Is “No”.

No, we can’t have that extra whatever you want to buy, that would derail us from our goals.

No, I’m not doing x, y or z in your place because you don’t feel like it or have some made up reason why you can’t.

No, I’m not driving you to wherever to return clothes that don’t fit.

No, I’m not paying $ for your ( before we met) kids’ school or whatever, when their dad is still around and you have a job.

And so on.

Remember folks you are the container, the woman is the amazing energy that will fill it. Be a weak paper bag frame and she’ll blow through whatever “limits” you set for that container.

And HOW YOU SAY NO is very important. Apply WISNIFG methods and always the suave, charming “no, darling , I’m busy doing a, b, c on my Mission” or “I would love to help, but I am busy with that instead.” Smile, kiss her, tell her that you love her, BUT HOLD THE FUCKING line. Stay attractive.

The good news is that 9x out of ten her mood and demands will pass, you’ll pass the fucking shit test. She’ll move on, she’ll find her own way to solve her whatever minute problems.

Don’t be a jerk, help when and how you can, but do it on your terms. Don’t be selfish, be generous. She’ll try to challenge your resolve CONSTANTLY and relentlessly, often even without realizing. She’ll likely always want more more more of your life energy.

It’s all in the 16 commandments of poon. After years of “red pill awareness “ that’s the one set of principles I always come back to. Helps to re read that at least every month.