[Serious] Using /r/seduction in India

antifragilista · 2015-05-03T06:46:50+00:00

In India, it is more about homing on particular type of target audience for this work to 'easily' more than anything else.

Running your game on girls who know you some way or by some one is the best bet.Be on their radar for a while like joining some group/organization just to show your presence. There needn't be any talk per se. It takes a bit of more time to build comfort. Comfort is the key.

Don't game on a conservative type even among above mentioned unless you are very much interested because more than you, they have to be comfortable with their sexuality and those girls should themselves ask a lot of questions about their nature(coming in touch with their own reality). That takes a lot of time for them and you too.

Girls who frequent bar/pub are to a good extent westernized in their mindset but I would double check if that girl is the type I would get involved with if not for just lust.

The thing I see - what /r/seduction says is hardly practiced as a whole (inner game + outer game ) in India, doing what is said here gives a lot more of results since girls have few experiences of such kind and takes them off the feet if it done in a perfect manner on the correct demographic.

Before I knew this /r/seduction , I have heard "stories" from a good friend of mine who had just solid eye contact and very healthy confidence(know that I think of what he had in himself) and it did wonders for him. But since he belonged to upper class, girls he met would also be people from that class. That takes us back to the type of girls from where we started.

My two rupees.

chet11 · 2015-05-03T05:27:18+00:00

Here, you need some basis to approach someone. You need to know her by some means. I guess she should be someone you know or a mutual friend.

curiousdude · 2015-05-03T16:06:56+00:00

Some Indian guy I used to work with said that the problem with Indian women in India is that they would start talking about getting married after only a couple of dates.

dickonpedestal · 2015-05-03T00:44:50+00:00

Just get an arranged marriage, allot easier.

BrutalBuccaneer · 2015-05-03T09:04:12+00:00

Indian here. I would recommend you to expand your social circles as much as you can- friends of friends of friends of friends should know you. Even if there's a small connection, asking out on a date is easier. I'm gonna assume you've read Models by Mark Manson (if not, please do- indian life nowadays has superb efficacy in creating betas{I'll make a post on that on /r/india when I get the time later} and also read No More Mr Nice Guy by Rober Glover while you're at it. You won't need anything more than those two books really). Now cold approaches depend on where you are. If you're in a metropolis, it's definitely easier and more so in colleges. If you have a strong inner game foundation, the girl will notice and won't be creeped out by you (Models is necessary to be read-I know it sounds like I'm selling the book but it's worth it) This is all theoretical since I haven't had a chance yet to go out and try. So maybe you can tell us about your experience in an FR later. Edit-typos

SilentWhiz · 2015-05-03T08:02:43+00:00

Gather the theoretical background required for daygame, from products such as Daygame Blueprint and KrauserPUA's books. Go out, and approach college-going chicks.

I've made close to a hundred approaches in four months, and I don't recall an altercation.

In other news, there are Indian PUA's - join Indian Lair (the forum) and find out for yourself. There are several WhatsApp groups exclusively for Indian PUA's.

Lash93 · 2015-05-03T08:11:41+00:00

Do you live in a remote city? I'm from colombo sri lanka and i havent encountered a single instance where the girl raised a cry for being approached. THEY LIKE BEING APPROACHED JUST LIKE A GIRL OF ANY OTHER COUNTRY. If you dont live in a remote village stop thinking that girls will be angry at you for the approach. Out of the 10 - 15 approaches i've done, the worst outcome was the girl getting silent and stopping answering my questions and the best result was the girl offering me sex (not the same day as i approached in both the instances that happened)

Dont approach gilrs in groups. Cultural differences apply here.

EDIT- Dont give a fuck about the society and public. They are people who believe girls can embrace western culture so they should not be mad when a guy does the same. If they do then they are stupid. Just ignore them

PowerSeductionWar · 2015-05-03T01:45:24+00:00

There must "player" types in your area, just copy whatever they do

dickonpedestal · 2015-05-03T07:25:24+00:00

1- you will face a much stronger test-wall at the first approach. I wouldn't be surprised if they curse and scream and be nasty. Once you are past that she will want to marry you. This is because they have an abundance mentality, where a blonde 190cm Danish model may be very open and receptive to you, lost Indian women may be very closed. Because there are billions of Indian guys trying to get her (or rape her) and her reputation is at stake. If she is seen as a girl who speaks to guys on the street, she may be perceived as a slut; insulted or even raped because rapists think "she s done it with others, doesn't hurt to do it with us". But she will react to all attraction triggers the same way as another.

2- in cultures where women can't be economically independent due to not being given equal education and work rights, they are more inclined to be idealist , as in, they will try to get a husband who can provide for her economically, so she can give birth or focus on her career. What does that mean? First they will try to stay virgins (if you attract her sexually that's no problem) secondly.... Display of wealth is actually effective. If you dress very well, have an expensive looking watch, shoes, car (don't push it, Casanova) you will command higher status in the interaction, because they have to find a rich husband for his survival skills. This is very untrue in Finland and looking rich may bring down your chances with classy women... I have to dress shitty clothes while my Armani suits and bogosse shirts wait at home, can you believe it?

3- the problem of men's honor being in the sexuality of women. This is observed in all primitive cultures such as India, Russia, Arab countries, Turkey vice versa. Guys standing around will think it's their duty to beat you up for picking up women. They will think that the woman is THEIR PROPERTY and will get aggressive. The girl's brothers, and other male kin? They feel that you are taking them in the ass if you fuck their sister/daughter/cousin, you see? They will have no other honor, but the virginity of the women around them.! This is a non issue herein Scandinavia and you could fuck a girl where her dad is upstairs, asking you guys to keep it down. But in such cultures you may want to approach women where there are only women around and not at the train station and such. Find where that may be (yoga classes I d say but well that's they birthplace of yoga isn't it..? Find something that the average Indian man would never don because of honor limitations, but girls do. Find activities like that and join)

Edit; sorry just read that you are from lower caste and that may change things,

Aren't there Bollywood movies where a higher caste girl falls in love with a lower caste guy and it's basically forbidden love? Your mission for now is to make it like in a movie.

illumiNAUGHTYboi · 2015-05-03T10:38:16+00:00

Just don't participate in any of those bus gang rapes and you're ahead of the curve.

Title	[Serious] Using /r/seduction in India
Author	dickonpedestal
Upvotes	24
Comments	25
Date	May 2, 2015 10:33 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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