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My girlfriend isn't stupid.
/r/seduction23/11/14 03:26 AM
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Er. I mean who initiates the conversation with the other girl? My girlfriend and I have already discussed it, as I said.
/r/seduction23/11/14 03:26 AM
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I'm thinking about having her experiment with a woman before we actually go through with a threesome - do you think that's a good idea?
/r/seduction22/11/14 10:01 PM
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We're both totally up for it, and have discussed it already. Thanks for the advice - how preferable is it to have her initiate the conversation? She's a little shy.
/r/seduction22/11/14 09:18 PM
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See my other response.
/r/seduction22/11/14 07:08 AM
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She only wants to fuck another woman, not date one. I'm looking for advice on getting a threesome, not whether or not I should have one in the first place. We don't want an open relationship, we both just want to bang a girl together.
/r/seduction22/11/14 07:08 AM
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Any in particular you'd recommend to someone with 0 dancing skill but good conversation game? I've been to National before and it seemed pretty okay.
/r/seduction07/07/14 09:13 PM
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There are no bars where people stand up and talk to other groups, at least that I know if in my city (Calgary, AB). So, what do I do in that case?
/r/seduction03/07/14 05:27 AM
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If this strategy works so well, why are you still a virgin?
/r/seduction12/06/14 08:46 PM
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Tell her the truth or don't?
/r/seduction12/06/14 11:41 AM
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[–]Riding_Crossbow[S] 1 point 1 day ago Do you have any proof about that? [–]ModeratorThrowawayPUA 1 point 1 day ago I have plenty. I think my posting history is evidence enough that I'm not a shill, but I appreciate the baseless, unprovoked aggression. Yeah, I have a differing opinion than you. But this seems a lot more akin to a conspiracy theory / power fantasy than actual substantiated claims. I doubt you've got anything to gain from withholding evidence; you clearly don't have any. in b4 eg…
/r/seduction05/06/14 04:52 AM
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Could you show any proof? You said that you had some.
/r/seduction05/06/14 03:34 AM
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The fact that they're kind of naturally socially incompetent is kind of what draws me to them - the fact that they can be successful in spite of that fact. (I'm not a very socially adjusted person). I'd be interested in seeing the proof about their staged videos, though.
/r/seduction04/06/14 04:30 AM
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Do you have any proof about that?
/r/seduction04/06/14 04:10 AM
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Yeah I don't copy those stunts. Have you seen their project GO material and their more normal pickup?
/r/seduction04/06/14 03:53 AM
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Well, yes I do that.
/r/seduction04/06/14 02:07 AM
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I also had exactly this. 100% spot-on the same symptoms. I got medicated for ADHD and it more-or-less fixed it. You should go talk to your GP or something, couldn't hurt. It could just be AA, but if you're getting it with all interactions, not just with women, it's likely not. Edit: also, for really good daygame shit (which is what I mostly do), check out Project GO and Simple Pickup. You can probably pirate Project Go if you want. I think girls are more surprised & flattered to be approached du…
/r/seduction12/05/14 09:13 AM
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Or it could be a result of undiagnosed ADHD. This is a pretty textbook symptom.
/r/seduction12/05/14 09:09 AM
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This is just an excuse you're making up to justify AA. Who the fuck cares about efficiency?
/r/seduction10/05/14 01:00 AM
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Regardless, there will be points in time where people around me disapprove of my trying to pick up girls, especially since I'm still pretty awkward about it. I shouldn't be basing my ego on the approval of those around me, right?
/r/seduction09/05/14 08:03 PM
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It's more not-really-friends who hang out with my friends that are an issue - they sort of get off on judging people. Regardless, I feel like I should be able to not give a shit about their opinions, right? I like your advice, it's pretty baller.
/r/seduction09/05/14 08:28 AM
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Address them one at a time, and address what's behind them. Ultimately, the fact that you don't make enough eye contact, enough physical contact or sound nervous is because you're insecure or anxious. If you can solve that and become a more confident person, that other shit should go away. Likewise, solving the symptoms of your lack of confidence will also give you confidence, so try to use a balanced approach.
/r/seduction09/05/14 07:27 AM
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Judging from your reflection, you are just waaaay too much in your head.
/r/seduction09/05/14 06:34 AM
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I've got ADHD and social anxiety which, safe to say, don't help with seduction. So therapy helped for me, yeah. But it seems like if you don't have any underlying issues, there are far cheaper dating coaches than a paid therapist.
/r/seduction09/05/14 06:30 AM
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Don't shame needing help with girls - that's why this sub exists. I need help with girls, too. Shame the fact that this is a really predatory and fucked up thing to think / say.
/r/seduction13/02/14 10:03 PM
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"perhaps more vulnerable" Ew.
/r/seduction13/02/14 09:57 PM
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Yeah, that's the objective. That's like saying "just sleep with more women". The thing is, if we could just "shut up our insecurities" and shit like that, we wouldn't need rules like this in the first place. The rule makes me lose confidence and I think it's kinda nonsense and I don't like how it's paraded around this community. If you need to already be confident for the rule to work, what the fuck is the point of it?
/r/seduction07/02/14 12:44 PM
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Not really. Without that rule, if I can't nut up and 3 seconds pass, I don't start thinking "oh, now I broke the rule, it's pointless to approach", I try to nut up and actually do it. With that rule, after the 3 seconds are up, I've got an excuse not to approach.
/r/seduction04/02/14 02:05 AM
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I've found that the 3 second rule doesn't really work. If you're already in state, sure. But if you're not in state, you'll hesitate, 3 seconds will pass, and then you'll use that as an excuse not to approach.
/r/seduction03/02/14 07:34 AM
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Instead of doing this, you can just make yourself smile. It'll have a much more pronounced effect without needing to set up a trigger.
/r/seduction03/02/14 07:27 AM
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Since when is efficiency a goal?
/r/seduction07/01/14 07:00 AM
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Not too much of a fan of #2, feels a little insulting to me. The rest are vanilla (which IMO are the best openers) or hilarious.
/r/seduction07/01/14 06:26 AM
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Either your story is missing some key parts or this girl is just kinda crazy, or some combination thereof. But yeah just drop it, she's not worth dealing with.
/r/seduction07/01/14 04:47 AM
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Every single person in this is an asshole. Nobody "schooled" anyone.
/r/seduction04/01/14 03:28 AM
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What're good places to go in Vancouver if your club game isn't so good? I'm not so great at physical escalation and dancing and my strength is in conversation, and it seems like Vancouver's nightlife is based around clubs with super-loud music.
/r/seduction03/01/14 09:42 AM
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I live on res at UBC and go into town to club a few times a month, but I'm not really tripping over girls. Where are you finding all of them?
/r/seduction03/01/14 07:17 AM
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Yeah. No. Nooo.
/r/seduction29/11/13 05:55 PM
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I know what abundance mentality is - but how can I develop abundance if girls shun me because I ooze desperation from the get-go?
/r/seduction29/11/13 10:57 AM
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Thanks, I shoulda thought about that.
/r/seduction17/11/13 10:59 PM
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Yeah, I feel like I've done too much reading and not enough field testing so I tend to run through the motions waaay too quickly instead of actually socializing. Thanks for pointing that out!
/r/seduction11/10/13 05:13 PM
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Thanks, and no I don't use the exact same lines.
/r/seduction10/10/13 12:52 PM
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Is that approval seeking behaviour? I was doing it because I thought it was the exact opposite - forcing her to validate herself to me, basically. Edit: Actually I think I get where you're coming from but I'd still appreciate it if you elaborated.
/r/seduction10/10/13 12:51 PM
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... Don't? Just do your job and game when you're not working. I dunno, maybe be a little flirty and hope she likes you? Regardless, you've got tons of time to game in ways that aren't pushy or weird or dangerous like this would be.
/r/seduction04/10/13 12:13 AM
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If you've been going at it for four years and have gotten nowhere, you're either totally doing it wrong or are looking in the wrong place and should see a therapist (not insulting you - there's a difference between being introverted and having social anxiety disorder or something). What have you been attempting?
/r/seduction18/09/13 06:57 AM
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How should I do this? A natural topic is just what she thinks about the course, but with only a small "Hi I'm Riding_Crossbow, I'm from x" conversation and then a "what did you think about the class" quip at the end there's not much to lead into that. If an opportunity to lead into that topic doesn't arise is it still good to take the shot?
/r/seduction09/09/13 06:15 PM
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I'm going to college. One of my approaches involved talking to a girl seated next to me for a few minutes during the "meet the neighbors" portion of a class, we had a decent conversation, and then at the end making a few remarks on the class and saying "Hey, I think you're cute, you should give me your number and we'll go out sometime" to which she rejected me. Would it have been better to ease her into it, not gone straight to asking her out but asking to hang out / continuing to talk to her, o…
/r/seduction09/09/13 06:26 AM
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