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We apply to jobs. I think we just don't have a good schedule. I feel like the day is done as soon as I wake up
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 07:49 PM
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What can I add that you think is missing in this post? I know I wrote about a lot of details about the past few days only
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 05:45 PM
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When we first started dating I was really mean to him because I felt like I was doing everything (not housework) I was going to school and working. When he lost his job he tried taking care of the house but from what I understand that made me disrespect him. He explained later on how mean I was and I saw his POV and he keeps on talking to me about our relationship. And we talking about our roles as men and women in society and I like those conversations it makes sense. He's trying to find a job …
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 05:42 PM
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I think I probably have a hard head and have trouble accepting that I did something wrong unless it's explained to me in detail.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 05:34 PM
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Hi thanks for your reply. We basically just hang out all day. I don't prep the food but I still make it. The prep is more so I'm not in the kitchen all day. The sex is due to his treatment. We need two birth control methods according to the prescription papers. He goes limp with a condom and so we don't have risks we avoid the regular way.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 05:31 PM
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Very interesting routine. I don't have curls but I love the idea!
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/16 12:23 PM
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every argument he says he doesn't trust me. I used to starfish back in the day but now I feel like I'm on top of the world for sex. The other day I just wasn't into it and wanted to sleep all day. In hindsight I should have just told him in the first place so that's my fault. I thought I could get into it while doing it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/16 12:22 PM
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When I was single I knew him and knew he wanted to be with me but back then I was really BP and had sex with three other guys before going out with him. He's saying that because I did that knowing he liked me and I liked him it basically constitutes as cheating so he should be allowed. Especially since he never got around before me. I see the logic but my mind races sometimes.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/16 12:19 PM
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I have an appointment with my gyno next month so I'll talk to her about it. I know I'm lacking in iron so maybe that's not helping Edit: spelling
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/16 12:15 PM
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There is a ritual? Can you link it to me if possible?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/16 10:55 PM
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I tried to admit that I was deluded in thinking that I respected him in a financial way and he said "why are you telling me something I already know" He had plans for financial gain but I was uncomfortable with it until now. I felt like he was just waiting for me. He's able to show me love even in our poverty situation but I keep on having good days and bad. When it's good it's good and when it'd bad it's hell. I cry, he yells that I don't listen to him and if I did I wouldn't have trouble in my…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/16 10:38 PM
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Thanks I'll check it out
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/16 09:49 PM
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we are in impoverished conditions. He has shown weakness in that he confides in me. I only started talking with my dad in my adult life. I was only around BP women when I was a kid. My SO just said to me tat the only reason I'm angry is because I'm lazy and that if I thought about his feelings more I wouldn't be treating him like this.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/16 09:39 PM
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When I get my emotions in check I will be able to focus myself to my tasks 100% because I won't be thinking about how much of a failure I am. I realized I have a lack of empathy towards my SO and whenever he feels down cannot focus my mind on him and automatically think it's because something I did. I find it's very important to get over myself so I can help him when he needs a soft place to land. I will be able to take care of the housework everyday. I get lazy and feel like I am wasting my tim…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/16 06:52 PM
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adding: He’s saying i’m not trying hard enough at all and that no one can help me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 07:08 PM
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He’s saying that my self-hate is fake and that he doesn’t want to be with someone who cannot control their emotions. I’m a psycho. I can totally see how he sees this as another excuse. What if he’s right. Maybe it’s not real and i’m just trying to get out of dealing with my problems.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 07:07 PM
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Right no he is not abusive. I was being dramatic in my phrasing, his actions are my fault he has been nothing but good to me. What you said about this "poor me" attitude was a slap to the face. He wants me to talk to him after I do these mistakes but I'm so engrossed with how disgusting I am I only ever talk about how sorry I am.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/15 04:50 PM
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I flinch because that's just what I've done always. Its so stupid I'm so embarrassed about it I don't even want to tell anyone. But if I don't then it won't go away. Any other part of the face I feel no need to flinch. I love him so much my heart hurts when I make him sad and I respect him so much I trust him to take very good care of me. Right now we're not talking and all I want to do is to talk to him. Bringing up my faults doesn't do anything anymore because he knows all this about me. All h…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/15 03:44 PM
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I always flinch away. I think I do it now out of habit and he's just fed up of my annoying attitude. Of course there's tension. I'm nervous sometimes about talking to him because I don't want to say something stupid. I think I also live in a fantasy world where when things are going great I don't think about the past because I'm just so happy on how things are going and I'm cooking and cleaning and it's great. After when he's angry with me though he says I haven't changed at all and that I"m jus…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/15 03:06 PM
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This time: He likes to kiss my nose and I hated it so much that I just flinch away. The worst part is now I like it but when I flinched yesterday instead of apologizing I just made up excuses as if it's not my fault.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/15 02:47 PM
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edit: formatting
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/15 02:29 PM
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Hi everyone. Thanks for sharing your knowledge. I need to figure out a way to stop hating myself so much when these things happen. He's still with me for a reason right! I feel like I've been in a very self destructive state for the past couple of months and now that I've realised this I think I'll have a good start to getting better. I'm writing my thoughts down in a journal now so that's helping. I love this subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/15 02:07 PM
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I was into ninjutsu recently I’ll have to take a look at aikido thanks
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/15 02:52 AM
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Yes I was reluctant on posting and asking this question for a bit but I also know these things aren’t something I can discuss with my SO. I’m already feeling better. I knew I was just confused and needed a little push :) You ladies are awesome!
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/15 04:25 PM
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This is amazing. I was having trouble separating the two thanks so much.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/15 04:18 PM
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I see I see, this is already very helpful thank you
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/15 04:17 PM
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edit: formatting
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/15 02:56 PM
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