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Outer Game Scorchyy/r/seduction26/10/22 07:04 PM
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They do, when they’re taken they’re so much more receptive to it because they know you can’t do anything
/r/seduction25/04/25 08:14 PM
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It might be over if you’re short and have average looks
/r/seduction10/10/24 01:30 PM
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How is it dating someone rich? Does she pay for stuff sometimes?
/r/seduction18/07/24 12:21 PM
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I actually did it a year ago, might have approached 150+ in a year span, I was addicted to it and it was miserable, I couldn’t go anywhere without the urge to talk to girls. Overall I got laid twice with mid girls so I wouldn’t say it was worth it, it’s pretty much 1% success rate and the girl it worked on were the least attractive ones I approached.
/r/seduction18/07/24 03:22 AM
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How can you tell she was rich
/r/seduction18/07/24 03:20 AM
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I’m part of the All Police and was sent to investigate this post 👮‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:03 PM
1

Yeah, well if you’re doing well what’s the point of going after less attractive girls; you’d be doing them a favor at this point
/r/TheRedPill26/11/23 07:10 PM
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Gives us numbers, how many girls did you get in that year compared to before
/r/TheRedPill26/11/23 07:08 PM
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Interesting story. What country are you from and did moving away for uni helped with girls a lot? I live in an accommodation now and it doesn’t make that big of a difference surprisingly. Also, I do know how healthy eating is done and I’ve implemented many small tweaks to improve my diet over the years; avoiding certain food, empty calories, etc. As for running out I’ve been doing it this summer and was feeling amazing but since school started back I haven’t done it really. I need to get back in…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/23 06:57 PM
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Yeah, I noticed that with my own experience and learning about buddhism and meditation; at some point you realize that getting more doesn’t make you happier so you learn to be content and it leads to a much happier life
/r/TheRedPill26/11/23 06:50 PM
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You’re right, I’m planning to, I’ve worked on my mental health a lot so I’m not making excuses for myself anymore.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 06:25 PM
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Interesting. Thanks for the detailed reply. So to see significant results you need to go daily which I find difficult to do as I don’t enjoy it per say. About girls, I’ve already fuck 12 girls in a year but most weren’t very attractive so dunno if it counts. Also you’re 6"2 which is a net advantage, you’re in the top 5% of men. How many lays do you get from dating apps and how many girl do you fuck in a year nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 06:24 PM
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I’m planning to, but how to find the motivation to make it a habit
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 06:15 PM
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I just don’t know how to find the strength to make it a habit when it’s not that enjoyable to do
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 06:15 PM
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Bartender women aren’t me most stable of girls let say, usually the tattoos give it up pretty quick but in general working in that environment rarely equals a healthy lifestyle Also, why are you a girl on theredpill
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 04:26 PM
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Why are you like that, it’s a stranger asking you for something free; you’re 100% right to refuse. It would be one thing if it was a homeless person or something going through hard times but we’re talking about a girl who want to get drunk for free here. I often go out and don’t buy any drinks to save money, didn’t mean I will beg for one.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/23 07:31 PM
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Yeah but by refusing to buy her a drink like I did you make her very self-conscious about doing it again since she now knows that not all men will keep up with her bullshit. I’ve already had it happen before and bought a girl a drink just to see her go back to her friends and never even notice me the rest of the night. We are responsible for how women act.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/23 10:20 AM
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Exactly, thankfully they were like me, middle-east guys and they tend to be redpill by nature. One of them even told me straight up he only buys the girl a drink once they fucked. That’s the spirit.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/23 12:52 AM
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Harder to do than it seems but I think it's a good idea, just hard to find a goal as instantly gratifying as sex
/r/TheRedPill06/03/23 08:30 PM
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I agree I don't know what I want in life but I'm young so that's common, I do see a therapist already
/r/TheRedPill05/03/23 11:28 PM
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My social skills are good it's not the issue, it's just that it's not very efficient, but doing it at bars and clubs doesn't work either. Girls there aren't usually looking to meet guys and they're with their friends so it's harder to keep a convo with them if you're alone.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/23 10:46 PM
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I have a few questions: - Did you approach all those girls during day game or at night? - Were the 8 girls you closed pretty or overwight/ugly? The only girls cold approach got me were pretty unattractive - Why did you stop approaching like that?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/23 10:29 PM
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Yes, I agree with that, maybe that's why I don't go out to bars/clubs often lately. Unless you're going with friends to enjoy yourself when you go solo you end up just approaching girls randomly and it rarely gets you laid, and even when it does it's with an unattractive girl usually so not a big win. You end up with lots of igs and numbers that lead nowhere. But I don't get much results from dating apps and cold approach in daily life either so it's not really something I can do. I don't get da…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 09:28 PM
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I feel at night girls are in a different mood and it's more likely to lead to hookups and such, at least in bars/club it can often lead to kissing or dancing together
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 07:08 PM
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You type every other words properly, why save up on letters for this specific one
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 07:03 PM
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I think you really hit the nail there because lately I've been pretty much in a rut, thinking back about the past and a missed experience of studying abroad (check my post history for more info) so I just feel like I'm stuck living with my parents, blaming them for not financing me to study abroad back in 2020 and feeling miserable because living at home pretty much cockblocks me, going out on weekends is harder when you live 50min away from downtown with bus so I end up staying home almost ever…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 06:59 PM
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Idk, I feel like if you do it so intensively there's something wrong, that's the issue I have to, it won't lead to much fulfillment and happiness overall.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 06:49 PM
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Uhh, and tell them what, that I need a job?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 06:42 PM
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Well you still need to go out to meet girls even if you got money, they won't come knocking to your door.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 06:42 PM
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I dunno where to start with sales tbh, I already worked as a brand ambassador but it's not exactly the same thing
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 06:40 PM
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I do know about it, so you recommend me to look out for choosing signals and avoid cold approaches?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 06:40 PM
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Is it that hard to type "you"
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 05:15 AM
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I don't know how he did that but it sounds like he's somewhat of a creep to get a reputation and that's what I'm trying to avoid. Also cities are huge so it's pretty much impossible to have approached everyone there, unless you meant getting banned from bars because you approach too much.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 01:56 AM
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You don't get it, I'm not complaining about the results, it works sometimes and that's fine for me. I just don't like the fact that I became so addicted to it that whenever I go out and see a somewhat cute girl I'll feel the need to approach her, I can't just live my life normally and let it happen once in a while. I don't even go out much anymore because of it but I always get fomo of not going out on the weekends because I'm missing out on potentially meeting girls.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 01:47 AM
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Where would I go to meet such people? I'm actually looking for a job so that would be nice
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 01:33 AM
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Concretely how do you do it, should I stop approaching completely, go out less often?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 01:28 AM
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Not really, doing it once in a while is good, the problem is the urge to do it too often. And it's more like 0.5% close rate to be honest, and usually with the less attractive girl you approach so idk how good that is.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 12:46 AM
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It just make me miserable, let me give you an example, let say you go to a club or bar, will you feel the need to talk to every cute girl there in order to be satisfied with yourself? Probably not, that's the problem I got. It makes me sad because I never feel satisfied and able to enjoy the present moment
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 12:43 AM
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Yes but idk where to start, should I stop talking to girls completely and going out?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 08:46 PM
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You don't get it, what's the point of doing it if it becomes compulsive and you can't go anywhere without approaching, there's cute girls everywhere so you end up doing it everywhere and it's quite miserable.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 08:45 PM
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Yes but approaches will always be approaches, you can't say anything magical that will makes her melt suddenly, you still need to do a lot of it to get some results. The issue isn't about doing the results though, it's the fact doing it on a regular basis makes me miserable.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 08:43 PM
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I do see a therapist, have been for a while but was for my anxiety initially, but it's not helping that much now, I see her once a month and the tips she gives me aren't so useful lately
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 08:40 PM
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I agree that's a good tip, but it's very rare to find a girl starting at you so it won't lead to much, but approaching random girls also give low returns too. I feel like to get good results you need to be approaching so much, like going out every night and approaching like a machine but doing that just makes you miserable, even if you get laid. What would you recommend, should I stop approaching girls outside or in my classes at all if they don't give signs? And stop going to bars and clubs jus…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 08:39 PM
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Yes but idk how to reach that middle point
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 08:35 PM
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I'm not sure exactly what you mean, like cold approach people outside to sell them something? Dunno how I would do that exactly
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 07:56 PM
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Yes but I don't know exactly where to start, should I just stop going out on weekends and focus on myself, stop talking to girls completely? I think that could help
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 07:55 PM
1

How did he pick girls if he lived so far away
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 07:16 PM
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So I do look decently good (I'd say a 7 or 8), my looks never were a problem, and my game is advanced, I watched a lot, and a lot of content and practiced so I'm very comfortable with game and know what to do. My main issue is the fact I'm obsessed with it, I always think about ways to meet more girls, like go to dorms where I don't live to talk to girl there, go to uni partys/events uninvited, meet girls in class I'm not part of, etc. Makes me feel like a creep for having these ideas. It's just…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 07:15 PM
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Maybe but what's the fix for it lol, my approach aren't creepy or anything, I just give a compliment and ask for their insta without pressure, I tell them to give it only if they want to, what's the point to get it if they're only doing it to get rid of me. The problem is more about how often I do it.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 07:07 PM
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I'm 5"9, normal weight, not overweight or skinny, I do wear H&M, good clothes that fit me and get my haircut done once a month or so (fade), I consider myself good looking, I'm not particularly hot or anything, just normal and that's enough to do well, definitely not a problem with my looks. It's just the norm when you approach girls who gave you 0 signs, 99% will not be interested, unless you look particularly good or something. Like I said it's not wrong to seek sex, just don't like the fact I…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 07:06 PM
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I don't agree, it is if you manage to do it once in a while and keep it under control but if you're obsessed about doing it like me it just makes you miserable, I'd rather not do it that it obsessing me and preventing me from enjoying the present and life
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 07:01 PM
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Yeah, gotta say I was a bit lazy to work low paying jobs so that's why I didn't, I feel it could have helped me afford moving out even though my parents didn't pay
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 06:09 PM
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Wdym addiction to rejection, I get instagram fairly often, it just rarely leads anywhere but I feel addicted to keep trying and ask out more girls I know I have a problem, it probably comes from all the internalized regret of the past years where I was in college at home commuting and missed so many opportunities with girls because of it so I try to compensate for it now with quantity. I wanted to study abroad and get that experience but failed to save the money for it, parents didn’t want to he…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 04:05 AM
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I did live on my own last year for 7 months and came back home because it was getting expensive and had no job. Did you work too to afford it or only loans? Also was there a college in your hometown or you had to move?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 03:59 AM
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I should do that but I’ve always been told loans just to move out in rent is a bad idea and I knew no one from high school who did that. Did you move to another city to study or you went to your local uni?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 03:54 AM
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Did you move out in dorms? How did you afford it
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 03:44 AM
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Yes, and it sucks how most students my age are in dorms and have great condition to get girls and I’m stuck commuting
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 03:31 AM
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I heard an interesting analogy once, it’s like women sexuality is a precious stone that was given to them for free at puberty, it’s hard to deal with being given such a gift (lots of male attention, etc.) without working for it so you want to rub that stone against different material, try to break it, throw it in the mud etc. to see what it’s made of and how strong it is, you need that phase to be sure of it’s worth and that it won’t break easily, it’s part of the process of accepting your sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:17 AM
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They were disposable, that’s the point of hookups usually, the other person is not highly valued before or after the act
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:02 AM
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Ok weirdo
/r/ExRedPill23/12/22 06:00 PM
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Damn, I should take you on a date too lmao But now I’m curious, what’s your body count
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:53 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction02/11/22 09:52 PM
1

How many approaches for one lay in your personal experience
/r/seduction02/11/22 09:31 PM
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Do you still do it?
/r/seduction02/11/22 06:30 PM
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Did you end up hooking up together?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:16 PM
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Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:13 PM
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What percentage of the dates you go on lead to sex lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:59 PM
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I felt during the date she was just not emotionally available, that's what she told me through texts too so that might explain why she wasn't open to flirt and more
/r/seduction27/10/22 04:59 PM
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Why did you stop and what your results, how many approaches for a lay
/r/seduction27/10/22 12:44 PM
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Why? Any reason
/r/seduction26/10/22 08:49 PM
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So how many lays per month is that? Also I suppose you need to set specific times just to go approach which sounds a bit annoying to do, I’d rather do it when I happen to see a cute girl than go out with the purpose of meeting girls
/r/seduction26/10/22 07:39 PM
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But do you still do it regularly, that’s my question, when was the last time you went to do it and gotten a bunch of contacts
/r/seduction26/10/22 07:31 PM
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Makes sense, so you would go get a drink with a guy who was into you just to pass time and talk, even if you're not open for anything
/r/seduction26/10/22 06:49 PM
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Well I go to a college here in a big city and never got a girl from school even though I talked to many, it's mostly from dating apps
/r/seduction26/10/22 06:48 PM
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What happened with the girls who approached you, has it led to anything?
/r/seduction26/10/22 05:02 PM
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Can I ask you questions?
/r/seduction26/10/22 02:34 PM
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I’m recently 23 and planning to move out soon to help with it, it hurts not getting girls for that reason
/r/seduction22/10/22 06:02 PM
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Maybe, I just don’t get sex that often so when I miss an opportunity with a girl I liked it stings. It’s like the girl was offering it and you can’t get it just because you don’t have your own place, it’s an awful feeling.
/r/seduction22/10/22 03:34 PM
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Can I ask what age group you are, just to see if it’s common with girls my age. Because I literally had the same happen where a girl was interested just wasn’t comfortable going to a hotel for the same reason. And it happened with a few girls. It really sucks because there’s nothing you can do about it. I can’t bring any girl home because my parents are completely against it, and also my house is never empty so I just lose those girls even though they were down for it. What would you recommend i…
/r/seduction22/10/22 03:31 PM
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The experience I had is that it didn’t, I don’t have a car too so it’s hard
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:11 PM
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I can’t bring any girls at home, plus I live a bit far from downtown so it’s not convenient at all
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:10 PM
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It’s hard to after a date tho, when you’re kissing and all, to say come to a hotel to party lol, what age girl are you dealing with
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:09 PM
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That's the main issue, it puts a mental toll during the date and when meeting girls
/r/seduction21/10/22 04:02 PM
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But I can't get laid meanwhile, which sucks
/r/seduction21/10/22 04:00 PM
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How many? And how do you cope with them, they sting ever years later
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:53 PM
1

So where do you do it
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:41 PM
1

I'm under 25 but would girls be fine going to a hotel?
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:41 PM
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Damn, so you're a girl who's into hooking up and getting lays, niice. How often do you manage to get lucky with your own place? Also how do you afford it
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:38 PM
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Where do you meet girls to have sex then
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:34 PM
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Need some details lol, how old are you first and do you mean for casual sex or for a relationship?
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:32 PM
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I know but I already missed some girls because of that and it stings, idk how to stop regretting those
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:29 PM
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Would you mind going to a hotel with a guy after a date?
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:25 PM
1

How come, where you have sex
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:23 PM
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How do you do it?
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:23 PM
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I had a similar experience a while ago, missed out on a cute girl because I couldn't bring her home and she refused the hotel. It hurts a lot, I still think about those events to this day. How do you cope with such missed opportunities?
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:14 PM
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That's smart, I've only ever proposed the hotel directly but it didn't work. Also how do you cope with the lays you lost because you didn't have your own place? Those stings
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:11 PM
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How many lays have you lost just because you didn't have your own place? I feel like that's what hurts me the most, do you ever think about those and regret?
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:08 PM
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Well it's loans so you never to reimburse them all at the end, I do have some loans but not really comfortable using them just for rent
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:01 PM
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It's just harder to propose it because it comes up as overtly sexual so girls have more odds to refuse than if you said let's go get drinks at my place, I feel like I lost many sex opportunities because of that and it stings to think about it
/r/seduction21/10/22 02:59 PM
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A lot of girls are just looking for something casual, have you tried bringing them over and hooking up?
/r/seduction21/10/22 01:25 AM
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How often do you go on dates?
/r/seduction20/10/22 11:17 PM
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So why did she accept to come for coffee/drinks, just to pass time?
/r/seduction20/10/22 05:19 PM
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She did have packing to do for tomorrow flight and had to wake up early, which is one of the reason I preferred to do something during the day, but going to her hotel to fool around wouldn’t have taken all day lol
/r/seduction20/10/22 05:18 PM
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I did some kino but since she was sitting in front of me it was limited, couldn’t rub her legs or anything like that lmao
/r/seduction20/10/22 05:15 PM
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What if I proposed her to meet for drinks later that night, would that have much better chance to work considering her interest was low and she didn’t flirt back through text
/r/seduction20/10/22 03:33 PM
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The girl was really unreceptive to any flirting so even by getting drinks I doubt it would have worked
/r/seduction20/10/22 03:31 PM
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I paid for hers, how come do you support guys doing that lol, are you going on dates looking for something serious or just casual
/r/seduction20/10/22 03:30 PM
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She was open to getting drinks too but I went for coffee because it was 2pm, I could have proposed something later like 8pm but she told me during the date she most likely would have canceled because she was tired and wanted to rest for tomorrow trip
/r/seduction20/10/22 03:28 PM
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True, but she agreed to get a drink or coffee, I just went with coffee because it was more convenient in the middle of the day, do girls really go for drinks with a guy they have no interest in?
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:28 PM
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Explain
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:10 PM
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Just weird she was open to go out for drinks or coffee but just to pass time, no expecting anything to happen
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:09 PM
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She met me because I didn't look creepy or dangerous, and mostly to pass time, her whole vibe showed she wasn't really open for more even though I did make efforts to flirt
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:07 PM
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I did touch her to emphasize some stuff I said and such but there was no reciprocity
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:05 PM
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I sent her a message after the date but she didn't reply, I think she's a bit mad because I tried to push for sex
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:03 PM
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This idea that sex was in the cards if only you didn't blow it... try not to buy into that... sure some women in her scenario are looking for one-night stands, but most aren't, and the ones that are usually make it pretty clear whereas this chick was not giving you any of those signs. She was likely thinking "platonic hang out" from the start, But this is not a failure on your part... the good news is she was willing to hang out at all, which speaks well of how you're presenting yourself and eng…
/r/seduction20/10/22 01:58 PM
1

Well do you think going for drinks at night (with a chance she will flake because she is jetlagged and is more tired at night), and sitting next to her would have made it work? I feel like I gave my best during the date, if she was into me it would have happened, it's hard to say more drinks, more kino and sitting next to her would suddenly make her ready for sex.
/r/seduction20/10/22 01:56 PM
1

Yeah but she saw me when I approached her the day before, she could have figured if she was attracted then, no need to come on a date if she isn't
/r/seduction20/10/22 01:54 PM
2

That's what I thought too, even if I proposed to get drinks at night she wouldn't have been more receptive, plus she had the jetlag so she wouldn't have much energy to stay late and flirt
/r/seduction20/10/22 01:50 PM
2

I did do the tease and sexual stuff but she wasn't receptive to it at all
/r/seduction20/10/22 01:49 PM
-8

Idk, she also looked like she just wanted to pass time on her layover and wasn’t receptive to flirting or anything like that. There was no teasing from her part or trying to be flirty which is weird if she was even remotely interested.
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:53 AM
1

Well she saw me during the cold approach and we texted, why bother coming on a date if you aren’t interested. But I agree, I did what I could and have no regret
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:44 AM
4

The way he makes it sound is just wrong, makes it sound like if a girl is into you, you can just tell her to have sex right away and she’ll accept. It’s wrong, some girls have some interest but it takes a few dates to raise it to the point they will want to have sex with you
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:43 AM
-6

Yeah, it makes sense, it’s just a bit weird that women would go on dates with no intention of having sex or it going anywhere.
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:17 AM
1

Yet she refuses to go back to her hotel together...?
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:03 AM
1

That's what I do too but she just didn't get comfortable anyway even though I make other girls comfortable. She mentioned she was afraid of stalkers and already had a guy follow her home so that might explain why she's not comfortable letting me come with her, but if she wanted something to happen she could have agreed to come home with me
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:03 AM
5

It happens. But look at it this way, you progressed this interaction as far as it could go. You did the best with what you had. Thanks, I like your mindset, I do struggle with regrets sometimes and it's important to keep it mind I did my best with what I had and stop thinking of hypothetic scenario where things would have went better
/r/seduction20/10/22 01:33 AM
4

I mean some girls take a lot of time to be comfortable, multiples dates etc and honestly it's impossible to do when she leaves the next day. We had a long conversation, what else can I do... I know her interest was low from the text exchange but went anyway just in case I could make her comfortable with a single date.
/r/seduction20/10/22 01:10 AM
-13

Yes unfortunately, she leaves tomorrow. She did look like a conservative/calm girl from her ig pics, like she said she don't party and such so I can't really expect a first date lay with such a girl even with perfect game/conditions.
/r/seduction20/10/22 01:02 AM
-21

Ok, good to know I didn't miss any easy opportunity, I also have to say based on the girl instagram and what she told me she's a pretty calm and conservative girl, not the kind to party or do crazy stuff. So first date sex might be impossible with her
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:58 AM
2

Seems like you tried all your possibilities so good job anyways bro. Sometimes there’s not something you could’ve done better, but if there was it was probably something that happened/didn’t happen during the date, which only you know.
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:56 AM
-5

But doesn't make sense why she refused walking to her hotel, I said that part confidently and didn't fumble but she just told me she wasn't comfortable with me knowing where she stayed. If she's not comfortable with that it's hard to sell the idea of going to my place.
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:51 AM
18

I proposed it after an hour and half, when she started showing signs that she had to go back there. I kinda feel like if I proposed drinks at my place more confidently, without fumbling when she asked the time to get there, it might have worked but at the same time it's weird she refuse to let me walk her to her hotel but would be fine to come over.
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:46 AM
2

I think the date was a little incongruent with the context. She was leaving town then next day (meaning that there’s not much to do than hook up since you probably won’t see each other again) and you guys went to have a coffee, which in my eyes seems more like a less intimate date. I’d probably have gone to have drinks or something that would lead to sex easier. Besides that, if she said she didn’t want you to know where she lives she was probably creeped out or just wasn’t attracted
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:43 AM
-4

Makes sense, I don't get how she would not be comfortable enough to let walk her to her hotel but would have been down to come over to my house which was close. Wdym there for a lay, she had a few days free for her layover and wanted to hangout, she didn't seem like she was open for anything else
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:39 AM
2

I've had that before with young girls, they'll even send you a snap of their face, basically fishing for compliments or attention, just ignore it completely, you won't get anything from those girls
/r/seduction19/10/22 10:22 PM
1

How can you afford it?
/r/seduction18/10/22 10:47 AM
11

I’m the opposite, I got better now and can get girls but have nowhere to bring them :/
/r/seduction18/10/22 10:46 AM
73

How hard is it to afford it? I live in a big city so rent is quite expensive, I make enough money to afford it but the rent alone would take 50-60% of my job's money
/r/seduction17/10/22 11:38 PM
30

It's a cultural thing, I can't really bring a girl home, it would never fly with them
/r/seduction17/10/22 11:37 PM
40

And it hurts afterward because you feel like you did all the work and the girl was down but the only problem is having your own place
/r/seduction17/10/22 11:00 PM
1

Is it really that bad? I was thinking of moving from a 2 million people city to go to a 280,000 city for my studies, I guess it will drastically lower the frequency I meet girls?
/r/seduction17/10/22 10:16 PM
1

Did you end up going on a date with him?
/r/seduction13/10/22 10:58 PM
1

This story is impossible, literally nobody gets approached every single day multiple times to the point where they need to go to the grocery store at 2am, wtf lol And also being in your 30s doesn't make you a man-repellant, you can still get approached.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/22 10:30 PM
1

So with her it worked but only led to flings or short time stuff
/r/ExRedPill13/10/22 10:13 PM
1

Still, you can’t realistically go out every day of the week, it’s tiring and gets boring. And bringing a girl home everyday is hard too. How many girls were you getting on the other months?
/r/seduction12/10/22 09:06 PM
1

What were your numbers like
/r/seduction12/10/22 08:39 PM
1

Did you get similar numbers
/r/seduction12/10/22 08:38 PM
1

What's your body count to say this
/r/seduction12/10/22 08:37 PM
2

That makes no sense, it would mean you go out almost every night and always go home with a different girl
/r/seduction12/10/22 08:28 PM
1

How many of the 5-10 who hang out will end up having sex with you, isn't it 1-2 usually? Or even 0 sometimes
/r/seduction12/10/22 06:00 PM
1

It depends if you only approach girls who show choosing signals or if you approach complete strangers who never gave you a gaze, then a 10% percentage would be impossible
/r/seduction12/10/22 04:02 PM
0

IceMysterious4265 It yields low result but it's still a good skill to have just in case
/r/seduction24/09/22 04:37 PM
1

Thanks, that was the kind of advice I was looking for to confirm my suspicions, I think talking to her would have just led to a meaningless conversation and her finding an excuse to leave, even if I got her instagram I doubt she would reply based on my experience with other cold approaches I did. It just feels sad letting go such a hot girl but at the same time if she's not into me there's not much I can do about it.
/r/seduction24/09/22 04:05 PM
1

So what would you recommend doing then, I usually rely on choosing signals but when walking on the street it's kinda hard to get them, I did try to look in her eyes but she didn't even bother giving me eye contact back and looked forward. I felt it would feel extra weird just go talk to her in that situation.
/r/seduction23/09/22 11:17 PM
1

I know, it's a recurring pattern but I don't always see girls that struck me like that so it's hard to move on. I feel like she was unique and if only I talked to her it would have worked and I'll never see a girl that hot or available again. I've done enough cold approach to know 99% of the time you can't ever manage to see the girl again but sometimes when I miss an opportunity to approach a really hot girl I struggle to move on, I feel as if this was the one and if only I did it she would hav…
/r/seduction23/09/22 10:00 PM
1

Uhh, never thought of that but it's smart, what kind of results did you get with this? Did it ever work
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:52 PM
1

I said that in a more subtle way but she kept being mad, as if she deserves more lol
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:41 PM
1

Not really because I told her to contact me when she wants to meet but she never said she wanted, kept saying she was busy lately, I don’t want to deal with her anymore unless she comes over right away
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:38 PM
1

Oh, you meant an after party... I thought you meant the girl straight up asked you if you wanted to come to her place. Yes, I did go to "afters" after clubs but none of them led to sex, usually the logistics are always shitty and there's too many girls or too many guys and no place to escalate. I don't really agree with your last point, I've been outside clubs when they close and most girl are just hanging out with their friends, getting a uber or having some meaningless conversation with guys. …
/r/seduction29/11/21 07:59 PM
1

Same here, do you ever go alone or you always go with friends? And what exactly did you do to get girls inviting you over, are you really good looking or what
/r/seduction29/11/21 07:50 PM
1

So if the girl don't grab your hand you just leave and assume she's not into you? Do you really get girls inviting you over, that sounds very rare, how long have you been going to club ever weekend for
/r/seduction29/11/21 07:45 PM
-2

“Oops sorry. I just bumped into you!” Essentially, they were trying to tell me that they wanted me to grind on them. Are you sure about that? I think most of the time girl actually bumped in you by accident and aren't really interested so it's hard to take that as a sign of interest. Unless she says it with a smirk and a flirty eye look I wouldn't assume much. Can you explain what you meant? Also the club is mostly to have fun and dance, getting laid there is very rare, most of the time a girl w…
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:49 PM
1

And how you tell if she liked what she saw? Maybe she looked at you but wasn't interested
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:35 PM
1

I'll try that but in my experience it's really hard to tell if a girl wants to dance in a club, even when you give her eye contact she never give it back, most girls avoid any eye contact with men because it might give invitation to creepy guys
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:23 PM
1

I'll try it then, it just feels weird to offer your hand to a random girl who's dancing, what if she don't want to dance with you
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:20 PM
17

I should try that but I bet most won’t take the hand, what I did was dance near them and if they seem down I will try start dancing with her from behind and holding her from the side
/r/seduction29/11/21 12:20 AM
4

I already started, that realization of not being noticed by any girl gave me the motivation
/r/seduction25/11/21 01:07 AM
1

Thanks, I got the same opinion, I feel it’s better to do what you enjoy and make less money than make a lot of money and be miserable, also I’m a minimalist so I don’t really need a lot of money to be happy
/r/seduction24/11/21 05:20 PM
1

Interesting, but what was the thing you dropped psycho for?
/r/seduction24/11/21 04:38 PM
1

I start by just being friendly but I can't be too bold when I'll meet all these girls again in my class and they can gossip about me, I wait for girls to show some interest first but it just doesn't happen
/r/seduction24/11/21 04:17 PM
1

Sorry but you just have a scarcity mindset, we're not in the days where all you can do is work in a coal mine to make money, there's lots of opportunities if you're smart, you got the mentality of immigrants coming to western countries
/r/seduction24/11/21 04:15 PM
1

Those are jobs you can get in with a psychology degree too, some places just want a piece of paper that proves you went to college and are somewhat litterate
/r/seduction24/11/21 04:02 PM
1

I’m those things, I actually never was a nice guy and always looked for my interest most of the time (to my detriment), I had to learn to be kinder with the people so that’s not my issue. The women just don’t come Also I have some belly, I’m 9kg away from my healthy BMI but still, I should still get some girl attention
/r/seduction24/11/21 04:01 PM
1

I tried CS and STEM and hated my life, not doing that ever again, I’d rather make less money with a psychology degree and work on my side projects on the side until they make me money
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:59 PM
2

Don't worry, I'm not getting in any debt to study that, where I live college is not that expensive and my parents pay for it, also I'm just doing it to get some qualifications for future jobs and because I love it, but I'm doing other stuff on the side, I'm planning to be my own boss
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:49 PM
1

Thanks Dad for your advice
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:42 PM
1

Not insanely but yes, they are more attractive than the rest of the guys
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:28 PM
5

I literally study in psychology lol, the irony
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:14 PM
3

I am good friends with 2 hot girls who aren't really my type but still, this sounds like a good idea but idk how to ask it, it feels weird just texting them to ask if they have a friend to present me, I'll look very desperate as if I can't meet girls myself, and what are the odds her friends will be into me
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:12 PM
2

Psychology
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:10 PM
2

Lvl81Memes I do, that's one of the reason that motivated me to start going to the gym last time and now I do daily home workouts to loose some weight and I improved the food I eat, cut processed sugar, etc.
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:09 PM
4

And where do I get a hot gf from? Order it on wish?
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:08 PM
3

Not really, but I'm not obese either
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:03 PM
-1

That I agree with, but still, I should get the attention of some girl, even a few, but nada, unless it's just friendly attention I get nothing, even from the fat girls
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:02 PM
2

I made friends with some but they haven't introduced me to shit
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:59 PM
9

In my experience, guys who are naturally good with girl are terrible wingmen, they don't really have any game, they just get girls because of their looks
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:59 PM
-6

The rest of the girl would rather have nothing and not kiss/hook up during parties than do it with the "normal" guys
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:58 PM
0

I tried with big girls and hasn't worked either
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:57 PM
-39

That’s where you’re wrong, you’d think it would be easier with a higher ratio of woman but honestly it’s just as bad as if it was the opposite, even though they outnumber guys girls still only go for a very few number of men, you’d think more women would mean every guys gets multiple girls into them but actually it just means the 1-2 really attractive guys get everything while the rest have nothing
/r/seduction24/11/21 05:27 AM
-23

What makes my situation that lucky exactly?
/r/seduction24/11/21 05:23 AM
-11

I agree, most answer here are trash, I miss that subreddit that starts with "The"
/r/seduction24/11/21 04:55 AM
4

I did plenty of cold approach too and most led nowhere, the girls weren’t suddenly very attracted to me because I have the courage to approach them
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:55 AM
-71

What kind of bullshit is that, no you can’t do anything you want, you just do the best with your situation
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:54 AM
-29

I know but I don’t have a body type where I get muscle easily, so I doubt I can get shredded, I also don’t enjoy the gym enough to be there every day to get a six pack Right now I’m just doing workouts to loose my belly and be at my healthiest weight, hopefully it’ll improve my appearance too
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:43 AM
5

They don’t come, that’s the issue
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:40 AM
-10

Meeting girI in a library or coffee is pretty weird, don’t think that’s a good idea, and anyway I do enjoy clubs and parties a lot, I’m pretty versatile, the fact I like thinking and introspection doesn’t mean I can’t enjoy clubs. The only downside I can see is that I’m not that tall, I’m 5"9, I’m part of a minority and the white girls in my program tend to be into white guys mostly and also I’m a little chubby, nothing terrible but I do have some small belly when my shirt is off
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:38 AM
5

I know but it just never interested me, I can’t change who I am suddenly just to attract girls
/r/seduction24/11/21 01:29 AM
6

I do have interests but I’m more of a thinking guy, I like sharing ideas, debating and understanding how people work, and it’s hard to demonstrate those interests. I’m just not the sportive kind of guy, never was my cup of tea
/r/seduction24/11/21 01:19 AM
34

I do but it’s hard to maintain that frame when all girls see you as is either a friend or a classmate
/r/seduction24/11/21 01:15 AM
54

You don’t get it, they all go for those guys, girl have this weird caveman herd mentality I don’t wanna ink my body with meaningless tattoos just to get girls but I did start workouts and going to the gym last week, I have about 9kg I need to loose to be slim/ideal weight
/r/seduction24/11/21 01:14 AM
98

I already am in good terms with them but it hasn’t given me any results yet
/r/seduction24/11/21 01:12 AM
5

Is it a lie though?
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:26 PM
12

You still have to be hot, as an average guy your cold approach means nothing
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:05 PM
2

If the guys don't come talk to you it probably means you're not very attractive, that's the sad truth
/r/seduction17/11/21 05:06 PM
77

Girls don't want unattractive guys to approach them at the gym, but unfortunately discourage men to approach women also makes attractive men not approach hence why it backfires on girls
/r/seduction17/11/21 05:02 PM
8

Unless he's looking at you often he's probably not interested, guys have standards too so you're probably not his type, leave him alone
/r/seduction17/11/21 05:01 PM
1

Let's be honest sex is usually disappointing, it's never as good as you hoped it would be when you were imagining it when you just saw the girl, it's still pretty fun tho
/r/seduction17/11/21 03:40 PM
1

middle-east 5"9 and live in Canada
/r/seduction17/11/21 03:29 PM
1

I try but it doesn't work
/r/seduction17/11/21 03:28 PM
1

wolfbee16 I honestly doubt you can get 10s unless you're very attractive yourself, if you're an average looking guy it's almost impossible to get one
/r/seduction17/11/21 03:22 PM
15

Never contact someone with a means she hasn't explicitly given you, that's a golden rule, even if she was attracted that shows you have no balls to ask for her info in person
/r/seduction17/11/21 03:19 PM
2

Maybe she didn't know who was xyz, you should have used your real name instead of that
/r/seduction17/11/21 03:17 PM
2

Girls aren’t racist per se, they support immigration, they just aren’t interested in fucking the immigrants
/r/seduction16/11/21 08:48 PM
1

Middle eastern (white skin though), 5"9
/r/seduction16/11/21 08:47 PM
1

That’s anecdotal evidence, all the guys I met who were good with girls were attractive
/r/seduction16/11/21 01:39 AM
2

I honestly don’t believe personality or confidence can make up for being unattractive, the only thing that can is status which is pretty hard to get
/r/seduction16/11/21 12:47 AM
13

I don’t do any of those, I have game but girls are just not interested in being freaky with me
/r/seduction16/11/21 12:46 AM
12

He's a leprechaun. No but seriously I don't those videos, those guys are so full of shit and narcissistic, they could easily be paying girl to make infield footage and sell their bootcamp. Unfortunately girl my age (20s) are mostly attracted by looks, height and status
/r/seduction16/11/21 12:21 AM
11

I don't know how to insert that in a conversation without trying to sell myself
/r/seduction16/11/21 12:19 AM
-1

I have some interests like art, psychology/sociology, minimalism but it's really hard to integrate those in a casual conversation at a party, I don't know how those would really make girls more interested in me
/r/seduction16/11/21 12:05 AM
5

I can’t get any match on it even with good pics, idk how you manage to do that
/r/seduction11/11/21 10:17 PM
7

Paramount Plus and Mount
/r/seduction11/11/21 10:06 PM
1

Well I don’t have a steady one but all my lays came from being lucky on social apps and dating apps, I haven’t got any intimacy out of a cold approach but I understand for most guys it’s the only option since we’re literally invisible to girls on dating apps.
/r/seduction28/06/21 01:43 PM
1

Small city so might be harder to date if you’re coming from a big city
/r/seduction28/06/21 01:40 PM
1

I totally understand and that’s why I still try it from time to time. Like most guys here I don’t get any match at all from dating apps so it’s either cold approach or sometimes I’ll meet a girl on social apps. But it’s a bit delusional to assume that girl who didn’t care about you on dating apps will suddenly like you because you cold approached them. Talking to strangers in general can be fun but if you do it excepting to get laid you’re in to be disappointed
/r/seduction28/06/21 01:38 PM
-1

There’s just something so inherently low value about talking to random girls outside that make it very hard to get success with, girl can’t sleep well when they know you approached them in the street and they gave in
/r/seduction28/06/21 05:31 AM
-5

How many girls have you fucked from cold approach?
/r/seduction28/06/21 03:54 AM
-14

Then why none of my numerous approach lead anywhere? I’m pretty good at reading signs of interest and do calibrated approaches
/r/seduction28/06/21 02:58 AM
1

Thanks haha, I just like curvy girls and don’t have better dating options atm so I take what I can get 😂
/r/seduction28/06/21 12:20 AM
0

I did show interest and held a conversation but O thought she would get the hint and understand I came mostly for sex but I guess reading social cues is too hard for her. Btw is it hard to hookup when you have housemates? I’m planning to move out with roommates soon but I wonder if it’ll affect my dating opportunities negatively
/r/seduction27/06/21 11:28 PM
0

What do you mean, you take dates too seriously?
/r/seduction27/06/21 11:11 PM
2

Exactly, I think it’s the whole concept of a girl has to feel like when she has sex with you she won you over and didn’t just give it away for free and this rule apply even when the attractiveness delta is high in my favor, she’s probably used to guys more attractive than her offering her sex. Eh, the sexual market is really fucked up when girls like that can afford to be so picky. At least I learned a good lesson and next time as soon as I get a girl like that the date is instantly over when sh…
/r/seduction27/06/21 11:08 PM
-26

You can do it for fun but don’t expect any results, unless you have a lot of value (in which case you wouldn’t do it anyway), cold approach just don’t work, I do it from time to time to pass time and even when you meet a very receptive girl she’s usually just being friendly and there’s nothing romantic there, you’ll most likely never manage to meet her again or fuck her, that’s just the cold hard truth
/r/seduction27/06/21 10:55 PM
1

I seriously don’t mind those low value girl if they act chill and are willing to fuck right away but I’m not taking you on any date and this just confirmed it. They know you’ll leave after fucking them so they try to milk you beforehand for a date because they know no one that attractive would voluntarily go on a date with them. I feel like I was taken advantage of, next time if the girl is ugly like that and pretend she don’t want to fuck in person I’ll just cut my loss right there. You do not …
/r/seduction27/06/21 10:52 PM
1

What’s the town name? I know quite a bit about dating in France
/r/seduction27/06/21 10:28 PM
1

I’m sorry but talking 30 sec to a girl in a mall hardly shows any personality or conversation, it’s not like she’ll accept to sit down and take a coffee on the spot. She’ll judge you solely on your appearance and how confident you sound which is almost like dating apps.
/r/seduction22/05/21 10:35 PM
1

Of course, I also needed to try it to understand it so go for it, like I say if you see a girl that's literally a 10 for you you should always go for it, you loose nothing and you'll feel better after but that should be once in a while, you don't meet 10s everyday. Also you must realize that dating apps are close to real life, the girls who swiped left on you on Tinder because you were ugly will also think you're ugly in real life, cold approach is not a cheat code that let's you bypass a girl p…
/r/seduction22/05/21 10:28 PM
1

Well depends what you call working, if for you fucking one girl out of 100 cold approach means working then yes it work but to me it doesn't work, the results are extremely low for the efforts you put in. And if some guys pretend they can fuck one in 10 or even one in 30 they're either lying or they're handsome but then they wouldn't even need to cold approach.
/r/seduction22/05/21 10:22 PM
2

Answering means nothing, that may just mean she's being polite, usually you don't need to negotiate attraction
/r/seduction22/05/21 10:20 PM
1

It's just not a good effort/result ratio. Approaching 100 girls takes time, you face rejections (rarely even mean rejection or humiliation), you gotta follow up with numbers, sort the time wasters, etc. just to fuck one single girl who probably won't even be that hot...
/r/seduction22/05/21 10:15 PM
2

If you need to persuade her to give her number it's already over, she's not into you and she won't even respond to your messages
/r/seduction22/05/21 10:13 PM
0

I do cold approach from time to time but honestly it never worked for me, even when it's a situational approach and we had a good conversation. I might have approached 30-40 girls like than and I never had sex or even a second meeting with any of them. I'm average looking, not ugly but not hot either. I think women just instinctively view cold approach as creepy and you being desperate (which is kinda true, who would approach women outside if they're already getting laid regularly). One of the r…
/r/seduction22/05/21 10:11 PM
5

I agree that part was weird, you can just talk a bit and if there's interest on her part you can ask for a number but asking to shop with her is weird
/r/seduction22/05/21 10:04 PM
2

What a fucking loser this guy must be lol, also why is your sister asking you to post this, can’t she manage this stuff by herself?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 08:00 PM
1

Well 80% of men are unattractive to women so most of the time looks are a big reason why you can’t get a chance with a girl, so yeah according to most women you are ugly but there’s nothing you can do about, you just gotta find the ones that think you look good
/r/seduction17/05/21 05:29 AM
1

Were they girl you saw frequently like plates and was close with? I'm more talking about the girl you try to meet and they're busy or the ones you fuck once and then they're hard to meet again, those never come back
/r/askTRP09/05/21 09:52 PM
14

That's manipulation at it's finest, brilliant.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 09:47 PM
2

Don’t next them with the hope that they will come back, unlike what most guys say here they rarely come back so don’t expect much out of it, just next her and forget about it
/r/askTRP09/05/21 03:46 PM
1

I have bad logistics too but you still find here and there girl who are fine with letting you cone over or they live alone, it’s worth trying even though you will miss some sex opportunities because of logistics
/r/askTRP09/05/21 03:44 PM
7

The fact you gave her a compliment and didn’t ask for her number or to see her again separated you from all the other guys who approached her before so she got intrigued and needed to find out more about you. You basically showed immense abundance by not asking for her number but having the courage to talk to her. But be careful, she’s probably gonna test you through texting to see if that abundance is real and if you make the slightest mistake and look too available she’ll loose all interest in…
/r/seduction20/04/21 03:43 PM
1

No, it means you’re not interested, if someone you admired or a girl you dreamed about texted you you would reply fast and never forget a message. The thing that happens is those girl just like the attention and aren’t attracted enough or available to fuck you, they don’t even keep a conversation after, they just want you to ask them out so they can ignore it and feel validated.
/r/seduction20/04/21 03:40 PM
4

Don’t worry about alts, you can report them but usually reddit is able to detect ban circumventing and they’ll just give you a 3 days reddit-wide ban on your main account, already happened to me and I learned the lesson
/r/askTRP17/04/21 07:53 PM
0

That doesn’t make sense, I know a lot on different topics and I never did it in order to make myself higher value and attract partners, it was just fascinating to learn that stuff, it almost never helped with girls
/r/askTRP17/04/21 05:23 PM
9

And 14d is very reasonable, in most female oriented subs you'd get a permanent ban just for stating an opinion different from what the sub prones
/r/askTRP17/04/21 05:20 PM
2

It really depends, most guys are ignorant too and can’t talk about politics or philosophy. If you meet girls in bars or clubs odds are they won’t be into deep subjects but if you meet them in a university they can be really smart and have great knowledge. So no, women aren’t basic, you just tend to meet only basic women for some reason
/r/askTRP17/04/21 05:13 PM
-3

Serious question, how is it FDS any worse than TheRedPill which is allowed on the reddit?
/r/MensRights15/04/21 11:26 PM
7

She likes the attention you give her by message her non-stop, so whenever you stop she’ll send a small message like "Hey" to get you chasing again and she’ll stop replying. Girls can be really petty.
/r/seduction15/04/21 05:15 PM
1

I don’t want to do more, if she can’t text me first and show interest after a date I’d rather not do it either. The feeling of not pursuing her when she’s used to it from all the other guys is actually better than the feeling of sex lol
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:14 PM
1

I agree, I think what most of us enjoy from sex is just the validation of it and the feeling like we won the mental game with the girl, once you sleep with her it means she’s submitted to you and you beat all the other guys she’s talking with at it. That might be the reason why sex with escorts is not really enjoyable for most people. In my experience, when you imagine the sex beforehand it sounds amazing but when you’re actually doing it it’s quite disappointing compared to what you hoped for.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:12 PM
1

True, that’s even better, shouldn’t have texted her at all
/r/seduction15/04/21 02:29 PM
2

I just feel like for the first time I am in control with a women, I don’t have to insist and try harder just to end up being ignored anyway. I can actually stand up for myself and retract from the interaction when I’m not pleased, and women tend to respect that.
/r/seduction15/04/21 04:08 AM
1

I mean I eventually do that with more attractive girls too when they don’t cooperate, I’ll just try one more time before I next them usually
/r/seduction15/04/21 04:07 AM
1

What I do is meet girls on dating apps and social apps, it works alright for me, I manage to get laid a few times a year lol. And I don't want to desensitize myself to rejection in person and be that guy that annoys girl outside. Cold approaching girls is inherently awkward and show bad social calibration, convincing yourself it's normal is not a good place to be at. It's better to work on improving yourself and try to get women in more natural ways.
/r/seduction13/04/21 10:45 PM
1

Still pretty low results for the efforts it take to do it and rejection you face, I don’t see it being a viable strategy to get laid regularly
/r/seduction13/04/21 05:17 PM
1

So you do cold approach regularly? How many girls have you fucked like that
/r/seduction13/04/21 03:25 PM
1

Nah, let me hit that is very bold and weird, I have never seen that girl before and she gave me no signs, I can't just ask her to let me hit her joint. If she rejects that it'll be 100x more awkward. But yeah it's important as a beginner to do a few cold approach just to learn it, that way if you met a cute girl at a social event or see a girl choosing you outside you'll be able to talk to her. I mean I'm still glad I did it because she might have been a really nice girl and we could have talked…
/r/seduction12/04/21 07:01 PM
1

I do it extremely rarely, it almost never pays off so it's a bad strategy plus the rejection and the awkward feeling is always annoying. But every guy should do it a few times just to be able to, that way if you meet a girl at a social event or bar who's choosing you you'll be able to go talk to her without hesitating.
/r/seduction12/04/21 06:54 PM
2

Yeah, if they're in your social circle that's warm approach too but usually just talking to a random girl in the street or grocery store is weird and even if she finds you cute she might think you're a weirdo for approaching her like that and it won't work. Even the girls I fucked before I'm pretty sure it would never have worked if I just saw them outside and talked to them, they'd think I'm weird and putting them on a pedestal. There's just something inherently low value in cold approaching wo…
/r/seduction12/04/21 05:01 PM
1

I see, but the teenager girls are trying to seduce her so she don't mind talking with them
/r/askTRP12/04/21 04:07 PM
2

That's exactly my point, the majority of clueless guys fuck it up and put women guards up so even when you know what you're doing and understand girls you can't even get a simple conversation with her because some guys fucked it up before.
/r/seduction12/04/21 04:06 PM
2

Lucky you, so bars and clubs are open just like before covid there? I very rarely do cold approach because I feel the efforts you put in aren't rewarded well, online dating gives more results. The only case where I'll do an approach is if it's warm like a girl is showing choosing signals first or if we're in a certain place where starting a conversation with her is normal. Even if I could get laid once by approaching 40-50 girls I don't think the sex will be worth all the rejection and awkward m…
/r/seduction12/04/21 03:56 PM
1

Yeah, that’s the reason why cold approach is doomed, so many creepy guys approach women with no clue what they’re doing or follow them which leads to women always having their guards up outside and thinking you’re a creep whenever you dare talking to them. So even if you’re charming and know how to hold a conversation you can’t get a chance because 10 creeps approached her before so she won’t even give you a chance to talk to her and prove that you’re not a creep.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:27 PM
1

Yeah, I totally get that but sometimes you just want to look for some choosing signals before going in, a cold approach out of nowhere has very low chances of working anyway. That’s why I don’t do cold approach anyway, it takes a lot of courage to do and most of the time you get no results and face harsh rejection sometimes
/r/seduction11/04/21 08:24 PM
1

But why is she so eager to talk with those girls but not with guys?
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:16 PM
1

I know but it’s just weird she’s so eager to talk to teenagers but doesn’t want to have any conversation with males
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:16 PM
0

I get that, it just sucks because just the fact you’re a guy makes girl instantly have their guards up, I could have been in a relationship and just wanted to have a friendly conversation and she would act the same way because she’s used to thirsty dudes. But when a group of girls talk to her she doesn’t have any guards and is friendly.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:15 PM
1

But why is she so eager to talk with those girls if she just want to relax and be alone?
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:12 PM
1

But why is she so eager to talk with those girls but not with guys?
/r/seduction11/04/21 08:11 PM
1

But why is she so eager to talk with those girls but not with guys?
/r/seduction11/04/21 08:11 PM
1

But why is she so eager to talk with those girls but not with guys?
/r/seduction11/04/21 08:11 PM
2

I don’t know, I just thought it was worth a last try after the other girls left, once you broke the ice it’s much easier to talk to someone again
/r/seduction11/04/21 08:11 PM
2

I wasn’t creepy, I just sat there like 2m from here and looked at everyone in the park while on my phone, I didn’t stare at her or anything
/r/seduction11/04/21 08:09 PM
0

I agree I should have noticed the signs and left but it was so awkward to leave, I swear before talking to her I felt like she was interested since she looked in my direction and showed some subtle signs. So basically she’s down to talk to those girls because they don’t want to smash her but she don’t want any conversation with me just because I want to smash her? That’s weird because a lot of girl will still have a conversation even if they’re not interested romantically in you, they’re just be…
/r/seduction11/04/21 08:07 PM
2

What made you move alone so young? For me that’s me main thing preventing me from getting laid sometimes is I don’t live alone so I’m glad it worked for you
/r/seduction04/04/21 02:33 PM
1

So you already live alone and got your own place, how old are you if I may ask?
/r/seduction04/04/21 06:36 AM
1

haikusbot delete
/r/seduction04/04/21 05:23 AM
1

Do you live with her or what? How did you propose to go home with her
/r/seduction04/04/21 05:22 AM
1

Depends, there’s a lot of easy girls out there but they are usually chubby so I can understand it’s not for everyone
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:29 PM
1

There's that too so you still need to sort them but if they flat out refuse he number it's a sign you need to next.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 08:08 PM
1

Idk, the girls I'm talking about were mostly slut so they were down for sex but I had to work out all the logistics and insist because her interest was low. We talked on some app and she didn't even ask for my pic at first so I think she was just down to fuck with anyone that would have been available and made logistics work.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 08:07 PM
1

If you want a relationship maybe but I’ve have some girls who had pretty low interest in me and never initiated contacts but if they are dtf they’ll let you come over and do it, they tend to be sluts tho so don’t expect a high quality girl who does that
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:25 PM
1

If you mean choosing signals then sure but cold approaching random girls will yield very low results for the effort and courage it takes
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:21 PM
2

Cold approach rarely works, even here in Western countries, most girls find it awkward so even if they would have liked you online the fact you approached them in the street with no context will ruin your chances. There’s a small number of girls who are down to be approached but they’re rare and there’s not guarantee they’ll be available and find you attractive at that time.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:21 PM
1

What do those acronym even mean? I joined the wagon in 2018 so I’m not into the old stuff
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:27 AM
1

I don’t think that’s a good idea, girls don’t have the balls to contact you first unless they are crazy into you
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:25 AM
2

If she say I don’t give it so easily next right away, whenever you need to insist for it it’s not worth it. Once had a girl working at a store telling me she would give her number the next time I come visit; I insisted and got it anyway but it led nowhere, her interest was inexistant. Now if I hear something like that I just move on.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:23 AM
1

I deal with young chicks and never noticed that, yes we use Snapchat but they don’t vet my stories before letting me meet them
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:20 AM
5

That’s fine if you didn’t ask for it, what I was saying is if you ask for the number and she gives her snapchat instead
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:19 AM
2

99% of guys have mediocre Instagram so usually it won’t serve you to give it
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:17 AM
-2

I never encountered them to be honest, they must be pretty shallow girls, all the girls I fucked didn’t care about my status beyond what I showed by my attitude
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:17 AM
-2

Sounds low value to me, no high value guy would approach random girls and deal with rejection 90% of the time
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:13 AM
0

You just ask their name to see if they have interest. And cold approach doesn’t really work so I avoid it but yeah, if there’s interest a bit kino always helps
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:10 AM
3

What do you mean by gaming in real life, you cold approach girls outside?
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:29 AM
6

That's smart, you can also ask them what's their name and what they do for a living and if they don't ask it back it's 100% sure she's not interested. But the number is usually the safest bet, some girl like to chat and they'll entertain the conversation for as long as you want with no romantic interest.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 08:49 PM
50

If a girl needs to make sure you aren't a creep it's probably a bad sign already, she wouldn't need to vet Chad
/r/askTRP30/03/21 08:46 PM
29

The amount of girl you'll met that are in a relationship and down to fuck is pretty low compared to the rest of girls. And usually if they don't give you their number they'll still show high interest and try to keep in touch with you, they'll make it easy for you to notice they are down for it.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 08:45 PM
28

Most girls will say they want to meet to be polite but once it's time to invest in it and give their number you can tell which one are serious about it.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 08:38 PM
5

3 years ago (can't believe it's already been that long ago), I think I was just googling stuff about girls since I had this oneitis about one girl I used to be with and spent all my time thinking about her or stalking her and then I discovered theredpill and started slowly to move away from my oneitis and my life kept improving since.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 07:52 PM
2

I agree but the issue is since on dating apps girls only have looks to go with, they usually only match with the hot guys who then have a chance to convey their personality though texting or a date, the average looking guy who would have been a perfect match for that girl personality-wise just get ignored from the get-go.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:00 PM
8

Makes no sense since guys doing cold approach get rejected most of the time even though the girl has more thing to base her choice on. It’s a fact women are more picky with looks, men can fuck a wide range of women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:29 AM
3

Might be just your age, most guys who approach are young and single so they'll go for a girl their age, they won't try approaching a woman who might be married or a mom, I know I wouldn't unless she was particularly my type
/r/seduction04/03/21 08:30 PM
3

I'm pretty sure fat girls get approached too, some guys like bbws
/r/seduction04/03/21 08:29 PM
21

Are the guys from the dating apps not real guys? I mean why do you put so much emphasis on guys approaching you outside when they still do in dating apps. You could go out with those guys.
/r/seduction04/03/21 08:26 PM
5

What I want is to grow together with you (physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually) and give you all my love and support that I have to offer for you as a person Dude, she sounds way too invested in you, what's the point of having a plate who's deeply in love with you while you're just there for sex. Not only it will hurt her but, from my personal experience, when a girl is always too easy to see or needy, it turns me off. I prefer when a girl is still a challenge, if she fucks you whe…
/r/askTRP04/03/21 08:20 PM
1

Alright, so I just wait for her to reach back to me?
/r/askTRP28/02/21 03:06 AM
-1

So do I try something or I just never contact her again?
/r/askTRP28/02/21 12:51 AM
1

I didn’t apologize, just briefly explained my view but probably she wants me to excuse like a good little boy
/r/askTRP27/02/21 10:09 PM
2

I don’t feel like texting her, I already sent 2 message that day and got no answer, being needy will just turn her off even more
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:54 PM
-1

She’s a bitch for being so turned off by a simple joke I made, she’s not even a hot girl, she’s chubby, but yea, I agree my texting can be improved
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:53 PM
-1

With some girls I managed to do it and they were playful but this one’s a bitch. But I agree it’s better to not do it unless she initiates it
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:41 PM
0

Is it possible to recover from it or it’s over?
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:39 PM
5

Go through what?
/r/seduction22/12/20 01:13 AM
1

Once you managed to do it once or a few time you realize some girls do want you and it is bound to happen again, so those who loose interest or ghost you won’t bother you anymore. It’s the abundance mindset I guess
/r/seduction21/11/20 12:07 AM
1

I feel any guy still worried about ghosting is either a virgin or still have issues getting laid
/r/seduction20/11/20 11:57 PM
2

They fuck the 10% or so guys that look amazing on their pics, simple as that. Or they don’t fuck anyone and only use it for attention for followers, girl fuck new guys less often than you would think.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 10:49 PM
1

Did you bang them while the guys were home? That could turn on some serious LMR so alone might be the way to go
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:11 AM
1

It’s a website that sets everything up, you just pay and you can go in so you have no idea who you’re with. Anyway, my point is more about is it better to move out alone or with roommates
/r/askTRP09/10/20 02:51 AM
1

On one of the roommates rent sites I use they don’t let you see or talk to your roommates before so that would be complicated but I could try finding someone who’s done for that on my city facebook apartment group, should I get a male roommates or female?
/r/askTRP09/10/20 02:27 AM
1

I base this on random roommates, I don’t have any friends who want to be roommates right now so the it’ll be complete strangers. What are the odds they’ll be fine if I bring girls?
/r/askTRP09/10/20 02:17 AM
0

I know you can’t attract every single guy in your class, but the fact is generally when you date people you can act pretty much however you want and keep the guy interest while us we have to be very tight in our game or we loose the girl interests
/r/seduction06/10/20 03:09 AM
1

If you’re poor then ya, I prefer you do that than seeing you beg on the street or steal in a store
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:00 AM
1

I suppose if you’re poor and can’t find a job then yeah but normally you can earn money legitimately without having to do that. Imo a girl who does that must not be doing well financially
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 02:54 AM
1

NYC is notorious for that, but I don’t believe in an other city you’d get talked to by men every single time you go out, might happen here and there but you make it sound like it’s impossible to not be approached by a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 02:51 AM
1

I can’t blame those men honestly, girls are very difficult to seduce if you’re just an average guy so the end justify the means (in the realm of legality obviously)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 02:48 AM
-2

That’s just dumb, it shows that you’re a woman and never had to make efforts to seduce someone, if you reply instantly you’ll just turn off the girl because she’ll believe you have nothing else to do in your life. I’d prefer if you would restrain from giving dating advice until you’ve tried seducing a woman yourself
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:45 AM
1

Thing is some women are totally happy just doing ons and never hearing from the guy again, but I’ve never heard of a man happy to give gifts to a girl who ghost him. I think you’re just tryna rationalize the fact that you want to finesse men out if their money and not feel bad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 02:36 AM
1

In what country do you live, I’ve never heard if woman who similar experience... I have a hard time believing you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 02:32 AM
1

People only do what you allow them to do
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:23 AM
1

5 is just very hypocrite coming from a woman, y’all are the queen of taking time to reply and playing games
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:13 AM
1

Got a source for that? I know there's more but right now I can't seem to attract any and those I lost in the past hurt me because it's time and efforts and luck that all went to trash because I don't have good logistics
/r/askTRP05/10/20 06:05 PM
1

True, I'm working on moving out alone in order to fix that issue. I'm tired of loosing so many girls because of logistics, I already fell bad enough for the ones I've lost, I don't want to loose any more.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 06:02 PM
1

My parents are ethnic so let say for us bringing a girl home is the worst you can do, they would never tolerate it, and also I live in the suburb so bringing girls from the city to here after a date or such would take an insane level of interest. I don't have a car either but I'm planning to move out from my parents in a year or less. For 2 of those girls I was actually dumb but it was actually my first real dates so I had no idea, it was when I started applying dating strategies so I managed to…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 05:34 PM
1

I know that's an axiom but as a guy you always want to get the most girl and not miss a single opportunity, so looking back and realizing I missed around 10 just because I have nowhere to bring them is depressing. But I must say that the few girls I've actually fucked where not that incredible even though I thought it would be when seeing her pictures before. I wouldn't have missed much even if I didn't fuck those.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 05:30 PM
1

True, but when I a drought thinking about those missed opportunities (especially they were numerous) is miserable but living in the present is the only remedy.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 05:24 PM
1

Wow, I didn't expect to hear such a wholesome and great advice on this sub, it's not even some though love bs. You deserve an award from me. But really it's true, it's the same when at some point I thought about my past and difficult times I had in high school and it made me depressed as hell, I feel when more happy when I forget my past and never try thinking it up too much.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 05:20 PM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction11/07/20 09:21 PM
1

Look up The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins
/r/seduction11/07/20 09:20 PM
3

You shouldn't put that much effort into it, I started having hookups since only last year, I had 3 in 4 months with random girls I never dated prior or met another time but now it's been 4 months with nothing at all, not even a date and I'm not worried about it. I know for a fact it's bound to happen again in the next months so I just let things go. Maybe it'll be next week, maybe in 3 months but I know it'll happen again so it gives me peace. Once you manage to do it once by yourself you realiz…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 07:51 PM
1

Do something like what? I can’t just say I’m going to get coffee, you can come if you want, it sounds weird
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:22 PM
1

Have you done it, how do girls usually react when you randomly sits with them and try talking with them. A part of me wants to do it but my brain tells me it’s a bad idea to just try sitting next to a complete stranger for no reason and try to talk with them... nobody else does that and I doubt the girl who think I’m attractive for doing so. I usually prefer approches where there’s a reason to talk to her and the situation allows a smooth discussion or at least I’m getting some choosing signals.…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:16 AM
1

I had an interview for a job recently in a vegan smoothie/fruit juice bar with plenty of cute girls there but I’ll see where it goes. But usually getting numbers at work is not an easy thing to do unless it’s just your coworkers
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:12 AM
1

Hmm, it’s hard to tell someone is into you just because they keep an eye contact a few seconds, what’s your success rate with this method?
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:06 AM
1

But my question is how to meet more girls efficiently, I’d rather not be one of those thirsty guys doing cold approaches everyday but what else can I do when none of my prospects want to go on a fucking date
/r/askTRP26/09/19 01:57 AM
1

Wait long enough and keep going on dates and eventually she’ll initiate sex by herself
/r/askTRP19/09/19 10:54 PM
8

You saying sweet little angel made me think of AMS on YouTube 😂
/r/askTRP19/09/19 10:52 PM
1

I agree, she didn’t look that passionate or had a smile while we briefly talked and she didn’t try to learn more about me, she was just talking to not make things very awkward for both of us. I guess even if I did ask for her snapchat she’d say she don’t have one or some bs excuse since her attraction was low. And getting her on date would be impossible. It’s my second approach with this line and it failed both time, even if she did actually smile at me girls hate being called out on it so they …
/r/askTRP13/09/19 12:40 AM
1

Sounds like you had bad experiences with guys and you gave up, just like me with girls
/r/MGTOW21/05/19 11:43 PM
0

Why? You have no interest in the opposite sex?
/r/MGTOW21/05/19 11:27 PM
1

It's subconscious, you don't do it on purpose 🐱‍👓
/r/MGTOW21/05/19 11:22 PM
0

It is biology lol, it's human nature that push men to want multiple partners. And anyway that's not even relevant, you're a woman so you still have those behavior in you, you're still being picky and try to find the highest value male you can get so you're not really different from other women, I don't think you can change that part of you. What I mean is you can't truly relate to MGTOW as a women, you can't know what it's like being a men.
/r/MGTOW21/05/19 11:05 PM
2

It's a biological thing, men are made to fuck any girl because they don't risk pregnancy and they can put multiple partners pregnant at once. Girl can only bear one child for a year so they must be picky. Also why do you complain since you're a women and you're the one being privileged here, I don't see what you're doing on MGTOW if you're not even being affected by men issues.
/r/MGTOW21/05/19 04:33 AM
5

Well they get their value given for free and they keep some of it with age, a 40 year old women can still get laid or get a relationship more easily than an average young guy can. A man starts with no value and will stay no value unless he works on himself
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 11:01 PM
4

So basically that explains why aren't any happier than men, beside having easier access to sex and relationship they have it as bad as us
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 05:35 PM
10

Meh, I would still enjoy being desired and being important just for being born a women rather than working for it, even an ugly fat girl is more desirable than an average guy
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 05:34 PM
1

Here in Canada it got mostly 1 star from angry men
/r/MGTOW09/05/19 03:24 PM
2

True, without Tinder the 20% men would have tons of girl so they’d have to settle with one in their social circle
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 01:25 PM
1

Well look on the amazon product page
/r/MGTOW09/05/19 01:24 PM
2

I’m not sure many women will actually buy it to ruin your life, all the Amazon review are bad
/r/MGTOW09/05/19 01:24 PM
32

Yea, it’s cognitive dissonance, much easier than to admit that not all guys want her
/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:13 PM
22

Lol @ the average guys who used to think girls not being judged for having lot of sex would mean they’d get laid more often
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 11:29 AM
10

Exactly, an average girl today who wants sex can do it with a 20% guy without any effort, before Tinder or dating apps if she wanted sex she had to count on the few guys she met in real life even if they weren’t in the 20% so that way any guy had a chance
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 11:27 AM
2

Exactly
/r/PussyPassDenied08/05/19 12:23 AM
17

Not even true, an average girl will get a relationship way more easily than an average guy will get laid
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/19 08:43 PM
15

I disagree with OP honestly, I've rejected or ignored some girls that I didn't find attractive and not a single one tried to pursue me ever again, they all have options
/r/MGTOW06/05/19 06:16 AM
5

C.H.A.D
/r/MGTOW06/05/19 06:04 AM
10

Hello my fellow MGTOW brothers...
/r/MGTOW06/05/19 05:30 AM
14

Yup but go try explaining that to any normie and he'll start getting angry at you
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 10:36 PM
27

Happened to me on IncelTears just because I said a girl shouldn't get blacked out drunk because she risk being assaulted. I got the whole victim blaming talk.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 10:01 PM
1

What else can she do though? Her husband is sexually repulsive to her, either she forces herself to fuck him which would make her feel like shit or she divorce him. Stop bashing women for anything they do, this ain't braincels
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 09:51 PM
3

Yup, people don’t follow advices you give them for free, they only follow advices they’ve asked or paid for.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 01:18 PM
1

Why does everyone say it’s easier at college, it’s not true at all, it’s the point where girls have their highest SMV and the most options so it’s actually the hardest place to get girls unless you’re in the top 20%
/r/askTRP28/04/19 05:31 PM
12

It’s more than those things actually help you improve your life and well being while porn/video games are just a way to cope and suffer less from the mediocre life you’re living
/r/askTRP08/04/19 10:27 PM
1

Some dude read La société du spectacle here, it's always nice to find a smart guy here from time to time!
/r/askTRP02/04/19 11:31 PM
1

Basically we need to get rid of capitalism, that's what you meant
/r/askTRP31/03/19 06:03 PM
2

This is exactly what Jordan Petterson talks about, societies with marriage and enforced monogamy had less aggressiveness in men because all of them were getting some sex so there was no proper incels which improved the society in the end. It's better for a society to prevent women from being sluts and enforcing marriage because that way kids can grow up in decent families and most men aren't unhappy because they can't get any intimacy.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 02:21 AM
1

Don't say dehumanize anywhere else lol, I get what you mean but using that word makes you look like a psychopath honestly xD
/r/askTRP25/03/19 11:22 PM
1

Wagecuck is a term I found on braincels sub lol but it’s pretty accurate. And obviously, it’s modern slavery, women are naturally submissive so they rarely question it and society try to make men betas so they’ll think like women and submit to it too. It’s possible to get out of it but it tales time, won’t happen from a day to the other, the first step is to understand what capitalism is (learn about Marx and Engels) and find a way out, if you do nothing it will swallow and you’ll end up doing a…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 03:08 PM
3

They’ll keep wagecucking, work is exploitation, your boss makes money of your time that’s why so many red pill men value entrepreneurship, if men are beta they’ll stay submitting to capitalism and never try to fight back and throw capitalism to the trash. It’s also to make men weak and allow massive immigration from the south but that’s a whole other story
/r/askTRP25/03/19 02:35 PM
1

You sure? Even with abundance mindset you’ll never have pussy available 24/7 for free, I think it’s better to just find other occupations in life and realize sex is not merely as enjoyable as most people think it is
/r/askTRP25/03/19 02:33 PM
4

Check tinder subreddit and you’ll realize it within seconds. But we can’t blame women, it’s literally impossible to talk to 100 different guys and do a decent conversation, one word answers are already very time consuming when you need to send them to 20 different people
/r/askTRP25/03/19 02:07 PM
2

What’s the best way to devalue pussy?
/r/askTRP25/03/19 01:56 PM
5

It’s not women who emasculated men, it’s capitalism in order to make men easier to control et exploit. Do you really think women alone would have enough influence to make men like that?
/r/askTRP25/03/19 01:56 PM
2

That's very simplistic though, women are attracted to handsome guys even though being pretty wouldn't make you better at killing things.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 12:07 AM
1

The healthier sides of it are very enticing but it still take a lot of work, how many times a week do you have to train to get results?
/r/askTRP24/03/19 12:04 AM
1

What the fuck did you just fucking say about me, you little bitch? I'll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and I've been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and I'm the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my fucking words. You thi…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 12:00 AM
1

Being rejected just made me stop caring and ignore girls and look for happiness within myself. It didn’t made me want to start lifting tbh, but I agree it’s a good thing to do
/r/askTRP23/03/19 10:22 PM
2

What’s the point of these posts, it kinda looks fake and even if it’s true it hold no value, it’s not like that was something all girls did, most girls are loyal to their best friend
/r/MGTOW23/03/19 09:42 PM
1

Yeah, I knew that, I uninstalled and stopped all dating apps a many months ago, these apps are only worth using if you’re a top 10% hot guys or a girl. I’ll probably do that, I never go to bar or parties though, only the most attractive guys can pull a girl there so it’s no different than Tinder really but noticing IOIs seems to be the best approach. It clearly beats cold approach or Tinder
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:38 PM
1

You’re right, improving my looks by lifting is the easiest thing compared to improving my status or money. But how do you find the motivation to go to the gym regularly, you say lift heavy things so couldn’t you do that from home if you had weights? I already manage to do cardio at home with an app and exercises but I haven’t done any lifting yet.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:28 PM
1

But we don’t live in caveman days, women evolved... Jk 😂😂 But yeah, that totally makes sense. We too as men have evolved to be attracted to women who have cues of fertility like silk hair, big breasts, etc. I know I need to start it but it’s hard and I’m concerned that all the efforts I put in there won’t get me enough results, have a great physique could help me me get the girls attention but everything after, how to act during dates etc could make me loose her anyway. I know it sound like I’m …
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:18 PM
1

There’s just one thing missing Laura: can get laid and have a relationship with no efforts Larry: No girl wants him But overall Larry still has it better 🤷‍♂️
/r/MGTOW23/03/19 09:06 PM
1

Which one is more important though, lifting or getting good at talking to girl? I feel like unless you’re very fit it will be hard for girls to notice it while you’re wearing normal clothes... I find it hard to believe a few pounds less and more muscle can make girl notice you and treat you decently, you’re still the same guy
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:02 PM
1

Why so rude? You can see a therapist if you have issues you need to deal with
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:57 PM
1

I’m looking for someone to share his experience, not a binary answer
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:49 PM
5

A plate for 2 years?? Was it an on-off thing or was it 2 years of frequent meetups and sex, multiple times a month let say. If you only saw her once a month I can understand but if you’re telling me you saw her once a week or more I can’t believe you didn’t get any feelings for her, especially since you’re saying "she does it for you". I’m a bit skeptical
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 12:19 AM
2

Then why is she saying you said something that wasn’t true. It looks like you explicitly promised her a relationship or something serious and never delivered, it’s a bit unethical to lie like that.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 12:13 AM
7

Dunno, the guy in the friendzone ends up alone watching porn while the plate gets regular sex and maybe attention/dates from a guy she’s attracted to. One clearly has it better
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 12:08 AM
1

Well you look like a good kid in a mad city, you feel ashamed and bad at things that other people or that same girl you’re talking about would find normal to do
/r/askTRP03/03/19 06:29 PM
1

But why do girl act like they try to avoid sex with you by any means and find any small mistake you did as an excuse to deny you sex completely, their behavior show that they really don't want sex and I hate that, it's like you have to convince them to do something they don't want to do and it doesn't feel genuine.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:44 PM
1

Good Kid, M.A.A.D City
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:41 PM
0

You need to view women as your equivalent so that the recognition they give you will be valid and it will fulfill you. TRP isn't everything, it helped get you laid but it's not made to help you make positive and fulfilling relationship with womens. As a human you have a need for recognition and this recognition can only be given to you by someone who's your equal who you can see yourself in. Since you keep seeing women as inferior to you their recognition will never be enough since it comes from…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:44 AM
3

I think what you're feeling is similar to a master/slave relationship, a master can never be truly satisfied by the attention and worship he gets from his slave because by nature he consider the slave to be worth less than him so his praise are also worth less so they never satisfy him. You consider women to be worth less than you because of the whole red pill stuff so their praise and love can't really fulfill you because they come from someone under you and not at your level so they aren't wor…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:13 AM
1

That’s the most safe option to me but what’s so bad about my attitude and me? I just don’t want to act creepy to a girl I could meet at school again, she will end up talking about me to her friends, etc. It could end badly
/r/askTRP02/03/19 06:59 PM
1

I’m not sure about it, I feel like asking to meet at her place is literally asking for sex and I don’t want to look like a creepy guy, we didn’t built a serious rapport or kissed so asking to come to her place would look creepy. And she’s at my college so I might bump into her again after, I don’t want it to be awkward
/r/askTRP02/03/19 06:55 PM
1

Eh, I don’t even have my own place so can’t really ask her to come over, otherwise I would have tried. But she looked so shy and even stressed so I doubt she’d be comfortable enough to come but at the same time she looked so kind that she wouldn’t say no to anything, it’s hard to tell xD What should I do now though, do you think I should text her saying I had a great time and would like to come to her place to watch a movie next time (kinda awkward to do after a boring date). Or... next her and …
/r/askTRP02/03/19 05:32 PM
1

I’ve went out with girls and we had really fun meaningful conversations, they had stuff to tell, tons of stories about themselves, the time went by so fast so it created attraction very fast but when a girl has nothing to say and talk about basic stuff the attraction isn’t there, she’s pretty but not very hot, just an average body with a pretty face. Also how do you manage to fuck those socially awkward girl, you just ask them to come over to your place and they accept? I thought those girls wou…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:08 PM
1

I can’t tell but her being pretty alone isn’t enough to create chemistry, the conversation leads nowhere and it’s not someone I enjoy spending time with tbh. She might have a low interest too but she agreed to meet twice and always look me in my eyes when we talk, but she never texted me between dates and takes long time to reply to text sometimes. And yes it will matter in bed, if she’s that boring in person she might be boring as hell in bed too and not want to do anything. Right now I’m just …
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:01 PM
1

That’s not a strategy, you can’t decide how much she will drink and she might say no anyway, I don’t even like going to dates in bar tbh
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:54 PM
1

It’s kinda weird to ask a girl to get a room since there’s no plausible deniability, her interest mist be very high and I don’t think it’s the case with this girl here, she never texted me between dates
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:50 PM
1

I’m not, I’m just saying it’s another obstacle into getting her
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:49 PM
1

Okay, I’ll wait till she hit me up first and ask that
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:48 PM
1

Won't have one for sure, unless it's at her place
/r/askTRP02/03/19 12:47 AM
1

Uh, I don't know how to go about fucking her if the chemistry isn't there, the escalation won't even lead anywhere
/r/askTRP02/03/19 12:46 AM
1

I’ll probably do that, is it still worth asking to do something at her place next time? I loose nothing even if she don’t want to
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:57 PM
1

It’s not like every guy who ever got laid had his own place alone, it’s possible to do it at her place or go to an hotel, I don’t see why I would not date girls because I don’t have my own place... even if it fails it’s more experience
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:56 PM
2

It’s kinda hard to escalate when there’s so many silences and she can’t find anything interesting to say to keep the conversation, and I don’t even have my own place to bring her over so that doesn’t help. But that’s beyond the point, having sex with a boring girl you have no chemistry doesn’t sound very fun
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:28 PM
1

I kinda suck at sexualizing stuff since I’m new to theredpill and inexperienced and the fact she don’t do anything herself makes it even harder. I’ll probably propose her to meet at her place next time or wait till she text me first and propose it. Dunno which one is better
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:26 PM
1

Fun how? What do you think I should do I’ll probably ask to meet at her place next time and if she declines I don’t mind. Though I’m not sure if I should text her to propose it first or wait till she text me first if she ever does
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:23 PM
2

I did try to tell her about it, even said she looked stressed being with me but she doesn’t respond playfully, she just give a normal answer, I tried staying silent as I had talking just to talk but she ends up talking about the same boring things. I mean even if I managed to make sex happen it would probably be that boring starfish sex since she’d be too shy to ask or do anything different so idk if it’s even worth going for it... sex with a boring shy girl don’t seem very hot even though she’s…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:20 PM
1

So you don’t try with those girls and just next right away?
/r/askTRP01/03/19 08:26 PM
1

I feel like no matter what we do she’ll still talk about boring stuff and the conversation won’t get very deep... I don’t even know what she likes so it’s hard to find something to do or talk about that she’ll be into and trying to escalate when the conversation is boring makes no sense, she looks at me and got her body towards me but she don’t try to touch me/bump into me or to make it more personal. Also the first dates we had she tried to meet me with her friend or make her join us a few time…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 08:26 PM
1

Is it worth asking to meet at her place next time to watch a movie? If we can kiss or have sex she might be worth my time, is it any easier to hook up with a shy girl in general? She don’t look like the kind of girl to manipulate and make the guy wait for sex but she might also be prude and say no to anything sexual, I can’t tell for sure
/r/askTRP01/03/19 08:19 PM
1

A true alpha wouldn’t be on a forum about dating so yeah, most guys here are trying to be alpha but aren’t natural alphas
/r/askTRP25/02/19 04:18 PM
1

I’ll try next time I see her
/r/askTRP05/02/19 12:34 PM
1

I didn’t got her number yet, we just talked and she left because she was nervous, I didn’t had time to ask for her number or anything
/r/askTRP05/02/19 05:36 AM
1

What would have been a better timing, I can’t do it in class while the teacher speaks... Also what is the best way to escalate at school, best I could do is spend a break with her and get her number
/r/askTRP04/02/19 09:43 PM
2

See that’s much harder to me, hitting up a random girl by saying a joke or talking about the teacher without any purpose makes it look like I’m trying to get her number or something from her which will probably put her guards up, it feels tryhard so I don’t feel confident enough to try that. But asking a girl about a homework or a genuine question like I did makes it more legit and doesn’t look like I’m hitting on her, it’s makes the approach much easier for me since I’m not cold approaching her…
/r/askTRP04/02/19 09:26 PM
0

Yeah, the moon is an orbiter of earth
/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 07:16 PM
1

Fuckin looser, those who say that are the most insecure and unhappy
/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 07:15 PM
-3

Men do too, if the girl wasn’t giving you sex you’d get rid of her
/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 05:14 PM
8

So basically you cheat on your wife and admit it?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 05:08 PM
4

Not true, any fat woman has more options than the averages guy so it’s not like this is going to work
/r/TheRedPill13/01/19 05:19 PM
2

That sounds so beta but I guess if you're cute anything works
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 03:35 AM
11

Nah, I think that's a bit too much
/r/askTRP17/12/18 05:55 PM
1

Well yea, everyone can agree with that, same apply for guys, we prefer pretty girls for casual sex, we don't ask for a good personality or such
/r/askTRP17/12/18 05:54 PM
49

You always gotta multiply by 3, that’s the golden rule
/r/askTRP17/12/18 03:31 PM
3

You’re totally right but you know what, you’ll always get downvoted, you know why? People don’t want to admit looks are everything because it’s very hard to fix or modify (a surgery is risked and looked badly upon by most ppl) so people prefer to swallow a blue pill that makes them believe confidence and game is important, they can still get you laid regularly but nowhere near what being pretty can achieve. This idea that looks are everything is mostly shared by blackpill or incels so it’s not v…
/r/askTRP17/12/18 12:52 PM
1

A girl with a low n count won’t be attracted by a frat guy tho, your status mostly attract sluts, let’s be honest. And I understand your requirements but if a girl likes you enough she’ll have no problem lying about her n count and loose no sleep over it, soo many guys fell for something like that. You better shit test her alot for it and ask around with her friends etc to have a background check or else you’ll just LTR a fake n count
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 12:27 PM
3

That sounds kinda desperate to approach that much tbh
/r/askTRP17/12/18 12:16 PM
3

Confidence only matters if you reached her benchmark lookwise, if you’re a 4 to her and her benchmark is at 7, no amounts of confidence will get you that girl. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 12:16 PM
1

You should get rid of that, I think realizing that all girls are sluts is part of taking the red pill... she told you her n count is 2 but she might have lied about, alot of girls do it, more than you think. The common rule is to multiply the number she tells you by 3 or so because they always give you a lower number just like guys give a higher number. I get that you don't want to be monogamous to a slut but I'd say a count of 5 or so is reasonable, what matters is her personality and how you f…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 01:55 AM
1

That's interesting but I heard alot of TRP endoresed contribuer are in those open relationships with girl so it can't be that bad, if she accepted to share you it can't be that bad because it's better than not having you at all and she mgiht have cheated on you too without letting you know. You sure nothing else happened that could hurt her mentally? I guess at this point the best thing you can do is recommend her to get therapy to get better. I wouldn't be interested in that personally, if I'm …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 10:01 PM
1

That's not so bad, 10-12 a year is decent and I'm sure your status and looks helped alot with those. I wonder how you convinced a girl to do a one-way open LTR tho
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 08:09 PM
1

I guess that helps but most guys could still mess that up. How many pull you manage to get a year?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 07:44 PM
1

Well that social proof certainly helps with girls though some girls might be afraid of frat guys in this #metoo era
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 05:03 PM
1

No way, are you like a 9 or 10, otherwise I don’t see how this could ever work
/r/askTRP15/12/18 09:10 PM
1

That’s not the point, the problem is how desperate they are and reduced to have to act like a clown to get some
/r/askTRP15/12/18 08:32 PM
1

What do you do in real life, approach any girl that shows some IOI?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 05:28 PM
1

Is this sarcasm or real?
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:18 PM
1

I small amount of girls still use it for those I think
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:17 PM
4

Most normal people who go on that sub think it’s just cute and funny but when you’re a man with the red pill you can only see it as desperate, a clown frame will never get you laid with most girls anyway
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:28 AM
1

Exactly, the best dancing monkeys gets a reply and a date maybe
/r/MGTOW15/12/18 01:48 AM
0

Yeah, french is my main language, I listened a few mins and one thing I don't like is he have very long videos (1-2 hours) but I'll give it a try. He also use some very complex concepts that I don't understand (I'm relatively new to Marx and those ideas) but he sounds very interesting, thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 01:45 AM
1

That's very interesting, I very rarely or never get matches but that's probably because most of my pics are selfies I took and they're not the most flattering and good looking becuase I don't so much skills with pic. But it's also the fact I'm not super attractive, that's why I stopped using dating apps, I realized that you had to be much higher that average to get matches on there. And even if you get matches, most will end up in ghosting.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 01:37 AM
4

Capitalism will infest every part of life it can; video games, porn, relationships. It takes all the human contact and creating bond that dating once had and turned it into a way to make money fast and alienates people on those apps. (If you don't understand any of this try reading Capital, Volume I by Karl Marx)
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 07:00 PM
2

What kind of first message do you send? (just curious if looks matter that much)
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 06:55 PM
3

The general attitude of men on those app hurts them individually.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 06:54 PM
1

You think she will break up with you soon?
/r/askTRP14/12/18 06:35 PM
1

Maybe try withdrawing your attention to the point where she will realize the only way to keep her bf is to give away some sex, then if she decide to not pursue you further or give sex just move on, it's better to move on now than invest more in her. It's manipulation but I don't see anything else you can do beside leaving her altogether
/r/askTRP14/12/18 06:28 PM
8

It just means she’s smart and has RPW game, if she stayed as a plate you would technically be the winning one and she’d be giving free sex, she’s just smarter than that. Your reaction was perfect though, you mastered the red pill, you showed no attachment and didn’t try to go after her, that in itself is better than most guys and you should be proud of it. Now she’ll probably go whine to her friends that all men are asshole.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 12:15 AM
1

I just like seeing both sides and how strategies are used by men and women related to the red pill. I’m still trying to give advices that help women based on my knowledge of men/women relationships. I still go on TRP to learn but it doesn’t mean I’m sided with men and can’t help a women too. I hope that’s not against the sub rules, otherwise I’m sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 06:14 PM
1

Ah, I get it, well I’m glad you can be honest about it and not pretending to be loyal. I hope to get that attractive that I can have variety and girls will go with it, would be the best thing. But I don’t fully agree with it, women cheat for variety sakes too with a coworker and such, it doesn’t mean her boyfriend isn’t attractive, she just got bored in bed and wanted new experiences.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 05:08 PM
2

I like seeing communities like this where men can talk about their problems and get support, in the old times it was wrong for a man to talk about his problems and he had to keep everything inside. Good luck to you, hope you get better soon!
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:34 PM
1

What about AWALT?
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/18 06:36 PM
1

I see, well I guess if you’re very attractive and got the upper hand she’s likely to accept even though she’s more likely to have her escapades too since you do it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/18 04:05 PM
1

I’m not a girl actually, was just asking for your view on it. How can you still have plates and a girlfriend at the same time tho, how does that work out lol
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/18 02:24 AM
1

So being in a LTR with a great girl if better than having sex with different girls regularly?
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 11:18 PM
6

It's not even common courtesy, if a stranger asks me to check his car for towing I won't, I have other things to do... Should I go buy him a coffee too while I'm there?
/r/MGTOW05/12/18 11:12 PM
2

Idk, maybe because it’s the only way to have children and make a family? Though you’re right because even famous dating coach like Richard La Ruina are married but I suppose knowing game will make their marriage last longer and more enjoyable, that kind of knowledge doesn’t go to trash.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/18 08:38 PM
5

I agree, if he don’t have many options you can make him settle just by giving pussy sometimes but for an alpha you need a very good personality, charisma and to play feminine/submissive to keep him, if all you have to bring to the table is between your legs then he will never commit.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/18 03:50 PM
6

Indeed, I would probably do the same at her place. Imagine girls were hitting you up all the time and putting you on a pedestal, you would definitely start treating them like shit and make them pay your bills, do things for you etc. It’s not like she lied or fooled him, he willingly accepted to wait there like an idiot for a number. What’s good with MGTOW is we realize it and stop these behaviors, I’d rather have no pussy and not be a simp than be one and have no pussy anyway
/r/MGTOW05/12/18 02:49 PM
-1

You basically want the comfort and commitment of the beta with the sex-appeal of the alpha but that’s impossible, you gotta make a choice. Any attractive alpha in his right mind wouldn’t settle down, especially if he knows about the red pill.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/18 02:43 PM
4

Yeah, you’re right, I feel it’s a waste of time for girls since how the hell do you find the great guys when you’re flooded with low efforts messages and matches. And also, the more choices you have, the less happy you are with your final choice.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 11:20 AM
1

I think there is a study made on okcupid and it confirmed it, it as like 22/78 or so
/r/askTRP04/12/18 11:17 AM
1

Same here, it will come with time and efforts
/r/askTRP04/12/18 11:14 AM
2

They aren't special and you gotta work harder to get them. But cold approach is still hard tho
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:24 AM
1

My thoughts are that you're finding excuses, even if you're right and it's 95/5, there's not much you can do about it besides improving yourself even more
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:12 AM
1

That's very true! Do not give up
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:06 AM
1

She can still get laid regularly without putting any efforts so I don't call that nothing...
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:07 AM
1

True, what I meant is being an ugly girl is easier than being an ugly guy
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:10 AM
1

That's good to know though I'd much rather be an ugly girl than an incel, girls still have it easier sadly
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:06 AM
1

Anyway it's over now: guys send too much messages -> girls don't reply -> guys get desperate -> guys send too much message It's a vicious circle and there's no way to end it, just stop dating apps altogether
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:28 AM
1

I see, so ugly girls because bitter and less approachale because they faced multiple rejection in past... so they're kind of incels who can get laid, same mentality
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:25 AM
2

Why not, if that girl literally had no other options she would be a fool to miss out on him..? And even if it she didn't gave it up to him, she was probably the one being needy and calling him often, making it easier for him than it is today, anything would be better than those cold bitch you see today that can ghost you because you sneezed in front of them
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:14 AM
1

Was just trying some method I saw in a video, I normally have 0 dating app on my phone
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:12 AM
1

You think? I kinda believe if they can afford to ignore most guys they should still have guys willing to give them commitment, you see alot of ugly girls in relationship. But you're 100% right on the first point, they have no reason to be after sex with average guys since they already have plenty of offers for that at any given time
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:01 AM
2

It was just a message saying my name and asking for theirs in a nice way, I didn't send them a "Hey, how are you?". Anyway, my main point was that 3-4/10 girls ignoring 6/10 guys is fucked up, this is not the sign of a healthy sexual market.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:55 PM
2

What I mean is before Tinder and dating app the only way to get a fat or ugly girl was to approach her, desperate men were most likely too shy to approach or they rarely did and attractive guys ignored those girls so that fat girl ended up thinking she was unattractive, had a bad self-esteem which meant any guy going for her and giving her attention would get her. Today the average fat chick has tons of beta she ignores on Tinder + body positivity movement so in her head she believes she is as p…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:51 PM
1

Well that just hurts even more, what can I even do about it?? Should I just become an incel and give up
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:32 PM
8

Everytime I go on there it's worse, I mean if those fat and ugly girls can afford to ignore me it means someone else is probably dating them which is incomprehensible... The sexual market in today's world is so broken that the ugliest girls can still get dates and pretty men can't
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:25 PM
82

There's a reason for this, men need to grow up and become men in order to even meet any girl or loose their virginity, women don't need to do that since relationship or sex comes served in a plate for them so they end up staying children all their lives since they never had any reason to grow up unlike men.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 03:47 AM
4

Woman say "I have a boyfriend" because they don't like confrontation and they know just saying "I'm not interested in you" would be rude and it could put them in danger if the guy gets mad because of it so they'll always find a soft way to say it by lying, it's an evolutionary thing, women will always try to avoid conflicts.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 03:15 AM
3

That’s pokimane right?
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 07:57 PM
2

This guy is a troll, watch his content
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 07:53 PM
1

I know but paying everytime is not a viable strategy, especially as a newcomer in the dating scene where most dates won’t even lead to sex or another meetup
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 10:57 PM
1

I mean it’s your money in the end, you can pay restaurants for every girl you date and end up with nothing in return in most case, up to you
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 08:19 PM
1

Well that’s free of charge for her
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 08:15 PM
2

And her manners would have been even better if she actually paid her half, all girls will offer to pay but it’s just a social norm to be polite, she didn’t want to pay at all and expected you to from the beginning. What I mean is if she’s genuinely into you, paying or not won’t affect her feelings for you so it’s not worth paying
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 08:10 PM
1

And what if she didn’t do that and wore normal clothes, you wouldn’t have paid for her?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 07:42 PM
-1

So you’re supposed to buy her dinner or no? Some guys on Red Pill say to never pay anything for her and some do it. What if you pay and don’t get another date or sex, you just wasted your money
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 07:30 PM
1

No but it can give you diabetes, heart stroke, high blood pressure, etc. which can ruin your life and kill you eventually
/r/MGTOW08/05/18 01:48 AM
2

I believe you should still focus on improving your life rather than wasting time and money in video games tho
/r/MGTOW07/05/18 04:31 PM
5

Sugar and fat can kill you the same way but people only focus on smoking
/r/MGTOW07/05/18 02:15 PM
4

This is so confusing though, I guess TRP is about become that right guy
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:27 AM
2

Being vulnerable would be just telling her you don't have any experience with something or just looking a normal person who has it's weakness, discussing your feeling is different, it's when you tell a girl that you're depressed and things have been very hard for you etc.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:00 AM
1

Same for me, every time I feel bad, need to rent or even have a specially good day I journal it in my iPhone notes app, I never read it again afterward but it just feel good to let it go by writing it and helps me get the emotions out
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 03:54 AM
6

Indeed, their brain is wired to look for the strongest male all the time so if you display any kind of weaknesses that means you're not the best and won't be able to protect her and give good offspring. It's pretty depressing to think about because it make me realize that us guys are only provider in the end, we can't even afford one moment of weakness while a girl can afford to be weak all the time and it's our job to make her feel better.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 03:07 AM
5

Fuck, this is so true. Same thing happened with a girl I met online, we used to have a lot of fun together sexting and she was really into me because she was often messaging me first and sending pictures without me asking but one day I was feeling depressed because I failed 3 of my classes at school this year and I was dumb enough to tell her about it because I was seeking for comfort. She barely even cared and didn't show much empathy at the time but that's not the worse, since then she became …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 02:34 AM
22

No, it can happen to anyone to fall in love, you should feel some empathy for him
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 02:20 AM
8

That's interesting, I used to think girl who said that were genuinely not looking for one. For some reason I still think that most girls aren't interested in sex, blue pill indoctrination is hard to get out of lol
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 02:17 AM
3

These rules are funny because they could actually be used by girls themselves to lower the risk of an assault happening, things like drinking too much or dresses lol
/r/MGTOW21/04/18 10:35 PM
2

Nice job! Yesterday at an event I approached 2 girls that I never talked with but saw a few time at school. They left after talking for like 15 seconds but idc, I’m just thrilled that I found the courage to do it, I never approached a girl I didn’t knew before
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 02:13 PM
-2

Did you know animals have feelings too?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 08:14 PM
5

You can also become vegan too while you’re at it lol
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 03:58 PM
1

Well easier said that done, it takes some work first
/r/askTRP17/04/18 02:06 PM
2

So within a month of TRP you managed to get a girl, that's nice. I never had any girl and still don't know how to go about it, I'm able to text a girl and set up a meeting since TRP but never actually did one lol, I just don't know how to go about it yet. It's just annoying at first that you have to organize every single aspect of the date (location, day, time) yourself or else the girl will never do anything.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 02:02 AM
1

Just propose it, guys would love to not have to pay every time. They only pay because they have no other choose but trust me they would like get offered to pay by a girl, just make it clear that you're not offering this to mean that you don't want to go further with him
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 01:57 AM
-1

Same for me, discovered this sub a few weeks ago and I already made big progress compared to before. It really helps me cope with my oneitis, I barely think about her anymore, and I'm looking forward to meeting new woman. I even realized stuff like Tinder is useless, I used to keep swiping right hoping to get a girl but with TRP I realized I'm not 9-10 physically so I will never make the cut so approaching girls IRL seems like my best bet.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 01:48 AM
1

Well you were meant to be here kinda, if TRP was presented to another men the same way he might have just disregarded it
/r/askTRP17/04/18 01:28 AM
2

That makes sense, I also believe the RP is easier to swallow when you already have right wing political views as a left wing man would see this subreddit as pure misogyny and disregard it which would mean he won't be able to use any of the tips available here. I guess it's all some sort of path, if you end up on TRP maybe you were meant to be here and you've always been the good profile for it.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 01:26 AM
3

I’m new here, why is it so wrong to tell someone about it? Will he just use cognitive dissonance to deny it and end up even more screwed? I wasn’t planning to tell anyone, just curious
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:35 PM
-3

Well (some) women care about money and status and men care about sex, it’s just different approach to the dating game
/r/MGTOW15/04/18 07:01 AM
2

Well not to show off but I'm only 18, never had any serious relationship yet and found out about MGTOW :p
/r/MGTOW15/04/18 06:17 AM
8

Work on that frame bro 😝
/r/MGTOW15/04/18 04:12 AM
6

Well they won’t because they won’t even message you 👀
/r/MGTOW15/04/18 04:02 AM
16

It’s Virgin Mobile :(
/r/MGTOW15/04/18 03:19 AM
5

Neat.
/r/MGTOW15/04/18 03:05 AM
-1

Who said I didn’t want to work? You just wanted to use that sentence...
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 09:38 PM
1

This is not really helping me, I came here for help about relationship...
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 09:29 PM
1

I'm not, I'm here to learn.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 09:17 PM
2

Thanks! So basically just being confident about myself with make it easier with girls?
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 09:16 PM
0

Dunno, I don’t feel like going through 300 pages with my slow reading speed would be efficient, I prefer short content I can read anywhere
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 09:14 PM
1

Well I started not long ago so I don't do much at all but yes I do like making money when I sleep lol. And no, most people around be wouldn't believe it's possible to make money from internet.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 09:10 PM
1

I already do that with personal development, it made me want to improve my money, social circle and relationship. But I don’t see how girl would suddenly want to fuck me because I can make a passive income from internet 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 08:59 PM
1

Pussy is just worth more than dick, that’s just biological intangible logic, cope with it.
/r/MGTOW13/04/18 11:12 PM
2

Wtf, I thought it was a guy the whole time, didn’t knew girls could be so desperate and dangerous too
/r/MGTOW13/04/18 07:42 PM
10

Tbh this kind of robot could be the future, you wouldn’t have to deal with a mean woman anymore to get sex
/r/MGTOW13/04/18 12:48 AM
1

There is one, I haven’t watched it yet but I saw the thumbnail on Youtube, there’s too many Gavin vids to watch them all 😝
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 11:35 PM
1

This feels like a MGTOW post
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 10:02 PM
2

Lol, I feel like you watched Gavin McInnes video on this subject
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 09:56 PM
3

You’re totally right, this is just nature doing her job. If women were to mate with ugly, poor, dumb guys then those traits wouldn’t keep existing and make an ever worse society. We need this natural selection to evolve and make sure only the best survive. The male offers, the woman choose and that’s it. The male that weren’t able to improve or be good enough end up in the lamentations pit and don’t breed. Yes it’s sad for those males but so is a lion eating a poor antelope, that’s nature.
/r/MGTOW21/03/18 03:56 PM
12

The thing is woman have a problem about their self-esteem, IT’S TOO HIGH! So they always want the best and refuse to lower their standards because they’re girls and they’re so amazing right? A girl like that is similar to someone starving who refuses to eat food on the floor , not much you can do to help her
/r/MGTOW21/03/18 03:09 PM
24

It could just be another girl who think she deserves a perfect man so any guy that isn’t perfect enough she will ghost him because she don’t want an average guy and then complain that she’s lonely
/r/MGTOW21/03/18 02:42 PM
1

I get that too but I want to go on another planet instead without any humans, I’m sure even aliens would be a better company that humans if they exist
/r/MGTOW21/03/18 01:11 PM
3

And a girl would never date an IT guy, they’re all nerds ofc
/r/MGTOW21/03/18 12:47 PM
2

Kinda true, that’s why religion like Islam ask women to cover their hair, so they are less attractive to other men than her husband
/r/MGTOW21/03/18 11:24 AM
23

Exactly, before I knew about MGTOW I would say it’s cute, I like helping girls but now I realize that doing that would just be serving a selfish person that don’t even care about me anyway
/r/MGTOW21/03/18 04:23 AM
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