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/r/seduction03/10/16 02:05 PM
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/r/seduction01/10/16 11:21 PM
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It's not that I'm "shy". I have debilitating social anxiety. Very different scenario.
/r/seduction06/09/16 07:46 PM
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I was in therapy for almost five months. All I got out of it was the same generic advice of "be confident" and "Fake your confidence".
/r/seduction02/09/16 03:44 PM
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I've worked my fair share of retail jobs. While it's true that my conversational skills did get marginally better after being forced to talk to people all day, it was also a heavy strain on my energy levels and stress. I worked at a Target for five or so months and towards the end I was having physical symptoms (IE nausea, headaches, shivering) even just THINKING about going back there and having to do it all over again.
/r/seduction02/09/16 03:13 PM
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Well fuck. I knew this whole "22 and still a virgin" thing was gonna bite me in the ass.
/r/seduction02/09/16 04:01 AM
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Thanks for the encouragement. I've been trying for about nine months now but haven't really seen much (if any) progress, it gets a little disheartening.
/r/seduction14/08/16 05:30 PM
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Social anxiety? Approach anxiety? Scared of rejection? just talk to people. I'm not trying to be an asshole here, but as someone with pretty severe social anxiety, even just saying "hello" to someone* is gut-wrenching, terrifying. Not saying you don't have a good point in being outcome independent, but for folks like myself, even just stepping outside our house/apartment/dorm is a struggle. When I say someone, I mean anyone*, not just women. Though the last time I actually tried talking to a gir…
/r/seduction14/08/16 05:20 PM
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Besides drink that night? Just try to forget about as best I can and gain back some semblance of confidence bit by bit.
/r/seduction08/06/16 12:30 AM
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I'm still looking for the answer myself :/ It took me about six months to get over my last rejection (yayyy extreme social anxiety) and the same thing happened two days ago after I finally worked up the courage.
/r/seduction07/06/16 03:23 PM
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That it took every ounce of courage and willpower I have to even say "Hi". I'm going to stumble over my words, fidget, probably say some stupid shit. It's not their fault, but social anxiety makes even these "routine" interactions utterly terrifying, so at least try not to laugh in my face.
/r/seduction07/06/16 05:56 AM
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The point is, YOU HAVE to believe that you're a good guy. Do you have any advice on how to do this? I tried the whole "self-affirmation" thing a while back, actually saying out loud that I was a good person, that I deserved happiness, etc etc. It just felt...strange, almost alien, like it shouldn't be coming out of my mouth, almost a foreign language.
/r/seduction06/06/16 04:41 PM
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Idk why you need courage to talk to someone. I got diagnosed with pretty severe social anxiety, as well as a milder form of general anxiety, about three months back. Talking to anyone, even just a cashier at the store, is an effort. To me, trying to hold a conversation doesn't flow. It's like balancing on a tight rope over a thousand-foot deep valley, while the wind is howling. I've been getting help for my SA but it doesn't help much. Every doc/psych I've been to has just spewed the same mantra…
/r/seduction06/06/16 04:39 PM
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Go out and talk to more girls. That's what I've been trying to do, and instead of getting easier it's getting harder and harder, at least that's the way it seems. I'll put it this way: The last time I actually tried approaching a girl was around...five, six months ago? She rejected me as well. It's taken THAT long to muster up the courage to do it again.
/r/seduction05/06/16 06:39 PM
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Can't speak for OP, but the eye is a very sensitive organ. With a lot of conditions surgery has the risk of doing more harm than good.
/r/seduction20/05/16 04:17 PM
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Following for advice as well. I've got nystagmus which means the muscles in my eyes twitch involuntarily, making it incredibly hard to maintain eye contact.
/r/seduction20/05/16 04:16 PM
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I'm not entirely sure how the dynamic between parents ---> success with women applies to everyone, but you make some good points. On the other hand, my folks were pretty great. I think the only negative impact they had on me was discouraging any form of "casual" dating. My mom is very conservative, for example. She caught my brother kissing his girlfriend in high school once and lost her mind, saying how you should "only do that when you're married" and it leads to "temptation." As a result, I t…
/r/seduction09/04/16 12:26 AM
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Awesome, way to be! Also, stars and galaxies class? I'm jealous AF right now.
/r/seduction06/04/16 12:06 AM
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Okay so I'm as far from a PUA as you can get, but I thought I'd chime in here. I've had nystagmus my whole life along with an optic nerve disorder that left me blind in the right eye. It feels that sometimes EVERYONE notices. I know that's not the case, but it's hard to convince myself otherwise.
/r/seduction29/03/16 02:20 AM
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This is more of a question, but what do you look for to determine if a guy is "confident" or not? Body language, behavior, etc? Also is there anything you can say to get me to stop being scared of talking to women? The last time I tried asking a girl out I got laughed at by her and three of her friends.
/r/seduction24/03/16 03:30 AM
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Thank you for clearing that up. I just seemed to have gotten the wrong message that men are ALWAYS expected to be "in charge", which isn't something I particularly agree with so it's nice to hear that it's not what this is about.
/r/seduction13/03/16 04:43 AM
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On the subject of eye contact: I posted a similar question last week but there's been some slight development. I've made it my goal to make eye contact and smile at more people when I'm walking around, more specifically girls I find attractive. I probably do this around 15-20 times a day going between classes. And in 99% of those cases the following happens: They A) Immediately look away, down at their phone, whatever, B) Veer off course so they aren't passing me as close, or C) Make a face like…
/r/seduction11/03/16 11:31 PM
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FR is in the comments.
/r/seduction08/03/16 04:09 AM
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Thanks! I'm still working on trying to maintain that combo of smile/eye contact without overdoing it, but I think it could've gone a lot worse.
/r/seduction06/03/16 12:14 AM
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FR is up: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/493wwr/fr_first_time_doing_daygameor_any_game_for_that/ So now you can't ban me, mwahahaha!
/r/seduction05/03/16 07:59 PM
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I HAD AN IDEA. Okay so I'm trying daygame (well, my first "game" if I'm honest) tomorrow at a coffee shop and idea just sprang to mind. I'm a calligrapher and sometimes go to this place to find a quiet area and practice script. I thought about maybe asking a girl something along the lines of "Hey, I'm a calligraphy artist and I'm trying to learn this new script, would you mind if I used your name to practice?" Bad idea, good idea, what do you guys think?
/r/seduction05/03/16 04:36 AM
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Fffffffff- I'll have it up by sunday afternoon either way lol, failure or success.
/r/seduction05/03/16 03:14 AM
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Noooooooooo dramatic soundtrack
/r/seduction05/03/16 02:59 AM
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MODS DON'T LISTEN Hahaha
/r/seduction05/03/16 02:51 AM
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Thank you! Should've mentioned I'm not specifically trying to talk attractive girls, just anybody who seems like they'd be fun to chat with.
/r/seduction05/03/16 02:19 AM
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Meh, I just risk my life every day getting on a bike and hoping I don't get smoked by some guy in a jacked up 4x4.
/r/seduction09/02/16 07:55 PM
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I've struggled with social anxiety since elementary school, and it doesn't just apply to the seduction game. Simply saying "Hi, how're you?" to the cashier at the grocery store, or god forbid having to call a customer service line, feels like I'm being silently judged the whole time.
/r/seduction09/02/16 07:38 PM
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Ironically I WAS going to enlist once I turned 18, but turns out the military doesn't want half-blind mofos like me.
/r/seduction09/02/16 07:35 PM
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This'll probably get buried, but I thought I'd throw my $0.02 out there. I've yet to be shot at, but at the same time I've had my share of scary shit happen. I've tangled with a guy who was high on meth on a domestic call when I was working security. Same job, I responded to three or four attempted suicides, one of which tried to stab me once I got through the front door. Here's the thing: In all those scenarios, I didn't have time to think about how scared I was or what was going to happen. All…
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:00 PM
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This was kinda frightening for me to read, because I'm totally that guy. I always take the safe or easy route, because it has the least chance of offending someone/making myself look bad/being "weird". It's freaky to think how close this hits to home.
/r/seduction03/02/16 06:15 PM
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What?
/r/seduction01/02/16 02:10 AM
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Can't, only one eye works and I kinda need to keep it safe.
/r/seduction01/02/16 01:07 AM
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I can't help the eye thing sadly. I've got an optic nerve disorder, as well as having had 4 surgeries in the past to deal with a detached retina. That's why I'm stuck with glasses, I've only got one working eye left and I'm trying to keep it intact.
/r/seduction31/01/16 11:56 PM
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Can't get rid of the glasses, only have one working eye and I've gotta keep the other one safe. Sadly contacts don't do that yet.
/r/seduction31/01/16 06:28 PM
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Unfortunately contacts aren't an option. I have to wear glasses since only one eye works, and I'd like to keep it as safe as possible. So until someone comes up with ballistic-rated contact lenses, I'm stuck with them.
/r/seduction31/01/16 05:45 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/84ErYej.jpg
/r/seduction31/01/16 05:13 PM
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Used to live in Seattle a few years ago but I moved out to WY for school, sadly.
/r/seduction31/01/16 05:02 PM
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...I'm 22.
/r/seduction31/01/16 04:59 PM
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Nope, stuck in BFE Wyoming.
/r/seduction31/01/16 04:59 PM
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Tinder's not my only attempt at trying to meet people, it just seemed handy at the time.
/r/seduction31/01/16 04:58 PM
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That's kinda what I am though. Sooo yeah.
/r/seduction31/01/16 04:57 PM
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I do, three or four others. I'll post them up tomorrow if that would help.
/r/seduction31/01/16 07:48 AM
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I don't do "badass" things. Unless you count calligraphy as that.
/r/seduction31/01/16 07:44 AM
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http://i.imgur.com/84ErYej.jpg
/r/seduction31/01/16 07:12 AM
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Talking online and in person are two completely different things for me. Here I can kinda think about what I'm going to say beforehand and plan out a response. IRL I don't get that opportunity, and it throws me for a loop.
/r/seduction19/12/15 11:01 PM
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No, I don't.
/r/seduction19/12/15 07:43 PM
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In order: -I wouldn't call myself "Ugly". However, I feel that I look so boringly average that I literally don't stand out at all, I can easily disappear into a crowd if needed and it'd be damn near impossible to find me, even my friends have told me that before. -Yes, I do care. That means there's something clearly wrong with me that I need to fix, but I don't know WHAT that something is or how to fix it. -I'll try to put this in perspective: Up to now, my only experience with trying to date wo…
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:54 PM
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"Use your current anger to drive you to overcome social obstacles while being your own best friends and not beating yourself way too much." I don't know if I'd call it "anger", it's more disappointment in myself that I'm so far behind everyone else, who seems to have figured all this out years ago, and I'm stuck at what feels like square 1.
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:32 PM
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Okay, let me try this: What are some 'exercises' I could do to improve my social outlook? Like I said, something that I can follow step by step, IE "Go out and do A. After that, move on to B." So on and so forth.
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:27 PM
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Unfortunately that's just how I've been conditioned since probably around middle school. I've been trying to work past it with little success so far.
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:25 PM
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If I'm 100% honest, if a girl came up and started talking to me out of the blue my first question to them would be asking who paid them to do it.
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:07 PM
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This is going to sound dumb to a lot of people here, but I was taught as a kid to not bother strangers, and I think that might have something to do with it. I was told saying hello and smiling were okay, but even up to my teen years I was told to leave people alone and not "bother" them.
/r/seduction18/12/15 07:51 PM
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Sorry to keep harping on this, but...what the hell do you talk about with someone you have zero connection with? Maybe it's just my social retardation or something, but that just seems a little "odd" to me.
/r/seduction18/12/15 07:35 PM
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I understand that part, but how do you just go up to random strangers and start talking to them? The idea of doing that literally terrifies me. I can say hi, ask how they are that day, but that's just common courtesy out here, not a conversation starter.
/r/seduction18/12/15 07:25 PM
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Okay, off the top of my head... I was grabbing coffee the other morning before class. Made my order, stood off to the side to wait as a pretty cute girl (probably around a 7) walked up and ordered her drink, a caramel latte I think. She goes to grab some napkins which I was standing next to and I made a remark basically saying "Hey, I get the same thing every day! Though I think this place makes them better than the starbucks in the Union building." She laughed and said something about it being …
/r/seduction18/12/15 07:07 PM
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Here's what I'm worried about: Let's say my end goal is to just hang out with said person and just be friends (I know, kinda the opposite of this sub, but let's just play devil's advocate here). I ask for her number after we chat for a bit, she takes it as "this dude wants to get with me" and shuts things down. How do I make it clear I'm just wanting to get coffee or lunch or just hang out, not get in her pants or even push things to a full-on date? Sorry, I know these questions are probably inc…
/r/seduction30/11/15 07:39 PM
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I've only approached three or four people in the past couple weeks, and I'm pretty sure the girls I'm talking to don't know eachother. But then again maybe I just give off a creeper vibe and they're just going with the initial conversation to be nice.
/r/seduction30/11/15 05:46 PM
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I'm in the same position, trouble getting a license because of eye problems. It's completely doable, you just have to get creative with how you get around. Cabs are always good, same with Uber if it's available in your area.
/r/seduction19/11/15 09:22 PM
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I wouldn't quite say that. Wyoming is the kind of state where your social standing is basically dictated by what kind of vehicle you drive. Jacked up diesel 4x4: 10/10t Standard sedan/SUV: 3 or 4/10 No car: Somewhere below whale shit.
/r/seduction11/11/15 03:40 AM
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We don't have Uber out here sadly :/ But my town is in that sweet spot between "hamlet" and "big city", around 40/45,000 people give or take, so it's easy to get around on foot or bike.
/r/seduction11/11/15 03:31 AM
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-Right eye is legally blind, 20/400. Left is better, around 20/50, maybe 20/40 on a good day. They look completely normal, all the funky stuff going on is internal (optic nerve) -If I'm honest, yes I was bullied quite a bit in high school. Low self-esteem is something I've struggled with for years now and it's almost to the point of being crippling. Every time I've tried to talk to someone I want to meet (especially girls) the negative reinforcement starts. "You're ugly" "Why would they want to …
/r/seduction10/11/15 11:33 PM
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It's all a shot in the dark, frankly. My childhood eye doc (since I've known him all my life) said he'd have no problem signing the waiver for me to test, since he's aware of my limitations and how I adapt. But some random doc out here who's never met me? Yeahhh there might be a problem. Mostly it's just a fear of having to tell a girl I can't drive myself around, therefore informing her I couldn't drive her around either and how she'd react.
/r/seduction10/11/15 10:03 PM
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