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| 1 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.Haha what do you mean by watering hole? | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 06:20 AM |
| 1 | What is the reason uncertainty often builds attraction?Is that why Social Proof is important? Lots of followers or status? Can I fake social proof to seem more in demand or is there a better way? | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Did Models by Mark Manson actually help you?So you have some kind of presence in local politics? I didn't realize girls cared about that | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Did Models by Mark Manson actually help you?So which of these are you? An influencer? | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Did Models by Mark Manson actually help you?Like you mean being famous, having lots of friends, lots of.instagram followers? What do you consider social proof | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Did Models by Mark Manson actually help you?What do you mean by social proof? And choosing signals means girls looking at you? | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Did Models by Mark Manson actually help you?You say your game is good, what do you do. Cold, warm, apps? What's your success rate | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 11:19 PM |
| 6 | I give upAre y'all bots. I see this every thread | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | I give upI also feel like giving up. This shit is ridiculously hard. Good looking or not. The apps especially | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.Bruh you telling me you just grab random girls waist out of the blue? What does cold read as open mean. So basically you look for warm signals in public places, then approach those girls. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.But it's everyone for themselves basically? | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 03:53 AM |
| 2 | My unpopular opinion about modern dating and equalityBeyond looks you mean? | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 03:31 AM |
| 3 | My unpopular opinion about modern dating and equalityIs this basically what we need to all do? Just accept? Has anyone actually transformed their dating through advice on this sub? | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 03:22 AM |
| 3 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.What do you recommend? | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 03:20 AM |
| 2 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.What about trying new hobbies, even if you don't like them at first or they make you anxious. Just sticking with it for a bit and seeing if you can learn anything or meet anyone. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 03:18 AM |
| 4 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.Neither do I. But I'd say go anyway. I know it might be weird but you can say you lost your friends. You can also do bar crawl meetups. This is what I'm going to try. Fwiw, you sound like me.. I am Lonely, depressed, desperate. But we will get through it. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 03:16 AM |
| 3 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.Has it worked for you? Did it suck at first? | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 03:10 AM |
| 2 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.I'm curious, do you try approaching at bars? Do you have any hobbies where you frequently see the same people..I know pickings are slim but I wonder if this works for some people. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.So what do you suggest we do instead? | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 03:05 AM |
| 2 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.Yep exactly. I also think think girls 7 or above probably aren't swiping. It makes more sense for them to just match on their likes. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 03:02 AM |
| 2 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.I think even guys who are 8 or 9 can't pull it off l. Only 10/10 | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 03:00 AM |
| 2 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.I think it's probably the girls just are not the ones they actually desire. I mean, if girls get hundreds of likes a day, then iitd probably .1 percent or less of guys that have a chance. I doubt most people here are that .1 percent. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 02:56 AM |
| 2 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.Yet there are a lot of success stories here about people getting laid from apps/approaches. Im a decent looking guy. Starting to wonder if it's all BS. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 02:53 AM |
| 7 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.I've done like 8 and failed so I can't truly say yet but someone said they did 350 with no dates. That's pretty shitty man. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 02:47 AM |
| 7 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.Yep, I agree with OP. Dating, for sex or long term, especially using apps just doesn't seem to work. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 02:44 AM |
| 2 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?How many do you get? I get 0 dates lol | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 07:37 AM |
| 1 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?I'll check it out. Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 06:59 AM |
| 1 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?Guess I need to make some friends haha | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 06:58 AM |
| 1 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?How are you supposed to learn though? You can't ask the girl and expect her to be honest. Otherwise it's just a guessing game | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 06:25 AM |
| 1 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?Did hitting these numbers humble you? Were you ashamed at first but then overcame it? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:16 AM |
| 1 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?Thanks man. It means a lot. How do I stay motivated to go for girls but not be thirsty? Until I was thirsty, I did not try. I feel like it's my motivation. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:14 AM |
| 1 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?I know what you mean. After getting rejected by this girl, I'm kinda realizing this. Like the thought crossed my mind today, that this is her loss. How do I learn to love myself more? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:12 AM |
| 2 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?Thanks bro, you too. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:08 AM |
| 4 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?Thank you so much. I appreciate it | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:08 AM |
| 2 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?Thank you man. Seriously. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?How do I make this second nature. Where I stop deriving my self worth from others? Just reaffirming it to myself daily? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?Thanks man. You're absolutely right, it just takes more time. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:42 PM |
| 2 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?Thanks man. I really needed to hear that | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:41 PM |
| 2 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?Kinda like this outlook haha. Just a fun game. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?I actually made a movie too quick. Tried to kiss her after 10 minutes of grinding, she pulled out. But I hear you. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?What do you mean by when you move your seat? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:37 PM |
| 5 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?You really think so? I think some women have values. Plus, I hear women care more about feelings/vibe/comfort than straight looks. People say good looking guys get rejected all the time | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?Dance floors, clubs, one dining at a restaurant. Restaurant girl (cold approach) is the only one where I had initial success | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?Do we count Rejections by women who say they have boyfriends/married haha? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:45 PM |
| 2 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?She was a cold approach. But it worked out for me. What's the other way if not cold? I don't see girls looking at me often. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?I did my first cold approach. I was surprised it worked but it did. Idk if I have any strengths to be honest with you, with respect to dating at least. I'm not a great conversationalist or anything | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:19 PM |
| 3 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?I know this is sarcasm but idk what you're actually trying to say | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:16 PM |
| 11 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?Ironically, rejection may be one of the best ways to build self confidence then? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?I just rarely catch girls looking at me, nor so they approach me. So it's always going to be cold, in that case | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 07:48 PM |
| 19 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?My self-esteem will still be controlled by others though, if I need wins to fall back on | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?How can I initiate touch if were across from each other at a table eating? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Probably matched 20 girls in Tinder and got initial responses from two, then nothing. what gives?I'm with you. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?How do I build sexual tension? And what do you suggest I do during the date? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?Are you trolling. I cant call this girl I barely know baby lol. And double texts haha | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?Do you text before the date? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Direct approach -- Do you go for if there's no eye contact (and didn't catch her looking at you)?Do girls approach you often? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 03:00 AM |
| 0 | Probably matched 20 girls in Tinder and got initial responses from two, then nothing. what gives?And? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Played by three different girls in one night for my table at a clubWhy are the hot ones all like this. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Probably matched 20 girls in Tinder and got initial responses from two, then nothing. what gives?Is that really how it be | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Probably matched 20 girls in Tinder and got initial responses from two, then nothing. what gives?Different things. Some observational, some asked direct to grab dinner. What do you suggest? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Probably matched 20 girls in Tinder and got initial responses from two, then nothing. what gives?But why..people care about followers that much? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:34 AM |
| 0 | Probably matched 20 girls in Tinder and got initial responses from two, then nothing. what gives?Why is that? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Played by three different girls in one night for my table at a clubThanks man :/ | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Played by three different girls in one night for my table at a clubI approach very direct in these scenarios. I just asked them to dance . Not going to lie I'm desperate, maybe they can just tell. But Idk how to not be desperate, I just want this so bad. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.Thanks, I really appreciate that. You described it exactly how it is. There were some actually productive comments, so I'll learn something from them and this. 👍 There have been some really helpful people on this sub and then a handful despite the hivemind bs | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.Thank you 👍 | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.Thank you.. Literally just trying to learn, I've never done any of this before. Learning fast already | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.Teasing I'm a good way or bad way haha. And yeah I'm learning fast haha | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.What's an example of something you would say flirty? | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.Lol, uh yeah def not a creep but thanks for that opinion. Those are the signals I felt from her, maybe I interpreted them wrong but that's just an experience issue. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.Can you expand on #3? Another bar/club? It was basically end of night | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.No, it's like impossible to hear In there. So should I have just made casual conversation at the club? Or really immediately flirty conversation. It doesn't seem like the place for getting to know her using casual talk | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:19 PM |
| 5 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.We didn't face each other. No eye contact, no arms around me, she did grab my hand as I danced from behind. Didn't see her looking at anyone else. It would have been impossible to talk to her in that environment given how loud it was | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:12 PM |
| 0 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.What made it needy, that i moved too fast? And what do you mean by flowy | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.What should have happened first? | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.Just grinding, what would be the proper escalation | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:07 PM |
| -1 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.You mean without talking to them first right. Strangers kiss at clubs all the time | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.Legit saw people who just met there making out after similar times of dancing, so I wouldn't assume that. There was no way I was going to be able to hear her, it was a big DJ event and super loud everywhere. Like I said, it felt sexual, she seemed super into it, so I didn't have doubts at that time | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:02 PM |
| -37 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.Yeah, I just wonder if I was someone else, more attractive, would she have kissed that person instead. Guess I'll never know | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 12:54 PM |
| 0 | How to escalate over texts?Yeah, I don't think most girls want to be asked to be kissed. They just want to be kissed or they don't. I saw plenty of guys making out with girls after dancing, there's no way they asked to kiss them | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 12:38 PM |
| 0 | How to escalate over texts?I feel like most guys are not asking to kiss girls at clubs, etc. It just happens in the heat of it | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 12:10 PM |
| -43 | Trying to figure out what I did wrong at club.Sure but I'm surprised given the sexual energy, that she didn't want to go further. The way she was running on me, she seemed into it | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 12:09 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate over texts?What is consent in this context? Like she has to do it first? | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:32 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate over texts?Why can it only be sexual afterwards? | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:31 AM |
| 1 | How to not let rejection bother you?But what if you're just not as good looking compared to the other guys? | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:31 AM |
| 2 | What's your go to opener for approaching a girl on the street?Does this work? | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Nothing else mattersI'm the exact same. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How to not let rejection bother you?I see so rejection and progress becomes the goal, instead of the woman. That is smart. And why not before 11? Get too faded? | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How to not let rejection bother you?I guess when I go to a bar or club, finding a woman is the goal. If I don't make it a goal, I just don't commit to trying | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | rejected twice tonight . how do I not take it personally?My weak point is conversation. Im not sure if I know how to flirt,tease, or even converse well | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 06:24 PM |
| 0 | rejected twice tonight . how do I not take it personally?Thank you for your well thought out response. If I were generally attractive though, wouldn't I have a pretty good overall success rate? | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Lost interest on second day of texting. Now no reply. How to figure out what I did wrong?But if it is something I'm doing, Ill definitely need to correct it. Guess I won't know | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 06:05 PM |
| 3 | What's your go to opener for approaching a girl on the street?So you have any tips for how to flirt well and tease? | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Lost interest on second day of texting. Now no reply. How to figure out what I did wrong?I'll DM them to anyone willing to provide feedback haha | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:55 PM |
| 2 | How to not let rejection bother you?You didnt explain how to actually change your mindset. I've made the choice to change it, but I didn't see any suggestion on how to actually do this. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | How to not let rejection bother you?I want to be in charge of my self worth. But I need to change my thoughts, or my reactions to them. That's the hard part. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | rejected twice tonight . how do I not take it personally?How many times Is enough 🙃 | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | rejected twice tonight . how do I not take it personally?How do I consciously change my mindset though? Like how to value my opinion more than others? | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | rejected twice tonight . how do I not take it personally?It was clumsy. I couldn't hear shit in the bar. But besides that, if you were an attractive guy, would it even matter how clumsy you were, your haircut, etc? | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:02 PM |
| 3 | How to not let rejection bother you?I'm sorry to hear that. You're worth more than that my friend. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How to not let rejection bother you?How many success? What do you say? | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | How to not let rejection bother you?I agree with what you say but how do I take back control of my self worth? It's automatic at this point, how do I be in control of it? | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 04:58 PM |
| 2 | rejected twice tonight . how do I not take it personally?And what If that next one rejects me, and the one after that?What if I really am just a mediocre, uninteresting person who is shit at socializing and not valued in the eyes of anyone else? | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Whats the proper way to pull back from texting, so as to not "overtext" all day and keep her interested? Shall I say I'm busy right now and will reach out later in the evening?Already did. It's set | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Fear of rejection and abandonment has ruined my mindset over the yearsOPs posting could have been my own. I have so much anxiety, it almost really feels impossible. I may have an underlying social anxiety issue. Is there anything that can make it easier leading up to the approach? Exercises, affirmations, counseling? I'd do anything if there is. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 07:34 PM |
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