Ready to swallow. But first, some questions.

TRPsubmitter · 2014-01-09T02:34:23+00:00

a loving relationship based on respect and hot sex and monogamy

Based on all the rooftop, parking garage, cuckolding sex I've had, I will say that these 3 things are usually incompatible.

Monogamy is stable. By extension, it becomes predictable and boring. Routine. Hot sex, on the other hand, is rarely thriving in that situation.

Also, by definition, finding a snowflake reveals your position as submissive to her. If you truly think she is so special, and you make that known to her, then you won't be special to her. All the things we talk about on TRP will instead be done to you. And we all know what will happen once she grows tired of you -->

/r/relationships My lovely wife doesn't have sex with me anymore but I know she used to with her exbf, followed by top comments of how you need to "man up", "forget about her past", and "go to counseling".

build_a_me · 2014-01-09T01:47:59+00:00

You have to realize that the love you were sold in Disney movies as a child is not real. Never was, never will be. Women are incapable of loving you in that way, i.e. unconditional love for a man regardless of external circumstances. You need to learn to appreciate women for what they are are, and what they are not. Have you read the side bar yet?

Clauderoughly · 2014-01-09T03:58:35+00:00

OP, yes it's possible and don't listen too much to the bitter MGTOW types.

I am a married RP guy and I am very happy, and so is my wife.

You just need to set extremely high standards for the woman you chose to commit to.

Cyralea · 2014-01-09T18:12:31+00:00

Since then I've been wrestling with what's true and what's overblown and just plain misogeny.

It's all true, you're just not liking the parts that don't sound nice. There is no purple pill, you either swallow the red one or the blue one.

You can absolutely have a healthy relationship with a woman with RP attitudes. With the exception of Spinning Plates (and possibly Nexting) every tenet of RP theory applies to long-term relationships.

What it sounds like you want is the fairy tale love where you two are so madly in love that nothing could ever separate you two. That doesn't exist my friend. A woman's love for her mate is strictly conditional. The way you love a woman exists in her only for her children.

You can be mad and spiteful and drop out of the mating game, or you can deal with the way things are and play within the rules framework. Once you accept things for the way they are you can really be happy within a relationship.

FortunateBum · 2014-01-09T05:36:43+00:00

I want a healthy relationship with women.

I'm almost 40. I've had many LTRs, a couple I even consider good, lots of casual sex, lots of dating.

A healthy relationship is impossible. Women simply do not want what men want. They just don't. Maybe NAWALT, but if true, you'd have to be a billionaire to afford them. Oh wait, look at Nigella Lawson.

Read this from the sidebar: http://c.feministvictims.com/2

Maybe you've already read it, but you didn't take it in.

What you want from a woman, she doesn't want from you. She never will. Nor is she capable of providing it. You either accept this or stay miserable.

2014-01-11T02:29:43+00:00

Its like looking at your shadow. When you're facing the light, your shadow chases you. When you turn away from the light, your shadow is in front of you, ahead of you, running from you.

Basically, always face the light and your shadow will chase you. But you need to be grounded so your shadow can actually touch you.

I've written metaphors. I'm more than sure you can connect the dots here.

DoxasticPoo · 2014-01-09T17:27:54+00:00

Phrasing....

Sandkasten · 2014-01-09T01:49:30+00:00

Don't worry you'll find enough flakes.

Title	Ready to swallow. But first, some questions.
Author	build_a_me
Upvotes	7
Comments	12
Date	January 9, 2014 1:26 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1urd81/ready_to_swallow_but_first_some_questions/
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