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| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020Surprised by the different vibe FDS has now without the questions now that there is askFDS. Without the questions we have collages. I went over to askFDS and without the uplifting posts we have here it’s quite a sad place. There was literally a post of a man posting about how a woman was thanking him too much and her bar was too low. So basically criticizing her for having manners. Same old LV bs but now criticizing her for not being HV enough. Wtf. There was a post asking for advice about about… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:43 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020It’s a horrible state of mind to be in. I am certain he was abusive to her and it is part of what is causing this confusion for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:25 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020You are not dumb. You are not pathetic. You have been manipulated your whole life. You have literally been brainwashed my family, men, songs, movies, and social media since birth. Your eyes are opening and you will be leveling up to a queen. Don’t worry. The shame of past mistakes haunts a lot of us. Don’t hate yourself. You have to have your own back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:17 PM |
| 48 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020Joined FDS a month ago. Made 5000 years worth of progress | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:15 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020You may think you love him but I know one day you will look back at this man as an awful memory | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:36 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020Not romance but I love the book Wildflower hill. Starts as a pick me and develops into a strong woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:33 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020So for me I don’t think you need to actually say anything because his lack of interest is unfortunately very clear. Block and delete. LVM will breadcrumb us until we go crazy. Do not give him the satisfaction of your reaction. Let him wonder instead of gaining power from you being forced to react / notice / care enough to text Him. Why can’t he just be honest with you? I don’t know but trust me, block and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:29 AM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020I’m moving into my own place. I was staying with family the past year or so. I’m super nervous. I find I get really lonely when I live alone but also I want to live alone so it’s a weird combo. I’m worried that when I live alone I’m basically just going to be so lonely and depressed like I was before. I also feel like with coronavirus I cannot handle changes. Wish me luck . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Pick me qualities I’m seeing in this groupI think it depends on what it is. For example, I can handle someone a little overweight a lot more easily than I can handle a LVM personality characteristic. I could be more extreme and say i could even handle missing teeth over character issues. For me I cannot compromise on their personality characteristics being HV. I just can’t. The things you listed are things I personally just cannot tolerate anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Pick me qualities I’m seeing in this group💎💎💎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Pick me qualities I’m seeing in this group🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Pick me qualities I’m seeing in this group👑💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:56 PM |
| 10 | Pick me qualities I’m seeing in this groupWhat he thinks of a woman who gains weight after being pregnant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 03:50 AM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020How long have you known him? I see your posts about narc ex. If you were with a narc there is a very high chance you are co-dependent. A twin flame is great but to my knowledge based on an immediate feeling? Concerned about the length of time and how fast you might be attaching. I have history with narc exes and learned it’s not healthy to attach like that or jump to soulmate / HVM / twin flame / in love thoughts for 6 months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:32 AM |
| 14 | My husband's dad just said that he felt bad for a family member that just had another daughter.Aw. Do you live in the US? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:31 AM |
| 11 | Pick me qualities I’m seeing in this group👑❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:34 AM |
| 16 | Pick me qualities I’m seeing in this groupIt’s crazy!!! They can hide so much!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:33 AM |
| 15 | Pick me qualities I’m seeing in this groupAw 🥰 makes me so happy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:33 AM |
| 58 | Pick me qualities I’m seeing in this groupI agree 100%. Especially about forgiving yourself. My post is mainly concerned for those women who still are hooked on LVM and are having trouble getting to where they want to be. These are things I recognize in others on here that I used to do and had no idea where holding me back. They are things I just didn’t understand at all. Trying to explain them not make anyone feel shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:05 AM |
| 15 | Pick me qualities I’m seeing in this group💎👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 11:56 PM |
| 97 | Your weekly low effort negging OLD-er. Block and deleteI like your response a lot. Didn’t let it show it impacted you at all. No anger, no anything. Just below you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:03 AM |
| 1 | "How To Be A Heartbreaker" by 'Marina and the Diamonds' is FDS in song formI love this song | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:23 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of him? We are going on a first date tomorrow in public (stores are opening up!)Think of what? His profile seems very basic. Cannot tell anything about his character at all. He could be anyone. I suspect random guy who dates lots of women from OLD because his profile includes his height and is put together with only positives he knows women like. Did it work out? 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:10 AM |
| 2 | He said I was too difficult🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 12:56 PM |
| 1 | He said I was too difficultI’m confused. You want to start things up with him again? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 02:59 AM |
| 5 | How to know if he wants to be in a relationship with you specifically vs just wants to be in a relationship?Same question to you. Do you want him specifically? I think you two are not in love yet which is why you are questioning it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 04:05 AM |
| 0 | Why do men call call their girlfriends bro?Weird to me too but considering how much men value their bro’s over women... it’s probably a compliment hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Caption was “just bc p*rn is normal for boys of our age doesn’t mean its good for you”. I’ve never seen men speak up against this, Im having hope for improvement for the next generation (sorry if the flair is wrong)I’m not believing this is not just a seduction tactic or that he isn’t just trying to make himself look good . I’m that jaded. I don’t buy this is anything other than him benefiting himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:43 AM |
| 7 | I think this is relevant for a lot of things guys do. Don't be fooled by guys who pretend to be something they're not. Just because they give the impression that they're one thing, don't automatically believe it.Oh wow yes I agree. I remember thinking years ago after first dates with men online that they were so amazing and so sad I wasn’t good enough for them to ever text me again. That’s how o originally found dating strategies (not this group). So sad. I genuinely believed they were so amazing from a 2 hour date and I was the issue. I was so wrong. Or after 3 dates where did he go? It must’ve been because he couldn’t feel a connection without sex. Charming LVM can turn on the charm! They can make you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:39 AM |
| 7 | How do you know if he is multi-dating?This is very suspicious to me. It happened to me 2 times. The first time, I confront the guy after maybe a month and he said he was doing drugs all weekend and partying with girls. NO JOKE. Then I found out he had a girlfriend the whole time. The second guy it happened with I confronted him too because I was worried he was married. He denied it and said he was doing xyz but yeah I don’t believe him. My gut was on fire. We started talking a year later. Same thing happened and same gut reaction. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Friend and I are talking to the same man?It actually seems like maybe too many messages with this guy and too much interest / emotional investment going on for someone you haven’t met. Personally I think you should re-evaluate your OLD strategy. I’m so sorry if this is blunt and rude at all. It’s just I don’t think this ends well regardless of you new friend. Have you vetted him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:23 AM |
| 9 | another day, another LVM bullet dodged ✨Exactly why I’m not online dating. Gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:16 AM |
| 6 | another day, another LVM bullet dodged ✨Ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:15 AM |
| 4 | IVE FOUND THE CURE TO OLD!My friend did it and spent $2500 and wound up with one date who was shorter than her. I’m really glad you have a had success but it’s not something that works for everyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:19 AM |
| 2 | RealisationNow this is a good response!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:52 AM |
| 4 | RealisationIve been in this situation and what i personally said was... I’ve been doing some thinking and it’s best for me if we don’t have any communication anymore. Please don’t contact me. Take care of yourself.” And then I blocked and deleted. I figured if he left me a blocked voicemail I would consider responding. Never got a voicemail. How much could he have cared? Maybe a little more than zero but pretty much not at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:51 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Aw that is really good advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 07:38 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Those are good points. Especially about no work environment opening someone with welcome arms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:15 AM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Not related to men at all. Started a new job and most of the people I just don’t vibe with. It’s been hard for me. I was being myself and when I am their faces are just expressionless and it makes me feel like I’m weird. Makes me feel super rejected and like I am going to have to just not be myself to fit in. Basically sit there with no personality to match the norms. I just feel sad and disappointed that I’m so different from them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:44 PM |
| 17 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020I wouldn’t meet him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Just another tip for wading through the vast sea of garbage men on OLDEvery single time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Girl Wash Your Face Book - Pick Me behaviourI never finished the book. I read only chapter one. Wanted to keep reading but glad I didn’t now.... 🧐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 02:56 PM |
| 2 | My friend likes me...These “nice” guy friend zoned men are all the same. They always just keep coming back for more and don’t get it. It’s always a weird situation. I have been so direct with them and they still don’t get it. I would probably be super upfront if it was me and just say that you care about him but the age gap is too much for you and it’s making you uncomfortable. If he continues i would say that you want to be friends but if he won’t stop then you don’t want to be friends anymore because you feel disr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:23 AM |
| 2 | some men need to learn thisOmg yes!!!!!!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 04:19 AM |
| 1 | "How to manipulate women & and breaking the touch barrier" - over 200 views. WHAT THE F did I just found??I’m disgusted by the title. I refuse to watch his video because it will send me into a rage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:56 AM |
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