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Even the toilet got stuck
/r/RedPillWives19/05/25 10:33 PM
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I’m sorry girl, but how do you get horny for a guy who leaves his literal shit in the toilet for you to clean up?
/r/RedPillWives19/05/25 10:29 PM
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Erectile dysfunction, which means a man has trouble becoming hard or staying hard for sexual activities.
/r/RedPillWives20/04/25 11:49 AM
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This is a space for women, not for men to explore their fantasies
/r/RedPillWives18/04/25 11:27 PM
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St John's wort interacts with some birth controls
/r/RedPillWives25/09/24 12:45 AM
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I really think this is a futile endeavor. Whenever he gets caught at something, he knows he can put the blame on you for 'not being fun.' When the reality is that his interactions with her are baseline 'more fun' because none of them include children screeching in the background. And/or it's just a stupid excuse he's learned works on you because it's something you identify with
/r/RedPillWives30/07/24 09:28 PM
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Read Fascinating Womanhood. Lots of excellent tips there. Accept 'bids' from him. Laugh at his jokes. If you wouldn't normally and you feel dumb, do it anyway. Over time it may become natural. If you are scrolling on your phone and he talks to you, turn off the screen and look at him. Gaze into his eyes while he talks and think about what he is saying, rather than waiting for him to pause so you can say something. Try to get yourself into a good mood. When you are doing chores, put on uplifting …
/r/RedPillWives30/07/24 08:58 PM
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She's honestly probably not a better personality than you, it's just that in marriage you have to tackle real life problems together like bills, child rearing, and household management. Some other person outside the marriage seems more fun because you never have to do boring or unpleasant things with them. He will always have an excuse as to why it's "ok" for him to reach out to her. You could try to be any person and he can claim someone else is xyz
/r/RedPillWives30/07/24 08:35 PM
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He should not be calling you "stupid." It's not super clear to me whether he's doing so in the heat of the moment or when you guys are not actively arguing and just having a conversation about the way you argue. The first thing you need to do is get your reaction under control so that when you do approach him about the style of arguing you do, you will look less of a hypocrite. Think about what the issue is and be specific and genuine. This is an idea of a direction you could take at a moment wh…
/r/RedPillWives12/07/24 07:02 AM
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Also fillers are not for young people. You are at the height of your natural beauty. We are now finding out that fillers can stay in the body much longer than advertised and they can also travel to areas where they are not wanted. I think you should endeavor not to use tiktok at all because social media seems to be putting silly ideas into your head
/r/RedPillWives27/06/24 09:08 AM
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3L of water is actually quite too much. Do you work outdoors? What is leading you to want to drink so much water? If you are that thirsty you may ask your Dr about diabetes
/r/RedPillWives27/06/24 09:06 AM
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The best contribution you can make in this sub is serving as an example want not to do. You have destroyed your marriage and forever altered the love your husband had for you. He will never love or cherish you the same way he did and the direction the growth of your love would have taken is lost as well. And how are you able to love and respect a man willing to accept such a disgusting transgression against himself? Seems you consider him worthy of such disrespect and he agrees with you
/r/RedPillWives14/06/24 09:05 PM
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I don't know what you were trying to accomplish by calling my comment unhelpful? The entire premise of your post is a joke
/r/RedPillWives14/06/24 08:50 PM
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Cheating on your husband wasn't very helpful to your marriage either
/r/RedPillWives14/06/24 08:31 PM
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"Online marriage retreat" to me just sounds like zoom couples therapy
/r/RedPillWives14/06/24 05:42 PM
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I agree that something has been going on with him mentally. Imo, men who hide a disgusting personality reveal themselves when they feel their so is trapped. So I think the start of this rough patch was not him dropping a facade but rather him going through something. Due to it coming along years into marriage. One caveat though, if he is some kind of gambler or grifter at the end of his financial rope that would mean he was hiding that this whole time
/r/RedPillWives11/06/24 08:32 PM
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Because of the format of reddit, it's possible op may not see your comment, as it is collapsed on mobile due to being far down a comment chain. I think you should @ them or make a lot of this its own top level comment I have no notes, I think your perspective is really balanced
/r/RedPillWives11/06/24 08:08 PM
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You don't just "let the relationship go" with your husband. And what if not divorce? Become roommates?
/r/RedPillWives11/06/24 07:21 PM
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If she wanted to be told to get a divorce, she would have posted to r/ relationship advice
/r/RedPillWives11/06/24 07:10 PM
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First of all u/certain_ingenuity_34 don't ever dm me again. If you have something to say or ask, reply in the thread you cretin
/r/RedPillWives28/03/24 09:14 PM
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Was the goal supposed to be marrying a red pill guy?
/r/RedPillWives22/03/24 10:48 AM
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It is just gorgeous, isn't it?? I did have to correct one recipe so far because the page included two methods and I only wanted to save one
/r/RedPillWives15/03/24 11:40 PM
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Right?? It's really embarrassing to me so far showing people in person when they give me a really lukewarm response... Like this revolutionizes dinner
/r/RedPillWives15/03/24 09:42 PM
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The relevance to this subreddit for one
/r/RedPillWives03/03/24 10:12 PM
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Babe r u ok? Because girl, what?
/r/RedPillWives03/03/24 09:03 PM
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Why are you not married after so long?
/r/RedPillWives12/02/24 08:09 PM
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Just look at their post history
/r/RedPillWives29/01/24 05:33 PM
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Don't feed the troll
/r/RedPillWives29/01/24 05:28 PM
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Have you ever considered minding your own business?
/r/RedPillWives05/01/24 10:22 PM
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This subreddit is for women.
/r/RedPillWives30/12/23 06:24 PM
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Just be ready for the repeat offenders to claim it is disgusting and not right, and not real bulgogi.
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 01:02 AM
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No I married a man who is not interested in that sort of thing. I married him for the lifestyle he provides me and part of that lifestyle involves dignity so divorce would absolutely be on the table.
/r/RedPillWives21/12/23 11:27 PM
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I am sorry, I don't know any advice for the "not make it awkward" part. Not sure how your work flow is but if it is possible, I would avoid having one on one conversations. I would make it awkward by saying, "what's on my face, what are you staring at?" I would become less personable with him, keep conversation about work and give curt answers when he tries to talk to you about anything non work related. Even fidget with your ring or examine your nails to drive it home that you are not intereste…
/r/RedPillWives29/11/23 08:59 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/comments/6p13od/being_your_sos_possession/ The connotation of property is very strong. This is why it's very important to quote accurately. It could easily be construed that you set up a strawman expecting the members of this sub to argue for something ridiculous and try to make fools of them
/r/RedPillWives02/11/23 07:59 PM
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I just searched the sub for the word "property" and the most recent post was 2 years ago and irrelevant as the full quote is "Protect us against unfaithful and wicked servants, who neglect and waste our property."
/r/RedPillWives02/11/23 06:45 PM
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The post you are referencing is not recent enough that you can just mention it and anyone will know what you're talking about. In the future linking the post and possibly even quoting it in the body of your post would be much more conducive to discussion
/r/RedPillWives02/11/23 06:41 PM
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Gourds but actually eat them before they get funky. I use table linens to change the look of my space seasonally. They are reusable each year and take up a small amount of space folded away.
/r/RedPillWives12/10/23 10:38 AM
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Child rearing is important and making a home for your family is important. You are an irreplaceable member of your family and each individual member needs you more than any employer will. An occupation outside the home can make you feel purposeful but if you were fired or left, they'd replace you in a heartbeat. Your purpose in molding the next generation is too valuable to even measure. I am not saying this to dissuade you from seeing employment out of the home, it has its own merits. But being…
/r/RedPillWives04/10/23 08:24 PM
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You can do it! Good vibes for you
/r/RedPillWives05/09/23 12:52 AM
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I get mine from the girls' section at Walmart and Target. So much cheaper with cute prints or colors. Would never wear in public but great for doing chores.
/r/RedPillWives17/07/23 07:56 PM
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Someone rude enough to call you lazy is probably not worth the breath but there are ways beside monetary ones to contribute to the household. You work in the home, doing things that would cost money to pay someone else to do. You may have hobbies that contribute to the household like knitting or couponing. Money that would have been spent on those items is saved by you in addition to keeping you happy and occupied. Many women who have had children leave the nest end up contributing to the commun…
/r/RedPillWives27/02/17 07:04 PM
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Yes haha that slamming doors one gets me every time
/r/RedPillWives10/12/16 10:13 PM
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Thick is positive in this instance. Why should she not put on a pretty moderate amount of weight if that is her man's preference?
/r/RedPillWives10/12/16 04:48 PM
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I could see how it would be hard for anyone to work in a place where people debase her for her basic values! Sure debate and discussion can be appropriate for work but it's just awful how certain opinions get you blatant disrespect.
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 03:50 PM
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I favor my left eye so much that it worries me sometimes! Now I can take heart that it's a feminine trait.
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 01:18 PM
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Your cousin may need to be more selective about whom she shares personal information with at work. I have only told some of my coworkers my plans to leave the workforce once my home is paid off... the ones I knew would understand and be supportive. If she drops the issue and her nasty coworkers keep bringing it up, she can remind them that they're not giving her the respect she deserves as a fellow woman. Can she find a partner with similar values? Does she want a large family? If she does she c…
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 01:05 PM
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Neoteny best teny confirmed?
/r/RedPillWives03/12/16 06:08 PM
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Yes!
/r/RedPillWives29/11/16 12:54 AM
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Not the original commenter but COL is Cost of Living
/r/RedPillWives28/11/16 09:24 PM
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And she knows how to judge a good man oh except when they're trying to coerce her to have sex with a painful infection.
/r/RedPillWives23/11/16 11:58 AM
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If you get a bladder infection every time you have sex,, both you and your husband need a good washing and/or holy water.
/r/RedPillWives23/11/16 11:50 AM
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http://heatst.com/world/feminist-snow-plowing-system-brings-stockholm-to-a-standstill/
/r/RedPillWives18/11/16 04:28 PM
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You should check out Andrea Mills on YouTube. She homeschools her 8 children and she makes it work as well as she can. Things to keep in mind and possibly discuss with your husband: There are only so many hours in a day. All tasks done 'satisfactorily,' is much better than half of the tasks done 'perfectly' If you honestly cannot find enough time in the day, you need to streamline the tasks to save time and prioritize the NEEDs over the WANTs. Edit to add example: Maybe you don't have time to si…
/r/RedPillWives02/10/16 11:00 PM
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He likes to use (and misuse) Spanish phrases he learns from me... Every so often, he'll call me a rocket and pick me up, making the most ridiculous blasting notices and astronaut commentary. Makes me scream with laughter every time. We really love puns and word play. One I can think of off the top of my head: he was teasing me, I called him Dictator of Dicksylvania and he said, "well, Dicksylvania is going to have to send an ambassador to Assville" and started grabbing at me (you can deduce exac…
/r/RedPillWives25/09/16 10:05 PM
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While we're on the subject of feet: when I am really incensed, he noticed that my toes spread out. So sometimes when I'm going on about something, he'll check out my feet and crack a joke. "Oh you're not really mad, your toes aren't spread." Or "wow, that lady really pissed you off, look at how far apart your toes are!"
/r/RedPillWives25/09/16 09:52 PM
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Yep. My SO bought a bunch of lemons to make a cold remedy but got over his cold before using them all up. I've got sliced lemons and vanilla simmering in water right now. H-h-h-heaven
/r/RedPillWives25/09/16 05:42 PM
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Stove top potpourri! I think this will fit your needs well! Good luck!
/r/RedPillWives25/09/16 04:37 PM
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I just love it when an rp idea explains something I've encountered in life! It's like a veil has lifted. There is something very manly about ascribing to a sense of duty and sacrificing for the good of society.
/r/RedPillWives23/09/16 02:37 PM
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Your man is likely a Greater Beta To oversimplify, a greater beta has some positive alpha traits and lacks most of the negative ones. He is chock full of positive beta traits and is a partner who is very valuable and easy to get along with. That really is oversimplification, though. Please read the linked post. We can thank the patriarchy for Greater Betas. What motivates and rewards men for creating a strong family unit and being good husbands? Patriarchal society. A feminist society encourages…
/r/RedPillWives23/09/16 01:09 PM
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Yes! I love the adrenaline rush of being chased
/r/RedPillWives23/09/16 12:46 PM
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Depending on what kind if jerk he is being, I will give him space and evaluate what I could be doing to contribute. (Did I make him annoyed, dod something else make him annoyed and what can I do to help?) If he is being a jerk by teasing me, ignoring me or being unappreciative, I react with childlike anger and this usually gets his attention and changes the air to a fun one, rather than me bottling it up and turning sour. He is an alpha in most ways but he loves to laugh so if your guy becomes h…
/r/RedPillWives22/09/16 06:14 PM
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They went from losing themselves in one another to losing their dentures together.
/r/RedPillWives11/09/16 02:16 AM
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Sunday, SUNDAY, Sunday Nsfw
/r/RedPillWives21/08/16 11:22 PM
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oh no! I don't know how you do what you do but kudos on not vomiting yourself after that incident..
/r/RedPillWives16/08/16 10:51 AM
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I am so sorry that I do not have advice for you. I can't imagine the stress of being on different pages on such a touchy issue. I hope this all will work out for you. I could hope that you will make it clear that you are not inviting an argument on the subject, because sometimes explaining your reasons seems like an invitation for a woman to make a million excuses or rationalizations against those reasons. But your relationship is very different from mine so I don't think explaining that you hav…
/r/RedPillWives15/08/16 11:19 PM
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I am more productive in the morning than the evening but I follow much the same routine as you described. I wake up early and either exercise or get right to housework. Scooping kitty boxes, washing dishes, and 1 load of laundry are daily tasks before work. Then I can clean a room and get on with my day. After work, I usually am out of energy so I cook dinner then relax!
/r/RedPillWives13/08/16 10:33 PM
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A lot of younger women fall victim to the 'cool girl' image. They love to say they're 'not like other girls.' They want to be seen and treated as one of the guys. I think it's a shame that feminine personality traits are seen as lesser. When I was younger, I thought I was not pretty enough for feminine things, or too smart to do the things I really wanted. I am not very ambitious career-wise but was a top student. My favorite teacher told me "you don't want to be just a secretary or a housewife.…
/r/RedPillWives13/08/16 10:28 PM
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OMG nice
/r/RedPillWives08/08/16 10:54 PM
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OH no, that's a mess about your macros. I'm glad you have it straightened out now!
/r/RedPillWives08/08/16 10:42 PM
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He was actually lying about what he was spending sing money on. He was taking out money for the ring in chunks hoping I wouldn't notice. When put on the spot he would make something up and say it was for such and such.
/r/RedPillWives08/08/16 08:44 PM
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The good: This week WM offered to help me with chores and I gave him honest 'no's. I feel so on top of the housekeeping schedule. Also, WM told me yesterday that he can see my ankles! I had serious cankles that we used to joke about. Although my weight is hanging around the same number this last week or so, I think that is because I am gaining muscle. The bad: I have a new work schedule that is going to cut in to my internet/reading fun time. The ugly: My stink after going on a 2 hour walk in th…
/r/RedPillWives08/08/16 05:46 PM
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Welcome, welcome! One thing to think about regarding his spending habits... think back to your courtship... he probably took you on dates, bought you gifts from time to time.... You fell in love with a spender! Don't be surprised that after marriage he is still a spender! You may consider a 'household account.' This is where there is a specific checking account you use to pay bills. He deposits an amount you can both agree is reasonable when he gets paid or once a month. That is your money to ta…
/r/RedPillWives08/08/16 05:38 PM
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The most succinct idea of the article is the quote from the former friend: “She seems happy with the dynamic. I have empathy, but I don’t think she needs or wants anybody’s assistance.” Sure, it's not the relationship that some people would want. But she is enjoying it and it is producing incredible results.
/r/RedPillWives07/08/16 07:21 PM
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This is going to be an old story for some of you, and it is definitely not one of which I am proud. There was a stretch of a few months where the checkbook register and the bank statement just weren't adding up. WM couldn't even keep his lies straight. Two Fridays in a row he 'paid his car note.' Lie upon lie were just piling up. I was at my wits end. I was done, at the end of my rope, and told him, sobbing that I just could not live with a man I could not trust. He said he would be right back, …
/r/RedPillWives06/08/16 10:19 PM
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SO EXCITED FOR YOU!
/r/RedPillWives06/08/16 09:48 PM
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I saw msg recently randomly at my grocers. I paid 99c for a 15 oz bottle. I was so surprised to see it just out there.
/r/RedPillWives05/08/16 10:59 PM
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Oh that's golden. Y'all ladies are just full of wisdom, I'm tickled.
/r/RedPillWives05/08/16 03:54 PM
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That sounds like an excellent alternative. Usually when I have asked "what are you thinking/feeling" he says he doesn't know. Then I just get frustrated thinking that he has a wall up because obviously he has to know what's going on in his own head. It goes back to women being like water, and talking freely, heavily influenced by how they feel in a certain moment. Men like to talk about the facts. He wants to straighten out the jumble in his head before saying anything to me. The more I can thin…
/r/RedPillWives05/08/16 09:45 AM
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If you can't make one aspect work for you, then you don't have to denounce the idea entirely. Work on what you can
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 06:07 PM
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If you can make decisions together as a team, then why are you even posting here? I told you to share your input. If you can share your input and he decides on the 'joint decision' what's the problem then?
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 05:39 PM
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No. You can't. You will each fall in love with different houses and your marriage will die on the hill of you thinking "IF HE JUST LOVED ME ENOUGH, HE WOULD LET ME HAVE MY WAY"
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 05:14 PM
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If you're shopping for a house, you can't live in one half the time and the other the other half. You can't paint half the house yellow. You can't live in the city halfway between each of the cities you prefer and both be happy You can tell him what you need, what you prefer, and trust him to make the best decision he can. If he's not a complete degenerate, he will do what is best for BOTH of you, not just thinking of himself.
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 05:09 PM
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He cares about the 'big decisions' as much as you do. Why are you the one who gets the final say?
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 04:59 PM
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Work on your weight. I'm not trying to hurt your feelings here but if you end up dating again, you will have to lose weight to catch a man. So go ahead and lose it. It can help you save your marriage, it's better for your health, you will need to even if you give up on your marriage. Just do it.
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 04:51 PM
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There are things that he is better at than you. There are probably areas in life where you are more knowledgeable than he. But in the gray area, where you both have opinions, he should be reasonable enough to hear you out, and you should be reasonable enough to let him make the final decision. He's not an idiot. When you argue and nag with your husband, he sees that you think of him as incapable. At the end of the day he's probably not going to make an outright BAD decision. Maybe not the best. …
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 04:34 PM
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There is a lot to lose if you don't try anything. What do you lose from trying to see his perspective? A little pride maybe? Some time? Right now it sounds like you're turned off of the idea of the Captain/First Mate. Here's how I see it: you don't think he's worthy to be the head of your family. You thought he was worthy enough to marry and father your children. Why is he not worthy to be the leader of your family? In most of the situations I have witnessed, men just explode and grow into their…
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 04:16 PM
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Frugal Dates: A long walk early in the morning, see the ducks or other local park life. Pack a lunch and eat somewhere interesting, such as somewhere with a lot of foot traffic Look for free events, your city probably has a website or Facebook. Our city regularly holds free concerts and events Free or low cost museums
/r/RedPillWives03/08/16 06:53 PM
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Thank you! I have read the free PDF and found it an excellent resource!
/r/RedPillWives01/08/16 10:46 PM
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Thank you for making an account! The more people joining in, the better the discussions tend to be so I'm glad to see you commenting!
/r/RedPillWives30/07/16 04:59 PM
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Wow it really is an adventure. A few years ago I followed my husband(then boyfriend) halfway across the US and it has been a wild ride. Welcome, welcome, I hope you can post more often!
/r/RedPillWives30/07/16 04:57 PM
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That confused me too. Maybe some traits were just "unfeminine" rather than masculine?
/r/RedPillWives30/07/16 03:40 PM
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That would make a wonderful post! Welcome to the sub
/r/RedPillWives30/07/16 12:12 PM
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Well, if you understand that the generally accepted signs of abuse include things that happen in your own relationship, or appear to happen, you won't be blindsided and have a better understanding of where friends and family are coming from if they ever voice concern. If you can see where they're coming from, you will have a better chance of discussing the issue without damaging your relationship. If you have a full understanding of the accepted picture of abuse, you can point out the ways you d…
/r/RedPillWives30/07/16 12:06 PM
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Your comment covers the most important points relevant to our sub. I found it hard to be interested in the article but it is important to understand how people generally 'look for signs' of abuse. The wheel diagram is a joke, particularly the mention of 'giving an allowance' and 'reporting to welfare' My husband gives me money every time he gets paid. It's a set amount that he decides and adjusts from time to time. I certainly don't feel abused when he's handing over wages for which he toiled in…
/r/RedPillWives29/07/16 09:34 PM
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http://imgur.com/a/YGdPm BRB, gotta look for the 6% of me that doesn't exist
/r/RedPillWives29/07/16 06:45 PM
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Hello, Please call me Step or Steppie for short. I am 24, have been with my husband since I was 18. My major current influence has been Fascinating Womanhood. What I get out of the community: motivation and tips for my personal self-improvement What I can offer: Encouragement to others! I am not very well-versed in RP ideology, but this community is such a gem because here we can freely discuss the truths so evident about the natures of men, women and relationships. Even though the rest of polit…
/r/RedPillWives29/07/16 06:39 PM
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Oh no not at all I was already about to write the same reply to just Sunhappy. I am just at work and trying to be brief even to the point of leaving important details out
/r/RedPillWives28/07/16 08:48 PM
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Yes /u/Risen_valkyrie and /u/Sunhappy _DC he actually said that he wants to hear those words more often and for me to initiate the "I love you"s more. If I want to guess, I think it is because now that my depression is under control, we are back to the flirting and fun we had as teens. And at that time I was so needy and would say it or text him all the time to relish hearing it back. Nothing wrong with wanting to feel needed, or wanting a little more of the girl he fell in love with back.
/r/RedPillWives28/07/16 08:33 PM
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Wings on the broiler in the oven. It's like grilling without having to step outside. And near impossible to mess up.
/r/RedPillWives28/07/16 06:06 PM
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I can agree that I need work on all the areas already mentioned but my husband recently "challenged" me. He said that I don't say "I love you" enough. That kind of thing gets stale to me. I tell him I need him, appreciate him, want him, depend on him and yes I say "I love you" but apparently not enough for his preference. I'm glad our relationship is at a point where he feels comfortable telling me I'm not fully meeting his needs. I aim to please this week and into the future!
/r/RedPillWives28/07/16 06:03 PM
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"I'm getting better and better every single day" Nobody's perfect but I know that I'm better than I was before. If I have a bad morning or even a bad day, I can remember the times when every day was bad and see how much better things are getting. And the value of all the hard work I do every day. It really keeps one bad thing happening from turning into a slump or giving up completely.
/r/RedPillWives28/07/16 02:56 PM
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My SO will lay down with me if I'm having trouble falling asleep without him. our sleeping schedules are hours apart so he'll just spend a few minutes until I fall asleep and get back to whatever he was working on.
/r/RedPillWives28/07/16 02:40 PM
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To message mods of any subreddit, btw, you send a message to /r/nameofthatsub but that's detailed on the pm page, so I have no idea how that escaped you
/r/RedPillWives26/07/16 08:15 PM
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Yes but you did not message mods until long after you had messaged random members. Your statement is very disingenuous
/r/RedPillWives26/07/16 08:11 PM
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Sent an hour ago, whereas this post is a day old. Wow you're a terrible liar.
/r/RedPillWives26/07/16 08:05 PM
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There are many posts detailing personal experiences that should help you 'understand.' Every last intonation of this comment is disingenuous.
/r/RedPillWives26/07/16 07:48 PM
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Brb, I need to bleach my eyes. Good stuff though!
/r/RedPillWives23/07/16 05:47 PM
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Yes I have no clue how that bride managed to look so poised for the photo
/r/RedPillWives23/07/16 05:44 PM
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Shitstravaganza
/r/RedPillWives23/07/16 12:01 PM
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This is definitely one for our single members. It is so crucial to vet and vet some more before you get too deep and feel like you're stuck. I also agree that relationships don't work by magic. It's work. Sometimes hard work. And having personalities that just mesh productively.
/r/RedPillWives22/07/16 10:20 PM
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What a powerful sentiment! There have been times when I feel hopeless but this is a concrete reminder that so very much of my day to day life comes down to my own decisions.
/r/RedPillWives22/07/16 10:09 PM
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If you own a punchbowl this good old recipe is always a big hit. Strawberry Lemonade Punch Ingredients 3 cans (6 oz each) frozen lemonade concentrate, thawed 1 10 oz package frozen strawberries in light syrup, thawed and undrained 1 bottle (1 liter) ginger ale Directions In 4-quart or larger punchbowl, stir lemonade concentrate and 9 cans water until well mixed. Stir in strawberries. Just before serving, add ginger ale and ice; gently stir.
/r/RedPillWives21/07/16 06:27 PM
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Congratulations /u/lifterofthings !!!!!
/r/RedPillWives16/07/16 07:51 PM
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What a sweet history. It's so sad but beautiful
/r/RedPillWives15/07/16 02:30 PM
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Back then they fixed things rather than throw them away
/r/RedPillWives14/07/16 10:40 PM
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My sister used to voice her disapproval quite often. I couldn't come up with anything more clever than "which one of us is dating him/married to him?" I have definitely cooled down on sharing personal things with people who don't respect my choices. One of my friends and I used to say "Thank you for sharing that input." With a monotone voice and blank face. It was our little inside joke for when people who don't understand a situation butt in with useless 'advice.' A more useful option may be sa…
/r/RedPillWives14/07/16 08:34 PM
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Now that you say that, of my best friends share such a deep bond because of the hard times we went through
/r/RedPillWives14/07/16 06:52 PM
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They married at 16f and 26m and somehow made it work for 60 years. Found in an Alabama graveyard.
/r/RedPillWives14/07/16 05:48 PM
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Very thorough and helpful!
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 04:15 PM
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Stealing your second day routine as I type
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 04:13 PM
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Thanks for the T-shirt tip! I'm jumping on this immediately
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 03:40 PM
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At the moment I use blackhead clearing face wash in the shower and astringent afterwards. When washing outside of the shower, I use micellar water only. I use anti-dark circle cream and moisturizer labeled women age 25+, I do those every morning and night. I occasionally use sheet masks. I am already in the process of ordering some sunscreen! But mostly I'm lost
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 03:07 PM
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I was going to say Italian sausage and salad in the side. Great minds think alike!
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 02:46 PM
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You are much less needy than I. And a lot more thoughtful!
/r/RedPillWives11/07/16 07:33 PM
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You say "do you want to to [simple outing]”? He says "Is that what you want me to do?" "Well actually, I wanted [extravagant outing], I was just testing the waters"
/r/RedPillWives11/07/16 06:57 PM
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Sassier side. You say: "do you want to do x?" He says "do you want to do x?" Well I wanted a husband, sounds like I got a parrot.
/r/RedPillWives11/07/16 06:54 PM
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"do you want me to go?" Well maybe I just want you And give him the look. We all have a look
/r/RedPillWives11/07/16 06:49 PM
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I completely agree with /u/CoochQuarantine Although your friend is a nice person and feels as though she's coming from a place of concern, deep down she's jealous. Hey saying she's worried about your size, when you were mentioning a size the same as hers is very telling. If she had a reason, she would have said "I was unhealthy when I was that size". But she didn't.
/r/RedPillWives11/07/16 03:33 PM
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Been said a million times but a woman sounds so stupid when she second guesses her choice of husband. YOU picked him, did you really not consider it deeply??
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 09:10 PM
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You really hit the nail on the head
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 02:53 PM
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A woman tried to get me fired because I told her child to stop pounding on a glass display. I lost all hope in humanity that day.
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 02:42 PM
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I do think we lost a lot when culture moved away from the "it takes a village" mentality. Children don't respect most or any adults when the social norm is that you can't discipline other's children.
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 02:26 PM
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No but you do that to point your phone upright so to strangers you look as though you are taking a photo
/r/RedPillWives09/07/16 09:47 PM
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Most people are nostalgic for the games they played as a child. It is almost like they get to be the heroes of their youth. I okay because my husband wants me to and they're cute.
/r/RedPillWives09/07/16 09:46 PM
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I find those rules easy to understand, fair, and helpful for the community. Excellent page overall! I'll revisit if I think of a simple question
/r/RedPillWives09/07/16 11:50 AM
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Does he hit you with a "can you cook that thing again? The one that was really good?" Use your words!
/r/RedPillWives09/07/16 01:15 AM
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That's very sweet so far
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 08:25 PM
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Nah I don't think so just have someone to share with so you don't drink it all!
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 06:14 PM
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What a gentle, thoughtful woman. She just sounds like a wonderful influence on each life she touches. I have met a few women like this in my day to day life and I aspire to be like them.
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 05:25 PM
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If you find fizziness too violent for your feminine demeanor, but prefer a cold drink, i would recommend freezing and thawing your sparkling water. The bubbles will be gone but some of the sparkles remain. You will also feel satisfied at having toiled, but not toiled hard enough to break a sweat.
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 04:18 PM
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I don't have any recommendations for subs but here are some ideas. Think of men in your life who have great relationships and try to spend time with them and ask for advice. Subscribe to various self improvement subs in areas that interest you. Directly ask your fiancée about things she likes for you to do. Pay extra attention to how she reacts to different things you do and adjust yourself if needed. Keep your fiancée's best interests in mind when you make major decisions. Consider how things w…
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 04:09 PM
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Hot Drink: Champurrado - because I'm pleasantly thick and latina Cold Drink: Tropical Punch Chek soda from Winn Dixie - because I'm pink and sweet and only found in the South
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 03:56 PM
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Just a polite thing to do is leave serious conversations for in person or at least a phone call. Just as you said, misunderstandings on both ends are much more common over text.
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 01:50 PM
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Nuke my bad comments! I swear I won't be offended
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 11:56 PM
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Karaletta, sorry to be so brief, but have you ever considered deal breakers? You may have found one. Should you stay with a man who does not care about the well-being of your children? Or one so unintelligent that he does not understand the harm he is causing? It's one or the other at this point.
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 11:43 PM
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I think part if why the FW classes were so popular. You can get a whole lot more out of it with a room of people to discuss. Even after making this post, enlightening points were brought to my attention. As strange as it sounds, how to you respond when a cute kid does something sassy? You laugh! When they scream and cry, you get exasperated yourself. Our men naturally want to be our leaders and protectors. We can encourage this with certain childlike actions and it doesn't have to be an ickfest
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 09:20 PM
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You may find /u/Camille11325 's comment here interesting Ignore the huge post and scroll down to the comment. It's full of relevant wisdom.
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 06:14 PM
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That's a very well-reasoned post and a great addition to our community!
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 03:05 PM
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I'm not gonna get featured on a snark website by sitting on my butt ;)
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 02:18 AM
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No I mean his relationship with his wife is ruined. Not the one between brother and sister
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 02:08 AM
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Yes haha have used sound effects but I need to try slow-mo. Great ideas!
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 01:02 AM
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Amen to the Catholic guilt. I couldn't enjoy sex for a long time because of that... All better now, but it was rough thinking I would never enjoy it
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 11:31 PM
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I hope he's honestly done with the relationship because after telling his sister, it's certainly ruined. It's absolutely possible that it was a billing error or the bill refers to 'spontaneous abortion' aka miscarriage. But whichever it was, she should have told her husband!!
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 11:02 PM
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Is Dictator of Dicksylvania too much?
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 10:56 PM
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At http://www.mybodygallery.com/ you can creep on women in their underoos. You can sort by body type and age in addition to height and weight.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 09:50 PM
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"My way is right" she shouted to no one in particular... because she didn't have a boyfriend to with which to talk
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 09:34 PM
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Better every day! Thanks
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 09:30 PM
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Why is it so easy to understand the idea of nice in a jerk way?? It shouldn't add up but I totally catch your drift. I thought of another: Mayor of Meanville
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 09:23 PM
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Fascinating Womanhood is a book easily found used for cheap or you can find lots of blogs to read up on it before you buy the book. This companion PDF was written by a man, so it's a little corny but does a great job of explaining the ideas. And it's free!
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 09:17 PM
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Wow so adorable! Glad to hear our sub is full of vivacious, feminine women rather than shrews and frigid bitches
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 09:13 PM
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Lol! Yes I needed more ideas. McMeaner is TOO cute I can't take it!!
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 08:38 PM
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Yes this post is stolen straight from FW's tenets!
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 08:28 PM
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Ah yes, the weak punch. Meanie McMeanface may be a fun deviation
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 08:27 PM
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I can't tell you how many time in the past I took teasing from him to heart and got upset just for him to say it was just a joke. Then you're labeled as overreacting and not taken seriously. This way, you're 'playing along' but in a contradiction, he takes your hurt more seriously. Men. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 07:31 PM
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That is so true. You have to gauge your man and the status of your relationship. Nothing makes me forgive and forget faster than being called cute!
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 07:27 PM
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Trimming your hair at home: Longer hair fares better obviously. Get some hair cutting scissors (Walmart or Sally Beauty have them relatively cheap) Wear your hair wavy or curly to minimize the appearance of any unevenness that may occur If you want layers: Search YouTube for how to cut your hair. There are videos showing putting a ponytail on the front of your face. Those are effective but produce chunky layers. For hair growth: Trim just the bare split ends. Mimic a hairdresser, using your fing…
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 04:46 PM
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I have not read the surrendered wife (is that a bannable offense?) But this corny read may be more your speed. It's free and has some excellent tips for building your man's confidence. Some of it is really off the wall but you can tailor it as you wish by toning certain aspects down or omitting then completely.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 04:13 PM
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Yes ma'am, I'm no hair role model but let me just say I trim my own hair at home and I don't miss the salon AT ALL
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 03:53 PM
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That is a really interesting link there! My hair used to wave like this naturally when I let it air dry, and I thought it stopped doing it because I stopped dyeing it. Now I think maybe it's something to do with the hair color care products I was using. I need to do more research!
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 03:51 PM
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I think you and /u/blushinglilly have touched a very important point. my SO never asks what he can do to help when I'm grumbling and stomping through the kitchen. It's when I'm zipping around the house and singing that he says 'anything left for me to take care of?'
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 03:30 PM
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It's a real advantage that you don't have to commit to the class. I find that if I don't click with the classmates or the instructor, it's a lot less fun to go and I just stop, wasting a lot of money in the process.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 03:02 PM
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That is great! I admire your commitment to treating your body right. You only get one you know... Keep on keeping on and look for the jealousy in the eyes of your haters
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 02:55 PM
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I fell a similar trap in a way I don't think anyone else is going to be able to commiserate with... I had a very set routine of what to clean, what order to do it in, exactly how to do it. And it did not work! If I thought of an extra step, it would get added into the daily thing confounding the issue further and further. So I was spending all my free time 'cleaning' but with certain areas of the house being spotless and others (near the end of the list, that I could rarely get to) falling into …
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 02:45 PM
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Wow just remember how satisfying his sweet side is! The thing about worthy men is the more you give them, they want to give back to you. It doesn't seem fair at first but the rewards are so rich. If you especially treasure kind and adoring things he says, you may want to start a notebook or journal to record them and read over them when you need a 'pick-me-up' So sorry to hear about your lip. That kind of thing would send me into anxiety overdrive!
/r/RedPillWives05/07/16 07:13 PM
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I hope you can be at peace with your inner bitch rather than redirecting her! Maybe try vigorous exercise? I don't have children so I'm sure our stress is very different, just wishing you luck...
/r/RedPillWives05/07/16 07:08 PM
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Good: I have found a planner set up that works really well for me. I am also doing much better with not fussing when my hubby doesn't want to wake up exactly when I want him to do so. Bad: I have been feeling exhausted in the evenings and slacking on chores. Because if this, I have shuffled up my cleaning and medicine schedule and it seems promising. Ugly: My yard! I am at wit's end. Should I pay someone to do it even though my hubby is capable? Should I search YouTube for how to operate a gas m…
/r/RedPillWives05/07/16 07:02 PM
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Here is the correct location of the 25 Marriage Principles post
/r/RedPillWives05/07/16 03:25 PM
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Since I am so late to the party I won't offer needs/wants but I thought I would take the time to think out some deal breakers. I do not think my Hubby would ever do these but if so... I'm out. Violence against me (obviously swatting/spanking is okay but I have a limit) Unlawful use of drugs or any smoking/addiction to gambling Dead bedroom for any reason other than medical Treason against our country I think that's it...
/r/RedPillWives05/07/16 02:08 PM
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That's beautiful! I'm ecstatic to hear about your success. I was feeling a little awkwardly stuck on how to broach the subject but your question is perfect
/r/RedPillWives02/07/16 11:28 AM
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I already have two women in mind just from reading the challenge! I have a co-worker who I already try to emulate as I find her a compassionate, feminine, mature figure. I always email her for advice when I am dealing with a tricky interpersonal issue and her advice has never let me down. The other obvious choice is my Mother In Law. She is an angel, her husband adores her company, and they have a very healthy relationship (and sex life if you want tmi). I really need to go visit them.
/r/RedPillWives02/07/16 12:33 AM
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Even though I'm still with someone I dated as a teen, I recognize that it is extremely lucky and rare to find a high quality man young in life. I see a lot of my peers who married young and started popping out babies. The awful personalities that were spunky and "real" as hot bodied teens got old real fast when they became fat and disinterested in sex. I feel completely fortunate to have found a worthwhile man and have to agree that marrying young should no longer be the default.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 09:56 PM
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Hello! Please call me Step or Steppie! I am 24, commonlaw married for 6 years. We incorporate a little of Taken in Hand and I study the ideals of Fascinating Womanhood. I did not really have any interest in RP ideas until I happened across this sub. I think I'm a compatible addition to this growing community! My husband has been a loyal, patient man through some highs and lows in my life. I started taking citalopram at the same time as I started studying Fascinating Womanhood and I can't tell wh…
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 09:02 PM
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That's such a productive hobby! I personally don't wear silver rings because I'm rough on them and have had to have even gold ones repaired again and again. I have to look for sturdy-looking prongs and many of them... Now if I could make my own.. And as far as white rocks, I've got a beautiful CZ, will never buy a diamond though.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 06:28 PM
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That was a helpful and wonderful comment all around. It makes sense to me that the most gung-ho members of our types of communities are actually the most willful, control freak, naturally naggy types of women. Simply because we start by driving our men crazy and then when we see the light and try the methods that actually work, it's like a storm has lifted and the whole world is beautiful and bright again. Actual doormats don't end up in our communities, they end up in unhappy marriages, the vic…
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 04:17 PM
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Naturally and I'm sure his volunteerism adds up to be an honest day's work!
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 09:30 PM
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He's not trying to control her or abuse her at all. She failed to meet a very reasonable standard and he terminated the relationship. At six months in, trying to deal with a woman who can't get over her ex is just not worth it. I don't associate with any of my exes or any men who even make passes at me. Everyone can tell that I am committed and if they don't respect my relationship boundaries, they are not friend material.
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 03:56 PM
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Thank you for sharing that lovely article. I find reading on the subject just good for the soul and terrific for my mood. I know that this is the attitude that creates lifelong love and a successful marriage and I love hearing when fellow women are living this way and doing so well
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 02:31 PM
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I find that my husband really takes my apologies to heart when I wait for him to come home from work, greet him enthusiastically, tell him to sit on the couch and tell him I need to say something. Then I kneel on the floor between his feet and put on my sweetest but serious voice, take his hand and tell him what I did wrong and how bad it makes me feel and promise to try to do better. That usually earns me a heartfelt hug and forgiveness...
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 02:21 PM
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New here. I haven't bought the book just yet but I have been looking at blogs and reading the companion PDF and found it completely enlightening. I'm happier, my husband is responding quite well to my personal changes. I think it's time to take the leap and buy the real book...
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 02:11 PM
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