You know what happens to money that doesn't have a purpose? It gets spent frivolously. A life without meaning isn't any different and a life without purpose is a breeding ground for wasted effort.

Robert Bryne once observed, “The purpose of life is a life of purpose.”

Finding the right direction in life is something you create. You make the decision to act. To try. To do something. No matter how small. At some point in life, you’re going to have to stop thinking about taking action and act. This same concept applies to seduction about as much as anything else it applies to. So why do so many of us struggle with this concept of purpose especially as it relates to seduction? A lot of men on this sub will struggle with finding a purpose their entire life. Many men will make women their purpose, struggling to devise an identity of their own. For others, purpose is a continual aspect of their life. The way they live their life will be defined by how they identify their purpose and how they spend their time. They will strive to improve, establish and clear goals and ultimately try to achieve their purpose.

It can be argued that a man who finds his purpose in fishing will spend his time fishing and a man who finds his purpose in creating music may become a musician. If what we can garnish from these examples is true then we can assume that a man who lacks purpose also lacks direction on where to spend his time.

Your life most always will be reflective of your purpose or lack thereof. Seduction isn't about knowing the right things to say at the right time, being witty, or even knowing how to close every time. You can be the absolute most charming man in the room, sleep with 100+ women, have the perfect things to say all the time and STILL fall flat to create any deep meaningful relationships. If your goal is to get laid, just stop reading this sub now. Most of this fluffy pickup material you've already read will be more than sufficient to get laid and any false realities you've created in your head that say it isn't is complete bullshit. I don't care what you look like or how bad your social anxiety is. Go to a local Walmart and see how many people who live near you successfully procreate. More likely than not if you haven't already you'll eventually find someone who wants to fuck you. If not, I don't know, take a shower?

Your goal with seduction shouldn't be just to get laid though. Your goal with seduction should be a realization that "game" and "pickup" are only just one piece of the puzzle.

Seduction is the delivery method you use to convey your purpose and your purpose is what you spend your time doing. If you haven't already started doing so start to reflect on your life more.

How are you spending your time? Why do I get up in the morning? What am I passionate about? What would I do if money wasn't an object?

You should be asking yourself these questions to try and better understand the direction your life is going. I promise you that if you haven't already, you'll eventually get laid...if not once a few times. All the sex in the world isn't going to give you a purpose though. Even if you get into a relationship with the girl you just fucked, thats not going to give you purpose either.

Think a little abstract sometimes, for all you know your problem is deeper than being able to attract women.