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I “wasn’t picked” and then one day I was. Incel till about 25, then boom, I was being picked all over the place. Your theory is trash.
/r/AllPillDebate01/05/23 01:08 PM
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The thing that most men don’t understand about AF/BB is that women are usually looking for both of these within one guy.
/r/AllPillDebate30/04/23 04:15 PM
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“This place really makes you lose touch with reality, huh?” Which one is the reality? Because honestly I’m not sure anymore.
/r/AllPillDebate19/04/23 02:05 PM
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The entire world would be structured around hypergamy. There would be literal wars against men who were considered not “genetically fit”. Billions would die.
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 05:13 PM
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Why does a woman’s past matter? Would it still matter to you if no one else said it did? Trying to wrap my head around it.
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 11:38 AM
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I can’t quite wrap my head around how and why women are repulsed by the “self made man”. It doesn’t really add up to me. I’ve seen it in action before, in my own life, so I know it’s true. But I can’t wrap my head around why, evolutionarily speaking. Wouldn’t women want a man who, despite shitty initial life circumstances, found a way to make it? Found a way to better himself? Doesn’t she want that for her kids? Also, why then do we have women we are attracted to band members who are in a band t…
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 11:36 AM
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Andrew Tate is helping men get laid, not inhibiting them. Got it backwards. The rest of it is pretty accurate though. Social media got people fucked up. I never use it, but sometimes a friend will show me something and it’s ALWAYS extremely attractive people. Our minds have been hijacked.
/r/AllPillDebate12/03/23 12:21 PM
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Yes. Also, if you’re ugly as hell but she believes that you can kill a tiger with your bare hands, she will be melting. Those are also the social skills I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:50 PM
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No. Most men, if they improve their social skills, end up getting more women. I don’t have research to back that up, but it’s just an observable truth. Most men do have the looks to get their foot in the door. The epidemic of sexlessness has much more to do with lack of courage and lack of technique than anything else. The bottom 10% of men maybe are hopeless due to looks, but not much more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:02 PM
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This just means that people who are inexperienced are more afraid to leave their marriage because they aren’t sure they can get another partner. It has nothing to do with the strength of their pair bonding, it’s just that people with fewer partners have a scarcity mentality and less of an ability to put up boundaries. This data needs to be compared to stats that would indicate “marriage satisfaction”. I’m willing to bet that those with more partners have a much higher marriage satisfaction with …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:05 PM
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“Incel” has become a word meaning “men who are good at getting girls to sleep with them”. Women and normies have redefined the word this way, to demean men who got their lives together. This is of course the exact opposite definition to those in our community, but this has become the widespread definition. It’s really bizarre. So in that sense, yes, he is the incel king and incels do love him.
/r/AllPillDebate03/02/23 09:25 PM
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How will one ever determine to what degree of likeness is allowed and what degree of likeness is not allowed? Can I have deepfake porn of someone who sort of looks like Jennifer Lawrence? Like maybe her cousin or something? How about her sister? How about her twin sister? It’s a sliding scale, there is no way to draw a line.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:35 AM
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How so? How would you improve it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:09 AM
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Maslow’s hierarchy of needs - sex is at the bottom. It’s a basic necessity. You aren’t going to be able to self actualize until you at least get past that first barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:36 PM
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This is actually a beautifully simple definition. Might steal it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:54 PM
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Go far enough Redpill, you somehow end up coming back around full circle. Life is weird like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:53 PM
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Usually red pill, but my best blue pill take: the whole world revolves around men falling in love with women. It is the great inspiration of our species. It always has been, and if our species is to remain great, it always will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:51 PM
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I don’t know why it took me scrolling through so many comments to find this perfect and concise answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:29 PM
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I think it’s because he is a really interesting blend of hardcore redpilled ultra masculine man mixed with being a genuinely good person that really cares about the outcome of other peoples lives. It’s a really rare personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:00 PM
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It’s one of the only things in life that has “intrinsic value”. Most things in life are done so that you can do something else later on - there are very few things that you do for it’s own sake. Sex and drugs are two things that need no “reason” to do them. You do them for their own sake. They are an end in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:06 PM
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How do we know anything at all, if we are not every person who ever lived? We can only know what we observe for ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 10:12 PM
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Only the top 20% of men are even considered by women to be men at all. The bottom 80% of men are viewed with contempt and disgust. There is no parallel like this in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:55 PM
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I think the men on here actually have a great understand of women. Sure, some guys are new and here to learn, but I think we have a lot of vets as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:21 PM
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Not even if I was a eunuch would I consider this to be a positive arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:40 PM
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Hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:04 PM
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Yes, they do. Men value love. Women love value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:36 PM
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Women do not value relationships, they are literally just trying to steal your genetics and then get you to protect them while they use your genetics to make a new human. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:15 PM
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The problem here is that you are missing one of the fundamental differences between men and women - women cannot conceive of “change over time”. It’s one of the primary differences between the sexes. Men view everything as changing over time, so it’s very easy for them to grasp the idea of “overcoming” a difficulty, or self-improving to build the best version of yourself. Women cannot conceive of a concept like “self-betterment”. They view this only as lying. So when you are faced with a difficu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:39 AM
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It’s not up to me to take care of their mental state though. If they find a guy that’s willing to do that, then fine, but it ain’t me, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:02 PM
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I have literally broken up with so many women because of this. The not being able to orgasm thing is such a turnoff for me. And I think you are right, it’s a mental issue much more than a physical one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:43 PM
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Virginity is a symptom of mental illness, not a cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:49 AM
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Sounds like hysteria to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:43 PM
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You clearly do not understand what mental illness is and how many people it actually effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:52 PM
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These statistics are only proof that the definition of “sexual assault” has been stretched to include so many actions that the phrase is nearly meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:10 PM
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I cannot relate to this at all. My “slays” in my earlier years formed the experience and confidence that carried me through my successful relationships and eventual marriage. Time very well spent in my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:08 PM
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The missing datum here is: men are the gatekeepers of relationships, women are the gatekeepers of sex. Women have no need to pump and dump, because they themselves are the decision makers when it comes to sex. Women do something else - pretend to be in a relationship with a man but never putting out sex. This is the “pump and dump” equivalent for a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:41 PM
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Porn is not the problem - it’s the attempted remedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:35 PM
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“More movie-like than actual movie” Could not have said it better my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:45 PM
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Hmm that’s a good point. I guess it really might depend on if the women thought that the “other man” (the man getting slapped) was part of her tribe or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 06:27 PM
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You are an outlier I would think. Most women would outwardly hate the action and openly condemn it, but internally, even subconsciously, would love it. The slap demonstrates extremely high physical risk tolerance, which is pretty much the male equivalent of having a fat ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:21 PM
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I actually think the slap was pretty badass, in a traditional masculinity kind of way. It was an overcorrection for sure, because he knows he’s acted weakly towards Jada in the past, but I think this actually helped his image in Jada’s eyes. I mean imagine how wet she got from that. Now whether or not he should even be with Jada at all is another story…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:13 PM
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Tinder for me. Guess I’m a Chad. Sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:06 AM
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Congratulations, you are now post-Redpill. Welcome to the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:23 PM
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He’s not the second or third choice though, he’s the number one choice for that time in the woman’s life. The teenage heartthrob that you made out with behind the bleachers in 10th grade becomes a lot less cool at 30. Priorities change as we age, for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:51 PM
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Yes. This. Exactly. Polygamy is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:50 PM
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Why not? Why can’t women do this? It satisfies their mating strategy, and if it makes the man happy as well, then it’s a win/win.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:11 PM
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Definitely disagree. It’s so easy to just sit on your ass and do nothing with your life. It takes consistent effort, tons of time spent in the gym, making money, learning fashion trends, social skills, humor, etc for men to get a high N count. High N count for men generally means that everything else in their life is in order. It’s a good indicator of life success in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:12 PM
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Low n count for women means that they were able to control themselves. High n count for men means that they were able to control themselves. Both sexes filter for high self mastery, but they way each sex proves high self mastery is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:59 PM
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The pain of not having sex is so deep and so extreme that the potential risk of having sex seems trivial by comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:40 AM
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Yes in a relationship, but consider myself to be solidly purplepilled. Lots of Redpill concepts are extremely helpful, but I’m more science and less hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:44 PM
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Honestly, just keep the sex lively. If the sex life is good, there’s usually no good reason to trade up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:11 PM
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Just lie. Definitely just lie. No one can verify if you’re a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:13 PM
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Wow this is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:45 PM
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The chase ends when you let the chase end. This is one of the good points of TRP - y’all need to always be chasing something better. When the chase ends, everything falls apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:47 PM
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Yeah, I’d date a FDS girl. I’m ex Redpill myself, and I get that sometimes that sort of hard edge irrational philosophy is what some people need in their lives. Most people don’t live in the Redpill/FDS mindset forever, it fades away as you upgrade your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:06 PM
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I’m 5’6” and it’s impacted my dating life tremendously. Being 5’9” would have made a huge difference in the quality of girls I could have gotten. Tall guys, or even average height guys, don’t realize what they have. I can’t tell you how often I’ve been outcompeted by guys who are taller but uglier, or taller but not as buff as me. And how often I’ve beat out shorter, buffer, tougher guys. I honestly think height is the main attractive quality in men, with the second being musculature.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:07 AM
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Incel means “Involuntarily celibate”, which I most certainly was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:41 PM
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I am referring to the Redpill ideology, not incel ideology. Also, when marxists become successful in a capitalist environment, they do tend to see why everyone hates Marxism, and they realize they were only like that in the first place because of their own low self esteem. So yeah, good analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:40 PM
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The Redpill, in its original definition, simply meant “the truth”. The Redpill community today hates the truth. It’s all dogma now. The original PUA community was way more truth oriented than what we see in the Redpill community today. They at least went out and experimented and found what produced results. The modern Redpill has turned into some bizarre religion. There is no more search for truth there. Just as a quick example, I was banned from the Redpill sub for simply mentioning that mental…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:37 PM
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Being an incel is an insanity. Redpill is insanity also, but in the opposite direction. Sometimes you need to answer insanity with insanity. That’s why the Redpill works, when it does. It uses the rage of incels and pulls it in a better, more constructive direction. I mean at least Redpillers are trying to do something about their situation. But as to what really helped me? Understanding evolutionary psychology. I would have never found that field without the Red pill pointing me in that directi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:33 AM
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Because I used the Redpill to get out of inceldom, but now that I’m out and in a healthy relationship, I see how mindlessly insane that ideology is. Just trying to surround myself with some sane people now who know a thing or two about how relationships work in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:56 PM
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When the Redpill says “stoic” what they really mean is “repress emotions”. Women are biologically programmed to find men who are mentally stable. They are trying to weed out genetic mental disorders in the population. Repressing your emotions contributes to mental disorders, it doesn’t alleviate them. That being said, crying may be an indicator that you already have some repressed emotions that you need to get more in touch with. Go towards the pain, not away from it. Running away from your pain…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:52 AM
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This is so accurate. Good analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:24 PM
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Much of the mystery of gender dynamics is solved when mental illness is understood and taken into account. Different genders are predisposed to different mental illnesses. That’s pretty much the entire field that we are discussing here. Perfectly mentally healthy people are actually very similar to each other, regardless of gender. The great differences we see in the genders is mostly due to looking at people with various degrees of mental illness, and the fact that mental illness manifests itse…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:46 PM
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Then why are you complaining if you’re unwilling to change? Just grow a beard man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:19 PM
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Not only do I put in more effort, but it’s more fun for me to put in more effort. It’s like the difference between working for a salary of 250k vs. a salary of 40k. You’re going to want to work harder for the 250k because you’re playing a game that’s actually fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:48 PM
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You can work, just understand that that isn’t why I chose you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 06:33 PM
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applies only to neurotypical men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:26 AM
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After the collapse, the dynamic will reverse entirely, and men will be the selectors again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:10 PM
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“War brides” is the answer to this question. Women had to adapt to the fact that when their tribe got raided and their husbands were killed and the enemy men stole them, they needed to be able to love them quick or they wouldn’t make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 02:26 PM
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The idea that a 12 year old boy is supposed to know how to “ask the right questions” is so ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:13 PM
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Good. This is the way it should be. Everything is right in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:05 PM
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This makes me viscerally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:07 PM
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Yeah, I’ll admit it, I settled to a degree. I lost most of my sex drive, so all women look pretty much the same to me now, and none of them excite me. So I picked the one I had the best connection with. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 02:03 PM
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You have this almost exactly right, the one point that I would make though is that women are doing what they are doing as a “shit test”. I actually think your write up is a beautiful example of what a shit test actually is. They are trying to close the gap by making herself more masculine and you more feminine, hoping that you will be strong enough to maintain the gap. They are just checking your ability to keep the gap open. If you can, you’re high quality. If not, you’re not. It’s just a test,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 02:26 PM
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Red pill theory, especially at the outer limits, mimics autism almost perfectly. If you aren’t autistic going into it, you will be when you’re through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 09:46 PM
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In 2020 a muscular man has more value than a skinny man to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 07:46 PM
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I like being approached, but I also know that if I sleep with a woman who approached me, I lowered my standards to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:15 PM
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Im sorry man but this is not normal female behavior. Not even close. This is something that psychopaths do. She directly told you, to your face, that you “killed” the girl she used to be? This person is legitimately mentally ill. I’m not being hyperbolic. This is actual mental illness. You can dread all you want, it ain’t going to do shit. Look into NPD and BPD.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 02:00 AM
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Carnival games?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 02:14 AM
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I’d be devastated, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 07:22 PM
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Commitment should never be the goal for men. It’s something that will happen eventually, but you shouldn’t be shooting for it. Women shoot for it, men say yes or no. So no man should want to ban casual sex - they would never find a suitable wife if that were the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:42 PM
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There is a strong link between inceldom and extreme fetishes, and inceldom and excessive porn use do often go hand in hand. But there is no significant relationship between excessive porn use and extreme fetishes in any direct way. A healthy young male, who gets laid often, statistically will not have their fetishes radicalized due to regular porn use.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 05:56 PM
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Beautifully put.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 12:47 AM
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Women train men to be “nice guys” as a shit test. All of society at this point is just one large shit test. Women tell men to behave, be nice, be kind, be “good”, etc etc, and all those that listen are then weeded out of the gene pool. Those who don’t listen are the alphas, and suitable for mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 12:50 PM
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I’m actually good at this game, and I can assure everyone here, women’s standards have reached unreasonable heights. Like the SMP is so fucked right now. I have to be perfect to get girls are just like...okay. Can’t wait till we ride this decline all the way down. Excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 03:42 AM
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Totally with you. I have tons of female friends, love them all. I think it’s just part of the “counter culture” right now to say that you like being around only men. It’s “edgy” or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 12:11 PM
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Introducing more chaos into the world. The orderliness of the world (created by men, mostly) has empowered women by making them believe that they don’t need men. In an orderly world, masculinity is almost worthless, aside from its aesthetic. As more chaos is introduced, all of a sudden strong men become a whole lot more valuable. Chaos is the equalizer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:51 PM
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It is 100% true and not a joke. I’ve met many women like this. It’s not so much the “stare” per say, but the inability to be excited by anything sexual or romantic. It’s as if all the joy and fun in that part of life is just...gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:53 AM
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No, never - except by men, as someone else said. Most women show absolute disinterest in me right up until the point that I have sex with them. It’s generally only after sex the first time that they openly show interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 04:06 PM
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The first thing a woman does when they lock down a man is brag to all her friends about how obedient and what a “good boy” he is. Non stop social posts making the guy look like a chump. How is that attractive? Why would anyone want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:50 PM
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This is why I love coming here. People like you just get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:23 PM
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I actually totally agree with you on sex. I’ve always felt that sex should be like eating dinner. It’s a biological need, but it’s also fun to do it with people you love and trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 01:15 PM
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No, from your point of view, I agree with you. “A little more sex”, for women, absolutely does not fix everything. The degree to which height rigs your chance of success is far lowered in women. Also women very often don’t see how things in this society are heavily rigged in certain ways that can be exploited, making some lives exponentially easier than others. It’s not an insult, I just recognize that there are differences in experience which will naturally lead to differences in opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 03:35 PM
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Ahhhh I’m an idiot. You’re female. Should’ve gotten that from your username. From your point of view, you are absolutely correct. The world is naturally balanced, there are always problems to overcome, and a little more sex won’t just magically fix everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 03:13 PM
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This is actually a really interesting conversation. I actually used to really think like this as well. That there is some sort of natural “balance” to the world. I changed my mind when I figured out how to “win” the game. Have you reached a stage of life where you are now “winning”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 02:30 PM
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There is some part of me that wants to agree with this, but I just can’t. My ENTIRE world changed for the better when I trained with PUA material and started actually understanding women. It wasn’t just one aspect of my life, it was everything. Sex made the whole world matter. It gave meaning and substance to my existence. I finally understood why the entire human race didn’t just kill themselves. If you think sex isn’t a big deal, you were never an incel. It’s the same thing with money. Money o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 01:38 PM
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Stop being so fucking hypergamous. Like so I’m a little shorter than average, so now my ENTIRE life is on fucking hard mode, forever? The fuck outta here with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 12:53 AM
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Also half the guys on TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:25 AM
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Ehh I know the newer Redpill theory says that, but older PUA theory says don’t be predictable, which I tend to agree with more. If you’re always cold/masculine in response to every situation, you get boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:11 PM
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Repeal the 19th now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:21 PM
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I’ve realized that when women tell us what they want “men” to do, they are actually only talking about the top 5%. Anyone less than that isn’t really a man and isn’t even on their radar at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:59 PM
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The way to fix this in this society is to get trans males (women who think they are men) to say that they feel unsafe in any room that isn’t specifically for men. Then then will have no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:05 PM
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It’s because men need to be socially savvy in order to be attractive. Women do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:13 AM
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I think the Redpill movement should focus more on societal issues like this and how to handle them. Important stuff, and point well taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:42 PM
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Correct. It’s interesting but as men develop social skills and become more sexually successful, their perversions actually melt away. Seen it happen over and over again. Obviously this is not 100% of cases, but it’s certainly a trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:11 AM
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Male sexuality is suppressed by females, and thus society at large, due to the nature of hypergamy. It is this suppression that creates deviants.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:18 AM
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If I like her, sure. Nothing wrong with single moms imo, I never got what all the fuss was about. Insecurity by men who talk the talk but don’t walk the walk, I’d assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:52 PM
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That’s ridiculous, not all women are narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:56 AM
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I don’t know that they never intend to do it. Even starving artists want to become rich and famous. Everyone wants to “make it” in their field. But tbh I think that trope is much more myth than reality. Because: If a guy is hot enough and has enough social skill, it doesn’t matter what he’s doing financially. So you are always going to have some outliers who don’t follow the general trend. Attractive women generally don’t go for the starving artist type. Very young women will go for men who they…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:14 AM
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Of course not. Because if he doesn’t act on his ability, then he doesn’t really have the ability, does he? That’s how the woman sees it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 01:39 AM
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I couldn’t agree more OP. I think you nailed this one. Good post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:30 PM
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It’s not about money, it’s about a man who has the ability to earn money. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:13 PM
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There is no problem. This is what we want. Legalize prostitution now. There’s a reason we didn’t need a Redpill before the modern era.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 07:11 PM
4

It’s a shit test. Women claim and pretend to act like they hate these “fear inducing” traits, but this is just to weed out men who aren’t really like that, but merely pretending to be like that. All of feminism is a mere shit test, to weed out those men that women deem to be unworthy to dominate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 01:39 PM
9

Because women see lesser men as lesser. Part of their hypergamy is not being able to see their own hypergamy, but instead seeing the inadequacy of the men they look down upon. That is what hypergamy IS.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 06:10 PM
31

It needs no further explanation than this. Just pandering.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 12:47 PM
2

I would chime in here that what the manosphere says and what the manosphere does are two separate realities. Just like with women - look at actions, not words. Men say they have high standards on Twitter. They don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:10 PM
1

I say this all the time. People talk that big game, but only real MFs know that cold approaching takes BALLS.
/r/seduction13/03/20 10:46 AM
3

We have been conditioned from day one to believe that men don’t need to look good to get women. They just need to be “good guys”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 08:47 PM
9

The problem with all of this is that easily observable phenomena is easily observable. I don’t need a “study” to tell me that I am sitting at my kitchen table, or that food tastes better with salt on it. I just observe. TRP is like that. It can be “debunked” forever and ever and ever, and yet we all are going to continue to use the material and get laid because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 11:42 PM
6

This is not my experience - I actually very much agree with the comment that you quoted. I go to clubs. I go to bars. Ive run nightgame for hundreds of hours. MOST guys that go out, don’t stand a chance. They dance with their boys all night, get hammered, then MAYBE at the very end of the night, have the courage to say something to some half passed out chick. MAYBE they get a dance, MAYBE they make out, but they almost never take her home. My only real competition is the same, easily recognizabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 08:12 PM
-1

The real question is, why does this bother you? Nothing could be more natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 10:00 PM
4

I can’t tell I you how many times I’ve outcompeted guys who were “supposed” to be more attractive than me simply because I filled a particular “ideal” of a particular women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:46 PM
1

The wall only exists because hypergamy exists. That’s the part you’re missing. You are correct in saying that the wall WOULD be non existent if women were attracted to men that are slightly below their smv, just like men are. But they aren’t. Hence, the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:53 PM
8

Your observations are exactly in line with mine. Height, and how dramatically it affects women, is the real Redpill imo. After you understand that, everything about female behavior makes sense. I know tall guys that are a 3 in the face but 6’5” and they pull easier than 5’6” bodybuilders. It’s not to be believed until it’s seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 08:07 PM
1

H y p e r g a m y
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 12:48 PM
4

You are just explaining hypergamy with different words.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:07 PM
3

Modern society has taken the BB out of the AF/BB equation. The government and feminism now supply enough resources to safely ignore the beta providers. Women just share the Alphas for their sexual needs, and that’s that. Everything taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 03:55 PM
1

Attractiveness = Looks, Status, Game. All 3 of these matter. The hot 20 year old college kid could easily lose a girl to a 35 year old entrepreneur who has double his notch count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:38 PM
2

It only turns me off because I know it turns her off, and now I’m going to need to work 10X harder to make myself attractive if I want to continue to have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 06:09 AM
6

Betas are providers. That should be all you need to know to figure this one out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 02:49 AM
0

I figured. I’ll try it.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 04:17 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/askTRP09/02/20 01:19 AM
1

Lmao wow thanks bud. Trying to be less autistic.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 01:17 AM
1

Right but LMS has a cap for most people. You’re not just going to expand it forever.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 01:17 AM
4

Amen.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 01:15 AM
1

I think you’re right.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 01:15 AM
2

I’m getting this info from real life approaches. Hours and hours in clubs. Also, getting someone to like you is not the same as getting them attracted to you.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 12:00 AM
12

This is such a perfect answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 09:51 PM
2

I was 10X more successful with women when I was 135lbs as when I was 195lbs of muscle. Men go to the gym to get girls because lifting a barbell is easier than actually approaching. And that’s a hard, hard pill to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 05:35 PM
2

Just went through his post history, the guy is actually autistic by the looks of it. Feel bad for the guy. He has a longer road than most.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 05:45 PM
7

That guy is a retard fo real.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 09:59 AM
10

I used to have the same theory, but I answered it by realizing that women are attracted to men, but they are attracted to their “survival” features mostly, while men are attracted to women’s “reproduction” features. So women like the things that make men look like they can provide protection and resources, men like things that make a women look like she would be a good baby maker. Men and women look for different things in each other because masculinity and femininity have different but compleme…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 04:43 PM
6

The real answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 11:58 PM
1

Men’s rights is absolutely not red pilled. That’s why they will never be quarantined.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 05:46 PM
14

This is more than red. It’s...infrared
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:28 PM
1

Been here. Absolutely insane how no one cares. Took me so long to accept it.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/20 02:11 AM
5

You should actually go on these dates that you pretend to know all about.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/20 03:46 PM
1

After browsing a bit of that sub, I have come to a conclusion: Redpill needs more memes.
/r/MensRights17/01/20 02:35 PM
-29

This is the reason I don’t like men’s rights. We are saying, “women are not the only victims!” As if victimhood is this great prize to be won.
/r/MensRights16/01/20 08:27 PM
1

Nah, they’re saying don’t go there so as not to support the feminine imperative.
/r/MensRights16/01/20 11:52 AM
12

Thank you for pointing out the cognitive dissonance of these conflicting ideas - there are many in the manosphere who want to hold on to both. “I like banging sluts” and “sluts are the source of societal decline” should not be compatible.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 12:18 AM
1

Time for a new religion bud.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:00 PM
1

“I’m not someone you just fuck” means she wants to have sex with you, but she is trying to bargain for more by making you feel bad about just getting the notch.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 12:09 PM
3

This is fucking psychotic. Why didn’t you just move? You’re there to get girls, right? Not to randomly antagonize other guys? I don’t understand why guys think redpill is about being “tough” under any and all circumstances. It’s not. Redpill is about winning. Sometimes that means acting tough, sometimes that means just pursuing your fucking target and not worrying about any other random bullshit.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 06:06 PM
2

This guy gets it
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:41 PM
1

she would have texted me if she wanted to see me No. Men do this, women rarely do it unless they are crazy hooked on you or are trying to trap you. Men lead, and a good subservient women knows this. Don't take her not taking initiative as a sign of anything other than she is female.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 01:55 PM
0

"Abso. Fucking. Lootly."
/r/askTRP16/05/18 10:28 AM
2

this is it.
/r/seduction13/02/18 11:03 PM
2

People really are as dumb as you think they are. Also, you can get as huge as you want, but if you don't know how to talk to girls none of it matters.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 11:45 AM
-3

I just don't care. We are going to die anyway, might as well do what you love.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 04:49 PM
2

A lot of redpill stuff helped me but to be honest I was already on my way up when I encountered TRP. What helped me the most wasn't seduction/sexual strategy type stuff, it was business/entrepreneur type books that really lead to my success. Getting good with women, just like getting good at making money, is all about learning how to become unfazed by failure and persist with the vision you have in mind (aka frame). Both pursuits become a number game - it's about repetition, and letting the loss…
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:51 PM
2

2 years ago my n count was 2. Now it's 42. I'm legitimately running out of new ways to win. It's possible, with the right technology.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:32 PM
6

Growing up as the quiet kid - silence is not a virtue. It will destroy you.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 05:30 PM
2

You know you gotta do it. Cmon now.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:29 PM
1

You did the right thing, chick is crazy. Only very ugly and insecure girls talk like this. They are hoping to rope you in before you meet, because they feel that once you see her in person, you won't want anything to do with her. It's a scummy thing to do on her part.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 03:09 PM
1

Imagination. But imagination is a tool only. And what use is imagination, if not put to use in pursuit of pussy?
/r/seduction30/01/18 04:22 AM
4

Traps. But seriously, nothing ever interested me outside of women. I realized a few years ago that all of my "hobbies" that I had before getting good with women were just weird justifications for not approaching. Humans beings are here for 2 reasons - to eat and fuck. And the only purpose of eating is to keep your body alive long enough to fuck. Everything else is delusion.
/r/seduction29/01/18 05:38 PM
1

Mfw no one here knows what the word spectrum is
/r/askTRP28/01/18 09:55 PM
1

Consciousness is the only reality.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 09:52 PM
1

You sound legitimately mentally ill, and I don't mean any disrespect at all by that. Normal healthy people don't think like this.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 08:32 PM
1

This but verbally.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:28 PM
1

The best defensive is a strong offense.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:27 PM
1

Just soft next.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 05:13 PM
1

Holy shit, a TRP Vanguard? Is that for real? Have you written any books or anything?
/r/askTRP17/01/18 04:45 PM
1

I actually think this has much more to do with the "beta male revolution". Due to the internet and the widespread sharing of information, betas are starting to wake up and learn game. Whereas in the past, maybe only 10-15 years ago, most betas would have been happy with having 4 or 5 girlfriends in their life before getting married, now these same types of men are realizing what's possible and are going out to get their slice of the pussy pie. As more betas grow a set of balls and start practici…
/r/askTRP17/01/18 04:42 PM
3

Women get the benefit of a larger pool of strong men to choose from. The more redpilled men there are, the more likely a less desirable female will get a chance to be with one. Women should be championing redpilled ideas just as much as men - it helps both genders.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 03:16 PM
1

Keep failing. And one day you won't.
/r/seduction16/01/18 10:03 PM
2

Interestingly, my most memorable approaches are the ones where I got shot down the hardest. I barely even remember the ones that worked, lol
/r/seduction16/01/18 03:50 PM
1

Glad someone feels the same - no porn kills sex drive over time. It's like I don't even know what's hot anymore.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 03:44 PM
-1

If girls can't even cum by themselves, you aren't making them cum. It's a journey they need to go on themselves - only they can truly control it. Anyone who thinks differently has simply been lied to. Women lie about orgasms A LOT. You'd be surprised.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 01:24 AM
-9

Not to mention the fact that most girls don't even know how to orgasm anyway.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 08:08 PM
1

You need to grieve it out. No way around it. It's like when someone dies. Grieve now, get it all out. Then move on, when you can.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 12:30 AM
0

I love septum rings tbh.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 12:26 AM
1

Actually this is pretty normal tbh, with inexperienced girls. Girls are people too, with all the insecurities and mental baggage that we humans tend to collect over our lifetimes. She was probably just nervous, and like she said, she built it up too much in her head. Just keep up what you are doing and she will open up more and be able to enjoy herself. Also, most women do not know how to orgasm, so don't beat yourself up about that. I'd say like 80 percent can't do it, at least. It's not someth…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 07:51 PM
2

How much are you getting laid though? That's the real question.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 05:31 PM
1

That's not poaching, that's braising. Just saying.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 05:17 PM
9

I always tell people - you wanna learn how to win? Start failing harder.
/r/seduction05/01/18 08:07 PM
2

I tend to agree with you. The ideal is to just brush it off, but sometimes you just have to handle it directly. The reason you don't want to directly address every little thing that comes up is that when you acknowledge something, you are entering that frame. Ignoring or laughing it off allows you to keep your own frame. But if something thrown at you is harsh enough, you are going to be pushed out of your frame anyway, so then you gotta deal with it head on. Like I said in another post, when me…
/r/askTRP05/01/18 02:36 PM
1

Brainwashing. Reprogram your mind the way you see fit.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 12:36 AM
3

I do get nervous, and I don't get nervous. Let me explain. I actually have a new saying - "if you feel nervous, don't even bother" THIS DOES NOT APPLY TO NEWBIES. But basically I've realized what it really takes to be successful with women in pickup. It's takes tremendous balls of steel, and it takes flawless social interaction. There is no way I am going to pull either of those things off if I'm nervous. So if I'm nervous, I don't even bother. I've already lost before the approach has even begu…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 11:22 AM
22

This is what people don't get about pick up. You read these books like The Game and Mystery Method and you start to think you're the weird one when you can't go approach girls. You should check out a book called "Bang" by Roosh V. In that book, Roosh talks about how cold approaching girls shouldn't even really be possible - how men are hard wired to not be able to do this, for evolutionary reasons. Don't ever forget that the journey that you are embarking on is IMPOSSIBLE for most men. Just the …
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:50 AM
1

Cuddling after sex is like a drug. Oh wait, that's because it is a drug.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 06:32 PM
1

You are not seeing other girls. If you were, this wouldn't be a problem. At all. Also, stop feeling things.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 06:31 PM
1

I couldn't make you a weaker man if I tried.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 06:24 PM
1

Gary Vaynerchuck is awesome. He's no Grant Cardone, but he's pretty close.
/r/seduction02/01/18 10:02 PM
4

When I was jacked, I got way more looks from girls, but that's about it. If you don't have game, you don't have game, and your looks won't mean shit. Being fit gives you more opportunities, not more results. Game will always be superior to looks for this reason.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 09:11 PM
1

You can't send a picture to her phone? And not having any other option is probably the reason that she isn't picking you to chill with in the first place. Girls can smell that shit a mile away. Better start swiping on tinder.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 09:09 PM
1

Go out with someone else that night, take a picture with you and the other person and send it to her with the caption, "I went with my other option". Then ask her out again next week
/r/askTRP02/01/18 08:56 PM
1

I am saying when someone verbally starts shit, you SHUT THAT SHIT DOWN. Negan style. Immediately.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 11:54 PM
-2

Wow there is some really shit advice in these comments. Apparently no one knows how to deal with this. First off, you're right, it is a type of shit test. But you don't handle it the same way as you would with a girl. If you can't compete with them on a verbal level, you gotta get physical. Start getting all up in their space, stand up straight, get big, push them around. When guys throw insults like that, they are trying to make you seem like a little bitch. You gotta show them that THEYRE the …
/r/askTRP01/01/18 05:46 PM
1

Holy crap, thank you for linking this. Awesome stuff, going to practice this tonight
/r/askTRP28/12/17 04:43 PM
2

My answer is going to be a bit different - brace yourself. I can say that I relate to you. I also never found anything that I was interested in enough to pursue as a hobby. I tried out a whole bunch of things, and I mean a LOT of stuff, but nothing was ever really fun. It was all just painfully boring ways to pass the time. I met a couple cool people, I improve a little bit, but the gains never seemed to add up to the effort. So I stopped looking for other things to do. I stopped the coin collec…
/r/askTRP28/12/17 01:59 PM
2

Some guys just can't move past the anger phase. It's sad and definitely not alpha.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 07:34 PM
2

Ignore the downvotes, this guy gets it.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 04:12 PM
1

Game beats aesthetics every fucking day because aesthetics is largely based on GENETICS which are unchangeable. Anyone can learn game. Very few can attract based on looks alone, and those who can didn't earn it. I've spent half my life in the gym, and I just look like a regular guy. I'm fairly low body fat, but nothing out of the ordinary. The 10,000 hours in the gym probably would have been much better spent learning game. To be quite honest.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 04:10 PM
1

I'm sorry, as in, "I'm sorry that you're wrong". It's not an actual apology, it's just a way to make it clear that the girl is out of line.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 08:30 PM
2

I never understood this rule. I almost always tell girls my number, and it's never backfired on me yet. In fact, they seem to love it because it makes them feel like they are getting with "the player" (pre validation switch flipped) my number is relatively high though - if it were lower, I probably wouldn't mention it.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 01:43 PM
12

Seriously wtf is wrong with you. You do not know what shit tests are or how to handle them. A simple "yeah sure babe, do whatever you want" would have worked way better, or if you were genuinely upset and really wanted her to come, just say "I'm sorry babe, you said you were coming to my place, so that's what we're doing". It shouldn't have even phased you.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 01:40 PM
3

You technically shouldn't do it - but that doesn't mean don't do it. A big part of being red pilled is being your own man and learning how to make judgement calls on your own. I've broken plenty of red pill rules with great success. That doesn't mean we should get rid of the rule, because those rules exist for a reason, but don't treat the red pill like religious dogma. Take the advice you see here, but be your own man also. Some things are worth the risk.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 12:31 PM
2

Yeah then you should be dieting. Heavy lifting just tends to make you fatter because it causes you to eat more. If you aren't extremely disciplined, this overeating will easily knock out any gains you could have had from working out. It will all balance out once you go through a few cutting/bulking cycles, but if your BMI is 30, you should just focus on not eating for right now. Cut down on the fat, then go through a bulking phase if you still want to. I lost 35 pounds in a cutting phase, with t…
/r/askTRP22/12/17 07:16 PM
10

Honestly this should be removed. From someone who actually lives the life, this is not redpill. Go back to seddit.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 03:45 PM
7

All my plates have plates. So what? What would it matter to me? Just wear a condom.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 12:15 PM
3

Diet. Lifting doesn't really do much unless you are lifting for years - dieting you can see a huge result in a few months.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 12:10 PM
2

Those two things - your high sex drive and your introverted nature - are the same thing. Once I got good at getting pussy, my sex drive went waaaayyyy down. Pussy seems so valuable to you now only because it is scarce.
/r/seduction21/12/17 06:33 PM
1

R/societalengineering
/r/askTRP19/12/17 02:00 PM
1

If these are men you are dealing with, immediately start getting physical. They are engaging in animal behavior, so do the same to them. I've never been super witty either, especially when I'm pissed off, so literally just start invading their space and start touching them, pushing them with your body, etc. they roast you because they are fighting for dominance. Fight back, but do it more overtly than they are willing to do it. It will stop.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 02:21 AM
13

The excuse is to "continue the party". At the end of the night, you want to "continue the party" at your place. That's all you need. She will understand.
/r/seduction17/12/17 12:32 AM
0

You can be accused of rape at any time for any reason by any person with no evidence. You are in danger always, simply because of the gender you were born into. That is the world we live in. Don't be paranoid about it, face it and rise above it.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 03:50 PM
2

Love this post. Thinking for yourself is itself a core RP principle. I see way too much bullshit advice on here that gets upvoted for no reason other than at the end of the post they mention lifting.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 02:17 PM
4

"10x Rule" by Grant Cardone, for abundance mentality. It's more important for seduction than learning game, in my opinion.
/r/seduction13/12/17 08:28 PM
4

Everyone here is going to tell you it's physical. Trust me, it's not. It's mental. Get your head right and this problem will vanish.
/r/seduction12/12/17 06:26 PM
-3

Why the hell are you approaching people outside?
/r/seduction12/12/17 05:13 PM
1

Nothing to it but to do it.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 04:43 PM
2

Just say yes. Always say yes.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 04:05 PM
3

Love this post. This sub has a huge case of small think going on with all this "don't talk about fight club" bs. Power is only power if it's expanding. Don't be afraid to expand your power. It's the only game in town.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 03:36 PM
1

"Yes". No explanation needed.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 08:28 PM
6

7pm for coffee dates, 9 or 10 for drink dates. You want it to be late enough that it gives that certain feel of "a night out". Day dates are honestly freakin weird unless it's at least your 5th date. Dates last around 2 hours, if everything goes well. This gives enough time for escalation and a kiss close at the very least.
/r/seduction30/11/17 06:41 PM
2

But why? Like honestly I don't understand that. You are making it! Use your ability to help others! Other men had their chance. If they squandered their time, that's on them. You actually sound like you have survivors guilt, which is something soldiers get in war when their buddies die. PUA is nothing so serious. Relax about it.
/r/seduction27/11/17 08:20 PM
2

If you can't help others, then you have more to learn yourself. In which case, there is still a lot that you need to work on yourself. Just keep pushing forward. The way out is the way through.
/r/seduction27/11/17 06:50 PM
4

It's posts like this that inspire me honestly. You'll be in the top 20 percent in no time, just keep on pushing.
/r/seduction27/11/17 06:42 PM
2

Help other people get to where you are. That will cure the guilt.
/r/seduction27/11/17 05:48 PM
2

No one can stop the man who is willing to fail 1000 times to succeed once.
/r/seduction27/11/17 05:43 PM
1

If you have to almost approach a girl 1000 times just to actually approach one once, then that's what you need to do. Repetition. Repetition. Repetition. No one can stop the man who is willing to lose 1000 times to win once. No one.
/r/seduction27/11/17 05:42 PM
3

I still cannot get over how aggressive you can safely be with women without them being offended or turned off. Throughout my PUA journey, I just kept getting more and more aggressive, escalating as quick as possible, to the point where I always at the very least make out for a bit on the first date. It's extremely rare for women to pull back or push you away if you're just bold and go for it.
/r/seduction27/11/17 04:20 PM
1

First of all, your post isn't even red pill. Like sorry, but it's just not. Shit tests are a huge part of the red pill sexual strategy, and all girls run them, whether they are "good" or not. Your data is just wrong, this post was right to be removed.
/r/AlreadyRed21/11/17 06:23 PM
3

I don't think the problem was with you venting - I think you just moved to that stage too early. I vent to my plates all the time, and I've never had a problem. In fact, it often makes you seem like you have more depth and character to you. It's kind of like how men and women both can "fall in love" with characters in a movie or tv show. It's the overcoming of struggle that makes people seem truly human. Only robots don't struggle. Don't be a robot.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 04:53 PM
1

Trigger anxiety attacks on purpose, as much as you can take. This will rapidly reduce how much they affect you.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 08:06 PM
21

Underrated comment, love this
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 12:40 PM
2

You're awesome dude
/r/seduction25/10/17 04:09 PM
2

This is an awesome example of how much work it really takes to make it. We need more of this mentality around here, I love it. This is true abundance.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 05:35 PM
1

No one fails on the 1001st attempt. No one. Just remember that.
/r/seduction20/10/17 02:09 PM
1

Open LTR, a couple plates, hitting up the bars Friday/Saturday night for hookups
/r/seduction20/10/17 02:08 PM
1

I might not have everyone's life figured out, but I certainly have mine figured out. Everyone's goals are different - just because you want something, that doesn't mean everyone else does. Don't let my or anyone else's desires affect what it is that you really want.
/r/seduction14/10/17 09:18 PM
3

Awesome post, valuable info. I just wish there was more of an appreciation in this sub about how amazing it is to get to this level. What we have achieved at this level is something that 99 percent of the human population wishes they could experience, but never will. It really is epic to have made it here. Happy for you.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 09:08 PM
1

....I don't know if this post is being sarcastic or not, but no, I don't want to seduce women because they are "nice to be with". I want to seduce them because it is a part of my journey of becoming a man capable of seducing. I don't seduce women because they are important to me; I seduce women because I am important to me.
/r/seduction14/10/17 08:19 PM
5

I go out alone all the time. It's often a better experience than going out with friends because it forces you to create everything on your own - there's no crutches for you to lean on.
/r/seduction14/10/17 07:22 PM
0

You will definitely be focused on the pickup, and not the women, which is an awesome thing. Don't make the women important. They're not. What's important is your own personal journey.
/r/seduction14/10/17 07:21 PM
1

This scene legitimately changed my life. So happy someone else knows of this.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 05:51 PM
2

Well that sucks. They need more of this type of material over there. Sometimes the best way to take advantage of a women's hypergamy is to just be real with her. That in itself is a DHV.
/r/seduction12/10/17 12:51 PM
1

Okay, I can jive with this interpretation. Good one.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 04:57 PM
0

The problem, from my perspective, it that men these days only have the ability to interact with other men - they have lost the ability to property interact with women. Go to the club, and you will see hordes of guys all sticking together and checking out girls without actually making a move or being aggressive towards them. Lack of aggression in men creates male-only groups. It is only the aggressive and the powerful who can afford to constantly surround themselves with women. Remember, incels l…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 05:33 PM
3

You need to ignore this whole situation and just chill with some other chicks for a while. Then, with a clear head, you can revisit the situation.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 06:50 PM
1

It isn't. Within the first week or two, sex drive increases. After that, it decreases.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 03:02 AM
1

Lol this is 2017. You're not going to get physically assaulted.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 01:29 AM
0

Sex drive is way down since nofap - you basically cut down on fantasizing about women, and so women actually become less attractive to you. Not always a good thing.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 01:27 AM
2

Fail harder. Seriously, that's how you overcome this. Make your failures even more epic.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 01:14 AM
5

You need to escalate faster. She is getting bored. This happened to me more times than I could count before I figured that out. Girls come over your place to get physical. The actual chilling can happen afterwards.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 10:40 PM
1

I agree, art of seduction was more of a history lesson than anything of any practical value.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 07:09 PM
2

10x Rule by Grant Cardone (teaches the level of effort that's actually necessary to get anything done) Bang by Roosh V Think and get laid
/r/askTRP07/10/17 07:08 PM
4

Date a new girl, make her your side chick, then ask if she wants to do anything with your main chick.
/r/seduction05/10/17 12:49 PM
0

I can't believe this is getting upvoted... TRP has always been, for me, directly aligned with stoicism. What you are suggesting is the exact opposite of the "don't give a fuck" attitude that is always preached and respected around here. Emotion is the enemy. When you are controlled by emotion, you are not in control. And then you lose. If you need any proof, take a look at all the incels and MGTOWS that wander on through the Mano-sphere. They have enough anger in them to last 10 lifetimes. Look …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 09:16 PM
4

It has nothing to do with morality - lying will always be the beta move because it erodes your own conviction. Conviction is the hallmark of the alpha, as it is the root of confidence. Lying leads to weakness. Maybe not the first lie, maybe not the second. But the more you lie, the more you stray from your own reality, and thus the less conviction you have when you speak. A man speaking with conviction in his voice will always be sexier than someone who says the "right thing" through lies and de…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 11:55 PM
2

The only right answer here ^
/r/askTRP30/09/17 12:39 AM
3

I love hearing about progress stories like these. Starting from the bottom. I was the same way. Started from the bottom now we here. If it takes you 1000 trips to the mall to talk to one girl, then it takes you 1000 trips. It's all about the reps.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 04:41 PM
1

Strive endlessly to become the person you always knew you really were. Life is a becoming, not an arrival.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 03:28 PM
1

What do you mean, "instead of ego boost"? You can only get confidence my continuing to do it. It's totally normal for approaches to not go anywhere, btw. 90% of your approaches are going to fail, on a good day. Higher on a bad day. That's just the way of the world. Forget about the results, and just take the action. Action is senior to outcome.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 04:58 AM
2

You need abundance. Fuck some tinder bitches Learn how to cold approach
/r/askTRP28/09/17 11:03 AM
1

I thought that was pretty awesome. Shows confidence and power - definitely not nice guy material. A nice guy would have said "well...if you want...if you would feel safe....if you don't mind my gross old car....maybe you would want me to drive you home?" You need to isolate her anyway, might as well be in your car. Perfect place to run kino and kiss close.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:18 PM
4

Lmfaooo thank you for posting this, made me crack up. This is a classic case of a girl just getting nervous. That's literally it. Women get weak and afraid sometimes, like anyone else, and often it has nothing to do with you.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:03 PM
1

Focus on your kiss close before trying to get them over to your place. I almost never invite a girl over these days unless she blows me in my car first.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 06:55 PM
0

The. Red. Pill. You are so close.
/r/seduction25/09/17 07:06 PM
2

I'm actually not a fan of meditation at all. The basic rule of life is this: the mind is a mechanism of repetition. Your mind will always seek to repeat what it has experienced. The more you experience something, the more your mind will seek to repeat it. So the more you react to emotion, the more you will react to emotion in the future. The more you focus on your product and ignore emotion, the more your mind will automatically seek to do that. The problem with traditional meditation is that it…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 01:25 PM
2

Getting blown out is going to happen very very often. It's totally normal, and honestly it's good for you. It's builds character and makes you immune to rejection. Go out there and fail. And fail. And soon it won't feel like failing at all - it will only be a part of the process of succeeding.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 01:10 PM
1

Use your judgement, obviously. If it's too much, it's too much. No amount of advice given here is going to teach you how to read women's emotions and comfort levels. You need to learn that from practice.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 08:03 AM
10

Dude, you showed up! It's never a failure if you show up. It would've been a failure if you thought about going, but didn't. And even then, at least you thought about it! Chalk it up as a win that you even went. Sounds like you don't even do that very often.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 12:22 PM
1

I know that part is s bit controversial, but I've had huge success with it. Emotion has never helped me achieve anything. Not even the "good" emotions. I am always more effective at whatever I'm doing if I simply feel nothing at all about it. I focus on the product that I'm supposed to be getting, not the emotion that supposed to come with the product. For example, if I'm trying to bang a chick, I don't focus on the joy that I would feel if I succeeded, and I don't focus on the disappointment I …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 12:10 PM
1

Grab her hand and put it on your dick. While you're both standing up, hold your hand out with the expectation that she will hold it, and when she does, pull her in close to you and kiss her. Look her directly in the eyes and tell her how fucking sexy she is, in the lowest, sexiest voice you can muster (while still sounding normal). "Okay, time to suck my dick. Go." (Pull down pants) Grab her around her waist while you are walking side by side. Hard enough so that she is yanked over in your direc…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 11:57 AM
2

Get this black pill political stuff off this sub.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 12:20 PM
3

I've found huge success in eliminating emotional response entirely from my life. This doesn't mean I don't create emotion, in myself and others - it just means that I am not subject to emotions that I did not create myself. The problem with the highs is that they will always contrast with the "not highs", and thus create lows. Also, I am not talking about a feeling of satisfaction, or a feeling of achievement or something like that. I am talking about dopamine rushes.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 11:30 AM
1

Training is the only thing that will fix this. Do what you can do, as well as you can do it. And repeat. And repeat. And repeat. And that's all.
/r/seduction21/09/17 12:23 PM
1

Bang is a really good choice. I wish I had found it before I read "the game" and mystery method. Higher quality, even though it's still not fully redpill in my opinion.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 12:22 PM
1

What are you talking about? I hope polyamory becomes the new normal. It's much more natural than the monogamy lie that we have been forcefully indoctrinated with our whole lives. What do you think is so bad about polygamy?
/r/askTRP21/09/17 11:50 AM
14

You are being seen as beta bucks. Increase aggression by 40% and call me in the morning.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 08:04 PM
9

Learn how to live life future oriented. You want about 90 percent of your attention to be in the future. Everything you do is just for the next thing, and that's for the next thing, for the next thing, for the next thing. Also, take pleasure out of the equation. If you are feeling bad, it means at other points your are feeling good. Reduce the ups, and you reduce the downs. Flatline your emotions so that you can actually produce something.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 07:58 PM
3

I never pay, unless she clearly has no money and can't afford to get anything. If you want to make the girl your girlfriend, pay for her. She will read you as a beta and attempt to bleed you dry. If you want the girl to actually be sexually attracted to you, don't pay for her.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 06:12 PM
1

If you are thinking in terms of "comparability", you are not understanding pick up
/r/seduction19/09/17 08:17 PM
2

Yeah but in the 1950s we didn't have violent agents of the state armed with 9mm glocks and bulletproof vests posted every 17 feet around our neighborhoods.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 07:43 PM
2

Yeah, all that works. At the end of your date, ask her if she wants to hang out in your car for a bit. Go in the backseat. Put on some tunes. She'll get the hint at this point. After around 10 seconds sitting in the back together, put your hand on her cheek and pull her in for the kiss. Makeout for 15 seconds, then grab her tit and massage it a lil bit. Then put her hand on your dick and make her rub it until you're hard. Then, all while still making out, pull down your pants (you should be wear…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 05:34 PM
3

You probably won't be able to actually have sex, but I get head in my car all the time. You'll probably have to park somewhere illegal though, which is annoying. Find the darkest spot you can.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 02:20 PM
1

Real people don't do things like this. People avoid confrontation like the plague. Be the one guy out of a million who can actually confront, and you're golden.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 02:16 PM
2

Absolutely this is a journey you take alone. I only started to really turn up the heat in my own life when I dropped everyone I knew and went monk mode. The vast majority of people on this planet do not want to improve, and they will do their best to stop you from improving as well. Isolate yourself, focus on you and only you, then come out of your cocoon as a beautiful butterfly.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:04 PM
2

I would have studied less and trained more. The skills you are going to need can't be learned in the classroom. Learn how to confront your fears, learn to get comfortable being uncomfortable, and get used to taking big risks.
/r/seduction18/09/17 06:59 PM
-1

"I don't see the value of spending time and energy gaming them when the payoff is just sex" That is what a beta is.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 04:16 PM
1

We're proud of you.
/r/seduction18/09/17 01:19 PM
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This is like the perfect beta post. If anyone ever asks me what it means to be beta, I'm just going to show them this.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 12:45 PM
2

Love the Einstein vs Newton analogy, I'm stealing that. That's exactly it. The reason we still use Newton is because it's easier to communicate. That's all. Your post is relevant to the more nerdy red pillers here, certainly. But that isn't the majority.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 12:34 PM
1

You know how I know you're British? Enquiry.
/r/seduction17/09/17 07:41 PM
0

Yeah, start off super light. Like as you're joking around with her, push her shoulder a bit, brush her arm, push your body against hers. Stuff like that. The point isn't so much to touch her, but to show her that you have no problem invading her space. You want to give her the impression that she is a guest within your space, rather than the other way around.
/r/seduction17/09/17 05:18 PM
1

If TRP doesn't spread, the legal system will become so oppressive to alphas that we will all be hunted and executed by the government. Not the world I want to live in.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 02:41 PM
0

Show interest through kino escalation. She'll get the hint.
/r/seduction17/09/17 02:27 PM
3

This is super redpill. Love it.
/r/seduction16/09/17 11:26 PM
1

You are taking a very simple concept and turning it into something more accurate yet too complex. Keep it simple, stupid. Be alpha.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 03:57 PM
10

I don't know if this is the "right" answer, but I would just pretend literally as if she was a new girl. Like nothing at all had happened. Start from scratch, like old friends meeting up for the first time in years.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 11:49 PM
7

I honestly don't know what all this talk about the "friend zone" is. Girls either continue to answer my texts, or don't. If they continue, we bang. Simple.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 09:33 PM
-1

It is my purpose to pursue women. This is not everyone's purpose. Follow your purpose, regardless of the purpose of other men.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 12:54 AM
6

I was wondering why you were downvoted so hard, until I realized that this isn't r/theredpill. Would've been upvoted to karma heaven over there.
/r/seduction14/09/17 12:02 AM
2

Definitely not. In fact, now that I've internalized TRP principles, women are extremely predictable and thus extremely trustworthy.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 08:09 PM
17

No one does that. The culture of this sub is one of the harshest I've ever seen, especially towards those who show beta characteristics.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 03:48 PM
1

No, that is not what the Rational Male is for. If you want to learn game, read "bang" by roosh V or even the good old Mystery Method, or a nice little book called "think and get laid". Just remember to apply red pill technology to these guides, as many PUAs are not fully alpha and are merely in the process of becoming alpha.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 03:47 PM
3

I prefer to game younger girls, I just thought it was an interesting phenomenon as to why I have huge success with younger girls but strike out a lot with the older ones because they want to "not play games" and all that trash.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 01:44 PM
1

So you think they are just lying? I should just persist being alpha and ignore their protests that they are "not that kind of girl anymore"?
/r/askTRP12/09/17 01:42 PM
1

No risk, no reward. High risk, high reward.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 12:00 PM
4

You ain't gunna do shit if you can't think shit. Everything on a gradient. Step by step. If all you can do it is think about it, then think about it. Most people can't even do that.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 04:48 PM
2

About getting her to come home with me - I actually agree, it would have been cool to push further. That was actually one of the rare nights that my OLTR (who I live with) was doing a night shift and wasn't going to be back until 7 the next morning (another reason I was so eager to not just sit at home alone). So I definitely could have brought her back if she agreed, but the vibe was just so weird because there was no one in the bar. It was almost like a coffee shop date. Plus she came with her…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 03:59 PM
1

What is that, a Starcraft match? How was it?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 03:49 PM
2

I only had one drink, then ordered 2 glasses of water to sip on while talking to the girls. That being said, the dangers of "drunk driving" are completely blown out of proportion, and dwi laws are only in place to justify the police state and spread fear in the population. The truth is, most well trained drivers can safely drive while intoxicated, so long as they don't fall asleep. Remember, everyone was driving drunk for 50 years with relatively few issues.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 01:53 PM
4

"Masturdate" lol love that. On a side note, how is kraken rum? I always see that at the liquor store, it's super dark. Better than capt morgan?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 12:35 PM
1

Yes, keep it simple. But that doesn't mean that it IS simple for everyone. For those who can actually do this stuff, it seems simple. It's certainly simple for me now. But 10 years ago? It was impossible. I think we forget just how advanced we are compared to the average modern male. We are the 1%. What's simple to us is not simple to the newcomer. We are miracle workers to the average man - some people need these over-complicated step by step instructions, until they master the mental state nec…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 07:01 AM
7

This is freakin smart. So true. I never thought a low n count would matter until I started meeting girls with an n count of 1 or 2. The amount of respect they have for you is intense.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 03:11 PM
1

High n-count only matters if it's higher than mine.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 03:09 PM
2

This guy gets it. I wanna spin plates for the rest of my life - so I absolutely do not want to see women return to their "traditional" roles. Modern sexual freedom has me living like a king.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 02:54 PM
2

I got two books for you that are really good with confronting the problem of risk - 10x Rule Be Obsessed or be Average Both by Grant Cardone
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 01:02 PM
1

This is a silly attitude. I don't care how attractive a guy is - there is no natural on the planet that has achieved what I have from learning how to game.
/r/seduction06/09/17 05:13 PM
1

You want women to be something that they just aren't. It's not your fault women are like that, but remember it's not theirs either. They aren't going to change their biological programming any more than you are going to change yours. Don't get mad at what you can't change.
/r/seduction06/09/17 05:11 PM
0

That's interesting. Do you not want to find an alpha? Or you're content with being with someone who is potentially a beta pretending to be an alpha?
/r/seduction28/08/17 05:17 PM
1

Eye contact, opener, conversation topic, escalation and kino, new conversation topic, story about that one time you were a leader of men at an event just like this one, more escalation and kino, change location, kino, close. An event is a great place because there is obviously something to talk about - the event. Open with a comment about what's going on, maybe follow up with a question and see if she bites.
/r/seduction28/08/17 04:59 PM
1

What do you mean, you don't believe in shit tests? Meaning like you yourself don't conduct them, or you don't think that anyone does them? Because they are done subconsciously - women mostly have no clue that they are even running them.
/r/seduction28/08/17 04:50 PM
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I would open the group if they are standing in a group, but only very briefly. Say something to all of them at once as your opener, to broadcast dominance. Say something about the situation you're in, the bar, the party, whatever. LOUDLY. Then I would start chatting with the one who you are LEAST interested in first, to build up comfort. Move in close, invade her space, and just talk about any dumb thing, who cares. Just move your lips and make sounds come out. Then after getting a bit of comfor…
/r/seduction28/08/17 01:54 PM
0

I actually disagree that yelling back would be entering her frame. It's very important for a man to set boundaries. Men basically exist to guard boundaries. When your wife gets outta line, you need to stop her, immediately. If that means yelling back, then yell back. But use such overwhelming force that she thinks twice about doing it again.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/17 01:30 PM
4

They are easier to talk to, but they will take a lot of coaxing and a lot of work to get them to do anything with you. Their shyness will actively hold them back from doing things they want to do, even if they are attracted to you.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 12:50 PM
1

This is a perfect example of when you should use Mode One. I would have just been totally upfront and honest with her during that talk. "I want to bang, and we'll take it from there." She says no, ghost her.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 02:32 PM
3

You are talking about fraternal love, not Eros love. They are not the same. We use the same word in English, but that is a mistake.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 02:55 PM
1

wow, what an insightful comment. Thank you so much for this contribution - it means the world to us.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 10:58 PM
2

I actually love it because it's kinda like redpill taken to its most extreme degree, but before the dark triad stuff got added to it. It's honesty taken to an absolutely brutal level. And it's a book, and audiobook now.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 05:43 PM
2

Ain't this the truth. I'm extroverted as hell, but only because I trained for years how to be. Still I take my lunches alone. People invite me to eat with them, and ask why I always need to be alone at lunch time. I just tell them that I need to recharge. I don't think they get it.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 01:33 AM
14

I know, here on TRP we are obsessed with being hard on each other, but knock it the fuck off. Weightlifting doesn't fix emotional problems. I was at my most miserable when I was at my highest muscle mass. NEETs and 4chan fags are really really good at working out and building muscle. Remember that. And there's nothing wrong with some positive encouragement. Fuckboy.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 10:20 PM
4

I googled it, Amazon says that it's a DVD that's out of stock, and the only other thing I found is a really sketchy looking website that comes up that's one of those endless sales pitch websites that tries to sell you a product for hours using extreme hyperbole but for some reason you're never allowed to actually buy the product. Is this a book, or a video or what?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 08:08 PM
142

Jesus Christ thank you for posting this. I went the club the other night, alone, and felt like a complete fucking social reject. This is exactly what I needed.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 07:17 PM
3

When you are feeling discouraged, just remember this: no one fails on the 1001st attempt. Fail 1000 times, and then attempt one more. Can you even fathom how impossibly minuscule the odds are of you failing yet again on that attempt? Just repeat. And repeat. And repeat. You'll make it.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 03:57 PM
3

Check out the book "ideal Attainment" on amazon or smashwords. It's about how to build mindset.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 02:46 PM
1

Lots of followers/friends. Lots of pictures with tagged friends.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 04:35 PM
3

Go fail on purpose. A lot. Until you break down the barrier. Start small, work up.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 04:34 PM
1

Own the space around you. If you can understand what that means, you can eliminate any shyness/nervousness. You wouldn't be nervous alone in your own room, would you?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 12:33 PM
1

I need some help figuring out how to bond with other males and have male friendships. I never really had male friends because I never really understood their value. In my younger years, I tried to build groups of friends because I thought that would help me meet women. It did not - if anything, it hurt my chances with women. I met up with losers who couldn't cold approach and just sat around playing magic the gathering for 8 hours straight. So I thought, why have them? What benefit do they give?…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 12:25 PM
1

My opinion here may differ from many men on this board, but actually my thrill isn't the physical sex itself, but the mental domination of getting a woman to submit. Paying for it defeats that purpose. Sex is only the physical expression of submission.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 08:46 PM
6

Because it could change in one second. You could leave him tomorrow and be with a new guy in 5 days and not even remember who your boyfriend is. That is not how men love. Men love women the way women love their children.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 11:23 AM
7

Your idea is really nice but the problem is that most people find the red pill because they don't yet have the ability to do what you are suggesting. And women are not quite as you describe. They are a bit more...nuanced. I just hit #40. You think I could've dated 40 women by just "living life"? Good luck with that.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 11:20 AM
8

Real talk. Glad someone said it.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 03:39 AM
2

How useful is the sister to you? You do her this favor, you can leverage it in the future. What do you need her for?
/r/askTRP07/08/17 06:56 PM
1

Grabbing attention is high value. Only high value males can control attention.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 05:49 PM
3

It's a just a massive shit test tbh. They are hoping that this sort of societal engineering will turn everyone but the most Alpha of the Alphas into betas. Women try to turn men beta so they can find the ones that won't.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 01:56 PM
3

Walking around the mall and other public gathering places every Saturday as a kid for 5 or 6 years and realizing that I had never ever witnessed a true cold approach. None of my friends could cold approach. Beautiful women that I knew claimed to never have been approached. I approached girls just to strike up a conversation, and I looked like a god damn God to men and women alike. And that's when I realized that society is sick. We have, as a culture, taken the black pill of feminism - destroyin…
/r/askTRP03/08/17 07:53 PM
10

We need you at r/SocietalEngineering. Getting married is a trap. It was never normal for a man to have sex with only one woman. Marriage occurred to solidify familial bonds and make new friends. That doesn't mean that men didn't fuck plenty of other bitches. Marriage isn't a new idea, but it is a really really new idea that marriage means endless devotion to one pussy.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 01:46 PM
1

A few guys on here might say that - I actually disagree. I would have taken on the challenge. You don't have to "pull" her, but I would have definitely at least gone over and talked to her. Why not? It gives you practice, and it shows that you do actually have rock solid balls. Ugly girl or no, it's a feat of strength to just go and talk to some girl that one of your friends randomly points out. I would even bring the girl over to your friends and make introductions, just to be a little extra of…
/r/askTRP26/07/17 11:23 AM
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Well then that's because those girls that are saying that are interested in you, and want to see if you really are who you seem to be. Women are attracted to men who get women. It would sort of be the equivalent of you asking to see a girl's ass or tits - you wanna see if she is really as hot as you think she is.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 06:26 PM
1

You need to end your friendship with this girl immediately, this sounds borderline abusive. This person is not your friend.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 08:45 PM
2

We need to stop spreading this narrative. There is nothing wrong with communication. You sound like a fucking incel when you purposely restrict communication like that.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 02:31 AM
1

10X Rule. It's a business book, but it's amazing for instilling abundance mentality in you.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 04:49 PM
2

It's not your physical features. It's that you're too nice. No one calls an asshole "adorable". Get meaner, not leaner.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 04:48 PM
1

Anyone can accuse you of rape at any time for any reason. There is no relationship between having sex with a girl and being accused of rape, and there is certainly no relationship between not getting verbal consent and being accused of rape. There literally is just no correlation. All consent is implied consent, except actual written contracts or maybe AV recordings. So just don't worry about it. If you want sex with her, than have sex with her. You'll handle any BS that comes up if and when it …
/r/askTRP14/07/17 04:38 PM
1

Take a look at this audio clip - I always listen to it before going out. It gets me pumped. SoundCloud Clip
/r/askTRP14/07/17 12:48 PM
2

I just recently got back into drinking after 5 years of being 100 percent sober. To look normal at a party, you HAVE to drink. That doesn't mean you need to get drunk though, or even buzzed. Build up the discipline to drink one or two drinks, just sipping them all night. It's worth it to have a drink in your hand, unless you are alpha level 9000.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 12:44 PM
1

Be loud. Be big. Be aggressive. Talk a lot of shit.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 12:31 PM
1

Do NOT try and be the centre of attention. I know this will sound contradictory to some of you but you just might find yourself getting surprising results - most people can’t wait to yap after all, be an exception. Powerful people have got nothing to prove and no need to impress anyone, right? This is dead wrong. Attention is power. Look who's president. relevant link
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 02:07 AM
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The only reason I ever had friends was to help get a girlfriend. Once said gf is attained, why bother with the friends anymore?
/r/askTRP10/07/17 01:31 AM
1

I agree that we need to free ourselves from our ego, but the best way to do that is through mastery of communication. Too many men have problems with women because they aren't communicating enough - they take a backseat role instead of leading from the front. They need more aggression, not less. If you have a problem where you are too overactive or too hyper, than meditation might be good for you. That is not the problem with 90 percent of men though. There is no way you can tell me that meditat…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 03:31 PM
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It's not your upbringing. It's because it's normal and natural for a man to be in control. The more control you have, the better you will feel.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 12:04 AM
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Meditation makes you introvert. It makes you used to the idea of shutting up and shutting down. Not smart, unless that's what you're looking for.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 11:23 PM
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I have to disagree here - it has nothing to do with sexual harassment and everything to do with men just being little bitches and women just assuming that men are little bitches. Have you even done a cold approach? The women are SHOCKED that any man would do such a thing, even if you do it flawlessly. Have you ever even seen a cold approach done? I mean like literally, ever? No one cold approaches. There are plenty of places where sexual harassment would never be an issue - on the street, in a m…
/r/askTRP08/07/17 02:23 PM
2

The 10x Rule
/r/askTRP03/07/17 08:18 PM
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Do not ever post in a TRP forum and tell us that you are in a LDR. Legit do not care.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 08:15 PM
1

I would have said nothing at all. It was probably just a shittest to make you jealous. Literally just let it go. You get jealous, you lose. That simple. Let her go fuck other guys, who cares. There are millions of women out there for you if she doesn't work out.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 04:03 PM
2

I was literally just talking to a friend about this, I'm so happy someone else noticed. I just recently threw a party where I invited a bunch of younger adults. At the start of this party, a bunch of us were standing around in a group, waiting for other guests to arrive. One girl said nervously, "I need to have a drink - I get anxiety when meeting new people." Her boyfriend agreed with her, and then we all proceeded to talk about how we all get nervous and uncomfortable when meeting new people, …
/r/askTRP02/07/17 10:45 AM
2

There is something called "dread game". When in an LTR, you need to make her feel like you could walk out on her at any minute - because you have plenty of options. You don't need to actually cheat, you just need to make your LTR realize that you could find another girl in a heartbeat if you wanted to.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 05:55 PM
1

Just punish. Minor infraction, in my mind. Just start another plate to make up for it.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 05:21 PM
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For the record, I agree with you. Being a meathead is the Alpha of yesteryear. The future of social proof is on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 04:16 PM
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I don't know why this opinion is so unpopular here - mental game will always be superior to physical. You can look as hot and buff as you want, you ain't getting shit if you can't talk.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 03:55 PM
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Your post is awesome, but some of the guys in here get sensitive when you start talking about true alpha behavior. I think it's because it threatens the inherent advantages of the guys who believe themselves to be natural alphas. Leading your girl and being physically dominant are huge parts of becoming alpha. Fake it till you make it is certainly valid. You don't just wake up one day and boom, you're Alpha. It's a process that you work at.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 11:36 PM
1

I picked up emotional intelligence in Barnes and Noble a few months back, and I thought it was absolutely terrible. I remember deciding that the material was totally useless, even though the general idea of "emotional intelligence" is pretty valid. Maybe I really missed something. What was the main thing you feel like you got out of it?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 02:25 PM
2

Check out my post - "6 traits of an alpha male"
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 11:19 AM
1

Actually, yes. Lifting weights tricks your mind into believing that you are doing something, that you are improving your life, that you are making progress. For me, this meant that I felt that I didn't need to push myself in other areas, like working on communication, social aggression, and education. Working out excessively takes away your drive to improve. I'm not saying one should never work out, but I am saying that there are more important things than a nice body and a low heart rate.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 02:28 PM
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Lifting is used by so many as an excuse for failure. "Sure I can't get laid, but at least I lift, bro!" I only started getting laid when I put the barbells down, dropped the mass, and learned how to actually communicate.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 02:42 AM
1

What's fogging and am? They aren't in the glossary.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/17 04:15 PM
1

Alright cool. Well good for you for wanting to better yourself. First off, did you see the movie "the matrix"? Because that's where the whole red pill/blue pill metaphor comes from. Watch that movie, if you haven't. Red pill basically means "awakened to the truth" and blue pill means buying into an illusion. I'll define red pill/blue pill, but understand that I am giving you my opinion. Others on this sub may disagree with me. Red Pill: Your mind is awakened to the truth of true gender relations…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 12:56 AM
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So you were actually leading that group? Its not just something you made up for the sake of it? Yeah, I was actually the leader of the group. I generally don't lie when I can help it - girls really can pick up on it. I've found that its better to say something real, with conviction, than make up some random BS hoping to impress a girl. Even if you have to embellish a little bit, its better than a straight up lie. I dont know if i fully understand what bluepill and redpill is in every context, ca…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 11:49 PM
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Lol no problem, happy to help. Just gonna dwell with the redpilled thing - What if SHE IS aware of this? Will her game be different? Will she shittest more or less? If she is aware of her own game? Honestly I have no clue. This is really just theoretical for me, as I have never gamed a woman who also knew game. But if I had to theorize, I would say that she will shittest way more. WAY more. Shittesting helps her avoid low-value males, and to determine whether the guy she is talking to is alpha (…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 09:31 PM
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No, she won't be aware of her own shittests - its complete instinct, unless the girl is somehow redpilled and is aware of what's going on (Rare, but not impossible). I'll give you a couple of examples - I do a lot of online dating. On the second or third date, girls will almost always ask me about my social circle in some way. They phrase it very casually, like "so..what do you like to do with your friends?" Or even a more direct "tell me about your friends". I pass the test by telling a story a…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 08:34 PM
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Yep, exactly. It's just a shit test. They of course don't have the foresight to realize that if the trend continues, there will be hardly any alpha males left and the competition with other women will only get fiercer.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 07:42 PM
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So happy that someone recognizes that lifting isn't everything. If you can't run game, you can have the best body in the world and women won't give a shit. When I had a massive, ripped body and I lived at the gym, girls wouldn't even look twice at me. Now I'm skinny and never go to the gym and I'm doing awesome with women because I can do push/pull and pass shittests.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 07:39 PM
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It's because each individual woman wants an alpha for herself. They know that an Alpha won't listen to a woman's command anyway - at least the strongest ones won't. So they actively command men to be beta, with complete genuineness, so that they can find the one who won't obey. The one that won't obey is the Alpha, and that's who gets to have sex with her.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 06:56 PM
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This comment is fucking legit. Screenshotting this shit.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 06:54 PM
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Honestly you need to get off TRP and just start reading some really fundamental self help type stuff like "the secret". Seriously. TRP is mostly for guys who already pretty much have their act together and are looking for the next step. The Secret, Psycho-Cybernetics, the 5 Second Rule, the 10X Rule. Read some shit like that until you get your head on straight.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 06:27 PM
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Basically your comfort level increases tremendously because all the pressure is off. The sexual tension is released, and now you can focus on just having fun and chilling. Like imagine you just fucked a hot bitch, had her sleep over, and woke up and brought her to IHOP for breakfast the next morning. Right? So you're in IHOP, you're sitting at the table across from her, eating your pancakes, sipping your coffee, just chilling. You look across at her and just think to yourself - damn. I got all u…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 01:12 AM
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This is actually crazy. After I got my sleep habits in order after college and after I stopped drinking, I literally started waking up every day in a state of total euphoria. Literally waking up with a smile on my face. I thought it was just me.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 10:49 PM
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Believe in your own delusion. Have a high opinion of yourself, even if you are "realizing" that that isn't the "truth".
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 10:24 PM
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This is great, I'm going to try this. It looks both honest and effective.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 06:02 PM
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I genuinely don't get this. I have been online dating for a few years, met probably about 100 women, and almost every single one asks me "what are you looking for" as a sort of screening process. If my answer isn't an immediate "I'm looking to meet people and hopefully find a girlfriend" (or some other commitment-oriented BS) it's an instant ghosting. If I even mention sex or any hint of just wanting to get intimate quickly, again it's an instant ghosting, even if we've been talking for a while.…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 05:06 PM
1

This may have just been that one case. It's a pretty well known thing that one of the most attractive things is knowing that a person is into you. You love it when a girl likes you, right? Even if you weren't that into her before?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 08:17 PM
1

My point is that outflow > inflow.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 03:02 PM
1

Love this one. Though I have sex regularly, I've recently been getting those old feelings of missing being "in love" with a girl. It does kinda hurt to realize that that kind of love is just some romanticized bullshit that only men can feel and women will never truly understand.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 01:28 AM
2

Thinking lifting weights makes you somehow superior to other people because they've been lazy and out of shape most of their lives and finally discovered the benefits of exercise. Yeah, this. I see this wayyy too much on TRP. Like yeah, exercise has health benefits...we know. Get over it. Its never going to be more important than game.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 05:58 PM
2

I am always curious about all of you who claim that "looks" are actually that important for a guy. One of the things that drew me to TRP and PUA was that looks actually don't really matter at all - that's one of the benefits of being male. (Specifically, I learned this from Mystery). Now it seems in vogue to claim that women all of a sudden love looks. Even if that is true, who cares? Besides doing a little cleaning up, there isn't much you can do to boost your natural level of attractiveness. L…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 11:39 AM
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Yes. Yes. Yes. So happy someone has the balls to post this. I have felt the same way - its not that I cant get one night stands or that the girl doesn't want it, its that I myself get nervous and uncomfortable. And outside of the social/cultural validation, like you said, its actually not that enjoyable because of the anxiety. Good post, thank you for being honest. The solution for me, like others have said, is to spin plates. If you wanna wait 4 "dates" to have sex, then just do that. You're a …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 11:18 AM
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I would say that he should choose another route, but then be just as firm about that choice. Obviously if he realizes that his choice really is un-executable, he needs to change course. But he should be slow to do so, and the change in course should also be his decision. And you are right about your criticisms - the alpha does delegate, and great communicators are great listeners. I just find it more helpful for me, personally, to speak in a more extreme way that skews towards what I think most …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 10:42 PM
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48 laws of power honestly sucks. Greene hasn't a clue how to interact with people. He takes concepts that are amazingly simple and convolutes them to seem otherworldly and authoritative. His first law is "don't outshine the master". Really? Really? Jesus Christ.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 08:59 PM
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You think confront and origination are the same thing? How?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 08:30 PM
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Yes, exactly. But when you break down a large concept into smaller parts, it becomes easier to emulate.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 06:49 PM
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Well since you were not able to actually come up with a solution here, let me throw in my 2 cents. I never had a social life as a kid. I tried to get my act together in college and I did okay, but my college experience essentially became my high school experience because I had a lot of catching up to do. It wasn't until after college, when I had everything pretty much figured out that I started to really succeed socially. Basically I had to figure all this stuff out on my own, because everyone I…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 03:30 PM
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When you're pissed about something, always verbally communicate it. It's only the betas that hold that shit in. You don't like the way things are going? Tell her about it. Get mad if you have to. Throw shit across the room if it makes you feel better. You don't need to be a little bitch about it, but you definitely should be communicating when something is wrong.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 01:41 PM
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Wow I loved this post. This is exactly what I needed. I always thought I was so weird for not wanting to just sit around and bullshit with people for endless hours. Glad to see I'm not alone.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 05:17 PM
2

What doxing? And who cares about doxing? Does it really matter if people know your identity on here? What difference does that make? And even if people are upset by it, what can we do about it? As far as the content - I'm a moderator of my own sub and I can tell you that that's generally how it goes. 1% of the people make the content for the other 99%. That's not a TRP problem, that's an internet problem. But I do agree that in this community in particular, we should be encouraging people to sha…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 02:53 PM
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Literally, what are you talking about. This is one of the tightest communities I have ever been a part of.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 12:35 PM
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I was the same way all through college, literally. I went entire weeks only saying a few sentences to maybe a roommate or a professor. I was so alone, and so clueless as to what to do about it. For the big problems in life, the solution is usually more simple rather than complicated. I don't mean easy, but I do mean simple. Basically, it's all about doing things step by step. Even using really really tiny steps if necessary. Take a tiny action. Then a little bit bigger of an action. Then more. T…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 06:29 PM
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Love the post. Amazing content in those laws - I'm surprised they're not more widespread in this community.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 08:28 PM
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This. Cocky funny is great if you can mesh it with your personality, but otherwise it just comes off as...bizarre. I mean, no one talks like this. No one. It's an entirely fabricated personality.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 06:40 PM
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I am so, so happy that someone else gets this. Beautiful post, 10/10. The "diversity" of the modern era is destroying true diversity. Difference is a beautiful thing - it doesn't need to be destroyed. Do you follow Richard Spencer?
/r/PussyPass24/04/17 01:45 PM
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Society has programmed young men into believing an entirely false and insanely destructive narrative. These men eventually wake up, and realize that they have been lied to. They are rightfully pissed. Some take that anger out on women. In my opinion, the problem is a societal one, with men and women both as culprits. The problem isn't with women, it's with the entire anti-male narrative. But blaming women is sometimes easier, as they generally seek to propagate the false narrative more than men.
/r/MGTOW24/04/17 01:35 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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