To get a gist of it, I went to a bar with friends and saw a bunch of girls multiple times. And was too afraid to make a move. Then saw other guys making a move and they ended up at least exchanging numbers and dancing.

Then later on there were some other girls who were all dolled up ready to go out. And it was a big group of them. I was with my friends and they called us over. But they were kinda drunk and shit testing us. A couple of my friends went and spoke with them and I came over and was and even though I made basic convo, I felt like I could’ve done so much better.

Then later I went back to the bar and wanted to chat to some girls. And then got to shy and then got even more pissed when I saw other guys chat with them and have good flirty convo and even a little dance.

Now I’m thinking of all of those interactions and am just kicking myself thinking “fuck , I could’ve said this in this moment” or “fuck why didn’t I do this in that moment” and it just pissed me tf off.

I work so hard getting out of my comfort zone and to walk away from being the shy guy, but it’s still so hard sometimes.

FYI there was a point where i had a pretty good interaction with some people (2 girls and 2 guys) and that was just on a good vibe.

But other than that im fucking kicking myself that I didn’t do anything.

What im saying is I couldn’t find anything to talk about especially to a lot of the girls that were drunk.

So I guess what im asking is what would have done/said in my position? Like any examples/pointers or convo starters that you would’ve said?

I hate being jealous and a hater when I see other guys (even my friends) get lucky but it just pisses me off too much and I don’t want it to. So yeah pls guys any advice I’d really appreciate it