel was founded by terrorists - they were the first ones, in the modern sense of the word. Or the primitive habit of male genital mutilation also known as circumcision. Poor little 8 days old boys suffer every day ... because some guys …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 02:35 AM
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You have a little hamster that’s talking. When you say “society” for example, and when you take religion as some savior of humanity in recent history (by recent I mean a few thousand years, relative to our 2-3 millions of years which is how long it took for us Sapiens to evolve). I would argue the opposite. We’ve succeeded and progressed thus far in spite of religion. Religion (especially the Abrahamic ones) is responsible for much suffering in the world. And as far as inventing the wheel and th…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 01:54 AM
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I agree with you - I think. It’s the values that we should have a conversation about, not religion. The rules you mention are ones followed today outside of or parallel to religion- thankfully. People did not need Moses to come down with 10 rules on a tablet to understand that it’s not a good idea to kill each other. People obey laws and rules of behavior these days largely independent of religion. And as far as marriage in the traditional sense (and I think that’s how you meant it), it helps th…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 03:53 PM
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Live and love. Religious beliefs are software that the brain runs on. I would argue there is bad software and good software out there.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 03:02 PM
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Yeah - you’re spot on. She used to be conservative (garb on head and all, no lights / driving on Saturday etc). Now divorced in rebellious stage dating a goi atheist like me... I my opinion religious belief is just software that the brain runs on.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 03:00 PM
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Yeah not sure what you mean by “fabric of society” either.. sometimes and I would argue often you have to especially defy “religious/cultural values” to progress as a human being.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 02:58 PM
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Somewhat similar to what Jocko W is saying: discipline = freedom. So develop the discipline to conquer your weaknesses and your demons and you will rise above them, you’ll be truly free. It’s all inside yourself.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 10:27 AM
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Yeah. But remember it’s all shit testing and coming from a place of through-the-roof confidence (remember they’re the “chosen people”, right?). So just need to be super strong &careful to blow their shit tests out of water.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 10:21 AM
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I’ll chime in here , as my current top plate is Jewish. She’s one of the most sexual women I’ve been with and I would argue has a lot less inhibitions than your average catholic/ Christian etc. She clearly enjoys sex A LOT . Of course, just one anecdote so dangerous to generalize. From what she’s shared sounds like the rabbis and their doctrine encourage sex quite a bit, and are very open about its benefits in the life of a couple. I say go girl. Sex liberation. Enjoy it as much as I do and the …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 10:18 AM
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Quality, informative post. Thanks and upvote.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 12:24 PM
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Good job. Been at it for 2 years post separation and divorce. Enjoyed loving women while staying free (not my line, but one I got from blackdragon blog Caleb jones). You’ll become more and more selective. My favorite is (if it comes up) setting stage from get-go to be transparent (never lie to women) and flat out say you’re never going to be monogamous. They will either walk (which is fine) , or they will try their hardest to rise to the top and be “the one” (which is fun) and get you to commit.…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/18 05:04 PM
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Fair enough thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/18 06:25 PM
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If you’re not into it then don’t do it. It’s as simple as that. The moment you start appeasing thinking it’s “hot for her “ or something the relationship will degenerate because you’re not living your truth. Most heterosexual relationships benefit from D/s kink etc because the man exaggerates (in a safe way) his more masculine, assertive, driven and thus true to his nature, and the woman more feminine, submissive -again true to her nature. For some people it works to flip that, and it turns them…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/18 05:17 PM
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How so? Is this sub for unplugging married guys only ?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/18 05:06 PM
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Very familiar.... When my ex-wife was reading 50 SoG several years ago we had great sex 4 days in a row. That was quite a streak and I think a record for us. Of course BP me didn’t quite get at the time what was going on, why she was so wet and into it etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/18 02:21 AM
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Curious how long have you been a client given you’ve been at this for at least 3+ years (I started lurking on this sub in early 2015 so that’s how far I go ). Basically I’m wondering if your RP awakening and practice happened as a result of coach’s work or you were already there and you hired him after for hands on/ fine tuning. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/18 02:14 AM
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Ok then. Legit AF. Thank you for the extra color and good luck to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/18 02:11 AM
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The complaint looks like draft version. Was it actually filed? Should have the court’s / prothonotary stamp on it. Also went on Wayne county 3rd j district website to look for the docket and there’s nothing there.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/18 07:41 PM
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Solid post. I have been lukewarm of late to Rollo given his often circular, us. vs them common rhetoric of late, but this one has been really good - this is what made Rollo who he is: quality, insightful, selfless writing. Including typos :-) like other’s for plural of one.... anyway good post thank you & keep up good work in manospohere.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/18 11:08 PM
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Wow. Good job and thanks to you for all he details. Having been through divorce court as breadwinner I fully get what you’re saying.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 12:48 PM
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Pretty much. If you acknowledge each other's presence and you don't act on it right away there is a high chance your voice in your head comes in and starts messing with you, reducing your overall appeal. Women have a 6th sense for detecting strength and confidence as well as lack thereof. So the longer you wait and ruminate like a boy thinking about how hot she is or what to say etc. the more you decrease your chances. The idea is that you're a man in control, and you act on what you want in lif…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:12 PM
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Mind my own business: work on my laptop, take care of what I need to do, not talk to her ALL the time. Decide when and how to engage in conversation as opposed to just let things happen. Basically alternate a few minutes of chat with what I need to do. When in convo, look for ways to engage her on how she feels /how she relates to things we're talking about like job. So for example if she says "I work a lot from home" , I say something like "you get to be in your jammies, and walk around with fu…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 03:17 PM
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Thanks - yeah: my story is another flavor of extreme worst case example like guy who fall of treadmill while turning head for a girl, or even worse the proverbial car crash with driver distracted by hot girl walking down street.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 03:05 PM
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Yeah you failed her shit test by taking it seriously and responding rationally. The translation of what she said to you is: "hey you're different , I'm intrigued by you, I may even like you or something , don't fuck it up and you may pound me."
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 09:21 PM
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Suggest you start manning up by not drinking alcohol when you're around her. Of course no one is saying you're a drunkard. But I can tell from both personal experience and from how you judge your own interaction above, even if you have a little buzz , if it comes over a layer of overall wet paper bag frame and butt hurt feelings you have- alcohol will only make things worse. It's her who needs a drink or two to loosen up (and get hornier) not you. Then you fuck her brains out. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/17 10:00 PM
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Yeah beware the charismatic smooth talker who is good at getting hired, but terrible at doing the job. The longer they last, and the faster they get promoted the worse the organization becomes.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 10:21 AM
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Yeah stop posting shit and over analyzing- go DO. Keep a track record if you want and make it a game. You will become good at it and laugh at your own self and how much of a newbie you were. There is no other way. Go do. Go approach. Go fail. That's how you grow.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 11:29 PM
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One of my current plates (let's call her Sandy) is bombarding me with questions at every turn. About my ex. About my past choices. About my life. About my other ex. Truly as 16 commandments of Poon says - questions she really does not want to know the answer to. Shit tests galore. That's what they are. If I make the mistake to open up (made mistakes in my life thousands), I just know she'd be turned off. It helps that as we hang out around my house, my cock in and out of her mouth (first time i …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 01:23 PM
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You really don't know what's going on here and are doing a lot of speculating. While you have a point the post smells of People magazine type shit, drama and gossip. You seem easily impressed by appearances. You're probably just a bit too young/ green.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 12:02 AM
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Why are you in a monogamous relationship in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 10:52 PM
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I've been a follower and reader of black dragon for ~9'monhts. I agree with this cool headed approach to parenting and it has generated results when I apply similar vision when dealing with my kids. Much of parenting these days can bring unnecessary drama, entanglements, emotions and doubt. It helps to have a very clear and simple master plan and rule of thumb if you will.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 11:23 PM
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Good . Remember everything she does or say is cute and is not to be taken too seriously. Unless it's some serious issue that needs to be dealt with promptly and maturely (nuked). 99% of the time the small stuff is just small stuff and your reaction to it is more important than whatever negative consequence you were attributing in your head for what she said or did.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 09:47 PM
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Cheating is your problem as others said, not the fact that you like chasing tail. check out blackdragonblog for good resources on potential lifestyle and relationship dynamic that set you free: I learned a lot from it post my divorce. bottom line: never lie to women; pursue non monogamous relationships (monogamy is for a minority of men but it's being peddled by society as one size fits all)
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/17 10:19 AM
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Mods: I say we run a poll on whether this is troll or not. My money is on troll.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 02:33 PM
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You're beta Bucks. She's getting railed by her "boyfriend" while you provide for her. The longer she stays as SAHM the longer your alimony payments will be once your marriage unravels. Which it will - it's just a matter of time. You're spinning your wheels like a little boy trying to fit this relationship to your dreamed reality. Meanwhile go back to 2nd sentence above: she's getting hard cock from Chad, lifestyle paid by you, time goes in her favor. Time to wake up brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 02:31 PM
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The more you improve and the higher you go in quality of women (and the higher SMV) the more challenging it will be. For a recovering nice guy, there are many pitfalls and patterns of old behavior one can fall into. Being thoughtful and disciplined in one's approach is key, lest one gets lost in the fun and day-to-day relationship dynamic and interactions. Writing and keeping track makes for a cold evaluation which helps strengthen frame. 1. Through reflection and the act of writing (see stonepi…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 01:28 PM
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Yep. Have that plan include meeting with an attorney just in case, so you're educated on the implications of you/her filing. Many a good intended man have been completely shocked by legal implications of unraveling a marriage. It should be freaking mandatory training in high school or something, or as part of govt issuing marriage license. It's like sheep to slaughter how many folks get married these days drinking the kool aid of all the wedding magazines ... last time I looked are Barnes and no…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/17 05:09 PM
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Fuck yeah. Great post. Notice the solid, cool, head-on-straight frame all this is happening in. And yes, if you can act like you control the sex (and any lack / playful refusal of), that should be highly arousing and will come back tenfold.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 03:12 PM
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Oh man the naïveté. Been there done that.... see so many guys in their twenties and early thirties who you just want to smack over the head to wake them the fuck up. But it won't work. They'll just have to hit themselves on the wall and make their own mistakes. Be smart. Learn from experience. They have an itch and they think they do the right thing. It is a small percentage of them who are truly wise, and learn from the mistakes of others, not from their own. Sadly OP is in the former category.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 12:32 PM
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I’ve heard that my former beta behavior will forever have a subtle effect on her respect for me. I’m afraid her actions during the separation will continue to have the same effect on me. Dude. This right here is your gut telling you it's over. There is so much baggage that regardless of how much you man up will forever taint your relationship and how she views you. Go play the field, get yourself a fresh woman or two who will see the new man you are. Time to let this one go, as hard as it is. Li…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 12:25 PM
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This is a good post. Thanks. It Helps as a reminder to rest of folks on this sub who have a chance, and who have a brain to guide them. You my friend are a hopeless child who needs to stop playing video games, masturbating, and start actually talking to people and building real connections. You live in your head and it's screwed up. Next thing you'll know she serves you with some harassment complaint or restraining order and you'll be like "who me? I had no idea." Get real brother. You only get …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/17 01:47 AM
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You get caught in the midst of the storm, the energy of this "argument" and connection you have with your spouse and as a result dedicate a lot of attention to it. But step back and think : is this how you're supposed to respond? No. You seem to forget that feminism in its current form is one giant shit test. They already won what they wanted (equal rights under the law and equal opportunities). It's over. Anything more is hamstering and a test of manhood. You will not engage, you will be amused…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/17 11:16 AM
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The best way to change direction of a moving horse is to continue riding in same direction it's going. Make small subtle adjustments. Anything different and horse is like WTF and throws you right off.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/17 06:15 PM
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Dude - who is that coming from? Mostly blue pill people and blue pill media. Society makes you ever more sensitive to your children exactly through articles and sound bites like the above regret on death bed. 90-95% of the population is blue pill beta followers, espousing that kind of stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/17 05:56 PM
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My gut tells me the "women and children" priority is to call out the weaklings and make them fold early among the true fighters. Make them negotiate. Make them emotional (oh my the poor helpless women and children). Then it's been parroted on and on and here we are today. Keep the people busy making women and children happy (good luck) as opposed to follow one's own truth and cause in life, lest they lead or spark a revolution.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/17 05:54 PM
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My 6 year old asked me the other day if I would give my life for her/ for my kids (can't remember exactly). I was surprised. And amazingly I was even more surprised that I didn't have a clear answer either way. Definitely I didn't have a resounding "Yes" which right there gave me pause. And reason to think. Don't I love them tremendously? Enough? Should I give my life for them if faced with choice ? Would I? Just for one of them I don't think so, since she's got two little siblings who in order …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/17 05:30 PM
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She filed and moved out +1 year ago. Came here looking for men's group discussion per NMMNG suggestion, early 2015.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/17 05:20 PM
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It's good to know the odds. Makes one appreciate how hard the fight is. And your post perhaps can be further improved with a note that reads: know these bad odds before you pull the trigger. And fight uber-hard to get your kids to still thrive and have a chance. As to last part of tour reply not sure I am tracking. I am here for same reasons as most: 1) our dads fucked our moms; 2)we made it alive until this point and 3)now choose to spend time on this forum for self improvement purposes.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/17 04:56 PM
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Solid.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/17 04:45 PM
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Hmmm that seems to oversimplify it a bit and removes agency. Of course I am not special. But does that mean that I will not fight damn hard to make it to the top of my class/ group etc that's predetermined statistically that will perform worse? Again I think of the Bell Curve: just because the deck is stack against some minority undereducated group, does that mean ALL and ANY individual member of that group will do worse? I bet there are a lot of great stories of kids of divorced parents who far…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/17 04:29 PM
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While I think there are a lot of great points in your post, and admittedly I have not read the references (yet) mentioned, how do you deal with the individuality of each case. For example see the Bell Curve by Charles Murray, and looking at large swaths of data to draw conclusions about differences across groups of people- which is perfectly valid. But that does not change and should not impact how you treat an individual of any said group. Similarly just because all those kids in the studies di…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/17 04:14 PM
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There's a fine line between acting like the amused master not taking anything seriously ( especially from a 7yr old) and teaching your daughter the right way to act towards her mother. If you witness behavior you don't accept / tolerate then correct it on the spot with whoever did it. If you find out later from your wife bitching / complaining then that's different. Normally I'd not get pulled into correcting anything on that one unless wife asks for explicit help or I think behavior as relayed …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/17 02:36 PM
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And you don't "Tell" her anything. You lead her to your truth. Have you not been reading Rollo ? Side bar? If not ,get reading brother .
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/17 01:15 PM
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Why do you keep her around? Why are you monogamous with her (I assume that's the case)?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/17 01:14 PM
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Refine that TLDR "Listen to your wife's puke" into: "Act like you listen to your wife's puke and seek to understand what's really behind the puke. Connect with the emotion behind the puke, not with whatever she says. Her words mean a lot less than you think."
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/17 01:12 PM
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I listened to it 5-6 times in the last few years. I like it. Long version. It feels like the author / reader is my secret mentor and teacher and gets in my head all the lessons this way.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/17 12:59 PM
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Seems like he's the man in the relationship. With every text above the Me and Her should be inverted. You're doing the qualifying and excusing. She's setting the terms. Even if through jokes, subtly. At least based on this exchange...
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/17 06:47 PM
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Mine did not survive this level. She filed. I was ready for it mentally. What are you getting from this relationship that makes you stay? If it's sex you want and her to fuck you with abandon, you may be trying to fix something that's not fixable... if it's not then you give that up for something. What?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 07:11 PM
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I agree with this and it's been interesting to see as well. Especially early in the "dating" process if you - over a cosy dinner - suavely communicate you have a high sex drive or something like that, it communicates you are a man who knows what he wants and he will get it. Communicates that you set the terms. Then watch her qualify herself to you, and jump to please you. That's the essence of alpha right there. Do this early when it's clear and obvious you have a lot of options, and she will be…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 06:27 PM
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By "working well" I mean that sex frequency increased. I was basically not putting up with weak refusals like I had used to, and my charming efforts paid off- for a few months. What happened after that is that I gave her an ultimatum - overt , dread- which was unsexy and (I wrote a post about it a year ago under a different account. - look up RPcoyote that's my old username) and right after Christmas which historically had always been a charged period for us. I very rarely got it right wiht the …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/17 12:36 PM
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Yep been there man. "Cheated" also and for awhile my new experiences outside marriage, my abundance mentality and my overal MAP, dread, oak moves etc worked well- until it all blew up and she filed. Looking back, I had been BP for so long , even married her from BP thinking with complete loss and surrender of frame, that the marriage did not survive my transformation and stopping being Mr NG she married.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/17 02:23 AM
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Love it. Having been there myself I read this and chuckle. Agree with all you said 100% and can relate ... (e.g. Destroying hotel rooms) but most importantly as a fucking man. The last line...
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/17 01:51 AM
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Wow. How the hell did you pull this off. Mine is a SAHM also and she's been surrounding herself with the kids. Has most overnights . Admittedly I travel for work but I never miss my dinners with my kids on weekdays. How do you pull off a job and primary residence at your house? Flexible hours?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/17 01:35 AM
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Holy shit brother. Thanks for sharing .. somewhat similar here as far as length of marriage and how she's using kids to get back at me. Plenty time in divorce court. Fight. What I learned is that it's not only expensive (anyone can tell you that), but that no one cares about your kids. The system has the laws in place arguably to protect them. But ultimately the judge, the clerks, they're all a bunch of bureaucrats, half awake drones. Her attorney and yours are hired mercenaries. They don't care…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/17 01:31 AM
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You may be also just beating your head against the wall. Side bar materials and self improvement to the grave fine, but they're not a guarantee that all of a sudden (or eventually or ever) your current relationship will be all honey and roses and pink rainbow unicorns on a sunny day. A lot of men are just not cut out for monogamous long term marriage/ relationships in the current societal norm sense, or at least not until they're 50 or 60. So I'd just be careful trying to fit a square peg in a r…
/r/askMRP05/04/17 04:18 PM
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Echo that.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/17 04:10 PM
2

Fuck dude you need a big kick in the ass. Stop your day trading asap. Take a break from it, if you really can't tell yourself that you're going to stop for good. It's addictive, it's a distraction at this time and it's not producing money you need right now since it's in your tax protected IRA. Shit is going to get real on your ass like you have no idea once the baby comes. You're going to hate your life even more given your current weaksauce state. Is this what you were meant to do? Ignore what…
/r/askMRP04/04/17 03:06 PM
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Hahahahhaha
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/17 06:01 PM
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You are not a snowflake because there's nothing inherently special about you before you work at it. You become the prize because of the hard work you put into building yourself and living from a strong frame. Once you do that to establish high standards that you want to enforce for yourself and within which to live your life.
/r/askMRP02/04/17 03:55 PM
2

That's right. Life is black and white.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 01:06 AM
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Yeah it's ridiculous how many people have told me "I'm sorry" right after I told them my ex and I are getting divorced.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 01:02 AM
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Very well written and 100% correct brother. Have direct experience with having stayed for years with BP mindset. Then two yrs ago after I took the pill and woke up I changed the way I looked at my marriage . I decided deep inside/ realized that my kids would not want an unhappy unfulfilled dad. So "staying in it for the kids" took a whole new meaning. She filed and moved out a year ago- has not been easy wiht 3 kids but it's been so liberating and maturing, I do not regret it. I have learned a l…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 01:01 AM
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Maybe I missed it but did you thoroughly read SGM. Also assume you're tacking her period? She knows you're too eager to have sex and you've lowered your standards for so long she's trained into thinking you just want to/ NEED to get off. The moment you start rejecting the starfish because you genuinely have better more fun things to do is the moment her hamster is going to take notice. If I were you I'd go for quality sex less frequently. Once she starts seeing that sex wiht you is a lot more fu…
/r/askMRP30/03/17 04:32 PM
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Pretty much. The moment OP compromised on his plan and joined the prior group with his plate is when he shot himself in the foot. It's more mature and respectful even to his business associates to politely decline their invite for another round.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 11:27 PM
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Perhaps out of need for steady companionship and when I am old, say in my sixties who knows.
/r/askMRP28/03/17 07:46 PM
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Thanks/ I think we're on same page. The thing with manipulating women was a side effect not an obsessive goal. You and I have a bunch in common. Used to follow /u/ultimateCAD - he was having plates on side as well. I am on the other side now , post divorce. It was (still is at times) painful, but life on the other side is very rewarding. Doubt I will get married again anytime soon. Perhaps when my kids are grown.
/r/askMRP28/03/17 06:24 PM
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I don't know if we're interpreting this whole "you do you" in the same way. In my book, this includes being manipulative and establishing expectations of behavior from others. You can do this overtly or subtly. Nothing wrong with being Machiavellian about it. (And trust me when I am banging a girl and talk dirty to her I'm in my frame not hers. I do it because I love it, and I love the dynamic it creates, and she loves it too). I don't know if "you do you" is something you do in a vacuum, in com…
/r/askMRP28/03/17 05:52 PM
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Good point. If he's shaking like a cornered rabbit facing a cobra any talking will sink him further.
/r/askMRP28/03/17 05:25 PM
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"What babe? You didn't know you married Superman?? How do you think he gets all his power, silly. Now move your sweet little ass/ lips / cheeks etc over here so I can kiss them after a hard day's work." Something like that. The point is that her asking you is a non-issue. Hey it's a reason to treat her like a sweet little girl that she is. It's like she's in the sandbox taking an interest in YOUR awesome new toy. The very worry in your head of "OMG how will I respond when she questions me??" is …
/r/askMRP28/03/17 05:24 PM
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Yeah. With you. Any hint of weakness or sensitivity in how he approaches mention of him would be a pussy dryer and feed her alpha widow feeewings &hope for a return to him - she may not even be doing it conciously. I am wondering if OP can turn things around and 1. When fucking her silly instil in her mind he's the new alpha boy and talk to her as such (basically all the dirty talk in the book about how she is his slut, was made to be fucked by OP etc.) . 2. Outside of bedroom subtly remind her …
/r/askMRP28/03/17 05:02 PM
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You got some good advice already. Basically forget the guy and focus on your frame and your world that this woman is part of. But to peel the onion some more here: does he come up just in your mind or in actual conversation with her? Does she talk about him? Why is he a topic of (any serious) discussion between the two of you?
/r/askMRP28/03/17 04:34 PM
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Yeah that's fine. Sounds like you handled it well once that situation got out of hand. You avoided situation from getting bad to worse. Maybe even scored points indeed with the chick. My point was it seemed you mingled the two worlds too much and it seemed you lost your frame if you've changed your plans for a private dinner /drink to now accommodate your business associates -with whom you had already spent 2-3 hours. Low and behold the dudes decide to test you and openly hit on your chick. Of c…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 03:42 PM
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WTF dude. Moral of the story? Do not mix the date with the other social situation. No need to go back there and introduce her. Politely say bye guys I have plans now, and then start your date. Maybe nod and smile and wave from your now separate table and private environment. If they want to chat / meet her, they can come over one by one or whatever. You put her in that position to be groped by drunk dudes. You're lucky she put up with that.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 10:36 AM
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Yeah that's the right attitude. The moment the two of you don't connect like that anymore (I.e. Cum on her face, intimate discussions on all this with you and her tight on same page etc) and lose your sense of humor, is the moment where it can come crashing down and brings your family with it. Stay strong you oak. They'll get older and crazier, it's not going to be easier.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/17 10:20 AM
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This. 10x upvote.
/r/askMRP27/03/17 01:09 PM
1

Sounds like she's a bunch of drama. Why do you put up with it?
/r/askMRP27/03/17 01:08 PM
3

Do you have a custody agreement? Have you consulted with an attorney about how to protect your legal rights as a father from day one?
/r/askMRP26/03/17 02:10 PM
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Sounds like you know the answer. Make sure you have a solid custody agreement in place. Did you consult with an attorney to understand implications of your present and any future arrangement?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/17 11:07 AM
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Never argue with a woman.
/r/askMRP26/03/17 02:17 AM
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Ask away if there's something I can help you with?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 08:30 PM
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Relax bro. And get educated. Don't be so shallow . Read books like the Power of Habit. Just because SJWs get "triggered", claim victimhood and get a lot of media attention these days doesn't mean all uses of the word "trigger" have a SJW flavor. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 08:19 PM
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My my isn't this an angry post. When someone says they have their shit together so confidently as you did in those replies, what else can you say other than "good luck." Perhaps you 1. Didn't understand my gist and/or 2. I struck a chord looking for you to more clearly identify what prompted you to lose yourself in over eating for so long. If you think you've truly mastered yourself, that you're immune to subconscious triggers of self destructive behavior, then good for you brother. You're at th…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 06:45 PM
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Good job bro! Anal can be great at the right time in the right circumstances as you've just discovered. Does she enjoy being held down by you in the process? Hold her head by the hair and talk dirty to her? Think about the lion biting the back of the lioness's neck as he penetrates and dominates her from behind. That's you big boy.
/r/askMRP25/03/17 11:59 AM
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Good luck to you then.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 11:54 AM
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Because that's you and it's part of understanding your triggers. So that you don't repeat them. Perhaps you killed it /him indeed. And perhaps those demons and that self destructing behavior will never show itself again. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 01:50 AM
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Good work brother. Looking back: to that year where you gained 165 lbs. What was going through your head as you ate another chip? Wolfed down another donut? Added a cake or two after an extra size pizza? I am curious what kind of self insight you can share now that you have a clearer lens into that mindless self sabotaging behavior. What was going though your head then that let yourself get that way?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 01:15 AM
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She she she. All about her. You need a big kick in the nuts. You're overthinking it and you're overthinking any affection she may have for you. The moment you stop worrying about whether she's into you or not is the moment she'll be head over heels (maybe) chasing your confident ass.
/r/askMRP25/03/17 01:09 AM
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Holy shit. You sorry loser. You're a classic nice guy. You have no idea what it means for a woman to be thrilled to be with you and to suck your cock because she loves it and she loves how it makes you feel. To love it when you cum in her mouth or to want to be totally dominated by you. You're married to harpy bitchy for some sense of duty and you approach this whole MRP with same sense of obligation and integrity you've lived your whole life. And yet results suck. You're a doormat and she walks…
/r/askMRP24/03/17 05:44 PM
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Just be the leader. Enough said. You're too entangled. Others gave you the right advice: 1. Have a one-on-one with your wife on parenting. 2. Don't tolerate shit. Even if you do the right thing there's a chance you'll end up in divorce a few years down the line. Good luck.
/r/askMRP24/03/17 05:37 PM
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Not only you should be careful not to get "morning duty" but you should strive to hit the gym early and THEN go to work or go to work from gym. What are your life's priorities? Do you work out at least 4- times per week? Get that in your schedule first Mr. Nice Guy. Of course you'll have household "chores" (you're not a dick) but they will come from a place of strength. Of confidently having taken care of your shit first and foremost. Good luck.
/r/askMRP24/03/17 05:31 PM
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When's the last time you took a trip by yourself or wiht your buddies away from the wifey for a few days? You need to man up a bit, detach and untangle from the day to day crap like this. And by that I mean replenish your masculine energy so that you're ABLE to deal with day to day crap like this constructively and not begrudgingly . I am sure your wife thinks you're really hot and attractive when you're in this mood and ranting about some parking issue, whose responsibility it was etc. Good luc…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/17 04:18 PM
1

Many a good men have been fooled by the randomness of those moving up and down and around in Brownian motion.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/17 04:13 PM
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Beware of cognitive biases bro. This sounds like confirmation bias what you're exhibiting. In clever words put forth by Murphy's law: if all you have is a hammer all objects around you look like nails. So: just because you're now high on red pill philosophy/praxeology / awareness, it doesn't mean you should view everything in the world through that lens. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/17 04:12 PM
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Very interesting. The problem is the way you entered this otherwise great relationship: with a mutual expectation of monogamy. That is a societal norm that may just not fit you. It fits a lot of people well. But a lot of many others it does not. Especially men. And then what do they do? They get frustrated. And /or they cheat. Imagine finding a solid girl and from the very beginning you set the expectation of non monogamous open relationship. I can tell you that there will be plenty to stick aro…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/17 11:29 AM
1

Well in that case go enjoy your new life brother. Create the relationships you want . Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 05:43 PM
1

Vacationing like this with your wife's sister is a big turn-off for her. You don't realize it and in your head it's this hot sexy vacation to party town Las Vegas. Meanwhile in her head it's her own family time (remember it's her sister, presumably they grew up together) where she consciously or subconsciously shows to her sister who's boss in her marriage. She does this by becoming a bitch and/ or restricting sex. She gains power that way. It's what women do and it's part of their social atunem…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 12:21 PM
1

Wait. Why are you the one packing? Do you guys have kids? And what's this lifestyle of working out and naps? Do you have a job, Carter or how do you make a living?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 12:10 PM
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Posted a bunch under old username /u/RPcoyote for which I forgot password.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 11:56 AM
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Oh boy. Been there done that. Took the pill when my wife was pregnant with our 3rd. That was ~ 2 yrs ago. A year ago she divorced me. It's been ugly and my turning from Mr Nice guy to angry male alpha wannabe at a time when she was pregnant certainly didn't help . So be very careful... Mind you neediness comes through your pores and she senses it. It's a HUGE turn-off. Go develop true OI and charm your woman like you're James Bond. Anything short of that and seeming like asking for duty sex is g…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 01:56 AM
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Soon to be Ex
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/17 11:24 AM
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Hahaha . Of course she knew . They always do. You just have to close and not talk your way out of a lay. Sex has to be a "man's fault" (you're the one with the penis, remember??)! But rest assured she made up her mind within minutes of hanging out with you if she was going to put out or not.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 06:05 PM
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It's also been perpetuated by pick up industry and by coaches like James Marshall.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 04:37 PM
1

Don't they make them in two kinds? For rivers and for oceans? Can you use one for both? Been thinking about it as well...
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 04:35 PM
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Good reminder. Some of the stuff you mention takes not months, but years.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 04:33 PM
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Hahaha . Not moralizing. Just wrong/ incorrect.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 03:53 PM
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About the same how I feel now: I would not start fooling around with married women since so many others are available. The one I reference in this post comes from ~ 1.5 yrs ago or so, when I was at a different stage (and a lot hungrier for anything).
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 03:51 PM
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You're not ready bro. You're green as they come. Mid twenties divorced and you want to get back into it?? Hesitation bleeds and jumps all over from your post. It's a sign that your better nature KNOWS this is not the right move. Go build yourself into a solid confident man, and maybe in 10 years you'll be ready. Other than that you're in for trouble down the road despite all the positive "red pill woman" traits she's now exhibiting. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 01:30 PM
1

Work never stops brother. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 11:56 AM
1

Yeah pretty much one of the reasons I decided to cool it and not see her as often as I used to. The crazy woman booked a hotel room room for us to fool around close to her town, right before December 31st, telling her husband she did it to get the points and qualify for next level of rewards or loyalty. The moment she told me that her husband knew her exact whereabouts at that exact time (it was after I was in the room with her already) I was out of there. That feeling of extreme and stupid vuln…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 02:05 AM
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Obviously your call as mods but my $0.02 is that you guys' dismantling of his patronizing comments and ensuing discussion are helpful /educational.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 07:55 PM
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Well I meant abhorrent to others!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 07:41 PM
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Again you're projecting a bit too much and/or are visibly made uncomfortable about my admittedly abhorrent behavior. This is Red Pill subreddit after all. Just because it's got Married in front of it doesn't mean folks should put blinders on and ignore what's happening out there. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 07:28 PM
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That one last statement you made about a moral code is likely to get you in some hot water and is your own perspective through which you view the world.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 07:23 PM
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Definitely you're correct in your last statement. As to the others re -read my post brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 06:52 PM
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Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 03:55 PM
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Yep. Just like I felt. So many times I thought if I could somehow anonymously just mail him a copy of The Rational Male or NMMNG or something (of course I didn't). I feel more pain for him having been there. I know exactly how frustrated (and darn hopeful) he is... When she had that call him in front of me I wanted to slap her / tell her "how the hell dare you treat him that way." It was like a glimpse at the workings behind the matrix....
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 02:40 PM
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Yep doing BJJ here and I echo all the points above. Plus some of the women you train with smell really good... :-) reminder for me to keep my head in the game (I'm there for martial arts after all). BJJ is the most physical thing you can do .. trained 4 days consecutively and I am sore as f$&ck. But feel great overall.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 04:41 PM
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I've done this so many times. Sometimes it hits me years after the fact, reminiscing how I blew what now seems like an obvious opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 04:13 PM
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If it works for you don't overthink it. If you want to improve on the margins you can do that too by being more spontaneous. In the right circumstances she'll go right along . Don't forget to not get butthurt though if she doesn't. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/17 12:29 AM
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