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I love these posts because the moment I read them I realize I need to get the fuck off the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:47 PM
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My point is that I don’t think men have to do all this to make a woman settle down. You don’t have to mentally frame yourself as more valuable, you don’t have to refrain from being invested, you don’t have to do all these mental gymnastics just to get a woman to want marriage or a serious long term relationship with you. It seems legitimate, but when you actually look around you in your personal life.. you see that romantic relationships, marriage, all these things are commonplace and mediocre, …
/r/seduction02/01/25 03:06 PM
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Y’all need to stop thinking movie tropes are real life. Look around you.. most people over 30 are married and most of them are mediocre. Stop making it so complicated
/r/seduction01/01/25 09:45 PM
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Being attractive doesn’t give anyone bragging rights, just saying that this idea that older women can’t get men is just nonsense. Older women have no problem, as long as they take care of themselves. It’s generally easy for women to get sex, and relationships, women don’t “expire.” This is just fear mongering. Also, men thinking if she is easy or not isn’t even relevant here. I have no idea if they do, my mom had her kids decades ago, regardless it doesn’t matter, she has no shortage of attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:02 AM
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My mom is in her forties, divorced and has three kids from different dads. Men throw themselves at her constantly, especially men in their late 20s - early 30s. I think this is all bullshit, all that matters is that you are attractive, and young people tend to care more about being attractive. But older women who still put in that effort in have no shortage of men pursuing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:29 AM
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So I tried your advice and asked in a playful way for a date and he couldn’t stop smiling and planned it all out! Success, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/24 08:34 PM
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it’s not really like he’s paying the bills and I am staying home. He pays utilities but we still split rent halfway. I still work full time (I do want to) and go to school full time, and he has a more flexible job that allows him to choose his schedule and he works a lot less than me.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/24 03:12 PM
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My current bf, I’ve been dating for around 2.5 years. Around a year and a half in we moved in together. Mostly I wanted to because he is willing to pay for a lot of the bills which helps me a lot since I’m still in school. I am dating for marriage and seriously see that with him and we have talked about it, but I told him I don’t want to get married until I finish school. He doesn’t leave me all the chores but for example, I often make dinner most nights and he tends to not do the dishes after, …
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/24 10:38 PM
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I think straight women can learn from gay men, and straight men can learn from lesbian women. So many here are talking about how it’s just purely lustful- but goddamn it feels good to be lusted after by someone you’re into! I think women are not socialized to be complimentary towards men as well due to safety reasons — but it does translate in romantic relationships as well. I think we can all, always, learn how to be more loving to the people we love. It took me time to learn how to be verbally…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:45 AM
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the games are exhausting man…. only insecure women are into that play.
/r/seduction29/06/24 01:45 AM
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I used to feel like you in high school, it was exhausting, so exhausting and it put strain on my relationship. I used to ask my ex all the time if he thought other girls were pretty. Don’t do that. God, I wish I could go back in time and shake myself silly. It makes men uncomfortable when you ask them questions like that, just like it would make you anxious and uncomfortable if they started asking you if you found other men hot. They can tell you are anxiously asking these questions and it makes…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/24 05:29 AM
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If it is your preference then yes he should come to you. I was in a LDR and WANTED to fly to him because I didn’t want to host him. I disagree with a lot of the commentators on this point because I think it’s way more work to host than it is to travel to somebody. He had to provide all my meals, plan an itinerary of things for us to do, give me a tour of the city, etc etc. for me, it was like a relaxing vacation with my feet up, it was more romantic imo.. that he would have to host me and plan e…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/24 05:14 AM
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Positive but not always realistic which is why I also think it’s good to learn how to respond to those more subtle cues, not to mention a lot of people have issues even identifying their needs sometimes. But yes I agree it’s wrong to get upset at someone for not responding to something that you don’t explicitly ask for. I’m not disagreeing, moreso adding to the conversation that I think it’s also beneficial to learn how to respond positively to vague cues as well as communicating clearly. The “I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:45 AM
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I got really into Gottmans theory about “turning towards” partners and how that’s one of the best indicators for a happy relationship lasting - and the basic premise is that you are attentive to their partners and the mini cues they make for connection on a daily basis and acknowledge it, or even better positively respond. People make bids for connection often not even intentionally but I think it makes you a better partner if you learn how to respond to these or notice them. Saying “I’m thirsty…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:10 AM
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I agree with that, and think it would be absolutely bizarre and stupid to get upset with somebody not responding to something like that. I guess I’m just thinking about how I’ve seen things like this play out IRL and there never seems to be any unhealthy dynamics or weird intentions. It’s just a simple call and response that a partner is happy to do for you usually. But I agree if there’s any expectation - it’s unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:46 AM
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how is saying you are thirsty mind reading? Now I agree with that if someone says “I’m thirsty” with the specific intention in mind of getting someone to get them a drink. But many times people just say things like “ugh I’m so hungry”. If you love someone usually you pick up on this and try to help them resolve this feeling. If they always generally respond you may begin to communicate in this way. It’s not passive aggressive unless there’s a specific expectation / intention that you spring upon…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:36 AM
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I feel you have to have some level of power in the first place to have the freedom to opt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:28 AM
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honestly, whenever I’ve been more anxious I would have a really hard time being able to enjoy conversation with anybody! When you get in that mind state you can kind of shut down in a way, and you’re probably coming off anxious a lot more than you realize through your body language. I have struggles with anxious attachment and when I’m in a rough period, my boyfriend says he can tell I’m looking for him to answer things or talk to me in a very specific way, because I’m looking for validation. He…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 04:20 PM
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as a woman this always confuses me. I am not like the woman you describe and none of my female friends are, in fact most women I’ve met are interesting with unique interests. But most men I’ve met say the same thing as you.. that women aren’t that interesting. My own boyfriend who’s met thousands of people as a successful musician says he’s never met a woman like me, but I meet women like me all the time. I’m not sure if this is a matter of women not actually showing interesting things about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:27 PM
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Men are inherently more sexual than women. They tend to have much more lustful thoughts/feelings. The feelings of half the population then create the overall attitude of the world we live in. Women are sexier because men are more attracted to women than women are attracted to men. The reason for that being.. biology? Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:04 AM
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Well generally speaking, a woman masturbating is seen as hot and a man masturbating is seen as kind of gross. I think it just generally has to do with the sex appeal attributed to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:01 AM
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Taking charge. I find it very sexy when a man instantly is the first one to help. For example someone drops something and they are the first to help them pick it up, no hesitation.
/r/seduction08/10/23 02:07 AM
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only once & it was because he had schizophrenia
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:12 AM
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Thank you, I really appreciate that! I suppose you are right & at the end of the day sometimes conflicts are unavoidable, they just feel so uncomfortable & it can be easy to just wish I never said anything at all so we could have continued to be happy and carefree. I’ll often feel conviction in the moment when I voice how I feel, but immediately after I regret it and feel as if I “failed” because I disrupted our happy streak. The good thing is that whenever I have mentioned something like this, …
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 05:27 AM
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I got the notification for this comment just when I started listening to my very first podcast of hers. Guess that’s a sign :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 05:15 AM
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For example: I did something embarrassing and forgot to cancel a subscription to something I had. He helped me and we drove down together to cancel it, I asked him if he could please not mention the fact that I let this slip for a few months, because I was so embarrassed. But when he went in there he DID mention it. I got pretty upset by this, and told him it made me feel ashamed and I wanted him to respect the fact that I was uncomfortable. In his head, he was trying to get my moneys worth back…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 05:12 AM
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I felt this way in my past relationships. They’d often say I was the smarter one and that they admired me because of that, but yeah it absolutely led to a weird dynamic as well. It often made me feel like I had to take the lead on things, the man would become more submissive, it was just all around not a good deal. I’d have to constantly lead conversations & “guide” them into making good decisions in life. My boyfriend now, is absolutely smarter and more knowledgeable than me. At first it made m…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 04:06 AM
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I observed the women in my life and their relationships. I also dated a man who was very “beta” and am now with someone the exact opposite. Most women I knew seemed very unhappy and not truly in love with their partners. While I saw how their partners contributed to the issue I also saw how the women were behaving and how it contributed. My mother was never affectionate with her husband, (my stepdad). My grandma often belittled my grandpa and didn’t show true appreciation. I saw how these small …
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 05:00 AM
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You shouldn’t date a man who isn’t already respectable. At the end of the day that is your own fault for choosing men who are not worthy of respect. You cannot change someone in any fundamental way, I respect my boyfriend but he’s because an amazing man who I would adore as my husband, a man I’d be proud to have as a father of my children. Honestly you’ll never see Andrew Tate men with any valuable women. You’ll never see them with the women they say they “truly” want, because no such women woul…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 04:12 AM
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If you could choose between an attractive man that also makes a lot of money, making it possible for you and your children to live a privileged life, and an unattractive man who does not make money. What would you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:20 AM
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To be honest I’m not sure how any of his behavior is specific to men. In my opinion the most traditionally masculine men I’ve dated were most eager to give me gifts and do acts of service for me. It doesn’t sound like he’s playing his part, and although I enjoy RPW, I think it can also be wrongly used as a way of coping/rationalizing a bad relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/22 09:25 PM
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here’s some tips that I’ve either learned the hard way, or have seen other women learn the hard way. Focus most on your friendships with women and everyday care about maintaining them. Most men you will become friends with will have sexual feelings for you and so I’ve found that the majority of these friendships are subject to falling out within a smaller span of time after feelings get revealed and you can’t reciprocate. Unfortunately a lot of close friendships you build with men will be comple…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 07:59 PM
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Oh very interesting with that platinum rule.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 06:43 PM
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True!
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 06:42 PM
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It’s a desire because you value commitment, and healthy relationships, no?
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 06:40 PM
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Wow really insightful! I couldn’t agree more. In fact I’ve thought a lot about how the self-love movement really only contributes to further unhappiness. The more focused you become on self, the more meaningless your life becomes. Really, if women want to feel confident, they should look at how they could contribute to the goodness of lives around them. It’s in our nature to be nurturing and it’s been shown that our self esteem is determined by the health of our relationships close to us. Nurtur…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 06:39 PM
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