SexualHealing69 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
36	Forget Pick Up crap learn to hold interesting conversation it will do wonders for you. Being a conversationalist	SexualHealing69	/r/seduction	29/11/11 02:31 AM
27	The Fake Alpha Males - PostMasculine	SexualHealing69	/r/seduction	14/12/11 12:00 AM
15	The key to pick up: Understanding Women	SexualHealing69	/r/seduction	21/11/11 06:28 PM
14	Butchering the Alpha Male - PostMasculine	SexualHealing69	/r/seduction	06/01/12 01:04 AM
4	What Is a Real Conversation With Women	SexualHealing69	/r/seduction	14/12/11 01:44 PM
1	A must read for anyone doing PUA or thinking about getting into PUA	SexualHealing69	/r/seduction	12/03/12 11:18 PM
1	Before You Can Master Pick Up You Must Master Social Calibration	SexualHealing69	/r/seduction	19/12/11 11:25 PM
0	Why playing games is pointless and routines don't matter--- woman know	SexualHealing69	/r/seduction	14/03/12 02:50 PM
0	APPROACH GUIDE \| Seduction Myth	SexualHealing69	/r/seduction	10/02/12 11:01 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is there an Alpha way to deal with a break-up? Read this. http://donlak.wordpress.com/2011/11/28/alpha-pup-reader-mailbag/ Sounds similar to your situation and should give you a good mind set.	/r/seduction	12/05/12 07:57 AM
1	Why do You Want Pickup to be Difficult? View it in this perspective. Alphas get what they want with minimal effort. They put themselves in positions to succeed. All Aaron is saying is why put in more effort than you have to in pickup. The conversion ratio of street approaches is terrible 10% at best.... you end up spending more time getting rejected than laid. If you put yourself in an environment with more women who have time to talk and observe you then your conversion ratio will go up. You are making it easy for yourself that is al…	/r/seduction	18/04/12 08:49 PM
2	Thoughts after a night out... two conflicting approaches to pickup and life. Read this the author went through the same phase you are going through http://postmasculine.com/the-proper-allocation it's true the TL:DL is balance.	/r/seduction	14/01/12 11:05 PM
1	The average cat on here seems to have two problems I totally agree with your last sentence "We need to change the direction in which seddit is moving, they are concentrating on faking like they are good people". A lot of post do not sound like people being their genuine selves, but rather people who spit out material get a few results and keep doing that. They don't work on their core problems to really become a better person, but use a ton of band aids to fix it. Fake is terrible even if you get a few results everything is better when your genu…	/r/seduction	22/12/11 06:59 AM
-5	Forget Pick Up crap learn to hold interesting conversation it will do wonders for you. Being a conversationalist Here are three articles, conversation is linked very closely to charm. But really just going out and talking to people is the only way to get better. Go people watching and just study peoples body language and see how people interact helps. Bars are great to people watch because you can hear conversation as well. Listen to what is said by the guy and how to girl reacts. Study her reactions and learn what emotions look like. How does she react verbally, what is her body language, her tone of voic…	/r/seduction	29/11/11 05:45 AM
-10	Forget Pick Up crap learn to hold interesting conversation it will do wonders for you. Being a conversationalist Routines are bad and terrible for anyone with approach anxiety they just teach you the wrong way from the start and waste time. All you gotta do to learn conversation is start talking to people. Friends, co workers, class mates, deli owners, the cashier, anyone around you. Social proof is real, but the way it's used by all the popular methods is crap. They keep forcing the fact that they have social proof on the girl by running all these routines in the first place this is try hard. I agree lear…	/r/seduction	29/11/11 05:17 AM
5	Balance of showing interest and making yourself to available thus turning girl off Look at it this way if you are canceling events and reshuffling your schedule just to meet her when you hardly know her then that is too available. If you have nothing going on sure set up a date. If it's going to cause you an inconvenience then see if another time works. Same applies to texting. If you don't have time or it's a problem to respond right away then wait till you have time, but if you have nothing going on your just playing childish games. But matching her pace of text is a simple …	/r/seduction	22/11/11 01:19 AM
2	The key to pick up: Understanding Women Your thinking too far into the extremes of investment. Simply approaching a woman and saying "hi" is investment.... most of the time it is true men invest first (approach first). This is not "neediness". Going out and spending a hundred bucks on her in drinks when you just met and she isn't reciprocating now that is "neediness". Your not defining what ares you talk about stable and risk taking. I don't believe women want emotionally unstable unreliable males. Risk taking and successful could be …	/r/seduction	22/11/11 01:03 AM
5	I feel another friendzone coming on. I need some evasive maneuvers! Also, how does a friendzone happen? No it's impossible to move too fast. When someone says you are moving too fast you are missing something else in the interaction. If you have taken care of all the persons needs then they will want to be with you. Weather you can fulfill those needs in 10 minutes or a month once they are met then she will want to fuck you. check out this article on needs it will help you out a lot: http://www.girlschase.com/content/complete-handbook-what-women-need	/r/seduction	21/11/11 09:22 PM
4	Need some advice as a beginner Every little fact about someone changes how you think of them. Weather it be their favorite color, sport, hobby, or your a virgin. Your idea of them changes once they tell you this for good or bad. Point is though you can't tell how they will react! It's silly to think you know they will reject you because now they know your a virgin. There are people who would find this sweet actually, others might be turned off, and you might find out they are actually virgins ALSO! Point is you can't have pre…	/r/seduction	21/11/11 09:11 PM
7	I feel another friendzone coming on. I need some evasive maneuvers! Also, how does a friendzone happen? Your setting a weak frame which is why your getting friend zoned. You keep inviting her to social gatherings like you would a friend and not intimate one on one time with her. Also your not moving fast enough not just kino, but interaction wise. Try getting her to your place after the first date and future dates. Sets up a really strong frame that your sexually interested in her not just friends. Women also love men who they are attracted to moving fast with them. Moving slow is actually a turn …	/r/seduction	21/11/11 08:48 PM
1	The key to pick up: Understanding Women haha thanks for that I did forget the link. I had a different article in mind, but yours is just as good of a read.	/r/seduction	21/11/11 07:21 PM