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>If a single and dependent woman has a roofing problem, an unknown man is going to fix it. If a single and dependent woman has an air conditioning, plumbing, or automobile problem an unknown man is going to fix these. She's going to have to pay them. Lots of women work in these fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:24 PM
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I know women who work in all these professions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:23 PM
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I don't know anyone who does OF, porn or drug dealing IRL and I don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:46 PM
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I probably just freaked out or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:15 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:38 PM
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Nobody perved on me when I was 13 lol. I never got catcalled until I got to BMI 15-17 in my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:25 AM
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I don't think this is true. I'm in my mid 40s and exercise around 15 hours a week, and obviously I don't get hit on even as much as someone in their 20s who is actually BMI >25. You can't outrun a bad diet but you can't outrun your age either. Models don't work out an hour a day either. I have friends who are pro and semipro models, I work out 10 times as much as they do and eat the same amount of food and I'll never be asked out by a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:20 PM
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I 'decentered' men for the entirety of my life due to my autism and being told I will never be attractive. I was boy sober throughout my potential "pretty years". Now in my mid 40s I'm getting more into beauty and diet culture as well as trying to meet people. And maybe that's kind of just out of spite because I'm considered too old to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:32 PM
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I live in NYC though. It's different here than in a regular state. New 21 year olds, men and women, come in every year and most people my age have left already. The average BMI is much lower here than in other states. Baguette? That's a pretty carb rich food.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:35 PM
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Well I got to get to a normal BMI 19 range first before I see if trying to become thin rather than average is right for me. I'm old af so I need to do all I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:25 PM
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Wow that's another data point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:25 PM
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I'm Asian so my ultimate GBMI range is 15-17 too since my healthy BMI range is 15-23. I wonder if 19 is going to be lean enough. I'm still fat (above BMI 22).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:34 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:16 AM
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Not in VHCOL east coast cities where 7 women grab a hold of one man and say: we will provide our own food and our own shelter, just take away our shame
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:07 AM
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Nah, no men hit on me in my teens or 20s due to fat and I was BMI 17-19 in my mid 30s only.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:06 AM
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Yeah I live in a skinny city.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:52 AM
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Some did when my BMI was like 17-19, but they definitely didn't hit on me at my natural weight. I have an unattractive face and shitty fat distribution too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:52 AM
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Dafuq? I'm grossly, kill it with fire, fat (BMI 24) and with face revealed situations men see me as invisible. I'm still losing weight though and am wondering if there's an inflection point around BMI 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:41 AM
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At what BMI does the cloaking device turn off and a fat woman becomes visible to men? BMI 22/23 or lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:36 AM
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I don't think that's true. Roommates usually grow out of the same social milieu.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:22 PM
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Everyone in NYC lives with their parents in their 20s and 30s, house parties don't exist here, and the people who don't live with parents have roommates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 01:47 PM
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They used to say that about diabetes and heart disease too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:56 AM
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Treating symptoms of a disease isn't the same as lying about your age. I state my age openly to everyone who asks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:21 AM
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I don't hide my age, but I don't constantly talk about stuff that young people don't remember, like 9/11 or whatever, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:53 PM
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I don't really have fine lines or grey hair, and even if I did, I would treat them with botox and dye. My main issue is pseudojowling from being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:31 PM
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Here's a looks conundrum for you. I'm a 44F who's wondering about this. Why do I look younger to younger people (25-32) who frequently say they think I look their age, but people, especially men my age and especially more conservative men my age can always tell that I'm 40+. I dress Gen Z and am working on reducing my BMI to 19/20. I'm ugly, but still. I've read Heartiste, etc on how men can always tell when a woman is of fertile age, which I'm obviously not. I can't figure out the what the tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:15 PM
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I see. I'll focus on things that matter to me then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:41 PM
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Let me rephrase that. I have mixed religious views right now. If I go all in on Christianity I have to date a guy who isn't divorced because divorce isn't permitted in Christianity from what I know. I've heard of an annulment but idk how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:47 PM
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I'm Asian and my standards are more similar to Gen Z than people my age, but I get a lot of slams in my age group for asking about body count. I'm considering becoming Christian so I don't date divorced guys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:20 AM
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I definitely wish my parents were older before having me, and I was forced slapped with an IEP and the autism label in the 1980s, banned from going to a decent school. A significant proportion of sped students when I was growing up were from teen and young parents as well. I mean getting pregnant for the first time over age 35 is wrong though, I don't know anyone who did that however.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:28 PM
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What body count is normal for ages 42-48 (guy or girl)? What's a red flag amount, like if I go back into the dating market and I ask their body count what should it be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:23 PM
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Think about the implications of what I just said. "The odds are good, but the goods are odd". I am no longer in the dating field.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:37 PM
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40-49 year old successful men are all in relationships. Ask me how I know as a single mid 40s woman in VHCOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:48 PM
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Richmond is an outer boro of San Francisco like Oakland is. It's near Berkeley. Another lower cost neighborhood on the transit grid is Hayward. It's on the subway grid, which is called BART, so it's closer than Staten Island, which is Fremont or something. To look for an apartment, use sites like ArcGIS to search Low to High for income. Isolate the lowest income tracts and zip codes and search low to high in terms of apartment costs and look for places near transit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:57 PM
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San Francisco is a small area like Manhattan. You can work in SF and live in Richmond. Most of Brooklyn and certainly most of the Bronx is single family housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:53 PM
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There are plenty of apts in prime Brooklyn around 1500 that are close to transit and not high floor walkups. I see a 2BR 1300 on Streeteasy right next to the Broadway Junction station in Bushwick. You can rent in prime neighborhoods like University Heights, Cypress Hills, Brownsville, Bedford Park, Fordham, Staten Island, Far Rockaway and Hunts Point for that price.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:44 PM
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Immigrants also add to the potential dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:42 PM
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Or NYC, 300K for a new 3bed 2 bath or 150K for that in apartment flavor. Plus you don't need a car and have virtually no prop tax.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:42 PM
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How the fuq is NYC cheaper than California? Everyone from here moves to California to save money lmao. CLT in California is the same as Mitchell-Lama here btw, for housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:41 PM
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Depends on class origin, homeowner status, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:40 PM
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Yes, I agree. The problem I have is that my musical, clothing, political, etc tastes are more similar to younger people than to my own age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 09:16 PM
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No they don't. I'm 44 and the guys who are interested in me don't click with me at all. It's not that they're not handsome, it's because they get oldhead and cringe about my tastes because I listen to current pop and hip hop and be into current geek culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:39 PM
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Agreed. I'm 44 and this is facts. I will never be able to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:36 PM
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I mean no offense but why is 30% of Gen Z gay? In my generation they said it was up to 10% of people were gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 08:37 PM
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I heard about Holland but not the other countries. There used to be illegal prostitution in the US in the 80s and 90s, but it went away I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 08:29 PM
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Wtf where is prostitution even legal in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 08:25 PM
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Yeah, I'm on a diet. The problem is that I have no idea if it's going to neutralize my age disadvantage because of the hard limits drawn by the system where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:25 PM
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Well I'm pretty fat. Most people here are obese, in fact. Here in NYC, most men have a deadline and don't marry women over 35/40 unless theyre 50+. That's because of the single female to single male ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:04 PM
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There is definitely a wall for women in NYC because of the male/female ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:38 PM
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That's ducked up. I wish that your friends didn't have to get with prostitutes. I don't think prostitution is moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:57 PM
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Damn that sucks so the red pill was lying about men having a later wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:56 PM
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My parents and grandparents had arranged and semi arranged marriages. I had to work harder because my mental illness label from childhood makes me ineligible for matchmaking (in an east asian culture). There weren't really any social clubs where they lived. People hung out with their cousins because large extended families all lived in the same area for 100s of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:55 PM
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I'm srs. His dad buys him H manga, H novels and actual hentai videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:39 AM
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I mean I thought our values were the same until I learned that my friends knew that his 21 yo son was at a strip club, which means his son has zero respect for my friend. In my world, A child that age attending a strip club would not dare to let their parents know. You are not considered a grown man at 21 unless you make six figures, married with kids, homeowner, etc. Some of them even let their children have sex and sell drugs under their roof. One of them is a guy my age (early 40s) 5'7" who h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:19 PM
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How do you have a relationship with someone who was raised much more lax than you were, and deal with co parenting with them? I am not married but am looking at my dating pool and the young people whose upbringing I would be involved in as a future step parent. For example some of my male friends parents give them hentai, their mom gave them a playboy subscription when they were underage, or they let their children party and go to strip club /brothels, or the family goes to gun ranges and other …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:54 PM
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Has it been hard to farm moisture lately to water your agave and nopale cacti?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:02 PM
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Yes I was interested in 35-45 men but a lot of them filtered me out. I heard from 60+ guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:25 PM
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That's more like 28/30 years old. I'm too old to have kids, why would I look for a provider at this age? I don't care how much he makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:49 PM
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Yeah most Gen X and older Millennial people find religion to be a joke. 99% of my peers think me being religious is a joke and are taking bets on when I snap out of it. Comments like "committed to the bit" are par for the course any time I talk to people my age. It seems every time I meet a trad religious person they're significantly younger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:20 PM
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That's how most people I know think, but due to my new found spiritual commitments I don't think I can condone extramarital sex as it goes against the order of the universe. Most religious people are already married by my age because the average age that someone becomes religious in this society is in their 20s or early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:17 PM
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Because a significant amount of my platonic male friends who get a lot of dates / have a lot of experience are explicitly like that. These are people I've known for years. I've been finding this out as soon as I started discussing my fears about aging openly. Suddenly I found out that 47 year olds were dating 38 year olds. My Latin conversation partner (38) was actually trying to figure out how to ditch his older gf (45) because he wanted to have kids when he settled down and got married. I neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:15 PM
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I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:57 PM
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Men who don't want kids aren't after marriage, they're after something casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:25 PM
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Something bad (similar to an accident) happened several years ago that I'm uncomfortable talking about right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:24 PM
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The main problem is that I legit feel I'm too old. I would like to be able to "grow up together" with someone and go through the various patterns of life right now. Most of the customs of marriage are predicated upon people being young and to continue the customs that they were raised under. I just see it as farcical for my 70 year old dad to walk me down the aisle. I see it as legally problematic for 2 homeowners each with unique tax planning issues to marry. I also see fertility blessings (lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:17 PM
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That's not the point. If he wants to date me IRL, but not when age is visible, that means I'm statistically missing out on a lot of people I would get along with IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:02 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:53 PM
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Not in the Cloud City system. Closer to Coruscant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:42 PM
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I'm working my ass off in terms of the "warm approach" and creating an environment like that. The problem is the age range. Most single people in the dating world are 20s/30s or 50s/60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:24 PM
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Except most singles spaces are 20s-30s and I'm too old for like a 35 or 36 year old to date if they want kids. I've come up with nothing from the church. Guys my age are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:22 PM
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I've been dieting for the past 6 months and the problem is with how long it takes to lose the weight. It's also aging related and concrete problems with the process of getting older.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:12 PM
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Not yet, but I've been working on it. I know I'm fat again and have to get down to BMI 18/19. The problem is that I have aging to deal with on top of that deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:07 PM
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I'm short and prefer short men just fyi. Apps are mandatory now though. I mean I work my ass off in looksmaxxing but will be filtered out by 90% due to my age so I'm hoping to have success in IRL dating. Or just give up and focus on other things. I don't have enough RAM on my phone for an inessential app though. Guys I meet that I click with my age are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:35 PM
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It's mandatory now. I mean I hit the wall (age 40) during the pandemic and guys no longer approach in public so I'm trying to work hard in terms of looksmaxxing. But I've been told that guys have actually stopped approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:32 PM
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I deeply despise and am creeped out by OLD and posted my rationale in a recent top level thread on this sub. Part of the reason I hate OLD is because it requires age disclosure. Guys who would've been interested IRL, when guys still approached in public, would filter out my age. I prefer younger men, because I'm more developmentally immature than most women my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:24 PM
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The problem is she isn't looking for anything long term. If I was still dating, I would be looking for traditional / religious marriage. Very different game and guys like that are all married by my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:15 PM
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I'm in my mid 40s, single "career" female, and live in a VHCOL where nobody can afford to move out by 25 or 30. It's not just a rural thing. I also live in a place that is a #1 target for Popular Hot Girls to move to after graduation so there is a 7:1 female to male ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:59 PM
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Am I the only post wall woman who doesn't use dating apps at all because they require age disclosure and I automatically get filtered out? I match with guys IRL in social experiences that I would never match with on the apps because I'm 40+. How should I navigate this, using both blue and red pill approaches, now that dating on the apps is required?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:56 PM
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I'm 43 and live in VHCOL, and the majority of guys run like HELL when they hear my age and that I'm still childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:35 PM
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Ok. I'll date the 62 year old who doesn't text me back.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/24 08:39 PM
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How much harder can I work? I don't have infinite time to spend at the gym and at social mixers. I'm pushing to the limits of my abilities.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/24 03:28 PM
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The problem is that guys my age all have teenage or 20 something kids and don't want to go through the baby and toddler stages at this point in the game. I'm also biologically much older than most 43 year olds because I had my period at 6. Biologically, I'm around 50.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/24 02:44 PM
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Of course. I'm a woman over 40 and I'll never find love. That's a fait accompli.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/24 02:40 PM
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Yes. My dad encouraged me to be masculine af and so did my mom. My mom knew nothing about femininity. I'm 43f and will never get a boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/24 12:10 PM
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I mean I got to see nude paintings at the Met, but I had to be home at 6 pm for dinner.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/24 02:28 AM
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Well the people around me in the city certainly lived in fear. I can only speak from my perspective. Most people live with their parents forever too. Parents often cry when girls move out before marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/24 01:33 AM
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First of all I went to a school that didn't have dorms, and second of all Asian / immigrant parents finding out that you had premarital or underage sex usually leads to physical assault.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/24 11:50 PM
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My peer group was 90% or more working class and there was a force and push toward upward mobility from their immigrant and low income parents. If your friends grew up upper middle class and stayed in the same socioeconomic stratum there was a sense of relaxation. Not so with my peer group in college.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/24 11:14 PM
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Most men here in NYC reject me in favor of party girls, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:55 PM
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Antimodern, religious in some ways, a life of service to others and not lived for myself, a humble life without technology or luxuries.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/24 04:48 PM
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I don't know how to access the system in Canada if I'm in NYC. I want 5 kids, and am too old to have them naturally. Ideally, I would have 5 of my own and 5 adopted. But that would cost half a million dollars in IVF and adoption fees. Well I mean no guy is going to marry me, and a kid needs both a mom and a dad. So
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/24 04:23 PM
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$75K minimum per child and I want 5 like everyone else in the trad / religious community?
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/24 04:16 PM
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yep. of course
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/24 04:05 PM
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I am in my 40s and never had a chance. I've never got to become a mom or a wife just because life didn't pan out that way. I'm planning to leave the dating market because it's just not going to happen and focus on living a trad life as a permanently single person.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/24 03:35 PM
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No, I don't care. I'm a Xennial and idgaf how they vote. Most guys who would date me are far, far to the left of where I am anyway because I'm a post wall mentally ill female.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:07 PM
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I eat other foods too, like cabbages and carrots boiled with the beans. Since we squirrels are omnivores, I also eat sardines.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:12 PM
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I use a pressure cooker for dry beans. What can I say? I'm lower, lower middle class and can't randomly give out $20s or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:09 PM
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Uh, if he likes hobo style cans of beans simmered over a bonfire in my apartment that is a 100 step + walk up and legendary talez of UseNet and IRC, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:01 PM
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Yeah. Most dating guides say that 28-32 is the hardest age of people to date. 40+, according to these guides, is the time when most people on the market are divorced, have had kids, and no longer want marriage - regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:37 PM
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The Christian "trad" revival among the younger generation seems to be making men better and more responsible. Like a multiracial Nation of Islam, its causing the dissolute guys who "don't want to pay child support" or "hate their baby mama" to become more responsible men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:42 PM
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Normal women can and should get married earlier. I would've been an albatross in a relationship in my 20s or 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:17 PM
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I don't actually have a solution because since I'm autistic, most mentally ill people simply don't have enough insight to live a smooth life until they're my age anyway. I wouldn't have been a good wife or parent in my 20s. My parents were abusive to me and they had me young . They were normal not autistic btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:08 PM
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That's me!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:17 AM
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Yeah this is what everybody says. I'm never going to be able to find a partner whose willing to have kids with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:17 AM
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I'm over 40 and have never been married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:14 AM
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That's the point I don't have a hot body. I wish I was a butterface at least. I dreamed of my wedding day my whole life and it never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:12 AM
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Following.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 03:29 AM
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Thanks. I get openly rejected by guys for fertility reasons or approached by the childfree marriagefree open relationships trifecta. I am that "traditional girl" who considers ones wedding day to be the most important day of your life. Unfortunately I was throttled away from that because of my psychiatric history and my professionals wanting to preserve the ability for my parents to take guardianship or to go on Medicaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:24 AM
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I'm ugly and have shit tier genetics so I work my ass off to make it to a 4 or 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:11 AM
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I wasn't financially or emotionally ready to even consider it until recently. It is what it is. I'm also autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:23 AM
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What if they're willing to go the distance to have kids? I'm 43 and I'm willing to go through Hell and back to get pregnant. I'm surprised there aren't any age infertile people on this sub who never had an opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:59 PM
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💯, and I'm looking for the white dress and church wedding experience where my 70 year old parents walk me down the aisle, and I'd like to have a couple of kids. Meanwhile the guys who are open to women my age have grown and flown kids and don't want to go through the infant toddler stages again. Xennials and Late Millennial guys are also the least religious, and trads are all younger than me. While I go born again from an atheist upbringing, most guys my age are exploring atheism. Lots of my gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:02 PM
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Speaking as a literal, 40+ post wall woman, the men that I match with are universally over the age of 55. I'm not pretty, in any way shape or form, but I work my ass off in terms of exercise and diet. I'm an ugly nerd, let's face it. The majority of guys who are my looxmatch or whatever smoke heavy weed, drink heavy whisky / alcohol and all of them smoke cigarettes. Like, guys who are my looksmatch laugh when they find out I'm religious. Because everyone my age religious is married, the only guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:49 PM
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My parents don't even seem to have anything in common. They had a semi arranged marriage. I see them as an example of what not to do.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/24 07:39 PM
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Yeah, see this is why I disregard men who make over 60K because I don't give social value. I will never get to marry a guy that makes over 28K and here's why. The only group of men who would be attracted to my skill set is low income. I feel I look normal but am not the kind of female who would attract male commitment both in my culture and interracially. I'm rejected by family for being special needs in the 80s because mental health is stigmatized. My job is not interesting nor does it have any…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/24 01:49 PM
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I'm 42 and it's not an issue until they get close enough to find out my age because I will never ever ever be able to have healthy kids. This is usually by the time I've known them for several months. I don't know I'm clockable as 40+ and am trying to find out the answer to this. I mostly date men 28-35.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/24 03:34 AM
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Look for any cookbooks that say Easy, College, or For Dummies. Watch Cooking shows on TV.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/24 09:04 PM
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He doesn't have to be religious or even believe in God, I know most men aren't. I was raised atheist and my dad is still atheist. He just has to be ok with me raising the kids fundamentalist rather than modernist and with respecting my specific views on contraception, IVF, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 03:03 AM
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I want to be a step mom to young kids under 18, but every guy whose age appropriate for me is an empty nester. I want to churn out kids as fast as possible and as many as possible. I Don't really care about my body.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 02:57 AM
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I would try to breastfeed as little as possible so that I space births as close as possible. Yes, I would prefer intellectually disabled, physically disabled, medically fragile and autistic kids because I know how to deal with kids like me more. I would absolutely not be spacing births every 2-3 years. I want to bang out kids as fast as possible and possibly destroy my body. The man doesn't have to be religious as long as he's fine with me raising the kids fundamentalist and against the modern w…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 02:56 AM
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I want as many kids as possible (around 6, 7 if that happens) and I want special needs kids. I'm not going to date guys in their 20s either. Honestly my main issue is shallow. I maintain a certain level of fitness and most guys my age don't meet that. I also don't want guys with a long sexual history.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/24 11:54 AM
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I'm 43 and definitely not fertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:17 AM
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No they don't, Im in my 40s, went to a full segregation sped school where everyone has an IEP, and most of the people aged very poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:04 PM
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I went to a full segregation special Ed school and in my experience, neurodivergent people age very poorly and a lot of its our meds causing obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:57 AM
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Yeah I look like shit and am in my mid 40s there's no bouncing back and even the phraseology mommy makeover doesn't work for me because I never got to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:48 AM
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I'm Fat, old and ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:24 PM
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Is Ameba music like a musical instrument store ? It can't just be famous for CDs lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:22 PM
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Wtf people ski naked
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:20 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:29 PM
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Yeah I would never ever date a guy that lived in Manhattan because I'm ugly as sin. My parents raised me to be like : You get in to work, and you leave when work is over. I cant understand how fugtards and old fucks like me can tolerate living there at all, like I've met fat people born in the projecrs or shelter there FYI, I'm 40+ and working class people usually become ugly at age 30. Only rich people age well and idk why.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:37 AM
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I hate being born in a city. I wish I was around more people who were on my level ugliness wise. Instead I can't date either males or females here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:32 AM
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Yeah, sounds like Stockton is where I belong if I ever went to California.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:29 AM
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I would stand out as even uglier somewhere like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:28 AM
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I know now that I can never be the step mother that I've always wanted to be.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/24 03:47 AM
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My roommates have never really expressed concerns about me like that though. And I've never gotten to live alone. Agreed. I will never get to have a boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/24 03:42 AM
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I don't make a lot of money but guys have done this to me because I have a bachelor's, so I lie and say I have "some college" and imply that I never graduated. Most guys I like aren't college grads.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 12:49 PM
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Yeah I'm also 41f and have encountered one guy hiding his wife and ghosting me on a date, and another guy being high on LSD while driving and lying to me about that.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 10:32 PM
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Well, zero men pursue me, so I am always the one chasing.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 04:22 AM
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Im trying to be more accepting of guys with a BMI over 40 who have more than 50% grey hair. Let's face it I'm 40+ and fat.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 04:20 AM
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I know it's hard but try to get your own place because your mom sounds toxic. Maybe go to some church groups that have like minded folks who are opposed to stuff like gender ideology, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 09:33 PM
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Thanks for your comments. Listen, I'm 41 so I'm infertile, a psycho, and low income. I found out Guy 1 lied to me about his age and is 62, and guy 3 has only fucked men so far. Because my value as a human being is so low, I have no other choices. Of course I have no other league. The only other choice he honestly is for me to marry a guy who needs US citizenship and then he'll leave me for someone who can have kids.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 04:11 AM
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No this guy is not the "one". He's a good friend but not husband material.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 02:39 AM
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Your major has no bearing on how feminine you are. I took a free aero class on EdX a few years ago and it was great fun. If you dress Emo that's different and could be something that could be toned down as you get older.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/24 02:01 PM
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That's great. Yeah with my maturity level 5 years younger is perfect. Should I just set my profile as do not want kids even though being infertile due to my age and mental illness has been a hard row for me to hoe?
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 10:58 PM
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Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 04:04 PM
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I was raised in a conservative immigrant home but I have a severe psychiatric disability and was excluded from the trad matchmaking market because of it. The neurodiversity friendly dating market where I live heavily pushes hookup culture, polyamory, childfree, bisexuality, and other things I disagree with. Men will date (duck) but not marry a SMI woman. This is because I live in one of the worlds deepest blue cities. I'm also becoming religious and I face some opprobrium for it. I'm too old to …
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 02:43 PM
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Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 01:03 PM
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I'm not super hot. The range that I actually look like is different from my chronological age to the point where I'm legitimately concerned that the 55 year old would be labeled a pedo for going out with me. Outside of dating sites and stuff, people clock me as 28-32. This is problematic, because a 28-32 yo is fertile. And I'm not.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 12:32 PM
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Look. I was diagnosed 39 years ago, forced into 13 years of sped, and have attended every Early Intervention since my diagnosis. I've tried every medication including ones that made me gain weight, lactate, get violent, sleep 20 hours and can't move my hand. In terms of alternative treatments, I got up every 3 hours for oral chelation in high school and took bleach enemas. I've done the GFCF diet, every single special diet and attended DAN! And CAN!. I have severe violent autism and wasn't able …
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 12:30 PM
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My dating range is 34-48. Not 55 no offense unless he looks super young.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 12:26 PM
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I am 41 and face the same issues especially with 100% of men who are willing to date women my age who lead with their age, being completely anathema to a "marriage or baby trap".
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 11:41 AM
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Yep. But those subs aren't worth my time, afaik. One door opens and another closes.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 11:40 AM
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High functioning Autistic men are terrified of my violent tantrumming, which I can't control even after having been diagnosed for 39 years and taken 13 years of fully segregated special Ed. They also get angry that I can't speak everyday. Most autistic men at my severity level can't and don't work. I've worked f/t since full eligibility and p/t since age 11, am a homeowner, and have traveled out of state to work due to a special interest in money.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 11:38 AM
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Aspergers men are terrified of my tantrums and normal men are far more tolerant especially if they're weed heads. I actually find potheads and alternative types (Goths, Hippies, Rastas) to be the most tolerant of my problems, although I don't take pot or any drugs.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 11:30 AM
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He does make jokes at the expense of my social class but I pass as a higher SES due to the model minority stereotype.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 11:29 AM
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I have to lead with my age on dating apps and they would crash things on my phone that I actually need. I meet people through friends and IRL social groups. Your league is whatever people like you and there is no way a better man would consent to being with a psycho retard like me. I can't use apps because the guys who ask me out IRL, without knowing my age, are much higher quality, but I have to tell them my age. The 3 guys I have on the list, they know my age and I led with my age. I know I ca…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 11:14 AM
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Splinter skills and special interests. I got a foreclosure because I was banned from renting a full apt due to my income being crap. People sometimes scream at me in the street that I lived with my parents, and doctors were shocked that I lived independently in my 30s. I don't come off as someone who can live independently and I struggle with gait, mannerisms, and seem extremely extremely "slow".
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 09:50 AM
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I donate plasma for extra money and tried to earn referral bucks by getting this guy in the door.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 04:52 AM
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I have severe autism. Of course I'm not a high value woman. I shouldn't even be in the free world or be able to rent my own apartment or work.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 04:14 AM
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I can't identify triggers and I dont think they even have triggers. Not everyone's autism is level 1. I was severe enough to be diagnosed at age 2 in the 1980s. Severe autism exists. I punch my head so hard that I throw up blood, and I'm 40. I can't speak every day. Again not every autism is mild. I was told I would never be independent or go to college. Not everyone masks.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 04:12 AM
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I like guy 3 but he doesn't like me because I'm not ideologically pure enough and it's getting to me. He's the only one that's close to my age, he's 39 and I don't want to date an older guy because my former boyfriend is deceased. I've done everything I can for my mental illness which was categorized as severe autism when I was younger. Every medication every therapy and I gave myself bleach enemas. If 13 years of segregated special Ed can't fix me nothing can. I was diagnosed 39 years ago.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 03:54 AM
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I like guy 1, it's only the fact that he drives while high which can be physically dangerous. Guy 2 is younger, looks younger and surprisingly has a lot of useful skills in terms of repairs to the house which I'm trying to learn. He has a low body count.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 02:53 AM
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I am able to tell if someone is smarter or dumber than average by talking to them for several weeks, behavioral observation and asking several questions (not standardized test style questions). I did this to vet carpenters last weekend for my new home, which is a fixer upper. The LSD incident involved a time when I was in the car with him. He still takes LSD in his 50s. As for what I'm good at. I bring a deep knowledge of taxes to the table, basic Python, cook from scratch, repair clothing, furn…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 02:50 AM
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I wish I could have 5-8 kids because thats the number I see among "bigger families" here in NYC.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 01:49 AM
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I said they moved from Bronx to Queens, I never mentioned Long Island.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 09:30 PM
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Downs is a spectrum and most of them are high functioning. I'm childhood labeled autistic and knew folks with downs in my school, many are doing fine. They're usually more successful than autists in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:36 PM
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His wife was working off the books when they started renting the apartment so they got in under the 40 times rent rule. When they started having kids the cost was covered by his HMO plan. She stayed at home so they didn't have to pay a babysitter. I think her sister is also involved with watching the kids. As the kids got older she started selling water bottles behind the building when it got hot outside. A more normal couple is my friend and his wife who make 90K altogether and have 8 kids, 6 b…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 03:22 PM
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Well I mean most people here aren't rich. I don't think they realize how non normative their experiences are.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 03:15 PM
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I'm 41 and all the guys I meet are toxic. The drug thing is very common and divorced guys are 60+, not 40+. My dating age range is like 34-47
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 11:45 AM
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I was raised in NYC on under 40K a year total family income and my former neighbor (also in NYC aka dead city Babylon) made 28K as a payables clerk in 2014 and had a stay at home wife and 4 kids. His wife wasn't allowed to work because she didn't have papers.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 11:19 AM
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HSV 1 isn't an STD, most people get that from old people kissing babies. HSV 2 is an STD.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/24 02:22 PM
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According to the advice I heard in the 90s, come and go isn't good, but basically everyone I know who didn't marry super early does the come and go thing and the kids seem fine.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 07:11 PM
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It's modes of subsistence. Much of Africa and Asia isn't as deeply postindustrial as the west yet. In another sense, you have the aeons of the mother, the father and the child, and in the new Aquarian era individualism reigns supreme. Most of China is just starting to reach a 50% divorce rate like the US did in the 90s, blue states first, then red states. Same with parts of India. NYC and the other areas that were the first to have gay marriage and transgender for children are going to be leader…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 06:57 PM
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The dominant pattern I see here in NYC is similar to the matrilineal minority cultures of the world, which is that women raise children with their parents and brothers, and men come and go. That's what female breadwinner implies. The majority of people I know that will talk to me about sex are heavily into polyamory, which is going to be the next fight after transgender rights is today and gay marriage was in my day. Everyone I know IRL including people who had trad upbringings in immigrant fami…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 06:35 PM
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Facts! Less than 0.01% of men can pay rent on a 2 bedroom in NYC or SF. I knew a guy who had a literal heart attack trying to buy US Citizenship for his in laws. It's crazy AF out there. Most women are breadwinners or else most families would be in the shelter system for life.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 12:58 AM
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No woman in my family has ever been a SAHM after the Chinese revolution in the 1940s gave women legal rights. Before 1911, betabux existed because women didn't legally exist as citizens. But now it's not a thing anymore in the East or the West except among the very richest. We've become the men our grandmother's wanted to marry. Language like "first approximation", "causal fork" and "ceteris paribus" seem to be female only language and it doesn't matter the cultural background or religion. Most …
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 12:36 AM
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Yeah I would drop that guy to friend zone real quick. Seriously crack is wack
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 09:04 PM
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Cocaine?!? You gotta get out of there.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 06:12 AM
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1, and I'm 40+
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 12:40 PM
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In my experience they're baffled by why it's so low. I thought they would be impressed but I'm crestfallen that they aren't.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 03:55 AM
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I'm in the same boat. I'm in my early 40s and my body count is 1. Location is NYC and men I like get angry when they find out my age. Men who hit on me look 70-80 and are obese.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 03:25 PM
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Separately. They have a different value system from people here. They're old school 3rd world people that are used to it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 12:35 AM
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My mom solo travels for months at a time and my dad doesn't care because he does it too. I don't see the logic either.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/23 02:05 PM
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You said, through richer and through poorer. Eventually your husband is going to get another job. Just cool it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/23 02:04 PM
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Somebody mentioned East Asia already, but there's a different history there because of governments trying to prevent competition from religious orders. In the US, it's understood that traditional usually means religious or spiritual. The phrase Judeo Christian values is bandied about, though it could be any religion. It's very hard to date and to find someone with traditional values in America who isn't conventionally religious. I'm raised East Asia atheist in the US in a first line city and I w…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/23 09:42 PM
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Id like to know what options are out there here for women who can't compete in the marriage market because of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:17 PM
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I think it's legit and I also agree with don't stick it in crazy. I was labeled with (level 2) autism and forced segregated special Ed growing up, and almost everyone in my school was on antipsychotics. Most I guess neurotypicals won't date me or their parents won't let them date me (I'm Asian, so more familial and collectivist) because of that, even though I haven't had an IEP since I was 18. At the same time, a grown adult with the same kind of history who still takes Ritalin, Risperdal and go…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:35 PM
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I'm childhood labeled autistic too and almost everyone in my special Ed school was on heavy antipsychotics. However, if you don't take them now, as a normal adult, I don't think it matters and it's the same as being put on Ritalin as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:30 PM
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Sex is a part of marriage not traditionally of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:27 PM
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Lots of people do this and they check their spouses phone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:25 PM
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This legit happened to my 46 yo cousin around a decade ago and is the reason why my mom told me never to date rich men. When they do this, they have a whole separate wife, kids, and house. Maybe 12 years ago, a friend of a friend had an affair and he hid his love child for a long time because his wife had infertility and she would be pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:20 PM
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You know how it is, see the problem is I'm also frugal, and most men here in vhcol prefer high maintenance women. I'm not FI I'm frugal because my income is low. Moreover, TRP says I shouldn't have more financial knowledge than my husband. But what he doesn't know, like what a K1 is, won't hurt him. Once it starts getting warmer and I close on the apartment, I'm going to daygame more in the park.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/23 04:09 AM
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That makes a lot of sense. Btw have I seen you in frugal groups on this app before?
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/23 07:51 AM
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My roommate has this and it's called a special needs trust. Most childhood diagnosed autistics have this started at age 18. The only reason I don't have one as a childhood labeled autistic, is because my family is trad Asian and "anti welfare". OP needs to work off the books maybe at a bar or restaurant, a tipped job is besg. cash the checks at check cashing and store money in a safe. That way she can save up enough to move out.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/23 04:27 AM
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Marriage is something I've valued for a long time, even symbolically and anthropologically. I feel like a complete failure for never attaining this
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 12:45 PM
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Yeah it sounded weird to me when my friends brought that up.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 02:02 AM
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I mean I'm theoretically ok with sex if we're like engaged or long term going steady, but I don't want to fornicate like meaning sex in a non exclusive or short term relationship, or before we've known each other for several months at least. I'm not like a hard core trad cath. But sex on the 3rd date as people have been pushing, frankly horrifies me that it's the pushed, norm.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 02:00 AM
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I've been in a relationship before and my body count is 1. It didn't work out for many reasons, but I don't have like, 5 evil exes or anything like that.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 01:57 AM
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Idk. Just exploring my options.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 07:45 PM
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It could be where she lives or who she knows.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 07:06 PM
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Yeah it seems like a bad situation
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 06:29 PM
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Well it was a thing in NYC, including kids in my school and others excused from sex Ed in HS health class. It was nonreligious because I knew Muslims, Jews, Buddhists, across the board who were into purity culture We didn't really have the balls, but people did pledges and rings.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 06:29 PM
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I mean 30 year olds are peak value for baby making skills. Genetically, the best age to have a kid is 25-32, not 18-21. Maybe as low as 22 and as high as 35 for some people. 18-21 you're still in school for most people. And that's not the rationalization hamster either, that's borne out statistically by PubMed statistics on fewer healthy births in teen moms.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 05:43 PM
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I mean it's not even that. I understand that total virginity isn't possible for some because of divorce, but I mean a divorcee or widow would still have a body count of 1 or 2. It's not like everyone my age has a crazy body count or "had their fun". People who want to consolidate on beta after their party years do it between 28-35, not 40-45. And, in my northeastern context, 50+ is easier because of divorce and empty nesters..
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 05:40 PM
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25+ and 40+ are very very different. I mean there's hook up culture that some youth participate in but they try to get serious by 25-35. 35 is the deadline in NYC it seems. There's still an emphasis on long term at 25-35, but after 35, that's no longer the case. In fact I don't know what is even expected of a single person at my age. That's why I posted this question to this forum. I know commitment isn't appropriate at my age but living and dying alone in old age sucks, at least imo.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 05:23 PM
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In the early 2000s, I knew secular people who used lingo like "courtship not dating". I actually thought it was a Korean meme more than anything. Also this covers my experience in the 2010s while employed and hearing locker room talk percolate through my job. We laughed at people who were known to turn off porn as soon as someone passed by their desk.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 05:21 PM
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I know that. That's why I'm researching polycules and what it takes. My friends great granddad was in a polycule in Hong Kong in the 50s and it was blasted as sexist af by the 70s. sadly it seems to be getting insanely popular in America ffs.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 04:43 PM
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I can see this happening unfortunately. The bad crowd is growing. It's normal to be pure at ages 18-20. Don't rush into sex it's not worth it
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 04:43 PM
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I knew they existed, but there was a stigma in my particular peer group at the time because we were business majors and focused on money and power to the exclusion of sex.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 04:42 PM
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I had no idea it went back to the 1980s. I didn't grow up in a specific immigrant community like the LES or whatever and I went to public college. My friends in public college, where I was a business major, agreed on this point that both boys and girls should strive to remain pure. This is across the board culturally and ethnically. It didn't matter what nationality your parents were. I have friends of all ethnicities and it was common to all of us just like girls having earlier curfews than guy…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 04:38 PM
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People just don't put their settings that high (I'm 40) and it just clutters up my phone making Duolingo slow. That's why I'm moving toward daygame and social circle game.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 11:51 AM
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You're right. I'm gonna use social circle game and broaden my horizons I do not need a man that makes 40K and up.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 07:22 PM
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I took a bus there I was talking about within Connecticut. I was trying to go to the CVS but there was no crosswalks within 2 miles.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 02:16 PM
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I can't get a driver's license for a health related reason. The last time I walked in Connecticut I almost got hit.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:39 PM
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Ok thanks
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:13 PM
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This guy is a bum.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 01:20 AM
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Following. I am 40 and trying to get back out there.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 10:13 PM
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I'm in my early 40s and when I get into my relationship I'll be in my mid to late 40s. That isn't just geriatric, that's super geriatric with a trisomy rate above 95%. I didn't know that. My parents told me that most adults stop thinking about sex at that age. In their generation the average age of marriage was 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:54 PM
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Agreed. I'm an asshole because my boyfriend died and I'm 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:20 PM
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Dude this is true af. I'm too old for kids and once a guy finds out my age, I'm dropped like a hot potato once it's discovered that I'm not into casual sex. I've had so many people try to goad me into a "poly unicorn" situation or push poly on me. It's a constant barrage and 90% of the attention I receive from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:12 PM
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Bullshit. Guys sometimes express interest, but as soon as my age is revealed they realize I'm a pump and dump. Fwiw, my boyfriend died, we didn't break up. I'm a pump and dump because of fertility. That's the main value that relationships and marriage add. It would be farcical if I had a traditional Christian wedding where the minister said I would be open to life, or if someone said to me may you be the parent to thousands and tens of thousands, as in the Old Testament. And I'm against geriatri…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:09 PM
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Body count. Nobody says n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:52 PM
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100% of men and women talk about body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:51 PM
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This is pure rationalization hamster as a beta male..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:51 PM
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Whoa, hold your horses. Rich people fuck a whole lot more. What do you think Trump's body count is lmao? Hes always fucking celebrities so by association his body count goes up by 1000 every time he fucks someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:48 PM
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Kim K made Kanye take 30 showers after dating Amber Rose, whom she considered a slut. In retaliation, Amber Rose held a Slut Walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:47 PM
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Yes oral counts toward your body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:46 PM
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Is this possible to hangout in an open and mixed gender space such as a mall food court? Usually the issue is seclusion in an enclosed space.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 01:09 PM
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Yeah my friend was being stupid because he married his wife when she was 45 and had 4 older teens and they were only able to have one more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:48 PM
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I knew the massive nursing and home attendant industry recruiting both foreign and domestic would have an effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:52 AM
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Ok so I guess my original intuition is correct and there are more single women than single men now that were in our 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:07 AM
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. Lots of kids aren't allowed to date under their parents roof so 35+ and single isn't uncommon at least I don't think
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:01 PM
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You just said what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:49 PM
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For 20 year olds. That's less common after age 35. I think it's a 50/50 shot so guys want proven fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:22 PM
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May I ask If they married after 35 or before? The people who married before, tend not to have stepchildren. The people who married after almost always have a stepchild in the mix
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:26 PM
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Well wouldn't it be proof that she can have kids so that means they can continue to have more kids. I also constantly hear men say stuff like "you're not my kids", and so forth to children they're with. Moreover, the same is true for women. Most women over 35 also marry men with kids, but the father tends not to have custody so the same issues aren't present.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:19 PM
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The reason I'm saying this is that more than 75% of men I know who got married after age 35 in NYC married a woman with kids already and vice versa for women marrying men with kids This is across the board in terms of ethnicity, local vs transplant, etc. My friend from college is 39 and his stepson is 25. Meanwhile when it comes to a woman who doesn't have kids most men want an FWB or polyamory unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:14 PM
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My guess is that shes NYC born and has trouble finding Cantonese guys, and is being swarmed by fobby Mandarin guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:30 AM
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It could be dialect . I know that folks who only date Cantonese people can have it harder. Or it could just be NYC, because people who engage with multi racial GenPop also have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:25 AM
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Stop doing this. Date men who make in your income range. There are lots of dudes who have a bachelors. If money is burning a hole in ur pocket go to coding bootcamp. Most people do NOT get plastic surgery before age 50, or ever. It's considered unusual and a bit off-putting at your age or even my age.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 06:38 PM
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Yeah exactly i think all religions are valid personally and the same is true with the elephant and the blind men as I'm a perennialist.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 11:35 PM
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That's actually awesome that such men exist in NYC but I never met anyone who has a SAHW unless theyre on an H1B Visa and their wife legally can't work or they run a small business together as a family. In my culture, the grandparents raise the children. That's why so many people send their kids back to their country until it's time for kindegarten. Dudes like my dad, take pride in their wife's outworking and out earning them. To my mom .. SAHM is seen as a spoiled and soft life like the Real Ho…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 11:01 PM
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I mean it is a majority view and I was only giving him as one example. People come here to consoom, to be among the best of the best, to party. My parents explicitly told me they came to NYC so I can work at "Goldman" and make "500k".
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 10:28 PM
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Tried that, attending Taoist services in the LES with my coworkers in my early 30s. But I wasn't raised in it unlike most ppl, so much is unfamiliar and I fell off. Both my parents and I were born and raised atheist, my parents grew up in a strictly communist province. So any religion, would be different. My ex was a Western Buddhist, allegedly curious about the Eastern tradition and also raised atheist. We disagreed about sexual ethics, prolife, filial piety, devotions, guilt. I saw the 1969 We…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 09:43 PM
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Well obviously they don't all want a super model or Miss America but most guys will call me out as a cheapo and are disgusted by that
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 09:30 PM
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Well he called me undateable because I'm cheap and he says NYC men want a woman who is high maintenance
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 09:06 PM
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Yes, it would be nice to meet someone like that, but in NYC it's different.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 09:06 PM
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Yeah I thought so. My life is in utter disarray right now, but I'll try to make the schlep to a few singles bars in Downtown Jamaica and East Bronx so I can branch swing.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 09:02 PM
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Yes I'm going to go to groups that aren't explicitly Evangelical or Christian, but which are influenced, such as Quakers and the like. Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 11:20 AM
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You're right religious people are a niche group. The reason I can't convert is because my family pushes feminism and I have firstborn son future ritual responsibilities in traditional (non Christian) funerary rites for my parents. I don't fully understand the regulations of instruction Plane Compertum in Christianity yet and dont want to throw this honor and responsibility away for personal gain. I believe in collective conversion to religions and believe individuals converting without family ca…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 01:51 AM
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Family, livelihood, grew up here. All my friends are here. Fear of gun violence in Philly and Baltimore esp in first floor rowhouse since they don't have coops condos in my price range. I feel protected by our total gun ban. That's why I choose high floor walkup apts bc I don't want a bullet to ricochet into the first floor window. As for why I'm considering hanging out with religious people. My married friend told me I'm undateable and have to "go Evangelical" because I don't want to fork withi…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 01:34 AM
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My prole Asian mother raised me communist style feminist and dressed me in D2 Discount and ABC discount. She told me academic achievement first and then marriage will come. Sadly, she still believes this and we live in the VHCOL, most harsh dating market in America. Fortunately I rebelled against going to graduate school because men don't like women with grad degrees unless they're a sugar mama. Then I read the column Sex and the City in the New York Observer and saw how nicely other people, dre…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/23 03:48 PM
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No cannabis, LSD cocaine or heroin smoking on my property. No motorcycles unless he is a food delivery professional. Do not wear t shirts with fetish content. If I find out he's a dealer or prostitute or find gang insignia and drug paraphernalia that's a hard next. Those are dealbreakers for a man.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 06:37 PM
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It makes it very hard for me to make sense of it as a childhood diagnosed autistic over age 35.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/22 06:52 PM
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