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This happens ALL THE TIME. The only way out is to have higher ad longer term aspirations for your success with women and learn to let go of outcome. And if its lack of action on your part that's causing this frustration then you know what you gotta do to fix that.
/r/seduction31/05/14 09:53 PM
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At this point you've probably set the frame as you always initiating, so she probably won't do it knowing that you will. That's generally how women go about this in my experience. Stopping talking to her all together or demanding that she initiate more probably won't work too well but try it for reference if you want.
/r/seduction31/05/14 09:52 PM
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Don't feel like you're work is done and you should stop when you get one in a day, I got 4 last time I went out and I highly doubt any of them will lead anywhere. When you go out a lot you realize how many numbers you need to actually get a date
/r/seduction31/05/14 09:50 PM
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To clarify just a bit, you reward her when you both emotionally and cognitively feel that she should get a little something extra. No point system bullshit like "she deepthroated so I'll buy her fuzzy socks" bullshit
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 01:56 AM
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Edit your number out! Not good to have that on the internet
/r/seduction18/02/14 12:48 AM
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Considering that most guys don't even go out, I consider any success to be awesome. No need to judge.
/r/seduction17/02/14 06:28 AM
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I've been told that I speak seductively in Spanish. Here's what I take away from that: *Slow with pauses is good (I'm not a skilled speaker but know all the grammar) *Don't ramble, look at the other person and expect them to contribute *Be direct (I'm not skilled enough to be indirect)
/r/seduction11/02/14 01:58 AM
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This is actually significantly less to remember than a routine or pattern from old school game... that's the point of this video
/r/seduction11/02/14 01:54 AM
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She's probably one of those girls who plays games with you. I'm a sucker for girls like that. You eventually have to just caveman her and be really direct with your intentions, like asking her out in person for a specified time/place. But seriously don't fuck around the workplace
/r/seduction04/02/14 04:21 PM
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This is pretty much me, same ages and everything but only 2 year chode period instead of 4. Keep on pimping
/r/seduction04/02/14 04:19 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3Z4Nq0OrrM best source out there
/r/seduction04/02/14 04:17 PM
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Of the two girls who have called me dude more than any others, one was lesbian and one desperately wanted to hook up.
/r/seduction04/02/14 04:17 PM
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IME, this is spot on
/r/seduction04/02/14 04:16 PM
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The two biggest things are consistent practice and learning to control your emotions (in my experience). Consistent practice is straightforward, you do it or you don't Emotional control is a whole nother beast to tackle. All kinds of factors, like abundance, meditation, financial stability, exercise, diet, etc come into play.
/r/seduction04/02/14 04:15 PM
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Best post ever on this sub in my 18 months here I love how the insanity of this isn't an excuse, but motivation to go harder and harder in the game, and you defined that brilliantly
/r/seduction04/02/14 04:12 PM
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Ok my policy is don't treat the gym like a daygame venue, but if you feel the overwhelming need to approach then just do it... With some precautions. By this I mean only approach if she is in between sets or exercises, open indirect and have a ~30 second conversation unless she is super super engaged. Then continue working out. As long as you don't bomb it, you can say hi to her whenever you see her from then on, make more small talk when you get the chance, and progressively have better convers…
/r/seduction28/01/14 01:13 AM
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I talk these in this old seddit post: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1qi48a/physicality_the_closest_thing_to_a_magic_pill/
/r/seduction21/01/14 06:02 AM
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Those are for if you notice that you're making girls uncomfortable (they look scared or surprised). For example, girls in Seattle get a lot more defensive than girls in Pheonix, for some reason. If you don't need do to that though, no need. Most guys these days agree that being clear with your intent (direct) is the best way to go. You say "you caught my eye cause you're so damn cute, I hope there's substance to you too" or something related. Yeah, you get rejections this way, but lots of girls …
/r/seduction20/01/14 02:08 AM
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You have to be CONSTANTLY doing little things to make sure that the whole group is engaged. Jeffy from RSD said that he used to play a game with bootcamp students in which they would all make a circle with raised hands, and each student would lower their hand slowly, while one person was pretending to game the set. Whenever he acknowledged a person, they would raise their hand back up and start lowering it again. If anyone's arm got all the way down, he failed. Point being, you have to be dealin…
/r/seduction20/01/14 02:03 AM
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Nice! Just be glad that you did your pickup and don't get down on yourself if she doesn't get back to you. You never know which numbers are receptive. I don't even remember the interaction with my current girlfriend, but she pushed to see me again and things went really well since then. Meanwhile, I just got rejected by a girl who I thought I had one of the best connections with. Girls can be totally unpredictable.
/r/seduction20/01/14 01:55 AM
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If it's in public and a bit out of place to approach her, you can use a statement of empathy (ex. I don't normally do this, but... OR I know this is unusual but I just had to tell you...) If its at a party then anything like "you girls look fun," OR "you girls look BORED," works, depending on whether they look fun or bored. Its more important that you open STRONG, unwavering eye contact and no shame, but you also don't want to make girls uncomfortable during the day, so little things like those …
/r/seduction20/01/14 01:51 AM
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My go for anything text related is the Adventure Test. I think I made this up myself, you ask "Scale of 1-10 how adventurous are you?" She will say either 10 or 11, almost guaranteed (I use this a lot and have only gotten 1 answer below 10), and generally I use this to go right into asking her on a date, but in this case you can ask her why she is a 10, what adventures she's had lately, etc. If this doesn't get her talking then she's either really preoccupied with what she's doing IRL or plain b…
/r/seduction20/01/14 01:46 AM
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Ideally, I'd say just kiss her, but this isn't the most brilliant approach, and I can empathize since I was in this situation a couple of months back. Here's what you do: So obviously it needs to happen this next date, any longer and you've locked in the frame of taking things slooow. I'm guessing that's not what you want. Anyways, here is what I did in my similar situation. Picked her up and drove her to my friend's house (was better for logistics). I actually met her parents and talked to them…
/r/seduction20/01/14 01:41 AM
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It took me like SIX MONTHS but it was consistent progress from there
/r/seduction18/01/14 01:17 AM
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Second one was supposed to be adventurous
/r/seduction18/01/14 01:16 AM
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I agree, that line of my comment was meant as in "if you're REALLY gonna time your responses perfectly to try to get the best possible response instead of just answering as you please"
/r/seduction14/01/14 02:30 AM
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Well its certainly easier when girls believe "it was fate" or "it just happened"
/r/seduction13/01/14 03:51 AM
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http://harem.manwhore.org/login This app is literally designed for this purpose, it's pretty hardcore and probably over the top unless you're pulling new girls consistently though.
/r/seduction13/01/14 03:50 AM
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There's literally dozens of ways to do this. Here's a few: *Spin Kiss routine *Say "wait," then kiss her *Triangular gaze *Oldschool "Do you want to kiss me?" (if she says maybe, say "let's find out" and go) *"How good of a kisser are you on a scale of 1-10?" *"Do you consider yourself spontaneous? (regardless of response) How about spontaneous (guaranteed yes)?" then kiss *Or just man up and do it when the moment feels right
/r/seduction13/01/14 03:44 AM
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I agree with 90% of this, except that in my experience hotties don't give a shit how long it takes you to reply UNLESS they are already both attracted and invested in you (this is true for text game in general). Like if you respond in either 30 seconds or 5 minutes it doesn't make a difference, but flat out ignoring texts for several hours to days sometimes gets her more interested if you really want to play with her emotions like that
/r/seduction13/01/14 03:36 AM
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As an 18 year old, I'm scared of this too to be honest. My girlfriend hits me up almost daily on text or snapchat (not so much anymore actually, mostly in the first month of us dating), I indulge in it since its clearly not needy, neither of us gives a shit if we take hours to respond or sends unrelated snaps. I have friends who text short novels back and forth with their girls though, or skype/facetime for 2 hours a night, I dunno if its just my friends or if its normal for people this age. Eit…
/r/seduction13/01/14 03:28 AM
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I did a long post on this, mostly on the initial stages: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1qi48a/physicality_the_closest_thing_to_a_magic_pill/ I've improved a lot since I wrote it, so I'll point out that once you're in isolation with the girl you want to physically escalate as fast as reasonably possible (while still enjoying the moment of course!). Do one of the described kiss techniques or just kiss her, continue into making out, then either start grabbing her in a dominating (firm,…
/r/seduction08/01/14 04:02 AM
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Ask her out. Or talk to her and do just about anything from this subreddit.
/r/seduction07/01/14 04:49 AM
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Yeah 6 months in I got a sexy nonexclusive girlfriend who pounces me the instant we are alone, but that's after mountains of failure, inadequacy, friendzones, and the occasional makeout. Hang in there bro. If it was easy, everyone would be good at it
/r/seduction07/01/14 04:47 AM
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I totally resonate with this, I just wrote a similar post a few days ago. Its on emphasizing Trust vs. Arousal with different girls http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1ucsig/arousal_vs_trust_girls/
/r/seduction07/01/14 04:42 AM
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Search "Dr Destruction" Its at least 99% rejection and some of the funniest videos you will ever see
/r/seduction06/01/14 04:38 AM
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Yeah, this fool had a bad reputation from year one of high school (we're seniors now) and tried/failed to hook up with EVERY decent girl in our class freshmen year. Someone he never lost his momentum and sophomore year he started getting a lot of girls. Its not like he's attractive, I distinctly remember girls calling him "significantly below average" and the bad reputation certainly didn't help either. The police were called for sexual harassment in one instance for fuck's sake. Anyways, eventu…
/r/seduction06/01/14 04:35 AM
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That's interesting, I've never been with a virgin so I wouldn't know. I suppose that I virgins into that category without much consideration
/r/seduction04/01/14 07:05 AM
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Creepily close but no!
/r/seduction04/01/14 12:43 AM
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Agreed, I worded that poorly haha
/r/seduction29/12/13 07:10 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x27wabHGCac A shit ton of footage from the pros packed into one hour. Not going to learn the technicalities from this, but more of what a really successful guy is subcommunicating
/r/seduction29/12/13 04:15 PM
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The vast majority of the time this is not a good idea.
/r/seduction29/12/13 04:13 PM
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Ironically, if you're exclusive I'd say you should be taking turns paying.
/r/seduction29/12/13 04:12 PM
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Don't know why this was downvoted, good advice my RSD brother
/r/seduction29/12/13 04:09 PM
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I do lots of work with my best friend who is pretty much a natural. He wings better than me but I've learned a lot from him, so I'll explain some of the stuff we do: Pumping girls' states while explicitly making it nonsexual. This means choding yourself out sometimes, but to an extent you can easily recover from. Occupying the friends! Everyone in the interaction needs to be having fun, and that can be hard to accomplish while gaming one girl. If your friend is occupying the whole group, you can…
/r/seduction29/12/13 04:07 PM
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Its a shit test and more or less a good thing, since this one shows she's interested. As long as you don't jump through her hoop and start supplicating her after she said it. Saving compliments (you get me so horny, I can't get enough of your ass) for the bedroom has worked well for me
/r/seduction29/12/13 03:54 PM
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Also, I just remembered my bread and butter for texting girls that you aren't sure are into you: Scale of 1-10 how adventurous are you? I pretty much use this on every girl for setting up a first date. Every girl will either say 11 or 10 in my experience, and from there you can set up really wacky/fun dates that range from suburban makeshift golf with whiffle balls to iceskating. Longer post of mine on this idea here: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1sch80/adventure_will_get_you_dates…
/r/seduction29/12/13 03:51 PM
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Yup, here's a link to three text conversations from my FR thread that I've had over the last two weeks. Disclaimer, on both of these I already had quite a bit of comfort and attraction on these girls IN REAL LIFE (I'm too young for online game), the texting was just to lead to having a meetup. Example one and two are towards the bottom of this page: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/431418/forum?page=11 In the first example, the girl was obsessed with me all week but flaked on the actual date becaus…
/r/seduction29/12/13 03:46 PM
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I'm a senior in high school, and I think are important but getting your game locked down is so much more critical. I have a girlfriend right now but its nonexclusive so I can get still play the game, this is optimal in high school since you are able to grow SO MUCH in these years. I'll go through my reasoning for the pros and cons of having a girlfriend as opposed to trying to hook up with lots of girls: So first focus on improving your game, either through cold approach or meeting new people at…
/r/seduction29/12/13 03:34 PM
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Just plan on showing interest first. IF the girl decides she will, that's cool, but as a man you by no means need to wait for her to do so before you do. And blunt answers aren't that uncommon if you've just cold approached someone, it generally takes a couple minutes to hit the hook point when she actually opens up
/r/seduction12/12/13 11:48 PM
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First of all I admit that I explained that poorly. Its actually more of a secluded area that's rumored to be haunted, and has a high up railroad bridge and the whole area is covered in fog. There's a shack too though. But it does come down to how you frame it, I don't seem like a rapey guy and its clear that its an edgy activity that we can get through TOGETHER. Framing that you and the girl are on a team is a concept for another post, though
/r/seduction10/12/13 12:42 AM
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That's just one example, in that case there's a train bridge that's the selling feature to that spot and not the house itself. The point was more of the idea of adventure, like I said going to a playground or park ends up being great as long as you self amuse.
/r/seduction08/12/13 05:12 AM
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literally none of the ideas that I posted cost a penny. In fact, if it costs money than its probably less adventurous.
/r/seduction08/12/13 02:00 AM
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Its really easy. I only have two places for this, one is an abandoned (turns out its not abandoned though, adding to the thrill) train bridge, the other is a hill to hit whiffle golf balls onto this parking lot. If nothing else, going to a play structure or swings is killer, like I said. Easy to be physical and have fun with each other.
/r/seduction08/12/13 01:59 AM
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I know about qualification and this wasn't meant to be a detailed post on the topic but rather a single useful technique I've found. That's why in my post I say that I wouldn't use this in real life and that there are better things to say... I was alluding to qualification like what you described in your example.
/r/seduction07/12/13 11:27 PM
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Yup, was and still is key to killing anxiety and taking a positive/social view of the world
/r/seduction07/12/13 10:59 PM
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I most definitely will my man, I'll stay sluggin in out in the PNW rain til then.
/r/seduction07/12/13 10:49 PM
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Sup Mamba its Waffler
/r/seduction07/12/13 10:28 PM
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only way this works in my experiences is to freeze her out for a couple months and then, when you're reconnecting to her, act the new you. Otherwise yeah I'd say you're fucked unless she's desperate and has had some secret crush on for months, which is true maybe 5% of the time.
/r/seduction07/12/13 10:27 PM
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18M. I have a casual noncommited girlfriend that I'm happy with so no response... But in the months leading up to that, it was mostly because I wasn't meeting a wide enough range of girls to find one that we could share experiences without getting clinging or jealous. You gotta meet a LOT of girls to find one whose on board with your life if you're not willing to settle for less.
/r/seduction07/12/13 10:22 PM
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This will be buried but fuck it. I get what the OP is saying, I really do as I've been in that position before and get that feeling from time to time. But this is NOT the best course of action to actually get that girl, its the best course of action to quit wasting your time and get a solid yes or no answer. And granted, that yes or no answer is probably what you need in that situation. But to really get that girl, you should go up to her and START A CONVERSATION. You can literally talk for two …
/r/seduction14/11/13 12:47 AM
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Thanks! I felt this sub needs more concrete material, as important as inner game is.
/r/seduction14/11/13 12:35 AM
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Most of the time, yes (I can think of a lot of times I do it with girls I am platonic friends with too as a nonsexual comfort thing). Also, didn't want to say this in the post to scare others off, but I'm 17 and girls my age do best if you show your intent in a flirty playful way (while still being grounded and pretty direct). Obviously a 30 year old woman is going to expect you to be a lot more direct.
/r/seduction14/11/13 12:34 AM
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Unless something is seriously off she will be fine with all those things. Touching her leg, knee, or any longterm contact could definitly be uncallibrated though.
/r/seduction14/11/13 12:30 AM
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Honestly its the opposite in my experience. If you're having fun and giving off the right vibes than this works 99% (its literally failed once in 6+ months). I wouldn't do more than one per interaction though, I mention them a lot because its pretty integrated into my game, so I'll do it one way or another. Doesn't actually mean I do each one of these things with every girl, note even close
/r/seduction14/11/13 12:28 AM
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Check out RSDnation videos, or google Tyler Digest and read through that. Those are more practical and complex, but Models by Mark Manson is good simple theory too.
/r/seduction01/11/13 03:37 AM
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Fuck the haters. The comments really enforce the idea that Reddit is a bunch of basement dwellers. The one comment "why would you want to make out with women in a bar" hit the nail on the head...this is too far outside their realities, unfortunately. You owned your life and kicked anxiety in the balls. Thanks for sharing your story!
/r/seduction01/11/13 03:34 AM
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It makes your sex drive and desire so high that you will just end up showing sexuality and sexual intent without forcing it or being creepy, at least in my case. When I did NoFap I did better with girls than ever before.
/r/seduction21/10/13 10:41 PM
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Do NoFap for at least a week and you'll naturally start showing some serious intent. After a while of this you'll get the feel for what it's like. Some other tips (this one is tough, it is somewhat subtle and abstract) are to not shy away from sexual topics. Also, do NOT NOT NOT be judgmental about ANYTHING sexual...besides rape. Do not be ashamed of your own sexuality but don't just throw it out there, let there be a hint of mystery.
/r/seduction21/10/13 03:46 AM
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"females do not experience the same level of desire" its too bad some people really believe this
/r/seduction21/10/13 03:41 AM
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Sure, read the original comment
/r/seduction18/10/13 11:41 PM
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3,2,1, go
/r/seduction18/10/13 11:38 PM
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It doesn't matter, just completely own whatever thing you go as. Like if you are Santa Claus you better be the jolliest motherfucker in the building, and be throwing in Santa's lap or you've been naught jokes every so often. If you're a clown say some goofy shit too.
/r/seduction18/10/13 11:38 PM
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This is out there but go approach WITH HER WATCHING. I've done this and it helps. It helps put you in the mindset that yes, this girl is right here. But there are sooo many other girls out there too!
/r/seduction18/10/13 11:35 PM
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Imagine how you feel after doing it. If you would feel good after doing it (regardless of outcome) then you're making excuses not to
/r/seduction18/10/13 11:32 PM
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Would you prefer that he does a fake voice? That's just how he is, man.
/r/seduction18/10/13 11:31 PM
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Fucking yes. I hope this makes this community more open minded about RSD. They encourage a lot of different styles, the only common thread is the total core confidence that is inner game. Yeah, some of their instructors are the sleezy bang girls in cars kind of guys (which I personally don't have a problem with) but among the guys in that video, Todd (black vneck black hair, the one they said was boring) is pretty much about finding the best possible women to have relationships with. Then you ha…
/r/seduction18/10/13 11:30 PM
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Hey man fellow 17 year old here. I can tell you from personally experience its hard as hell to get comfortable doing this yourself. Once you are its not so bad, I personally have to restrict myself sometimes now. The thing is, if you aren't doing it from the start it is creepier and creepier when you DO start. But hey, you gotta start somewhere. So one of the easiest things is to touch her shoulder for impact when you say impactful things, or when you are about to tell her in particular somethin…
/r/seduction06/10/13 09:47 PM
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Just switch off date by date unless one of you is considerably wealthier than the other. With my last girlfriend I paid since there was that financial gap, but that's not my normal policy. Whatever you do, don't make a big fucking deal out of it.
/r/seduction06/10/13 09:36 PM
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Dude my armpits last maybe 10 minutes before being pitted out every single day. I really hadn't even thought about it til seeing this post, don't worry about it and no one else will. But then again if its awful and irritating then yeah, get Robinul or whatever
/r/seduction06/10/13 09:35 PM
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Honestly I don't want her to be thinking at all, but rather totally engrossed in me and the present moment. Then when it's all over she can sit back and think something along the lines of "holy shit that guy... so fun ... let's do that again"
/r/seduction06/10/13 09:33 PM
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Blue Waffles, my favorite type
/r/seduction06/10/13 09:32 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuzOWmqGevw Tyler's 6 Steps to a Consistently Killer Night Also, idk if he mentions this in this particular video, but reading your post you NEED to be pushing your comfort zone. Destroying it, actually. Also, focus on always BABY STEPPING the interaction further and further instead of getting laid... and you will get laid more
/r/seduction06/10/13 09:31 PM
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Two? That's a hell of a lot better than most of us did on our first try.
/r/seduction06/10/13 09:27 PM
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God damn I needed this, very clarifying and informative. We need more posts like this brother
/r/seduction30/09/13 12:00 AM
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I'm 17 and yes you are making excuses
/r/seduction29/09/13 11:58 PM
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"I'm hard to put a leash on," or "I wouldn't want to make anyone jealous" is the stuff I like
/r/seduction29/09/13 11:57 PM
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Type in RSDJulien hotseat on youtube and prepare to have your mind blown. I'll post it for your convenience. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU
/r/seduction09/09/13 01:51 AM
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In a nutshell I liked a girl, knew game but never practiced, didn't seize the moment, could have gotten somewhere, actually started game and ignored her as to not distract actually learning game. Learned game and just saw her again. Its different now and I deeply want to try with her and see if a relationship could work but I'm scared its just as a reason for easy sex instead of a genuine relationship. I should just shut that voice in my head up and go one way or the other. For you I would say j…
/r/seduction29/08/13 02:28 AM
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Ugghh I feel you, I am in a similar situation but without the shitty history so much. I am pretty sure the right answer for both of us is to shut that needy voice in our heads up, remember abundance, and move on. Or just push really hard and don't give a fuck if it fails.
/r/seduction28/08/13 02:49 AM
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"They best are psychotic and delusional" -Jeff Allen Also, self confidence comes from within and is generally inexplicable, while ego (bad) is logical and fucks you up by seeking validation for itself and not taking risks
/r/seduction28/08/13 12:26 AM
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I have not done too much dancefloor but in my experience talking is pointless and trying to get her to leave is stupid too
/r/seduction28/08/13 12:23 AM
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Hey buddy, good job, I remember my first approach too. I can't help with formatting but I'll tell you not to actually read so deep into every interaction, its better to just have lots of interactions (and I mean LOTS) so that you have a shit ton of reference experiences rather than a couple experiences that you think you understand. The truth is you don't know what's going on until you do this a lot, and even then it's not always clear.
/r/seduction26/08/13 04:02 AM
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I am sorry but fuck this. Just go talk to girls, having a crutch like this is just an excuse to sit on your ass at home
/r/seduction26/08/13 03:57 AM
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Yeah I tend to get into shit that I shouldn't so I can see why you say that... still works most the time
/r/seduction24/08/13 04:53 PM
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Eh your opinion but I don't think taking an insult seriously would help you in any way, I would not really even acknowledge it or agree and amplify to make it clear it into a joke instead of getting butthurt over it
/r/seduction24/08/13 03:37 AM
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Set the bar lower for what you talk about, there are no restrictions to conversation and I can have fun talking about "what if squid was the third gender" with a girl while some other dude is blowing himself out trying to steer the conversation onto something blatantly sexual. Also: the statements not questions thing is BOMB
/r/seduction23/08/13 05:11 PM
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Yeah do not even try to deal with her using logic. The best advice I ever heard when dealing with this shit is: Change her mood, not her mind
/r/seduction23/08/13 05:09 PM
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Same as a shit test
/r/seduction23/08/13 05:04 PM
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No more I TALK TO THIS GIRL WHAT DO threads, read the sidebar and actually get a grip on this stuff
/r/seduction23/08/13 05:03 PM
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He's self amusing and drawing women into his awesome reality, it works for him but it would not work for everyone
/r/seduction23/08/13 05:01 PM
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All I have to say is "Bust open like the Kool-Aid Man"
/r/seduction22/08/13 04:40 PM
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This is the kind of thing that you absolutely need real life experience in
/r/seduction22/08/13 04:38 PM
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Treat her like you would any other girl, she isn't some princess that requires a hidden technique. But to be practical, talk to her outside of class, get her number, hang out, don't be a chode.
/r/seduction22/08/13 03:35 AM
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Sidebar! Especially Above the Game, its in the process of being turned into a novel. Also, once you read the sidebar (or concurrently), you have to go out and meet new girls instead of trying to run you new game on, say, Jen at work, or whoever. Emphasis on the GOING OUT AND MEETING NEW WOMEN part. Sitting in this sub wont help you for shit in the long run.
/r/seduction22/08/13 03:33 AM
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Bro it's one girl, you can't get all caught up on one girl. Go have 5 qualities conversations with girls you have never talked to before and THEN go talk to her, if you are still interested. There is nothing special about this one particular girl so don't put her on a pedestal. You can't do anything special to guarantee you win her over, but you might as well strike up a conversation and see where things go
/r/seduction22/08/13 03:31 AM
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How about you talk to a new girl in person? And maybe communicate man to woman instead of horny boy to sex doll?
/r/seduction22/08/13 03:28 AM
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to each his own
/r/seduction20/08/13 09:04 PM
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This one is intense and long but the best I have seen: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/491939?#comment-1123578 SimplePickup is silly and appeals to the youtube masses but I like watching a video before going out, I wish I saw it sooner
/r/seduction20/08/13 02:17 PM
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Honestly I found his 3 rules of attraction more useful since its simple and I could actually remember and internalize them. http://www.bradbranson.com/if-this-is-a-game-why-not-use-cheat-codes-easy-techniques-to-build-attraction/
/r/seduction20/08/13 02:09 PM
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The thing is, if you are on a 5 year dry spell you need to start living differently to expect any results. I can relate, I was on a 2 year dry spell even after obsessively reading Seddit and RSD for months until I started taking action and changing my mentalities. I started getting results without changing my appearance at all (I think I am in a similar situation as you as far as looks go, just started fixing that). Once you start changing things in your life (ESPECIALLY diet and exercise, I wis…
/r/seduction20/08/13 12:42 AM
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Good job man, I don't see why you are all negative about this, that ended up better than the majority of my approaches (and probably yours too). It doesn't matter that you missed the opportunity to say those details about your life, now you have more to talk about next time. Interactions can look horrible on paper but actually go pretty well, since there is so much sub-communication in interactions that cannot quite be described, like what probably happened here
/r/seduction20/08/13 12:35 AM
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This is tough, I tried to explain in to a girl and probably sounded like an idiot, I would honestly say you need to know some inner-game or seduction mindset stuff before being able to comprehend that
/r/seduction20/08/13 12:27 AM
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This sounds like some serious potential one-itus, talk to 5-10 girls before her, hell go do some approaches sometime before the party, so you are in the abundance mentality and already warmed up
/r/seduction20/08/13 12:25 AM
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Yeah but it's very situational questions (ex. how do I make this girl in my class like me?), I got into this stuff as a junior in High School, trust me this sub gives you enough info to show you the way
/r/seduction20/08/13 12:22 AM
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Its great to see some guys who don't hate RSD in here
/r/seduction19/08/13 05:10 AM
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This is straight out of the book Sex God Method, which is worth the read and available for free if you google it
/r/seduction19/08/13 05:09 AM
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If it means that much I would actually say you should transfer. My cousin goes there and makes it sound like sexuality is repressed like the middle east.
/r/seduction19/08/13 05:07 AM
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My biggest rule is don't take girls from my friends who don't have abundance. Among those of us who are all capable of pulling its open season.
/r/seduction16/08/13 05:45 PM
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I somewhat agree, but if they see you have a great cold approach it wakes something up in guys. That's how I got a couple of my friends interested in it, they saw me go from 0 to kissing a girl while laughing at me up until the kiss and then thought it was the coolest shit ever. Since lots of people have seen SimplePickup or some sort of video of guys doing this, but can't believe it can be real, when they see it for real it just clicks.
/r/seduction16/08/13 05:40 PM
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There is no such thing as luck
/r/seduction16/08/13 05:33 PM
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This sounds like a total shit test to me
/r/seduction16/08/13 05:28 PM
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You can tool the shit out of ANYONE, like holding down bigger guys and giving them nougies. Or you can say things like "Yeah man, I hope you like it, I wore it to impress YOU" if you get shit from other guys.
/r/seduction13/08/13 01:57 AM
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Do the same type of things, do not physically escalate. Touch is still alright in my experience but escalating forces her to either reciprocate or reject your advances, and if you want her as a friend you should not be making advances like that.
/r/seduction13/08/13 01:52 AM
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I live in Beaverton but would sarge in Portland, I do not have a preference as to where more specifically than that at the moment. Are you gonna be in college?
/r/seduction05/08/13 05:31 AM
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God damn all us young pimps live too far away
/r/seduction05/08/13 04:03 AM
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Inner game cannot literally be observed, its like the wind in that it certainly exists and has its effects although it has no form in itself. What it is is the confidence, mentality, and habits that drive every interaction with females. Inner game is mostly built up from reference experience, although knowledge and mentalities adapted from reading material can help to some extent. Outer game is a reflection of one's inner game, which also mixes in conscious or sub-conscious "techniques." For exa…
/r/seduction05/08/13 12:29 AM
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