Hey guys, here's an old FR that I was inspired to post here due to something that I'll mention at the end. It's one of my favorite moments in pickup, not because of my own success, but because it changed a man's LIFE ultimately. Reality destroyed.

To preface, this was back in July and I was in Spain for foreign exchange. I'd taken three years of Spanish at the time and am far from fluent, and this interaction was 100% in Spanish. Also, I'm 17 and this stuff 100% works for people my age, so you young players have NO excuse!

Wednesday, I go shopping and make up American names for the Spanish guys since they tell us Spanish girls love Americans. I assume we will be doing daygame. This is not exactly the case, at least not for them. Sometimes I forget that not everyone is half as deep into pickup as I am, and that most guys have never cold approached a woman.

No one approaches anyone, they talk about the lack of hot girls (not true, although for me there is a lack of approachable girls although still several), I try to game a group of 4 hotties that walk into the small shop we are in but they decide to leave at the same time as we arrive. Hola, oh shit really, pues, adios.

More choding around BUT a few minutes before we have to go I spy a beauty from behind on the other side of the stairs in the plaza. Ask if anyone wants to approach with me, preferably a girl. No one. I say ok I will go solo and do it. I don't know if they think I am serious.

As I go, I hear laughter behind me. Someone yells "Tus unas," my nails. They are painted red, the color of passion and one of Spain's colors. I felt like letting some girl paint them the day before, to set myself apart from the thousands of other boring tourists.

As I'm making the 60 second trek up the stairs and over to her, she turns around for a second and I notice how damn hot this girl is. Easily top 3 I've ever approached, solid 9 or above if you want to judge her on looks, which just motivates me further.

Approach face to face with hola, then proceed to fucking ask what city this is. I don't know why... Thinking in the moment... I assume I figured I can only put together chode sentences so i might as well say the cheesiest thing possible. She giggles, I don't react, say oh, I am from America and lost.

I take control of the interaction and immediately change the subject, asking what she is doing here, she says waiting for her friend to go on the metro, I say I am waiting for the metro with my group, then point and look at the twenty plus people in my foreign exchange group.

Oh... They are all watching me... Every. Single. One. Never before... Forget it and go on talking. PLOW. Tell her I came to talk to her since she was alone and my friends are boring and too scared to come with me. Say I can't help it when I see a pretty girl.

She asks for my name, we exchange, names. I tell her that she has the same name as this girl from my group, "la guapa del grupo." Oh wait holy shit she is watching. Oh my.

We continue to talk, she asks where my girlfriend is (everyone in Spain has a damn boy/girlfriend!) and I tell her I am too young to have only one woman in my life. She giggles and says she is single too.

I let her see and touch my red nails, how can I not? Turns out Mystery is a genius for always having his nails black, this girl loves them (and every other girl I met during my weeks there had the same reaction). She asks how I am so brave for approaching her and not even knowing Spanish well, I shrug it off saying I am here for adventure and would be dissapointed if I didn't meet her.

I tell her to come talk to my group for the last 5 minutes we have, she says "no..." I say (translation) "ohhh, ok let's go." She eagerly agrees. SHIT TEST TOO EZ, just shows that girls want you to assert yourself and will put up token resistance.

As I start moving to lead her over I notice my legs are shaking. I don't feel nervous but have never been so nervous... all of my program is watching. So much pressure but holy shit I am pulling in front of everyone.

I introduce her to my boys and the girl I've been hitting on, continue to interact with her personally. Our tour guide is says that she is my Spain girlfriend, and everyone says to get her number. She eagerly starts to take out her phone but I don't have mine with me, its back in America. She looks sad about it.

I hear that its time to go, people take pics and everyone cheers when I kiss her goodbye. The cheering was pretty chode, what I did was essentially warm up or practice (that did go very well).

Yes, I got props for the rest of the trip and became a little guru for the guys wanting advice. It was actually pretty irritating, I had trouble explaining in Spanish that there was no big secret to seduction, you just have to be confident and genuine.

But that's not what really matters. One guy on the trip, the host brother of another American, was totally blown away. He told me we are going to do that again, approaching he means. The next two weeks we did indeed do some approaches, they generally went very well and I almost got laid but fucked it up largely due to alcohol.

Anyways, this guy was very much an AFC before. Had shittons of porn, called girls bitches, didn't even try talking to hot girls, didn't dance at parties, etc. Well the wheels started turning for him.

I went back to America and stayed in touch with this guy. He told me he started approaching in the city, I told him to practice and "fuck ego."

Fuck ego became his mantra he said, and he started approaching regularly. Yesterday he texted me, we talked and it turns out he has two fuckbuddies from cold approach now. I told him it looks like he has surpassed me, but he refuses to believe it. He told me that day changed his life, and that I showed him the possibilities he was missing.

Wow. All from a single approach. So never, ever make an excuse not to just go say hi. You never know what great impact you could have on the girl, or a third party. At times it can be the hardest thing in the world to approach, but ultimately it is the most rewarding action that a man can take.

And like I told this guy, fuck ego!