Hi folks, right now I have 3 prospective guys who are interested in dating and I'm not socially astute enough to vet guys.

As you know, I'm severe/moderate autistic (I've had the cops called on me for violent public tantrumming after age 30) 41, Asian, leaning toward Christianity, low body count and never partied.

Basically the problem is these guys have a high body count, party past and often a drug past beyond just weed.

Guy 1: 55 looks 70 military contractor. He's super nice but had admitted he took LSD before driving. Formerly a dead beat dad and his exwife is in Africa where he used to live. His 22/24 sons run wild, circles around him. Believes

Meditation would protect him from gun violence. High body count and used to be a swinger but says he's a changed man.

Makes 100k and doesn't save a penny. Openly said to me that he doesn't know how to save money. Meanwhile i executed my first trade within a month of my 18th birthday. Highest income lowest IQ.

Guy 2: 48, looks normal, regular low income dude, similar cultural background to me, makes sarcastic borderline racist classist jokes but says it's a joke. I introduced him to my plasma clinic and he filmed a lurid tik Tok inside revealing secrets of the plasma clinic, that's kinda ducked up.

He says he uses the money for beer. Which I'm against, I use it for bills. Extensive history of the rave party scene and has driven interstate often to attend a rave party. Second highest IQ.

Guy 3: 39, I don't think he's interested in me anymore because I said something that caused him to call me a republican. Typical tradesman I grew up with. He got extremely involved in a political party called the black flags or the white flags and now has difficulty speaking without quoting anarchosocialist gurus such as Bakunin(?). I said I'm a liberal but he got frustrated because liberal means conservative. Highest IQ of the group.

Which guy should I move forward with? The only one that makes over $50,000 or has kids is Guy 1 but the drug thing frightens me. Guys 2/3 don't seem to have any sexual or drug history.

Have any folks on this forum dated a dude with a drug or sexual past that you're trying to ignore? What are your thoughts on this matter?

People think a psychiatric history is the same as a drug or sexual one. Thing is we can't choose our psych past but druggies choose to do drugs.