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| 1 | Some common gender myths and their rebuttalsFor myth 11, How do we know that is not more of a societal social reward thing rather than some ingrained psychological thing? I, for one, take no issue with the so called "feminine" regular old once a week therapy. It has actually helped me in the past. And I am naturally more sensitive, not the most traditionally masculine yet I don't think me not being an absolute "alpha" is what causes half the issues in my life. I am thinking that might be due to society being hypocritical, still rewarding … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/11/22 06:37 AM |
| 0 | IncelsYeah, the Incels kind of are a different breed than your average MRA. Though similarities do exist when it comes to how they think the nature of the world and women work. However there are differences. Incels recognise the world is harsh to them and they give up and wallow in their sadness where the MRAs recognise the world is harsh and just kind of go "yeah, well that is just how life is and here is the space to vent about it." Sadly I do not think this attitude helps either but a lot of MRAs e… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/22 12:32 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts on Jordan Peterson ?Is it possible that maybe when he steps outside his clinical field, he ends up saying things he doesn't know about? | /r/MensRights | 09/04/22 12:15 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on Jordan Peterson ?Which clip might that be? Usually Jordan Peterson misses the point in a lot of what he covers when it comes to radical left stuff. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/22 12:12 AM |
| 3 | 19-year-old woman who punched an elderly man unconscious in the street, causing him to fall to the ground, hit his head and then die a week later, is cleared of causing his death. Instead, she was charged with "wounding" and given a six-month curfewThat seems pretty sad. I hope Canada reforms its laws around that 🙁 | /r/MensRights | 05/04/22 12:19 AM |
| -1 | 19-year-old woman who punched an elderly man unconscious in the street, causing him to fall to the ground, hit his head and then die a week later, is cleared of causing his death. Instead, she was charged with "wounding" and given a six-month curfewIt is a shame that this woman did what she did and got a lesser sentence but I would caution using this story as a reason to go off on how women have more privilege then men or are ungrateful brats. | /r/MensRights | 05/04/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Biological Essentialism And Men's RightsAnd there are people on hormones that act the opposite than what is expected for their gender. Also I do not think I claimed no behaviour present in anyone is biological, only that people are quick to assume they know the biological male traits. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Biological Essentialism And Men's RightsAnd we would have to say Men are capable of choosing partners just based on what they like and not what is the best for descendants. Do we want to control or shame people and their partner choices? | /r/MensRights | 27/02/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Biological Essentialism And Men's RightsEven if I grant there are some biological behaviour patterns, that still would not make them gender things necessarily. I think people could just have different personalities. I was always pretty soft and sensitive. No one had to raise me to be such as far as I am aware. I came from a family of both a loving mom and dad so it isn't due to an uncaring or even missing parent. Also have always been more of a designing creative type rather than a hands on builder type. Art over sports. You could arg… | /r/MensRights | 26/02/22 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Biological Essentialism And Men's RightsI did a post a while back on the issue of both certain men and women not liking it when men express their feelings and the worship of stoicism as a masculine trait. There were a few responses that tried to say that was just man's nature and not a societal problem. The problem was people bugging men not to be stoic and hold it all in. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Biological Essentialism And Men's RightsAre you going to try and tell me women being with who they want for a partner and not picking certain men is eugenics? Also I do think testosterone might cause behaviour differences but again here in this community it is assumed people know what these are. It is possible people are looking at cultural male traits and thinking those are the biological ones but really they are not. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Biological Essentialism And Men's RightsI think some of these cultural behaviours are being assumed to be caused by the Testosterone and not upbringing or anything learned. I do not deny there exist biological differences but people very quickly assume something that is cultural is natural. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 06:18 AM |
| -2 | Biological Essentialism And Men's RightsI speak from experience when I say treating certain behaviours as essential only hurts. It will not helpm | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 11:12 PM |
| -10 | Biological Essentialism And Men's RightsNo. It is simply behaviour that men typically do, due usually a huge part in how they are raised, that is toxic. It is not about criticising all male behaviour. Just the bits that hurt themselves and others around them that yes, any gender could do. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Biological Essentialism And Men's RightsThe whole rights thing we are discussing. Could one not just say gynocentrism is natural and there is nothing one can do to make men worth more in people's eyes? Not a good way to advocate I would think. 🙁 | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 11:08 PM |
| -4 | Biological Essentialism And Men's RightsCould one not just say that those behaviours and attitudes come from their innate nature? | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 10:13 PM |
| 0 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityNot really as they still advocate for capitalism. They are closer to Conservatives than they are to socialists in that regard. 😒 | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityYes. This innate type of argument only further pushes back men's rights because if it is all just nature then there is nothing we can do. Biology dictates society is the way it is. 🙁 | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityYou know, it does seem like it alot of it is more of a cultural thing than a biological thing. If we really could not get the "violent brute out of the man" because it is his "nature," then society would look alot different. 🤔 | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityThere is a difference between Liberal and Socialist. 😶 | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityProbably should not have said that women are superior but I am glad the suffragists got the vote for women in the end. 👍 | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts On The Men's Liberation Movement?What you think that for? 🙁 | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts On The Men's Liberation Movement?I think feminism can speak about the issues men face that the men's rights movement might miss. Social issues like the stress of men not living up to masculine expectations and being looked at as a looser when they don't. Or it not being as acceptable for them to show emotions. Or express any bit of feminity. The race thing, as someone who is black myself, I will not go too detailed into other than saying it is more nuanced than it appears and the bad leftist actors who do make it some backwards… | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts On The Men's Liberation Movement?Thank you guys for the input. 😃 I do end up learning things I did not know even if I come from a different perspective.👍 | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts On The Men's Liberation Movement?True. We do need more open dialogue. Tribalism seems to be the main problem here. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts On The Men's Liberation Movement?I am not sure it is that bad. Feminist people have advocated for men too. It is mainly the fact alot of radical feminist ideas seep into modern feminism that seems to cause issues. 🙄 | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts On The Men's Liberation Movement?I think the radical feminists sound alot like right wing folk but personally I have met some average feminists who are more open. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts On The Men's Liberation Movement?If both sides were more understanding with eachother, then maybe more progress would be made 😐 | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts On The Men's Liberation Movement?It is sad you guys feel that way. 🙁 I think if both teams were to work with each other, we could have progress. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Why are men more likely to be the perpetrator of violent crimes?I think men might be more likely to do certain violent crimes due to their overall unique social and economic situation. The expectations of what their society and social circle say being a manly type of man is all about might get them to think it is normal to solve hard problems with violence. Usually the lower amount of money one pulls in, the more likely someone will have to get needs met in an illegal way if they cannot afford the legal way. Sometimes this illegal way involves violence. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/21 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Why are men more likely to be the perpetrator of violent crimes?It would be a mistake to treat all the justice systems like they are the west. It is strange when some act like it is better for women legally overall. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/21 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Why are men more likely to be the perpetrator of violent crimes?Yes. IQ is not the only way of measuring intelligence. There are many different types of intelligences. A math genius can have great logical smarts but be bad at conversation and relationships, which require social smarts. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/21 04:20 AM |
| -2 | Why are men more likely to be the perpetrator of violent crimes?No. That is more of a misrepresentation of the concept. It is not a great sounding word, admittedly needs to be changed but the concept is solid. It is a term used to describe CERTAIN sides of what society considers "masculine" that tend to be harmful to one's self or others. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/21 04:18 AM |
| -1 | Why are men more likely to be the perpetrator of violent crimes?Pretty much does. Was a victim of it myself. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/21 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Why are men more likely to be the perpetrator of violent crimes?Depends on the definition of "normal." | /r/MensRights | 10/12/21 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Why are men more likely to be the perpetrator of violent crimes?I do not think that it is as biological as in might seem. Alot of social conditions play into the problems of men too. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/21 04:10 AM |
| 2 | I Wish Men's Rights Was Taken More SeriouslyI'm sorry but this type of talk is one of the mindsets that causes alot of men to kill themselves, stay emotionally unhinged or remain depressed for a good piece of their life. Not everyone can just switch off their feelings. Alot need therapy and support to work through issues. Sometimes being artistic is good so one can express their feelings in media they create rather than unleashing their anger on someone else. The attitude you suggest is not very healthy for most, regardless how masculine … | /r/MensRights | 04/11/21 12:58 PM |
| 2 | I Wish Men's Rights Was Taken More SeriouslyYou think being more sensitive or a bit more artistic as a man is a problem unless you are gay? | /r/MensRights | 04/11/21 12:37 PM |
| 2 | I Wish Men's Rights Was Taken More SeriouslyNot all men who don't like traditionally masculine things are gay. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/21 06:33 AM |
| 2 | I Wish Men's Rights Was Taken More SeriouslyYou can still be a man by being artistic minded, culinary minded or technical minded. Not every man needs to know how to repair a truck. It does harm to insist that the classical manly type of man is the only way a man can be a man. There are men who get very depressed and discouraged that feel forced to be a way they might not be deep inside. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/21 05:00 AM |
| 1 | I Wish Men's Rights Was Taken More SeriouslyNot every man is interested in mechanical stuff. Some are more technologically inclined. Some are more artistic. Some might be more culinary so maybe the home economics class would be more for them. I think men, like all genders, need different avenues to figure out what their unique talents are that can make them feel good about themselves and participate in society. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/21 04:43 AM |
| 2 | I Wish Men's Rights Was Taken More SeriouslyI understand you but I think those are the kind of men who need support the most. The ones who sit all day playing games. There is a reason why they might not have their life together. Could be a mental issue they are struggling with but due to people not caring about them, they use games to escape. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/21 04:11 AM |
| 1 | I Wish Men's Rights Was Taken More SeriouslyWhat? | /r/MensRights | 04/11/21 04:06 AM |
| -5 | I Wish Men's Rights Was Taken More SeriouslyThere is still a need for it here. Even if the legal issues are resolved, there are still social imbalances that could use addressing. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/21 05:08 AM |
| 10 | I Wish Men's Rights Was Taken More SeriouslyWell optics are important. I think both feminists and men's rights people need to be able to engage in civil discussion if we are to make progress. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/21 04:15 AM |
| -6 | I Wish Men's Rights Was Taken More SeriouslyI think the man bashing is not ok but I think without that aspect, feminism has some value still. Even to men. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/21 04:14 AM |
| 17 | I Wish Men's Rights Was Taken More Seriously😄 | /r/MensRights | 03/11/21 04:11 AM |
| 1 | I Wish Men's Rights Was Taken More SeriouslyI think that is just a result of some people implementing feminism badly. There are some mean people out there. 😑 They do not really help. But men's emotional states do need more attention. There is alot of pressure for certain men to be things they feel they can't live up to. And that doesn't just come from bad versions of feminism. That comes from men putting toxic expectations on other men. It also comes from women, feminist or not, putting toxic expectations on men. I think therapy can help … | /r/MensRights | 03/11/21 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Those Who Were Former Feminists, What Made You Stop Being A Feminist?Wow. I got alot of responses. I thank you for the insight and I am sorry for the bad experiences you had. Must have been pretty bad. 🙁😶 | /r/MensRights | 01/11/21 12:02 AM |
| 0 | Those Who Were Former Feminists, What Made You Stop Being A Feminist?Men do this with other men too. Especially if you are too feminine as a man. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 11:55 PM |
| 0 | Those Who Were Former Feminists, What Made You Stop Being A Feminist?Yes. This is something that needs to be distinguished. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 11:52 PM |
| 0 | Those Who Were Former Feminists, What Made You Stop Being A Feminist?Yeah. This is more my position. Still would claim to hold to rather feminist like ideals but I am aware of the toxic elements. I think these conversations on why there is a divide is important | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Those Who Were Former Feminists, What Made You Stop Being A Feminist?I think the balance is important. To completely throw out a movement because of bad representatives feels a bit too rash to me. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Those Who Were Former Feminists, What Made You Stop Being A Feminist?What is wrong with calling a "fireman" a "firefighter?" | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 11:38 PM |
| -23 | Those Who Were Former Feminists, What Made You Stop Being A Feminist?It helps men realise that they are not failures if they are not able to live up to the super manly type ideals other men put on them. That they are allowed to express their emotions if they want, even though the larger society might not like it. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 01:01 PM |
| -14 | Those Who Were Former Feminists, What Made You Stop Being A Feminist?People don't let you be both around here | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 12:24 PM |
| 17 | Those Who Were Former Feminists, What Made You Stop Being A Feminist?Could you explain? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 12:22 PM |
| -14 | Those Who Were Former Feminists, What Made You Stop Being A Feminist?One could identify with both but that usually is not how it is in this community. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Progress Convincing The Other SideThat is pretty messed up if it is true. I try to be understanding of many different groups and ideologies at once. If this is a common problem, then I can see why the mens right's group gets picked on. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/21 03:01 AM |
| 0 | Progress Convincing The Other SideI can see a more individualistic approach to men's issues being useful too. If it is too much about this bigger idea of finding a partner and having a good family, it can be easy for the individual needs of the man to feel like they are not being addressed. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | I am so done.Could just look worse though. Optics are important for movements. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | I am so done.Well I guess we have different views on what tyranny looks like. My experience has not yielded quite the same outcome. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/21 08:16 PM |
| -1 | I am so done.Should not have to be that way | /r/MensRights | 11/10/21 12:02 PM |
| -5 | I am so done.Is it tyranny or more of an emotional response some women are having towards certain men due to past injustice? Not saying their outrage can target people who are innocent but I think the backlash comes from a real place. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/21 12:01 PM |
| 1 | I am so done.Sounds a bit overblown to do such a thing. I think open communication and advocacy that tries to build connections might be more effective. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/21 11:56 AM |
| -4 | I am so done.Very sorry you had to go through what you did. Sometimes even the well meaning feminists can seem quite rude. Maybe you will find more understanding ones in the future. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Men's Rights And Poor OpticsI think it is possible I am simply observing the extreme ends of both sides of gender activism. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/21 07:58 AM |
| 0 | Men's Rights And Poor OpticsInteresting view point. It is very possible that both sides have their extreme factions. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/21 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Men Putting Hard Expectations On Other MenI think both men and women do it alot. I have seen it more from the men side myself. Since this is a place for men's issues, it makes sense to address when men do it here. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Men Putting Hard Expectations On Other MenBecause some people need extra support. Just because they might not be taking good selfcare, that doesn't mean I just leave them behind if they need my help at times. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Men Putting Hard Expectations On Other MenPeople should care about others more often. I think everyone should atleast have that one good friend they can talk to about their issues and if the friend is able, they should try and support. It is difficult but that is the type of friend I want to be for someone. Maybe someone else will feel similarly about me. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 03:31 AM |
| 0 | I studied Feminism at college so you don't have to. (+ A First Person Perspective on the Education Gap)True. If these important issues are going to be discussed, we need more civil discourse and willing to admit some of the darker areas of the movement | /r/MensRights | 02/10/21 11:33 PM |
| -6 | I studied Feminism at college so you don't have to. (+ A First Person Perspective on the Education Gap)Just because ReturnOfKings doesn't advocate for men the way people around here specifically do doesn't mean they don't advocate for men. They believe the answer to men's issues is just to bring back super masculinity and strict gender roles to the world. Not a great solution but it is their way of advocating. I don't really like the label feminist myself but I am not a huge Paul Elam fan. I also think it is mostly his base, not him himself that is the problem, as much. Also the "rational ape" ch… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/21 10:40 PM |
| 3 | I studied Feminism at college so you don't have to. (+ A First Person Perspective on the Education Gap)Various groups. ReturnOfKings was a community I was frequently visiting back in my day. They would get pretty cult like at times. I used to watch Paul Elam's channel. He talked about men's issues but he also built up a bit of a radical following. Alot of these other people who branded their channel names and stuff after apes. Even if they originally had good intentions, it was easy for them to lock themself in a bubble. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | I studied Feminism at college so you don't have to. (+ A First Person Perspective on the Education Gap)If this is indeed the experience of feminism expressed in your school, that is pretty disheartening. Hopefully you will encounter more reasonable ones. I know it is easy for very passionate members to ruin a movement's optics in the eyes of an outsider. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/21 08:22 PM |
| 10 | I studied Feminism at college so you don't have to. (+ A First Person Perspective on the Education Gap)Even Mens Rights groups can feel like cults sometimes. I think it is important to look at facts and not get too swept away by any movement's tribalism. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/21 08:18 PM |
| -1 | Why Is Dating So Hard For Men In The Modern World?So you think what men have to live up to here in the west is too hard? Or are you talking about the west's expectation of what women are to look like? | /r/MensRights | 19/09/21 10:32 AM |
| 0 | Why Is Dating So Hard For Men In The Modern World?Yes. Mostly some men just lack certain social or self grooming skills that can make it difficult to attract a potential partner. It is able to be improved with some practice by talking to people more in the outside world and taking more time on one's appearance. Taking time to join groups to meet women with their same interests. People with your same interests are more likely to be compatible with you. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/21 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Why Is Dating So Hard For Men In The Modern World?I think for some it can be. Lack of social skills and self grooming can make it difficult for some. I don't think it is hopeless though. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/21 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Men Expressing FeelingsDealing with issues is not the same as supressing them. I think everyone should work out their pain but keeping it buried and doing nothing about it is damaging. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/21 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Men Expressing FeelingsThere are a few messages but the majority of a man's immediate circles probably still stigmatize it. It is easy for one to internalize this stigmatization. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Men Expressing FeelingsWhy would doing it privately be such a threat? | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Men Expressing FeelingsMaybe to the more extreme radical feminist types but I don't kniw if this is that much of a universal rule. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Men Expressing FeelingsMen and women really shouldn't do that to other men. It is a hard life and we need each other to be understanding at times. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Men Expressing FeelingsI feel men handle their emotions in a different way partly because they are forced to. They are seen as weak if they don't just bury their pain in a task. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Men Expressing FeelingsMen should be able to open up on feeling too if women can freely. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Men Expressing FeelingsHopefully it will be more accepted soon. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Men Expressing FeelingsI agree. It should not be like that. A partner should be understanding. Keeping emotions in is not exactly psychologically healthy. Sadly, alot of men feel like they have to. There are others, including some women, that encourage this behaviour. I wish it did not have to be. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Men Expressing FeelingsWell that is good. We need mpre peoppe who are caring. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Men Expressing FeelingsIf that is the case, why would a man get into a relationship with a woman at all? | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Men Expressing FeelingsWish I knew what the message said | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Men Expressing FeelingsShould not be like that. If it was a more equal world out there, then maybe both genders could cry. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Men Expressing FeelingsNice sentiment. I guess there are alot of men you personally don't help. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Men Expressing FeelingsThat is pretty disheartening. Men should get help too. Even if they think societal will beat them down for it. Sometimes in life, you just need help. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Men Expressing FeelingsSome people are just wired like that. I am. It is ok. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Men Expressing FeelingsI think men should be able to express a variety of emotions. It is usually only stuck being anger because it has been held in for so long and it is deemed the only appropriate way to express it. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Men Expressing FeelingsWish it didn't have to be like that. Some people are just very sensitive but that is framed in a bad way. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationHow. If people should not try and change anything in our society to help with problems? African American discrimination was a personal problem to those who were african american. Women's rights were a personal issue to those who were women. If the attitude is that this discrimination is just due to personal life issues and should not be addressed on a societal level, no social change happens. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationIf all people thought that, there would be no social change. Yet we have already had some for women and african american's standing. Sure there is still more that could happen but history shows it is possible. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 05:08 AM |
| 0 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationWhat you consider the serious obes people MUST fix in order to be allowed to even say anything? | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Can we talk about the future of mens rights?Even though some feminists mean well and do try to address men's issues too, men's issues have been overlooked at times. Due to the terrible optics of modern day third wave feminism and its inability to ditch some of its toxic second wave baggage, It is very possible the men's rights people could become a way bigger movement. The consequence might be a regression in the social standing of women but men will make their issues heard. It is sad people have to be so tribal with each other but histor… | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationLike? | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationSo even back in a past era, it was not always men being performers and women being choosers. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationMaybe for their differences to be treated as not too much more of an issue than whether one has brown or blonde hair | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationNot always. Some men have women perform for them. The game ain't so linear. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationAnd they could still use some more support | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationI disagree. Otherwise we would still have the exact same social norms that we had a few centuries ago but certain things have changed. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationMaybe because they feel they are not being heard. In history, that has kind if been the trend for more rights and better social standing given to different kinds of people. Usually they are or were minorities. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 01:19 AM |
| 0 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationI am not sure how much people believe that. Have you fixed all of your personal matters? | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationFor men and women to be treated equally in both the law and societal customs. For a woman to not get ostricized for wanting to do something that is more of a manly role. For a man to not get ostricized for wanting to do something that is more of a womanly role. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationWell even if there is a more biological basis for the roles, shoule we not also be supportive of those who don't quite fit such a mold? I think there are plenty who do fit their stereotypical roles, I think there are also plenty who don't though. They could feel more heard. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationIn my experience, it has been my opposite traits that got me in trouble. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationBecause I have hard time believing that all the feminists I have known are terrible people. And it is healthier to express than to suppress. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationInteresting responses. I can't say I am not learning anything. Very informative. Other people's views are very important for bridges being built. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationWell what was your understanding of it through a feminist literature framework? | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationBut what if a percentage of men do emote "womanly?" Or are people like me and one of my friends rare unicorns? | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationCould the framing not be misunderstood? | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is a meaningless termWhich misandrist leaders in particular do you refer to? | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is a meaningless termAll of them are clueless? Even the ones who are interested in sociological fields or politics that deal with it quite directly? | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 01:36 PM |
| -1 | Feminism is a meaningless termI can't speak about any organization specifically but individuals I know of who are feminist or have feminist leanings don't seem to hate men. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationI agree that there is that uneasy side effect on men to deal with because of modern feminism's optics. I have felt it always had an optics issue. I don't think the movement is unable to be salvaged however. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is a meaningless termWhy you say that? | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 01:21 PM |
| -1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationBut how do we know certain role related things are more of a societal expectation vs a biologically evolved one? Or do you consider all specific gender behaviour biological and not simply societal custom? | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 01:20 PM |
| -1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationWhat makes you think it can't be about men genuinely getting a chance to show their feelings? | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 01:16 PM |
| -2 | Feminism is a meaningless termExcept the not radical feminism is not generally hateful towards men. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 01:15 PM |
| -6 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationI want to hear people out. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationI usually feel better when I talk to people I can trust about my problems rather than just escape and bury them up inside me. Or I might want to express them in making art, music or dance. I think some men would be wired as such too even if not all men are. So it would be nice for those type who are more wired like me to feel they could. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 11:28 AM |
| -1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationShouldn't people generally be allowed to fill whatever role they want? Doesn't the wording of women imitating men already shows socially the roles are not considered equal? | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 11:23 AM |
| -1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationWhat makes you say it is not? I literally hear it talked about alot among those types. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 11:20 AM |
| -1 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationI think they should do more to help both men and women. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 11:16 AM |
| 0 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationI personally have never been ok with the whole opposite female dominated society either. Equality is what I want. Not for the people who use feminism as an excuse to be hateful to their male counterparts. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 11:15 AM |
| -9 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationElaborate? | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 11:13 AM |
| -13 | Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A ReputationWhat exactly you disagree with? I am here for a dialogue. I probably agree with alot more of what is discussed here than you'd think. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 08:40 AM |
| 8 | Feminism is a meaningless termI would say it is more than 5%. It is more like the super loud minority make the majority look bad | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Feminism is a meaningless termI think some of the feminist types are pretty well meaning. Doesn't mean it is always implemented well. However I am not entirely convinced they are jyst making things up | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 06:20 AM |
| -4 | Feminism is a meaningless termWell, there is a difference between feminism and radical feminism. There was a bit of the toxic leftover baggage of the second wave feminism kicking about in modern day third wave feminism sadly. Including the T.E.R.F ideology and man being evil automatically in some of the more extreme circles. As for the whole of feminism, the general idea of advocating for women's rights and societal standing isn't bad to me. Mainly just a few toxic carryovers from the 1970s or so feminist era that haven't qu… | /r/MensRights | 15/09/21 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Since a large enough group of angry women is ruining every aspect of male culture, I wonder what its endgame will be?Fair. Though some really do believe this to a degree. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/21 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Since a large enough group of angry women is ruining every aspect of male culture, I wonder what its endgame will be?I used to think such about leftism but I found some pretty good fruits among the rotten ones. Helped me alot. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/21 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Since a large enough group of angry women is ruining every aspect of male culture, I wonder what its endgame will be?Maybe certain leftist ideas might be bad but certainly not all. I am surprised what I did learn from leftists at times. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Since a large enough group of angry women is ruining every aspect of male culture, I wonder what its endgame will be?A few bad actors made the "sjw" the weird fringe part of the wider left movement it is. It is not representitive of all of leftism. It probably won't be the bulk of it in the future. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/21 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Since a large enough group of angry women is ruining every aspect of male culture, I wonder what its endgame will be?Sounds a bit conspiratorial | /r/MensRights | 13/09/21 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Since a large enough group of angry women is ruining every aspect of male culture, I wonder what its endgame will be?I don't know. I don't think it will ever get to a point where "men's culture" is all gone. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/21 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Why can’t men have feelingsAnyone partner not willing to meet any of your emotional needs yet you sre expected to attend to theirs is not worth it anyways. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/21 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Why can’t men have feelingsYes. Men have feeling too. It is mostly a societal thing that men can't cry or be sensitive. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/21 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Why can’t men have feelingsMen can feel. Who cares if you are not "allowed" to. It is unhealthy to bottle your feelings up anyways. Just leaves you feeling miserable and getting jealous of those who do decide to show their feelings. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/21 06:58 AM |
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