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10

That's just a sign not to approach. If they don't look away, then approach
/r/seduction24/05/26 12:20 AM
2

I appreciate the response. My main question was whether being cut off is normal after flings.
/r/seduction11/04/26 12:12 AM
4

That's cool and all, but these encounters are at least a month long. I just need some outside perspective on if no contact after flings is normal or if I should be trying to correct some type of behavior I'm doing that causes people to cut me after flings.
/r/seduction11/04/26 12:11 AM
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1 She was hooking up with my friend who was moving away. She came onto me and we hung out everyday either at her place or mine for about 3 weeks. I wanted more and she didn’t. She ended it and tried to get me to do simp things like bring her alchol or drive her on dates. She would drunk call me about missing me while I was dating #2, but when I offered to leave #2 she ghosted me. We played tennis a few times and I tried to make a move, but she wasn't going for it. This last time I tried to add h…
/r/seduction11/04/26 12:09 AM
1

I had a girl who insisted on not wanting to date, but would drunk dial me and call sometimes. I would answer because I was curious
/r/seduction29/03/26 03:27 AM
9

I used to live in a city where I had to drive over an hour to find a decent bar scene. I enjoy driving, so I'd make it on Friday and go back Sunday night. I'd pack clothes and essentials in my bag and bathe in my car.
/r/seduction29/03/26 03:19 AM
7

Just keep trying and gauge her interest. Passive isn't terrible, but it's not a green light, so be careful
/r/seduction28/03/26 05:07 PM
1

I made an edit of how the date went, but nah we aren't seeing each other. I never hit her back up. She really wasn't my type. I'm seeing someone else now.
/r/seduction23/03/26 03:29 AM
1

The language barrier is real if they don't speak English
/r/seduction22/03/26 06:17 AM
2

I've been to Germany and Spain and brothels aren't hard to find. Just saying...
/r/seduction17/03/26 06:22 AM
3

There are so many reasons this could have happened. There's no point in sitting around thinking about it; just get back out there. Now, if this becomes a trend, then you can reevaluate.
/r/seduction16/03/26 08:51 AM
1

Just things outaide the house you normally enjoy doing. That's honestly the best way. If you can't think of something you like doing, then you're boring and need to try some new stuff. Take a class, explore your city, hop in the car and drive around...
/r/seduction15/03/26 12:45 PM
4

I have notes on verbal escalation, but they're unique to me...I'd have to organize them into something coherent for other people and I honestly don't feel like it.
/r/seduction14/03/26 02:50 AM
1

This guy fucks
/r/seduction13/03/26 08:13 PM
43

You're way ahead of your peers despite what you may think. A lot of guys struggle with even talking to women. Do not stop talking to women like you do, just add in escalation. We're a lot alike. I talk to women like I would guy friends, but I physically and verbally escalate. In fact, I just went on a hinge date last night where I basically just acted like I was hanging out with a close friend, but I physically and verbally escalated throughout the interaction. Eventually we went back to her pla…
/r/seduction13/03/26 08:08 PM
1

You're assuming and speculating a lot off OPs short description of what happened.
/r/seduction11/03/26 02:19 PM
9

It's literally date #2 where she's coming over and the dates are less than a week apart...
/r/seduction11/03/26 06:24 AM
9

Yall are setting this man up for failure.
/r/seduction11/03/26 05:34 AM
29

This is such a weird non-issue to me. I had a date Friday where we met half way. She drove 30 minutes and I drove an hour. We had our date and parted ways with a kiss. Our next date is at my place where I'm going to cook for her and she already mentioned staying over for the night. Why do you NEED to fuck on the first date? If anything not fucking will make her like you more. Just make sure you escalate properly during the date.
/r/seduction11/03/26 05:29 AM
1

Interesting
/r/seduction11/03/26 05:24 AM
1

You can try, but I know if I'm not attracted to her I won't even enjoy the sex.
/r/seduction10/03/26 03:48 AM
1

I'm not a couch and I'm not the best yet, but we could review each others accounts?
/r/seduction10/03/26 03:43 AM
2

Throwing your number up like that is crazy I live in the Midwest now, but I'd definitely be down if I was still on the East Coast.
/r/seduction10/03/26 03:42 AM
2

Moochers, crimals, drug addicts, alcholics, etc...
/r/seduction10/03/26 01:41 AM
8

I went from never having a girlfriend and barely any friends to getting 6 bodies, a situationship, 6 month girlfriend, and mediocre friends in a year. I think the major thing was I moved away from the east coast to a bigger city in the Midwest with bar areas nearby. I started to become a regular at the spots and made friend groups. I also started to take more chances on my approaches.
/r/seduction09/03/26 01:26 PM
2

Holy shit that's good numbers. What's your strat?
/r/seduction08/03/26 09:36 AM
1

Sounds like an ad lol
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:35 PM
61

Don't let this get you down. It just so happens that your first approach was with someone really mean. That's very atypical. You opened yourself up and you should be proud of that. Keep going!
/r/seduction07/03/26 06:16 PM
2

Do not listen to this guy
/r/seduction07/03/26 06:13 PM
191

I'm going on a date today and I'll try this, but I can't imagine talking to someone about relationships, dating, and sex for an hour. This will be an interesting test. EDIT: We hung out for 5 hours. The relationship, dating, and sex topics felt awkward to bring up towards the beginning of the date. I ended up keeping it generic until the last 40 minutes or so where we talked about past relationships, love language, what we're looking for, and the fact she doesn't fuck on the first date. I don't …
/r/seduction06/03/26 08:41 PM
20

This actually opened my eyes to why my X's might have found me attractive. Thanks anon.
/r/seduction05/03/26 03:22 AM
1

Not necessarily women. Quality women. I can get an overweight or ugly girl easy
/r/seduction05/03/26 03:17 AM
1

All the places I frequent are near other bars, so I'm planning to start bar hopping more (I actually enjoy that too). Im also going to start visiting markets and vintage stores in the daytime, but I'm open to any other advice you got.
/r/seduction04/03/26 11:22 PM
2

This makes sense. I'll start looking out for more female friendly spots that have pool, darts, and music. I just dated a girl who basically only played overwatch and never did anything else. I don't want someone I don't have anything in common with again.
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:29 PM
1

If I still lived in on East Coast I would 100% be down. If you're ever in the Midwest lmk
/r/seduction04/03/26 12:58 AM
2

I tried making a post like this and got downvoted. I don't think people are interested in this
/r/seduction04/03/26 12:54 AM
2

you can't approach like that hundreds of girls becuse you will quickly become the guy who hit on girls and you're cooked. This is what makes approaching so difficult to me. There are other small but crucial factors to consider if you want to increase your odds: This is also difficult, because you could be looking for signals that never come and end up not approaching anyone.
/r/seduction03/03/26 06:23 PM
1

How would this be applied to dating apps?
/r/seduction01/03/26 06:25 PM
4

Why is this not the standard?
/r/seduction07/10/25 02:38 AM
1

You shouldnt ask for her contact... You should talk to and get to know her. Suggest you guys do something and the contact is an after thought
/r/seduction16/09/25 02:51 AM
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If she's been hit on 4 times there's no other play
/r/seduction06/09/25 11:15 AM
-7

I would walk up and ask her if she's open to being hit on or if its a dance floor if she's open to dancing.
/r/seduction06/09/25 10:06 AM
3

I think u/Ok-Orange7146 made a good point about girls not saying stuff like this around guys they actually like. I took it as her implying she's too good for me, but I suppose that may have been her way of flirting... although, I dont think a girl thats into me would ask "are you a slut" like she did.
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:59 AM
1

Thanks for the good advice Im curious what you think about u/Ok-Orange7146 comment
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:47 AM
3

I agree with everything you said and I don't believe she would have said that stuff if she was actually interested in me. I've had girls who didn't do any of this stuff with me before
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:47 AM
1

One girl was in a relationship for 2 years One girl I can confirm slept with multiple people One girl im not sure about, but she does seem kinda inexperienced Yeah youre right about college age
/r/seduction26/08/25 08:28 PM
2

Yeah, I think you're right. One issue is that I need nightlife and excitement to get ramped up for sex. Otherwise I'm just not that into it.
/r/seduction26/08/25 07:06 PM
1

Is it that in not masculine or too horny?
/r/seduction26/08/25 06:51 PM
1

Lmao, bro that cant be true
/r/seduction26/08/25 06:42 PM
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Why would she ghost me if she did it too. Stay salty bro Also we hang out at least twice a week
/r/seduction26/08/25 06:17 PM
1

One girl said she's inexperienced, so that checks out i guess One girl I had sex with the second time I met her at a park, but after that she wouldn't sleep with me again One girl I never asked, so that could be why.
/r/seduction26/08/25 05:18 PM
4

Really bad post
/r/seduction24/08/25 05:29 PM
1

You got sharked. Shit happens, but I think the lesson here is don't wait to approach. It's not always about "doing something wrong", sometimes you just gotta learn a lesson.
/r/seduction23/08/25 01:36 PM
2

These other posters are kinda annoying and unhelpful. You don't know if the girl that ghosted you did it because you were too forward, so I would throw that out. It sounds like you're still learning and figuring things out, so don't beat yourself up. When I was a bit less experienced I was pushing girls boundaries and going for lots of PDA, but I mellowed out after I gained more experience. Touching up on girls and making out gets less exciting the more you do it and you'll eventually mellow out…
/r/seduction23/08/25 11:58 AM
1

Well I had a girl do this before throwing a drink on me
/r/seduction15/08/25 02:40 AM
1

Social Animal Tay Social
/r/seduction15/08/25 02:29 AM
1

I've never read any post about 'hooking' girls
/r/seduction07/08/25 01:15 PM
1

Experience
/r/seduction07/08/25 06:13 AM
1

All her responses were neutral. Which, in hindsight should have been a red flag. She was just kinda like a wet fish.
/r/seduction07/08/25 02:04 AM
1

I was escalating and leading. I had no idea it wouldnt lead to a close
/r/seduction07/08/25 01:39 AM
1

Honestly was a bit of both. I was kinda confused on why I couldn't make it happen, but I was still having lots of fun.
/r/seduction06/08/25 11:39 PM
0

Bro, I don't know wtf you're saying
/r/seduction06/08/25 11:38 PM
1

Well thats valid for these particular situations, but I guess my more specific question is after you first show intent are you supposed to walk away if you don't get a positive response or stay in the set?
/r/seduction06/08/25 09:38 PM
1

What do you mean by this?
/r/seduction06/08/25 09:37 PM
1

Yeah idk, I also thought #2 was true, but I was on a 2v2 with her twice, and she chose the other guy both times. Shit is kinda weird. I don't think I fumbled either, I honestly think she just like messing with me.
/r/seduction06/08/25 01:44 AM
0

Ignore this other guy. He obviously doesn't solo game. What you should be doing is opening the entire group. Her friends should love you and be okay leaving you alone with her. If that's not the case then you're either playing an unwinnable game or need to hang out with the friends more. You aren't going to pull a friend away from a 1v2 unless she's a bad friend... get her number and text her after they leave to come scoop her (I've done this and it's worked) or mention it while talking casually…
/r/seduction06/08/25 12:47 AM
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Respecting yourself
/r/seduction04/08/25 11:38 AM
1

I don't have any advice except to say that if you're coming from day game, I feel like a bar would be a better choice. It's easier to talk inside a bar like day game. Clubs are usually loud and everything is based off body language.
/r/seduction26/07/25 12:15 AM
5

So you begged her for another date? I don't see this going well to be honest
/r/seduction22/07/25 05:01 PM
1

I read through some of your comments and there's a few things I noticed that helped me. I just want to make sure you're doing these things. Are you chatting with the bartenders to become a regualr Are you chatting up random guys in the club/bar to warn yourself up and make new friends Are you in an environment that you enjoy and fits you? (For instance, I do terrible in club atmospheres and prefer dive bars with pool and darts so I have something to focus on besides woman, plus I enjoy these gam…
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:34 PM
2

FOR CONTEXT:. I made a post a couple of months ago about how I finally brought a girl home after 4 years and didn't even smash. Fast forward to now and I've had sex 2 more times and have had multiple dates with the same and different woman. I make out with girls at bars and have a bunch of friends I've met while heading out to bars. I'm still learning, but I'm way better than i was a couple years ago. MY ADVICE: I know learning sucks, but you're doing exactly what you should be. You're identifyi…
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:21 PM
9

WTF is this post? So many generic buzz words without any actionable direct advice.
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:39 AM
1

My goal upon approaching them is to run game, but when I get into conversation specifically with girls who show dominate/authoritative behavior I get drawn in and want to bull shit with them platonically. It seems like you answered my question about if they didnt enjoy my company they would leave. Asking her friends seems like a great idea, thanks for that.
/r/seduction18/07/25 07:33 PM
5

Yeah, I ignored that one for sure.
/r/seduction15/07/25 04:33 PM
1

Thats rookie numbers, look at my post history
/r/seduction08/07/25 01:20 AM
1

You have a cousin to hang out with and vibe with to learn the game? A lot of guys (like me) don't have that! You need to be hanging out with him all you can and learning the game
/r/seduction04/07/25 03:39 AM
1

Im actually in talk with a 36 year old woman with a 17 year old son and im 26. This thread is going to tell me a lot
/r/seduction02/07/25 05:40 AM
1

Yeah, 4th? I can't even get a third.
/r/seduction30/06/25 06:43 AM
1

I know you were talking about optimization, but I've done it both ways and haven't had an issue either way. I guess i prefer giving them mine since I dont like having unread messages on Tinder
/r/seduction28/06/25 07:12 AM
1

How long are you?
/r/seduction25/06/25 06:02 AM
2

I do think day game is eventually where I need to be, but I'm still nervous about it...
/r/seduction24/06/25 11:46 AM
0

I would try pickup
/r/seduction23/06/25 12:33 AM
1

I just reread my comment and it doesnt make sense, my bad. Basically, I got last minute resistance from the last four girls I've been with (pants already off, cuddling in bed, on top of me in the car twice). I can't figure out how to pass this test. I don't even know if it is a test to be honest. I tried giving it some time and trying to re escalate, but that doesn't seem to work... a lot of times we end up cuddling the whole night.
/r/seduction21/06/25 08:51 PM
1

Everything i keep trying it doesnt seem to work out...
/r/seduction21/06/25 08:27 PM
-3

A lot. I'm busy but I'll edit later and explain
/r/seduction13/06/25 04:16 PM
1

As a guy I would really appreciate if you reached out and let him know. If he's not a POS he is definitely wondering why you were crying.
/r/seduction13/06/25 06:17 AM
1

This post is unhelpful because instead of educating the guy on what its called you just pointed out they're wrong. Do better.
/r/seduction10/06/25 06:24 PM
56

Being non-needy is about being 100% clear about the fact you like a girl BUT she has to work for you to move things forward AND IF SHE DOESN'T it's also clear that you will completely ghost her and go talk to another girl. This sounds great, but do you have examples for this?
/r/seduction10/06/25 07:48 AM
4

Understand that you're joking but not appreciate you making fun of women being made uncomfortable by people staring at them Then you dodged a bullet. People that can't take a joke are exhausting.
/r/seduction10/06/25 01:18 AM
3

Thats not true at all Its literally up to the girls opinion on if you're being creepy. You can be super nice and kind and she'll find you creepy.
/r/seduction08/06/25 02:12 AM
1

Hey bro, keep going with it. Don't get discouraged. Look at the post I made literally yesterday about me waiting 4 years to bring someone home.
/r/seduction25/05/25 04:51 PM
3

I go out almost every weekend, but I usually only approach 1 or 2 girls. I always go out to enjoy the night before anything else. I also never go to clubs because I do better in bars.
/r/seduction24/05/25 04:07 PM
5

No, I agree 4 years is kinda crazy. I think the fact I exclusively go out alone and always do bar game is why. I haven't been on a real date in years cause I honestly don't feel like dating anyone. I only do day game to test my skills and for exposure therapy.
/r/seduction24/05/25 02:54 PM
4

I got her pants off quick. I was fiddling with my radio for a minute trying to connect lol. We also danced for a bit too, but I think that was just us having fun. I'll make sure I'm prepared next time, thanks for the comment.
/r/seduction24/05/25 02:51 PM
7

I'll definitely take this as a win and keep moving forward. Thanks for the analysis.
/r/seduction24/05/25 02:49 PM
3

But where?? I had her pants off and my shirt off. We even drew each other naked after...
/r/seduction24/05/25 02:48 PM
5

Mid 20s
/r/seduction24/05/25 01:48 PM
22

😂 thank you for this. I needed it
/r/seduction24/05/25 01:48 PM
4

For me, I'm always thinking about the girls I fumbled, but had a decent chance with. The girls I never approached can head out
/r/seduction23/05/25 11:33 PM
7

They aren't going to answer this
/r/seduction15/01/25 12:13 PM
1

This isn’t something you can reverse-engineer just by talking about it and someone like this is still going to get some negative reactions. I agree, if you're going to give advice something actionable would be better... This isn’t really true Im not a woman, so I feel like they are the only ones qualified to answer
/r/seduction31/12/24 03:02 PM
96

you have to have a winners mindset in order to have success in the dating game. I think this is easier said than done when all you have is loses on your records.
/r/seduction27/12/24 09:25 PM
2

You're ignorant if you think the song was joking about pedophilia
/r/seduction17/12/24 09:23 PM
1

Okay, but a lot of times I don't get replys after getting numbers at the bar... it's not like I'm asking them randomly for their number either. These are girls I'm spending more than an hour with laughing and talking, but for some reason I have a hard time getting the date set up... How exactly do I go about getting them to reply or how do I figure out if they're the type to ghost people the next day?
/r/seduction16/12/24 12:58 AM
1

I'll try this next time...
/r/seduction16/12/24 12:55 AM
2

Thanks bro I really appreciate the advice
/r/seduction15/12/24 06:41 PM
2

You need to escalate by getting closer to her and lightly touching her. When you've been flirting with her and teasing her for a bit, you'll know when the time is right to kiss her. This worked great, except we were surrounded by her friends and mine, so I felt added pressure since everyone knew we wanted to get together. I ended up getting her outside for a kiss, so it worked out I guess Yes you're going to have to kiss her. You don't have to have a full on make out session with her but just a …
/r/seduction15/12/24 01:45 PM
6

Im going to try this tonight, wish me luck
/r/seduction15/12/24 01:46 AM
5

You might just be good looking. I've never had girls stealing glances and making eye contact, but I also haven't even gotten a date in years.
/r/seduction04/11/24 05:23 PM
4

Sounds like you found your league. Im the same way. It sucks, but you might be ugly bro.
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:59 AM
0

Ah okay, thanks I realize I need to tease more
/r/seduction15/08/24 02:45 PM
0

do teases, negs, I'm not familiar with this. I was in the same situation as OP, can you explain this?
/r/seduction15/08/24 01:20 PM
0

What's KINO?
/r/seduction15/08/24 01:19 PM
2

I just had this exact situation last night lmao. I was dancing with her upstairs and she was grinding her ass on me. She wasn't a good dancer, so we ended up taking a sitting. I asked if she wanted to head downstairs to talk where it's quiet.... When we got downstairs I started dancing with her to Hispanic music. We were close and I was feeling her lower back, so I went for a kiss, but she rejected it. I ended up wasting a lot of time trying to talk and convince her to dance again. Eventually, I…
/r/seduction15/08/24 01:17 PM
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