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16

You can address it in text or when you meet again. But you will have to address it. It is your choice. She seems a little bit defensive and does not want to be the one taking it a step further. Protecting her ego. She is putting the responsibility on you but she is also giving you an out by saying "I don't want anything from you". Tell her you are also not sure whatever it is that you both do but you like how fuss-free it is and that you like spending time with her.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:15 PM
31

"So we have something in common"
/r/askTRP01/09/19 07:53 AM
2

I see no response without risking an escalation. A loud "Now I feel like her pimp" maybe would have reframed the situation and ruin his chances with her. But at the same time trigger a possible fight and also ruin your chances with her. No need to fight every battle.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:18 PM
1

Do you even realise how you argue? You making money in PR with trading does not counter my arguments. If you really are somebody that makes decent money with trading, that knows the business, than you should also know that probably 99% fail.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 08:16 PM
1

So you just confirmed that you are competing with other traders and algos. Every single one wants the best price, this changes the price and some price changes make the trade not profitable anymore.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 08:10 PM
1

This. If you know how to sell you have covered almost every industry there is.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 03:12 PM
1

Because this gives them an edge, way faster orders than you in PR. You are asking me why you are competing with algorithms and other traders? And you call my statement ridiculous?
/r/askTRP23/09/18 06:09 PM
1

Like I said only very few make money in trading. And you have way more control over your business than in trading. People who found their edge in trading lost a lot of money and time to finally make a profit. And these people won't share their experience. What you see on YouTube or read in books won't give you an edge. Those people most likely make more money with that than their trading.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 06:04 PM
16

She can fuck other guys. But sending him this shit, with thumbs up, is disrespect. She wants a reaction! No contact. No explanation. Next.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 10:49 AM
19

Hard next. No contact.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 10:45 AM
2

There is a huge difference in my opinion. You have no control over the stock market. You are competing with professionals who are even choosing their location as close as possible to the Wall Street to get an edge. You are competing with powerful computers with autist writing algorithms. It is not that some people are succesful and some are not, most people lose money. Only very few manage to make money. A business has way more advantages. On the upside and the downside. No margin calls. Way mor…
/r/askTRP23/09/18 10:43 AM
2

Spinning plates also means your plates are aware that you have other options. Do not verbalize that you have other options! Your actions/behaviour/frame is the message. Not sure if this is here the case and you missled her.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 08:30 AM
2

Unpopular opinion here. Forget stocks, trading, coins, poker and all the other make easy money schemes. This is a huge waste of money and valueable time. Start your own business! Finish your Phd, start a career but have your own business on the side. There are countless opportunities to make money on the side, especially on the internet. What your side hustle will be is your choice. It doesn't have to be an online business. But watch out and do not get fooled into buying eBooks and seminars on h…
/r/askTRP23/09/18 08:22 AM
5

Build habits! Forget about motivation.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 08:02 AM
9

DO NOT CALL HER MOMMY OP! This could really creep her out.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 11:07 AM
3

She is a plate so stop fucking her if she is not satisfied with your dick. Sounds like shit test, some fucked up mind game to hurt your ego. It makes no difference, in both cases I would end it.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 03:19 PM
5

You want to try for a fourth time? Where are your options? Forget her!
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:05 PM
1

Why downvote this?
/r/askTRP13/10/17 11:00 AM
9

Read whatever you like. Do not focus on self help and self improvement books. Go read a book on "How to Read a Book: The Classic Guide to Intelligent Reading" by Mortimer J. Adler Read some biographies. "Total Recall" by Arnold Schwarzenegger is a great read. "The Design of Everyday Things" by Don Norman is interesting. "Sailing Alone Around the World" by Joshua Slocum The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin "Confessions of a Yakuza" by Jun'ichi Saga "Beyond Band of Brothers" by Dick Winters
/r/askTRP09/09/17 11:17 AM
1

Message her something that shows you are not butthurt. Imply your time is more valueable and that another flake could ruin her chances. Soemthing like: "Hey. Of course we are gonna talk, we need to arrange another date. But I'm a little busy the next few days." Message her less and suggest another time in a few days.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 08:11 PM
4

Youtube. I have watched countless videos and did my own research on what is said regarding anatomy. Watch 5 videos on deadlifts and you'll see some advice mentioned in almost every video. This is most of the times the good advice. Sometimes you'll hear contradicting advice so you have to do your own research.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 11:05 PM
1

Different state. After a year she finally shows 'interest'. You did not even know her before you asked her to add you. Seriously, what are you expecting? Give her attention and validation, maybe she'll send you a sexy pic. Do this for a period of time and maybe you'll be rewarded with a sexy video. I really doubt a bang here and if you manage to bang her I'm pretty sure it will not be worth the effort. It is a waste of time.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 12:21 AM
2

I would not worry about it. I mean I can make her cum with my fingers and I'm not blessed with Trump hands.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 05:30 PM
6

Never happened to me and I don't see a problem in crying in front of a plate/ltr when someone you love died. The important thing is to show her that you are able to function despite your grief. Take your time but do not neglect your responsibilities or your health (drinking, hygiene, diet).
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:33 PM
0

Well, enjoy the wedding but don't be suprised if drama happens. Suddenly her drunk ex causing trouble or some other shit.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 05:41 PM
-1

Is it the wedding of the one who gave you a blowjob? I would not have accepted. I would be suspicious as fuck, even when she is attracted to me. This is a red flag.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 05:10 PM
-1

That is for sure with your advice.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 10:40 PM
3

Are you sure she is sexually attracted? Sounds like she is missing the attention.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 01:02 PM
1

I read many 'business' books and I end up comparing his principles with the principles stated in the books I currently read. I still consider this book one of the best.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 09:29 PM
8

This. He has a business to run and if he can't keep his staff in check it is his problem. Let him know what kind of bullshit his staff is up to, leave a review, let them apologize. Edit: You probably won't need legal action. A bad review and an email to the management is most likely enough. I'm assuming they know how to run a business.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:44 AM
1

SoSuave had a few other users with valueable posts, but these two are the most popular guys.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 11:09 AM
3

Have you tried it for a few weeks? I avoided meditation too at the beginning. I started doing breathing exercises daily, and this turned into meditation. Focus on your breathing is meditation. I started doing yoga to be more flexible and it is fun. Body tension improved and this helped my lifts/workout. You can do yoga and meditate without going on an 'eat pray love' trip.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 11:06 AM
3

Never heard or read about that. But you will change, that is for sure. More muscles, more testosterone. And what testosterone does to your body you should google for yourself.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 11:37 PM
1

Dating apps, even Tinder, have fake profiles. I stopped using dating apps but if I remember correctly those profiles (20-40 km) were the ones you should be suspicious. It is a waste of time.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 09:26 PM
1

I can't remember who it was but there is a really interesting post on dopamine by a redpiller. Search for it.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 11:30 PM
2

I think you would profit more by watching standup comedy. Watch their timing, facial expression, how they include their audience... For example this story by Jim Jefferies: https://vimeo.com/147069912
/r/askTRP23/07/16 11:27 AM
3

Call her out in front of everybody. "Listen, I know we are not friends. I try to ignore you but you constantly seek drama and attack me for no reason. Stop harrassing me." Something like this. Keep calm, no need to be aggressive. No need for a discussion. Just call her out in front of everybody, keep frame and ignore every attempt to discuss the issue. Not only with her but also with your friends. "There is nothing to discuss. We just don't get along." "This is what she said? Okay, if she believ…
/r/askTRP23/07/16 11:11 AM
2

You are playing taxi to get your dick wet by a prostitute? Are you serious?
/r/askTRP22/07/16 10:44 AM
4

She knows you have no option this is why she is late. Time to change that. Get more plates, if she is late cancel your meeting. Your time is valueable!
/r/askTRP22/07/16 06:30 AM
1

Why the "?" in the facebook chat. I would have ignored it. Next time if she mentions it ask her if she could give this band guy a demo. Of you or one of your friends. Show her you do not care if she fucks this guy, she is just a plate playing games. Why the fuck do you ask her if she has a boyfriend when she is already at your place? You are cockblocking yourself.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 08:03 AM
3

According to your story you are pretty 'alpha'. You have some status, showing traits of a player, two women who would fuck you if you let them... At the same time you ask if you should fuck the new girl who is also interested but has a boyfriend. How to proceed? Why haven't you fucked one of the other colleagues? Probably because you do not shit where you eat. What is the difference with this Asian chick? Such a weird question. You are asking us if you should go for it? You know what, fuck her. …
/r/askTRP21/07/16 07:53 AM
2

Is she touching you back?
/r/askTRP19/07/16 11:00 PM
1

Do your research, man. What companies are in your area? What positions? I do not know what is harder, software engineering or CFA. It is your future so take action.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 10:34 AM
2

Do not waste your money and especially your time studying something you do not enjoy. So if you want to quit, just quit. On the other hand you talk about becoming a hedge fund manager and I guess you want to do it because of the money. It's like the typical "I want to be a millionaire". Guess what, most uf us won't be a millionaire. If this is the case you should rethink your mindset. Apply for internships in finance like crazy because you'll face fierce competition. Prepare yourself to spend mo…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 10:23 AM
3

"It's a bit odd that you haven't meet him. It's also odd that she's bawling about him." This is an important point. If the guy is just an orbiter/friendzoned you would have met him before.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 01:08 AM
1

I see where you are coming from but at the same time I know guys who are extremely pushy, a slap or drink in their face is the only rejection they apprehend. Like I said, not enough information. We don't know who this guy is and what his history is.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 11:36 AM
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There is not enough information, maybe she made out with him or the story she tells you is true. My guess is that we have here a trickle truth situation. It would not suprise me when she fucked him and is now covering her ass. It is important to watch her actions not what she says. If she is still socialising with him I would be suspicous.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 01:41 AM
3

Go read some BDSM sites, forums or subreddits. They know what and what not to do.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 12:01 AM
1

What is your profession?
/r/askTRP04/07/16 01:00 PM
3

You probably had the chance to fuck her, boyfriend or not.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 12:16 PM
-6

What are you talking? She is flying thousand of miles to get some dick, there is no other tribe waiting for her. Her tribe is back home and alive. Women need closure, something to feed their hamster to rationalise their action. In this case the cheating. Shift the blame on him just to feel better. Dude I experienced it myself. No contact messes with them. Months/years later they somehow manage to contact you. Apologizing and/or starting drama again. Guess why they do it?
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:53 PM
-4

So it will ruin her trip. Who cares about her version? She can lie to herself and friends. On the long run she fucked up. If friends try to give you shit and shame you just hold frame and it fires back at her. "Oh this is what she told you? Okay." It is a sweet revenge. Women need closure.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 11:03 AM
-3

How? She is travelling with the assumption that her LTR waits for her back at home. It is just sex, an adventure and not a branchswing. Do you really think she'll enjoy her trip if she knows she fucked up her LTR, knows that she got busted cheating and she is not in the position for damage control. 'Will he tell my friends or family?' 'He is ignoring me, I need to fly back'
/r/askTRP25/06/16 10:37 AM
10

Oh this is even better than what I wrote. Do this! Tell her it is over as soon as she lands, ruin her trip.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 11:29 PM
14

She was fucking him, misses the dick and booked a flight. Your relationship is over. Let her fly and have fun. As soon as she departed you go no contact, drop her stuff at her parents or friends place. Congratulation, enjoy your bachelor lifestyle.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 11:25 PM
2

Ignore. Do not waste your time with it.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 12:23 AM
1

When you talk to your friends do you think about how to give them value? No. You just say what you want. You have talked ablout RSD videos, just listen to them what kind of bullshit they say and the women are still receiptive. Giving value is to them probably something like giving women a reason to keep interacting with you.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 10:28 AM
1

Why so complicated? If you do not bore her you are already giving value. It does not need to be verbally.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 11:52 PM
14

Two things. Delete your facebook. You really need to work on your self confidence. It says a lot that you feel uncomfortable when people take pictures of you.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 07:50 PM
2

"She's entertaining"
/r/askTRP18/06/16 05:12 PM
94

The most important thing to do is to stop blaming your dad!
/r/askTRP18/06/16 12:09 AM
1

I'm not sure if TRP can help you. If I was in your position I would research this shit. Why these desires? What could be the reason for it?
/r/askTRP15/06/16 12:02 AM
2

I remember a similar situation in my social circle. One day he went outside for a smoke and made fun of me for a joke I made a few minutes earlier. Everybody knew it was a joke. So as soon as he left I said "I think me and him have a different kind of humor. Or he spins everything I say on purpose. Kinda entertaining." I said it with a smile, no butthurt reaction and I changed the topic immediately. It was the first time and last time mentioned his behaviour. So a week later my friends called hi…
/r/askTRP12/06/16 12:27 PM
3

Do you wanna get doxxed?
/r/askTRP07/06/16 11:34 PM
3

Do not post it here!
/r/askTRP07/06/16 11:26 PM
3

You don't want to cheat but keep her as a plate? Not possible. You are causing drama even if you do not fuck her. If you want to fuck other women end your LTR.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 11:27 AM
-2

Who are you to say what reaction is natural or not?
/r/askTRP01/06/16 12:15 AM
1

Do it.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 09:20 PM
5

Say he is welcome but you won't be always there to be his wingman. Offer him some of your food you can't finish. 'I'll warm it up for you'
/r/askTRP28/05/16 09:15 PM
2

Is it friendly banter or disrespect? The problem is that this could ruin your band dynamic.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 09:05 PM
4

I would probably be straight forward and say 'You are correct. Let's have a drink on Friday and get to know each other'. Pull the trigger.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 08:59 PM
3

Why are you so invested? Do not act 'butthurt' about this.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 08:55 PM
6

Well how about you two share an apartment? No? I guessed so. Deal with it. She us just a plate.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 12:08 PM
2

Book a hostel/hotel. What are you talking? You want to score, all sweaty and tired from your ride, asking for a step by step guide on how to do it?
/r/askTRP26/05/16 11:41 PM
1

And here is another problem I see. You are 24 years old, you work and live alone. You don't need the money of your dad. Like you said you prefer a frugal life. So why are you keeping your share? This is why I asked above. For her you are a frugal and independent guy on the other hand you receive 1000 Euro as if it's nothing. A grown man who receives pocket money? Now she feels kinda left out because your sisters, her fiance and you kept the money. I would have returned the full sum. Like others …
/r/askTRP26/05/16 10:42 AM
7

You gave 'her' money back to your dad or the full 2000 Euro? This is a fucked up situation. I'm pretty sure she is kinda mad at you because you did not try to convince her to take the money. She did the right thing by rejecting it but there is still this feeling of a loss. You need to talk to your parents. They need to consult you before making such decisions.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 12:42 AM
3

An Open Letter To My Husband Who Left Me For His 22-Yr-Old Mistress Same author.
/r/MGTOW24/05/16 08:49 AM
1

Get a hotel room. Nobody likes to fuck next to his parents.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 08:06 AM
9

What exactly did she mention as emotional abuse? How do you treat her beyond sex? Treating her like a whore sexually is most likely not what she meant. Edit: You need to keep healthy balance. Even a plate/ons does not like to be treated like a prostitute after the money shot. Give them some oxytocin.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 11:11 PM
3

Fuck them and I'm not talking about sex.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 01:46 PM
2

I'm not familiar with stuttering and the therapy but I've seen some extreme cases and what a difference it could make. Also he said he tried it and it helped him.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 12:40 PM
1

I have a couple of physical problems that are not going away and are seriously pulling down my SMV. I think its important I get the RP take on them Okay, let's hear it. I have a stutter. That just kills my SMV by alot. I could literally write a whole book on this topic alone there is just way too much for me to just explain here and how it negatively effects an individual. What about stuttering therapy? I guess you can fix it. A recent permenant disease causing me severe back pain. Has made me g…
/r/askTRP10/05/16 12:14 PM
4

Action dates. Go hiking, play some volleyball in the park or some other activities. She won't be so nervous and you'll get your chances to escalate without making her uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 12:31 PM
4

Dude I get rejected all the time. The next rejection will hurt less. Keep going.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 03:37 PM
3

Are you active? Sports? Any projects, maybe some craftsmanship. Do you regurarly go out with your buddies? Travel around? Approach women? Use your testosterone.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 11:58 PM
1

My bad.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 11:06 AM
1

All those theories and methods can be boiled down, for example the 'The Sixteen Commandments Of Poon'. Read it if you like, but the most valueable path is experience! Especially failure. Read the chapter 'Let Yourself Fail!' in the Book of Pook.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 09:48 AM
3

Your problem is that you don't have options. Ask yourself, if you had two dates next week would you 'mateguard' your ex? If you had two plates, would you still think about her? There is a reason she is your ex and therefore no need to lose any sleep over it.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 09:33 AM
1

I would also suggest denying it. The problem is he probably can prove that OP send those pics. Well on the other hand OP has nudes of his ex too.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 09:24 AM
3

Like I said this is not my experience and most of my friends would confirm that. Sounds like you are surrounded by those exceptions I mentioned. Especially blacks have a hard time to get laid by 'classy' caucasian woman, whereas you say they have it easy.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 08:33 PM
6

This is not the case in my experience. Caucasians still do best with women. Arabs/blacks and so on manage to score some 'low-tier women' (whores, women living in bad areas, naive young school girls). Those who manage to score a decent woman are decent guys themselves, good education, charismatic, have a job. Of course there are exceptions.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 08:03 PM
7

The standards you seek in other people you should also apply to yourself!
/r/askTRP17/04/16 12:45 PM
1

"Somebody asked me: "What do you do? How do you write, create?" You don't, I told them. You don't try. That's very important: not to try, either for Cadillacs, creation or immortality. You wait, and if nothing happens, you wait some more. It's like a bug high on the wall. You wait for it to come to you. When it gets close enough you reach out, slap out and kill it. Or if you like its looks, you make a pet out of it." - Charles Bukowski
/r/MGTOW08/04/16 08:39 PM
1

Dude, in this case you are the dildo! She was using you. It is like the gonewild subreddits, they love the attention/validation.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 03:00 PM
2

What is a Glassy?
/r/askTRP19/01/16 10:23 AM
1

Not enough information. How old are you? Your brother? What is the position of your mother on this, maybe she is the one who wants you to move out?
/r/askTRP17/01/16 09:34 PM
4

I'm glad you are seeing a therapist.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 01:11 AM
0

If she thinks you are 'exclusive' you did not communicate that this is just sex, nothing more. Four months of blowjobs and you think you can score now because she thinks you are exclusive? I guess it could work out, play the role of her boyfriend and enjoy the drama that follows. Read about dread game. Use it. And eventually you'll get what you want without getting into or faking a relationship. Of course she could also just end it because she wants to lose her virginity to her boyfriend. But th…
/r/askTRP15/01/16 12:44 PM
1

It is difficult to give advice without seeing your face. I'm not saying you should post a picture here, remain anonymous! Your facial appearance can be improved by dropping to low bodyfat. Your haircut, glasses, facial hair should suit your head shape. Ask a professional what suits you. I've seen countless idiots who ruined their appearance with an undercut just because it is/was cool. And if it is really that bad how you describe it go see a doctor. Have you seen what is possible? Look at some …
/r/askTRP14/01/16 05:11 PM
0

Travel! I'm talking about travelling to a country which is the complete opposite of your home country.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 01:15 AM
1

Do not read it if you are not interested. I guess IM already condensed the interesting parts in his articles.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 01:36 PM
2

What is your diet? How is your sleep? What are your hobbies, do you do anything besides lifting? What is your lifestyle? I've looked at your post history and depression should be your priority, not your T-Level. It sounds like psychological factors are responsible for this and not physical. Depression is a common cause of ED. There are guys out there with way lower T-Levels and they are doing good. Seek professional help for your depression!
/r/askTRP29/12/15 11:42 PM
1

I did it. I plated ex-girlfriends. At the end I went no contact again. There is a reason she is an ex and this reason will always be at the back of her and your mind. My rule today: No matter how hot she is, how good the sex was or how delicious her dishes are, she is an ex. No contact.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 08:53 PM
2

I'm shocked of the advice here. Like u/birdbiscuit said this really fishy. Next her! You have two potential drama sources here, your roommate and this plate.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 08:38 PM
1

I used to have a chat with the guys on IRC, but now I'm getting kicked all the time. Edit: "You are banned from #theredpill. Cannot join channel, you are banned " Okay.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 01:43 PM
3

If you do it right he won't confront you. Borrow some money from a friend for a beer or something, give him his money back in front of this guy casually and as soon as possible. You don't even have to say what the money is for, say 'Thanks' and hand him the money. If he confronts you with line like above say:'Yeah, you won. You teached me a lesson to never lend money to somebody and expect to get it back. You teached all of us a lesson to never lend you money' Edit: I would like to add that you …
/r/askTRP28/12/15 12:05 PM
3

You could shame him. Make him feel uncomfortable around you and your friends but in a subtle way. Signal him and your friends that you don't care about the money but you think if him less. A man pays his debt.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 11:45 AM
3

You are an idiot. Your post history confirms it. Using steroids at your age. Telling some girls from your high school that you use steroids. They talked about sex the whole time. "She says you should do the excercise sex". And now you ask here how you should proceed? It is too late, they were dtf
/r/askTRP27/12/15 05:59 PM
1

Next! What is your response?
/r/askTRP24/12/15 05:32 PM
3

It's interesting that you think her sexual enjoyment will be a deciding factor in whether you leave or not. Big mistake guys make. Focusing on her pleasure instead on their own.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 06:46 PM
2

Sounds like she is not interested. I can assure you she did not frogot to respond, she just avoided to reject you on the spot. Reply with a simple 'ok'. If you like you can give it another try. Wait a few days, ask her out again and if she rejects you again you next her! I would not contact her again. In my book she is nexted. It could be possible that she will initiate contact again and I would try to set up another date, but this is not certain.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 10:21 PM
1

Stand-up comedians work hard on their material. They constantly revise their material. I've told funny stories hundreds of times. But over the time I left out details I thought were important at first or emphasized details I thought were of no interest, this process made the stories way funnier than what me and my friends actually experienced.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 04:35 PM
3

This is really good advice. Let him do something competitive, it does not have to be a combat sport. Something where he learns to compete and gains confidence. But combat sport is great.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 10:50 PM
1

This sounds awkward. Shy girls seem to be uncomfortable in restaurants or coffee shops because there is not much to do except talking. I doubt that an extrovert girl would feel the same, she's probably in coffee shops on a daily basis. Next time grab your coffee and lead her to the next park. Teasing her on park bench instead of the coffee table has probably the same effect, the difference is you already sit beside her and there is no need for an awkward position change. This is just an example,…
/r/askTRP19/12/15 01:05 PM
9

Somebody posted this a few days ago. https://docs.google.com/document/d/1HML_DKl-ENAhFrzXAH0609R1SnbLmPMAxqdIcglrDcY/edit?pref=2&pli=1
/r/askTRP19/12/15 12:36 AM
21

You do not sit down to drink coffee with shy non-talkative girls. Do something active, this will kinda distract her and she will be more comfortable. Like Pook said, action dates are the best. Not only for shy girl. Kino, rapport, sexual tension is so much easier with action dates, I would probably need thrice as long to achieve the same succes at a coffee table.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 11:32 PM
2

Action dates > movie dates You can associate with excitement or experience it first hand. What do you prefer?
/r/askTRP17/12/15 11:38 PM
1

I like your response OP.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 10:15 PM
1

It will be awkward because it is your first time. The good thing is she most likely has had experience with virgins and knows how to interact with nervous customers. Furthermore no matter how awkward it is going to be, nobody will ever find out. Take your time! Have a chat with her, relax, fumble, laugh if something awkward happens and enjoy your time.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 02:45 PM
6

I wanted to display abundance mentality (something I need Hella work) and said "Bye". No reply from her. Why? This does not signal abundance mentality. She obviously liked the flirting, why did you take her seriously? I pull a neg ("you weren't that pretty anyway") This does not sound like a neg, it sounds butthurt.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 05:14 PM
3

Hell no. How can you call this a 'plate' if you are not allowed to speak to other girls? You did the right thing and said no.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 04:58 PM
1

I don't know how your interactions are, but if it was my plate I would have replied 'but what about the threesomes we planned?'
/r/askTRP15/12/15 12:38 PM
3

The important thing is not to bore her. Make her laugh, make her blush, intimidate her, make her angry, make her feel special, ignore her......but never bore her! A rollercoaster ride of emotions is never boring.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 12:34 PM
7

I hope this response gets not too popular. Works everytime.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 12:28 PM
7

This confirms my theory. Even in the manosphere the 80/20 rule applies to some extent. Only a small fraction gets truly 'redpilled'.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 02:08 PM
1

It works for Dan Bilzerian.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 04:18 PM
2

One girl is not attracted to you. Who cares? I have a short friend with a port-wine stain on half of his face. His childhood and teen years was hell. I don't know what happened, my guess is he found the manosphere, but in the last years he transformed himself to one of the most charismatic guys I know. I'm not saying he is getting laid on a weekly basis, I do not think this is even his goal, but he has girlfriends, he hooks up every now and then and he is a genuine happy guy. Accepting is a big …
/r/askTRP13/12/15 01:05 PM
2

Strange advice here. She is coming over for casual sex and is spending the night with him. So why the hurry? He sounds nervous as fuck. Chill, have a drink, get comfortable and listen to your gut feeling. If I have the whole night with a plate I take my fucking time. I'll have a drink with her, make out, have another drink, listen to music, make out again and escalate more, do some other shit.......and so on. You've waited three years, so it does not matter if you wait another ten minutes. Do as…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 04:32 PM
1

I take notes. Lots of notes. Things I agree or disagree with, things other authors agree or disagree with, things I've read before, things to google and so on.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 12:57 PM
6

The only thing where you should hold back is talking about sex or sexual innuendo. This could scare her off. Best thing to do with shy or inexperienced girls is action dates. Easy to lead, easy to kino and she won't be that nervous like for example during a coffee date.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 09:33 AM
1

Where are you from? In this case your problem is not the approach but holding a conversation/small talk. 'You look like you are shopping for halloween/christmas/' 'Where are you heading to?' 'Where do you come from?' 'We are heading in the same directions, let's walk together for a few minutes' I remember someone linked a pretty good video on TRP, something like 'How to Hold Conversation'. Google it.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 07:45 PM
3

This. I've read a few clickbait articles. VICE follows the money. It used to be really entertaining.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 04:46 PM
2

Tell her you noticed her and wanted to say 'Hi'. That's it. Just watch all these YouTube PUAs, most of them do not use any lines or canned material. They just say hello. You are still worried to say something wrong. It does not sound like an IDGAF attitude.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 04:41 PM
6

This reminds me of Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert Pirsig. I'll just quote from Amazon: "As in Zen, the trick is to become one with the activity, to engage in it fully, to see and appreciate all details--be it hiking in the woods, penning an essay, or tightening the chain on a motorcycle." Enjoy the search for an actual relationship, enjoy the relationship and stop worrying about things that could possibly go wrong. If she cheats, deal with it. Until then enjoy it.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:28 PM
4

With who? Is she your girlfriend or a plate? Why do you have to spend time with her? A little more infromation is necessary.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 12:11 PM
1

It really depends where in Germany you'll stay, a small village in the black forest will have a limited number of potential sexual partners. I hope your priority is not women. Living for a few months abroad and getting out of your comfort zone is great. I remember when I decided to live in China for a few months. I was scared, excited and nervous just like you are right now. At the end it was so fucking great that I plan to return back to China and travel around for a few weeks. Try as much as y…
/r/askTRP28/10/15 07:27 PM
7

Like others said it is your SMV, dominance.....and so on. But I want to point out the small things. I remember when I started to experiment with some methods/techniques I've read in countless books, not only PUA related. For example waiting for two seconds before you answer her and holding eye contact the whole time. You can see it in her eyes, the hamster in overdrive. 'Did I say something wrong?'; 'Why is he not answering me?'; 'Is he mad?' Vocal exercises to deepen your voice. Leading without…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 10:21 PM
2

My own gut feeling is probably more accurate than Googles algorithm. Why do you want to search for porn of her anyway? Deal with problems if they occur, do not seek any.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 11:10 AM
6

Yes it is. Kegels and a stamina like a soccer player. Improving yourself is always something to strive for. I can assure it was not only his stamina and quick recovery. Read the Sex God Method by Daniel Rose.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 11:31 PM
7

I'm pretty sure these athletes won't fuck all available women in your city. I'll try to make it simple, you are competing with the top 10% but there are still many options left if you are in the top 20%. I won't stop with boxing just because there are guys who could destroy me in the first round.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 10:08 PM
0

Best advice here. She is nexted, no contact!
/r/askTRP14/10/15 11:40 PM
1

Do yourself and her a favor and end it. It is just a matter of time till she gives you an ultimatum and with 29 years there is not much time left for her.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 08:07 AM
4

Dude, you are controlling and insecure. Asking her about orgasms, not allowing her to talk to some dude. She is not even your LTR yet.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 09:26 PM
1

What is a big delay? When did you inform her about the delay and when did she answer? To me it sounds like your fault.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 04:33 PM
0

Probably because of the background music. Edit: Getting downvoted for assuming that he got banned for copyright claims? Okay.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 11:23 AM
5

I don't care what the pros are, you need to call her out on her bullshit. Tell her you know she was there, tell her it was disrespectful, tell her you have no times to play games and the first step before 'making it up to you' is an apology.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 12:01 AM
1

Well it is your choice. I prefer boxing over lifting. I still do lift weights but not like TRP suggests to newbies. Like pook said "Perfect is boring". I'm not worried about my lower abs or calves. I prefer riding my bike instead of trying to sculpt my upper chest.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:42 AM
1

Not much information here. I was bullied myself and like with women your 'frame' is important. There is one thing that every man needs, something like a 'brotherhood'. Join a boxing club or some other fighting sport or team sport. Men/friends are giving each other shit all the time. Read "The way of men" by Jack Donovan. Edit: I'm not suggesting fighting so you can beat up those idiots, I'm suggesting it to gain confidence in yourself.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:04 AM
5

I would have no interest in meeting up. Why? I'm sure you have new friends to have a beer and talk. No need 'catch up'.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 02:45 PM
6

Just my two cents. How can you call yourself a Dom if you paid them? You made them cum? How, by tipping them? This is business. You probably was a good customer. Delete your accounts.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:49 AM
1

Got banned and still don't know why. No answer. I don't care.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 01:09 AM
1

Just another perspective: If somebody tries to play private videos on my phone/pad without asking I would be pissed too. This was your mistake! What happened after this I won't comment, other user already did.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 03:25 PM
4

Bob knows about your reddit account.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 11:00 AM
1

It sounds like she is interested and giving her the benefit of doubt I would not next her. If she is not actively trying to meet you in your next interaction then it's time to move on. The bigger issue here is you and how you react to a bagatelle like this. Get used to flakes and rescheduling, this is common. Even women who are attracted to you will 'shittest' you with this. This is why I think it is stupid to immediately next her, based on the 'Brad Pitt Rule'. Well, you are not Brad Pitt. Try …
/r/askTRP04/07/15 12:10 PM
1

Pretty sure she'll initiate contact with an apology if you stick to no contact. Your job? No contact!
/r/askTRP03/07/15 12:58 AM
1

This is what happens to almost all long time virgins. Finally they get laid and realise sex is not what they thought it would be. "Really? This is it? All those years of awkwardness for this? But let me tell you it will get better. The best sex is never the first time.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 12:37 PM
1

You are a car guy, drive whatever the fuck you want. A friend of mine is a big fan of a really old Volvo (it is over 30 years old). After his first Volvo broke down he bought another one, the same model. Do you think women and their preferences were part of his decision process? Hell no. It is his passion. Of course it raises your SMV, but buying a car to attract women is putting them on a pedestal. Elliot Rogers had BMW too, but it was still Elliot Rogers behind the wheel. I could write a few s…
/r/askTRP27/06/15 02:23 PM
1

I guess you are talking about the 'no fap' part.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 05:06 PM
1

Are you a skinny guy?
/r/askTRP25/06/15 03:03 PM
3

Most people fail as an entrepreneur. You will probably fail as one. So what is one summer compared to the struggle you'll face for the rest of your life just because you quit school? You want to become an entrepreneur and at the same time you say you don't need math. You want to become an entrepreneur but you already show no willpower/dedication to finish school. Mark my words: You will fail with this attitude.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 12:31 PM
-3

I confirm. I got banned and I have no idea for what. No one answered why. Trp is a sexual strategy. That is it. I've read countless answers here about work, education, health and so on that are just plain stupid. Still they get upvoted.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 02:14 PM
1

Why no caps and proper punctuation?
/r/askTRP23/06/15 04:16 PM
1

It was not Pook who put this posts together.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 03:46 PM
2

If you are falling asleep while driving take a nap and get some fresh air after your nap. No bullshit like loud music or talking. Don't be stupid. Don't mention divorce if you are not serious and did not take the first steps like talking to a lawyer. Why did you apologize? Now she feels like you are the only one who screwed up. Now she is expecting more than an apology. Dread game.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 04:47 PM
1

Now it sounds needy and passive aggressive? I have to disagree here. She tries you to invest by begging her to come or ask her why she has doubts. Almost every girl does that no matter if she is really attracted to you or not. They all play these 'hard to get games' especially girls you did not have sex with yet. Of course a celebrity would receive a YES due to his SMV. "I'm at.....with some friends. Come and say hi." "I'm tired and already in bed." "..." "Who are those friends?" No answer from …
/r/askTRP16/06/15 05:03 AM
1

How? No negative reactions yet.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 09:42 PM
1

Over text? I can't remember where I've read it but someone suggested to reply just with three dots. "I don't even know if I wanna go" "..." I've tried it a few times and the success rate is great. An "ok" like someone suggested here ends the conversation. It is not a mistake, I would have probably replied with an ok myself before I found this trick. The three dots give her the chance to rethink and answer with a yes or no instead of trying to persuade you into convincing her. Is it a yes? Great.…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:03 PM
3

Listen here. Do not delete anything and do not engage in this bullshit. The only thing that needs to be done is posting a statement and ignore all related to this. Flip it around and let them hamster away. "I don't like playing mindgames and I think I was clear in the conversation with her. I don't have time for this."
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:56 AM
13

I've read about theories of homosexuality due to sexual trauma before.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 01:08 PM
3

This. Don't know if it is a good idea to wait after your birthday. Are you sure you won't say something as soon as you had a few drinks? It is over. Like u/vfree said: dump her, block her, no explaination, no contact. Enjoy your birthday as a single men.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 09:17 PM
2

People used to say that I look like Nick Carter. Nowadays nobody knows who this is. I just googled him and yes we look very similar. I'm late 20s but look probably ten years younger than I am. Most of the times people think I'm 20/21. So women my age are not attracted most of the times, I'm just 'too young'. It does not help if I tell them how old I am, this leads to a shit test in 99%. Women who are instantly attracted to me are in the age group 15-21. So my 'targets' are most of the times 18-2…
/r/askTRP12/06/15 05:32 PM
3

Oral sex or fingering is never as good as penis in vagina. Physical stimulation is not limited to your penis. Psychological stimulation > physical stimulation. In short even with an average penis or smaller you can rock her world. It is a long time since I've read the Sex God Method by Daniel Rose, but it is probably the best source regarding good sex. I remember how I first started to apply his methods/advice and saw the change right before my eyes. There are a few points I do not agree with (i…
/r/askTRP06/06/15 01:02 PM
1

So why don't you ask this question in /r/ketogains? Why don't you google this topic and read? Somebody told you it is less effective without carbs, so you are asking strangers online if this is true?
/r/askTRP05/06/15 12:49 PM
3

Why do you think you deserve a raise? Just because other people earn more than you? I think the HR department was clear, and not even a month later you want to ask again? Your first mistake was to accept the pay before you started to work there. Maybe it seemed like a good offer at that time. You second mistake was to talk about a raise only four months into your new job. I can assure you the HR department was not amused. And now you are swinging again, strike three ahead.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 12:21 PM
1

I lost weight, even with a small calorie surplus. I'm on a steady calorie surplus right now to maintain my weight and muscle mass.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 07:14 PM
0

Bad advice. Read about Keto. I'm on Keto for a year now and my experience differs from yours. Getting a tan? Really bad for your skin and this will make you look even older on the long run. There is not much you can do to look younger besides cosmetic surgery. Drink lots of water, drop some bodyfat. That's all I can say.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 04:21 PM
1

Of course they are getting paid. What is your point? He still have to convince them to try it.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:21 PM
2

Pierre Woodman Castings. It is fascinating how he talks these girls into porn. He is using a lot of techniques and methods used by PUAs. At the end he is dominating them like a maniac and the girls are doing things they probably would never had done with their boyfriend/husband. Even a virgin turns into a slut. Just watch one casting and you'll know what I mean.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:06 PM
2

Even with an above average dick you are insecure. It would not suprise me if you started this topic.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 05:55 PM
32

I would have nexted her on the spot.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 05:48 PM
4

But you have still time for your LTR right now. It is your choice. You set your prioroties. What you are trying right now is to persuade yourself into staying in your comfort zone. You have no options because you are not trying. Who says you have to go out a few times a week to get laid? I met one of my former plates while I was bringing out the trash.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 06:18 PM
9

So you can't end your LTR because you can't get laid without putting effort into it?
/r/askTRP31/05/15 05:30 PM
2

Why not both? I'm interested in you but I'm also willing to walk away. You show her that you are sexually interested but as soon as she messes up you withdraw your affection and time. A man willing to walk away does not appear desperate or needy.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 03:49 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 09:13 AM
2

They are shittesting all the time. It does not matter how long you know each other. I got shittested in bars by women I've never talked to before, their first sentence towards me was a shittest.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 07:55 AM
13

"A date. Dress up."
/r/askTRP30/05/15 02:30 PM
3

Well, if you are from Germany I could give you a comeback. Just say something like: 'We have so much in common.'
/r/askTRP30/05/15 10:31 AM
3

You want to next her because she made a 'joke'? A shittest. Don't be an idiot. 'What's that smell? It's me, 'cause I'm the shit!'
/r/askTRP30/05/15 09:33 AM
-1

You want to exclude consequences? Of course there are consequences if she does it again. And it sure does not sound whiny.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 08:23 PM
-1

Why? I would even say the exclamations mark is indispensable. Of course it is up to OP. Like I said I would have cut contact, but because she is a roommate this is not possible. I would expect a personal apology.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 08:05 PM
4

apology by saying that she shouldn't have done that "in front of friends". "You shouldn't have done it at all. I will not tolerate this disrespectful behaviour!" I would probably cut contact. But you said she is a roommate/close friend, so it is going to be hard to completely ignore her. Stay stoic and keep your distance. If I was in your situation she would have to work for my attention/affection/friendship, even after a honest apology. She send you an apology? That is not enough.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 07:53 PM
1

And the getting women is only a side effect of the pill. TRP is not a religion. It is a sexual strategy.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 02:17 PM
2

YOU are responsible for your situation. What I'm reading above are excuses. "I was bullied, I'm in pain, my dad, the health care". But what are you doing to fix your problems? Nothing! If you are in pain you need help. Go see a doctor. Go see another doctor. Don't tell me you are not getting help in the Netherlands. It is the European Union, you can get help from a German doctor and your insurance has to cover the costs. Your social anxiety? Get a therapy! You sound to me like someone who probab…
/r/askTRP25/05/15 02:06 PM
1

I know that for a lot of guys the v-card is what holds them back. They sabotage their own chances and avoid clear opportunities because they are scared. "She will know I'm a virgin and laugh at me". Some of them have even unrealistic expectations of sex. I remember some virgin talking about how he read about some out of body life changing experience during sex. So in my opinion it is really important to get this out of your system. End this toxic mindset. Hire a hooker or lower your standards to…
/r/askTRP23/05/15 08:39 AM
3

It is part of my frame to be kinda indifferent and polite in situations like this. There is nothing to gain by showing her your dislike. Of course you can react amused and deflect the situation if she asks you what's wrong. "Oh nothing, it just sounded like straight out of a movie." He asked her about her story and she answered. Laughing at her face, twice, is disrespectful. Simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 09:42 AM
4

This is absolutely the case and it's always been like that, but I only consciously realized this literally this week. There's some CBT techniques that help change thoughts that would likely help. Still learning about it. Pook talks about techniques too. Like he said in one of his posts "The KEY to killing desperation (and attracting crowds of women) is to THINK and BELIEVE that you are The Great Catch.". I think the best way to internalize this mindset is in stages. One success after another. Gr…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 03:20 PM
1

I don't know what his profession is, but I assume it will have counter-productive effects if he evolves into a jokester.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 01:25 PM
9

My advice is to ignore it and to lie if it is necessary. Just act like it never happened. If somebody asks you or wants to talk about the issue you just tell them "That's not what I said." Soon it will be forgotten and if you stick to your version and hold frame it will fire back on him. Who do you think women prefer to believe, you or some wimp who bends over backwards for their vailidation?
/r/askTRP15/04/15 02:23 PM
3

Bad idea in my opinion.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 02:06 PM
1

This post is somehow contradicting. You present yourself as a silent 'mystery' guy, not the type I would hire for a sales job. But your post shows characteristics of the opposite, for example this line 'couple this with the fact that im very good looking'. You don't seem like the mystery guy. My impression is you are even qualifying yourself with this post. Your tips to get ahead of the competition? Take care of your appearance and get people to critique your CV. That's it. Guess what, you're st…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:24 AM
2

Why are you still in contact with her? Stop it! I almost drove her back to her place to have sex and then never get back to her but I didnt want to be cruel and got her a taxi home. I then masturbated. You could have fucked her without beeing cruel. "I'm not interested in a relationship right know". Simple as that. It is her decision if she still wants to hook up with you. But you chose not to be 'cruel', probably because there are still feelings. Cut all contact. Move on.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 01:24 PM
3

Read. Watch Stand-up-Comedy.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 01:00 PM
21

This topic has such a social stigma that even some of my close friends, who share some of the beliefs of this sub, are completely against it. I never tried to address this issue and probably never will. So I'll just say a few words on this topic because OP already made a good post: Here in Germany prostitution is legal. Most of the brothels are clean and full of pretty Eastern European women. Pros are more conscious of their sexual health. They use condoms and test regurarly. Of course there is …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 01:14 AM
3

What did you say? Don't know why but somehow I don't have any problems with a decent comeback, no matter what the situation is. "More important is the question: Who the fuck are you?" "Someone you'll never forget" "Your dreamboat"
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 10:40 AM
1

She kissed them a few days ago?
/r/askTRP20/01/15 03:13 PM
15

He did the right thing at the party. He did the wrong thing at home. Same opinion here. I just wanted to highlight that in a situation like this no matter what you do, she will be mad. Every possible negative outcome she'll blame on his actions/behaviour and not on her past action/behaviour. She knows it is wrong but she'll try everything to avoid responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 07:21 PM
67

The damage is done. I see no possible reaction to this without negative consequences. He ignores it. She's mad. He starts a fight and loses. Her friends are mad because he ruined the party. She will be mad and lose respect for him, because he got beat up. He starts a fight and wins. Her friends are mad because he ruined the party and therefor she will be mad.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 04:51 PM
11

It is not only the confirmation bias. I can't remember the last decent field report I've read. Seriously guys, if I want to read a fantasy sex story I would visit the respective subreddit. "I held frame and was being aloof and fucked her this way.....and that way.....and did this.....and that."
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 12:38 PM
1

The girl is about 19, so as a 23 year old I wanted to go with whats in style for her age bracket. What? Are you going to dye your hair if you find an attractive punk girl? She tried to write on your pants, next time tell her to write her number down instead. You started to smoke weed after you talked about drugs? Or is this a misunderstanding on my part?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 02:25 PM
18

The people there are such ignorant morons it beggers belief. Maybe they are divorce lawyers?!
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 01:21 PM
72

She was pretty nervous. I lightened the mood by being aloof and charismatic. My favorite part of the story.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 07:41 PM
5

It's like you craving for drama. Why do you start a political discussion on new years eve? I can assure you that everyone in that situation saw it in your face that it bothers you. You provoked this awkward situation. You say that you don't give a fuck but you had the need to ask her about the orgy the next day. I think it's hilarious how she defused your 'shit test': Then I ask : "So, You had an orgy ?" To which she answers, with a grind : "Heh, you really believe everything you're told". "Well…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 04:36 PM
31

There you have it, OP. You are in bed and she's bringing it up again, like the last time. Same situation. You know why? Because you were not clear enough last time. She remembered the last time when she had a small success and tries this manipulative approach. This time you were consistent.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 03:32 PM
4

From what you described, she really isn't that attracted to you. This. Finally someone said it. You can’t negotiate desire!
/r/askTRP27/12/14 01:21 PM
2

Why upload this? I mean he had probably watched it before he uploaded it. He has a flawed self-image.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 02:04 PM
8

There is plenty of value in this post. Part of sexual strategy is the discussion of what triggers "good sex," and GLO is positing that your times with cheating sluts will be the wildest, hottest times you'll ever have. I had the best sex with girlfriends and single women. Attraction and sexual arousal let her try new things that probably are considered taboo for her boyfriend/husband, not infidelity. It is not a question about infidelity. Is it right or wrong. His post is just poor quality. Simp…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 11:19 PM
33

I see absolutely no value in this post. No practical advice, no proper analysis/theory and we have a different sense of humor. Edit: Guys, I have probably a similar opinion on infidelity like GLO. If I'm not somehow related to the poor fella who gets cheated on I have no problem with it. My problem is his post. Please highlight for me the valueable information. I see none. Why Infidelity Sex is the Best: Like I said, attraction and sexual arousal let her try new things that probably are consider…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 10:17 PM
1

Look at his channel. Look at his most popular videos. Such a stereotype.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 03:26 PM
1

You want us to tell you how to spend your time?
/r/askTRP23/12/14 01:43 PM
1

She brings up the discussion while they are already in bed. If his intention was to have sex why did he engage in this discussion? Like I said before, he probably would have get laid nonetheless. Her: "Won't you even try it? I've tried being exclusive all these months and it's not who I am." Him: "You really want to share me? Okay, it has been a while since my last threesome." In another FR from OP I pointed out a similar mistake. Woman is bargaining with sex, OP jumps. And the same replies as h…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 09:45 PM
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First of all, you are the first who is using the term 'beta' in this thread. So what do you and OP expect? A pat on the back? We point out his mistake. He lost frame. It doesn't matter that he got laid. It doesn't matter that he can leave at any time. This is the point you are missing. We judge women by their action, not by what they are saying. OP said he's leaving and than stays?!
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 09:05 PM
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You were already in bed, pre-sex talk like you said. You could haved avoided this subject and probably have sex nonetheless. So instead of avoiding the subject you engaged in it and made your point. You want somebody exclusive. No problem up to this point. You hold frame and getting dressed. By reversing your decision you lost frame. You did not chose to stay on your terms, you accepted her promiscuity. You left the driving seat but jumped back in as soon as the car took off.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 05:44 PM
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So you are polyamorous now? In my opinion it was a big mistake to stay after you already got dressed.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 05:18 PM
2

There is only one good friend I can talk openly to. He lives a few hours away but we talk on Skype a few times a week. This is like our little therapy sessions. We talk about everything in life and say the most offensive jokes you can imagine. I visit him a few times a year for a weekend or we go on a trip together. There is no one else I can be brutally frank to. But this relationship developed over the years and was fueled by experiences we shared. So my 'male space' is a good friend. I think …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 02:23 PM
67

Well you do pay in currency. Don't forget the early termination fee for your 'lifetime' subscription.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 09:14 PM
3

Who are you to tell other people how to spend their money? His tax money did not contribute to society? You mean he made his fortune on his own, without employing other people?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:32 PM
1

Sounds like her and her friend decided to set up her husband for a nice lucrative divorce case. Cheating and "rape!" What are you talking? So they gonna use the "Ask Amy" response as evidence in the family court? "See, he cheated and raped. Amy said so"
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 02:01 PM
3

Now, the aim of this post is to arm you guys with a complete step-by-fucking-step guide TRP shows parallels to cult. Here is you workout plan, eat this, read this, do this, avoid this. Do it! Follow this commandments and you'll be enlightened. I can summarize the whole thread: Raise your SMV. What that means? Do your research. I don't need a step-by-fucking-step guide because I'm an autonomous man. I eat what I want. I train like I want. I dress like I want. I read what I want. I listen to what …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 01:31 PM
2

Why downvote somebody you are not agreeing with?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:21 AM
0

My two cents: Most of her friends back at home (both guys and girls) spend much of their socializing and hanging out at night clubs. From the stories she's told me from the past, she is relatively high status in the scene. She is friends with the DJs, club managers etc. and often gets hooked up with free drinks and such. This tells me she and her friends are really well off. Her clique is probably westernized. There are only two groups partying in clubs in China, rich Chinese people and westerne…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:10 AM
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The comfort zone is the breeding ground for failure. Look at Nokia and how they failed to take the necessary steps. u/hastywilliam: Perhaps you meant, "being willing to endure discomfort on the occasions when I can see either profit, or personal growth, on the other side of said discomfort." That makes more sense to me. In my opinion discomfort is always accompanied by personal growth, no matter if you succeed or fail. u/AFPJ: You made it through natural selection, so no you don't - comfort kept…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 01:55 PM
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her word against his. It is also very important to acquire information and evidence to discredit her lying ass.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 03:07 PM
1

If she's wearing a Hijab her family is probably very religious. So her own brother tells you she is a hoe? Parties every day and lost her virginity at 12? Hard to believe.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 02:57 PM
3

Although you have such an interesting and enviable lifestyle you are still here, qualifying yourself with this post on Thanksgiving.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 02:11 PM
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My impression is that England (don't know if it is the case for Great Britain) offers even worse conditions. Just look at Rotherdam and what political correctness have done. The new emotional abuse law. How their media is pushing feminist issues. I do not see this in Germany yet, not to this extent. You are right about the SJW and feminisist control in our left wing parties. The conservative party will adapt to this trend, especially if Ursula von der Leyen is going to run for chancellor. She's …
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 12:47 PM
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It is just the beginning. It is just a matter of time until political correctness, feminism and gender issues will become as popular as in Britian or the USA. There is nothing you can do about it. I personally accepted this trend and I'm going to benefit from it. I've already initiated the first steps of my plan. To my fellow countrymen: Start to take advantage of this trend. Start selling "Male tears" mugs, shirts, hair dye products, rainbow flags, glasses with thick rims and red lipsticks.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 11:51 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8w1cjNXdN1I
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 09:59 PM
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I remember an incident where a cashier was hypnotized and handed over the money. I don't think the cashier gave consent to be hypnotized.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 05:34 PM
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I understand what you are aiming at. The above mentioned civil lawsuit with Andrea Constand was settled before any of the 13 women could testify. If somebody is accused by numerous women of rape or sexual assault over decades, well than I would reconsider my choice of words and refrain from sentences like "Another great man being chopped down.".
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 09:25 PM
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I just overread the article and couldn't find an important fact. Bill Cosby was accused by 13 women! This civil lawsuit was settled under undisclosed terms in 2006. I'm not in the position to decide if he's guilty or not. I just perceive this article as misleading and biased. I don't expect journalistic standards by the Red Pill Times but I would prefer a more unbiased/unemotional approach on this issue.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 08:29 PM
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This whole story is just beyond bizarre...and the craziest thing is that several of the articles on mainstream media outlets that were bashing Matt Taylor were actually written by DUDES. This whole story just confirmed my views on an alarming trend. The unbelievable power SJWs have. It is a small group but loud as fuck. Companies/people are so afraid about political correctness that even a downright ridiculous bagatelle is handled like a Watergate scandal. What power did SJW have in this situati…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 01:16 PM
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I told him as a joke that I am very jealous of his wife and reminded him that he asked me out and that I could be his wife. It wasn't a joke. She just had the need to remind him of the time he desired her. A test. Urge for validation.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 01:33 PM
1

My impression is OP misinterpreted the situation. You probably missed out on a threesome.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 05:58 PM
2

She asked him during their sex sessions. She did it on more than one occasion and every time during a sex session. And know she's guilt-tripping/threatening him. This whole pregnancy was planned. I'm convinced she was aware that it was just a sexual fantasy for him. What is this, some next level social ingineering, ensure a steady passive income for the next 18 years?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 02:48 PM
4

I'm not familiar with the laws in Argentina but it is hard to believe there is a basis for this ban.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 03:08 PM
2

Might keep you up with that, but I'm pretty sure I won round 1. ;) Guys... I love playing this game. You met her BF. You met her BGF she's interested in. She wants to connect with you before having sex. "Bla bla bla you're nice, I had a great night, bla bla bla... but you know, you really shouldn't talk about your other lovers to your date, that's just a hint ! ;) ;)". Huh, what ? My first reflex is to go to thank her for her advice, and my mind just go "wtf, bitch, did I ask you anything ?". So…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 02:55 PM
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Rollo also said: Genuine desire is non-negotiable. And this is the case here. It sounds like she feels no attraction/sexual desire for him. No counseling and no communication will fix this.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 11:21 PM
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You are wasting your time. Why are you helping her? You are helping her with the studies. You give her validation/attention. Ask yourself what do you gain from this 'relationship'? No sex. You would probably study better on your own or with somebody else. What's left besides the car rides? Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash …
/r/askTRP06/11/14 04:51 PM
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Oh boy, how can she defuse this incident and avoid responsibility? By reinforcing her victim role! False pretences about harassment and death threats on Twitter proved to be very helpful.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:49 PM
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"I'm a female 25. I'm currently married looking to get out of an abusive marriage I'm a bigger woman so if your looking for pencil thin please move on! I'm very honest loyal and loving. I have a wonderful sense of humor! I love to laugh! I currently am unemployed do to some unexpected health issues. I want a man who can take care of me. I will please them in every way possible. I have a very high sex drive. I love to cook and please my man! let me know if your interested your pic gets mine!" I w…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 10:21 PM
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Guys, you should see it in context. This is the same approach as some clickbait-blogs. Piss off somebody, cash in on the outrage. In this case I have to agree, this is fucked up. But RSD does not give a fuck as long as their seminars are booked out.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 02:20 PM
6

This is so bad. The acting, the camera work, the camera itself, the cutting.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:54 PM
1

You just confirmed me. Due to the abuse you were forced to become more independent at a young age, you grew a thick skin (your frame) and learned to deal with situations/problems others were protected against by their parents/family. Your environment shaped your charisma, frame, leadership..........shaped you as a man. You mentioned genetics and I have no doubt that genetics have an influence. But how great is the influence? For example Mozart who composed from the age of five. Is this talent? G…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:34 PM
5

I've even donated money for vasalgel. The problem is it won't be available until 2017 and I'm pretty sure there will be institution/parties trying to prevent it's approval.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 11:51 PM
3

It is fucked up. At the same time there is nothing you can do about it. 400 € to get a vasectomy. 400 € to get your sperm freezed and 200 € per year for the sperm bank. I'm really considering it.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 11:29 PM
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such as omitting and twisting and turning the truth. Trickle truth. How far down does the rabbit hole go?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 09:01 PM
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Alpha, beta, sigma, natural alpha.......all these classification in categories. There is no natural alpha. What you call natural alpha is just somebody who experienced rejection and success years before you. He collected experience while other guys spend their free time in front of the Playstation. Children/Teenager have it easier learning a new language than adults.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 06:01 PM
2

In my opinion it is not the same Pook.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 10:16 PM
6

At the same time you condemn the preferences of Indian women.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 04:46 PM
4

It's time to address this issue in the sidebar. Also add r/AsianMasculinity to the Red Pill Network. In all these posts about race I rarely read about your own racist sentiments. I think this is a crucial factor because it influences your own perspective on this issue. Dark skinned people are looked down upon in China, India, Thailand, Japan and so on. People in the West try to get a tan on a vacation, people in Asia walking around with umbrellas and bying skin-whitening products. Maybe this had…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 12:08 AM
4

Push further. Leave your comfort zone.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 11:21 PM
3

I've heard, read and experienced that American women tend to be unfeminine, almost androgyn. Not only in their looks but also in their behaviour. You'll notice considerable differences if you hang around with an American and an Eastern European woman.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:25 PM
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I see five posts regarding this video. Guys, do you even read/search what was already posted in the last 24 hours? Same thing happened with this 'Potty Mouthed Princesses' video.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:47 PM
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You are playing for time. Stop evading your insecurities and face the competition. Stop avoiding uncomfortable situations. Regarding your anxiety of losing her, read this: http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/the-cardinal-rule-of-relationships/
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 10:14 AM
1

This is a big lesson! Living a frugal live won't make you rich. Most people won't risk their money and remain poor because they're so afraid to lose their saved up pennies.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 08:29 AM
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Get tested. This girl sounds like a risk. Buy some ultra-thin condoms.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 06:12 PM
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She lives in China and comes to visit me about once every 2-3 months and stays with me for a week or so. Who is paying? Is she well-off (rich parents) or is the guy paying for her trips? I'm curious about the AF/BB dynamic regarding wealthy women. China (or Asian cultures) has some special characteristics regarding social dynamics. The wall is approaching faster because of social conventions (剩女; shèngnǚ; common translation: "leftover women"). Women are expected to be married with 27. Social con…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 01:22 PM
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Convert all assets to BTC. Then 24 hrs later, after your flight, convert it to the local currency. And this is how you could lose a large share of your money overnight.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 12:39 PM
3

Don't post this on Facebook — even if your girlfriend cheated Find the post and comments in question below.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 11:27 PM
1

My perspective is different. I'm not bending myself, I'm just indifferent. If I have nothing to gain or to lose I keep my views to myself. It depends on my counterpart, who I am talking to, close friends or just casual acquaintance? I know that my friends are accessible to reason and logic. Sometimes it is like Don Quixote and his fight against windmills. Time wasting. At the end you agree to disagree. I am working on being completely independent and be living autark and to be that person which …
/r/askTRP26/10/14 09:23 PM
1

There was a time where couldn't refrain from engaging in such a discussion. It was hard for me to not call out women on their bullshit (anger phase). And as we all know these arguments tend to become emotional and insulting. Well, at the end she was crying, white knights drew their swords and I was flooded with hate. I've won the argument but lost frame. I can't remember what law (48 Laws of Power) it was but it said something like share your ideas/views only with tolerant friends. Think as you …
/r/askTRP26/10/14 06:41 PM
1

We have the benefit here, that we are not so far advanced when it comes to getting your life crushed, if you dare to speak up against that bullshit, as opposed to the US. We also have the benefit that feminism itself receives little attention in our media and daily life. Unfortunately it's on the rise. It is not often that I hang out or meet with politically left-wing people. Maybe some of the people are politically left-wing but I don't know for sure. I avoid topics like politics and religion. …
/r/askTRP26/10/14 05:34 PM
3

I don't get it. Wasting time to write a bad fairy tale just to troll some people on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 12:57 PM
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You think "fuck relationships man, I'm gonna plate spin forever like I belong in a travelling circus!" Wrong. The older you get the lonelier you get and the more sentimental you become. There was another post here today on loneliness. It's a long read, but just from your post above I can imagine what you are aiming at. I'm gonna read it later and I'm curious what other Redpillers have to say, especially the older ones. In my opinion the loneliness many men are afraid of to experience at an advan…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 09:15 PM
2

Campbell then turned to her own education in psychology, along with psychiatry, where they “study the neurobiology of trauma and victim behavior, and how trauma affects memory, cognition, and emotion." As she examined the neurobiology of sexual assault, she noted that “there are many different regions of the brain that are impacted by trauma. [...] The first two are neural mechanisms that have to do with hormones and emotions that might be happening during the assault. The second two are neural …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 02:38 PM
2

I know the idea of a soul mate, the perfect woman, is just a myth. There is no unicorn out there. There will never be a woman who loves me for me. There will never be a woman with whom I can drop frame without her losing attraction. I've accepted all these things, and my relationships have improved. Good for you. The one does not exist. I like to keep it simple, there are good women and bad women, but no soulmate. So you are aware of the soulmate myth, but you did not accept it. Now in search fo…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 01:44 PM
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Ah women and their role in society. As a child she wants to be a princess, but what is a princess without her prince? In her teens and later in her 20s she is in search for the right guy, for a date or to be his girlfriend. The next step is to be a fiancee followed by wife and mother. She's not loving the prince, she loves to be the princess. She's not loving her fiance, she's loving to be the fiancee. Women never ran out of things to say about us men, their date, their boyfriend, their fiance, …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 10:54 AM
1

This is a justified reason. But I'm talking about those who do not ever want children, like the guys at r/childfree.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 01:54 PM
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And I'm saying you shouldn't have get it that far. Why wait for her? After you fell into her frame (tolerating her disrespectful behaviour) she tested you again by asking to meet her at another place. This is where you passed. Suddenly you did not bow to her wishes. Do you want me to congratulate you because you walked away after five minutes? You waited over an hour for her! She is probably not even aware of her shitty behaviour, because you did not call her out on it. In her mind she did you a…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 01:47 PM
2

If you have no interest in having children of your own, why are you considering taking care of another man's child?
/r/askTRP24/10/14 01:05 PM
1

After her "I'm going to be about an hour" you should have canceled the date! "Don't bother. We'll reschedule." Her reaction probably would have been something like you already mentioned. "How dare you" or "You are rude to women". She is late! She did not call you to inform you that she'll be late! No excuse or explanation! Your response should have contained the above points and I'm pretty sure she would have changed her frame completely, apologize and reschedule. Send her this right now! "You w…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 12:42 PM
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This is going to be unpopular, but consider a career other then mech eng, theres no women and the money isnt event that great. You know why it is going to be unpopular? Because it is a pathetic mindset. "Consider a career as a Lingerie salesman. Well the money is not that great either, but hey lot's of women!"
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 12:18 PM
2

Ask yourself why you had the need to contact her again.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 12:09 PM
2

Keeping Hypergamy in check.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 08:46 PM
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Well, it is true. Ugly girls have a harder time. You have probably seen an ugly guy with an attractive girlfriend. I have, many times. But how often do you see an ugly woman with an attractive boyfriend? Edit: Guys, you skipped the important part.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 06:29 PM
1

How? Because it isn't a yes means yes approach? I don't care. If people construe it as some Rape 101 post then let them do it.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 10:24 AM
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I have experienced LMR with girls I just met and girls I already had sex. LMR with a new girl is tightrope walk and sometimes I have to take the L. She's too nervous, self-conscious or other reasons. No big deal. LMR with a plate is in my opinion most of the times an expression of her desire to be dominated. A former plate ones started the whole "Not happening" games. I stopped, looked her deep in they eyes and said we need a safe word, "If you want me to stop say Blaubeerkuchen". I proceed to e…
/r/askTRP22/10/14 01:23 PM
1

I'm looking forward to some great parody videos.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 12:17 PM
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I'm speaking for myself right now. It makes me even somehow angry. This is how I would probably react. I would withdraw my affection and time. Cut all contact to the friend. I don't have any respect for a character like this. Family is a more complicated issue. Interact with the sister only if it is necessary in calm and indifferent way. If she mentions something about my cold behaviour I would tell her why I'm behaving like this, that I'm disappointed, expect an apology and a drastic change in …
/r/askTRP21/10/14 11:43 PM
5

So why exactly is this a must read?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:51 PM
1

The advice you find in bodybuilding magazines tends to be overkill. It is not advisable to follow a 6-day splits and detailed diet plans of a professional athlete, because that is his job and nothing else. Your workout plan should suit your lifestyle. Cardio is good, but 30 minutes every night? It sounds like you are in danger to overtrain, but that's just an assumption. I don't know the details of your workout. I'm not saying you should switch to 3x per week, do as you like but remember you are…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 03:04 PM
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This is just my personal opinion. I would highly recommend you to travel around if you have the chance to do it. 5-6 lifting days a week is too much. 30 minutes cardio per night in addition sounds unhealthy. I prefer to lift three times a week and spend my time otherwise. Simple and efficient. Do you read? Are those 50k invested? Educate yourself about investing, let your money work for you, risk something.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 01:16 PM
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What about height, weight or race? Do you swipe bigger black women? Fact is it makes a difference. We men are shallow as fuck. We are not attracted to her her intellect or her status. It is mostly her looks we are attracted to. Women on the other hand can be attracted to your looks, success, status, dominance......a man's SMV is not only his looks.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 09:07 PM
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Before I clicked on your post I knew your experience is related to Tinder. What about you? Are you not shallow? You matched with unattractive women, but no, you deserve the the creme de la creme. You are rated based on your looks, that is the concept of Tinder. It is a shallow App. If Tinder does not work for you why are you wasting your time with it?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 08:48 PM
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You need therapy. Your problems are so deep rooted that this needs professional help. The advice here won't help you on the long run.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 05:46 PM
2

The problem was not your friend. It was you. Coping with failure is crucial for success. The question is how you bounce back from failure? I don't think it was a mistake to bring your friend along. Your mistake was not facing the competition. You said don't get anxious, let it go, don't overdrink, stay calm and keep frame. Good points. But your mistake was inaction! It sounds like you spent the night analyzing the dynamics between your date and your friend instead of talking/flirting with her fr…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 03:35 PM
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An all-female mission to Mars? Why not. It was a success in the Dutch version of Survivor. And don't forget the women-only TV company.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 12:04 PM
6

This. Without saying a word just walk away and cut all contact.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 12:55 AM
2

So you are mad because he called German women in particular bitches and sluts? @OP Someone started a German redpill sub. Maybe someone can link it here. Edit: I found it. r/de_dierotepille
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 11:21 PM
1

This is no feel good bullshit. What you describe is the easy path that leads to security. No risk involved. Slave away for ten years and then follow your dreams. What do you think what happens after ten years? People adjust their lifestyle to their income. "I can't quit yet, I have bills to pay. And I want a new car." "Just one more year" "Just one more year" The other path is a hard one, with setbacks and deprivations, but at the end it leads to freedom. Have a look at some of the most succesfu…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 09:55 PM
1

I don't get it. So what happens if I'm listed?
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 09:23 PM
1

I believe that altruism is a harming way of thinking and acting, especially for your own health. Your needs should be a priority!
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 07:40 PM
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Your profession has nothing to do with your sexual strategy. You have a passion for teaching. So what do you want? Living your dreams or living other people's dreams? You can be in a lower income bracket with a profession you love, or be in the top income bracket with a profession you do not like. If you think you are capable of more, ask yourself what you want! Why are you asking stranger?
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 07:16 PM
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Note: sexual texting should be clever, suggestive, and SHORT. Pretend text message characters are like water in the desert. You have better things to do than type out a novel. Example, she mentioned that she needed a B on her test that day. I responded with "sry I only have D... No B" which worked wonderfully to escalate the sexual language in the conversation. You are right, but only for dropping sexual innuendo. Sexting is different. A trick I think works well for setting up quick turn around …
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 01:37 PM
2

You can say it without insulting her. "I dont like girls ignoring me , go eat a dick, bye" Here you sound more indifferent.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 12:11 PM
2

How did you managed to bring both girls into your room without getting cockblocked by Jess? So after Jess puked they returned and you managed to get a blowjob from both? They left their friend? There was still sexual tension after this?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 08:55 PM
2

Okay. I'm gonna copy some things I already posted in the last days. The standards you have for women, they must be applied to yourself as well. Are you mentally, physically and emotionally healthy? You are insecure about your height, your face, baldness......accept what you can not change. You physical appearance is just a part of the whole package. Women would prefer a less attractive man with great personality than a very attractive man with bad personality! Are you desirable by other women? R…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 10:01 PM
1

Can you please describe what traits/features you are looking for in a quality women?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 09:25 PM
7

Moving to another country because of women is stupid. But you do not sound like someone who seeks the easy way with women. I lived/travelled in China for a few months, best experience in my life so far. Edit: Okay. Your post history gives me another picture. You are right, your life needs a drastic change, but this won't help. I guess you are fairly new to this so I highly recommend you to read the recommended books and the sidebar!
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 03:02 PM
5

Women detect this because you are sending this vibe. I don't know what it is, probably something really subtle, but you are showing neediness.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 11:19 PM
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Guys talk about themselves too much; bragging about how much they make, what car they drive, how much they bench, etc. This shows a lack of confidence and a desperation to impress. Lesson: Confidence should be in your posture and how you hold yourself. Silent. Be a closed book. See the post by fluviant. You are not allowed to link post from the The Redpill sub itself? She talked about how the guys were unable to take rejection. This struck me because she could tell BEFORE she actually rejected t…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 09:33 AM
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You are not insecure? You are wearing lifts, you ask your girlfriend to put make-up on you, you would wear a wig as soon as you go fully bald and my favorite, you are calling yourself dark triad.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 12:36 AM
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I see two outcomes after his meltdown: He gets his shit together and start focusing on the important things. He gets caught up in the maelstrom of bitterness and frustration. This guy needs help. If he chooses the first path, he'll probably find help on his own. The second path ends badly and with at least one fatality.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 02:03 PM
16

I've had more successful relationships than all my pretty friends combined. I think we have a different definition for success.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 02:36 PM
1

Well, rejection requires one of two solutions: Lower your standards Iincrease your standards in yourself The standards you have for women, they must be applied to yourself as well.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 06:25 PM
0

Try it yourself if you want to know if it works or not. Looks over money over status. I have to disagree with this. You physical appearance is just a part of the whole package. Like I said yesterday in another post: Women would prefer a less attractive man with great personality than a very attractive man with bad personality! Personality > Looks Your personality traits have a bigger impact on your status, money, success......
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 05:16 PM
0

I'm talking about risking your health when it could be easily avoided, Snowflake.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 08:58 PM
0

You don't have to agree with me, but stop twisting my words. This is not my definition of action. I'm talking about a man who cares about the lifes of his men. I'm talking about a leader. You are pretending like there were only two options, run like a coward or being unfazed and wait. A man not acting when it's necessary is failing.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 08:54 PM
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I'll give you another perspective. Do you really think he would have lost the respect of his comrades if he said with a calm but confidend voice "We should take cover"? Do you really think this would have been taken as a sign of cowardliness? I learned from this video about how not to lose myself under pressure, to keep calm, to keep an unfazed appearance no matter what hits you, and to act brave so that people may stick with you and learn to look at you as a leader. He failed as a leader. Great…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 07:52 PM
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I am learning nothing from this video. Like you said, there is a line between being brave and being a fool. What you guys don't see is his responsibility and how he failed in this situation. The shrapnel shows how dangerous it was. His behavior confused one soldier so he stopped and turned back. The same soldier almost got hit. His behavior implied to the journalists that they are safe, so they kept filming and interviewing. Taking cover is not bringing the morale down. Dead comrades do. My poin…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:05 PM
2

I guess even your so called Ketonazis do not oppose the energy in and energy out theory. I know that you can have a healthy and balanced nutrition on a Low-carb diet, on Keto and with Carbs. What about vegetarians or vegans? It is not just that way. Studies have shown that Keto has its pro and cons. Studies have also shown that your diet has its pro and cons.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:55 PM
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He was risking his life and of the people around him! If he was in charge than he was the one who exposed the people around him to a life-threatening risk! He did not panic. He kept calm. But he did not lead! Taking cover is the right thing to do, this was just plain stupid.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:04 PM
2

I was not blaming nature. It was an ironic allusion to one of OPs points.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 03:51 PM
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Risking your health is not holding frame. Well, the camera man kept filming.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 03:22 PM
9

Men are shallow! We are not attracted to her achievements, her intellect or her status. You could meet a Nobel Prize winning, wealthy and innocent woman with a redpill mindset and we would still not be attracted to her because of how she looked. Her personality is irrelevant for her initial SMV. Women know this and that's why they are obsessed with their beauty. Putting make-up on, wearing high-heels, shopping, getting their nails done and reading magazines about patriarchy's unfair beauty stand…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 01:01 PM
1

Well, only one person can have such a low SMV that can never be significantly increased: A dead person. In my opinion men tend to exaggerate the issue with their lack of sexual experience. I can't remember who said this, but women are reflective. If you are nervouss, she will be nervouss. If you are fun, she will be fun. What are you afraid of? I guess you just started your journey. Read the sidebar, read the recommended books, read the top posts. Google how to train your voice, I'm pretty sure …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 09:38 PM
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You can let her know you want her without the typical mistakes beta guys make. Being open and friendly without losing frame is possible. Your mindset should be: I want her but I do not need her! This means you show her that you are interested (eye contact, ask questions, touch her...) but at the same time you keep frame (not tolerating disrespect, don't be afraid to disagree with her...) which shows her that you are willing to walk away.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 08:42 PM
1

Pook and the Mill I do not think Pook and the Mill (his blog) is written by Pook. The author tries to copy the Pook but it is a different writing style.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 07:33 PM
2

I like your response, but her question does not necessarily mean that she is evaluating you as a provider. "Take a guess" "A doctor" And you can let her talk with further questions. "Why do you think I'm a doctor?" "What kind of doctor?" "Why do women like doctors?"
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 03:34 PM
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Let's say quietness instead of shyness. You have a completely misleading image of introverts. Beta men can be extravert. Alpha men can be introvert.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 02:18 PM
2

I would like to add, that you should reveal personal information as a reward. For me it is a big IOI if a woman tells me I'm a mystery. They just can't figure me out and this drives them somehow crazy. I'm not sure what RedPillSafe is trying to say, but introverts should use their quietness as an advantage! You are a challenge to her because she can't define you. Stop telling her your lifestory. Stop talking about religion, politics, family, emotions, your future plans and so on. Just listen, as…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 01:51 PM
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Everyone who's making his living from blogging is going to adjust his content to ensure his income and growth. You should be cautious with new content. For example Roosh: He has two blogs, a forum, a youtube channel, started a subreddit and I'm pretty sure he or his writers are submitting ROK articles on a regular basis to this subreddit. The ROK blog uses the same approach as other clickbait blogs, like buzzfeed or cracked. It is sometimes entertaining, sometimes educational, sometimes offendin…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 11:48 AM
1

Almost all of your problems can be fixed. You don't need us to tell you this. Your whole mindset is fucked up. Im too broke to wear great clothes, but I do my best. Usually brand shorts and a tank. Maybe a little diamond supply, but no versace or anything. Clothes should fit! Great clothes don't need to be expensive. I've never been treated worse because I wear a H&M shirt instead of wearing a diamond on my chest. I talk with a slight lisp This can be fixed. I wish I didnt stutter This can be fi…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 01:34 PM
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According to a recent Mail survey of 1000 married ladies, half of all women have a backup husband in mind should their current one break during use. Me too, in case a plate flakes out on me. The difference is my backup plate is real. Are you guys really suprised?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 01:12 PM
1

It is never a proper discussion. It always tends to be emotional and you'll probably never achieve a compromise. I've spend some time abroad and during my travels I've learned one important thing: Never discuss politics and religion! I've seen friends and even managerial staff argue on this topics and it always ends bad.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 11:47 AM
2

Why? I see no basis for your assumption.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 11:35 AM
1

How old is this video? His canned material was probably original at that time.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:13 PM
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Never. Some girls asked, but I refused. Always handled the request as a shittest. "I thought women have a good imagination" or "I'll send you something more tempting" and send her a picture of some Cookies.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:41 PM
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Remember Dave Chappelle's "Love Contract Skit"?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 12:23 PM
4

This won't just affect your grade in this class. Your classmates and teacher will peg you as a Redpiller/MRA. Let sleeping dogs lie.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 12:48 AM
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You could write a perfectly researched, objective and unbiased paper on this topic, but I assure you, you won't get scored on the same premise. Do you really want to do this?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 12:30 AM
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Haha. I knew you would turn the tables. Sorry, without further proof I see no basis to attest her to be a manipulative bitch.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 05:52 PM
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You exaggerate the danger. Every woman is manipulative and passive-aggressive. Okay. Let me add some points to your psychological profile of her based on one incident. She is saying that things are equal and we need to take responsibility. Sounds like she realised that she made a mistake, but she wants to share the responsibility. I don't know if a vicious manipulative bitch would acknowledge a mistake, especially if she's at her mothers house and could tell her story. She blocks the door for me…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 05:04 PM
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And you are making a mountain out of a molehill. Yes the child was scared. But both of them scared her! She did not scare the child on purpose to get her way, that's not what happened. You're acting like she got a knife on her throat. I'm not saying he can save this by making her apologize. I'm saying he can save this by holding frame. Show her that this behaviour is not acceptable, and as soon as she do realise this it won't happen again. He already did by telling her he would divorce her if sh…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 04:02 PM
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Are you serious? OP lost frame, but this is not as bad as you describe. This happens when you start changes and his wife reacted to this. She's shittesting him. Her threats to call the police and getting physical over a fucking breakfast dispute shows me, that she had no other options left. He kept frame up to this point. As soon as he saw his scared child he lost frame. He let her take the child. He should have let the child eat and call her out on her childish behaviour. Tell her they'll discu…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 03:27 PM
1

Well, I witness some feminine traits. Your diary (blog) and the emotional reaction to my post for example. I can't deny that. I'm confused.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 03:53 PM
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13 posts in the last week. Every single one is linked to your blog. Some of the posts are so short I just can't see what you want to achieve with it. Of course you see the donate button at first glance. Stop it! If you would contribute something with content, something you put effort into, I would have no problem with it. Now you can accuse me of concern trolling.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 03:02 PM
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Do not provide any form of pressure against you! Avoid contact between her and your LTR. Avoid contact with her if it is not necessary. Talk to a lawyer if it is possible to seek custody again and reduce your payments. Record as much as possible just in case. It's like with the police, everything you say or do will be used against you.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 07:53 PM
14

Joe Rogan says what I wanted to write. It is not fair! "Her" physical abilities exceed those of any female born opponent.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 07:02 PM
2

Return of Kings published an article on the business of clickbait?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 05:44 PM
1

First of all, I'm pretty sure it was a shittest. What exactly did she say? Use your voice! I'm sure you've heard that 55% is body language, 38% is tone, 7% words in communication. You could argue about the numbers, but your voice plays a significant role! You could have said something like "Your voice matches you" and let her hamster spin. It's time to work on your physical appearance to lower the contrast.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 04:32 PM
1

The problem here is the purpose of his actions.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 12:08 PM
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So, you intimidated some guys to get free entrance? And now you are bragging about it and make fun of them online? Good job, OP.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 06:23 PM
2

I think this is the wrong approach. She'll not respect you anymore, so why do you think she'll not let your LTR know? Her hamster will convince her that this is the right thing to do. You are the cheater and your LTR has the right know. You got yourself into a dilemma.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 02:26 PM
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I've read it. But the quoted part shows me that you underestimate the situation. The problem is not solved with some concessions. She still has the upper hand in this situation and I assure you she'll use it.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 12:51 PM
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She made me wait 18 hours, until sunday morning before coming to her decision. In exchange for certain concessions, she would not only not reveal what she knew, but she would also return to plate status. The majority of these concessions were in the form of token gifts. Total value less than $200/£130 and since she actually out earns me it aint exactly like she was milking me for financial gain. Flowers, a dinner date. And an end to the exclusivity terms that existed between us. She blackmailed …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 12:12 PM
1

This mindset vanishes with self improvement. Your focus should be on yourself. The most common advice you hear in this sub is lifting. And it is true, working out improves various factors of your SMV, not only your physical appearance. But instead of going to the gym you could join a boxing club or start swimming. Maybe it is something you enjoy more than lifting. What I'm trying to say is that your interests and hobbies will slowly change you physically and mentally. If you want to climb the K2…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 11:18 PM
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You said it. You're wasting your energy on the wrong things. The most important thing should be your education. Focus on your study. As soon as people notice that you are successful or good at something, they'll approach you. Don't let somebody take advantage of you. For example, don't join a study group if it does not provide any benefit for you. What are your leisure activities? Join a sports team or do some volunteer work. Socialize! Do something you really enjoy. Live. Laugh. Love. Notice th…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 04:13 PM
1

Really? Is teaching English that well paid in Japan?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 02:05 PM
1

I'm pretty sure you won't be able to provide for yourself with just teaching English in Japan. Correct me if I am wrong.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 11:12 AM
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Lighten up and go get laid http://i.imgur.com/QbUjD.gif This is equivalent to a woman telling me to "man up" to win an argument.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 11:05 AM
0

In this situation he broke frame. I don't care who cares. I just mentioned what was a mistake in my opinion. So, because he got laid there is no need for suggestions?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 10:43 AM
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I remember a discussion about homosexuality in this sub and it ended with user cursing at each other and discussing it on a emotional basis. It was a mess. It is hardly to believe that this won't be the case here.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 09:27 PM
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Both of them have bad spending habits. Why is he driving a M-Class Benz (40,000 debt) with $30,000 in credit card debt? The advice he received is even worse than their spending habits. This post has caused quite the uproar. I'd like to clarify a few points. First, I didn't address the financials in the question, because I don't think the answers would actually help him. In my professional opinion, although he has significant financial problems, his primary issue has nothing to do with money. Wha…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 06:47 PM
0

You rewarded her bargaining with sex. She was submissive at your place, not in the text conversation.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 05:02 PM
1

Even with the long pause I feel like you fell into her frame. She had her way after all by using sex.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 04:15 PM
1

Her: "Plus I really want you." Me: "ok come over." In my opinion this was a mistake. You was not consistent and somehow fell into her frame. I wouldn't give in to her in this situation.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 01:29 PM
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The "scandal" turned out to be an excuse for an Internet harassment campaign against a random indie game developer who, like many such targets, was a female and a feminist. And this is where I stopped reading. This is a clickbait article and Zoe Quinn is used here to generate traffic. The wording is aimed to provoke people and it works. I see threads and posts discussing this article. "There is only one thing in life worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about." - Oscar Wil…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 01:01 PM
0

I do not believe it is a good idea to start a "rehab method" on your own. Especially deadlifts and with his back problems. He needs an expert on his side. With regard to his health issue I do believe it is advisable to do compound exercises, or even lifting, and hope for the best. Maybe it is just a pinched nerve, maybe something more serious. We don't know.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 04:23 PM
3

It all comes down to waist-to hip ratio and waist-to-shoulder ratio.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 11:20 AM
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As soon as your focus is on yourself and your goals women will notice you and you have to deal with them. I do not believe it is a good idea to neglect your social interactions. Being social plays a major role across the board. So you will meet women and you should approach them! I would suggest you to make a plan. Where are you now? What is your goal? Make a list of goals that you want to achieve in this period. Im talking about Career, Friends, Family, Health, Soft Skills, Savings and Investin…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 11:00 AM
2

What are you talking? You mean he should do heavy compound exercises with his back?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 10:12 AM
0

You misread my post. It was an allusion to his question if he swallowed the pill. A joke, nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 10:37 PM
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Your ex.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:50 PM
2

I understand this. Correct me if I'm wrong but was it not possible to punish him with a fine or probation? This is a downward spiral she started.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:38 PM
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Is there nothing you can do about that? This makes no logical sense. Can you legally doubt the mental capacity of the judge to practise such profession?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:42 PM
1

What are you trying to say? Where are your numbers from, or are they selected arbitrarily? I am inclined to doubt whether this was one of the reasons the communism collapsed.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:13 PM
1

TLDR: Could have fucked a milf if it weren't for a friend that knows how to seduce women, she chose him over me, but he didn't want to fuck her in the end. I am a total beta. Please help me... Are you sure you could have fucked her even if you two were alone? It does not sound like it. Your friends are not the problem.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 11:33 AM
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I'm pretty sure she'll leave the cats with him.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 11:01 AM
2

I recommend you to read the rest of his stuff. http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/book_of_pook.pdf
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 09:18 PM
1

It affects everybody. Look at Kevin Hart. You know why we look better in suits, because suits are designed to make men seem broader in the shoulders. It is a a very masculine trait and a good indicator of health and strength. The “V” taper is created by broad shoulders and a narrow waist. This is something women are instinctively attracted to. It is in their genes.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 12:32 AM
7

You are right, his height has a significant effect. Maybe not these reactions but you'll get positive reactions with a more athletic/ripped look.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 06:20 PM
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A good read is Pook's post "What Every Skinny Guy Should Know", where he describes the reactions and differences as he got more muscular. What Every Skinny Guy Should Know Smart, fun, and interesting. So why is it that all the beautiful women always seem out of your grasp? Why!? You may even be athletic. You can do karate, can run super fast around the track, along with other things. So why does it seem you can get the average to cute girls but the very attractive women seem out of your reach? W…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 03:16 PM
2

Every sexual innuendo or attempt to direct the interaction in a sexual matter you ruined yourself. 1. That "lol" at the end. 2. "Sorry that was my brother" 3. You blame your brother again. Why do you qualify yourself? I have no idea what "maccas" is, but this was your chance to arrange something. Something like "We should have a drink and maybe some maccas, if you behave.". Edit: She even hinted a few times that she wants to see you.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 01:42 PM
8

The first and most important thing to do is cut all contact to your ex. Delete and block her number, social media, email and so on. She's not your friend!
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 11:19 AM
16

So I've read in this week two articles somehow related to eachother. In one a woman is complaining that she was not served in a men's barber shop. And now we have a business model which excludes males. The reactions are as expected.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 01:24 AM
2

So I've read your answers and you are hamstering your emotional mind games away under the pretence of "actually doing her good". You have a shy and insecure 22 yo and you are trying help her to improve herself by doing these things? Buy her syrup and massage her tits believing they will grow? 22 years old! Stop raising her hopes, this affirms her insecurities. This whole social experiment, like you call it, is not focused on her self improvement. This is some Machiavellianism, but I'm pretty sur…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 02:42 PM
3

You're cutting your own throat. Why are you playing games with her, especially considering that you are working together? If there is no reason why start these mind games? For the lulz? I'm pretty sure it will be funny as hell if she starts crying in the office, all colleagues start to comfort her and ask her whats wrong and your bullshit backfires. There it goes, your reputation.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:26 AM
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I googled her and found her tumblr (suprise). First of all she is a Health Coach. And she has an average bodytype, with a few extra pounds. According to her he admitted it! So if she's lying: Why does he not take legal measure? She should be able to provide the texts if it is true. Why is her review still on yelp? Contact yelp and delete it! Inform the corporate office. Oppse this bullshit!
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:49 PM
7

When it was put to him that, over that two-and-half year period the woman sent the pictures, and a number of videos, she didn't act in their interests, the man refused to accept that this was the case. I really hope his family/friends give him a piece of their mind. Now he is the one who does not act in their interests.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 11:02 AM
4

This comment should be on top.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 12:53 PM
12

What do you expect? I would say she's the only one who handled this whole situation accordingly. She confirmed it's her and she's not amused. That's all what her Tweet says. Don't make a mountain out of a molehill.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 10:44 AM
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The documentary is really bad, compared to the one in the sidebar. So is Sweden taking this serious and there is a discussion on Swedish school books in Physics or is this just something a small group of extreme gender-warriors trying to establish?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 09:54 PM
1

Even when she was lying, why leaving a note? Who knows how she'll react to this.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 07:36 PM
5

So you reminded her that she was cheating when you left?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 06:59 PM
2

This is a troll! A really bad one.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 03:12 PM
0

Just another perspective on this situation. Is it possible, that you did not show her that you can take charge and lead? Why did she asked you this in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 07:06 PM
1

Hold on a second. You are not allowing your ex to sleep over at a friends house? She's your ex! It is sexual, so it counts.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 03:32 PM
2

There is a link between depression and low levels of testosterone. Your lifestyle affects your testosterone. There is a chapter on testosterone and its effects in Book of Pook.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 12:34 PM
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Labeled as a whore by the Supreme Court. What a privilege.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 11:52 AM
1

What is the difference between The Book of Pook and The Book of Pook & The Mill? I've read The Book of Pook many times, and I will read it again.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 04:14 PM
3

I really like his work. I rememeber a podcast with David Choe and him, he was in China at that time if my memory is correct. He did not want to reveal why he moved, now I know why.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 12:22 PM
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The story is kind of hard to believe. Sounds like a spanish telenovela. But if it is true I'm doubtful if it's his child.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 11:28 AM
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This appears to be the case. I've never met somebody who let oneself go on a christmas party or business trip. This would damage their reputation. One slip could ruin your career.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 04:06 PM
-18

No it is not. Nobody wants to give a bad impression to their colleagues and employer. Maybe some of you guys got drunk during those trips but in my experience this is not what usually happens.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 02:44 PM
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I think it is a team building trip, so it is a work trip. Like I said, if the situation with her colleague did not occur I don't see any problem with this trip.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 02:33 PM
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Why is this a red flag? Playing poker with her new colleagues? It is a work related trip. Like he said, as an new employee skipping this trip would be bad. Without the whole situation I don't see any problems with this trip. There are red flags but not these two points. Not every human interaction constitutes a threat for your relationship.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 01:42 PM
4

She is funny. Are you sure it wasn't a joke? You could have answered that it was her best joke yet.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 12:55 AM
3

This post is bullshit. The guys you described are cowards. Yes, they do not place women on a pedestal, their behaviour portray some alpha traits. But at the same time they have no respect for anything. These are the guys who'll stomp your head to the curb. Some of my personal perception of these kind of guys: they are kids/teens, even if they're in their late 20s they are still immature they are insecure as fuck this is also the type of women/girls they score: teens/immature whores they have som…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 02:43 PM
1

Anyways man, let the success go to your head and make you more confident. That confidence will make you more attractive which will give you more success and give you more confidence. It creates a cycle for you. In my opinion that's wrong. That's not success. If you're nervous and still talked to her, that's success. Challenge yourself, get out of your comfort zone, be the nervous one. This creates a cycle and makes you more confident!
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 12:28 PM
2

Please send more sexy pics. I don't know how he got the idea that offering her hugs and kisses was appropriate.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 12:24 PM
3

This is something I have trouble to understand. The different perception on debt between USA and Germany for example.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 09:33 PM
2

Pook and The Mill What is the difference between this book and The Book of Pook? I thought Pook and the Mill was his blog.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 01:38 PM
5

If he's wrong, well then call him out and let his comment get downvoted. Why delete it? Some guys accused me of concern trolling too. I don't remember what the topic was but as soon as somebody wrote I was maybe concern trolling I got downvoted as fuck. The bandwagon was overloaded. So do I have to expect to get banned because of an opposing opinion? No room for discussion? Edit: I remember the topic. It was about RoK and their content, what a coincidence. I said that Roosh became due to his blo…
/r/askTRP15/07/14 05:59 PM
6

So married guys, when she's says your the best she ever had she's lying. Of course. What about the other 45%? Where is your source?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 10:47 AM
1

I thought it's not allowed to start a sub in a foreign language. Don't know why I never checked it if it's true.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 12:32 PM
2

Serious question: How do you wipe your ass? I had a friend who broke both of his arms, but I never asked him.
/r/askTRP12/07/14 04:15 PM
6

You lost frame with this post. You sound insecure and needy.
/r/askTRP11/07/14 10:48 AM
3

I don't know. It sounds like she's a crazy bitch and most people already know it or starting to realise it. The problem I have with this story is the possibility that your roommate is not gulity and in jail because of her. I'm not sure how to handle this situation.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 12:47 AM
2

Are you sure the last sentence wasnt a shit test? I don't know if you should reply. If you like to reply I would write something like: "Okay. Plan B." Edit: I missed the part, that you haven't slept with her yet. Now the sexting reads like she's been not serious and just playing with you.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 11:04 PM
1

You are not the only one who looks really young. I am also 28 and sometimes I have to show my ID to buy some alcohol (Legal age in Germany is 18). I'm pretty sure I'm gonna end like Jim Parsons, still looking like in my early twenties at the age of fourty. There is nothing you can do about it. Well you could start heavy drinking, smoking cigarettes and crystal meth, but I think that's not an option. I stopped worrying about it. So you approach women of your own age? I do not have problems with a…
/r/askTRP06/07/14 05:18 PM
4

This. I stopped reading their articles after their hype with the eating disorder article. Like I said before: Everyone who's making his living from blogging is going to adjust his content to ensure his income and growth.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 11:54 AM
1

Why don't you make fun of him? If he starts giving you shit embarrass him in front of the others. Let him lose his frame. As soon as he realise that it backfires he'll stop.
/r/askTRP05/07/14 08:38 PM
15

According to a police report, Bethel responded to Battle's actions by causing serious bodily injury with "hands, fists, feet, etc." This does not sound like he was just defending himself.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 12:37 AM
5

You don't need steroids. You'll make good progress as a newbie if you train and eat right. Start reading. What about your social skills? I mean besides game. I don't know if it is necessary but consider working on your voice and speech pattern, your style, body language and posture.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 06:54 PM
1

And this is getting downvoted? He's correct.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 09:00 PM
10

So you did steroids and cutting down to 5% bf just for yourself? I doubt it.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 12:53 PM
1

Exactly. I don't take this campaigns serious and I dont care. I know better. It's business.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 05:41 AM
1

This. Dread game is the solution here.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 01:54 PM
2

Really? A porn? Your alpha guy is cringeworthy, sometimes he seems mentally retarded to me.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 01:29 PM
6

Did somebody messaged him this sub? Push him into the water. Either he starts to swim or drowns in his own inability.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 05:13 PM
3

Nobody is talking about forcing him to do something. I just see more value in other activities.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 05:57 PM
3

He's young and in my opinion his motivation should not be wasted in the gym. Like I said, I think a team sport would benefit him more. Even if he wants to improve his physical appearance I would suggest to join a boxing club or a swim club. With a sport he'll not only improve his physical appearance but also learn rspect, appreciation, tolerance, commitment, leadership, the organisation for an event, accepting defeats and so on. In my observation most of the teens who start lifting tend to overd…
/r/askTRP23/06/14 03:53 PM
114

My friend owns a gym, he says his best customers are women. They sign a two-year membership and most of the you'll see maybe ones a month.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 11:13 AM
1

Topkek.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 09:13 AM
2

So what is the problem? My impression is she likes it, that's why she smiled.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 08:48 AM
5

No, he do not need to lift weights! He's 13 and I think a team sport would benefit him more.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 08:38 AM
2

The problem is, everyone who's making his living from blogging is going to adjust his content to ensure his income and growth.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 02:24 PM
3

The most valuable experiences I have gained during my travels, especially in countries with a complete different culture. Grab a small case, a book and visit a place out of your comfort zone. It's just one week and in my opinion this is the best you can do.
/r/askTRP07/06/14 10:00 PM
3

Act like you don't remember her? This is ridiculous and seems really false. Just be friendly, maybe a little bit indifferent. Just like you met an old workmate again.
/r/askTRP07/06/14 12:18 PM
2

Some people here really need to change their mindset about money.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 12:25 AM
2

"This explains my hiccups" In Germany there is a saying that you get a hiccup if somebody is thinking about you.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 08:04 AM
1

Sounds like his best joke.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 11:58 PM
1

Reports on human trafficking show conflicting evidence between a regulated sex industry and human trafficking. The feminist Alice Schwarzer would like to copy the approach in Sweden, where it is illegal to buy sexual services but not to sell them. Literally a Pussy pass. But this approach failed and even worsened the situation for the sex workers. It's not possible to ban prostitution. In my opinion it's also not possible to conduct a debate in an objective and transparent manner. Prostitution r…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 01:19 PM
9

Hopefully that emergency was not a pregnancy.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 11:18 AM
3

The problem here is that your presence/work shows her how useless she is. You are a threat. You endanger her job. I see two options: You work together. You'll have to tell her that she needs to educate herself and get her shit together. But tell it sensitively. "We have to find a way to work more productive together", "We have to fix this problem" She needs to go. I don't know how popular she is and if it is a good idea to be responsible for her layoff as a new employee. Maybe there is some HR-R…
/r/askTRP15/05/14 08:12 PM
1

At first I wanted to tell her, but then I just did not care. It happened, there is no need to discuss it because I'm not interested in her and I see no value in it. Maybe she would apologize, cry, try even harder.......but there is no benefit. I'm pretty sure she knows the reason.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 07:19 PM
2

Consider going on an action date. Hiking, bowling, pool, the zoo.... This will ease the tension.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 10:37 AM
2

The person that reacted to my betaness, was a nasty one, and I don't know whether to see that as a personal flaw in her, or just something that all women would do, because what I saw was a nasty, entitled and disrespectful girl. Of course she is mother Teresa when my game is up to par. Up to a certain level it is what all women would do. But what you are describing here I get the impression that this is a personal flaw. Are you attracted to her? I was in a similar situation. I lost my interest. …
/r/askTRP14/05/14 11:14 PM
0

Why is TRP always anxious about cheating? OP said they are both happy. It is her favorite musician and she knows her ex for over a decade. It is the father of her son. They are both fans. Are you guys that insecure that you have to question every fucking situation? If she is unfaithful, next her. But I don't see any signs of infidelity and I don't have the nerves and time to question every step my girlfriend takes. I take action if it is necessary and not due to vague suspicions. Call it ignoran…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 12:18 AM
5

The police did not see what happened before. As soon as they arrived he was the aggressor. I would let the matter rest after she stopped. She's on drugs and there was no serious damage. Let the ploice take care of her.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 08:18 PM
-9

In my opinion you should not be concerned. Ten years relationship, father of her son. There is and will be a connection - this does not mean there is a sexual connection.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 08:04 PM
3

Print it. Or buy an eReader. In both cases your investment is worthwhile because you'll read it again. And again. I would prefer the eReader.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 07:27 PM
3

I'm asking myself how does he feel about his lost years? I don't know how I would react, but I'm pretty sure there would be a phase of pure hate against those two girls and be hellbent on vengeance.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 01:39 PM
2

Whilst at the same time the European guy showed beta traits too. I just wanted to point that out. His hug and 1.39 is also cringeworthy.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 01:15 AM
-4

A European scores an Asian chick. We know they love tall blonde guys and I think that's the only reason why he succeded. The only think he did right was when he lifted her and started to lead. Seriously, he looked like a fool before. I laughed when he tried to part their hands at 1.37 and the guy turned around. I was warned to mess around with girls from other groups. During my stay in China I overheard a few situations where somebody got beaten up. You don't know who this guy is. People who can…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 12:05 AM
1

I do not expect an eureka moment in every post. But it is hard to find quality posts. TRP was the reason why I registered to reddit and now I see almost no value in lurking here. I understand it is because of the growing number of subscribers and there is nothing you can do about this. So I think I'll invest my time in other things and just check TRP once a week. Forget my post it was just a rant.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 09:11 PM
9

Recently 90% of TRPs content is trash.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 07:10 PM
6

If there is ONE thing a man must NEVER do to a woman, it is this: DO NOT BORE HER. Book of Pook
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 05:06 PM
18

A classic in Germany.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 10:15 AM
2

I want to go skiing. I go! Maybe some dread game would have lead to the same outcome, if not you are still holding frame and had fun skiing. In this case she won.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 07:35 PM
3

This. Force yourself to do something. Going to the gym, travel, start a new project (a blog, learning a new language or some small DIY furniture).
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 12:18 PM
7

I prefer the poker face. Not even a smile. I don't know if I could pull this off but I think this reaction would bother her the most. Especially if you cut all contact. She'll go crazy.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 09:20 PM
2

This is hilarious. Guys will be confused if they apply some of the dread game related suggestions
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 05:04 PM
20

It's just a staff discount, guess who baked them.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 01:37 PM
0

Are you serious? Your explanation begs the question.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 01:54 PM
0

I can see her username in one of the pictures. Edit: Part one.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 01:36 PM
26

It is just a matter of time until her family plans becomes an issue in your relationship. Act right now.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 09:40 AM
10

I've never been in the US or Canada, so I can't compare. German women dress less feminine compared to Eastern European Countries. They prefer a comfortable look and natural make up. Most of them only get dolled up for special occasions or if they go clubbing. To say that German women are fat or ugly is nonsense. I think we are far more uptight in Germany than the United States regarding sexual relationships. It's uncommon to have casual sex or a fuck buddy. It depends on the location. Big Cities…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 05:41 PM
0

I am sure that was your plan, give her a taste of her own medicine. So she was paying for you while you had fun with friends and getting your dick wet? Let's just change the roles here.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 12:01 PM
27

But I pay taxes!?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 10:00 PM
13

Good point about the dread game. I did not noticed this.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 07:43 PM
207

Nice guys finish last. Scientifically proven.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 07:07 PM
4

Another example is a straight man going to prison, getting beaten and raped for years/months, and then feels an urge to fuck men. Without a psychologist helping him, it's hard to reverse the programming. Are there any sources/studies for this behavior? Serious question.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 04:49 PM
10

This reminds me of David Reimer. Everytime when someone says gender is learned rather than innate I mention this story..............in most cases this is the end of the discussion.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 04:25 PM
-3

I don't know. Maybe: Lead!
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 12:15 AM
2

"So far"
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 03:58 PM
3

They already had no sex when they got married. She allows him to have sex with other women but he refuses. He wants to spend his life with her. I'm speechless.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 12:32 PM
1

You are choosing your LTR partner through chats? You are not spinning plates, you are texting with two girls. You shouldn't even thinking about a LTR at this moment.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 11:57 AM
6

Hey Sarah.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 08:15 PM
1

You can't have a well-founded opinion on this because there is not enough information. Out of respect for all parties involved we have no further comment Just wait and do not start prejudgment.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 04:55 PM
2

You can't change the innate sound of your voice but some guys do not speak with their real voice. There are some exercises that improve your voice, for example the breathing and in some cases the natural voice is deeper. Oh by the way some say over 30% of communication is your voice (tone, inflection, etc).
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 01:38 PM
2

Sounds like it is not a big deal. This reminds me of a trend. I think it was Brazil where guys remove their incisor teeth to look more appealing.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 01:59 PM
2

How bad is it? Like ribery? It is the same issue with height or a big nose people make a mountain out of a molehill.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 10:14 AM
1

Still can't believe this guy is getting married.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 11:03 PM
2

I would like to know if it is also that easy to throw out a prenup in Germany?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 03:06 PM
28

Well you guys put her in this uncompfortable position.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 02:33 PM
13

I think I was 20 at that time but looked like 15. I knew I looked very young but friends and familiy said "don't worry you just a late bloomer". Girls added "you are cute". So we had a small party at a friends house and planned to hit the club later. On my way to the bathroom I overheard the girls talking with an older guy in the kitchen. They said they are really excited and a little bit worried cause some of the girls are still under 18. I thought I will join them for a couple of minutes but o…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 01:00 AM
30

26 comments. 90% is bullshit. I was in the same position and I am really thankful for the guy who told me the painful truth. All my freinds and family told me this be yourself crap and this guy I just met during a party destroyed my comfort world and forced me to rebuild my existence. I have never met him again.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 04:19 PM
1

Is your nickname an innuendo to the russian word голубой?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 01:14 PM
17

I think this could backfire. Do not initiate contact with her.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 02:40 PM
9

Keep calm and do not apologize! Do you plan to defend your position? I would insist to know what exactly the allegations are and not some vague inappropriate touching.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 02:23 PM
2

Spanish is easier and more useful.
/r/askTRP05/02/14 12:22 PM
0

I went through your post history and my conclusion is that this field report is a figment of your imagination.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 01:25 AM
8

I lived in China for a few months and their expectations are ridiculous. A car, an apartment/house, savings and said monthly salary........well this is the top 1%.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 01:35 AM
2

This. Do not respond. I'm pretty sure she will text you again.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 12:53 AM
0

Rosh got his facebook pages deleted and now this. ROK is under attack.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 03:17 PM
5

Or you could surround him with other women. Let him realise that he has options. Let him spin plates!
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 12:29 PM
13

Switch to a binary rating system. If I'm attracted I approach.
/r/seduction28/01/14 08:29 AM
1

Choosing a university based on sex ratio is putting pussy on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 07:43 AM
8

Education!
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 04:48 PM
6

His sexual strategy worked on you?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 10:04 AM
4

That is ROKs intention: going viral. Seriously I see no value in this post.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 02:05 AM
2

What is a more productive way to change it?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 01:31 PM
10

Kino. That's it.
/r/seduction23/01/14 12:17 PM
1

I don't like the original version because it sounds like an insult. This is more a playful/teasing version. Just my two cents.
/r/seduction23/01/14 12:36 AM
10

I tried a similar experiment with a buddy. We tried to get rejected as soon as the woman drops a code word or signal. For example: You'll try to get rejected as soon as she asks you why you shirt is ripped (we jumped over a fence on that night) It was eye-opening how far you could push before you get rejected.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 06:22 PM
9

"Groß genug für deine Brüste"
/r/seduction22/01/14 04:19 PM
1

I would prefer to invest in the Chinese consumer market. Africa is extremely unstable politically and prone to crisis.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 11:20 AM
4

Somebody is going to hit the wall real hard.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 08:12 PM
5

This is devastating.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 10:33 PM
5

I once read an article that said that average women choosing skinny guys over big guys. Somebody who will more likely stick around and treat them well. From my experience it has a lot to do with your physique. I was being called cute a lot. After I gained over 10 kg muscle mass it almost stopped. Fat and ugly women stopped hitting on me.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 02:01 AM
2

Are you skinny?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 01:26 AM
-4

This is a tightrope walk. Especially with somebody you just met.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 01:37 PM
4

If you want to dominate do not ask for permission.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 12:22 PM
7

I offer workshops, lectures, and one-on-one coaching to help people create the happy, fulfilling sex lives and relationships they seek. With over 20 years of experience as a sexuality educator, I can help you increase the pleasure and joy in your life. Nobody is born knowing anything about sex, so we all have to learn it somewhere. If you have questions, let me help you find the answers. Yesterday I replied to another post: Everything you consume must be seen in its context! This is adressed to …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 02:28 AM
3

It was just a bet. Do not think its purpose was to cockblock you. It was your first date and somebody recognized it. But at the same time somebody was betting against it. Stop that negative mindset.
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:50 PM
1

Hold on. Did she invite you to her apartment?
/r/seduction17/01/14 02:09 AM
2

I'm not sure what do you expect. If there is no time keep it simple. Smile. Eye contact. Watch your body language. Kino.
/r/seduction17/01/14 01:38 AM
1

Text her that it was fun meeting her and that you are going to this event and she should join you. Do not ask!
/r/seduction16/01/14 11:33 PM
3

Live. Laugh. Love. Notice the order? Get your life together, make yourself happy, THEN go for the chicks. That's a quote from the Book of Pook.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 11:07 PM
92

Why is he dressed like this? He is asking for it.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 08:16 PM
1

It is hard to understand your intentions, especially as a non-native English speaker. I like Pook and his trains of thought. You decide if you let yourself to be influenced by what you consume. TV, news, books or music. It is on one's own responsibility! I have no interest in poetry or classic literature. I have tried it. I guess the message of this post is: Everything you consume must be seen in its context!
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 02:33 PM
3

It is not only about writing jokes. You realise that the simplest things in life could be hilarious, it depends on your perception. You also learn how important timing is to get across the punchline.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 02:25 AM
0

You know what helps? Stand up comedy! You should watch some stand up comedy shows on YouTube.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 02:17 AM
1

I am not looking for a LTR therefore I'm not testing my female acquaintances. I have a well-heeled friend and he also does not test his women. He has fun and she is allowed to join him. As soon as she reveals a spark of a gold-digging behaviour like "Lets eat at this fancy restaurant" or "I really really like this bag" he leaves her.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 10:54 PM
16

a very involved baby daddy. he sees our son every day. so i'm more than confident about my son not having a fucking shit head for a male role model. and his dad's a feminist. a feminist, ex-military man, who lifts, and makes more than 60K a year. This sounds like they are not together anymore. Maybe they never were. This sounds like it was an unplanned pregnancy. It is really important to mention that her baby daddy lifts and earns more than 60k a year to reinforce her viewpoint. In twenty years…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 08:22 PM
2

There is a small documentary named "The Gender Equality Paradox" with Harald Eia. This caused a budget cut for gender studies in Norway.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 10:42 AM
10

Maybe masturbated?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 10:17 AM
3

Instead of insulting him you could just inform him that this is the wrong sub and link him to the right one. I am keen to know which sub could help shaping ones future regarding personal growth, career and lifestyle. Maybe /r/BecomeaMan?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 01:01 AM
1

Any specifc situation?
/r/seduction14/01/14 01:30 PM
1

It is an industry. Simple as that. From a business perspective you want to attract new customers and improve the customer loyalty. You can't sell your bootcamps if you already revealed all your "secrets" in your blog, ebook or talk. One of Apple's or Samsung's strategy is planned obsolescence. The pick up industry uses mental masturbation, like you said. I'm not mad. I'm not naive.
/r/seduction14/01/14 12:58 PM
9

You'll really benefit from public speaking classes. It will improve your non verbal skills and therefore your overall appearance. Have fun.
/r/seduction14/01/14 02:37 AM
3

I'm looking forward to the family friendly military. The other military issues can wait.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 02:18 AM
3

When she looks at you.
/r/seduction14/01/14 01:19 AM
2

It is not enough information to exactly identify what you are doing wrong. But there is one sentence that gives me a clue of what might be one of your problems. Started lifting, improve myself. (I still don't see much gains, I'm still kind of skinny fat after 3 years.) Three years of lifting und you are still skinny fat. You know what this tells me? You have no dedication and discipline! After three years you should have a decent body. Have you been training hard over the last three years? What …
/r/seduction14/01/14 12:53 AM
1

You have the wrong mindset. Your friend has the wrong mindset. he told me to make it the only thing on my mind. With this mindset you are putting women on a pedestal. Your definiton of succes should not be dependent on women! I highly recommend you to read "Book of Pook". I could expound this point of view but I believe you would benefit more by reading the book.
/r/seduction13/01/14 01:55 PM
2

You are wasting your time. Your time! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t9QOQNcpuiA&feature=youtube_gdata_player
/r/seduction13/01/14 11:44 AM
10

I think you misunderstood inner game.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 01:35 AM
5

I'm gonna adjust my suggestion I already gave him considering a date: "Busy and still withholding child support! Let's meet, without lawyers."
/r/seduction13/01/14 12:35 AM
1

So you want to friendzone her again? Maybe her friends told her to ignore you because you are not interested. Maybe she is really trying to get out of the friendzone with this tactic. It is funny because if a woman had asked this she would be ripped apart here. This contradicts the ladder theory. Are you sure there is no sexual attraction?
/r/seduction13/01/14 12:28 AM
0

So if your post gets deleted you can't read the replies? Sorry I'm new.
/r/seduction13/01/14 12:02 AM
1

He is not asking how to react. Just some thought: How is your voice and speech pattern? This is an important factor. Do not neglect it. How open are you with sexual topics? Do you feel uncompfortable talking about it especially with strangers? Kino. It is hard to build up sexual tension without physical contact. Eye contact. I do not know how to describe it but you should be able to "eye fuck" them.
/r/seduction12/01/14 02:43 PM
3

"Busy and still withholding child support!"
/r/seduction12/01/14 11:41 AM
5

Action dates! I think it needs to be mentioned how powerful action dates are. I always do action dates. You have fun. It is easy to escalate and change venues. It is easy to demonstrate high value.
/r/seduction12/01/14 01:36 AM
1

But what about us men? We are also getting tricked. The make up, high heels and push up bras provokes our animalistic desires.
/r/seduction12/01/14 12:58 AM
2

Yes, it matters. You will find women who will dislike you just from your looks. You can't change that. Do not take it personal! This their problem and you do not have to deal with it. Move on and do not waste your time with them! It matters, but not nearly as much as you think. Only a small part of women will be unreceptive because of racist views.
/r/seduction11/01/14 10:05 PM
2

As far as my experience goes this is not a clear sign for further escalation. This is how women dance nowadays. Spin her, lock eyes and you'll see if she is really attracted or just showing off.
/r/seduction11/01/14 08:55 PM
4

I sat on my computer chair and she sat on my bed. You isolated her. Good job. So the next step is physical escalation and with this move you screwed up the opportunity. There was no physical contact and therefore it is really hard to get her sexually aroused.
/r/seduction11/01/14 08:20 PM
1

We are in the same boat. My plan for the next time is to take more time with escalation. Showing not a spark of neediness. I think this is my problem. I'm overescalating and provoke that slutty feeling so she has to reject me. So the plan is to escelate and build up a sexual tension up to a certain degree. At this point I'm gonna excuse myself and go to the bathroom, giving her the chance to signal me if she's ready. As soon as I come back and she is still lying in my bed and/or not adjusted her…
/r/seduction11/01/14 05:16 PM
1

There are a few guides and even ebooks on how to pick up a stripper. Just google it.
/r/seduction11/01/14 03:08 PM
12

A cold approach.
/r/seduction11/01/14 02:07 PM
0

As soon as you lock eyes just do it. When you start to think about it, it is too late. Sometimes it is even better to kiss without the sexual tension just out of the blue kiss her. Remember your first approach and the famous three seconds rule? It is not as scary as you thought it would be.
/r/seduction10/01/14 09:44 AM
1

I am not a fan of facebook. I only use it to keep in contact with relatives, maintain a long distance friendship and share pictures. That's it. No status updates, likes or meaningless posts. You'll find only posts and pictures related to my activities and travelling. I travel a lot and try out new things. What I've recenly discovered is that you can demonstrate high value with the right profile. I have once showed a group of girls some pictures of my trip to China and it immediately boosted thei…
/r/seduction10/01/14 01:01 AM
4

So far, I have never read a really good post from Rok. Sometimes it is entertaining. Sometimes it is educational. But I have never read a post and said to myself: "Wow. This is spot-on". Maybe my standards are too high. My impression is that the authors writes their articles in one go.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 10:58 PM
3

It is not for free. It depends how she'll react. If she reacts positive she also is going to qualfy herself, then it is a compliment.
/r/seduction09/01/14 09:13 AM
3

-"Does that ever work" -"Only with cool women"
/r/seduction09/01/14 07:51 AM
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Don't worry you'll find enough flakes.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 01:49 AM
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