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RANTSweetlikecream/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 05:51 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYSweetlikecream/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:43 AM
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Sweetlikecream/r/askFDS31/03/21 06:01 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYSweetlikecream/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:31 PM
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DISCUSSIONSweetlikecream/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:03 PM
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Sweetlikecream/r/askFDS28/09/21 09:36 AM
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DISCUSSIONSweetlikecream/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:43 PM
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SEEKING ADVICESweetlikecream/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:27 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨Sweetlikecream/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:47 PM
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DISCUSSIONSweetlikecream/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:35 PM
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CMVSweetlikecream/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:48 PM
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Sweetlikecream/r/askFDS21/05/21 05:55 AM
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DISCUSSIONSweetlikecream/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:36 AM
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Sweetlikecream/r/askFDS31/03/21 06:01 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:24 AM
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Umm I'm British and I've worked in secondary schools and most girls don't abuse makeup. Stop lying. Neither did any of the girls i went school school did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:14 AM
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It's not an exaggeration if it leads to death and a lot of other things. This thread also has women saying they don't sate because they don't think it's dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:30 AM
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It's definitely is dangerous for women and risky. We have to deal with sexual coercion/rape, stalking, physical/emotional abuse, risk of stds, unwanted pregnancies and even death. That's why I choose to opt out. Not worth it for me 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:26 AM
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Same. I think dating is too dangerous. I don't think it's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:23 AM
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I have a really dose gay male friend. I guess it differs knowing that are friendship is authentic because neither parties are trying to sleep or date each other like my other straight male friends tried to do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:27 AM
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Basically this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:45 PM
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Not but men can start putting more effort into their appearance. I.e using skin acids, getting chemical peels, going to the dermatologist, getting their teeth whitened etc. You dont need makeup to make yourself more attractive. Men are unappealing because they put no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:43 PM
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Im not getting married or having kids you scrote
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:20 PM
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I barely wear makeup and I always get told I'm pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:22 AM
1

:( I know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:19 PM
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Lol keep lying to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:23 PM
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Less attractive. Not just physically but mentally and financially. I weep for men of this generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:13 PM
1

Because stats show us that unmarried women are happier. Married men are happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:31 AM
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Yes I do. And no not really, our dating culture is based on social circles and dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:52 PM
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Young men where I live do not approach. Check this thread out here https://www.reddit.com/r/london/comments/qii2uy/how_on_earth_do_people_find_relationships_in/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share I live in London and it is difficult over here. Besuty is subjective anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:23 PM
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You are trying to convince me I'm not datable. I am. The one guy I dated who lived in the states couldn't BELIEVE I was struggling to date. To him I was definately a catch, so he couldn't believe it. He thought no attractive women would struggle. And yes guys my age have been shocked when I said I didnt get approached and two even admitted that I was an exception and don't really approach women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:17 PM
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How is it too high? And how did i not receive criticism well ? I DO get approached but its by men much older.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:10 PM
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No when I say curvy I mean fit, but with curves. Like a thicker lower half like I have. You can assume whatever you want I guess. I'm very health and weight consciousness lol plus my family is fat phobic so of I was overweight I would KNOW. I have a lot of pressure to keep as slim as I can. I find it quite pathetic that you took me not weighing myself because I suffer from a mental illness, means I'm overnight. You are right, there is racism in the dating scene so that impacts it too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:05 PM
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London
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:01 PM
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I'm not trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:58 PM
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I struggle with body dysmorphia, and have had issues with obsessing over my weight to the point it messed up my mental health, so I avoid weighing myself. Why is that weird to not know your weight? I don't know my weight and I'm not interested in knowing. I'm fit with curves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:54 PM
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Everywhere. Street, public transport , shops etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:51 PM
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I'm fit. I go to the gym a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:51 PM
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This made no sense ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:50 PM
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Lmao. You are a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:49 PM
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I'm 5 ft 5 Weight - no idea. I'm fit but curvy. I regularly work out and get plenty of exercise Ethncity - black. I'm light brown skin, super curly jet black hair, dimples and thick, dark brows. Career - marketing but I want to start my own business from next year Type of man physically- I'm open minded. Men who look after themselves first and foremost. Then after that, men who are lean and tall (5ft 11 to 6ft) I'm shy (sometimes) empathic, kind, intelligent and friendly. He needs to be empathet…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:47 PM
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My social group isn't big. Maybe that is also a reason why
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:43 PM
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Yeah. I'm not saying yes to 40 year old men who ask me out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:41 PM
1

How the hell is that horrible ? Most men are scared to speak to women, therefore making it difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:38 PM
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The type of men don't approach me or want me. Yeah... that makes it hard ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:38 PM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:37 PM
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I get told i look friendly. I'm sweet and empathetic. I'm far from a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:36 PM
1

I don't do hookups. Only sex in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:34 PM
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By family and friends or strangers constantly? I get most of my compliments from strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:28 PM
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My personality isn't the problem...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:22 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:18 PM
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True 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:15 PM
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There's WAY more men on tinder than women. That also has something to so with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:15 PM
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It is awful for young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:13 PM
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The men who want me are OLD. Some even look 66. How is that a fucking option for a 23 year old ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:12 PM
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I look friendly! And I said before I DO get approached but by much older men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:09 PM
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Hmm okay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:08 PM
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Wow. Yes women get stalked, raped, attacked and abused too by men. Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:58 PM
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Nope. I get called beautiful and pretty a lot. I've even had crackhead homeless people tell me I'm very pretty 😂 I'm medium brown skin tone, with black super curly hair, curvy, nice smile with dimples. I wear little to no makeup and still get told I'm very pretty. I would say, unfortunately pictures do me NO justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:56 PM
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A LOT of attractive women struggle to date in London. I've spoken to many. You are man living elsewhere. How the hell would you know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:53 PM
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That isn't true but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:52 PM
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I'll never lower my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:50 PM
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Then I will stay single if it turns off all men A real man won't get put off by me being a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:46 PM
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Okay. So you admitted that men kill pregnant women more than pregnancy related causes? Great thank you and don't derail my thread any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:45 PM
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London is one of the WORST place to date. People over here are social awkward as fuck. Someone even made a thread about it here https://www.reddit.com/r/london/comments/qii2uy/how_on_earth_do_people_find_relationships_in/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:41 PM
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I really can't remember. I'm so unfamiliar with dating apps. Yeah idk. I'm just not used to at all approaching men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:40 PM
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Whats wrong with my thread? I just stated facts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:35 PM
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Yes thats because more men use apps and want causal sex. Whilst women don't??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:34 PM
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The vast majority of women would not have that reaction. When you are being a creep you are. I had a man follow me like 2 weeks ago and wouldn't leave me alone after repeatedly telling him I had a bf (I don't but I just wanted him to leave me alone) he followed me outside of the shop I was in, to another shop and kept hassling me for my number. That is being a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:29 PM
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Yes but tinder is a hook up app. I don't want to have sex with random men online.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:24 PM
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Usually alone. Yes, sometimes but not all guys make a move. I have been told I look friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:19 PM
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Honestly... I'm scared to approach guys because I would 1) come off as easy and 2) because I wouldn't want him to take it as we can have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:18 PM
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Hahha.... what are you talking about ? 🤣 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:14 PM
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I don't approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:13 PM
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It depends on the environment men approach women. Dark at night on the street? No. At maybe a social event ? Yes. Big difference between the two
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:11 PM
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Well maybe men should actually try to date and build relationships with women instead of always looking for casual sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:10 PM
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My choices typically range of men that are in their mid 30s to 50s. Great choice isn't it 😀 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:09 PM
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Didn't like OLD and yes... precisely that. I don't want to get used for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:04 PM
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I tried tindr and POF and hated both so much. Idk if I can go back to online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:03 PM
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Yeah, that too. I have a particular type im into
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:02 PM
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I live in London
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:01 PM
0

Tried online dating and seriously hated it Interesting! A lot of men hate approaching...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:00 PM
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I haven't really tried dating apps. Tried tindr for under 24hrs, but men weren't really starting conversations Well tbh it is expected for men to make the move first ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:57 PM
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Well yeah.... why would us women have low standards for casual sex when its not really what we are into, generally?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:56 PM
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Yeah but most of us just don't want sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:53 PM
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My exact experience as well. They either want to date me or sleep with me. I had a guy tell me he "really liked me" and he had a girlfriend! And also tried to sleep with me. I don't befriend men anymore, I don't trust their intentions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 12:17 PM
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Absolutely not and I have no interest. Every single, and yes every single male friend of mine that I had, made it known that they were sexually or romantically interested in me. I'll pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 12:09 PM
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So why are there whole misogynistic communities of men complaining that they can't get laid ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:02 PM
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Why would they try to get laid when they can fulfil their temporary needs through porn? Meeting and having sex with women takes a bit of time and effort. You need social skills, decent looks and spark, which a lot of young men know they don't have. I don't get laid at all, but im not sitting their doing fuck all with my life and maturbating and watching porn all day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:01 PM
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Lol no wonder western men are becoming increasingly incels
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:59 PM
2

Again, excuses 😂😂 No wonder men of today are increasingly becoming socially inept, ugly incels. They would rather make excuses to masturbate to air bushed images and cartoons than speak to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:50 PM
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No. The failure is men would rather masturbate to porn, anime and instagram than actually go out there and meet women. Men just come up with a bunch of excuses to not meet women (just like you did.) Claiming all women only go after one asethetic. Thats fucking bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:44 PM
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I think sex robots and VR porn is already happening. Its just going to get more dominant with the next decade or so. It is already happening. I'm a 23 year old living in London and trying to date guys my age is a joke. They show very little interest in sex and relationships its crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:43 PM
1

Sigh. Men blaming women for their failiures
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:40 PM
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Men's porn addicted has also caused women to miss out on sex and relationships too. I don't see it as totally a bad thing. Men deciding to opt of real life interactions has in turn made women focus on themselves, their education and career and so on. A lot of men don't even know how to socially interact with other women. I feel like we are becoming more socially inept
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:33 PM
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Yes. There is absolutely something wrong with western men. Western men are becoming more unattractive, less ambitious, addicted to porn and video games. Men these days would rather masturbate to women on instagram, than to speak to women in person. When you live your life in a porn fantasy-online world, there should be no doubt it will make you lose out on sex and relationships. Porn is damaging and does many thing which includes skewing up your perception in what an attractive woman looks like.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:27 PM
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Omg yes. I remember one some guy who I was talking to bought up the whole chris brown situation and was telling me how Chris brown wasn't in the wrong because Rihanna hit him first. I was then but how about Karrueche? There was evidence he abused her first. Then he was like well, women lie and how Karrueche was just lying and bitter. Then he was like "women talk about equality a lot these days, so if a man punches a women, she would should be hit too" he said it so proudly aswell 🤮🤮 that low lif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:47 AM
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So true 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:16 PM
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on their ass and farting all day waiting for some poor guy to make a move. Not much intellectual development these days, just empty vessels. Whatever little there is, it's all pseudo. Usually more women than men have very little of value to say. All true observations. You want this to be true and you know it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:09 PM
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Its not difficult to be a pornstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:50 PM
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In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:47 PM
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How am I meant to solve it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:20 PM
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I have no compassion for men in this regard at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:51 PM
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men are scum for watching porn and not approaching women when it's pointless since they'll be ignored and rejected because they aren't handsome enough. Ummm not true at all. Men actually have a HARDER time online dating vs meeting women online
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:28 AM
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Lmao. Men are making themselves useless. If they actually went outside and speak to women instead of just watching porn and playing video games, then women wouldn't be saying what I say in the first place. Men do it to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:02 AM
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Why don't men come together as a collective to discuss their problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:49 AM
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Thats not true 😂😂 how do you know this? Are you a woman? Yeah... whats wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:13 AM
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I've seen pedos only get 3 years jail time. And a lot of misogyny gets unpunished
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:09 AM
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Euggh no. The only ones into thugs lower class ones. And I'm definitely not into white models... as if only white men become models No. I get compliments from random women to. Can you not read?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:08 AM
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Why would you say that I'm into thugs and "white" models ? (The emphasis on white made me laugh because wtf) Absolutely not true at all, plenty of women don't get compliments
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:02 AM
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I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:39 AM
1

Thanks for your suggestion. Will do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:35 AM
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Pedophilia and misogyny is still a thing today.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:33 AM
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So now men having jobs, going therapy and making money is too much to ask for ? You "men" keep proving my point No I'm not into thugs or models And nope random strangers compliment me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:33 AM
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When it overtakes your life, it certainly is a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:31 AM
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😂😂😂 You lowlives want to believe I'm ugly so bad. Did you also purposely overlook that I said random WOMEN also compliment me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:30 AM
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You are SERIOUSLY trying to say women bettering ourselves is superficial? Oh okay so men watching porn for hours, masterbating to airbrushed pictures etc isn't superficial and shallow? I would rather focus on my career, reading books and going therapy and being the best person i can be than watching porn and anime all day
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:58 AM
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My personality is great. Calling men out on their BS doesn't mean my personality isn't great
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:55 AM
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Nah, its like 99% of young guys
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:49 AM
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😂😂😂 have you seen men? They have no audacity to say we are the boring ones. They only care about superficial things like sex, porn, video games and gym
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:47 AM
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How ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:41 AM
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Lol yeah sure. Shit logic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:08 AM
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Men hate women so why can't I direct that energy back? Guys my age would rather masterbate and watch anime than approach women so how is it my fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:06 AM
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I get approached by men much older than me. Guys my age are socially inept, porn addicts weirdos that use online means (dating apps , porn and social media) to fulfil their online validation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:03 AM
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I've had men on reddit and other forums cry and say women need to approach them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:02 AM
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Lmao. Excuses and more pathetic excuses. The men of this generation just gets more gross as the day passes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:01 AM
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Lol I know some low life scum (the type of guy who I'm talking about in my OP) would insinuate im not attractive. I have nothing to prove to an anonymous stranger. I regularly get told I'm beautiful by older men and women. My personality is great too. Its just that guys my age group think women should approach them. They would rather be porn addicts doing fuck all with their lives than approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:50 AM
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I have no idea. All I know, is that as a collective men are becoming more and more useless. 100 years back, men would actually fight in wars and provide for their families. Now these days they just wank and play video games whilst moaning about approaching women and paying for dates. The quality for men these days has drastically decreased and its sickening
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:44 AM
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Sounds like a bunch of excuses for men being undesirable lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:25 AM
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Men are becoming uglier and more undesirable. Whilst women are out here glowing up physically, financially and mentally - getting into careers, businesses/ side hustles, going therapy and starting new hobbies etc. Men are porn watching, unattractive video game addicts with shit personalities. Men would rather watch fucking anime and masterbate to women on instagram and porn, than go outside in the real world and speak to attractive women. Men are increasingly becoming incels. When they spend the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:14 AM
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I'm from London and can confirm this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 04:21 PM
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Yeah, the weird thing is that he had very short hair, so washing his hair literally would take like a minute. I don't understand men and their lack of hygiene
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 12:21 AM
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Maybe 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 03:56 PM
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Omg the first guy I dated was so like this. He prided himself in being "sarcastic" and used to neg me🙄🙄 He had terrible hygiene, was broke, shit personality AND was emotionally abusive on top of that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 12:41 PM
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Girl. The first guy I dated was a tramp. He had terrible hygiene. He had the most disgusting teeth and looked like he never showered. His hair REEKED of shit and was extremely dirty. He was an American man and could afford to take baths and showers. Its just laziness and men assume we would be okay with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 12:36 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear that, he didn't deserve you and you can do far better ❤
/r/askFDS22/11/21 03:02 PM
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So sad :( this is why you should not propose to men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:01 PM
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I think the only way to find out is to REQUIRE a video call beforehand. Not the best and foolproof way but it’s better than nothing. I face time'd a dude before meeting up with him. In person, he had rotten teeth covered in thick plaque. I was shocked because I didnt notice it before through video call and all the pics he sent me 🤦🏽‍♀️ Safe to say online dating is a NO for me after that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 11:51 AM
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Ehh. Somewhat. He can still great relationships with his female relatives such as his Mother, sisters etc. In my experience, most men have a very hard time making friends with women. I've never had a man just want to be my friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:11 PM
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When he bashes women of a particular race. Especially women of his own race. Also when he overly fetishes women of a particular race. Has too many female friends. I'm talking about more than 2 or 3. If a guy claims to have more female friends than male friends = red flag. He WILL cheat and hide you. Men that lack empathy. If you tell him you are having a bad day and he doesn't even say "get better soon" Men that watch sexist/misogynistic men on youtube such as Kevin Samuels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:32 PM
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Or women who make their life based on being a Mother. "David's mom" 👩‍👦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 09:23 AM
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I hate living in this world. Women arent safe anywhere 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:19 PM
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He isn't over his ex. I don't know the qualms of your relationship so I don't know whether to say to breakup, but what he did was wrong, for sure.
/r/askFDS28/09/21 09:42 AM
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No planning or initiating dates if he isn't your boyfriend. At the courting stages a man is supposed to impress you and show that he wants you. How can he show that when he can't even initiate and plan a date ?
/r/askFDS27/09/21 11:14 AM
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Lmao same thing with the guy I dated. He always used to neg his ex, say how she let herself go, talk about how he would hide her in public because she wasn't attractive enough etc. Surprise, surprise he also ended up negging my looks aswell. He was also against make up, hair extensions etc and expected women to be naturally super beautiful, nails always done, slim body with curves etc whilst he looked like shit himself. So fucking delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:38 AM
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And they expect their girlfriends to look like supermodels lmfao! The delusion is real. I dated a guy with plaque stained teeth that were rotten, had morning crust, unmoisturised skin and was the most critical when it came to other womens appearence. Its hilarious!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:49 AM
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This!!
/r/askFDS20/05/21 10:08 PM
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I love this subreddit😂 The rest of the men on reddit think women are supposed to be approaching 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/seduction14/04/21 10:06 AM
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I would definitely seek therapy if you can. That's the best way to beat body dysmorphia. Having struggled it myself in the past, its really a disturbing mental illness to deal with. And can be so deliberating to your life. Definitely agree with the other users about positive affirmations aswell. Constantly write down, speak to yourself, remind yourself about your positive traits outside your appearance. Focus on your internal traits, hobbies, interests etc. Also remember that, as a women your wo…
/r/askFDS06/04/21 11:59 AM
13

I would just block him honestly
/r/askFDS05/04/21 07:02 PM
3

This!!
/r/askFDS01/04/21 04:37 AM
5

I won't have kids 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:55 AM
58

Tall women are so lucky. They carry weight so much better 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:15 PM
77

I also don't like it when they say their child is their best friend.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 01:02 PM
9

Not at all. But it's more than just having good features. I'm attracted to men who look clean and healthy. Good skin, smelling good, neat, fitted clothing and confidence goes A LONG way. Unfortunately most men I see don't really posses these qualities.
/r/seduction19/03/21 01:37 AM
2

I was actually thinking about this recently! In addition to gaining muscle making me look good, it's really good for adding strength and protecting myself! I'd encourage every women to lift weights to defend themselves when it comes to these crazy ass men. At the very least I feel like women should go to self defence classes and lift weights to gain strength and protection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:24 PM
52

NOT this woman over here 🙅🏽‍♀️ I want a man to approach me first as it shows confidence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:11 AM
9

I HATE it when men who don't groom themselves, have bad teeth, don't wash or moisturize, act like they should deserve the most beautiful women and are so judgemental over how women look 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:22 AM
3

Yes. Texting too much is a red flag. You can't build intimacy through text. Speaking and interacting should be done in person.
/r/askFDS03/03/21 11:44 AM
23

Honestly most men aren't emotionally intelligent. Haven't been in a relationship but pretty much most men I speak to have displayed a concerning lack of emotional intelligence. They are awful as a whole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:26 PM
4

I feel this way sometimes too. It's a common thinking, especially among young women today where the beauty standards are ridiculously high. You will find a lot of women comparing themselves - I have been a victim to this, I'm still unlearning. A good way is to understand that your worth is far much more than your looks. Your looks don't tell you of you are a kind person, how intelligent you are, how funny you are, how much of a good friend you are, your social skills etc. And many more. Your loo…
/r/askFDS22/02/21 01:21 PM
13

Yeah jealous friends are not the one. I had to deal with jealous friends throughout school and that shit can really mess you up mentally and damage your self esteem. Is this really someone who you would call a friend? Someone who can't even be happy for you? I would 100% leave and don't look back. Either limit contact with her or block her.
/r/askFDS21/02/21 05:43 PM
10

That girl sounds really toxic. I hope this one lady doesn't put you off. She sounds horrible. You seem really sweet and I love a guy that is forward and can compliment women. I think not enough guys approach women Lol!
/r/seduction21/02/21 03:24 PM
30

🤮🤮 yuck. Broke man and stingy teas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 12:39 PM
33

I've never had a man that has ever wanted to just be my "friend." Personally I wouldn't advise putting energy into making friends with men unless they are gay. Friends with straight men are just a waste of time imo. I would rather redirect that into building new strong female friendships or enhancing the female friendships I already have.
/r/askFDS19/02/21 05:26 PM
1

Im honestly against it but one guy that did approach me during night - ish (around half 5 but it was quite dark at the time) he walked past me and told me he liked my hair, then stopped because he was waiting for me to catch up which I found a little funny but cute. He then saw me and told me I was so beautiful. I still think about it time to time because he was so charming and confident. *Although I did turn him down nicely because it was a pandemic, I thought it was a good way to approach a gi…
/r/seduction18/02/21 01:03 PM
11

I deserve an attractive man because I put effort to look attractive. No one can ever shame me for that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:33 AM
92

🙄🙄 men are always complaining about not getting enough compliments. Well they can solve that by complimenting each other first! If not, they can stfu and stop winging then. And Lol, straight women compliment each other all the time so that's really stupid for them to say that they don't compliment men because they aren't attracted to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:24 PM
18

When I was at school, male coaches would barge open into the girls changing rooms...it was so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:26 AM
6

Most men lack emotional intelligence. Your girlfriend has a toothache but it's BuT i WaNt a BlOwJoB.... fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:14 PM
31

Honestly this is why i never compliment men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:54 PM
1

I think realistically 21 is a good age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:03 PM
12

Same! I thought I was just weird. I'm 22, I have a great personality, I put in effort to look good and I know because I get nice compliments...but I've never been in a relationship. Ive dated one guy but it was just very...blah. I always know I have very high standards and the vast majority of men do not meet my criteria. I tell myself I will rather die alone than be with a guy I'm not 100% interested in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:59 PM
169

What a fucking piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:40 PM
36

This is why I advocate for women to have the utmost strict criteria when venting a suitable partner. Most men aren't value and nowhere near a prize so you should try to find the best guy you could possibly find and never settle. I'd definately rather die alone than settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:35 PM
1

You are welcome 😁 I'm glad There's a vaccine too. Thank you hun, keep safe aswell ✨
/r/seduction31/01/21 12:31 AM
2

Yeah I'm sorry OP... (if you were the OP) but it's not the correct time to approach. I got approached by a guy 2 weeks ago and although he was sweet, I had to reject him based on the fact that we are in lockdown! Lol. But I admire the enthusiasm. Once this lockdown is over go back to approaching 😁
/r/seduction31/01/21 12:18 AM
4

During lockdown?
/r/seduction30/01/21 03:55 PM
13

I completely agree! A lot of women, dare I say most are in situations where they shouldn't have had any kids at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:08 AM
12

I'm children free because of many things but misogyny and hatred towards women is definately one of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:28 AM
20

It absolutely won't and I don't know how any grown women can think that. Just look at the media and see these conventionally attractive women who have struggled to date, been cheated on or abused. Being attractive won't stop men from being an abusive POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:52 PM
13

Thank you. Someone tell me again why her race is revelant🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:05 PM
5

Nails, bad teeth, ashy skin. It's really annoying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 07:56 AM
9

I'm interested less in sex and relationships in general because of how men act. Plus a lot of men these days expect women to do the chasing. No thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:23 PM
1

🤤🤤 so good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:18 PM
1

You welcome and I agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:17 PM
3

Happy belated birthday!😁 I love red velvet cake, that looks so beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:33 AM
57

This is so fucking weird 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 09:21 AM
1

Oh okay. So you wouldn't recommend past 4 years in your 20s?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 09:30 PM
25

I don't think you have to not care. There is nothing wrong with looking clean and presentable. It's when you start basing your self worth on your looks then it becomes an issue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:42 PM
3

I mean the money and career parr definately can but I get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:39 PM
5

How many years consists has an older man? Is it a decade plus?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:37 PM
1

Like ...right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:48 AM
3

Honestly I have gone bra free before and being sexually liberated or empowered didn't cross my mind. I didn't feel any of those. If fat men with big titties don't wear a bra...why do women have to. There are some perverted men that get turned over women's feet. Should we not wear open toe shoes or Sandles? I don't agree with basing our decisions on what men want, think or feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:46 AM
3

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 04:38 AM
29

😂maybe...If they actually put effort on their looks then, just maybe they might get more compliments? Comments like that are too funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:33 AM
8

I can't stand this influx of weak ass beta losers. Honestly this is 90% of why I'm just done with dating. Done. I really can't be bothered to date in this climate where men think it's a women's job to ask out men or approach them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:32 AM
0

Hmm I get why getting a man's number / contact at first but usually it's because they are lazy and want the women to chase or they have a girlfriend. I'm against texting or calling a man first...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:19 PM
2

Seriously I've said so many times that straight women have the worst picks. Gay men look better than straight men and so do women. Why are we cursed with the worst pickings?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:51 PM
17

Reddit is filled with emasculated, low life, weak men and it's evident throughout most subreddits. I've been attacked and insulted for saying that men should approach and ask women out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:49 PM
17

Literally😂😂 do men not feel emasculated telling a women to text them first?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:09 AM
6

Literally....lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:47 AM
3

Exactly! It takes like 3 months of decent consistency at LEAST to say HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:35 PM
35

Right! I've never understood why old men are obsessed with thinking young women want them so much. I like guys my age range that are attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 11:02 AM
27

I remember one guy I dated bragged about having "good skin" because he had no acne. But he had dry, flakey skin filled with dead skin. Like looking at the texture of his skin, you could tell water doesn't touch his skin, because it was very textured and dull.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:03 PM
27

I hope this advice is given to men. It's men that are far more likely to let themselves go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:49 AM
24

Dating is shit regardless, but I've definately noticed that men that are foreigners seem more open to dating/relationships. English men don't seem to care at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:33 AM
28

Men in the UK definately aren't any better. Men in the UK have seriously emasculated themselves and expect women to initiate everything. I also used to use a predominate British forum where pretty much everyday, there was a loser who would complain how women are "sexist" because we expect them to pay for the date. They also called me sexist because I believe men should approach. Our dating culture is heavily relied on dating apps. So if you are like me who hates online dating then, forget it - y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:46 AM
40

Dating in the UK is shit. Men here hate approaching and it's heavily relied on dating apps. I know so many beautiful, educated women who barely even date and have pretty much given up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:42 AM
11

It's even worse in the UK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:39 AM
6

Seriously it's so annoying being straight. If I was a lesbian I would have a far easier time finding women I'm attracted to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:26 AM
8

I made a post very similar to this a few weeks ago. Couldn't agree more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:12 PM
9

I got that yesterday aswell. Do these losers have a job apart from harassing Women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:07 PM
10

I'm so proud and happy. I just think that means there will be more women levelling up, having better self esteem and not basing their self worth on having a man ❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:56 PM
4

100k🤙🏼💅🏼❤❤❤❤ I love y'all. I've learnt so much from here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:53 PM
4

I don't even think any prayer can save her. She's completely lost herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:45 PM
3

Women can't be incels anyway 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:43 PM
5

I really shouldn't have bothered to reply🙄🙄 Will definately just block and move on next time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:48 PM
54

What an absolute fucking loser. Definately a jobless weirdo incel that doesn't get any sex in person so results to harassing women online. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:49 AM
52

This is why I never see sleeping around with men empowering. Fuck all of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:25 PM
3

LMAO yuck! The last guy I dated had the most ashiest hands I've seen in my life. I hate how so many men don't take care of themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:14 PM
6

I like typically tall men 6 ft 2, great skin, nice smile, nice almond shapes eyes, curly eyelashes, high cheek bones and strong jawlines. Turn off: bad skin, ashy, rotten teeth and short
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:56 PM
3

The fact its semi regularly and not regularly just confirms the low standards a lot of women have :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:37 AM
1

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:08 PM
14

Men that use separate shampoo and conditioner 😍 what's next? Men that brush their teeth and take a shower😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:42 AM
15

Thank you for this💅🌹👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:29 PM
105

Lmao. I remember one forum and I used to use, and a guy said that men don't approach much anymore because they don't receive many compliments on their looks, which is lowering their self confidence to speak to women. You just have to laugh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:19 PM
1

Wow! Wtf. I know there's a bunch of lost pick me's cosigning such bullshit thou
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:52 PM
18

OP I can relate. Last year I dated a guy who I thought was high value, but he was gross. He had very bad hygiene, had nasty teeth, everytime I met him he has morning eye crusts, ashy skin and he complained about every little thing when we met up. that's another reason why I don't meet men online anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:21 PM
5

I'd never date a man I'm not attracted to...waste of my time and I'd feel desperate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:42 PM
25

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:36 PM
5

I'm shallow idc. I have a list of stuff I won't date in a guy If a guy has stained, teeth covered in plaque im gone. If he's overweight that's a huge no If he has bad skin or doesn't take care of his skin that's also a no. And the list goes on... I'm not ashamed at all for being shallow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:38 PM
1

Before you know it, it's going to be a norm for men to expect women to propose. It's sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:34 PM
12

I totally get you🙄 even when I was at uni, I barely found men I found average looking yet alone attractive. Men literally put no effort into their looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:33 AM
1

Yeah exactly, that how I feel 😭 I hate it when you feel OLD is your only option ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:15 AM
10

if he constantly speaks negatively about his ex lack of hygiene doesn't put effort into dates i.e chilling at his house expects you to initiate texts, dates etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:38 PM
5

Yes to the last sentence 👏🏽👏🏽 it's so easy for a guy to fake who they are through text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:54 PM
2

I completely agree. Texting is false intimacy and guys are good at lying who they are though text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:47 PM
2

'isnt obsessed with their looks' lol I'm sorry men are trash. If you were to let yourself go they will call you a pig, ugly, lazy and every bad name in the book. F them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:24 PM
2

Men just need to be honest and say they want to date other men 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:16 PM
4

🤣😂😂😂😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:01 PM
6

Thanks for this OP👏🏽👏🏽 this needs to be said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:30 PM
2

That's true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:10 AM
2

👏🏽👏🏽💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:07 AM
2

But I feel it's my only option lol.(I'm still not doing it though)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:06 AM
6

I completely agree. But what if you live in an area where men don't like approaching women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:04 PM
3

Yes, I can't really date in person. Young guys where I live don't put any effort at all. Want women to approach and ask them out which I don't do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:33 PM
5

That's exactly what I'm thinking. But meeting descent dudes in person seems just as hard for me so I'm stuck lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:29 PM
31

Why the fuck can't male millionaires help men out then? Go Rihanna ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:14 PM
1

I love this energy 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:10 PM
1

EVERY women should be picky!! I'd laugh in someone's face if they suggested I date a man I'm not into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:31 AM
5

Hunny I totally feel you. I've just accept what it is tbh😒😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:02 AM
9

So you don't believe it's important initial stage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:45 PM
2

The last question ...right? The last guy I dated I had zero spark with. I just came to the conclusion that I wasn't attracted enough. He wasn't that much of a great guy anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:28 PM
2

That is interesting...I've alway thought if I didn't feel that "spark" I wasn't attracted to them enouh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:26 PM
8

It's very hard to find someone that has all three. That's why I think true chemistry is rare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:46 PM
13

Being attracted to them physically, emotionally and mentally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:36 PM
9

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:03 PM
3

That s another thing...I wonder where to even meet guys in the first place? Meet up is usually filled with men that are in their late 30s that are married. When I go clubs, I don't get approached, and I don't get approached st the gym either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:57 PM
3

Thank you 😃❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:44 PM
1

Lol it's just sad to hear it sucks in a lot of places, I don't know what is going on? I would say the one guy I have dated was from the west coast in the states (cali) and he paid for the dates we went to and had no problem doing so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:42 PM
8

I don't blame them for giving up...It's sad how men are acting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:40 PM
4

Thank you. I don't have a lot of friends though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:33 PM
1

They aren't ambitious at all. (Sorry I said unambiguous by mistake in my OP but I've chased it.) Like they aren't interested in education, or building a career for themselves. Or the one guy I met in uni who I was attracted to, just wanted sex. I like guys who are attractive (tall, nice smile, slim, takes good care of themselves) which unfortunately the young ones that do don't fit my physical description for the most part, well educated and with a good career or working towards one and a good p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:32 PM
3

Thank you. I think London is just...different. It's really fucking bad here. It feels like I'm going to be single forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:28 PM
2

Both unattractive men and attractive men have the capability to be fucking assholes. I don't date men I am not attracted to. If I don't get that warm butterfly feeling in my stomach when I see him, there's no hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:54 AM
1

Ew. The last guy I dated had black/grey teeth, had thick plaque it was disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:32 AM
1

Word🙄😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:53 AM
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