SilentWhiz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Bookstore Game		SilentWhiz	/r/seduction	24/05/15 04:03 PM
1	DHV gambits to convey discretion		SilentWhiz	/r/seduction	15/05/15 05:10 PM

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-1	My friend (female,18) has trouble flirting with guys in NYC. What can she do to get better at this? Where can she meet guys and how can she approach them? Bollocks. Just as there are (probably) a couple of chicks among your acquaintances who're barely fuckable themselves but would fuck you if you made the move, most girls do have several lovable losers as orbiters who'd sacrifice their time, money, and souls to fuck her if she was even the least interested. But instead you find yourself on /r/seduction, reading not about how to pick up the fat 6's from your social circle but how to cold approach and score some hot sex with a busty 9 or 10 of your …	/r/seduction	29/11/15 04:35 PM
1	Should I drop my friends and make new ones to attract girls? Yes. If you've been musing over it three months now, you've mused enough. In my experience, I have not (and will not) put up with friends who wont or can't bring value into my life. I don't even waver as much as you have. I know the qualities I want in a friend, and I know what I will not tolerate under any circumstances - I filter accordingly. So, yes. And btw, I disagree with your contention that your doubt is shallow - cutting off negative peer influence is an important part of your game jour…	/r/seduction	27/11/15 05:10 PM
-1	I can't seem to attract the "girly" girls. Since nobody else is giving you the cold hard truth of it, I will. Men want women. The masculine desires the feminine. It's why you're attracted to "girly" girls i.e. feminine girls. Women want men. The feminine desires the masculine. It's why women are attracted to "manly" men. If that's too subtle for you to grasp, I'll distill it - you've become a girly man. Rather, you've been made a girly man by the systematic pussification of society that modern feminism confuses for liberation. You've los…	/r/seduction	24/11/15 04:27 PM
1	That virginity thing... I'm well-over a month late, but I think a response is merited. As a person who values reason and self-direction above all, I think it's an excellent response. As Tom Torero says in his Below The Belt talk (excellent speech btw; DO DO DO google it and watch it), if you aren't seeing some results after a good number of sets, a good number ranging from 500 to 1000, it's time to step back and ask yourself - are you learning intelligently? Game coaches tell you to plug in set after set not because th…	/r/seduction	24/10/15 03:15 PM
1	That virginity thing... Go to Sasha Daygame's Youtube channel. Watch his infield footage. Stop pissing your pants, stop making excuses and go out and do (at least) 50 cold approaches on the street. Once you've done that, message me if you want to and I'll refer you to some resources which were pivotal for me in my journey. Rationalizing why your position sucks so much more than people will ever understand is of no good. I've been where you are, and I know for a fact that it's a pit that you'll have to climb out of your…	/r/seduction	10/09/15 03:37 PM
1	I've been reading this subreddit as a bisexual girl [F/23] with around 60 sexual partners...and y'all totally changed the game for me. Thank you. Likeweise. :)	/r/seduction	19/08/15 02:53 AM
1	I've been reading this subreddit as a bisexual girl [F/23] with around 60 sexual partners...and y'all totally changed the game for me. Thank you. Most girls I hook up with get too clingy/emotional too soon, and it's such a push-away. Seriously, I'd love to meet a girl who knows how to take it past FB, while keeping it casual. We could do all the typical date-sy stuff like catching a movie, going shopping (if I wanted to), fuck like jungle monkeys on steroids and then take her to wing me, while I enjoy the freedom of single life to sleep around. Who gives a fuck if I'm not the only guy in her life? We can have a healthy relationship and en…	/r/seduction	11/08/15 08:15 PM
0	What's your style? Frequency: I started taking pickup seriously around November of last year. I scourged the streets, read plenty of material, invested a lot of thought into WHAT could be done, and HOW it was to be done. I participated in the Seddit approach challenge of January '15, and I approached a minimum of 3 -4 chicks on average every day of January. I continued through February and March, although my average dropped way below 3 - 4 each day. I ran into a bit of luck with social circle game, after which I f…	/r/seduction	07/08/15 07:50 PM
2	If a girl refuses to spilt the bill with me, based on expectations of chivalry, is that a red flag to move on? Damn, I have an arrangement with a girl right now who's usually awfully eager to pay for the weed, drinks, food etc. And I agree with RedMindBlueEyes, while I also think it's important to calibrate to the situation. There are a multitude of better date options than the cliched dinner, when you're sitting across a table from her (adversarial body position) and it's rather difficult to carry on an exciting, fun conversation that's above average, if even average. That said, keep in mind that this i…	/r/seduction	26/07/15 01:13 PM
0	How to approach the "exclusive" talk Wow. Ram your brakes, and then back up. Why do you want an exclusive relationship? How do you define being "exclusive"? These aren't rhetorical questions btw. Sit down with yourself and answer them honestly.	/r/seduction	24/07/15 05:05 PM
1	Whats the best book: Models, Bang, or Mystery Method? It's sad that people identify the original Mystery Method book as the sole Bible for the M3 model. Mystery's group did bring out Revelations, around 2008. It's an updated version of the original book, and goddammit the theoretical background is pretty solid. ThrowawayPUA is right - while Mystery's comprehensive system may have had its flaws (I'm not qualified enough in nightgame to speak much of it), the conception of the fundamental idea behind the M3 model i.e. Attraction -> Comfort -> Seducti…	/r/seduction	16/07/15 04:50 PM
4	(23, m) I have Asperger's and I'm ugly (pics included), I feel totally inadequate around girls and don't know how to deal with it This dude nailed the problem on the head...... and then in the rear. Translation : This is the one post that should get you started straight away.	/r/seduction	16/07/15 04:42 PM
3	Is pick-up literally just about being completely honest? My journey with "honesty" started with direct daygame. Initially, I'd go in with a scripted line like "I thought you look really pretty." or "Your hair looks very nice today." While yes, I did (usually) get a smile and a thank you, the conversation 24/25 times NEVER moved past it. Which was when I stepped out of my paradigm of what "direct game" was supposed to be like. I didn't deliberately verbalize it, but I did make it pretty damn obvious that I strolled over to talk to her, just cuz I wante…	/r/seduction	08/07/15 06:14 PM
1	Conscious vs subconscious - better state of mind The answer to all three of your questions comes down to the same core issue - you're investing more in her opinion of you, than you are investing in ensuring YOU have a fun time. 1) Approach, and approach often. Train yourself to walk towards her on impulse. 2) Take a couple of mornings/nights off JUST to sarge on the streets. On such a long-sarge, you'll experience a daygame "high" at some point, where you'll find you're unprecedentedly smooth because you'll have stopped giving a fuck (happens …	/r/seduction	29/06/15 07:21 PM
1	Best books on pickup/seduction/psychology? I gave this some thought recently, and I'm fairly certain about which books I'd recommend to a newbie/intermediate to get this theoretical background up to date. 1) Bang, by Roosh V - An easy-to-read, yet definitive introduction to pickup theory. A fairly comprehensive meet-to-sex framework for general use. Roosh specializes in indirect game, and that's what this book aims to teach. 2) Daygame Nitro, by Krauser - An introduction to direct game, or more specifically direct daygame. I recommend th…	/r/seduction	02/06/15 10:58 AM
1	Bookstore Game Details, por favor. Personal experiences (field reports), the nuances that you may have noticed. Since this is one area which has been scarcely discussed, every drop of contribution accumulates.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 05:18 PM
248	HOLY COW day game is easy! Terrifying... but easy! "You'll feel better even if you get rejected than if you didn't approach at all. Better to live with courage than to live with regret." Goddamn it you scared rabbits , get this burned onto your butts with a permanent marker.	/r/seduction	15/05/15 04:51 PM
0	Need advice seducing a virgin: I never considered I'd been in this situation Seducing a virgin myself - for the first time, if I may add. Plus, she's two and a half years older than me. God, I'm enjoying the challenge. Can't give you any solid advice, but I'll tell you my present spot, how I got here and what I'm doing to move things forward. Firstly, look up the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder if you haven't already. Follow it rigorously, and come up with ways to climb the ladder smoothly. For example, I accomplish the "overt" gesture of holding hands by taking her hand when …	/r/seduction	10/05/15 05:52 PM
2	[Serious] Using /r/seduction in India Indian, yes. West Bengal. Dress well, shower frequently, maintain your facial hair so that you don't like a caveman emerging from the Himalayas. Way to approach - 1) Do the Yad stop (videos on Youtube). 2) Have a slight smile and say Hi. 3) While speaking slowly, ask "Can I tell you something, reaaaally quickly?" 4) They respond with a "what" (usually). Do a cold read (e.g. make a statement like "You like an English honors student) or pay her a genuine compliment (I really like that combination …	/r/seduction	05/05/15 02:58 PM
1	[Serious] Using /r/seduction in India Gather the theoretical background required for daygame, from products such as Daygame Blueprint and KrauserPUA's books. Go out, and approach college-going chicks. I've made close to a hundred approaches in four months, and I don't recall an altercation. In other news, there are Indian PUA's - join Indian Lair (the forum) and find out for yourself. There are several WhatsApp groups exclusively for Indian PUA's.	/r/seduction	03/05/15 08:02 AM
1	Am I crazy in thinking that girls can tell I'm a virgin? Everything happened in a flash. I unclothed her upper half, stood up to get the condoms, turned back to her and told her to unbelt me. She did, and I told her to pull down the underwear. She had my dick in her hands, and I told her to suck it. She hesitated for a second; I looked her straight in the eye, and said "Suck it." And thus it began. A couple of seconds pass, while I'm getting the condom out of the wrapper (heh, chocolate candy). I push her onto the bed, go down on her and make her beg …	/r/seduction	30/04/15 06:44 PM
3	Am I crazy in thinking that girls can tell I'm a virgin? I was a virgin until very recently, and my first was convinced that I got laid like a rockstar - the result of me internalizing the "fake it till you make it" philosophy like a boss. If you have issues about confidence, read Alan Pease's book on Body Language, and actively focus on adopting confident and powerful body language. Also, start daygaming. Doesn't matter if you actually get laid with daygame within the first year of practicing - by the time you reach a 100 approaches or so, you'll hav…	/r/seduction	30/04/15 12:12 PM
1	Pro Tip for getting girls to come back to your place On a side note, this is straight from Mystery's playbook. If you came up with this by yourself, more power to you. And I'm gonna save up to buy a hookah.	/r/seduction	30/04/15 11:58 AM
7	Are they nervous around me or am I just and asshole? Sucks for you. But maybe not as much as you're inclined to believe. Women seldom take the initiative. Besides, if you're indeed the asshole-ish high value guy you claim to be, they may believe that showing you any interest at all can fuck up their chances with you. Two suggestions for you - Get into daygame. Excellent for building the abundance mentality and the-Devil-may-care attitude towards life that's part of the undercurrent of pickup. Daygame Blueprint, by Andy Yosha and Yad, Sasha Daygame…	/r/seduction	25/04/15 04:04 PM
1	How do I put this all into play? I keep forgetting! Edit your question for accuracy, we aren't mind-reading aliens. What are you trying to learn - pickup, or general charisma and social skills? If it's either of the two, what are you forgetting - the "model", the scripted material and lines, the do's and don'ts?	/r/seduction	24/04/15 06:27 PM
1	Strange Event. Chances are, you aren't misreading the signs of interest. But I'll say it's still close to a 50-50 from my perspective, because you haven't provided a more thorough context for your interaction with her. Did she, on any occasion, see you DHV (Demonstration of Higher Value) yourself recently? e.g. An on-stage performance, excellence in sports or academia, Pre-selection. If yes, then it's likely that she's got her eyes on you. Secondly, how long has she been with her boyfriend? Women cheat, and th…	/r/seduction	24/04/15 08:36 AM
2	My hookup game is weak. I've taken the first steps and have a few dates with some girls. I need advice from you experienced redditors. Girlschase.com has some spectacular material relevant to casual, no-strings-attached relationships. There's a theory that there are two kinds of men that women sleep with - Lovers, and Providers. The women see the Providers as high value men with resources that the women can use for their own benefit, so they (implicitly) exchange sex for a commitment, thus providing them access to the resources. The Lovers are also high value men, but they come with compelling evidence that they have MANY optio…	/r/seduction	24/04/15 05:33 AM
2	My hookup game is weak. I've taken the first steps and have a few dates with some girls. I need advice from you experienced redditors. For future posts, it would be helpful if you mentioned whether you met these chicks through your social circle or through cold approach. In case you don't know, cold approaching means approaching an absolute stranger - e.g. in a bar, club, coffee shop or on the street. Stop worrying about all the signs and rules. Since you're presumably new to the game, I'll tell you straight away that if what your looking for is casual sex and the path to it, you'll have to strengthen your will to pass up on pu…	/r/seduction	23/04/15 06:14 PM
0	I'm a virgin I've realized I sabotage all my interactions with women because I'm afraid of sex I'm a guy who had his first "girlfriend" at 15, who broke it off with me after a week (heh, childish flings) and friendzoned me. I stumbled onto pickup in a quest to win her back as my girlfriend, which I did, and this former AFC landed his first kiss. Then came the heartbreak, as the PUA fell victim to oneitis induced chode/beta behavior. I lost my virginity when I was 16. I had been practicing and applying principles of game in social circle environments for about an year, and had been cold ap…	/r/seduction	21/04/15 07:45 PM
8	The friendzone is a gift, fools. Beautiful idea. Certain aspects of it, certain nuances need to be put under spotlight. She has "friendzoned" you either because she rejected your advances, or because you never made any advances in the first place. - Different strategies apply for different the different possibilities. The following assumes that you're a moderately attractive guy, and did progress through comfort (deep rapport). Assuming you did make advances, how far "in" were you (pun intended) when she stopped complying? Rega…	/r/seduction	21/04/15 07:25 PM
2	Merry Christmas Seddit! Here's a Free Ebook I Wrote About Daygame. All My Coaching Methods From 7 Years Of Experience. It's Called, "I Hope It's Sunny Out--A Guide To Meeting Women in The Day time." I agree with an earlier post, that breaking the story about Samantha into chunks and then explaining the story between the lines after each chunk, was ingenious of you. Kept me hooked for more till the end. I've been aware of the seduction community for a while now, but it wasn't until late that I really got down to practicing and developing the skill set. Your book was brief, and yet spectacularly insightful. I'm certainly leaving a review on Amazon. It's kinda late for the following now, but r…	/r/seduction	26/12/14 02:01 PM