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Give back what is given to you unless the context is explainable. People make time for the people they want to so there shouldn't really be any unexplainable circumstances that warrant a long response time. Life is an equilibrium. I give my time to those who value it.
/r/seduction04/09/18 07:17 PM
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I love failure. I eat it for breakfast because its what champs eat. Give it to me a spoonful at the time because I know that winners aren't people who lose, they're people who lose often. Change your mindset and you won't see failure as a bad thing but a necessary one. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdTMDpizis8
/r/seduction04/09/18 07:09 PM
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I don't know
/r/seduction08/08/18 01:22 PM
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Why are you disqualifying yourself? I don't understand your woe is me attitude. You clearly illustrate the problems that you face but your demeanor is as if someone held your arms down and prevented you from brushing your teeth. Does everyone have the same shortcomings? No. Does that mean we should succumb to them with the belief that all is hopeless? Fuck no. People who talk about changing don't change. People who realize the importance of change and apply it to their lives do. If your outlook …
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:42 PM
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We're people of social influence though, not just understanding. The knowledge of mankind is filtered through the people who contribute to it. Great men innovate and think of new ideas and others follow in their footsteps. To say that someone isn't deserving of being poured into is to deny that understanding first comes from knowing. The only thing I'm trying to get at is that I believe we shouldn't let the attitudes of others influence the importance of what you believe in. There are going to b…
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:15 PM
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Work on getting that kiss and then escalate.
/r/seduction27/07/18 01:55 PM
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Why? Couldn't incels just be normal people with lack of understanding? Couldn't you argue that incels should be poured into the most?
/r/seduction27/07/18 01:53 PM
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Seduction/Game is just like anything else in the world. You can spend as much time as you want learning how to ride a bike, but until you actually get on the bike and start pedaling its harder to conceptualize the material you read about. Try to avoid circling around mental masturbation like a revolving door. I'm still learning, but one of the things I realized early on was that I was clinging to material in the hopes that my game improved, but it just kept me going back to it because it held in…
/r/seduction18/07/18 01:50 PM
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Ehh, my opinion is you shouldn't disqualify someone just because they validate stigmas that society has created. I don't want to sound like a PC douche or anything, I just think our communities pretty rad and we shouldn't treat the women who come here any differently from the men who have questions.
/r/seduction12/07/18 06:13 PM
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Came here to say this. Already said. Premature exaggeration.
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:56 PM
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Came to say this. Already said. Premature exaggeration.
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:56 PM
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My response for anything that begins and ends with a co-worker is not to shit where you eat.
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:36 PM
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I just answered this question on another thread. Someone had asked a similar question but in regards to their height. The same concept applies, but weight is a little different because you can control it. Like the other comment had mentioned, I would hit the gym and start working on exercising. You should be doing this out of health if it benefits you, but there's nothing wrong with it if its to get girls. Tho honest truth is that you will be judged on your weight though. By women, your peers, c…
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:34 PM
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My opinion is that since you're asking this question you assume other people have a problem with your height. You're acting out of fear instead of love. Instead of accepting yourself for who you are and realizing that there isn't a problem with being short you're saying that people don't accept you because you're short. You know what though? People don't have to fuck with you at all. In fact, people are allowed to hate short people if they want. I shouldn't have to explain why that's just a clos…
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:20 PM
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I wouldn't get to hung up on what you should of could of or would of done. Women like sex. Men like sex. There isn't anything wrong about you wanting sex, even more so since it sounds like she was pretty aggressive in her approach. If you continue to talk to her and she doesn't seem to be reciprocating the conversation then my opinion is that you shouldn't be concerned with how she feels about you. Identify with yourself and accept that you are who you are. I guess this just comes from a place o…
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:03 PM
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I think there are too many aspects to conversation to zero in on what you should improve on. It's like a car that is having engine problems. Until you zero in on the engine with a mechanic, the best you can do is attempt to guess what could be causing the issue. My opinion is that what you initially say matters less than the middle of the conversation anyways. Some of the things i've been working on myself in terms of improving conversation with people is: Not speaking just to speak. "A wise man…
/r/seduction12/07/18 02:50 PM
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That's a very fair point as well! I think it would make the biggest difference in terms of what OP's age is. If he's close to her age then it could mean shes interested romantically, but then again it could also not because women are women and the second you think you've figured them out you didn't. All good suggestions for OP to consider, which is probably one of the biggest reasons why people shouldn't rely too heavily on material/forums, but use it to leverage their game. Appreciate your disc…
/r/seduction12/07/18 02:31 PM
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I don't know... She made intentions to go on another date and was aggressive in her approach. I have no idea, but it could also mean that she sees some qualities in a partner in OP and she could have not wanted to have sex on the first date? It could also explain why she made a suggestion about not shaving her legs but was still touchy feely. Her implication that she should quit tinder also speaks to me. She could be implying that she should quit because she's looking for a specific thing a "rel…
/r/seduction12/07/18 02:09 PM
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This is a pretty specific question you're asking. Do you value your relationship with your ex? Do you value the relationship of your ex and her friend? Is their relationship meaningful and would your interaction create a ripple? If so then the last question you'd just have to answer is if you care about being the person who creates that ripple.
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:56 PM
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u wan sum fuk?
/r/seduction29/06/18 08:27 PM
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Approach, reflect, improve. There isn't a magical answer. Everyone starts somewhere. Whether it's in high school with your first girlfriend or at 25 when you haven't even kissed a girl. No matter where you are or where you want to be it never stops until you start. There isn't a magical answer that anyone is going to give you. No matter what you do in life if you want to get better at it you seek the knowledge and then apply it to your life. There are so many different aspects of seduction that …
/r/seduction13/06/18 01:38 PM
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Naa you should be fine, especially if she suggested to hangout again soon. I would definitely plan to kiss her on the second date. The longer you wait to escalate the harder it becomes to do.
/r/seduction27/04/18 03:18 PM
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Giving a fuck is really just insecurities and anxieties bubbling up and they never really go away, they just feel more insignificant the more we understand them. The only way I've found to get more comfortable with your insecurities are to embrace them. Realize that women are in abundance, your flaws are insignificant and the only way you're going to get better at talking to women is by talking to women. So reflect > approach > improve then go through the processs of improvement again! Reflect >…
/r/seduction24/04/18 08:37 PM
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I usually never recommend ghosting because its not very nice. Would you prefer a women you're romantically interested in to simply cease all contact without warning, or let you know why she believes it wouldn't work out? When you ghost someone, the only benefit you're getting is a conflict avoidance. Simply let her know where your expectations brought you and explain your stance on weed. I've found that expectations are easier to manage the earlier you start to manage them. People are different.…
/r/seduction24/04/18 08:26 PM
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It's hard to give suggestions because you haven't said much in your post. You're disqualifying yourself when you say stuff like i'm not having sex because of X. Your focus should be on overall improvement and try to reflect on the stuff you notice can be improved. When you say its because of how you look, you're basically declaring that its out of your control when realistically its more than obtainable through improvement. You should start trying to work on not giving a fuck though. The attitud…
/r/seduction24/04/18 08:12 PM
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You look like you're over 21 in my opinion. You probably don't have sex because you're a little bitch.
/r/seduction24/04/18 06:42 PM
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I don't know, I'm in my early twenties and from my experiences with the party scene it isn't extremely uncommon to ask someone to throw down on a bottle. The only reason I say this is because 3 dollars is a nominal amount of money for anything else so it could very well be that shes a broke bitch? I honestly wouldn't read to much into this. From your conversations it can't really gauge if shes completely uninterested but then again she very well could be.
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:52 PM
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Stop being a little bitch
/r/seduction17/04/18 06:13 PM
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Some of these posts are hard to read. You sounded pretty oblivious to the fact that she was obviously coming on to you. Apply it to your game and improve.
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:25 PM
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Even though its in your own words, it's so hard to read this. Ughhhh it sucks that you realized this after the fact bro. You'll get it next time for sure though!
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:24 PM
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If you want advice on your tinder profile, you should post your tinder profile. If you don't want advice on your profile but something else you should reword your question. I don't really understand what you're trying to ask. Why aren't you connecting with people?
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:15 PM
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Anxiety, regret, fear, you've already experienced these feelings before and I can assure you that they aren't going anywhere. You're going to be nervous when you approach and you're going to have feelings of regret on things you don't do. You can either work through those feelings, or succumb to them. One good thing, is the more you feel these emotions the easier it is to be mindful of them and work through them. There isn't a secret answer to approaching a group either. I can tell you from pers…
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:12 PM
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I'm not trying to be a dick or anything but why the fuck are you over thinking this shit? How do you find middle ground on two statements that are already passive af. If you can say the same thing to your grandmother then you probably shouldn't overthink saying it to a coworker.
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:03 PM
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I don't know if its just me though. If others can understand it and apply its knowledge it may be beneficial.
/r/seduction03/04/18 12:49 PM
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You had me up until the door analogy. In my opinion, it throws off the influence of your other content.
/r/seduction03/04/18 12:34 PM
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Imkinghardy - , going to be releasing a guide soon so stay tuned!
/r/seduction02/04/18 03:12 PM
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Snapchat is king. If you're currently trying to navigate the dating field and don't use snapchat you're seriously disqualifying yourself. For example.... Lets say you added a girl from Tinder on snapchat. One day, without even messaging her, she begins watching your story and enjoys the short stories you've created on your timeline. In this scenario, you've begun to establish rapport without having to reach out to her. Another scenario I've seen snapchat extremely effective is with flakey girls.…
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:23 PM
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What you've just said... Is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point, in your rambling, incoherent response, were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this room is now dumber for having listened to it.
/r/seduction28/03/18 07:50 PM
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Social media should never replace gaming. Social media is an effective tool for game.
/r/seduction27/03/18 07:06 PM
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Thanks for the kind words! Good luck to you as well.
/r/seduction22/03/18 07:40 PM
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Sounds good! Just like everything else, keep at it and you should start to notice improvement.
/r/seduction22/03/18 07:40 PM
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Repetition. To be honest there isn't really a secret to being social, you just have to do it. The more you talk to people the more experience you'll get which in turn will lead to more confidence. Start slow if you have to, but realize that the answer is just practice. Use articles and material as references, but rely on your own experiences.
/r/seduction22/03/18 05:38 PM
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For me, my only goal with Tinder is to get leads that I can move over to snapchat in order to qualify them. I don't really feel like trying to get to know someone over tinder. I really just want to take them out and see how we interact in person, so when I'm on tinder the only thing I'm trying to do is flirt and pull her interest enough to ask her to add me on snapchat (Not ask for her snapchat.) To be honest, a lot of my openers are the same, and the ways the girls respond back a lot of the tim…
/r/seduction20/03/18 03:46 PM
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Well he likely asked for your number because he has some intention to get to know you better. Most likely he's interested in you romantically, but regardless of it being platonic or not its pretty easy... Just talk to him! Meeting someone when you're out isn't much different than meeting someone somewhere else. Just be transparent with your expectations and everything should be gucci.
/r/seduction16/03/18 07:51 PM
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I'm curious if you mean Michigan as well since your username says Wisconsin. I'm also in Michigan and am down to meet up and game.
/r/seduction08/03/18 06:54 PM
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I never said I've been exposed to it much. I did highlight the fact that I believe the dating world has changed in the past two years which I have been exposed to. There has been discussion on this subreddit before about the dating landscape shift in the past few years. Just wanted to highlight my own experiences in order to possibly help anyone who could benefit from the info! Alex
/r/seduction08/03/18 04:47 PM
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Success shouldn't be defined by age alone, its should be defined by results.
/r/seduction08/03/18 04:26 PM
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Not "Put a women on a pedestal and she'll rub you with her feet."
/r/seduction19/02/18 09:12 PM
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Sounds good
/r/seduction10/10/14 05:17 AM
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