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It's 545 when I get up. I leave by 5:55. I can start her bus without any effort. I guess I'm just being a dick and don't want to do it. She is only sleeping at that time and doesn't get up until 7.
/r/askMRP11/12/17 04:09 PM
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It is little effort on my part.
/r/askMRP11/12/17 03:52 PM
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I have decided that I'm not going to say anything to him. Yes, he's my friend, but it's his choice, his life. I have been preaching redpill to him for 2 years now, showing him truths and he seemed to have bought into it. If everything works out for him and his future wife, that's great. If it doesnt, he will know why and everything I've tried to tell him about, as far as redpill, will make more sense to him.
/r/askMRP17/11/17 01:34 PM
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You're 100 percent right in that he is driven by emotion... He is a loyal friend though. Always had my back. It would be difficult to cut him out. But for the most part, I totally agree with what you're saying.
/r/askMRP14/11/17 04:43 PM
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I have read the sidebar. Lots of times. But I guess you're right, on one hand. It really shouldn't matter to me. On the other, he really is about to make a huge mistake.
/r/askMRP14/11/17 04:37 PM
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She is hott though hahaha. But still, when they first met and he told me about her, I joked about her only marrying him for citizenship. Then this idiot goes and decides he's gonna propose?? Yea, he's a bit desperate. I think he see what I have with my family and wants that but he doesn't realize the work that has gone into it. He doesn't realize the risk he's putting himself into by getting married either. I'll probably talk to him tonight.
/r/askMRP14/11/17 04:05 PM
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I want to tell him that it's a huge mistake. We're best friends. And what you said is exactly what I think is going to happen.
/r/askMRP14/11/17 03:08 PM
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For the record, I thought it was a solid post about never becoming complacent. Could you point out specifically were it failed to meet the guidelines? Too long? Rambling?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 05:05 PM
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Lol, k
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 04:59 PM
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Seriously?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 04:34 PM
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Good take on it, for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 02:52 PM
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Lmao, I learned a lot from those kinds of posts when I first started.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 01:49 PM
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I have since received 2 promotions from when I first discovered redpill. I'm in charge of inventory and warranty at my place of employment. We bought a brand new car, bought a house. My plan is to pursue a degree in Psychology and become a marriage counselor. But I want my wife to finish school before I start again. She has a decent job lined up in a wealthy area. Some of these girls are 24 years old making 90k a year from cutting and styling hair... smh, can't believe it. So depending on how mu…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 01:38 PM
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Yea, that was hard for me to get comfortable with. Like I thought I was disrespecting my wife just by talking with other girls. Cringe worthy when looking back at that.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 01:28 PM
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Exactly. When you take a look around and see that things are good, you have to realize that it can only remain good if you keep making it good. The moment you think you can ease up or let your guard down is when things start going south again.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 01:18 PM
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Thanks man. You're right
/r/askMRP12/07/17 05:04 AM
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She's not gonna go. She has school til 10 pm. I'll be ok. I had my moment yesterday. I'll say goodbye to my friend and take my wife out and have a good time after.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 09:52 PM
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Thanks dude
/r/askMRP11/07/17 09:50 PM
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Well, you're expecting things from her. Stop that. Do everything for yourself.
/r/askMRP06/07/17 05:31 PM
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I agree, same thought
/r/askMRP06/07/17 04:57 PM
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Is this a troll post??
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/17 04:46 PM
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Well, it sounds like you're on the right track. Good luck with the interview and I hope things work out for ya. And they will as long as you keep improving.
/r/askMRP06/07/17 03:03 PM
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Well, there ya go. Take the lead, man. Maybe this weekend, arrange for the kids to stay overnight somewhere, tell her to be ready and in the car by 6 (or whatever) and take her somewhere. I remember when Deadpool came out I did just that. "Well what about the kids?" "My brother is coming to get them right now" So, we leave like 2 hours before the movie even starts, I pulled up to the mall (without even telling her we were going) and led her right to Victoria's Secret. She loves that place. I sai…
/r/askMRP06/07/17 02:31 PM
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It's so much more than that though. Pre-rp me was a drinker. As a 118 lb, verbally abusive alcoholic, this woman still did everything she could to keep me. I was on tinder, never fucked around but was sexting a lot of girls, and when my wife found out, she cranked it up a notch and started offering up anal. Finally she had enough of my shit and wanted a divorce. Sex was out of the question, and I went full blue pill. Flowers, poems, infinite attention. And major butthurt after rejection. About 3…
/r/askMRP06/07/17 02:11 PM
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I'll never forget... there was a span where she was giving me Nos, and I just said ok and watched tv. Then one night she gave me the "I have a headache" and I said "Ok babe, did you take some aspirin?" She said no, I said "Well just relax then". We were in bed, I grabbed my phone and started a round of chess. She then started rubbing my legs with her feet then threw her leg across me (clearly her initiating). I remember thinking "wtf man!!" Obviously I went with it and railed her good. Since the…
/r/askMRP06/07/17 01:36 PM
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Funny how forgetting about getting your dick wet leads to getting your dick wet more often.
/r/askMRP06/07/17 01:19 PM
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Stfu got me so very far. Extremely important to stfu until you start learning how to respond.
/r/askMRP06/07/17 01:17 PM
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Telling ya right now... NO MORATORIUM! Whatever it is that's bothering you by being rejected... well, you need to let that go. I hated rejections from my wife but I swear, after changing my reaction to her rejection, she started initiating more and more. Never stop initiating, just lose the butthurt over the rejection.
/r/askMRP22/06/17 06:41 PM
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Haha, exactly this. They love the old pump and dump sometimes. Just 2 nights ago I went down on my wife, then told her to get on her knees. I pounded away for about 45 seconds and done lmao! I rolled over on the bed and she just laid there with her ass in the air for the next 5 minutes doing this sort of exhausted laugh... She purred like a kitten all night. Nothing wrong with the pump and dump every now and then fellas!
/r/askMRP19/06/17 05:38 PM
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Ahh, I needed to read THIS post so badly. Great post. We've been in the process of buying our first home. It is without a doubt extremely stressful. From having houses bought out from under us to finding one and having the closing date pushed back, my wife has been going crazy. I have definitely kept my cool this whole time, saying "Ah, we'll find a different house" and now, "Lets see what date they say we can close, it's happening let's just chill and see what they say Tuesday" (today we find o…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 01:29 PM
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It is a slog. But I need to read things a few times for them to really sink in.
/r/askMRP20/05/17 03:13 AM
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This reminds me of when I started lifting heavy. My wife tried to say "I wish you wouldnt leave right after I get home" It was the first time I really realized she just wanted to keep me from improving. I said to her "You'll feel different when you're squeezing my arms in bed later" A year later, that's her main thing. She initiates by rubbing my chest, and squeezes my arms during. Here's an example of dread: Wife and I go to a bar to see a band. Her bff shows up and we all start chit chatting. …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 03:21 PM
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I can admit I definitely lost my frame. But at least I'm not some pushover.
/r/askMRP18/05/17 02:56 PM
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Then it's settled. Fuck em. I'll invite them to my kids parties, and I'll go to holidays at their house, and I'll be the outgoing stud that God made me.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 03:33 AM
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Well check this out... the next week was my wife's cousins kid's bday party. So I bump into my MIL as we both are at the fridge. I say to her, "Hey Julie, good to see ya. Oh geeze, you're all wet" She says, quite harshly, "Well... it is raining outside" Haha, I look at my wife and say "Always a pleasant conversation with your mom, babe". Wife laughs, cousins laugh, they all saw it... priceless moment.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 03:07 AM
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Thats exactly how I feel about it. My wife and I took the kids over there for Easter after this incident. I walked in and said, "Heyy everybody, how are we doing today?" And they didn't say a word. I said "Ooo tough crowd" Then sat and watched the Cubs game by myself in the other room. Haha. Fuck em.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 02:50 AM
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At least I wasn't some push-over about it. Honestly, I could give two shits about what my MIL and her husband think of me. She's been a branch swinging gold digger since the day I met her. Not even a gold digger... more like...idk, copper scrapper or something. She just looks for a free ride. And she finally found some idiot dumb enough to put a ring on it. For a about 3 years my wife and I both stopped talking to her until she apologized her way back into our lives. She's a wreck. Luckily my mo…
/r/askMRP12/05/17 02:30 AM
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I sure did.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 09:56 PM
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See, normally I'm pretty good with that. I definitely was rattled that night.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 05:35 PM
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That's gonna suck, having to pay for his mouth cancer. Yea, we've been through shit before with her mom. My wife knows her mom is ignorant as hell. Her mom had been living with us for a bit, years ago, after her sister kicked her out. Her mom was online dating and I said "under no circumstances will you bring any strange men into my house." Then she had a date set up, the guy came to pick her up, I stepped outside for a second in the back, when I came in, some dude was standing there talking to …
/r/askMRP11/05/17 05:34 PM
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Straight outta Friday lol
/r/askMRP11/05/17 04:18 PM
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Yup, definitely gave way too many fucks. This was a big slip.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 04:11 PM
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Irony is that I didn't really want to go in the first place. But I like the opportunities to socialize, especially in front of my wife. This time it backfired.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 04:08 PM
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I didn't bring it up. The mother of the son brought it up. And then grilled me about being a bad man. Then I turned to step-dad-in-law and told him that it was shitty he brought them here. I think that's not a bad idea, expressing regret over the timing of it. But like I said, I didn't bring it up, and had no clue who the woman was until she flat out said, "I guess I didn't realize you guys were married still. We tried to set your wife up with our son" I let it go in the sense that I would make …
/r/askMRP11/05/17 03:56 PM
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Yup, I've read that a few times. Apparently I need to re-read it.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 03:43 PM
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She doesn't use your last name? Even pre-rp me knows that is a deal breaker.
/r/askMRP23/03/17 01:54 PM
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Just wait til you read Bang or Day Bang... My oneitis for my wife was so bad that I would get approach anxiety just reading those books... Oh how things change when you go out and face your anxieties.
/r/askMRP10/03/17 04:02 PM
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Lmfao. Me too man, it was bad by sophomore year. Didnt shave it bald til I was 26. What a great choice it was. It looks so much better.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 01:10 PM
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Then I won't be able to flirt with the girls at the tanning salon hahaha. Not one of them is below HB-8...
/r/askTRP09/03/17 01:09 PM
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Oh shit, yea my bad. I see that now
/r/askTRP09/03/17 12:14 AM
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I meant the guy who posted the link lol
/r/askTRP08/03/17 10:32 PM
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What an excellent post. Bookmarked.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 08:49 PM
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5'6 170, 17% body fat here. Currently bulking. As of March 1st, 2016, I weighed 118... lemme tell you, muscles change it all. I also tan as I am white as Casper. Although I'm married, I've had a decent amount of success from approaching after reading day bang and bang. I never go for a lazy. Just a number. If I still weighed 118 and was pale af, you think I'd have any success? No way man. Also, my head is a bit larger in proportion to my body. But shit, just a couple weeks ago, wife and I went t…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 08:43 PM
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It's like you've been waiting for someone to ask OPs question lol
/r/askTRP08/03/17 08:36 PM
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Hahaha, that's pushing it man. You bet your ass I'd still be pulling out if she wasn't going on the pill. Lol
/r/askMRP08/03/17 02:59 PM
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Haha, I prefer it in her mouth but the tits man, that's something else... I never shoot it harder than when I do on her tits lol. When she had her iud, we would constantly finish at the same time. We were definitely on the same page in the bedroom. She's been off the iud for a few years and she openly states that she misses when I would cum inside of her. As more time passes, the more positives I'm seeing for this situation. One thing my wife said last night, "...and I wanna take bc because I ca…
/r/askMRP08/03/17 01:45 PM
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Thanks man. I didn't really bring it up to her when we were home last night. She randomly started talking about how much relief she'll feel knowing that she won't get pregnant when we have sex. So I turned off the tv and went right for it lol. I don't think this will be a bad thing. I just gotta keep improving and forget about the pill.
/r/askMRP08/03/17 01:37 PM
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Not a brag, she had to have it taken out.
/r/askMRP07/03/17 08:26 PM
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She SAYS it because she doesn't want another kid right now. I mean, we both WANT another kid and are currently looking for a bigger place to live. I don't want another kid right now either. Pulling out has been working just fine but for whatever reason, she decided she wanted to be on BC to alleviate the anxiety of worrying if she is pregnant or not.
/r/askMRP07/03/17 08:26 PM
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She had the iud a long while back. Poked me in the dick all the time. Some might say that in itself is a good form of birth control... a vagina with teeth. Lmao Just found out she's gonna start taking a generic form of loestrin... lots of women testing they have no sex drive after being on it.
/r/askMRP07/03/17 08:18 PM
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I wish like no other that I would have joined the marines when I was just about to. I got married instead...
/r/askTRP07/03/17 08:01 PM
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Greeaaaaaat... lol Can't wait for this bullshit.
/r/askMRP07/03/17 07:58 PM
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Go get laid buddy...
/r/askTRP28/02/17 08:50 PM
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"But I'm a 10" Love the confidence. Hahaha
/r/askTRP28/02/17 01:14 PM
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Ask her to spot you maybe? Hahaha. I've been thinking about this too... How to approach at the gym. Pre-rp me has asked strange women to spot me before but I had 0 intention of progressing the interaction because I was purely there to lift. Looking back, maybe I was expected to continue the interaction but oh well. Have you read bang and day bang? Day bang talks about "elderly chat" which really works well for me in like grocery stores or in line at a gas station. It might work in a gym setting.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 01:12 PM
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Google redpill divorce.
/r/askMRP28/02/17 01:06 PM
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Her asshole opens right up ;)
/r/askMRP25/02/17 02:16 AM
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Apparently... I mean, it's either sex or a blow job every night. She's done it before, let me cum on her face. I have jerked off on her face, she's jerked me off on her face. But it feels better for me when I go off in her mouth. I was expecting her to be like "nahh, forget it", which is why I made the proposition. Just shows how submissive she is I guess. Don't get me wrong... it's been a lot of work. In December of 15 we were talking divorce..
/r/askMRP24/02/17 10:06 PM
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Thanks for your input.
/r/askMRP24/02/17 04:46 PM
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Hahaha, nice. It was definitely flirty. She's on her period so I looked at going to get the shake as an opportunity to provide a bit of comfort.
/r/askMRP24/02/17 04:45 PM
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Ahh yes, that makes more sense. I will have to go back and re-read the book.
/r/askMRP24/02/17 04:22 PM
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Well, Im not trying to redefine anything. I'm just trying to get some perspective here as I am still learning.
/r/askMRP24/02/17 04:22 PM
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Thanks for your perspective. In the moment I was hesitant to issue this overt contract. Now I know to avoid this.
/r/askMRP24/02/17 04:20 PM
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I do kind of think this is what happened here. But I would still like to avoid these contracts, overt or covert.
/r/askMRP24/02/17 03:12 PM
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Ehh, I see where you're coming from. If I didn't get the milkshake, I was still getting blown later anyway... she normally swallows, and I like the feeling of letting off in her mouth better than if she rubbed it out on her face. I just threw it out there because I felt that she would be say Oh never mind. But hey, whatever.
/r/askMRP24/02/17 03:09 PM
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Yea, I don't like negotiations like this. But I remember Athol Kay talking about this I think. He said something along the lines that if she asks you do to something you simply don't feel like doing, to then make a ridiculous request. If she agrees, then carry on with your ridiculous request. If she doesnt, then you just carry on with whatever you were doing.
/r/askMRP24/02/17 03:05 PM
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Dude, Tomassi probably shaking his head right now... Iron Rule I I...
/r/askTRP23/02/17 03:31 PM
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I'm kinda going through that right now actually. I have 2 buddies that I grew up with and we even played in a band. We were very tight. I'm 28 btw so I've known these guys for almost 25 years. But since this whole election process started, there have been lines drawn in the sand and I am the one asshole who dared take a non-liberal stance. I have since distanced myself from them as they, and most of our mutual friends, have fully sunk into the typical sjw, beta mentality. I'm sure if they could …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 12:27 AM
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I like to read posts like these. When I look back at the situation I was in and compare it to now, I am only motivated to continue forward with my own improvement.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/17 12:09 AM
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Fuck yea man. I try giving some advice to two of the guys I work with and they think I'm crazy...
/r/askTRP17/02/17 10:20 PM
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Would you care to elaborate?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/17 10:14 PM
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Who said I obsess with it? I like to play my cards right and you cannot tell me that what I have been doing isn't working for the simple reason that it IS working.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/17 06:42 PM
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Not looking forward to that....
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/17 06:12 PM
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I second that
/r/askTRP17/02/17 06:11 PM
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Ugh the IUD. I hated it. It would poke me in the tip of the dick when I fucked her. We had it taken out a long time ago. Now, I remember when my wife was on it, she would have very light spotting. This was years before I found TRP, and she would tell me about. If had to choose a day 1 when she was on IUD, I would have chosen that day she had the light spotting. Good luck trying to get that info out of your wife without her just telling you or appearing like a creep lmao.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/17 06:09 PM
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Well, the bitchiness during what you think is her ovulation time may just be shit testing. My wife cranks up the shit testing during ovualtion. Which may be a good thing, or it may be a bad thing. During her last ovulation phase she asked me "what's for dinner?" As I was walking to the bathroom, I say "Food". Her, "What kind of food?" Me, "Edible food" Her, "Will it be food that I like?" Me, "You better like it!" Her, "Hehehe, bye babe" Off to school she went, as giddy as a 12 year old who just …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/17 04:29 PM
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Ehh, my wife has openly admitted that she did not like doing it before because she felt she was bad at it. And fuckin christ was it bad. I almost would not have it done at all. There is nothing more disappointing than a bad blowjob. But I just kept telling her I want it, and now I have a dick sucking pro at my disposal. I gave her encouragement and confidence, a little guidance, and now, I will be randomly woken up at 3 am with my dick in her mouth... "Encouragement, yessssssss"
/r/askTRP17/02/17 03:00 PM
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In March last year, I was about 2 months into trp. I was taking things slow as I am married and did not want to "scare the kitty" but my wife and I had an argument. I wasn't really engaging and she was getting heated. I think the topic of our future together came up, but I can't really remember what came up. Regardless, my wife had said something like, "I don't know what I want" I came in close, put my fingers in her hair, looked her right in the eyes and in a low voice I said "I'm telling you w…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 05:44 PM
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I don't understand. I wanted to try what he tried and she ate it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 05:03 PM
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Omg I wish I could up vote this 100 times...
/r/askTRP14/02/17 08:45 PM
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My struggle is determining shit tests vs. being the manly man the wife needs for help. Example: She was doing her nails on the couch. She had a bowl of water on the table. She was perfectly capable of emptying it when she was done with her nails. For some reason she asked me to empty it out saying "This will all be cleaned quicker" Without any hesitation I said "Yea babe", got up, emptied it out, and she spent another five minutes cleaning up the rest of her shit so clearly dumping out the water…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 08:43 PM
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As I was reading this, I literally stopped and sent my wife a blank text (on android btw). She responds "Blank message?" I say "It means I'm thinking about fucking you ;)" She says "Hahahaha ok" I mean, it is Valentines day, but still, she loved it. If she didn't she would have ignored... Nice.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 08:25 PM
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I'm married and when we first got together she would not do it. Slowly over time, I just kept pushing for it. Eventually I convinced her , "If you just suck me off to finish, we won't have a mess to clean up" Since then, it's everytime and now she's a pro... Just keep working at it. Also, someone said to leave and say she's boring, this is boring... do what that guy said. You can't let it bother you man because then you look like a whiny kid...
/r/askTRP14/02/17 04:26 PM
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13 months in. Definitely needed to hear this also. Funny though because I have been straight up trying to pick her up like a stranger in a bar everytime she comes home from beauty school at night lmao. Everything else is falling into place nicely, but more recently I've noticed that she is really starting to laugh at every dumb thing I say... like when a girl is really into you... Definitely a good sign. But I'll be damned man, I feel that blue pill voice in my head telling me "Feel comfortable …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/17 08:49 PM
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Dude... I'm still learning, just over a year into MRP, but even I can see you are not STFU... Why get involved in that convo anyway? Luckily my wife is very anti-feminist so the gradual change in leadership has been welcomed. You on the other hand seem to have your hands full there. Digest the sidebar again, take a bath and meditate on what it means to have and hold your frame.
/r/askMRP13/02/17 03:34 PM
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What do you mean? Ignore her texts as she seeks my approval?
/r/askMRP03/02/17 08:50 PM
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What do you mean? Ignore her texts as she seeks my approval?
/r/askMRP03/02/17 08:50 PM
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Haha, no kidding right... Never really thought about it until I typed this though but apparently I have thing for feet.
/r/askMRP03/02/17 08:49 PM
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Is it really such a bad thing though coming from her? And it's only been 4 texts btw...
/r/askMRP03/02/17 08:48 PM
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Always wise advice from you. Thank you.
/r/askMRP03/02/17 07:52 PM
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Ohhhh man, I know your situation wayyy to well. Pretty much exactly same thing except I was in school not working at the time my wife and I moved back in with my mom and step-dad. We also had 2 kids. Basically, everyone's looking at you as a disappointment. The best thing you can do is get your shit together, and get your family your own place. Obviously you need to keep up with reading, lifting, etc, but you cannot possibly feel good about yourself if you have your whole family living under som…
/r/askMRP03/02/17 02:58 AM
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Ugh... I hated the iud. So glad it's gone. She had it removed about 5 years go. Damn thing would poke me in the dick! Ever had a needle stick you on your purple head? Fuckin a man... lmao I imagine it's almost impossible to track with iud. Although, my wife would have very light spotting at times and if I were to track her period back then, I would use that day for day 1.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 07:30 PM
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Dude... for 6 years I never once pulled my wife's hair or slapped her ass really hard. Year 7, in the midst of my redpill journey, found out she fucking loves it. I started tracking her cycle and first did it while she was ovulating... the best time to try new shit. Good luck!
/r/askMRP02/02/17 05:34 PM
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I cannot express how important it is to know your wife's cycle. Been doing it for about a year now and it's been perfect. I've gotten away with a shit ton of new kinky stuff that I would try on day 10 or so... (she's got a relatively short cycle of 24 days) The funny thing is that when she started beauty school, her next period was late and when it came it lasted longer... we both have a theory that it's because of her and her classmates starting to cycle together. Anyway, knowing the cycle is g…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 04:43 PM
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I've been slipping recently. Still taking care of my house but I've been skipping the gym. Wife doesn't seem to care because she's been giving it up willingly. Still, it's in the back of my mind that I really need to get back at it. This post woke me up again.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 03:54 PM
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Dude, my advice then, let her go. Focus on the gym, focus on reading, focus on bettering yourself. Those are things you will hear over and over again. You clearly have a case of oneitis and need to be free of that.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 03:03 PM
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I now know what it's like when people read some of my posts and then cringe because I just cringed reading this post.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 02:25 PM
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I might be on the autism spectrum.
/r/askMRP15/12/16 06:12 PM
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K, I fucked up.
/r/askMRP15/12/16 06:07 PM
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Hahaha. I'm going to say exactly that. It's hilarious!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 11:04 PM
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"You will then know what this is really about." Could you clarify, good sir?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 03:33 PM
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Fucking a, today was another bullshit call bitching about why I didn't call her to wake her up! Lmfao! I haven't called since way before I posted this original post and apparently she woke up late again today. So I said to her, "Look... you're a grown woman. You should be able to get yourself out of bed in the morning. Nobody calls me to wake me up nor do I expect it." She hung up lmao! I'll definitely be getting her that alarm clock for Christmas. Now to just go about my day and act as if nothi…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 02:38 PM
2

My anger is phase is horrible. There's no denying the truth in trp. I see it everywhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/16 03:01 PM
1

Dude I would totally expect this to be a troll post were it not for your post history. Try this, stand up to your mother, tell her to fuck off like I did when I was 12 (didn't actually say fuck off, but made it clear that I wanted to be going to my 14 year old girlfriends house and I'd ride my bike if I had to), and go get your dick wet. You can't let your mom control you like this, son. It's pathetic. As far as porn, just fucking skip it. If it's a problem, then you need to focus on other areas…
/r/askTRP30/11/16 02:59 PM
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Find shorter girls... ?
/r/askTRP20/11/16 04:24 AM
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Find shorter girls... ?
/r/askTRP20/11/16 04:24 AM
2

Ahh no apology necessary bro. I check out your old posts and was like "Yea he's for real". Never apologize, unless you truly fucked up lol
/r/askTRP19/11/16 12:12 AM
1

Thanks for clearing that up. I was curious myself.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 12:11 AM
1

Ehh, Tom Leykis knows what he's talking about but man, he pretty much complains the entire show. Some shit is gold, but my God, I couldn't stand it after a while. He banned me from his Facebook because I pointed out that "It almost sounds like you support Hillary" and that was based off of his Trump bashing. Lmao, he chewed me out and then banned me...
/r/askTRP18/11/16 08:31 PM
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Now, I've read many things, and if it's a comfort test, which it sounds more like a comfort test I suppose after thinking about it a bit, AND if this were my wife, what I would do is go over to her, look her right in the eye for a good moment, give her the 10 second kiss that Athol Kay talks about, and go back to what I was doing. Maybe that's not the best way to go about it, but that's what I would do. Anyone else wanna contribute to this?
/r/askTRP18/11/16 08:28 PM
1

Dude this post almost came off as if a troll had written it. Almost... But listen, I do crazy squats and ab work. Trust me, core, lower back, squats, deadlift... you'll get power
/r/askTRP18/11/16 07:35 PM
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Monophobia sounds like the feminine imperative way of saying she's a slut lmao. But seriously, the heels thing tells me she's trying to appease you. The second part kinda sounds like she's trying to get you to comply. Remember this, Rollo Tomassi said "When she becomes your everything, you become her nothing" Women will move on to their next project if they feel like they've completed the current project. Do not become a completed project by catering to her.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 07:26 PM
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Grab her ass when you hug her. If she likes it, kiss her. If she doesn't, well at least it eliminates any ambiguity. And DON'T FREAKIN APOLOGIZE if she gets mad.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 07:20 PM
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When you do shit like this, both parties are happy. I'm still smiling about how I handled it lol
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 02:30 PM
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Exactly, I was thinking that too at the time. She had just kicked her beta husband to the curb. I had established my frame as soon as I heard she arrived. I was the first one to greet her. I opened the door to let her in, shook her, looked her right in the eye and welcomed her. So when my wife said she's not in charge, haircutter had tingles I'm sure...
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 02:29 PM
2

Screechhater, check it out. Last night was the pack meeting. Immediately afterward I was approached by one of the leaders and was asked if I wanted to be assistant den leader. Of course I said yes. My son is thrilled, I'm excited.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 01:29 PM
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Cutting friends out of my life, specifically blue pill friends who laugh at the hint of the idea that a man's role is to lead, has done me well. We recently signed my son up for Boy Scouts and I have found myself in the center of a different social circle. My son befriended another kid in his first year of school last year who's dad is actually the den leader. This guy brews his own beer, has his pilots licence, has a motorcycle, and every week after scouts, the dad's and I all gather at his hou…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 08:53 PM
2

I just read that post on rebranding. It's amazing, getting those "Ahh-ha" moments when you don't see it coming. I'd say I'm about halfway through my rebranding. At this point I am tweaking my frame to be positive and funny, and I am also working on socializing every where I go. In Day Bang, Roosh talks about "Elderly Chat", and since I've taken up that perspective, talking with anyone is really just a breeze. Now, I don't practice pick up, because I am married, but I think practicing elderly cha…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 07:43 PM
1

Oh man, great analogy. Yet another piece falls into place for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 07:30 PM
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"AA if it's retarded or AM if she's acting like a child" This resonates with me. Lmao. Something that will stick in my head forever.
/r/askMRP17/11/16 04:36 PM
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1st thing, I'm stealing your glowsticks idea. We always shower together and I know this will get her going. 2nd thing, this is a very good post. I try provide variety and excitement by taking my wife and just kissing her at any moment, passing in the hallway, or in the kitchen, whatever. She will smack my ass as I get up for a drink or whatever. She never used to do that. We both are providing that excitement for each other. Also, the 10 second kiss idea that Athol Kay describes is huge. At firs…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 08:59 PM
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Hell yea, so far so good. Looking forward to the future while enjoying the present.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 07:55 PM
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"Finding TRP at 15 is quite advantageous" Holy shit do I wish I found it at 15... things I'd have done differently smfh
/r/askTRP16/11/16 07:42 PM
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As most have said, education first. I drank myself out of college and it took a long time to forgive myself for fucking that up. So focus on getting done with high-school and then go get a degree. You will regret it if you don't. There are other ways to make a career but you will also miss out on a lot of campus fun. Lift. You are young. You can start now and be a titan by 20. I lifted a lot in high school and stopped taking care of myself for years. I lost a lot of weight and became a skinny, p…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 07:41 PM
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Well, I'm not out of the woods yet but she has definitely entered my frame and things are better than it ever was before. I just have to give it more time before she finally trusts that this is how I am now. And it's good to hear that he was receptive to suggestion. Now go be a good redpill wife! lol
/r/askTRP16/11/16 07:22 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 07:20 PM
1

That's pretty much how I understand it.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 07:15 PM
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Good shit slow clap I enjoy reading stories like this. Time to get a few plates there pal!
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 06:18 PM
1

In MMSL doesn't Athol Kay say "Who ever puffs his chest out more proves he's the dominant one and thus gets the girl"? Don't get me wrong, I think it's best to have idgaf attitude but I'm only curious to learn more.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 06:06 PM
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You're absolutely right. How I see it now, after bring this issue to MRP, is that she is attempting to match my own improvement. I feel even more motivated to further improve myself because of it. I believe that's the positive feedback loop.
/r/askMRP16/11/16 01:44 PM
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I get where you're coming from, but she's in the palm of my hand.
/r/askMRP16/11/16 01:34 PM
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As mentioned by Sepean in another comment, read Married Man Sex Life. She may be depressed because she regrets marrying you so you have to make yourself the prize. Lifting, learning how to game women, how to carry yourself and be assertive, these are things you should start doing. So make sure you read that book. Also, here's a link that might help. I think we all start doing this at MRP and I tell ya, it's helped my marriage. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7…
/r/askMRP16/11/16 01:20 PM
1

It's not the actual bow flex. It's dumbells with interchanges weights. It would save a lot of space, which I don't really have.
/r/askMRP15/11/16 07:27 PM
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I called them. $10 per month, per child. Well worth it if it means keeping my schedule the same and not sacrificing my relationship with my wife.
/r/askMRP15/11/16 05:55 PM
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Thanks. Undoubtedly, it's been a tough transition. But she's a good woman. Very redpill woman-like Now if only I could get her on /r/redpillwomen lol
/r/askMRP15/11/16 05:25 PM
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I said it with a chuckle as I wrapped my arms around her, I just planned on going to sleep. Like I said before, rejection is very rare these days. Even during shark week I'm getting BJs or titfucks every night. Before trp, I'd say some bullshit like "Wtf, are you not attracted to me?" Or "Who the hell are you giving it up to?" Geeze that shit makes me cringe. But hey, I got this. She has surrendered and entered my frame, we are co-piloting a great ship, and she has openly admitted to her friends…
/r/askMRP15/11/16 05:10 PM
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Ok gotcha. These days she barely ever rejects. Although she did last week so I didn't say anything, picked up my phone and read for a bit, rolled back over to her and said "Now you're gonna have a boner poking you all night" After a few minutes she initiated by rubbing my hands and dragging her feet up and down my legs. It's her signal. I was laughing on the inside. The biggest improvement I have made is in handling rejection and remaining stoic in any situation. I was very, ultra, uber terrible…
/r/askMRP15/11/16 04:47 PM
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Ok. With her, I have discussed the issue of maintaining the house. She knows that I still expect to come to home a clean environment. I told her she keeps the place clean during the day, I'll clean up after the kids go to bed. Also, the boys are in charge of cleaning their messes. I make sure it happens. We have a plan. So as long as I am straight up telling her what I expect, and what she can expect from me, that is not a covert contract. Is that correct? How can I avoid covert contracts? Like …
/r/askMRP15/11/16 04:35 PM
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Leave the the introduction page open for him to see on the computer. Or tell straight up tell him he needs to get his ass in gear. Oh, buy a copy of Married Man Sex Life Primer by Athol Kay and leave it around for him to see. If he asks about it, tell him to read it. For me, I was looking for help to deal with my impending divorce. Luckily, TRP gave me the tools to carry on with my life. As it turns out, I am a year into TRP and after accepting divorce as an inevitability, and following redpill,…
/r/askTRP15/11/16 04:16 PM
1

She's huge on the crock pot lol We've discussed that
/r/askMRP15/11/16 03:22 PM
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Actually that's my first choice. There is an LA Fitness right next to my current gym. Is thatb5 bucks per child per day, or 5 bucks per child per month?
/r/askMRP15/11/16 02:53 PM
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I needed this. If I could, I'd give you 5 up votes. Home gym sounds like the plan, I've always wanted to get bow flex dumbells, where you change the weights with some sort of locking mechanism. But yes, you're right, I should not sacrifice the short amount of available time to spend with her. We are in a great place right now as far our sex life, and I shouldn't kill that. Sometimes I need that slap in the face to right my train of thought. I appreciate the input.
/r/askMRP15/11/16 02:29 PM
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Thanks for the insight. My wife and I are on the same page as far as why she wants to do this. It will greatly help our family in the long run as she will make more money after she is finished and we can look toward buying a house and saving for retirement. I run the finances and she knows that. Very rarely does she even go to buy a Dr.Pepper without asking me via text so I must maintain that as she earns more. I'll just do what I do and tell her the plan when she starts earning more.
/r/askMRP15/11/16 02:22 PM
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This supports my mission because we will have more income at our disposal. More money to save, more money to for vacations, date nights... It does not deter my mission. Thanks for that guidance there. I wouldn't look at it as trying to fix her. I look at as stepping aside so she can better herself and bring more income to our family. I was actively opposed to her self improvement in the past. I think that was extremely beta and insecure so now, I will support her and encourage her to see it thro…
/r/askMRP15/11/16 02:11 PM
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No kidding man, wish I had his problem lol "Wife is too horny" lol
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/16 02:02 PM
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If you keep turning her down you will imply that you indeed DO NOT have a sex drive, whether you do or not. She will perceive you as an inadequate sexual partner and, thus, not alpha. Athol Kay addresses this in MMSL. Someone mentioned that you need more to your life. Pursue that. Go learn something new, perhaps guitar or something. My wife never rejects me anymore, and she initiates more frequently these days but shit, I'd love it if she was initiating all the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/16 02:00 PM
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My goal is to own a house. My mission is very similar to your own. "Every day she is working is one less day I won't have to, come retirement" That's how I see it too. At this point, I don't plan on retiring but if she sees this through, we would be able to really start planning for retirement. We're only 28 so we have a way to go.
/r/askMRP15/11/16 01:48 PM
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Well, as someone else implied, it doesn't affect everyone the same. My brother is a hardcore alpha. Truly man who gets it. He smokes pot every night. Not so much during the day but he runs his own company, hunts, fishes, makes his own jigs, takes care of his property, doesn't take shit from anyone. So there are those types out there. For me, I had stop because I was content on my couch. I'll smoke at parties or gatherings, but you'll never catch me toking right after work and playing videogames …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 01:22 PM
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It sucks because I show my friends, who aren't married yet, these ideas and they just can't accept it. I get made fun of! When I tell them how my interactions are with my wife they laugh and say "I can't believe you said that..." and I'm just like "Yeah man, you gotta take the lead. They have no clue... I was at a buddy's house for a Halloween party and we started jamming. We were in a groove. His gf came in at 9:30 and said we need to stop... I left after that in complete disgust of how he just…
/r/askTRP15/11/16 01:14 AM
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Well I'm married so I don't go for the numbers but I've gotten a lot better with elderly chat. I'm sure I could have gotten numbers but I never really go that far, I don't push for personal information to lead up to the number exchange. The Bang book is more like bar/club/evening pick up. That I do not do.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 06:34 PM
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Every girls loves an orgasm, but sometimes all she needs is just a good pump and dump. Sometimes my wife and I bang for 20-30 minutes. Sometimes I just blow my load on her back after railing her fucking hard, and pulling her hair for 4 or 5 minutes.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 03:09 PM
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I'll tell you what the king of England did a little over 200 years ago, HE LOST! 'MURICA!! 😉
/r/askTRP13/11/16 03:06 PM
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Roosh gives a lot of examples in those books so you get an idea for how to go about things. I personally like day bang a bit better because that can be used in just any interaction. He describes what is called "elderly chat", in which you approach and start talking about the girls prop, ramble a bit about it, ask a question, ramble a bit. He illustrates how the conversation evolves and breaks down on how to get the number. Pretty cool.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 03:03 PM
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I'll check it out
/r/askTRP12/11/16 10:35 PM
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I don't think you understand. She's on dread level 4 right now and we can't keep our hands off of each other. I'm not worried about Chad in the least. This is far from a marriage on the rocks. I was there and her behavior has come a long way since I made the changes I needed to make.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 09:16 PM
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Exactly. I smoked weed everyday all day for years. It's very unattractive and you become complacent with never accomplishing anything.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 07:24 PM
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Pre-rp, I used to ignore it, saying to myself "If she really wants it, she'll have to try harder than that". Now I'm kicking myself because I was making her feel rejected all those times. I was an idiot lmao.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 07:20 PM
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The takeaway is more so for the newer guys who are looking for examples that the redpill will work for them if they carry out properly. Always maintain your frame, always be aware of the blue pill mentality that creeps back up. When I first started trp it was posts like the this that convinced me of the the truth in trp.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 06:58 PM
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I was a victim of some odd auto correct when I entered my title lol Btw, I was just listening to your youtube videos in my car last night on my way home. I literally just got in my car right now and I am about to listen more. Excellent stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 04:59 PM
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Ya know, there is a very obvious, yet extremely blue pill answer for this. You're point is well received.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 04:54 PM
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A lot of these guys say compound lifts are the way to go but I usually spilt my days up according to body parts. Chest/Tri's, Back/Bi's, Legs, Shoulders, Abs, day off, repeat. I destroy my body everyday at the gym and this has worked wonders for me. Gotta eat right and sleep good to though. Source: Weighed 118 on March 27, Weighed 167 on November 10.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 04:37 PM
1

Since I've started tanning I get a lot more IOIs.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 04:32 PM
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No! Quit the weed!!! That shit does not help you with self esteem! Telling you man, I smoked for years, all day every day. You'll never accomplish anything because you'll always be content with what you are doing. Complacency is the beginning of death! As far as your hair, I'm bald as fuck. Now I use a bic and shave it all off. Besides, you seem to have plenty of hair, just need a new style. Ultimately you need to make choices that give you confidence and trust in yourself.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 04:29 PM
1

Yeah I did haha. Mutual friends on FB too haha. So I paid the 10 dollars to use tinder plus and swipe elsewhere. What can I say, I wanted to see what I could pull. I have since cancelled it because 1) I didn't want to fuck shit up with my wife, and 2) my curiosity was satisfied.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 04:23 PM
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To be brutally honest, the drug addiction seems like it was a huge turnoff for her. I hear that you're not on dope anymore and congrats, keep going one day at time, but the harsh reality is that she looks at you as weak and as someone who has low value. Subconsciously she knows that there are other males who aren't addiction prone, it's her body agenda working against you. Evem smoking pot can have that effect in women's eyes.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 04:19 PM
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I'm no pick up artist, but I was thinking that too. I've read Bang and Day Bang twice now, and I agree... moved too slow.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 04:15 PM
2

I played with tinder for a bit, even though I'm married. I never followed through on meeting or anything but wanted to see how I would do after taking trp. "Hi" is how I always opened. I never waited less than 15 minutes after matching to send a message. Didn't want to appear needy. And always waited at least 10 minutes before replying. Sometimes hours. If I'd get a response, I'd usually comment on something from their pic or bio, playfully teasing. One girls bio said she had a shrine of dick pi…
/r/askTRP12/11/16 04:12 PM
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No job? My mom was redpill af. She said get a job, get a car. Hold yourself accountable. No one's gonna hold your hand. So when I was 18, I got a job, walked to work, saved my money, got a shit car that I loved, a stick shift Saturn, for $1000. You probably shouldn't be posting on reddit. You should be looking for a job to which you can walk.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 04:04 PM
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Quit being so pathetic! Man the fuck up and watch what you want to watch! My wife HATES scary movies and scary shows. I fucking put on Stranger Things on Netflix and she protested through 3 episodes by pretending to sleep. By the 4th episode she was asking my all sorts of questions to which I replied "Well, you should have watched it from the beginning with me". We both ended up loving that show. Grow a pair. Do what you want to do. Ignore her protests.
/r/askMRP12/11/16 02:29 PM
2

I think somewhere along the way you lost your frame, even if it was ever so slightly. Move on, and like the other guys are saying, increase your value. Don't chase. One lonely night she may call you but you'll already be balls deep in some other chick.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 01:52 PM
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I like your response the best. It makes the most sense. I'm not flaky about my routine but you're right about being diplomatic. Every now and then she complains that I spend so much time at the gym after work. I usually ignore it, make my shake, and get in the shower. I think next time I'll say something like "Why don't come with me next time and I'll show you?"
/r/askTRP12/11/16 01:48 PM
2

Good point there on "first time meeting her". Not a bad idea about having her pick me up.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 01:45 PM
1

She's not busy. Drives a bus two hours a day. Takes care of the house. I think she just feels uncomfortable in the gym.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 01:03 PM
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Ohhhfff. Haha. Savage.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 12:05 AM
1

You owe it to yourself to be happy. And you are not happy right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 12:03 AM
5

I was telling my feminist, crazy liberal cousin this. She nearly exploded.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 10:42 PM
1

Go out, get laid. You have nothing to lose at this point.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/16 10:37 PM
1

Alright, you need a gf or some plates. Go start cold approaching and get some young chicks number. If you are doing ALLLLLLL of the levels of Dread correctly, and she still has not responded, that's ultimately what this is coming to. You finding another YOUNGER woman. And fuck if your wife knows it. She's not doing ANYTHING to help with situation so obviously she doesn't give a shit either way. How long have you been at this? Fuck it man, why are you putting up with this shit?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/16 10:29 PM
2

He's just gotta keep her guessing. I do this with my wife. I'll tell her, "Car, 5 minutes, or I'm leaving without you" and then we go to dinner or something. Gives them that dopamine fix. Also, I straight up text my wife: "Kids in bed early tonight. 7:30. 8, we're in the shower. 8:30, my face in your ass" And I'll get the "Ok 😊"
/r/askTRP11/11/16 10:21 PM
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Haha, she responds to this shit. I remember checking out a girl with really, really long hair and I pointed that put to my wife how awesome it looked. She hasn't had a haircut since, and I didn't even really mean anything by it lol
/r/askTRP11/11/16 10:14 PM
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I see where you're coming from. She's still damn sexy though and takes care of the house. If it gets to be a huge problem, I'm gonna have to point out to her that she's getting bigger. I'll most likely start saying, "Hey let's go to the gym" and if she's says no "Lets...go...to...the...gym..." She knows I fucking mean business when I get like that. She'll pick up on the subtle way of saying "You're getting fat and unattractive" Fucking stupid thing is that she could come with me for free everyda…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 10:11 PM
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I wish I had trp before I got married. It would have saved me a lot of grief. I still would have married her, but I would have realized earlier that I had her at such a high level of Dread before I pushed things too far and lost her trust. I had it made if I didn't go "drunk captain" on her and properly lead my ship. Also, I did not realize how I slowly was turning into a beta, giving up baseball, basketball, guitar, my band, and starting to drink, smoke pot, and play videogames. AND SHE STILL W…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 09:30 PM
2

I tried the approach "I'm going to the gym, I can bring a friend for free everyday. You're more than welcome to join me but I'm leaving in 5 minutes". You literally can't force her to do it.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 08:59 PM
1

This I will do more often. Well, the first paragraph anyway. I've seen her react well when I talk to strange women in front of her.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 08:57 PM
1

Like if we're out and see a fit girl "Babe check out that chicks arms" ? Lol
/r/askTRP11/11/16 08:56 PM
1

Fuck it, who cares, she's gone. Move on with it. She got you thinking about her so somewhere, you fucked up. Live and learn.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 08:48 PM
1

Haha I was just about to post something similar
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 08:43 PM
3

Some ideas come to mind: Add a few more exercises to your workout. Take an hour longer in the gym. Read "Bang" and "Day Bang", meditate on it. Maybe go out and execute. There are other books in the sidebar I believe. I play guitar and I spent a whole year playing about 8 -10 hours a day. Of course I had just finished high-school and had no job... so that might not be realistic for you but I'm better than anyone I know and it's pretty cool to bust it out at parties. My wife loves it. I keep my ho…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 08:37 PM
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Good to hear this kind of success story. My marriage has definitely come around for the better since I first found TRP and I think it is important for new guys to come in and see things like this. There is truth in repdill. I've read some post about how it's not working for some guys but what they miss is that IT DOES TAKE THE IRON WILL OF STALIN. You have to be on at all times, maintaining frame, and you can never feel comfortable when you get the first signs that the wife is finally coming aro…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 06:12 PM
3

It takes time man. Me personally, I would consider myself a blue pill alpha 10 years ago. I had the blue pill mentality but I still was attractive to women and had charisma. I was mainly an ltr kinda guy too. 8 years of marriage and I slowly became more beta as I stopped lifting, got super skinny, whiny, catered to my wife and resented her (or myself?) for it. And it was by no means a quick turn-around. I had to build and maintain my frame for a long time before my wife finally started to submit…
/r/askTRP07/11/16 09:08 PM
3

Dude, she's a single mom... Haven't you read about these women who have a kid with an alpha and then seek all the beta goodies from another? Which one do you think you are in this situation?
/r/askTRP07/11/16 08:54 PM
2

Dude, I started going bald at 16! Yes, 16 years old! By 21, there was nothing. I'm short too! 5'6. I was still pullin cuties, up until I got married and even my wife is at least a 6-7. BP me. Bald, short, pale as ghost and still pulled decent women. So don't fret. I understand the insecurity you must feel but the quicker you get over it, the better. For years I used to buzz my head and only recently did I start shaving it down with a razor. So, now here I am, stacked at 170, short and bald, star…
/r/askTRP07/11/16 08:50 PM
1

5'6 and bald right here, never stopped me from anything, as a matter of fact, just got a promotion back in May
/r/askTRP07/11/16 03:24 PM
1

Man, I'm 5'6 and bald and I feel great. It's all about how you look at yourself. Trust me, you think you've got it bad? Lemme repeat, 5'6 and BALD. Get over it dude and you'll feel much better. Of course it may be easier for me since I have such a handsome face ;)
/r/askTRP07/11/16 03:23 PM
2

Man, I kinda understand why you might think that little game would be fun... but she seriously said she wanted to suck your dick and you made her work for it? Yikes...
/r/askTRP07/11/16 03:17 PM
1

Dude, is it possible she's cheating?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/16 09:25 PM
1

Now, this is only what I would do. If after a year of heavy lifting, and improving overall smv, she hasn't responded, time to get a girlfriend and/or prepare for divorce.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/16 07:42 PM
1

Geeze, that's rough. Prepare yourself for a life without her. Keep lifting, learn game, take control of YOUR house by cleaning, cooking, etc. Spend time withbyour kid. You have to basically pretend that she is not even there. The unfortunate part is that when you truly reach the point where you do not give a shit, she may start to change. But you are not trying to get her to change. You are changing yourself. Otherwise she will see through it. You have to accept that there is a life that can be …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/16 02:45 PM
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I'm a hardgainer so I keep a very tight calorie/protein intake schedule. I make sure I get 30 grams of protein every 3 hours. I eat a lot of peanuts, meat, and I use heavy whipping cream in my protein shakes. So total, I'm getting about 180 grams of protein, and around 4500 calories a day. I take Inner Armor weight gainer, creatine, and was on beta-alinine for the better part of the last year. I weighed in at 118lbs in the beginning of March and I looked pathetic and ill. I now weigh 165lbs, loo…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 01:48 PM
2

Let me tell you this... Pre-redpill, I never would have smacked my wife's ass or pulled her hair while banging. Turns out, she fucking loves it. I never would have considered blowing my load all over her tits without warning. Turns out, she fucking loves it. I never would have said "Suck my dick", and just whipped it out. Turns out, she fucking loves it. See a pattern here?
/r/askTRP06/11/16 01:30 PM
1

OP you've got to listen to this. Leave your shit there, move on.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 01:15 PM
2

My mom is RP too. At family functions, she openly tells off my feminist (and most likely lesbian) cousin. She's also a vegan, lmao, and is irrationally liberal... It's gold, such gold when my mom tells her that "You'll never appreciate a man that allows to you walk all over him" in front of the whole family!
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 01:01 PM
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Yes, only right after she showers, and only once in a while. It's like a treat for her. Ohhh the sounds she makes when when I do it... lmao
/r/askTRP06/11/16 12:49 PM
1

OP, sounds like you're fairly new to lifting and I feel like I should add this: Those 3-5 reps that BAITMAN97 is talking about should be done with a weight that you fail with at 3-5 reps. You don't just throw up 50 lbs for Bench Press and do it 5 times if you could actually do it 50 times. Do a lightweight warm up set, then throw on some weight that you could only lift 3-5 times. It might help if you have a partner because then you could really push it as they can assist you with the weight for …
/r/askTRP06/11/16 12:21 PM
1

You need to search 12 levels of Dread and start out. Take it really slow. Also, sidebar... read EVERYTHING in the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/16 11:54 AM
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Funny that you mention women only holding the door at the gym. I noticed that too.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 11:41 AM
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The first thing that stands out to me is that you had to tell her you get attention from other women. There's a guy at work who always talks about these women he used to get and we all think he's a liar. He's an embarrassing to be around and there's just no way. He's... an idiot... poor hygiene and all... There's another guy at work who we drag stories out of and he reluctantly tells us about his latest conquest... he gets 10s all the time. It makes me wish I was still 20... We're guys, what can…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/16 09:18 PM
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You have got disengage from her craziness!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/16 03:48 PM
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It's hard letting go of that anger. It's been about a year for me after swallowing the redpill and sometimes I still catch myself getting angry about the truth. But then, I laugh. My wife, she truly behaves like a child sometimes and I can't help but to just laugh at it because there is so much truth in the trp and I cannot believe I didn't see it before. When she has these childish moments, I used to badger her "What's wrong what's wrong?" Now, fuck it, if she wants to be mad and stew, I just l…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 03:03 PM
2

Hahaha, shitty how we were when we were young. When I was in college, my roommate and I each had a girl in our own beds watching movies. It was clear that she wanted me to make a move, constantly moving, making dumb jokes, etc., but I just didn't. I wasn't a virgin but more so, I was just oblivious. I guess I thought she would kiss me Hahaha. Yea right, but anyway, it was an opportunity I missed because I was as idiot. Silver lining, turns out she had tested positive for HPV a few days later so …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 11:59 AM
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You're free now! Get away from crazy and start spinning plates!
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 09:59 PM
2

I think this is extremely important to remember. I was just reading that from another post somewhere also, like last week. Is this sidebar material?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 03:48 PM
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It's hilarious and it makes draws me even further in TRP. Bring on the shit tests!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:19 PM
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It's a bit of both, her not waking up and her wanting me to comply. She called me at work today to tell me about her trip to the mall and the shit they bought for her brothers gfs bday and she didn't mention this "not calling" issue once.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:18 PM
1

That's awesome
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 06:06 PM
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And THAT'S why I posted this; to provide guys, that are even newer than me, evidence of a compliance or shit test. And also to show how the results are positive when you handle them appropriately, something of which I am still learning. Thanks for sharing dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 05:40 PM
1

Right on, good comment
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 05:08 PM
1

Or, my man, she could be sick. But still, stfu, no reaction to rejection.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 04:57 PM
2

Based on my own experiences, just stfu. Pre-redpill, my wife would reject me more often than I thought was normal. I wanted it every night. Truthfully, we never really had dead bedroom but I still hated that rejection. I would completely overreact, get mad, call her names, and of course all that does is force her to close her legs even more. Post-pill, and specifically after I read MMSL, if she said no, I would say "Ok, but tomorrow, I'm eating that ass". Her response would be a giggle or someth…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 04:51 PM
1

I dig that. I do that when I'm at home. For now though, I will stick to stfu via text.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 04:15 PM
1

Exactly
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 04:06 PM
1

I'm sticking to the logistics rule for now. She's lobbing me pitches here, but I'm not gonna swing just yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 03:55 PM
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I'm still a noob here so take what I have to say with a grain of salt. I'd say, hell man, if it makes you appear sexier overall to have a better car, get the car (if you can afford it, I mean) Though part me of thinks that you should get a new car only because YOU want one, not because some woman or women made you feel insecure about not having a nice car. I definitely agree with your statement of "the value of fancy cars in attracting women" I used to drive around in a purple 98 dodge caravan. …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 03:31 PM
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Guilty, I was a terrible spender. I would just buy whatever I wanted and dealt with the consequences later. Now, all I buy for myself is protein, and we have a lot more money to pay for bills and such.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 12:51 PM
2

Thanks I'll check it out. Late 20s btw
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 11:20 AM
7

I definitely hate my former self. I look back and can't even believe I had girlfriends in high school. I was extremely into lifting and played multiple sports so I guess I did have that going, but damn, I was such a beta. I think back to what my life was like before I met my wife: House parties on the weekend, everyone jamming out, everyone had a guitar or something, going out on boats, pick up basketball and baseball games, all the way into my early 20s. Then right after we got married, boom, a…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 07:20 PM
1

Wow, I am sold. Buying this book now... incredible.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 06:41 PM
1

Yea, I was thinking this is along the lines of what Athol Kay was saying. What do you think?
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:58 PM
1

Ahh see, I wasn't sure because I have been told to take things like this to /r/asktrp...
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:57 PM
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I like that idea of having separate accounts. I will look into that because as of right now, she really just gets an allowance after bills, food, and savings are all addressed. It would be no different except for that extra protection in case something should happen like you mentioned. That being said, she simply does not control the money. She may have access to it, but she doesn't control it. Hell, she even asks me if she can go to the gas station to buy a Dr. Pepper if she wants one. To which…
/r/askTRP21/10/16 12:58 PM
1

I'd say losing keys is a DLV
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/16 02:50 AM
1

So, I got home at 6:20, dinner was made and waiting for me, she was on the phone with her beauty school, and when she got off I said "So they're letting you attend for free?!?!" She chuckled, smacked my arm as she got up, I smacked her ass... thanked her for dinner, kissed her, weathered the storm. Gonna be tappin that tonight ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 11:42 PM
1

She drives a bus which we keep at home. This not "texting for logistics" is something I need to eliminate. Simple, but it's a habit when we having been texting little jokes and stuff about our day for the past 8 years. Not an excuse, but it's more apparent then ever. I know I'm in for one hell of a silent treatment when I get home. I figure I'm just gonna go with it. Play with the kids, read more sidebar material, read my books. It'll be a nice quiet evening.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 09:41 PM
1

Cool, okay, thanks guys. Still learning.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 02:57 PM
1

I've read mmsl, no more Mr nice guy, bang. Somewhere along the way I got lost again.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 02:09 PM
1

Haha, got ya, no more texting. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 01:27 PM
1

Well, here's what happened today: I woke up and decided to take the new car, simply because I wanted to take it. I woke her up, told her, she said "But I already moved it to the other side of the building." (One side of the building is getting new pavement today so the cars needed to be moved) I said to her "So get up and move the Honda over, I'm taking the the Spark" She did this little girl screech or something. When I got to work I saw she had texted me saying "I'm done, there's no reason for…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 12:32 PM
1

See, this^ is what helps. This is why I came here, to have this shit pointed out.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/16 04:31 PM
1

I'll just take your Mom's car after my next visit over. She's such a giving woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/16 05:12 PM
1

Thanks for your help
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 09:04 PM
2

Given my situation and fallout from yesterday, no response would be best.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 01:56 PM
1

I needed that. Thank you sir.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 01:32 AM
0

Oh I lift everyday, 40 lbs gained since March. I read too. I read a lot. Why would you assume those things?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 12:08 AM
1

Lmao, I think I handled it miserably.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 10:51 PM
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Haha, I get that. My mom offered, I was like hell yea. I mean, I guess it makes little difference whether I asked or she offered, but hey man, we needed wheels at the time. Shortly after that, we bought the Spark.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 09:19 PM
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Here's the deal. We currently have three cars. One is our old van which is currently broken. I have a part coming in the mail should be here in a few days. Another is that Honda which actually belongs to my mom. We plan on giving the Honda back to her once the van is fixed. We bought this new car knowing that eventually we might end up with no car and I had told her that I would take the Honda to work until we get the van fixed and give my mom her car back. So I've been kind of torn because she …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 08:33 PM
1

I definitely agree
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 08:24 PM
1

Very true.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 06:29 PM
2

She had the keys last night. I couldn't find them this morning. I needed to leave.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 06:20 PM
1

Isn't that why most of us come take the redpill anyway? To not feel like shit anymore?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 06:19 PM
2

Excellent advice. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 04:55 PM
3

So we can learn to pick ourselves up
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 04:54 PM
2

Not in bad financial situation at all, I would like to add.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/16 12:24 AM
2

After years of buying old, beat up, used cars, not knowing when it was going to breakdown, it was time to buy "new". And I gotta tell ya, it's nice.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/16 07:31 PM
1

Dear Jesus, I sure hope you're not replying to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/16 05:33 AM
1

Exactly. I knew we could could easily afford. Figured that out before we NEEDED a new car. Then when the time came, I was able to pull the trigger.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/16 01:12 AM
1

Thank for the encouragement
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/16 01:10 AM
6

I wasn't there man. I was acting like a boy with money.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/16 01:08 AM
1

Lmfao, telling ya bro, McDonald's is rare. I love the taste, hate the effect. I can feel it almost immediately. I drink so much water and eat so well that when I do eat McDonald's, I'll get a headache sometimes.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 05:02 AM
3

Ehh, what can I say. I'm always telling my wife to not buy the kids McDonald's for lunch. Then I go out and buy it... that's two fuck ups.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/16 04:57 AM
1

I completely agree. Not a DHV.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 06:15 PM
1

Seen that, it was painful to watch lol
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 06:05 PM
1

We're polish. Don't knock the peirogi lol
/r/askTRP16/09/16 04:54 PM
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Then that's the next step. Usually we get all of our groceries on one day. They key is to always have the food at home so the temptation of going to McDonald's is never there. I will eliminate the McDonald's from our lives lol
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 04:48 PM
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Playing video games is big DLV. No doubt about it. But if she cracks open her 50 Shades of Grey at 9pm I see no problem getting in a couple fights on UFC 2. Then after about an hour, we put Netflix back on, start some fooling around on the couch and take it to the bedroom. But keep in my mind, I rarely play my video games anymore. Even if she opens her book, I might start playing with the dog, or play guitar, or read also.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 04:45 PM
1

Thanks man, it's still a work in progress... but everything I've learned, from physical fitness to reading body language, it's all slowly coming together. One key point I found out is to still be able to take time for yourself. Some nights, maybe once every week, I say fuck it, and I turn the on Xbox lol. I get to have some fun, she can just read her book, and I'm still showing that I'll do what I want. Most nights though, we're watching Netflix and talking or playing with our pets.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 01:47 PM
1

Exactly! I don't cook everyday, but I'll be damned if I let her cook peirogi the way she does... and keeping the house clean according to your standards, exactly!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 01:44 PM
1

Ahh well, here's the thing, very rarely do we go there. I always feel like shit after I eat it. She does too.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 01:42 PM
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Thanks man, yea when she first told me back in December, I went full beta... was like giving her footrubs every night, going down on her and telling her I didn't want anything in return, cooking everyday, it was pathetic. Lol, then I came to TRP and realized what I was doing. It's a different game if you're single and spinning plates but when you're married and trying fix a broken marriage, you have to really walk a delicate line. Too much beta, and she thinks you're a poon. Too much alpha and t…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 12:36 PM
1

I admitted to myself. I'd never admit anything to her except that I'm a stud ;)
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 06:36 PM
1

You can do chores and still have a high sex, good marriage. But you have to frame in such way that she has been delegated a task and if it's not done, then she has failed and you will do it. My wife knows that she works part-time, and that I am gone for 10-12 hours hours a day. I'd say this place is immaculately clean 6 out of 7 days of the week. She's good with that. So when I get home I don't have to do shit except "carry the heavy garage bags outside".
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 02:14 PM
2

What I took from it is to own your mistakes and learn. Don't blame others for your problems. Take control, fix the problem, live happily. In my case, my wife resented me. 7 years into our marriage I stopped smoking pot, stopped drinking, started lifting, started practicing pua on her, and I am now 30 lbs heavier, my house is clean (because I take the lead and do it and she follows) and we can't keep our hands off of each other. Nothing would have changed if I didn't admit that I was lazy and neg…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 06:50 PM
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I read Athol Kay's book, Married Man Sex Life and he is spot on. In a marriage or LTR you must exhibit some beta traits, such as providing income, child rearing, helping around the house, or else the woman will be too uncomfortable in the long run and leave the marriage or LTR. It's a balance. But if you have no intention of getting married or maintaining a LTR, who cares if she cheats. Hit next, keep spinning plates. :)
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 04:59 PM
2

As far as a relationship with your mother, I see it getting better with space between you two. I couldn't stand my mom until after I moved out. Now we'll have beers and hang whenever, I'll take her to lunch to catch up, but every now and then I still ignore that call lol. Just because I don't wanna deal with her, which is the greatest thing about moving out.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 04:10 PM
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Honest advice here: If you don't already have s full time job, get one and move out. You will never feel like a man while living under the same roof as your mother. If you can't handle the rent on your own, maybe split an apartment with your brother if he is old enough. You can't depend on anyone but yourself. Get money, get a place to live of your own, lift, spin plates.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 04:07 PM
1

For those who may care for an update, I came home, she came home, we chatted a bit, I said "Come with me". We went into the kitchen. I said "Now what exactly do you want this cabinet to look like?" She told me how the two different plate colors should alternate Yada yada. I said "Look, if you want it done that way, you do it yourself. I do not have time for that. I'm going to the gym now. We're having peirogi for dinner" She said "Ok" as she pouted to the couch. Kissed my boys goodbye, kissed he…
/r/askTRP07/05/16 12:15 AM
1

See, I could believe she is screwing another guy if we weren't having sex 3-4 times a week. I just want it everynight. She's home with me, everynight, weekends too, I just can't see where she'd find the time.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 06:18 PM
2

So is there anyway to salvage this situation? I want to go home and say this : "If you wanted the dishes put away a certain way then you should have gotten to it before me. You didn't ask me to do it. You didn't do it yourself. I did it. I'm going to the gym and we're having peirogi for dinner. I'll be home around 6:30"
/r/askTRP06/05/16 05:39 PM
1

After doing some lengthy reading this morning I'm realizing that I'm failing at this redpill stuff.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 04:50 PM
1

Thanks. You're absolutely right about doing what needs to be done regardless. And she did say straight up that she wanted a divorce and I told her she could have it. A few days later I suggested that we work on things and to give it 4 months. She said she wants to be able to trust me again. Found TRP and have been working on myself every since. 6 months later and things are better than ever. But where I messed up I guess is the part where if she shuts me down for sex then, I don't do anything. I…
/r/askTRP06/05/16 03:37 PM
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