Hey AskTRP,

Little background:

Found TRP little over half a year ago, changed alot, the usual, I work out now etc etc, you know the story.

I've been in an LTR for about 3/4 years now. All is well pretty much, she asks for my permission to go anywhere, does anything I want sexually, dresses up the way I want, personality isn't as empty as most partyho's nowadays, we actually have fun together and can talk really well with eachother.

Lately some stuff happened, and I don't know how to view them from a TRP point of view. I cannot clarify for myself if they were shittests, comfort tests, or anything of the like. So if anyone could elaborate for me that would be great so I can understand the situation.

1: She always dresses up the way I want, except for one thing, heels. I've asked her in the past to wear them but she didn't. Simply because she doesn't have them and I've never told her to go buy some.

Tonight she's going to a party(which I approved of) and she sends me some pictures just before she leaves with the caption "something legendary is going to happen" and you guessed it, she was wearing heels. She took them from her moms closet.

I'm not really sure what to make of this, I've suggested her to borrow them from her mom on multiple occasions but she never did, now all of a sudden for a random party she does.

Am I overthinking it or is this some kind of test?

2: Long story short, she says she has monophobia which is the fear of being alone, and most of the times when a person has that they "lock" to one person(me) and feel really alone when they're not with them, but really really alone.(She has had issues with this since little, so I assume it's legit)

However, I've been concentrating on starting up my own online marketing company so naturally I've had less time for her, and now she's saying "each time you drop me off home I feel so sad that I have to be without you again, and you just don't care" or in general that I'm very cold/emotionless. Or that I do not want to see her, etc etc etc.

Is she just trying to crack my shell to try and betafy me? Or is this a comfort test?

I really can't evaluate the situation on my own, so help would really be appreciated.

Thanks in advance.