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There are many asshole bosses like this, so you are not alone. You have to weigh your options. How important is this vacation to you? What happens if you don't do that work? Can you quickly find another job if need be? Think through the risks. My suggestion to you is to find a workaround for the work getting done by someone else or later. Push yourself really hard to be creative and then present something to your boss. Try your level best to come up with alternative ideas and then if you are dea…
/r/askTRP27/09/18 01:37 AM
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Let me give you an old-timer perspective: girls just want to have fun and gay guys let them 'legally' have all the fun they want on a night out, because "he's GAY, honey, relax!" There are lots of girls like this. I have found these girls usually fall in 2 categories: you tell them to cut it out and they stop it, or they don't stop it. It's been 6 months, I would give her a chance, especially if she articulates that she knows how fucked up it was, but if she does it again drop her, of course.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 02:14 PM
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There are several factors here. First, you have to remember that most of the women he went after were the hottest women on the planet (or at least they thought that) so they had a ton of ugly movie producers hitting on them all the time, its not just HW. Second, he had no skills. You can tell he was a loser with women throughout his life and never quite learned to be charming and personality-wise attractive to women in the right way. Gave off too much of the creepy vibe. Third, fat as shit. Didn…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 04:30 AM
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It will. You are giving into her ideas of fairness. Stupid for her to do. Stupid for you to be OK with. Never make sex a give and take situation or you will fuck yourself before long.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 02:01 AM
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Keep in mind that fantasy and reality blend together in a woman's head a lot more than a guys. Be careful when you're being her bitch. She might permanently make you one....
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/18 08:13 PM
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That seems like a lot of shit to send your way just for cheating on some chick. How popular of a person was she? And what were the circumstances of your cheating? Are you sure it's not something else?
/r/askTRP02/05/18 07:54 PM
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You look good. But hair and face is too feminine. Cut shorter and grow facial hair.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 12:17 AM
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I was in the same situation as you. I tried it and looking back it would've been easier just to start over than make it work because I knew I could not fully change with her around me. Also she will have a hard time changing. The key for me was realizing most women (and men too) are just interchangeable. There are very few exceptional ones. Very few. Like 1 out of 100,00 girls is truly one you wouldn't want to lose easily. Just imagine to yourself this scenario: you get up on the weekend and eat…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:50 PM
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I learned through very similar and difficult circumstances that these types of women, although they are plentiful to fuck, are not ones I want to settle down my whole life with. Having arguments and so much back and forth. Fuck that, I said to myself one day and I was much happier. Get rid of her, my friend. Improve your game. You will be much happier. Side note: it's also all about timing. If you had met this bitch and put her in her place from the start because you were an ass-kicker, then thi…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:33 PM
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This new knowledge isn't something you extract happiness from. Plus happiness isn't that great of a goal - its fleeting. You will achieve a joyfulness in life as you realize this great game we play is full of great times far surprising your boyish insecure notions of love.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:41 PM
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Asking for a friend.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:13 PM
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That wasn’t meant literally folks. It’s not about getting into a fight with the other guy. My point is that a lot of times we think girls are closed off to us because they are dating someone else but actually the girl can be stolen away. You can be funnier, more rich, have a more adventurous life, better lifestyle, etc than the other guy. You also might have more chemistry with the girl. Every once in a while I will still flirt with girls like this and it has worked out a few times. To me it’s f…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:54 AM
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It's always fun to fuck a hot ex. It's never fun dealing with the consequences. If she's really laid back and cool only then do it.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:46 AM
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Test your might against him. It'll be a good exercise even if you fail which most likely you will. But you might learn something.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:45 AM
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This guy knows some shit.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:36 AM
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Maybe you hate yourself at some level and she’s the easiest person around you on which to release the undercurrent of anger.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 02:06 AM
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Someone gave me this advice once: "Align your perception of the world with how the world really is. Otherwise you are just a fool."
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:25 PM
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Hey, are you nuts? This girls of yours is playing you like a fiddle! Some other guy is coming with you on vacation? Get some sense man, your woman is a game playing idiot (AWALT). You're going to end up crying your eyes out when you find out what she's really been up to with this guy. Take leadership of your life once and for all and be the one to break up with her. Don't let yourself be a gullible chump for her. No woman who is good suggests this shit. Trust me. She wants to fuck him unless he'…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 04:53 PM
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I don’t know her so I’m not saying this is 100% for sure but most girls like this, they only last a few years at most. Don’t you see? They can only be happy with the cock carousel. They always think “the next one will solve all my problems and give me fulfillment in every way I need.” I’m not saying she’s bad - but by now this thinking ... it’s deeply ingrained in her. If she had been super sad and remorseful every time you were together over 1 year, and you had to convince her to sleep with you…
/r/askTRP02/04/18 11:41 PM
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There's your moral reasons, and then the moral reasons of RandyBumgardener85. Who's to stay which is more important? But remember, she will fully fuck over that other guy, who can reduce his pain.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 06:40 PM
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Most of the time (not saying this is you) guys in this situation correlate hyper chemistry with high chances of the girl staying together for a long term relationship. She's a horny, remorseless cheater, man. She comes around to bang you and then goes back to him or whoever else. How good was your girl, really? Don't get me wrong, I've fallen for girls like this too, when I was younger. Then I realized, I need to have 2 or 3 girls like this so one girls awesome pussy doesn't start to control me.…
/r/askTRP02/04/18 03:09 PM
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Exactly. Never tell her what you have discovered about her. This will only cause pain and drama for both of you. She deserves to not be judged harshly for her past. You deserve to be with a quality woman. Both of those ideas can happen at the same time if you come up with a reason to break up with her. This is not the time to be thinking about why you're lying to her about breaking up. This is the time to think of more important things like lives not getting fucked up.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 05:14 PM
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These kinds of discoveries are sad. Here's this wonderful person about to be your life partner who turns out to be a giant skank. Men like to hold up women as these shiny objects of hotness hoping deep down that they will make their lives better only to realize so many of the seemingly better ones are not really worth their time. That's the issue with this one. She's not worth your time. You sound like a smart guy who deserves a relatively honest girl. Sure, those are hard to find. But this one'…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 05:10 PM
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What a dipshit she is. This is just girls being girls. Who knows if its true or not. She might not be that into you and that's OK. If she's super hot I would try one more time on another day and if she doesn't respond then never talk to her again.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 10:46 PM
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Here's the trick to the online chatting stuff. Stop asking about their hobbies - girls don't give a shit about that. Girls want to get picked up. Just talk about random shit. Jump from one topic to the next. Pretend like you don't care if they like you or not. Get them really interested in you by actually being interesting and being funny. And then mid-convo say you 'gotta go meet your friend "Alicia" or whatever.' Drives them crazy. They will be like ''who the fuck is this guy.' That's how you …
/r/askTRP23/03/18 05:01 AM
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I have a friend who’s ugly who gets tons of chicks. This is because he’s interesting, rich and has hobbies that let him be around girls (he’s always playing coed sports). He’s also ripped. So it is possible but everything else you have to do right.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 12:01 AM
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There is truth to this. Average girls are like average guys in a way - they’ll fuck the first person who shows any interest in them. But super hot girls are a handful too. They have confidence on the outside yes. But also get hit on so much you have no idea when they’ll run off. To me being with a confident woman is the key whether she is a 6 or a 9. With confidence comes security. And girls are a lot more fun to be around when they aren’t full of insecurities.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 11:29 AM
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Do it. But don't talk a lot about it. People won't understand.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:20 AM
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Just work through the tradeoffs. Do you want to feel the stinging pain of imagining her on her knees giving some guy a great blowjob the way you know she can? How about being forced to think of her for days just because you saw her at a bar. If you can't handle it, don't go to places you know she's going to be or hang out with people you both know...even if that means losing part of your social circle. But just think of it as temporary until you get over her and are on to the next chick. P.S. - …
/r/askTRP11/03/18 10:27 PM
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What happens is the woman thinks you’re a loser who can’t get women, but on a subconscious level. They also start thinking they are better than you and worth more than you. It also forces the guy into being more the chaser instead of being the prize. In short, a whole bunch of things start to go wrong. Never ever offer commitment or suggest it. You need to give their hamster some reason to hamster.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 05:38 PM
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If she's comparing your penis size to her ex-fiance then she's not a good woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 07:48 PM
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Hair is fine. Beard makes you look like your name is Jebediah. Just gotta work out more and get a bit of a tan. Overall you look good.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:58 PM
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My advice / opinion: you're smart enough to be self-perceptive about your situation. You know your problems and the likely solutions. But still, you don't have the result that you want. What does that mean? It either means you don't the correct solutions, or you are really not properly executing those solutions. It is probably a case of both of them. So, my question to you is: why aren't you following the fundamental tenants of TRP? Maybe I'm wrong but TRP doesn't focus too much on spiritual awa…
/r/askTRP05/03/18 05:05 PM
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You don't have control over yourself right now. You are letting your mind run wild. Look for ways to calm yourself - whether that's getting out of your environment, or away from certain people for a little while. Brother, we are all alone in this world, I'm sorry to say. All of us too have gone through some of the same terrible feelings you're going through. And, we made it. Somehow we survived. That means you can too. You are actually an attractive enough guy to get some girl to like you. Do yo…
/r/askTRP22/02/18 08:04 PM
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Some thoughts: First: of course her thoughts will come to you. The mind is like a trash collection system. It just has every piece of garbage thrown in it that you can imagine. Your job is to be say 'this is real' and 'this is just garbage.' Professionals are helping you do that. Second: when this happened to me once, ages ago, I decided I would just jerk-off to my ex as much as I needed to - I wouldn't stop myself from thinking about her. Eventually, I got so sick of thinking about her that I l…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 06:11 PM
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You didn't make that big of a mistake. So many dudes do this same shit and then learn from it. Anyway, it's kinda like taking a shit in your pants in the middle of the woods. No one really knows except you. This chick knowing really means nothing. She knows you are a wuss. That's probably half the reason she left you. But even that's OK, because what a piece of shit she was that she had to cheat on you to get out of the relationship. This is all about you respecting yourself and you know that. S…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 02:47 AM
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You already know the answer from before. You should barely be texting her. You need to learn how to be mysterious. Sometimes answer, sometimes don't. Say random things. Some sexual shit thrown in there, etc. Sometimes don't respond for days on end. That's your only chance with her. You cannot go too slow. If she looses interest because you went too slow that's OK.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:23 PM
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There are some women who are just like this. And others who won't do this as often, or with the same amount of severity. I try to look for girls who are like the latter...the ones who find ways to be happy, instead of being mad. They are rare in my experience. Why deal with someone who spends so much time being mad at you? I've been there. It doesn't just ruin your day, it ruins your quality of life. When you find someone different, someone striving to keep you happy, it's like a breath of fresh…
/r/askTRP17/02/18 02:47 PM
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In this day and age the first few months in a relationship are fair game for boning other people. But it also depends on when exactly she did it. If she's been good to you the rest of the time then use this as a wake up call that you can't trust her. She might spend the rest of your relationship being a good girl. But now you know what she's capable of.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 05:29 PM
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This is a girl who uses sex as a weapon. That's not a bad thing. It's just a thing. I try to stay away from girls like that when I'm looking for plates. For plates, I like the girl who is always ready for sex. If she's not I am immediately getting away from her.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 11:02 PM
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No one gives a shit. Not in any real way. Except your mom, maybe.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 11:52 PM
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This is always an issue. We expect meet-ups from girls. But some girls expect some "you gotta convince me" charm first (for a number of reasons). I usually give select girls a little bit of time (whatever I think is right for me at the time) to feel comfortable. I have banged a bunch of girls just by making sure they felt comfortable and not immediately reacting like "fuck this bitch."
/r/askTRP06/02/18 09:23 PM
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You're in the perfect situation...if you're ready for drama. I was with a girl like this for a while and I look back on the relationship fondly. But there was also a lot of drama when she realized I wasn't committing. My suggestion is to have a great time with her. I have so many great memories of the insane sex and fun shit my gf and I used to do. Obviously never trust her and never commit to her. Let her be someone elses problem in the long term.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 01:53 AM
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It's time for you to start approaching that's all. You're becoming a man. What will happen is that you will get lots of girls. But only if your mental game is as strong as your looks because girls will test you more to prove your outward appearance of alpha.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 04:10 AM
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It's just probabilities in a way. There are too many reasons this could go wrong. You're in the prime of your life and shouldn't even be thinking about all this stuff. On that basis alone I would say 'avoid all this trouble.' I've also seen my friends lives get messed up because of citizenship situations. Very few situations like that actually work out. To make it work, both sides have to be very genuine, honest and truly into each other for the long haul and just know it in their bones. Doesn't…
/r/askTRP03/02/18 09:51 PM
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This was a heart-breaking read. I can't tell if you're a changed person or not from your writing. But, remember, never ever give yourself to anyone in that pathetic way again. You will look back on this and laugh because the world taught you what you refused to ever understand or believe. Now you're free, never to be shackled by wrong thinking again. What's awesome about this is the wide world of women available like a buffet table to you. Brunettes, blondes, sluts, prudes and everything in betw…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 04:23 AM
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Most of the world is like this. Don't think too much about it. Laugh it off and keep looking for friends who share your values. But don't throw these ones away.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 04:23 AM
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Beautiful women go after the powerful and successful men not necessarily the most handsome.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 08:50 PM
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It’s so crucial here that you go with the flow. It’s going to kill you but reflect her personality back to her. If you master this you’re setting yourself up for banging her again. I’ve been there and it wasn’t easy pulling off being that fake but it worked like a charm.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 12:43 PM
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Women are judged by what they look like. Men are judged by what they accomplish in life. Besides working out make yourself exceptional in something and you will get the respect you crave.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 12:39 PM
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Girls like you want do exist, but they are few and far between. Also, the ones that are good are taken by the high smv alpha guys. So, it's difficult. What in life that's worth it is not? Keep improving yourself and look for girls in everyday life. The good ones are usually 'hidden in plain sight' and not initially knock-outs.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 08:03 PM
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I think it's a lot simpler than all that philosophy. Some girl who thinks she's hot shit, decided to get with a guy who she wouldn't normally get with in the looks department, but he's rich and famous so she doesn't care. What this Grace chick wanted was at least 12 to 18 months of being his arm candy on the red carpet. She wasn't in it for any other reason. Aziz being Aziz (dorky but funny) thinks he's going to bang this chick six ways to Sunday that night since she's putting out. But guess wha…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 07:23 PM
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No, there’s always some reason. I think your guilt is connected to whatever that reason is.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 12:46 AM
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why did you break up with her?
/r/askTRP23/01/18 08:53 PM
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She said "you think I'm a slut?" You answered "i might. also i'm desperate" What you should have said was "i just wanna hang out and have a good time doing whatever" Normally I would say don't say anything. But you've confused this poor girl. So, now you have to say something to save her from feeling like a whore. Like "hey, all joking aside let me know if you wanna drop by. we can chill and have dinner or something" Don't worry you will be banging this broad in no time if you smooth things out.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 08:49 PM
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There are definitely some good girls out there. And they are worth finding because they make life more amazing. It's just hard to have the will power to keep yourself at the top of your game to attract someone like that. Especially if you're not a natural alpha. Most of us are regular guys and don't even deserve to snag these amazing chicks. The guys that do deserve them, usually get them.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 06:12 AM
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This is just an observation: I've noticed most of the slutty, high n-count girls I've ever been with struggle with being victims of childhood sexual abuse. I often wonder if that is a cause for their behavior. But, I'm not a psychologist so don't know for sure. These girls often cry about it, and still hold on to that pain. But then they also act like skanks. Many times they even know there's a connection b/w their behaviors and the trauma. These girls are typically in their late 20's and older.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 05:50 AM
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You're right IMO. But, most people can't pull this off. Their frame etc is week so they have to promise exclusivity to get the girl to stay but they actually want random pussy.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 07:53 PM
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IMO: Catherine is probably not as hung up on Greg as you realize. You are insecure about it and so you're projecting a little bit. Neither are you such a master of frame as you likely believe you are. After all, you are not just disabled, you are bed-ridden. There is only so much frame you can have lying down looking up at a girl. No offense. But, you are a master of overcoming circumstances and clearly intelligent. And girls love that too. With that said, I think Catherine is not a lost cause. …
/r/askTRP18/01/18 08:19 PM
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It’s not just that Aziz isn’t as attractive. It’s that he has no game. You gotta read the girl before-hand and decide if she’s ready for fingers being jammed down her throat today, or is today more about tender pussy fucking, because she is desperate to look good in front of your celebrity ass. He fucked that up. All she needed was some foreplay, but he wasn’t doing that. He thought ‘fuck this I’m going wild tonight.’ Well that was stupid. You could’ve had her eating from his hand and did the cr…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 07:52 PM
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This will only change if you're together for years and you slowly work on it. In my experience, its difficult to do in the short term. I try to keep myself busy until she's literally sitting in the car in the passenger seat with the engine on waiting for me. Then I slowly amble on out the door and get going.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 07:46 PM
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You're sad she's telling lies? You know nothing about women. You never ever ever let on that anything she's done in the past disappointed you, silly guy. You need to be a master of openness and being totally OK with everything she's done. That is the only way to find out the truth of what this girl is all about. You keep all your true feelings locked up. You have probably already fucked this part up by acting "quiet". Girls know EXACTLY what's behind your quietness. They clam up faster than you …
/r/askTRP18/01/18 07:29 PM
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You sound like a smart guy. So let me tell you that if she’s 30 years old, her partner count can in fact be 2 esp in a more traditional country like Greece. But because she’s hot it’s probably not true. The answer is more likely 4 or 5. She’s not counting some guys probably. But anyway this is actually not even too much of a problem. Even if it’s 4 it’s not a big deal breaker since every girl lies about this. The problem is that since you are coming here to ask us this question it means you’re n…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 01:38 PM
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Some girls I've dated have had a really hard time apologizing. At first, I wondered why. Now I simply think of them as power plays. And it seems like the less high quality the girl is the more of these power-plays go on. Meaning, it's connected to her insecurities. If the chick is comfortable with herself, reasonably chill, etc then apologies are way way more forthcoming i.e. she'll behave like a respectable human.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 07:09 AM
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Post wall women typically have a lot of baggage that colors their interaction with you in a negative way. I find after I wade past that shit they are more fun to have sex with but I don’t reach the animalistic high points during sex I get with a horny 23 year old who’s only been with 4 or 5 guys.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 06:54 AM
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It is feminine. Just focus on having awesome style with high end fitted clothes and work that angle. Once in a while show off the physique like if you’re going to play football during the summer shirtless or something.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:28 AM
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Ultimately it’s not really important why she wrote it. It’s more important that she is a giant loser who feels the need to write this after a year. She’s a sad individual and fucked up. As a side note: the trashier the girl the more physical insults she’ll spew when I reject her. If it’s a classy girl she’ll usually say shit about how I was never there for her or hated her family. You know, normal shit.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:45 AM
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She's pissed about Megan. Probably saw a pic of her or heard something good about her or something. This chick is deranged and idiotic. Your response is no response.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:32 AM
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Disagree with most of my brethren on this. TRP is strategic. It says do this or that and you will have success with women. But you cannot have a strategy about something, like literally to an obsessive level, as evidenced by how popular TRP is, and not have a relationship with that thing. Half this world is women and we love the heck out of women. With that said, in my opinion, TRP wants women to simply understand that men need to be men in a way that’s largely forgotten. That’s basically it. A …
/r/askTRP17/01/18 12:31 AM
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You have not learned to separate emotional connection from raw sex. I advocate more dominant sex which will bring out your true masculinity.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 10:02 PM
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You dodged a bullet by not continuing a relationship with that selfish pig. So many girls out there. She was once important to you but no longer. The vestiges of her still inside you must be handled better.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 08:59 PM
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Your mindset should be that no girl can top you because whatever good skills she has is just a compliment to you. If she's good at this shit, then great. Secretly learn from her and just read some shit online and you'll be good in no time.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 08:18 PM
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Why can't you keep being into her if you're going to see her again? This summer make sure you actually fuck her if you guys like each other. At the same time you look forward to this, keep finding other girls to emotionally connect with. Sounds like you are all good in the finding sex dept now.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 08:17 PM
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This guy knows some shit. This is one billion percent accurate IMO. It’s super hard to do though and that’s the journey.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 10:53 PM
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This mostly sums it up. If you suddenly realize you care a lot about her, you will likely overcompensate to get her back and keep her and turn into a beta which will fuck you over in the long term. Unless she is Margot Robbie, don't let yourself get too messed up by her trying to find someone who will be a Superhero BF. She won't find that guy anyway and might come crawling back.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 05:30 PM
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It’s okay to love girls if love is just a certain extra special sweetness and caring that you have towards her. If it’s that stupid Hollywood shit then it’s not okay. As long as your boundaries never go away and she never becomes your mission then you’re good.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 09:25 PM
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What’s going to help you is money. That’s going to solve a bunch of your problems. What is your career going to be?
/r/askTRP11/01/18 10:59 PM
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It all depends on how hot she is. And for fucks sakes enough with the LTR references (tying me down etc). Even if it’s a joke the girls think you’re desperate. If I she’s a 9 keep texting.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 10:51 PM
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I bet she’s always late plus she was bush doing other shit and just didn’t care that much. You should’ve left by 1:20.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 10:48 PM
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It’s not easy. But you can “reprogram” yourself. A lot of what I’ve seen is guys going through a phase of fucking anything that moves. Once they are done with this phase they realize the true value of women and the reality that they need to actually be all about their own mission in life. My suggestion is fuck other women but also figure out why your brain isn’t occupied with your mission. It’s hard but you should be thinking about so many other things that will push you towards your life goals.…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 05:28 PM
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You’re confused, kid. She’s a skank and you’re a dummy. Read the sidebar like crazy. Realize your stupidity. And for gods sakes don’t ltr this chick it’ll only bring you trouble.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 01:07 PM
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Always pretend you are ok with even the craziest sexual shit girls come up with. Doesn’t mean you do them just means you act like you’re cool with everything. That’s half the battle. You also need to realize that girls say lots of random shit. She might never do a foursome or she might have done 20. Who the fuck knows. What you do know is that you’re not committing long term to some whore. But you must study the girl understand her know her deeply including her whore tendencies. Then when YOU ar…
/r/askTRP10/01/18 11:20 PM
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He will never see reason.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 11:11 PM
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Holy shit I would never want to deal with a chick like this. Totally boring and no awesome sex happening. She sounds really dumb.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 10:14 PM
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What’s worked for me in the past is mostly physical, not mental. I’ve found that having my dick sucked or fucking a new girl in a favorite position has made me feel a lot lot better. On top of that I layer competition, so for example playing football and just crushing another team or beating a person in some sport. You must tap into your manly soul. Traveling, meditation and reducing the triggers didn’t help me as much as the above things. What also helped me was getting into the outdoors and te…
/r/askTRP10/01/18 10:13 PM
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In my experience if she's been an aggressive skank for a long time (5+) years, she's going to be all about maintaining her own frame. She's been fucked up by her rotation of guys. If she's got a soft-hearted personality who's less of giant skank she may cave cave in eventually.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 05:24 PM
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This is exactly correct, in my experience. I had the same situation once. As soon as I said fuck it and truly went after Girl #2 and Girl #3, Girl #1 came crawling back. I passed the test. But by that point I was balls deep in a brunette and I stopped caring about passing the test.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 03:19 PM
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I don’t think she likes you. Sorry but every girl knows how to text or will learn it for the right guy. She is simply not that interested and is wasting your time. Try one more time to hook up, but after that abort.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 04:24 AM
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You act up and down. One minute you chat her up then for 3 days you don’t give a shit. Then one day make flirty remark and another day say “hey what was your name again?” That kind of shit. It drives them wild.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 04:20 AM
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That would sound repulsive to a lot of people. Then again she’s literally a known skank and is ok with it herself. I would let her be herself and continue to be a slut. Just get the benefit from it. Every once in a while fuck her etc but just be careful of diseases and shit.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 04:18 AM
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This shit is going to backfire on you. The girl will notice I guarantee it. That will ensure you get no sex with her.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 03:28 AM
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This dude is correct. Also there are so many innocent virgins who do cocaine...
/r/askTRP10/01/18 03:26 AM
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I like the balls on this guy. You’re gonna try and bang your old teacher who you haven’t talked to in a year. You’ve clearly been thinking a lot about this bitch. It is possible though, had a good friend do it. What you have to do is make friends with her first by acting the innocent former student. She’ll know you want to fuck her so eventually spring your dick on her but real crafty.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 03:23 AM
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I think what she means is yeah I’ll sleep with you and have some fun too but you’re not thaaaat amazing to me. Not gonna lie it’s a bad sign. The best that can happen is you keep fucking her a while longer and then she breaks up. Definitely do NOT discuss spark shit with her. Those are her thoughts and let her deal with it. You be your normal cool self. If you talk about it it will end faster.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 03:18 AM
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That is some eloquent shit btw. I think your initial shock at her whorish past will wear off. But getting an STI generally means RUN. You can do better. Don’t deal with diseases and shit.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 03:13 AM
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Your response should be “horny, so went over to Nikki’s place”. Never mind that Nikki doesn’t exist.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 02:39 AM
1

If a man has room to improve, and he puts in the work to actually improve himself, then if society around him validates that, then yes, there's a chance. Women 100% understand the truth of a man. They see through his bullshit and pathetic attempts to game her. Conversely, when she see's real genuine alpha, she doesn't care as much what was there before. She is a creature of the moment. The only caveat is if you did some egregiously offensive to her sensibilities.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 09:06 PM
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You're over estimating your own worth in some areas. At the same time you are underestimating it in other areas. You are not high or low-value. You are not even playing the game yet. No one has assigned any value to you, except you. Your next step is simple. Get a good job. Escape the family home but live nearby. Then you can think about how to fix your social problem.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 06:23 PM
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I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess that there was something physical she didn't like about you. Otherwise, it's a combination of 3 things: 1. You're not good at sex (i.e. long fingernails while fingering her). 2. She's not good at sex (i.e. wasn't doing anything fun. and 3. Too many built up expectations.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 03:58 PM
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One billion percent correct on all counts.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 05:28 AM
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No, it's not that. I suffered from this at a lesser level. What I did was to build up a set of real accomplishments that would give me confidence. In other words, I stopped assuming I was great, and actually decided that I needed some actual evidence that i am great. Evidence for myself, and perhaps other people as well. Once I had a bit of a "rolodex" of accomplishments...my negative self talk diminished greatly. My confidence went up and I stopped thinking of those things when interacting with…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 04:55 AM
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First you don’t really know if this is extreme or not. It just seems that way to you right now. There is a muscle you must exercise and that is confidence. A confident man does not think like this. Stop trying to make the negative thoughts go away and focus on building confidence through action. Then the negative thoughts will themselves go away.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 01:59 AM
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This might sound contrarian vs others but I think you have to tease this girl more. Definitely go over to her place, flirt a lot, etc, but she might reject you at this stage (which is OK). To make the chances to fuck go up with this girl, I think you need to show her you're an ass-kicker. I think she wants to know that. You need to build that up in her. Strategically let her know you have some girls trying to get with you. Make her jealous, etc. Create the situation which will have her ready to …
/r/askTRP09/01/18 01:18 AM
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At this point you should be happy b/c she misses you. Now, don't ask about any of the reasons that lead up to her comments about being scheduled. Pretend like she didn't say anything b/c she just realized momentarily that she is your plaything. She likes it but also hates it. Next step is to fuck her again. You need to show her your feelings of being fond of her and happy with her. Remember women need the up and down and also you cannot be a cool guy asshole 100% of the time. Sometimes you need …
/r/askTRP09/01/18 01:05 AM
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Of course you don't just show up. But don't write anything again to her either. You simply wait until you hear from her. Otherwise carry on doing something else.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 12:13 AM
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99% of the time you want to be leading in bed. But this doesn't guarantee great sex. Women are complex creatures and there are many reasons why they may have times where they are not 100% present in the moment doing things the way you expect. Even with Chad.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 12:02 AM
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