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No he’s married with a kid. Technically self employed and has made a lot of money complaining about women on YouTube to neckbeards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:05 AM
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Are you an deranged? The point is men don’t typically lower their body count because they know women are socialized to accept them having a high body count. They don’t believe that telling women they have a high body count is going to ruin their chances for sex, so it’s unlikely they will lie and say it’s lower than it actually is. Just don’t tell them that you don’t sleep with sluts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:14 AM
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How am i pickme? I’m saying that women have wrongly been told to be accepting of male promiscuity and that men know this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:00 PM
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I’m sorry what planet do you live on? Many many women do exactly that because they’ve been conditioned to think that sleeping around is normal, especially for men. Men are applauded for being skanks and most women believe they just have to accept this or may even mistakenly buy into the idea that that makes him masculine and worthy. Men do lie, but they almost never lie by saying their body count is LOWER than it actually is because they think that makes them less masculine. Men almost always ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:29 AM
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The average woman sadly doesn’t care because they’ve been told it’s lame and prudish to care about it or feels she has to at least tolerate it and men know this 9/10 times when men lie about their body count, it’s to increase it, not decrease it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:18 AM
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Dear lord in heaven. Please report him to the FBI
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:34 AM
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It’s because men don’t throw out their underwear, they keep the same three pairs for a decade
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:19 AM
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What sub was this in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:59 AM
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I’m kinda speechless...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:54 AM
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lol no way, men are truly ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:55 AM
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yea I've definitely noticed that men tend to be colorblind and lack tastebuds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:51 AM
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moscow mules are the best cocktails. I can tell we definitely have a similar palette given your choice of steak, cheese, and drinks. This post made me so hungry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:34 AM
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They’re probably not going to lie about their high body count though because men aren’t shamed for having high body counts, they’re applauded for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:53 AM
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I do too, but it’s definitely not for everyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:16 AM
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That steak looks really good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:31 AM
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I think she’s referencing the fact that ginger beer is really spicy. It’s way stronger tasting than ginger ale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:31 AM
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I didn’t get it because I kept pronouncing it in Swedish 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:06 AM
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There are definitely men who like tall girls. My husband didn’t want to marry anyone under 5 6 and I didn’t want to marry anyone under 6 feet because we both want tall kids. I’m 5 8 and he’s 6 1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:52 PM
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Ah, yea that makes sense. Like you said, she has her flaws like anyone else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:13 PM
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I think it was more that she was impressed by his status, being a senator and all. Angela has always shown that she’s fine being alone, she’s basically a human cat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:39 PM
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That’s kind of a special case too, she didn’t know he was a closeted homosexual. An unfortunate situation for everybody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:02 PM
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What is DARVO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:57 PM
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Dwight has a lot of money, property, and investments. He also treats Angela like the queen she is, and by the time they got married he had matured a lot. She also broke it off with him when he killed her cat and didn’t take him back just because he begged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:22 PM
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Angela is a queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:45 AM
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It’s always been an instant turn off for me when a guy expects to go 50/50. Like he can be extremely hot and Ill instantly get the ick and think he’s a loser the moment he asks to split the bill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:49 AM
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Brilliant 😂 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:00 PM
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They say that but then they bitch and moan when you stop. Pick a lane, men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:06 AM
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Just because one side is consenting doesn’t mean they’re not being used. Do I seriously have to explain this? Do you live under a rock? Men lie to get sex all the time. They lead women on, dangling commitment, telling them that they love them when they don’t, etc. This is an extremely common trope, or you just playing dumb on purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 10:18 PM
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Okay if men can get laid then what are you bitching about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 10:14 PM
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Plants aren’t even useless, they purify the air in your home and increase happiness. The average male provides less value than a houseplant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:28 PM
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Growing up I was bullied so much because of this, even by teachers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:40 PM
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This made my heart race. I got such second hand anxiety watching this creep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:43 PM
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men pull this shit and then go around acting SHOCKED when their gfs break up with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:20 AM
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how about neither
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:41 AM
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men are painfully stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:39 AM
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Lol no wonder men always scoff at jane austen books and act like women are silly for liking them. What she wrote terrifies them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:29 AM
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I always saw that line as self deprecating, not necessarily hating on the other girl for her fashion choices and extra curriculars. Like I know I’m lame and in band and not super feminine like your beautiful popular girlfriend but you should be with me because we have such a connection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:25 AM
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Cargo shorts alone are a reason to swipe left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:36 PM
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Yes that would be great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:46 AM
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I’d love to do a podcast and have been thinking the exact same thing lately. There’s not enough good content for women out there yet, at least when you compare it to how much bad/toxic content there is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:36 AM
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There’s enough political fighting in just about every subreddit. I come here to see things that are pro women and that’s it. Not interested in seeing people argue about Marx and which side of the spectrum is more sexist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:33 AM
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I know you’ll get downvoted here and so will I but honestly I agree. I think a life is a life, the idea of hurting the unborn really pains me and for a significant amount of pro life men this is how they see the abortion debate- not about control, but about not doing harm to an innocent life. There is of course a contingent of men who are against abortion because they absolutely want to control women and make them “suffer for being sluts” or get a chance to pass on their shit genes. But on the f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:30 AM
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I’m more mad at the husband than the docuhebag. She needs to drop him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:51 PM
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It’s definitely on Hulu, it’s a Hulu original
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 05:27 PM
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Modern day cartoons are mostly written by straight up pedophiles. There have been numerous scandals where these men have been caught sexually abusing/grooming underage girls. Don’t let your kids watch these networks, they are run by sick freaks who are trying to groom an entire generation through the television.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:56 AM
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Love him, he needs to become a household name. Wish we had more men like Lundy in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:17 AM
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This happened with my last ex. He stalked and harassed me for months, threatened to show up at my work, and even tried to blackmail me into having sex with him. My heart still races when I think about it, caused me half a year of constant stress and I even had to move to a different state. “Their toy won’t behave” is exactly how they see it and it makes them lose their fucking minds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 04:13 PM
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It’s certainly fun in the getting to know each other phase of the relationship. Now that we do I can get those 8 hours 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:53 PM
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Made me lol but I did used to do this in college with my now husband. With the right person it can be worth it. I wouldn’t have done this had I been working though, i didn’t have class until noon most of my college years so it wasn’t so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 04:28 AM
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Okay groomer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:19 AM
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Even with their faces blurred out you can see the vast difference in their effort/attractiveness. She does her hair, picked out a nice outfit, so she is most likely also wearing nice makeup too. She also looks pretty fit. Meanwhile you can see he’s short, balding, and wearing a t shit and jeans. What’s she doing with this loser?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:40 PM
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Sapphire was the go to for engagement rings back in the day, it’s what princess Di/Kate wore/wears Diamonds are a scam, they’re not even rare!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:07 PM
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100 years ago girls didn’t even get their period until 17 on average. Girls only get them so early these days because of all the endocrine disrupters we have in our water, food, household items. It’s not natural what so ever. Men are fucking disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:16 PM
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They really only happen because the people having them are drunk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 11:48 AM
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Lol he doesn’t live under a rock. It doesn’t matter that his family doesn’t really do birthdays, he obviously knows that it’s the norm to get people gifts on their birthday, especially when it’s an SO. He was clearly testing to see what bullshit you’d put up with and you “failed” magnificently. It’s even more obvious he knows he should be getting you something because of his manipulative language- trying to equate you to a child for expecting bare minimum treatment, acting as if this is solely y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 12:23 AM
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They’re never really your friend, sadly. They just want to do you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:31 AM
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Yea this channel had a series on friends too and basically came to the same conclusion about Joey and Ross. Joey is a womanizer and treats the women he sees poorly but he was actually far more supportive, kind, and a good friend to Rachel unlike Ross who didn’t seem to see her as an actual person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:26 AM
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I hate this overly pc culture. Even if he is depressed, mental illness is not excuse to treat people like shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 02:09 PM
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She’s an NP. She’s probably making six figures herself too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:03 AM
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Yes, it’s definitely enough for the first few days. There’s a reason your baby gets colostrum first before any milk, this is exactly how it’s supposed to work. A minority of women do have issues with producing enough though which is why it’s great that today we have supplemental options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 07:06 PM
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This is straight up abuse. She needs to get out of there before things get really bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:07 AM
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I don’t even understand this, your milk takes several days to come in. That’s how it normally works- For the first few days you only produce colostrum. My milk didn’t come in until 3 days after giving birth. Why the hell were they freaking out at you? My hospital promotes breastfeeding but they didn’t act anything like this. That’s absurd behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:05 AM
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We need more women doing the lord’s work like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:28 PM
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You can have the lemon pepper, it’s all about the garlic herb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:48 AM
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My blood is boiling rn. How do women not snap more often?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 12:39 AM
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I broke up with my red pill ex after 3 months of dating because he told me it was okay to rape women if they were naive enough to go into a mans bedroom. He then stalked, harassed, defamed, and attempted to blackmail me into having sex with him for half of a year, twice as long as we even dated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:09 PM
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Such extremely beta behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:28 AM
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“Massive criteria” lol the things he listed were not gay, not a criminal, doesn’t have children with multiple women, not ugly. How unreasonable for women to want a heterosexual decent looking man with no records and no kids!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:01 AM
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Wtf do you have a link to this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:27 AM
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This is a class tell. I grew up in a very WASPy community and none of the men think that way, even the LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:39 AM
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I had a self described incel tell me he was a 8. I asked him to post a picture and he straight up looked like a serial killer. The self delusion these men have knows no bounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 01:44 AM
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Finally a sane response to this fake drama
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 02:59 AM
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Wtf is this the guy from You?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 02:08 AM
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O my fucking god, I would strangle him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 12:52 AM
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First it’s “give him a chance” Then when it inevitably blows up in your face it’s “well you chose him, pick better”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 04:21 AM
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Why do doctors always gotta be like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 06:59 PM
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Are you sure you have BPD? It’s notoriously misdiagnosed. I’d get multiple opinions if I were you, if you haven’t already that is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 04:18 PM
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Men are fucking bonkers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:00 PM
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My ex had a belly. It was soooo gross, such a turn off. At the time he was only 21, so what even was his excuse. I have a 6 pack too so it was all just so wrong. Husband has abs and uses very high quality skincare products since his early 20s. It’s night and day. Don’t date men that don’t take care of their skin or health!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:58 PM
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I’m only a SAHM because I have family money. It would be too scary otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:48 PM
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This is so important! I followed that sub for a while and occasionally would try to argue with people but I noticed that every time I saw a post from PPD on my feed it seriously ruined my mood, made me feel depressed and angry. Why would I voluntarily subject myself to seeing something that made me so sad? I gained nothing from it. Once you understand what the other side is saying about women and you’ve been exposed to the truth, there’s no need to constantly revisit it. Just keep working on pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 04:28 AM
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Men are a fucking mess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:39 PM
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Lol yea. Seth Rogan is a total hottie. It makes perfect sense that he’d end up with Katherine Heigel. The men in these movies are total Uggos. What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 03:40 PM
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Lol how are you even real. You’re a walking meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 03:15 PM
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I have a family of my own, friends, and actual hobbies and interests outside of reddit. You’re the one posting on the internet, likely from your mom’s basement, about how some random dude is “eloquent” because the only thing in life that truly interests him is putting his face in the ass of a girl he’s never spoken to and doesn’t know, because she has a fat ass. You’re all the most pathetic people I’ve ever had the displeasure of encountering. Good thing women aren’t procreating with you, your g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:30 PM
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Lol dude you have got to be a troll. No one is genuinely this cringey.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 06:40 AM
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Lol nice straw man. The problem isn’t that he desires women, it’s that his desire is an obsession that completely occupies his thoughts above all else and is the sole thing that drives him. That’s an addiction, it’s not normal and it’s not healthy. Also what? I’m married with a baby and I’ve been underweight my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 06:37 AM
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Dude what you wrote here is psychotic. Find other things to do in life- develop hobbies and talents, put energy into a career, hang out with friends. Reading what you wrote honestly scared me. I can't believe people like this exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 05:21 AM
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Attention I think is the wrong word, I think it's often deeper than that. A lot of high N count women are using sex as evidence that they are wanted/valuable/loveable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 05:09 AM
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51% of people with narcissism are men. And BPD is not caused by being "pandered" to, you ignorant shithead. It's caused by being neglected and emotionally abused during childhood. Maybe you should stop running your mouth. You clearly have no idea what you're talking about. Also wtf, many women, and men, suffer from depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 05:03 AM
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Jesus this hurt to read. I heard all of these when I ran away from my narcissist ex. All of his friends came out of the woodwork to tell me I deserved it for dating him and continued being best buds with him like he had done nothing wrong. (He tried to blackmail me, was emotionally abusive, told me it was okay to rape women, and stalked me- I even had pages of receipts proving he had done all of this too, didn’t matter though)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 05:12 AM
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Yes, it’s already risky to sleep with straight men, and it’s still a perfectly valid precaution to not sleep with bisexual men because the risk is SIGNIFICANTLY HIGHER. I myself don’t need to get tested because I’ve been in a monogamous marriage. I not only avoided bisexual men but avoided sleeping around with men in general, and never had anal sex. I don’t engage in behaviors that put me in a higher risk category for contracting STDs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 08:21 PM
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What does that have to do with anything? The point is I don’t want to need to get tested in the first place. It’s not the cost or reliability of the test, it’s the fact that I don’t want to get HIV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 08:08 PM
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Honestly surprised people here are giving you shit about not dating bisexual men. It is OBJECTIVE FACT that men who have sex with men are a high risk group for contracting STDs, particularly HIV. Seriously, the CDC states this very clearly and doctors will push you to get tested if you have sex with men who have sex with men. Choosing to not engage such men in a sexual relationship for this reason is valid and prudent. I usually see this shaming tactic from men and libfems, really shocked and di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 08:02 PM
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Jesus you’re fucking ignorant. Please stop talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:30 PM
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Um no. I just think men taking pictures of themselves is unattractive, stop trying to intellectualize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 09:40 PM
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As I already said, it’s disgusting on a primal level. I’m not disgusted by women being vain. I don’t respect it but it doesn’t gross me out the way it does in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 09:32 PM
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It’s just vain and pathetic and cringey. Instantly disgusts me on a primal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 09:27 PM
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Didn’t say it was rational, I said that it’s common
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 09:26 PM
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Lol check out r/niceguys . Men calling women ugly whores in response to being rejected is extremely common. A smaller, but not insignificant, percent resort to blackmail, assault, stalking, rape, and murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 09:08 PM
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Lol nice try posting a book of 20 year old data that you didn’t even read. Meanwhile you can take two seconds to go over to Wikipedia and see that the cdc clearly states that last they checked in 2017, the rates of obesity were pretty equal (within 3%) and that there are actually more overweight but not obese men than there are overweight but not obese women. “Over 70 million adults in U.S. are obese (35 million men and 35 million women). 99 million are overweight (45 million women and 54 millio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 08:53 PM
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Statistically it’s true that women are better looking on average. Women were primarily chosen for their beauty so we’ve evolved to be beautiful. Men are hideous brutes and most of them refuse to take care of themselves. In the past they were able to provide and protect but now no woman needs a man for these things, so looks matter more than they used to. Too bad men are disgusting to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 07:48 PM
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Rates of obesity are about equal actually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 07:36 PM
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This is only really true with birds
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 07:35 PM
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Yes, thank you. We are absolutely brought up to be easy prey in the west, particularly if you grow up middle or upper middle class. You are taught to be kind, agreeable, to give people the benefit of the doubt, and to not judge a book by its cover. Young girls are taught a very sweet, rosey, universalist view of humanity and it’s incredibly dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 09:41 PM
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Lol my ex tried to blackmail me into having sex with him, spread horrible lies about me to everyone, and harassed and cyber stalked me for twice as long as we even dated. all because after a few months of dating I decided I no longer wanted to be with him. He told me repeatedly that he was owed a relationship with me because he was “nice” aka he occasionally told me I’m pretty and bought me a birthday present. Men literally rape, assault, and kill women that reject them. Some fat girl giving you…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 07:25 PM
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Well the stats show that rich men like thin women and poor men like thick women. So what it says about men is their socio economic class.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 04:37 PM
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You shouldn’t be shampooing everyday, that actually causes your hair to produce more oil since you’re constantly drying it out. Once a week is fine. Also find a good conditioner and go low carb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 08:05 PM
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I said I’m not fighting, because I’m not. I’m married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 06:24 PM
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I already said yes to this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 11:16 AM
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I get it but we really only know about two women he’s dated, not his whole history. The other men I cannot stand. Damian is a gaslighting narc, mark is a niceguy and gives me the creeps, and Barnett is a fuckboy/ man child. I actually like kenny though, he seems really respectful and calm, like Cameron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 11:13 AM
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I mean she literally stated the thing about black families and how she was nervous about introducing him to her dad because he's white and it felt kinda wrong to her. I don't live in Atlanta but I live in a city near there. Although people live in monoracial neighborhoods, Atlanta is a majority-black city unlike chicago and nyc, so you will have way more interactions with people not of your race there. I'm actually from chicago (the north side) and I've been to manhattan several times, and I kno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:29 AM
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I hate the majority of them. I never said 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:07 AM
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Very much so. I wanted to date him the moment I saw him when we were only 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:02 AM
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I'm pretty sure she stated that she didn't date white men because her and her family are very invested in strengthening black families, and it felt like a sort of "betrayal" to date a white guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:01 AM
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Okay you do know they live in Atlanta, right? Are you at all familiar with the demographics of that city?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 04:31 AM
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If you're a woman, you need a serious wakeup call. If all you expect out of a man is "love," your ass is gonna get played. Don't fall for this bullshit. Expect more for yourself. With your low expectations, you're only going to attract losers who will take advantage of you. I know, I used to be "cool girl." Wise up before you seriously fuck yourself over.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:12 AM
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I'm not fighting. I married young.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 03:47 AM
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Lol have you seen men? Most of them are gross, socially stunted, and lazy. They want the bare minimum out of life, they’re completely beholden to their dicks, and on top of it all they hate women. In the past at least they were expected to provide but they can’t even do that anymore. The average man offers nothing. It’s also objective fact that women are on average more attractive than men. So men aren’t even nice to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 07:59 PM
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Men: There are so many amazing, decent guys and women reject them all because they only want chad! Also men: You're gonna have to be a supermodel if you expect a guy to wash himself, be not morbidly obese, have a personality, pay his own bills, and not use you as a fleshlight. The bar for men is in the freaking 9th circle of hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:08 AM
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Lol you're such full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:30 PM
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My flair literally says "man hater." How are you dumb enough to think I care? Damn scrotes can't even read.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:28 PM
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I've gotten so much shit for being thin and for having curly hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:26 PM
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You do realize people don't always act rationally, right? I mean I know it was rational that these women didn't want to date your pornsick ass, but I'm absolutely sure they regret sleeping with you and cringe about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:20 PM
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Keep being delusional all you want. FDS will just continue on telling women to stay away from men like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:16 PM
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So basically what you're telling me is that you get all your beliefs about women and sex from porn and pickmes. I'm gonna say this one more time- Women don't want fuck buddies. Sure, there may be 2% of women who are true Samanthas, they're high T and have high drives. But the vast vast majority have no interest in being treated like your fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:11 PM
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Okay I get it, you're pornsick
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:04 PM
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Yea, no woman actually wants to be treated as a fuck toy. It's degrading. And women very rarely get anything out of sex because the vast majority of men are terrible at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 10:57 PM
4

Women don't actually want "fuck buddies" bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 10:51 PM
2

None. All of their issues are self-inflicted and do not warrant my sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 10:32 PM
2

Jesus this is the most pathetic thing I’ve ever heard. How are you people even real? I’m speechless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:57 AM
17

Lol my ex told all of our mutual friends that I have BPD because I broke up with him. This shit has gotten so ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:09 AM
2

uh no??? wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 03:27 AM
8

Wow this is like EXACTLY what I saw happen when I was in college in the 2010s! I went to an elite private high school, only the top tier girls got any outward attention from boys. Most of the girls had incredibly low self-esteem because of this- eating disorders and depression were rampant. Then we graduated, went to college. And suddenly all these girls who were ignored since middle school were just swimming in attention from men. They valued it so much they slept with any somewhat cute or char…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:08 PM
57

I'm also on the spectrum and this line in particular really hit home- “Because we don’t sense danger and can’t. That’s one reason, I think you not reading people to be able to tell if they’re being creepy, you’re that desperate for friends and relationships that if someone is showing an interest in you, you kind of go with it and tend not to learn from others’ safety skills.” I only figured out a year ago that I was unusually trusting and that most men are actually really dangerous. It's what le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:38 AM
7

It’s always really easy to spot the poors in this sub, they all claim no man cares about a woman’s career/status. This is a truly laughable position, and the only way you could possibly believe this is if you’ve never interacted with people who have money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 12:28 AM
1

I saw a really eye opening quote about this, I don’t want to go hunting for it rn but Basically it’s because men are projecting their own behavior onto women. Men CANNOT fathom being nice to someone they don’t find attractive, so they assume that when a woman is nice to them it’s because she’s interested sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 11:51 PM
8

I'd steal his phone and then ghost him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:30 PM
3

Political beliefs have always been very important to me, but my politics are very fringe so it was definitely a challenge finding the right guy. I’m a libertarian so most guys who theoretically should align with me are autistic and/or misogynists and thus undateable. Also I voted for trump, I think he’s hilarious and he’s been an endless supply of memes. Most libertarians are too humorless and were having massive sperg outs over him. I’m really lucky I met my husband in college. He’s the only pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:28 PM
14

Just about Every news story is “forgotten about in a week” Are you pretending to be this ignorant or do you really not know how the the news works in 2020?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 06:14 PM
31

This doesn’t work with all men, but it will with those who are career oriented. I ask them “What would happen if you did this at work? Imagine you ask your boss everyday what your job entails, that you need to be constantly explicitly told what to do and refuse to figure it out yourself. Do you think your ass would be working there still in a month or would you be fired?” Don’t make me fire your lazy ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 10:01 PM
12

I swear... 90% of men have low grade Aspergers or something. That’s the only way I can explain it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 09:53 PM
9

I'm married. I had no wedding, no shower, no bachelorette party. I just never understood the appeal? It all sounds so exhausting... I hate making a big fuss over myself. They tend to involve a lot of drama too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:35 AM
2

Not a trad con but it's important to me that I get to pass on my own genes. I mean I think it's fine to adopt and you can adopt plus have your own kids, but I don't want having my own to not be possible. And I get why many people feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 05:02 AM
14

Yup! Men will always try to use women’s sense of fairness to try to shame us into sleeping with them. We can’t be falling for this BS. Remember ladies, Having sexual boundaries does not oppress anyone! It’s your body and only you get to decide what you do with it. Don’t let anyone shame you into giving up your boundaries. You’re not a bad person for this, those that try to shame you for having them are the bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:43 PM
24

Here’s the thing. (And warning, you’ll probably be offended but facts are facts.) Men who have sex with men have the highest rates of STDs, particularly deadly ones too like HIV. This is just the nature of anal sex because butts aren’t designed to have foreign objects go inside them, and when you combine that with a sexual dynamic that lacks a gender that limits sex (women), you get a much higher rate of STDs. Women are already at an increased risk for getting STDs from PIV sex compared to men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:40 PM
0

Are you kidding? The whole point of the manosphere is to complain about women as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:17 PM
1

Okay try to actually read what I wrote. Stuff like bitcoin isn’t interesting to the vast majority of people, male or female. It’s a fringe space. But it’s not that hard to find people, including women, who are into these fringe topics if you bother to go to the places where they congregate, and there are tons on the internet. It’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 06:43 PM
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I recommend not going to an OBGYN. Surgeons are... just kinda assholes (they have to be). I went to a midwife practice and it was amazing. All women and they really listen to you and let you make your own decisions. If you do end up needing a c section there’s always an OB right on site. There’s just no need to see a doctor throughout pregnancy unless you actually end up needing surgery, in which case they will be there. OBGYNs are surgeons which is a profession that is highly correlated with ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:18 PM
2

uh my husband writes about bitcoin for a living, I read all of his articles and half of our relationship consists of sending each other craig wright memes. I even used to work for a company in the crypto space before I had a baby. Most people, male or female, simply aren't interested in fringe communities like bitcoin. You just gotta bother to sniff them out, luckily the internet makes it a lot easier
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 03:56 AM
1

Also fixing things occasionally when they get broken does not nearly equate the amount of time it takes to keep the house clean and care for your children, which is every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 01:06 AM
1

No one said they have stay at home husbands. Female breadwinner just means that the woman makes significantly more than her husband and that data was looking at married couples with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 01:05 AM
1

First , You’ve got it backwards. Women work less hours because they are the ones who are primarily responsible for the kids. It’s a big part of why there is a wage gap. Men have wives they can depend on and women have an overgrown child they need to take care of. Guess which party has more time to get ahead at work? Second, if you actually break down the data by type of household. In every single financial arrangement, INCLUDING HOUSEHOLDS WHERE THE WOMAN IS THE BREADWINNER, women do the brunt o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 06:54 PM
0

Okay then stop complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:58 PM
0

Look at the statistics, no one cares about your anecdotes. The statistics tell us what you’re staying is obvious horse shit. Women cook, clean, take care of the kids, plan the family social life and manage all of the their appointments AND work full time. What do men do? They work full time and then come home and play video games and maybe take out the trash after his wife has asked him three times to do so while the toilet in the guest room hasn’t worked in a month because he keeps saying he’ll…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:50 PM
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Nope. I just mean the majority of men. Just look at the statistics- while in most families both parents work, women still do the vast majority of childcare and housework. For most wives a husband is just another child they have to take care of, not an equal partner who helps the family build their life together. In other words, men most have NOTHING to offer. So why would women get married to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:38 PM
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If by alpha you mean good looking extrovert that sleeps with a lot of women, no I did not. Men who actually can offer something in a marriage are involved dads, help with housework, and are kind and loving partners. Most men, whether they are good looking, average, or ugly, don’t offer any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 05:23 AM
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lol isn't this obvious? The average man offers nothing. Women are able to provide for themselves now, so why would women want to settle down with an overgrown child who's just gonna mess up their home, not help with the kids, and be bad at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:06 AM
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yea but without the long hair
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 05:28 AM
1

hes generally considered more "rugged" handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 05:05 AM
1

not THAT young, im talking when he started to get those forehead wrinkles
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 05:05 AM
1

a young mel gibson
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 04:50 AM
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there's actually a real statistical correlation about this, in general rich men prefer thin women and men of a lower SES prefer heavier women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:46 AM
2

spotted the nazi
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:59 AM
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1 was a sweet normal wholesome midwestern guy who just wants to find the one, I think he might be getting engaged soon and I hope she says yes! 1 was totally neurotic but not really mean. He had issues, and we just were not a good match. He was Jewish and I'm not. 1 was definitely selfish, he's grown up quite a bit though And 1 was a full-on insane piece of shit that I ran away from in the middle of the night after he told me it's okay to rape women if they're dumb enough to come into a man's ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:41 AM
1

Okay I get it now, you’re a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:14 PM
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I’m married with an infant at home. I know sex is important, that’s why I don’t have casual sex and why I’m married. And you are not suffering because you can’t get casual sex, you’re just an overgrown child begging his mommy to eat ice cream all day and throwing a tantrum because she said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 07:14 PM
1

Cry me a fucking river. No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:49 PM
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I don’t think that men understand that women have extremely varying tastes in men. What one woman thinks is dreamy another thinks is grotesque. Sure there are a some men that 90% of women find attractive but in general many women have a very specific type they go for and there’s a lot of disagreement among women over which men are attractive. I have so many memories of me and my female friends arguing with each other about what guys we thought were cute. I mean I’ll never understand why so many …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:47 PM
1

tall, blond, rich, lean, and has weird political positions and interests. Basically me but with a penis. Basically my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:35 PM
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This is seriously disgusting and melodramatic af. I can’t believe we’re the ones painted as hormonal and over emotional when you’re sitting on the internet all day crying about not getting enough sex. Honestly we need to chemically castrate most men if y’all are gonna act this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 09:49 PM
5

No that’s retarded, toxic advice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:18 PM
1

I don’t think stock photo photographers instruct their subjects to pose as if you have autism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 06:38 PM
4

This doesn't exist for me. I'm only attracted to men I see as husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:11 AM
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My point is that the picture he is painting isn’t the average relationship. The statistics don’t show that any of what he is says is average. Average married couple doesn’t have a wife’s in laws in the home. Average married couple has both people working but only one person, the wife, doing the brunt of housework, childcare, and planning of family activities/social life. In the average married couple both parties tend to gain weight as they get older and on top of that men also go bald, at least…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:45 PM
1

The average man is not working 70 hour weeks Going on vacation with your family and visiting your children’s grandparents who your kids love and have a good relationship with is not a legitimate complaint. I don’t even understand the point of your last paragraph unless your point is to make men look like oversized babies who just absolutely hate spending time with their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:37 PM
2

Dude what planet do you live on? First of all men are not "struggling" because their wives don't want to do the depraved shit men watch in porn. Sorry your wife wants to be treated like a human in bed and not like a blow-up sex doll! Maybe that's why she doesn't have much sexual interest in you, pervert. Second of all your other examples of struggling are just delusional: -The average married couple does not have the wife's parents living in their home, or anyone's parents for that matter. For o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:44 AM
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We are though in the larger sense. This thread is about which men women find datable. And yea, this autistic looking dude is gonna get swiped left real quick by most women because you look at him and you know the chance of him being a total weirdo is like 95%, which is exactly why he's objectively below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:10 AM
1

I don’t believe in giving the benefit of the doubt to men anymore. If they give me weirdo vibes I don’t wait around to find out if it’s true, not worth the risk. And I think a lot of women learn to feel this way about men because giving them the benefit of the doubt in the past has gotten them into trouble,
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 01:32 AM
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The thing is you know just by looking at him that he doesn’t act normal. The blank autistic expression on his face and awkward way he holds himself tells your right away he’s a freaking weirdo. Most men don’t understand that women pick up on way more social cues than they do. Yea he probably could be average if he were a normal person and held himself like one, but women know with one glance that this is a socially inept autist and that’s ultimately why the average woman looks at this guy with d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:16 PM
2

I’m not proving his point at all. He said women think the second guy is only average and I said he’s definitely not average. He’s clearly an attractive guy. And I feel really sorry for you. You clearly live in a damn cave if you think the first guy is average. I live in a fairly large southern city, and I’ve lived in 5 states total. The average person I see does not look retarded like that guy does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:33 PM
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Lol that first guy is below average (he literally looks retarded and is fat) and that second guy is above average, he’s literally being featured on a twitter called attractive guys and includes hashtags like #hot. This is so blatantly dishonest. An average looking guy to women is someone more in the range of Andy from the office, not some fat fucking retard and not some shredded guy with thick styled hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:45 PM
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How many times do I have to tell you this isn’t about quantity? This has nothing to do with birth rates, My only point here is that it is good for the gene pool that low quality men are removing themselves. You are completely missing the point. And btw having less kids is not the same as having none. Even having just one child is a world of a difference from zero and your claim is that most women aren’t having any, which you cannot state as fact. The jury is still out on that one. This isn’t tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 05:55 AM
2

Lol you’re literally not stating facts though, you’re stating your own predictions. For one thing the oldest millennials are only in their 30s so you cannot actually state that most women will not reproduce, that has yet to be determined as the younger generations still have time to have kids and from what we’ve seen so far they are simply starting later and having fewer. It’s also not necessarily a problem for our population numbers to decrease. Quality is more important than quantity. And my o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 05:23 AM
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Okay first of all I’m talking about the quality of people reproducing, not the quantity. We don’t need, nor should we want, everyone to reproduce. If you’re the type to get addicted to porn because you’re so controlled by your dick then I am glad you are taking yourself out of the gene pool. This is a good thing. So you couch creature loser men can watch all the porn you want. Women aren’t missing out on anything by you voluntarily taking yourself out of the game. Second of all, data doesn’t sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 05:09 AM
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Watch all the porn you want, we’re all pretty happy you’re taking yourself out of the gene pool voluntarily. It’s much easier than rounding you up and sterilizing you forcibly. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 02:53 AM
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I think you tend to hear this line about a woman’s career not mattering from poorer men with no good job prospects. I grew up in a very wealthy area, went to prep school and then a top tier college known for having mostly upper middle class and upper class students. I never heard the men at these places say they don’t care what a woman does. In fact I heard them state explicitly the exact opposite- that they wanted an educated woman with achievements and it didn’t matter how hot a girl is if she…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 04:40 AM
2

Sent from user iamveryracist lol wtf how are these people real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 12:43 AM
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Wholesome meme
/r/ExRedPill24/12/19 06:57 PM
12

Lol any expectation for men to have even the tiniest control over their dicks is oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 09:53 PM
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I was going to say the most severe example of this is any former Soviet country. The women in Eastern Europe are GORGEOUS and the men are absolute cave trolls. It’s unbelievable. Like how can these people come from the same ethnic group and share DNA and look this different from each other?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:19 PM
3

Same as what a lot of other women have said. I’m married to a HVM and we have a baby, but I was a total cool girl pick me through my college years. And it’s just really interesting to read this sub and see other women who went through the same stuff I did before I got married. Also I plan on having more kids and I want to know how to teach my future daughter about men and relationships so she doesn’t have to go through the same BS I did because I had no one teach my any of this and had to figure…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 10:36 PM
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Also What’s with LVMs and over using smiley faces? It’s honestly become a red flag at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 10:04 PM
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God this is pure cringe. Haha I really like sex haha :) :) O yea that makes sense- did I mention I really need to have a lot of sex? Boundaries and communication u huh got it... What about my dick tho?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 09:58 PM
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Lol wtf does “I always wear a condom even though I’m uncut” mean? Am I misunderstanding something here or does this hyper logical superior male think you don’t need a condom if you’re not circumcised?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 07:15 PM
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It was sort of a combination for me. I was a total "cool girl" who was "one of the guys." I felt like I had it pretty well made, and that other women were the problem rather than men. Of course this eventually resulted in me entering into a relationship with a psycho LVM- emotionally unstable, entitled beyond belief, chubby, short, unintelligent, drug user, unemployed with no good life plan, and utterly delusional. My LTR had ended I was really buying into the idea that I had to lower my standar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 10:26 PM
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lol 25 is the exact age I became pinkpilled. I definitely think a big part of it is a matter of age, especially if you were raised to be trusting and see the best in people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 09:49 PM
25

Why do men always think you sit at home doing nothing all day if you're a SAHM? It's not a vacation being home with crying needy babies and a whole ass house to clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 09:13 PM
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I'm currently breastfeeding and it's exhausting, especially when they are newborns. You're feeding your child every two hours and you're the ONLY person who can do it. You're the only one with the boobs and your baby needs to eat constantly. I always knew I wanted to stay home with children during their baby phase and be able to breastfeed because it really is the best food for them. That's why I made sure to find an ambitious, intelligent man from a rich family. (Also my husband has always been…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 09:10 PM
7

I went on it for cramps, it stopped me from throwing up in pain every month but it also gave me Generalized Anxiety Disorder and resulted in me having multiple panic attacks every single day. I was absolutely miserable. Never taking hormonal birth control again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 08:44 PM
3

I actually asked for a self cleaning roomba for Xmas because I’m hyper clean and I’m just a total product junky, and I still think this guy is an asshole. Why? Because he clearly doesn’t know his wife at all and didn’t bother to take the time and effort to get something that SHE wanted. It doesn’t matter how many other women, who aren’t his wife, would love that gift. She’s an INDIVIDUAL with her own preferences and desires. But rather than do the bare fucking minimum and figure out what those a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 05:08 AM
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Eventually they will just die off and humanity will be better off for it, I don't believe this trend will continue forever. Nature is just taking the trash out as it has always done. Too many bad genes have been allowed to survive because of technology, and we've ended up with an excess of useless men. This is simply natural selection finding a new workaround in the 21st century to get us balanced again. ( Also men here are crying about a mere 30% being sexless when it used to be A LOT more. Whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 01:02 AM
12

Sounds scarily identical to what my ex did to me. We dated for only a few months, I broke up with him because he was a red pilled freak who tried convincing me it was okay to rape women. I left his ass so fast after that and he freaked the fuck out. Harassed me for over half a year, more than twice as long as we dated. Told everyone that I must clearly have BPD ( they all do this now) because I was so “insane” to have left such a “great” guy and then went on a massive campaign, private messaging…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:53 AM
1

They will do ANYTHING for a story. Never trust a word that comes out of their mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 07:15 AM
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I loved Aiden. He was masculine, talented, but also sweet and good natured. Such a catch. Carrie was insane and you hear about so many young women who grew up watching that show making horrible relationship mistakes because they romanticized her lifestyle and wanted to be her even though she was clearly annoying and retarded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:39 AM
0

Journalists are the scum of the earth. I’ve never known a more evil class of people. They’re like -100
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 02:17 AM
1

CEO and surgeon are the only ones here that are even attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 02:15 AM
5

Just look up the cool girl trope from movies. That’s exactly what you’re describing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 12:33 PM
1

Female. Definitely hot to me. This would actually be ideal. It means other women won’t be trying to steal him all the the time but I still get to be with someone I think is a hottie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 02:40 AM
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This is a lesson that unfortunately took me years to learn. My now husband spent the first years of our relationship not making spending time with me a priority and I responded by doubling down on being sweet and attentive and “wifey material” because he claimed he wanted that kind of woman. This NEVER worked, not once. He just took me more and more for granted. Eventually he told me he didn’t want to get married until he was 30 (we’re the same age so this meant me waiting until I was 30 too). I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 02:21 AM
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Well from what your body text reads it does not sound like an observation at all, it sounds like a suggestion/ you’re trying to convince women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:36 PM
0

I think he still meant it to be a CMV. The wording is just awkward because men have low verbal IQs. If he wanted to be more clear, he should have titled it “women shouldn’t make men wait for sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:33 PM
2

The issue here is that he didn’t use a comma. You’re misreading his post because of bad grammar. It should say- “Women, Don’t make men wait for sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:23 PM
8

Fat women are already treated like this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:14 AM
4

Nah, Most men treat women like fuckholes and maids
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:12 AM
1

Wow way to prove my point 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:10 AM
1

Nope more like sexual assault and later being blackmailed stalked and defamed by an ex I only dated for three months, all because I dared to break up with him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:52 PM
1

Im lucky now. I’ve suffered my fair share of bullshit at the hands of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:21 PM
2

Hey my life is admittedly comfortable and easy. I’m one of the lucky ones who found a good man who doesn’t act like the rest of you monkeys. Doesn’t mean that I’m not still incredibly disturbed by the average man’s behavior and want things to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:41 PM
4

I mean it's both. Men are at fault for being disgusting and not treating women like people. And women are a fault for not boycotting casual sex. Women need to start putting you moids in your place but you're still at fault yourselves for acting like sociopaths. Women didnt make men that way, sadly though women far too often tolerate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:15 PM
1

Uh tbh to me it sounds like she was into some dirty/kinky shit and did not want to tell you considering how inexperienced you were at the time. Often when people say I don't know it means I do know, I just don't feel comfortable telling you. Both men and women do this a lot just under different circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:05 PM
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They probably don't know because most of their sexual encounters have been bad. It sounds like these women have a lot of casual sex and casual sex rarely resorts in orgasm for women. Hard to figure out what you like when the men theyve had sex with only treat them as holes to masturbate into.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:00 PM
2

If this was your first partner she probably genuinely didn’t know, that kind of stuff takes a little time to figure out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:43 PM
4

Men: “why don’t women communicate with us directly about what they want?” Women: is upfront and direct about what she wants Men: “okay bitch”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:40 PM
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I see nasty dudes with girlfriends all the time. The truth is 80/20 becomes your worldview when your eyes are only fixed on Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:17 PM
0

This is the behavior of most men, not just a few dummies. Men with genius level IQs act like this. It has nothing to do with intelligence and everything to do with men’s obsession with their own genitalia and incredibly fragile egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:13 PM
3

If she’s not communicating that you’re shit in bed it’s because she knows your fragile male ego can’t handle it and you’ll either shut the conversation down or flip out. This is how the average man responds to any criticism of his penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:51 PM
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Wow this is just... completely retarded. There can be numerous physical causes to low libido. Hormones, illness, trauma, stress etc all play a role in human libido. And most men don’t even bother to try to please their partners. If your wife is “frigid” it may very well be because you’re not getting her to orgasm. Hard to have a sex drive if sex is always disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:49 PM
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Black holes Multiverse theory White people inventing slavery/racism Transgenders Family court bias (most moids just don’t want their kids) The delusional idea that the rich don’t pay taxes The reasons given for our involvement in any conflict in the Middle East Fiat currency Democracy Lightning network Evolution Astrology Vegan diets being healthy The idea that men are rational McCarthyism being painted as a paranoid, evil policy Most doctors The supposed non existence of male hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:42 AM
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We're no more rude than the men are. Men just get ridiculously triggered when women don't worship the ground they walk on because most men think women exist to be a source of validation for their egos. They're fine with men being nasty to them because instinctually they know that the threat of violence lurks behind interactions with other men so they can't allow themselves to get so emotional and upset about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:29 AM
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I'm about to be a SAHM but I totally get why people wouldn't want this. Being at home all the time is hard and I'm excited for the baby to be born but I also know that babies are a lot of work! Many people also find their work fulfilling. I know I definitely miss my old job and I plan on working part time from home once the baby is a little older. I'm also not in an average situation. My husband is a high earner but I actually have more wealth than him (inherited) so I don't feel anxiety about r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:24 AM
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It is difficult though, because obviously most men do not make above-average pay. There aren't enough men who can comfortably support a family on one income to go around
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:14 AM
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Large scale wars won't be fought with boots on the ground is my point. Also wtf do you think people in the past didn't have to rebuild shit after wars just because they didn't have drones?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:39 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Selective_Training_and_Service_Act_of_1940 The requirement that men are required to sign up for military service during peacetime was enacted in 1940. That’s moreso what I’m talking about. I was remembering that both world wars had significant changes to the draft that made it even more tyrannical, and I was mixing it up the terms a bit. Both of these are wars we shouldn't have gotten involved in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:45 PM
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Israel is a tiny country that’s entirely bordered by its own enemies. We are the most powerful wealthiest country in the world bordered by an empty frozen tundra with a population that is 1/10th of ours that consists of the worlds most polite people who all rely on us for their national defense, and then a third world shithole with no money and almost no military. We couldn’t be in a more different situation than Israel. If there’s another massive world war it won’t be fought the way the other t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:38 PM
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It’s not a poor example because it has nothing to do with whether or not you support that conflict. The point is we don’t need a draft. If you think operating drones requires as many people as massive open battlefield conflict with trenches then you are completely delusional. Modern warfare is is mostly fought with technology not bodies. Technology = less people required to do a certain task. That’s literally what automation is and war is no exception to automation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:03 PM
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You can hardly make the argument that it’s necessary today. Because of advances in technology and things like drones, we need far fewer bodies to fight wars. How else do you think we’ve been in Afghanistan for two decades and have never come close to implementing the draft? Military already has more people than it actually needs. If your position is draft women rather than end the draft, just be honest. You want to punish women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:18 PM
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No, I’m just describing what the draft literally does
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:05 PM
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All the men commenting in here are only further proving that all they want is a slave and won’t respect you at all. Y’all are disgusting and toxic. No woman who values herself would be with you and no good man would want a doormat for a partner. The girl in the image isn’t someone’s whose “nice” she’s someone with absolutely zero self respect who will put up with abuse for just the tiniest bit of validation. It’s sad, not attractive. Apparently all of you just want someone you can walk all over …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:01 PM
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We’re both talking about the draft here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:54 PM
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That’s exactly the topic we’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:42 PM
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I already explained below. And I don’t buy that hitler was trying to take over the world. It’s also not true that Americans fought WW2 to save the Jews. At the time we entered we didn’t even know that was going on and Roosevelt repeatedly denied jewish refugees entry into the country. Americans didn’t give a shit. It’s like people suddenly magically forget that Americans were racist af in 1940 once you bring up the lore of WW2. Also we also didn’t save democracy or peace??? Instead we let half o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:28 PM
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Just lol at men. They are more upset by women voting than by male politicians sending them off to die in fake conflicts that only serve to line the pockets of the elites.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:17 PM
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Not really. A king bed is actually just two twin XLs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:15 PM
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It’s not a war americans would have freely chosen to fight in. The selective service was literally invented for this war. America was at peace in 1940 and we didn’t care about what silly Europeans were doing to each other. All we got out of the world wars was Europe owing us a bunch of money that they still to this day haven’t paid off. O and we basically pay for the entirety of western Europe’s defense only to be constantly told by these ingrates how terrible we are. Fuck Europe. Should have le…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:13 PM
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Lol getting rid of the draft would be equality wtf are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:02 PM
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No you’re misreading me. I know OP was saying ww2 was justified. I’m saying that it wasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:01 PM
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And you’re absolutely right that they don’t care about fixing men’s issues. What they care about is blaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:49 PM
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Agree with everything except that WW2 was justified
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:48 PM
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Only really a problem if you’re a really light sleeper I guess. My husband is often up late on his laptop when I’m asleep and it doesn’t wake me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:28 PM
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No need for separate rooms, I think that’s weird and unhealthy. But I get the separate beds. Fortunately we have a king sized tempurpedic so we do fine on the same bed but anything smaller or springy seriously sucks to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:19 PM
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Humans are a uniquely diverse species. And that’s not even true for all animals. Depending on where they live, voles have very different mating strategies. R/k does not have to be species wide, especially when we’re talking about something as complex as human beings. Almost nothing about our behaviors and strategies is species wide. That’s why we have so many different cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:55 PM
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Jesus this made me so sad to read... why do you hate yourself so much? Why are you convincing yourself that this is what you want? You don’t have to settle for this in order to maybe find the tiniest morsel of love. No person wants to be in the sort of “relationship” you’re in. Leave this “boyfriend” of yours, find someone who actually respects you because I can assure you he doesn’t. He’s pulling one over on you. He thinks you’re a fool. Stay away from redpill men, they hate you. This will seri…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:49 PM
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Porn literally reduces your drive for actual sex. Men who are masturbating to porn are not as motivated to pursue sex with their partner because their desire for sexual release is already being satiated. This effect has been shown time and time again. You’re just completely wrong here. If you’re a wife looking to completely get out of having sex with your husband for some reason the best thing you could do is get him hooked on porn. That’s messed up of course, my point is that you have it entire…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:41 PM
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You don’t need to date someone ugly if you’re attractive. Just need to go for your looksmatch. I agree on pairing up early though. My husband and I started dating at 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:35 PM
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It’s a biological concept. Some species reproduce emphasizing quality over quantity of offspring (k selected) while others just have as many offspring as they can putting basically no investment into them in hopes that at least a few will survive by chance (r selected). Think r as in rabbits. Rabbits have a lot of random sex and try to produce as many little bunnies as possible rather than pick a partner to have a few bunnies with and invest a lot of time and resources in those few bunnies. http…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:11 AM
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God I hope the feds are tracking your online activity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:02 AM
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Better genes 🧬. You’re k selected.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:40 AM
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Goodness you have some serious issues. Rape is a violent crime, paternity fraud is well fraud... fraud is not on the same level as violent crime in our English legal tradition. And you don’t even have the right facts wtf. In America rape is punished by prison time, not castration. In some jurisdictions rapists can voluntarily undergo chemical castration in exchange for a shorter sentence and this is a very controversial practice that women actually object to. Also we have the freaking death pena…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:38 AM
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Well that’s just not true. Porn is incredibly normalized. It took decades after finding out that cigarettes caused cancer for smoking to fall out fashion. We’re just now starting to find out about the damaging effects of porn. And I’d argue most people don’t have healthy relationships, hence the high rates of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:11 AM
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This was refreshingly self reflective and honest. You described this very human conflict with the self well. Men and women would be a lot better off if they were brave enough to confront this about themselves. Most people act like it doesn’t exist, notice the average response to what you wrote here. It’s unfortunately just a bunch of denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:04 AM
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You’re the one who gave the 98%/ 2% figure so I’m just going off your own info here. You’ve admitted that porn like this is rare. And there is plenty of evidence it harms people, as I mentioned before there are numerous studies on how it negatively affects relationships and mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:54 AM
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Paternity fraud is not worse than rape wtf. In cases of paternity fraud the fair punishment would be allowing the man to sue for damages. I do think we need to take false accusations more seriously. If it can be proven beyond reasonable doubt that a woman charged someone with false rape accusations she should be made to pay back the wasted taxpayer money, sued for slander and emotional distress, and receive jail time. That’s a horrible thing to do to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:50 AM
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Sex has serious consequences whether we like it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:43 AM
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He does, because he doesn’t watch porn :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:41 AM
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I mean the studies on that site show that porn makes men less satisfied and emotionally connected with their significant others. It also increases anxiety and depression. Plus a bunch of other stuff but I’m not going to summarize everything on there, there’s a lot of info.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:40 AM
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If he’s not watching porn he’ll actually want sex with his partner more, so... your logic is pretty much exactly wrong here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:37 AM
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Actually not true for Europeans above the hajnal line. Unless you were an aristocrat. you didn’t get married until your early to mid twenties. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hajnal_line
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:29 AM
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If you wish to educate yourself on the dangers of porn this is a good place to start- https://fightthenewdrug.org/overview/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:17 AM
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If 98% of porn is what I described and disgusts you then why are you defending it? This is what the average guy is watching when he watches porn, not this mythical 2% unicorn porn you speak of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:15 AM
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For the last time, I’m married and I married a guy with a very low n count
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:38 AM
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I think it’s safe to say that people who use the internet to bang complete strangers have low self worth, yea. Most people today do not have self respect, it’s an epidemic tbh. And sex positive feminism was clearly created by some Pervy dudes. It does not benefit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:38 AM
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It’s not an overwhelming majority by any means. And most men do view women as sex objects... and a big cause of that is use of pornography because it almost always portrays women as such. Pretty much anyone who watches porn has been negatively affected by it which I already provided examples of in my previous comment, It artificially warps your tastes to be more perverse and unrealistic thus making you less satisfied with ordinary real sex and normal everyday women because the women in porn are …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:33 AM
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I mean you’re kinda proving my point for me with your own behavior bro. That’s why I pointed it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:18 AM
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Lol no you’re not getting it. By pursuing casual sex you must be pursuing women with low self worth because women with high self worth do not engage in casual sex (for all the reasons I listed in parentheses above). What they look like is irrelevant. Ironically you are so fixated on the appearance point because as I said in the original post, men use cheap sex as validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:15 AM
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Wow okay you are not understanding anything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:02 AM
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Is that why you’re here whining about what a complete stranger thinks of your self esteem based on your life choices? Because you totally don’t care what anyone thinks of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:57 AM
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Uh yea basically. Considering women don’t really gain anything from casual sex (it’s riskier for them- pregnancy, easier to contract most STDs as a female, possibly being raped or murdered; it’s very rare to actually achieve an orgasm from such encounters, they aren’t treated like people during these encounters, and the social stigma that still exists) it basically requires that women who do this don’t value themselves very highly. It’s honestly really sad. And I believe the people we pursue and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:54 AM
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Lol someone is seriously triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:40 AM
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Literally my only point is that men with high n counts have high n counts because they pursue women with low self esteem who allow themselves to be used as sex dolls for strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:38 AM
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Meaning you don’t need to eat sugar.... literally not necessary for you to consume at all. And if it’s irrelevant then stop arguing about it. Addiction rates of young men are higher than you realize.... men are needing viagra at alarmingly young ages these days. And the effects of any addiction don’t just harm the person whose addicted. They harm the people around that person too. Also you don’t need to have a full on addiction to experience the negative effects it has on the brain. Porn conditi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:33 AM
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No one is saying that fat or ugly people never have low self esteem??? I’m saying that plenty of attractive people also can have low self esteem and it’s actually not uncommon to see. How are you this dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:55 AM
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Then why did you try to argue it? It also is entirely true that you don’t need to eat sugar. And yes, there is plenty of evidence that porn is harmful. Many studies have been done on this and they show that porn is addictive just like a drug and literally rewires your brain. It’s harmful to those watching it and their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:53 AM
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Plenty of good looking people have low self esteem, especially attractive women. What planet do you live on?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:50 AM
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Depends on the rape. Just like there’s different levels of murder that receive different sentences. But generally it should be a long stint in prison and chemical castration. Anyone committing an offense of a sexual nature should be chemically castrated in my opinion. You clearly can’t be trusted to have a sex drive. It’s like how they’ll ban repeat drunk drivers from driving a vehicle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:40 AM
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Who said never to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:37 AM
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Sugar is not necessary at all... that’s why there’s no daily value percentage given next to sugar on nutrition labels. If you are on a zero sugar diet, not only will you not die, you’ll be healthier than 99.9% of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:35 AM
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Since when is low self esteem synonymous with ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:32 AM
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Yea... because it’s women who created the porn industry. They’re the ones who own the studios, write and produce it, and traffic young abused women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:27 AM
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The majority of people doing something does not make that behavior okay. I also never said anything about masturbating or that it is wrong to be aroused by porn. It’s not wrong to enjoy the taste of sugar, it is still bad for you to consume it though regardless of your enjoyment of its taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:23 AM
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If you rely on external validation you have self esteem issues Men with low n counts can go either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:12 AM
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Erotic novels aren’t the same as modern porn. They don’t have the same effect on the brain and one doesn’t rely on exploitation and sex trafficking. Also good for you? I’m not saying that this is something that is guaranteed to happen, but it’s not uncommon either. It’s hardly a scandal to borrow your SO’s laptop lol. We borrow each other’s shit all the time and it’s not a violation of our boundaries because neither of us have a problem with it. Boundaries are decided by the people in the relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:58 PM
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It does though. The studies RP men cite show a similar effect for men, it’s just less steep but it’s certainly still there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:52 PM
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They have high n counts because they go after women with low self esteem. Plenty of average and weird looking dudes have high n counts. It’s not very hard when you’re targeting low hanging fruit in your own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:32 PM
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Are you saying that people are incapable of self control?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:21 PM
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I already specified that I wasn’t talking about still images
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:19 PM
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I didn’t say men and women are the same. I said casual sex affects both men and women negatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:18 PM
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Lol I’m married
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:17 PM
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I’ve seen so many men here and in my real life flat out say “sex is validation for me.” They openly admit this all the time but act scandalized when you claim that this is what they’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:37 PM
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Intelligence and ambition are absolute must haves Also needs to be reasonably cute but doesn’t need to be a model or anything. Takes care of appearance and health but isn’t vain. Must be from a good family too. I don’t want to deal with crazy and the baggage and bad genes that brings. Can’t be a man whore either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:23 PM
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Well that is definitely an outlier situation and super sad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:12 PM
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My BMI is 17.18. I’m considered underweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:10 PM
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I hate to break it to you but your dicks aren’t always these amazing things to be worshipped. Sometimes, actually often, what you do with them is in fact disgusting. Treating human beings like sex dolls for sport is disgusting. Poking them in anything that moves because you can’t control yourself is disgusting. You are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:43 PM
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It all depends on how the relationship ended and how you dealt with it after. I think a lot of relationship type people can be in them for the wrong reasons and will run into the next relationship soon after one ends, all too avoid being alone which is also a sign of low self esteem. It’s a big red flag to have back to back relationships. If they’ve dated someone before you you want to make sure there’s a good amount of distance between you and the last person, especially if it was a long relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:39 PM
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And I totally get that perspective. I think most people today are just fucked up and the true goal is to find someone who isn’t. I think that can often correlate with things like high partner count but it’s not perfect and plenty of people with low counts are terrible partners too. If you have someone that genuinely loves and respects you it doesn’t really matter what strategy you took to find that person. The happy end result is what’s important.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:32 PM
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Didn’t do one night stands. I was always a monogamous relationship type of girl looking for a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:26 PM
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I’m agnostic and at least somewhat cute considering I married young to a high value guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:24 PM
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My point is I grew up with extremely limited internet exposure for most of my childhood
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:22 PM
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Sex isn’t equivalent to eating. You’re not going to die from lack of pussy. The fact that you think that makes you a monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:21 PM
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My husband is tall cute and rich
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:20 PM
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No because the data suggests that porn and high partner counts are in fact harmful. If the evidence showed otherwise then I would start to reconsider my position.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:18 PM
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Those are exactly the same behaviors, the only difference is one of them is going home with attractive women. Both of those guys are disgusting and simply using those women as holes and both sets of women in those situations are losing more respect for themselves because they’re allowing themselves to be used as holes by men who wouldn’t care if they were found dead the next day so long as those men got to ejaculate. Self respecting women are not attracted to men who use women like this. They ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:15 PM
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iPads didn’t come out until I was in high school. I also didn’t have cable or internet at home until I was 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:08 PM
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No one said they don’t masturbate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:06 PM
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I’m not talking about IQ, I’m talking about an addictive substance that warps your mind. Porn is addictive, that doesn’t have to do with ones intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:05 PM
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Okay monkey boy. You’re right, YOU have absolutely no control over your base urges. Better men do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:03 PM
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Yea it certainly can be. I’m not advocating constant serial monogamy though. Ideally you’d only have one partner but this isn’t a realistic goal for most people today. Having just a handful of SOs before marrying isn’t usually a big deal though from what I’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:01 PM
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I’m a former RPW. I know what you sorry sacks of shit are all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:58 PM
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Except that almost no man treats his casual sex partners well. They treat casual sex partners as holes, not as people, and they’re very open about this fact when talking with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:56 PM
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I guess you haven’t lived with someone for several years. You’d eventually be caught, no doubt about it, especially considering we both work from home. Plus you can always tell if someone is nervous to let you use their phone/laptop. Your entire life is on there these days. If someone is hiding something you will see it on their face. And sorry but porn use will always show up in how you act. It’s a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:53 PM
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I didn’t speak about my views on pornography when we started dating. It wasn’t something I became concerned about until a few years ago when I started reading about its effects on the brain and human relationships, and also how exploitative the sex industry is. This was always something that just came up in passing. “Yea, I don’t watch porn. I don’t see a need for it” Is pretty much how these conversations go. My past boyfriends pretty much all had the same story. They saw some stuff when they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:46 PM
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Well that’s certainly a consistent position to take
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:27 PM
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This is way overestimated to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:21 PM
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“Oh look at me opening my mouth” 😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:17 PM
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Um I literally did though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:05 PM
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Photos and paintings aren’t the same thing as watching people have sex and it’s been shown that still images don’t have the same negative effects as modern pornography. Still images require the person to use their imagination and aren’t addictive. When I say “watch porn” I am talking about videos of strangers having sex with each other, not old school sexy photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:03 PM
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I’ve known him since we were 19. I think I know his sexual habits better than some random ape creature on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:49 PM
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Nope. Some men just don’t watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:44 PM
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It wasn’t like a policy. We just didn’t bother to hide things from each other. If his laptop/phone was closer or mine was dead I was always free to use his. and vice versa. Just something that naturally happens in a long term honest trusting relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:42 PM
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I didn’t say they couldn’t ever masturbate... You don’t need to watch pornography in order to masturbate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:40 PM
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Not actually true. Most but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:37 PM
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Nope, Just those with low self esteem. My past boyfriends were monogamous long term relationship types. Men who sleep around seriously gross me out and I’m not the only woman who feels that way. RP strategy is all about targeting low value women with a host of psychological issues. It doesn’t work on women who value themselves. The one time I dated a shitty RP guy who thought it was mens prerogative to sleep around when young and treat women like objects, I was at an extremely low point in my li…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:36 PM
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It’s not. What do you think married men did before the internet? You don’t actually need porn to masturbate. Men have just conditioned themselves to need it due to it being so easy to access now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:33 PM
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I’m not trying to “flip the script.” This is just objective fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:39 PM
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I think there are more out there than you think. At least that’s been the case for me as a millennial. If you’re gen z then I don’t know. They grew up raised by an iPad rather than a mom and dad so things could have gotten a lot worse already.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:16 PM
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People who desire to run someone else’s life and break them down are actually very insecure themselves. Pursuing external validation, particularly through pairing yourself with someone you see as beneath you so that by comparison you feel better, is one of the most common ways people try to deal with their lack of self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:13 PM
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Of course I do. And men who want a woman with low self esteem cannot have high self esteem themselves. The type of partner we seek out says so much about ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:05 PM
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Lol keep telling yourself that. It’s objectively a red flag for a man to have a high n count. Just because he can bed a lot low self esteem women doesn’t mean he has to do that. All that signals is that you let your penis run the show and live barely above the level of a monkey. Choosing that path makes you much worse relationship material. And if you don’t want a relationship then fine, but this advice isn’t for you, it’s for women that want a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:01 PM
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This just makes you pathetic and gross.... Respectable men want a woman with self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:56 PM
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Well not to everyone...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:52 PM
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Because I dated them for years and had full access to their laptops/phones. Men these days also don’t feel the need to hide the fact that they watch porn, every pornsick male I know loves talking about it freely in front of you as if you don’t find it disgusting. And honestly you can just tell when a guy isn’t into porn. They act completely differently in a relationship than men who are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:50 PM
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That makes you sound predatory and creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:46 PM
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I’m married with a baby due any day now. And my husband doesn’t watch porn and never had casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:44 PM
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It’s actually not as rare as you think. You just can’t fathom it because you live your life like a monkey and assume everyone else does too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:44 PM
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I’ve never been attracted to players. I’ve always thought they were gross and assumed they would treat me poorly. You’re talking about a specific subset of women with very low self esteem and applying it to an entire gender. Which is basically all of redpill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:41 PM
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3/4 of the men I’ve dated didn’t watch porn. The one who did ended up trying to blackmail me because I broke up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:38 PM
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“Every man that takes selfies also has sex” not even close. Most men have selfies on their profiles these day. It’s not some chad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:44 PM
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Women are expected to show off their beauty, it’s just not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:19 PM
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Because it’s super gay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:18 PM
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I wish you people could see yourselves as everyone else does
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 12:04 PM
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I didn’t say they did or didn’t. And considering this is a CMV, as in change MY VIEW, it’s obvious that this is my opinion... So thanks for pointing out the obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:49 AM
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Jesus this is some hardcore cringe. How can anyone read this and take it seriously? It’s comical. This whiney sad nerd is writing novels about women oppressing him because they asked him to do some simple favor like GRABBING THEM A NAPKIN (Literally an example he gave). Dear lord. If you find yourself nodding along to this please find some help. You need it badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:46 AM
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You people don’t seem to understand that it has nothing to do with how the photo turns out. It’s the act itself, the idea of a man taking pictures of himself and posting them on the internet for all to see and validate that is cringey and unattractive. Your face could very well look “good” in the picture but the photo still makes you look cringey and ridiculous which is why no matter what, men taking selfies is very unattractive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:26 AM
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I don’t trust that study tbh. Multiple studies have shown that humans find smiling to be attractive in general. And I’ve never heard a woman say she didn’t like seeing smiles on men. I think women find FAKE smiles to be unattractive and that we’re better at noticing them. But real, natural smiles are enticing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:12 AM
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You sound mad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:53 AM
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No one with a Y chromosome should be taking selfies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:33 AM
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barf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:37 AM
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The result is that you look insecure and cringey, no matter what. It's not about the shot angle or lighting, it's the fact that you took the picture at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:36 AM
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They are cringe no matter what. Doesn't matter if you technically look good, all I can see is the man sitting there alone, getting out his phone and taking pictures of himself, posing until he gets the "perfect" image and then taking the time to post it on social to share with other people. It's just...disgusting. And btw you can still have plenty of visuals without taking selfies. There are other types of pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:13 AM
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I didn't say they are associated with selfies, but men are taking them more and more these days. And women do not automatically come off as cringey when they take them like it does with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:04 AM
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The only photos a man should have of himself are candids, professional ones taken for work if you work in the sort of industry that uses headshots, and posed ones with friends or in front of something interesting like some pretty nature spot or travel site. Also stop making weird faces. I see too many men trying to do some sort of model look?? Just use a natural smile and stand up straight, you shouldn't be putting so much thought in your pictures. It comes off forced and uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:03 AM
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I still hate it when attractive men take selfies. Their face may technically look good, but it's the act itself of taking and posting a selfie that is so unattractive and cringey. The instant I see a selfie on a man's profile, I can't find him attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:53 AM
1

How about you just eat your food and put down your phone for a few minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:40 AM
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You sit there with the cereal box out on the table and pouring just a little bit at a time between bites? That's neurotic af and way too much effort for eating something that's supposed to be easy. I pour a full bowl, add the right amount of milk, and then eat it within 5 minutes. I never have an issue with it getting soggy and I don't have to sit there constantly pouring.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:38 AM
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Cereal doesn't get soggy in the two seconds it takes to pour the milk. Cereal first makes more sense because then you know how much milk to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:25 AM
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https://draxe.com/health/inflammatory-bowel-disease/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:23 AM
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It kinda sounds like she may have something more serious than IBS, like IBD /UC/Crohn's. Get her to a GI specialist asap. This sounds unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:19 AM
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I would say that it's time he come out of the closet already
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:15 AM
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Has she tried a low FODMAP diet?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:08 AM
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Most men are garbage so I'm not tempted to cheat in the first place. Also, sex just isn't that important to me, never has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:42 PM
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Yea, men can just stop drinking soda and get off the couch once in a while and lose 20 pounds. Baring a thyroid issue, they really have no excuse to be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:17 PM
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Seriously. I can’t believe how many men think that they don’t have to do shit when it comes to their appearance and still think women will just swoon in their presence. They don’t have to do as much as women do but eating right, staying active, wearing stylish clothes that actually fit you, following a basic skincare routine (washing your face with axe 3 in 1 doesn’t count), and having an age appropriate haircut will do a lot for a man. Just take the slightest bit of pride in your appearance, mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:26 PM
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Studies actually do show that women are on average more attractive than men. There are simply more attractive women than attractive men, probably because attractiveness in women is more of an advantage and has thus been more selected for. This is why historically women have been referred to as the fairer (as in more beautiful) sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:46 PM
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RP men are utterly delusional about the male wall. Yes there are statistical outliers- men who remain hot into their 50s. But the average guy eats absolute garbage, doesn’t exercise, and certainly doesn’t moisturize. His metabolism is already starting to crap out in his mid twenties, his hairline is already starting to recede. Men are hitting ‘middle age’ younger and younger these days. Most of y’all are nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:33 PM
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Well I did mention that I have a husband, so I think it's pretty clear that I'm with a man. And I said I don't want either of us to be the dominant or submissive one and that I enjoy having a partnership, so I don't know how I sound like a dominant person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:45 AM
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Yup. I couldn't marry someone who didn't want that. Both men who refuse to take the lead in anything or demand that they are the leader in everything because penis disgust me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:48 AM
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I don't really want either person to be dominant or submissive. I want a partnership and for my husband to take the lead in the areas he knows more about and for me to take the lead in areas I know more about. It's a rational give and take. Neither is the de facto leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:40 AM
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10/10 what a cutie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:27 AM
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Women's taste in men is all over the place. I remember in high school constantly arguing with girlfriends about who we found hot. There are entire fandoms devoted to the gooniest, weirdest looking weirdos out there. I'll never understand why there's an entire online community of women who thirst after benedict cumberbatch (looks like a freaking alien) or how some women genuinely prefer their men to be chubby/overweight (gross). Men don't really have this level of disagreement in regards to who i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 12:30 AM
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Right wing girls listen to cardi B?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:00 PM
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What about data that shows that childless single women are actually happier than married women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:52 PM
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I think the fatness epidemic is disgusting but you're delusional if you think this only applies to women. Almost every guy I know starts sporting a beer belly once they hit 23, often even younger. The west, particularly the anglo nations, is becoming a world of fat slobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:03 PM
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Lol no woman says that looks don't matter. Women have a more holistic set of criteria when it comes to finding a partner, looks certainly is a factor but it isn't the sole factor like it is for most men. Women generally care about BOTH personality and looks while men only care if the woman he's seeing is the most attractive woman he can reasonably obtain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:43 PM
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It's normal and healthy to start noticing flaws you didn't see before as time goes on and you now see your partner as an actual human being, but for flaws to become the only or primary thing you notice in your partner is seriously abnormal and messed up. Maybe it's time to start seeing a therapist, that's a really neurotic unhealthy pattern you have and that's a freaking nightmare to be living with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:55 AM
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TBH you sound kinda neurotic. It's not weird to be increasingly annoyed by having to live with a person who it sounds like has a completely opposite lifestyle and values to your own. This is normal, the fact that you're fixated on that feeling though and think it's about familiarity rather than this person being obviously incompatible with you is strange, so is everything you said about your past relationships. "The same thing happens a lot in relationships I feel. In my BP days especially, I co…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:53 AM
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It will be forgotten about. It doesn’t work and eventually that fact will be widely known. People will move on and forget about it, just like with most cults.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:03 AM
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You’re exactly right in how you’ve identified the real problem. Like many young people today, you don’t have meaning or validation in your life. Unfortunately the “solution” that most of these redpill guys come up with is to get laid, which isn’t going to fix anything. Women don’t exist to validate men and vice versa. Sex will never be a source of true validation or meaning for anyone. Sex is a bodily function and no form of navel gazing is going to help a human being find more to life. Obsessin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:51 AM
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Saying ideally our policy to deal x problem should be y is not what larping is. Maybe you need to look up what the word means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:24 AM
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Except I’m not. Do you not understand the word should? I’m saying this is what the policy should be to deal with you people. I’m not saying that I myself am gonna go dress up as some revolutionary and go Rambo on your asses. I’m also saying that the state will eventually come after you and crack down on you as it has numerous times in the past with extremist violent groups. Do you really think that this is out of the question and thinking this could happen is Larping? Are you that ignorant? The …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:20 AM
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I didn’t say that I was going to do anything, retard. I said this is what should happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:55 AM
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It’s not Larping. They really should just be put out of their misery. They’re hopeless and dangerous, that’s a terrible combo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:38 AM
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Your ex sounds like a disgusting creep. I hope things are going better for you in the dating world and that you find someone who respects your boundaries. Good on you for sticking to your values and learning how to avoid these kinds of guys in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:50 AM
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Lol people in their 20s are married too you know. Guess my husband in his mid twenties is an "old fuck." Our male siblings and cousins in that age range are all partnered up too. This is what happens when the people in your family are normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:35 AM
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All the men in my family are normal ass people with wives and children
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:11 AM
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Idk probably some of the 99% of people that hate you? Just look around, no one likes you people. They despise you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:06 AM
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Nah, pretty sure normal people will just go on living their normal lives once you've all either roped yourselves, been shot dead, or put away in a cell.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:01 AM
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They're not that large, and from what I've seen on the internet, they all wish to commit violence against women. Just because they haven't left their basement to act on it yet, doesn't mean they aren't harboring disgusting, violent thoughts, and all because women don't want to suck their porn addled dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:58 AM
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The number of incels won't continue to grow. This is Darwinism plain and simple. The bottom barrel men are being weeded out of the gene pool as they always have been. If you want to talk about history, then you should know that this is something that has always been occurring across hundreds of mammalian species, this is nothing new. We don't want your shit genes so they're dying off, and the rest of humanity is better off for it. It's truly that simple. Time to accept your fate as a genetic dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:50 AM
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Incel you know very well that normal men have no interest in protecting you or securing you sex. Men may be “built for war” but you and your Dorito dust covered fingers and Mountain Dew pre diabetic pot belly are certainly not. You are far more likely to be chemically castrated and put away to die than given free sex from the state. No one cares if you get laid. People just want to live their lives in peace away from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:39 AM
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Plenty of American men and women own guns. The euros are gonna regret all their gay anti gun laws when these freaks finally leave their basements and normal citizens can’t just shoot these people on sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:29 AM
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Incels need to be taken out back and shot. You put down a horse when it breaks its leg because the animal to too heavy and the leg won’t ever be able to heal. Incels are the same as a lame horse, except a lame horse actually deserves sympathy and is not a threat to your safety. We don’t need a permanent underclass of violent freaks on sexual welfare. We need to eradicate such people like the diseased parasites they are. Add redpill men to the pile too while we’re at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:22 AM
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If you have good genes yourself, finding someone with good genes will almost always be important to you, whether consciously or unconsciously. If you have average or below average genes, you’ll probably tell yourself it’s not important.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:51 PM
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Intelligent Ambitious Lean/ not soft or chubby
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:39 PM
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Well I’m not “sex positive” as I think sex positive liberal feminism was clearly created by men to benefit men. It’s disgusting and I don’t believe any woman actually wants that world. It’s all a giant scam, telling women that they’re “taking something back” from men and that this is somehow empowering when in fact they’re only giving men exactly what they want, which is perverse. I also acknowledge that I’d rather live in a western country than a non-western one. Things are far from perfect her…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:28 PM
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No it’s really not. This is what RP implicitly promotes, this is what RP is when followed to its logical conclusions. If your ideology promotes hatred of a particular group, the adherents of that ideology WILL start victimizing that group and their behaviors WILL escalate. Which is exactly what I saw happen. RP started out looking pretty tame when I got interested in it back in 2014, and I’ve seen it morph into widespread violence and abuse. It’s not just a few bad apples that don’t understand “…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:40 PM
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Islam does promote those extremist behaviors though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 02:28 PM
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Doesn’t matter. His treatment of me was the logical conclusion of a women hating ideology. And that’s why it wasn’t just an isolated incident but rather accepted by a whole community of people. This behavior is what redpill leads to, it doesn’t need to explicitly say “harass and blackmail women” in order for it to implicitly endorse or lead to such behaviors. Saying shit like women are overgrown malevolent children who need to be beaten down psychologically into submission quite obviously leads …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 01:38 PM
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No, they show that everyone is having less. What you’re claiming doesn’t even make sense mathematically. If most women are having sex with only the top chads, the rates between men and women as groups would still be equal as the chads’s now super high rate would balance out the now lower rate of the other men. The rate is going down for millennials because it is going down for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 07:15 AM
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Well hate to break it to ya but your personal anecdotes aren’t data. Statistically, what you’re claiming just isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 06:09 AM
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Millennials are actually having less sex than previous generations. It’s a lie that millennial women are all out there on tinder sleeping with a bunch of random guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 06:02 AM
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No one is recommending oneitis. My ex didn’t even have that, he was just an insane narcissist who couldn’t take a woman, any woman, defying him and not thinking he’s amazing. It had nothing to do with me specifically. And this is how most redpill men act, not just him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 05:56 AM
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Guess you didn’t bother to read the rest of the thread. When pursuing me, he presented himself as “nice,” told me he wanted to treat me well and make me happy, which is why I gave him a chance when I didn’t find him to be attractive or believe that he would likely be successful. His tune changed when we started dating and it obviously didn’t work because it didn’t take long for me to get the hell out of there after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 05:44 AM
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It’s not the opposite of RP though. Some redpill guys do want a wife (read: slave) because they want kids and a live-in nanny/cook/maid for their progeny. When l decided I didn’t want to be that for him he decided to make my life hell and all his redpill friends supported that decision. This wasn’t one “crazy dude.” This was a whole group of people who had been stewing in redpill content and discussing it with each other for years. This is just how redpill guys who enter relationships act and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 01:22 AM
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Not really relevant but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 11:59 PM
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He’s angry that I wouldn’t let him control me. He never actually gave a shit about me as a person, just wanted to lock me down to produce children for him. Not all redpillers are mgtows btw. It sounds like you’re actually pretty ignorant of the broader community and only have experience dealing with reddit and maybe RoK before roosh decided he wanted to get married and not just be a PUA blogger.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 11:49 PM
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Pretty much exactly what got you curious about it apparently. I was in college studying behavioral endocrinology/ neuroscience and I’ve always been attracted to taboo subjects and alternative theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 11:34 PM
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Um who mentioned "the one"? I'm saying that my redpill ex-boyfriend harassed and blackmailed me after I left him and none of his redpill friends saw any issue with his psychotic behavior. Can you read??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 11:26 PM
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Lol well that story doesn't surprise me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 11:05 PM
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I guess you could say I wasn't really attracted to him. He was short, chubby, not very smart, and lazy. But I was pretty absorbed into redpill social circles at the time and bought into a lot of their garbage. I felt that I should give him a chance because he kept insisting how "nice" he was, how well he would treat me, how happy we would be. He seemed so genuine and my LTR had just ended because my SO didn't want to get married so I was in a very vulnerable place. I should have known better, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 11:03 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 10:43 PM
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Yea I thought they were pretty normal guys too... until I dated one. They're all insane, some are just a lot better at hiding it. You pretty much have to be unwell in the head to get into this sort of ideology. It will always attract narcissistic man-children who have unsettled mommy issues. Men who have healthy relationships with women are naturally turned off by the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 10:42 PM
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It's an entire community, this is what the average redpill male is actually like. I was around these circles for several years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 10:12 PM
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I used to consider myself a redpill woman. I dated a redpill guy, it only lasted a few months before I felt I had to flee in the middle of the night and leave a note explaining why. I was seriously too scared for my physical safety to break up with him in person. He was toxic, manipulative, controlling, and hateful, but somehow presented all of that as a "love" of women because he delusionally felt that the redpill helped him truly understand them. After I left him he harassed, stalked, defamed,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 09:56 PM
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Yes I did, and you bitched about it being a “crappy blog” even though the links to the studies are in that article. You’re just being lazy and weirdly triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 05:11 PM
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Also thank you for providing further proof that men expect women to do even the most basic tasks for them. Your childish behavior in this thread only validates everything I claimed above.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:58 AM
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I already know what the term means and btw you're using it incorrectly. Burden of proof does not mean that I have to hold your hand and google information for you that can easily be found, especially when I have already provided you with an article that addresses most of my original points and links to multiple studies backing up the claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:54 AM
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Lol dude just take the two seconds and stop being so butthurt that you had to put in any effort yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:45 AM
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You don't seem to understand google, do you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:40 AM
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Also, don't call me man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 06:02 AM
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The "crappy blog" links to multiple studies that cover almost everything I stated. Also, I'm not Google. This shit takes two seconds of effort to find. Do it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 06:01 AM
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I mean just google it? This is very easy information to find, it's not some niche research. This is actually pretty common knowledge that takes two seconds to find. This article alone on Fatherly already covers most of my points above. https://www.fatherly.com/health-science/why-sick-wives-increase-divorce-risk-not-sick-husbands/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 07:06 PM
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I also have no idea where you are seeing the opposite when it comes to sick spouses, if you just google "men more likely to leave sick wife" hundreds of articles pop up and not one of them says the data shows the reverse. Men leaving sick wives is a widely known phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 07:02 PM
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Married women live longer than married men because women in general live longer than men. That's not the relevant comparison here though. You want to compare married men to single men and married women to single women. When you compare those groups you clearly see that married men live longer than their single counterparts, meaning that marriage gives men a boost, while you see no such benefit for married women. Being married does not give women a longer life, it actually shortens it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 06:57 PM
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This isn't even a question- It's men. And all of the research backs its up: Married men live longer than single men, yet there's no similar benefit to married women. Widows actually experience an increase in their health and wellbeing while widowers experience a decrease and are more likely to die. That's because women put in active effort taking care of their husband's health while men literally exhaust women into an earlier grave. Most American families have two working parents, yet wives do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 04:55 PM
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Not being able to have casual sex isn't a real issue. The fact that you think it is is what makes you sound entitled and childish. Like I said, it's the adult equivalent of a child whining that they can't eat ice cream whenever they want. What you're whining about here is not a real problem. The fact that you value casual sex that much, that your self esteem depends on it is the issue here. Get yourself into therapy, find real, meaningful outlets for your self esteem, and stop blaming women that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 12:49 AM
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Yea you're not understanding what I said here. I think you keep assuming that all redpill rhetoric looks the same as it does on reddit. It doesn't. And that was my point- that the script is in fact being flipped on many women who find themselves in these circles. They are women who really just want to be happily married and have a family but feel they live in a world that devalues women/having traditionally feminine interests, and reduces them to sex objects. Many feel they find a place in these…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 12:30 AM
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Wait am I set supposed to feel like it’s some sort of travesty that the average man can’t have uncommitted sex with countless hot women? If that’s what all you losers are complaining about here.... then you need to shut the fuck up already. What a bunch of entitled children. No one cares that you can’t cater to your most disgusting base instincts whenever you want you god damn animal. Just as children aren’t being slighted by their parents when they aren’t allowed to eat all the cake and ice cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 09:50 PM
7

Okay I’d like to clear the air here. I don’t think many people outside the redpill community understand how women often get involved in something that is against their own self interest. I have no doubt that redpill communities on reddit are very obviously disgusting and disturbing and that a certain type of redpill male with zero social sense joins these communities. But the spaces I was involved with were not on Reddit, and were occupied by men who were a lot more clever and not incel types. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 03:45 AM
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