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| 1 | [Half-FR] Failure to escalateThanks for the response! | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 11:18 AM |
| 0 | Seddit advice for females.Confidence is huge. Confidence, goal-orientedness, and willingness to try new things (I mean non-sexually, though sexually doesn't hurt) are all extremely attractive qualities, along with not being clingy. As for how to control your feelings, note that a ton of seddit advice is gender-neutral; things like abundance theory (being confident that you can go get another guy if the current one turns out badly) and inner game advice help a lot. | /r/seduction | 01/08/11 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Seddit advice for females.Confidence is huge. Confidence, goal-orientedness, and willingness to try new things (I mean non-sexually, though sexually doesn't hurt) are all extremely attractive qualities, along with not being clingy. As for how to control your feelings, note that a ton of seddit advice is gender-neutral; things like abundance theory (being confident that you can go get another guy if the current one turns out badly) and inner game advice help a lot. | /r/seduction | 01/08/11 06:28 PM |
| 3 | How To Seduce WomenIf I had to give someone a tl;dr of all game, this would be very close to what I'd say. | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 08:01 PM |
| 0 | How To Seduce WomenIf I had to give someone a tl;dr of all game, this would be very close to what I'd say. | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Cold Reading: Easier than you think!!Depending on delivery, this can also seem like "Let me guess, you [amused generalization about everybody who thinks they're an individual", which (again, depending on delivery), can lead to her qualifying herself ("Nono, I really am an individual!!!!") | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 07:56 PM |
| 3 | What's the best way to take compliments?They say analogies are the best method of teaching. Fuck them; analogies are second to animated GIF's. | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 09:25 AM |
| 1 | What's the best way to take compliments?Depends on how you play it off, but you've got a point. | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 08:12 AM |
| 0 | What's the best way to take compliments?I'd make the eye contact, look her up and down, then slowly smile and "Thanks". | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 06:23 AM |
| 3 | I am insta-friend-zoned a lot because of my voice.Stereotypical manly men with a slightly gay voice look extremely gay, I've found. | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 07:39 AM |
| 1 | I am insta-friend-zoned a lot because of my voice.That's actually kind of a fun gimmick. My friend tends to open girls at the beach by teaching them how to skip rocks; this could be similar. | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Starting the confidence build: SmilingEven in friendly smiles, you don't need to show teeth. It just looks more controlled if you don't show teeth/ | /r/seduction | 12/07/11 04:16 PM |
| 6 | Inner-Game ExerciseI'm trying to take you seriously, but I just read the ass pennies post. | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Got too caught up with playing it cool. Lost a girl I really cared about.The important thing to remember is that practice makes perfect. You seem to understand that. Just keep trying to find the balance. I'm interested in finding out (and everybody, please comment) if it's better to have a homogenous balance (always the same kind of guy) or to fluctuate back-and-forth, keep her off balance in a way. | /r/seduction | 16/06/11 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Very effective field-tested tease"Bitch your hair's fucked up. DTF!" FTFY. | /r/seduction | 08/06/11 01:19 AM |
| 1 | How can Seddit apply to me in high school?The vast majority of things that women in high school and women in general are attracted to are the same, so just study the concepts. You'll have to make little adjustments, depending on whether or not you drive, can go to clubs, etc. but most everything should be relevant. Also, check out HighSeddit. (By the way, I'm nearing the end of my senior year in high school). | /r/seduction | 28/05/11 07:08 PM |
| 10 | The BEST possible text you can send when she flakes (doesn't reply to you asking her out)What are you doing on my couch? FTFY.. I hope. | /r/seduction | 28/05/11 01:09 AM |
| 5 | The BEST possible text you can send when she flakes (doesn't reply to you asking her out)Exactly - there's something to be said for pretending to lead a busier life than you actually are, but this should at most be a stepping stone to the point where you actually are leading a busy life. If you start making up plans (or getting plans) just to not appear beta, then you're being beta. | /r/seduction | 28/05/11 01:08 AM |
| 16 | The BEST possible text you can send when she flakes (doesn't reply to you asking her out)Not really - it depends a little on age (this is especially noticeable in teenage girls), but oftentimes when a woman is offended ("Wait, you mean you're not going to beg me to make plans?") she gets cold. It can certainly be an IOI. | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 10:34 PM |
| 2 | DiCarlo Escalation Ladder: Concise and EmphasizedThe "brush abdomen while talking" point is one I've had trouble with - could you give an example of how to do this? I've noticed women sometimes do this when they're being playful (an "oh stop it" kind of touch), but I can't imagine how I would use it. | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Is there a "time limit" on girls, before you generally get friendzoned?Kino escalation cannot be stressed enough. Without it, you're incredibly likely to get friend zoned, though slightly sexual teasing helps mitigate it. | /r/seduction | 22/05/11 09:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Bus conversationFirst of all, it's great that you're getting out there talking to people. As you said, it can be a great ego boost and just helps you get into state/overcome AA. It seemed that you handled yourself well! I would say you are very aware of the sort of things you need to work on if you were actually trying to close this girl. Thanks! It was fun, though I was in my head quite a bit for a lot of it. The name thing is a great idea, it's planned, so it gives a sense of security, but it's easily adapted… | /r/seduction | 18/05/11 11:05 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Bus conversationIt's certainly easier when there are fewer people on the bus. The first time I did it, I just opened with "Do you know what time it is?" and then followed up by gesturing at the paper in her lap "Doing homework?" | /r/seduction | 11/05/11 09:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Bus conversationStouffville, actually. | /r/seduction | 11/05/11 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Girl you like says "call me anytime tomorrow" (not a workday), when is the best time to call?Just because she told you to call tomorrow doesn't mean you should; call when you feel like talking to her. | /r/seduction | 07/05/11 07:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] School play pickupUpdate! Friend-zoned. High school girls will be hormonal, I suppose! | /r/seduction | 05/05/11 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Some random bits of advice and linesYou really have to deliver it without missing a beat. | /r/seduction | 05/05/11 12:54 AM |
| 1 | [FR] School play pickupSlowing down speaking and gesturing are both good things. When I'm consciously trying to make a point I tend to slow down and use pausing effectively. Otherwise.. I probably gesture like an idiot. | /r/seduction | 05/05/11 12:52 AM |
| 1 | [FR] School play pickupExcellent! | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 10:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] School play pickupI have this big fucking grin on my face right now, well done. I aim to please. Posture, tone and body language, basically anything non-verbal, takes a while to get natural- from what I've read you did amazing. Thanks - it helped massively that she was very laid back and not self-absorbed, so I felt pretty comfortable and in control. Though I wouldn't see smiling as a negative, it shows her you enjoy her company. Everything in moderation, though. Smiling and laughing too much can be a sign of anx… | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 06:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] School play pickupApplauds We need your kind on /r/highseddit. I am now there! Also, everything you think you could improve on? Be careful. Don't turn into a game-bot. It seems like you nailed it with this girl. Posture and stuff is important, but the "don't be beta" stuff's purpose seems to be to help people with naturally poorer social skills than you have, or who constantly get friend-zoned. Actually, I'm very used to getting friend-zoned, and for years had trouble with poor social skills. I used to be an incr… | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 10:47 AM |
| 2 | [FR] School play pickupYou make a good point, but for me, location is always an issue. I don't yet have my driver's license (working on it), and I live 20 minutes away from the town where our school is, so I've gotten very used to some specific loci; finding new ones is an ordeal with bus co-ordination and whatnot. I'll ask around, though, someone might know a nearby, interesting place. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 10:45 AM |
| 1 | [FR] School play pickupA successful, analytical FR. Good job. It really helps that you realize what you need to improve on and what you're doing right. Thanks! Definitely post this to [r/highseddit](www.reddit.com/r/highseddit) Did not realize highseddit was a thing! Subscribed! Xposting soon. Also, post in the introductions so we can get to know you. Call me a newb.. what and where? | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 02:20 AM |
| 1 | [FR] School play pickupi thank baby jesus every day for nails, rings, and necklaces. They certainly make good conversation starters. at first i was like "eh he shouldn't have brought it out in the open like that" but the fact that it went under her radar kind of makes it good i guess. either way you did it like a boss and that's the important thing. Well, I wanted to be clear, and I hate beating around the bush when I can just be direct. How would you have gone about it? take the "alpha males use more space" idea with… | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 02:18 AM |
| 1 | [FR] School play pickupGood performance and a good FR. Give yourself some credit, that wasn't trivial stuff. Your nervous coffee cup mutilation reminded me a video with "Lovedrop" (I think that was his name). He said that when he first started working with a wing, the first thing they noticed is that he had a nervous habit of pushing his straw up and down in his drink. They told him it looked like a jacking off motion. So they made him toss the straw. LOL. Anyway, watch out for nervous habits. This is were a wing or o… | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 02:14 AM |
| 1 | [FR] School play pickupNice write-up. It is always exciting to see somebody who can put their experience cleanly to paper (err, back-lit multicolor dots). Made me snicker. Upvote for you! On the "Things I could improve on:" list, I would suggest that you slowly toy with some of these improvements. Some of the 'weaknesses' may be fairly authentic to your personality (e.g. doting / kind ) and if not over-done (balanced by your alpha-ness) they might be just fine left alone. You don't have to check all of the seddit boxe… | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 02:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] School play pickupExcellent! Then I'm glad I wrote it. Make sure to post successes and failures alike on Seddit or AskSeddit; I certainly need more information as much as you do! | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Cruise game, is it different than regular bar/club game?It depends a little on your age. My friend (we're both seniors in high school) found that girls our age are a lot more ready to put out than girls in situations where they might be judged more heavily. He found that as long as you stay confident, even a little arrogant, you won't really need to invest effort. | /r/seduction | 03/05/11 11:07 AM |
| 1 | The result of 4 billion years of evolutionary success: You.The result of 4 billion years of evolutionary "success": You. FTFTFYFY | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 09:53 PM |
| 1 | The result of 4 billion years of evolutionary success: You.But some of us clearly required more evolution than others. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...A compliment done by a beta, for the sheer purpose of impressing or getting attraction from the girl. Here it sounds like he intends you to play it off in a tone implying "I'm used to getting the hottest girl in the place, and tonight that's you, you lucky dog. I'm ____." | /r/seduction | 01/05/11 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...Your replies to mobsta and gigglebytes clarified a bit more - I was interpreting it as more of a beta compliment than as a statement of fact. | /r/seduction | 01/05/11 12:19 AM |
| 2 | FR: Playing the numbers game saves a lot of effort.Reminds me of one of the Leil Lowndes books; it had similar advice in that it recommended recognizing existing attraction, rather than trying to build it from "scratch". | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 10:06 PM |
| 6 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...For me, the opener "I wanted to talk to the hottest girl in the place tonight. I'm _____." seems counterintuitive, but I'm not sure why I feel that way.. | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 10:04 PM |
| 1 | The Importance of TanningI'm very white, and although I brown a tiny bit over the summer, I don't really get a "tan". Ever. Do high-pressure beds overcome this in any way, or am I doomed to be translucent-white forever? | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 11:30 PM |
| 0 | Hacking the status game - practical advice on inner gameA little long-winded, but worth reading. | /r/seduction | 18/04/11 09:33 PM |
| 1 | [Semi-FR] Barrage of shit-testsYeah, texts are a little different in high school. But I see what you mean; it's not a habit I should get into. | /r/seduction | 11/04/11 11:03 AM |
| 1 | [Semi-FR] Barrage of shit-testsThanks for the reply - I generally keep an eye out for your comments, as you usually seem to make a ton of sense. Try not to analyze every interaction with your "pickup goggles" on, especially with high school girls. True enough; part of it is that I only recently discovered Seddit, and I'm trying to get as much practice in as possible before going off to university. Only a few months left. A lot of what you did was very good but you mighta pushed too hard and didn't pull enough. Something like … | /r/seduction | 11/04/11 11:02 AM |
| 3 | This week in AskSeddit: approach anxiety, social circles, and LTRsAs I said last time I saw one of these posts, it's excellent to see a summary of the week. Great post! | /r/seduction | 03/04/11 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Redditor gets 'in state' for a day and has an awesome day. AskReddit can't figure out what it is.Occam's razor is not well-known, I see. | /r/seduction | 03/04/11 07:24 PM |
| 1 | I just read this book, which does not center around pick-up, and it has changed my life. I highly recommend anyone looking to improve their quality of life.a $25 bill. | /r/seduction | 28/03/11 10:57 AM |
| 2 | How do you refuse paying for a girl without sounding like a cheap bastard or a jerkAfter reading all the comments here, my opinion is as such: Pay for the first date, and on subsequent dates, say something like "I'll pay for half." If she complains in any way, just be straight up direct and alpha about it; if she really takes offense to it, then it sucks to be her. | /r/seduction | 27/03/11 08:13 PM |
| 3 | New rule, Seddit (Something I just thought of)My brain is trying to tell me I want sex. | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 10:45 AM |
| 1 | A nice trick I've been using when girls ask for things.I was having trouble describing it, but that's an excellent way of putting it. | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 01:55 AM |
| 1 | 6 ways to make any behavior easier to change. All you noobs should read this with AA in mind. Advanced guys can apply it to any sticking point.Not really any new information, but a decent summary of what's already out there. | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 10:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you get in state before going out Solo?For me, it's more of a lifestyle to be in state, rather than a routine or ritual. | /r/seduction | 19/03/11 01:13 AM |
| 50 | This week in AskSeddit – Facebook, texting 101, and what's made the biggest difference in your game?This should happen every week - or does it? | /r/seduction | 18/03/11 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Don't. Fap.English needs fucking parentheses for precedence. | /r/seduction | 18/03/11 04:10 PM |
| 26 | Don't. Fap.I noticed that [fapping less] came with [being more confident and positive]. | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 03:10 AM |
| 5 | Let's Talk About Eye ContactPersonally, I've always found beckoning motions to be a great idea. | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 03:14 PM |
| 3 | Avoiding the asshole zone.Most transitional stages require some being inside your own head. | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 01:21 AM |
| 5 | Avoiding the asshole zone.It's better to err on the side of too reclusive than to err on the side of too much asshole. Take your social skills back a few notches until you're not an asshole anymore, and then crank them back up until you notice you're starting to be an asshole again. Work on reducing the assholeness as that point, and then crank your social "centralness" up a little more, reduce the assholeness, etc. | /r/seduction | 14/03/11 11:58 PM |
| 5 | ObservationThe Seddit community is a means to an end, and the end is seduction. The means may vary, and as you say, they include studies in linguistics, psychology, and kinesiology; but to say that it is not a community about seduction is wrong. | /r/seduction | 13/03/11 09:20 PM |
| 66 | Kino from a girl's perspectiveFrom the conversation, it sounds like Chuck doesn't escalate properly. I've known people who are just casually touchy, and nobody's ever complained about them. | /r/seduction | 13/03/11 12:12 AM |
| 1 | How does seddit feel about taking a girl from another guy?I completely agree; you don't want a girl who's too flighty. | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 02:07 PM |
| 6 | How does seddit feel about taking a girl from another guy?My policy has always been that women have free will; if you are able to "take" a girl from another guy, then it's still her decision to make, so you shouldn't feel guilty. | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 03:04 AM |
| 6 | A pick-up Line which Works! Thank-you Dr. Toboggin!Personally, I like "Do you have any raisins? No? Well then can I have a date?" Because it's so non-aggressive, but funny and confident. | /r/seduction | 08/03/11 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Practicing kino day to dayAlthough I've started conversations with strangers, I've only started touching a little while into the conversation (high fives, shoulder pats), etc. Pretty similar stuff. | /r/seduction | 07/03/11 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Challenge: I put it to you gentlemen, a test to your seduction theory.Just be alpha. It's even easier in high school because the teens there are all hormonal and slutty anyway. Might want to work out, too. | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Practicing kino day to dayI've just been slowly slipping it into day-to-day interactions; things like high fives or fist bumps as a greeting or parting gesture, or a pat on the shoulder. I haven't started touching forearms yet, but that's my next plan. So far, nobody seems to have even really noticed it consciously. | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Can't seem to get started. Need some advice.Proceed as you would if you were 5'1" and built. If anybody gives you a hard time about you looking young, you can always joke about it or brush it off. In fact, you can even make jokes yourself (calling the woman you're having a good time with a "cradle robber", etc.). The best advice I can give is to just go out there and start trying; a fear of rejection is far more damaging to your game than actual rejection is. | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Trying to PUA, now i'm the local douchebag. What Do?Well if it's not multiple people, then you don't really have a problem. You can't please everybody. | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 01:39 AM |
| 7 | Trying to PUA, now i'm the local douchebag. What Do?No, but the trick is to be good-natured about it. But, if as you say, there are many people calling you a douchebag, then you probably are doing something wrong. | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 01:27 AM |
| 8 | Trying to PUA, now i'm the local douchebag. What Do?Being alpha isn't about being a douchebag or putting other people down. A good alpha makes everybody feel good. | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 01:21 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Girl At the Bar - Getting Her to QualifyNice qualifying; I'll have to keep that in mind. | /r/seduction | 05/03/11 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Advice on Maintaining Value, Sexual Tension, and Overall Desire in LTRsI only read the list, but just based on that, I can say very good post. | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Common Pitfalls: Oneitis & Poor Inner GameOnly very recently did I become much more positive and alpha, and this has been a stumbling block for me. I'm lucky enough to have not let it affect me very much, though, but I can see that it really could be a problem. Great post. | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Are you disciplined and committed to your personal improvement?It applies to everything, too. I do a lot of computer stuff, and when I wanted to learn about something (dynamic programming, game engine development, agile development...) I would get all the available information and compare it, try and whittle it down. In the end, I'd be crippled by the shades of gray. Since then, I learned to just get a something that looks good, work through it, and improve if necessary. | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Are you disciplined and committed to your personal improvement?That's what I've been doing. I used to make it a point to get as much information on a subject as possible; since then, I've learned that it's best to just get the basics, and work with them, and if something extra needs to be learned, I can look it up. | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Foolproof way to keep a conversation going. Parroting.I imagine it's very hard to do this while still being alpha. An alpha is supposed to be dominant and steer the conversation, and only ask/say something if he's genuinely interested in it. This sounds like conversation for conversation's sake, but is definitely interesting. | /r/seduction | 01/03/11 11:59 AM |
| 1 | The Inner Game of Being AlphaMore importantly, did SHE say this in a playful, joking way? Knowing that would be important to dictating the response. If she was just being critical for critical's sake, I probably would have not pursued that. | /r/seduction | 01/03/11 11:58 AM |
| 1 | How often do you say "Excuse me" upon beginning an approach/interaction?I've often begun with questions or questionlike openings like "excuse me", but that was mainly before I found seddit. | /r/seduction | 01/03/11 02:52 AM |
| 1 | You're about to go sarging, What would you remind yourself in one sentence?Ah, great. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 01/03/11 02:28 AM |
| 1 | You're about to go sarging, What would you remind yourself in one sentence?Could you explain "abundance" to me? | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 11:37 PM |
| 10 | Sent her a funny text but she took it seriously. Now how shall I respond?Remember that it's not your job to please her or placate her. If I make a joke and somebody doesn't get it, I tease them a little. Hell, even take the joke further. But I'm no expert. | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 11:33 PM |
| 3 | You're about to go sarging, What would you remind yourself in one sentence?"You're confident, positive, and in control.". | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Meeting women as a teenager with no car?With regards to social circles, I'm a little bit iffy. The long-and-short of it is that I don't really have a specific social circle. I drift between groups, and talk to whoever's beside me in classes. The general pattern is that it's all people who are pretty hardworking (not diehard bookworms) and who each have a small social circle. Thanks for the link; it's getting transferred to my iPod as I type this. | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 09:04 PM |
| 1 | I think this video actually says a lot about the female dynamic. Plus, she has almost perfected the bitch shield.I wasn't sure until about halfway through. Then I just burst out laughing nonstop. | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 08:53 PM |
| 1 | I think this video actually says a lot about the female dynamic. Plus, she has almost perfected the bitch shield.Absolutely brilliant. | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 08:52 PM |
| 2 | I think this video actually says a lot about the female dynamic. Plus, she has almost perfected the bitch shield.I'm confused as to what I was supposed to learn.. but that chick just got a new subscriber. | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Meeting women as a teenager with no car?Sorry, my mistake. | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 11:55 AM |
| 1 | [Life FR] A week of talking to everyoneSound good, thanks. | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 11:54 AM |
| 2 | [Life FR] A week of talking to everyoneWhat would you recommend for an environment like a school, where most people are on their way somewhere and are (half the time) grumpy as hell? | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Lesson 2: Alpha Body Language & Tonality AND MORE (from RSD)You're allowed to come off as a dick; in fact, half the article is about not worrying about what other people think of you, as long as you're direct. If she checks her phone because she got a text, that's fine with me, especially since it gives me a chance to see if she ignores it. If she starts responding to it, then, smiling a little I'd say Me: Hey! \snap fingers** Eyes up here. I'm not done [whatever you were doing]. That being said, I've never actually tried this. Thoughts? | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Lesson 2: Alpha Body Language & Tonality AND MORE (from RSD)Really cool idea. Maybe next time somebody asks me to go to a museum, I won't raise my eyebrows and stare at them until they leave. | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 12:07 PM |
| 3 | Refresher on Passing Shit Tests - Agree and Amplify and WHY IT WORKSIgnore it outright Good point; I would guess this one works a little better for things like "Which one of us is hotter?" from a group of girls (although, in that situation, I'd go for checking them all out, and then say "me"). | /r/seduction | 21/02/11 05:59 PM |
| 40 | Lesson 2: Alpha Body Language & Tonality AND MORE (from RSD)tl;dr Speak authoritatively. If they don't pay attention, call them on it. Take up lots of space. Make statements; don't ask questions. Make strong eye contact. Be comfortable with "awkward" situations, like silence. | /r/seduction | 21/02/11 05:55 PM |
| 1 | A simple trick to sit next to herThen brush it off and try again, with something similar. People are pretty likely to say "what?" after a few times. | /r/seduction | 21/02/11 01:42 AM |
| 6 | A simple trick to sit next to herI think that's an overstatement, but yeah, the original is too long. | /r/seduction | 21/02/11 01:41 AM |
| 6 | How to turn off brain chatter.What I've found is that the trick isn't to turn off brain chatter, but rather to act in spite of it. This is much more powerful, because it means you're able to go against your gut when you know it's being stupid. It gets easier every time. | /r/seduction | 20/02/11 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Protip: An easy, everyday exercise you can do to combat Approach Anxiety!I prefer the technique of just talking to everybody. Most people are friendly, and it's great practice. | /r/seduction | 20/02/11 08:11 PM |
| 1 | How simple IOIs got me an HB9 tonightInteresting - I would never have thought to apply "rapport" techniques in that way. Nice job! | /r/seduction | 20/02/11 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Flawless Okcupid subject line"...if you didn't look like my brother" | /r/seduction | 05/02/11 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Lessons from The Tourist (2010)...Nice vid. It doesn't so much teach as reinforce through visuals, rather than text. He got my subscription! It's especially a good exercise if you try and notice the game before he explains it. | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 02:30 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Little embarrassing, but first kiss (I'm so old), solid date. Hope for awkward, late people just starting outMy first kiss went a little like this: smooch and twist. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Kino escalation? Isn't it just awkward as fuck?I thought the same thing as you, and I'm by no means an expert, as I've only been consciously kino-ing for about two weeks at my high school. What I've found is that most people don't really even seem to notice when you touch them. I've mainly been going with shoulder-patting and shoulder-tapping, but people seem to fine with it (except a few, who absolutely freaked out). | /r/seduction | 30/01/11 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Going for it, but in need of some tips, advice, and encouragement.I used to have pretty terrible approach anxiety. I overcame it remarkably quickly by just going for it. If, as you say, she gives you clear IOIs, then you don't need much of a planned lead-up. You can probably just introduce yourself and be direct about asking her out. | /r/seduction | 30/01/11 09:10 PM |
| 8 | [xpost from r/pics] The girl on the trainThe tl;dr of it is BE A MAN AND FUCKING TALK TO HER. | /r/seduction | 30/01/11 09:08 PM |
| 2 | 3 things that work for me to be more socially dynamicYou're all wrong. | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 11:59 AM |
| 9 | 3 things that work for me to be more socially dynamicI think it's probably hard to disagree with these; they're good points. | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 01:20 AM |
| 1 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)Well in my inexperienced eyes it looks good. Certainly less direct and more time-consuming, and I'd prefer direct if she had THAT expression on her face, but I think in general I prefer your approach. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 11:55 AM |
| 1 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)Stripes was a romantic comedy? | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 11:53 AM |
| 1 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)My response to this is always: Who the fuck's trying to hack MY bluetooth? Not that I own a bluetooth device. Or anything blue for that matter. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 02:20 AM |
| 6 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)Well then gtfo my seddit. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 02:17 AM |
| 1 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)I get the impression he wasn't being completely serious. You do make a valid point though, as a lot of stock "pick up lines" revolve around that sort of crap. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 02:16 AM |
| 2 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)That's a good idea! Maybe I'll start posting some stock photos. Once you get past the bullshit, it leads to some interesting discussion. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 02:15 AM |
| 1 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)Now my question is: how much of a display in interest starts to raise these red flags? For instance, would the asking for directions and then cutting her off with "Don't bother, I just stopped you to flirt with you" be enough of a red flag? On another note, where would one proceed after that? Straight for the introduction? | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 02:13 AM |
| 3 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)You, dear sir, are my idol. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 02:11 AM |
| 3 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)Blocked in Canada because of copyright. Dammit youtube. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 02:09 AM |
| 1 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)Which internet? You mean the blogosphere? | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 02:07 AM |
| 1 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)The straight-out-of-a-movie expression doesn't hurt either. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 02:07 AM |
| 3 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)It sure does! | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Natural beta looking to man-the-fuck up before collegeThe tl;dr of my readings and (minor) experience is that practice makes perfect. You can learn as much "theory" as you want, but what really helps is just going out and trying it. Might be worth it to take an improv class though. | /r/seduction | 23/01/11 01:51 AM |
| 1 | My new song to get pumped up.I got up until the vocals. | /r/seduction | 23/01/11 01:47 AM |
| 16 | Today I walked up to random attractive girls and said "Hi, you're hot. Let's go out."More fun exercise: Ask random girls if they want a boyfriend, but see how creepy a smile you can get away with before they start getting scared. | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Today I walked up to random attractive girls and said "Hi, you're hot. Let's go out."Yeah, the abcsofattraction guy got me interested in much more direct pickups. I'm by no means an expert, but it's certainly a lot easier after you approach a few people with the intent to be direct. | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 02:01 PM |
| 2 | 3 First Date Rules That Make You Or Break YouWell even considering every ethnicity, that still puts him easily in the top 50 pickup artists in Australia, which isn't bad either. | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 01:38 AM |
| 5 | How to use instant messaging to get a girl outShe's either 12 or an absolute idiot. Either way, I wouldn't tap that. Seriously, "the alligator thing"? | /r/seduction | 29/12/10 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Body Language EssentialsNice tips! I especially never would have guessed the first one, as I usually express with my hands. The last two tips reminded me a little of a Leil Lowndes book I read (http://www.warez-bb.org/viewtopic.php?t=4536264) | /r/seduction | 23/12/10 07:31 PM |
| 1 | FR: The one that got away just left my bed. THANK YOU SEDDIT!!!!TPB has some David DeAngelo stuff. I think that's where I originally got my collection http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/4848123/David_DeAngelo_Ebook_Collection | /r/seduction | 22/12/10 09:03 PM |
| 4 | FR: The one that got away just left my bed. THANK YOU SEDDIT!!!!Nice job! I just started lurking seddit, so success stories are rather inspiring ;P Could somebody link me Essential NLP? I found Psychology of Persuasion no problem. | /r/seduction | 22/12/10 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Cheat Sheet for "How to win friends and influence people" - concise summary of the ultimate book. Print this out and stick it on your wall right now.tl;dr: -Be positive, happy, and interested in people's thoughts and opinions -Be honest and direct, especially when it comes to positive attributes -Freely admit fault and error | /r/seduction | 16/12/10 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Help with the absolute basics: making friendsThat's a great idea! Where did you learn that? | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 11:52 PM |
| 2 | DAE find traditionally hot women (aka 9-10's) mostly unbearable?tl;dr But upvoted for the 30 rock reference | /r/seduction | 26/11/10 11:25 PM |
| 1 | How to Pick Up Girls at the GymI see what you did there | /r/seduction | 26/11/10 11:23 PM |
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