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How to escalate over texts?

Specialist-Ad-7800 · 2022-08-11T23:32:06+00:00

Texts are kinda dry right now. Want to slowly make things sexual but not impose...

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August 11, 2022

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Title	How to escalate over texts?
Author	Specialist-Ad-7800
Upvotes	0
Comments	13
Date	August 11, 2022 11:32 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/wm5odv/how_to_escalate_over_texts/
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Women tend to be in a logical and defensive mood about sex over texts before sex has happened. If you try to make things sexual over text you are likely to turn them off.

also when you make things sexual you have to escalate and follow through. Making things sexual is like warming up the food, and when the food is warm you have to eat it right away before it goes cold again.

With women it’s a similar concept, when you turn them on you have to make out and have sex with her right away since she is in the mood in that moment.

If you don’t do it right away in that exact moment, she ends up getting cold and the sexual tension you created over text disappears and if was all for nothing.

Not to mention that she rationalises that you affected her mood and will be more defensive to avoid that from happening again.

Women before sex are always looking for reasons not to have it with you. So you need to get her in the mood and strike when the iron is hot. And you cannot do that through texts because if you are texting it means you are not in the same place to strike while it’s hot

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