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Have you thought about turning it into some sort of role-play with her? That's what I would do... something like, "Husband/wife frame" and you're "breaking in the new house" before the furniture arrives. Or whatever else your creativity comes up with. Bottom line is, you're stressing too much about it.
/r/seduction07/05/16 10:07 PM
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Actually I learned a lot about game from hanging out with gay guys. They think like women but they understand a man's drives and needs... so they're kindof a "bridge." It's not the easiest thing to hang out with them, but they'll definitely give you a window.
/r/seduction06/05/16 12:27 PM
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Seriously tho. I didn't lose my v-card until 21. The way it went down was, I was super open about it. I told the chick, "Yo. I'm a virgin. I hope you're ok with that." Chicks are SUPER cool about this, if you're open about it. You're not alone and there's nothing wrong with you. I helped one of my best buddies lose his at 25 years old with a 9.5 and he's getting married to her next month. Which is AMAZEBALLZ. For some guys, that's what they really want, for others they want to bang a lot of chic…
/r/seduction06/05/16 11:56 AM
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I love that you brought up Psychocybernetics. Even the Navy SEALs use some of the techniques created by Maltz among others. It's well worth the read in my opinion. https://www.amazon.com/New-Psycho-Cybernetics-Maxwell-Maltz-ebook/dp/B00F3KXN92?ie=UTF8&btkr=1&ref_=dp-kindle-redirect
/r/seduction06/05/16 03:54 AM
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Attitude is the biggest thing for me as far as women I keep around. I LOVE "Girly girls" who have good, positive attitudes! I went on a date with a supermodel's little sister and she was stunningly good-looking, but it turned out I couldn't stand being around her... she was always playing the victim, hates my dog, said my music "sounded like racism," always complaining, nothing good to say about anything. I literally stood up and walked out on her cuz i couldn't take anymore
/r/seduction06/05/16 03:25 AM
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Bring a camera
/r/seduction06/05/16 02:54 AM
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Good stuff. Thanks for that. I like to rock the "cali boy" look, with a trucker hat and sleeveless T-shirt... kinda like Travis Barker. Minus the full body tats.
/r/seduction06/05/16 02:49 AM
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Cupcakes??
/r/seduction05/05/16 09:36 PM
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Unfortunately, this idea will die in obscurity.
/r/seduction05/05/16 11:15 AM
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Thanks for "getting it."
/r/seduction05/05/16 11:04 AM
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I TOLD y'all not to get hung up on the word "intimidation." It's merely a "signpost." Use your own reference experience to connect the dots and make it yours.
/r/seduction05/05/16 11:00 AM
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Haha. Learning from other people... what a novel concept.
/r/seduction05/05/16 10:48 AM
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Yeah, for sure, you're talking my language. I was into Tolle and Zen Buddhism for a while... Now I'm more of a stoic. But I learned a lot, grew a LOT as a person, from studying Aikido and Judo. It's about defending yourself, while also protecting an attacker from injury. That's the underlying philosophy I have with what I'm talking about.
/r/seduction05/05/16 05:27 AM
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HAHA! I love that "golden question."
/r/seduction05/05/16 04:34 AM
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I see your point. And I agree. One shouldn't base their lives on a hollywood movie. I'm with you there. What are your thoughts about the social dynamic that I'm talking about? Hit me.
/r/seduction05/05/16 04:19 AM
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I get what you're saying, and you're absolutely right. BUT it's only one side of the coin. There's a "Yang" to the "Yin" you are hinting at.
/r/seduction05/05/16 03:07 AM
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So what you are trying to say is, I'm so delusional that I watched a movie, can't tell it from real life and pulled this whole thing based on what I saw in a movie? It's an example to illustrate the concept... The photo ain't the model brutha.
/r/seduction05/05/16 03:02 AM
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But when i m around taller guys i just feel bad... I'm gonna rant for a second here: It never ceases to amaze me how dudes will always find something to beat themselves up over. I'm working with a dude who is 6'3" and thinks he's unattractive because he's "too fucking tall!!" Do you even realize that you are the product of THOUSANDS of sexual successes going back into history? Your ancestors did something right resulting in YOU. At some point you and a lot of the dudes here, need to take full co…
/r/seduction04/05/16 09:40 PM
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You've gotta be kidding.
/r/seduction04/05/16 08:46 PM
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I'mJustSo was talking about an advanced internal state/mindset, where you never get those "hard" rejections. At most you get a "meh" from a girl... but you can always re-open infinite times, because you held your value and didn't fk up when you got a "meh"
/r/seduction04/05/16 05:48 PM
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Alex has a good vid on it. My instincts are telling me that this is how you're gonna make it happen, if at all... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sxJMU98BwAw
/r/seduction03/05/16 04:26 PM
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Are you familiar with the "inception dynamic?"
/r/seduction03/05/16 02:22 PM
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Bro. Seriously... Listen to me. That shit's in your head. You are not ugly at all. Who told you that? Did you (or do you) have an overbearing/domineering figure in your life? PM me. I'll give you my contact info and maybe some mentorship.
/r/seduction03/05/16 02:15 PM
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Personally my rule is: See no boyfriend, Hear no boyfriend, Speak no boyfriend If I act like he doesn't exist... he doesn't :))))
/r/seduction03/05/16 08:36 AM
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I'm with woujo on this. Things like this for SURE depend on the context. Like a dude saying, "Nice shirt bro!" could be a passive aggressive challenge, or a genuine compliment. You'd read the context and respond to either one very differently.
/r/seduction03/05/16 08:34 AM
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I have a friend who talks pretty openly about her sexual flings and she's merciless
/r/seduction03/05/16 08:24 AM
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The majority of RSD's free vid content is not directly actionable. As in, you can't take it and DO IT. Actually the best outer-game stuff that they have, like The Hand of God... came from Evil Stiffler lol
/r/seduction03/05/16 08:17 AM
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If you yourself were lurking and she saw you lurking, then you are adding a "weird/chodey" vibe with any question. It's gonna screw him up. I've had this happen so many times, where I talking to a chick and one of my no-game friends stands behind me gawking, or asks an awkward question... it makes things creepy and awkward as f@ck
/r/seduction03/05/16 07:44 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mGqSrnxkpOU
/r/seduction03/05/16 07:11 AM
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Execution is king
/r/seduction03/05/16 07:06 AM
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Good vid. I personally don't like when people wear shades in their vids tho (unless it's outside and sunny of course.)
/r/seduction02/05/16 02:57 AM
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One of the problems with going to a chicks place is she has too many distractions there. So you have to make yourself the center of her attention. Have you tried coming on stronger once you're through the door?
/r/seduction02/05/16 02:53 AM
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Fo Sho. It's pretty common for guys who start off in this to also start businesses and become financially independent.
/r/seduction02/05/16 02:45 AM
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In his case that was what HE wanted, he got it. He's happy. Shoot... I'd prolly marry that chick too. Shes pretty awesome.
/r/seduction17/04/16 08:38 PM
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I lost my V-card by telling her I was a virgin lol. I STILL tell girls I'm a virgin (jokingly of course). One of my best buds always told girls he was a virgin, and they LOVED him. He always had girls around. His biggest problem was pulling the trigger. I helped him out and he lost his on a solid 9.5 at the age of 25. He's now engaged to her. So YES. Chicks are surprisingly cool about it.
/r/seduction17/04/16 08:49 AM
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"Smallchunk" your way to success brutha. Most guys go into this trying to approach ONLY attractive girls, and in their heads it's as daunting as having to climb mount everest. However, you have loads of opportunities daily to practice being more social on everybody you come into contact with... until you build the experience, attitudes and mentalities of an outgoing person. That shyness will melt away. It's best (in my humble opinion) to take the pressure off at the beginning. Cheers, Rob @ The-…
/r/seduction17/04/16 08:39 AM
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I agree with the other comments! You did really good. I think a lot of guys would have missed the cues, or misinterpreted them lol. One thing you did that worked in your favor was getting your boogie on, loosened up, and got out of your head early on. Dancing is amazeballz.
/r/seduction17/04/16 08:27 AM
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"How you do anything is how you do everything," as the saying goes. ...If you hate yourself, ultimately you hate everyone else too. Rob @ The-Infinity-Blog.com
/r/seduction17/04/16 08:18 AM
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I was on a date with this girl once. Actually it was her idea and she REALLY wanted to go rollerskating... I hate rollerskating. But I decided to humor her. The whole time I was playing the "high-value" game and not really getting anywhere with her But then I slipped and ate shite hard, and it looked clumsy as heck. She came over laughing and helped me back up. 3 seconds later I fell again, this time tripping a gaggle of about 10 little kids with me... I was thinking to myself, "That's it. I'm d…
/r/seduction14/04/16 05:09 AM
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Haha. Yuuuupp.
/r/seduction11/04/16 04:30 PM
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Looks/fame/status... is DavechoDEEinthemouth's pitch. I'm offering that you have the attitude of pushing yourself forward. YES!! I'M TRYING TO CONNECT. But gawdammit!! You want THIS chode's message? ...I say FUCK that. Don't even listen to me. Just don't listen to this crap.
/r/seduction11/04/16 11:57 AM
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Do what works for you.
/r/seduction11/04/16 11:24 AM
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THIS. The original book quote sounded to me like something from a dude who doesn't have THAT much experience and is kindof cynical and butthurt... no offence to the OP. What book are we dealing with here?
/r/seduction11/04/16 08:50 AM
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Start with your voice. How you use your voice is literally 60-70% of game. It's one of the easiest things to learn, and the biggest return for the least effort. Every single guy I've worked with has sh*t vocal skills... monotone voice, little expressiveness, no projection, bad tonality... they sound boring, weak and sometimes "boyish." Shit... as I was typing that, I remembered, I have some vocal training drills on soundcloud. It's incomplete but you're welcome to download what's there if you wa…
/r/seduction11/04/16 07:57 AM
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Read this (if you haven't already). It's free. This is an oldie-but-goodie. Most people in the community have forgotten about swinggcat's work on "prizing" and frame setting. But it was a monument. http://buffman.net/ebooks/Swinggcat.pdf
/r/seduction11/04/16 06:33 AM
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Look at the frames involved dude... If a chick behaved like this with me, what she's doing is acting out a frame that "she's the prize." She obviously thinks she's higher status, that I'm a provider male and I need to "buy her attention." You as a dude should always control the prize frame from the very start. So my answer to your question is, "Yes... but No." YES this would be a good way to reassert the prize frame... But NO, because you should have set that and been "alpha" from the start. It …
/r/seduction11/04/16 06:01 AM
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Gonna be honest. I suck ballzzzz at tinder. But one thing I've tried when I send an initial message and don't get a reply is, a day later I'll send: "I'm not as cool as you are, with that haircut... but I thought I'd say hi anyways." I've gotten a 40% response rate
/r/seduction11/04/16 05:42 AM
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Haha!
/r/seduction11/04/16 05:27 AM
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I agree. Kinda sounds to me like something from redpill
/r/seduction11/04/16 05:23 AM
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In my humble opinion, if a guy goes on a coffee date with a girl and she expects him to pay her way... IT'S HIS FAULT. He didn't set the right frames from the get-go and showed her he's a sucker MUCH, MUCH earlier on... This sounds like a very negative, cynical attitude toward women. Personally what I like to do on a date is have her pay for something. Like quarters for pool. Or she gets dinner, I get drinks or whatever is more expensive. Never ever had a problem going that route. Rob @ www.the-…
/r/seduction11/04/16 05:22 AM
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I 100% agree. Actually just I posted something incredibly similar before I read this... DERP. There was a scientific study done on "posing" that found that doing a V-pose (arms up in a triumphant V) increases testosterone by 20% and reduces cortisol levels, while adopting a submissive pose lowered testosterone by 10%
/r/seduction11/04/16 03:21 AM
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There's an interesting perspective/school of thought on this kind of thing that males are shamed as children, by parents, teachers, peers, school etc. for displaying affection and escalating with girls... this is possibly why you feel anxiety. Just like you would feel intense anxiety if you had to walk down a busy street buck-ass naked. Shame's probably THE MOST debilitating emotion. Most people's advice is "just man up". Instead, do some "deep diving" introspection to see if there are any early…
/r/seduction11/04/16 03:08 AM
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It's providing the opportunity to connect with me. Just like any guy would ask a girl for a phone number and offer the opportunity to connect. You're a "big boy." You can make your own choices, without insulting the intelligence and experience of people who are out there doing it (whilst hiding behind anonymity yourself). My website: www.the-infinity-blog.com
/r/seduction11/04/16 02:40 AM
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I like to follow Gary Vaynerchuck's "51% rule:" Go 51 percent (or more) and see what they do from there. My website: www.the-infinity-blog.com
/r/seduction10/04/16 08:56 PM
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Guys who get "friendzoned" are the guys who are too scared to hold a girls hand crossing the street or pick her up and spin her around... there's no "sexual inuendo."
/r/seduction10/04/16 08:20 AM
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Sorry brutha, but a chick's timeline is not the same as yours as a male. We start off slower, but we get a MUCH longer go at it. I've noticed dudes, (if they ever DO) hit that "swagger" around 28. A chick's is 18-26. You're in your sexual prime. You just don't realize it.
/r/seduction21/03/16 08:14 AM
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Oh yeaaah! I like your replies on this post. You're right on the money!
/r/seduction17/03/16 06:58 AM
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I agree 100%. Aeon 199, this isn't "professional therapy" seek professional advice for that, but I def think that being AWARE of tension is super healthy. The body is a mirror for what's going on in the mind. And vs vsa. If you're experiencing extreme tension in the body, there is extreme tension in the mind.
/r/seduction17/03/16 05:30 AM
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I like your style CrushHazard.
/r/seduction17/03/16 05:23 AM
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"Game" was perhaps a poor word to use on my part... it's more like a dance. It's a back-and-forth over her emotional sweet spot. You're right. You SHOULD be real and call her out... BUT be tactful and fun about it. Don't take it too seriously cuz, in her mind, it's just a "dance" and the second you take it seriously/personally (IE "Is this going anywhere, I'd rather not waste my time is all.") is the second you stop being engaging and interesting for her. ...and I'm being heavily metaphorical he…
/r/seduction15/03/16 09:49 AM
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Yeah, public speaking is DEF a good confidence builder... How to Develop Self-Confidence and Influence by Public Speaking by Dale Carnegie http://www.amazon.com/How-Develop-Self-Confidence-Personal-Development-ebook/dp/B005I4DA2S/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1458009972&sr=1-1&keywords=how+to+develop+self-confidence+and+influence+people+by+public+speaking
/r/seduction15/03/16 02:47 AM
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Yeah, I mean as far as "don't play games and don't put with women that play games" ...there is a point were you go, "OK. I know this girl is fucking with me and leading me out of some fucked up need for a sense of self-importance. I've dealt with this kind before too, and refuse to deal with them. That's not the "seduction game" I'm referring to... Wouldn't it be nice if we, AS GUYS, could do what we want and just go, "Do you like me? YES or NO" and have 50% say yes. It is a game. And we do have…
/r/seduction15/03/16 02:25 AM
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YES!! EXACTLY. Don't try to "skip the game." Big mistake.
/r/seduction15/03/16 12:44 AM
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I get where you're coming from, as guys we tend to want to be overt and yes/no, black/white... but it's not like that for women. Seduction IS a woman's game. It's always games. It's a BIG mistake on your part to view having to seduce her with contempt, and ask her, "is there anything going on here? YES/NO" Because at that point you put her on the spot and are forcing her to take the lead and make a decision. 100% of the time (when you put her under that pressure) it's going to be NO, just to get…
/r/seduction15/03/16 12:41 AM
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Haha. Worrrrd.
/r/seduction15/03/16 12:20 AM
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I'm actually asking to get a feel for Seddit's understanding.
/r/seduction14/03/16 05:58 AM
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Thanks for giving that from a female perspective... Awesome. I'm 29 and I've been doing this quite awhile. So I already know hehe, my goal was to stimulate conversation about it, for the benefit of those who don't. It's kinda sad how men don't get taught about what women actually want. That was actually one of the most cogent descriptions from a woman I've ever heard.
/r/seduction14/03/16 05:29 AM
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Sure, I mean as males we do the same thing, as we get older and more mature we tend to look more past the superficialities. But don't you think there's an overarching quality that say the average 20-30 year old woman is hard-wired to be attracted to?
/r/seduction14/03/16 04:15 AM
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The best advice I can give you is to start with small, fundamental things. For example, holding eye contact, or vocal training. Most especially focus on giving other people good emotions, so that you can start to SEE yourself as being liked by others. That's the essence of charisma. Even if it's just little things at a time. You're on the right track, you'll get there
/r/seduction14/03/16 01:29 AM
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FOOORR SUUURE. Great book!
/r/seduction14/03/16 01:21 AM
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Yeah I couldn't agree more. Building self-esteem and self-confidence should be the main focus IMHO.
/r/seduction14/03/16 01:18 AM
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Don't ask that. You'll definitely ruin it. I've done that before and it always goes down in flames... Are there any ways you can think of to turn that dynamic around on her? As in you "playing hard to get." Also there are ways that you can (gently) show disapproval for flaking etc.
/r/seduction14/03/16 12:51 AM
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Just help me Obi wan Kenobi, you're like my only hope..
/r/seduction13/03/16 06:28 PM
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Ha! I saw you mentioned Rules of The Game... That was the very first time I was exposed to this. That book was AMAZEBALLZ. Way better than The Game!
/r/seduction13/03/16 06:12 PM
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Stay awesome bro.
/r/seduction13/03/16 05:24 PM
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I appreciate you mentioning that Daygame
/r/seduction13/03/16 05:22 PM
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HAHAHA
/r/seduction13/03/16 05:18 PM
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Yep. You caught me... funny how you're using the words I talked about. Interesting psychology ISNT IT.
/r/seduction13/03/16 04:40 PM
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Just hope you're only here to like me ;)
/r/seduction13/03/16 03:14 PM
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Oh what?! Thank you for telling me. Try again. I APOLOGIZE.
/r/seduction13/03/16 03:06 PM
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Interesting post. I've been doing "seduction" for 8 years. I still feel AA. I know some of the public figures and they all say they still feel AA. There are a lot of different theories about it. One of them being, it's an evolutionary hard-wired protection mechanism, just like fear of heights and fear of drowning. Another is it's "learned" in childhood through social shaming Personally, I think it's a combination, and I don't know any guys who have gotten rid of it, they just learn to manage it.
/r/seduction13/03/16 02:20 PM
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My personal opinion... drugs are a way of avoiding the mental/emotional dilemma at issue. You might get away with it for a time, but you'll end up relying on the drug until you deal with it. I'd say it has something to do with you not being used to rejection. Based on how you've gone ON AND ON about your looks. The breakup hit you where you weren't ready for it. Now you have a nagging sense of doubt and inadequacy about your "sexual desireablility." ...Essentially what your ego is tied to. Defin…
/r/seduction13/03/16 01:47 PM
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Vulnerability is a "high-status male" quality. Saying she's gorgeous and she made you a lil nervous is FLATTERING to a girl. But the caveat is you have to hold that "High-value" fame. My criticism for you is, you should have "seeded a meetup" WAY WAY earlier, so that there was a context for you to continue texting her. From her perspective this text convo is going nowhere, wasting her time, and basically choding around with her.
/r/seduction13/03/16 01:35 PM
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I'M SUPER GLAD YOU BROUGHT THIS UP! Cuz most of the "pickup" advice is predicated on being able to go out 4+ nights a week 10-2am in order to get any value out of it. Yah. Maybe it works for "pickup coaches." ...fuckin DERP. Obviously you're no slouch and this is a serious issue. My personal solution has been to use my daytime "work life" to practice the social skills. If you think about it, you have 40+ hours to practice, vs. the 16 you'd get at the club.
/r/seduction13/03/16 10:16 AM
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The underlying concept is, you need to be in her RAS (Reticular Activation System). It's 100% unconscious behavior. Even shy girls will look at you. Around 5 seconds is a SURE green light. 1 second or a quick glance is "iffy," your chances are significantly less, but you can still try your luck. If she's walking down the street you want to PUT yourself in her RAS to at least give her a little "proximity warning" that you're there so you don't freak her out. So next time how would you do things d…
/r/seduction07/03/16 04:39 AM
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She wasn't a bitch... You just made some fundamental errors. And there's nothing wrong with that. Just gotta learn. When I first started this 7 years ago, I made a commitment to NEVER call the girl a bitch for rejecting me.
/r/seduction07/03/16 03:38 AM
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Here's something that "advanced" guys do: A successful approach happens non-verbally before you even approach. So the fix for you, that will probably reduce your rejection-rate about 60-90% is: MAKE EYE CONTACT FIRST. For example: if a woman holds eye contact with you for about 5 seconds, in female nonverbal communication that means, "YES. Please approach me." This is one of those subtle (but very important) nuances that you'll never learn from RSD "marketing videos."
/r/seduction07/03/16 03:08 AM
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Borjatone knows what he's talking about
/r/seduction03/03/16 05:39 PM
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You have two options... 1) Cold-approach or 2) Social Circle. Having to commute presents a BIG logistical problem in either case.
/r/seduction02/03/16 02:30 AM
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